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- 0:01Speaker 1: Wake your ass else. The breakfast Club is old.
- 0:04Speaker 2: Wait, got the breakfast Club Envy and Charlamagne the voice
- 0:08Speaker 2: of the culture.
- 0:09Speaker 1: Then I'm gona come in when this thing. See y'all different,
- 0:12Speaker 1: y'all the coature, it's different. You know what I'm saying,
- 0:13Speaker 1: Like y'all know what y'all talking. This is probably become
- 0:15Speaker 1: the most prominent form for hip.
- 0:17Speaker 3: Probably be here next to all of you guys. It's
- 0:20Speaker 3: really put it.
- 0:22Speaker 1: Put it in perspective.
- 0:23Speaker 4: The breakfast club bitches, wake up, good morning Usa yo.
- 0:29Speaker 5: Yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
- 0:31Speaker 5: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
- 0:33Speaker 5: yo yo yo yo yo yo.
- 0:34Speaker 6: Yo yo yo Charlamagne, the god piece to the planet
- 0:37Speaker 6: is Thursday. It's Thursday, and we got a special guest
- 0:42Speaker 6: host with us this morning.
- 0:43Speaker 1: Beusy baby, good morning, good morning, busy baby, what's up? Busy?
- 0:48Speaker 7: But I didn't have my little good morning y'all y'all
- 0:50Speaker 7: coordinated with the way y'all say good morning.
- 0:52Speaker 3: I was still working on my but good morning friends in.
- 0:55Speaker 4: Thirteen years, man, you know, you gotta have something. And
- 0:58Speaker 4: it came naturally too, it did. Yeah, that pause pause,
- 1:01Speaker 4: that was like the first thing we did when we
- 1:02Speaker 4: first opened the microphones thirteen years or you know what's crazy,
- 1:06Speaker 4: it's almost fourteen years. Almost fourteen years, yeah, December, I
- 1:09Speaker 4: think December second?
- 1:11Speaker 1: Was it something I'm not around. It's almost fourteen years now.
- 1:15Speaker 3: All the breakfast club is Sagittarius.
- 1:17Speaker 1: Yes like my wife, Yes, yeah, busy baby, tell them
- 1:22Speaker 1: where you're from? Baby?
- 1:23Speaker 3: Originally from Redding, PA. But I'm in Atlanta right now.
- 1:26Speaker 7: Spent a big section of my life in Columbia, South Carolina.
- 1:30Speaker 7: So shouts out to the eight O three you already know.
- 1:32Speaker 6: So we had an argument the other day on radio.
- 1:35Speaker 6: The outlets that's out there, not the reading outlets.
- 1:37Speaker 1: The other ones.
- 1:37Speaker 3: What do they call fair outlets?
- 1:40Speaker 6: T that begins with the T tanger that's everywhere? What
- 1:44Speaker 6: is it?
- 1:45Speaker 1: What do you call it? Is it tangent or tongue?
- 1:47Speaker 1: What did you call it?
- 1:48Speaker 4: Afo?
- 1:49Speaker 1: I called it tangent. You call it tanger or something.
- 1:52Speaker 3: I would say tangent.
- 1:54Speaker 8: That what it's.
- 1:57Speaker 5: Called.
- 1:57Speaker 1: The tank I called it, But you confuse me now now.
- 2:00Speaker 3: I think it is like the orange powder.
- 2:05Speaker 1: To tangi outlets tangent. I don't know outlets anyway.
- 2:09Speaker 6: Well, Jada, Pink and Smith will be joining us this morning. Man,
- 2:12Speaker 6: her book Worthy is out right now, we're gonna talk
- 2:15Speaker 6: to Jada Pinkett Smith.
- 2:16Speaker 4: I've been waiting to have this conversation simply because I
- 2:19Speaker 4: feel like people get caught up and reading the headlines,
- 2:21Speaker 4: but nobody's actually read the book.
- 2:23Speaker 1: And if you actually have.
- 2:24Speaker 4: Read the book, then you know it's a fantastic body
- 2:27Speaker 4: of work. And if you're if you haven't read the
- 2:28Speaker 4: book just based off the headlines, and you are really
- 2:31Speaker 4: missing uh, just just a great body of work, you know,
- 2:36Speaker 4: a great body of work, a person that is showing
- 2:38Speaker 4: their vulnerability and is on a path and a journey
- 2:42Speaker 4: to worthiness like we all are. If you've ever dealt
- 2:45Speaker 4: with any type of impositis syndrome in your life and
- 2:48Speaker 4: you're trying to get to a place of worthy, you
- 2:50Speaker 4: would really really enjoy her book.
- 2:51Speaker 1: That's right, But you gotta read it.
- 2:53Speaker 4: Not all you gonna care about the will Smith's in
- 2:54Speaker 4: the tupox and everything else.
- 2:56Speaker 6: So much more than that how many gym she's giving us.
- 2:58Speaker 6: We're gonna chop it up in a little bit. That
- 3:02Speaker 6: conversation we actually had yesterday was over an hour long.
- 3:04Speaker 6: That's why a lot of you guys seen the clip
- 3:06Speaker 6: that was floating around by her talking about lawsuit.
- 3:10Speaker 4: Oh, we put that clip out because that's what everybody
- 3:12Speaker 4: was talking about, at least, well at least on the
- 3:14Speaker 4: Nigga net of social media crack. You know, like, you
- 3:16Speaker 4: know what, let's be part of the algorithm that's been
- 3:19Speaker 4: part of it. Let's join in. And the TMZ was downstairs, yeah,
- 3:22Speaker 4: you know, stepping on our toes.
- 3:25Speaker 1: Yeah, a little bit.
- 3:26Speaker 7: Yeah, but the little image they pulled off her was
- 3:29Speaker 7: kind of familiar to the image that Tupac when he
- 3:32Speaker 7: was spitting at the camera. That's what I said, she
- 3:34Speaker 7: chatted her inner Tupac yesterday.
- 3:35Speaker 6: Yes, it's funny you said that. I put that in
- 3:37Speaker 6: the group chat yesterday. I had the picture waiting. All right,
- 3:39Speaker 6: but let's get the show cracking. When we come back
- 3:41Speaker 6: Front page News, Sessling figure Out will be joining us
- 3:43Speaker 6: and don't forget again. Next hour, Jada Pinkett Smith will
- 3:46Speaker 6: be here. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning morning everybody.
- 3:48Speaker 6: It's dj n V Charlamagne the God. We are the
- 3:51Speaker 6: Breakfast Club. We got Bzy Baby our guest co hosts. Yes,
- 3:54Speaker 6: and let's get in some Front page news.
- 3:57Speaker 8: Good morning, Test, Good morning, DJM, Good morning, b Zeke,
- 4:01Speaker 8: Good morning.
- 4:02Speaker 6: He said, I let's start off with some quick sports.
- 4:04Speaker 6: So Draymond Green has been suspended for five games, right,
- 4:08Speaker 6: he will miss out on seven hundred and sixty nine
- 4:10Speaker 6: thousand dollars in salary, and he's being fined twenty five
- 4:14Speaker 6: thousand dollars.
- 4:15Speaker 1: Damn.
- 4:16Speaker 4: I mean, I mean that's a lot. That is still
- 4:18Speaker 4: a lot of money. I thought he would get like
- 4:20Speaker 4: three to five though, Yeah, and Nasal suspending Rudy Gobert.
- 4:23Speaker 6: Now, Rudy got fined twenty five thousand, and Klay Thomas
- 4:26Speaker 6: got fined twenty five.
- 4:27Speaker 4: I don't know why Clay got fined anything, because Clay
- 4:30Speaker 4: is the one that you know that the dude was
- 4:31Speaker 4: tussling with and he ripped his jersey.
- 4:34Speaker 1: It don't look like Clay was instigating that situation to me.
- 4:37Speaker 6: And then football of Bengals take on the Ravens at
- 4:39Speaker 6: eight point fifteen.
- 4:41Speaker 1: Now, what are we starting off with? Tis?
- 4:44Speaker 8: We're gonna start off with the Breonna Taylor for those
- 4:46Speaker 8: that don't know, the jury started deliberating on that case
- 4:50Speaker 8: on Monday in the federal trial, a former Louisville police
- 4:53Speaker 8: officer who was accused of violating Browonda Taylor's rights by
- 4:56Speaker 8: opening fire on her apartment the night she was killed
- 4:59Speaker 8: in the botch.
- 5:00Speaker 9: Take a listen to the report.
- 5:02Speaker 10: The jury in this federal case went home for the night,
- 5:05Speaker 10: and after three days there is still no verdict. Now,
- 5:08Speaker 10: this is a much longer deliberation process compared to last
- 5:12Speaker 10: year's state trial against Brett Hankinson, when it took jurors
- 5:16Speaker 10: only three hours to acquit the former detective. Now this
- 5:20Speaker 10: jury is deciding whether Hankerson is guilty or not guilty
- 5:24Speaker 10: on two counts of civil rights violations for blindly firing
- 5:28Speaker 10: ten shots into Breonna Taylor's apartment during a police raid
- 5:32Speaker 10: in March of twenty twenty.
- 5:35Speaker 1: I mean, they should definitely win that civil rights case,
- 5:37Speaker 1: right I would think, so.
- 5:38Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, we're hoping so, you know, and again, just
- 5:41Speaker 8: as reminded as we heard the report, he was found
- 5:44Speaker 8: not guilty on the state side, so the federal the
- 5:47Speaker 8: federal side decided to take up these charges. So hoping
- 5:49Speaker 8: for you know, him to be found guilty in that
- 5:53Speaker 8: and they must be able to prove that he had
- 5:54Speaker 8: a sens of force and put innocent lives at risk
- 5:57Speaker 8: where a pregnant woman, her spouse and children were sleeping vio,
- 6:00Speaker 8: violating their constitutional rights. And to return a guilty verdict,
- 6:03Speaker 8: the jury must agree that he deprived the people in
- 6:07Speaker 8: both apartments of their constitutional rights and that he acted willfully. Uh.
- 6:11Speaker 8: They also are deciding if he used a dangerous weapon
- 6:13Speaker 8: and attempted to kill.
- 6:15Speaker 4: So it's created that they have to determine excessive force, right,
- 6:19Speaker 4: and whether or not he used a dangerous weapon or
- 6:21Speaker 4: gun is not a dangerous weapon.
- 6:22Speaker 1: It's like somebody dies, Yeah, what we're talking about.
- 6:26Speaker 8: And it's a good sign that well they say it's
- 6:28Speaker 8: a good scient typically a good sign when the jury,
- 6:30Speaker 8: you know, it's still deliberating in today, you know, three
- 6:33Speaker 8: or four, So hopefully we can get some news on
- 6:36Speaker 8: that by the end of the week. But you know,
- 6:38Speaker 8: to stay there as long as it takes for them
- 6:40Speaker 8: to argue and you know, sort through all the evidence
- 6:42Speaker 8: and hopefully return back a guilty a guilty bird verdict
- 6:45Speaker 8: for their family.
- 6:46Speaker 1: That's right, all right?
- 6:47Speaker 6: Well that is front page you new stak you taz
- 6:50Speaker 6: absolutely and let me shout out to one about our produces,
- 6:53Speaker 6: simm of Samantha, I know we have an extra minute
- 6:55Speaker 6: I just want to salute to her. Today is her
- 6:57Speaker 6: two year anniversary of being cancer free. That is very,
- 7:02Speaker 6: very dope. I want to salute to sim Simmer Samantha.
- 7:05Speaker 1: Look at God. God is good. Who the God? All
- 7:08Speaker 1: praise to do to God God.
- 7:10Speaker 6: Yes, absolutely drop a bomb for her to that court,
- 7:12Speaker 6: that fight, in that role that she took to. So
- 7:15Speaker 6: salute to her for everybody else. All right, get it
- 7:17Speaker 6: off your chest eight hundred five eight five one oh
- 7:19Speaker 6: five one. If you need to vent, phone lines of
- 7:21Speaker 6: wide open again. Eight hundred five eight five one oh
- 7:25Speaker 6: five one. Get it off your chest, call us up
- 7:27Speaker 6: right now. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club.
- 7:34Speaker 1: It's a new thing. Is it your time to get
- 7:36Speaker 1: it off your chest? Way, whether you're mad or.
- 7:39Speaker 6: Blessed something, get up and get something.
- 7:41Speaker 1: Call up now. Eight hundred five eight five one o
- 7:44Speaker 1: five one. We want to hear from you on the
- 7:45Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Hello, who's this morning?
- 7:49Speaker 5: Morning? Guys? Just walking from Toronto?
- 7:51Speaker 1: Hey, walking from Toronto. Get it off your chest. Brother.
- 7:53Speaker 11: I just want to say, it's much more easier to
- 7:55Speaker 11: pretty negative energy.
- 7:56Speaker 1: That's positive energy, Yes it is.
- 7:58Speaker 5: And think book is an awesome read.
- 8:01Speaker 1: Yes it is man.
- 8:03Speaker 5: I cried in it, I laughed in it, and I
- 8:06Speaker 5: feel her pain.
- 8:06Speaker 11: And I just want to say kneeling interges her and
- 8:09Speaker 11: her family.
- 8:10Speaker 5: And I just want to say, you guys keep doing
- 8:12Speaker 5: a good job.
- 8:13Speaker 12: Well.
- 8:13Speaker 4: I can't wait till you hear the conversation that we
- 8:15Speaker 4: had next hour, because you know, one of the things
- 8:18Speaker 4: as soon as you read the book, the first thing
- 8:19Speaker 4: you say to yourself is everybody's having the wrong conversations.
- 8:22Speaker 1: Hello, who's his?
- 8:26Speaker 12: My?
- 8:27Speaker 1: My baby? Did I say that right? Get there? All right?
- 8:31Speaker 1: Get it off your chest? You're sure.
- 8:33Speaker 11: I just wanted to ask you, man, how you feeling
- 8:35Speaker 11: this morning?
- 8:35Speaker 1: Blessed Black and Holly Favorite? Sir? How you? Yes, sir?
- 8:38Speaker 11: Back Blessed and Holly Favorite, And good morning to that
- 8:43Speaker 11: co host.
- 8:44Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 8:44Speaker 7: Busy baby, easy baby, if you say my name, three thousand,
- 8:48Speaker 7: show up?
- 8:48Speaker 3: Good morning, Oh.
- 8:49Speaker 1: Beauty, Hey, good morning.
- 8:52Speaker 5: I just want to ask you do your family, yes, sir?
- 8:55Speaker 5: When there?
- 8:56Speaker 13: Because you ask her please? What did she say to
- 8:59Speaker 13: him to make get up?
- 9:01Speaker 6: To make him get up during the oscars?
- 9:03Speaker 5: Slept?
- 9:04Speaker 13: Yeah on the option night?
- 9:05Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 9:05Speaker 1: Yeah, she didn't say, you know, react, she didn't say
- 9:08Speaker 1: nothing to him. We all seen the video.
- 9:10Speaker 13: She had to say something when that camera cut away.
- 9:11Speaker 1: No, she ain't say nothing to him, nothing at all.
- 9:14Speaker 1: That was all that was all on Will.
- 9:16Speaker 13: That was a reaction from that, the spirit of pocket
- 9:20Speaker 13: and that mat.
- 9:22Speaker 1: Okay, goodbye man. Read the book, man, goodbye man.
- 9:25Speaker 4: I'm telling you, I could tell who has read the book,
- 9:27Speaker 4: and I could tell who has read the headlines. If
- 9:29Speaker 4: you read the headlines, I understand exactly why you feel
- 9:32Speaker 4: the way you do. But when you read the book
- 9:33Speaker 4: in context, I guarantee you have a different perspective.
- 9:36Speaker 1: Hello, who's this? Hello? Hey, Leon, get it off your chest, Mama.
- 9:42Speaker 14: I just wanted to talk about the fact that I
- 9:45Speaker 14: feel like the heal from my past drama.
- 9:48Speaker 1: You said, what say that again?
- 9:49Speaker 12: Mama?
- 9:49Speaker 9: Got us women, the heal from my past trauma.
- 9:53Speaker 3: Amen, you ain't lying. Why you say that.
- 9:55Speaker 15: Though, because I'm honestly messing up such a great relationship
- 10:00Speaker 15: that I have because.
- 10:01Speaker 9: Of my past trauma and my own insecurities in the cause.
- 10:05Speaker 15: And I really realize this is for us to heal,
- 10:09Speaker 15: because we are such a thing that don't come by
- 10:12Speaker 15: forton anymore.
- 10:13Speaker 1: You need to be here next hour with us. As
- 10:16Speaker 1: we talked to Jada Pinkett Smith.
- 10:17Speaker 4: That is absolutely positively the conversation. You cannot love somebody
- 10:23Speaker 4: until you truly love yourself, and you cannot be happy
- 10:25Speaker 4: with somebody until you are truly happy with yourself.
- 10:28Speaker 1: That's right.
- 10:29Speaker 7: And and and I think part one of this is
- 10:31Speaker 7: you know it. So now that you know, I got
- 10:34Speaker 7: an issh, I gotta unpack. You can let him know
- 10:37Speaker 7: so that y'all can try to get through this space together.
- 10:39Speaker 7: Hopefully you don't ruin a good thing.
- 10:41Speaker 6: Absolutely, get it off your chest. Eight hundred and five
- 10:44Speaker 6: eight five one oh five one. If you need to vent,
- 10:46Speaker 6: phone lines to wide open. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning,
- 10:48Speaker 6: the Breakfast.
- 10:49Speaker 5: Club, right right right, yo, Charla Maya, what are we lying?
- 10:57Speaker 1: This is your time to get it off your chest.
- 10:59Speaker 5: I gotta end to a pool, to a pool.
- 11:02Speaker 1: We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club.
- 11:03Speaker 5: Get on the phone right now here, tell you what.
- 11:05Speaker 16: It is we live.
- 11:08Speaker 1: Hello? Who's this yo? This ship from Jersey, from Jersey.
- 11:12Speaker 1: We're part of Jersey.
- 11:13Speaker 6: Uh over there by the Brunswick, Gary, okay, Brunswick, all right.
- 11:16Speaker 6: You ain't want to say the area. You just wanna
- 11:18Speaker 6: say over there by the Brunswick Gary. I ain't, man,
- 11:21Speaker 6: get it off your chest, brother, and man.
- 11:23Speaker 13: These these are these pinksters over here in Walmart getting
- 11:27Speaker 13: out of control and I don't have to punch somebody
- 11:29Speaker 13: at the Mount Flat week.
- 11:31Speaker 1: Okay, congratulations, what happened?
- 11:33Speaker 8: Yeah?
- 11:34Speaker 13: Man, two of these guys come in here if one
- 11:37Speaker 13: of them asked me a question, and another few come
- 11:39Speaker 13: from behind and try and take my pants down. Luckily
- 11:43Speaker 13: I got a fellow on I turned around. Since the
- 11:46Speaker 13: night of the morning, I don't know what's going on
- 11:48Speaker 13: around here.
- 11:49Speaker 4: Yeah, he lucky he didn't get shot, because that's a
- 11:52Speaker 4: bit much. Now that's actually kind of.
- 11:56Speaker 5: Yeah, well there's the prank prank.
- 12:00Speaker 6: That's when you just gotta prank him back. You just
- 12:01Speaker 6: gotta grab and stop humping them and then just they'll
- 12:03Speaker 6: be off of you.
- 12:03Speaker 1: Now you're gonna get it.
- 12:06Speaker 13: Man, that's videos viral. That videos viral that messed me.
- 12:09Speaker 1: Up, you know. Yeah, but they gotta stop with the
- 12:11Speaker 1: pranks taking jib yep. By the way, the joke's gonna
- 12:14Speaker 1: be on you.
- 12:14Speaker 4: If you're a man who wants up on another man
- 12:16Speaker 4: tried to pull their pants down and then you get
- 12:17Speaker 4: charged with sexual assault, you know what I mean, You're
- 12:19Speaker 4: gonna have that mup shot forever, and that's gonna be
- 12:22Speaker 4: the story. You tried to sexually assault the man in Walmart.
- 12:25Speaker 4: You sexually assaulted a man in Walmart. They were sexual assault.
- 12:28Speaker 4: There's certain things you can't do right. You can't go
- 12:30Speaker 4: to certain daycad school. Imagine having to registered as a
- 12:34Speaker 4: sex offender because you sexually assaulted a man in Walmarts.
- 12:38Speaker 1: That's right. And then when you go to prison, somebody's
- 12:40Speaker 1: gonna prank your ass. Damn it.
- 12:41Speaker 6: Man, Okay, hello, who's this man in Michigan?
- 12:46Speaker 5: Man?
- 12:46Speaker 1: How you doing without?
- 12:47Speaker 12: Do?
- 12:47Speaker 1: Get it off your chest?
- 12:48Speaker 5: Man? I just want to get off my chest.
- 12:50Speaker 6: Man.
- 12:50Speaker 5: All these women stop bashing these women that want to
- 12:53Speaker 5: be married, man, that want to hold down They man
- 12:55Speaker 5: want to submit to the man. They' not pick me.
- 12:58Speaker 1: They not know that that.
- 12:59Speaker 5: This is women that understand what righte is and what
- 13:02Speaker 5: love is and what beautiful thing is man and these
- 13:05Speaker 5: better women. Man, he didn't fire somebody or get less
- 13:09Speaker 5: lonely with a dog dying the law in the world
- 13:11Speaker 5: of Kevin Simms.
- 13:12Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, Amen, He I mean he mad,
- 13:16Speaker 3: he got a right to be mad about that.
- 13:18Speaker 5: I've been married. I've been married twelve years now. Man,
- 13:21Speaker 5: it's been beautiful out and it's like I'm looking online
- 13:24Speaker 5: everybody trying to explain to you how to be in
- 13:26Speaker 5: a relationship, what a relationships supposed to be, what love
- 13:29Speaker 5: is supposed to be like, and women mad at women
- 13:31Speaker 5: that want to these good women and men. You know
- 13:33Speaker 5: what I'm saying, that what we need in our community,
- 13:36Speaker 5: but we lack in our community. People mad at that.
- 13:39Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, like, Man, give these women
- 13:40Speaker 5: that breaks, man, get married, half a family, ways or something. Man,
- 13:44Speaker 5: Get it out of the community, or get our community
- 13:46Speaker 5: in the better spot. Man, could it start with family?
- 13:49Speaker 4: They're only mad, miserable, that's really what they want. They
- 13:52Speaker 4: want with those ladies. Those ladies have Charla.
- 13:56Speaker 5: Man, I've seen a real Instagram a woman at her
- 14:00Speaker 5: at her wedding day. But she got on her knees
- 14:02Speaker 5: that I promise for her husband. Well everything she gonna
- 14:05Speaker 5: beat to him.
- 14:06Speaker 1: Man.
- 14:06Speaker 5: The comments section wit crazy woman was mad. Man. I
- 14:10Speaker 5: was like, damn, get you a man that's worth that,
- 14:14Speaker 5: don't we hate? Just hit somebody that's.
- 14:16Speaker 1: Worth that's real.
- 14:19Speaker 5: Brothers, all I want to stay brother, get it.
- 14:21Speaker 1: Off your chest eight undrink five eighty five one O
- 14:24Speaker 1: five one. If you need the vent, you can hit
- 14:25Speaker 1: this up.
- 14:25Speaker 6: We have Beusy Baby here. She's our guest co hosts.
- 14:28Speaker 6: We got rooms on the way and give us a
- 14:29Speaker 6: little Tea's what we dude.
- 14:30Speaker 7: It looks like Tiger Woods may officially be getting cleared
- 14:33Speaker 7: after his ex admit she was never the victim of
- 14:36Speaker 7: sexual abuse by him, So we got that coming up. Also,
- 14:38Speaker 7: gonna talk about the baby and whether or not he
- 14:40Speaker 7: regrets those homophobic comments with t I is doing good
- 14:43Speaker 7: in the.
- 14:44Speaker 1: Hood and I just a little bit.
- 14:45Speaker 3: We got a lot, this a little bit. Look, I
- 14:46Speaker 3: want to tell him more. I'm excited.
- 14:48Speaker 6: We're doing when we come back. Good Jesus, Yes right,
- 14:50Speaker 6: we'll do when we come back, So don't move. It's
- 14:51Speaker 6: the Breakfast Club. Good morning, hey friend, the Breakfast Club,
- 14:56Speaker 6: Good morning. Everybody is DJ NV Charlamagne the guy. We
- 15:00Speaker 6: are to Breakfast Club. We got our special guest co host,
- 15:02Speaker 6: Beansy Baby with us and let's jump right into the rooms.
- 15:06Speaker 3: If you say my name, be Baby, It's about.
- 15:12Speaker 16: You can't be mad when people don't understand your dream
- 15:15Speaker 16: because God didn't live the Near Vision.
- 15:17Speaker 3: Good morning, here's juice. All right.
- 15:21Speaker 7: So, by now most of us have heard that Keiki
- 15:23Speaker 7: Parmer was temporarily granted custody of her son, and she
- 15:26Speaker 7: also got the restraining order against her son's father, Darius Jackson.
- 15:30Speaker 7: Well the finaling caused accused Darius of being mentally and
- 15:33Speaker 7: physically abusive. We saw the pictures. Since then, she and
- 15:37Speaker 7: Darius's families have been going back and forth and it
- 15:39Speaker 7: has been all over social media. There is some new
- 15:42Speaker 7: audio of Keiki's mama sharing cussing Darius out.
- 15:46Speaker 3: Check this out.
- 15:50Speaker 12: I'm sure that's what you raised.
- 16:00Speaker 5: That's what you raised.
- 16:04Speaker 13: Okay, I'm sure.
- 16:10Speaker 12: All right, So about got bullet again? Okay, okay, okay, yeah, problem.
- 16:24Speaker 1: Talk about my daughter. You're gonna ross my daughter.
- 16:28Speaker 5: I'm to.
- 16:40Speaker 12: Tell her put some kong.
- 16:41Speaker 1: I should get a shot. Yeah, I'm not.
- 16:43Speaker 4: I'm not even acknowledging that. I really don't even want
- 16:45Speaker 4: to hear any of this, like, because nothing is private anymore.
- 16:48Speaker 4: We don't need all this transparency. And who recorded this, Yeah,
- 16:51Speaker 4: I don't know.
- 16:52Speaker 7: But the conversation went from the conversation she was having
- 16:54Speaker 7: with him to a conversation where she was talking about
- 16:57Speaker 7: his family. Now, not only is Ushergan dragons who, but
- 17:00Speaker 7: his family got dragged into it.
- 17:01Speaker 3: Check it out.
- 17:02Speaker 1: You ain't.
- 17:07Speaker 8: Immigrants.
- 17:10Speaker 12: They have nothing to do with this. They have nothing
- 17:13Speaker 12: to do with this. They have nothing to do with this.
- 17:20Speaker 17: Wow and harassed women. But dad, mom crazy. We never
- 17:30Speaker 17: been able to do anything with her. I don't know
- 17:32Speaker 17: why my son staying with her, but yeah, she's crazy.
- 17:36Speaker 17: And if Barrius is listening.
- 17:37Speaker 6: To her, he used to be a shame of himself.
- 17:39Speaker 9: That was your damn grandmama told me.
- 17:42Speaker 17: Your grandma told me, your mama looks crazy.
- 17:45Speaker 6: And then if you want to listen to your mama.
- 17:47Speaker 4: She's so you If grandma said the case whoever recorded
- 17:53Speaker 4: this seems like they was trying to make Kikey's mom
- 17:55Speaker 4: look crazy. Correct, but it doesn't make her look crazy.
- 17:57Speaker 4: It makes her sound the way you would think a
- 17:59Speaker 4: mother would sound. She felt someone hurt her child. If
- 18:02Speaker 4: you allegedly hurt someone's child, that's exactly how anybody react.
- 18:04Speaker 4: You gonna get invited to private parts. Yeah, she might
- 18:07Speaker 4: say she's gonna kill you. Your whole family trash.
- 18:09Speaker 7: Yes, I'm gonna I'm gonna jump out on a limit.
- 18:11Speaker 7: I'm a mother of four daughters. It would have been
- 18:15Speaker 7: way worse.
- 18:16Speaker 1: By the way, busy as you are a convicted feller, I.
- 18:20Speaker 3: Am a convicted fellow. So I understand that's right here.
- 18:22Speaker 3: I'm empathetic.
- 18:24Speaker 1: I get it.
- 18:27Speaker 18: Now.
- 18:27Speaker 6: That's her daughter, Like, how do you want to react,
- 18:30Speaker 6: that's her daughter. Somebody hurt her daughter, somebody disrespected her daughter. Yeah,
- 18:33Speaker 6: how would you want a mom to react?
- 18:34Speaker 7: Well, we know how Kiki reacted because we got audio
- 18:38Speaker 7: over her talking to Darius.
- 18:39Speaker 3: Check it out that because you're nuts.
- 18:41Speaker 19: There's no reason for you to say, hey, a Jezebel
- 18:44Speaker 19: calling me Haiti. That's all necessary. You do all of
- 18:47Speaker 19: that unnecessarily because something's wrong with your mind.
- 18:50Speaker 20: It's not normal.
- 18:51Speaker 19: You sound like you have a broken brain and you
- 18:53Speaker 19: need to go to see somebody because you're chemically imbalanced.
- 18:56Speaker 19: There's nothing that I've done for you to stay on
- 18:58Speaker 19: that page. People haven't threw a more. I've enduring more
- 19:01Speaker 19: from you, and I don't do that to you. I
- 19:02Speaker 19: don't sit up there and call you all times and
- 19:04Speaker 19: names and do stuff like that. You randomly have an
- 19:07Speaker 19: episode and then you harassment.
- 19:09Speaker 1: For an hour straight.
- 19:11Speaker 4: That's the shots one't necessary at all. If I'm Musha,
- 19:13Speaker 4: I'm never speaking to the Palmer family ever again.
- 19:16Speaker 3: You know, Geeky was really watered down compared to Mama.
- 19:20Speaker 1: Yeah, you're supposed to shut mama down like that, because
- 19:23Speaker 1: what did that?
- 19:24Speaker 6: My mother was someone My mom was someone raised, and
- 19:27Speaker 6: they didn't know that the phone call was being taped,
- 19:29Speaker 6: so they just they think they're talking in family. She
- 19:31Speaker 6: bought me talking.
- 19:33Speaker 1: That's how you talk to me.
- 19:33Speaker 4: If that's how you talk about me when I'm not around,
- 19:36Speaker 4: don't be spilt up in my face see each other.
- 19:38Speaker 3: How do you shut mama down? How do you shut
- 19:40Speaker 3: your mother down when she's like that?
- 19:43Speaker 1: How would mama know that? Where mam gt that from?
- 19:48Speaker 3: When moms get angry, they just say anything anything.
- 19:50Speaker 1: Yeah, but that ain't a good That ain't a good one. No,
- 19:52Speaker 1: that wasn't a good.
- 19:53Speaker 4: I'm sure Mom apologized, but she was upset and angry
- 19:56Speaker 4: because because first of all, if that is the thing
- 19:58Speaker 4: and you say such and such as this in such
- 20:00Speaker 4: such a bisexual that mean it's still a fifty fifty
- 20:03Speaker 4: chances that could.
- 20:05Speaker 1: Have went down. What are you talking about?
- 20:08Speaker 3: All right?
- 20:10Speaker 1: What are we talking about here? Like that supposed to
- 20:11Speaker 1: make me feel better.
- 20:13Speaker 3: I'm saying, which side are you gonna believe?
- 20:17Speaker 6: Dang, we gotta go, we gotta we gotta do the work.
- 20:20Speaker 1: What we gotta go do.
- 20:20Speaker 7: Next hour, all right, next hour we're gonna talk about
- 20:22Speaker 7: t I and what he's doing for his hometown city.
- 20:25Speaker 3: Also, we got some juice about Drake coming up.
- 20:27Speaker 1: Okay, so don't move.
- 20:27Speaker 6: When we come back, we got Front page news Tess
- 20:29Speaker 6: some figure O will be joining us, and then Jada
- 20:31Speaker 6: Pinkett Smith.
- 20:31Speaker 2: Will be here, so don't move. It's the Breakfast Club
- 20:33Speaker 2: on be et, the Breakfast Club. Your mornings will never
- 20:37Speaker 2: be the same.
- 20:39Speaker 1: Runing everybody.
- 20:40Speaker 6: It's dj n V charlamagnea God. We are the Breakfast Club.
- 20:44Speaker 6: We have a busy baby here, our guest co hosts,
- 20:46Speaker 6: and let's get in some front page news Morning.
- 20:49Speaker 8: Tesn dj in, Good morning, Besy baby.
- 20:54Speaker 1: Now let's start off for some quick sports.
- 20:56Speaker 6: Draymond Green has been suspended for five games and he
- 20:59Speaker 6: will sat on seven hundred and sixty nine thousand dollars.
- 21:03Speaker 6: He's also being found twenty five thousand, Rudy Gobert twenty
- 21:06Speaker 6: five thousand, and Klay Thomas twenty five thousand.
- 21:08Speaker 4: Dropping the clues bombs with Draymond Green. Okay, my favorite
- 21:10Speaker 4: playing the NBA. All right, he ain't got no problem
- 21:13Speaker 4: putting hands on you for his people.
- 21:15Speaker 1: Nope, not at all, not at all.
- 21:18Speaker 6: And tonight if football, the Ravens take on the Bengals
- 21:20Speaker 6: at eight point fifteen. Now let's jump right into it.
- 21:23Speaker 6: Let's so, Joe manchinha, yeah, Joe Manchin.
- 21:26Speaker 8: I'm sure this won't be a surprise to many of you,
- 21:28Speaker 8: especially Charlot Magne and the god it says the inch
- 21:31Speaker 8: closer Wednesday took confirming he could run for president.
- 21:34Speaker 9: Let's take a listen.
- 21:35Speaker 20: Are you considering running for president?
- 21:38Speaker 1: I will do anything I can to help my country.
- 21:40Speaker 5: Is that a yes?
- 21:41Speaker 1: And you're saying does that mean you would consider it? Absolutely?
- 21:44Speaker 7: Every American should consider if they're in a position to
- 21:46Speaker 7: help save the country.
- 21:47Speaker 1: I think we're on the wrong course, so I will
- 21:50Speaker 1: do everything possible.
- 21:51Speaker 4: Joe Manson once again standing in the way of Joe
- 21:53Speaker 4: Biden and the Democratic Party making progress. If Joe Manchin
- 21:56Speaker 4: runs for president, you can add that to the long
- 21:59Speaker 4: list of things that he has blocked Joe Biden and
- 22:01Speaker 4: the Democratic Party from achieving.
- 22:03Speaker 8: That's right, that's right, he added, that Biden's policies have
- 22:06Speaker 8: gone too far left, and he said he thinks they'll lose,
- 22:10Speaker 8: will lose democracy as we know it if Trump is elected.
- 22:12Speaker 9: So he believes that he can go out and bring
- 22:15Speaker 9: the middle together.
- 22:16Speaker 8: And basically, dude Charlemagne, who we knew he was doing
- 22:18Speaker 8: all along, which is why he did all of you know,
- 22:20Speaker 8: what he did before was showing that he is indeed
- 22:23Speaker 8: possibly what the real president.
- 22:24Speaker 9: So now I guess he's going for it. He will
- 22:26Speaker 9: actually be running for president.
- 22:27Speaker 4: I believe if he runs, I'm gonna hear him out,
- 22:29Speaker 4: you know what I mean, Like, I mean, the other
- 22:32Speaker 4: the other options we got are terrible, right, like the
- 22:35Speaker 4: Bidens and the Trumps of the world.
- 22:37Speaker 1: So I'm gonna hear him out. Hear what you gotta say,
- 22:39Speaker 1: I mean, what you got to say. Let me see
- 22:40Speaker 1: if he's really one of these centrists like he he
- 22:42Speaker 1: claims to be.
- 22:44Speaker 9: But he's a gangster, we know that for sure.
- 22:46Speaker 13: So I hear him out.
- 22:50Speaker 9: I'm interested in here what you gotta say too, you know.
- 22:53Speaker 8: So he says he'll make a decision possibly before Super Tuesday.
- 22:57Speaker 8: So will I think he's gonna do it? You know,
- 22:59Speaker 8: I'm just guessing. I don't know, but this is typically
- 23:01Speaker 8: what they do. Say I'm gonna go around the country
- 23:03Speaker 8: and talk to you know, every day working Americans and
- 23:05Speaker 8: see where we are. And then he'll come out and say,
- 23:07Speaker 8: after a thought and prayer and consideration, I decided to run.
- 23:12Speaker 4: You know how they do it so and I don't
- 23:14Speaker 4: want to hear none of y'all call him out now,
- 23:16Speaker 4: you know what I mean, Any of y'all in the
- 23:17Speaker 4: Democratic Party, don't try to throw somemood on Joe Manchin's
- 23:20Speaker 4: name now because you didn't when he was blocking everything out.
- 23:22Speaker 4: So when he starts running the president, don't come out
- 23:25Speaker 4: and tell us how bad he is. And I don't
- 23:26Speaker 4: want to hear it. I don't want to hear it
- 23:27Speaker 4: now because y'all have four years to tell us that
- 23:30Speaker 4: that's right now.
- 23:31Speaker 6: Fack, let's talk about all these kids losing their Medicaid coverage.
- 23:35Speaker 8: Yeah, just an important fact, just another reminder on why
- 23:38Speaker 8: children should be covered. In the United States of America,
- 23:40Speaker 8: at least two million children have lost their.
- 23:42Speaker 9: Health care coverage since the end of the pandemic.
- 23:45Speaker 8: They guaranteed medical coverage during the health emergency through November eighth,
- 23:49Speaker 8: A total of ten point one million Americans have been
- 23:52Speaker 8: disenrolled for Medicaid. The two million children who have lost
- 23:55Speaker 8: their health coverage representing twenty one states that break out
- 23:59Speaker 8: enrollmentch just by age, and it's likely an undercount because
- 24:02Speaker 8: data is still coming in. So just another reminder, how
- 24:06Speaker 8: I personally believe you know that, if nothing else, children
- 24:09Speaker 8: and elderly should have healthcare coverage in the United States
- 24:12Speaker 8: of America. So those who are out there are looking
- 24:15Speaker 8: for coverage, you know, hopefully they'll be able to get
- 24:17Speaker 8: some type of supplement or something to make sure these
- 24:20Speaker 8: kids are covered.
- 24:21Speaker 1: Absolutely agree, we all should, absolutely.
- 24:24Speaker 9: Absolutely it should really be free for everybody, Medicare for all.
- 24:27Speaker 8: But you know something they just can't get Congress too
- 24:30Speaker 8: agree on, but can they at least agree on it
- 24:32Speaker 8: for the children.
- 24:33Speaker 9: So just wanted to make sure people knew that was
- 24:35Speaker 9: out there.
- 24:36Speaker 4: All right, well, that is front page News, and make
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- 24:48Speaker 6: All right, now, when we come back, Jada Pinkett Smith
- 24:51Speaker 6: will be joining us. Of course, her book Worthy is
- 24:53Speaker 6: out right now and we're gonna kick it with us.
- 24:55Speaker 1: It don't move. It's to Breakfast Club on Beet, the
- 24:58Speaker 1: Breakfast Club Morning.
- 25:02Speaker 6: Everybody's the DJ n V. Charlamagne to God. We are
- 25:05Speaker 6: the Breakfast Club. You got a special guest in the building.
- 25:08Speaker 6: It's a special special yes, Jana Pinkett Smith.
- 25:11Speaker 1: Welcome, Thank you, thank you, thank you. How are you
- 25:13Speaker 1: feeling this morning?
- 25:14Speaker 20: Feeling good?
- 25:15Speaker 1: You're glowing, thank you.
- 25:18Speaker 20: You know, life is good even in the chaos.
- 25:21Speaker 1: I mean, life is chaos.
- 25:23Speaker 20: Yeah, that's what it is, you know what I'm saying.
- 25:26Speaker 20: So you just get in harmony with that.
- 25:28Speaker 1: That's interesting, you said.
- 25:29Speaker 4: I could always be wondering, like, yo, do are we
- 25:31Speaker 4: ever going to find peace on this planet? Or do
- 25:34Speaker 4: we just exist within the chaos? The caos is normal.
- 25:37Speaker 21: Yeah, I think you know, just in my journey, I've
- 25:42Speaker 21: just been discovering that you kind of have to just
- 25:45Speaker 21: rise above it, right because the world is gonna be
- 25:48Speaker 21: what it's going to be.
- 25:49Speaker 13: Right.
- 25:49Speaker 21: I actually think that the world is a university, you know,
- 25:54Speaker 21: to teach us how to transcend it. Yeah, and so yeah,
- 25:58Speaker 21: you just you got to make peace East with what
- 26:01Speaker 21: this world is about. But I don't think that this
- 26:04Speaker 21: place is our sanctuary. I actually think, you know, ascending
- 26:08Speaker 21: it and going into more of the spiritual spiritual places,
- 26:12Speaker 21: you know, and just kind of understanding living your life
- 26:15Speaker 21: from there within the world.
- 26:17Speaker 20: I mean, that's what they say, you know, be in it,
- 26:19Speaker 20: but not of it.
- 26:20Speaker 1: You ever get tired of it?
- 26:21Speaker 6: Though, because you've been on this on this tour for
- 26:23Speaker 6: a while, and you're very big on energy and vibrations,
- 26:27Speaker 6: and sometimes I'm sure the energy and vibrations have been
- 26:29Speaker 6: all over the place, but it seems like you've been
- 26:31Speaker 6: on tour, yeah, for a long time, you ever get
- 26:34Speaker 6: tired of it?
- 26:34Speaker 1: Like now, enough's enough?
- 26:35Speaker 12: Now?
- 26:36Speaker 21: I think that if I put myself in that frame
- 26:39Speaker 21: of mind and I just bring myself a level of discomfort,
- 26:42Speaker 21: that's not necessary, right, You just go It is what
- 26:46Speaker 21: it is.
- 26:47Speaker 20: So how are you going to step up to the moment?
- 26:51Speaker 3: And that's it?
- 26:52Speaker 20: You know, that's just what it is. And so that
- 26:54Speaker 20: that's where I find my piece.
- 26:56Speaker 1: Since the release of this book, what is your ego
- 26:58Speaker 1: been telling you?
- 27:00Speaker 21: Ego has been telling me to let go because it
- 27:06Speaker 21: takes a lot of courage to sin in your truth
- 27:10Speaker 21: takes a lot of courage. It takes a lot of
- 27:12Speaker 21: courage to be happy when you're walking through the world
- 27:15Speaker 21: and you're dismantling ideas, you know, you kind of have
- 27:21Speaker 21: to in that dismantle you just kind of have to
- 27:25Speaker 21: let go of everything that you thought you were, everything
- 27:29Speaker 21: that you're trying to be, and just flow right, just
- 27:33Speaker 21: let whatever is presenting itself.
- 27:37Speaker 22: Just kind of be what it is, you know, but
- 27:41Speaker 22: you definitely gotta let go.
- 27:44Speaker 21: So it's been a real test in regards to trust.
- 27:49Speaker 21: You know, just can't trust the ego in that way anymore.
- 27:54Speaker 20: But you know, that's a process.
- 27:56Speaker 22: So as I'm dismasting, so you go from one ego
- 27:58Speaker 22: state to the next.
- 27:59Speaker 20: Right, So it just gets it just gets, it just
- 28:06Speaker 20: gets smaller, I guess, you know. But the ego is.
- 28:09Speaker 22: Always going to be that. So you know, you just
- 28:12Speaker 22: kind of learned how to make friends with your ego and.
- 28:14Speaker 20: Have it work for you in a different way, for
- 28:16Speaker 20: different purpose.
- 28:18Speaker 8: Right.
- 28:19Speaker 20: So that's what I'm working with right now.
- 28:21Speaker 6: Has this truth helped your relationship with friends, family, and
- 28:26Speaker 6: even your marriage? Has this truth and all the things
- 28:29Speaker 6: that came out or did it make things worse?
- 28:31Speaker 4: Oh?
- 28:32Speaker 20: No, see, I didn't.
- 28:34Speaker 21: I didn't step into this, walk into my situation with
- 28:40Speaker 21: my friends, my family.
- 28:42Speaker 20: As specifically, Will was tight.
- 28:46Speaker 21: Right because I already knew how disruptive it was going
- 28:51Speaker 21: to be. So I had to make sure that my
- 28:53Speaker 21: inner circle was tight, right, so that we could walk
- 28:57Speaker 21: this together hand in hand, right. So it's actually, you know,
- 29:01Speaker 21: specifically for Will and I, it's definitely brought us closer.
- 29:05Speaker 20: It's so funny how crisis.
- 29:06Speaker 3: Will do that, you know what I mean, Yeah, you
- 29:10Speaker 3: know what I'm saying.
- 29:11Speaker 21: So that's the thing about Will and Ize, just like
- 29:16Speaker 21: we just learn more and more as we go that
- 29:20Speaker 21: this is what we were built to do, you know,
- 29:22Speaker 21: with each other, you know, and to walk together. And
- 29:28Speaker 21: you know, just like any long term relationship, it goes
- 29:31Speaker 21: through it's of course, you know, and so you gotta
- 29:36Speaker 21: take your time.
- 29:37Speaker 20: I really had to grow emotionally.
- 29:40Speaker 21: It hadn't realized how emotionally immature I was, you know
- 29:45Speaker 21: what I'm saying. And so that's the thing about long
- 29:48Speaker 21: term relationships that are fantastic if you can just hang
- 29:52Speaker 21: in there, because it's going to force you to step
- 29:57Speaker 21: your game up if you want to be happy, you know.
- 30:00Speaker 21: And so Will's been one of my greatest teachers on
- 30:04Speaker 21: my journey, you know, because I've been forced to have
- 30:07Speaker 21: to deal.
- 30:07Speaker 6: With my stuff, you know what stuff because you said
- 30:10Speaker 6: you're immature. What immaturity do you see when you look
- 30:14Speaker 6: at yourself?
- 30:15Speaker 21: Well, I would say, you know, seven years ago, just
- 30:18Speaker 21: when you're just hanging on to these romantic ideas of
- 30:23Speaker 21: what marriage should be, what your partner should be for you,
- 30:27Speaker 21: so that you don't have to be the thing for yourself,
- 30:31Speaker 21: like when you keep banging on somebody like, no, I
- 30:33Speaker 21: need you to show up this way because I need
- 30:37Speaker 21: to feel a certain way about myself. Right That in
- 30:40Speaker 21: itself is just like hold up, you want somebody else
- 30:44Speaker 21: to be something for you that you're not willing to.
- 30:46Speaker 3: Be for yourself. First of all, how do you call
- 30:48Speaker 3: that love?
- 30:50Speaker 23: You know?
- 30:51Speaker 21: And I had to like step away to really realize that,
- 30:56Speaker 21: you know, and so me get myself in alignment and
- 31:00Speaker 21: just realizing like, yo, Jada, you got a lot of
- 31:03Speaker 21: work to do, and then doing that work and then
- 31:05Speaker 21: being able to present myself with more of myself and
- 31:09Speaker 21: then being able to see Will as who he is
- 31:12Speaker 21: and just accept him and love him.
- 31:15Speaker 1: There, that's what I think is lost, you know in
- 31:19Speaker 1: the book.
- 31:20Speaker 4: If you haven't read the book, like you think all
- 31:22Speaker 4: the convos about Tupac and will distracted from what this
- 31:26Speaker 4: book really has to offer.
- 31:27Speaker 20: Because I did, Yeah, and I knew that.
- 31:30Speaker 3: I knew.
- 31:30Speaker 21: I knew it was going to be a lot of distractions, right,
- 31:32Speaker 21: And I was like, hopefully this book will have legs
- 31:35Speaker 21: so that.
- 31:35Speaker 22: Once all of the you know, the chatter dies down.
- 31:39Speaker 21: We can get to the real components of the book. Now,
- 31:42Speaker 21: people who've actually read the book are on it, right.
- 31:45Speaker 21: They see that sony of healing.
- 31:48Speaker 20: It's a journey of his.
- 31:49Speaker 4: It's a journey of somebody trying to find their worthiness,
- 31:53Speaker 4: which is, you know, all of us have struggled with
- 31:55Speaker 4: that imposter syndrome, not feeling worthy. If you read the book,
- 31:58Speaker 4: you see somebody really laying it out in detail, the
- 32:01Speaker 4: journey to get to that place of workings.
- 32:03Speaker 20: And it's a universal struggle.
- 32:05Speaker 22: You know, we all do it in different ways, right,
- 32:07Speaker 22: but it's a universal struggle.
- 32:09Speaker 21: And so yeah, that's I really wanted to lay that
- 32:13Speaker 21: out in the way that I did, especially once again
- 32:17Speaker 21: just dismantling these ideas of perfection, you know, because we
- 32:22Speaker 21: also have these societal romantic ideas of what somebody in
- 32:28Speaker 21: my position, what my.
- 32:30Speaker 22: Life should look like, who I should be within.
- 32:33Speaker 20: It, you know what I'm saying.
- 32:34Speaker 22: And it's like no, no, no, Like real life is
- 32:37Speaker 22: real life, no matter what station you sitting at.
- 32:39Speaker 20: Period.
- 32:40Speaker 4: You know, do you regret leading with a lot of
- 32:42Speaker 4: that stuff, leading with a lot of to talk about
- 32:46Speaker 4: will to talk about pop? Because you know those just
- 32:48Speaker 4: became sound bites and headlines on the internet, clips that
- 32:53Speaker 4: you know.
- 32:53Speaker 20: It's so difficult because when.
- 32:56Speaker 21: You're dealing with media, that's that's that's what people want
- 33:01Speaker 21: attach to. People not interested, you know, that's not the clickbait.
- 33:06Speaker 20: The journey part of it.
- 33:07Speaker 21: The clickbait is you know, the Tupac, the will you know,
- 33:11Speaker 21: So you got to kind of get past the clickbait
- 33:14Speaker 21: where people get exhausted with that and that dies down
- 33:19Speaker 21: and then people can get with the real But it's
- 33:22Speaker 21: hard to avoid it.
- 33:23Speaker 20: Honestly, it's hard to avoid it.
- 33:25Speaker 1: All right.
- 33:25Speaker 6: We got more with Jada Pinket Smith. When we come back,
- 33:27Speaker 6: don't move, it's the Breakfast Club moving. Yeah, when back,
- 33:30Speaker 6: it's the Breakfast Club. DJ and V Charlamagne the God
- 33:33Speaker 6: and we're still kicking it with Jada Pinkett Smith her
- 33:34Speaker 6: book Worthy is out right.
- 33:36Speaker 13: Now.
- 33:37Speaker 6: We look at your life and we see the wedding,
- 33:39Speaker 6: we see the trips, we see all of that. When
- 33:41Speaker 6: did you realize and say, I need to fix this
- 33:44Speaker 6: because this isn't right with me.
- 33:45Speaker 1: What was that moment?
- 33:47Speaker 21: I would say that I got slammed up against a wall,
- 33:50Speaker 21: Probably when I was really confronted with some really heavy
- 33:56Speaker 21: suicidal thoughts, when I was looking for Cliff to drive over,
- 34:01Speaker 21: you know, so that my suicide would look like an
- 34:04Speaker 21: accident so my kids wouldn't think that I committed suicide.
- 34:08Speaker 20: I did a plant medicine.
- 34:10Speaker 21: Journeysa ayahuasca, I can't wait.
- 34:14Speaker 22: Let me know where I got you.
- 34:18Speaker 21: And that that was a real awakening for me, you know,
- 34:21Speaker 21: And I really had to be confronted with.
- 34:25Speaker 22: My own shadow, my own self hatred, and it was
- 34:29Speaker 22: so strong and it was so scary.
- 34:31Speaker 21: I was like, WHOA, I didn't I thought it was
- 34:34Speaker 21: I didn't even want to be with that, and I'm
- 34:36Speaker 21: like asking somebody else to contend with that. That was
- 34:41Speaker 21: the first moment that I realized, oh, Jada, you you
- 34:44Speaker 21: got some stuff to deal.
- 34:45Speaker 1: With, and what got you to that?
- 34:46Speaker 6: Point, because most people would look on the outside and
- 34:48Speaker 6: be like, you know, she's rich, she's a movie star.
- 34:52Speaker 6: She's stating another movie star, she has beautiful kids, your
- 34:55Speaker 6: mom is still there. Like it looks like to the outside,
- 34:58Speaker 6: the life is perfect. What in that perfect life on
- 35:01Speaker 6: the outside made you feel imperfect or made you not
- 35:04Speaker 6: feel like this is what I want.
- 35:06Speaker 22: It was like dealing with the foundational wounds, right.
- 35:10Speaker 21: I hadn't done, I hadn't double with And that's what
- 35:12Speaker 21: we most of us don't even know what our foundational
- 35:16Speaker 21: wounds are.
- 35:16Speaker 22: We don't even know we're foundationally wounded.
- 35:20Speaker 8: Right.
- 35:20Speaker 21: And so it started a childhood you know, you got
- 35:23Speaker 21: two parents who are addicts and you're not the priority, right,
- 35:28Speaker 21: and then just the levels and just the trauma that
- 35:33Speaker 21: gets built upon what that environment it's like, right, And
- 35:38Speaker 21: I thought that making it would heal it all. You know,
- 35:44Speaker 21: success takes care of everything.
- 35:47Speaker 20: Right, And then it was like, Okay, made it to Hollywood,
- 35:51Speaker 20: That's not it.
- 35:52Speaker 21: And then I met this fantastic guy and I was
- 35:55Speaker 21: on this world win of romance with Will and I
- 35:58Speaker 21: was like, he's gonna fix it. You know what I'm saying,
- 36:01Speaker 21: He's gonna he is the Knight in shining Armor. He's
- 36:06Speaker 21: the Savior Prince, He's gonna fix it. So it went
- 36:09Speaker 21: from one false belief to the next. And I talk
- 36:11Speaker 21: about trying to check all the boxes.
- 36:13Speaker 20: It's like, checked all the boxes.
- 36:17Speaker 21: It's left right, and then having to realize, oh man,
- 36:22Speaker 21: oh yeah, you're not dealing with your stuff.
- 36:25Speaker 20: That's what's left.
- 36:27Speaker 21: So it just goes to show that we can have
- 36:29Speaker 21: all of these exterior things, you know, but that's not
- 36:33Speaker 21: the thing that's gonna heal the soul.
- 36:35Speaker 13: You know.
- 36:35Speaker 4: It's interesting because you know, when we used to watch
- 36:37Speaker 4: you Red Table Talk, people would be like, who is it, Jada,
- 36:40Speaker 4: Jada Pinket You take off the drug dealer, Jada a
- 36:44Speaker 4: drug dealer energy?
- 36:45Speaker 1: You know, I never, I never when I when I
- 36:47Speaker 1: read that in the book, I was like, Jay the
- 36:49Speaker 1: Pinkett Smith was in the screens like that. But when
- 36:51Speaker 1: you walked in, I'm like, oh, I see it.
- 36:54Speaker 3: I'm just trying to be comfortable. Sorry about that.
- 37:07Speaker 4: But when people used to watch the Red Table Talk,
- 37:08Speaker 4: they be like, who why is Jada Pinkett Smith an
- 37:11Speaker 4: expert and anything? But in the book, you refer to
- 37:14Speaker 4: yourself as you said, you're a pseudo pseudo guru. You said,
- 37:19Speaker 4: it's in the Feeling the Range chapter that you seem
- 37:20Speaker 4: to often set yourself up to fall off the edge
- 37:22Speaker 4: of high and mighty them.
- 37:24Speaker 1: You admit at the time you didn't know, like why
- 37:27Speaker 1: talk to yourself like that?
- 37:28Speaker 20: Well, because it's the truth, you know.
- 37:32Speaker 21: And I think that when we're really on that game
- 37:35Speaker 21: of healing, like the person that you got to be
- 37:39Speaker 21: the most honest with is yourself, and a lot of
- 37:44Speaker 21: times that that could be that that could be the
- 37:46Speaker 21: most difficult when you really got to look at yourself
- 37:49Speaker 21: and realize, you know, where you thought you were something
- 37:54Speaker 21: and now you realize that you ain't.
- 37:56Speaker 20: You know, And so yeah, you just got to learn
- 37:58Speaker 20: how to be deeply honest with yourself.
- 38:01Speaker 21: And as I talk to myself that way, I can
- 38:03Speaker 21: also hug myself in saying that.
- 38:06Speaker 6: You know, now you talk about love so much, and
- 38:09Speaker 6: you talk about how you felt at one time you
- 38:12Speaker 6: are against marriage, right?
- 38:13Speaker 4: Yeah?
- 38:14Speaker 6: Is that because you seen your parents in their relationship?
- 38:19Speaker 6: What changed your mind?
- 38:20Speaker 4: Yeah?
- 38:20Speaker 21: I think that was really Like I got to see
- 38:24Speaker 21: my grandparents who both said to grandparents had a really
- 38:28Speaker 21: long lasting marriage, but.
- 38:31Speaker 20: I wasn't quite sure that it was the pinnacle of happiness.
- 38:34Speaker 21: And so you know, when you're young, you're a free spirit,
- 38:38Speaker 21: and I'm just like, no, I can do this different,
- 38:40Speaker 21: like because I want to be happy. I'm not quite
- 38:42Speaker 21: sure that's what happy is. Like, how can I be
- 38:45Speaker 21: in a relationship and be happy? You know, I was
- 38:48Speaker 21: all about the devotion of it, but I wasn't quite
- 38:51Speaker 21: sure that marriage was the thing, right. It wasn't until
- 38:56Speaker 21: maybe three years ago.
- 39:00Speaker 6: Three years ago, you've been married all this time?
- 39:08Speaker 24: The biggest saying years ago, No, no, no, no, Not
- 39:12Speaker 24: that I wasn't happy, not that I wasn't happy, but
- 39:16Speaker 24: I got to see the power of marriage.
- 39:19Speaker 1: Three years ago.
- 39:21Speaker 20: I got to see the power not even well yeah,
- 39:26Speaker 20: and no, right, I got.
- 39:28Speaker 21: To see how marriage is a it is a holy
- 39:32Speaker 21: path for real, right, just in regards to learning about love,
- 39:41Speaker 21: because it takes a long time to break down all
- 39:44Speaker 21: the different false beliefs that we have about love, right,
- 39:48Speaker 21: and and the thing about holy matrimony. And it's not
- 39:54Speaker 21: to say that you're not going to go through some
- 39:55Speaker 21: unholy stuff, right, but when two people are committed and
- 40:00Speaker 21: just refuse to quit, what you can learn about yourself,
- 40:06Speaker 21: about your partner in about.
- 40:08Speaker 20: Love in general.
- 40:11Speaker 21: You can't really learn by going from one relationship to
- 40:14Speaker 21: the next looking for the honeymoon stage over and over again, right,
- 40:20Speaker 21: specifically if you're interested in learning about unconditional love, you know.
- 40:25Speaker 20: And so I was like, oh, snap, this is what
- 40:29Speaker 20: it's about, you know.
- 40:33Speaker 1: Years ago, But like, what was that moment three years ago?
- 40:36Speaker 21: I would probably say, when we'll going through the process
- 40:42Speaker 21: of emancipation. And then once he finished emancipation and the
- 40:50Speaker 21: stuff that started coming up for him, right, and that's
- 40:55Speaker 21: when he was like, hey, can we get back into
- 40:59Speaker 21: some therapy together, and the stuff that was coming up
- 41:04Speaker 21: for him and the kind of conversations we were starting
- 41:07Speaker 21: to have.
- 41:08Speaker 20: I was like, Okay, here we are.
- 41:12Speaker 18: You know what I mean.
- 41:13Speaker 21: I'm like, and everybody starts their journeys in different ways
- 41:18Speaker 21: at different times, you know what I'm saying. But that's
- 41:21Speaker 21: when I knew. I was like, okay, And then we
- 41:25Speaker 21: went to the oscars and that whole thing happened, and
- 41:27Speaker 21: it wasn't I didn't even think twice about it when
- 41:31Speaker 21: I saw what was happening, and I was like, I'm
- 41:33Speaker 21: not leaving this man's side.
- 41:36Speaker 20: I'm not leaving this man's side.
- 41:38Speaker 6: I will keep a lock. We got more with Jada
- 41:40Speaker 6: Pinkett Smith. Her book Worthy is out right now, so
- 41:42Speaker 6: don't move.
- 41:43Speaker 1: It's the breakfast Club. Good Morning, Good morning.
- 41:44Speaker 6: Everybody's DJ Envy Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club.
- 41:48Speaker 6: We're still kicking it with Jada Pinkett Smith Charlomagne.
- 41:51Speaker 4: You think, up until the point of three years ago,
- 41:54Speaker 4: do you think y'all had had just more of a
- 41:56Speaker 4: trauma bunk.
- 41:57Speaker 20: I would say yes and no.
- 42:00Speaker 21: I would say we had a trauma bond, and then
- 42:03Speaker 21: underneath of it there was this real deep friendship, this
- 42:08Speaker 21: spiritual bond too, because you can start breaking through your
- 42:11Speaker 21: trauma and start talking through your trauma. And if it's
- 42:14Speaker 21: just a trauma bond, once you start to heal and
- 42:18Speaker 21: you start going.
- 42:19Speaker 20: Your separate ways, it's done.
- 42:21Speaker 21: If it's just a trauma bond, right, But when you
- 42:26Speaker 21: can feel that that spiritual bind, once you're doing the healing,
- 42:32Speaker 21: and that spiritual bind is just yoking you tighter than
- 42:36Speaker 21: you know it something else.
- 42:38Speaker 20: You know, and you really have to have the discernment
- 42:40Speaker 20: to know the difference.
- 42:43Speaker 21: You know what I'm saying, because sometimes you do just
- 42:45Speaker 21: have a trauma bond with somebody and sometimes you just
- 42:48Speaker 21: got to get away, you know.
- 42:49Speaker 20: What I'm saying, And so you got to really like
- 42:53Speaker 20: sit with yourself and have the discernment to know the difference.
- 42:57Speaker 4: Now that's real, because sometimes you heal so much you
- 42:59Speaker 4: be like, man, look like nobody exactly.
- 43:03Speaker 20: That's real talking, yeah, straight out, because that's what we do,
- 43:08Speaker 20: you know. It's like that.
- 43:09Speaker 21: And that's part of it too, you know, And that's
- 43:11Speaker 21: part of why we have to have the courage because innately,
- 43:14Speaker 21: you know, once you start healing, a whole lot is
- 43:17Speaker 21: gonna change, you know.
- 43:19Speaker 6: With the Oscar's situation, did that save your marriage? And
- 43:23Speaker 6: the reason I asked that is, you know, I've been
- 43:25Speaker 6: married twenty two years, Charloma has been married a long time.
- 43:28Speaker 6: But your wife will always be mad at you, right,
- 43:31Speaker 6: but you can't be mad at him. I could be
- 43:33Speaker 6: mad at him him down. Yeah, So did that save
- 43:38Speaker 6: your marriage?
- 43:39Speaker 21: I would say what it definitely did is that it
- 43:44Speaker 21: accelerated what I think was already in the process. It
- 43:48Speaker 21: was in that moment that I knew. I was like,
- 43:52Speaker 21: oh no, no, no, no, no, no, We're gonna do
- 43:56Speaker 21: this together. I'm gonna be by your side, and I
- 44:00Speaker 21: know that I'll never I'll never leave your side, right because.
- 44:05Speaker 20: It's funny because an emotional crisis, I didn't blink. I
- 44:09Speaker 20: didn't blink. And that's when I knew deep down inside,
- 44:12Speaker 20: I'm like, yeah.
- 44:20Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.
- 44:21Speaker 9: It's like and you there's no getting away from them.
- 44:24Speaker 3: You've been trying, you know, really you don't want to
- 44:27Speaker 3: go nowhere?
- 44:28Speaker 20: Stop it.
- 44:29Speaker 21: And so was that incident that I knew right away, Yo,
- 44:34Speaker 21: we in it, And so that was it. But I
- 44:37Speaker 21: think that was the trajectory anyway. It just in an
- 44:41Speaker 21: instant solidified it.
- 44:43Speaker 1: Yeah, gotcha.
- 44:44Speaker 4: You know, if you know, if y'all have been separated
- 44:46Speaker 4: all of these years, if you read the book, you
- 44:47Speaker 4: realized that right, and Will never said anything about it.
- 44:51Speaker 4: Why did you feel now with the time to reveal
- 44:54Speaker 4: that information. Was it just to sell books like some
- 44:57Speaker 4: people think.
- 44:57Speaker 20: Oh no, it's part of the process, you know.
- 45:00Speaker 14: It was part of like.
- 45:03Speaker 20: Part of my self.
- 45:06Speaker 21: Worth journey, like I had to really I was leaning
- 45:11Speaker 21: on Will in a lot of ways. And I think
- 45:13Speaker 21: for women specifically, how a lot of times.
- 45:19Speaker 20: Our relationships are used to identify us, you know what
- 45:26Speaker 20: I mean?
- 45:27Speaker 21: And so I thought that was a really important process
- 45:33Speaker 21: and so much a really important thing to talk about
- 45:37Speaker 21: because so much of my journey happened in that time
- 45:43Speaker 21: when it was just me, you know, and I think that,
- 45:48Speaker 21: and I also wanted people to realize that sometimes marriages
- 45:53Speaker 21: go through breaks like that, you know. And for people
- 45:57Speaker 21: out there who are thinking about, yo, should I get separated?
- 46:01Speaker 20: Should I, you know, get a divorce, I'm like, man,
- 46:04Speaker 20: just take time for you.
- 46:05Speaker 21: Have the courage if you got the courage to sign
- 46:07Speaker 21: divorce papers or you know, go to lawyers and get
- 46:11Speaker 21: just have the courage to figure out how to just
- 46:14Speaker 21: take time for you and then see see what's showing
- 46:19Speaker 21: up for you, right, Because sometimes divorce is the answer.
- 46:24Speaker 21: Sometimes leave goal separation is the answer. But first and foremost,
- 46:29Speaker 21: just take a year. Take a year, see what shows up,
- 46:33Speaker 21: you know, before you start going into like all these
- 46:36Speaker 21: other processes. Because sometimes we can act so quickly out
- 46:40Speaker 21: of anger and frustration and we just want to get away,
- 46:43Speaker 21: and we think that's the answer, you know, and in
- 46:46Speaker 21: some cases it is, but in some cases it's not.
- 46:49Speaker 6: How do you feel when you talk about the truth, right,
- 46:51Speaker 6: and you say a big reason of this book is
- 46:55Speaker 6: you can help other people other marriage, other couples that
- 46:57Speaker 6: are dealing with it and don't know how to express
- 46:59Speaker 6: it because they've never seen it right, And the press
- 47:02Speaker 6: and the public says, you know, Jada is embarrassing. Well,
- 47:05Speaker 6: and you just said you were doing it because you
- 47:08Speaker 6: wanted to live in your truth. So what do you
- 47:09Speaker 6: say to those people that thought that it was just embarrassing,
- 47:12Speaker 6: embarrassing Will and dehumanizing him, and take it and take
- 47:16Speaker 6: it as his masculine I.
- 47:17Speaker 4: Want to quote Anna Navarro of the view, she said,
- 47:19Speaker 4: you are masculating and embarrassing Will.
- 47:22Speaker 21: Oh, well, I think if she took time to read
- 47:25Speaker 21: the book, you know, I think that if you want
- 47:29Speaker 21: to just read headlines, I could see how that could
- 47:33Speaker 21: be confusing.
- 47:35Speaker 20: But the book is right here, and you have two
- 47:36Speaker 20: books you can read.
- 47:37Speaker 21: Actually, you can read my book and Will's book, which
- 47:40Speaker 21: is so great that a lot of people are doing that,
- 47:43Speaker 21: you know.
- 47:43Speaker 20: But people have the right to their opinions.
- 47:47Speaker 21: And I always know that anybody who's saying that hasn't
- 47:52Speaker 21: really done their homework.
- 47:53Speaker 20: But you got to expect it too, because of what
- 47:57Speaker 20: the headlines are. You know what clickbait is, so Will
- 48:02Speaker 20: knows what it is.
- 48:04Speaker 5: I know what it is.
- 48:05Speaker 21: My kids know what it is, and more importantly, Great
- 48:08Speaker 21: Supreme does too, right, And so that's really that's really
- 48:14Speaker 21: all I'm concerned with.
- 48:15Speaker 6: At the end of the day, when Will was up here,
- 48:17Speaker 6: he talked about being insecure a little bit about Tupac.
- 48:22Speaker 1: Did y'all ever have that conversation?
- 48:23Speaker 6: Because as a man, when you're a little insecure, I
- 48:27Speaker 6: almost feel like you play both sides. You want to
- 48:29Speaker 6: be yourself, but you want to show that you're better
- 48:31Speaker 6: than the person that's making him insecure. You're tougher than,
- 48:34Speaker 6: or smarter than, or more romantic than, or a poet
- 48:37Speaker 6: then a better rapper than. Did y'all ever have that conversation?
- 48:42Speaker 21: I wouldn't say that we had conversations in that way.
- 48:45Speaker 21: It was just like, you know, we came up in
- 48:48Speaker 21: the era where it was so unusual for a man
- 48:53Speaker 21: and a woman to be friends.
- 48:55Speaker 10: Right.
- 48:55Speaker 21: Let mean really think about it, like that's more of
- 48:58Speaker 21: an open idea now.
- 49:00Speaker 20: Right, but just think in our era that was just
- 49:04Speaker 20: like friends.
- 49:04Speaker 1: They had to be dat like what what what?
- 49:07Speaker 17: Right?
- 49:07Speaker 21: And so I think for him it was just like
- 49:12Speaker 21: getting your mind around around that, you know, and that
- 49:17Speaker 21: the kind of friendship that we had because we had
- 49:21Speaker 21: such a you know, tight friendship that you know, it
- 49:27Speaker 21: was very impactful on my life, you know. So I
- 49:30Speaker 21: think it was just getting the understanding around that Tupac
- 49:35Speaker 21: and Eye could be friends, you know, and that that
- 49:39Speaker 21: that he was a part of my life in that way.
- 49:42Speaker 21: And so just we had a lot of conversations around
- 49:46Speaker 21: just those ideas.
- 49:47Speaker 1: How did he get over that?
- 49:49Speaker 20: I think he just realized that.
- 49:52Speaker 21: And I really can't speak for will you shuld probably
- 49:54Speaker 21: ask him when he comes back, but I think he
- 49:56Speaker 21: just realized that that's what it was, you know what
- 49:59Speaker 21: I mean, it was like, that's.
- 50:00Speaker 18: What it was.
- 50:01Speaker 20: It's like, you know, that was that beautiful friendship.
- 50:04Speaker 21: And I think once he really and started as he
- 50:08Speaker 21: got older, started having his own friendships with women, like, oh,
- 50:12Speaker 21: that that is possible.
- 50:14Speaker 13: How are you with that?
- 50:15Speaker 20: I listen, I always told will you need some female friends?
- 50:19Speaker 1: Did you yes?
- 50:20Speaker 3: Because I think I think I think.
- 50:22Speaker 20: Men and women.
- 50:24Speaker 21: I think men do need female friends because and women
- 50:28Speaker 21: need male friends. And I actually think men once they
- 50:31Speaker 21: have daughters.
- 50:33Speaker 1: I got four, I got four, and you got four daughters.
- 50:37Speaker 21: And but I see I would now let me ask
- 50:43Speaker 21: you a question, would you say that having daughters helped
- 50:47Speaker 21: you understand and see that. I think that's what happened
- 50:50Speaker 21: to will I think once Willow came, you know, and
- 50:53Speaker 21: then he started to realize a different relationship with the feminine, right,
- 50:59Speaker 21: and then he realize, oh, wow, you know you can
- 51:02Speaker 21: have relationships with women that are non sexual or however,
- 51:07Speaker 21: y'all have to you know, manage that in your own minds.
- 51:10Speaker 2: Right.
- 51:11Speaker 21: I think once Willow came, she was his teacher on
- 51:14Speaker 21: that for sure, and so he was able to have
- 51:16Speaker 21: female friends.
- 51:17Speaker 6: I will keep a lock. We got more with Jada
- 51:18Speaker 6: Pinkett Smith. Her book Worthy is out right now, So
- 51:21Speaker 6: don't move. It's the Breakfast Club, Good Morning, where back,
- 51:23Speaker 6: It's the Breakfast Club DJ n V. Charlamagne the God
- 51:25Speaker 6: and we're still kicking it with Jada Pinkett Smith. Her
- 51:27Speaker 6: book Worthy is out right now.
- 51:30Speaker 4: Charlamagne in the No Soccer Mom chapter A, right, you
- 51:33Speaker 4: shoot down every rumor there's ever been about y'all that
- 51:36Speaker 4: y'all are swingers, that y'all were both gay and playing
- 51:39Speaker 4: each other's bids, that y'all was sleeping with whomever you choose. Yeah,
- 51:43Speaker 4: how does it feel in twenty twenty three to still
- 51:44Speaker 4: have those same rumors out about people you love, like
- 51:47Speaker 4: Willan Dwinn.
- 51:48Speaker 1: I know that just came out too recently.
- 51:50Speaker 21: Yeah, you know, And let me just say this, it's ridiculous, right,
- 51:58Speaker 21: and it's nonsense. And this is a person that tried
- 52:02Speaker 21: a shakedown, a money shakedown that didn't work. We're gonna
- 52:05Speaker 21: take legal action because it's one thing to have your
- 52:10Speaker 21: opinion about somebody versus just making up salacious, malicious stories.
- 52:18Speaker 21: So that's actionable. So we're gonna roll with that, you
- 52:22Speaker 21: know what I mean, it's not true. We're gonna take
- 52:25Speaker 21: care of it.
- 52:27Speaker 1: And that's that it was a money shakedown, yea.
- 52:32Speaker 21: Well, it's it's based around this person's idea that they
- 52:38Speaker 21: in some way were doing business around Will's book and
- 52:44Speaker 21: that they spent money or what have you, and that
- 52:46Speaker 21: they needed to be compensated. So he already tried to
- 52:49Speaker 21: do this money shakedown. Will was willing to give him
- 52:54Speaker 21: a certain amount or what have you, and he didn't
- 52:56Speaker 21: take it.
- 52:56Speaker 22: So this whole situation is based on that give him
- 53:00Speaker 22: a certain amount while though.
- 53:01Speaker 21: Just well because of some business that they had and
- 53:04Speaker 21: I don't know the complete details about it, but that's
- 53:07Speaker 21: about to come out because, like I told you about
- 53:09Speaker 21: to take legal action, you should.
- 53:11Speaker 20: Yeah, no, we are for sure.
- 53:13Speaker 1: I was asking, how is Will dealing with it? You know,
- 53:15Speaker 1: with oh, release a statement.
- 53:19Speaker 8: Will.
- 53:21Speaker 21: Here's the one good thing about Will. Will's always gonna
- 53:23Speaker 21: find the funny.
- 53:24Speaker 20: I figured that, Ye kid's always gonna find the funny,
- 53:28Speaker 20: you know what I'm saying.
- 53:29Speaker 1: And so after the murder, murder, kill kill.
- 53:32Speaker 20: Yeah, you have to.
- 53:35Speaker 22: You have to because it's absolutely ridiculous.
- 53:40Speaker 20: You know what I'm saying. And so all you have
- 53:42Speaker 20: is you just got to laugh about it, you know.
- 53:46Speaker 20: And it's unfortunate because.
- 53:47Speaker 1: Did he ask you, like, do I look like I
- 53:49Speaker 1: give off bottom?
- 53:51Speaker 20: He was like do you believe it?
- 53:53Speaker 17: You know?
- 53:53Speaker 20: But we just laughed about it.
- 53:55Speaker 4: Got to ask about Tyresee. Now, there was a rumor
- 53:58Speaker 4: that Tyree called you. Oh, he said he called you
- 54:02Speaker 4: on the phone. He was he was, he was on med,
- 54:04Speaker 4: he was out of it. Yeah, and he told you
- 54:06Speaker 4: I ain't no killer, Jada, I ain't no killer, but
- 54:08Speaker 4: don't push me. Oh, things like the sweetest joy that's
- 54:11Speaker 4: getting I don't know why he's.
- 54:14Speaker 25: So.
- 54:15Speaker 21: Tyrese did call me, for sure, and he was he
- 54:19Speaker 21: was definitely in a in a state, and I was
- 54:24Speaker 21: really concerned, you know, and I'm just called.
- 54:29Speaker 1: Though he said he said him and Charlie Max said,
- 54:32Speaker 1: he quoted Tupac.
- 54:33Speaker 20: He called Tupac.
- 54:34Speaker 1: No, he said, he called you and quoted Tupac.
- 54:36Speaker 14: He may have.
- 54:37Speaker 21: Let me tell you something. I was so worried at
- 54:41Speaker 21: that time when he made that call about his his state,
- 54:47Speaker 21: because it was really deeply concerned that I don't I
- 54:53Speaker 21: couldn't even tell you exactly what happened because I'm trying
- 54:57Speaker 21: to think about who I can get there, Who can
- 55:00Speaker 21: I get in the house, how can I get him help? Yeah,
- 55:08Speaker 21: And so that I was, I was in I was,
- 55:11Speaker 21: I was a little panicked, you know, to just make
- 55:14Speaker 21: sure that he was okay and that nothing was gonna happen,
- 55:18Speaker 21: he wasn't gonna hurt himself or anybody else. So that
- 55:23Speaker 21: I couldn't even I don't even remember what he said,
- 55:25Speaker 21: what he said.
- 55:27Speaker 4: I want to talk about the book and a debate
- 55:29Speaker 4: I had at dinner a couple of weeks ago with
- 55:31Speaker 4: some friends because in the book, you say that you
- 55:33Speaker 4: and Will decided to separate in every way except legally. Yeah,
- 55:38Speaker 4: and y'all would have complete transparency, no secrets about what
- 55:42Speaker 4: y'all were doing, in whom y'all were doing it with, right,
- 55:44Speaker 4: And the debate we were having was or early in
- 55:46Speaker 4: the books, you said that they've never been in an
- 55:48Speaker 4: open relationship, But isn't that an open relationship?
- 55:50Speaker 20: Well, here's the difference between that.
- 55:52Speaker 21: That's when you're you're in an open relationship and you
- 55:57Speaker 21: are still intimate with each other.
- 56:00Speaker 20: Right, at that point, we went our separate ways.
- 56:03Speaker 21: So it's as if we are divorced, separated and just
- 56:09Speaker 21: trying to figure out how we're going to go about it.
- 56:12Speaker 21: But at that particular point in time, we were no
- 56:15Speaker 21: longer relating in that way, right, because for us, it
- 56:23Speaker 21: was over.
- 56:23Speaker 20: It was done. So if you're in an.
- 56:25Speaker 21: Open relationship, that means that you are still in a
- 56:30Speaker 21: relationship with one another romantically.
- 56:33Speaker 20: And you are okay with being with other people romantically.
- 56:37Speaker 21: Yated, we were separated, like done done, done, done done.
- 56:43Speaker 1: Why did you choose not to say August's name in
- 56:46Speaker 1: the book?
- 56:48Speaker 21: Really just to I felt like he's been through enough,
- 56:53Speaker 21: you know what I mean? And I just wanted to
- 56:56Speaker 21: be respectful in that manner.
- 56:58Speaker 1: I really did. Do you feel like that's something that
- 57:01Speaker 1: you need to heal like that situation.
- 57:04Speaker 21: I'm hoping at some point, you know, I'm definitely hoping
- 57:08Speaker 21: at some point for sure.
- 57:10Speaker 4: Yeah, I want to ask you too, if you pick
- 57:12Speaker 4: a crew to run with in real life, would you
- 57:15Speaker 4: choose between the cast or set it off?
- 57:17Speaker 1: For the cast of girls? Set it off?
- 57:20Speaker 22: Oh that's a hard one, Damn Charlamagne, that's a hard one.
- 57:25Speaker 6: Set it off.
- 57:26Speaker 20: It was Rioters, they were ters, for sure.
- 57:30Speaker 21: But you know both crews they got, you know, they
- 57:32Speaker 21: got something real special. Yeah, I'm gonna plead the fifth
- 57:37Speaker 21: on that.
- 57:39Speaker 4: I only got two more questions, like, when you having
- 57:41Speaker 4: these conversations now, how do you know in your words
- 57:45Speaker 4: that this isn't the pseudo guru using rationale and borrowed
- 57:49Speaker 4: wisdom to tell.
- 57:50Speaker 1: You what you want to hear?
- 57:54Speaker 22: Because it sits so beautifully in my heart.
- 57:58Speaker 21: Now, what I will say about it, that is, that's
- 58:02Speaker 21: why you gotta always stay open because as we continue
- 58:07Speaker 21: to grow and learn, you know, it's Bruce Lee said,
- 58:11Speaker 21: it best be like water. You know what I mean,
- 58:14Speaker 21: Because that's where I'm sitting right now.
- 58:17Speaker 20: Who knows when I come back, If you know.
- 58:19Speaker 21: What it'll be then because we just gotta stay open,
- 58:22Speaker 21: we gotta stay fluid.
- 58:23Speaker 20: But for now, it's what speaks to me deeply, you know,
- 58:30Speaker 20: And that's all we got, you know, for the moment.
- 58:33Speaker 4: My last question, and it's a quote, And the quote
- 58:36Speaker 4: is other people's opinion to you, whether it's good or bad,
- 58:38Speaker 4: should not be ground And what you base your self worth,
- 58:41Speaker 4: your value is inherent within you.
- 58:43Speaker 1: What matters the most is whether you know you are worthy.
- 58:47Speaker 1: So do you know you're worthy?
- 58:48Speaker 20: Absolutely? And you know what it really comes from.
- 58:52Speaker 21: And I wanted to say this in regards to the
- 58:54Speaker 21: question you asked about self worth really dealing with self judgment, Like,
- 59:01Speaker 21: once we can cure our self judgment in a certain manner, right,
- 59:08Speaker 21: people's opinion about you can only affect you if you
- 59:12Speaker 21: believe it, you know what I mean. Once you really
- 59:16Speaker 21: know who you are, once you really know your self worth,
- 59:20Speaker 21: anything that anybody else has to say about you really
- 59:24Speaker 21: can't affect you, you know. And so you know, I
- 59:29Speaker 21: know how much work it's taken for me to get
- 59:31Speaker 21: to know myself. I can't expect anybody else to know
- 59:34Speaker 21: me like that, you know what I mean? So I
- 59:39Speaker 21: have to be willing and accept whatever opinions come my way.
- 59:43Speaker 1: I get it. Absolutely.
- 59:46Speaker 3: Yeah, gentlemen, thank you.
- 59:53Speaker 1: This was beautiful.
- 59:54Speaker 6: The book worthy is out right now. Make sure you
- 59:55Speaker 6: get it and thank you.
- 59:58Speaker 20: No, I won't not at all.
- 1:00:00Speaker 6: It's the Breakfast Cloud, It's Jada Pika Smith.
- 1:00:03Speaker 1: The Breakfast Club. Your mornings will never be the same.
- 1:00:07Speaker 5: I was donkey up to day.
- 1:00:11Speaker 1: Damn he hogged. It's time for donkey the d I
- 1:00:16Speaker 1: ain't trying to be donkey today no more. They should
- 1:00:18Speaker 1: be embarrassed by what they already did. I'm not making
- 1:00:20Speaker 1: these people do these days called Donkey of the Day,
- 1:00:22Speaker 1: and it really caught me off guard.
- 1:00:25Speaker 8: Damn charlamagn who got the donkey out the day today?
- 1:00:29Speaker 5: Wow?
- 1:00:30Speaker 1: Jess hilarious.
- 1:00:30Speaker 4: Donkey Today for Thursday, November sixteenth goes to thirty five
- 1:00:33Speaker 4: year old Joseph Halder. I think I say pronounce his
- 1:00:36Speaker 4: name of a volunteer firefighter from the Upper Peninsula of Michigan.
- 1:00:39Speaker 4: This is one of those ones that caused me to
- 1:00:41Speaker 4: reflect a little. And in my reflection I thought to myself,
- 1:00:45Speaker 4: I wonder if humans are as insane as Donkey of
- 1:00:47Speaker 4: the Day makes them out to be, maybe I need
- 1:00:50Speaker 4: to give humans the benefit of the doubt. Boor and say, hey,
- 1:00:52Speaker 4: it's just me. You're the guy who does Donkey of
- 1:00:55Speaker 4: to day, so you choose to seek out this crazy
- 1:00:57Speaker 4: every day. And since I choose to seek this crazy
- 1:01:00Speaker 4: every day, I attracted crazy by way of stories. Okay,
- 1:01:03Speaker 4: people send me these things and I read them and
- 1:01:05Speaker 4: I can't believe them. So I read them again and
- 1:01:07Speaker 4: I still can't believe them. Then I check out the
- 1:01:09Speaker 4: sauces to make sure that these stories are real because
- 1:01:11Speaker 4: I don't believe them. And every morning we end up here,
- 1:01:15Speaker 4: same donkey time, same donkey channel, and today is really
- 1:01:17Speaker 4: no exception. Salute to all the public servants out there,
- 1:01:20Speaker 4: all the individuals who realize that your true purpose in
- 1:01:23Speaker 4: life is service to others, dropping the clues bombs for
- 1:01:25Speaker 4: those individuals. I told you, Joseph, it is a volunteer
- 1:01:28Speaker 4: filler for firefighter. Volunteer firefighters are absolutely public servants. Being
- 1:01:33Speaker 4: a volunteer firefighter is absolutely an active service. But do
- 1:01:36Speaker 4: you ever think to yourself, well, what if you're a
- 1:01:39Speaker 4: firefighter and there's nothing to do, nobody to serve. What
- 1:01:43Speaker 4: if you're a firefighter and there's no fires to fight
- 1:01:46Speaker 4: because there is no fires? Have you ever thought about
- 1:01:48Speaker 4: that well, Joseph has and you also had a solution.
- 1:01:51Speaker 4: Let's go to WSB channel two for the report.
- 1:01:53Speaker 1: Police.
- 1:01:54Speaker 14: It was the third such structured fighter in the area
- 1:01:57Speaker 14: in a short amount of time, which by self is
- 1:02:00Speaker 14: kind of suspicious.
- 1:02:01Speaker 26: A volunteer firefighter for the Whitefish Township Fire Department was
- 1:02:05Speaker 26: officially charged today for setting a building on fire Saturday night.
- 1:02:10Speaker 26: Joseph Halder was a firefighter on the department for only
- 1:02:13Speaker 26: a few months. Today he stepped in front of a
- 1:02:15Speaker 26: judge for arson. Halder is accused of setting fire to
- 1:02:18Speaker 26: the building that used to house Ruth's Gift Shop in
- 1:02:21Speaker 26: downtown Paradise. Chipwall County Sheriff Mike Bittner was on the
- 1:02:25Speaker 26: scene moments after the call came in. He immediately looked
- 1:02:28Speaker 26: over surveillance footage from a gas station across the street.
- 1:02:32Speaker 26: A short time later, deputies arrested Halder while he was
- 1:02:35Speaker 26: fighting the fire. Helder is charged with third degree arson.
- 1:02:39Speaker 26: He's facing ten years in prison and a twenty thousand
- 1:02:42Speaker 26: dollars fine.
- 1:02:43Speaker 1: Only you can prevent firefighters, firefires. What am I trying
- 1:02:47Speaker 1: to say? Forest fires?
- 1:02:48Speaker 17: Here?
- 1:02:48Speaker 6: You go, okay, firefighters, right, Well, that's right.
- 1:02:52Speaker 4: Only you can prevent farest fires. And you know how
- 1:02:54Speaker 4: you prevent them by not starting them yourself? Okay, starting
- 1:02:58Speaker 4: in my life. This is a literal, physical, tangible example
- 1:03:01Speaker 4: of what self destruction looks like. See when you start
- 1:03:03Speaker 4: going to therapy right and doing the work on yourself
- 1:03:06Speaker 4: and start healing some of these traumas, when you get
- 1:03:08Speaker 4: to the place in your life where you know you
- 1:03:09Speaker 4: start feeling pockets to peace, when you start feeling genuine happiness,
- 1:03:13Speaker 4: when you feel.
- 1:03:13Speaker 1: Joy, you will find a way to start a fire.
- 1:03:16Speaker 12: Right.
- 1:03:17Speaker 4: This man started a fire and then showed up to
- 1:03:19Speaker 4: put out the fire that he helped start.
- 1:03:21Speaker 1: I promise you this is the version of me that
- 1:03:24Speaker 1: I run from.
- 1:03:24Speaker 4: I don't want to start any fires, especially when things
- 1:03:27Speaker 4: are peaceful. When things are peaceful, I want them to
- 1:03:29Speaker 4: remain peaceful. I don't want to go grab a canister
- 1:03:31Speaker 4: something flammable, some fire and set things aflame just because
- 1:03:35Speaker 4: I'm not used to peace. This man, Joseph, was looking
- 1:03:38Speaker 4: for chaos. He was working with the fire department for
- 1:03:40Speaker 4: just a few months, and he wanted action so much
- 1:03:43Speaker 4: so that he started a fire himself and then went
- 1:03:46Speaker 4: to help.
- 1:03:46Speaker 1: Put it out.
- 1:03:48Speaker 4: I know people like this, right, now in corporate America.
- 1:03:52Speaker 4: I know people like this right now in my life.
- 1:03:55Speaker 4: They will create a problem themselves just so they can have.
- 1:03:58Speaker 1: Something to do, just so they have some to fix.
- 1:04:00Speaker 4: Let me tell you something, when you have to do
- 1:04:02Speaker 4: things like that in order to feel like you did something,
- 1:04:04Speaker 4: then you need to do some internal work on yourself,
- 1:04:06Speaker 4: because that don't make any damn sense.
- 1:04:08Speaker 1: All right.
- 1:04:09Speaker 4: Paul Sloan says, the innovative leader has to be an
- 1:04:12Speaker 4: arsonist and a firefighter. But I don't think he meant
- 1:04:14Speaker 4: that literally, Okay, Nor josephs Through, I believe you are
- 1:04:17Speaker 4: an innovative leader. And did you know that roughly it's
- 1:04:20Speaker 4: a fun little snap effect. Roughly one hundred firefighters are
- 1:04:23Speaker 4: convicted of arson each year.
- 1:04:25Speaker 1: It's called firefighter arson. True story.
- 1:04:27Speaker 4: There is a very small minority of firefighters who are
- 1:04:30Speaker 4: also active arsonists. And guess what they say motivates these
- 1:04:34Speaker 4: people boredom okay, are by the prospect of receiving attention
- 1:04:40Speaker 4: for responding to the fires. They have said, sound familiar, Okay,
- 1:04:44Speaker 4: I told y'all earlier this week, I don't mind as
- 1:04:46Speaker 4: the devil's workshop. These folks really don't be having anything
- 1:04:48Speaker 4: to do This is truly the era that has everything
- 1:04:52Speaker 4: and absolutely nothing all at once. And that is because
- 1:04:55Speaker 4: the things you all crave aren't real. You got all
- 1:04:58Speaker 4: these followers on social media, but no real connection to nobody.
- 1:05:02Speaker 4: Your log on every day to a community that's not
- 1:05:04Speaker 4: even a real community. You're seeking validation and attention and
- 1:05:09Speaker 4: likes and retweets and engagement. None of it is real,
- 1:05:12Speaker 4: and that's why you're bored and you resort to doing
- 1:05:14Speaker 4: dumb snicker doodles.
- 1:05:15Speaker 1: That's a bet edit like Joseph did.
- 1:05:18Speaker 4: Now Joseph is facing up to ten years in prison
- 1:05:20Speaker 4: and a twenty thousand dollars fine, and he's a person
- 1:05:22Speaker 4: of interest and at least two other fires in the area.
- 1:05:26Speaker 4: Some donkey today is just sell themselves. Please let me
- 1:05:29Speaker 4: remind give Joseph Handler the biggest he.
- 1:05:31Speaker 1: Huh hee ha he ha.
- 1:05:33Speaker 3: You stupid motherfucker?
- 1:05:35Speaker 1: Are you dumb?
- 1:05:36Speaker 4: I can't believe you'll be doing this snicker doodles? And
- 1:05:39Speaker 4: don't be Joseph Hadler. Okay, don't start a fire just
- 1:05:42Speaker 4: to have something to do. Not only that, there's some
- 1:05:44Speaker 4: of us who will set ourselves on fire to keep
- 1:05:47Speaker 4: others warm. That means you put other people's knees in
- 1:05:50Speaker 4: front of your own. You do know that's not sustainable, right, okay,
- 1:05:54Speaker 4: just so we're clear, all right, Well, thank you for
- 1:05:56Speaker 4: that donkey today, sir.
- 1:05:58Speaker 6: Now when we come back, well first be et will
- 1:06:00Speaker 6: see them all piece be et now when we come back.
- 1:06:03Speaker 6: Jada Pickett Smith, she was on the show Last Home.
- 1:06:06Speaker 6: We spoke to her for what over an hour?
- 1:06:09Speaker 1: H sure? Yeah, we spoke to her for over whole
- 1:06:11Speaker 1: conversation is on YouTube, by the way. Yeah, you cans
- 1:06:13Speaker 1: into it right now, watch it right now.
- 1:06:15Speaker 6: She talked about in relationships and in marriages, having friends
- 1:06:19Speaker 6: with the opposite sex, and this.
- 1:06:22Speaker 1: Is what she actually said.
- 1:06:23Speaker 6: When Will was up here, he talked about being insecure
- 1:06:26Speaker 6: a little bit about Tupac. Did y'all ever have that conversation?
- 1:06:30Speaker 6: Because as a man, when you're a little insecure, I
- 1:06:33Speaker 6: almost feel like you play both sides. You want to
- 1:06:35Speaker 6: be yourself, but you want to show that you're better
- 1:06:37Speaker 6: than the person that's making him insecured. Did y'all ever
- 1:06:39Speaker 6: have that conversation?
- 1:06:41Speaker 20: I wouldn't say that we had conversations in that way.
- 1:06:44Speaker 21: It was just like, you know, we came up in
- 1:06:46Speaker 21: the era where it was so unusual for a man
- 1:06:51Speaker 21: and a woman to be friends.
- 1:06:53Speaker 20: In our era, that was just like friends, they had
- 1:06:56Speaker 20: to be dating. Yeah, like what what right?
- 1:06:58Speaker 21: And so I think for him it was just like
- 1:07:03Speaker 21: getting your mind around around that, you know, and that
- 1:07:08Speaker 21: the kind of friendship that we had, because we had
- 1:07:12Speaker 21: such a you know, tight friendship that you know, was
- 1:07:18Speaker 21: very impactful on my life.
- 1:07:20Speaker 6: All right, So let's discuss eight hundred and five eight
- 1:07:23Speaker 6: five one oh five to one. When you're in a relationship,
- 1:07:26Speaker 6: is it okay for your spouse or your significant other
- 1:07:29Speaker 6: to have friends of the opposite sex, not.
- 1:07:32Speaker 1: Even just in marriage, but in life.
- 1:07:33Speaker 4: You can have platonic friendships like I got wave of
- 1:07:35Speaker 4: homegirls and I got homeboys, and a lot of times
- 1:07:38Speaker 4: a lot of these people are grandfathered in, like you know,
- 1:07:40Speaker 4: y'all been friends forever, you know what I mean. And
- 1:07:44Speaker 4: another thing Jada said during that conversation, she was like,
- 1:07:47Speaker 4: she didn't say, you know, we're not talking about new people,
- 1:07:49Speaker 4: talking about people that have been around for a long time.
- 1:07:52Speaker 7: And it kind of helps you too, like in your
- 1:07:54Speaker 7: relationship to have friends that are of the opposite sex.
- 1:07:58Speaker 7: So when you vent or not telling them, you're you know,
- 1:08:00Speaker 7: personal business. But when you tell them what's going on,
- 1:08:02Speaker 7: they give you a perspective that your significant other might
- 1:08:05Speaker 7: have and kind of balance it out.
- 1:08:06Speaker 3: You don't have a whole lot of yes men about yo.
- 1:08:08Speaker 3: I feel you, bro, No, I don't feel you.
- 1:08:10Speaker 6: You messed up or it can hurt you know, Like
- 1:08:12Speaker 6: Charlemagne said, no new friends, no new people coming around.
- 1:08:16Speaker 6: If that, if the individual is a new then we
- 1:08:18Speaker 6: all friends. Right, we all speak, but it ain't.
- 1:08:21Speaker 1: It ain't a.
- 1:08:21Speaker 6: Situation where you just speak to my wife or I
- 1:08:25Speaker 6: just speak to her. No, no, no, no, We all friends, but.
- 1:08:27Speaker 7: Even even old friendships should still be We all friends.
- 1:08:31Speaker 1: Absolutely. Yeah.
- 1:08:32Speaker 6: Yeah, So let's discuss eight hundred and five eight five
- 1:08:35Speaker 6: one oh five one. What are your thoughts? Phone lines
- 1:08:36Speaker 6: wide open. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning the Breakfast Club.
- 1:08:46Speaker 13: Man.
- 1:08:46Speaker 1: It's topic time.
- 1:08:49Speaker 2: Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one to
- 1:08:51Speaker 2: join into the discussion with the Breakfast Club.
- 1:08:54Speaker 1: More than everybody.
- 1:08:55Speaker 6: It's dj en V Charlemagne, the God. We are the
- 1:08:58Speaker 6: Breakfast Club. Now if you just joining us, we're talking
- 1:09:01Speaker 6: about Jada Pinkins Smith.
- 1:09:02Speaker 1: She was on the show earlier.
- 1:09:03Speaker 6: By the way, we have our guest co host, Easy
- 1:09:06Speaker 6: baby with us this morning as well, and we were
- 1:09:08Speaker 6: talking about in relationships, marriages or whatever it may be
- 1:09:12Speaker 6: your significant other, having a friend of the opposite sex. Now,
- 1:09:15Speaker 6: this is what Jada Pinkinsmith said when we was up here.
- 1:09:18Speaker 6: He talked about being insecure a little bit about Tupac.
- 1:09:22Speaker 6: Did y'all ever have that conversation? Because as a man,
- 1:09:25Speaker 6: when you're a little insecure, I almost feel like you
- 1:09:28Speaker 6: play both sides. You want to be yourself, but you
- 1:09:30Speaker 6: want to show that you're better than the person that's
- 1:09:32Speaker 6: making him insecured. Did y'all ever have that conversation?
- 1:09:35Speaker 20: I wouldn't say that we had conversations in that way.
- 1:09:38Speaker 21: It was just like, you know, we came up in
- 1:09:40Speaker 21: the era where it was so unusual for a man
- 1:09:45Speaker 21: and a woman to be friends.
- 1:09:47Speaker 20: In our era, that was just like friends.
- 1:09:49Speaker 1: They had to be dating.
- 1:09:50Speaker 20: Yeah, like what what right?
- 1:09:52Speaker 21: And so I think for him it was just like
- 1:09:57Speaker 21: getting your mind around a around that, you know, and
- 1:10:02Speaker 21: that the kind of friendship that we had because we
- 1:10:05Speaker 21: had such a you know, tight friendship that you know,
- 1:10:11Speaker 21: it was very impactful on my life.
- 1:10:13Speaker 6: All right, let's discuss what are your thoughts that start
- 1:10:15Speaker 6: with you?
- 1:10:16Speaker 1: Baby?
- 1:10:17Speaker 3: I don't know.
- 1:10:17Speaker 7: I feel like relationships with the opposite sex are necessary,
- 1:10:21Speaker 7: Like how can you just be in this world and
- 1:10:23Speaker 7: just be around people that have the same private parts
- 1:10:26Speaker 7: you have? You're gonna you may streamline your thinking, you
- 1:10:30Speaker 7: can't really get opposed you know, feelings or thoughts.
- 1:10:33Speaker 3: So I think it's necessary.
- 1:10:34Speaker 7: But I think you also have to have respect for
- 1:10:36Speaker 7: your partner, Like I would marry somebody that didn't trust
- 1:10:38Speaker 7: me in a room without them. So you gotta trust
- 1:10:41Speaker 7: that I'm gonna put you first, and I'm gonna honor
- 1:10:43Speaker 7: the vows that I made to you, and that you
- 1:10:45Speaker 7: know I'm not gonna put nobody in our circle that
- 1:10:48Speaker 7: could threaten what we got.
- 1:10:49Speaker 6: So yeah, and in my relationship with me and my wife,
- 1:10:53Speaker 6: we don't really trust too many people. So for us,
- 1:10:56Speaker 6: it has to be mutual friends, right, meaning you know,
- 1:11:00Speaker 6: we meet them together and not like not like Charlomage
- 1:11:02Speaker 6: said earlier, like I can't just meet you at the
- 1:11:04Speaker 6: grocery store and now we're friends, and it's not going
- 1:11:05Speaker 6: to be like that. It has to be some type
- 1:11:07Speaker 6: of establishment, and my wife has to approve, and with her,
- 1:11:10Speaker 6: I have to approve. Outside of that, No, we're not
- 1:11:13Speaker 6: taking on new friends, and we it has to be
- 1:11:16Speaker 6: our friends, Like I mean, I should be able to
- 1:11:18Speaker 6: call that person like you should be able to call
- 1:11:19Speaker 6: that person. It should be a cohesive type of situation.
- 1:11:23Speaker 1: Charlamagne. Yeah, I never even think about it until this
- 1:11:26Speaker 1: discussion comes up.
- 1:11:27Speaker 4: I got mad homegirls, right, yeah, my homegirls and my
- 1:11:31Speaker 4: wives friends too.
- 1:11:32Speaker 1: In fact, they probably like her more than they like me.
- 1:11:35Speaker 6: Everybody does, like, so I don't.
- 1:11:37Speaker 1: Even like this discussion is like very it's silly to me,
- 1:11:40Speaker 1: it's immature.
- 1:11:41Speaker 4: You know, a lot of people feel that way because
- 1:11:43Speaker 4: sometimes they got insecurities and they immature, or it's.
- 1:11:46Speaker 6: New friends, and sometimes people are not around for the
- 1:11:49Speaker 6: right reason. And we know this, and I know especially
- 1:11:51Speaker 6: and I hate to say this, a lot of fellas
- 1:11:53Speaker 6: sometimes will try to befriend your girl, not because they
- 1:11:56Speaker 6: want to be a friend, your girl's friend, they want
- 1:11:58Speaker 6: to smash Well.
- 1:11:59Speaker 4: I'm never trying to befriend nobody. I'm never trying to
- 1:12:01Speaker 4: befriend a man's girl. Like that's not happening.
- 1:12:04Speaker 1: Like people do that.
- 1:12:05Speaker 4: There's reasons why, you know, either your friends or your
- 1:12:09Speaker 4: friends or even these new people who may come into
- 1:12:11Speaker 4: your life, y'all, might work together, you know what I mean,
- 1:12:14Speaker 4: y'all might be doing projects together.
- 1:12:16Speaker 1: Like anytime I'm gonna be spending time.
- 1:12:18Speaker 4: With anyone, my wife is gonna know who that person is,
- 1:12:21Speaker 4: you know what I mean, whether it's a man or
- 1:12:22Speaker 4: a woman. Hey, we're doing such and such with this individual,
- 1:12:25Speaker 4: or hey, we're all going out to dinner. We're all
- 1:12:28Speaker 4: going My wife is gonna be to everybody like, there's
- 1:12:30Speaker 4: no woman in my life that's my friend, that ain't
- 1:12:33Speaker 4: out wife.
- 1:12:34Speaker 7: And a lot of people are taking like teenage drama
- 1:12:37Speaker 7: into big age relationships, Like you know, you had to
- 1:12:40Speaker 7: worry about this stuff in high school. People break up
- 1:12:42Speaker 7: and get together with a new person next week. It's
- 1:12:44Speaker 7: really not the same when you're forty.
- 1:12:46Speaker 4: If you can't have a platonic relationship with somebody from
- 1:12:48Speaker 4: the opposite sex, something wrong with you.
- 1:12:50Speaker 23: Bro.
- 1:12:51Speaker 1: Let's go to the phone lines. We have dupre on
- 1:12:53Speaker 1: the line.
- 1:12:53Speaker 18: Dupre man, what's the djella money?
- 1:12:56Speaker 1: And I guess, busy baby, what's up? Dupree talk to us?
- 1:12:59Speaker 18: Dupre so I was I was listening for what Jedi
- 1:13:02Speaker 18: was talking about. I definitely got female friends. I don't
- 1:13:04Speaker 18: really hang out with dudes. And my baby mama who's
- 1:13:07Speaker 18: now my fiance. She don't really be liking it.
- 1:13:09Speaker 13: She's jealous and.
- 1:13:10Speaker 14: Stuff like that.
- 1:13:11Speaker 11: There and they just had a party and I'm like,
- 1:13:12Speaker 11: and I'm trying to go to the party.
- 1:13:14Speaker 18: She's like, no, you ain't going.
- 1:13:15Speaker 11: They be working and stuff, and I'm like, gonna meet it.
- 1:13:18Speaker 6: Yeah, but why would you bring your baby mama there?
- 1:13:21Speaker 6: Why would you bring what you?
- 1:13:23Speaker 14: So when they hit me with the invite, I'm like,
- 1:13:25Speaker 14: since we just got to get it, I'm like, man,
- 1:13:27Speaker 14: I know she gonna want to come, and they was like,
- 1:13:29Speaker 14: that's cool, she could come, but she still was do
- 1:13:31Speaker 14: some type of ways. So I'm like, man, whatever, I
- 1:13:34Speaker 14: end up not going, like I just want to sleep.
- 1:13:36Speaker 13: I wake up in the morning and.
- 1:13:37Speaker 14: Looked on social media.
- 1:13:38Speaker 18: They definitely was working, so it was just.
- 1:13:40Speaker 11: Like after they do though, I like getting around me
- 1:13:43Speaker 11: shout out to the homegirls, man for real, for real.
- 1:13:45Speaker 7: But if if you had included her in that friendship
- 1:13:48Speaker 7: from the beginning, it wouldn't have been.
- 1:13:49Speaker 3: Days working, it would have been weeds working.
- 1:13:51Speaker 20: It would have been a.
- 1:13:52Speaker 11: Home But I was always then made her friends though,
- 1:13:55Speaker 11: so like I can understand like them mad with your
- 1:13:58Speaker 11: friends that you ain't gonna really want to around them
- 1:14:00Speaker 11: girls because you don't know.
- 1:14:01Speaker 3: But hold that bright. You supposed to be the bridge
- 1:14:04Speaker 3: between that though.
- 1:14:05Speaker 7: You supposed to be the bridge between your friends and
- 1:14:07Speaker 7: your girlfriend, and that that should have already been better
- 1:14:09Speaker 7: than it is.
- 1:14:10Speaker 11: I would say for the most part, she was cool
- 1:14:12Speaker 11: with something like, you know, that's on you not I
- 1:14:15Speaker 11: wanted to come around. You could have came around.
- 1:14:17Speaker 1: Even when you cool.
- 1:14:19Speaker 6: You was like I got the invitation. You was like, damn,
- 1:14:21Speaker 6: you know my wife gonna you know, you know I
- 1:14:22Speaker 6: have to bring her. You didn't say, you didn't make
- 1:14:24Speaker 6: it seem like she was invited to.
- 1:14:29Speaker 5: Her friends be kicking it.
- 1:14:30Speaker 13: I ain't chilling with this, you know what I mean?
- 1:14:32Speaker 11: You go with your friends. These are my friends.
- 1:14:34Speaker 5: This is who I grew up with.
- 1:14:35Speaker 11: I've been knowing them to seventh.
- 1:14:36Speaker 5: Grade, you know what I mean.
- 1:14:36Speaker 11: We're thirty years old now. So it's like at any
- 1:14:39Speaker 11: point in time you like, oh, yeah, i've been I've
- 1:14:41Speaker 11: been knew there was your homegirls.
- 1:14:43Speaker 5: I'm just gonna hang with y'all.
- 1:14:43Speaker 11: I don't have plenty of girls. I'm kicking it with y'all,
- 1:14:46Speaker 11: you know what I mean. But that's on you to
- 1:14:48Speaker 11: choose felt some type of way you never want.
- 1:14:50Speaker 10: To come na.
- 1:14:54Speaker 1: Like BZ said, you gotta be the bridge bro like you.
- 1:14:57Speaker 4: And if those are really your friends, they gonna absolutely
- 1:14:59Speaker 4: not only want to meet your fiance, they don't want
- 1:15:02Speaker 4: to accept her and embrace her as a friend too.
- 1:15:04Speaker 6: Hello who's this Yanni?
- 1:15:06Speaker 1: Hey, Yanni, good morning to talk to us like the egg, no,
- 1:15:11Speaker 1: like the pi and not the tis.
- 1:15:14Speaker 5: What All right? Go ahead?
- 1:15:17Speaker 10: Yanni?
- 1:15:18Speaker 15: Okay, Okay, So my take on this is like, I'm
- 1:15:24Speaker 15: I'm a girl that have really don't have many female
- 1:15:27Speaker 15: friends because just acts funny sometimes. But I believe like
- 1:15:31Speaker 15: you guys are saying, if you have a friend that
- 1:15:33Speaker 15: you've had for a long time, then everyone should be
- 1:15:36Speaker 15: friends and everyone should be comfortable with it. For a girl,
- 1:15:39Speaker 15: it's easy to have dudes as friends because they're gonna think,
- 1:15:42Speaker 15: I know how I get down. They're gonna think one
- 1:15:44Speaker 15: day maybe it might happen, but they're gonna still continue
- 1:15:46Speaker 15: to be loyal.
- 1:15:48Speaker 18: I think when the dude.
- 1:15:49Speaker 15: Has a female friend, they be It's more like if
- 1:15:51Speaker 15: he ify even if you get to know them, because
- 1:15:55Speaker 15: I don't know I'm a female, I don't know how
- 1:15:57Speaker 15: females get down, So I wouldn't be really comfortable with that.
- 1:16:00Speaker 15: But on my part, I was I wouldn't have a
- 1:16:02Speaker 15: bottom with having my dude friends and that was my dude.
- 1:16:05Speaker 13: You know.
- 1:16:06Speaker 7: So you are right with it because you feel like
- 1:16:08Speaker 7: you can control whether or not it goes down because
- 1:16:11Speaker 7: you know you're giving them access or you're denying access.
- 1:16:14Speaker 7: But when it comes to your man, you feel like
- 1:16:16Speaker 7: he can't control himself. He just if they open it up,
- 1:16:19Speaker 7: he just diving in.
- 1:16:20Speaker 15: Well I'm not saying totally, but you know, I mean personally,
- 1:16:24Speaker 15: I just feel like guys got that little extra okay
- 1:16:27Speaker 15: maybe or you know, let it get a little too closed,
- 1:16:30Speaker 15: you know, withisper in his ears are like, nah, we're
- 1:16:32Speaker 15: not doing that.
- 1:16:33Speaker 5: So no Oka.
- 1:16:34Speaker 6: Thank you, Yanni eight hundred and five eight five one
- 1:16:37Speaker 6: oh five one. If you're just joining us, we're talking
- 1:16:39Speaker 6: about Jada Pink Smith. Something she said during our interview
- 1:16:42Speaker 6: about uh, men having women friends and women having men friends.
- 1:16:46Speaker 6: We'll discuss when we come back as the Breakfast Club.
- 1:16:47Speaker 1: Good morning, it's topic time.
- 1:16:52Speaker 3: The phone.
- 1:16:55Speaker 2: Called eight hundred and five eight five five one to
- 1:16:57Speaker 2: join into the discussion with the Breakfast Club talking.
- 1:16:59Speaker 1: About it wearing everybody.
- 1:17:01Speaker 6: It's DJ Envy, CHARLAMAGNEA God. We are to Breakfast Club
- 1:17:05Speaker 6: now if you're just joining us. Jada Pinkett Smith was
- 1:17:08Speaker 6: here last hour. We were talking about men having women
- 1:17:11Speaker 6: friends and women having men friends, and this is how
- 1:17:13Speaker 6: a conversation started. When we was up here, he talked
- 1:17:16Speaker 6: about being insecure a little bit about Tupac. Did y'all
- 1:17:20Speaker 6: ever have that conversation? Because as a man, when you're
- 1:17:23Speaker 6: a little insecure, I almost feel like you play both sides.
- 1:17:26Speaker 6: You want to be yourself, but you want to show
- 1:17:28Speaker 6: that you're better than the person that's making him insecure.
- 1:17:30Speaker 6: Did y'all ever have that conversation?
- 1:17:32Speaker 20: I wouldn't say that we had conversations in that way.
- 1:17:35Speaker 21: It was just like, you know, we came up in
- 1:17:38Speaker 21: the era where it was so unusual for a man
- 1:17:43Speaker 21: and a woman to be friends.
- 1:17:44Speaker 20: In our era, that was just like friends.
- 1:17:47Speaker 1: They had to be dating.
- 1:17:48Speaker 20: Yeah, like what what?
- 1:17:49Speaker 17: Right?
- 1:17:50Speaker 21: And so I think for him it was just like
- 1:17:55Speaker 21: getting your mind around around that, you know, and that
- 1:18:00Speaker 21: the kind of friendship that we had because we had
- 1:18:03Speaker 21: such a you know, tight friendship that you know.
- 1:18:09Speaker 20: Was very impactful on my life.
- 1:18:11Speaker 6: So we're asking eight hundred five eighty five one oh
- 1:18:13Speaker 6: five to one, what are your thoughts now? Beasy Baby,
- 1:18:16Speaker 6: as our guest co host today, she feels like men
- 1:18:19Speaker 6: should have women friends and women should have men friends.
- 1:18:21Speaker 7: Yeah, you have to now, you can't be a well
- 1:18:23Speaker 7: rounded individual just walking around with a whole bunch of
- 1:18:26Speaker 7: I don't want to be in a room full of
- 1:18:27Speaker 7: nothing but vagina.
- 1:18:28Speaker 13: You know.
- 1:18:29Speaker 3: I feel like I grew up with the all brothers.
- 1:18:32Speaker 7: You know, they teach me things about myself and about
- 1:18:35Speaker 7: men that I need to know. So as I get older,
- 1:18:38Speaker 7: I don't know. I got male best friends, and my
- 1:18:40Speaker 7: husband's cool with that, and I'm okay with him having
- 1:18:42Speaker 7: girlfriends dis respect absolutely.
- 1:18:44Speaker 6: Like the caller said earlier that the thing that he
- 1:18:46Speaker 6: was saying that, you know, he didn't know if he
- 1:18:47Speaker 6: wanted to bring his fiance around his other friends. I'm
- 1:18:50Speaker 6: the different. I'm totally different. When I go out, Baby,
- 1:18:53Speaker 6: you want to come because I'm going to have just
- 1:18:54Speaker 6: as much friend with the homies than with my wife
- 1:18:56Speaker 6: as well. Like anybody ever see me out or I've
- 1:18:59Speaker 6: been out anywhere, I've been my wife with me. I
- 1:19:01Speaker 6: have a great time with my wife. I drink my
- 1:19:02Speaker 6: wife drink.
- 1:19:03Speaker 1: It don't matter.
- 1:19:04Speaker 6: We have a good time. If we go to a
- 1:19:06Speaker 6: strip club, we both tipp it. If we go to
- 1:19:08Speaker 6: I don't know, casina, we both gambling, like we have
- 1:19:11Speaker 6: that much fun.
- 1:19:12Speaker 7: But it's a little questionable when somebody sends an invite
- 1:19:15Speaker 7: to DJ Envy as opposed to you and your wife,
- 1:19:18Speaker 7: Like the invite should be coming to both of you anyway,
- 1:19:20Speaker 7: one hundred percent.
- 1:19:22Speaker 4: And that's what I told the dude last time, Like
- 1:19:23Speaker 4: when he said he didn't want to bring his fiance
- 1:19:26Speaker 4: around his friends. Your friends should not only want to
- 1:19:30Speaker 4: meet your fiance, they should be embracing your fiance and
- 1:19:33Speaker 4: bringing her into the circle of friends with open arms.
- 1:19:35Speaker 1: Correct. Correct, Well, let's go to the phone lines. The lord,
- 1:19:37Speaker 1: who's this?
- 1:19:39Speaker 17: This is Lydia.
- 1:19:40Speaker 1: Hey, Lydia, good.
- 1:19:41Speaker 5: Morning, good morning every day.
- 1:19:44Speaker 1: Oh my god, what's your thoughts?
- 1:19:47Speaker 3: So my thoughts is I.
- 1:19:49Speaker 27: Believe it's okay for each us to have guy or
- 1:19:53Speaker 27: girlfriends as long as they are respectful of the relationship
- 1:19:57Speaker 27: fast marriage because we are married. So and then I
- 1:20:01Speaker 27: work in the night life part time, so I'm a bartender, waitress,
- 1:20:04Speaker 27: and I have a bunch of guy friends that I
- 1:20:06Speaker 27: work with for years. And when my husband and I
- 1:20:10Speaker 27: first started dating, he was very like accepting of everything
- 1:20:12Speaker 27: and everybody because everybody was like cool and respectful. And
- 1:20:18Speaker 27: once I got married, like everybody was like, nah, she's married,
- 1:20:21Speaker 27: leave her alone, leave her alone, like they were very
- 1:20:24Speaker 27: perspective of me. So yeah, and then his girls grow
- 1:20:28Speaker 27: homegirls that he's had, there's only ever been one person
- 1:20:31Speaker 27: that I have to be like, she's not your friend,
- 1:20:33Speaker 27: because a girl just knows when somebody's trying to put.
- 1:20:36Speaker 6: Her do so, but I won't say that that might
- 1:20:39Speaker 6: change it a little bit too, right. And the reason
- 1:20:41Speaker 6: I say that might change if you're if you're working
- 1:20:44Speaker 6: and guys are hollering at you all day long, I
- 1:20:46Speaker 6: think that can make any guy feel a little insecure.
- 1:20:49Speaker 8: Why.
- 1:20:50Speaker 27: I mean, he doesn't say anything like because they don't
- 1:20:53Speaker 27: touch me, they don't do anything, Like they can look
- 1:20:56Speaker 27: and they can say what they want to say, and
- 1:20:57Speaker 27: he did. He's not bothered by it because he knows
- 1:21:00Speaker 27: at the end of the night, I'm coming home.
- 1:21:02Speaker 1: That's right.
- 1:21:04Speaker 4: So what you're what you're calling being bothered and is
- 1:21:07Speaker 4: actually just called being insecure, Yes, I said, but why
- 1:21:10Speaker 4: so you don't trust your woman? No?
- 1:21:12Speaker 6: It's not a matter about trusting, but it's just a
- 1:21:14Speaker 6: certain job. So when you bartend, the most bartender is
- 1:21:17Speaker 6: I would say a majority of them. They when they
- 1:21:20Speaker 6: serve drinks, they flirt a little, right. We've all had
- 1:21:22Speaker 6: a bartend that flirt, yes or no.
- 1:21:24Speaker 3: No, I think you're kind.
- 1:21:27Speaker 7: I think you just you're just kind, You're nice to everybody.
- 1:21:30Speaker 1: That's your ego. You think you think everybody flirting with you,
- 1:21:33Speaker 1: that's your ego.
- 1:21:34Speaker 6: Right light skin right red red.
- 1:21:36Speaker 1: The bartenders flirt sometimes.
- 1:21:38Speaker 3: All the time, the red light skin too.
- 1:21:41Speaker 6: Man, do you flirt at all with with people that
- 1:21:43Speaker 6: that bydric?
- 1:21:45Speaker 23: No?
- 1:21:45Speaker 9: I don't.
- 1:21:46Speaker 1: Can I tell you guys something.
- 1:21:47Speaker 27: I'm just nice. I'm just nice And then they're like
- 1:21:50Speaker 27: just nice and then they mistake it for flirting, but
- 1:21:52Speaker 27: I'm like, no, I'm not flirting.
- 1:21:53Speaker 1: And then I have to be mean to Like I
- 1:21:56Speaker 1: want all guys out there to know. That's your ego talking.
- 1:21:58Speaker 4: If you think that every girl girl being kind to
- 1:22:01Speaker 4: you is flirting, And if you think every girl being
- 1:22:04Speaker 4: just nice to you means that they want you, that's
- 1:22:06Speaker 4: all ego brod and and and and you helen insecure.
- 1:22:11Speaker 4: If you think that, uh, you're hell insecure and you
- 1:22:14Speaker 4: don't trust your woman. If you think guys hollering at her,
- 1:22:17Speaker 4: if guy's hollering at her, bothers you bartend.
- 1:22:20Speaker 1: Is definitely flirt all the time. I want to say
- 1:22:22Speaker 1: all the.
- 1:22:22Speaker 3: Time, but they but everybody flirts. Like the lady at
- 1:22:26Speaker 3: Walmart begging your groceries is flirt.
- 1:22:34Speaker 1: All she said was high, have a nice day.
- 1:22:42Speaker 3: Listen.
- 1:22:42Speaker 7: Anywhere you go, you're gonna find what you're looking for.
- 1:22:44Speaker 7: So if you go to the board looking for someone
- 1:22:45Speaker 7: to flirt, that's what she's doing.
- 1:22:47Speaker 1: Good morning, good morning, good morning.
- 1:22:49Speaker 6: Talk to what's your thoughts me personally?
- 1:22:53Speaker 11: Like I said, like Jada said, my immotreself wanted to
- 1:22:56Speaker 11: be friends with my man's friends all the time when
- 1:22:59Speaker 11: I was younger me now, I don't even care. That's
- 1:23:02Speaker 11: your mand Like, those are your friends.
- 1:23:04Speaker 5: I don't want to be friends with the girlfriends.
- 1:23:06Speaker 11: I don't want to be friends with their wives.
- 1:23:08Speaker 5: Just let me do me.
- 1:23:09Speaker 13: You go have fun with their friends, and I'm good.
- 1:23:11Speaker 1: Yeah, if it happens organically, oh that's great.
- 1:23:15Speaker 19: I don't really care anymore.
- 1:23:16Speaker 11: I'm just you know, I've gotten older, I'm more mature,
- 1:23:19Speaker 11: like at this point, if it's beneficial to youth, fine,
- 1:23:24Speaker 11: If it's not beneficial to youth, cut it out.
- 1:23:26Speaker 13: For me.
- 1:23:26Speaker 11: It's not beneficial, so I don't want any parts.
- 1:23:28Speaker 6: Of it, yakisha, all right, what's the more of the story, guys?
- 1:23:33Speaker 17: More?
- 1:23:33Speaker 3: The story is friends? How many of us have?
- 1:23:43Speaker 1: I think?
- 1:23:44Speaker 4: I think the moral of the story is friendship is
- 1:23:46Speaker 4: always a sweet responsibility, never an opportunity.
- 1:23:51Speaker 1: That's what I think.
- 1:23:52Speaker 3: And it doesn't matter what private part you have.
- 1:23:54Speaker 1: Yes, well, let's get to the rumors.
- 1:24:00Speaker 16: Mad when people don't understand your dreams. God be eating
- 1:24:06Speaker 16: in your vision.
- 1:24:06Speaker 4: Here's you.
- 1:24:08Speaker 9: If you say my name three times?
- 1:24:11Speaker 6: Easy on the breakfast club, all the mics right now,
- 1:24:21Speaker 6: it's telamated, telemated produced that you know what else?
- 1:24:24Speaker 4: Real quick with red and envy. Yes, sir, bartenders want tips,
- 1:24:28Speaker 4: you idiots. That's why he's being nicety, Your stupid asses.
- 1:24:31Speaker 4: That's not flirting. They want you all to tip them.
- 1:24:33Speaker 7: Okay, continue busy period, all right, your shouts out the
- 1:24:37Speaker 7: t I.
- 1:24:38Speaker 3: T I is doing some good in his community in Atlanta.
- 1:24:41Speaker 7: He's building affordable housing complex and unbuilt one hundred and
- 1:24:45Speaker 7: forty three apartment units as well as twenty five special
- 1:24:48Speaker 7: units for homeless youth. And this is right there, Donald
- 1:24:51Speaker 7: Lee Hallowell Parkway, and this is the area where he
- 1:24:53Speaker 7: grew up. His grandma used to shop and he did
- 1:24:56Speaker 7: some things there hisself. Check out what the news had
- 1:24:58Speaker 7: to say about this.
- 1:25:03Speaker 23: Today, Atlanta rapper Ti attended the ribbon cutting of his
- 1:25:05Speaker 23: first affordable apartment development. It includes one hundred and forty
- 1:25:09Speaker 23: three apartments and twenty five special.
- 1:25:10Speaker 1: Units for homeless kids.
- 1:25:12Speaker 23: The Introda West Side sits across from Center Hill Park
- 1:25:15Speaker 23: in northwest Atlanta. TI, his real name is Clifford Harris,
- 1:25:18Speaker 23: told us he remembers how the community struggled when he
- 1:25:21Speaker 23: was young.
- 1:25:21Speaker 28: The arts entertainment industry in this city has been able
- 1:25:26Speaker 28: to collaborate and be profitable enough to offer the community
- 1:25:31Speaker 28: so many things that you know are much needed.
- 1:25:34Speaker 23: Developer said of property was once a shopping center where
- 1:25:37Speaker 23: TI's grandmother used to shop for grocery.
- 1:25:39Speaker 1: Man dropping the clues bombs for tip Man shout to ta.
- 1:25:42Speaker 4: I need y'all to be loud about this because I
- 1:25:44Speaker 4: don't think y'all understand how incredible this is. You know,
- 1:25:46Speaker 4: people love to whisper your success, and they love to
- 1:25:48Speaker 4: scream about your failure. So y'all need to be loud
- 1:25:50Speaker 4: about this the way y'all lied about anything that's some bs,
- 1:25:54Speaker 4: because this is incredible. This, This is beyond investing in
- 1:25:57Speaker 4: your block. And Tips has been working on this for years.
- 1:26:00Speaker 4: Like he he bought that uh, he bought that building
- 1:26:03Speaker 4: a long, long, long, long long time before the pandemic,
- 1:26:05Speaker 4: way before the pandemic, like probably in over a decade ago.
- 1:26:09Speaker 7: And as somebody who was homeless as a teenager, like
- 1:26:11Speaker 7: I understand the importance of this for kids that are
- 1:26:13Speaker 7: aging out of foster care and don't have anywhere to
- 1:26:16Speaker 7: go or don't have family, like this is really the
- 1:26:18Speaker 7: bridge to better.
- 1:26:19Speaker 3: So shout out to him for that.
- 1:26:21Speaker 4: Remember when he was up here, he was saying how
- 1:26:22Speaker 4: he had to have a had to have a grocery
- 1:26:24Speaker 4: store and there you had to have a store.
- 1:26:26Speaker 1: That was just a few months ago. Yeah, So so
- 1:26:29Speaker 1: salute the tip.
- 1:26:30Speaker 7: And now he's done it. And this is the same
- 1:26:32Speaker 7: community that he's taken from. Literally check this out.
- 1:26:35Speaker 1: He don't tell nobody.
- 1:26:37Speaker 29: I got couch still in that this came on up
- 1:26:38Speaker 29: right now, okay, and I thought that, you know, you know,
- 1:26:43Speaker 29: just to offset the.
- 1:26:45Speaker 1: Shame that came with that it would be it would
- 1:26:49Speaker 1: behoove me, you know.
- 1:26:51Speaker 29: To invest in the community by acquiring this piece of property.
- 1:26:56Speaker 1: It's the least that could be, you know what I'm saying.
- 1:26:59Speaker 1: Everyone does a little, No one has to do a lot.
- 1:27:02Speaker 13: That's right.
- 1:27:03Speaker 4: Only a person who is from a community knows exactly
- 1:27:07Speaker 4: what the community needs.
- 1:27:08Speaker 1: So Tip knows that that community needs that.
- 1:27:11Speaker 7: So he gave it to him And shout out to
- 1:27:12Speaker 7: Killer Mike because he said this decision and the efforts
- 1:27:15Speaker 7: that he put into making this happen was inspired by
- 1:27:17Speaker 7: Killer Mike. So just goes to show how each one
- 1:27:19Speaker 7: of us can do a little something to make everything better.
- 1:27:22Speaker 1: Love both those brothers. Man Saluta, Clifford Harrison, Michael.
- 1:27:24Speaker 3: Renda also in the room of report.
- 1:27:26Speaker 7: Looks like Drake is teasing a surprise EP just after
- 1:27:29Speaker 7: announcing the tour that he's going to be doing that
- 1:27:31Speaker 7: features j Cole.
- 1:27:32Speaker 3: He posted this video saying that this new EP is
- 1:27:36Speaker 3: not leftover songs.
- 1:27:37Speaker 7: This brand new stuff is brand new songs are moved
- 1:27:40Speaker 7: to create and put out in this moment to make
- 1:27:42Speaker 7: this moment a little bit better.
- 1:27:43Speaker 3: Check out what he had to say.
- 1:27:45Speaker 1: I feel no need to appease anybody.
- 1:27:49Speaker 30: I feel so confident about the body of work that
- 1:27:52Speaker 30: I just dropped that I know I could go and
- 1:27:55Speaker 30: disappear for whatever, six months, a year, two years, even
- 1:28:01Speaker 30: though I'm not really like into it. I'm not really
- 1:28:04Speaker 30: into the lengthy, super lengthy disappearances for the sake of mystery.
- 1:28:08Speaker 30: But you know, ultimately it's coming to me in a
- 1:28:13Speaker 30: way that I haven't experience maybe since, like if you're
- 1:28:16Speaker 30: reading this, where it's just kind of like I feel
- 1:28:19Speaker 30: like I'm on drugs. I feel like I'm in that
- 1:28:21Speaker 30: mental state without doing anything.
- 1:28:23Speaker 1: I did those songs in the last five days.
- 1:28:26Speaker 30: I didn't have one bar written down for those songs
- 1:28:28Speaker 30: on the night that for All the Dolls dropped. It's
- 1:28:30Speaker 30: not like I'm picking up from some unfinished you know,
- 1:28:34Speaker 30: this is just it's happening on its own.
- 1:28:38Speaker 4: Do you think he's inspired to do this because of
- 1:28:39Speaker 4: the backlash that the album that he put out for
- 1:28:42Speaker 4: All the Dogs got. Should we just accept the fact
- 1:28:44Speaker 4: that Drake likes to put out music the same way
- 1:28:46Speaker 4: Wayne does and Gucci and Young Boy and Pok. He
- 1:28:49Speaker 4: just likes making music. I think both are just a
- 1:28:50Speaker 4: response to the backlash. I think both.
- 1:28:52Speaker 6: I think one is a little response to the backlash,
- 1:28:54Speaker 6: and too, I think he just enjoys making music. I mean,
- 1:28:56Speaker 6: Drake raps. He likes to make music or he wraps anything. Well,
- 1:29:00Speaker 6: he wraps, but he likes to put out and yeah,
- 1:29:03Speaker 6: and I'm excited about it. I can't wait to hear
- 1:29:04Speaker 6: it tonight. I'm hoping that he gives me what I
- 1:29:07Speaker 6: want pause and that's a full rap album.
- 1:29:09Speaker 1: Him rapping.
- 1:29:10Speaker 4: Drake is like the guy that you you just can't
- 1:29:13Speaker 4: help but be gay in his old screens, like for
- 1:29:16Speaker 4: no reason. I hope, I hope he drops to night
- 1:29:18Speaker 4: and he gives me what I want. I say it
- 1:29:20Speaker 4: like that God's coming, Oh my God, did you hear it?
- 1:29:25Speaker 3: Grow up?
- 1:29:27Speaker 1: You grow up?
- 1:29:28Speaker 4: I ain't say grow up, I say gross, hey, yo,
- 1:29:31Speaker 4: scary out sexualizing. I don't just I'm a Drake fan
- 1:29:36Speaker 4: and I hope he gives me the music that I.
- 1:29:39Speaker 1: Won't stop objective from people. It's just the way you
- 1:29:41Speaker 1: think about things. Everybody heard it. Everybody heard it, bro
- 1:29:46Speaker 1: Jesus Christ.
- 1:29:47Speaker 4: I won't say this though, that Drake and j Cole
- 1:29:49Speaker 4: video hard first person shooting.
- 1:29:52Speaker 3: What's happening? What's going on?
- 1:29:53Speaker 1: Because I never know what you had?
- 1:29:55Speaker 14: What do you tell?
- 1:29:56Speaker 17: What's up?
- 1:29:56Speaker 1: Man, Jesus Christ?
- 1:29:59Speaker 17: You like it?
- 1:29:59Speaker 23: You?
- 1:30:00Speaker 1: I like it.
- 1:30:00Speaker 4: I like the video because that is how I want
- 1:30:03Speaker 4: my superstar rappers to be looking in videos. That was
- 1:30:07Speaker 4: a superstar rapper video, y'all be too regular, riding around
- 1:30:10Speaker 4: the city on city bikes and all kinds of crazy stuff.
- 1:30:12Speaker 1: It doesn't have the.
- 1:30:12Speaker 6: Same budget, sir, that drinking definitely, but the pay out
- 1:30:16Speaker 6: of pocket. Every other rapper might not have that budget.
- 1:30:18Speaker 4: And whoever that director was, I can't remember the guy's name.
- 1:30:20Speaker 4: It came on at the end of the video that
- 1:30:22Speaker 4: was like that was it? That was nineties rap video esque,
- 1:30:26Speaker 4: Like I enjoyed that.
- 1:30:27Speaker 1: I spend some money on that video. Yes, all right, all.
- 1:30:29Speaker 3: Right, modolong.
- 1:30:30Speaker 7: Cardi B is defending Will Smith. Will Smith's Name's been
- 1:30:34Speaker 7: in the headlines consistently lately. We heard a great Jadap
- 1:30:37Speaker 7: can gett interview earlier, and it looks like Cardi B
- 1:30:39Speaker 7: is chiming in the most recent story has the accusation
- 1:30:43Speaker 7: that he was getting he was getting with his friend
- 1:30:46Speaker 7: Dwayne Martin. If you've been listening since seven, you would
- 1:30:49Speaker 7: have already heard the interview. You know, Jada addressed the
- 1:30:51Speaker 7: allegation she's ready to go to war. She said they're
- 1:30:53Speaker 7: completely untrue. The Smith family does plan to take legal action.
- 1:30:57Speaker 7: If you missed it, make sure you check the interview
- 1:30:59Speaker 7: out on you to, but definitely check out what Cardi
- 1:31:01Speaker 7: Be had to say.
- 1:31:02Speaker 25: I don't like how I was fooled a couple of
- 1:31:04Speaker 25: weeks ago.
- 1:31:05Speaker 20: Some people just never change.
- 1:31:07Speaker 25: I don't like that. I don't like what people be
- 1:31:09Speaker 25: doing to Will Smith. I Be found like Will Smith
- 1:31:12Speaker 25: is very unproblematic, and I feel like he got like
- 1:31:15Speaker 25: a nice heart. I found out that Will Smith.
- 1:31:17Speaker 20: Is a libra.
- 1:31:17Speaker 25: I always said this, like libras, we be getting tried,
- 1:31:20Speaker 25: we be getting tried, and then when we outburst, we
- 1:31:24Speaker 25: outburst so heavy that we become the ones in the wrong.
- 1:31:29Speaker 25: At your job, as a journalist, you should be able
- 1:31:33Speaker 25: to detect whether somebody is bush or not, because anybody
- 1:31:39Speaker 25: could say something about anybody. Look what happened to me
- 1:31:41Speaker 25: in twenty eighteen when a that I never I don't
- 1:31:44Speaker 25: even I didn't even know her name, was saying that
- 1:31:47Speaker 25: she know me, that she did into my house. Anybody
- 1:31:49Speaker 25: could say a fake ass story about you, fake as
- 1:31:52Speaker 25: believe it.
- 1:31:53Speaker 4: Nobody cares about the truth and the lie more entertainment. Entertainment,
- 1:31:56Speaker 4: and there is no discernment with any of this stuff
- 1:31:58Speaker 4: because nobody wants to not believe. They want to believe
- 1:32:01Speaker 4: the silation stuff. It's it makes for better conversation for individuals.
- 1:32:05Speaker 4: It allows people to escape their own truth.
- 1:32:07Speaker 1: That's right. Yeah.
- 1:32:08Speaker 6: But they can mess up homes, it can mess up businesses,
- 1:32:11Speaker 6: it can mess up all types of things that people
- 1:32:12Speaker 6: are trying to do because of these lies. But that
- 1:32:14Speaker 6: is your rumor report. Now let's get to the People's choice.
- 1:32:17Speaker 6: Mix will be back. Don't go anywhere.
- 1:32:19Speaker 2: It's the breakfast Club. Go Morning, the Breakfast Club. Your
- 1:32:22Speaker 2: mornings will never be the same morning.
- 1:32:25Speaker 6: Everybody is DJ Envy, charlamagnea God. We are the breakfast Club.
- 1:32:29Speaker 6: I guess called Hoast. Bezy Baby is here. Yeah, and
- 1:32:32Speaker 6: we got a salute to Kevin Hart. Kevin Hart just
- 1:32:34Speaker 6: received the Mark Twain Prize for American Humor. This is
- 1:32:38Speaker 6: considered to be the comedy's highest honor. It started in
- 1:32:42Speaker 6: nineteen ninety eight and the first person to receive this
- 1:32:45Speaker 6: was Richard Pryor.
- 1:32:46Speaker 1: So, Yes, the ceremony is the ceremony. Heart.
- 1:32:48Speaker 6: I don't know when the ceremonies.
- 1:32:50Speaker 1: It's coming up soon. They announced that he's getting it.
- 1:32:52Speaker 7: Yes, and it's only been like over twenty people to
- 1:32:55Speaker 7: receive this award like this is not something a whole
- 1:32:57Speaker 7: lot of people have gotten.
- 1:32:58Speaker 6: So yeah, that's a big deal. Well deserved too, well deserved.
- 1:33:02Speaker 6: All right, when we come back, we got the positive
- 1:33:04Speaker 6: notice the Breakfast Club. Good morning morning everybody. It's DJ
- 1:33:08Speaker 6: n V Charlamagne the God. We are the Breakfast Club.
- 1:33:11Speaker 6: Now we have Bezy Baby here our special guest co host,
- 1:33:14Speaker 6: and we appreciate you for hanging with us today and
- 1:33:16Speaker 6: you come back tomorrow.
- 1:33:17Speaker 3: Thanks for having me. Yes, I'm looking forward to hanging
- 1:33:19Speaker 3: out tomorrow.
- 1:33:19Speaker 7: Thanks both of y'all. Like y'all have a really it's son.
- 1:33:22Speaker 7: You got to get some flowers real quick. Just you
- 1:33:24Speaker 7: guys have been doing work for over a decade in
- 1:33:27Speaker 7: this capacity and much of the world listens to you
- 1:33:30Speaker 7: every day for entertainment. But you both talk about marriage
- 1:33:34Speaker 7: and you show what it looks like to be a
- 1:33:36Speaker 7: husband and a father as well as putting out you know,
- 1:33:40Speaker 7: a word on mental health and just moving the culture
- 1:33:42Speaker 7: forward in the right direction. So thank you for allowing
- 1:33:45Speaker 7: me to be here today. But thank you for the
- 1:33:47Speaker 7: work you do all year.
- 1:33:47Speaker 1: Yeah, are your twitters and Instagrams and all that stuff busy?
- 1:33:50Speaker 3: It's at bezy baby everywhere.
- 1:33:51Speaker 20: B E A S y b A y B I E.
- 1:33:55Speaker 6: All right when we come back, we got oh no,
- 1:33:57Speaker 6: you got a positive?
- 1:33:57Speaker 1: No, now give us a postor not?
- 1:33:58Speaker 12: Well.
- 1:33:58Speaker 4: Yeah, and I want to remind everybody, hey, man, this Saturday,
- 1:34:01Speaker 4: in Monks Corner, South Carolina, my hometown, I'm doing my
- 1:34:03Speaker 4: tenth annual turkey giveaway from ten am to twelve pm
- 1:34:07Speaker 4: at Berkeley High School in the student parking lot of
- 1:34:11Speaker 4: Berkeley High School. So you know, we do a drive
- 1:34:13Speaker 4: through every year, man, So all you gotta do is
- 1:34:15Speaker 4: pull up and we'll put the bird in the car
- 1:34:18Speaker 4: for you.
- 1:34:19Speaker 1: Okay.
- 1:34:19Speaker 4: Four sixth West Main Street, Monks Corner, South Carolina, Berkeley
- 1:34:22Speaker 4: High School, student parking Lot, ten am to twelve pm,
- 1:34:25Speaker 4: my tenth annual turkey giveaway. So I will see y'all
- 1:34:29Speaker 4: there now. Positive note. Some people get real uncomfortable when
- 1:34:33Speaker 4: you grow out of the box they tried to put
- 1:34:35Speaker 4: you in. You're no longer safe to them because your
- 1:34:37Speaker 4: commitment to transformation reminds them of what they are not
- 1:34:41Speaker 4: stepping into, have a great day, breakfast, club, you
- 1:34:44Speaker 1: Don'na finish for y'all done,