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Kandi’s Prenup Challenged by Todd + RHOP Recap with Dustin & Blue · Reality with The King

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  Speaker 1: Reality with the King is hosted by me, Carlos King.
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  Speaker 1: I'm an executive producer who have produced some of your
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  Speaker 1: favorite shows from the Real Housewives in Atlanta, New Jersey
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  Speaker 1: and my own creation, The Love and Marriage Franchise and
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  Speaker 1: Bell Collective. Every episode we recap reality television from the
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  Speaker 1: Real Housewives Franchise to The Bachelor or Selling Sunset, in
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  Speaker 1: addition to celebrity guests, whether in the unscripted space or
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  Speaker 1: scripted as well. So let's get ready for the topic
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  Speaker 1: of the day. The first one Porscha Williams from the
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  Speaker 1: Real Housewives of Atlanta twice divorced Porsche. Her first marriage
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  Speaker 1: was Cordel Stewart. Her second marriage was Simon Gubadia. Porsche
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  Speaker 1: rebuilt on Black Friday.
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  Speaker 2: That listen.
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  Speaker 1: She's dating this woman named Patrice Sway McKinney not to
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  Speaker 1: be confused.
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  Speaker 2: With Dennis mckinlee, her child's father. She made it. I'm
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  Speaker 2: here on my Dustin so look.
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  Speaker 1: They their relationship Instagram official and the Holiday Things photos
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  Speaker 1: celebrating Sway's birthday, marking her first public relationship since her
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  Speaker 1: divorce from Simon.
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  Speaker 2: Now a lot of the girls are asking who is Sway?
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  Speaker 2: Sway is the owner of a salon. She owns a
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  Speaker 2: lot of salon sweet.
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  Speaker 1: And that's what she does, and that's what we know
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  Speaker 1: so far about her. Blue, you're up to back First,
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  Speaker 1: what do you think about Porsia's new girlfriend sway? And
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  Speaker 1: are you surprised that Porsche is dating women in this case?
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  Speaker 3: I want me?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I think the comment that I wrote
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  Speaker 4: under the hard launch was, Look, I lived in DC
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  Speaker 4: for twelve years.
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  Speaker 5: I get it.
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  Speaker 4: If you know, you know it was a long winter.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, they know me out there.
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  Speaker 3: Put it together, y'all, Like y'all are really making it
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  Speaker 3: hard tonight. God, so Blue, you.
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  Speaker 2: Dated women before?
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  Speaker 5: Look the studs are.
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  Speaker 4: Sometimes the man that you need is a stud Okay,
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  Speaker 4: and I I just.
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  Speaker 5: They be tricking.
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  Speaker 4: Their money be long, their tongues be long, they they
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  Speaker 4: work out, they smell good.
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  Speaker 3: You're confused? Okay?
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  Speaker 5: Have I been turned out by DC stuff?
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  Speaker 3: Maybe?
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  Speaker 2: And maybe?
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  Speaker 4: I mean yes, I mean to have a set right
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  Speaker 4: it happened? What the kids call me on tiki talking
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  Speaker 4: paying sexual? Now, apparently if a stuff confuses you, they
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  Speaker 4: call you paying sexual. So I might be the wrong
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  Speaker 4: person to ask who I too ended a relationship with
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  Speaker 4: the Philly Nigga and ended up with a stud And
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  Speaker 4: I didn't know what was happening, child, but my bills
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  Speaker 4: were getting paid and everything smelled nice, So I get
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  Speaker 4: a portion.
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  Speaker 5: I too, what Atlanta and DC.
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  Speaker 4: If you look at the wrong person's eyes for too long,
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  Speaker 4: you might be questioning stuff.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna turn my lights on the back. Keep talking.
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  Speaker 5: First of all, dark, okay, who you are?
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  Speaker 3: For your what?
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  Speaker 4: And also to when you have been treated poorly in
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  Speaker 4: your mind, you want someone who is generous and gentle
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  Speaker 4: and kind and who makes you feel adored and a
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  Speaker 4: you know, A well it's a good combination.
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes somebody said hood journalist, Hey rain Drop, they say
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  Speaker 1: she went from paper to plan stick.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, I mean that's not wrong, but still incredibly graphic.
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  Speaker 5: It's not. It's sometimes the plastic cast paper though.
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  Speaker 3: Mhm.
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  Speaker 5: The girls be happy, child, Well look as.
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  Speaker 1: That type of conversation, because this is why I'm so
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  Speaker 1: glad you're odd, because well.
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  Speaker 5: Because against me. That's why you're happy to have me
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  Speaker 5: because I went mouf Diving's friends.
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  Speaker 3: I don't I mean doesn't hurt.
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  Speaker 1: But no, what I'm saying is I like to get
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  Speaker 1: perspective because a lot of people it doesn't have seen this,
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  Speaker 1: and I can't.
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  Speaker 2: I can't wait to her dustin thoughts too. A lot
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  Speaker 2: of people are saying.
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  Speaker 1: That Portia is trolling, She's doing this for a storyline.
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  Speaker 1: Listen as somebody who has worked on Atlanta House lives
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  Speaker 1: doing the era of lesbian conversations and kiss seeing at club.
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  Speaker 2: And all that stuff. What a great time, Alana, what
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  Speaker 2: a great time. Thank you girls. I love y'all. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: it's no secret that Porsche has to mete out with women.
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  Speaker 2: It's no secret that Porsche likes women.
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  Speaker 5: Mm hmm.
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  Speaker 2: She revealed that she is now.
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  Speaker 1: Dating this woman, and a lot of people are questioning
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  Speaker 1: the validity of this. You know, they're saying, is she trolling?
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  Speaker 1: Is this for a storyline? The reason why I want
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  Speaker 1: to give more of your thoughts on this is because listen,
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  Speaker 1: Porsche has from what we have known, has always dated
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  Speaker 1: men exclusively. When I say date meaning relationships, right, this
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  Speaker 1: is the first time that we're hearing that she is
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  Speaker 1: maybe in a relationship with a woman. Is there's something
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  Speaker 1: to be said about a woman after forty who has had,
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  Speaker 1: you know, relationship with the men that did not work out,
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  Speaker 1: but have fluid situations happening. Is it safe to say
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  Speaker 1: at women, if you are attracted to other women in
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  Speaker 1: terms of being kissy and flirty, should they also pursue
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  Speaker 1: what could be a relationship with them that can surpass
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  Speaker 1: just a flaty kiss.
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  Speaker 4: This feels very pointed, he said, women over forty eating
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  Speaker 4: the box loo what you think?
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  Speaker 5: Okay?
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  Speaker 4: Well, I will say that statistically speaking, there is a
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  Speaker 4: trend of older women choosing other women because they run
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  Speaker 4: out of men and they were a little fluid to
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  Speaker 4: begin with.
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  Speaker 3: I do think sexuality, I.
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  Speaker 4: Do think sexuality is fluid, but also people be getting tired,
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  Speaker 4: and so I often wonder, is this, sincerely your sexual
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  Speaker 4: orientation being given the freedom to present itself, or are
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  Speaker 4: you just you know, looking for a look?
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  Speaker 5: She did say give her some bail. She was dating
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  Speaker 5: a man and a woman.
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  Speaker 2: During culture con.
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  Speaker 5: She said, Hey, I'm dating one of each and may
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  Speaker 5: the best man win.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 4: So it could be a thing where she's bisexual or
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  Speaker 4: she's sexually fluid and the woman just happened to be
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  Speaker 4: the better suitor. I also do think, though it's dangerous
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  Speaker 4: to treat being gay as something that is a trend,
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  Speaker 4: because when they told me blew your pan sexual because
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  Speaker 4: you didn't care. Right, Like, I met somebody that I
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  Speaker 4: liked who happened to be a woman and I didn't care.
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  Speaker 4: Pansexual means that I was open to it, but I
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  Speaker 4: wasn't just doing it for a look, right. And so
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  Speaker 4: I do think it's a little bit tricky because some
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  Speaker 4: of the girls will try to be gay for pay
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  Speaker 4: and pretend because it's a cute look. Like Ashley Darby.
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  Speaker 4: I don't believe that one, respectfully, although she does look
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  Speaker 4: better as a man.
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  Speaker 2: How you doing.
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  Speaker 4: But I think has shown a severe attraction to women
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  Speaker 4: for a very long time. Her hugs linger, and so
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  Speaker 4: I think if she's finally got into the place where
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  Speaker 4: to be Earlier I said tired, White people who are
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  Speaker 4: tired are more honest, she might have gotten tired about
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  Speaker 4: the optics of the perfect man and said, well, if
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  Speaker 4: I'm open to women, let me really be open to women.
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  Speaker 4: So I'm hoping that Porsia sincerely enjoys women and is
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  Speaker 4: exploring something real and not just using this for clout,
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  Speaker 4: because being gay is not a cloud chase.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, Dustin Ross.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: So, first of all, I'm a gay man of a
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  Speaker 6: certain age, you know what I'm saying. I grew up
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  Speaker 6: in Flint, Michigan, and I've lived a lot of life,
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  Speaker 6: so it's not being easy to be openly gay, you
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  Speaker 6: know what I'm saying, and move around. You have to
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  Speaker 6: think about violence against you. You have to think about
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  Speaker 6: your safety. You have to run the risk of losing relationships,
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  Speaker 6: family members, cutting you off, your friends not wanting to
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  Speaker 6: fuck with you, no more of your straight friends when
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  Speaker 6: they find out you're gay.
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  Speaker 3: It's a lot of trauma.
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  Speaker 6: It's a lot of sadness and a lot of bravery
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  Speaker 6: attached to living your life as a gay person. I'm
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  Speaker 6: sure it's the same for lesbians and people who identify
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  Speaker 6: as bisexual too. So to see it be something that
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  Speaker 6: is use as a novelty, as something that's played with
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  Speaker 6: or you know, used as a tool to get attention,
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  Speaker 6: it pissed me off, you know what I'm saying, because
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  Speaker 6: it ain't easy to live your life like that. Even
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  Speaker 6: today at my big agent, I'm a person who's very comfortable,
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  Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying. In my sexuality, I don't
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  Speaker 6: lead with it, you know what I'm saying. That's not
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  Speaker 6: what makes me like interesting, but it's not something I
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  Speaker 6: shy away from or hide at all. And so to
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  Speaker 6: see people casually play with sexuality and act as if
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  Speaker 6: it's something interchangeable, or even to see it framed that's
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  Speaker 6: something that you can do because you tired of niggas
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  Speaker 6: doing you wrong, you know what I'm saying, So now
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  Speaker 6: you're gonna switch to women. That's highly offensive to a
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  Speaker 6: person like me who has had to fight the hard
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  Speaker 6: fight and had to climb uphill when it comes to
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  Speaker 6: getting respected, when it comes to you know, just a
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  Speaker 6: simple regular things that people deserve in life. You have
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  Speaker 6: to fight for it ten times harder. I'm also black,
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  Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying. So I'm going to into
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  Speaker 6: the world every day as a black man and as
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  Speaker 6: a black gay man, you know what I'm saying. So
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  Speaker 6: to see people play you like pushing, I'm sorry. If
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  Speaker 6: you like women, you like women, you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 6: But just stand in it and say that's what you like.
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  Speaker 6: Don't frame it as something that you're doing because you've
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  Speaker 6: had a bad run at dating men, or be playful
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  Speaker 6: with it like it's something that it's not casual.
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  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 6: We would love for it to be casual, but unfortunately
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  Speaker 6: we're not at a place in society where it's something
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  Speaker 6: that can be played with or have fun with or
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  Speaker 6: just other something. I'm doing it. Nah, motherfucker's getting killed
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  Speaker 6: over that shit. You know what I'm saying. So hate
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  Speaker 6: to take it dark and serious right now. You know
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  Speaker 6: what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 3: I don't like that.
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  Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying, Like it's not easy for
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  Speaker 6: people like me and for a lot of other people
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  Speaker 6: who have it even harder.
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  Speaker 3: And so if you like women, you know what I'm saying,
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  Speaker 3: much love do it?
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  Speaker 6: Do it because I'm a fuck who I like too,
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  Speaker 6: But just stand in it and make sure it's something
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  Speaker 6: that you mean, and also show up. Porsche is a
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  Speaker 6: person who we saw her do some incredible work during
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  Speaker 6: the height of the Black Lives Matter movement. We saw
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  Speaker 6: her do some incredible work with her platform, and I
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  Speaker 6: was so proud of her doing that.
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  Speaker 3: Right now, trans women.
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  Speaker 6: Could use her support, gays could use her support, lesbians
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  Speaker 6: could use her support, and the rest of the bees.
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  Speaker 6: You know, she's a bee rights. This is one time
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  Speaker 6: we could call Portia a bee. She's bisexual, right, So
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  Speaker 6: just staying in it, do some advocacy. Yeah, do some
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  Speaker 6: advocacy work, like get in there and stand in the
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  Speaker 6: paint for the community, especially after.
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  Speaker 3: We saw those videos years ago.
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  Speaker 6: It was a clip of her preaching a homophobic sermon
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  Speaker 6: in a church that went, we give her grace for this.
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  Speaker 3: This was literally over a decade ago. People change. She's
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  Speaker 3: allowed to grow, right, but that's still out there.
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  Speaker 6: And so since that clip of her preaching that simon
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  Speaker 6: is out there, and obviously we're not holding her feet
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  Speaker 6: to the fire for what she said. Even though she
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  Speaker 6: said those things and that sermon, people are allowed to grow,
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  Speaker 6: be enlightened and changed. So we're giving her grades for
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  Speaker 6: that right, But the same way that's out there, the
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  Speaker 6: same way you did that justice work during you know,
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  Speaker 6: the height of the Black Lives Matter movement. If this
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  Speaker 6: is how you're living your life openly, now, kudos to you.
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  Speaker 6: Do some work, some advocates, advocacy work in the community,
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  Speaker 6: just to balance it out, because Porscha is gonna benefit
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  Speaker 6: from the attention this relationship is getting. And she strikes
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  Speaker 6: me based on the work that she did in the
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  Speaker 6: streets during that the Black Lives Matter movement, I know
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  Speaker 6: that Porscha cares about people, and she cares about people
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  Speaker 6: being treated fairly. And so if you're going to flaunt
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  Speaker 6: and show off this new relationship or whatever kind of
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  Speaker 6: connection you have with this woman, do some other real
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  Speaker 6: work to balance that out, you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 4: And gender matters, though we admitted that gender matters, and
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  Speaker 4: this is something to Dustin's point. Women can play and
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  Speaker 4: men are not allowed in the same way. So the guest,
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  Speaker 4: it's not equal on this. A woman is allowed to experiment.
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  Speaker 4: If a man experiments one time, he is gay forever.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, be very clear about that. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So I actually want to touch on what you just said,
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  Speaker 1: blood and obviously does and thanks for speaking out about that,
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  Speaker 1: because look, I also an obligate black man from Detroit, Michigan.
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  Speaker 2: I did not come out of the closet.
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  Speaker 1: Officially until I moved out of the state of Michigan
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  Speaker 1: and I moved to New York City and I was
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  Speaker 1: twenty two years old at my first jobs at the
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  Speaker 1: GAP and this woman, my coworker in topaths were.
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  Speaker 5: Oh, I'm mercury.
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  Speaker 3: Damn. I know, because I really wanted to hear what
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  Speaker 3: he was gonna say.
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  Speaker 4: I heard and I was like, Oh, who's Topaz, and
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  Speaker 4: I was I'm so happy you brought this up, because
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  Speaker 4: part of when I was dating women and part of
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  Speaker 4: the pain of that was my first Christmas with a girlfriend.
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  Speaker 4: I was like, oh, I might never see my family again.
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  Speaker 4: I was a very Christian family, and so I moored
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  Speaker 4: my family the entire time I was dating women, And
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  Speaker 4: the first time I dated a guy again was the
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  Speaker 4: first time I talk to them about who I was dating,
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  Speaker 4: because I knew that when I was trying to figure
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  Speaker 4: out my sexuality, I'm not going to Boston and talking
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  Speaker 4: to these old hitans about this.
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  Speaker 3: They're gonna cust me out. And so then of.
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  Speaker 5: Christ on me.
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  Speaker 4: And so there's a morning that happens to anybody, even
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  Speaker 4: if you're bisexual or pan sexual. You're like, if I'm
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  Speaker 4: with the same gender, I'm gonna.
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  Speaker 2: Have to move different.
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  Speaker 4: And there's actually a and I hate to say it,
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  Speaker 4: a privilege in not being gay or lesbian and being
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  Speaker 4: bisexual or pan sexual, where you know that there's a
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  Speaker 4: certain iteration of life that you have access to that is.
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  Speaker 5: More socially acceptable.
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  Speaker 4: And I think the reason why the trend is happening
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  Speaker 4: is because people who care about being accepted socially, they
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  Speaker 4: get to about forty five point fifty and say, I
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  Speaker 4: don't care anymore. I'm gonna do the other side of
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  Speaker 4: me that I've been hiding in the shadows. And so
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  Speaker 4: I do think that it's important that we mention what
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  Speaker 4: you say and recognize that black men in particular have
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  Speaker 4: it much harder than Black women and ladies.
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  Speaker 5: It's gonna be hard for you to hear this.
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  Speaker 4: Gay black men have it much harder when it comes
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  Speaker 4: to homophobia because when it's women, misogyny tells them, oh,
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  Speaker 4: they're just doing it for our pleasure.
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  Speaker 5: When it's men, it messes with people in a whole
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  Speaker 5: different way.
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  Speaker 4: It's not equal, and the trans girls are a whole
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  Speaker 4: different thing because you can be gay and still be.
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  Speaker 3: Transphobic because trans is not a sexuality. I hate that.
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  Speaker 6: It's an identity and it shouldn't even get lumped in
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  Speaker 6: with gay and lesbian, a bisexual because it's identity and
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  Speaker 6: people don't people people pretend to have a hard time
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  Speaker 6: understanding that because it's a very simple concept. People feign
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  Speaker 6: ignorance or confusion when it comes to just understanding what
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  Speaker 6: that means and shit. So I'm not trying to take
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  Speaker 6: this thing off the rails. All I'm saying is Porscha
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  Speaker 6: strikes me as a woman who cares about people. I've
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  Speaker 6: seen her do some great work in her community and
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  Speaker 6: our community as black people. I would love to see
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  Speaker 6: her do this with some intention. That's all I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: And I was gonna go there with it. Sorry, my
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  Speaker 1: wife's acting on again. It's the spirit of a gobody.
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  Speaker 1: So my bad job. Half of my my iPhone wie box.
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  Speaker 1: But what I will say, my friend told passed. I
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  Speaker 1: was in the closet. I came to New York at
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  Speaker 1: twenty two years old, and I'm in the cloth the
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  Speaker 1: child because, like Dustin said, being gay in the eighties
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  Speaker 1: and nineties, as a black man, the charges wasn't safe, right.
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  Speaker 1: And my girl Topaz said to me, so who you dating?
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  Speaker 1: And I said, I don't have a girlfriend. She said, girlfriend,
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  Speaker 1: boys you in New York City, It's okay to be
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  Speaker 1: gay here.
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  Speaker 3: And I said that.
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  Speaker 1: I instantly decided to become more of myself i'd been
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  Speaker 1: with Dustin. I will say this, it's I would like
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  Speaker 1: for it to be a storyline on Alant of Housewives
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  Speaker 1: this season about the topic of women who decide to
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  Speaker 1: date another woman and what that means in terms of
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  Speaker 1: their place in this world, because it does appear to
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  Speaker 1: be a trend for most people.
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  Speaker 2: Most people right, and gay men don't have a luxury.
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  Speaker 1: I know plenty of women who claim to be allies
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  Speaker 1: that will say, well, if a guy had a gay
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  Speaker 1: experience for another man, I'm not gonna be with him.
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  Speaker 1: He likes men, and we're not here to talk about that.
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: We'll say that for a whole other topic for holding
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: the show. But it's not the same. I don't have
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: a luxury of saying me and my Afflican broke up,
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: lemon start dating women because a woman would say, wait what,
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: and society would.
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: Look at me like, there's no way you can do it.
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: I think it's easier for women. I think.
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: I think men, straight black men love a woman who
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: is fluid because they like to have fun with them
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: and invite other women in the bedroom and all of
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: those things.
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: Gay men don't have that luxury.
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: A gay married man who got a divorce once or
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: twice cannot say I'm gonna start dating men because it's hard.
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: I'll hear from you to date women. It's just not
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: the same.
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: But I do think with a big show in a
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: housewive and this is why I was so hard on
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: Kyle richards on Billie Hills and she is my favorite
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: housewife I've never worked with.
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: Because I feel like this, when you have such.
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: A huge platform with so many eyeballs and people with
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: so many experiences, I do think it is your job
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: to educate the audience on like, I'm not speaking for everybody,
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: but this is my experience and hope that there's a
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: larger conversation that can happen. But I do think we
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: got to get out of this being trendy. I'm not
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: saying that's Portia story either.
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: What I s is I hope that.
• 18:37
  Speaker 7: On this upcoming season of Atlanta, with kay Michelle being
• 18:41
  Speaker 7: a cast member allegedly and who has been open about
• 18:46
  Speaker 7: dating women, I would hope that there's a big conversation
• 18:50
  Speaker 7: about women who decide to date women and is it
• 18:54
  Speaker 7: something you want to pursue for the.
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: Rest of your life like the NC.
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: Nash and it just come her wife, or is it
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: something where you feel like this is what I'm want
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: to do right now and then go on.
• 19:05
  Speaker 6: With the next God so, which is fine, you know what,
• 19:08
  Speaker 6: I'm saying, but just Frank, don't frame it. Just have
• 19:11
  Speaker 6: some fucking respect, That's all I'm saying. Have some fucking
• 19:13
  Speaker 6: respect for the literal struggle that is attached to that
• 19:17
  Speaker 6: life for people. That's all I'm saying. And I trust
• 19:21
  Speaker 6: that Porsche will. I think she'll do it right.
• 19:24
  Speaker 5: And money shields with from that too.
• 19:25
  Speaker 4: Can we be honest economically speaking, that the more money
• 19:28
  Speaker 4: you make, that the more freedom you have to say
• 19:30
  Speaker 4: that you're gay.
• 19:32
  Speaker 5: Can we be honest?
• 19:32
  Speaker 4: So there's a gender thing, but it's also a money thing, right,
• 19:35
  Speaker 4: Like when you hear about a billionaire who was doing
• 19:38
  Speaker 4: some gay shit, it's almost like everybody has to swallow
• 19:40
  Speaker 4: it because he's a billionaire. I'm not gonna say nobody's
• 19:42
  Speaker 4: name on here, right, But like if it was the
• 19:45
  Speaker 4: same person who was a working class negro, suddenly he's
• 19:48
  Speaker 4: losing everything. And so there's a shield that comes with
• 19:51
  Speaker 4: being a woman and or having money where you can
• 19:54
  Speaker 4: do things that are sexually fluid and can be honest.
• 19:56
  Speaker 5: Guys.
• 19:56
  Speaker 4: The reason why I always joke about and talk about
• 19:59
  Speaker 4: my pan sexual existence is because I am straight presenting,
• 20:02
  Speaker 4: and I mean the season of life where I date
• 20:05
  Speaker 4: mostly men a lot of people hear my voice and
• 20:07
  Speaker 4: my addiction and here Harvard and all that good stuff,
• 20:09
  Speaker 4: and they assume that I'm a conservative black woman. And
• 20:12
  Speaker 4: the minute I say no, I was messing with studs
• 20:14
  Speaker 4: in d C, y'all, I was outside. It suddenly makes
• 20:17
  Speaker 4: their minds blow up because they're like, but Blue, you
• 20:18
  Speaker 4: came off so reasonable. Yes, what if I tell you
• 20:20
  Speaker 4: I'm reasonable? And I'm still paying Right now? You have
• 20:24
  Speaker 4: to confront the way that you look at women who
• 20:27
  Speaker 4: you think are like me, but who have dated other women.
• 20:30
  Speaker 5: And I'm wondering, is it trending or people just finding
• 20:32
  Speaker 5: telling the truth?
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, part of me wondering.
• 20:35
  Speaker 5: I think a lot of the coverts are more fluid
• 20:37
  Speaker 5: than we want to admit.
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: This is reality with the King and I'm Carlos King.
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: Let's get back into the show. Well that's the thing.
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: That's why I do think there should be a whole
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: episode dedicated to that act. And I think there's a
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: big conversation about black people homosexuality in our community. But
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: we have a jam packed show. So next up, I
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: do want to get into the latest going on with
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: Candy Birds and Todd Tucker. As you all know, two
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: weeks ago, Candy has filed for divorce, citing that the
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: marriage was a trivially broken On November twenty.
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: Sixth, top Father response.
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: To Candy's divorce petition, The documents were obtained by US Weekly,
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: where Todd, who resides in Georgia, says that he would
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: like to look into possibly having primary custody because Candy
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: tends to have out of state work obligations. In the filing,
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: Todd has said that the parties have been working cooperatively
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: in an effort to resolve all issues.
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: Tod remans committed to continue those discussions good faith.
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: He also says that if they're unable to reach a
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: custody deal, he will be seeking primary physical custody, joint
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: legal custody, and final decision making authority. Tod recognized that
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: Candy is a loving and capable parent and remained sincerely
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: hopeful that prior and continued discussions between the parties would
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: bring full resolution of all matters.
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: Todd also said that.
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: In regards to the prenuptial agreement that he signed a
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: hit of their April twenty fourteen wedding, he suggested that
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: he was pressured to signing the prenup without proper legal representation.
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: Tod's attorney said that the agreement was presented to Todd
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: without Todd having counsel, even though Candy then counsel had
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: communicated previously with Tod's legal team regarding a potential prenuptial agreement.
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: Despite that knowledge, Candy's council presented the final agreement to
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: Todd for signature immediately before the wedding ceremony without any
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: knownice to or consitation with Toad's legal team, who was
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: engaged in that. Because of that, they're saying that these
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: circumstances raise substantial questions concerning the enforceability of the prenuptial agreement. Nevertheless,
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: Tom remains committed to working and good faith to resolve
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: this matter amicably and privately to the extent possible.
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: Last, but not least, Todd.
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: Is demanding a division of all marital assets, both real
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: and personal, tangible and tangible between himself and Burris, and
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: possibly wants alimony.
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: Dustin, Yeah, well, would you like to tell you.
• 24:00
  Speaker 4: So?
• 24:01
  Speaker 3: Damn? Can you hear sirens in the background?
• 24:04
  Speaker 5: That's God?
• 24:05
  Speaker 6: Yeah, because I was trying to start cussing. So let
• 24:07
  Speaker 6: me reframe my thoughts here. Okay, first of all, what
• 24:13
  Speaker 6: we know about Candy right based on what we've seen
• 24:17
  Speaker 6: on the show when she said conflicts to result on
• 24:20
  Speaker 6: the show. If you are a subscriber to her YouTube channel,
• 24:24
  Speaker 6: Candy Online, she has a series called On that Note
• 24:27
  Speaker 6: where she retells stories from her days as a where
• 24:31
  Speaker 6: she was primarily focused on songwriting and producing. She tells
• 24:34
  Speaker 6: stories about different situations she had with artists, and she's
• 24:39
  Speaker 6: always even in some of her conflicts that she had
• 24:42
  Speaker 6: with her former group member Latasha Scott in the Escape
• 24:46
  Speaker 6: Group the Confidence, the conflicts that they had that were
• 24:48
  Speaker 6: documented on the show, Candy has always played a fair hand.
• 24:52
  Speaker 3: You know, she's taking accountability when it's.
• 24:55
  Speaker 6: Her part, and she has held people's feet to the
• 24:59
  Speaker 6: fire when it is appropriate. You know, we've seen her
• 25:02
  Speaker 6: be fair on that show. It is my belief that
• 25:05
  Speaker 6: she will carry that way over with her into these
• 25:10
  Speaker 6: negotiations for their divorce. Todd's saying that he signed that
• 25:15
  Speaker 6: his lawyers, I should say, saying that he signed the
• 25:17
  Speaker 6: prenup under pressure, and that she had initially passed the
• 25:21
  Speaker 6: first given his lawyers the first pass at the agreement
• 25:24
  Speaker 6: and the end they gave him the final and without
• 25:26
  Speaker 6: seeking his counsel. That's not her job. It's not her
• 25:29
  Speaker 6: job to make sure that his counsel has that. It's
• 25:31
  Speaker 6: his job to make sure that he seeks legal counsel
• 25:34
  Speaker 6: and has him in place. We watched that shit play
• 25:37
  Speaker 6: out on television, so all this looks like to me.
• 25:40
  Speaker 6: I'm no legal expert, Norman an attorney, but it seems
• 25:43
  Speaker 6: to me that this is something that has to be
• 25:46
  Speaker 6: said or stated in order to open the negotiating floor
• 25:49
  Speaker 6: for what feels fair between both parties, and it's as
• 25:53
  Speaker 6: close to the original prenup as possible.
• 25:55
  Speaker 3: It seems like just.
• 25:56
  Speaker 6: The legal one two that you have to do to
• 25:58
  Speaker 6: get things to a place where we're now legally having
• 26:01
  Speaker 6: a conversation and negotiating the terms of our divorce. Once
• 26:05
  Speaker 6: they do that again, I think any projects they worked
• 26:08
  Speaker 6: on collaboratively, I feel confident saying that Candy will be
• 26:11
  Speaker 6: fair and giving him.
• 26:12
  Speaker 3: His share of that.
• 26:13
  Speaker 6: I'm sure that's actually ironed out in their agreement based
• 26:16
  Speaker 6: on what we've seen earlier with their prenuptial agreement.
• 26:19
  Speaker 3: So this is the way it's got to go.
• 26:21
  Speaker 6: I wish things could be more seamless with the two
• 26:23
  Speaker 6: of them and easier.
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: But we here now, so fuck it. Let the lawyers fight.
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: Glue to loose. What are your thoughts and rain drops?
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: Let us go on your thoughts in the comments too.
• 26:34
  Speaker 4: I'm counting backwards from one hundred as a generous woman
• 26:39
  Speaker 4: who tends to make more than my partners, and then
• 26:41
  Speaker 4: watch them show they're asked even when I'm trying to
• 26:44
  Speaker 4: be fair on the way out. So this is triggering
• 26:47
  Speaker 4: me because I'm usually the canny in their relationship. I
• 26:49
  Speaker 4: will say this. We watched that scene right before their
• 26:53
  Speaker 4: wedding where she said, I've told you from jump, I've
• 26:56
  Speaker 4: never waivered that I wanted up, prenup.
• 26:59
  Speaker 5: Why are you fair? In confusion now, he hemmed and
• 27:02
  Speaker 5: hawed called his lawyer. His lawyer didn't pick up. She
• 27:06
  Speaker 5: calls her lawyer.
• 27:07
  Speaker 4: Her lawyer immediately picks up, and in the midst of
• 27:09
  Speaker 4: a conversation, it's revealed that he had misled his counsel
• 27:14
  Speaker 4: to not realize that she was already splitting their assets
• 27:17
  Speaker 4: together with any joint ventures.
• 27:19
  Speaker 5: So on camera we've seen him.
• 27:22
  Speaker 4: Get caught being duplicilous with live's of abmission to his
• 27:25
  Speaker 4: own counsel. If you can't even tell the truth to
• 27:28
  Speaker 4: your own lawyers, then you can't act like you're a
• 27:31
  Speaker 4: victim if you didn't do your due diligence when I've
• 27:33
  Speaker 4: been doing my due diligence and I've never wavered on
• 27:36
  Speaker 4: my stance. The point of contention for me is that
• 27:39
  Speaker 4: from what I've read, it seems that he's contesting the
• 27:41
  Speaker 4: prenup as if he signed duress, when we with our
• 27:45
  Speaker 4: own eyes saw her say there's no duress. I've never wavered,
• 27:49
  Speaker 4: and so there's an implied dishonesty, and that that's already
• 27:52
  Speaker 4: pissing me off. I'm not going to argue by if
• 27:55
  Speaker 4: water is wet at this point, right, and what I
• 27:57
  Speaker 4: feel like and maybe because I'm a woman who said
• 28:00
  Speaker 4: a lot of leos and was engaged with Leo and
• 28:02
  Speaker 4: Candy and Tart are literally copy and paste of me
• 28:04
  Speaker 4: and my exes.
• 28:06
  Speaker 5: He was from Philly.
• 28:07
  Speaker 4: Okay, He's a real dude, though, and so he was.
• 28:11
  Speaker 5: Real I'm not even gonna lie.
• 28:12
  Speaker 4: But like, despite that, though, whenever people would be like, yo,
• 28:16
  Speaker 4: you don't feel a way that she's making more than you,
• 28:19
  Speaker 4: I would often feel like I was being passive, aggressively
• 28:22
  Speaker 4: punished for his embarrassment. Mm hm.
• 28:25
  Speaker 3: Even a good man he's.
• 28:27
  Speaker 4: Too fragile, will get a look back, right. And so
• 28:30
  Speaker 4: I don't think Todd's worried about Candy being fair. I
• 28:33
  Speaker 4: feel like he wants to pound his chest a little
• 28:35
  Speaker 4: bit because he's read the jokes. Damn if I know
• 28:40
  Speaker 4: that I can taste it, I've experienced it too much
• 28:43
  Speaker 4: where I know you good.
• 28:44
  Speaker 5: But I don't like that they're playing with me like this.
• 28:46
  Speaker 5: I got to show them.
• 28:47
  Speaker 4: That I'm still him, even if you're collateral damage. And
• 28:51
  Speaker 4: to Dustin's point, it's unnecessary with somebody who has a
• 28:54
  Speaker 4: long history of being reasonable, if not generous. Everybody I
• 28:57
  Speaker 4: know who's worked the Candy says, if Candy hears that
• 28:59
  Speaker 4: you're thinking about doing something and she knows somebody who
• 29:01
  Speaker 4: can help you, she'll connect you. She's jealously well that
• 29:04
  Speaker 4: she's not even sleeping with them doing life with. So
• 29:07
  Speaker 4: you're with a chronologically generous person who has always been
• 29:10
  Speaker 4: fair to you, who has never wavered on the prenup,
• 29:13
  Speaker 4: and now you're saying that you signed under duress. That
• 29:15
  Speaker 4: is low key offensive to her character. She's never been
• 29:20
  Speaker 4: that girl. So yeah, I don't like it. And It's
• 29:22
  Speaker 4: making me look at him funny, and I feel like
• 29:25
  Speaker 4: my Majoys was the right message, the wrong messenger, because
• 29:28
  Speaker 4: you know, sometimes the mean old ladies in your family
• 29:30
  Speaker 4: be right, they just don't have good delivery.
• 29:33
  Speaker 6: Okay, I hate he's going out like that. I just
• 29:40
  Speaker 6: I wish I always talk about this on other shows
• 29:43
  Speaker 6: I'll participate in. But just there's something to be said
• 29:46
  Speaker 6: about keeping shit pee, just keep it player, you know.
• 29:49
  Speaker 3: What I'm saying.
• 29:50
  Speaker 6: Like everything that don't have to be a goddamn everything
• 29:53
  Speaker 6: doesn't have to be combative, you know what I'm saying.
• 29:56
  Speaker 6: Everything doesn't have to be us fighting about week. They
• 29:59
  Speaker 6: have two beautiful children together. They have four beautiful children
• 30:04
  Speaker 6: that they raised together, you know what I'm saying. Like
• 30:07
  Speaker 6: Candy has always expressed love for tids. Oh this daughter, Kayla.
• 30:10
  Speaker 6: We know Kayla loves Candy. I personally have seen Kayla
• 30:14
  Speaker 6: and Riley out in the club together in New York City.
• 30:16
  Speaker 3: They are sisters, you know what I'm saying.
• 30:19
  Speaker 6: And then they got two little kids that look just
• 30:21
  Speaker 6: like Candy, and I just wish that they could find
• 30:26
  Speaker 6: their way toward a friendship, you know what I'm saying.
• 30:29
  Speaker 6: Post their separation because Tyn and Candy always had a
• 30:32
  Speaker 6: cool friendship vibe to me that I really would hate
• 30:36
  Speaker 6: to see them lose man, and I just hope that
• 30:38
  Speaker 6: they can find their way once all this dust settles,
• 30:41
  Speaker 6: this legal dust.
• 30:42
  Speaker 3: But I hate to see this shit.
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: Well, I think listen.
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: One thing I will say is, and this is not
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: about Canon Tott in particular, this is just what I
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: know a lot of people say special attorneys.
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: The prenup is not for the person you marry, is
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: for the person you're divorcing.
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, anup is not for the person you're marrying, is
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: for the person you're divorcing. So yes, I think when
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: you look at somebody's life in the beginning, they were
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: married for ten years and listen till this day, we listen,
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: we really don't know what happened. Candy did its site
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: that it was.
• 31:21
  Speaker 3: What's the word blue?
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and listen the most.
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: But I think we have to look at that because
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: one of the things that is common is irreconcilable differences. Right,
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: That's that's sort of like we just grew out of
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: love with each other. I think saying something was broken
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: sort of puts the vibe about that. There's more that
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: it's seen and I think tas contesting of certain things. Listen,
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: he called it out. He said she travels for out
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: of state work obligations. There are people in the comments.
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: There are people in the comments who are saying and
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: like they said last week, a lot of people are saying,
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: Candy's fair and she will be fair, like Dustin said.
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: There are people who are saying that Todd made sure
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: to put that he was a daddy daycare on his Instagram.
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: They are saying that Toad's YouTube channel, that baby, when
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: I say TiO TikTok belongs to Candy and Todd for.
• 32:19
  Speaker 3: The part, yes sir, yes, sir.
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: I can't go on TikTok without seeing Candy and Tod's
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: YouTube channel. The wedding special Housewatch and Mama Joyce talking
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: about amant high enough and a dollar low enough formunigating your.
• 32:30
  Speaker 2: Ass, baby.
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: They are saying that we have seen these things converse
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: on the show. There is footage of Todd signing the
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: prenup the morning of his wedding.
• 32:44
  Speaker 5: Right.
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: So the reason why a lot of people are now saying, okay, this,
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: there's more that's that's about to happen, because now we
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: are being reminded of what we saw ten years ago
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: on the show, and now that we saw what Toa's
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: attorney contested on November twenty six, like Blue said, it
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: is appearing that they're allegedly saying that this marriage. I'm
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: sorry the pre nat was signed under the rest allegedly
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: allegedly allegedly and look, we're gonna see what has to
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: happen now. Now I do know this going to the
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: w Andy K. Williams School of Law, I will say this,
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: Candy attorneys, they have to respond to Todd's request. What's
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: going to happen next rain drops. Candy has to respond
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: to what Todd is saying, and that's going to obviously
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: tell us more.
• 33:53
  Speaker 6: The timing of this is convenient for Todd, as he
• 33:56
  Speaker 6: said that Candy was going to be out of town
• 33:58
  Speaker 6: for months at a time for work, because we know
• 34:01
  Speaker 6: she's getting ready to start a three month run on
• 34:06
  Speaker 6: and in the play and Juliette on Broadway.
• 34:08
  Speaker 3: I think she starts like next week or something like that.
• 34:11
  Speaker 6: She starts in a play, So she is going to
• 34:13
  Speaker 6: be in New York from December until I think she's
• 34:16
  Speaker 6: at the end of March.
• 34:17
  Speaker 3: I think the announcement was and so the timing is.
• 34:19
  Speaker 6: Kind of convenient in saying that, you know, she travels
• 34:22
  Speaker 6: for work for long periods of time. Ty knows the
• 34:25
  Speaker 6: kind of where Candy does that. Just she's not this
• 34:29
  Speaker 6: detached woman who is, you know, out living a really
• 34:33
  Speaker 6: busy life away from her children. She is busy, but
• 34:36
  Speaker 6: you always see Candy with her damn kids all the time,
• 34:40
  Speaker 6: especially after she left and no longer was participating in
• 34:43
  Speaker 6: the households of Atlanta.
• 34:46
  Speaker 3: I just I hate to see.
• 34:47
  Speaker 6: People try to, like, now that y'all mad at each other,
• 34:49
  Speaker 6: you want to paint the other one as this monster. Know,
• 34:52
  Speaker 6: and even though he did say she's a loving parent,
• 34:55
  Speaker 6: you know, it was just a very passive aggressive The
• 34:59
  Speaker 6: wording of it was very passive aggressive. And I don't know,
• 35:03
  Speaker 6: I just hope they can cut through all of that bullshit,
• 35:06
  Speaker 6: get the rules and determinations in place, and just move
• 35:12
  Speaker 6: forward in peace. Don't either one of them need to
• 35:14
  Speaker 6: be distracted by arguing and fighting over some shit that
• 35:17
  Speaker 6: they're gonna have to work out because their children are little,
• 35:20
  Speaker 6: so they gotta figure it out, you know what I'm saying.
• 35:23
  Speaker 3: So it's nasty work.
• 35:25
  Speaker 4: I'm sorry, it's nasty work that you, as a grown
• 35:27
  Speaker 4: man who has built an empire with her, so you
• 35:31
  Speaker 4: have your own stand on. You don't have to act
• 35:33
  Speaker 4: like a man who drives his girlfriend's car when she's
• 35:36
  Speaker 4: at work.
• 35:36
  Speaker 5: But you are progressing to that right now.
• 35:38
  Speaker 4: But you built an empire with this woman, and you
• 35:41
  Speaker 4: are coming after her hustle that you've been benefited from
• 35:44
  Speaker 4: from fourteen years, right before the holidays, that she's about
• 35:47
  Speaker 4: to barking a new career adventure, that you, of all people,
• 35:50
  Speaker 4: know how important it is to her. There's so much
• 35:53
  Speaker 4: nastness and there's such a violation of intimacy just in
• 35:56
  Speaker 4: the premise that his lawyers are setting up embarrass you
• 36:00
  Speaker 4: as a grown ass man. Forget the lawyers for a second,
• 36:03
  Speaker 4: as a grown ass man, how are you not embarrassing
• 36:04
  Speaker 4: a shame of yourself.
• 36:06
  Speaker 5: It's nasty work.
• 36:08
  Speaker 4: I can't see either of you going through a breakup
• 36:11
  Speaker 4: and doing this to your apartners, even with our kids involved.
• 36:13
  Speaker 3: No, come on down the street with another nigga. To
• 36:17
  Speaker 3: be honest with.
• 36:17
  Speaker 6: You, nine and you heard me nine time.
• 36:23
  Speaker 3: Anyway, you know what I'm saying. Somebody bless that's it.
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: Let's have a conversation and I'm gonna move on to Potomac. Okay,
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: so we listen. We all have hard house, not in
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: so dustin what I want to dustin if you are,
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: Because I think the bigger thing is this, there's a
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: lot of rain drops who are the bread winners in
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: their relationships? Right, there's a lot of rain drops who
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: are what do you do? Because look, I think we
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: all looked at it like, Candy did the right thing, she.
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: Got a breinup.
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: We're raised as business professionals who are who are blessed
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: to make money that our parents have never seen. That's
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: a blessing to have. Candy did the right thing, she
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: got a prenup. That's the that's the thing that you're
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: told as you're rising up the corporate ladder. But what
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: does happen when you are in a relationship and as
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: as real as it sounds, where the person just isn't
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: matching your income level, not saying they're here, you're there.
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: Even if they're here and you're there, it's still not matching.
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: What are you supposed to do to protect yourself? When
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: you did the right thing, You consulted attorney, you have
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: the prenup and now when the prenup is being contested,
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: what do you do a situation? Because Dustin you you
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: you're very successful, and there has not been There hasn't
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: been a man that I've seen out with Dustin who
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: dustn't baby dust getting make he wants your child?
• 38:08
  Speaker 2: God is good? But what what has never been told
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: like I don't want your child? I love that for
• 38:16
  Speaker 2: my friends.
• 38:17
  Speaker 5: The sweets me talking. That's uh huh.
• 38:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so we all know that's true.
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: But like, justin, what what would you do if you
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: are with somebody who you've fell in love with and
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: you said I did the my thing and they're not
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: on the financial.
• 38:31
  Speaker 3: You know what?
• 38:31
  Speaker 6: Then you you manage it when you are approaching the
• 38:35
  Speaker 6: dissolution of your relationship, right you?
• 38:38
  Speaker 3: You?
• 38:38
  Speaker 6: Yes, you the same focus that you put in and
• 38:42
  Speaker 6: in the beginning, excuse me of the relationship and got
• 38:44
  Speaker 6: that prenum sign You get them lawyers back on deck,
• 38:47
  Speaker 6: make sure that the prenum is enforced, and you you
• 38:50
  Speaker 6: just you just pay attention to every detail and you
• 38:53
  Speaker 6: get things cleared up. This cannot be something that you
• 38:56
  Speaker 6: handle from a place of emotion. It can't be something
• 38:59
  Speaker 6: that you have handle irrationally. This is quite literally business.
• 39:03
  Speaker 6: This is why people say marriage is not even about love.
• 39:05
  Speaker 6: It's a business arrangement because at the end of the day,
• 39:08
  Speaker 6: here we go again. You know what I'm saying. People
• 39:10
  Speaker 6: can talk all the shit they want about Yandy and
• 39:12
  Speaker 6: man DC out there, you know, and all that other shit,
• 39:15
  Speaker 6: but look at Coldy Horn and Kurt Russell.
• 39:17
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, some of the some people
• 39:19
  Speaker 3: who literally have Yeah, yep.
• 39:26
  Speaker 6: She might have had the wrong a hat on, but
• 39:28
  Speaker 6: she had the right mind when she decided to you
• 39:31
  Speaker 6: know what I'm saying, keep it separate. That's a that's
• 39:33
  Speaker 6: a rock song. You got to keep it separated, damn,
• 39:37
  Speaker 6: and you got to keep it separated sometimes, you know
• 39:40
  Speaker 6: what I'm saying.
• 39:41
  Speaker 3: And this is where you're handling. Your business comes into play.
• 39:45
  Speaker 6: So sometimes you got to just use your You gotta
• 39:49
  Speaker 6: use your mind instead of your heart. And it gets
• 39:51
  Speaker 6: tough when you really love somebody, you know what I'm saying.
• 39:54
  Speaker 6: But it's two little kids that still gotta be raised,
• 39:56
  Speaker 6: still have to have their educations handled and provided. They
• 40:00
  Speaker 6: still have needs, so they have to figure out the
• 40:03
  Speaker 6: business of being co parents and separating their business affairs
• 40:08
  Speaker 6: as married married people they have to figure that part out,
• 40:11
  Speaker 6: So get them feelings out of it, focus on them kids,
• 40:14
  Speaker 6: get a fair agreement and going down the street.
• 40:17
  Speaker 5: I know those scam though.
• 40:18
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell you because you're not dated a lot
• 40:20
  Speaker 4: of people who anyways, the scam. What you know the
• 40:25
  Speaker 4: scam is you put stuff in your mama's name.
• 40:28
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, serious. Then Shakira's ex husband do that? Wasn't
• 40:37
  Speaker 3: it just some shit?
• 40:38
  Speaker 6: It was just some ship in the news Shakira. I
• 40:41
  Speaker 6: believe her either estranged or now ex husband. I don't
• 40:44
  Speaker 6: know the status, but I think he had put a
• 40:46
  Speaker 6: bunch of his assets in his mama's name, and there
• 40:48
  Speaker 6: was Michael.
• 40:51
  Speaker 4: His mama's name, and so when he got divorced, she
• 40:54
  Speaker 4: couldn't get nothing because that.
• 40:55
  Speaker 5: Was his mama stuff.
• 40:56
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 40:57
  Speaker 6: So I don't know, But do you even want to
• 40:59
  Speaker 6: be married to a motherfucker that you have to go
• 41:01
  Speaker 6: that far? You know what I'm saying, to ensure your
• 41:05
  Speaker 6: safety financially, that's what I'm saying. We could just fuck
• 41:08
  Speaker 6: and hang out and do you know what I'm saying, dude,
• 41:10
  Speaker 6: we do. We don't have to be married. If I
• 41:13
  Speaker 6: don't trust you enough to feel secure, you know what
• 41:17
  Speaker 6: I'm saying, and trusting you with the fact that we're
• 41:20
  Speaker 6: gonna do this thing right if we break up or
• 41:22
  Speaker 6: we're gonna you know what I'm saying. I don't want
• 41:23
  Speaker 6: to have to lay down every night next to somebody
• 41:26
  Speaker 6: who I feel is gonna flip a switch on me.
• 41:28
  Speaker 3: That don't look like peace in my home to me.
• 41:31
  Speaker 5: But you're not toxic.
• 41:32
  Speaker 4: Enough to understand, Dustin, because you're a healthy, abundant mindset
• 41:34
  Speaker 4: black man.
• 41:35
  Speaker 5: All that good stuff.
• 41:35
  Speaker 4: It's amazing right now. Everybody has a little hope in
• 41:38
  Speaker 4: the front.
• 41:39
  Speaker 3: I'll trying.
• 41:40
  Speaker 5: What a's up happening is.
• 41:42
  Speaker 4: The phrase is, don't ever marry somebody that you wouldn't
• 41:45
  Speaker 4: feel comfortable divorcing. And people don't listen to that because
• 41:49
  Speaker 4: when you're in La la land, you like that he's possessive.
• 41:52
  Speaker 4: You like that he said, ain't no way you ever
• 41:54
  Speaker 4: leaving me. All that toxic shit is sexy the first year.
• 41:59
  Speaker 4: It's the same thing that bites you in the but
• 42:00
  Speaker 4: when you're trying to leave and he really meant that
• 42:02
  Speaker 4: shit respectfully.
• 42:05
  Speaker 2: And closing, I'll say this, bring jobs.
• 42:08
  Speaker 3: Whether you're married or not.
• 42:10
  Speaker 2: Divorced or not, I will say this.
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: Always remember when you're getting married, it is a business.
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: And my advice to everybody, I don't care how much
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: money you make, you make a dollar. Getting married is
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: a business. That's why a lot of people aren't married
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: because they don't want to incur the man they loves death.
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: You know, if he has child support, death and he
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: has a lot of other things. You just remind yourselves
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: that the fairy tale wedding is cute.
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: But marriage is a business.
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: And that's why I'll always tell people when you are
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: in a relationship, you have to treat it like a business.
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: You have to work hard to make sure you want
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: this forever, and you're going to have to you know,
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: have a performance review. I've had for pformance reviews. Yes, no,
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: I'm I'm a healed libra. In my relationship, I'm a
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: hilled libra.
• 43:07
  Speaker 3: I have performance reviews.
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: I have performance reviews.
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: Every couple of months, I sit my partner down, I'm like, so,
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: what's working in our relationship?
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: What isn't working?
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: And we we have uncomfortable conversations to the point where
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: we low key don't speak for a few hours because
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: we low key read each other. But the intention is
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: I would like to know and we have what it
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: takes to spend the next six months together. So rain drops.
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: My advice to y'all is to have performance reviews in
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: your relationship. See what's working on not working, and don't
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: waste your time being with somebody that in the end.
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah so so so that's that. Okay, we got a
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: few minutes.
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: Oh Lord Jesus, stuff in your mama's dame, y'all.
• 43:55
  Speaker 5: I'm just.
• 43:59
  Speaker 3: Ken.
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: I love it. I love it, I love it. Those
• 44:05
  Speaker 2: are my girls.
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: You forgot to take this serious leer okay, real haus
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: up atomacs.
• 44:10
  Speaker 2: So listen, we gotta get into the Stacey show. Baby
• 44:15
  Speaker 2: Stacey is raiding the girls left and right. She is
• 44:18
  Speaker 2: taking over this show. Stacey.
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: Stacey went after Kana. Look chaw Chap made an appearance.
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: Chap is a O G housewife.
• 44:35
  Speaker 2: That's it. Cherise is a thread to.
• 44:37
  Speaker 6: The show, always starting ships. Soon as she came back
• 44:40
  Speaker 6: on the screen, what she do? Hey, Chris is es
• 44:44
  Speaker 6: so I'm filming and did she or did she not?
• 44:48
  Speaker 6: Chris said, man, I don't know nothing about that ship.
• 44:50
  Speaker 3: That bullshit.
• 44:52
  Speaker 6: Okay, thank you and hung up starting all that she
• 44:55
  Speaker 6: as soon as she came back on the scene starting ship.
• 44:58
  Speaker 4: She means a spiritual colonna. She just feels like a
• 45:00
  Speaker 4: little beat of sweat, like she just needs.
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: To get purged.
• 45:03
  Speaker 6: And she got half in her divorce settlement. Charisse made
• 45:06
  Speaker 6: out like a bandite. She got half, so she good.
• 45:09
  Speaker 6: Why you ain't happy, Well, you're not bringing happy.
• 45:13
  Speaker 5: She's not holding the cherry blossom. That's why.
• 45:15
  Speaker 6: Now you see, Cynthia Bailey, that's how you come back
• 45:18
  Speaker 6: as a friend. Cynthia came back happy, life good. She
• 45:21
  Speaker 6: cool with everybody in the mix, doing her things. She's
• 45:24
  Speaker 6: a friend to the show and to the cast member.
• 45:27
  Speaker 6: Charisse came back to start ship, so maybe that's a
• 45:30
  Speaker 6: new position.
• 45:32
  Speaker 4: She wants to be Gazelle. She always thought that she
• 45:36
  Speaker 4: was going to be the Gaselle of the show. And
• 45:37
  Speaker 4: she's never recovered from happening. Yeah, oh you can have
• 45:43
  Speaker 4: a come on, Carlos, I'll still say it again.
• 45:45
  Speaker 2: Well, she referred to the show Charise.
• 45:50
  Speaker 5: Note your name is Charisse, right, Okay, okay.
• 45:54
  Speaker 2: So look, the gag is best. Okay, let's just talk
• 45:58
  Speaker 2: about it.
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: Charise helped cast the show the way Nimi helped cast
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: Atlanta Housewives.
• 46:04
  Speaker 2: Charise has a shitload.
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: Of money, when they were casting the show, Charise referred
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: a lot of the girls because they wanted to allegedly
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: because I gotta keep a cute. They wanted to allegedly
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: build a show Charis because she had the wealth. So
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: that's why I'm laughing at you saying Charise wanted to
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: be the just Zell of the show.
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: I don't know that to be true. Charies, you want
• 46:27
  Speaker 2: to come off and tell us.
• 46:30
  Speaker 5: But id and she's Scharise instead, you're Scharise.
• 46:39
  Speaker 6: But she did exactly what was her, what caused her,
• 46:42
  Speaker 6: what it was to her own detriment. Right, she came
• 46:45
  Speaker 6: back on as soon as she had some sort of
• 46:48
  Speaker 6: problem that she could find some kind of way with
• 46:51
  Speaker 6: a magnifying glass, right, because it wasn't even a real problem.
• 46:54
  Speaker 3: But as soon as she got pissed with Stacy, let
• 46:56
  Speaker 3: me tell you what she did when we was hanging out.
• 46:58
  Speaker 6: When we was hanging out, though, when we was hanging out,
• 47:01
  Speaker 6: when we was hanging out, she was these guys and
• 47:03
  Speaker 6: one of them, what's married?
• 47:05
  Speaker 3: She said, what got to do with me?
• 47:07
  Speaker 6: Well, you just now telling us that now that you're
• 47:09
  Speaker 6: mad at her and you was out with her kicking it,
• 47:12
  Speaker 6: I'm sure you didn't get up from the table and
• 47:14
  Speaker 6: say this.
• 47:14
  Speaker 3: Is against my morals and principles. I am out.
• 47:17
  Speaker 6: She didn't do that, you know what I'm saying. She
• 47:19
  Speaker 6: said there and put it in her in a roller decks.
• 47:23
  Speaker 6: And that's what I mean about people like that. You know,
• 47:26
  Speaker 6: it makes it great to be but like, don't be
• 47:28
  Speaker 6: around me if you're gonna just do if you just
• 47:30
  Speaker 6: gonna come back later with this ship. I don't want
• 47:32
  Speaker 6: to know motherfuckers like that around me at all.
• 47:35
  Speaker 4: She main characters is almost like that baby. Main characters
• 47:37
  Speaker 4: don't move like that. It's giving sidekick energy.
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, Well, speaking of main character, I thought doctor
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: Wendy gave merr I thought doctor Wendy gave main character
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: when she clocked Angel. Angel called mercurial which rain drops.
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: Gizelle did not know what it meant. But I I
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: will read the definition to y'all in terms of what
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: the word actually means.
• 48:06
  Speaker 3: That it's word.
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: Subject to sudden or unpredictable changes of mood or mine.
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: There you go. Other things were scientific. But with that
• 48:22
  Speaker 2: being said, but that being.
• 48:24
  Speaker 5: You called her moody. You thought you were having a
• 48:26
  Speaker 5: moman calling this bitch moody.
• 48:27
  Speaker 3: Are you serious that nothing's connecting?
• 48:30
  Speaker 6: And this is a prime example, even like in this
• 48:32
  Speaker 6: episode when she was looking out the window with them
• 48:34
  Speaker 6: damn binoculars.
• 48:35
  Speaker 3: Where is he driving with those kids?
• 48:39
  Speaker 6: You don't you don't be using those binoculars, angel, and
• 48:42
  Speaker 6: you don't use mercurial in your in your vernacular. Okay, yeah,
• 48:48
  Speaker 6: you could have just said that that's the problem.
• 48:50
  Speaker 3: And she was talking about it.
• 48:51
  Speaker 2: She was.
• 48:53
  Speaker 6: And I watched the after show this week and she
• 48:55
  Speaker 6: was talking to k about something. She was like, yeah,
• 48:57
  Speaker 6: but then she wants.
• 48:57
  Speaker 3: To castigate you.
• 49:00
  Speaker 6: I know what it means to castigate someone, right, most
• 49:02
  Speaker 6: people don't and thank you, thank you, And your angel
• 49:10
  Speaker 6: is not connecting, you know what I'm saying with everybody
• 49:13
  Speaker 6: she I looked at her the other day she was
• 49:15
  Speaker 6: doing press. She had an overcoad on on top of
• 49:18
  Speaker 6: it was like part of her look, but it wasn't
• 49:20
  Speaker 6: like hanging on her.
• 49:21
  Speaker 3: It was like she was wrapping it up.
• 49:23
  Speaker 6: And so I thought about some of the conversations we
• 49:25
  Speaker 6: had about her not being comfortable and stuff, and I
• 49:28
  Speaker 6: think that that's spilling over into her performance on the
• 49:30
  Speaker 6: show because it just ain't It's absolutely not happened when
• 49:33
  Speaker 6: I saw her pick up the binoculars and make sure
• 49:37
  Speaker 6: that the camera caught her looking out that window. I
• 49:39
  Speaker 6: went to the bathroom. I just let it, I just
• 49:42
  Speaker 6: let that scene play. I went on and went to
• 49:44
  Speaker 6: the bathroom. I'm tired of hearing the words Colorado home
• 49:47
  Speaker 6: home in Colorado, house Colorado, Colorado home home Colorado, our
• 49:50
  Speaker 6: home in Colorado, Hou's Colorado, Colorado home, tired Colorado, apparently
• 49:57
  Speaker 6: color Molado.
• 49:59
  Speaker 4: Do y'all know Manza from selling Sunset. She's given a
• 50:04
  Speaker 4: really hard on those outfits and they never had. You
• 50:06
  Speaker 4: worked really hard to look stupid, and people.
• 50:09
  Speaker 5: Be telling them themselves. She will sound to Claudia.
• 50:12
  Speaker 4: I think it might have been Claudia where she was
• 50:13
  Speaker 4: talking to her and she mentioned the girl. The girls
• 50:16
  Speaker 4: clearly read the comments to get their their their their
• 50:19
  Speaker 4: barbs and their clips from you just told them yourself.
• 50:22
  Speaker 6: You just talking about you're looking in the wrong place, sweetheart.
• 50:28
  Speaker 6: You look into the That's why nothing is working, because
• 50:30
  Speaker 6: you're trying to play to the comments and get the fast,
• 50:32
  Speaker 6: not how you get the fans on your side. People
• 50:35
  Speaker 6: like you because you're authentic and original and there's ship
• 50:38
  Speaker 6: that you do the way you do it. I'm talking
• 50:40
  Speaker 6: about when people like someone.
• 50:42
  Speaker 3: Oh okay, people like someone, they like you because of that.
• 50:45
  Speaker 6: Nobody none of that. I don't think Angela is connecting.
• 50:48
  Speaker 6: I would say, don't nobody like her, but I'm not
• 50:50
  Speaker 6: gonna say it.
• 50:51
  Speaker 5: I would be like her because he invested thirty k.
• 50:57
  Speaker 3: So on the show.
• 50:58
  Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying, She's break her back and
• 51:03
  Speaker 6: she's not connecting man with nobody and it's boring man.
• 51:08
  Speaker 3: And then to me, she's making it even harder for
• 51:11
  Speaker 3: my girl, Keiana. Right.
• 51:12
  Speaker 6: I know I'm in the minority here. I see all
• 51:14
  Speaker 6: the comments, I see the conversations. I know that y'all
• 51:17
  Speaker 6: are not happy with the choices that Keana is making.
• 51:21
  Speaker 6: But I like her, and I don't give a fuck. Okay,
• 51:24
  Speaker 6: I like and I like her brother. Her her brother is.
• 51:28
  Speaker 6: That's a beautiful family. I don't want to disrespect him
• 51:30
  Speaker 6: because I don't know. You know what I'm saying, But
• 51:32
  Speaker 6: I have a beautiful family. They have a beautiful friend.
• 51:36
  Speaker 6: You can say, you know what I'm saying, But like
• 51:39
  Speaker 6: they have, they're a beautiful family. And she gets that
• 51:42
  Speaker 6: smoldering glance from her player, like.
• 51:45
  Speaker 3: From her mama. You know what I'm saying.
• 51:47
  Speaker 6: They're a beautiful family and I like her, and I
• 51:49
  Speaker 6: think that the addition of Angel is taking Keana down
• 51:53
  Speaker 6: because them two together don't help each other.
• 51:58
  Speaker 2: I'll say that. I think, think.
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: I agree with you, but I'll disagree with you when
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: I say this. I don't.
• 52:06
  Speaker 2: I think they're taking each.
• 52:08
  Speaker 3: Other down, Yeah, the wrong road.
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: I think Kyana, Okay, I'm gonna say this, and I
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: hope you guys understand when I say this that this
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: is when I'm only being producer.
• 52:21
  Speaker 3: And I'm gonna be honest.
• 52:22
  Speaker 2: I'm a big producer. When I say this is not
• 52:24
  Speaker 2: a viewer.
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: I think Kana is trying too hard in these scenes
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: and it's hard to register. And I think Angel, who
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: doesn't have somebody on the show that is a bet,
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: doesn't have somebody to tell her don't do that, because
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: nobody's telling Keana, okay, girl, calm down, simmer down the bed.
• 52:46
  Speaker 2: Even when Keyanna was reading Stacey.
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: And it was yah ya and I was like, Okay, Kiana,
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: I live for you, baby, but that wasn't again. I
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: would have loved if I was there as the producer,
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: and I'm pretty sure the produces her to be like.
• 53:08
  Speaker 3: Simmer down, like all that.
• 53:11
  Speaker 2: I'll do all that.
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: And I think Angel, I think in Angels defense, she's
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: walking to the twilight zone with no direction.
• 53:19
  Speaker 3: Didn't have no Ninnie, didn't have a O G.
• 53:22
  Speaker 6: Giselle, didn't have nobody to mentor her, Karen Huger didn't
• 53:25
  Speaker 6: have nobody to mentor her.
• 53:28
  Speaker 3: But they were that.
• 53:31
  Speaker 6: Season changed, but reality has something was different when they
• 53:38
  Speaker 6: came on too. I'm sorry you ain't gonna get no
• 53:40
  Speaker 6: pass for me say that saying that you could give
• 53:42
  Speaker 6: a better performance if somebody who was there could guide you. No,
• 53:46
  Speaker 6: you are you're a housewife. This is a show that
• 53:49
  Speaker 6: is about you. It's not about you being advised and
• 53:52
  Speaker 6: guided in the way. No, you get in there and
• 53:54
  Speaker 6: you show your personality and you if you're interesting, you're interested.
• 53:58
  Speaker 3: If you're not, you're not. I find Colorado.
• 54:01
  Speaker 4: Is there no Wi Fi in Colorado? But she could
• 54:02
  Speaker 4: have just watched the show like the rest of us.
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: And she told Laudia Cobble on their show Accidentally Uninformed
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: accormed Girl Erica.
• 54:14
  Speaker 2: She told him on the show that she watched a
• 54:15
  Speaker 2: little bit of it.
• 54:16
  Speaker 3: I call bs on it episode. Okay, Angel, you are.
• 54:25
  Speaker 2: This is why it's challenging.
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: Right, it's because if we look at the facts, I
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: think reality TV has changed a lot in the past
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: three to five years.
• 54:37
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: Gone are the days of a Kenya Moore and a
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: Porsche coming into a season five and taking over the show.
• 54:44
  Speaker 2: Let's have a real conversation.
• 54:49
  Speaker 5: Ta is amazing.
• 54:50
  Speaker 4: I agree, disagree because Tia is amazing, but but let's
• 54:53
  Speaker 4: be crazy is amazing.
• 54:58
  Speaker 2: But you guys aren't listening. Wendy was not great her
• 55:01
  Speaker 2: first season.
• 55:02
  Speaker 3: No, no, Saty was.
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: Not great her first season. She was con So hear
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. What I'm saying it took a minute,
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: Okay for the first season the housewife in the past
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: three to five years, namely one housewife on Atlanta or
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: Potomac where the first season in the last three to
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: five years they came out the gate killing it.
• 55:25
  Speaker 2: I think it. I think it takes a minute. If
• 55:29
  Speaker 2: I'm wrong, I'm wrong.
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: But can you name anybody in the three in the
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: past three to five years that killed it the first season?
• 55:34
  Speaker 7: Go.
• 55:34
  Speaker 4: I think the one producer that we're forgetting to mention,
• 55:38
  Speaker 4: which I think is the reason why Keiana is struggling,
• 55:40
  Speaker 4: is that and this is my own personal theory.
• 55:42
  Speaker 2: Just sorry, Blue, I'm sorry, Blue.
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: Somebody said ya, Yeah, Jesus carried the show on her back.
• 55:53
  Speaker 6: She stole, she stole the.
• 56:07
  Speaker 4: Here's the thing, y'all, Mia is the gift that keeps
• 56:10
  Speaker 4: on giving, isn't she with Bobby Vick?
• 56:14
  Speaker 5: Okay, we shut up.
• 56:15
  Speaker 2: No.
• 56:15
  Speaker 4: I think my theory is that Karen Huger being missing
• 56:18
  Speaker 4: is what's happening, because you have to think about it.
• 56:20
  Speaker 5: Karen Huger takes these girls under her wing.
• 56:22
  Speaker 4: Every season people talk about how Karen is the silent producer.
• 56:26
  Speaker 4: I think Karen being in lockup is while we're getting
• 56:27
  Speaker 4: this horrible season from this girl, because Karen was like
• 56:30
  Speaker 4: a mother to her, who was advising her. Without Karen,
• 56:33
  Speaker 4: all we got is third party information from Cookie Monster. Sorry, right,
• 56:37
  Speaker 4: So without Karen being there, I think if Karen was there,
• 56:40
  Speaker 4: Karen would be helping Kiana, and Kiana could then have
• 56:43
  Speaker 4: a drip down effect to Angel. I think the absence
• 56:45
  Speaker 4: of Karen is why this is so cringe, and y'all
• 56:48
  Speaker 4: cannot convince me otherwise because Ms.
• 56:50
  Speaker 8: Hugar is look with that that's actually good and listen.
• 56:54
  Speaker 8: I sent a lance up atomy because I'm not gonna
• 56:56
  Speaker 8: have this conversation about the Black Housewives versus the shows
• 57:00
  Speaker 8: because yes, because yes, Monica Garcia killed it her first season, like.
• 57:07
  Speaker 2: She she to me it was Kenya.
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: So I'm saying a Lance and Potomac specifically, but a
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: lot of people are agree with Dustin saying Angela Oakley,
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: and I would have to say Angela Oakley was stellar. Yeah,
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: So again I want to I wanted it to be
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: a situation where you could correct me, so I will
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: say Angela Oakley for sure, So I stand corrected.
• 57:32
  Speaker 3: I see your boy for sure.
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so listen, we will see with that. What I
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: want to get into is what are your thoughts on
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: KK meeting with her mom and her brother, and this
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: is a conversation that we low key talked about ten
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: minutes ago. Her boyfriend Greg decided to buy her condo
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: instead of getting her a ring after three years of
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: dating Blue.
• 58:02
  Speaker 4: I think it's dangerous when black women are delusional and
• 58:05
  Speaker 4: don't realize that wife and wife he are two different.
• 58:07
  Speaker 5: Words for a reason.
• 58:09
  Speaker 4: I think the first time that Kiarana realized that she
• 58:11
  Speaker 4: wasn't a wife of when she said to Stacy, I
• 58:13
  Speaker 4: wouldn't trust you with my husband, and Stacy had to
• 58:15
  Speaker 4: remind her she didn't have one. And so I think
• 58:18
  Speaker 4: Greg has been gaslighting her successfully for quite.
• 58:20
  Speaker 5: A while, and that to be that stunning right her
• 58:24
  Speaker 5: face is a work of heart.
• 58:26
  Speaker 4: To be that stunning, and to be giving up the
• 58:28
  Speaker 4: best years of your life to someone so painfully mediocre.
• 58:32
  Speaker 4: It's I hate to see it, but it also might
• 58:35
  Speaker 4: explain why she feels the need to make up for
• 58:38
  Speaker 4: it with other storylines that don't include her, because if
• 58:41
  Speaker 4: Monique don't care, why do you care so much?
• 58:43
  Speaker 5: And one thing I will say about I'm.
• 58:45
  Speaker 4: Just saying and Chris Samuel's penis, I didn't think it
• 58:48
  Speaker 4: was gonna be a co star this season. I don't
• 58:52
  Speaker 4: believe that anybody cares this much about the Chris storyline.
• 58:55
  Speaker 4: I think he's a means to an end. They didn't
• 58:57
  Speaker 4: care about him as much when he was on the show.
• 58:59
  Speaker 5: Now y'all care about him so much in his penis.
• 59:01
  Speaker 4: It's it's all so desperate. And I think the reason
• 59:04
  Speaker 4: why Stacey is so amazing. I think the reason why
• 59:07
  Speaker 4: Tita is so amazing is because they're in on the joke, right,
• 59:11
  Speaker 4: Even Giselle, I have not always loved Jaselle, but Jaseelle
• 59:14
  Speaker 4: looks sincerely confused when, uh.
• 59:16
  Speaker 5: What's Doom? Doom's name? Not doing gloom? What's Boom's name?
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: Uh?
• 59:21
  Speaker 4: Angels Angel, Sorry my head, they're doing glooms. I don't
• 59:23
  Speaker 4: be forgetting their names. When Gloom was crying, Jaselle looks
• 59:27
  Speaker 4: sincerely confused. She was like, girl, thought we were just
• 59:29
  Speaker 4: doing a scene. Ah you really, Oh you're really hurt?
• 59:32
  Speaker 7: Oh?
• 59:33
  Speaker 5: Okay, I guess girl.
• 59:35
  Speaker 4: You know there's a camera, right, this is just work.
• 59:37
  Speaker 4: And so I think the girls who are not in
• 59:39
  Speaker 4: on the joke are getting dragged because they could joke
• 59:41
  Speaker 4: to the wrong party.
• 59:43
  Speaker 5: It's a show, baby, go back to Colorado after this.
• 59:45
  Speaker 2: It's a show, like, y'all you adjusted are so best
• 59:50
  Speaker 2: thing y'all. Don't keep her part.
• 59:51
  Speaker 5: Of the co.
• 59:54
  Speaker 6: Saying it. I'm so every episode we need. That's the
• 59:56
  Speaker 6: drinking game all she says, only Colorado house. I got
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 6: a Colorado host my home in Colorado home. Well, you know,
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 6: our Colorado house for our Colorado home heads with Colorado. Like, man,
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 6: if she said that fucking word one more time, man,
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 6: I just drank.
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 5: Every time he said Colorado. Now I'm drug.
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 3: Yeah, see, so get you a.
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 4: New something, and also to being mad at Wendy for
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 4: not looking at you cannot be your entire storyline.
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 2: Let's listen, Angel.
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: I only know for you this episode because I feel
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: like my my co host did a great.
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 2: Job displaying there.
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: My only note for Angel this episode was when I
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: saw her checking Wendy, I'm like, you're angry at.
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 3: The wrong person.
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 2: You really are mad at Gazelle. Gazelle even said to you,
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 2: I said cap Fish, not Wendy. Everybody said Gazelle said it.
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 2: And for me, it was one of those things that
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 2: in high school.
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: When the popular girl did something and the other person,
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: let's just call this person the victim, and this in
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: the school has to confront her bully and she redirects,
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: she misdirects the heat to somebody else on the Regina
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: George squad.
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 2: It made no sense to me.
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: It's evident to me that Angel had no smoke prepared
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: for her for Gazelle, because one thing that I've always
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: said this, I don't and listen, unpopular, I don't give
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: a ship. Everybody comes in wanting to be Gazelle friend,
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: and we'll see I see a lot of that in
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: this season. Already, and we're gonna see a lot of
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: that in upcoming seasons. I think Giselle is the girl
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: that all the girls on the show come in wanting
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: to be friends with, and Angel has no smoke for Gazel.
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 2: Wendy clocked it and was like you, we don't want you.
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 6: Here, and her face I think when she did it too.
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 3: Wendy looked good in that green dress.
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 2: This season her best season.
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 6: She's been looking good every mother fucking episode them confessionals,
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 6: every look Wendy has been like stunning.
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 5: I don't care she did it, y'all. Can we admit that.
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 3: I don't care? Three Wendy, Yeah, free both.
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 4: I'm a whole hashag movement because the thing is Wendy
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 4: is that girl. And I think the reason why Angels
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 4: not clocking is because Angels a wag y'a don't understand
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 4: about the wags.
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 2: In the Wags, the.
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 4: Zel is very wag adjacent to who mother is in
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 4: the wag world. And even when she tried to pull
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 4: rank on Jazzy and was like, hey, you know, he's
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 4: the starter for ten years and nobody gave a damn right.
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 4: In wag culture, your man's status you get to benefit from.
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 4: So if my man has started for ten years, I'm
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 4: officially a bigger deal than you. If your man is
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 4: on the bench, none of those wag rules are applied.
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 4: We don't care that man gave me five K and
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 4: use it to buy key change for twelve dollars at
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 4: the radio shack, like when he want it out, Like
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 4: nobody cares over here.
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 6: And that's where she fucked up. Angel is being fake
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 6: on the cameras. That's what's going on. Angel's not being herself.
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 6: She's showing up the camera to seeing being fake, speaking
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 6: in ways that she does not speak in her personal life,
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 6: getting mad about ship that she shouldn't even get mad about,
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 6: like and acting as if she's mad.
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 3: She don't give a fuck about what they said about
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 3: her pictures. She don't give a fuck.
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 6: She she's looking for something to attach herself to to
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 6: get her story going, and unfortunately she picked the wrong thing.
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: Uh.
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 6: Tia went to see Wendy, went to see Stacy and Timo.
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 6: Right she went to see them, she was being fake
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 6: when she got over there. Stacey caught on to Tia
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 6: being fake and trying to pry and ask questions, and
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 6: so Stacey started lying, being fake too.
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, that's what that was. Yeah,
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 3: he gets back tomorrow. I don't know. He ain't gonna
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 3: be here. I don't know, you know what I'm saying.
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 6: Yeah, she did that ship because Tia went over there
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 6: being fake in the first place. That's why Stacey did
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 6: that shit, and so that's why they not you know
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 6: what I'm saying, it's not working out for them. If
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 6: Angel would have came on this show flossing her wag lifestyle,
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying, Like, Yes, I'm gonna wag
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 6: this how I do it. I don't really care if
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 6: these women like me or not. I'm about to just
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 6: live my life and do my thing. And Kay is
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 6: my homegirl. We're finna have some fun. I'm gonna bring
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 6: my sister on here. She liked to talk shit. If
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 6: Angel would have brought all that to the show, you
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 6: know what I'm saying, then we would have been onto something.
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 6: But the minute you tried to come on this show,
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 6: I'm no, I'm actually thinking about this, and it's caused
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 6: our interactions.
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 3: To devolve in a mercurial state. Don't nobody want to
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 3: see that?
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 2: You know what?
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 6: I'm saying, you're not even interesting and you always look sad.
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 6: That's not interesting, you know what I'm saying. We want
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 6: to see something else. So Angel, although she had the lifestyle,
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 6: she had, the husband, she had the kids. Hell, her
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 6: extended family was filming and when we met her, but
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 6: then everything just went right down, you know what I'm saying,
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 6: because he didn't just live and.
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 3: Just be the wag. That's what she should have been.
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 5: So and.
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I hated it.
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: Do you guys think about the scene with Wendy, uh
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: doctor Wendy, her mom and you know the family.
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 5: Now, I know why she had to allegedly.
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 3: Look at me in my bag, look at me, you
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 3: see my bag?
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 5: Get your father, I get the money?
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 2: Yay.
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 5: I was like, oh no, Mama, like.
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 6: Yeah, But I felt really bad though when they started
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 6: talking about how their daddy don't give a fuck and
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 6: ain't seen him in twenty years and what kind of
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 6: ship is that? You know what I'm saying, Like, fuck him.
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 6: That was horrible to me and I and that that
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 6: pain was real that you've seen in Wendy's face. The
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 6: sister Ivy, Ivy is her name, right, Yeah, her sister
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 6: don't give a fuck.
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 3: She like, you know, fuck him. But Wendy was kind
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 3: of like, damn like that.
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 6: You could tell it was really settling in on her
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 6: the really where things were.
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 3: With her father or whatever. So that was tough to see.
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 3: But yeah, but.
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 4: Her mother was your daddy, ain't ship. But I like
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 4: this personal thank you. I was like, that is the.
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 3: Wrong tone, very your wrong tone.
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 5: No matriarch.
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 4: You know how I feel about women who don't have matriarch.
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 4: Things get tricky.
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 6: Blue, I'm not going I'm not going there. I'm not
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 6: I'm gonna keep it on this network.
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 9: So yes, so Dusty and Blue, we got a few
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 9: minutes left. I want to get it to this thing
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 9: with Monique and the girls. Some of it was sitting
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 9: down with Keana, Ashley, Ben, Wendy and they're trying to
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 9: figure out where did Chris Samuel's get this information that
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 9: was told to him Stacy then a Rye and Stacy
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 9: a woman after my own heart, the heart of a
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 9: human and a producer. When she said I don't feel
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 9: comfortable talking about this with these two sitting here.
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 2: Was like, Stacey, who are you what I'm living? And
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 2: then Keana gets up because of the bar and Stacy
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 2: looked up as she like, you don't want to join her?
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: Okay, I appreciate the conversation that the girls had because
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: Monique is like, look, I know my ex husband and
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 1: the game of telephone paraphrase of course, but she talked
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: about the game of telephone and how look, Chris could
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 1: have put some hot sauce on it. Anybody could put
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 1: some hot sauce on it. I know the man I
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 1: was married to. Monika's calling him MESSI. Stacey proceeded to
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: take out her phone and retext messages. He sent her
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 1: picture of her on the cover of a magazine and
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: her daughter and said beautiful. Stacey alleged she didn't respond
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: to it. Chris allegedly responded and said thank you would
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: be nice. Stacey allegedly paid it to show that I
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 1: don't communicate with this man Ashley her and to be said,
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: does it is Jesus Ashley her In to be said
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: that we all know you can delete messages. Stacey does
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: have a history of being untruthful. She was untruthful about
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: the weed company that she did start. When she was
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: confronted about it, she said, no, now she has one.
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  Speaker 2: Allegedly, you know this TJ thing was a farce and
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  Speaker 2: she just has this history. Dustin Ross, what were your.
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  Speaker 1: Thoughts on that scene and do you believe that Stacy
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  Speaker 1: was reading the accurate receipts between her and Chris Samuels.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I do, But I think that the biggest story
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  Speaker 6: is the fact that she had those messages in the
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  Speaker 6: first place.
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  Speaker 3: Right, we're all growing up.
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  Speaker 6: This is not the Da Vinci code, Right, Like they were,
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  Speaker 6: Stacey and Chris went out, they kicked it. You know
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  Speaker 6: what I'm saying. This shit ain't it's not rocket science.
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  Speaker 6: Like they was attracted to each other, they went out
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  Speaker 6: and kicked it. You know what I'm saying. It was
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  Speaker 6: what it was. They still cool, you know what I'm saying,
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  Speaker 6: y'all know what the relationships are. Like you hang out
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 6: with somebody one time, you know, y'all y'all cool, y'all
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  Speaker 6: have a flirty banter and it is what it is.
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  Speaker 6: You might you know, do it or whatever, but like
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  Speaker 6: it's just a casual situation. That's what that is. You
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  Speaker 6: know what I'm saying. We've seen them photograph together. We
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  Speaker 6: know they've spent time together. She admitted it. And when
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  Speaker 6: they were away wherever they were, and she said that
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  Speaker 6: they had went out and spent time together.
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  Speaker 3: It is what it is. They was attracted to each other.
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  Speaker 6: She ain't fucking with him right now because she's into
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  Speaker 6: her ex husband or estranged husband or whatever their status is.
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  Speaker 6: So I don't know why people are trying to act
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  Speaker 6: like there's something to expose here when it's already exposed. Yes,
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  Speaker 6: they went out on a date, maybe more than one. Yes,
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  Speaker 6: who knows what else happened. They're consenting adults, you know
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  Speaker 6: what I'm saying. There's nothing wrong with whatever kind of
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  Speaker 6: time they spent together. Because she wasn't friends with Monique,
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 6: And that's why I'm glad Monique is doing what keeping
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 6: it player okay and being like, oh baby, we grown.
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  Speaker 6: I don't give a fuck about whui dating like it's
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  Speaker 6: all good. Just be careful, mama, you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 3: That's that's how you do it.
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  Speaker 2: What did you take about that? Though? But she she
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  Speaker 2: kept it firing. Be careful, be careful.
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  Speaker 3: And look.
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  Speaker 1: Allegedly, I almost say an allegedd because we didn't see
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  Speaker 1: the text messages. After getting no response from Stacy, Chris
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  Speaker 1: does allegedly say I heard my name came up and
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  Speaker 1: filming what's going on?
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  Speaker 3: What?
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  Speaker 1: And desine, you watch again, you're the historic of reality.
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  Speaker 1: What are your thoughts about that?
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  Speaker 2: I thought. I was very like, be careful, be careful.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, what it's about to happen?
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  Speaker 3: Nothing. All that was was you had her, that's still
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  Speaker 3: my ex husband.
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  Speaker 6: And at the end of the day, I don't like
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  Speaker 6: the fact that I'm talking to another woman about my
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  Speaker 6: ex husband.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm gonna get a jab in. That's what that was. Oh,
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  Speaker 3: that's what that was.
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  Speaker 6: Where even though I'm taking the high roll and even
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 6: though I'm going to keep it player about this, you
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  Speaker 6: still a hole that was dealt with my ex husband
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  Speaker 6: and my baby father actually in some kind of way.
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  Speaker 3: So I am gonna throw a little jab in here.
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  Speaker 3: And that's all that was.
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  Speaker 6: Because it positioned her as a person with more information,
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  Speaker 6: of the person who knew better in the situation and
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 6: was able to give that advice or give a warning
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  Speaker 6: to heat because you're more knowledgeable. It positioned her in
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 6: the situation as the one and that was the intention
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  Speaker 6: of the comment.
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  Speaker 3: It's cool, that's what people do. I'm gonna throw a
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  Speaker 3: little jab.
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  Speaker 5: I like that.
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  Speaker 4: Nuance because I got something similar. But what I felt
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  Speaker 4: from it was that a Stacey. I know for a
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  Speaker 4: fact that Chris a liar. I know for a fact
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 4: that Cookie talking about she Chuck Brown's daughter, she a
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  Speaker 4: damn liar. And I didn't tell me you a liar,
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 4: justin catch you all fucking lie in. Be careful, right?
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: Can we talk about Stacey woman, because you know she's
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  Speaker 4: my favorite crazy person and I love her. Okay, a
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 4: Q coach, we all can have a cheap meals. Stacy's
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 4: my cheap mill. When Stacey was like, shay, your means joy,
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 4: I was like, okay, interesting, it wasn't to When he said, no,
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 4: honey means happy. She's so happy at these gummies and
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 4: then name the ship happy, that's the moment I fell
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  Speaker 4: in love.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, toxic toxic love.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, she called the gummies appyety, how do you not
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 4: stand for her?
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  Speaker 5: The audacity?
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  Speaker 3: Look you what this comment they said it was a
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 3: chein chick. That's see.
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  Speaker 6: That's how you know what I'm saying Like, it was
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  Speaker 6: very much one of these don't say that's an.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, are so buddy?
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 2: So look ray drop that concludes our show.
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  Speaker 1: Listen, this is this was a good episode. This is
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 1: a good episode. But Tooma listen, I want to go
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 1: on record say this because if it was the opposite,
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 1: I would say the opposite.
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  Speaker 3: Right.
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  Speaker 1: I really have been enjoying the last couple of episodes
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 1: of Atomac because to me, it's spicy but fun and
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 1: it's not dark, and I think I finally feel like
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 1: all the girls have settled in their position on the show.
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 2: At the beginning, I was like, I don't know, y'all
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 2: trying to all be jasel.
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: I will say this episode made me look at each
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 1: individual housewife and friend of the show as people who
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 1: work well in this puzzle. So I really had a
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 1: fantastic time enjoying this episode.
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 3: I loved.
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  Speaker 2: I loved every minute of it.
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 6: I really do they having a good season, And shout
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 6: out to whoever is editing these episodes because the pacing
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 6: is impeccable. Nigga, Like these episodes are so well paced.
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 6: There's not really any lulls, Like they having a great season.
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 6: Over there, I'll been miscellaneous. Okay, it is right, Oh yeah,
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 6: my bad. Even though it's miss show. What I'm saying,
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 6: they having a good season this year.
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 3: They are. It's entertaining it's good.
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 1: So so brain drops. We will be back next Monday.
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: I really do hope you all had a great holiday weekend.
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 1: My recapin Mariti Mediciners with Doctor Heavenly on Patreon. Check
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  Speaker 1: out blues Conversation with Friends of the show Mouse Jones. Yes,
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 1: she's about the complexities of women who date men who
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 1: don't make as much as them.
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 2: That's on Patreon. Blue Listen. You all know she's a
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 2: scholar and she did.
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 1: A great job talking to a straight black man about
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 1: dating in his day and age.
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 2: And it was a great conversation. Yes, So so check
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 2: that out and you'll catch us again. I love you all. Yeah,
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 2: And Dustin, is there any othernnouncements you have when it comes.
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  Speaker 6: To the fact that, Yeah, on tour Thursday This Thursday,
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 6: December fourth, I'll be in Miami at the Miami Improv.
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 6: I can't wait to show my ass in Miami. So
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 6: if you are going to be in Miami for our
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 6: Baslin you'll be there Thursday. You can go to Dustin
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 6: Ross Live just like it sounds Dustin Rosslive at dot
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  Speaker 6: com and get tickets. Pull up on me on Thursday
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 6: in Miami, and yao, pull up on me yes, and
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 6: Detroit on December nineteenth, So see you go home, Yes, ma'am.
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 6: So if anybody's in Detroit, let me know. But yeah,
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 6: see y'all Thursday in Miami. You can go buy it's
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 6: a few tickets left. You can go buy tickets.
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 3: Dustin Rosslive dot com can't wait to talk shit Thursday
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 3: and Blue there's.
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 2: A comic Where can I follow Blue?
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 3: I need to hear her every damn day, right.
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 4: I just want to say that Dustin doing comedy is
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 4: the scariest thing in the industry.
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 5: So I'm so in of of anybody who does.
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 2: What you're doing right now.
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 3: Thank you, Thank you so much, because.
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 4: If y'alln't laugh, I'm crying and walk Fuck me on
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 4: YouTube at Blue Centric, where I talk my ish all
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 4: the time, and for anybody who has seen me on
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 4: Carls the Show, you know that I'm constantly giving you
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 4: guys shout outs over on my YouTube page because.
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 5: They know that if I'm not over there, I'm over
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 5: here with y'all.
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 4: I say no to a lot of people, but I
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 4: will always say yes to y'all because I sincerely enjoy it,
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 4: and then my face won't.
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 2: Let me lie. Now listen.
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: I love you guys, and I'm happy that we get
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 1: to do this together. And listen, I'll see you all
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 1: next week. Half a great day.
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 2: And listen. And the words up, Angel have a material.
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 3: Don't evolve into a mercurious expeditiously right right.
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 6: I said not, And I'm not saying fuck you Angel
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 6: at all. I'm just saying if I was that conversation,
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 6: I would be like, are you talking about you know
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 6: why you're.
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 5: Laughing, Wendy. We get why Wendy laughed so much. She's like,
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 5: I know what those words.
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 3: Actually mean, hope, Like Wendy was rolling the entire.
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 5: To enjoy the.
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  Speaker 2: View with your modculars until ve job. Oh I can't,
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 2: I can't think it off. I love.
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