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FETISHES, COLLARS, PROTOCOL AND KINKY KYLIE · CALL ME MISTRESS

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  Hi, welcome to the latest episode of Call Me Mistress.
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  I'm your Hostess, Mistress Mia, and today I've got with me Kinky
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  Kylie. Hi, Woo Hoo.
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  How you doing, Kylie? Doing all right, Doing all
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  right. All right, so we had an
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  interesting day yesterday. We did.
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  It's very fun. It was very fun.
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  Today might be really interesting, but we'll see how
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  the day goes. It's always interesting when I'm
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  with you, Mia. The day is always.
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  Interesting and you're welcome. Yes.
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  Thank you so much. All right, so today we're going
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  to go on Fat Life, but I will say this much since we're
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  talking about fat, I'm going to say that I'm going to give a
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  shout out to Scott Shiny 99. Yes.
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  He is so fucking cool. He's great, at least his
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  podcast. Yes, he's great.
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  He's so sweet. He's so kind.
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  I love it. I love that he's just, he's so
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  supportive. He's so nice.
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  He always writes me really sweet emails.
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  I haven't heard from Tony. Tony, I miss you.
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  I always miss you. I hope Tony's doing well.
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  I hope he is too, probably just busy.
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  Probably. Why does life have to take so
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  much? I don't know.
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  It does though. It sucks.
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  I know I work so much, I'm so busy running around all week and
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  then. Yeah.
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  And then we get 2 days off and it's like.
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  Yeah. Sucks.
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  Get 2 days off. For a while I was only getting
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  one because I was working daycares on Fridays.
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  Yeah yeah, there. For the longest time I was only
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  having Thursdays off and. That's crazy it.
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  Was insane. Well, I'm glad you're up for the
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  change, doing some new, new things we're going to have.
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  Let's see, this is God. We're in May.
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  We're in April. Oh shit, OK, May is coming
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  around the corner so the party isn't like less than two weeks.
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  It's in two weeks. Yeah, yes.
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  We've got yeah, two weeks today. Two weeks today, OK.
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  So next Friday is the Munch and McGuire.
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  'S yes. Looking forward to that.
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  Yes, everyone can come and have fun and do their thing and Oh my
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  gosh, have you been to Mcguire's yet?
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  I have. So we used to when we traveled
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  to Florida, we would stop and eat there.
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  Oh yeah, I'm gonna. Have to bring my mom back some
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  bread and my grandmother so like on my way out have to like order
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  like a couple things of bread. Wow.
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  Because they're going to kill me.
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  They know I went to Mcguire's and didn't bring.
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  Them back bread. Oh my God.
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  You went where? Right, all right, so we're going
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  to jump into this fetish list. So those who don't know if
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  you're on Fetlife, which is really cool, they have on the
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  menu, you Scroll down to fetishes and it has three
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  categories, random, most popular, and a full list of
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  fetishes. So it's all alphabetical.
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  And if you refresh the page, it just sends you a whole new list
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  each time. So, Kylie, you go ahead and you
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  tell me what really sticks out to you in the A's.
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  I have quite a few on here. I have anime which I didn't
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  realize was a fetish. Although I guess it kind of
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  makes sense because a lot of anime girls will be very
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  provocative, so I guess it kind of makes sense.
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  Yeah, very much so. For some reason I just have a
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  bunch of anal shit on here. Literally anal.
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  Anal. Your phone is really listening
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  to you. I it was really here that I
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  can't stand it because it's like, let me put it in your
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  face. Well, we're going to start off
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  at one. Just just just talk about the
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  one thing that really sticks out to you.
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  So I'm I'm give you an example. Yeah, OK.
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  The first thing on here is abrasion.
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  Play for me now. Abrasion.
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  Do you like abrasions? Do you like cuts?
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  You like to play with knives? So I mean, I do and I don't.
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  I do, but my egg kind of ruined it for me because she kind of
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  did it without consent one time. And so it's kind of like a
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  touchy subject. But I do really like marks, and
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  the longer they stay, the better.
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  So, you know, abrasions kind of go hand in hand with that.
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  So I mean, yeah. Kind of, kind of.
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  I'm thinking about trying, you know, more knife play like on
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  bottom. Again, I haven't decided but.
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  Yeah, so it's basically a superficial injury, you know,
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  scrapes, whatever, but. Well, I mean, I haven't marked
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  my leg I'm very proud of. I know you are.
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  I'm very proud of that Mark. It has stayed now four months.
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  Liv did it to you and Liv? Wasn't it one time out in the?
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  Woods it was. It was the wood scene.
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  She did it with the web, the bullet.
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  OK. And I'm very proud of it.
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  So I mean, I guess abrasions would be something.
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  Never really considered it as a kink though.
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  Well. People do it.
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  So the next one is I see popped out is bald girl.
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  Do you think some bald girls could be sexy?
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  I think, I don't think sexy. Isn't hair, Yeah, you're like
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  yeah all. Women are beautiful in their own
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  ways, and I don't think that having hair, like, takes away or
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  adds to your beauty. I mean, I do love hair.
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  Hair is one of my bigger things. But I mean, just because you
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  don't have it doesn't mean you ain't pretty.
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  You know? I've never felt that.
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  Way yeah, Jerry Seinfeld, he did a little bit about hair, about
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  women's hair, and he was like, yeah, you know, the female hair
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  is just beautiful. It's all great and fine when
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  it's on your head, but the moment it goes in your food,
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  it's nasty and disgusting and you just want to spit it out and
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  it just ruins your day. But you know, I think I've seen
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  female models, for example, and they've had like shaved heads.
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  Yeah, I think. That's really attractive on a
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  lot of women. A lot of women can really pull
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  it. Off A lot of women can really
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  pull it off, yeah. Especially with some tattoos or,
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  you know, a little bit of like a blonde or something that offsets
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  their own skin color. Yeah, like a darker woman with a
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  blonde hair. I don't know.
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  I think it's, I think it's very appealing for a lot of people.
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  Yeah. So that's my take on it and
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  there's. ATV show and it's Marvel.
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  I know guys I know, but it was Marvel.
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  And in this TV show, this woman, one of her, one of her powers
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  was in her hair, right? Like she had long hair and I
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  mean down to her ankles long because her power was in her
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  hair. Yeah.
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  And she could like, punch people.
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  She could tie people up with it. Like she had full control of her
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  hair. Like, it was basically like
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  another limb. It was super cool.
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  Well in the show they cut off all of her hair.
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  Like they shaved her to where she had like maybe an inch of
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  hair left. Wow to.
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  Take away her powers essentially and her husband, the first thing
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  that he seen when he met her is he just hugged her and loved on
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  her. And then he looked at her hair
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  like that was her power that was like her source of pride and
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  like everything to her. And he was like.
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  And then his immediate notice was just her not and like it
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  really helped her not be so self-conscious like almost
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  immediately. It was so beautiful.
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  I love their love story so. Much.
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  Isn't that cool? But yeah, like, you know, people
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  can really find that. Like you know the beauty is
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  about you, not about your hair. Very true.
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  That's cool. I don't know, I don't think I'd
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  be really attractive bald, but the worst things I guess I just
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  would never want to be bald and like.
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  I wouldn't either. I wouldn't either.
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  I wouldn't. I couldn't be confident in it.
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  My hair holds a lot of my beauty to me.
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  Right when you have nice hair, it's something you appreciate.
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  Yeah. All right, so tell me, what else
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  is on that list that looks appealing to you.
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  It's funny. You're talking about abrasions
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  and blood plays online. I know because that's your
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  thing. I you know that you do knife
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  play and all that. I do.
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  I love knife play. Knife plays one of my favorites,
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  although I do typically used to use it as more of like
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  sensation. I'll heat one knife up and put
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  one on ice and you know, do temperature play with the metal.
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  There's so much you can do with blades and they're really good
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  for sensation. Even the dull ones are really
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  good for sensation. I've never cut anybody with
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  them, like I've never done like actual like cutting or abrasions
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  or anything, but I have had it done to me twice.
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  OK. It's it's blood play is kind of
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  dangerous, but it's nice. OK, OK, all right, So what else
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  pops out at ya? Eating pussies online.
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  Talk about eating pussy. You know guys love that when
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  lesbians really tell them how to do it.
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  Because they don't know how they're doing it, because they
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  don't know what they're doing. But you just.
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  What, you just jump down to peas?
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  Yeah. Oh, OK.
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  All right. Now the B, CS, D's, none of
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  that. OK, all right, just look.
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  The rest of worn is well, there is cot worshipping on on the my
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  CS, which is funny because I've never actually done that.
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  OK, never actually done it funnily enough.
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  Cot worshipping is it is the same as you, right?
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  I mean, yeah, but no, because like cot worshipping, you're
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  actually like you're massaging it.
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  You're, you know, take care of it.
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  You're kissing all on the lick the lips and everything.
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  Like it's like full Yeah, OK pussy eating is you just is just
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  straight to business for the purpose of coming, not for the
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  purpose of giving service. Dude it's like different because
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  Co worshipping you're just servicing it.
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  Pussy eating you're just fucking it basically just put your mouth
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  all. Right.
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  You know. OK, in my opinion, I could be
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  wrong, I don't know. It's my opinion of it.
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  Let's. Put it that way.
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  Wow. All right.
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  All right. Let's see.
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  I'm going to jump into something else.
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  Wow. All right, let's talk about
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  chastity that pops out. Yeah.
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  Chastity and chastity devices. So I've had many men over the
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  years come to me about chastity devices.
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  And you know what is better than a shaved cock and balls put in a
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  chastity device so they know their role.
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  And Kylie goes silent. The reason being Kylie.
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  I don't know. You don't know, I think that one
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  it makes the longer a man because again, men think with
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  their Dicks and that's OK because we love guys.
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  But if a man thinks with their cock and you lock their their
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  brain up, then they don't get to really think with it.
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  They don't want to think with it.
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  They actually have to use their physical brain in their head.
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  And so when a man goes dating days and days without coming, he
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  becomes sweeter and sweeter and more submissive.
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  Now, sometimes he'll get a little angst, but that's when
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  you put him over your your knee and you spank him and you have
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  that chastity cage right between your legs.
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  And you tell him this is how it's going to be.
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  Just saying, men are best submissive.
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  And that's how they need to be. Their mommies.
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  Yeah, their mommies need to control them better.
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  There's a lot of men that just went that's nice, yeah.
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  Well, they need to realize that because that is what men need to
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  do. They need to cooperate.
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  They need to be good little boys.
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  They need to be put in their place and they need their Dick
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  locked up. That is just the way it is.
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  And I was talking to that couple that came in last time and I was
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  very specific in saying that men think with their Dicks and he's
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  like, oh absolutely. And you know, there was no
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  denying it. Men know, and they know that
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  it's best locked up sometimes, but that also means that their
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  partner has to reward them for good behavior.
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  That's true. You have to have a dominant
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  that's going to be going to reward the good behavior because
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  you can't, because you can't do punishments without rewards.
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  Yeah. You just can't take, take, take,
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  yeah. Absolutely, punishments are are
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  great, but also when you're doing like full of fledged
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  punishments, you have to have some sort of reward system
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  there's. This guy on fat that we're
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  friends and I've never met him. I don't even think he's in our
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  immediate area, but his name is Mastica and he's very much
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  submissive. But he does AI pictures that he
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  creates and I believe they're Japanese or Chinese.
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  But it's always this very petite, like Japanese woman and
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  she's usually naked, but it's always about her bull and her
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  husband who's locked in jastity. And it's it's always these cute
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  little mean pictures. It's like your little Dick is
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  going to be locked up while I get fucked tonight by a proper
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  cop. So it's things like that.
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  And then it'll show where he's like eating her pussy and it's
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  obviously filled with this other man's cum.
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  It's sexy. I'm I'm like, I always wait like
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  in my feed. I'm like, yeah, come on,
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  Mastica, what do you got? But there was like 2 weeks where
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  he he went by and he was making the woman submissive.
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  I'm like oh fuck no he better not switch that shit up now I.
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  Mean my dominant woman. Yes, like we want that dominant
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  woman with her bowl and her her little cock.
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  So it's sweet. I think it's cool.
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  Anyway, where were we? Now?
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  Do you see something that just pops out at you?
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  Kylie Kinky Kylie Kylie. Let's I have French maids on
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  here. Oh, do you like the idea of
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  French maids? I've never given him much
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  thought, honestly. I'm not a big like role.
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  Play. I was gonna say you're
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  submissive though too. Yeah, that too.
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  Yeah. I've never been much for role
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  play. Like OK, I don't know, just not
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  really my thing. So I think a lot of people,
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  yeah, I think a lot of people like the idea of of the stories
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  that I talk about my Sissy, because I'll post pictures of
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  him on fat and it'll say things like people will respond with Oh
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  my God, he's so lucky. Blah.
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  Well, I got him this really cute little French maids dress and
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  it's all pink and he's got a cute little white apron.
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  I mean, it's really fucking adorable, so fucking adorable.
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  And then one of my favorite outfits, I got him an extra
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  small because he's little, but it's really, really tight, you
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  know, but he likes it kind of like tight and torturous.
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  But it wasn't so much a French maid.
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  It had the French maid look because it has the little apron
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  and the little skirt. But it's in who cow outfit.
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  So human cow. It's cow little cow print and
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  it's a little halter top. It falls off his little
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  shoulders and it has the little skirt.
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  Little black skirt with the little apron.
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  Talking about it, guys, she's like, it's kind of this guy.
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  Her hands are going and her eyes are like no, it's so cute.
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  And I haven't gotten pictures with him in it yet, but I'm
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  like, I've told him I'm like, this week that beard is coming
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  off and we're taking sexy time pictures because, I mean, he's
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  got this cute little Clef in his chin.
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  Obviously he's got a cute little tiny body.
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  And so he fits these outfits very well.
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  But a French maid's outfit with the frilly little skirt, and
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  it's raised up high enough you can see, like, their thong and
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  their chastity. Beautiful.
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  Like Mia will lap that shit up all day long.
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  OK. Yeah.
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  All right. Yeah.
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  Sexy, sexy. I spit on his chastity and just
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  rattle it with a massager. Look.
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  Cuckolding is right there. It's all mine too.
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  I mean, you know, we have had so many cucks over the years with
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  parties and in the dungeon and again, these are really willing
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  men. It's really kind of funny.
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  I've got this, this one couple and the guy had had written me
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  and he was talking about and I read his e-mail before on the
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  podcast and he's like super sweet.
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  They're overseas. But he wrote to me in depth
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  about how he felt and how much he loved his wife knowing that
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  she was happy. And there was all about, yeah,
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  all about finding her own self identity and everything else.
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  Well, out of the blue, she wrote me and she's just like,
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  basically fuck you, Mia, because she thought I was, I don't know,
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  going to talk to her husband in such a way.
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  And I'm like, no, you need to go back.
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  And she apologized. Yes, she realized.
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  Yes, she realized at first. Yeah, like I I really have two
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  hot men. I really don't want someone
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  else's, you know, sloppy seconds Do what?
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  Problem? Problem.
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  Yeah. Problem or sloppy seconds.
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  I I I'm good. I've got 2 hot dudes.
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  What you do, crack your knuckles so bad at her.
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  Ding, Ding on my ankle, Yeah. You were so funny.
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  You were so funny. OK, let's.
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  See. All right, you ready?
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  Do you see another one you like? Same collars and leashes.
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  You know, that one's really, really common, obviously for a
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  lot of different reasons, both ritualistic as well as just.
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  It's fun to play with, sure, but do you actually like like what's
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  your take on them on collar and leashes?
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  OK, so I know what you have told me and what my other Subs have
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  told me is there's something about that collar around your
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  neck that makes it so much more when you're getting done it.
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  Does it's, it's like a, even if it's not like full, like this is
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  my Dom, it's still like this collar on you.
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  You belong to them, you do what they say and it's like a
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  servitude. It puts me in further subspace.
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  It can sometimes, sometimes I can't go and just complete
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  subspace without it and that kind of thing.
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  But I was more aspect from like a Dom's perspective.
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  Well, from my perspective is my my Subs, whenever I play with
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  any Subs, I feel like they're calling the shots and I'm just,
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  they're doing what it is they want on so many levels.
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  And if they feel that they can get more from wearing a collar,
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  then I am happy to put the collar on them.
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  Now, there's a lot of people that really take it to the
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  extreme of doing the collar ceremonies.
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  I don't feel like you need a ceremony to show anyone else
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  about because, I mean, I've gone to an actual collar ceremony.
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  That's so cool. And it.
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  Yeah, it was interesting. It was interesting.
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  But I mean, it was like her soap was naked and, you know, she got
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  down, she did the whole deal. Now they had a really toxic
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  relationship. And so that was kind of like,
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  yeah. Yeah.
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  Yeah, this is weird, you know, when you know, it's there's
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  toxicity between the two of them.
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  It's not going to work. The collar that you put on your
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  sub, it's between you and your sub.
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  It to me, it's not for the world.
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  It's not up for discussion with anyone else.
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  It shouldn't be a big reduction to me.
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  It should be, you know, putting it on your sub and saying, hey,
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  I don't take this collar lightly.
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  And that's what I told my Sissy. I don't take this collar
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  lightly. I don't.
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  I didn't buy it for anyone else. I bought it for you.
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  And when I put this collar on you, this is your time for
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  submission. It's not time for you to be
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  disobedient or to run your fucking mouth.
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  It's for you to understand that this is our purpose between our
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  dynamic and what we do. Yeah.
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  Now. Oh, do you want to say
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  something? OK just going to say but with my
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  GIM he likes a big thick collar. We do it, you know, during the
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  sessions that we have. But for me, I feel like when I'm
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  ready to sissify my Sissy and I want him living with me, I want
• 18:11
  him to always have that collar on.
• 18:13
  I put it on one of my old Subs for the longest time and he was
• 18:17
  walking around with it. My family was like what the
• 18:20
  fuck? So again, I think just the
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  collars in general, if it makes the sub happy by all means
• 18:25
  regardless, it's still a symbol of ADS relationship yeah.
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  I just don't think it needs to be a full on production and
• 18:32
  that's just me. But there's a lot of people.
• 18:34
  I think like I said, it's cool. I'm not going to yuck someone's
• 18:36
  Yum. Yeah, regardless, what's your
• 18:38
  take? I.
• 18:38
  Think of course I have a Subs perspective and I think it's
• 18:41
  very like I think an actual collar.
• 18:43
  Now there's there's a difference between wearing a collar for
• 18:45
  play and then there's a collar for actually being someone
• 18:48
  submissive. Now, I've only ever been in one
• 18:49
  DS relationship, like actual DS relationship, which was with my
• 18:53
  ex and I wanted to be officially collared for her.
• 18:55
  Now, I don't say that I necessarily do like a collaring
• 18:57
  ceremony, although I do love the idea of that.
• 18:59
  I do think it would be cool to do that, but I'm also an
• 19:02
  exhibitionist that being owned in front of people would be
• 19:04
  entertaining to me personally. I mean, you know this.
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  Yeah, that's not a shock to anyone.
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  I do like if I ever get another DS relationship with a person
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  that I'm with, I would like to be like officially collared,
• 19:14
  like wear a day collar all the time and like be owned by that
• 19:16
  person all the time. You know, I wanted to by my ex,
• 19:19
  but she wouldn't do it, which I mean, not so great anyway, so
• 19:22
  it's probably better, you know, Yeah.
• 19:24
  Well for my Sissy now, my GIMP already has 1.
• 19:28
  He already has a daytime collar and it's a gold chain, but it
• 19:32
  has it has jewelry of mine that I had melted down just for him.
• 19:36
  Super cool. And that cool is so cool.
• 19:38
  And then I had it engraved how much I love him always in
• 19:41
  forever. And it has my initial.
• 19:44
  That's super cool. Yeah.
• 19:45
  And so I want to have one done for my Sissy, but I want to have
• 19:49
  his in silver and I'll probably give it to him for his birthday.
• 19:53
  So it'll be that. But I'm trying to find something
• 19:56
  that I'll either have melted down to do it the same, same
• 19:59
  concept. Yeah.
• 20:00
  Just something different in general.
• 20:02
  Pretty cool. Or some type of symbol I think
• 20:05
  would be neat. Yeah, I wanted originally with
• 20:08
  my ex, I wanted, they have some that are like, they're just like
• 20:10
  a simple little chain. And on the end of them they have
• 20:12
  like a little ring, like the O, like an O-ring basically that
• 20:15
  you would have in a normal dog collar.
• 20:17
  I think it has like put little metal rings around it that do
• 20:20
  Morse code and you know, it says a word or whatever.
• 20:23
  And like I wanted to say Mommy because that's what I called
• 20:25
  her. And so it would have like an
• 20:26
  O-ring that has Mommy and written in Morse code of like
• 20:28
  little rings, metal rings. It's it was super cool.
• 20:30
  I ought to show you one. That's what I wanted originally.
• 20:32
  And I mean, I don't know them ever.
• 20:33
  We'll see how we're life lands, but yeah.
• 20:35
  See, my my gimps, it has one symbol that means slave on it,
• 20:40
  but I need another symbol that means Sissy.
• 20:43
  So I think I'll do that for him. Yeah, yeah.
• 20:45
  That'd be cool. Right.
• 20:47
  But I think a lot of people now, even in the vanilla lifestyle, I
• 20:50
  think they're starting to realize a lot of the BDSM
• 20:53
  symbols like the O. Yeah, they're starting it
• 20:56
  vanilla. People are starting to recognize
• 20:57
  the the OS and stuff too. And part of that is, I don't
• 21:01
  know if you've heard about it with the trad wives.
• 21:02
  No, so trad wives aren't they're mostly vanilla.
• 21:05
  Now, I'm sure there are some who participate in BDSM as well, but
• 21:08
  a lot of them are vanilla relationships that the wife, the
• 21:12
  man and wife will get married. And it's like 70s housewives.
• 21:15
  Like the wife does all the cooking, all the cleaning, and
• 21:17
  she's completely in servitude to her husband and she wears a
• 21:20
  physical collar to symbolize that.
• 21:22
  And I mean, it's, it's the same color that you would use in DS
• 21:24
  relationship, but it's, you know, it's for showing owner tip
• 21:27
  to your husband. And like these are like wives
• 21:28
  that are like going back to like 70s housemaker kind of like
• 21:32
  vibes. And I don't mean just like the
• 21:34
  aspects. I mean they will go full fledge
• 21:36
  into service suit for their husbands.
• 21:37
  And it's not DS relationship. It's like a lot of these people
• 21:40
  are vanilla And they there was a big debacle not too long ago
• 21:43
  about the house, about the about tried wives wearing collars
• 21:45
  because it, you know, it's a lot of BDSM symbolicness, but it's
• 21:48
  also making it more recognizable to to vanilla it.
• 21:51
  Is it is and our favorite TV show that we were watching
• 21:54
  today, Ghosts love it. Yes.
• 21:56
  They've made several references about one of the characters
• 21:59
  being a cup. Yes, one of the characters
• 22:01
  mentioned it couple of times being a couple of times, yeah,
• 22:04
  in. Different episodes.
• 22:05
  And I was like, Oh yeah, people are really going to catch on to
• 22:07
  this. And yeah, it's going to become
• 22:09
  more common than what we think it is.
• 22:12
  And I think it's a good thing that is becoming more talked
• 22:14
  about, more common if we can get the if we can keep people from
• 22:17
  assuming the worst about all of there.
• 22:19
  You go in a negative. Light in a negative light
• 22:21
  because bringing positive light of like this is what people do.
• 22:24
  This is what it does and it's not just sex because a lot of
• 22:27
  what we do is not set a good portion 1000% I mean majority of
• 22:31
  it honestly isn't sex. I've I play all the time but I
• 22:33
  don't have sex very often. Exactly.
• 22:35
  I think a lot of people get that confused, especially people who
• 22:37
  aren't in the lifestyle. There are people in the
• 22:39
  lifestyle who don't always understand it though.
• 22:41
  I've met a couple people that they don't know how to play
• 22:42
  without sex. It's a huge misconception, but
• 22:45
  I've, I've come to talk to people in the lifestyle where
• 22:48
  they've said, oh, do you do pure BDSM, meaning you don't fuck?
• 22:51
  And I'm like, well, we have to do that in the dungeon.
• 22:53
  We're not fucking anyone. So whether or not you want to
• 22:56
  call it pure BDSM or just BDSM, yeah.
• 23:00
  BDSM and sex are not the same. They're not the.
• 23:03
  Same thing. They're not.
• 23:04
  The same thing guys do you get off on PDSM sometimes?
• 23:08
  Sure. But that's not the same thing as
• 23:10
  sex. Normally it's more of a mental
• 23:13
  thing than it is anything else. It's almost.
• 23:15
  All mental and psychological. Almost all of. 95%.
• 23:18
  Of the 95, if not more, you know, like it is.
• 23:21
  It is pretty much just your psychology and your mental state
• 23:26
  your head. You mean you hear head spaces,
• 23:27
  you have subspace, you hear you have Dom spaces, you have
• 23:30
  different things and none of those are really involved and
• 23:32
  said. Absolutely.
• 23:33
  Yeah, absolutely. So here we are.
• 23:38
  I think we need to call. It I think.
• 23:41
  We need to work on our next episode and just kind of go
• 23:44
  about our day, Kylie. Go about our day, Kinky Kylie.
• 23:48
  She's going to have me in here recording for like 3 days and
• 23:51
  just like OK, you're going to keep talking.
• 23:54
  Don't stop. You love it.
• 23:57
  It's great. All right, so until then, Kylie,
• 24:00
  thank you. Absolutely, absolutely.
• 24:03
  And send bunches of love out to all of our listeners.
• 24:07
  We always appreciate your support.
• 24:09
  So until then, this has been the latest episode of Call Me a
• 24:12
  Mistress.