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- 0:00Let's go ahead and take out your copy of God's Word. Turn to Romans chapter 16. While you're doing that, I really appreciate the musical talent in this church.
- 0:10It's so nice that Wes and Liz can take off for a vacation and we have others that can fill in for them and that care about content driven music the way all of us have so come to love and appreciate.
- 0:23And I even appreciate sometimes when the songs get stripped down like that and you really have to think about the words that you're singing.
- 0:31What a blessing. So last week we continued our work through Romans and we began in chapter 16.
- 0:38We kind of got this epilogue now. Paul's beginning to wind the letter down and we're beginning to have to really take a look at these texts because there's not explicit teaching any longer.
- 0:48His intention here in chapter 16 is not to say to the church at Rome anything overtly. He's not saying, now learn this thing. I want you to be sure you understand this thing.
- 1:00But yet, it's included in our scriptures and it's inspired and there's much for us to glean from it.
- 1:06So we looked kind of in a broad way at verses 1 through 16 last week at all of the Christ-centered, love-saturated relationships that Paul had with the saints in Rome and we applied that to our own living together.
- 1:19And as I told you last week, I hoped and Lord willing would and I believe what he is pleased for us to do today, wanted to go back and look at chapter 16 verses 1 through 5a.
- 1:31So we're going to look at these three characters that are at the very beginning of chapter 16.
- 1:36So let's read that together and then we'll pray.
- 2:01Let's pray together.
- 2:07Father, we thank you and we praise you for our great salvation that you have worked in our hearts and changed us from haters of God to lovers of God.
- 2:17Certainly a miraculous activity in our lives.
- 2:20And we thank you also for the guide and rule of scripture handed down to us through the spirit, through faithful writers, through much martyr's blood, through the faithful work of translators from the original language that we might hold it in our hands today.
- 2:38And I pray that all of us this day count it as precious.
- 2:41Even these verses, this, this wind down, this epilogue, so to speak, to Paul's great doctrinal treatise to the church in Rome, that we might learn from it and glean from it, that we might peer into what it might have to say to each of our lives individually as well as corporately.
- 3:00And we pray this in Christ's precious and holy name.
- 3:04Amen.
- 3:04Amen.
- 3:05So, before we take a look at these three characters, let me just ask you for a moment to kind of try to put yourself in their shoes.
- 3:15We don't know exactly when the letter to the Romans was written, but roughly between 55 and 57 AD.
- 3:22The first gospels had not yet been recorded at this point.
- 3:25We don't know if it's Matthew or Mark first, but around the year 60 AD is when they were penned.
- 3:30So, just imagine being in this early church and what you have is probably one copy of the Old Testament scriptures.
- 3:38Right?
- 3:38Those first 39 books of our Holy Bible.
- 3:41And then you have the teaching of the apostles that's being passed around by word of mouth.
- 3:45So, just consider that as you see the lives of these people.
- 3:48And yet, we have so much more.
- 3:52We have the canonized scripture.
- 3:54We know now this is the inspired word of God handed down to us, which gives so much clearer explanation of the things in those first 39 books.
- 4:04But just imagine that as they're living these sacrificial lives, these great examples of lives lived to the glory of God,
- 4:12that they may have had scriptures like this in their minds.
- 4:15Psalm 37, 28.
- 4:16For the Lord loves justice.
- 4:19He will not forsake his saints.
- 4:20They are preserved forever.
- 4:23But the children of the wicked shall be cut off.
- 4:26Or Isaiah chapter 1, verse 16 and 17.
- 4:29Wash yourselves.
- 4:30Make yourselves clean.
- 4:32Remove the evil of your deeds from before my eyes.
- 4:35Cease to do evil.
- 4:36Learn to do good.
- 4:38Seek justice.
- 4:38Correct oppression.
- 4:40Bring justice to the fatherless.
- 4:41Plead the widow's cause.
- 4:44Or Amos 5, 24.
- 4:45But let justice roll down like waters.
- 4:49And righteousness like an ever-flowing stream.
- 4:52These things may have been working around in their minds as they begin to live in this way.
- 4:57But remember that where we've come through Romans, beginning in chapter 12, Paul has ceased talking doctrine.
- 5:04He's ceased saying, this is the gospel.
- 5:07And he's begun to say, in light of that, this is now how you should live.
- 5:12It should be the natural outflow.
- 5:15It should be the obvious response to what Christ has worked in you.
- 5:20This, then, should be working out of you.
- 5:24So note, not only may they have had these things in their minds.
- 5:27Here we have, as I'll present to you, Phoebe probably was spending time with Paul at this time.
- 5:33He's teaching these things.
- 5:34They've got these scriptures.
- 5:35But more importantly, to have the Spirit of God abiding within them, moving them to work in these ways.
- 5:42So let's look at those ways.
- 5:44Let's look at how it was that they lived their lives.
- 5:47And I hope that as we're doing this, you can kind of hold your life up to theirs.
- 5:51Not that you're necessarily called to do the exact things they were called to do.
- 5:55But we are meant to live in this type of way.
- 5:59So let's look first at Phoebe.
- 6:02Now, it's likely that Phoebe was the one that was delivering Paul's letter to the Romans.
- 6:07We can't say for sure that that's the case.
- 6:10But there's enough evidence to assume that that is.
- 6:12And I'll give you three evidences of that.
- 6:14First, she's from the church at Kincray.
- 6:16We can see that here, which is the east port of Corinth.
- 6:19It's kind of a province of Corinth, so to speak.
- 6:22So she is where it was likely that Paul was wintering.
- 6:26He was there, and that's where they proposed that he actually wrote this letter.
- 6:29There's a good bit of evidence that says that.
- 6:32So that's where she lived.
- 6:34She's the only one in the list who's commended to them.
- 6:38He's giving a forward example of who she is.
- 6:43He's saying to them, accept her as one in Christ.
- 6:47So she's the only one that's commended.
- 6:49And there's also no suggestion that she is coming along after the letter.
- 6:53He doesn't say, our sister Phoebe, who will be coming after you've read this letter, anticipate her.
- 6:59She's on her way.
- 7:00But it seems to actually be accompanying the letter itself.
- 7:03And additionally, she appears to be a woman of means.
- 7:06We see in the text that she's a patron to many, which had some financial implication to it.
- 7:12So it's also likely that she was able to make this journey.
- 7:15In fact, she may have regularly made this journey.
- 7:18She may have been a businesswoman and traveled as she would go through Corinth to the western port and take a ship to Italy.
- 7:24She may have actually made this journey regularly.
- 7:26That may be why she's the one carrying the letter to the church at Rome.
- 7:30So it's likely that.
- 7:32And I think it's safe.
- 7:32And most scholars agree with me, who's not a scholar, that that is what's happening in this case.
- 7:39So Paul, as he commends her to the church at Rome, he gives her three titles.
- 7:44The first is sister, but more specifically, our sister.
- 7:50He doesn't just call her his sister, but he says that she is our sister.
- 7:55Meaning that she is one of the beloved.
- 7:59She is a saint.
- 8:00She is part of the church.
- 8:02And he's certainly giving the theological reason there.
- 8:04That's certainly part of it, right?
- 8:06In Matthew 12, 50, Jesus said, whoever does the will of my Father in heaven is my brother and sister and mother.
- 8:12There's definitely a theological practicality there.
- 8:15That she is, in fact, one of us, is what he's saying.
- 8:20But there's also a much more immediately practical reason.
- 8:24It was dangerous to travel in these days.
- 8:26It wasn't a safe thing.
- 8:27And it wasn't a safe thing to be in a city that you didn't know.
- 8:30And therefore, he was looking for them to accept her and welcome her in as part of the family.
- 8:37To provide for her needs, just as she had been providing for his needs.
- 8:41To openly, armed, welcome her.
- 8:44We talked last week about verse 16, where he says, greet one another with a holy kiss.
- 8:49And I shared with you that that was a common practice amongst families back in these days.
- 8:54That they would kiss, both on greeting and on departure.
- 8:57And the church had taken on the practice, and they called it a holy kiss, because they were a family in Christ,
- 9:03to say to people who were being disowned by their families, who were being completely cast out from everything that they knew,
- 9:09you're one of us.
- 9:10Welcome to our family, right?
- 9:12You belong here.
- 9:14And this is the same thing that he's getting at as he says that Phoebe is our sister.
- 9:21Also recognize that that has other implications, right?
- 9:25As she is traveling to a strange place, more than likely as a single woman, able to travel in this way.
- 9:31She has no family holding her down in Corinth.
- 9:351 Timothy 5, 1-2.
- 9:39Paul instructs Timothy,
- 9:40Do not rebuke an older man, but encourage him as you would a father.
- 9:43Younger men as brothers.
- 9:45Older women as mothers.
- 9:47Younger women as sisters.
- 9:49In all purity.
- 9:50So recognize that what Paul here is saying to Timothy is that watch how you function with the women in the church,
- 9:59because they're your sisters.
- 10:03Recognize what he's saying, young men.
- 10:05He's saying it would be incestual to do anything with these young women until they are your wife.
- 10:12So he's also practically saying, treat her with purity.
- 10:17As you welcome her into your homes, watch yourself.
- 10:23Secondly, calls her a servant.
- 10:27The term here, the Greek is diakonos.
- 10:32A diakonos of the church at Kincre.
- 10:35A deacon.
- 10:36It's where we get that word from.
- 10:38A deacon of the church at Kincre.
- 10:43This text is one of the primary places that we pull our belief, the Christ Family Church,
- 10:48that it is acceptable for women to serve in that role in the church.
- 10:52Now this morning I don't have time to completely unfold and unwrap that for you,
- 10:56but I just want to give you some brief.
- 10:58As I say that, I don't want to leave you there and have you go, well, I don't know.
- 11:02Let me give you some brief explanation to that point.
- 11:04I am adamantly against a church having female deacons when the role of deacon is not clearly defined and it's actually not a biblical role.
- 11:14Many churches have deacons that are really elders, or maybe we could say quasi-elders.
- 11:22They do some of the things that scriptural elders are meant to do.
- 11:27So hear me clearly.
- 11:28In many churches here in the southeast, I would say, oh, not in your church a woman shouldn't be a deacon.
- 11:32But in ours, because we properly define the role of deacon, I believe it's entirely acceptable.
- 11:40So take, for example, 1 Timothy 3, 8-13.
- 11:44We see verse 12, a little bit maybe troubling language for you,
- 11:48says that a deacon should be a husband of one wife.
- 11:51But I don't believe that that necessarily implies that a deacon must be married.
- 11:55But that if they are a male and married, that they ought to have only one wife, and they ought not be a womanizer.
- 12:04Otherwise, we would say then that no single man could ever serve in the church, be given the task to serve in the church.
- 12:12You back up to verse 11, and probably most of our translations, I think most of you are using ESV,
- 12:18will say their wives likewise.
- 12:20This is more properly rendered, women likewise.
- 12:25Those of you who are holding out with your NASVs out there, for good reason, right?
- 12:31It says women likewise, and gives another case in point for how it is that we ought to conduct ourselves.
- 12:38So those things in the church that are the practical serving, the carrying out, the physical service to the saints,
- 12:47we believe it's acceptable.
- 12:49And here we see Phoebe as an example of that.
- 12:52She's not the only one in the scriptures.
- 12:54We see many other examples of women called diakonos, right?
- 12:59People want to call that deaconess, female deacon, whatever.
- 13:02It doesn't really matter, right?
- 13:03The noun itself is gender neutral, right?
- 13:08Diakonos, right?
- 13:09So we stand in that.
- 13:11However, we have to carefully define.
- 13:13You start going around saying, our church has women deacons.
- 13:15You better explain what that means to people, right?
- 13:18It gives us all kinds of trouble.
- 13:20But here she is as a servant of the church, and more than likely one who's been granted that position,
- 13:26who's actually been given that role in the church officially at King Cray.
- 13:32Thirdly, she is a patron.
- 13:35It's an interesting word.
- 13:39And not just a patron, but a patron of many.
- 13:43And this was a term, this in fact is a feminine noun.
- 13:45So this would be a female guardian or protector.
- 13:49It was a very honored title.
- 13:51To bestow on somebody the title of patron in this time meant that you had a deep respect for what they were doing for you.
- 13:57Paul himself says that she was a patron to him.
- 14:01A patron would have cared for the affairs of another and helped them with their resources.
- 14:07Served them in that way.
- 14:08So it's very possible that Paul, being put up here in Corinth, that she was looking out for his good, his well-being.
- 14:14Looking out for his financial well-being.
- 14:17That she was providing for him.
- 14:19That she was being sure that all those little things were cared for.
- 14:23However, I was reminded as I was looking at that, when Daniel Gentry and I traveled to Nicaragua here at the beginning of the year.
- 14:30We stayed at a little bed and breakfast.
- 14:34They called it a hotel.
- 14:35It was kind of a bed and breakfast.
- 14:36And a sweet lady who owned it named Miss Dell.
- 14:39And a title of honor down there is to call somebody Mama.
- 14:42So we called her Mama Dell the whole time we were down there.
- 14:45And I would have given her this title.
- 14:47She really looked out for us.
- 14:49Every morning they served us food.
- 14:51They did those types of things.
- 14:51And she would ask, what are you guys planning on doing today?
- 14:54And we would tell her.
- 14:54And she would give us the tips, right?
- 14:56Well, don't go here.
- 14:58Make sure you talk to this guy.
- 15:00Make sure you do this thing.
- 15:02She was the one that took us all over town and introduced us to all the pastors in town.
- 15:06And make sure we were able to connect with them.
- 15:08She really looked out for us when we were there.
- 15:11When we were in her presence, we felt much safer than when we weren't, right?
- 15:15She really had our back in this way.
- 15:17And she was influential.
- 15:18And she was looking out for our well-being in this regard.
- 15:23And so Phoebe was a patron.
- 15:25Not just to Paul.
- 15:27Not just of a couple of others.
- 15:28But of many.
- 15:32We see then also a married couple.
- 15:35We see Prissa and Akilah.
- 15:38Now last week I misspoke.
- 15:39So I just want to clear that up for you.
- 15:41Last week I said we'll see Prissa's name other places as Priscilla.
- 15:45And I gave you the example of being kind of like William and Will.
- 15:48I was wrong, right?
- 15:50Priscilla is actually the diminutive form of Prissa.
- 15:53It'd be like the more endearing version of her name.
- 15:57So maybe Will and Willie, right?
- 16:00You would add that suffix on there to show that you had an extra endearing heart towards her.
- 16:09Kind of like my little Prissa, right?
- 16:11Would be the way that would be read.
- 16:13But anytime you see those two, they're interchangeable.
- 16:16And that's the case with most Greek names at the time.
- 16:20Right?
- 16:20And Paul doesn't expressly give to this married couple specific titles.
- 16:24But we can certainly gather a few from the text.
- 16:27As he explains who they are to him in Christ.
- 16:31Excuse me.
- 16:37Anybody else been sick from this pollen?
- 16:39So thankful for rain.
- 16:42So three titles for them as well.
- 16:45Firstly, they were movers.
- 16:49If you begin to actually take a look at Prissa and Achilla throughout the New Testament,
- 16:55they show up all over the place.
- 16:58They were mobile.
- 17:00They moved.
- 17:01And it would seem that the great thing that we can gather from this is not that we should
- 17:05necessarily be movers.
- 17:06That we should pick up every couple of years and move someplace else.
- 17:10But Prissa and Achilla, as a married couple, as workers, they were tent makers, probably had
- 17:16the temptation to put down roots.
- 17:19We are married.
- 17:20We should buy a house.
- 17:21We should start a family.
- 17:22We should do these things.
- 17:23But they seem to hold very loosely to the things of this world.
- 17:26They seem to care very little about their own kingdom, but cared much about God's kingdom
- 17:33as he moved them around the region.
- 17:36So let me just show you where they went, how this came about.
- 17:40In Acts 18.2, we see them for the first time.
- 17:43And Achilla is described as being a native of Pontius, who moved to Corinth from Rome when
- 17:50Claudius forced the Jews to leave.
- 17:51So already we have he's in Pontius, then he's in Rome, and then he's forced to move to Corinth.
- 17:56And this is where Paul first meets them.
- 17:59In Acts 18.18 and 19, Paul takes them to Ephesus and leaves them there.
- 18:04Right?
- 18:04They reason with Apollos in Acts 18.26.
- 18:07Some of the correction that was brought to Apollos was brought by way of Prissa and Achilla.
- 18:12All right?
- 18:13So here we have them going from Pontius to Rome to Corinth.
- 18:15Now they're in Ephesus.
- 18:18But here we find them once again being greeted in Paul's letter to the Romans.
- 18:22So it appears that they then moved back to Rome for a period of time once again.
- 18:28But we also see evidence in 2 Timothy 4.19 that they've returned to Ephesus.
- 18:34Right?
- 18:34So catch this.
- 18:35Married couple.
- 18:36They go from Pontius to Rome to Corinth to Ephesus, back to Rome, and then back to Ephesus again.
- 18:43They were movers.
- 18:45They recognized that they were sojourning in this world.
- 18:48They didn't have to put down deep roots.
- 18:51They knew that they had a greater kingdom that they were headed to.
- 18:56A further very cool note is even though they were movers this way, even though they probably knew,
- 19:02established a pattern in their life that they would be temporary,
- 19:05you could just see Prissa getting to a town and thinking,
- 19:09I'm not hanging anything on these walls because you're just going to have me pack it up again.
- 19:12Right?
- 19:13After they met Paul, they always had a church in their home.
- 19:16You can find record of that.
- 19:19If you're trying to work it out in their time in Ephesus,
- 19:23you can find it in 1 Corinthians 16.19.
- 19:26They had churches that met in their homes.
- 19:30So they went to a place, they established themselves, and they allowed a church to meet.
- 19:35Maybe even started that very church in their home.
- 19:39Right?
- 19:39They didn't say, well, we're just here for a time, college students.
- 19:43This is an in-between time.
- 19:47Four years is a long, five, six maybe years is a long time.
- 19:52Right?
- 19:53And you're up here nine months out of the year.
- 19:56Right?
- 19:57You live here.
- 19:58Right?
- 19:59Establish yourself.
- 20:01Begin working out your salvation here in this place.
- 20:05Secondly, there were workers.
- 20:07Right?
- 20:07Paul calls them fellow workers in Christ Jesus.
- 20:11So we're not talking here about their physical work.
- 20:13We're talking about the spiritual work that they did.
- 20:16They got busy.
- 20:17They were active in this way.
- 20:19Right?
- 20:19They were not vocational missionaries.
- 20:22In fact, we see in Acts chapter 18 verse 3 that they were tent makers like Paul.
- 20:26Paul stayed with them for a while.
- 20:28Worked with them for a while because they carried out the same trade.
- 20:32Right?
- 20:33Right?
- 20:33So they recognized as they were called in Christ that they were also called to make disciples
- 20:39of Christ.
- 20:40And as they went, as they bought from town to town, they had churches that met and they ministered
- 20:46to people.
- 20:46They were workers in Christ.
- 20:50Achilla didn't say, I'm not a worker in Christ.
- 20:52I'm a tent maker.
- 20:54Praise Jesus.
- 20:54He saved my soul.
- 20:55But I've got tents to make.
- 20:56I don't have time for the kingdom.
- 20:59He wasn't about his kingdom.
- 21:00He made tents so he could put food on the table.
- 21:03Right?
- 21:04He spent the rest of his time feeding people from the word of God.
- 21:10There's an invasive term that's worked its way into our churches.
- 21:16And I probably could spend a whole hour talking about this.
- 21:19So just in brief.
- 21:21It's this little term, feel called.
- 21:26I feel called too.
- 21:29I'm feeling called too.
- 21:31It's worked its way into the Christian vernacular in a great degree.
- 21:37What does it mean to feel called?
- 21:40How does it even feel when you're feel called?
- 21:44People ask me that question often as I pastor the church.
- 21:47I think typically because I'm, well, I am young, but also because I look so young.
- 21:51I don't look nearly 33.
- 21:53Right?
- 21:53Right?
- 21:54So people say, when did you feel called to ministry?
- 21:57And I think they're actually waiting for me to say, well, there was this mountain.
- 22:02And I hiked to the top of the mountain.
- 22:04And a cloud descended.
- 22:06And God met with me in the midst of the cloud.
- 22:09And he said to me out of the cloud.
- 22:10Like, I think that's actually the kind of story that they're waiting for.
- 22:13Which isn't to say that those things can't happen.
- 22:15But I don't think it's the way things typically happen.
- 22:18I actually backed into this.
- 22:21Right?
- 22:21I was just doing some preaching.
- 22:23And literally, if you can imagine me backing into it, and suddenly I stopped and went, I'm a pastor.
- 22:29Right?
- 22:31Should I feel called to it?
- 22:33I don't.
- 22:34I love this.
- 22:36I desire to do it.
- 22:37I want to be here.
- 22:38There's nothing else I would rather do.
- 22:40But I need to feel called.
- 22:42There's no finger writing on the wall for me.
- 22:44There's no burning bush.
- 22:45What does that even mean?
- 22:48If we look throughout the scriptures, that object of calling, that language is used in two ways.
- 22:58We've all been called to be Christians.
- 23:02And we've all been called to be like Christ.
- 23:06Two things.
- 23:07If you want to put it differently, we've all been called to be disciples.
- 23:10Disciples.
- 23:11And we've all been called to make disciples.
- 23:14To be disciple-making disciples.
- 23:16That's the calling on all of our lives.
- 23:20It's going to work its way out in different ways, certainly.
- 23:23Right?
- 23:23Not all of you are meant to stand at a podium and preach on a Sunday morning.
- 23:27And that's okay.
- 23:28Not all of you are meant to go overseas and spend your life vocationally ministering to people.
- 23:34That's okay.
- 23:34Right?
- 23:35Right?
- 23:35But you have to recognize that we are all called to ministry.
- 23:41We have to distinguish.
- 23:42I don't know maybe what the right term is.
- 23:44Maybe vocational ministry.
- 23:45Meaning I earned my living ministering to people.
- 23:47Where others may not, like Pris and Akila, didn't earn their living ministering.
- 23:52But they recognize that they were ministers.
- 23:55They were fellow workers in Christ Jesus.
- 23:59And that's what we need to be as a church.
- 24:01All of us need to be fellow workers in Christ Jesus.
- 24:06You see in Ephesians chapter 4, the specific gifts that are given to the church.
- 24:11Right?
- 24:11It's not all of the spiritual gifts.
- 24:12But the gifts that are shown to us, though, are the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists,
- 24:18the preachers and teachers.
- 24:19And those are specific gifts that are about the Word of God.
- 24:22And why is it that they're given to the church?
- 24:25Right?
- 24:25They're given to the church for the building up of the saints for the work of ministry.
- 24:29Not as separate things.
- 24:30Not as gifts so that we can build up the saints and do the work of ministry.
- 24:35But those gifts are given to the church to build up the saints for the work of ministry.
- 24:40You see that?
- 24:40We're all called together into this task.
- 24:44You're all ministers of the gospel of God.
- 24:48And in that way, we're all meant to be workers.
- 24:51So they're movers.
- 24:54They're workers.
- 24:56And they were riskers.
- 24:58Right?
- 24:58Paul said that they risked their necks for his sake.
- 25:02And oh, how I wish that we had the record of that story.
- 25:05We don't know.
- 25:06There's no record of it anywhere.
- 25:08At least not that I could find.
- 25:09Please correct me later if I'm wrong.
- 25:11But I looked.
- 25:12I looked and I looked and I looked.
- 25:13I wanted to know how was it that person Akilah risked their very lives for the sake of Paul.
- 25:18And the way his language implies here is that all of the Gentile churches were thankful for them.
- 25:23Probably means that they saved Paul's life as they risked their own for his sake.
- 25:27Gosh, I wish we had that story.
- 25:29What a neat story that would be.
- 25:30Right?
- 25:31But they were riskers.
- 25:32Again, they recognized that this world was a place that they were passing through.
- 25:36They were moving on to a greater thing.
- 25:38As a couple, they risked.
- 25:40Not Akilah headed off to go rescue Paul and Prissa sat at home just fretting and worrying about him.
- 25:46Right?
- 25:47Right?
- 25:48They risked their necks together for his sake.
- 25:52What a precious couple.
- 25:55What a precious individual Phoebe is.
- 25:58What great examples of how our lives ought to be oriented and changed.
- 26:04And at Christ Family Church, I hope that we can take a book, a page from their book.
- 26:09Right?
- 26:09That we can take a look at what their lives look like and compare our lives to theirs.
- 26:13And let us be found treating each other as brothers and sisters.
- 26:17Becoming servants to all and patrons to many.
- 26:22Recognize that we are simply passing through this life.
- 26:26And that there is much work to be done.
- 26:29Some at very great risk.
- 26:32I pray that when Christ returns, he will find us faithful, serving in these ways.
- 26:37Let's pray together.