Latest / I Think Less of You Podcast / Out of State Plates
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- 0:01SPEAKER_00: We have a weird lag.
- 0:03SPEAKER_00: Are you plugged in?
- 0:05SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 0:08SPEAKER_01: We didn't
- 0:09SPEAKER_01: have a lag
- 0:09SPEAKER_00: before.
- 0:12SPEAKER_00: We're good now.
- 0:14SPEAKER_00: It basically just opened a back door for people to install different malware
- 0:21SPEAKER_00: and things and take control of websites remotely.
- 0:26SPEAKER_00: Just is a massive critical safety issue.
- 0:30SPEAKER_00: And we'll see what comes of it.
- 0:32SPEAKER_00: Maybe they talked about it and they will get it all patched up quickly.
- 0:37SPEAKER_00: I know my host was busy working all of yesterday running scripts.
- 0:44SPEAKER_00: So we'll see how that goes.
- 0:46SPEAKER_00: But it is definitely something to watch.
- 0:48SPEAKER_00: Just watch people who understand it more intricately than the two of us.
- 0:54SPEAKER_00: I do somewhat.
- 0:55SPEAKER_00: I don't know that I can.
- 0:57SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I don't
- 1:04SPEAKER_01: know what's going on with it.
- 1:06SPEAKER_01: Everybody who knows about computers started freaking out about this thing yesterday.
- 1:10SPEAKER_01: It apparently originated out of a security certificate issuer in India.
- 1:15SPEAKER_01: I guess they're supposed to have encryption keys.
- 1:17SPEAKER_01: They're like 161 characters long.
- 1:19SPEAKER_01: And for some reason, one of the encryption keys apparently was four.
- 1:23SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 1:24SPEAKER_01: Four.
- 1:26SPEAKER_01: Four.
- 1:26SPEAKER_01: It was not four numbers.
- 1:29SPEAKER_01: It was the number four.
- 1:32SPEAKER_01: So, yeah.
- 1:33SPEAKER_00: There's supposed to be like sentence long strings of numbers.
- 1:38SPEAKER_00: I mean, these are supposed to be complex keys and someone used four.
- 1:42SPEAKER_00: So that's great.
- 1:45SPEAKER_01: So that also yesterday, I think in a similar story, I think it was Norway had their...
- 1:55SPEAKER_01: Some kind of vital internal national database breached because their password for
- 2:02SPEAKER_01: the database was password one and had been that for, I guess, 12 years.
- 2:12SPEAKER_01: You know, it's easier than having a sticky note.
- 2:14SPEAKER_00: What are we doing out here,
- 2:15SPEAKER_01: people?
- 2:17SPEAKER_00: What are we doing?
- 2:18SPEAKER_01: Actually, a sticky note.
- 2:20SPEAKER_00: I think I'm going to go back to that.
- 2:21SPEAKER_00: I'm going to go back to just like a written notebook somewhere
- 2:25SPEAKER_00: because it's actually far more secure.
- 2:29SPEAKER_01: The ideal internet security is literally just a little notebook.
- 2:32SPEAKER_01: They just have complete gibberish strings as your passwords and have
- 2:36SPEAKER_01: a little notebook that you write in what gibberish string goes with what service.
- 2:44SPEAKER_01: But I say that, but I just generally use the Apple default.
- 2:48SPEAKER_01: It says, would you like us to generate you a password?
- 2:50SPEAKER_01: I'm like, yeah, sure.
- 2:52SPEAKER_01: I'll be fine.
- 2:54SPEAKER_00: Well, now I know how to hack.
- 2:56SPEAKER_01: There you go.
- 2:56SPEAKER_00: I know where I'm going to get all of your passwords.
- 3:00SPEAKER_00: I feel like you would be a fairly boring person to hack, and I mean that as a compliment.
- 3:07SPEAKER_01: No, no.
- 3:10SPEAKER_01: I'm an open book.
- 3:10SPEAKER_01: I have no secrets.
- 3:11SPEAKER_01: I'm, you know.
- 3:14SPEAKER_00: I like how we're saying this and I'm sitting here.
- 3:17SPEAKER_00: This is where we really suffer in not being a video format
- 3:22SPEAKER_00: because I have made myself a burrito with a blanket because it is freezing
- 3:26SPEAKER_00: in my husband's office right now.
- 3:28SPEAKER_00: And I'm still very sick because I do.
- 3:32SPEAKER_00: I do.
- 3:33SPEAKER_00: Well, I mean, I'm going to be a Matushka soon, so.
- 3:36SPEAKER_00: There we go.
- 3:39SPEAKER_00: Sorry.
- 3:40SPEAKER_00: You're like, I have no idea what that means.
- 3:42SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 3:44SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I got sick because I had visitors from out of town get me sick so rudely.
- 3:51SPEAKER_00: Just kidding.
- 3:52SPEAKER_01: So my kids had spring,
- 3:56SPEAKER_01: fall break over the last, the previous week, Here's why we didn't record.
- 4:01SPEAKER_01: And we were trucking all over New England.
- 4:04SPEAKER_01: And one of the stops we made was indeed to visit you.
- 4:07SPEAKER_01: I visited someone else that I know from the Internet.
- 4:09SPEAKER_01: I had the lovely Garrett.
- 4:11SPEAKER_01: And we had a delightful lunch with him.
- 4:13SPEAKER_01: Yeah, it was great.
- 4:16SPEAKER_01: He showed us around his very cool office and then we went off to lunch.
- 4:21SPEAKER_01: And yeah, so and we brought my youngest had a cold, which I didn't realize.
- 4:27SPEAKER_01: And we brought that cold to you.
- 4:29SPEAKER_00: And now you have that cold.
- 4:31SPEAKER_00: I still have it.
- 4:33SPEAKER_01: So do I.
- 4:34SPEAKER_01: It's actually a very long-lasting cold.
- 4:37SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I'm not super thankful for that, but it was cool to get to see your family.
- 4:42SPEAKER_01: I got to finally meet Luke, which was great.
- 4:44SPEAKER_01: He was a charming fellow.
- 4:47SPEAKER_01: It's funny because you had kept insisting that we wouldn't get along.
- 4:49SPEAKER_01: I thought we got along fine.
- 4:51SPEAKER_00: I didn't say that.
- 4:52SPEAKER_00: You 100% said that.
- 4:54SPEAKER_00: I said I didn't know.
- 4:55SPEAKER_01: You were like, I don't know if I want to get you two together.
- 4:58SPEAKER_01: Luke was
- 4:58SPEAKER_00: very picky.
- 4:59SPEAKER_00: Luke is very,
- 5:00SPEAKER_00: very picky,
- 5:01SPEAKER_00: which I know is shocking considering he's married to me and he kind of likes me.
- 5:07SPEAKER_00: I don't know what's wrong with him.
- 5:10SPEAKER_00: But he's really, really picky and he's not an easy like.
- 5:15SPEAKER_01: Well, I'm sure he said awful things about me after I left, but he was quite charming and nice.
- 5:21SPEAKER_01: He would never.
- 5:24SPEAKER_00: The only thing he said is he was like, I'm really glad they had to.
- 5:28SPEAKER_00: He had midterms this week and he had to record himself singing.
- 5:34SPEAKER_00: And he's like, I was going to have to excuse myself in a minute if they didn't have to leave.
- 5:40SPEAKER_01: Well, that's where having children who have a very hard bedtime.
- 5:45SPEAKER_01: It comes in handy.
- 5:48SPEAKER_01: You can mute it when you cough.
- 5:52SPEAKER_00: You're so mean to me.
- 5:53SPEAKER_00: I'm sorry.
- 5:55SPEAKER_00: You got me sick.
- 5:56SPEAKER_00: You can deal with it.
- 5:59SPEAKER_00: You can deal with hearing me cough.
- 6:02SPEAKER_00: I can't always hit the mute button, like, quickly.
- 6:07SPEAKER_00: It's across the...
- 6:08SPEAKER_00: It's fine.
- 6:09SPEAKER_01: I had to,
- 6:09SPEAKER_00: like, unbabushka and, you know...
- 6:14SPEAKER_01: You need one of those slankets, the full body blanket with the arms.
- 6:20SPEAKER_00: I really need, okay,
- 6:22SPEAKER_00: I said this on Twitter and you made fun of me because I still get ads because I'm
- 6:27SPEAKER_00: a poor person who doesn't pay for bougie, aristocratic Twitter with no ads.
- 6:33SPEAKER_00: But they keep serving me.
- 6:35SPEAKER_00: This ad that's like a footed onesie, there's like foot pockets in it.
- 6:40SPEAKER_00: And it's a gingerbread and it's heated.
- 6:43SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, I want nothing more in my life than that onesie.
- 6:48SPEAKER_00: I'm going to have to buy it.
- 6:50SPEAKER_01: We've reinvented electric blankets from first principles.
- 6:53SPEAKER_01: I mean, that's pretty much what's going on.
- 6:57SPEAKER_00: I want everything to do with this.
- 7:00SPEAKER_00: It's Christmas themed.
- 7:01SPEAKER_00: It's heated.
- 7:02SPEAKER_00: It's a blanket that you can wear around the house.
- 7:05SPEAKER_00: It has feet.
- 7:07SPEAKER_01: I thought everyone stopped using electric blankets.
- 7:12SPEAKER_01: I can't remember why.
- 7:14SPEAKER_01: It was like a fire hazard.
- 7:16SPEAKER_01: I think there were people who thought they were giving them cancer.
- 7:20SPEAKER_00: Whatever.
- 7:20SPEAKER_00: I'll die toasty in a lovely fire with lots of cancer tumors.
- 7:26SPEAKER_00: But I'll be warm and happy.
- 7:27SPEAKER_00: It'll be fine.
- 7:28SPEAKER_01: Yep.
- 7:29SPEAKER_00: Here's the thing.
- 7:30SPEAKER_00: I love cold areas.
- 7:31SPEAKER_00: I'm so glad that Boston's starting to get cold.
- 7:34SPEAKER_00: It was like 40 when I woke up this morning.
- 7:37SPEAKER_00: Heaven on earth.
- 7:39SPEAKER_00: Also, I do get cold really easily and complain about it a lot.
- 7:44SPEAKER_00: So I just need blankets around me at all times.
- 7:48SPEAKER_00: And then I'm like, I love the cold.
- 7:51SPEAKER_00: I just need a heated blanket.
- 7:53SPEAKER_00: I have heated gloves.
- 7:55SPEAKER_00: People make fun of me for this.
- 7:57SPEAKER_00: But I have heated gloves.
- 7:59SPEAKER_00: I have heated gloves and I have a heated vest.
- 8:01SPEAKER_00: I have heated all the things.
- 8:06SPEAKER_01: So yeah, we went up to Bennington, Vermont.
- 8:10SPEAKER_01: We've been to Bennington once before and I really like Bennington.
- 8:12SPEAKER_01: My...
- 8:14SPEAKER_01: Distant, distant family is from Bennington.
- 8:17SPEAKER_01: Like that's my generations back.
- 8:21SPEAKER_01: I have an ancestor who was a Green Mountain boy in Bennington,
- 8:25SPEAKER_01: Vermont, who then moved away and that established my family.
- 8:33SPEAKER_01: So what?
- 8:35SPEAKER_01: I can just hear that dog barking.
- 8:37SPEAKER_00: I like that you're.
- 8:39SPEAKER_00: Yelling at me coughing,
- 8:41SPEAKER_00: which I can't help because I have a demon virus and you're sitting outside
- 8:46SPEAKER_00: so you can smoke and subjecting a dog bark.
- 8:51SPEAKER_00: I said to make sure of that.
- 8:53SPEAKER_01: We were gone for a week.
- 8:55SPEAKER_01: All right.
- 8:56SPEAKER_01: My cat was our very kind neighbors were feeding our cat.
- 9:00SPEAKER_01: So our cat was.
- 9:02SPEAKER_01: But otherwise, our cat was completely alone.
- 9:04SPEAKER_01: If you'd be either hearing that dog barking or hearing the cat yelling,
- 9:07SPEAKER_01: because ever since we came home, the cat has been wandering around the house.
- 9:13SPEAKER_01: I think I think objecting to us having abandoned her for a week.
- 9:17SPEAKER_00: Oh, but.
- 9:21SPEAKER_01: Bennington, lovely town, beautiful town.
- 9:25SPEAKER_01: Robert Frost is buried there, which I didn't even know.
- 9:28SPEAKER_01: There is a Bennington Battle Memorial in Bennington,
- 9:32SPEAKER_01: Vermont,
- 9:33SPEAKER_01: which is a big, it's like the Washington Monument, but on a slightly smaller scale.
- 9:37SPEAKER_01: It's made out of limestone, which you can't go up, sadly, because it is poorly maintained.
- 9:46SPEAKER_01: But we were in the museum at the bottom and the guy there referenced,
- 9:50SPEAKER_01: oh, have you seen Robert Frost's grave?
- 9:53SPEAKER_01: I didn't know Robert Frost even had any connection to this place.
- 9:57SPEAKER_01: So we went and we found Robert Frost's grave in their old church and that was nice.
- 10:01SPEAKER_01: And then, you know, saw the graves of his many children who all died.
- 10:05SPEAKER_01: He had a very sad life.
- 10:08SPEAKER_01: Which I was only partially aware of.
- 10:11SPEAKER_01: All of his kids died except for two.
- 10:14SPEAKER_01: And two of his daughters lived.
- 10:18SPEAKER_01: And one of them he had to commit to an insane asylum.
- 10:21SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 10:23SPEAKER_01: So, but yeah, so that, but that was nice.
- 10:28SPEAKER_01: And then we went up to near Burlington, which is, you know, Bernie Sanders country.
- 10:32SPEAKER_01: And that was not nice.
- 10:34SPEAKER_01: I didn't, I didn't, I wasn't a fan of the Burlington area of Vermont.
- 10:37SPEAKER_01: That's, we should probably get it to Canada.
- 10:41SPEAKER_01: Okay.
- 10:42SPEAKER_01: It's basically part of Quebec anyway, why not?
- 10:46SPEAKER_00: Well, these are some takes for the mornings.
- 10:51SPEAKER_01: I just say Vermont would actually probably be a pretty solidly Republican state
- 10:54SPEAKER_01: if you got rid of Burlington.
- 10:56SPEAKER_01: I'm just putting that out there.
- 10:58SPEAKER_01: There are various things that we could do with a little land swapping
- 11:03SPEAKER_01: that could really solidify our national political situation.
- 11:09SPEAKER_00: I mean, we could give California to Mexico,
- 11:11SPEAKER_00: although I don't want to do that because I actually love California.
- 11:14SPEAKER_00: I just want all the Californians out of California.
- 11:18SPEAKER_01: And then I would never leave.
- 11:21SPEAKER_00: California is the best.
- 11:22SPEAKER_00: The California is the best place on Earth.
- 11:24SPEAKER_00: I just have to say it.
- 11:26SPEAKER_00: It also has the worst people on Earth.
- 11:28SPEAKER_01: The solutions to California cannot include getting there.
- 11:31SPEAKER_01: There are many places I think we could easily just get rid of.
- 11:34SPEAKER_01: California is not one of them.
- 11:36SPEAKER_01: California, I think we will be well positioned to split up into multiple, much smaller states.
- 11:42SPEAKER_01: But it's too it's a it's just too strategically important.
- 11:46SPEAKER_01: It's too it is too.
- 11:48SPEAKER_01: Honestly, it's just it's a very nice area.
- 11:50SPEAKER_01: Very beautiful.
- 11:52SPEAKER_01: We have to keep it for a variety of reasons,
- 11:54SPEAKER_01: but we need to find a way to kneecap its political power.
- 11:58SPEAKER_00: Everything you find in the entirety of America, you can find in California.
- 12:03SPEAKER_00: There's a little bit of it.
- 12:06SPEAKER_00: There's different coastlines that you'll only find.
- 12:10SPEAKER_00: It's so beautiful.
- 12:12SPEAKER_00: I love California.
- 12:13SPEAKER_00: Also the worst people.
- 12:15SPEAKER_01: I've had pizza in California, so I will say that everything you find is not...
- 12:19SPEAKER_01: They do not have everything that is...
- 12:21SPEAKER_00: I'm sure you could find really, really, really good pizza.
- 12:27SPEAKER_00: Not everything is better, but that's also a part of the people sucking, so.
- 12:32SPEAKER_01: Yeah, well, that's true.
- 12:34SPEAKER_00: I just mean, like, looks-wise and environment-wise.
- 12:39SPEAKER_01: Yes, it's a very pretty steak.
- 12:41SPEAKER_01: I don't think anyone can take that away from it.
- 12:43SPEAKER_01: And we've discussed before that I quite like Solvang, so.
- 12:47SPEAKER_00: Yes, I am starting to like the Northeast a little bit.
- 12:55SPEAKER_00: It's really funny.
- 12:56SPEAKER_00: Everyone's always like, oh, how do you like the drivers?
- 12:59SPEAKER_00: And everyone,
- 13:01SPEAKER_00: the first thing you say, like,
- 13:02SPEAKER_00: oh, we moved to Boston, everyone's like, oh, how are you dealing with the drivers?
- 13:06SPEAKER_01: And I'm like...
- 13:08SPEAKER_00: Here's the thing.
- 13:10SPEAKER_00: Maybe it's because this is where my family first came to.
- 13:14SPEAKER_00: I don't find the driving offensive at all.
- 13:16SPEAKER_00: I actually very much appreciate asshole drivers.
- 13:21SPEAKER_00: They are really creative.
- 13:24SPEAKER_00: Lanes don't mean anything.
- 13:26SPEAKER_00: You just kind of drive where you're going.
- 13:30SPEAKER_00: If you put your blinker on, they'll let you in.
- 13:33SPEAKER_00: Also, they will go around you if you stop at a red light.
- 13:38SPEAKER_00: People do because they want to just keep driving through.
- 13:42SPEAKER_00: It doesn't matter that there's a red light, but like they are fairly nice.
- 13:46SPEAKER_00: They're just really creative.
- 13:51SPEAKER_01: Yeah, that's fair.
- 13:52SPEAKER_01: It's aggressive driving.
- 13:55SPEAKER_00: Yeah, it's very aggressive, very weird driving, but I actually appreciate it.
- 13:59SPEAKER_00: And I do have to say maybe it's because I drive a very,
- 14:03SPEAKER_00: very large car with out of state plates like my car stands out.
- 14:08SPEAKER_00: People always let me in.
- 14:09SPEAKER_00: People haven't been rude.
- 14:11SPEAKER_00: I haven't been honked at aggressively anything.
- 14:15SPEAKER_00: I haven't honked at people.
- 14:17SPEAKER_00: I haven't had to yell at anyone.
- 14:19SPEAKER_01: People will be very forgiving of you if you have out-of-states plates.
- 14:23SPEAKER_01: However,
- 14:24SPEAKER_01: bear in mind,
- 14:25SPEAKER_01: you are much more likely to get pulled over if you have out-of-states plates in
- 14:28SPEAKER_01: the Northeast.
- 14:29SPEAKER_01: Because they...
- 14:32SPEAKER_01: They view you as being like, you know, basically, what are you going to do about it?
- 14:38SPEAKER_01: They could pull you over and give you a ticket.
- 14:40SPEAKER_01: You're not going to show up at the court to challenge a ticket.
- 14:44SPEAKER_01: So you're basically like, you know, you're a slot machine to them.
- 14:48SPEAKER_00: Except for in Boston,
- 14:52SPEAKER_00: where you have a college every other block and people from all over the country.
- 14:57SPEAKER_00: That's true.
- 14:58SPEAKER_00: Boston doesn't really have,
- 14:59SPEAKER_00: I mean, you see every license plate here because there's so many colleges.
- 15:04SPEAKER_00: So I would say, and that is why we're here.
- 15:08SPEAKER_00: Like, we're a perfect example of the type of people that are in Boston just for
- 15:14SPEAKER_00: a short time for an academic thing.
- 15:18SPEAKER_01: You even come to see Luke in his cassock.
- 15:21SPEAKER_01: I did.
- 15:23SPEAKER_01: It was quite dashing.
- 15:25SPEAKER_00: He's so cute in it.
- 15:27SPEAKER_00: I shouldn't say that.
- 15:27SPEAKER_00: That's like, really, that's not great, but he looks so cute in it.
- 15:34SPEAKER_01: Orthodox, you're allowed to be married.
- 15:35SPEAKER_01: You're allowed to like how he looks in it.
- 15:38SPEAKER_00: Oh, yeah.
- 15:41SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 15:44SPEAKER_01: His beard game is always very on point.
- 15:48SPEAKER_01: He takes way better from Terry's beard than I do.
- 15:50SPEAKER_00: He's a very stylish guy.
- 15:52SPEAKER_00: He's much more stylish than me.
- 15:54SPEAKER_00: He has really good clothes.
- 15:56SPEAKER_00: We both are very, like,
- 15:59SPEAKER_00: we try to be low-key about it, but both of us are actually really good dressers.
- 16:02SPEAKER_00: I mean, not you see me when I'm in t-shirts and sweats,
- 16:06SPEAKER_00: but, like, normally we're going out and things.
- 16:09SPEAKER_00: Like, we're both really good dressers.
- 16:11SPEAKER_00: We both are very into, like,
- 16:14SPEAKER_00: interior design and how our house looks and
- 16:18SPEAKER_01: I'm into that too,
- 16:19SPEAKER_01: but in a kind of weird bohemian way that involves having piles of stuff around.
- 16:24SPEAKER_01: Not exactly hoarder, but you know.
- 16:26SPEAKER_00: You saw my apartment,
- 16:28SPEAKER_00: like we have piles of stuff and we've only been here for a month and a half.
- 16:32SPEAKER_00: We've been here for a month and a half and this was all stuff
- 16:35SPEAKER_00: that like was basically bought for this apartment.
- 16:38SPEAKER_00: We have other houses full of just crap.
- 16:40SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 16:42SPEAKER_01: I will, I'll get down on myself because we don't like tidy as much as we should.
- 16:47SPEAKER_01: Our house tends to be a bit untidy of piles of things.
- 16:51SPEAKER_01: Our house is
- 16:52SPEAKER_00: lived in.
- 16:53SPEAKER_00: It's lived in.
- 16:54SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 16:54SPEAKER_00: It's messy.
- 16:55SPEAKER_00: It's just lived in.
- 16:57SPEAKER_01: I go visit some people's houses, and I'm like, ah, you know, actually, I'm not doing that bad.
- 17:02SPEAKER_01: Your house is not one of those.
- 17:03SPEAKER_01: Great, you haven't lived there very long, but your house was very well appointed.
- 17:07SPEAKER_01: It was a nice apartment.
- 17:08SPEAKER_01: I appreciate your complaint.
- 17:11SPEAKER_01: It is, I'm sure,
- 17:12SPEAKER_01: extraordinarily difficult to downsize from two full houses to spread out into
- 17:17SPEAKER_01: a small three-bedroom apartment.
- 17:21SPEAKER_01: But...
- 17:24SPEAKER_00: Yeah, like, it's actually a really cute apartment.
- 17:27SPEAKER_00: I like it.
- 17:28SPEAKER_00: It is just hard.
- 17:29SPEAKER_00: Like, I haven't lived in an apartment since I was,
- 17:34SPEAKER_00: let's see, I bought my first house when I was 27.
- 17:41SPEAKER_00: I actually forced Luke to marry me.
- 17:46SPEAKER_00: We were dating and, like, I knew it was going somewhere, but he was taking forever.
- 17:53SPEAKER_00: And this was like at the height of the subprime housing crisis.
- 17:59SPEAKER_00: And I was a bank lobbyist at the time.
- 18:02SPEAKER_00: I knew what was going on.
- 18:03SPEAKER_00: I knew that there were a ton of short sales.
- 18:05SPEAKER_00: And I bought a house like right outside Greeley.
- 18:09SPEAKER_00: And Greeley was one.
- 18:10SPEAKER_00: It was Greeley.
- 18:11SPEAKER_00: And then it was like Pinellas County in Florida or something where
- 18:14SPEAKER_00: the two like hot spots for subprime houses.
- 18:18SPEAKER_00: So I bought a house like before We were engaged, anything.
- 18:24SPEAKER_00: And I bought it up near where he lived, and he was like, well, I guess I have to marry you now.
- 18:30SPEAKER_00: It's clever.
- 18:31SPEAKER_00: He's like, you're kind of forcing my hand on this one.
- 18:35SPEAKER_01: Very subtle.
- 18:36SPEAKER_00: Oh, it was not subtle at all.
- 18:38SPEAKER_00: But we also didn't get together in a very subtle way.
- 18:41SPEAKER_00: I also forced him to start dating me in the first place.
- 18:45SPEAKER_01: You're an assertive lady.
- 18:47SPEAKER_01: I am.
- 18:47SPEAKER_01: Assertive, modern woman.
- 18:53SPEAKER_01: But yeah,
- 18:54SPEAKER_01: if people are wondering why we didn't record last week,
- 18:56SPEAKER_01: it was because we rarely stayed in the same hotel two nights in a row.
- 19:00SPEAKER_01: I think we actually only stayed in the same hotel two nights in a row once.
- 19:06SPEAKER_01: So we were just all over.
- 19:10SPEAKER_01: My one credit card gives me a free upgrade.
- 19:13SPEAKER_01: I get upgraded to IHG Platinum status on it.
- 19:18SPEAKER_01: So I was trying to stay at IHG properties because I could get a cheaper room.
- 19:21SPEAKER_01: They would give me a free upgrade.
- 19:23SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 19:39SPEAKER_01: By the end,
- 19:40SPEAKER_01: it was a full week of just trucking around New England,
- 19:43SPEAKER_01: going to different Holiday Inn properties.
- 19:45SPEAKER_01: And by the end of the week, I was like, I can't remember which hotel I'm in.
- 19:48SPEAKER_01: I'd get out of the elevator and be like, do I go left or right?
- 19:52SPEAKER_01: Which hotel is this?
- 19:55SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I don't always do well.
- 19:57SPEAKER_00: Like when I've done a lot of press tours,
- 20:00SPEAKER_00: a lot of press tours are like that,
- 20:02SPEAKER_00: where you stay in one hotel a night and you're moving quickly.
- 20:05SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 20:05SPEAKER_00: Every day.
- 20:06SPEAKER_00: And it's exhausting.
- 20:07SPEAKER_00: And people don't realize how tiring that is.
- 20:11SPEAKER_00: It's like its own job.
- 20:13SPEAKER_00: I can't do family vacations.
- 20:16SPEAKER_00: I say that.
- 20:17SPEAKER_00: But then thankfully, my husband will never listen to this.
- 20:21SPEAKER_00: I end up doing that for us because I'm always like, I'm all the way over here.
- 20:25SPEAKER_00: I have to see everything there is.
- 20:27SPEAKER_00: And my family's like, we could just like sit too.
- 20:31SPEAKER_00: That works.
- 20:32SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 20:33SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I'm my wife is like my wife wants to go truck around and see like,
- 20:39SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 20:40SPEAKER_01: she wants to go see all the things that we can in that entire general area.
- 20:45SPEAKER_01: My ideal is generally just find one place and just kind of ferret into it and really dig in.
- 20:50SPEAKER_01: Into what's available within that one small area.
- 20:55SPEAKER_01: But I also enjoy seeing lots of things.
- 20:59SPEAKER_01: We randomly went to Calvin Coolidge's birthplace.
- 21:04SPEAKER_01: I took a picture there, and it was one of the few pictures you've ever said.
- 21:06SPEAKER_01: You were like, oh, that was a really good picture, which I was surprised by.
- 21:12SPEAKER_01: Because normally you tell me my pictures all suck.
- 21:16SPEAKER_00: Well, I say it with love.
- 21:21SPEAKER_00: I don't say they suck.
- 21:23SPEAKER_00: I just try to give like helpful reframing.
- 21:28SPEAKER_01: You food
- 21:30SPEAKER_00: pictures do suck.
- 21:30SPEAKER_01: I will say that.
- 21:33SPEAKER_00: No, they really are not good.
- 21:37SPEAKER_00: Well, I've seen like, you make good food.
- 21:43SPEAKER_00: We just need to make it look better because the food that you make is actually really good.
- 21:49SPEAKER_00: We just need to work on your photo skills just a tiny bit.
- 21:53SPEAKER_01: My food photos, they have a charming homespun quality that I think people appreciate.
- 22:00SPEAKER_00: I am actually,
- 22:01SPEAKER_00: as an aside,
- 22:03SPEAKER_00: while I've been dying of the flu,
- 22:06SPEAKER_00: I have been sitting in bed working on a thing that I'm going to launch on my site.
- 22:13SPEAKER_00: Showing people how to take better pictures with their phones because it's actually really easy.
- 22:18SPEAKER_00: So, side plug for that,
- 22:20SPEAKER_00: I wasn't planning on saying that,
- 22:22SPEAKER_00: but hey, you know what I've been doing the last few days?
- 22:24SPEAKER_00: That.
- 22:26SPEAKER_00: You will have to be my test case.
- 22:29SPEAKER_00: See if we can get your pictures of potatoes to not look like potatoes.
- 22:33SPEAKER_00: No.
- 22:35SPEAKER_01: Yesterday, I...
- 22:36SPEAKER_00: I'm sorry.
- 22:37SPEAKER_00: I am taking a lot of cold medicine, so if this is really awful, I'm just... That is fine.
- 22:42SPEAKER_00: Sorry, everyone.
- 22:43SPEAKER_01: Yesterday I made for dinner what I termed to my family as Elevated Sloppy Joes.
- 22:50SPEAKER_01: Now, I used Manwich for this, which is, you know, I actually like Manwich.
- 22:54SPEAKER_01: No, that's fine.
- 22:55SPEAKER_00: I like the flavor better.
- 22:57SPEAKER_01: However, I had some russet potatoes needed to be used.
- 23:01SPEAKER_01: I was like, you know what?
- 23:02SPEAKER_01: I'm going to make potato bread buns.
- 23:05SPEAKER_01: So I made potato bread buns with it.
- 23:08SPEAKER_01: I chopped up, I had some mushrooms I needed to use.
- 23:13SPEAKER_01: Chopped up these mushrooms, put in some onion, and I made it before the ground beef.
- 23:20SPEAKER_01: So they were like elevated sloppy joes on homemade buns with manwich.
- 23:25SPEAKER_00: Okay, but you made homemade buns.
- 23:26SPEAKER_00: That's like actually impressive.
- 23:29SPEAKER_00: But the picture of the buns was not that great.
- 23:32SPEAKER_00: But they looked so good.
- 23:33SPEAKER_00: I was like, we just need a better picture to show.
- 23:37SPEAKER_00: I think that's awesome.
- 23:39SPEAKER_00: I have a food blog, and I am not someone who sits and makes homemade buns.
- 23:44SPEAKER_01: I think most of your issues with the photography, I think it comes down to lighting.
- 23:51SPEAKER_01: I don't have a lot of lighting.
- 23:53SPEAKER_00: That is absolutely false.
- 23:55SPEAKER_00: You have a table right next to the little greenhouse area.
- 24:00SPEAKER_00: All you have to do is put your food on that table and clear stuff off of it
- 24:04SPEAKER_00: and just set it right there and you have perfect, wonderful light.
- 24:08SPEAKER_01: Yeah, that's probably true.
- 24:09SPEAKER_01: Except that I'd have to take it towards the greenhouse and you'd see what
- 24:12SPEAKER_01: a god-awful mess our greenhouse is.
- 24:13SPEAKER_01: Our greenhouse is just a mess in there.
- 24:17SPEAKER_00: You don't see the background of it.
- 24:19SPEAKER_00: Take a picture from an angle that you don't see that.
- 24:22SPEAKER_01: That's true.
- 24:23SPEAKER_00: Nobody has to...
- 24:24SPEAKER_00: Like, the secret of food bloggers is that none of us have clean houses.
- 24:28SPEAKER_00: We just know how to turn our camera so that you don't see the crap behind it.
- 24:34SPEAKER_01: You have one little corner.
- 24:35SPEAKER_00: A good picture is just a nice, clear surface.
- 24:39SPEAKER_01: Or in your case, you'll have a...
- 24:43SPEAKER_01: You have a little tiny model kitchen thing you put things into.
- 24:47SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 24:48SPEAKER_01: So people don't see the mess of the actual kitchen because it's in this little model kitchen.
- 24:56SPEAKER_01: Yes, and it looks good.
- 24:58SPEAKER_01: It does.
- 25:00SPEAKER_00: If you're looking at a picture of something like, okay,
- 25:03SPEAKER_00: this is going to be so boring to listen to probably,
- 25:05SPEAKER_00: but if you're looking at a picture of something like, You want to see that thing.
- 25:09SPEAKER_00: Anything else that's in the picture is distracting you from it.
- 25:13SPEAKER_00: So if you have like little things like a towel or something, OK, fine, whatever.
- 25:18SPEAKER_00: But you just you want the thing to be the focus.
- 25:21SPEAKER_00: And a lot of times,
- 25:22SPEAKER_00: like not to pick on you and your pictures,
- 25:25SPEAKER_00: you show your countertop and there is a million things there because you live
- 25:29SPEAKER_00: in your house and you actually cook and you're actually using it.
- 25:32SPEAKER_00: It's not a judgment.
- 25:34SPEAKER_00: Just like, you don't need to show anyone that.
- 25:36SPEAKER_00: They're there to see this one thing.
- 25:38SPEAKER_00: Show them that, not like the mess behind it.
- 25:41SPEAKER_01: I do have a great love for going in pictures,
- 25:45SPEAKER_01: finding the things that weren't the focus so I can comment on them.
- 25:50SPEAKER_01: Like, you know,
- 25:53SPEAKER_01: if there's a bookshelf behind the person or something, like,
- 25:56SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 25:56SPEAKER_01: just zoom in on the book so you can find a book to be like,
- 25:59SPEAKER_01: oh, you're reading Twilight, I see.
- 26:04SPEAKER_00: So then you would think that you would compose a picture.
- 26:08SPEAKER_00: But this is the thing.
- 26:09SPEAKER_00: A lot of people just take a picture.
- 26:11SPEAKER_00: They don't take the two seconds to be like, oh, let me just move it to this clean area.
- 26:17SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 26:17SPEAKER_01: No, and that's me.
- 26:19SPEAKER_01: I'm just like, yeah, it's probably fine.
- 26:22SPEAKER_00: You are exactly who the course that I've been working on is for.
- 26:26SPEAKER_01: I think that course is a good idea.
- 26:29SPEAKER_01: I think it'll do well.
- 26:31SPEAKER_00: I don't know that it'll do well because I'm like 10 years too late.
- 26:35SPEAKER_00: But hey,
- 26:36SPEAKER_00: I do think there's a real opportunity for people on Twitter specifically,
- 26:43SPEAKER_00: maybe less Instagram and TikTok because people have kind of figured it out there,
- 26:47SPEAKER_00: but on Twitter to present things a little bit better.
- 26:53SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I think Twitter could do better.
- 26:55SPEAKER_01: I do not want Twitter to turn into or be like Instagram in any real way.
- 27:03SPEAKER_01: However,
- 27:04SPEAKER_00: I
- 27:08SPEAKER_01: do think that the photography element,
- 27:13SPEAKER_01: and that's Blue Sky, but a lot of people aren't on Blue Sky.
- 27:15SPEAKER_01: Blue Sky,
- 27:16SPEAKER_01: because I think Blue Sky is a lot of,
- 27:18SPEAKER_01: the users of Blue Sky tend to be Instagram people.
- 27:21SPEAKER_01: They do a lot of...
- 27:23SPEAKER_01: Like, nice photography.
- 27:25SPEAKER_01: And there really isn't that much on Twitter.
- 27:29SPEAKER_00: Threads, too.
- 27:30SPEAKER_00: But the thing is,
- 27:33SPEAKER_00: because things are getting flooded with AI,
- 27:36SPEAKER_00: and AI is always presented in a way that is a lot more palatable,
- 27:42SPEAKER_00: because the computer is sitting there making those calculations of,
- 27:45SPEAKER_00: like, how do I make it look a little bit nicer and a little bit more enticing?
- 27:49SPEAKER_00: Like, the computer is already rigged for that.
- 27:54SPEAKER_00: It's so easy for people to just do simple little things like take a picture
- 28:00SPEAKER_00: on two times with that lens.
- 28:07SPEAKER_00: Like take a picture 0.5 for certain things.
- 28:10SPEAKER_00: Like knowing lenses and tiny little things like that,
- 28:13SPEAKER_00: like how to crop out a background is all you have to do.
- 28:17SPEAKER_00: I don't know.
- 28:20SPEAKER_00: We just have to take the steps.
- 28:22SPEAKER_00: I personally...
- 28:24SPEAKER_00: And this is so boring to listen to,
- 28:27SPEAKER_00: I feel like,
- 28:27SPEAKER_00: but I'm personally in this weird thing where like with blogs,
- 28:32SPEAKER_00: we tried to make everything really, really, really pretty.
- 28:36SPEAKER_00: And now AI is making everything really pretty that a lot of people are going
- 28:41SPEAKER_00: for things that just look natural.
- 28:45SPEAKER_00: So things are looking worse,
- 28:48SPEAKER_00: but I think we can make things look natural and also pretty at the same time.
- 28:52SPEAKER_01: Well, like I said,
- 28:53SPEAKER_01: that's when we've discussed this before that I think that we're moving towards
- 28:57SPEAKER_01: a world where people are the monetizable thing is things that are palpably real
- 29:03SPEAKER_01: as opposed to heightened reality that has been the norm.
- 29:11SPEAKER_01: But that's like I said, I view the.
- 29:14SPEAKER_01: Sure, but if you're taking a picture of your buns, sorry, I'm a child.
- 29:44SPEAKER_00: I'm a child of giggling.
- 29:47SPEAKER_00: Of the rolls that you made,
- 29:50SPEAKER_00: you could set it in a better area so you're not getting that orange light
- 29:55SPEAKER_00: and you're getting a blue light.
- 29:57SPEAKER_00: And you could have shot it from the side so you could show how puffy it was.
- 30:01SPEAKER_01: Well, it doesn't help that- Or you could
- 30:03SPEAKER_00: cut one open and show it's really airy.
- 30:06SPEAKER_00: And then- It's still just as real.
- 30:09SPEAKER_00: You're just showcasing, like, the thing you made instead of, like, the area you're in.
- 30:15SPEAKER_01: For preference,
- 30:15SPEAKER_01: I always go for a—I try to have incandescent lights as much as possible,
- 30:21SPEAKER_01: and if not,
- 30:21SPEAKER_01: I try to get as close to incandescent lighting as possible because I hate blue light
- 30:27SPEAKER_01: with a passion.
- 30:28SPEAKER_01: I don't even like overhead lights.
- 30:30SPEAKER_01: I would have lamps everywhere.
- 30:31SPEAKER_00: Cosign a million percent.
- 30:33SPEAKER_00: I'm just saying turn off the lights.
- 30:36SPEAKER_00: And like for photography, you need natural light.
- 30:40SPEAKER_00: I have big stand lights and things.
- 30:42SPEAKER_00: I almost never use them.
- 30:43SPEAKER_00: I try to do all natural light as much as I can.
- 30:45SPEAKER_01: It's just better.
- 30:49SPEAKER_01: It's better for a picture.
- 30:51SPEAKER_01: You say people won't find this interesting.
- 30:52SPEAKER_01: I think people find it interesting.
- 30:54SPEAKER_01: People like to know how the, people actually like to know how the sausage is made on something.
- 30:59SPEAKER_00: Well, I hope they do because I'm going to sell it to them.
- 31:05SPEAKER_01: I hope it picks up and people are interested.
- 31:07SPEAKER_01: So like I said,
- 31:08SPEAKER_01: I do think that interesting photography is a niche that
- 31:14SPEAKER_01: because Twitter is intrinsically a very text based text and like,
- 31:19SPEAKER_01: you know, rapid fire meme based platform.
- 31:24SPEAKER_00: In the way that you use it, it is.
- 31:27SPEAKER_00: I do think there are other users who use it.
- 31:31SPEAKER_01: They're using it wrong.
- 31:32SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 31:32SPEAKER_00: With videos and photos.
- 31:35SPEAKER_00: Yeah, but I don't think that needs to be a they're using it wrong.
- 31:39SPEAKER_00: Why not take the things you're doing and make them even bigger and even more widely accepted?
- 31:47SPEAKER_00: Why not?
- 31:49SPEAKER_00: The thing I really like about Twitter and now that they're doing monetization
- 31:53SPEAKER_00: and they've changed how they're doing it is that people can,
- 31:59SPEAKER_00: you know, I like Additional opportunities for people to make money creating things.
- 32:06SPEAKER_00: And especially with AI coming about, like,
- 32:09SPEAKER_00: I just want people to do better so that we can have more opportunities
- 32:14SPEAKER_00: for more voices to get out there.
- 32:16SPEAKER_00: And I do think that Twitter is a good place that you can still create and put stuff out there.
- 32:25SPEAKER_00: And leveling up photography, just little tweaks would be great.
- 32:31SPEAKER_01: I use AI on a daily basis.
- 32:34SPEAKER_01: It is a good tool.
- 32:37SPEAKER_01: It's not a replacement for creativity.
- 32:39SPEAKER_01: But it's a tool.
- 32:55SPEAKER_00: It's a tool.
- 32:56SPEAKER_00: It's a great research tool.
- 32:58SPEAKER_00: It's a great format tool.
- 33:00SPEAKER_00: It's a good virtual assistant.
- 33:05SPEAKER_00: I want to be really careful in how I use AI to not reduce the output of humans
- 33:15SPEAKER_00: and use it on things that human creativity and input is better used
- 33:21SPEAKER_00: in different areas.
- 33:26SPEAKER_00: That I don't need a human to do.
- 33:29SPEAKER_01: It's a force multiplier, is the thing.
- 33:33SPEAKER_01: In the same way that the printing press was or any other,
- 33:38SPEAKER_01: the printing press radically changed how words were created and disseminated.
- 33:46SPEAKER_01: But at the same time, you still had to have useful words.
- 33:51SPEAKER_01: You had to know what you were doing when you were writing the words.
- 33:56SPEAKER_01: AI isn't going to replace anything that wasn't in need of being replaced.
- 34:04SPEAKER_01: Because you still have to have a person behind it who knows what they're doing
- 34:10SPEAKER_01: and knows how to ask and what the output should look like and all that.
- 34:16SPEAKER_00: So a quick random question.
- 34:18SPEAKER_00: And this is...
- 34:20SPEAKER_00: This is going to be the weirdest episode.
- 34:22SPEAKER_00: I'm so sorry.
- 34:23SPEAKER_00: This is so disjointed.
- 34:24SPEAKER_00: You just hopped up on
- 34:25SPEAKER_01: cold medicine.
- 34:26SPEAKER_01: It's fine.
- 34:27SPEAKER_00: No, I was chugging.
- 34:28SPEAKER_00: You just saw me finish.
- 34:30SPEAKER_00: I've been downing Alka-Seltzer flu as we're doing this.
- 34:34SPEAKER_00: I am definitely cold medicine high.
- 34:37SPEAKER_00: So again, apologies to everyone listening.
- 34:40SPEAKER_00: But we tried to do this.
- 34:42SPEAKER_00: But I think an interesting thing I've been kind of asking myself lately
- 34:47SPEAKER_00: and would be good to talk with you about since we both are wanting to start
- 34:55SPEAKER_00: a new website is where we think things like websites are going in the future.
- 35:02SPEAKER_00: I am going to be building out as a part of this if we ever actually launch,
- 35:09SPEAKER_00: which is kind of on me,
- 35:12SPEAKER_00: is building more of like a newsletter directly in through the website so
- 35:16SPEAKER_00: that people can get it to their inbox Like a Substack site as well as a website.
- 35:23SPEAKER_00: Trying to think of different ways like that.
- 35:25SPEAKER_00: Like, do we actually think that websites are even going to be around in the next 10 years?
- 35:31SPEAKER_00: Do we think there's a place for them?
- 35:34SPEAKER_00: We want to talk about travel.
- 35:36SPEAKER_00: And candidly, I sent you that itinerary.
- 35:41SPEAKER_00: I had clawed makeup.
- 35:43SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 35:45SPEAKER_00: Stuff like that is going to come for things like websites that talk about where to travel.
- 35:51SPEAKER_00: But I don't know that it takes away their use.
- 35:57SPEAKER_00: And I don't know that it takes away a reader's incentive to go to
- 36:01SPEAKER_00: a human versus just a computer.
- 36:03SPEAKER_00: But I'm just wondering what your thoughts on all
- 36:06SPEAKER_01: of that are.
- 36:07SPEAKER_01: So you, I don't think, you weren't a big internet nerd back in the 90s.
- 36:11SPEAKER_01: You were out, like, you know, having a social life.
- 36:15SPEAKER_00: What are you talking about?
- 36:16SPEAKER_00: Of course, I had like 15 live journals.
- 36:20SPEAKER_00: Come on, I had like Angel Fighter sites and like I had everything.
- 36:26SPEAKER_00: You think that I'm far cooler than I am.
- 36:29SPEAKER_00: I was a massive nerd.
- 36:31SPEAKER_01: If I had to project out about 10 years where I think the internet will be in
- 36:37SPEAKER_01: the world of AI,
- 36:39SPEAKER_01: I think that we will revert to something of the world of the 90s internet
- 36:47SPEAKER_01: where websites will be structured.
- 36:49SPEAKER_01: Do you remember WebRings?
- 36:56SPEAKER_00: Yes, we've talked about web rings way in the past, but we have.
- 37:01SPEAKER_01: I think that things will be structured similar to how web rings used to be,
- 37:04SPEAKER_01: because I think what will become important,
- 37:06SPEAKER_01: because people are going to use AI as a replacement for most of
- 37:11SPEAKER_01: the random searching they do on the internet now.
- 37:16SPEAKER_01: But...
- 37:17SPEAKER_01: People are still, again,
- 37:19SPEAKER_01: and this goes back to my saying,
- 37:21SPEAKER_01: I think people are going to be looking for the real.
- 37:23SPEAKER_01: I think you will likely have functionally like web rings or little communities
- 37:27SPEAKER_01: of websites that people follow because they're interested in the personality of
- 37:32SPEAKER_01: the person who is writing them.
- 37:36SPEAKER_01: Because, again,
- 37:38SPEAKER_01: actual legitimate personality is something that AI I don't think will ever be able
- 37:43SPEAKER_01: to replicate.
- 37:45SPEAKER_01: I mean, if you look at, like, 2001, Hal 9000 didn't have personality.
- 37:50SPEAKER_01: He just had a lot of power.
- 37:56SPEAKER_00: And a computer doesn't understand.
- 37:58SPEAKER_00: Like, I looked at the thing that I asked Claude to draw up as, like, an itinerary.
- 38:05SPEAKER_00: Two seconds looking at it, I was like, this isn't even realistic.
- 38:08SPEAKER_00: You need X, Y, and Z, and the timing for this is wrong.
- 38:12SPEAKER_00: And that's just stuff I know because I travel so much.
- 38:17SPEAKER_00: Computers aren't necessarily going to get some of that.
- 38:21SPEAKER_00: It still didn't nail down exactly what I wanted it to do.
- 38:24SPEAKER_00: But...
- 38:29SPEAKER_01: I think the internet will go back to being more of found communities.
- 38:35SPEAKER_01: There'll be larger found communities,
- 38:36SPEAKER_01: and they certainly were in the 90s,
- 38:38SPEAKER_01: because many more people are going to be on the internet.
- 38:40SPEAKER_01: But I think a lot of people will likely stop using the internet as much in general,
- 38:45SPEAKER_01: which might be a good thing.
- 38:48SPEAKER_01: I mean, for all people to talk about it,
- 38:51SPEAKER_01: a surprisingly few number of people actually are active on social media.
- 38:55SPEAKER_01: I mean, they Globally,
- 38:58SPEAKER_01: various social media things have millions and millions and millions of people
- 39:00SPEAKER_01: on them, but the world has 9 billion or whatever people in it.
- 39:05SPEAKER_01: Most people, even in America, aren't really that active.
- 39:08SPEAKER_01: They may have an account they don't use much.
- 39:11SPEAKER_01: And I think more people will go back to that.
- 39:14SPEAKER_00: I mean, I'll say some of that is generational, and it depends on what social media.
- 39:21SPEAKER_00: I don't think there's any social media that everyone is active on, right?
- 39:25SPEAKER_00: Like, I think People my parents' age are super, super active on Facebook.
- 39:32SPEAKER_00: Like most of my Facebook fans for Sweet Seas are very much boomers.
- 39:41SPEAKER_00: They also have dropped off a lot because they're very,
- 39:43SPEAKER_00: very pulled into AI in a way that's so,
- 39:47SPEAKER_00: so fascinating because my kids are the The time my kids see anything
- 39:52SPEAKER_00: that they think is even slightly artificial,
- 39:54SPEAKER_00: like if I edit a photo too much, my kids are like, it's AI, I'm out.
- 39:59SPEAKER_00: They send something artificial and they're like, nope, out of here.
- 40:04SPEAKER_00: But they grew up in a world where there's so much artificial,
- 40:08SPEAKER_00: whereas my parents grew up in a world where everything was really real.
- 40:12SPEAKER_00: Now the artificial is the draw to them.
- 40:15SPEAKER_00: And it's really interesting watching a lot of that play out online.
- 40:19SPEAKER_00: I think they will fizzle out of the artificial quickly.
- 40:24SPEAKER_00: But our kids are never into it because they've always had that.
- 40:29SPEAKER_01: When I say most people don't use social media, I don't mean they don't use it.
- 40:33SPEAKER_01: You mean like they're
- 40:35SPEAKER_00: not on it all day, every day?
- 40:36SPEAKER_00: Yeah, they're not power users.
- 40:38SPEAKER_01: They're at most on social media for, we'll say, an hour every day.
- 40:43SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 40:44SPEAKER_01: Like, you know,
- 40:44SPEAKER_01: in between something,
- 40:45SPEAKER_01: they'll open it up,
- 40:46SPEAKER_01: scroll through for a bit,
- 40:47SPEAKER_01: they're like, okay, now it's time for me to do my next thing.
- 40:51SPEAKER_01: And I think a lot of that will likely get eaten up by AI.
- 40:55SPEAKER_01: And likely take less time out of their day,
- 40:58SPEAKER_01: because they can just, like,
- 40:59SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 41:02SPEAKER_01: they can just open up the AI and ask them to explain what's going on
- 41:06SPEAKER_01: with this news story I saw a snippet about, rather than...
- 41:10SPEAKER_01: Rather than go to social media to try to suss it out.
- 41:16SPEAKER_01: But again, I think that the internet is always going to have a healthy number of people.
- 41:22SPEAKER_01: And I think like your kids,
- 41:23SPEAKER_01: a lot of the people will want to focus more on their individualized personalities of
- 41:29SPEAKER_01: the people that they are following.
- 41:31SPEAKER_01: Of the people who are making the content rather than, oh,
- 41:34SPEAKER_01: look at that beautifully staged photograph of the content because who knows
- 41:37SPEAKER_01: if that's real or not.
- 41:39SPEAKER_01: We're only, what,
- 41:40SPEAKER_01: like a year,
- 41:40SPEAKER_01: two years out from when AI,
- 41:42SPEAKER_01: you could tell something was AI because the background faces were all swirly and
- 41:47SPEAKER_01: the fingers were messed up.
- 41:50SPEAKER_01: And now it's just,
- 41:52SPEAKER_01: you kind of have to just know the vibe of AI photos to know that it's
- 41:58SPEAKER_01: an AI photo.
- 41:59SPEAKER_01: A lot of people don't have that.
- 42:02SPEAKER_01: They don't understand.
- 42:04SPEAKER_00: Same for AI writing.
- 42:07SPEAKER_00: There's a lot of subtle tells.
- 42:09SPEAKER_00: People talk about the M-dashes.
- 42:11SPEAKER_00: The M-dashes are one thing.
- 42:12SPEAKER_01: The AI's gotten better at the M-dashes.
- 42:14SPEAKER_01: The AI has clearly started removing the M-dashes.
- 42:18SPEAKER_00: Well, some people have told their AIs to never use an M-dash.
- 42:26SPEAKER_00: It's in some people's instructions for AI.
- 42:30SPEAKER_00: No, but it's also,
- 42:32SPEAKER_00: there are other tells,
- 42:34SPEAKER_00: like they'll always say,
- 42:35SPEAKER_00: so because I'm writing a lot of recipes,
- 42:38SPEAKER_00: I realize about recipe sites,
- 42:40SPEAKER_00: they'll say, oh,
- 42:42SPEAKER_00: this is the kind of recipe that feels like an extravagant dinner,
- 42:47SPEAKER_00: but really you just threw it.
- 42:48SPEAKER_00: It's the feels like, and there are certain things like they'll say, Um, it's a hug in a cup.
- 42:56SPEAKER_00: And I'm like that people don't talk.
- 42:59SPEAKER_00: That's there's a lot of AI like quirky things that are trying to be overly warm
- 43:04SPEAKER_00: and human that are just like clunky.
- 43:08SPEAKER_01: It tends to have, in writing styles, they all have weird vocal tics that make it clear.
- 43:18SPEAKER_01: Also, it's in the weird, it tends to format things oddly.
- 43:22SPEAKER_01: There's this habit that it'll have of kind of trying,
- 43:26SPEAKER_01: the way that it tries to circle back to previous ideas with it,
- 43:29SPEAKER_01: because it's always- It's
- 43:30SPEAKER_00: SEO writing.
- 43:31SPEAKER_00: It's SEO writing.
- 43:34SPEAKER_00: That's what I've been doing forever.
- 43:36SPEAKER_00: Like, if you read my site- If you read Sweet Seas, it reads AI.
- 43:41SPEAKER_00: It's not, but it reads it because- Because it's trained on that.
- 43:45SPEAKER_00: Well, no,
- 43:46SPEAKER_00: not just that,
- 43:47SPEAKER_00: but I mean, yeah,
- 43:49SPEAKER_00: they did train it on a lot of our sites, which really sucks for me and my income.
- 43:56SPEAKER_00: But I, for the last 10 years, have been writing things to take my voice out of it.
- 44:03SPEAKER_00: So- In my calculations, I was like, well, nobody cares what Courtney is doing.
- 44:08SPEAKER_00: No one cares about me.
- 44:09SPEAKER_00: They just want to know how to make X thing.
- 44:13SPEAKER_00: I took myself out of all of it and just made it very like,
- 44:17SPEAKER_00: if I'm a reader and I'm going to this site,
- 44:20SPEAKER_00: I want to know how to make pork tenderloin.
- 44:22SPEAKER_00: I don't care about this lady's life story.
- 44:24SPEAKER_00: I don't care about all those whatever cliche things.
- 44:27SPEAKER_00: I just want this information.
- 44:29SPEAKER_00: So I wrote to that.
- 44:31SPEAKER_00: Well, now AI comes in and you need personal stories.
- 44:35SPEAKER_00: You need all of that to signify that you are a human.
- 44:38SPEAKER_00: And I'm screwed because I look like a computer
- 44:42SPEAKER_00: because I've been out here just giving people actual information and none of
- 44:48SPEAKER_00: the personal side to it.
- 44:50SPEAKER_01: Well, so I think that what it...
- 44:54SPEAKER_01: If you read a lot of old journalism,
- 44:56SPEAKER_01: like old travel and correspondent journalism,
- 44:59SPEAKER_01: I think that that is where things will go.
- 45:02SPEAKER_01: And I think honestly, I think that that was better anyway.
- 45:04SPEAKER_01: Like if you read old PJ O'Rourke that pieces,
- 45:07SPEAKER_01: dispatches from his There was a travel journalist I used to love named Michael J.
- 45:14SPEAKER_01: Totten, who I have always somewhat aspired to be Michael J. Totten.
- 45:21SPEAKER_01: He would go off to various parts of the world.
- 45:27SPEAKER_01: And do these kind of deep dives with photographs of the local culture.
- 45:32SPEAKER_01: I remember he did one about Montenegro, which I loved.
- 45:35SPEAKER_01: He trucked around the Balkans for a bit.
- 45:37SPEAKER_01: He went to Montenegro.
- 45:38SPEAKER_01: He went to Albania and just looked around and then interviewed people.
- 45:43SPEAKER_01: And that, I think, is what people want.
- 45:50SPEAKER_00: I just...
- 45:54SPEAKER_00: I just bought these books for Luke for his birthday.
- 46:00SPEAKER_00: He's actually credited as being one of the first travel writers, like a modern travel writer.
- 46:07SPEAKER_00: Patrick Lee Firmer, have you ever read any of his works?
- 46:12SPEAKER_00: No.
- 46:13SPEAKER_00: I got this.
- 46:15SPEAKER_00: Mani is the peninsula in Greece that I am obsessed with.
- 46:19SPEAKER_00: My husband has never been.
- 46:22SPEAKER_00: I would move tomorrow to the Manning Peninsula if I could.
- 46:26SPEAKER_00: And I bought his anthology about his time in Manning and then also in Thessaloniki.
- 46:33SPEAKER_00: He was a British journalist who actually walked
- 46:39SPEAKER_00: from Britain, I mean,
- 46:41SPEAKER_00: took the train, you know, and then to, I think he went to Jerusalem and back.
- 46:47SPEAKER_00: And I specifically really, really love his...
- 46:51SPEAKER_00: Stories on Greece.
- 46:54SPEAKER_01: They're really beautiful.
- 46:55SPEAKER_00: Yeah, it's great.
- 46:57SPEAKER_00: I actually got the Folio Society print because I'm a book
- 47:01SPEAKER_01: nerd and I love Folio
- 47:02SPEAKER_00: Society prints.
- 47:03SPEAKER_00: They're so pretty.
- 47:05SPEAKER_00: I saw these in a bookstore in Edinburgh and they're actually really rare
- 47:09SPEAKER_00: and really hard to get, but his books are really easy to get on Amazon.
- 47:14SPEAKER_00: It's just these printings that were hard to find, but really, really beautiful.
- 47:18SPEAKER_00: It was very pretty.
- 47:20SPEAKER_00: Yes, and His writing is fantastic.
- 47:23SPEAKER_00: I think you would actually really enjoy it, but it's a more like personal account.
- 47:28SPEAKER_00: It's very travel blog feeling.
- 47:32SPEAKER_01: There's a book that I really like and I recommend that everyone read,
- 47:37SPEAKER_01: especially everyone who drives an electric car or is into the,
- 47:44SPEAKER_01: there's a book called Blood River.
- 47:45SPEAKER_01: I can't remember off the top, Patrick Butcher maybe.
- 47:49SPEAKER_01: It was written by a guy who, He,
- 47:52SPEAKER_01: I think in 2006,
- 47:54SPEAKER_01: he got appointed as the editor for the Africa Desk at the Times of London.
- 48:00SPEAKER_01: And he felt he didn't really know a lot about Africa.
- 48:03SPEAKER_01: He said, how can I learn about Africa?
- 48:04SPEAKER_01: I know.
- 48:05SPEAKER_01: I'll go follow the course that Stanley Livingston took across the African continent
- 48:12SPEAKER_01: through Congo.
- 48:12SPEAKER_01: And it's about his journey through the Congo and Following along
- 48:19SPEAKER_01: the Stanley Livingston's trail and about what just what,
- 48:24SPEAKER_01: like, you know, war-torn hellscape it is.
- 48:26SPEAKER_01: And also about how all the cobalt in your batteries gets mined by slave children.
- 48:32SPEAKER_00: Look, I'm fully aware that my EV is more harmful to the environment and society as a whole.
- 48:42SPEAKER_00: It's just a really cool car.
- 48:43SPEAKER_01: It is.
- 48:45SPEAKER_01: You saw the Ghostbusters thing, it was so fun.
- 48:50SPEAKER_00: And that's just for Halloween, it'll go away.
- 48:54SPEAKER_00: Like, I won't have Ghostbusters mode forever.
- 48:58SPEAKER_01: Before I had read that book,
- 48:59SPEAKER_01: I was kind of, I was, you know, whatever, whatever on a lot of these things.
- 49:06SPEAKER_01: After I read that, I was like, this is like, you know,
- 49:10SPEAKER_01: Scaling up batteries under the current technological paradigm is morally reprehensible.
- 49:17SPEAKER_01: Nuclear is 10 times better than anything that goes on with this stuff.
- 49:21SPEAKER_00: I would agree.
- 49:23SPEAKER_00: You're not going to get any pushback from me on that.
- 49:27SPEAKER_00: I just like a cool car.
- 49:30SPEAKER_00: I will say the one thing I do really appreciate about my EV,
- 49:35SPEAKER_00: and being from Colorado, it is important.
- 49:39SPEAKER_00: The only way that it's better environmentally is that it is really nice having
- 49:46SPEAKER_00: a car that's not putting off a ton of fumes.
- 49:52SPEAKER_01: Modern fuel mixtures actually don't put off that much fumes,
- 49:56SPEAKER_01: although you have to do things to them to stop it.
- 49:58SPEAKER_00: But they do impact ozone and things.
- 50:01SPEAKER_01: The ozone layer is fine.
- 50:04SPEAKER_01: Ozone is like the smog.
- 50:06SPEAKER_00: No, ozone layer.
- 50:08SPEAKER_00: The smog layer you get, which is really bad in places like Colorado and Salt Lake.
- 50:14SPEAKER_00: Salt Lake, the inversion is so bad all winter long.
- 50:17SPEAKER_00: If they all drove EVs, well,
- 50:18SPEAKER_00: one, they'd have no electricity because there's no grid that can withhold that.
- 50:23SPEAKER_00: But if they did all drive EVs, it would be a lot more pleasant.
- 50:27SPEAKER_00: So that's the one place that I'm like,
- 50:30SPEAKER_00: okay, there is something to not having emissions, especially in climates like that.
- 50:36SPEAKER_00: But also I can see that like the battery is actually so much more harmful
- 50:41SPEAKER_00: for society and for the environment.
- 50:45SPEAKER_00: And it's not sustainable and our grid can't withstand it.
- 50:48SPEAKER_00: So yeah, give us nukes.
- 50:51SPEAKER_00: I'm fully, you know, team nuclear.
- 50:54SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 50:56SPEAKER_00: I just also really like my cool car.
- 50:59SPEAKER_01: But that's with writing,
- 51:02SPEAKER_01: I think that it's that sort of like the more,
- 51:06SPEAKER_01: the kind that I tend to prefer, I think will likely be the thing going forward.
- 51:10SPEAKER_01: Now, maybe that's just me wish casting,
- 51:13SPEAKER_01: but the kind of digging into a topic or digging into a location and presenting it
- 51:19SPEAKER_01: with the individualized personality of the writer and through the prism
- 51:23SPEAKER_01: of their experience and style.
- 51:29SPEAKER_00: I think the way that we're going to go forward with AI replacing a lot
- 51:36SPEAKER_00: of creative endeavors is things that promote a community tied to it.
- 51:43SPEAKER_00: So I think writers that go and use me as an example, I have no community built with Sweet Seas.
- 51:51SPEAKER_00: There should be.
- 51:52SPEAKER_00: I mean, I have a lot of readers.
- 51:54SPEAKER_00: I have a huge email list.
- 51:55SPEAKER_00: I could write I need to find ways to tie a community into that.
- 52:00SPEAKER_00: But I think people are going to be a lot more invested going forward in things
- 52:07SPEAKER_00: where they feel like they have a place and they're considered and they have friends,
- 52:16SPEAKER_00: which is why one project that we have talked about working on in the future having
- 52:22SPEAKER_00: to do with travel and community is Um,
- 52:25SPEAKER_00: will be really enticing,
- 52:27SPEAKER_00: but I think that's going to,
- 52:29SPEAKER_00: I think it's going to go back to like,
- 52:31SPEAKER_00: like you said,
- 52:33SPEAKER_00: back in the old ages and think of,
- 52:36SPEAKER_00: you know, like angel fire and things were a way to get to know other people.
- 52:40SPEAKER_00: And it was a way to like grow a community.
- 52:42SPEAKER_00: It's going to be more of the, my space of occasion, um, connections that you make.
- 52:50SPEAKER_01: I think of the various internet social media style apps,
- 52:54SPEAKER_01: I think YouTube is actually the best for that in a lot of ways.
- 52:57SPEAKER_01: Because
- 53:00SPEAKER_01: for presenting and creating actualized personalities.
- 53:07SPEAKER_00: I think personalities, but not communities.
- 53:09SPEAKER_00: No, not communities.
- 53:11SPEAKER_00: The community aspect of it is not as strong.
- 53:13SPEAKER_01: I think Twitter is honestly the best for actually building communities.
- 53:17SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 53:20SPEAKER_01: It's just,
- 53:21SPEAKER_01: they have never successfully figured out how to, I mean,
- 53:27SPEAKER_01: monetizing to other platforms like YouTube off of Twitter,
- 53:31SPEAKER_01: I believe, is very difficult.
- 53:32SPEAKER_01: Some people have done it, like Red Steez has monetized over to Substack with it.
- 53:40SPEAKER_01: We plug away at this podcast, which isn't monetized, but it's nonetheless...
- 53:44SPEAKER_00: This is just for fun.
- 53:45SPEAKER_00: This is just because we like to hang out and talk to each other.
- 53:48SPEAKER_00: Like, honestly...
- 53:49SPEAKER_01: It's for fun, but also I think it's something of an extension of the
- 53:57SPEAKER_01: community.
- 53:58SPEAKER_01: Certainly,
- 53:58SPEAKER_01: I think the people of my followers who listen to this podcast do it
- 54:02SPEAKER_01: because they're curious to actually hear from me as opposed to the kusi.
- 54:07SPEAKER_01: And I'd assume you probably have some people from Sweet Seas who are curious.
- 54:12SPEAKER_01: Well, no, I don't know.
- 54:13SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 54:15SPEAKER_01: I know you advertise it on Sweet Seas.
- 54:19SPEAKER_00: I have a link.
- 54:20SPEAKER_00: Well, I have a link to it.
- 54:22SPEAKER_00: I don't know how many people,
- 54:24SPEAKER_00: but again,
- 54:24SPEAKER_00: this goes back to me writing my website for everyone and not for my people.
- 54:32SPEAKER_00: I don't know how many of my readers give a crap who I am.
- 54:37SPEAKER_00: I don't know that people are there for me.
- 54:40SPEAKER_00: I don't.
- 54:41SPEAKER_00: I'm convinced most of my followers don't even like me.
- 54:47SPEAKER_00: I get a lot of weird...
- 54:49SPEAKER_01: You still believe that no one likes you.
- 54:51SPEAKER_01: Like, you know, there are times...
- 54:53SPEAKER_00: I start from that
- 54:55SPEAKER_01: assumption.
- 54:56SPEAKER_01: You clearly decide, like, maybe Lee doesn't like me.
- 54:58SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, I don't know what I got.
- 55:01SPEAKER_00: I'm like...
- 55:04SPEAKER_01: I sure spent a lot of time talking to you for someone apparently I don't like.
- 55:08SPEAKER_01: Okay.
- 55:09SPEAKER_01: Anyways.
- 55:13SPEAKER_00: You know, there are things that you just can't get out of your mind from high school.
- 55:22SPEAKER_00: Everyone hates Courtney, just sticks with you forever.
- 55:25SPEAKER_00: No, I do think, I think it's going to be really cool to see where we go with a lot of this.
- 55:33SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I feel like we've been talking about nothing.
- 55:37SPEAKER_00: This is so Alka-Seltzer-y.
- 55:41SPEAKER_00: Influenced ramblings for me.
- 55:43SPEAKER_00: I apologize for the shifty nature of this one.
- 55:48SPEAKER_00: But I do think it'll be cool to see where we take some of the stuff
- 55:52SPEAKER_00: that we've talked about doing.
- 55:54SPEAKER_00: I think this podcast is great for me.
- 55:58SPEAKER_00: Even though we suck at promoting it, we're not doing it professionally.
- 56:03SPEAKER_00: We probably should be.
- 56:05SPEAKER_00: It's been good for me because it is another outlet.
- 56:09SPEAKER_00: And having to do this gets me to do other things that I have to do.
- 56:16SPEAKER_00: And that's what's important.
- 56:19SPEAKER_00: Yeah, like I'm someone who needs a lot of projects to keep myself going.
- 56:23SPEAKER_00: That doesn't really make sense because you would think like, oh, you're not busy.
- 56:28SPEAKER_00: You can get things done.
- 56:29SPEAKER_00: I need like a hundred things that I'm doing to actually want to do things.
- 56:35SPEAKER_00: I think you're kind of similar in that like, You need things that you're doing to do with her.
- 56:43SPEAKER_01: Yeah, although I'm very happy to just find a rut and hang out in it.
- 56:48SPEAKER_01: So I have never been someone who has a lot of internal drive.
- 56:53SPEAKER_01: That's just, that's been my, both my blessing and my curse.
- 56:57SPEAKER_01: Because on the one hand,
- 56:59SPEAKER_01: it makes me just,
- 57:01SPEAKER_01: as we've discussed before,
- 57:02SPEAKER_01: I'm generally just a happy and content person,
- 57:05SPEAKER_01: whatever I happen to find myself doing at any given moment.
- 57:08SPEAKER_01: But also, it's hard to be like, I should go do this thing that'll probably take work.
- 57:12SPEAKER_01: And I'm like, I'm happy here.
- 57:14SPEAKER_01: It's fine.
- 57:17SPEAKER_00: I'm really good at being like, yes, let's do this.
- 57:21SPEAKER_00: Let's get started.
- 57:22SPEAKER_00: Like, I'm a dreamer.
- 57:23SPEAKER_00: I'm not always a doer.
- 57:27SPEAKER_01: All right.
- 57:27SPEAKER_01: I think we got enough here.
- 57:30SPEAKER_01: We're good.
- 57:31SPEAKER_00: We've talked about absolutely nothing for an hour, so we're probably good now.
- 57:34SPEAKER_01: That's for the best sometimes.
- 57:36SPEAKER_01: All right.
- 57:36SPEAKER_00: I'm going to go take some more cold medicines.
- 57:41SPEAKER_01: I had thought about bringing up the video game studio Bioware closing,
- 57:46SPEAKER_01: but you'd be all cranky about discussing video games.
- 57:50SPEAKER_01: I have no idea what you're talking about.
- 57:54SPEAKER_01: You can discuss
- 57:55SPEAKER_00: it all you want.
- 57:56SPEAKER_00: You can discuss it all you want.
- 57:58SPEAKER_00: I'm just going to sit there like, I don't know what you're talking about.
- 58:02SPEAKER_00: Oh, is that that weird link you shared?
- 58:05SPEAKER_01: The video?
- 58:08SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 58:09SPEAKER_01: Yeah, that's one of the Bioware games.
- 58:13SPEAKER_00: Okay, you are spending all day doing stuff like that and have the audacity,
- 58:18SPEAKER_00: the audacity to question my love for Bravo TV.
- 58:23SPEAKER_01: Oh, I've never played that game.
- 58:25SPEAKER_01: I've actually never played a Bioware game.
- 58:27SPEAKER_01: There's a series called Mass Effect that people love,
- 58:30SPEAKER_01: and I would probably have liked it if I'd played it at the time.
- 58:33SPEAKER_01: I just was largely unaware of it.
- 58:35SPEAKER_01: So I have never played any of their games.
- 58:38SPEAKER_01: I'm just familiar with them because I know the video game world a bit.
- 58:46SPEAKER_00: Anyway.
- 58:46SPEAKER_00: Again, the shade I get for watching Real Housewives.
- 58:50SPEAKER_01: As you should.
- 58:51SPEAKER_01: Bye-bye.
- 58:51SPEAKER_01: Bye-bye.
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