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(Grand)Mother Knows Best: Nell Fletcher in the sHOT Seat · Reality with The King

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  Speaker 1: Reality with the King is hosted by me, Carlos King.
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  Speaker 1: I'm an executive producer who have produced some of your
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  Speaker 1: favorite shows from the Real Housewives in Atlanta, New Jersey
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  Speaker 1: Real Housewives Franchise to The Bachelor or Selling Sunset, in
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  Speaker 1: addition to celebrity guests, whether in the unscripted space or
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  Speaker 1: scripted as well.
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  Speaker 2: So you know, listen, we have.
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  Speaker 1: To talk about what's been going on in the world
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  Speaker 1: of reality television.
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  Speaker 2: So rain drops.
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  Speaker 1: As you know, every Monday night, we have a new
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  Speaker 1: segment called Shots Topics.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Claudia, did you have your shot?
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  Speaker 3: I can go get one, go get a baby snatched,
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  Speaker 3: But when you're my date on Monday, it's up a shot.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, So nothing happy.
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  Speaker 4: I sure do?
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  Speaker 5: Brown and Ready and Carlos got that. You don't even
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  Speaker 5: have your shot. You just got that whatever ginger root extract?
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  Speaker 4: What is it? It's kind of extract?
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  Speaker 6: What cool?
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  Speaker 4: What is it?
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  Speaker 2: Okay?
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  Speaker 4: You ready?
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  Speaker 2: Dustin?
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  Speaker 1: Yes, Okay, it's ginger apple limit and cayenne damn.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, So you're trying to do like this. That's what that.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I got things to do, Okay, I don't.
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  Speaker 3: Think any more like that.
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  Speaker 7: I'm not really It's not fun drinking unless you're it's
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  Speaker 7: going to end in a happy ending.
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  Speaker 3: To me. I like the drinker. I'm about to get some.
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  Speaker 2: Mm hmmm mmm, Dustin, are you like that too?
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  Speaker 4: No, I don't like drunk sex. I want to remember.
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  Speaker 3: I love it.
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  Speaker 5: I don't remember what it felt like when everything looked like,
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  Speaker 5: what was dark, what was light?
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  Speaker 4: What was big? So I want to remember broa, the
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  Speaker 4: you know the details, the markers. I can be. I
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  Speaker 4: can smoke and have sex, but I don't really like
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  Speaker 4: being drunk.
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  Speaker 2: Do you smoke during sets?
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  Speaker 5: No, he smoked before. Somebody you're trying to kill me,
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  Speaker 5: burning me smoke.
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  Speaker 1: Because for some reasons, that's I can see you doing
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  Speaker 1: this in the in the middle of it, taking a break, yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Blowing on it. I see them in their face.
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  Speaker 8: I definitely see that. Ye take that smoke, take a
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  Speaker 8: little break, you know. But no, I need hands free,
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  Speaker 8: so I can't be smoke.
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  Speaker 3: Well, you drinking smoke, We don't really see you. I
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  Speaker 3: didn't really see you faded.
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  Speaker 2: Oh you drink or smoke?
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  Speaker 3: Nothing at all.
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  Speaker 1: Huh No, I just have I have a lot of
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  Speaker 1: energy and stamina.
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  Speaker 2: Because I work on a lot so and I know
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  Speaker 2: how to lift lift, you know, I know how.
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  Speaker 3: We just went in there like that. I know that
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  Speaker 3: you sometimes you have to.
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  Speaker 1: Like go in You gotta like assess the situation, you know,
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  Speaker 1: you gotta like nothing gets it.
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  Speaker 5: I do and hopefully I get it tonight at all?
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  Speaker 3: Do you have someone best over?
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  Speaker 4: I have someone? What am I dating somebody? Nah? I'm single?
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  Speaker 3: Me too?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Three?
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  Speaker 3: Oh we're all single.
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  Speaker 4: We're all single? Yeah, child, yeah, think.
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  Speaker 3: So Carlos talking.
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  Speaker 1: Let's let's let's let's do our shop topics already, yes,
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  Speaker 1: top number one chairs, water.
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  Speaker 7: No, it's banana flavoring, malbour room.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, let's go, all right, let's go all right. So
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  Speaker 1: first things first, okay, breaking news. The biggest topic of
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  Speaker 1: a couple in recent months has been loving hip hop
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  Speaker 1: Atlanta Us I mean DC and Yandy.
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  Speaker 2: If you watch my.
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  Speaker 1: Interview with the Kirkim Rashida, it was the first time
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  Speaker 1: that it was talked about whether or not Yandy I
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  Speaker 1: mean DC had an open marriage because Kirki Rasheda alluded
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  Speaker 1: to it in my interview That interview made its way
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  Speaker 1: onto the season of Loving Hip Hop Alanta, which airs
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  Speaker 1: every Tuesday, and with DC feels like Kirk keeps talking
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  Speaker 1: about his penis and he doesn't understand why a man
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  Speaker 1: keeps talking about his penis. So that's when the rumor
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  Speaker 1: mills started to arise in the sense of does Yandy
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  Speaker 1: and me and DC have an open marriage? After that,
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  Speaker 1: Yandy's former best friend who I also think Dustin was
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  Speaker 1: the assistant.
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  Speaker 5: If I'm not mistaken or some thing, there was some
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  Speaker 5: other professional relationship as well.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so Yandy's best friend and somebody who worked for
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  Speaker 1: her did a live and a video and started to
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  Speaker 1: reveal that Yandy allegedly had a boyfriend had a guy
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  Speaker 1: that she was seeing. That conversation and topic also made
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  Speaker 1: his way onto Love and Hip hop Alanta. That scaring
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  Speaker 1: the season. I mean, DC and Yandy had a sit
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  Speaker 1: down conversation. In this conversation, Yandy revealed that she had
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  Speaker 1: an emotional affair. What has been rumor based on Yandy's
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  Speaker 1: friend was that this person would travel with them, would
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  Speaker 1: be in the same hotels, So it is now a
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  Speaker 1: topic of discuss I would love to get y'all thoughts
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  Speaker 1: on it. You've been following the story, Dustin, what are
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  Speaker 1: your thoughts on Yandy's saying that she had an emotional affair,
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  Speaker 1: although her friend is saying something differently.
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  Speaker 4: I'm glad she was halfway honest.
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  Speaker 5: I think Yandy told just enough of the truth to
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  Speaker 5: be able to say she took accountability in whatever way
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  Speaker 5: she felt was necessary. I'm more focused on the fact
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  Speaker 5: that the friend told in the first place. To me,
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  Speaker 5: I'm sorry, you can call me old school or whatever,
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  Speaker 5: but if we friends and we keep secrets, then I'm
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  Speaker 5: gonna keep the secrets even after we fall out. And
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  Speaker 5: I don't like it when people have a disagreement, usually
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  Speaker 5: something that could be solved easily through communication, and then
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  Speaker 5: they want to start running all the things that they
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  Speaker 5: kept secret during the whatever time things was good.
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  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 5: If I was Ma in DC's I would have an
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  Speaker 5: issue to take umbrage with that, because you wasn't saying
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  Speaker 5: shit until she pitched you off. You were okay with
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  Speaker 5: her being deceitful behind my back. So I don't know.
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  Speaker 5: That's just what I felt about it. It was a
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  Speaker 5: bunch of their business that I did not need to know.
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  Speaker 5: I also think it's a note that Yandy quote unquote
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  Speaker 5: help men DC's down. While he did that bit right,
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  Speaker 5: she stayed loyal, stayed married to him, kept the businesses running,
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  Speaker 5: kept the family together. And so there's a part of
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  Speaker 5: me that feels like he should have some reverence and
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  Speaker 5: respect for that, in addition to the natural respect that
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  Speaker 5: you should have if you're in a marriage, whether it's
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  Speaker 5: legal or not. So I don't know, my boy. Men
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  Speaker 5: DC's kind of dropped the ball on this one. And Yandy,
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  Speaker 5: if she cheated, she was wrong too. But yeah, that's
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  Speaker 5: where I'm at with a Claudia what you think I.
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  Speaker 7: Feel you on that, especially when the way she did
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  Speaker 7: hold him down, It's almost like not that she should
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  Speaker 7: get a past, but a little more grace because she
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  Speaker 7: had the weight of the world on her shoulders while
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  Speaker 7: he was in prison. She held it down with much criticism,
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  Speaker 7: and that's when there was lots of drama, love and
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  Speaker 7: hip hop. She was left holding the bag, like just
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  Speaker 7: having to handle everything, and she did. And I mean
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  Speaker 7: maybe she who knows what other baggages they have it
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  Speaker 7: to you? I mean, you never hear ye any putting
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  Speaker 7: him on blasts, you know, and I'm sure that there's
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  Speaker 7: been things in their relationship that probably weren't flattering to him,
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  Speaker 7: the friend as far as the front that I'm right
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  Speaker 7: with you with that bullshit like mad day now you
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  Speaker 7: want to tell the world. It kind of makes it
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  Speaker 7: difficult for people that have a lot more to lose, celebrities,
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  Speaker 7: realities to befriend and have friends that are outside the business,
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  Speaker 7: because like it's a little bit unyoked.
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  Speaker 3: Yes that's not the word, but you're not equally yoked,
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  Speaker 3: if you know it.
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  Speaker 7: If this goes left, I'm the one who has everything
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  Speaker 7: to lose, and nobody knows you you have everything to
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  Speaker 7: gain and I have everything to lose.
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  Speaker 3: And then it's like, are you putting extra on it
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  Speaker 3: because you know it could hurt you.
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  Speaker 7: I had someone that was close to me that was
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  Speaker 7: angry about something and the first the first threat.
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  Speaker 3: Was I'll expose you to the blogs. And I said, well,
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  Speaker 3: expose what?
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  Speaker 7: And it became like a whatever, Like I can make
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  Speaker 7: things up, you know, like I can.
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  Speaker 3: I have access to your life.
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  Speaker 7: You know, when someone has access to your life, it
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  Speaker 7: gives it a lot of credibility when they say something.
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  Speaker 3: You know.
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  Speaker 7: I had a friend that I was really closer before
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  Speaker 7: that did this to me? Said first paulmy, you get
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  Speaker 7: blaked for everything I do. And then when when mad
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  Speaker 7: Day came, was caught trying to go to publicists and
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  Speaker 7: plant stories about me. So I feel bad for Yanny
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  Speaker 7: because we don't really know how much of it is
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  Speaker 7: because of mad Day and an exaggeration, and how much
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  Speaker 7: is action too you. I don't really you feel like
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  Speaker 7: you can trust those kind of sources to be really accurate.
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  Speaker 7: They could put ten on twenty. Maybe it was an
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  Speaker 7: emotional affair, but the person's like, well, what if that,
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  Speaker 7: I'm gonna say she was like he was clapping cheeks
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  Speaker 7: because why were they not believe me? I was right there?
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  Speaker 7: And I think that's about even if she was. You know,
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  Speaker 7: we got to be able to trust the people that
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  Speaker 7: we have around us, and that should transcend when you're
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  Speaker 7: mad at me.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I agree with that. I agree with that.
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  Speaker 1: So listen, just to clear the air based on people
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  Speaker 1: wandering the validity of Yandy Emma DC's marriage. So, Yandy
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  Speaker 1: im DC did get mad married on television.
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  Speaker 2: They signed papers.
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  Speaker 1: What Yandy later revealed was that that was pretty much
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  Speaker 1: a TV wedding and she did not submit the marriage certificate. However,
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  Speaker 1: what happened was after he was released from prison twenty twenty,
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  Speaker 1: they are now legally married, although a lot of people,
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  Speaker 1: including Rasheeda, are even questioning whether or not their marriage
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  Speaker 1: even today is still legal now. One thing that men
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  Speaker 1: DC and Yandy did talk about in the episode was the.
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  Speaker 2: Fact that I mean d D has been.
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  Speaker 1: Revealed that he has been entertaining women the DMS per audio.
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  Speaker 2: They talked about you heard me, I've heard you.
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  Speaker 1: This is what the married couple were saying to each other,
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  Speaker 1: and that was the reason why Yandy said she had
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  Speaker 1: this emotional Now, within this emotional affair, there weren't any
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  Speaker 1: details whether, like Claudia said, was it intimate, was penetration involved?
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  Speaker 1: Wasn't it just conversations? Was it just somebody that they
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  Speaker 1: could talk to? What I have been told and I
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  Speaker 1: would love to get your thoughts on it, Claudia and Dustin.
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  Speaker 2: I'll start with you first.
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  Speaker 1: Claudia, I've always been told that when a woman has
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  Speaker 1: an emotional affair, it's worse than physical because for a woman,
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  Speaker 1: when a woman is emotionally invested in another man, oh baby,
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  Speaker 1: forget about the husband. She wants this man, Claudia, what
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  Speaker 1: do you have to say about that?
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  Speaker 7: It's true, we're not wired the same. Like a man
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  Speaker 7: could be totally detached from the person he's having an
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  Speaker 7: affair with and just basically get his rocks off and
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  Speaker 7: then will ill yuck by I'm going back to my family.
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  Speaker 7: A woman, we're a lot harder to do that. It's
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  Speaker 7: a lot harder for us. Unless you have an issue
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  Speaker 7: like you or you're an inphomaniac or whatever. It's a
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  Speaker 7: straight of pork for the most part. You know, if
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  Speaker 7: she's having an emotional affair with someone, it's a lot deeper.
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  Speaker 7: It's way deeper because it's more cerebral. It's more Have
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  Speaker 7: you ever dated someone that's like not your physical type, right,
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  Speaker 7: but something about their personality attracts you that attraction Sometimes
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  Speaker 7: to me, it's been in my past, like when I
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  Speaker 7: dated someone that wasn't easy, Jake, date dropped it fine,
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  Speaker 7: like your faith.
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  Speaker 2: Dotty, your acts are gorgeous.
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  Speaker 7: Sorry I did, yes, but I have dated a couple uglies.
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  Speaker 7: But the thing that made me attracted to them, and
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  Speaker 7: those connections with somebody argue even stronger because that wasn't
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  Speaker 7: based on physical emotionally, I was there for me to
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  Speaker 7: overlook my physical and get with that.
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  Speaker 3: You know what I'm thinking, what attracts me mentally?
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  Speaker 7: It is deeper, it really is, and it's actually you
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  Speaker 7: can argue a stronger connection than a physical thing. Yeah,
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  Speaker 7: I feel like if she has an emotional connection, that
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  Speaker 7: means she feels that she doesn't have a we have
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  Speaker 7: a connection. It's like you don't feel like your man
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  Speaker 7: is really there for you, or you're not feeling seen
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  Speaker 7: at home, so you go get seen by somebody else.
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  Speaker 3: And once you have that, it's very easy.
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  Speaker 7: Like they say, men fall love, women fall in love
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  Speaker 7: on the phone, and men fall love what they see like.
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  Speaker 3: You're more visual, we are more like what we think
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  Speaker 3: when we hear.
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  Speaker 7: So if it's an emotional connection, oh, it's very hard
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  Speaker 7: to come back from that because she's probably.
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  Speaker 3: Disgusted with in DC's she's probably over it.
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  Speaker 7: She's probably told him a thousand times about something that's
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  Speaker 7: bothered her and he didn't change it.
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  Speaker 3: And then you seek it elsewhere. It doesn't just happen
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  Speaker 3: because someone's a great husband.
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  Speaker 7: An emotional connection with someone else doesn't happen when you're
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  Speaker 7: emotionally fed at home, it just doesn't happen. We don't
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  Speaker 7: really do that. I've never had two emotional connections at
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  Speaker 7: the same time. If I'm happy with my guy, I'm
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  Speaker 7: shutting it down with other men because it's like offensive,
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  Speaker 7: but you would even think I'd go there. But if
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  Speaker 7: I'm feeling like neglected, the door's wide open. Now someone
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  Speaker 7: can come get me. Someone can come get me if
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  Speaker 7: I'm not fed at home. And a lot of times
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  Speaker 7: men think.
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  Speaker 3: I'm holding it down.
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  Speaker 7: I'm giving you dick, I'm paying the bills, and they
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  Speaker 7: think that's enough. It's not the emotional of the intimacy though.
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  Speaker 7: When we're watching the TV on the couch, your hand
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  Speaker 7: is always on me, or you're playing in my hair,
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  Speaker 7: or you're checking on me during the day, how was
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  Speaker 7: your day? Little things like that is what gives us.
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  Speaker 7: It's not those big gestures. That's that fake reality TV bullshit.
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  Speaker 7: But I bet you she's been lacking. I mean, Medissa,
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  Speaker 7: I'm not trying to come for you. I'm just saying
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  Speaker 7: I'm assuming maybe she's been feeling like for a long time,
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  Speaker 7: I've done this, that this that that for you. All
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  Speaker 7: I want is for you to like listen to me
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  Speaker 7: and I'm telling a story, stay you know, be in it.
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  Speaker 7: Remember when I told you something you know that's what's
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  Speaker 7: make real really important to women.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm with Claudia on this. I think that you're
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  Speaker 5: one hundred percent right about the emotional quotion being paramount
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  Speaker 5: being important.
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  Speaker 4: Right.
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  Speaker 5: We all remember a couple of seasons back on Loving
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  Speaker 5: Hip Hop Atlanta when there was a conversation There was
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  Speaker 5: a scene where there was a conversation and man d
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  Speaker 5: C's was being asked if he would have did you know,
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  Speaker 5: stay down basically if Yandy was the one that had
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  Speaker 5: did it bit and had to go do some time
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  Speaker 5: in jail or whatever, and he kind of said he
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  Speaker 5: didn't know.
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  Speaker 4: He didn't just say yes.
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  Speaker 5: And after this is post release, right, And I think
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  Speaker 5: ever since then, when it comes to the viewership, they have,
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  Speaker 5: you know, watched his behavior through a different lens after that,
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  Speaker 5: because it was so it was shocking to see him
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  Speaker 5: lack appreciation, lack acknowledgment of someone making that kind of sacrifice,
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  Speaker 5: a multi year sacrifice like that. So I think from
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  Speaker 5: that point on, it's been kind of a decline as
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  Speaker 5: far as people believing in their union. When you add
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  Speaker 5: in the late reveal of the fact that they were
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  Speaker 5: not legally married, which didn't mean nothing to me. I
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  Speaker 5: actually completely understood why they would not enter into a
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  Speaker 5: legally binding agreement when.
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  Speaker 4: He has all those things going on.
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  Speaker 5: There could be restitution involved, all that kind of shit,
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  Speaker 5: so you protect the assets. That's business sappy. So I
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  Speaker 5: understood that. But I also understood why after Yandy had
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  Speaker 5: that kind of positioned their relationship as this shield, you
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  Speaker 5: know what I'm saying, where he where she defended it
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  Speaker 5: against his baby, his other children's pen mothers. We've seen
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  Speaker 5: her defend their relationship for so long, so for it
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  Speaker 5: to now be revealed as illegitimate in some way, I
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  Speaker 5: think people kind of read that as you're lying you
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  Speaker 5: understand what I'm saying, as opposed to you're doing something
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  Speaker 5: to be smart business wise. And I just think that
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  Speaker 5: all those scenes compile together just paint a picture of
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  Speaker 5: deceit a little bit when it comes to their union overall.
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  Speaker 5: Once you start adding in cheating and emotional cheating and
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  Speaker 5: physical cheating, to me, grow up. If you're gonna emotionally cheat,
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  Speaker 5: you might as well fuck or get fucked, you know
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  Speaker 5: what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 4: Like either way, you.
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  Speaker 5: Might as well want to make it worth your wild
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  Speaker 5: if you're wild, if you're gonna do that, you know
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  Speaker 5: what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 4: All that, I sometimes I think.
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  Speaker 5: Carlos and Claudia people say they just had an emotional
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  Speaker 5: affair to try to retain some space for grace or
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  Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying, I didn't go all lan,
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  Speaker 5: I just did that.
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  Speaker 4: Fuck that, you just as wrong. You might as well
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  Speaker 4: bust you know what I'm saying. That's that's that's how
• 17:07
  Speaker 4: I feel so well.
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: It's a lot.
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: Once you have an emotional correction, you start thinking about
• 17:12
  Speaker 3: that trust and.
• 17:13
  Speaker 4: Believe, I ain't going to think about it too long.
• 17:17
  Speaker 7: If I was a betting woman, which I am a
• 17:19
  Speaker 7: betting woman, I would say that men DC lost yancy
• 17:23
  Speaker 7: and he was probably open to an emotional relationship with
• 17:27
  Speaker 7: somebody else. The minute on national television when he was
• 17:30
  Speaker 7: asked if he would do a bit for her and
• 17:32
  Speaker 7: he said no in front of the world, probably lost
• 17:36
  Speaker 7: He probably lost her fully that day, like or it
• 17:39
  Speaker 7: was a very a huge crack, because that is something
• 17:43
  Speaker 7: like the world saw you do it, but what you did,
• 17:47
  Speaker 7: he was not.
• 17:48
  Speaker 3: Willing to do for you what she was willing to
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: do for him, and he said it on TV.
• 17:50
  Speaker 7: He could have lied it because he knows the cameras
• 17:52
  Speaker 7: going on and said baby, of course, and then they
• 17:54
  Speaker 7: could have had their real conversation off him, like I
• 17:56
  Speaker 7: don't know, but saying it on camera is saying it
• 17:59
  Speaker 7: with your chest.
• 18:00
  Speaker 3: And I think she and and think about it. We're
• 18:03
  Speaker 3: just viewers.
• 18:04
  Speaker 7: She got to live it, and then she got to
• 18:06
  Speaker 7: see all of our commentary, our show and twenty other
• 18:09
  Speaker 7: shows commenting making oh, he didn't want to do it
• 18:12
  Speaker 7: for you. And then when you're over it, then the
• 18:14
  Speaker 7: episode airs four months later, whatever it is. Then at
• 18:16
  Speaker 7: the reunion they gotta hear about it again. I bet
• 18:18
  Speaker 7: you she's been checked out on that moment.
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, listen, a lot of men aren't Pat
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: poofs right, And and listen when when when Remy did
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: her bid, rain Joss tell me if I got this wrong,
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: although I don't think I do. Remy gave pappoos a
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: pass a whole yes, and rain Jobs tell me if
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: I got that wrong. I don't think I got it
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: wrong because she said it in a song before.
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: But Rain Joss tell me the comments Remy gave Pappoos a.
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: Pass and from my understanding, he never took advantage of it.
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: I think that's a conversation, but Rain Johnson got the
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: wrong or not. So listen.
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: It's when I've watched the scene between Yany and DC.
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: I haven't watched Love and Hip Hopolanta since the Christy
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: and Jim Jones days and Mama Jones. No, no, they're
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: not married yet, but but they're still together but not married.
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: That scene between in DC and Yandy was very different
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: in the sense of their chemistry that I saw years ago.
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: I think, Claudia, you're right and dusn't you're right too.
• 19:35
  Speaker 4: In the sense of.
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: Some My opinion based on watching it is something is
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: checked out, meaning it they both look exhausted, and my
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: heart goes out to them being married.
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: It's not easy.
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: It's not easy, but there's some work that needs to
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: be done if they want to salvage the man rich.
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: Because I don't see chemistry between them anymore. You listen,
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: and I'm gonna change the subject and go to the
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: next topic. Say what you want about Kirki and Rashida.
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: When you look at them today, they have chemistry. You
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: could tell they like each other. Walk Kirki and Rashida
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: when they're together, they act like best friends. They like
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: each other, they're they're they like each other. Now, Grant,
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: do they love each other? Sure, but that beloved ain't
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: ain't ain't ain't enough. Kirk and Rashida like each other,
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: and that's the difference that I saw watching this particular season. So,
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: speaking of liking Dustin and Claudia, Mia b Lyon aka
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: Mia Thornton, formerly of the Royal Housewives of Atomac, is
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: in a relationship with Bobby Valentino.
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: Claudia, I have a legal note, Claudia.
• 21:12
  Speaker 7: Whatever you're gonna say, I think the jobs know what
• 21:17
  Speaker 7: I'm saying.
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: Okay, we thank you. Okay, so.
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: Wo shout out to Sunny hostage.
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: Okay, I loved Okay. Anyways, Claudia, be nice.
• 21:43
  Speaker 7: I'm gonna just speak with my eyes when you talk.
• 21:45
  Speaker 7: Go ahead, tell a story.
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: Okay. So, Mia who was married to Gordon and was
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: dating her first love for her high school sweetheart.
• 21:57
  Speaker 6: Name Ink.
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: The Ink dried up and Mia has moved on with
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: Bobby Dalatino, their own.
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: They're on both together, they are dating, doing a lot
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: of posting, and they're now together. So I would like
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: to go with Dustin first so Claudia could get her
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: mind right.
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: So when it comes to Mia dating Bobby Dallatino, Dustin,
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: where you shocked?
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: Were you surprised? Is this on brand for Mia? What
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: are your thoughts on this, on this budding relationship.
• 22:41
  Speaker 5: Well, of the three relationships that I've seen here have
• 22:45
  Speaker 5: since we've been exposed to her life, they've all been
• 22:48
  Speaker 5: shorter than her. So not only do mea be lying
• 22:51
  Speaker 5: Mia b Duckan, you know what I'm saying, I think
• 22:53
  Speaker 5: that's what I think. That's the new Moniker. You know
• 22:56
  Speaker 5: what I'm saying that we have now. Also, they just
• 22:59
  Speaker 5: doing what they're doing. They're just doing what they're doing.
• 23:02
  Speaker 5: They in the discovery phase right now. You know what
• 23:04
  Speaker 5: I'm saying. They just having a good time together. They
• 23:07
  Speaker 5: just having a good time together, having fun on their boat.
• 23:10
  Speaker 4: And that's it.
• 23:11
  Speaker 5: Mia is doing what she did the last time in
• 23:13
  Speaker 5: her relationship with Ink, making it seem like it's so
• 23:16
  Speaker 5: much more intense and serious than what it is. And
• 23:19
  Speaker 5: then in the next van she'll cite the fact that
• 23:21
  Speaker 5: in the first picture she tagged of them, she said
• 23:23
  Speaker 5: were just having fun. So she'll say, oh, I just
• 23:26
  Speaker 5: said were just having fun and then put a thousand
• 23:29
  Speaker 5: on twenty. As we move forward with all of this,
• 23:31
  Speaker 5: Bobbie Valentino just happy to be there because this is
• 23:33
  Speaker 5: good press for him for once. So you know, that's
• 23:37
  Speaker 5: just what they're doing. But shout out to me. I
• 23:39
  Speaker 5: hope she's having fun. I hope she's having a good time.
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: All right, So let's get off to loving match.
• 23:45
  Speaker 9: Bill smart Man, Hey, R Claudia, what are you.
• 24:05
  Speaker 3: Said? Legal? What what about Claudia? It's the legal note.
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: Listen, don't say anything disparaging.
• 24:12
  Speaker 7: Okay, oh everything so expressions and I think Dustin should
• 24:18
  Speaker 7: translate for me.
• 24:21
  Speaker 10: Okay, he translates, Yeah, ok.
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: What do you have to say, sir?
• 24:51
  Speaker 3: We can't legal.
• 24:54
  Speaker 4: Blow down and boats? It is below deck?
• 25:00
  Speaker 7: This that below deck a loot banger. I don't know
• 25:03
  Speaker 7: Titanic ship's going down.
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: This is reality with the King, and I'm Carlos King.
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: Let's get back into the show.
• 25:14
  Speaker 3: You know what. I'm cool with Bobby lost of my
• 25:16
  Speaker 3: song we want to video met him and Benzino.
• 25:19
  Speaker 5: An Anonymous one of my favorite songs. I love Anonymous
• 25:22
  Speaker 5: by Bobby Valentino. That's my shit.
• 25:25
  Speaker 3: He makes dope music.
• 25:26
  Speaker 7: It's just this thing just came out of nowhere, and
• 25:27
  Speaker 7: I just feel like it feels.
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: Like I don't know, I don't know mea like that.
• 25:33
  Speaker 3: I just know that dustin a piggyback off of you.
• 25:35
  Speaker 7: I'm glad Bobby Valentino is getting some good press because
• 25:38
  Speaker 7: he hasn't had a good press in a really long time.
• 25:40
  Speaker 7: Like the last stories we've heard were, you know, running
• 25:43
  Speaker 7: from people, owing money and stuff like that. And he
• 25:45
  Speaker 7: does look they actually I kinda say this, thank you
• 25:49
  Speaker 7: rain drops. They're like they cracking up. They do look
• 25:53
  Speaker 7: really happy together. They do look happy together. I mean
• 25:57
  Speaker 7: don't know what the nature is. I mean, I really
• 26:00
  Speaker 7: happy with some on my best dies as well, you
• 26:02
  Speaker 7: know what I'm saying. But they do look hap together.
• 26:04
  Speaker 7: She's glowing, she got full on professional glam done. He's
• 26:07
  Speaker 7: happy as hell. He's really not aging. So hey, if
• 26:10
  Speaker 7: they love it, they.
• 26:11
  Speaker 3: Like it, then I love it. Oh bit, I love that.
• 26:17
  Speaker 7: For that, maybe they can get on the line of
• 26:18
  Speaker 7: housewives or I don't know, loving hip hop or or
• 26:24
  Speaker 7: zeus zeus Bobby, I love you, per That's all I
• 26:36
  Speaker 7: have to say, right, Okay, Well that that that sums
• 26:41
  Speaker 7: up shot topic.
• 26:42
  Speaker 2: So I do want to get into Columbia.
• 26:47
  Speaker 4: Do you like that?
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: Kwami dot pamo sweat and.
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: I got the sweat like me. I got Bobby Valentino sweat.
• 26:57
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I working hard?
• 27:00
  Speaker 5: Me as tall, working hard. That's like doing an inkind
• 27:04
  Speaker 5: press every time. You know what I'm saying? Every time?
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: How tall is Mia? I've never been around mat her.
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: I'm five nine. Don't shavee me? A'll me is taller
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: than me? Don't do it?
• 27:24
  Speaker 7: Okay, see five said she's tall, So she's over. She's
• 27:27
  Speaker 7: at least five nine?
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: Oh she me is like five ten, five eleven. Wow, Okay,
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: me as tall? I met a person as me as
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: a stallion, and Bobby is not.
• 27:41
  Speaker 3: So you're saying me is a stallion and Bobby's a
• 27:43
  Speaker 3: Shetland pony. Me as a little pony, a Shetland pony,
• 27:49
  Speaker 3: the little ones. Okay, so I said a little pony,
• 27:56
  Speaker 3: my little pony. You think Bobby's good in bed? Do
• 27:59
  Speaker 3: you guys get good, big big dick energy from him?
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: I don't look at him that way.
• 28:03
  Speaker 5: I have no I wouldn't even want to be looking at.
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: I don't.
• 28:08
  Speaker 5: I did not, haven't given I'll tell you my celebrity
• 28:12
  Speaker 5: crush offline. It's yeah, god, yeah, yeah, first initials, k.
• 28:20
  Speaker 4: Damn okay, that is.
• 28:22
  Speaker 3: The damn okay first initial okay?
• 28:25
  Speaker 4: Uh huh?
• 28:26
  Speaker 3: Well sport or.
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: With TV no script it.
• 28:33
  Speaker 4: First name? I know, I know exactly who it is.
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: Okay wait wait wait said.
• 28:40
  Speaker 4: The first name is shorter in length than the last name.
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: Right, Oh okay, like doctors really dispected to you?
• 28:48
  Speaker 4: Hold on and.
• 28:52
  Speaker 3: The kofe? He fine, I got a picture with him.
• 28:56
  Speaker 3: He's fine. Kevin Hart? You like him? You do like him?
• 29:01
  Speaker 4: Sure?
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: Don't you?
• 29:03
  Speaker 4: And you like to laugh? Is it? Kevin hurt?
• 29:06
  Speaker 3: Kevin Rich, Pat Williams coffee brown with a k?
• 29:15
  Speaker 6: Oh?
• 29:16
  Speaker 4: Okay?
• 29:16
  Speaker 7: Okay, okay, Why am I not in this?
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: Don't say skitty?
• 29:24
  Speaker 7: You know listen, you have something, you have something that
• 29:30
  Speaker 7: Why am I not getting the message?
• 29:33
  Speaker 4: Where?
• 29:34
  Speaker 3: Oh be fine, that's got your usual type.
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: You said, what I know, I'm trying something new.
• 29:41
  Speaker 4: He's fine.
• 29:42
  Speaker 3: I would definitely first the ball. Wait wait, wait, first
• 29:45
  Speaker 3: of the ball.
• 29:46
  Speaker 5: Wait wait wait, do y'all think I am you look
• 29:51
  Speaker 5: taller in person? Oh, Carlos, you look taller than your
• 29:54
  Speaker 5: professed type in person?
• 29:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 29:57
  Speaker 3: They say, Bobby is five three that's what Google says.
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: Okay, anyways, I want to move on Bobby, Miss Juicy
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: eighty five three?
• 30:06
  Speaker 3: Bobby, what do y'all tell you think? How all do
• 30:11
  Speaker 3: you think?
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: Is I think dust in five six?
• 30:14
  Speaker 3: Absolutely not.
• 30:16
  Speaker 7: I'm leg no actually one thousand sent No.
• 30:23
  Speaker 4: I can't even talk. Claudia, you're five what seven?
• 30:28
  Speaker 3: I'm a legit five seven and a half. Bobby vent
• 30:31
  Speaker 3: is about five three, five four?
• 30:33
  Speaker 4: Thank you five.
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: I've met calls in person. He's definitely not short, Thank you, Carlos.
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: But Bobby Valentino word, he's not. Let they say five
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: three is wild? Okay, you can make up for another area.
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: So we want to get into Saturday's episode eleven, marriage
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: himes Belle. Before I bring on my guests, Miss now
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: to join us, I want to talk about the episode
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: in general. A lot happens episode. So the biggest thing though,
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: the biggest thing back that was episode on Saturday.
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: So one of the things.
• 31:21
  Speaker 7: We did look at colors sweating. Are you crying the sweating?
• 31:24
  Speaker 7: It's sweating?
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: Huh we got the sweat crying. I'm crying crying?
• 31:27
  Speaker 4: Are you okay? I'm sad?
• 31:35
  Speaker 3: Okay? Uh wait, what's up doing Atlanta side of y'all
• 31:39
  Speaker 3: have fun? Did y'all hang out after the gold Drink and.
• 31:41
  Speaker 4: Hang out went to V twelve Saturday Night.
• 31:44
  Speaker 5: Shout out to Vinnie Watson and his incredible restaurant that
• 31:47
  Speaker 5: he ow was with Kwavo from the Migos.
• 31:49
  Speaker 4: We partied in V twelve Saturday Night.
• 31:50
  Speaker 5: Cynthia Bailey, you know what I'm saying, Nick Roses, Yeah.
• 31:55
  Speaker 4: Yep, yes.
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: So what did you guys think about the I do
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: want to talk to more to that. Let's get into
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: the conversation that happened in this episode A love in
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: Marriage Huntsville. One of the things that happens episode was
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: Miss Nell met with her son Lance. First of all,
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: I got so many texts over the weekend about how
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: fine Nel's son Lance is so.
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: Lance is Nell's son.
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: He used to hang out with Destiny.
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: They hung out on the show last season.
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: Lance had a baby recently, and Miss Nell in this
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: episode propositioned to her son that she will stay over
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: his house at least two nights a week to help.
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: Him with this new baby. Lance has I believe one
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: or two two children.
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: Miss miss Nell will correct me if I'm wrong, But
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: Miss Nell wants to help out her her son. Her husband,
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: Chris Fletcher, does not like the idea of his wife
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: being gone two nights a week. What are your thoughts
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: on that, Claudia, could you handle as let's say you
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: were somebody who had a baby, would you be able
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: to be okay with your mother coming over twice a
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: week leaving her husband to help you with the baby?
• 33:32
  Speaker 7: Well, I mean he's feeling like he needs help, right,
• 33:35
  Speaker 7: Like I remember saying, he was saying, he feels like
• 33:37
  Speaker 7: it's a lot of it is on him, Like why
• 33:39
  Speaker 7: is the mom not doing enough? If I'm not doing nothing, Yeah,
• 33:43
  Speaker 7: your mom will come over to help, but it's probably
• 33:44
  Speaker 7: very intrusive.
• 33:50
  Speaker 3: What's the relationship relationship with the mom though?
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: Well, the mother, the child's mother and Lance. There is
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: some legal stuff going on there that we're not allowed
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: to touch. But for the sake of this conversation, they're
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: not in a relationship and they're not together.
• 34:09
  Speaker 3: Oh them, No, then there should be no problem with that.
• 34:12
  Speaker 3: They're not together. He needs help. I don't see anything
• 34:15
  Speaker 3: wrong with that. I actually think I actually.
• 34:17
  Speaker 7: Was Women do it all the time. If they need
• 34:21
  Speaker 7: help with the baby, they have their mom come help out.
• 34:24
  Speaker 7: And I think that's the blessing of having grandparents or
• 34:27
  Speaker 7: having your parents still around, is to have them help out.
• 34:31
  Speaker 3: I think that I would welcome that.
• 34:34
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I agree with Claudia one hundred percent.
• 34:36
  Speaker 5: And I think as black people, we need to stop
• 34:38
  Speaker 5: this idea that our kids have to do everything the
• 34:42
  Speaker 5: hard way. If you have a child that is working
• 34:45
  Speaker 5: hard and showing up and doing their part, there's nothing
• 34:48
  Speaker 5: wrong with giving them help to get them further along.
• 34:52
  Speaker 5: If right shout out to this comment or Sandy Always
• 34:55
  Speaker 5: Real thirty eight eighty nine, it takes a village. And
• 34:58
  Speaker 5: if Neil is able and more most importantly willing to
• 35:02
  Speaker 5: help her son with her grand baby, then what's the issue?
• 35:05
  Speaker 4: And I think that we keep seeing this theme.
• 35:09
  Speaker 5: Echoing when it comes to the Fletchers of we're helping,
• 35:12
  Speaker 5: we're helping with help, we're helping, we're helping. But what's
• 35:15
  Speaker 5: wrong with helping if you're willing to and if you've
• 35:18
  Speaker 5: got it. I think a lot of this is I
• 35:21
  Speaker 5: think a lot of this is being played against the
• 35:24
  Speaker 5: commentary from the fans. People have strong feelings about nepotism
• 35:29
  Speaker 5: and about people helping their kids out financially and stuff,
• 35:32
  Speaker 5: and I think it's time out for that. We need
• 35:34
  Speaker 5: to start helping our kids out more. We need to
• 35:36
  Speaker 5: start pushing our kids forward and doing what we can
• 35:39
  Speaker 5: when we can. If we have our work and responsible
• 35:41
  Speaker 5: children that will appreciate the help, we should do that.
• 35:45
  Speaker 4: So I just you know, that's how I feel about it.
• 35:48
  Speaker 3: Does full company or you shared costody with the mom?
• 35:52
  Speaker 5: I don't know what's going on, but because a lot
• 35:54
  Speaker 5: of my questions were going to be about the mother
• 35:56
  Speaker 5: of the baby, but Carlos is saying that there was
• 35:59
  Speaker 5: a legal angle on that that you know, we're avoiding
• 36:03
  Speaker 5: basically a week and.
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: You guys, yeah, miss Nell, miss Nell will be able
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: to tell us what she's able to tell us. But
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: based on what the show is showcasing, the mother is
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: in the picture, she's she's in the picture, but in
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: the picture of the TV show. Yeah, And that's just
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: the basis of it. But in terms of whether or
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: not he has s full custody, I do think we
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: could ask.
• 36:32
  Speaker 7: Him to know that when she can say yes, I
• 36:34
  Speaker 7: will say this now what I would probably thought I
• 36:36
  Speaker 7: was when I had, you know, a lot of responsibilities
• 36:39
  Speaker 7: on me to work and take care of my baby
• 36:42
  Speaker 7: and my mom wants to come over there and help,
• 36:44
  Speaker 7: but I know my mother is still married and you know,
• 36:46
  Speaker 7: she has responsibilities at home.
• 36:48
  Speaker 3: Maybe kind of meet halfway.
• 36:49
  Speaker 7: Maybe bringing the baby to the grandma's house to leave
• 36:53
  Speaker 7: her marriage and put a strain over there at her house.
• 36:56
  Speaker 7: I think that's probably what would probably make it more
• 36:59
  Speaker 7: palatable for I mean, who are we with a viewers,
• 37:01
  Speaker 7: but personally, let me drop the baby off instead of
• 37:04
  Speaker 7: like making her leave her house and spend the night
• 37:07
  Speaker 7: or stay with me all the time, because then that
• 37:09
  Speaker 7: can kind of cause some friction.
• 37:10
  Speaker 3: Over there at the house, unless you know mister flex
• 37:12
  Speaker 3: wants to time off.
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, no, listen, it's a tough situation. What I
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: will say is this, I agree with the both of you.
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: I think if you are blessed enough to have a
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: living mother who did an amazing job raising you. I
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: think if your mother is offering her help voluntarily, that
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: showcases to me what an amazing mom and grandmother you have.
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: And I say take advantage of it, because what you
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: don't want to happen is some scenarios is the wrong
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: person raising your child. I mean, not raising the wrong
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: person babysitting your child. You know, we do live in
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: a world where, like Dustin said, people do feel like, oh,
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: let me have my kid rich I agree to a
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: certain extent, like have them learn on the job, but
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: not to the point where they are visibly struggling, to
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: the point where they're making.
• 38:10
  Speaker 2: Bad decisions, because you are super hands off.
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: And in my opinion, I think what miss Nell offered
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: to me it is beautiful and one thing that I
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: do want to bring up that a lot of people
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: may not connect the dots. Miss Nell owns and operates
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: a daycare center. So her livelihood for many, many, many,
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: many many many years is taking care of other people's children.
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: So if that's her nine to five, five to nine,
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: and do it all over again, why wouldn't she volunteer
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: to take care of her grandchild, who is somebody that
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: has the same blood running through their veins.
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: If she can do it for the people her client
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: tele I personally think is a beautiful thing.
• 39:01
  Speaker 5: That's exactly why she can't do it, because she got
• 39:04
  Speaker 5: to listen to them holland ass babies all day at
• 39:06
  Speaker 5: the daycare. She don't want to hear all that Greg
• 39:08
  Speaker 5: Lynn and spitting up and shitting up the back of
• 39:10
  Speaker 5: the diaper, She don't want to deal with all that
• 39:12
  Speaker 5: one so when she leaves that ship at the daycare,
• 39:14
  Speaker 5: she don't want to deal with that no more. Chris
• 39:16
  Speaker 5: don't want to deal with new having an attitude from
• 39:19
  Speaker 5: dealing with them Holland ass babies all day and now
• 39:21
  Speaker 5: all night with this nigga. So you know what I'm saying,
• 39:24
  Speaker 5: that's probably like Chris like, hold on, harpo, we don't
• 39:26
  Speaker 5: need to do this this way.
• 39:28
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. That might be why, But
• 39:31
  Speaker 4: I think we'll find that she helps him though I do.
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and I think two days a week is
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: not bad. I think she would think she's moving in
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: or no shade miss Nell. Worst case if miss Nell said,
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: how about you two moving with me? Yeah, I think
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: that is when things would be more of an issue.
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: And Chris Fletcher like dust instead of You're like my Look,
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: we raise our kids and I ain't trying to start over,
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: know seeing you take care of another, you know baby,
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: So I agree with that.
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: Claudia will be back on. She did not get kicked
• 40:07
  Speaker 2: out of the group. She has not.
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: Ran away from her luggage, We did not send her phone.
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: She is not kicked out of the group.
• 40:16
  Speaker 4: She is a family member.
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: We will make sure she's back on okay, So Dustin
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: one of the things that happened in this episode.
• 40:28
  Speaker 4: Mm hmm.
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: That has some to talk of social media since the
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: preview was posted on Friday. If the inevitable sit down
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: between Miss Neil and Dustin, I'll do the honors of
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: saying her name the way Miss Neil, cass t Shie.
• 40:47
  Speaker 4: Scott.
• 40:49
  Speaker 11: Scott and Scott Scott Scott and Lettist Scott. I'm asking
• 40:57
  Speaker 11: Lettist Scott. Yeah, that's her name, Scott. That's right, full name, baby.
• 41:05
  Speaker 11: Mm hmmm, that's her name.
• 41:10
  Speaker 5: She does it every time. Every time she brings her up,
• 41:12
  Speaker 5: she says her full name, and I die every time.
• 41:16
  Speaker 6: Scott.
• 41:16
  Speaker 4: I'm happy to sit down with Tricia today because Scott,
• 41:21
  Speaker 4: she's not Scott. Every time. I love it. I love it.
• 41:32
  Speaker 7: I have an appointment to up my gee's and it's
• 41:35
  Speaker 7: so frustrating. We all laughing at my Wi Fi while.
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: No, no, no good, no, no, no, you just came.
• 41:41
  Speaker 2: You just came on right in time.
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: We're gonna talk about this scene between Latitia, Scott and
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: Miss Nell where they said down and had a one
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: on one at a coffee shop that Tisha works out
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: part time because her husband Marceau has not built her
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: office just yet.
• 41:59
  Speaker 2: Okay, soh as we all know in last week, Hey Marceau.
• 42:03
  Speaker 2: In last week's episode.
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: Well the start of the season, Nell's husband, Chris Fletcher,
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: made a comment that rubbed the Scott's the wrong way.
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: He talked about NDA's and he said that he does
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: not have people sign DA's. That that sounds like some
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: shit the Scotts would do, okay, implying that to Marcel
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: and Maurice. The wives Kimmy and Tsha did I like
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: it and they confronted. Well, Tisha and her Hennessy confronted
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: Chris about.
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: It at Tricia's event, Hey Tisha Scott. So at this event,
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: Tisha decided to confront.
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: Chris and and inquire about, why are you talking about
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: my husband this way in the sense that having NDAs
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: is something they would do. Now, one thing I know
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: about producing Love and Matriter Tumpsmith for all these years
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: is you do not talk to another woman's husband.
• 43:08
  Speaker 2: I've learned that.
• 43:09
  Speaker 6: I know.
• 43:10
  Speaker 2: That's a big numb noe. Miss Nell decided to push.
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: Chris back and step in front until Tsha Scott don't
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: talk to my husband, talk to me. And that's when
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: they had their little one two one two. So this
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: sit down was an opportunity for Nell and Tisha to
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: address it. Unfortunately it did not go that way. Dustin,
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: what were your thoughts on the sit down between Nell
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: and Tisha?
• 43:38
  Speaker 4: It was doomed from the start.
• 43:39
  Speaker 5: I knew Latitia Scott was ready for war when she
• 43:42
  Speaker 5: put up in the ford instead of the Bends. Normally
• 43:45
  Speaker 5: she'd be driving that Benz truck that they got. She got,
• 43:47
  Speaker 5: they got several nice cars, sports cars, the Bends with
• 43:51
  Speaker 5: the suicide doors, all that shit. When she put up
• 43:54
  Speaker 5: in a ford, I knew Latitia came to get busy. Okay,
• 43:58
  Speaker 5: part right in the front might even been handicapped. She
• 44:01
  Speaker 5: parked right up in the front and pulled up and
• 44:03
  Speaker 5: got to work. Latitia Scott is very comfortable anchoring this
• 44:08
  Speaker 5: cast as a season one, episode one founding member, right,
• 44:13
  Speaker 5: and you can tell because we get to see a
• 44:15
  Speaker 5: totally different, more and much more confident whether you agree
• 44:19
  Speaker 5: with her opinions and stances or not. She's very blatant
• 44:22
  Speaker 5: and honest and upfront with them at this point, and
• 44:24
  Speaker 5: so she came with a level of clarity and a
• 44:27
  Speaker 5: level of intention that it was just bound to be
• 44:32
  Speaker 5: a volcanic eruption of arguing when they said down together,
• 44:34
  Speaker 5: because miss nell was on the exact same shit. I
• 44:37
  Speaker 5: don't think they ever really liked each other ever. I
• 44:40
  Speaker 5: think that they tried to get to know each other
• 44:42
  Speaker 5: and form some sort of cordial working relationship. But when
• 44:45
  Speaker 5: they were at that table, they both was like, all right,
• 44:48
  Speaker 5: now we can finally fucking argue.
• 44:50
  Speaker 4: Let's get it on. And that's what we saw at
• 44:51
  Speaker 4: that table. That's literally what that was.
• 44:54
  Speaker 5: So much so that Letitia was determined to remain in
• 44:57
  Speaker 5: control of the dialogue and remain in the driver's.
• 45:00
  Speaker 4: Sept so she got up and left. Once she saw
• 45:02
  Speaker 4: that miss Nelle was really on that, she left.
• 45:05
  Speaker 5: And so I don't know how they can get to
• 45:07
  Speaker 5: a place where they can talk things out because they're
• 45:10
  Speaker 5: both mad as hell right now, well at least at
• 45:12
  Speaker 5: the time of filming.
• 45:13
  Speaker 4: So that's what I thought it was.
• 45:15
  Speaker 5: I understood it to I anticipated it rather going down
• 45:19
  Speaker 5: exactly how it went.
• 45:23
  Speaker 7: You know, when you like aingraly feeling someone for a
• 45:25
  Speaker 7: while and then something happened to oh here this is
• 45:27
  Speaker 7: my time, this is my kind of like getting that
• 45:29
  Speaker 7: ass for all the stuff that happened like last year
• 45:31
  Speaker 7: or the year before and whenever, we're going to get
• 45:33
  Speaker 7: it all up right now now that it was right
• 45:36
  Speaker 7: to step in front of her husband and to make
• 45:38
  Speaker 7: it woman a woman, But I probably would have probably
• 45:41
  Speaker 7: would have had more success to talk to both of
• 45:43
  Speaker 7: them because he's the one that had You have the
• 45:44
  Speaker 7: issue with what he said about the NBA is the
• 45:46
  Speaker 7: wife didn't say it right, you know, it's the fledger
• 45:49
  Speaker 7: said it. So that's really maybe it's like, hey, you
• 45:52
  Speaker 7: can maybe have addressed it like no disrespect. I want
• 45:55
  Speaker 7: to talk to you and your husband together that I
• 45:57
  Speaker 7: want to talk to your husband behind your back, because
• 45:58
  Speaker 7: that's what we're trying to avoid, right, being disrespectful, having
• 46:01
  Speaker 7: sidebars with people's husbands. Okay, like they do want housewives.
• 46:05
  Speaker 7: But anyways, I think that you know, that was the
• 46:08
  Speaker 7: right She had the right intention starting off. But it
• 46:10
  Speaker 7: just that energy, the energy was there, and you know,
• 46:12
  Speaker 7: when you have the cameras on you, it ain't feeling
• 46:15
  Speaker 7: as broad each other. It ain't gonna end peacefully. You're
• 46:18
  Speaker 7: not gonna get it resolved. You're gonna get an eye
• 46:20
  Speaker 7: checked her or she you didn't check me. It's more
• 46:22
  Speaker 7: about that, It's more about the egos. But again started
• 46:26
  Speaker 7: off right with with like, you know you're gonna talk
• 46:28
  Speaker 7: to me and not my husband. But it needed to
• 46:29
  Speaker 7: be with both of them and maybe would have been calmer.
• 46:32
  Speaker 3: Maybe do you think Carlos would have been calmer if well, no,
• 46:35
  Speaker 3: I think.
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: I think it's what you two are saying. I think
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: at the end of the day now is still really
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: from the fact that she feels that Tea should disrespected
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: her husband and right by approaching my husband, right, my man,
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: my man, my man.
• 46:52
  Speaker 7: Right.
• 46:53
  Speaker 2: So that's the energy Nail, in my opinion, had coming in,
• 46:57
  Speaker 2: like you.
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: Dispect my husband, and and because you just you disrespect
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: my husband, you disrespected me.
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: Teacher's coming in feeling like Chris Fletcher disrespected her marriage
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: by telling the world that nda sounds like something that
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: her husband would do.
• 47:14
  Speaker 7: Right.
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: So in this conversation, a lot of it, like you
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: two pointed out, had to deal with a couple of
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: years of issues when Marcel in Atlanta and there were
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: allegations Marcell was cheating on Teach in Atlanta, Marcel told
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: t in the parking lot, I was there with a friend.
• 47:32
  Speaker 2: That friend was Chris Fletcher.
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: And then that's when Chris Fletcher said, I was with
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: Marcell but not for a long period of time. We
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: had one meeting and that's when Nel was like your girl,
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: he was with me. We went to the Piccadilly or
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: Home Depot or KFC. I forgot what it was, but
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: it's never Yeah, okay, got the two plus two.
• 47:56
  Speaker 2: So the thing is to me, you too, our writing
• 48:00
  Speaker 2: sense up.
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: They both came in with that energy rightfully so rightfully so,
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: but it obviously did not go as planned. So without
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: further ado, let's bring on the one we're talking about
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: rain drops. Give it up for the beautiful, the amazing.
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: Her WiFi is better than claudiaus.
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: Tonight about it? Give it up y'all for miss nol Fletcher.
• 48:33
  Speaker 6: Hello, how y'all doing?
• 48:37
  Speaker 3: Hey, welcome? Thank you?
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: Okay, So, miss, now, before we get into your storyline
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: this season, we had a segment topic and I want
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: to ask you this.
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: You've been very open this season. I'm not this season.
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, you've been very open about something. He'll but
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: ask right when it came to your marriage and the
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: infidelity experience in your marriage, right. On the recent episode
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: of Love the hip Hopaganta, a couple named Yandy and
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: men DC had a conversation and Yandy, the wife, admitted
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: to her husband that she had an emotional affair with
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: another man. So, miss now, I want to ask you this,
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: what is worse in your opinion, the physical affair or
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: an emotional affair?
• 49:31
  Speaker 6: Can you hear me?
• 49:32
  Speaker 4: You got a fan on her something?
• 49:34
  Speaker 2: Neil, Yep, it's.
• 49:38
  Speaker 3: Got that on high.
• 49:41
  Speaker 6: Give me sick.
• 49:43
  Speaker 3: Got the Angelo Oakly fans over there? Way better? Sorry
• 49:51
  Speaker 3: about that.
• 49:52
  Speaker 6: I apologize again.
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: Yes you could have heard of a wind miss Nell
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: as a married woman men who experienced in fidelity years ago.
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: I do want to ask you what do you think
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: is worse an emotional affair or a physical affair?
• 50:11
  Speaker 6: Hmmm, I don't know. They're both terrible with emotional women
• 50:27
  Speaker 6: are very emotional physical Now now you're touching, so I
• 50:39
  Speaker 6: don't like neither one. I would have to say that
• 50:47
  Speaker 6: either one. It's you're kind of putting your marriage in
• 50:53
  Speaker 6: a funky space to even trying to make it work
• 50:57
  Speaker 6: or get back together, especially as a woman, because we
• 51:03
  Speaker 6: are emotional, oh, very emotional creature.
• 51:07
  Speaker 3: When you say that, you mean like, do you think
• 51:09
  Speaker 3: it's more meaningful?
• 51:10
  Speaker 7: Like I was telling the Fellas earlier, I think women
• 51:12
  Speaker 7: we fall in love with what we hear, and like
• 51:14
  Speaker 7: when we're on the phone listening to your voice and
• 51:16
  Speaker 7: it's like it's it's like, it's not it's less based
• 51:18
  Speaker 7: on looks for us, right, or physicalities. Right, of course,
• 51:21
  Speaker 7: nobody wants to imagine the thought of their man, you know,
• 51:25
  Speaker 7: being intimate with another women. But it's even the fact
• 51:27
  Speaker 7: that you love her, where you care about this person,
• 51:30
  Speaker 7: like you you really like that.
• 51:34
  Speaker 6: It's the emotional is actually, Claudia, emotional to me is
• 51:40
  Speaker 6: worse than physical.
• 51:43
  Speaker 4: Mm hmm, Okay.
• 51:45
  Speaker 3: I know it's hard to pick on, right because you're like, yeah.
• 51:47
  Speaker 6: Suck, Yeah, the bow suck. But emotional there's there's feelings involved.
• 51:54
  Speaker 4: That's it that can linger on and turn into a
• 51:58
  Speaker 4: longer connection.
• 52:00
  Speaker 3: Exactly like longing for the person. You're thinking about them
• 52:03
  Speaker 3: when you're with me and all that.
• 52:05
  Speaker 7: And it's hard to come back from Yeah yeah, yeah,
• 52:08
  Speaker 7: but they both suck and they both weren't ask right.
• 52:12
  Speaker 6: I wouldn't recommend neither one, of course. You know, physical
• 52:16
  Speaker 6: you touch me and sometime with them is why I'm
• 52:19
  Speaker 6: bound thank you, ma'am. And and they're good and can
• 52:22
  Speaker 6: move on. But if they are emotionally attached to another
• 52:27
  Speaker 6: woman outside of yourself, then that's hard. That's that's a
• 52:31
  Speaker 6: hard feel to swallow. So I would have to say emotional.
• 52:36
  Speaker 7: No.
• 52:36
  Speaker 2: I I definitely agree with that too.
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: So the biggest topic tonight, Miss Now, has a lot
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: to do with you volunteering to stay at your son,
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: Lancen's home for two days to help.
• 52:50
  Speaker 2: Him with his newborn baby.
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: There's a lot of questions and commentary about this, and
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: I would love for you to address as much as
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: you can, understanding that when it comes to the mother
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: of this child, you know, we want to be able
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: to leave that alone in her privacy. So but as
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: much as you can, can you explain to us just
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: for the records, that we're able to move on with
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: the question. We know that we know that Lance has
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: been married twice.
• 53:17
  Speaker 2: Correct, that's correct?
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: Okay, So Lance has been married twice. And how many
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: children does Lance have?
• 53:23
  Speaker 6: Lance has three beautiful children.
• 53:24
  Speaker 2: Three beautiful children. Okay, So when it comes to.
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: Your volunteering to help out Lance, explain to us where
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: that comes from. If a lot of people, Miss Now
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: I'm sure you've read the comments. They feel like your
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: son has grown. He had two wives.
• 53:44
  Speaker 2: He he if he can, if he can lay down
• 53:47
  Speaker 2: and make one, he should be able to stand up
• 53:49
  Speaker 2: and take care of them on his own without you.
• 53:51
  Speaker 2: How do you feel about that?
• 53:54
  Speaker 6: Actually, to a certain extent, I agree with them. Most
• 53:58
  Speaker 6: of the time. Everyone hears me going in on all
• 54:02
  Speaker 6: of my children. With Lance. Let me say this first.
• 54:07
  Speaker 6: He's a hard worker, and that's why I agree to
• 54:10
  Speaker 6: help him. Lance will work from sun up to sundown.
• 54:15
  Speaker 6: Lance is the person that I have to say, hey, Lance,
• 54:19
  Speaker 6: go home, Lance, clock out. Lance. You just can't leave
• 54:24
  Speaker 6: the job and then go fall asleep or get up
• 54:29
  Speaker 6: the next morning and try to do quotes and be
• 54:31
  Speaker 6: back on the job at seven o'clock in the morning.
• 54:35
  Speaker 6: Let's make sure his kids get to school. For two
• 54:38
  Speaker 6: of his kids, he actually have joint custody with the
• 54:44
  Speaker 6: one he has. Now he has temporarily for custody. We're
• 54:49
  Speaker 6: not sure how long it's gonna stay that way. That's
• 54:52
  Speaker 6: the most I can say about that. We have to
• 54:55
  Speaker 6: go back to court here real soon.
• 55:00
  Speaker 3: But Lance is a.
• 55:06
  Speaker 6: Hands on death. He's very much hands on, And the
• 55:09
  Speaker 6: reason why I said I would go to his house
• 55:14
  Speaker 6: is because if you heard him, he was at my
• 55:16
  Speaker 6: house and correct, Lance has his own home. Lance's owned
• 55:21
  Speaker 6: his own home for about what eight ten years now
• 55:29
  Speaker 6: when he first got his small child. He came here
• 55:35
  Speaker 6: because I'm on the safety plan as well. So I
• 55:38
  Speaker 6: am I'm so involved because I have been placed on
• 55:42
  Speaker 6: the safety plan. He was here in one of the
• 55:46
  Speaker 6: guest rooms. The reason why volunteer to go to his
• 55:50
  Speaker 6: house is he he will get up in the morning
• 55:56
  Speaker 6: and it kind of remind me of when he was
• 55:58
  Speaker 6: a teenager back at home. It's like, oh no, hell,
• 56:02
  Speaker 6: wait a minute, now, we gotta closed doors around here.
• 56:08
  Speaker 2: As beginning in now, y'all ain't even.
• 56:11
  Speaker 6: Sometime about getting it in. I mean, if you if
• 56:15
  Speaker 6: you used to sleeping with your.
• 56:16
  Speaker 4: Ass out, yeah, talk about it. Yeah, you know, get
• 56:21
  Speaker 4: hot and I don't, Yes, I throw it out. Might
• 56:24
  Speaker 4: just want to be laid up. You know what I'm saying.
• 56:27
  Speaker 4: I get it. I get it this a lot.
• 56:30
  Speaker 6: Yeah, I forget they hear, you know, because he will
• 56:34
  Speaker 6: keep his baby all night in the room you know,
• 56:36
  Speaker 6: houses being let me say that, so he'll be on
• 56:39
  Speaker 6: the outside of the house. So I'm forgetting that he's here,
• 56:43
  Speaker 6: and he'll just come in boomomo, and I'm like, oh ship,
• 56:45
  Speaker 6: let me try to, you know, throw something back, and
• 56:49
  Speaker 6: it's like this ain't working. Then he want to come
• 56:51
  Speaker 6: in and like hey, y'all this and y'all good, oh dad,
• 56:54
  Speaker 6: and just come right in, Hey mammy, give me the baby.
• 56:57
  Speaker 6: He already got them and got dressed for work. And
• 56:59
  Speaker 6: I'm like, won't wait a minute, you know, Fletcher like
• 57:03
  Speaker 6: good morning Sun, Like okay. So that's why I thought
• 57:09
  Speaker 6: I was doing Fletcher fav work when I agree to
• 57:13
  Speaker 6: say I just go to his house two days, maybe
• 57:18
  Speaker 6: three out of the week so Fletcher can have a break. Hell,
• 57:23
  Speaker 6: I guess he didn't like that, but I was just
• 57:26
  Speaker 6: trying to help out. Because he come in, like I said,
• 57:30
  Speaker 6: hand me the baby. He's already ready to get ready
• 57:32
  Speaker 6: to go out the door. He's talking to his dad
• 57:35
  Speaker 6: about work or some quotes or contracts he has to do,
• 57:40
  Speaker 6: or want his dad to meet him out somewhere on
• 57:43
  Speaker 6: one of the job sites. And I'm like, you know what,
• 57:46
  Speaker 6: it's too early for me to be talking about this,
• 57:48
  Speaker 6: or I just can't come to my room like this.
• 57:52
  Speaker 6: I'm not used to him just being at the house.
• 57:57
  Speaker 6: So maybe I'll go to his house and let me
• 58:00
  Speaker 6: be a person that gets up and put my damn
• 58:04
  Speaker 6: clothes on and go out the door and leave, and
• 58:07
  Speaker 6: I don't have to worry about him just coming in
• 58:10
  Speaker 6: dropping the baby on me early he gets to go
• 58:12
  Speaker 6: out the door.
• 58:13
  Speaker 7: That that makes a lot more sense, like what you're saying,
• 58:17
  Speaker 7: because without your explanation, it could seem like you're babying him.
• 58:20
  Speaker 3: You're doing too much, you know what I mean.
• 58:21
  Speaker 7: And now you citing the fact that he, you know,
• 58:25
  Speaker 7: the the care that he has with the other two kids,
• 58:27
  Speaker 7: and then having temporary full county of this one. Clearly
• 58:31
  Speaker 7: he's not a bad dad. Clearly that means he's a
• 58:33
  Speaker 7: really good dad. And the fact that you see your
• 58:36
  Speaker 7: son working so hard, he's a heart. The fact I
• 58:38
  Speaker 7: love that you said hard worker and you want to
• 58:41
  Speaker 7: give him a break and then you go into his
• 58:43
  Speaker 7: house is more to keep your house peaceful and your
• 58:47
  Speaker 7: comfortability in your house. That makes total sense, Like, Nah,
• 58:50
  Speaker 7: you ain't about to have me having to put down
• 58:52
  Speaker 7: clothes and I'm home and I want to be butt
• 58:53
  Speaker 7: making my man with the fan on right like out
• 58:56
  Speaker 7: Morio house. And but does it feel but well me, Now,
• 59:00
  Speaker 7: do you feel like you bet up on than you
• 59:01
  Speaker 7: can shoot or are you cool with itself?
• 59:05
  Speaker 6: I kind of I'm cool with it, but I would
• 59:08
  Speaker 6: be lying if I sit here and said, oh, I
• 59:13
  Speaker 6: didn't bite off more than I should have been. With
• 59:18
  Speaker 6: everything I have going on right now, it is a lot,
• 59:24
  Speaker 6: but I'm willing to do it. I signed up to
• 59:26
  Speaker 6: do it, and I'm gonna do it. That's what you know.
• 59:30
  Speaker 6: Grandma's support, which I think I'm a grandmom. So I'm
• 59:34
  Speaker 6: gonna hang in there and I'm gonna see him through it.
• 59:37
  Speaker 6: Like I said, I signed up for it. I told
• 59:41
  Speaker 6: my husband what was going on, and like he said, sure,
• 59:45
  Speaker 6: you know that's all Grundschild. We're not gonna have her anywhere.
• 59:47
  Speaker 4: Else, so right, So that's so what you're saying is Tick.
• 59:53
  Speaker 6: Care center and the baby beat somewhere else but in
• 59:56
  Speaker 6: the custody of us.
• 59:58
  Speaker 5: So what you're saying is Destiny. So Chris over there
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 5: taking care of them or Lance, excuse me, taking care
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 5: of them kids? Good, getting up, going to work every
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 5: damn day, holding it down. She said, that's a good man, Savannah.
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 5: That's why Destiny wanted some of that, ain't it. That's
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 5: what you're saying. She saw his work ethic kind of
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 5: man he was, and that's why Destiny was like, sign
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 5: me up. It makes more sense. See, that's why we
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 5: needed to have this conversation. We getting light shed on
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 5: everything tonight.
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 6: Now we don't Yeah, well Lance said Desney wants to
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 6: build a man, so I don't know.
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 4: Oh oh.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 6: Hey, that's he is still my friend. That's the hard
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 6: part that I did not want them to get involved
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 6: to begin with, because when things like this happened and
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 6: it doesn't work out, I'm in the middle. I'm sad
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 6: with Din and then I gotta hear her side, I
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 6: gotta hear his side, and.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 5: It's like, you know what, this is Angel Godson's side too, right, Oh.
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 4: You know what doesn't a lot of sides. It's a
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 4: lot of sides.
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm just getting I'm just getting hit and blows
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 6: from every direction right now, and I'm trying to like
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 6: hear everybody out.
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 3: And it's over women, really, it's all.
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 6: It's it's a lot people.
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 7: Want to tell everybody just like you don't want to
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 7: hear it. Just keep me out of it, working out
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 7: amongst yourselves. I don't want to be the person the
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 7: founding board for everybody in the middle.
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 6: You know what, Claudia, That's where I'm about it with
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 6: this ship. I'm like, you know what, I'm tapped out.
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 6: Fuck it like y'all do what y'all want to do.
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 6: You're damn grown. You're gonna do what you want to
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 6: do anyway. You don't damn listen. But every time I
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 6: said that, I'm crazy as hell, mis now crazy. I'm
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 6: over the top, I'm loud. I don't listen, No, I listen.
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 6: I'm tired of they bullshit. This is what I was
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 6: talking about when I said I didn't need therapy. They
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 6: ass needed therapy. You know, I'm doing my own business.
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 6: They want to have all the interests and then they
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 6: bring it to me and then it gets dropped off
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 6: on me and I got to listen to all the
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 6: ship I'm good.
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: Well, well, you seem to be good now, but you
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: weren't good when what's the name, Dustin latist Scott?
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 4: You say her whole name every time.
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 5: That's how I knew she had pitched you off like that,
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 5: because when you're getting them interviews looking beautiful with all
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 5: your ship on. You know what, I'm saying you sit
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 5: up there and lettist Scott and see I said down
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 5: and Lettista Scott said that's all I knew.
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 4: I said, name she hot. We love it, love it.
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 2: You know it's good. It's good, it's good.
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: So I want to take you back to the moment
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: where you know, this season it did start off with
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: you seeing that Laticia Scott and Marcel, Kimmy and Maurice
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: they did have issue with your husband making the comment
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 1: that NDA seems to be like something that their husbands
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: would do, Marcel and Maurice and not necessarily him, and
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: that Tisha was not happy with that comment. I do
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: want to ask you this, Do you understand where they're
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: coming from? Or were you more upset with the fact
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 1: that t Sha addressed your husband and base what I'm
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: learning about marriage, when a wife has an issue with
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: the husband, the wife should address the white.
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 2: Was that your issue or both?
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 6: Well, actually, let me say this, I understood exactly where
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 6: they were coming from. I even said to him, what
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 6: the fuck? Like, Okay, that's the part where when you
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 6: do not know what you're doing, and you knew with
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 6: this and you let somebody kind of sidetrack you into
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 6: catching yourself up in something I can't say, but the
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 6: conversation that was being had at that time, Yeah, yeah,
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 6: he didn't. He didn't do a good job in in
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 6: that conversation in handling his words, and uh, with a
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 6: pro that he was sitting back with that know how
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 6: to handle her words.
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 2: So he hooked hisself, honestly.
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 6: But with that said, I'm the one that actually said
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 6: to Letitia, you can go say something to him, because
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 6: I cannot really say exactly what what made him say
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 6: that or what was his motive of saying that. I cannot.
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 6: I'm not him. Basically, he's if I feel like something
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 6: is wrong and it's bothering her, then it needs to
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 6: be addressed. What I did not expect was hard to
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 6: go over there and just run straight in and go
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 6: in straight attack mode. And I was trying to hurry
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 6: up and get over there and like whoa, whoa, no
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 6: you get get At that point I had changed my mind,
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 6: like no, get your get your ass, get on back
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 6: over there, because I did not think she was gonna
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 6: go over there and go in on him like that.
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 6: I thought she was gonna go over there and maybe say, hey, Chris,
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 6: can I talk to you? For a moment. The new
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 6: guys had already talked, so I thought she was gonna
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 6: pull him to the side and talk to him or
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 6: some of that nature. But when I seen her going
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 6: straight up in his face and hand out, I stepped
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 6: in and I was like, no, we're not gonna do this, this, this.
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 6: I didn't expect her to do that.
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 7: So you're okay with having a conversation because you're the
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 7: one that needed to tell her, like, go ahead and
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 7: go talk to him, But you didn't, like she said,
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 7: came in on ten and she need to come in
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 7: at like a six five.
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 3: She was came in too hot, a little too hot.
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 6: Yeah, she came in very hot, came in very hot.
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 6: And that's what I did not like.
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 2: But I did.
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 6: I did tell her she could go talk to him. Yeah,
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 6: I did do that.
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: So what what Claudian doesn't picked up on the energy
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: that you both had and your one on one sit down.
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: So when you sat down with her, what was going
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 1: on where the two of you just did not appear
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: to come to an agreement just based on halving the
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: conversation the first place you brought up the fact that, look,
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to explain to you where all of this
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: came from the Atlanta trip your husband saying that my
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: husband's with him.
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 2: Would you like to clear that up to since you
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 2: weren't able.
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 1: To get it out if the one on one is now, Yes,
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: Actually what happened was Mar.
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 6: So this was like two years ago. Mars and Fletcher
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 6: met up in Atlanta, and I was there as well.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 6: And I know I was there because I was having
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 6: the girls done and a lot. We don't like to
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 6: talk about that type ship, but that doesn't bother me.
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 6: It is what it is. If I was not there,
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 6: I would tell you I wasn't there, But I was there.
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 6: I have receipts showing that I was there. I actually
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 6: was in our airbnb. Fletcher went out to meet with
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 6: Mars because Marshall was considering putting a black restaurant in Atlanta,
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 6: so they went to look at some land and then
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 6: from there they went out to eat and want to
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 6: Atlanta Fish Market one of our favorite places, and you
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 6: know there's two yes, So they went there to eat
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 6: and everything, and from there Fletcher came back to the
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 6: Airbnb because he was taking care of me, so I
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 6: knew I knew where he was. He wasn't even going
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 6: that long, maybe what two hours talks when Marcel when
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 6: it aired, and Marshall said, Letitia questioned him, and he
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 6: paused for a very long time, and then he said,
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 6: I was with a friend and the suspense of everybody
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 6: wanting to know, and he says, Chris Fletcher, It's like,
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 6: what the hell now you look guilty. You make your
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 6: Fletcher look guilty. The damn phone over here is ringing
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 6: off the hook, like, what's going on in your household?
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 6: Did you know your husband was in that. I was
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 6: there with him. Come down. I'm wrapped up and ship
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 6: right now. So it's it's it's good, We're good. So
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 6: for her to bring me up and bring this up
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 6: and say that my husband keeps putting her husband's name
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 6: in his mouth, and I was like, no, Mars started
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 6: all this shit two years ago. He started this. Now,
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 6: did Fletcher add on to the fire, Yes, with the
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 6: damn NDA shit he did, you know, I will admit that,
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 6: but do not make it seem like it's Fletcher Fletcher,
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 6: Fletcher Fletcher, And that's not true. Marceau has a hand
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 6: in this shit too, And that's why I was trying
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 6: to explain to her, and if it was just she
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 6: was coming at me, I was coming at her. She
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 6: didn't really want to hear what I had to say.
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 6: At that point I had to tapped out because I
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 6: can't hear. We were talking over each other at that point.
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 6: She was trying to say, well she wanted to say.
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 6: I was trying to get out what I was trying
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 6: to say. But I know that she was heated with me,
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 6: and at that moment, I was heated with her because
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 6: she had at that point she did had get him.
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 6: She got in my husband's face, and I didn't expect
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 6: it to go that way.
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 4: So let's talk about the transparency piecements now.
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 5: I think a lot of people would love for you
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 5: to clarify exactly the way it means. What you mean
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 5: when you say that Letitia and Kimmy as well have
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 5: been less than transparent in their expressions of what's going
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 5: on in their lives. What is it that you what
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 5: areas or what things do you feel like they could
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 5: be more transparent about and in what ways could they
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 5: be more transparent about those things?
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 6: Okay, for Kimmy to make the statement, you think we
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 6: don't want to talk about our husband's gene kill. Nobody does.
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 6: I don't, but I'm not. If it's known and it's
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 6: out there, of course I'm not gonna sit in the line.
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 6: I'm not telling them to confront Center about something they
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 6: say they don't know. Okay, I'm good, you don't have to.
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 6: What I'm saying is, do not always come to me
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 6: asking me about my family, what's going on in my family,
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 6: my husband, my children, my grandchildren. It's always what, hey,
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 6: now we heard this, or no, you knew about your
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 6: grand baby or your husband did this. But then when
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 6: it comes to your husband or your spouse, Uh, what
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 6: you think or I'm not talking about that, or we're
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 6: not talking about that. That's not being transparent. Stay the
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 6: hell out of my business. If your business is off
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 6: for the table.
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry.
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 6: I'm sorry. I say that again, Claudia.
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 7: I was.
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 3: They're the thing that that happens a lot though.
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 7: You know, like everybody want to be in each other's business,
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 7: but nobody wants to be fully parent and until they're own.
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 7: But that's kind of like what almost all the reality
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 7: shows are giving a lot of times. That's why when
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 7: someone comes along like yourself, that's pretty transparent.
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 3: People rock with that.
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 7: They like that because a lot of people, how are
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 7: you gonna sign up for a reality show and then
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 7: you can't talk about things and then you get mad
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 7: when people go and ask you your question.
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 3: So you know, keep doing what you do.
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 7: That's why they rock with you. But I get the
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 7: hypocrisy of it all. It's actually annoying right like it is.
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 6: Because I get uh like shut down if I ask
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 6: a question about them or something of if they're going on,
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 6: not necessarily in their household that's wrong terminology, but something
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 6: that's they're dealing with, or something that's been said out
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 6: in the streets or in you know, social media. If
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 6: I say something, it's quick to when not talking about that.
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 6: Even Latcha said at the last episode, and I said, well,
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 6: you always talk about my family in in my kids,
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 6: and we do and we will. M okay, then keep
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 6: that ship across the board. Let's talk about your shit too,
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 6: That's all I'm saying.
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 1: One of the things that people said miss Now they
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: feel like when it comes to Tisha Marceau that since
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 1: day one of them being on the show, they have
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 1: been transparent. People feel like Tsha has addressed people saying
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 1: her husband had twenty women. They said, Tisha has showed you, guys,
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 1: her family, Miss Wanda, her uncles and aunties, cousins and
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 1: all that.
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 2: They feel like Tisha has shown you her issues with
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 2: the girls. Some people do feel like Tisha has.
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 1: Been transparent and they don't understand why you feel like
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: she hasn't.
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 2: Can you can you touch on that?
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 6: Well? For me, you can't please everybody. Everybody's gonna like
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 6: who they like, say, depend who they're gonna defend, whether
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 6: it's Tisha or whether it's me. Hell, they know what
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 6: the hell real transparent is. Hell, I can show my
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  Speaker 6: damn family all them day long. I'm doing that now.
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 6: And if my mother was alive, I would show her too,
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  Speaker 6: So you know it is what it is because I've
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 6: been coming at about that too. So look, it just
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 6: seels what it is. Everybody's gonna just decide what they figure,
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 6: who they're gonna rock with, who they're not gonna rock with,
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 6: what they like, what transparent is to them, and what
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 6: transparent is not. So that their definition of transparent, that's them.
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  Speaker 6: That's that's their opinion. They have a way to feel
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 6: the way they feel. I have a way to feel.
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 6: I can feel the way I feel.
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  Speaker 7: Miss Now, Can I ask you if you want to
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 7: put if you care to put a name on it,
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 7: who's probably the worst at shutting you down? Because I
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 7: feel a lot of people in the comments responding to
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 7: you saying you feel shut down, They're like, don't let
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 7: it happen, like they rock. They don't want you to
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 7: like feel shut down. So is there one person that
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 7: she would say of or in particular that does that?
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 7: Does that the most to you that you feel like
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 7: is closed? You said closed, and they try to shut
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 7: or try to shut you down and doesn't want to
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 7: like give up their information.
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  Speaker 6: Let sha is the one I argue with the most
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 6: lat is.
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  Speaker 3: The one argu the go ahead and say that full
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 3: name for us?
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 6: As far as Nick Jimmy, we we really don't have nothing.
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 6: That's there's nothing, miss Now.
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  Speaker 2: Who do you feel like is the least transparent person
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  Speaker 2: on the cast?
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  Speaker 4: Oh, there's that many to choose from.
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 6: No, you said, I would have to say, well, see
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  Speaker 6: I do. I know she had a cancel issue, but.
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  Speaker 3: That's what I said.
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 6: People identify transparency as different.
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  Speaker 2: But but I want to I want to ask you
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  Speaker 2: about that. So you feel like Kimmy is the least
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 2: transparent person on the show. Tell me why you feel
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 2: that way?
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 6: You know what, I don't know. Maybe it's Destiny. Well,
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 6: I'm trying to think, like when you're talking to the
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 6: I really don't talk to Kimmy. H. I talked to Destiny,
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  Speaker 6: but I know there's a lot she says she can't
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 6: talk about too. M hm, Trish, just less it all,
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 6: damn hang out there. So I don't know. Me and Leticia, hey,
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 6: ide is what it is? It would have to be
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 6: Destiny okami for me between those two.
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  Speaker 4: So I have a question for you, miss Nel.
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  Speaker 5: Part of what fans loved the most about you and
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 5: Chris's contribution to this cast was your beautiful family.
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  Speaker 4: Right.
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 5: We were really introduced to you all and seeing the
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 5: relationships and the complexities of the relationships between you and
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 5: your adult children, and we were fascinated at seeing that.
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 5: And one of the most memorable scenes that was you
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 5: all were really vulnerable and brave to share, was when
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 5: you all were sitting around that dining that dinner table
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 5: and having a family conversation and things kind of got
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 5: heated between your daughter Lexi and the rest of your family.
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 5: And we know that there's been some some videos made
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 5: where Lexi kind of shared and expressed her feelings. What
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 5: do you want to share about how you feel about that?
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 5: How much you how you because we were introduced to
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 5: you loving your daughter Lexi, and we saw you all
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 5: working through some very personal issues on the screen and
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 5: you were brave to share that with the recent you know,
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 5: expression of feelings from Lexi. What is it that you
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 5: want the audience to know about how you and Chris
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 5: feel about that part of your family and that dynamic.
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 5: Is there anything that you want to share to the audience.
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 6: Well, for me, Dustin, I would not entertain that. Okay,
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 6: I did not know there was an issue when Lexi
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 6: came to the dinner table. I thought we were one big,
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 6: happy family. Of course, over the years, there's always been
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 6: Lexi the ones not in the household, even we try
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 6: to do the most for her when she do come
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 6: to the household. I had no idea that that was
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 6: an issue. Actually, when we sat down at that dinner
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 6: table and things started coming up about me and her
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 6: mom's past that we had already talked about and we
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 6: were good. I was just at their house probably three
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 6: weeks or so before we decided to sit down and
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 6: have that dinner scene. We were all hanging out there,
• 1:18:31
  Speaker 6: I wanted to say it stayed at a mom's house
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 6: for shit eight ten hours. We all had drinks, liquor,
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 6: having a good time. So you think you know your
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 6: family and you don't. You think they're over something or
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 6: you passed something and it's not. You get all these
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 6: feelings and emotions that come back up that so make
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 6: you think, Okay, we've gotten past this, we've conquered this,
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 6: we're family. We locked in and then the damn dinner
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 6: sing and it's like checkmate, we'll not put y'all ass
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 6: on blasts and it's like, WHOA, Okay, Well I did
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 6: not see that coming. Honestly, I was told that we
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 6: set her up. That's not true. I would never put
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 6: none of my children on here for a setup. She
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 6: was never looked at as a bonus child. Anyone who
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 6: knew me, they knew I had four kids. A lot
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 6: of people didn't not even know that she was in
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 6: mine by largical m So.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not gonna I'm not that. Yeah, but stew with
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 3: everything you have going on, right, that's an.
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 6: Old enough grandchild that I'm sure that still loves us
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 6: and we cannot see right to this day and this
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 6: other grandchildren that are smaller that all this has been
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 6: scripted by.
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  Speaker 4: I get it, and I wish you are healing with that,
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 4: miss Now. Thank you for sharing you.
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 7: Miss Now, with everything we have going on right, like
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 7: you know, you're a mother or your wife, you're a grandmother,
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 7: You're doing this show, and you have all these people
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 7: that are using you as a sounding board complaining about
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 7: each other, right, and you're trying to navigate and balance
• 1:20:20
  Speaker 7: all that, and then on top of everything else, helping
• 1:20:22
  Speaker 7: out and being away and being with your son, helping
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 7: out with the baby, your grandbaby two or three times
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 7: a week.
• 1:20:28
  Speaker 3: Do you feel stretched? Do you feel like overwhelmed? Do
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 3: you feel like you have too much on your plate?
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 7: Or is it just like I know, you know, black
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 7: women are used to just putting on the cape and
• 1:20:36
  Speaker 7: just figuring it out.
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 3: But do you ever feel like I'm overwhelmed, like I
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 3: need a break?
• 1:20:41
  Speaker 7: Because it's easy to make it look easy, but I
• 1:20:45
  Speaker 7: would imagine that's a lot to deal.
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 6: With, it is. It can be very stressful. I have
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 6: kind of like broken down. I wasn't always in my world,
• 1:21:04
  Speaker 6: my mother Lord, rest her soul. I wasn't allowed to cry.
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 6: It was your strong sucking up you.
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 2: Got this.
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 6: This season. Hell, all I did was cry, And I
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 6: don't know it was because my mom is gone and
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 6: I'm able to start releasing some things, or because she's
• 1:21:37
  Speaker 6: gone and I don't have her to run to to say, Hey,
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 6: I need help here, I need your advice here. How
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 6: would you handle this? Or as tough as everyone think
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 6: I am. Yeah, my mother was very tough and she
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 6: didn't play when it came to those those young men
• 1:21:56
  Speaker 6: that I'm dealing with now.
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 7: I hope your more as a point of release, not
• 1:22:03
  Speaker 7: not sadness, but to release because you know, it's not
• 1:22:08
  Speaker 7: even I think the world expects women, Black women, the
• 1:22:11
  Speaker 7: heads of their household, the heads of their families, the matriarch,
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 7: to be teflon, to never show sadness or emotion. That's
• 1:22:19
  Speaker 7: not weakness, you know what I mean. And it's and
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 7: you got to put your your mental health first. And
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 7: it's okay to scream like I don't like. That's what
• 1:22:27
  Speaker 7: I'm saying. Always people relying on you and complaining to
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 7: you about each other. That's a lot to you're taking
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 7: on everybody else's stuff.
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 3: Where's your time? Like, where's your time? Where it's about you?
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 3: And are you okay?
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 2: Do you need a break?
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 3: Let me give you a break and not like dump
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 3: all my stuff on you.
• 1:22:42
  Speaker 7: So I hope you So I'm trying to encourage black
• 1:22:45
  Speaker 7: women to take that damn cape off because we put
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 7: on ourselves. We take Friday be I'm a strong black woman. No,
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 7: I'm not saying that anymore, like Nope, I'm weak.
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 3: I need help. I can't do it all anymore because
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 3: there's nothing wrong with that. Hope you know that, you know.
• 1:23:02
  Speaker 1: Care?
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  Speaker 5: Yes, that's why we want you to get that closet.
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 5: Did you get your damn closet in that closet?
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 4: That's what we need to see. We need that closet
• 1:23:11
  Speaker 4: up and rolling. That's what.
• 1:23:14
  Speaker 6: I did. Not get the closet. It's actually been on
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 6: the burner.
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 4: Okay, But we rooted team closet. We root for your closet.
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 4: But and and.
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 1: What what what the world will see later on this
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 1: season because we are we're still filming, believe it or not,
• 1:23:37
  Speaker 1: is the world will see a lot of what now
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 1: is going through. We just sort of scratch the surface
• 1:23:44
  Speaker 1: in terms of what she is going through. But one
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 1: thing I will say is, uh, miss Nell, you are
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 1: an amazing addition to this show, you and your husband
• 1:23:53
  Speaker 1: and your family as well. You know how much I
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 1: love you. I think you are funny. You me and
• 1:24:00
  Speaker 1: me and miss Nell have this fake that she yells
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 1: child at miss Nell yells at me, honey when we
• 1:24:05
  Speaker 1: see each other child I love it.
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 2: But now, miss Nell, you are a firetracker. You are
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 2: definitely listen.
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 1: Like I said, you're a great addition to this show.
• 1:24:16
  Speaker 1: And Claudia you don't know that, but doesn't us. We
• 1:24:20
  Speaker 1: want to miss Neil on the show for many many
• 1:24:22
  Speaker 1: years and she was like, I don't want to do it,
• 1:24:24
  Speaker 1: but she finally said yes a couple of seasons ago,
• 1:24:27
  Speaker 1: and you are fantastic and I.
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 2: Do want you to you know, listen to Claudia too,
• 1:24:35
  Speaker 2: because she is right.
• 1:24:36
  Speaker 1: You know, you are a representation of a lot of
• 1:24:41
  Speaker 1: black mothers who are the sort of the emotional kid
• 1:24:47
  Speaker 1: of the household to where you are there for every
• 1:24:50
  Speaker 1: single body and oftentimes you may feel depleted at the
• 1:24:55
  Speaker 1: end of the day because you gave yourself to everybody.
• 1:24:59
  Speaker 1: And what I don't want you to do is have
• 1:25:01
  Speaker 1: any stress added to you because that could cost some
• 1:25:05
  Speaker 1: health concerns and we all want you to take care
• 1:25:08
  Speaker 1: of yourself. And like Laudia said, it's okay to ask
• 1:25:10
  Speaker 1: for help, and it's okay to say I feel weak today.
• 1:25:14
  Speaker 1: You're not a weak person. You're happy the day of weakness,
• 1:25:18
  Speaker 1: and it's okay to embrace that and to ask for help.
• 1:25:21
  Speaker 1: And I want you to ask for help the same
• 1:25:23
  Speaker 1: way people ask for your health.
• 1:25:26
  Speaker 2: So please take heed to that.
• 1:25:27
  Speaker 3: And it's okay to say no.
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 4: And it's okay to scream. We like it. We actually
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 4: like itree to do that.
• 1:25:42
  Speaker 6: Sometimes that's done out of love. I do not scream
• 1:25:48
  Speaker 6: just to be screaming. I do not yell just to
• 1:25:51
  Speaker 6: be yelling. I usually do it for my compassion of
• 1:25:58
  Speaker 6: I'm trying to get my want to cross to you,
• 1:26:01
  Speaker 6: like I need you to hear me. Now. If I'm
• 1:26:07
  Speaker 6: in a back a boxing match with Latitia Scott, then
• 1:26:11
  Speaker 6: that's different. Most of the time. You know, everybody said
• 1:26:23
  Speaker 6: she's loud, She's yelling and streaming. That's how she does well.
• 1:26:28
  Speaker 6: You know what, guys, I have a lot of children
• 1:26:32
  Speaker 6: and they are adult children, and that's not always easy.
• 1:26:37
  Speaker 6: I do not have the perfect family. Okay, yes, thank you.
• 1:26:41
  Speaker 6: You say they're good looking, they're beautiful, but it's a
• 1:26:44
  Speaker 6: lot of damn headaches coming with being good looking at beautiful.
• 1:26:49
  Speaker 6: It's not easy for them. What's white? What's wrong?
• 1:26:56
  Speaker 3: You are every day.
• 1:27:00
  Speaker 6: About? Like, yeah it is, you know. I sit down,
• 1:27:06
  Speaker 6: even with them as adults, I tell them, this is
• 1:27:10
  Speaker 6: what you need to do, this is how you need
• 1:27:12
  Speaker 6: to move. Do not take this for granted. And then
• 1:27:16
  Speaker 6: they go out there and they fuck up, and it's like,
• 1:27:19
  Speaker 6: here we go. I told you this ship. You didn't listen.
• 1:27:23
  Speaker 6: So that's what gets me to know and wright and
• 1:27:28
  Speaker 6: I go from zero to one hundred because I'll have
• 1:27:31
  Speaker 6: sat down and had these conversations with them. It's not
• 1:27:36
  Speaker 6: I don't have just one child and they're not children.
• 1:27:38
  Speaker 3: Like I said, I don't just have two.
• 1:27:40
  Speaker 6: I just don't have three. And then if you throw
• 1:27:42
  Speaker 6: Lexi in there, that's four and they all have some
• 1:27:46
  Speaker 6: shit going on or that they do that I don't
• 1:27:51
  Speaker 6: agree with. I have to take it as it comes.
• 1:27:54
  Speaker 6: So if that makes me loud and you know, yell
• 1:27:59
  Speaker 6: the hell, I guess that's just that's just what it is.
• 1:28:02
  Speaker 6: I'm not all the time, you know, I do you
• 1:28:05
  Speaker 6: know get korreshed by Fletcher and.
• 1:28:10
  Speaker 4: Like that.
• 1:28:10
  Speaker 6: Of course I didn't get to get thirty one years
• 1:28:13
  Speaker 6: for nothing, thirty one years this year, so and I.
• 1:28:18
  Speaker 5: Want to around the Lance's house at night. He wanted
• 1:28:20
  Speaker 5: you home with him so he get correct.
• 1:28:24
  Speaker 6: He likes my leg to be thrown over.
• 1:28:30
  Speaker 7: All.
• 1:28:33
  Speaker 2: Well, don't don't please your man, baby. We love you,
• 1:28:36
  Speaker 2: miss Now.
• 1:28:37
  Speaker 12: Yes you for coming moving close, just dusting. Hopefully I
• 1:28:43
  Speaker 12: get it, but I did get something else. I don't
• 1:28:46
  Speaker 12: know if I could say.
• 1:28:47
  Speaker 2: It, but no you can't.
• 1:28:50
  Speaker 4: Well can I just tell you see you coming up?
• 1:28:52
  Speaker 4: We'll see it coming up?
• 1:28:54
  Speaker 6: Get it?
• 1:28:55
  Speaker 3: Miss Now. I want to tell you I'm looking at
• 1:28:56
  Speaker 3: the comments this.
• 1:28:57
  Speaker 7: I hope you go back and watch the show tomorrow
• 1:29:00
  Speaker 7: or whenever you get time, just so you can see
• 1:29:02
  Speaker 7: all the love you're getting in the comments.
• 1:29:05
  Speaker 3: People say they want to see a spin off with
• 1:29:07
  Speaker 3: you and your hobby. They love you, they love your energy.
• 1:29:09
  Speaker 7: And I just want to say your hair is super cute,
• 1:29:11
  Speaker 7: like I want to try that yourself, super cute.
• 1:29:14
  Speaker 3: I want you to go back to my week girl.
• 1:29:16
  Speaker 3: Well it's a good ass wig because sometimes you can tell.
• 1:29:18
  Speaker 6: I throw it back and then put it back over
• 1:29:20
  Speaker 6: and push it up.
• 1:29:21
  Speaker 3: I like that.
• 1:29:22
  Speaker 6: Takes me hairstyle.
• 1:29:24
  Speaker 4: That's that.
• 1:29:25
  Speaker 3: That's that bedroom hair.
• 1:29:26
  Speaker 2: Go go in your bedroom.
• 1:29:28
  Speaker 6: You got their room hair right now, Yeah, but I.
• 1:29:31
  Speaker 3: Ain't got none in my bedroom right now.
• 1:29:34
  Speaker 6: No problem in girl, you wait problem? Are you took
• 1:29:38
  Speaker 6: you and already kill you? Make it? Know what to do.
• 1:29:44
  Speaker 3: But check out the comments tomorrow because they I want
• 1:29:46
  Speaker 3: you to see.
• 1:29:46
  Speaker 7: I want you to receive all this love that you're
• 1:29:48
  Speaker 7: getting in people saying take the cap off and put
• 1:29:50
  Speaker 7: yourself first.
• 1:29:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah, So take he to that. Miss now, we love you,
• 1:29:54
  Speaker 2: miss now, thanks for coming.
• 1:29:55
  Speaker 10: On, boob.
• 1:29:56
  Speaker 6: I love y'all too. Thank you so much, callos for
• 1:29:58
  Speaker 6: having me.
• 1:29:59
  Speaker 2: Thanks for we love you booth.
• 1:30:05
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• 1:30:10
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• 1:30:14
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