Latest / Afternoon Tea Podcast / Ep. 127 - Bet On Yourself
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- 0:00SPEAKER_03: What's up, what's up, what's up, yeah.
- 0:07SPEAKER_03: Welcome to the Halo T podcast with a killer.
- 0:13SPEAKER_03: Yeah, time is ball back out.
- 0:16SPEAKER_03: Time my music.
- 0:24SPEAKER_02: I look you.
- 0:26SPEAKER_00: Can you tell us why you have the blazer on though?
- 0:29SPEAKER_03: Don't worry about it, bitch.
- 0:30SPEAKER_03: I know somebody like it.
- 0:35SPEAKER_03: I'm feeling real businessy in this motherfucker.
- 0:38SPEAKER_03: Big business, bitch.
- 0:39SPEAKER_03: I'm feeling I'm feeling like a business woman today.
- 0:42SPEAKER_03: Cause guess what?
- 0:43SPEAKER_03: Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.
- 0:44SPEAKER_03: We gotta get it.
- 0:46SPEAKER_03: Shut up.
- 0:47SPEAKER_03: Let me do my real hair trial.
- 0:48SPEAKER_03: Why can't I have the whole thing?
- 0:49SPEAKER_03: We kill a baby while we sip.
- 0:50SPEAKER_03: Smill and be messy.
- 0:52SPEAKER_03: But first, guess what, guy?
- 0:57SPEAKER_03: What's that?
- 0:59SPEAKER_00: Oh, that's so pretty.
- 1:01SPEAKER_03: We turned six months this way.
- 1:08SPEAKER_03: Our little baby turns our I put the candle in the wrong hole.
- 1:14SPEAKER_03: Pause.
- 1:14SPEAKER_03: But our little baby turns six months today.
- 1:18SPEAKER_03: So let's let's talk about afternoon tea at our six month mark.
- 1:22SPEAKER_03: Oh, we keep a score.
- 1:24SPEAKER_03: No?
- 1:29SPEAKER_02: You ain't putting no stats on here.
- 1:32SPEAKER_02: You don't remember what you did, sis G.
- 1:34SPEAKER_03: Yeah, let me let me let me brag on myself a little bit.
- 1:37SPEAKER_03: Let me brag on myself a little bit.
- 1:38SPEAKER_03: So for those of y'all who were paying attention last year while I was in this transition phase, trying to figure out what was happening next, right?
- 1:50SPEAKER_03: I didn't know what the hell was going on.
- 1:52SPEAKER_03: What a topic take.
- 1:53SPEAKER_03: That's what I'm looking for.
- 1:54SPEAKER_03: I didn't know what the heck was going on.
- 1:58SPEAKER_03: So some of y'all may remember that I was like talking to friends, trying to get support, trying to figure out what to do next.
- 2:05SPEAKER_03: So I was like, I'm just gonna do content.
- 2:08SPEAKER_03: For those of y'all who have been paying attention to me and watching me after, you know, in this transition period, while I was trying to figure out what should I do next?
- 2:16SPEAKER_03: At first I thought I wanted to keep the old thing going.
- 2:18SPEAKER_03: I was like, nah, I just want to close that all the way, start fresh, start new with my own thing.
- 2:25SPEAKER_03: As that was my idea.
- 2:27SPEAKER_03: Yes, I'm gonna keep saying the hoes, I don't give a fuck.
- 2:29SPEAKER_03: I can crank out all these ideas all day long.
- 2:31SPEAKER_03: It's literally what I do.
- 2:33SPEAKER_03: So I was like, nah, let me sit on it.
- 2:35SPEAKER_03: And everybody tried to rush me, friends included, family included, listeners included.
- 2:41SPEAKER_03: Why you ain't such and such doing it?
- 2:43SPEAKER_03: You ain't doing nothing.
- 2:45SPEAKER_03: What you gonna do?
- 2:46SPEAKER_03: And let me just say, I am so, so, so happy that I stuck to my own mind and waited.
- 2:54SPEAKER_03: And afternoon tea was just born on its own.
- 2:56SPEAKER_03: So I am so happy about that.
- 3:00SPEAKER_03: And yes, that is that was a little testimony.
- 3:03SPEAKER_03: Listen to yourself sometime.
- 3:05SPEAKER_03: It's alright to tap in with your people them, but listen to yourself sometime.
- 3:09SPEAKER_03: Anyway, so I'm gonna read this from our comment section that at End Dog91 Left Us.
- 3:16SPEAKER_03: She says, or they said, remember on Lex vlog, which it was really my vlog, but that's okay.
- 3:21SPEAKER_03: Remember on Lex vlog when y'all were all talking about your podcast and how you were unsure of what to do next after the last pod.
- 3:27SPEAKER_03: Anyways, seeing what you've done with this pod is nothing short of amazing.
- 3:31SPEAKER_03: It is so good.
- 3:32SPEAKER_03: I look forward to your videos dropping every Thursday morning.
- 3:35SPEAKER_03: Keep going.
- 3:36SPEAKER_03: Don't stop that pussy, done.
- 3:38SPEAKER_03: Doodle broom.
- 3:40SPEAKER_03: Doodle broom.
- 3:42SPEAKER_03: Doodle broom.
- 3:43SPEAKER_03: Anyways, yes, we was on that live for the people who didn't see it.
- 3:46SPEAKER_03: We was on that live, we were doing a packing party for Lex, and we're gonna we're gonna move on, but I just want to talk about our six months.
- 3:51SPEAKER_03: So we was on the live, we were packing, doing a packing party at Lex's house.
- 3:55SPEAKER_03: She was moved from her apartment to her house, and we were just talking about the business, the industry.
- 3:59SPEAKER_03: It was me, Lex, Drea, and B Lynn.
- 4:02SPEAKER_03: And all of them were like, you need to get to work.
- 4:04SPEAKER_03: You just need to get to work, get back to the studio.
- 4:07SPEAKER_03: This was like what, June, July?
- 4:09SPEAKER_03: So this was like three months-ish after the other podcast had ended.
- 4:13SPEAKER_03: And everybody's message was just get back to work, just post.
- 4:16SPEAKER_03: And I was like, no, I don't fucking feel like it.
- 4:20SPEAKER_03: And but I mean, I don't do shit that I don't want to do.
- 4:23SPEAKER_03: I don't give a fuck.
- 4:24SPEAKER_03: Listen to the lineup I just said.
- 4:25SPEAKER_03: Lex, Dre, and B.
- 4:26SPEAKER_03: Land.
- 4:26SPEAKER_03: Those are absolutely some people I maybe should have been listening to.
- 4:30SPEAKER_03: But I was like, no, I don't care what you bitches say.
- 4:32SPEAKER_03: I don't care if it's 10,000, 20,000 people on this live agreeing with y'all.
- 4:37SPEAKER_03: I don't feel like it.
- 4:39SPEAKER_03: And for once, I'm glad I followed my own mind because I don't know where if I would have tried to keep the old podcast going, if I would have tried to just do something just to be just because other people doing something, I don't know what would have birthed from that.
- 4:54SPEAKER_03: But I do know that sitting down, thinking, taking my time, and listening to myself and following my intuition has birthed afternoon tea podcasts.
- 5:04SPEAKER_03: Over the last six months, we have regained some followers that we lost in the transition.
- 5:10SPEAKER_03: Um, or maybe I don't know if it's the same followers, but we've regained some new uh followers, subscribers.
- 5:15SPEAKER_03: We are pacing really well as far as our averages uh views per week for a new, because this is even though I had the old podcast, this is a brand new, this is an infants.
- 5:26SPEAKER_03: This is a six-month-year-old baby.
- 5:28SPEAKER_03: So I'm really happy for now.
- 5:31SPEAKER_03: I'm very hard on myself.
- 5:32SPEAKER_03: I'm happy for now with the reaction to the podcast, with the interaction from the podcast to support more people.
- 5:38SPEAKER_03: No, I'm not gonna say that, but a lot of people, more people than I would have thought, are very familiar with Afternoon Tea podcast now.
- 5:46SPEAKER_03: Um, and I'm just so happy.
- 5:48SPEAKER_03: I also was very, very, very adamant that I would not have guests for the first six months.
- 5:54SPEAKER_03: I really wanted to plant my feet and do it myself.
- 5:58SPEAKER_03: Now, I do got my studio audience, so I got to thank them for coming every week and talking to me and acting crazy, which was just really by accident.
- 6:05SPEAKER_03: Um, Sharon was just in the audience talking to me when I was recording in the beginning, so we said we might as well just put a mic out there.
- 6:12SPEAKER_03: Um, but I was very, very adamant about planting my feet and giving y'all killer beat without anybody else this time, at least for the first six months.
- 6:20SPEAKER_03: We're gonna get some guests, I promise.
- 6:22SPEAKER_03: Um, but I'm very proud that this is my brainchild.
- 6:25SPEAKER_03: Everything you see here happening for the most part, besides my friends supporting me, doing things in the background that y'all don't see, this is pretty much my brain child.
- 6:33SPEAKER_03: And I'm very proud of it.
- 6:35SPEAKER_03: Um, in these last six months, we've been on Airport, Kevin on stages, uh TV show that's gonna be coming on Tubi.
- 6:44unknown: Yeah.
- 6:46SPEAKER_03: In this six months, we have um had our first live tea activation out of the country.
- 6:55SPEAKER_03: I'm gonna say overseas because it was in Mexico.
- 6:59SPEAKER_03: So we had our first live events, our first tea party in Mexico City.
- 7:06SPEAKER_03: We are now less than a month away from our next tea party within the one year of this show, which will be in summertime shy.
- 7:17SPEAKER_03: We also have been doing press.
- 7:21SPEAKER_03: We've been running around a little bit, um, talking about the pause.
- 7:26SPEAKER_03: Anybody that will listen, we have also been featured on the uh Poor Mind Still Sipping Tour as the host of the fan cam on their sold-out tour.
- 7:37SPEAKER_03: We've been on tour now for a couple of months.
- 7:40SPEAKER_03: And last but not least, we have secured a partnership with Uncle Nearest Whiskey for our tea in Chicago.
- 7:55SPEAKER_03: So, all of this has happened in six months.
- 7:58SPEAKER_03: This would not be possible without y'all watching me go through this very, very long list of things that I've done in the last six months.
- 8:04SPEAKER_03: So we appreciate y'all listening, liking, commenting, subscribing, even your hate comments, your hate watches, whatever you got going on.
- 8:12SPEAKER_03: We appreciate y'all interacting with this podcast, giving us feedback, telling us when someone is, telling us when you fuck with something.
- 8:18SPEAKER_03: Thank you, thank you, thank you.
- 8:21SPEAKER_03: What?
- 8:22SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
- 8:23SPEAKER_03: What you gotta say, girl?
- 8:25SPEAKER_00: Is there anything that you have learned in the last six months?
- 8:29SPEAKER_03: Yes.
- 8:30SPEAKER_03: I doubted myself for way too fucking long.
- 8:35SPEAKER_03: And I'm very disappointed in myself with that, but that's okay.
- 8:38SPEAKER_03: That is a lesson to myself.
- 8:40SPEAKER_03: Bet on your motherfucking self.
- 8:42SPEAKER_03: There is no reason why I, this has nothing to do with anybody else, why I thought that I ever needed a co-host.
- 8:53SPEAKER_03: So I have learned that.
- 8:54SPEAKER_03: I've also learned to calm down a little bit, that it's a journey.
- 8:59SPEAKER_03: I have been, we've already talked about this.
- 9:01SPEAKER_03: I don't want to go back into my numbers, but y'all know I've been around for a minute.
- 9:05SPEAKER_03: And I'm I'm ready.
- 9:06SPEAKER_03: It's my turn, I hope.
- 9:08SPEAKER_01: So I'm ready.
- 9:09SPEAKER_01: What?
- 9:10SPEAKER_01: So you've been in this for almost two decades.
- 9:14SPEAKER_03: Hey, baby.
- 9:15SPEAKER_03: Nobody asked you that.
- 9:17SPEAKER_03: Go ahead.
- 9:19SPEAKER_03: Go on with your story.
- 9:20SPEAKER_01: You've been in this for almost two decades, so you've seen the evolution of podcasts, and it's become a really popular thing so much that like celebrities are now dipping into it where it wasn't like, you know, a thing for them.
- 9:31SPEAKER_01: Like they probably, you know, yes.
- 9:34SPEAKER_01: I guess my question is is like for those who are interested in podting, like, what would what recommendation would you give them?
- 9:42SPEAKER_01: Like, what's a piece of advice that you would offer?
- 9:46SPEAKER_03: This is gonna sound terrible, but everybody does not need to do a podcast.
- 9:52SPEAKER_03: Some people need to explore other things in the podcasting.
- 9:56SPEAKER_03: Maybe you can be behind the camera, maybe you can contribute um creatively in some other space.
- 10:02SPEAKER_03: But that's the first thing.
- 10:03SPEAKER_03: Make sure that you can really pod.
- 10:05SPEAKER_03: That's no shade, no tea.
- 10:07SPEAKER_03: Everybody gotta get their feet wet and get your but I'm not gonna lie, this comes very, very naturally to me.
- 10:13SPEAKER_03: This is not a challenge.
- 10:15SPEAKER_03: The most challenging part about it, anyway, this is not that much of a challenge for me.
- 10:20SPEAKER_03: Is it hard?
- 10:21SPEAKER_03: Yes.
- 10:21SPEAKER_03: I'm not sitting up and acting like it's easy.
- 10:22SPEAKER_03: It's hard, but it's not that much of a heavy lift for me because it's already in me.
- 10:26SPEAKER_03: So that's the first thing.
- 10:27SPEAKER_03: The second thing needs to be be prepared.
- 10:29SPEAKER_03: In the last podcast, I tried to tell the team, hey, this is gonna take at least three years to even start getting attention.
- 10:37SPEAKER_03: And nobody believed me.
- 10:38SPEAKER_03: So the whole three years, everybody was antsy because it takes a long time.
- 10:42SPEAKER_03: You know, not to, this is no shade to them at all.
- 10:45SPEAKER_03: But look at Lex Andrea, they have been killing it for what, seven, eight years, and they just now starting to get their just due.
- 10:51SPEAKER_03: People are just now saying, oh, they got something.
- 10:54SPEAKER_03: What the fuck you mean?
- 10:55SPEAKER_03: They got some.
- 10:55SPEAKER_03: Look at all the things that they've done.
- 10:57SPEAKER_03: So this is not, if you're looking for something, you gonna, you gotta sit in them three listens for a little bit.
- 11:03SPEAKER_03: You gotta sit with them 75 listens for a little bit.
- 11:06SPEAKER_03: And you gotta be serious, you gotta have some money.
- 11:08SPEAKER_03: This is not cheap.
- 11:09SPEAKER_03: You gotta pay for airtime, equipment, set, da da da da da da da.
- 11:14SPEAKER_03: Um if you're a woman, it's even worse because you gotta come with your makeup and hair.
- 11:17SPEAKER_03: You can't just throw on, well, it's not my style to just throw on some and pod.
- 11:22SPEAKER_03: So buckle up, as with anything else, and get ready to do the work.
- 11:26SPEAKER_03: And for me, me personally, I'm not here for entertainment purposes only, bitch.
- 11:32SPEAKER_03: I want some motherfucking money.
- 11:33SPEAKER_03: These motherfuckers is getting multi-million dollar deals from podcasting, bitch.
- 11:39SPEAKER_03: No, that's right.
- 11:39SPEAKER_03: People are getting, Gilly and them, I think, got like 30 or 40 million dollars to podcast.
- 11:47SPEAKER_03: So this is a business.
- 11:49SPEAKER_03: This is not, for me, it's not just fun.
- 11:52SPEAKER_03: I'm not sitting here, I love y'all dearly.
- 11:54SPEAKER_03: I love y'all, but I am paying to be here and talk to y'all.
- 11:58SPEAKER_03: So be ready.
- 11:59SPEAKER_03: My point is be ready to think about it as a business from day one.
- 12:03SPEAKER_03: That's the best thing you can do for yourself.
- 12:04SPEAKER_03: Don't try to figure the business out later.
- 12:06SPEAKER_03: No.
- 12:07SPEAKER_03: From day one, think about this like opening a bar or whatever the case may be because you're finna pay some money for a long time until you get your foot in.
- 12:16SPEAKER_01: So Well, congratulations to you.
- 12:18SPEAKER_03: On the sixth month! I want to say one more thing and we can move on.
- 12:24SPEAKER_03: We've been on here for 13 minutes.
- 12:25SPEAKER_03: Darn.
- 12:25SPEAKER_03: I'm gonna say one more thing.
- 12:27SPEAKER_03: None of this would be possible without sharing.
- 12:28SPEAKER_03: I know y'all hear me giving Sharon a hard time.
- 12:30SPEAKER_03: I'm in the comments giving Sharon a hard time.
- 12:32SPEAKER_03: I'm always saying that it's on the card.
- 12:34SPEAKER_03: I didn't write it, whatever the case may be.
- 12:37SPEAKER_03: Sharon runs high maintenance.
- 12:39SPEAKER_03: I mean, what is this?
- 12:41SPEAKER_03: Well, she ran.
- 12:42SPEAKER_03: No, but to that point, she ran that one too.
- 12:44SPEAKER_03: She matter of fact, let me go back.
- 12:47SPEAKER_03: Y'all didn't start hearing about high maintenance until Sharon came along.
- 12:54SPEAKER_03: There was a huge, am I lying?
- 12:56SPEAKER_03: There was a huge void in high maintenance before Sharon became a part of that team.
- 13:03SPEAKER_03: We ain't started going viral.
- 13:04SPEAKER_03: You ain't even see our clips on Twitter.
- 13:06SPEAKER_03: If you think I'm lying, you can go back.
- 13:07SPEAKER_03: Ain't nothing deleted.
- 13:09SPEAKER_03: Y'all can see the growth.
- 13:10SPEAKER_03: People didn't start subscribing.
- 13:12SPEAKER_03: We, whatever.
- 13:12SPEAKER_03: You can see the growth in high maintenance.
- 13:15SPEAKER_03: You can tell if you just go look on when Sharon came aboard and when she wasn't aboard.
- 13:19SPEAKER_03: And that has just transferred or maybe even amplified as we have switched to afternoon tea.
- 13:25SPEAKER_03: So none of this will be possible without Sharon.
- 13:27SPEAKER_03: So thank you so much, Sharon, for all that you do that nobody sees.
- 13:32SPEAKER_03: It goes unnoticed, maybe to other people, but it's not unnoticed to me.
- 13:35SPEAKER_03: So thank you, Sharon, for all that you do for afternoon tea.
- 13:39SPEAKER_03: Paul.
- 13:40SPEAKER_03: And thank you, Dwayne, for all that you've done today.
- 13:41SPEAKER_03: All right, let's get to the motherfucking tea, bitch, because I'm actually pretty thirsty.
- 13:45SPEAKER_03: So today I'm just drinking iced tea, baby.
- 13:48SPEAKER_03: This is uh unsweet H E B T.
- 13:50SPEAKER_03: For all you people who got something to sell about uh unsweet tea, I don't care.
- 13:53SPEAKER_03: Now, normally I got a lemon, but I don't know what no lemons at.
- 13:56SPEAKER_03: And I just walk my ass in this house literally from the airport.
- 13:59SPEAKER_03: I'm fresh off the plane from seeing Dwayne.
- 14:02SPEAKER_03: Um the barbs gonna get there.
- 14:05SPEAKER_03: Anyways, uh, and I like a sweet and love or two in my tea, and that's it.
- 14:10SPEAKER_03: This is how I drink my iced tea.
- 14:11SPEAKER_03: If you're gonna judge me, I don't care.
- 14:13SPEAKER_03: But if you gang gang, leave me a comment.
- 14:16SPEAKER_03: Tell me how you like your cold tea.
- 14:18SPEAKER_03: Do y'all like tea?
- 14:19SPEAKER_03: Cold tea?
- 14:20SPEAKER_00: Mm-hmm.
- 14:20SPEAKER_00: Let me bring in cold tea recommendations as well.
- 14:22SPEAKER_00: Did you already tell us why you have the blazer on?
- 14:26SPEAKER_00: Because it's big business going on today, bitch.
- 14:29SPEAKER_03: We had six months.
- 14:31SPEAKER_03: Shit, don't ask me no more.
- 14:33SPEAKER_03: Actually, I didn't have nothing else to put on.
- 14:35SPEAKER_03: I just came in this house from the Apple and from C and Jay-Z.
- 14:38SPEAKER_03: So y'all know that's what I want to talk about, baby.
- 14:40SPEAKER_03: But first of all, y'all can follow the show.
- 14:42SPEAKER_03: Afternoon Tea is available on all podcast platforms, YouTube, Spotify, Apple, etc.
- 14:46SPEAKER_03: Follow us on Instagram and TikTok at Afternoon Tea Pod and Facebook at Afternoon Tea Podcast.
- 14:52SPEAKER_03: Please, friends, like, comment, share, and subscribe.
- 14:55SPEAKER_03: Now let's have a little tea party.
- 15:00SPEAKER_03: I'm supposed to do the I was supposed to do the ketchup with killing.
- 15:09SPEAKER_03: Anyways, uh, no shade all T.
- 15:12SPEAKER_03: Kill him at Jay-Z.
- 15:13SPEAKER_03: Well, kinda, that's what the card said.
- 15:15SPEAKER_03: I didn't say it, baby.
- 15:16SPEAKER_03: Now, if I tell y'all that Jay-Z pointed at me when uh when he was rapping, y'all gonna think I'm he pointed at me, y'all.
- 15:23SPEAKER_03: I'm telling y'all.
- 15:24SPEAKER_03: I'm telling y'all.
- 15:25SPEAKER_00: Okay, you crack girl.
- 15:28SPEAKER_00: Y'all don't believe me.
- 15:29SPEAKER_00: I believe that.
- 15:31SPEAKER_00: Yes, I believe you believe me.
- 15:32SPEAKER_00: Can you show us the gesture, please?
- 15:35SPEAKER_00: Oh, what'd he do that for?
- 15:37SPEAKER_03: I know killer, y'all know killer, huh?
- 15:39SPEAKER_03: Y'all know he said that before, right?
- 15:41SPEAKER_00: Okay.
- 15:41SPEAKER_00: He was talking about you.
- 15:42SPEAKER_03: Yes.
- 15:43SPEAKER_03: Who else would he be?
- 15:44SPEAKER_03: Okay, I'm serious.
- 15:45SPEAKER_03: What other killer will he be talking about?
- 15:48SPEAKER_03: Who?
- 15:49SPEAKER_00: His mama.
- 15:50SPEAKER_00: Lil Mom.
- 15:51SPEAKER_00: Oh, Lilma.
- 15:52SPEAKER_00: Okay.
- 15:52SPEAKER_03: Okay.
- 15:53SPEAKER_03: Anyways.
- 15:55SPEAKER_03: Let me tell y'all something.
- 15:56SPEAKER_03: If y'all wasn't at Hall of Chella this weekend, y'all just missed one of the best weekends in Black Houston.
- 16:04SPEAKER_03: Okay.
- 16:04SPEAKER_03: No, I'm serious.
- 16:06SPEAKER_03: This was the most nigotastic weekend I ever.
- 16:11SPEAKER_03: I don't know how Jay-Z what's the word retains his black audience so well.
- 16:19SPEAKER_00: I was just gonna ask, was it what was the crowd like?
- 16:22SPEAKER_00: Was it mixed?
- 16:23SPEAKER_00: Was it diverse?
- 16:24SPEAKER_03: Of course there were other races there.
- 16:25SPEAKER_03: Shout out to the other races being there, but but you know, as some of the people.
- 16:30SPEAKER_03: This was a black event.
- 16:32SPEAKER_03: And we had a few visitors.
- 16:33SPEAKER_03: And the visitors that was there, that I was around, they were pretty nice, pretty whatever.
- 16:36SPEAKER_03: So shout out to them.
- 16:37SPEAKER_03: But this was for the the culture, baby.
- 16:40SPEAKER_03: This was for us.
- 16:41SPEAKER_01: For Marcy projects.
- 16:42SPEAKER_03: Yes, this was for us.
- 16:43SPEAKER_03: This was nothing short of nigga testing.
- 16:47SPEAKER_03: That's all we were doing.
- 16:48SPEAKER_00: Tell us the details.
- 16:48SPEAKER_00: What night did you go?
- 16:50SPEAKER_03: I went the second night, which I feel that we got gypped.
- 16:53SPEAKER_03: I'm gonna talk about that in a little bit.
- 16:54SPEAKER_03: But I went the second night, but the energy, not even just the concert.
- 16:58SPEAKER_03: Before I even get to the concert, the energy from the airport, you could just tell everybody was here for this concert.
- 17:05SPEAKER_03: It was given like, you know how have y'all been to Isis B?
- 17:07SPEAKER_03: You know the plane, just black women cutting up.
- 17:11SPEAKER_03: It was just black people everywhere with Yankees gear on, Jay-Z merch on, old ass merch, new merch.
- 17:19SPEAKER_03: The energy was just crazy.
- 17:21SPEAKER_03: Everybody was really there to have a good time.
- 17:24SPEAKER_03: Everybody was just the camaraderie, it was just it was just crazy.
- 17:27SPEAKER_03: The energy was just insane.
- 17:29SPEAKER_03: I I have not seen anything like that in a long time.
- 17:32SPEAKER_03: Um, I really feel like it was whole like it was a festival.
- 17:35SPEAKER_03: I think this should be a yearly thing.
- 17:39SPEAKER_03: Uh it's very wishful thinking.
- 17:40SPEAKER_00: Do you think a tour is coming?
- 17:42SPEAKER_03: Yes.
- 17:43SPEAKER_00: Yes.
- 17:44SPEAKER_01: Also, like, can you like talk about like the can you talk about like how they painted the city jet like cove?
- 17:52SPEAKER_03: Like it was Yeah, so before the even weekend of the concert, they did that thing that I think you're talking about when they did the subway, they did the pop-up.
- 17:59SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
- 18:00SPEAKER_03: They painted the subways black, put his m music, you riding the subway, the music in there, da da da da.
- 18:06SPEAKER_03: They had pop-ups all around the city, all throughout the whole weekend.
- 18:09SPEAKER_03: I think they had just like separate pop-up shops.
- 18:12SPEAKER_03: Not even at the concert where you could buy merch that was open until 2 a.m.
- 18:16unknown: Yeah.
- 18:16SPEAKER_03: All weekend.
- 18:18SPEAKER_03: Now I know somebody that spent a thousand dollars on merch.
- 18:21SPEAKER_03: Let me tell y'all something.
- 18:22SPEAKER_03: Y'all a lot more wealthy than y'all want to let on.
- 18:24SPEAKER_03: Because I don't got a thousand dollars for t-shirts for nobody.
- 18:27SPEAKER_03: I love you so much, please.
- 18:29SPEAKER_03: I'm your number one fan.
- 18:30SPEAKER_03: But the book for me has to stop somewhere.
- 18:33SPEAKER_03: I'm not buying a$200 t-shirt or a hoodie.
- 18:36SPEAKER_03: Now that's just me.
- 18:37SPEAKER_03: But I don't matter because the merch lines was down the block.
- 18:41SPEAKER_03: They was buying that shit.
- 18:42SPEAKER_03: Oh, they was buying it the fuck up.
- 18:43SPEAKER_03: Now, I ain't gonna lie, the bootleg man had a badass Rockefeller jersey.
- 18:47SPEAKER_03: What I told you.
- 18:48SPEAKER_03: What I told you.
- 18:49SPEAKER_03: You gotta go to the bootleg niggas afterwards.
- 18:51SPEAKER_03: I saw him on the street and then I didn't see him no more.
- 18:53SPEAKER_03: But he had a badass Rockefeller jersey.
- 18:55SPEAKER_03: Uh soccer, I mean baseball jersey, baby.
- 18:58SPEAKER_03: That motherfucker was clean.
- 18:59SPEAKER_03: I if you're watching this, I need it.
- 19:01SPEAKER_03: But yeah, so the whole weekend was about Jay-Z.
- 19:05SPEAKER_03: I'm sorry.
- 19:06SPEAKER_03: The whole weekend.
- 19:07SPEAKER_03: I don't even know what else happened in New York this weekend.
- 19:09SPEAKER_03: It was other stuff happening, but I, of course, it's New York.
- 19:11SPEAKER_03: But I don't know what the fuck else was going on.
- 19:13SPEAKER_03: This is all I was worried about.
- 19:14SPEAKER_03: So this the card says, was this your first time at Yankee Stadium?
- 19:17SPEAKER_03: How was the venue?
- 19:18SPEAKER_03: Were there any delays at your show?
- 19:20SPEAKER_03: There were not any delays in my show.
- 19:22SPEAKER_03: In fact, I missed the first fucking two songs.
- 19:24SPEAKER_00: So I missed You missed the opening.
- 19:26SPEAKER_03: I did.
- 19:28unknown: Okay.
- 19:28SPEAKER_03: It was very unorganized.
- 19:30SPEAKER_03: So maybe there were some delays.
- 19:31SPEAKER_03: It was very unorganized.
- 19:33SPEAKER_03: Well, see, it's confusing because the first night he went out at 9.30.
- 19:36SPEAKER_03: So that's what I had in my mind.
- 19:38SPEAKER_03: Okay, he'll be out at 9.30.
- 19:40SPEAKER_03: But on my night, he came out at like 9.15.
- 19:42SPEAKER_03: I was right there.
- 19:43SPEAKER_03: I was with Kim, and Kim tried to argument.
- 19:45SPEAKER_03: Now he is not performing.
- 19:46SPEAKER_03: I'm like, friend, I know my GOAT.
- 19:48SPEAKER_03: There's a video playing.
- 19:49SPEAKER_03: That means he's coming next.
- 19:51SPEAKER_03: So I don't know what the opening video looked like.
- 19:53SPEAKER_03: When I walked in, he was doing Izzo.
- 19:55SPEAKER_03: So that's like two or three songs deep into the album.
- 19:59SPEAKER_03: So I missed the intro.
- 20:01SPEAKER_03: It is basically you're sitting outside.
- 20:03SPEAKER_03: It's hot as fuck.
- 20:04SPEAKER_03: I'm glad I had my fan.
- 20:06SPEAKER_01: I mean it's very intentional because like normally they go to Bar plays or something.
- 20:11SPEAKER_03: Oh yeah, I think it is very intentional.
- 20:14SPEAKER_03: I think he won because from the stadium you can see like the train going by.
- 20:17SPEAKER_03: He mentioned that while he was on stage.
- 20:19SPEAKER_03: Like, this is some real New York shit.
- 20:21SPEAKER_03: Like, I love to just watch the train, just you know, watch the train.
- 20:25SPEAKER_03: Like it makes me feel.
- 20:26SPEAKER_03: Um, so but yeah, I mean I didn't drink or anything, so I don't know about drink prices, but I did see that they have like uh the concessions will put it so Timberland boots, like the cart cartons would look like Timberland boots uh that said Yankees on it.
- 20:40SPEAKER_03: It was real New York.
- 20:42SPEAKER_03: It was real.
- 20:43SPEAKER_03: This was the it was very New York.
- 20:46SPEAKER_03: It was there's no doubt about it that this weekend the greatest place on earth to be was New York City.
- 20:52SPEAKER_03: I can't even lie.
- 20:53SPEAKER_03: Um my favorite point of my concert was he had Pharrell come out and they did all of their songs together.
- 21:00SPEAKER_03: I didn't realize how many hits these motherfuckers got.
- 21:03SPEAKER_03: They had like 10 bangers back to back to back.
- 21:06SPEAKER_03: So that was my favorite part of my concert.
- 21:10SPEAKER_03: Now, um, it says did I see any famous people in the audience?
- 21:14SPEAKER_03: I saw people that are famous to me, like I think June Ambrose.
- 21:18SPEAKER_03: Yes.
- 21:19SPEAKER_03: Um I don't know her name.
- 21:21SPEAKER_03: I'm so sorry, baby.
- 21:22SPEAKER_03: Charge to my head, not my heart, I'm an auntie.
- 21:24SPEAKER_03: The young lady from the Rory and Mall podcast.
- 21:28SPEAKER_00: I don't know her name, but um, shout out to her.
- 21:30SPEAKER_03: You know what I'm talking about?
- 21:31SPEAKER_03: Uh-huh.
- 21:32SPEAKER_03: Yeah, I really like her too.
- 21:33SPEAKER_03: She brings a different element to this show.
- 21:34SPEAKER_03: She be wrangling them knuckleheads up.
- 21:35SPEAKER_03: I think her name is like not.
- 21:36SPEAKER_03: I should know this.
- 21:37SPEAKER_03: I'm in her.
- 21:39SPEAKER_00: Sorry we don't know your name.
- 21:40SPEAKER_03: Yeah, I'm so sorry.
- 21:41SPEAKER_03: We're gon', yeah.
- 21:41SPEAKER_03: I'm so, so, so sorry.
- 21:42SPEAKER_00: Well, the special guest was a besides Pharrell.
- 21:45SPEAKER_03: Eminem.
- 21:46unknown: Okay.
- 21:47SPEAKER_00: I'm sorry to hear that.
- 21:49SPEAKER_03: So let me get to that.
- 21:50SPEAKER_03: Jay-Z, you got me so fucked up, bitch.
- 21:53SPEAKER_03: If I I don't give a fuck, if I go to London or Paris and you bring out some motherfucking Eminem, bitch, do it look like I want to see fucking lose your.
- 22:02SPEAKER_03: I'm finna lose.
- 22:03SPEAKER_03: I'm finna lose some of my motherfucking foot in your hand.
- 22:06SPEAKER_02: Farm spaghetti, nigga.
- 22:08SPEAKER_03: Bro.
- 22:09SPEAKER_01: Slim and shady.
- 22:10SPEAKER_02: Slim shady bitch.
- 22:12SPEAKER_02: What the fuck that got to do with you or New York?
- 22:17SPEAKER_03: I was so pissed the fuck off.
- 22:18SPEAKER_03: I'm telling you.
- 22:20SPEAKER_03: I am pissed.
- 22:21SPEAKER_03: Now that out of everything this weekend, that pissed me off.
- 22:24SPEAKER_03: Let's talk about it.
- 22:25SPEAKER_03: So the first night.
- 22:26SPEAKER_00: Beyonce was at the first night.
- 22:27SPEAKER_00: Hold on.
- 22:28SPEAKER_03: Beyonce opened the first night.
- 22:30SPEAKER_03: Blue Ivy was playing the fucking piano in the band.
- 22:33SPEAKER_03: Nas came out.
- 22:35SPEAKER_03: Nas.
- 22:36SPEAKER_03: These motherfuckers done been beefing.
- 22:38SPEAKER_03: Nas came.
- 22:39SPEAKER_03: I don't care.
- 22:40SPEAKER_03: Ooh.
- 22:40SPEAKER_03: Nas came out.
- 22:42SPEAKER_03: Um, who else was there?
- 22:44SPEAKER_03: Alicia Keys.
- 22:45SPEAKER_03: I'm missing something.
- 22:47SPEAKER_03: Anyway, that's enough right there.
- 22:49SPEAKER_00: For the first night.
- 22:50SPEAKER_03: Second night, fucking Eminem.
- 22:52SPEAKER_00: And for real.
- 22:53SPEAKER_03: And you niggas was in there.
- 22:55SPEAKER_03: They was singing lose yourself, bitch.
- 22:58SPEAKER_03: Like it was a motherfucking national anthem.
- 23:02SPEAKER_03: Really?
- 23:03SPEAKER_00: I was looking around like y'all dead ass.
- 23:06SPEAKER_00: So you ain't rap not one line.
- 23:07SPEAKER_00: No.
- 23:09SPEAKER_01: What you say?
- 23:09SPEAKER_01: Are they what?
- 23:10SPEAKER_03: Are y'all slow?
- 23:12SPEAKER_03: I don't know.
- 23:12SPEAKER_03: Are y'all dead ass?
- 23:13SPEAKER_03: Oh, yes.
- 23:14SPEAKER_03: Are y'all dead ass?
- 23:15SPEAKER_03: Like what?
- 23:16SPEAKER_03: They was serious, word for word.
- 23:18SPEAKER_03: The fire was shooting out.
- 23:19SPEAKER_03: I'm like, these niggas is really happy to see this white boy.
- 23:23SPEAKER_03: Then out of all the songs, you should have done Superman or something, bitch.
- 23:25SPEAKER_03: You know that's what the song of Black People like, bitch.
- 23:29SPEAKER_03: Yes, they performed Renegade, so that was cool, but uh he I that ain't no special guest to me.
- 23:35SPEAKER_03: I didn't give a fuck about seeing no Eminem.
- 23:37SPEAKER_03: We could have rapped Eminem boys.
- 23:39SPEAKER_03: He could have about out be us, say, bitch.
- 23:40SPEAKER_03: If that's what you spent the budget on the second night was Eminem, you done pissed me the fuck off.
- 23:45SPEAKER_03: I would have took Lil' Mama and I'm not joking.
- 23:48SPEAKER_02: I'm not joking.
- 23:52SPEAKER_03: That was a third night.
- 23:54SPEAKER_03: So let's talk about the third night.
- 23:55SPEAKER_03: Last night.
- 23:56SPEAKER_03: Now it was a four-hour delay.
- 23:58SPEAKER_03: I went down to the stadium.
- 24:00SPEAKER_03: I had people offering me tickets, but they locked all the doors.
- 24:07SPEAKER_00: Yeah, well, well, did we get an update on what that was about?
- 24:10SPEAKER_03: A security breach.
- 24:11SPEAKER_03: The people tried to bum rush the door.
- 24:13SPEAKER_00: Okay, got it.
- 24:14SPEAKER_00: After being delayed for hours, right?
- 24:16SPEAKER_00: That's when they start bum rushing.
- 24:17SPEAKER_03: No, these people just crazy.
- 24:18SPEAKER_00: Oh, okay.
- 24:19SPEAKER_03: Um, that's what caused them to shut the doors out.
- 24:22SPEAKER_03: They tried to bum rush first.
- 24:24SPEAKER_03: It was so many different conspiracies going around.
- 24:27SPEAKER_03: At one point I heard Obama was there, so the Secret Service That's not far-fetched.
- 24:33SPEAKER_03: Black people just make shit up.
- 24:35SPEAKER_03: We're making shit up.
- 24:37SPEAKER_03: Well, who told you Obama was here?
- 24:39SPEAKER_00: That's not far-fetched.
- 24:42SPEAKER_03: That is very far-fetched.
- 24:44SPEAKER_03: And he would be in, he would be coming in here in the middle of y'all coming.
- 24:49SPEAKER_03: When a president is going somewhere, they shut that shit down.
- 24:53SPEAKER_03: We wouldn't have been standing right outside of Yankee Stadium if Obama was going through the side door.
- 24:57SPEAKER_03: That just wouldn't have been happening.
- 24:58SPEAKER_03: But anyway, that and even I started telling people, girl, I heard Obama died.
- 25:04SPEAKER_03: So anyway, so I didn't go to this to the third night because, and I could have, but it looked like then people had started saying they're thinking about rescheduling, just like basically if you have a ticket for tonight, it'll be good whenever they read.
- 25:17SPEAKER_03: So it was just all these things going around.
- 25:19SPEAKER_03: Chaos.
- 25:20SPEAKER_03: Excuse me.
- 25:20SPEAKER_03: And people was getting more rowdy.
- 25:22SPEAKER_03: So I was getting nervous, honestly, because I'm like, it ain't nothing police.
- 25:25SPEAKER_03: Like, it might be like a a stampede or a riot, especially because they had already did it.
- 25:30SPEAKER_03: So I was like, let me get the fuck out the Bronx.
- 25:33SPEAKER_03: But anyway, so I'm like in a bar, da da da.
- 25:36SPEAKER_03: My friend, like, you still coming?
- 25:37SPEAKER_03: And then I I was with another friend, so then they only had one ticket.
- 25:40SPEAKER_03: I didn't want to leave my friend, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
- 25:44SPEAKER_03: Let's just get to the guest list.
- 25:46SPEAKER_03: Rihanna, Beyonce, Pharrell again, the clips, Jada and Fat Joe, Alicia Keys.
- 25:54SPEAKER_00: He did the second night soul.
- 25:56SPEAKER_03: Tiana Taylor.
- 25:57SPEAKER_03: Eminem.
- 25:58SPEAKER_00: That's crazy.
- 25:59SPEAKER_03: Eminem.
- 26:01SPEAKER_03: I'll never forgive you.
- 26:03SPEAKER_03: I'll never forgive my GOAT for this.
- 26:05SPEAKER_03: I came all the way from Houston.
- 26:06SPEAKER_03: I'm not gonna talk about the ungodly amount of money I spent on my actual ticket.
- 26:10SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 26:11SPEAKER_03: I had me an outfit.
- 26:13SPEAKER_03: Let me talk about my outfit.
- 26:14SPEAKER_03: You know what I need to give up?
- 26:16SPEAKER_03: I'm just finna give it up.
- 26:17SPEAKER_03: It's not in my ministry.
- 26:18SPEAKER_03: I'm not a sporty girl.
- 26:20SPEAKER_03: I don't.
- 26:21SPEAKER_03: I tried to wear a sporty outfit and it just did not work.
- 26:24SPEAKER_03: I put it on right before the comp when we were sitting.
- 26:27SPEAKER_03: I was like, I don't want to wear this shit.
- 26:28SPEAKER_03: And then I ended up wearing a floor-length gown.
- 26:30SPEAKER_03: And yes, I mean a gown.
- 26:32SPEAKER_03: And I was very comfortable.
- 26:34SPEAKER_03: And that's me.
- 26:35SPEAKER_03: That's what I felt good in.
- 26:38SPEAKER_03: And I just need to accept that and move on.
- 26:42SPEAKER_03: I don't, I'm not, I don't.
- 26:44SPEAKER_03: I put my sneakers on that I was supposed to wear.
- 26:47SPEAKER_03: How do y'all walk around with y'all feet in them shoes all day?
- 26:50SPEAKER_03: I can't do it.
- 26:52SPEAKER_03: It's just not my thing.
- 26:53SPEAKER_03: So anyway, so I end up with the cursor in the floor.
- 26:55SPEAKER_01: I think the Elsa would be proud of you.
- 26:57SPEAKER_03: You think so?
- 26:58SPEAKER_03: I hope so.
- 26:58SPEAKER_03: I hope she would be.
- 27:03SPEAKER_03: She really could have came out and sung upgrade you.
- 27:05SPEAKER_03: Like, she needs her ass beat for that.
- 27:06SPEAKER_03: Because you were sitting back there.
- 27:08SPEAKER_03: You was right there.
- 27:08SPEAKER_03: Brushing his hand shit.
- 27:14SPEAKER_03: Am I lying?
- 27:15SPEAKER_03: You know she brushed his hair before he went out there.
- 27:18SPEAKER_00: No, no, I love you so much.
- 27:19SPEAKER_00: You do not love that man that much.
- 27:20SPEAKER_03: I love me some Jay-Z.
- 27:24SPEAKER_03: Girl.
- 27:26SPEAKER_03: Anyways, I wonder what they was doing back there, though.
- 27:28SPEAKER_03: What y'all think they was doing back there during the delay?
- 27:33SPEAKER_03: Y'all think they was cussing people out?
- 27:34SPEAKER_03: Like, y'all better get this shit over.
- 27:37SPEAKER_00: Cuss people out for what?
- 27:38SPEAKER_00: It's nothing they can do.
- 27:40SPEAKER_03: Bro, celebrities were locked outside.
- 27:43SPEAKER_01: I feel like I can see Beyonce taking control of like not the entire backstage, but like certain details and like running it like on her man's behalf.
- 27:53SPEAKER_01: Like that's what that's what I would like to picture.
- 27:55SPEAKER_01: Like, y'all need to do this, you need to do this.
- 27:58SPEAKER_01: Because she's such a like, you know what I'm saying?
- 27:59SPEAKER_03: Let me tell you, Wale was outside.
- 28:01SPEAKER_00: Rihanna was outside.
- 28:03SPEAKER_03: ASAP Rocky, as my mama say, was outside with Rocky the baby.
- 28:08SPEAKER_03: She calls him ASAP Rocky.
- 28:11SPEAKER_03: I'm like, mama, it's ASAP Rocky.
- 28:13SPEAKER_03: Whatever.
- 28:14SPEAKER_03: ASAP.
- 28:14SPEAKER_03: Okay, so ASAP Rocky.
- 28:17SPEAKER_03: Rocky the baby, Chris Rock, Sedge the Entertainer, Charlamagne, Charlotte McGay.
- 28:23SPEAKER_03: All these people was outside.
- 28:24SPEAKER_03: Couldn't know.
- 28:25SPEAKER_03: It don't matter who you was.
- 28:28SPEAKER_03: You was outside for hours.
- 28:32SPEAKER_00: I'm sorry that happened to you, friend.
- 28:34SPEAKER_00: You just knew you were going to get Beyonce too.
- 28:38SPEAKER_03: It's no shade.
- 28:39SPEAKER_03: I'm not trying to be funny.
- 28:41SPEAKER_03: I know how this is going to sound.
- 28:42SPEAKER_03: This is a wild statement I'm about to say.
- 28:45SPEAKER_03: I could have done without Beyonce.
- 28:47SPEAKER_03: Because I've seen Beyonce and Jay-Z together so many times.
- 28:52SPEAKER_03: But to miss the resurgence of Rihanna is unforgivable.
- 28:56SPEAKER_03: It's extremely unforgivable.
- 28:59SPEAKER_03: But Beyoncé, you pissed me off because I know you was already backstage.
- 29:02SPEAKER_03: If you don't put on your little Yankees fitting and bring your ass out, bring your third what French chicken eating boudin in the parking lot, eating ass out there, goddamn backstage.
- 29:11SPEAKER_03: And home skip or motherfucking see.
- 29:13SPEAKER_03: You could have done something.
- 29:15SPEAKER_02: I love Papa's chicken.
- 29:17SPEAKER_03: Something burnt.
- 29:19SPEAKER_01: Boudin in the parking lot.
- 29:20SPEAKER_03: So, anyways, let's move.
- 29:22SPEAKER_03: Okay.
- 29:23SPEAKER_03: Y'all tell me if y'all was at the concert.
- 29:24SPEAKER_03: If you wish you were there that y'all stream it, how did y'all feel about it?
- 29:28SPEAKER_03: They're going to be in LA, London, Paris.
- 29:30SPEAKER_03: Is anybody going to any more of the shows?
- 29:32SPEAKER_03: Tell us all about it in the comments.
- 29:34SPEAKER_03: Let's move on.
- 29:35SPEAKER_03: Let's keep our tea party going.
- 29:37SPEAKER_03: Stefan got a weird case.
- 29:38SPEAKER_03: Why is he around?
- 29:39SPEAKER_03: It's what the car said.
- 29:40SPEAKER_03: It's not what I said.
- 29:41SPEAKER_03: Stefan Diggs is currently involved in an ongoing civil defamation lawsuit with an accuser who previously alleged that Diggs drugged and assaulted him at his Maryland home in May 2023.
- 29:51SPEAKER_03: Diggs sued for defamation and the accuser countersued.
- 29:55SPEAKER_03: So boom.
- 29:56SPEAKER_03: Basically, allegedly, Stefan wanted Chris.
- 29:58SPEAKER_03: He said no, so gave him a Molly.
- 30:01SPEAKER_03: And he turned you down a second time.
- 30:03SPEAKER_03: Then you threatened to release messages.
- 30:05SPEAKER_03: So you sent your brother to shut him up.
- 30:07SPEAKER_03: Your brother robs him for over 100K.
- 30:09SPEAKER_03: He sues your brother wins.
- 30:10SPEAKER_03: Now he files over 100 pages of messages stating how you will harass him.
- 30:14SPEAKER_03: No shade.
- 30:14SPEAKER_03: What does Chris do?
- 30:15SPEAKER_03: How does he have$100,000 for them to steal?
- 30:18SPEAKER_00: Chris was the I think design like the what's the not what's it called?
- 30:23SPEAKER_00: The people that address you.
- 30:25SPEAKER_03: Stylus?
- 30:26SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
- 30:27SPEAKER_03: His stylus?
- 30:29SPEAKER_00: A stylus.
- 30:29SPEAKER_00: I don't think.
- 30:30SPEAKER_02: Oh, okay.
- 30:31SPEAKER_00: And correct me if I'm wrong in the comments, please.
- 30:35SPEAKER_02: Okay.
- 30:36SPEAKER_00: Um that's the part that stood out to you that he had a hundred K to steal.
- 30:43SPEAKER_03: Yes.
- 30:46SPEAKER_03: Ah you know I'm always looking at a number.
- 30:50SPEAKER_00: It's how did he got a hundred thousand titles?
- 30:52SPEAKER_00: I know that's right.
- 30:54SPEAKER_03: He got a hundred braces of text messages too.
- 30:57SPEAKER_03: I mean, I don't know what's going on.
- 30:59SPEAKER_03: Um I think what's gonna happen with this case is people are gonna overshadow this about Stefan being gay more than the allegations.
- 31:11SPEAKER_03: I don't know what's going on, but Stefan, you just always in something.
- 31:16SPEAKER_00: It's just it's becoming a lot.
- 31:19SPEAKER_00: It's been a lot, actually.
- 31:22SPEAKER_03: What be going on?
- 31:24SPEAKER_03: Just all these children, these illegitimate the kids, not illegitimate, these w you know what I'm trying to say.
- 31:31SPEAKER_03: I'm just sick of men thinking it's cute to litter kids around.
- 31:35SPEAKER_03: And I'm kinda sick of women participating in it.
- 31:39SPEAKER_03: It's just unnecessary.
- 31:40SPEAKER_03: I've already talked about this before, but it's just unnecessary.
- 31:43SPEAKER_03: Then the chef sued you, even though whatever.
- 31:49SPEAKER_00: Now is that a thing?
- 31:51SPEAKER_03: She sued you for harass what was this whatever.
- 31:53SPEAKER_03: I don't know what the real charges was, but she sued you for something similar choked for something similar.
- 31:58SPEAKER_03: Now you have Chris um suing you for harassment because he didn't want to fuck you.
- 32:05SPEAKER_03: Is that the senses of it?
- 32:07SPEAKER_03: Okay.
- 32:10SPEAKER_03: What do y'all think?
- 32:11SPEAKER_00: When will this end is my question.
- 32:13SPEAKER_03: You said what?
- 32:14SPEAKER_00: When will it end?
- 32:15SPEAKER_00: Are there any more charges coming up?
- 32:17SPEAKER_00: Like why we keep hearing about him going to court and all these people trying to I agree.
- 32:22SPEAKER_03: I don't know what what we're gonna do with Mr.
- 32:24SPEAKER_03: Diggs.
- 32:25SPEAKER_01: It's much.
- 32:26SPEAKER_01: It's it's much, and you You ain't that big like no shade.
- 32:33SPEAKER_01: Like, and you are like, you got your status, you know.
- 32:37SPEAKER_03: But like it's just too much going on.
- 32:39SPEAKER_01: Yeah, like and even people that's big, let me just like it shouldn't have that much.
- 32:45SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I know what you mean.
- 32:45SPEAKER_03: It's just too much going on.
- 32:47SPEAKER_03: It's really too much going on.
- 32:49SPEAKER_03: I don't know what this is about.
- 32:51SPEAKER_03: I don't know if that's why Miss Bacallus has separated us up, which she should.
- 32:56SPEAKER_03: Um, because it's just too much going on over there.
- 32:58SPEAKER_03: And this is why this will have nothing to do with her.
- 33:01SPEAKER_03: This I'll even use myself.
- 33:03SPEAKER_03: This is why if you just wait just a little bit, if you just wait, a man is gonna show you just why you need to get the fuck away from her.
- 33:11SPEAKER_03: If you just sit back and wait, just hold on, just quit being so thirsty and sit back a little bit and the shit gonna come out.
- 33:20SPEAKER_03: Had she would have just sat back just a little while longer, but the baby is here now.
- 33:24SPEAKER_03: I'm sure he's a beautiful little boy.
- 33:26SPEAKER_03: Shout out to her and him for being healthy delivery, all that.
- 33:29SPEAKER_03: But if you just just wait just a little while before doing something so permanent, you can see that somebody just ain't got it all.
- 33:38SPEAKER_03: You too, you, you too far ahead to be associated with stuff like this, even if it's not true or whatever the case.
- 33:45SPEAKER_03: He's found not guilty, whatever the case may be.
- 33:47SPEAKER_03: It's just too much going on.
- 33:49SPEAKER_03: So, anyways, Jackie O is now a pastor and hates JT.
- 33:55SPEAKER_03: Miami rapper Jackie O has retired from music to become a minister and has recently blocked JT on Instagram.
- 34:00SPEAKER_03: Nookie rapper Jackie O publicly criticized JT for playing the role of Satan's ex-wife in an avant-garde film.
- 34:09SPEAKER_03: Minister Angela also says she's if she has influenced JT, then she has failed her because she was lost back then and that women need to be better role models.
- 34:18SPEAKER_03: JT and Minister Angela exchanged a few words online while posting past deals between each other.
- 34:23SPEAKER_03: This is all kind of dumb, right?
- 34:24SPEAKER_03: I will say, Jay-Z, I mean Jay-Z, JT, Jay-Z talking about me.
- 34:27SPEAKER_03: Anyways, Jay-Z.
- 34:33SPEAKER_03: JT said that uh Jackie O got her fucked up.
- 34:38SPEAKER_03: One thing I like about JT, she starts off very humble.
- 34:43SPEAKER_00: Trying to mediate every situation.
- 34:46SPEAKER_03: She tried, I gotta give her that.
- 34:48SPEAKER_03: Y'all give, y'all know everybody hate her now.
- 34:50SPEAKER_03: And she did try with Car, I don't know what happened with her.
- 34:52SPEAKER_03: Let me shut up.
- 34:53SPEAKER_03: But she she seems like she tries to be as genuine as she can be.
- 35:00SPEAKER_03: And people just be going left on her.
- 35:03SPEAKER_03: So I don't blame her for letting her know, bitch.
- 35:05SPEAKER_03: Fuck you and your defunct ass church, bitch.
- 35:07SPEAKER_03: You got me fucked up.
- 35:10SPEAKER_03: Who the fuck is you talking to, Pastor?
- 35:13SPEAKER_03: Pastor, you better watch it, bitch.
- 35:15SPEAKER_03: Shit, motherfucker think because you uh of the Lord, I won't beat your ass.
- 35:19SPEAKER_03: Hey, she had to say, hey, bitch, you got me fucked up.
- 35:22SPEAKER_03: I'm sick of people going into ministry because you ain't got shit else to do, baby.
- 35:26SPEAKER_03: You ain't fooling me.
- 35:27SPEAKER_03: You ain't fouled the Lord, bitch.
- 35:28SPEAKER_03: Rent due.
- 35:29SPEAKER_03: And then another group of dumb ass motherfuckers to give you some money than super religious folks.
- 35:35SPEAKER_03: You you're not fooling me, baby.
- 35:36SPEAKER_03: And I'm now while I'm here, I'm also tired of this narrative of women need to be role models for who?
- 35:42SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
- 35:44SPEAKER_03: Why women need to be role models?
- 35:45SPEAKER_03: Men run the motherfucking world.
- 35:48SPEAKER_03: They didn't systematically, systemically, whatever the fuck locks us out of every kind of decision-making process where it really counts.
- 35:55SPEAKER_03: So why the fuck we need to be role model for who?
- 35:58SPEAKER_00: What's the model?
- 36:00SPEAKER_03: What I think JT's a good role model.
- 36:04SPEAKER_03: Why does it count?
- 36:05SPEAKER_03: Now wait a minute.
- 36:07SPEAKER_03: Besides the whole jail thing.
- 36:10SPEAKER_00: Besides the scamming, she's a pretty good girl.
- 36:13SPEAKER_03: Hey, again, this JT story is an American story.
- 36:18SPEAKER_03: People want to separate themselves from the truth.
- 36:21SPEAKER_03: That is the fabric of this country.
- 36:23SPEAKER_03: You better scam.
- 36:24SPEAKER_03: You got to scam in this motherfucker in some kind of way to get ahead.
- 36:28SPEAKER_03: Who who in history didn't scam the government?
- 36:33SPEAKER_03: Because that's basically when you scam, that shit is backed by the federal government.
- 36:37SPEAKER_03: So who didn't scam the federal government?
- 36:39SPEAKER_03: That's in the that the government is scamming the government, bitch.
- 36:43SPEAKER_03: Shit.
- 36:44SPEAKER_03: Leave that girl alone.
- 36:45SPEAKER_03: I I just don't like people be like dogpiling.
- 36:48SPEAKER_03: I feel like people be dogpiling on her.
- 36:50SPEAKER_03: And for the most part, all she do is walk that ugly ass dog.
- 36:53SPEAKER_03: I'm sorry, friend.
- 36:54SPEAKER_03: And uh and love on her uh fluid boyfriend, non-binary boyfriend.
- 37:00SPEAKER_03: What's oh wait, if it's non-binary, it's not a boyfriend, huh?
- 37:03SPEAKER_03: Whatever.
- 37:03SPEAKER_03: Y'all know what the hell I'm talking about.
- 37:05SPEAKER_03: Is he non-binary for real?
- 37:06SPEAKER_01: I think so.
- 37:07SPEAKER_03: Didn't he say that?
- 37:08SPEAKER_01: Then his partner.
- 37:10SPEAKER_03: Oh, okay.
- 37:11SPEAKER_03: Her non-binary partner then.
- 37:12SPEAKER_03: That's all she be doing.
- 37:14SPEAKER_00: His little name is Leslie when he's not um little Uzibert.
- 37:21SPEAKER_02: But um, where did Jackie O?
- 37:27SPEAKER_03: Okay, what?
- 37:29SPEAKER_03: We got to wrap it up.
- 37:29SPEAKER_03: I gotta go get me.
- 37:30SPEAKER_00: We do gotta wrap it up, but where did Jackie O come from to start bullying JT?
- 37:34SPEAKER_00: I didn't know.
- 37:35SPEAKER_03: JT messaged her first and said, can we do a song together?
- 37:38SPEAKER_03: It could be any kind of song.
- 37:39SPEAKER_03: I guess she was trying to say, I know you're a pastor.
- 37:41SPEAKER_03: We could do a gospel song like you were my role model.
- 37:44SPEAKER_03: Got it.
- 37:44SPEAKER_03: So can we do any kind of song together?
- 37:48SPEAKER_03: She just started going.
- 37:51SPEAKER_00: That's just unnecessary.
- 37:52SPEAKER_03: My thing is, how many DMs do you get a day when you this mad?
- 37:55SPEAKER_00: As hell.
- 37:57SPEAKER_00: Ministry is tax-free, so I get it while she's going that lane.
- 38:00SPEAKER_03: Nah, see.
- 38:02SPEAKER_00: Ministry sex-free?
- 38:03SPEAKER_00: Mm-hmm.
- 38:04SPEAKER_00: That's why that's why Christianity.
- 38:05SPEAKER_00: Never mind.
- 38:06SPEAKER_03: You ain't know that, Mr.
- 38:07SPEAKER_00: Church, man.
- 38:09SPEAKER_03: You'll be at church all day.
- 38:11SPEAKER_03: You ain't know all that money is tax-free.
- 38:13SPEAKER_01: No, but I'm about to I'm about to go.
- 38:15SPEAKER_01: I'm just about to go confess my calling to be a minister.
- 38:20SPEAKER_03: And don't they give them money?
- 38:21SPEAKER_03: I don't know.
- 38:22SPEAKER_01: Oh, no, they give them money.
- 38:23SPEAKER_01: They definitely.
- 38:24SPEAKER_03: So they give the money and all the money they take in is tax-free.
- 38:28SPEAKER_03: They don't have to pay any taxes on it.
- 38:30SPEAKER_01: Off off offline, I will tell you what they gave my pastor as a bonus.
- 38:35SPEAKER_03: Okay, you don't have to tell me about your pastor in particular.
- 38:38SPEAKER_03: But what what is the craziest number you've heard a pastor gets?
- 38:43SPEAKER_03: As a bonus or any just salary?
- 38:46SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
- 38:47SPEAKER_01: Oh, salary, uh, salary is normally like in the twos, like lately.
- 38:52SPEAKER_01: $200,000.
- 38:53SPEAKER_03: Uh-huh.
- 38:54SPEAKER_03: It costs$200,000 a year to praise the Lord.
- 38:57SPEAKER_01: Yes, yes, yes, yes.
- 38:59SPEAKER_01: You know.
- 39:00SPEAKER_01: Okay.
- 39:00SPEAKER_01: All right.
- 39:01SPEAKER_01: So while the pastors got helicopters and and and and and and But again, that's not including the other money that they get when they do all other preaching gigs, like in um at like other churches, and then like the bonuses itself, which is usually in the hundreds of thousands.
- 39:18SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 39:19SPEAKER_03: Bonuses are in the hundreds of thousands.
- 39:22SPEAKER_03: Yes.
- 39:22SPEAKER_03: That's why Jackie O cussed her the fuck out.
- 39:24SPEAKER_03: Bitch, get out my DMs hope.
- 39:28SPEAKER_03: I'm with the Lord.
- 39:31SPEAKER_03: Dela Reese.
- 39:33SPEAKER_03: When you walk.
- 39:35SPEAKER_03: Okay.
- 39:36SPEAKER_03: See, you put the story, church.
- 39:37SPEAKER_03: All right, that's all the mess for today, child.
- 39:39SPEAKER_03: Let's get into the horny pot.
- 39:41SPEAKER_03: Sweet answers with 12 questions.
- 39:43SPEAKER_03: Um, can y'all please send in questions?
- 39:45SPEAKER_03: I really appreciate everybody that sends me questions so that we can talk.
- 39:48SPEAKER_03: We can chat.
- 39:48SPEAKER_03: I want to be messy with y'all.
- 39:49SPEAKER_03: Send me some questions.
- 39:50SPEAKER_03: Comment section or email and description.
- 39:52SPEAKER_03: It could be personal questions, relationship questions, messy questions, anything.
- 39:55SPEAKER_03: Just send them in, child.
- 39:56SPEAKER_03: I would love to hear from y'all and give y'all some advice.
- 39:59SPEAKER_03: So let's go and get into our honeypot question.
- 40:01SPEAKER_03: Mohi Diva 01.
- 40:04SPEAKER_03: I saw someone say they don't want to deal with a man who has to help his mom, grandma, etc.
- 40:10SPEAKER_03: with bills.
- 40:11SPEAKER_03: Basically being the man to call on.
- 40:13SPEAKER_03: Curious to hear your opinions.
- 40:19SPEAKER_02: I honestly don't care.
- 40:21SPEAKER_02: What y'all think?
- 40:22SPEAKER_00: I think that's a selfish way to think.
- 40:25SPEAKER_03: You think she's selfish?
- 40:27SPEAKER_03: I don't know about that.
- 40:27SPEAKER_03: I don't know if I'll say that.
- 40:29SPEAKER_03: I don't know if I'll say that.
- 40:31SPEAKER_03: What you think?
- 40:32SPEAKER_01: I think that's a fine line.
- 40:34SPEAKER_01: Like because Yeah, care about your family, but also like care like build into like you should still be in the investment stage of me.
- 40:44SPEAKER_01: You know what I'm saying?
- 40:45SPEAKER_01: And us.
- 40:45SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 40:46SPEAKER_03: I know that's right.
- 40:47SPEAKER_03: So here's my thing.
- 40:48SPEAKER_03: A friend of mine, you know, we all kind of pay the black tax a little bit, not to get too deep in my family business, but we all have to pay the black tax a little bit.
- 40:56SPEAKER_03: For those of y'all who don't know what the black tax is, and you black, I don't know, but anyway, um, it's basically like you have to, we always are helping family financially and in other ways, right?
- 41:08SPEAKER_03: Because we, yeah.
- 41:10SPEAKER_03: We have been disenfranchised, we have been pushed out, we don't, yeah, whatever.
- 41:14SPEAKER_03: We need help, bitch.
- 41:15SPEAKER_03: We are we are communal people, so we're always paying the black tax.
- 41:19SPEAKER_03: So a friend of mine came up with an idea.
- 41:21SPEAKER_03: He said, you need to set a budget for your black tax every month.
- 41:24SPEAKER_03: It needs to be a black tax budget.
- 41:25SPEAKER_03: Like it's good it goes in your budget line, like your rent, your light bill, your whatever.
- 41:30SPEAKER_00: With everything else.
- 41:31SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
- 41:31SPEAKER_03: And you need to set that number every month.
- 41:34SPEAKER_03: And you don't tell the family that you set that number.
- 41:37SPEAKER_03: So if the number is 500, I'm just throwing a number out there.
- 41:41SPEAKER_03: They can call you for money all month.
- 41:44SPEAKER_03: If Uncle Joe needs$25 till he gets his stamps, okay.
- 41:47SPEAKER_03: He goes$25 out there, black, whatever, the black tax budget.
- 41:51SPEAKER_03: If such and such car broke down and need$300, sure, we at$350.
- 41:56SPEAKER_03: You got$150 left for your black tax.
- 41:59SPEAKER_03: And when you hit that$500 or whatever the budget is per month, that's it.
- 42:04SPEAKER_03: And you have to tell them that you don't have it.
- 42:06SPEAKER_03: And I added on top of that.
- 42:08SPEAKER_03: People will figure it the fuck out.
- 42:11SPEAKER_03: If I'm hungry and I call you and say, you got some food over there, and you say no, I'm not gonna hang up the phone and cry and say, Well, he won't help me eat.
- 42:17SPEAKER_03: I'm calling the next motherfucker.
- 42:19SPEAKER_03: Or I'm moving on to I'm gonna go sell plasma.
- 42:22SPEAKER_03: I'll do a bit silly.
- 42:24SPEAKER_03: But they're gonna move on to the next action.
- 42:26SPEAKER_03: So yeah, I think it's a it is a very fine line, and you do need to figure out, especially if it starts to impact the house that you live in.
- 42:35SPEAKER_03: Meaning if you giving out so much money tomorrow, grandma, and then now we sitting in this bitch with a disconnection notice, it's a problem.
- 42:43SPEAKER_03: But other than that, if you if my man has said his black tax budget a thousand, if you got a thousand in your budget to give away, that's on you, nigga.
- 42:51SPEAKER_03: But hey, we still doing, I'm sorry, I didn't mean to call you an N-word, but we still doing whatever we need to do.
- 43:00SPEAKER_03: We still you make sure that you can still do everything else we got to do.
- 43:03SPEAKER_03: That's that's my answer.
- 43:05SPEAKER_03: But you think it's selfish?
- 43:07SPEAKER_00: Um, to say it depends on a case-by-case basis for me to just automatically say you don't want to deal with the man whose family needs him.
- 43:16SPEAKER_00: I didn't think about the financial part.
- 43:18SPEAKER_00: That is an added layer of yes, that does become a thing.
- 43:22SPEAKER_03: Yeah, that's what you said with bills.
- 43:23SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I forgot about that part.
- 43:24SPEAKER_00: Yes, so I agree with her on that.
- 43:26SPEAKER_00: But if the mama needs somebody to help come put up some stuff, move her around and things like that.
- 43:32SPEAKER_03: Oh, you better be doing that.
- 43:33SPEAKER_03: Right, for the same thing.
- 43:34SPEAKER_03: I actually don't want to date a man that wouldn't do that.
- 43:36SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 43:37SPEAKER_00: I didn't hone in on the bills part, the financial part.
- 43:39SPEAKER_00: So I agree wholeheartedly with you on that.
- 43:42SPEAKER_03: Yeah, I would not even deal with a man if your mama said, come on hang up these curtains, then you're not going to go hang up your mama's curtains.
- 43:47SPEAKER_03: What's that?
- 43:47SPEAKER_00: Some people get mad if a man and mama just call once a day or every day.
- 43:52SPEAKER_03: If you don't like the man, this is my closing.
- 43:55SPEAKER_03: If you don't like the family that you are partnered in, you don't need to be partnered in there.
- 44:02SPEAKER_03: And that's just the reality.
- 44:04SPEAKER_03: All of that, we don't care about our family.
- 44:06SPEAKER_03: You only get one set of family, bitch.
- 44:08SPEAKER_03: That man or that woman will, you can find somebody else.
- 44:12SPEAKER_03: If it's to the point where you just genuinely don't like my mama so much that a phone call is upsetting, we don't need to be together.
- 44:19SPEAKER_03: I ain't turning my back on my family for no motherfucker.
- 44:22SPEAKER_03: I'm gonna tell you that right with it now.
- 44:25SPEAKER_03: It it just will never happen.
- 44:28SPEAKER_03: Ever.
- 44:28SPEAKER_03: If you ever think for a second that you come before them, you are grossly mistaken.
- 44:34SPEAKER_03: And I would advise everybody else to do the same.
- 44:36SPEAKER_03: Unless I know it's a special case.
- 44:38SPEAKER_03: I know some of y'all got throwed off family, but you know what I'm talking about.
- 44:41SPEAKER_03: If you got a quote, normal family, I'm using that word loosely, and you turning your back on your family for anybody else, you is out of your rabid ass mind.
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- 45:01SPEAKER_03: Thank y'all for coming to my tea party.
- 45:04SPEAKER_03: Thank y'all for six months.
- 45:05SPEAKER_03: We ain't even got no lighter.
- 45:06SPEAKER_03: It's cake everywhere.
- 45:07SPEAKER_03: Anyways, thank y'all for six months of afternoon tea.
- 45:12SPEAKER_03: We appreciate all the support so far.
- 45:14SPEAKER_03: And we're ready for another six months up in this bitch.
- 45:17SPEAKER_03: Thank y'all so much.
- 45:20SPEAKER_03: And until next time, Simpson B.
- 45:26SPEAKER_02: Bye y'all.