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DA CREW PODCASTSEASON 1_ EPISODE #33 HOST PATRICE GRIMBALL_(SHOW #6) · DA CREW Podcast

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are you as I day your head? Welcome everyone, It's another Saturday night
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and you're here with your girl Patrice Scrimble scook Out eight forty three and I
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am so excited for this show tonight because this show is going to help all
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of us to create the Habits for Miracles. So today I want to introduce
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mister Rawu Shama. He is the author of Habits from Miracles, which is
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his newest self help book. Welcome, come on on join me. Hello,
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Hey, Patris, how are you? I'm great? How are you
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I'm doing great? Thank you for asking. So my first question, tell
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us a little about yourself. So Rahua Sharma is a person who believes in
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the power of mine, who believes in where there is a will, that
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is a way. I am a ser one leader by nature, and I
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always seek opportunities to learn and grow as well as help others who are in
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need. That is what probably yourma is. Now. See that is so
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much of what we need in this world, right here and now. So
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I understand that you have a book that is called habit, a novel,
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a self help book call Habits from Miracles, which is your latest. So
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tell us tell us a little bit about this book, like how did you
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come about the title? Where did the idea or the inspiration for it come
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from? Tell us a little bit about it. So I have been in
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my corporate world working with many individuals and I have noticed that they are unable
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to unleash their full potential. And what I realize was there are certain things
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that we know that we need to do, but somehow we miss it.
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And those are very basic small things. And those are the small things or
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habits that I have lived throughout my life and I have inculcated in this book
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Habits for Miracles. This book will talk about various habits of miracles is an
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acronym that I have used to explain the habits, and they will ekeep our
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readers to design their life their way. Oh wow, design your life your
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way. So you're telling me that it's really up to me to achieve what
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I have to achieve. You know what? That is great? Now you
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said you're a leadership reader, a leadership trainer, and you work in the
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corporate world. How does that help or how does that incorporate itself and sad
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and your book. So, as a leadership coach, one of the most
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common challenge that I hear from leaders is they are trying to do great things
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for their people, but their people are not able to execute to make the
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change. And I believe that people resist change only when they are told to
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change. When the change is coming from within, then they are very excited.
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So I teach our leaders how to focus on ensuring that the change that
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the individual is looking for comes from them rather than you telling them, Hey,
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do this, do that. So that's what I do in my coaching
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to leaders. So it seems like you're taking the talent that I have within
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and bringing it out. Absolutely. Absolutely, we have griven the spot our
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in our own self, and my job is to just get that out,
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make them aware of their power, their inner power which they can use it
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to improve their life. Okay, so I'm going to ask an aftrip question.
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So what is one way that I can find that inner talent that I
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have or flourish that inner talent that I have? If I have to say
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one, Since you ask me one, I would say listening to self.
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Oh, self, listening is a wonderful art and is a great thing for
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us to know what our mind has to say to ourself. We are in
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a world where there are so many noises, so many people asking us to
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do things, whether at work, if we are a parent kids, asking
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us if we are at at home gives asking us at what our managers or
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what team members are asking us to do. So we are not able to
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spend time with our own self. So if we focus on listening to our
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own self, we will be able to know what we are capable of.
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So those quiet moments do you mean a lot? So it's okay to take
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those stolen moments and this sitting quiet and see I knew I knew I was
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doing that for a reason. All right, So who do you see as
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your books ideal reader? Who should who should read your book? I knew
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it should be for everyone, because everyone needs those habits for miracles. But
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who should say instead of me getting this Starbucks, let me invest in myself,
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who should get us? So I would say there are three main your
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genre people can help get the help from this book. First and foremost,
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it would be the students who are struggling with their academics and their personal and
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allowing them to have a bigger meaning in their personal and professional life. So
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students could get an advantage on this and another thing. I believe that these
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habits if gets inculcated in us early, we will read the benefits for a
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longer time. Okay. The second group would be the entrepreneurs, the leaders
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who are who have the knowledge and who are ensuring that their people do better.
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So if if this knowledge goes to those entrepreneurs, those leaders, they
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will be equipped to get better output, better productivity from their team, fulfilling
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their personal and professional life. Okay. And the third audience I would say
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would be the individuals who are facing with the life transitions, who don't know
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the way out, who thinks that everything bad that is happening around them is
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happening to them, So those folks can also get benefit from this book,
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because I talk about a lot of self discovery moments, self discovery tools in
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the book which could be beneficial for them. Okay, so we got the
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students, we have the entrepreneurs, and anyone that is in transitions. That's
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about everybody. I would say, Yeah, So we're going to take a
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little break and we will be back and we're going to talk about one of
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the greatest weapons we have in our life is our mind. So he's going
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to expound on us and give us a little bit more knowledge on that.
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I tay youre hey, Welcome back, you guys. So one of
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the greatest weapons we have in our life is our mind. Tell me more
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so, I believe that the nature has given the Almighty has given us this
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amazing gift the mind, and most of us we do not realize the power
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of mind. So the first step for us is to make our mind think
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like a winner. Once we start thinking like a winner, things will happen
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automatically. And there are It's not that you think like a winner and you
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become a winner. There are a lot of things that goes in. I'm
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just making it look like very very simple. It is not. It is
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a lot of efforts that one need to make. And number two, our
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mind has a power to design our life our way if only and only if
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we allow it to happen. We sometimes have those limiting beliefs, those past
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experiences which inhibits us to take that action that will take our life to a
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different whole world. So if we can dream big, amazing things can happen
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in our life. And that is what our mind does to us. So
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we need to realize the power of mind. It's a super superpower, I
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say, And there are great things that mind can do. But the only
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thing is if we allow it, nothing will happen. We don't. There
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is no remote control like we change the channel in the TV. There is
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no remote control of our mind. But it is all within us. So
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that's like we can be our biggest hinderance. Wow, absolutely, that's that's
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that would be one of my problems. I can be my worst enemy.
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So another off question, do you have any advice for those that are in
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that place where there their worst enemy. I mean, I've talked myself into
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doing things, and I've seen others where I work because I work for a
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public library, so I see this all the time. When I have individuals
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that come in and full out that application for a job. In the first
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word they say is I'm not qualified for this, and I'm like, no,
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you don't want to speak like that. So what type of advice can
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I say to that patron that comes in? And that's the first words to
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come out there, But what can I say? Share this ad why is
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the one that I have experienced it. I used to be a chain smoker
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and I left smoking on March twenty seven, two eleven, thank you.
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And the first thing that I did was get to know my why. Why
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do I want to move away from this habit. Once I got to know
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my why, it allowed me to move in a positive direction. Once I
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knew my why, the second thing I did was practice mind talk. Positive
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mind talk our mind gets almost eighty thousand to ninety thousand thoughts in a twenty
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four hour period. And the unfortunate part Petrace is those ninety percent of these
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thoughts are negative. And when we are having negative thoughts, we will not
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be in a position to take positive action. So we need to do that
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positive mind talk, positive self talk to ourself. That will make our thoughts
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positive, that will make our mindset positive, and that will enable us to
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take positive action. Now, first, know your why. Second, do
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a positive mind talk. Third would be setting realistic goals. You need to
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set realistic goals. Nothing will happen overnight. It will happen piece by piece,
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so set those realistic goals when you are achieving your mini goal. The
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fourth step is to have some positive reinforcement. Applaud yourself. Give a pattern,
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a bag, go for a massage, you go for a coffee,
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go for a dinner. But applaud yourself. That is sometimes we are not
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very good at applauding our own work. And last, but not the least,
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is the support system, your inner circle. You have to have a
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very good support system who is positive, who is giving you positive energy and
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helping you in making that dream come true. So those are the five things.
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Know your why, Brantice mind or set realistic goals, focus on ensuring
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that you have focus on ensuring that you have those goals are when they are
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achieving, you are achieving those goal to positive reinforcement. And fifth is ensuring
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that you have a good support system. Now that's it's so crazy to hear
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that because it's what I say to my daughter and it's like okay, cool,
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Like heay, So you tell us about how to break those bad habits.
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You just gave us a little bit about it. But I have a
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bad habit of doubting myself and I know a lot of people do, and
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we get those negative thoughts and you're telling us to replace those negative thoughts with
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positive thoughts. And the simplest thing you just said was like mind blowing because
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it's like you hear that all the time, but until you actually sit and
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think about it, it's like wow, So, how to get rid of
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these bad habits we have? So once we practice those five steps, that
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will definitely enable us to move to the right direction. But the shift that
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will happen would be life changing for you. These habits. When you imby
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positive habits, it improves your mental health, it improves your relationship, and
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it improves your own self confidence in doing great things that you are born for.
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So bring that new perspective in life. Connect with like minded people,
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connect with the mentors, the coach who can give you the right guidance.
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Those are the things if we focus on miracules can happen. Okay, So
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I'm we're gonna start doing it. And it says we talk about shifting our
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thoughts. Why is that a good thing? Why? Why is the good
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to shift the thoughts? I mean, we know that positive thoughts bring positive
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outcomes, but a lot of people can't really think that positive because they're really
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focusing on what they physically see. So how do we get that mindset of
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shifting our thoughts? Because we shift our thoughts, our outcome will change.
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So how do we get that? So first thing I would say is you
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need to envision the future. State what will happen when those change that you
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are thinking about will happen in your life? How will the life look like?
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Second, our brain is not as intelligent as we are. Sometimes our
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brain is unable to recognize in the real situations as well as fake situations.
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So when we are taught talking positive to ourself, our brain is thinking that.
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Okay, these things are happening and it allows us to stay in a
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happy mode for a longer period of time. So the moment you are having
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any negativity around, give those booster to take that still right of positive thoughts
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and positive mind dog that will take you to another new level. Okay,
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great, Great, So we're almost to the end of our discussion. And
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what would you like to leave with your pass readers, new readers, current
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readers, everyone is going to see this podcast. Who would you like to
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say now? I would say that you have the power to change, to
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design the life that you want to live. No one else is responsible for
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that life that you deserve. Only you harness the power of these all habits.
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Inculcate these small habits and see the miracles list result happening in you around
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you, and to make a happier place to live, for your family,
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for your friends, and for yourself. Yeah, the happiness starts at home,
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it reaches out and this world could get a little better. So how
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can our readers contact you? How can they get your books? Do you
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have any training classes coming up? How can they get in contact with you?
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So my book is on pre sale on Amazon, they can just search
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for my book which is habits for number four Miracles dot com. That is
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also my website, habits for Miracles dot Com. Once they blog into my
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website, they can get to know more about the book, more about me,
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more ways to connect with me. My social media hand us out there,
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and I have will be more than happy to connect with them with audience
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and trying to provide them to support that they need. But we thank you
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for giving us these nuggets and knowledge. I mean just being here and I
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know you see my face it's like, oh wow, I can't. I
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have no poker face. When I get those aha moments, my eyes get
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big and I'm like, okay, this was directly for you. I know
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you're doing your podcast, but that little nuggets for you, and I would
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personally like to thank you on behalf of the readers, of the viewers and
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myself and I am going to get your book because there's a lot of things
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in there. I said, okay, you know this is one of those
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you keep in the house and you pick up every so often just to get
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a refresher. So I would like to thank you for joining us here tonight
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and will be happy to have you back anytime you can, anytime you will,
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but we would love to have you come back here to see book Gallant
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Friends Chat. Thank you for dedition and thank you for listeners, for listening
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