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Releasing Judgment · Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio

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  Speaker 1: All right, it's Amy with Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio,
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  Speaker 1: and this is your sacred space for spiritual growth, manifestation,
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  Speaker 1: and intuition. Today, let's talk about judgment, because judgment is
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  Speaker 1: one of the biggest blocks to flow, to peace, to
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  Speaker 1: powerful manifestation. Judgment shows up in two ways. It can
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  Speaker 1: be you judging yourself, or it can you be you
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  Speaker 1: judging another. And judgment feels like control, but really it's fear.
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  Speaker 1: We judge when we don't feel safe, We judge when
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  Speaker 1: we avoid vulnerability, We judge when we're disconnected from loss.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm gonna say, underneath all judgment is some lower
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  Speaker 1: negative emotion and make it your job. If you catch
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  Speaker 1: yourself judging yourself or judging another, what's underneath this? Because
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  Speaker 1: here's what most people don't realize, you willing really just
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  Speaker 1: judge away right, that it's draining their life force. Every
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  Speaker 1: time you judge, you put yourself out of alignment with
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  Speaker 1: your desires, You lower your vibration, and you block your flown.
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  Speaker 1: So how do you release it? Let's really talk about
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  Speaker 1: how to release this judgment because sometimes what I've seen
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  Speaker 1: is judgment can also be generational. You saw the generation
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  Speaker 1: above you judge, and so you're going to do the same.
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  Speaker 1: I put gossip in this category with judgment. Well, first
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  Speaker 1: you become aware that you're doing it, and if you
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  Speaker 1: really tune in. I was talking at client, and it's
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  Speaker 1: like it feels gross psychically because I tune in, right,
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  Speaker 1: And so if you start to tune in, you can
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  Speaker 1: really feel if you're a feeling person, or you can
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  Speaker 1: see it psychically how low vibrational and negative and dark
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  Speaker 1: judgment is. So as you start to see the judgment,
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  Speaker 1: really see it, you're gonna immediately move away from it, right.
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  Speaker 1: You know you're gonna be like, oh god, I don't
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  Speaker 1: want to be I don't want I don't want that. No,
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  Speaker 1: And you're not doing that from a place of judgment.
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  Speaker 1: You're doing that from a place of I want to
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  Speaker 1: feel good. I want to feel good. So I'm not
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  Speaker 1: going to do things that are bad, right, because there
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  Speaker 1: there's just nothing good in judgment. It doesn't evoke action either,
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  Speaker 1: like you think, oh, I'm gonna just go off about
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  Speaker 1: this situation. But what I have found is people drain
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  Speaker 1: themselves judging themselves or drain themselves judging another and then
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  Speaker 1: when it comes time to like make a change. They
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  Speaker 1: don't have anything left in the tank. They've spent all
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  Speaker 1: their energy on judging and bitching it and complaining about
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  Speaker 1: a situation. When wow, this is an opportunity to do
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  Speaker 1: something really powerful. And so you know, as you really
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  Speaker 1: start to get clear about what judgment feels like, what
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  Speaker 1: it looks like in your life, is start asking yourself, well,
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  Speaker 1: what's underneath this judgment? What is it really about? Like
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  Speaker 1: I said, most of the time, it's fear of not
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  Speaker 1: being good enough, fear of being left out, fear of
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  Speaker 1: not having control. When you name that fear, you begin
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  Speaker 1: to dissolve it. And then next level is start to
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  Speaker 1: consciously choose compassion. So you're going to shift out of
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  Speaker 1: judging and into a place of understanding. If you're judging yourself,
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  Speaker 1: you're going to remind yourself that you're learning, you're growing.
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  Speaker 1: Mistakes are a part of the human experience, it's a
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  Speaker 1: part of the process. If you're judging someone else, you're
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  Speaker 1: going to remind yourself. That's more of that pressure, but
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  Speaker 1: again it's it's certainly much more well of awareness. Compassion
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  Speaker 1: doesn't excuse bad behavior, but it releases the heavy burden,
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  Speaker 1: the grossness of judgment, you get your energy back and
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  Speaker 1: you let go a judgment. You think you're in control
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  Speaker 1: when you're judging a situation, but you are not. You
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  Speaker 1: are so far from it. You gain your agency and
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  Speaker 1: command over your own energy when you choose to not judge,
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  Speaker 1: and then if necessary, forgive, forgive yourself, forgive others. Look
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  Speaker 1: at what's underneath the judgment, forgive that. And a client
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  Speaker 1: recently who was dealing with guilt underneath his judgment, he
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  Speaker 1: went off for a half hour about his siblings, and
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  Speaker 1: what we uncovered was there was some guilt around the
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  Speaker 1: way he related to his parents in the end of
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  Speaker 1: their life, and so he needed to clear that so
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  Speaker 1: that he could be receptive to is desire. Judgment is
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  Speaker 1: a wall. Love is a doorway. When you choose to
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  Speaker 1: release judgment, you choose to walk through the doorway of freedom,
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  Speaker 1: of peace, of all the lines with what you really
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  Speaker 1: want and if you want support walking this path, this
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  Speaker 1: spiritual path. If you want to release judgment and raise
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  Speaker 1: your vibration and manifest with precision, I invite you to
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  Speaker 1: explore my one year Intuitive coaching package or the Miracle Mastery.
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  Speaker 1: These spaces are designed to help you release the patterns
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  Speaker 1: that hold you back so that you can step into
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  Speaker 1: a new way of being and create the life you've
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  Speaker 1: always wanted. You can learn more at Intuitive Coaching Withamy
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  Speaker 1: dot com. So when you let judgment go, you open
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  Speaker 1: the door to you, anew you. When you let judgment go,
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  Speaker 1: you allow miracles to occur. When you let judgment go,
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  Speaker 1: you find exactly what you're looking for. Thank you so
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  Speaker 1: much for listening to this show. I know judgment's hard,
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  Speaker 1: but as you start, you know, I know, I'm a
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  Speaker 1: psychic and I can see it so clearly psychically, and
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  Speaker 1: so that keeps me often out of judgment because I'm like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: I know what that energy is. No, no, But it's
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  Speaker 1: a practice, you know. I have my moments. I have
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  Speaker 1: my moments where I'm like, huh right, and you just
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  Speaker 1: call yourself back. You call yourself back and remind yourself
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  Speaker 1: there's nothing good in judgment, absolutely nothing, even if it
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  Speaker 1: feels like a little ego boost to judge somebody else,
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  Speaker 1: Nothing good comes of that, absolutely nothing. But you take
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  Speaker 1: command of your life when you choose compassion, when you
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  Speaker 1: choose to focus on you, when you take the time
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  Speaker 1: to get clear about your desire as opposed to acknowledging
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  Speaker 1: everything is wrong, and there's no more powerful place to
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  Speaker 1: be when you're on the other side of judgment. All right,
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  Speaker 1: that is my show. Thank you so much for listening again.
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  Speaker 1: I am Amy of Intuitive Coaching Athany dot com. Take
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  Speaker 1: care of yourself. Goodbye.