Latest / The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast / Why Not Me? with Brittney Graham (Farmer Wants A Wife)
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- 0:00Speaker 1: This is the almost famous podcast with iHeartRadio.
- 0:05Speaker 2: Hey everybody, it's Bob Guiney here, and we are back
- 0:07Speaker 2: on a little bit famous. We just cannot quit showing
- 0:11Speaker 2: our love for Farmer Wants of Brunette, Sorry, Farmer Wants
- 0:15Speaker 2: of Life.
- 0:16Speaker 1: Literally literally Farmer loves a brunette.
- 0:20Speaker 2: Yeah, which you know what all present company blonds excluded.
- 0:26Speaker 3: In this particular show. Yes, if it's a particular show,
- 0:29Speaker 3: they were doing it.
- 0:29Speaker 2: We thought we were done, we thought we were out,
- 0:31Speaker 2: and they just keep pulling us back in, don't they.
- 0:34Speaker 4: I mean, we love it too, because like we've gotten
- 0:37Speaker 4: some comments being like are you going to interview this person?
- 0:39Speaker 1: Are you going to interview this person?
- 0:41Speaker 4: It's like they want to come on, Like obviously the
- 0:44Speaker 4: door is open. We have asked, schedules just didn't work
- 0:49Speaker 4: out for some people.
- 0:51Speaker 1: I don't know if some people want to come on.
- 0:55Speaker 3: I'll tell you this though.
- 0:56Speaker 2: Especially the comments were big on this particular person because
- 1:01Speaker 2: this person, of course was a finalist. Also, of course,
- 1:08Speaker 2: as the rest of the cast, very beautiful, very composed,
- 1:12Speaker 2: very you know, very kinder, gentler until she wasn't right,
- 1:20Speaker 2: until she wasn't.
- 1:21Speaker 1: We got to talk about this breakup because it was
- 1:25Speaker 1: it was a rough watch.
- 1:26Speaker 4: We said that, And she's also been posting quite a
- 1:30Speaker 4: bit of stuff on her socials since the show finished.
- 1:35Speaker 4: So obviously we are talking about Britney from Farmer Braden's.
- 1:40Speaker 3: Farm, Brinny Grahamdym.
- 1:42Speaker 4: And I Also, we need to get to the bottom
- 1:44Speaker 4: of this. I'm tired of asking, and this is the
- 1:47Speaker 4: last time I'm asking. I need to know what Carson
- 1:51Speaker 4: said off camera.
- 1:53Speaker 3: Will tell us.
- 1:54Speaker 4: I'm hoping Brittany will tell us because nobody else has,
- 1:56Speaker 4: so let's bring her in. Oh, you are just the cutest.
- 2:01Speaker 4: We're so excited to have you on the podcast. Thanks
- 2:03Speaker 4: so much for coming on.
- 2:05Speaker 5: Yeah, thank you so much for having me. I'm been
- 2:07Speaker 5: a little nervous, but I'm excited.
- 2:10Speaker 6: Nervous so much that has happened, you know, obviously since
- 2:15Speaker 6: the finale, so I'm just a little nervous to talk
- 2:18Speaker 6: about it.
- 2:18Speaker 2: But well, we're excited to have you. You don't have
- 2:23Speaker 2: anything to be nervous about you exactly.
- 2:26Speaker 4: Yes, we should rewind though and talk just first of all,
- 2:28Speaker 4: how did you get on the show? Like, you know,
- 2:32Speaker 4: did you apply by yourself? Did somebody nominate you? Had
- 2:35Speaker 4: you auditioned for other dating shows prior to this one.
- 2:39Speaker 6: Yeah, So honestly, I don't know what compelled me to
- 2:44Speaker 6: do it, but I saw Farmer Wants a Wife on TikTok.
- 2:49Speaker 6: It kept popping up in my feet and I was like, Wow,
- 2:51Speaker 6: this show. What is the show like Farmer's Country?
- 2:54Speaker 5: That's so me. So I honestly I went on to.
- 2:59Speaker 6: Farmer One a Wife, got calm or googled it and
- 3:03Speaker 6: it just said apply.
- 3:04Speaker 5: So I just put my information in.
- 3:06Speaker 6: It was like April and didn't think about it ever again,
- 3:10Speaker 6: like until.
- 3:13Speaker 5: I think at the end of May.
- 3:16Speaker 6: I got a text and I thought it was a scam,
- 3:18Speaker 6: and they were like the casting directors, you know, it
- 3:22Speaker 6: just feels so serrille, you don't ever.
- 3:23Speaker 5: Think it's gonna happen to you. So I just felt
- 3:27Speaker 5: like it was. Yeah, it was super surreal, and I
- 3:28Speaker 5: just kept moving forward and forward and I got on
- 3:31Speaker 5: the show.
- 3:32Speaker 1: I love that.
- 3:33Speaker 4: If I had a nickel for every time I've been
- 3:35Speaker 4: asked if I'm a scam artist.
- 3:37Speaker 1: I'm sure quite a bit of nickels.
- 3:39Speaker 3: I'll just say a good reason. With good reason though,
- 3:41Speaker 3: because you do come off kind of scam I.
- 3:43Speaker 1: Do come see me. I guess in my.
- 3:48Speaker 2: Yeah, makes us on camera. People want to like you
- 3:53Speaker 2: but afraid of you. It's just how it works, right, Brittany.
- 3:57Speaker 2: That's all we got. Yes, yes, Well you are adorable
- 4:00Speaker 2: and I've said it.
- 4:01Speaker 6: You know.
- 4:03Speaker 2: I was immediately drawn to you, especially in the finale,
- 4:06Speaker 2: because when I was a bachelor, which was probably when
- 4:09Speaker 2: you were a baby, I came down to my last
- 4:14Speaker 2: two people and your ending was so reminiscent of my
- 4:19Speaker 2: runner ups ending that it was like it gave me flashbacks.
- 4:23Speaker 3: It literally gave me chills. I mean it was like
- 4:25Speaker 3: watching it a good way, not in a good way. No,
- 4:27Speaker 3: actually it was a good one. Okay, like Kelly Joe
- 4:30Speaker 3: a lot.
- 4:31Speaker 2: But it was one of those things where I remember
- 4:32Speaker 2: watching it and it was like arms drop and you're
- 4:34Speaker 2: like pissed, and I'm like, oh, here we go. Finally
- 4:37Speaker 2: we get some We get some drama on this season,
- 4:39Speaker 2: because we loved this season, but it was a little
- 4:43Speaker 2: light on the drama except yeah, we can get to that,
- 4:46Speaker 2: except for who.
- 4:49Speaker 4: Your farm in general had the most drama. I think
- 4:52Speaker 4: you could agree with that watching it back, other than
- 4:55Speaker 4: Sean had a little drama too, But yeah, things were
- 4:58Speaker 4: peachy keen over on farmer Bread. It's farm, but that's
- 5:00Speaker 4: for sure, nothing happening over there.
- 5:03Speaker 3: This farmer wall's a laugh my farm definitely.
- 5:07Speaker 6: Yeah. I think we all knew that though during while
- 5:09Speaker 6: we were filming it, because I was really close with
- 5:12Speaker 6: Cam and Casey, so I remember always like talking to
- 5:14Speaker 6: them like, oh my gosh, like so much stuff is happening. Yeah,
- 5:18Speaker 6: like it really is so so real. As for TV show, like,
- 5:24Speaker 6: obviously a lot of it is, you know, a show,
- 5:27Speaker 6: but it's it's definitely a lot of real emotions, a
- 5:31Speaker 6: lot of like real Sure.
- 5:33Speaker 2: Well I think you know a lot of things that
- 5:34Speaker 2: people don't realize. Is you go on this show with
- 5:36Speaker 2: no expectations, yes, and then you're in this heightened almost
- 5:41Speaker 2: like you know, like a microcosm of the real world
- 5:45Speaker 2: and you and all you can think about is this
- 5:48Speaker 2: potential relationship and where it might go. And then you
- 5:50Speaker 2: make these great friendships with like minded people and you know,
- 5:54Speaker 2: I get it. I mean, it totally makes sense that
- 5:57Speaker 2: you go through this and this happens. But I mean
- 5:59Speaker 2: the emotion, right, and some of it is a TV show,
- 6:02Speaker 2: but it's never the emotions part isn't a TV show.
- 6:05Speaker 3: That's really what's what you're feeling?
- 6:06Speaker 6: Yeah, exactly what I was trying to say. It's like,
- 6:09Speaker 6: you don't I never I thought it was just going
- 6:11Speaker 6: to be like a fun experience, and it was like
- 6:13Speaker 6: a fun experience. I thought, No, if I just want
- 6:16Speaker 6: to leave, I'll just leave, Like what's the big deal.
- 6:19Speaker 6: Then you get there and it's not that easy. You start,
- 6:23Speaker 6: you know, if you start falling for the farmer, you start.
- 6:26Speaker 5: Having no emotions, you start you're in this bubbles.
- 6:29Speaker 6: That's all the best way I can describe it as
- 6:31Speaker 6: a bubble, yeah, of reality TV and the show.
- 6:35Speaker 1: And who did you say? You got close to? You
- 6:37Speaker 1: got close to Casey.
- 6:38Speaker 5: And Casey extremely and then and Cam.
- 6:41Speaker 4: And Cam, Oh you know who she didn't say was Carson.
- 6:45Speaker 4: And so I think that's what we have to unpack
- 6:47Speaker 4: a little bit.
- 6:48Speaker 3: So we need it.
- 6:48Speaker 2: We needed your help on this, Brittany, because we we
- 6:50Speaker 2: think everyone has been tiptoeing around the Carson thing, and
- 6:56Speaker 2: even Carson.
- 6:57Speaker 3: Carson's like, I don't know what they're talking about.
- 6:59Speaker 4: It was Carson and yeah, came on, had no idea
- 7:02Speaker 4: what she said off camera that you guys all happened
- 7:05Speaker 4: to have heard and told Braden about So I need you, Brittany,
- 7:10Speaker 4: to actually set the record straight. What did Carson say
- 7:15Speaker 4: about Branden that ultimately you guys all felt compelled enough
- 7:20Speaker 4: to tell him about Oh gosh.
- 7:23Speaker 6: I mean without you know, disrespecting her and her side
- 7:28Speaker 6: of the story.
- 7:29Speaker 1: Why would it be disrespecting her?
- 7:31Speaker 5: I know, I just I don't know.
- 7:33Speaker 6: I just don't want to like her feelings or anything.
- 7:36Speaker 6: But I definitely will speak on you know, my experience
- 7:40Speaker 6: with her, and you know, all that was was real
- 7:44Speaker 6: on and off camera, of the issues that we had
- 7:47Speaker 6: with her. We all just felt like she was someone
- 7:51Speaker 6: completely different, and we just caught her in a lot
- 7:54Speaker 6: of lies, right, and so we were just like, we
- 7:57Speaker 6: don't really really know this girl, Like who was Carson?
- 8:02Speaker 4: What kind of lies like the frigerator photo lies or
- 8:06Speaker 4: like something else?
- 8:08Speaker 6: Yeah, how I mean just seeing her, you know, watching
- 8:14Speaker 6: the show back and seeing her.
- 8:17Speaker 5: Interviews with you know, how she put.
- 8:19Speaker 6: The camera pictures up on the fridge, I mean, how
- 8:24Speaker 6: we didn't like that.
- 8:25Speaker 5: It's like, well, obviously Carson, we didn't like that.
- 8:28Speaker 4: So she cleaned on our podcast that she didn't do that.
- 8:33Speaker 4: She said that when she saw them on the fridge.
- 8:35Speaker 4: That was the first time she saw them on the fridge.
- 8:39Speaker 5: Oh, I didn't know that.
- 8:40Speaker 6: I mean, I think she she definitely saw it before
- 8:43Speaker 6: we showed up.
- 8:44Speaker 5: That's okay, sure for sure she did.
- 8:47Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, and the things that she would say
- 8:49Speaker 6: off camera about Brayden, I didn't really I lost respect
- 8:53Speaker 6: a lot of respect right there.
- 8:54Speaker 5: It was very early on when we.
- 8:56Speaker 6: First get to the farm, and I'm like, why are
- 8:58Speaker 6: you talking about kind of poorly about the guy that
- 9:02Speaker 6: we're all dating, Like that you supposedly, like, you know,
- 9:04Speaker 6: you just got.
- 9:05Speaker 5: Off having a one on one with him.
- 9:07Speaker 6: You're supposed to be, you know, super giddy and about him,
- 9:11Speaker 6: and then you're kind of talking poorly about him.
- 9:14Speaker 5: So I just like, I don't trust.
- 9:17Speaker 3: Her when you say, like talking poorly.
- 9:18Speaker 2: Was it more like, you know, oh, you know, we
- 9:21Speaker 2: don't really have anything in common, or.
- 9:23Speaker 6: Oh I don't like talking about you know her, which
- 9:28Speaker 6: she's totally valid for her experience with him, I mean, right,
- 9:31Speaker 6: but you know, she just it was like weird. And
- 9:34Speaker 6: then she when she when he would come around, she'd
- 9:37Speaker 6: be all like giddy and excited, and I feel that
- 9:40Speaker 6: she was so about him, And then off camera she
- 9:43Speaker 6: would like kind of you know, talk bad and I'm
- 9:46Speaker 6: just like, Okay, I don't understand why you're here if
- 9:49Speaker 6: you don't really like it, but then you do like it,
- 9:51Speaker 6: and then yeah, I don't know.
- 9:54Speaker 2: So do you feel like she liked she liked the
- 9:56Speaker 2: element of the like the competition element of the show
- 9:59Speaker 2: more so than she actually liked him, because I mean,
- 10:02Speaker 2: he's a good looking guy.
- 10:03Speaker 3: He seems really nice.
- 10:04Speaker 2: So it's like, you know, and so was she more like,
- 10:07Speaker 2: you know, oh I'm not into him or you know,
- 10:10Speaker 2: that kind of thing.
- 10:11Speaker 6: Directly, but it was just again really hard to gauge
- 10:16Speaker 6: her and know what was true.
- 10:18Speaker 5: It was not true.
- 10:20Speaker 6: And then again just like small little lies that she
- 10:22Speaker 6: would say to us, the girls in the house off
- 10:25Speaker 6: camera were just like it didn't make sense.
- 10:29Speaker 4: So yeah, okay, well and whatever, we're having to read
- 10:34Speaker 4: between the lines here, Bob, because she's being very polite
- 10:37Speaker 4: and not saying I know, but whatever it was you
- 10:42Speaker 4: felt compelled to tell Bryden about this behavior on camera?
- 10:48Speaker 1: Were you nervous about that?
- 10:50Speaker 4: Were you to tell him in terms of like that
- 10:54Speaker 4: this could you know, impact your connection with him?
- 10:58Speaker 1: Tell me kind of about what was going through your
- 11:00Speaker 1: when you decided to come forward.
- 11:02Speaker 5: I was totally nervous.
- 11:04Speaker 6: I mean, I didn't even know, none of us really
- 11:06Speaker 6: knew if we were going to tell him.
- 11:07Speaker 5: We kept talking about it. We kind of wanted to,
- 11:09Speaker 5: and then they were like, no, we shouldn't. For me,
- 11:12Speaker 5: it was more of like.
- 11:13Speaker 6: I didn't want to come off as him thinking I'm
- 11:19Speaker 6: jealous or trying to persuade him away from her to
- 11:23Speaker 6: like me more.
- 11:24Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, I didn't want to come across that way.
- 11:27Speaker 5: So it was really hard to like try to talk
- 11:30Speaker 5: to him about it.
- 11:31Speaker 6: And then at the horse race, you know, the producers
- 11:35Speaker 6: were like, you should talk to Brading about Carson.
- 11:37Speaker 5: She let him know, and I'm like, I don't think
- 11:39Speaker 5: I should. I remember telling them if.
- 11:42Speaker 6: He brings it up and asks about how's it going
- 11:45Speaker 6: in the house, then it comes up naturally not gonna lie,
- 11:48Speaker 6: and I will say my piece or like my side.
- 11:51Speaker 5: So that's kind of like that is kind of what happened.
- 11:53Speaker 5: And I tried to.
- 11:54Speaker 6: They cut out a lot of that conversation because I
- 11:57Speaker 6: did say, you know, like, I'm sure she means well,
- 12:00Speaker 6: I think you know, there's a side of her that
- 12:02Speaker 6: is so great.
- 12:03Speaker 5: You've seen it we've seen it.
- 12:06Speaker 6: But we just want to I just want you to
- 12:08Speaker 6: be aware that you know, she's not the same person.
- 12:12Speaker 3: So yeah, I get that.
- 12:14Speaker 2: I mean, I think you know, it's hard because when
- 12:15Speaker 2: you're the guy too in that situation, or even when
- 12:18Speaker 2: the situation is reversed and it's like you know, when
- 12:20Speaker 2: there's a female leader or whatever and you're in that situation,
- 12:24Speaker 2: you're not seeing any of that, right, So this is
- 12:26Speaker 2: it comes as a shock sometimes like you're like, oh
- 12:28Speaker 2: my god, and then you do you do start wondering,
- 12:31Speaker 2: like you know, it's almost like kill the messenger time, right,
- 12:33Speaker 2: It could go down that way, and it doesn't always
- 12:36Speaker 2: Thankfully it didn't in your case obviously, but it's one
- 12:38Speaker 2: of those things where it's like, you know, that could happen.
- 12:40Speaker 2: So you were you were not wrong to really second
- 12:43Speaker 2: guess whether or not you should come forward.
- 12:45Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, and I just really did, you know,
- 12:47Speaker 6: I cared about him from just getting to know him
- 12:50Speaker 6: that little bit, so I and we were all there
- 12:53Speaker 6: for him, and so we wanted to express our concerns
- 12:58Speaker 6: that maybe she wasn't there for you.
- 13:00Speaker 4: So yeah, sure, yeah, I'm sure there was like powering
- 13:03Speaker 4: numbers too, because you weren't the only one who ended
- 13:06Speaker 4: up telling him, so yeah, probably ended up helping as
- 13:10Speaker 4: well to get the message across.
- 13:13Speaker 1: You had a solo date with Branden where you went to.
- 13:17Speaker 4: The uh the cider place that you guys were making.
- 13:24Speaker 4: I need to know how cold was it on that
- 13:27Speaker 4: date because I thought your lips were blue on camera.
- 13:32Speaker 5: It was cold.
- 13:33Speaker 6: It was cold, yes, I mean, yeah, it was freezing.
- 13:38Speaker 5: I remember just shaking and yeah it was.
- 13:41Speaker 6: But other than that, and it's windy in a little
- 13:43Speaker 6: one like uh huh, the wind is not like no,
- 13:47Speaker 6: it's not for the week.
- 13:48Speaker 5: So yeah, I was freezing the whole time.
- 13:50Speaker 6: They cut out like a hay ride that you did
- 13:52Speaker 6: where I was literally like shaking in blankets and I
- 13:54Speaker 6: was still shaking.
- 13:57Speaker 4: Watching it, and I go, it must They showed snow
- 14:00Speaker 4: on the ground. I go, this girl is forreezing on.
- 14:03Speaker 1: The lips looked blue.
- 14:06Speaker 5: Oh man, that's funny.
- 14:19Speaker 4: Tell me about you know, we saw your family come
- 14:23Speaker 4: to the farm and they seemed a little bit skeptical
- 14:28Speaker 4: of this whole thing up until that point. Were you
- 14:34Speaker 4: having any sort of trepidations or reservations about this connection
- 14:39Speaker 4: and moving forward? And what did it feel like to
- 14:42Speaker 4: kind of see it on their faces and kind of
- 14:44Speaker 4: hear from them in that moment, like did it give
- 14:47Speaker 4: you a moment of pause then or reaffirm anything, kind
- 14:50Speaker 4: of explain to us what was going on at that point.
- 14:53Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 14:54Speaker 6: I mean, my sister and are really close, and so
- 14:57Speaker 6: I do remember.
- 15:00Speaker 5: I do remember, just not understanding why she.
- 15:04Speaker 6: Was so skeptical, actually, because I really felt like, you know,
- 15:09Speaker 6: what me and Braiden had was real. I thought obviously
- 15:14Speaker 6: I thought he was going to, you know, choose me,
- 15:16Speaker 6: and so I just was like, I don't understand. I
- 15:20Speaker 6: didn't understand why she was so skeptical. But looking back,
- 15:22Speaker 6: I'm like, oh my gosh, Like, yeah, she was skeptical
- 15:25Speaker 6: because there was another girl and that she didn't want
- 15:28Speaker 6: to need to get her and she didn't want me
- 15:30Speaker 6: to be too confident in that and obviously so I
- 15:35Speaker 6: wouldn't be so devastated. But yeah, I do remember, you know,
- 15:40Speaker 6: I think we talked off camera too about you know,
- 15:43Speaker 6: her concerns, and she just was really skeptical about the
- 15:46Speaker 6: whole thing.
- 15:47Speaker 5: From the moment she got there.
- 15:48Speaker 6: She didn't really she she liked Brydon.
- 15:53Speaker 5: She you know, thought he was a great guy.
- 15:55Speaker 6: But I think she her she thought, you know, I
- 15:59Speaker 6: don't really know him, like, of course he's saying all
- 16:00Speaker 6: the right things.
- 16:01Speaker 3: Right, right right.
- 16:03Speaker 4: Did she feel like she got a more a better
- 16:06Speaker 4: read on Branden because she wasn't in the quote unquote
- 16:11Speaker 4: bubble totally?
- 16:13Speaker 5: Yes.
- 16:14Speaker 6: And I wish she's my older sister.
- 16:17Speaker 5: I wish I would have.
- 16:19Speaker 6: I wish I would have been one to have been
- 16:21Speaker 6: so blinded by my own little perception.
- 16:25Speaker 4: It's easy to say, Brittany, but when you're putting all
- 16:29Speaker 4: of your heart on the line and the emotions, it's
- 16:31Speaker 4: really hard to know, have the rose colored glasses on
- 16:34Speaker 4: when you're feeling all the feels that come with you know, love,
- 16:39Speaker 4: like it's more to get back down to earth and
- 16:42Speaker 4: put the feet on the ground, you know that. I
- 16:43Speaker 4: think Bob can attest to that. He's been on the
- 16:45Speaker 4: other side both times. He's been a contestant and been
- 16:49Speaker 4: a lead, you know, so oh yeah, you know.
- 16:51Speaker 3: And I'll say this too.
- 16:52Speaker 2: I mean, I think, you know, I thought you handled
- 16:54Speaker 2: it really well. I thought your sister, you know, it
- 16:56Speaker 2: was kind of interesting watching it as a as a viewer,
- 16:59Speaker 2: you know, and you're like, oh, I'm so excited that
- 17:01Speaker 2: my sister's going to be here because you know, she's
- 17:03Speaker 2: always got the biggest personality of this kind of stuff.
- 17:05Speaker 2: And we're watching the sisters just like it has nothing
- 17:08Speaker 2: to say, right, And I remember thinking yeah, and you're like, what.
- 17:11Speaker 3: Is going on? But I but you know what that is.
- 17:14Speaker 3: It reminded me of my sister.
- 17:16Speaker 2: You know, my sister was all My sister was the
- 17:18Speaker 2: same way in that she was normally, you know, so
- 17:23Speaker 2: effusive and then all of a sudden she's sitting there silent.
- 17:25Speaker 2: You know, it's like crickets And so I get it, right,
- 17:28Speaker 2: and it's like, but that was your sister's way of
- 17:30Speaker 2: basically like not embarrassing you by going I'm not into
- 17:34Speaker 2: this dude, right or not, and not putting it out
- 17:37Speaker 2: there to like crush your dreams because she's hopeful you're
- 17:39Speaker 2: going to get what you want to doze, right, But
- 17:41Speaker 2: I mean she was basically not also not putting on
- 17:44Speaker 2: a parade of of bs either, right, which is that's
- 17:48Speaker 2: why you love her, you know, that's why she's that's
- 17:50Speaker 2: why she's your best friend.
- 17:51Speaker 3: You know.
- 17:51Speaker 2: It's like she's sitting there going, I love you and
- 17:53Speaker 2: I want you to be happy, but I'm just not
- 17:54Speaker 2: one hundred percent sold on this situation.
- 17:56Speaker 3: And yeah, I get.
- 17:57Speaker 5: It, and it's so foreign. She's you know, where we
- 18:00Speaker 5: were raised Christian.
- 18:01Speaker 6: We're very Christian women and family oriented, and so I
- 18:05Speaker 6: think she just felt like, yeah.
- 18:08Speaker 5: It's weird that she's dating another guy, Like this shouldn't
- 18:10Speaker 5: be a thing.
- 18:12Speaker 6: Yeah yeah, I mean another girl, you know, but she
- 18:14Speaker 6: shouldn't be dating another girl.
- 18:16Speaker 5: He should just be dating my sister. And like, I'm like,
- 18:18Speaker 5: it's not yeah, like she just it's hard for her
- 18:20Speaker 5: to coffretend that you know, this is.
- 18:23Speaker 3: The yea, Yeah, like you knew what you signed up for,
- 18:26Speaker 3: but she didn't stand up for that.
- 18:27Speaker 5: Yes, exactly.
- 18:29Speaker 3: Yeah, I get it. I totally get it.
- 18:31Speaker 1: The breakup was a really hard watch.
- 18:35Speaker 4: I mean especially for us who watched this entire season,
- 18:40Speaker 4: especially for me, who was, uh, you know, hell then
- 18:44Speaker 4: on saying you were going to be the chosen one
- 18:47Speaker 4: on that farm.
- 18:49Speaker 1: I was really I.
- 18:52Speaker 4: Was really emotionally invested in you, and it was hard
- 18:54Speaker 4: for me to watch because especially when you came back
- 18:58Speaker 4: after you know, the initial breakup chat, and you came
- 19:02Speaker 4: back and you said why not me? That is what
- 19:07Speaker 4: goes through our heads in these moments. Cameras are no cameras.
- 19:11Speaker 4: That's what you think when you get dumped, you know,
- 19:14Speaker 4: and it's it's a tough thing. Did you watch it back,
- 19:19Speaker 4: the breakup since it happened, and was it like how
- 19:23Speaker 4: you remembered it happening.
- 19:25Speaker 6: I debated so hard if I was gonna watch that ending,
- 19:29Speaker 6: just because I do remember it being very emotional for
- 19:33Speaker 6: me and very hard. And yeah, when I watched it back,
- 19:37Speaker 6: it did bring it did bring your bad back, you know,
- 19:40Speaker 6: it brought back all those emotions that I felt.
- 19:43Speaker 5: It was really hard to.
- 19:45Speaker 6: Watch myself, you know, get broken up with and not
- 19:50Speaker 6: be chosen. Yeah, you just I honestly didn't even like
- 19:57Speaker 6: remember there being cameras.
- 19:58Speaker 5: I just remember, you know, just being excited.
- 20:03Speaker 6: I was so so hopeful that you know, I wasn't
- 20:07Speaker 6: really thinking, for being totally honest, that I wasn't.
- 20:10Speaker 5: Going to get you know, chosen.
- 20:12Speaker 6: I was like, you know, what we have is so
- 20:16Speaker 6: like you know, a real I thought so many thanks
- 20:19Speaker 6: for going through.
- 20:20Speaker 5: My brain, and so yeah, it was really hard. It
- 20:23Speaker 5: was really really hard to watch that back.
- 20:26Speaker 4: When you've watched the season back now hindsight, do you
- 20:31Speaker 4: see something different when you watch his and Casey's connection.
- 20:36Speaker 6: Totally, you know, and you know Casey and I we
- 20:39Speaker 6: are so we're so close, And I do have so
- 20:42Speaker 6: much respect for Brandon.
- 20:44Speaker 5: I mean, you know it. It must be so hard
- 20:47Speaker 5: too on his like in his shoes.
- 20:50Speaker 6: I really had to get step back after I got
- 20:52Speaker 6: home and try to like put myself in his shoes
- 20:55Speaker 6: of how hard that could be for someone to care
- 20:58Speaker 6: about all these girls, you know, especially down to the
- 21:01Speaker 6: final two and have to make a decision.
- 21:03Speaker 5: So I totally emphasize with him.
- 21:06Speaker 6: But yeah, looking back, I'm like, oh my gosh, of
- 21:09Speaker 6: course it was so clear's day.
- 21:12Speaker 1: It was Casey, Brittany.
- 21:14Speaker 4: It wasn't clear for me. I was rooting for you till.
- 21:19Speaker 3: Hey, to be clear, we were both rooting for you.
- 21:21Speaker 2: But I will tell you Casey was my pick across
- 21:26Speaker 2: all the farms. I mean, I was like, oh my god,
- 21:28Speaker 2: she's and it was just this connection I saw with
- 21:31Speaker 2: the two of them totally. But but I want to
- 21:34Speaker 2: say this to you because I think it's so nice
- 21:36Speaker 2: that you're what you just said, because I know crimea River.
- 21:40Speaker 2: But when I was the Bachelor, the hardest part about
- 21:42Speaker 2: the whole show for me, was letting people go who
- 21:46Speaker 2: had hadn't done anything wrong right, And I saw that.
- 21:49Speaker 3: In Braden, I saw it in Brett, I saw I
- 21:51Speaker 3: saw it.
- 21:51Speaker 2: In all the guys that they were all really wrestling
- 21:54Speaker 2: with that, because I mean, the casting on this show
- 21:56Speaker 2: was absolutely spot on, Like they chose those great guys.
- 22:02Speaker 3: All on all the farms.
- 22:03Speaker 2: I loved all the guys, and then they chose amazing,
- 22:06Speaker 2: truly amazing women that when you get down to the
- 22:09Speaker 2: final two, you really are you do have love for
- 22:13Speaker 2: both of them, and you're sitting there going, I don't
- 22:15Speaker 2: want to hurt this person. I love this person, but
- 22:18Speaker 2: I'm feeling something here that's just pulling. It's not that
- 22:21Speaker 2: you've done anything wrong, it's that this thing is a
- 22:23Speaker 2: little more right for me in this moment. And I
- 22:26Speaker 2: think it's so great that you're saying that, because a
- 22:30Speaker 2: lot of people don't ever come to grips with that
- 22:32Speaker 2: part of it and realize that it was a challenge
- 22:34Speaker 2: for that person.
- 22:35Speaker 3: And he's sitting here.
- 22:36Speaker 2: Looking at the two of the most beautiful women he's
- 22:39Speaker 2: ever seen in his life, who have you know, so
- 22:41Speaker 2: many things in common with him, but he's just got
- 22:44Speaker 2: one more thing in common with this person or whatever
- 22:46Speaker 2: it might be. And so it's great that you that
- 22:49Speaker 2: you were able to say that, because I do think
- 22:51Speaker 2: brand and Casey are an awesome couple, and I do
- 22:54Speaker 2: think that he is a sweetheart of a guy. And
- 22:57Speaker 2: he even said it when we had him on the show.
- 22:59Speaker 2: He's like, I was it was the hardest thing I've
- 23:01Speaker 2: ever done in my life, you know, And he's like,
- 23:03Speaker 2: I'm hopeful we can have a friendship in relationship, you know.
- 23:06Speaker 2: And I love hearing that. Yea, because I think you
- 23:08Speaker 2: and Casey still have that.
- 23:10Speaker 6: Yeah, because we were all, you know, friends on the
- 23:13Speaker 6: show off camera and on camera, and when we all
- 23:16Speaker 6: would hang out, it was like we were all just
- 23:19Speaker 6: like friends hanging out together. It wasn't really like, oh
- 23:22Speaker 6: we were all competing against this guy, we're all we
- 23:25Speaker 6: were all together. It was like we were truly friends.
- 23:28Speaker 6: And yeah, yeah, it was a great time.
- 23:30Speaker 4: Well, just to piggyback off of what Bob said, we
- 23:33Speaker 4: did have Casey and Braiden on the podcast, and Casey
- 23:38Speaker 4: said that you guys had still talked, but Braiden said
- 23:42Speaker 4: that you hadn't spoken really since that breakup, and he
- 23:46Speaker 4: understood that, but you know, if Braden's listening right now,
- 23:49Speaker 4: is there anything that you would want to say to him?
- 23:52Speaker 6: Oh gosh, I mean, yeah, we haven't spoken since that day.
- 23:57Speaker 6: I think I would just say, you know, as hard
- 24:01Speaker 6: as it was for me to go through that, you know,
- 24:03Speaker 6: I do have like so much respect for him. I mean,
- 24:08Speaker 6: watching his interview too after really touched me and really
- 24:15Speaker 6: showed me. Okay, like you know what, because you don't think,
- 24:18Speaker 6: you know, I was really like, yeah, I was kind
- 24:21Speaker 6: of really hurt by him for a while after, and
- 24:25Speaker 6: I couldn't understand, you know, everything that led to that
- 24:30Speaker 6: decision at first, for being one hundred percent transparent. But yeah,
- 24:34Speaker 6: I would just say, you know, I respect you, and I.
- 24:38Speaker 5: Wish him and Casey like really nothing but the best.
- 24:42Speaker 6: They're a beautiful couple, and I think you know they
- 24:45Speaker 6: were always meant to be together for sure.
- 24:47Speaker 3: Heather, yet another reason why I love this damn show
- 24:51Speaker 3: so much.
- 24:52Speaker 1: I know, come on, she's so.
- 24:55Speaker 2: Just lovely people. I know, Molly Walker my new best friend.
- 24:59Speaker 2: You know how much I love this show. Look at this.
- 25:01Speaker 2: I love Brittany. I just love everything you're saying. I think,
- 25:05Speaker 2: and I believe you.
- 25:06Speaker 5: And I mean it I do.
- 25:07Speaker 1: Yeah, you can tell I believe her too.
- 25:10Speaker 4: And you know what I will say though, that sometimes
- 25:15Speaker 4: it's not just space that brings this kind of clarity,
- 25:18Speaker 4: but it's also maybe when you fall for somebody else
- 25:22Speaker 4: and the feelings kind of drift away.
- 25:25Speaker 1: So I do want to know who this.
- 25:28Speaker 4: Baseball player is that Brittany's been posting on her socials
- 25:32Speaker 4: because she seems to have moved on.
- 25:35Speaker 3: And I am sure, Yeah, tell.
- 25:39Speaker 4: Us, Brittany, who is this baseball player you've been hanging
- 25:41Speaker 4: out with?
- 25:42Speaker 6: Yeah?
- 25:43Speaker 5: So his name is Brydon?
- 25:45Speaker 1: Hilarious?
- 25:47Speaker 5: Crazy?
- 25:48Speaker 3: Is that?
- 25:48Speaker 1: That's crazy?
- 25:49Speaker 3: You gotta type? Hey, what can I say? When I
- 25:53Speaker 3: met my wife?
- 25:54Speaker 2: When I met my wife, I started calling her by
- 25:55Speaker 2: her last name because there were so many Jessica's in
- 25:59Speaker 2: my life that I just couldn't you know.
- 26:01Speaker 3: It was like and so I get it, I get it.
- 26:03Speaker 3: I guess I'm a Jessica guy and you're a Brandon guy.
- 26:06Speaker 3: This is good.
- 26:06Speaker 5: It was crazy. Yeah, so you know, he's wonderful.
- 26:11Speaker 6: I'm so so happy Brandon and I are, like, we're
- 26:15Speaker 6: just best friends and yeah, I'm just really happy. I'm
- 26:20Speaker 6: so like over the mient.
- 26:21Speaker 1: So that's amazing.
- 26:23Speaker 2: So I mean, did he slide into your DM's post
- 26:26Speaker 2: show because I saw you on the show and he's like, oh.
- 26:29Speaker 3: My god, I'm in love with this woman and he's like, hey.
- 26:32Speaker 5: Right, No.
- 26:33Speaker 6: So actually we met honestly prior to me going on
- 26:37Speaker 6: the show, and then I wanted to fully be in
- 26:43Speaker 6: invested in my friend where I wanted to be fully
- 26:45Speaker 6: invested in the show, and so I kind of broke
- 26:48Speaker 6: it up, not kind of, I broke it off with
- 26:51Speaker 6: my Brandon now and after the show I took I
- 26:56Speaker 6: think it was like three and a half months, just
- 26:59Speaker 6: like Kah, I don't know, just to gather myself sometime.
- 27:05Speaker 4: To regain your faith in men because I would have had.
- 27:11Speaker 3: My men, just to.
- 27:12Speaker 6: Live my life again for myself, get back in my routine,
- 27:15Speaker 6: all the things.
- 27:16Speaker 5: And then I reached out to him.
- 27:18Speaker 6: I was thinking about him and reached out to him actually,
- 27:21Speaker 6: and he flew me out to Florida what he was
- 27:23Speaker 6: doing spring training for the Red Sox.
- 27:25Speaker 5: And then after that kind I was like, honestly, really
- 27:28Speaker 5: is history.
- 27:28Speaker 6: I realized, Oh my gosh, like you're you're right in
- 27:32Speaker 6: front of me this whole time kind of thing.
- 27:35Speaker 3: I love it to get me emotional over here.
- 27:45Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 27:49Speaker 1: So are you guys doing long distance?
- 27:51Speaker 5: No? I actually moved for him. I moved. Yeah, I
- 27:56Speaker 5: didn't want to do long distance.
- 27:58Speaker 3: You're in Florida. Oh no, so.
- 28:00Speaker 5: He's based in Boston. So I moved all the way
- 28:03Speaker 5: over here.
- 28:04Speaker 3: Oh that's right in Florida.
- 28:06Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 28:06Speaker 5: Yeah, so I moved. I long distance. It is not
- 28:10Speaker 5: for me. I didn't want to do it.
- 28:12Speaker 6: And I really feel like you can't really get to
- 28:14Speaker 6: know someone truly, truly until you're with them every day
- 28:17Speaker 6: in their everyday life.
- 28:19Speaker 4: Wow, Brittany, I have to commend you, because the biggest
- 28:22Speaker 4: storyline for you.
- 28:25Speaker 1: Was will she move to the farm? You are like,
- 28:29Speaker 1: not only will I move?
- 28:30Speaker 4: I will do it tomorrow for the right guy.
- 28:34Speaker 1: You did it for the right guy. Oh my gosh.
- 28:37Speaker 6: That's why I really I really do need everything I
- 28:40Speaker 6: say and like I Yeah, I really, you know, for love,
- 28:45Speaker 6: I'm such an emotional like I love when I like
- 28:50Speaker 6: care about someone. When I it goes both ways. If
- 28:53Speaker 6: I really don't like you, it shows too, like so
- 28:57Speaker 6: and so I really when I'm all in on someone,
- 28:59Speaker 6: I all in. And that's just always been me. I
- 29:02Speaker 6: always have warn my heart on my sleeves and I
- 29:05Speaker 6: kind of go in with no fear and like, like Brandon,
- 29:09Speaker 6: I love it. Yeah, so I definitely that was the
- 29:13Speaker 6: biggest backlash I got on the show, is why would
- 29:16Speaker 6: they bring her on when she won't move.
- 29:18Speaker 5: It's like I never said that.
- 29:20Speaker 2: Okay, well we actually we discussed that. We discussed that
- 29:24Speaker 2: a little bit too. How you know, you you're like,
- 29:26Speaker 2: I didn't say that in fact, and then you know
- 29:28Speaker 2: it's you go back, but it's you know.
- 29:30Speaker 4: What it is Branden talked about was the moving, the moving,
- 29:34Speaker 4: the moving, and I was like, we get it.
- 29:36Speaker 1: You can't move the farm. We get it, Braiden.
- 29:38Speaker 5: I felt that too.
- 29:39Speaker 6: No, That's why I felt like, you know, I'm I
- 29:42Speaker 6: felt like I was reassuring in the sense of like I.
- 29:45Speaker 5: Totally hear you. I get that, and I would move
- 29:49Speaker 5: for you if it felt right.
- 29:51Speaker 3: If it's right, if it's right.
- 29:53Speaker 4: But then they started poking holes in the fact of
- 29:55Speaker 4: like what you do for a living wouldn't make sense
- 29:59Speaker 4: out in his area because you're in aesthetics. And I
- 30:02Speaker 4: was like, me and Bob would talk about this, and
- 30:05Speaker 4: I was like, maybe nobody's getting talks on the farm,
- 30:08Speaker 4: but I can believe that people are getting botox and
- 30:12Speaker 4: filler and doing all this stuff maybe outside of the farm, right,
- 30:16Speaker 4: like for sure, and like.
- 30:18Speaker 6: Im then till I said too, like ideally I would
- 30:22Speaker 6: want a big city.
- 30:23Speaker 1: Of course, like Boston.
- 30:25Speaker 3: Yeah likely.
- 30:26Speaker 2: Yeah, let's say, like, uh, you know, at the corner
- 30:29Speaker 2: of Newbery and Exeter right there, Yeah.
- 30:32Speaker 5: But exactly, yeah, so on Newberry Street. I love that.
- 30:37Speaker 6: But yeah, I would say, like you ideally do, but again,
- 30:41Speaker 6: like I would do, I would make it work for
- 30:43Speaker 6: the right person.
- 30:44Speaker 5: So I didn't mean when I said, of like, I
- 30:45Speaker 5: will figure it out.
- 30:47Speaker 6: I would, you know, aesthetics is my passion, it's my job,
- 30:50Speaker 6: it's my career. Worked really hard for it, like Brandon said,
- 30:54Speaker 6: and so yeah, I definitely would have made it work,
- 30:58Speaker 6: you know.
- 30:58Speaker 3: But that's okay. I I love this. I love the idea. Now,
- 31:02Speaker 3: Molly Walker my new best friend.
- 31:04Speaker 2: Maybe what we do is we get farmer Braiden and
- 31:07Speaker 2: Casey together, baseball Braiden and Brittany together, and we have
- 31:11Speaker 2: like one big pow wow on the horn here and
- 31:13Speaker 2: we of course I'll.
- 31:15Speaker 3: Fly out with Heather and we will you know, take
- 31:17Speaker 3: you guys out to dinner. That's what I'm thinking we
- 31:19Speaker 3: do we bring the whole crew back.
- 31:21Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, that would be iconic, that would be.
- 31:24Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just spitballing, Molly, but you know that's what
- 31:26Speaker 2: I'm saying.
- 31:27Speaker 3: But no, I think this could be so fun.
- 31:29Speaker 2: But listen, you know what the thing I love about
- 31:32Speaker 2: these types of shows and I've said it forever and
- 31:34Speaker 2: how their knows here we go on my soapbox again.
- 31:36Speaker 2: But it's so funny because you go on a show
- 31:38Speaker 2: like this and people are like, you know what, you
- 31:40Speaker 2: can't get a date at home.
- 31:41Speaker 3: You're like, no, Bud, you don't understand. They don't.
- 31:43Speaker 2: They cast They cast women on these shows who never
- 31:47Speaker 2: have had to compete for a man, right, They've never
- 31:51Speaker 2: they've wanted everything in their life, you know. It's like
- 31:54Speaker 2: and then the guys are the same way. These guys
- 31:55Speaker 2: come on, they're like, you know, everything is great. And
- 31:58Speaker 2: that's why it's so when you're not the person that's
- 32:01Speaker 2: been chosen, because when you put your heart out there,
- 32:03Speaker 2: you've never not been chosen. And I went through that too,
- 32:06Speaker 2: and it was like the hardest thing for me when
- 32:08Speaker 2: Trista didn't choose me.
- 32:09Speaker 6: I'm like, what are you kidding me, like like, what
- 32:11Speaker 6: do you mean, I just went through all of this
- 32:12Speaker 6: for nothing?
- 32:13Speaker 2: But then then to be frank much like you, I'm
- 32:17Speaker 2: looking at her and Ryan. Ryan was my roommate when
- 32:20Speaker 2: we were in the Bachelorette pad or whatever you would
- 32:23Speaker 2: call it before they made me the bachelor, and she
- 32:26Speaker 2: ended up and she and Ryan have been together ever since.
- 32:28Speaker 2: And Ryan was the guy who was sitting there writing
- 32:30Speaker 2: poetry at night, and I was like, this dude is
- 32:33Speaker 2: so in love with her and it's amazing.
- 32:35Speaker 3: And so when they got together, I was like, I
- 32:37Speaker 3: see it. I get it. It was always him. How
- 32:40Speaker 3: could you know?
- 32:41Speaker 2: Yeah, But in the moment, you're like, well, it's got
- 32:43Speaker 2: to be me too, right because I'm here and you know,
- 32:45Speaker 2: I'm putting.
- 32:46Speaker 3: My heart out there. So I just love it. You
- 32:49Speaker 3: are exactly who I hoped you would be.
- 32:51Speaker 2: And I was like a lot of people come off
- 32:53Speaker 2: with these shows and they realize what they just went
- 32:57Speaker 2: through made them more open to love and maybe realizing
- 33:00Speaker 2: what's around them and what's been under their nose the
- 33:02Speaker 2: whole time.
- 33:03Speaker 1: And what do I always say?
- 33:05Speaker 4: I sell people this all the time when they're going
- 33:07Speaker 4: on these dating shows. Listen the odds are stacked against you.
- 33:11Speaker 4: You know, it's a numbers thing. There's more girls than
- 33:14Speaker 4: there are men, so you're unlikely to find love actually
- 33:18Speaker 4: on this show. But if you use the opportunity to
- 33:21Speaker 4: put out to the world what you're looking for. I
- 33:24Speaker 4: always say, it's highly likely that love will come into
- 33:27Speaker 4: your life right after. And I mean, I hate to
- 33:30Speaker 4: be the dead horse, but that is what's happened here.
- 33:33Speaker 4: And yes, we've seen it with some of your other
- 33:35Speaker 4: cast members who have also gotten into relationships. You know,
- 33:39Speaker 4: one of your one of the girls on Sean's Farm,
- 33:42Speaker 4: is dating Emily's brother. It's like that, how would that
- 33:45Speaker 4: have happened had she not come on the show, you
- 33:47Speaker 4: know what I mean. So it's like, this is what
- 33:49Speaker 4: happens in the dating reality space.
- 33:53Speaker 1: So we'd love to watch your journey.
- 33:55Speaker 4: We loved getting to know you, Brittany, and we wish
- 33:59Speaker 4: you and Boston Branden the best in your future. And
- 34:05Speaker 4: thanks so much for coming on the pod. It was
- 34:06Speaker 4: great to catch up with you.
- 34:08Speaker 5: Yeah, thanks for having me guys, it was good good.
- 34:11Speaker 3: To know you, so of course, thank you so much, Brittany.
- 34:14Speaker 2: We wish you nothing but the best, and you know,
- 34:16Speaker 2: I'm a big Detroit Tigers guy, but just for you
- 34:19Speaker 2: right now, I'll say, you know, go Red Sox.
- 34:24Speaker 5: Thank you, Bye
- 34:26Speaker 3: Brittany, thank you so much.