Latest / The Bob Lefsetz Podcast / Steve Poltz
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- 0:08Speaker 1: Welcome, Welcome, Welcome back to the Bob Leftstts Podcast. My
- 0:13Speaker 1: guest today is the one and only Steve Holtz. Steve,
- 0:17Speaker 1: where are you right now?
- 0:19Speaker 2: I'm in Sydney, Australia and it is Thursday morning?
- 0:24Speaker 1: And how do you end up in Sydney?
- 0:26Speaker 2: Well, it's my twenty second time over here and I'm
- 0:30Speaker 2: on a tour. I'm on my way up to play
- 0:31Speaker 2: Byron Bay Blues Fest. And so that is how I
- 0:35Speaker 2: ended up in Sydney. I played a show last night
- 0:38Speaker 2: that win till about midnight at a really cool club
- 0:42Speaker 2: and it was packed. And the night before I was
- 0:44Speaker 2: in Newcastle and so I'm here on the road my
- 0:47Speaker 2: twenty second time. Can't believe it.
- 0:50Speaker 1: Okay, let's go back to the beginning. How do you
- 0:53Speaker 1: go to Australia the first time?
- 0:55Speaker 2: The first time I went to Australia, I was invited
- 1:00Speaker 2: to come over with Jewel and we had put together
- 1:03Speaker 2: a band with myself and Tony Hall playing bass, Brady
- 1:09Speaker 2: Blade on drums, Doug Pettybone on electric guitar, and Steve
- 1:13Speaker 2: George on keys. And Steve George was in a band
- 1:15Speaker 2: called Mister Mister and he had written a song called
- 1:18Speaker 2: Currie Eleys song and take these Broken Wings, and we
- 1:22Speaker 2: put together this band and Jewel had had this hit
- 1:26Speaker 2: record out and so I went over and I got
- 1:29Speaker 2: to open the shows and be in her band. And
- 1:31Speaker 2: that's what first brought me to Australia back in nineteen
- 1:34Speaker 2: ninety nine.
- 1:37Speaker 1: Okay, twenty two times. Almost no music lact is going
- 1:43Speaker 1: to Australia twenty two times, So explain how you keep
- 1:45Speaker 1: going back.
- 1:47Speaker 2: I have boundless energy, and so Australia has become kind
- 1:50Speaker 2: of just like another tour stop to me. I live
- 1:53Speaker 2: in Nashville, and it's like, oh, do you want to
- 1:56Speaker 2: go to Louisville and play a show? It's that easy
- 1:58Speaker 2: for me now. I just think, oh yeah, I'll fly
- 2:00Speaker 2: down to Melbourne, Australia, and then hit Sydney and go
- 2:04Speaker 2: to Tasmania. I love it, and so I've always kept
- 2:08Speaker 2: coming back, and I rent cars and I drive on
- 2:10Speaker 2: the left side of the road, use my iPhone for
- 2:14Speaker 2: the maps, and I just always end up at the
- 2:16Speaker 2: gigs and I've never quit coming back. So it's become
- 2:19Speaker 2: a regular tour stop.
- 2:22Speaker 1: Okay, you want to play Australia, do you have an
- 2:25Speaker 1: agent that books the dates. How do you line up
- 2:27Speaker 1: the dates? Yes?
- 2:29Speaker 2: So I at the time, the first time I came
- 2:32Speaker 2: over here, I was on CIA and I had this
- 2:34Speaker 2: agent named Rick Roskin, so he booked the tour and
- 2:38Speaker 2: then Frontier, a big agency down here, brought Jewel over
- 2:42Speaker 2: and then they saw me play when I opened and
- 2:44Speaker 2: they said, how would you like to come back? We'll
- 2:46Speaker 2: bring you back. So that was how it started here.
- 2:49Speaker 2: But now I have my own agent. He's a smaller agency,
- 2:54Speaker 2: and he saw me play somewhere and said he wanted
- 2:57Speaker 2: to work with me, and that's what me back and
- 3:00Speaker 2: keeps me coming back. And there's so many festivals I
- 3:03Speaker 2: can play.
- 3:04Speaker 1: Okay, so if you go to Australia, how many gigs
- 3:07Speaker 1: can you play?
- 3:09Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. Now, when most people come here, they'll
- 3:11Speaker 2: do like maybe four gigs. I'll do like twenty to thirty.
- 3:16Speaker 2: It's crazy because I go to all these little country
- 3:19Speaker 2: towns now and they sell out. And like I was
- 3:22Speaker 2: just in a little place called Archie's Creek and you'll
- 3:24Speaker 2: get three hundred people in there. They make you a
- 3:27Speaker 2: great meal and you're hanging out with all these crazy
- 3:30Speaker 2: Australians and every night it's just like a new thing,
- 3:33Speaker 2: and I show up and they go all out for
- 3:35Speaker 2: the shows, and they're just so welcoming.
- 3:38Speaker 1: How do they know you?
- 3:39Speaker 2: And Archie's creak just over the twenty two years, like
- 3:44Speaker 2: everything in my career has been built with my hands,
- 3:48Speaker 2: just playing live shows, and then people talk about the
- 3:51Speaker 2: live shows, and every show I just go out and
- 3:54Speaker 2: I give all the effort I can and then they
- 3:57Speaker 2: tell their people and everything just keeps happening and it
- 4:00Speaker 2: slowly grows. So it's the most organic thing ever.
- 4:06Speaker 1: Is it lucrative for you to go to Australia?
- 4:09Speaker 2: It really is, believe it or not. Like I go
- 4:12Speaker 2: over here and I make money. I actually have an
- 4:14Speaker 2: Australian tax accountant who is in co He works with
- 4:19Speaker 2: my accountant in the United States, and he just can't
- 4:23Speaker 2: believe because I bring over so much merch and I'm
- 4:27Speaker 2: slinging T shirts, tope bags, hats, Vinyl records, CDs and
- 4:34Speaker 2: it just goes on and on and I sell all
- 4:36Speaker 2: this merch and my wife is my tour manager, and
- 4:40Speaker 2: we're just like a dog and pony show and we
- 4:42Speaker 2: go in and we just sell merch. We play shows
- 4:46Speaker 2: and every night it's just a blast. And then the
- 4:48Speaker 2: next day I'm headed to another city.
- 4:52Speaker 1: Now you have hardcore fans, but for those who have
- 4:54Speaker 1: never seen a Steve Poltz show, do your best to
- 4:58Speaker 1: describe it.
- 5:00Speaker 2: Well, it's kind of madness because I've never used a
- 5:03Speaker 2: set list in my life, and I never know what's
- 5:07Speaker 2: going to happen. So I have fans, like last night
- 5:09Speaker 2: fans that came three shows in a row from different cities.
- 5:13Speaker 2: They drive. It's like the Grateful Dead fans or something,
- 5:16Speaker 2: and they're never going to get the same show twice.
- 5:19Speaker 2: So what it is is I just go out and
- 5:22Speaker 2: I just sort of feel the room and I can
- 5:25Speaker 2: feel the energy of everybody, and I slowly take them
- 5:28Speaker 2: on a two hour journey. And I've tried to really
- 5:31Speaker 2: learn to play fewer songs, like because for a while
- 5:38Speaker 2: I was doing four hour shows and I realized, you know,
- 5:42Speaker 2: there's got to be a beginning, a middle, and an end.
- 5:44Speaker 2: So I've learned to pair it down.
- 5:46Speaker 1: Okay, if every show is different, you know, back in
- 5:51Speaker 1: the old days of classic rock, you'd go to see
- 5:54Speaker 1: acts in different cities who would have the exact same pattern. Okay,
- 6:00Speaker 1: your stories are different. I mean, how much is prepared
- 6:04Speaker 1: how much have you told the stories before? How much
- 6:06Speaker 1: are you making up that night.
- 6:09Speaker 2: Well, I'll have stories that'll be a rough outline, and
- 6:13Speaker 2: they're always changing. It's like if you took a pack
- 6:16Speaker 2: of tortillas and they were in saran wrap and you
- 6:19Speaker 2: nailed them to a wall and they slowly got mold
- 6:21Speaker 2: and the mold grew on them. That's the stories. They
- 6:25Speaker 2: change and they blend in for whatever city I'm in,
- 6:30Speaker 2: and then I'll talk about what happened that day. So
- 6:32Speaker 2: the thing I've learned is if I go on stage
- 6:35Speaker 2: and just talk about what I did that day, something
- 6:38Speaker 2: funny is going to come out of it. And I'm
- 6:40Speaker 2: going to take the piss out of the audience, make
- 6:43Speaker 2: fun of their accent and what I did that day,
- 6:46Speaker 2: and hopefully have them all smiling and feeling good. I
- 6:50Speaker 2: always want like a sense of redemption by the end
- 6:52Speaker 2: of the show, where everybody's just up there on their
- 6:55Speaker 2: feet and they're just feeling really good.
- 6:58Speaker 1: Okay, so what happened yesterday that was worth talking about?
- 7:02Speaker 2: Okay, So for instance, last night, I got on stage
- 7:06Speaker 2: and I had written a little story about I told
- 7:11Speaker 2: people that they need to start creating, because if you
- 7:14Speaker 2: have friends over for dinner. What I said is you
- 7:19Speaker 2: should have them prepare a poem that they wrote, because
- 7:23Speaker 2: if you write something, it will feel good for you,
- 7:27Speaker 2: and then to perform it will make you feel nervous.
- 7:30Speaker 2: And the body makes its own drugs, and who here
- 7:34Speaker 2: doesn't love drugs. That's what I told the audience. And
- 7:38Speaker 2: so I want you guys to feel good, and so
- 7:41Speaker 2: I would give them an example of a poem. And
- 7:44Speaker 2: it doesn't have to rhyme, but you just go up
- 7:47Speaker 2: and you get to do this poem and it makes
- 7:50Speaker 2: it so much fun. So, for instance, last night I
- 7:53Speaker 2: was on stage and I just I remember I was
- 7:57Speaker 2: sitting there and I said, dear Diary, this was my poem.
- 8:04Speaker 2: I took a shower and used doctor Bronner's peppermint hemp
- 8:08Speaker 2: hippie soap. It smells so good. I washed my armpits
- 8:13Speaker 2: and my bum and my private parts. And then I
- 8:16Speaker 2: thought to myself, I need to wash my feet too.
- 8:19Speaker 2: The water in the shower isn't going to just clean them.
- 8:23Speaker 2: I should scrub them with his hand towel and soap.
- 8:26Speaker 2: Now I'm sixty four years old, So I lifted up
- 8:30Speaker 2: my foot and scrubbed it real good with the soap
- 8:33Speaker 2: every little toe. It felt so good and clean, like
- 8:36Speaker 2: I was doing God's work. Then I washed my other
- 8:39Speaker 2: foot and that felt good too. I was so happy
- 8:43Speaker 2: and proud that my feet were clean. Then I thought
- 8:46Speaker 2: I should scrub my butthole because I have this hand
- 8:49Speaker 2: towel and lots of soap. But then I was worried
- 8:52Speaker 2: that the foot germs might get into my butt like
- 8:54Speaker 2: athlete's foot, so I scrubbed my buttole anyways, and then
- 8:58Speaker 2: I had to pee in I thought to my so
- 9:00Speaker 2: I should wait till I get out of the shower
- 9:02Speaker 2: and pee in the toilet. But then I looked around
- 9:04Speaker 2: and Sharon wasn't in the bathroom, and I obviously wasn't
- 9:08Speaker 2: live streaming. So I peed real good like, and I
- 9:11Speaker 2: watched it all go down the drain, and it felt
- 9:14Speaker 2: like I was doing something bad and that felt good
- 9:17Speaker 2: to me. So I got out of the shower and
- 9:20Speaker 2: dried off. Now I can't sleep because as I was
- 9:23Speaker 2: drying off, I looked in the mirror and my balls
- 9:25Speaker 2: looked terry. So I thought I'd try shaving them, even
- 9:29Speaker 2: though I'd never shaved them before. It just seemed like
- 9:32Speaker 2: an impulsive decision. So I tried it, but I accidentally
- 9:37Speaker 2: got a cut on my scrotum and red blood dripped
- 9:40Speaker 2: into the white sink. It looked really cool, like art,
- 9:44Speaker 2: and I like art. Then I signed my name in
- 9:48Speaker 2: the sink with a swirly S and a swirly P.
- 9:51Speaker 2: But then Sharon walked into the bathroom as I was
- 9:53Speaker 2: stretching my ball sack and looking at the blood, and
- 9:56Speaker 2: she goes, what the fuck is wrong with you? And
- 9:59Speaker 2: then some the air scaped out of my butt and
- 10:01Speaker 2: made a party sound. So I decided I should go
- 10:04Speaker 2: to sleep and not shave my balls anymore, and Sharon
- 10:07Speaker 2: put a band aid on them. The shaving was a
- 10:09Speaker 2: bad idea. Thank you God for listening to me, your
- 10:12Speaker 2: friend Steve. So I did that piece last night because
- 10:16Speaker 2: I knew it would make me sweat to do that
- 10:19Speaker 2: on stage, and I just wanted to take them on
- 10:21Speaker 2: a journey, and see, I like to take a risk.
- 10:25Speaker 2: And then my body makes a drug and that drug
- 10:28Speaker 2: is this adrenaline, and then all limits are off and
- 10:32Speaker 2: I can sing any song I want because I've taken
- 10:34Speaker 2: them to a place where I want them to go,
- 10:38Speaker 2: and I want to encourage them to write.
- 10:41Speaker 1: You mentioned this drug adrenaline. To what degree do you
- 10:45Speaker 1: use or have used recreational drugs or alcohol?
- 10:49Speaker 2: Oh? Man. It all started when I was young and
- 10:52Speaker 2: I was an altar boy in the Catholic Church, and
- 10:55Speaker 2: I was in Palm Springs, California, at Saint Teresa's and
- 10:59Speaker 2: they had this altar wine and I would drink it.
- 11:03Speaker 2: I called it backstage, and the priest would leave the
- 11:07Speaker 2: altar wine back there, and I'd go out as the
- 11:10Speaker 2: altar boy at Saint Teresa's and I would pretend I
- 11:14Speaker 2: was a French waiter, so I'd bring the wine up
- 11:18Speaker 2: to the priest and when they ring the bells, that
- 11:20Speaker 2: changes the wine into Jesus's blood. This is what they
- 11:24Speaker 2: tell you. So I would go up and pour the
- 11:26Speaker 2: wine into the gold chalice that the priest is holding,
- 11:30Speaker 2: and I would say, this is in nineteen sixty seven,
- 11:32Speaker 2: Goblin Savignon. He would be good with it, Phil Mignon, Goodrea,
- 11:37Speaker 2: and then the priest would just look at me and go,
- 11:39Speaker 2: this guy is crazy. And that kind of basically stopped
- 11:43Speaker 2: my altar boy career. And so then I kept drinking,
- 11:46Speaker 2: and I would have fun drinking, and that led to
- 11:48Speaker 2: marijuana queludes in the seventies led to cocaine, opium, everything,
- 11:55Speaker 2: and then, like any good musician, I ended up in
- 11:57Speaker 2: rehab nineteen years ago and I haven't had a drink since,
- 12:01Speaker 2: and my career got better due to not drinking and drugging.
- 12:08Speaker 1: Okay, reab only works if you want to get clean.
- 12:13Speaker 1: What was the motivation to go to rehab? And why
- 12:16Speaker 1: did it works? People have gone like ten times and
- 12:18Speaker 1: it still hasn't worked.
- 12:20Speaker 2: The reason it worked for me is because I never
- 12:22Speaker 2: wanted to do it till I was ready, and I
- 12:25Speaker 2: knew one day it was going to happen. I just
- 12:27Speaker 2: could feel I was heading into that direction. And I
- 12:30Speaker 2: had this best friend of mine named Steve both spelled
- 12:33Speaker 2: fot and we had written a Rugburns song my old band,
- 12:38Speaker 2: the Rugburns, and the song was called Hitchhiker Joe. It's
- 12:41Speaker 2: about a cannibalistic hitchhiker that would hitchhike and then he
- 12:46Speaker 2: would eat you, and so we made a video for
- 12:49Speaker 2: it and everything, and then Steve got into drugs and
- 12:54Speaker 2: he got stabbed to death in a crack deal that
- 12:57Speaker 2: went awry with some prostitutes, and so I had to
- 13:01Speaker 2: id him at the Morgue and I had a nervous breakdown.
- 13:06Speaker 2: And I remember I flew back to San Diego from
- 13:09Speaker 2: being on the road. I've been doing blow all night
- 13:12Speaker 2: and I kind of collapsed at the airport night. There
- 13:15Speaker 2: was this one attorney. I knew this guy, Michael Wilson,
- 13:19Speaker 2: and I called him and he heard it in my voice.
- 13:22Speaker 2: He answered the phone. I don't even know how he
- 13:24Speaker 2: answered the phone because he had secretaries, but he heard
- 13:27Speaker 2: my voice and I said Michael, and he goes Stephen
- 13:30Speaker 2: and he goes, what's up. And I said, I'm in
- 13:32Speaker 2: big trouble. I've gone insane. And he said, you need
- 13:36Speaker 2: to go right away to this rehab place. And for
- 13:38Speaker 2: some reason, after twenty eight days in rehab, they graduated
- 13:44Speaker 2: everybody except for me, and they said you need to
- 13:47Speaker 2: do another twenty eight days. So I did another twenty
- 13:51Speaker 2: eight days and then they let me go, and I
- 13:54Speaker 2: remember I got out and I had a show at
- 13:55Speaker 2: the Belly Up in San Diego Salona Beach, and they
- 13:59Speaker 2: sent guards with me to make sure I wouldn't drink.
- 14:02Speaker 2: And then it was weird Bob. I just I didn't
- 14:05Speaker 2: want to drink anymore. I realized I could do more
- 14:08Speaker 2: damage not drinking and drugging, and it was getting in
- 14:11Speaker 2: my way of my muse and my creativity. And I
- 14:15Speaker 2: love not drinking like I love it. It's a drug
- 14:18Speaker 2: to not be on drugs and to just create and
- 14:21Speaker 2: take chances and risks.
- 14:24Speaker 1: Well, I had a similar thing giving up drinking, and
- 14:28Speaker 1: it is liberating in a way that people don't understand.
- 14:31Speaker 1: But let's go back. You're playing these festivals in Australia.
- 14:35Speaker 1: If you play a festival, not everybody knows who you are,
- 14:40Speaker 1: and it's like being an opening act at an arena
- 14:42Speaker 1: for a superstar. It's very frustrating. How do you win
- 14:47Speaker 1: over a larger audience who is unaware of you and
- 14:51Speaker 1: may not be paying attention.
- 14:54Speaker 2: It's the greatest thing in the world. So before I
- 14:57Speaker 2: go out, I say a little prayer to my id
- 15:00Speaker 2: of whatever the powers that be are in the sky.
- 15:03Speaker 2: Because when I went to rehab, they said you needed
- 15:05Speaker 2: a higher power, and that higher power was God. And
- 15:08Speaker 2: I had a hard time with the God thing. So
- 15:10Speaker 2: I made my higher power Neil Young because he was
- 15:14Speaker 2: a power greater than myself, I figured, and they accepted that.
- 15:17Speaker 2: So Neil Young became a higher power. And then as
- 15:20Speaker 2: it went on, I had no problem with the God thing,
- 15:22Speaker 2: the idea of that there might be something up there, stronger,
- 15:27Speaker 2: and who knows what it is if it's just a spirit.
- 15:30Speaker 2: So I just say a prayer of thanks. I don't
- 15:32Speaker 2: pray to be good, but I do this visualization thing.
- 15:35Speaker 2: It only takes me a minute where I picture everybody
- 15:38Speaker 2: on their feet smiling, and I've converted the room and
- 15:42Speaker 2: it's just going to be I've done some work that
- 15:45Speaker 2: was good. I made people feel good. Maybe I'm down
- 15:48Speaker 2: in the middle of the crowd, maybe I'm on the stage,
- 15:51Speaker 2: but I love it. I just like coming out with
- 15:53Speaker 2: whatever I'm feeling. So it's just honest because people can tell.
- 15:58Speaker 2: And an audience is like a horse, and a horse
- 16:01Speaker 2: knows when you get on it, if you're scared of it,
- 16:03Speaker 2: if you come out and let the audience know you're
- 16:05Speaker 2: in control, they're gonna come along for the ride. And
- 16:08Speaker 2: that's where you really build a fan base because you
- 16:11Speaker 2: got five thousand people out there. You know, I'll be
- 16:14Speaker 2: playing Newport Folk Festival this summer, or in Australia, I'm
- 16:17Speaker 2: going to Byron Bay Bluesfest. Probably played a seven thousand
- 16:20Speaker 2: people and a lot of whom have never seen me,
- 16:24Speaker 2: and so what you need to do? Do you know?
- 16:26Speaker 2: Do you remember Huey Lewis?
- 16:29Speaker 1: Of course I remember.
- 16:30Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, So there was an article once in Rolling
- 16:33Speaker 2: Stone and Huey Lewis did a quote that I've never forgotten.
- 16:37Speaker 2: He talked about how he was in a blues band
- 16:40Speaker 2: in northern California and they were doing cover songs and
- 16:44Speaker 2: he said, every once in a while they would sneak
- 16:46Speaker 2: in an original song. And I loved how he said that,
- 16:49Speaker 2: and he said he called it infiltrate then double cross,
- 16:53Speaker 2: so he'd suck them in and then double cross them,
- 16:56Speaker 2: and then on the break people would come up and go,
- 16:58Speaker 2: what was that song you did? I loved and he'd say, oh,
- 17:01Speaker 2: that was an original, and they said that is so good.
- 17:05Speaker 2: So at a festival you need to infiltrate then double crossing,
- 17:08Speaker 2: not meaning you're doing covers, but go out. You can't
- 17:11Speaker 2: just go out and talk about shaving your balls in
- 17:13Speaker 2: the shower. You've got to lure them into your world.
- 17:16Speaker 2: And then slowly, once they commit to loving you, they're
- 17:21Speaker 2: with you. They're a part of your tribe. It's amazing.
- 17:25Speaker 2: And then you slowly collect people. My buddy Oliver Wood
- 17:28Speaker 2: from the Wood Brothers has a quote that he told
- 17:31Speaker 2: me about my career. It's a slow rise to the middle,
- 17:34Speaker 2: and that's the best kind of career to have.
- 17:39Speaker 1: Okay, let's just use that. You're playing to seven thousand people.
- 17:43Speaker 1: Usually an act that's not well known throughout the world
- 17:47Speaker 1: has to play during the day when the sun is out.
- 17:51Speaker 1: Do you feel that you have to get all seven
- 17:55Speaker 1: thousand people interested or you just need three hundred in
- 17:59Speaker 1: front of the state, What do you say. I'm gonna
- 18:01Speaker 1: get this three hundred and grow it and grow it.
- 18:04Speaker 2: I know that it's going to be successful. It sounds weird,
- 18:08Speaker 2: but I love walking out on stage and there's five
- 18:11Speaker 2: or seven thousand people and it's just a little cadence
- 18:14Speaker 2: and the voice are the way I may tell a story, slowly,
- 18:20Speaker 2: suck them into my world. And you see people kind
- 18:23Speaker 2: of touching each other, like what's going on here? And
- 18:25Speaker 2: then the diehard fans are up front and the energy
- 18:29Speaker 2: passes from fan to fan. It's crazy. And by the
- 18:33Speaker 2: end of that everybody's over there at the merch area.
- 18:37Speaker 2: You're selling stuff and I shake everybody's hand. I believe
- 18:40Speaker 2: in the Willie Nelson School of music, you'd always wait
- 18:43Speaker 2: by his tour bus afterwards and shake everyone's hand and
- 18:46Speaker 2: sign everything. I love it. I love the interaction taking
- 18:50Speaker 2: pictures with people and then playing the show, and slowly
- 18:55Speaker 2: they convert over. And then you play a club in
- 18:57Speaker 2: a town and they show up and say, oh, oh, man,
- 19:00Speaker 2: I saw you at High Sierra Music Festival, or I
- 19:03Speaker 2: saw you at tell your Ride Bluegrass Fest. And the
- 19:05Speaker 2: cool thing is I'm just solo on stage, so I
- 19:10Speaker 2: don't have to deal with a lot of logistics of
- 19:13Speaker 2: band members and everything. I can surgically strike and play
- 19:17Speaker 2: Stan Rogers folk Fest way out in Canso, Nova Scotia,
- 19:21Speaker 2: and then zip across the country and play Rocky Mountain
- 19:24Speaker 2: Folksfest in Lions, Colorado. And I can do it and
- 19:29Speaker 2: get there pretty fast.
- 19:37Speaker 1: Okay, let's go back to the Oliver Wood quote. I
- 19:40Speaker 1: think the Woods started off independent to begin with. Okay,
- 19:45Speaker 1: when you started in the pre internet era, the key
- 19:48Speaker 1: was to have a label deal and to have a hit,
- 19:51Speaker 1: whether it be a top forty hit at MTV, hit
- 19:54Speaker 1: a hit on a FM rock The point is to
- 19:57Speaker 1: have a notable trick. So today to use a word
- 20:03Speaker 1: that has too many connotations, but I'll use it anyway.
- 20:06Speaker 1: You are a cult item. It's amazing. I printed an
- 20:10Speaker 1: email that you had written all these people who know
- 20:14Speaker 1: who you are. Okay, you can't see that and say, oh,
- 20:18Speaker 1: it's Steve Poltz and you know, number ten in the
- 20:20Speaker 1: Spotify Top fifty, but they know who you are. So
- 20:25Speaker 1: the game has changed. Yet you have continued in the game.
- 20:30Speaker 1: To what degreed does it frustrate you that you have
- 20:35Speaker 1: this middle level of success and to what degreed do
- 20:39Speaker 1: you have hunger to be known and exposed to more people.
- 20:45Speaker 2: This is a great question, and I would like to
- 20:48Speaker 2: first say I love you. I want to get that
- 20:53Speaker 2: from here, but okay, okay, I do. And the way
- 21:00Speaker 2: that it works for me is I picture everybody, you know,
- 21:02Speaker 2: those rock climbing walls, Bob, where you got sure a
- 21:06Speaker 2: place and climb up. You know, there's always somebody going
- 21:08Speaker 2: to be above you and somebody below you. That's the
- 21:11Speaker 2: business we're in. There's always going to be somebody who
- 21:14Speaker 2: has something you want. Even Springsteen, where he's at on
- 21:18Speaker 2: the wall now isn't in the stadium thing he was
- 21:21Speaker 2: at at one time. So we always want to be
- 21:24Speaker 2: somewhere else. So number one, the first rule is be
- 21:26Speaker 2: kind to everybody you meet on the way up, because
- 21:29Speaker 2: sooner or later you will meet him on the way
- 21:31Speaker 2: back down, and you're always going to want more, but
- 21:34Speaker 2: you've got to just remain grateful and thankful for what
- 21:38Speaker 2: you have, your little slice of the pie. And for me,
- 21:42Speaker 2: I'm happy with the slice I have because I get
- 21:44Speaker 2: to do the weirdest shit on stage. Bob, I'm not
- 21:48Speaker 2: beholden to a hit song. I go out and I'm
- 21:51Speaker 2: doing spoken word and it's a drug to me. I'm
- 21:54Speaker 2: an addict, and so I'm addicted to the performance and
- 21:57Speaker 2: I'm looking for that high, that sort of danger on
- 22:01Speaker 2: stage and also the sense of community. And so I
- 22:04Speaker 2: have like the ultimate career because I go from city
- 22:07Speaker 2: to city. People show up in Australia and it's like whatever,
- 22:11Speaker 2: a fifty dollars ticket and they're showing up. The shows
- 22:15Speaker 2: are selling out and they're in small areas. Of course,
- 22:18Speaker 2: you think, God, it would be cool to go up
- 22:20Speaker 2: to bigger theaters, but it's just one day at a time,
- 22:24Speaker 2: and I get such a high from the shows that
- 22:26Speaker 2: I'm happy where I'm at and if it grows I'm
- 22:30Speaker 2: playing on the house's money because I don't have to
- 22:32Speaker 2: do this anymore. I could retire right now. My wife
- 22:34Speaker 2: always reminds me of that, that you don't have to
- 22:38Speaker 2: do this anymore. I was one of those musicians that
- 22:41Speaker 2: put money away back in the day when some jewel
- 22:45Speaker 2: money came in and other money, and I'd just go
- 22:47Speaker 2: out and work and I just put it in a
- 22:50Speaker 2: Charles Schwab account and never touch it. I've never touched it.
- 22:53Speaker 2: I'm sixty four years old, and I don't need a
- 22:56Speaker 2: lot because I live kind of a simple life.
- 23:00Speaker 1: Okay. I mean, certainly your stage act is unique and
- 23:07Speaker 1: no one is going to see you and not remember it.
- 23:11Speaker 1: So is there a part of you that says, well,
- 23:14Speaker 1: if only more people could see me, they would have
- 23:19Speaker 1: the same feeling.
- 23:23Speaker 2: Yeah, I do think that sometimes, and every once in
- 23:26Speaker 2: a while you do get a little bit of jealousy
- 23:29Speaker 2: and you want the career, maybe you want the crowds
- 23:32Speaker 2: that somebody else is getting. But I've learned to just
- 23:36Speaker 2: get that out of my system and I just sort
- 23:40Speaker 2: of say a prayer of gratitude for what I have,
- 23:42Speaker 2: and I truly believe in that. Of course, you me Nactually,
- 23:46Speaker 2: I only speak for myself. Like when Jewels started getting
- 23:49Speaker 2: big and we were dating and I was in the
- 23:52Speaker 2: Rugburns and I was helping her find a place to play,
- 23:56Speaker 2: and then she blew up really big. I was just like, Wow,
- 24:01Speaker 2: why is she blowing up big? And I'm not or
- 24:03Speaker 2: Jason Moraz another friend of mine from San Diego, Like
- 24:06Speaker 2: there's a whole San Diego scene, why did these people
- 24:09Speaker 2: blow up so big? But then when I really analyzed
- 24:12Speaker 2: it and did a deep dive in it, I'm not
- 24:16Speaker 2: really made for the masses. I'm not. Jason Ras has
- 24:20Speaker 2: a great boys, Jewela has a great voice. I'm sort
- 24:24Speaker 2: of a wild card, and I get the freedom of
- 24:27Speaker 2: doing the show I want, and I have gratitude for
- 24:30Speaker 2: what I'm doing. And Jason's a friend of mine, Jewele's
- 24:32Speaker 2: a friend of mine. And I saw Blink one eight
- 24:35Speaker 2: two blow up big, but the Rugburns didn't, And why
- 24:38Speaker 2: didn't that happen? I just felt like we weren't made
- 24:42Speaker 2: for the masses. Probably, and that's okay. You got to
- 24:46Speaker 2: make peace with that way.
- 24:48Speaker 1: Let's go back to the beginning. You're born in Halifax, Canada.
- 24:53Speaker 1: Are you just born there? And you move on or
- 24:55Speaker 1: do you live any of your life there.
- 24:58Speaker 2: We moved when I was really young to southern California.
- 25:01Speaker 2: So all the relatives are in Nova Scotia and Cape
- 25:04Speaker 2: Breton and some in Ontario. But I'm a total Southern Californian.
- 25:10Speaker 2: I may live in Nashville, but I'm a Southern Californian.
- 25:13Speaker 1: As it gets, okay, And what did your parents do
- 25:17Speaker 1: for a living?
- 25:19Speaker 2: So my dad was in the Royal Canadian Air Force
- 25:23Speaker 2: and one morning he woke up and we were snowed
- 25:25Speaker 2: in and he said, I want to go somewhere warm.
- 25:27Speaker 2: And it was the early sixties, and we came out
- 25:31Speaker 2: to Pasadena, California. We lived right in Pasadena, and my
- 25:36Speaker 2: dad had a job in air conditioning and he just
- 25:40Speaker 2: found this job. He drove us across the country with
- 25:43Speaker 2: no money, got a job in an air conditioning warehouse
- 25:47Speaker 2: and became a manager of it. And I went to
- 25:51Speaker 2: a private Catholic school called Saint Rita's Elementary School. We
- 25:55Speaker 2: lived in Hastings Ranch for a little while, and then
- 26:00Speaker 2: we moved out to Palm Springs, California, because he got
- 26:03Speaker 2: a great air conditioning job out there, and that was
- 26:06Speaker 2: how I ended up meeting like Frank Sinatra and Elvis
- 26:10Speaker 2: Presley and Liberacchi and Bob Hope and all these people
- 26:16Speaker 2: that lived there, and it was pretty interesting being a
- 26:18Speaker 2: part of that. So it was great.
- 26:22Speaker 1: Tell me more about being a part of that. This
- 26:24Speaker 1: Palm Springs.
- 26:25Speaker 2: So in Palm Springs, when we would go trigger treating
- 26:28Speaker 2: and stuff, we would go to Liberacchi's house and everybody
- 26:33Speaker 2: knew where he lived, and he had these piano keys
- 26:35Speaker 2: for his front steps and they would wind almost in
- 26:39Speaker 2: an Alison Carroll kind of weird psychedelic way, and you'd
- 26:43Speaker 2: ring the doorbell and you'd be dressed up like Casper
- 26:46Speaker 2: the Friendly Ghost, and the doorbell when it rang would go.
- 26:49Speaker 3: Dun dunt dunt dun dun't dunt dun dun Livereracchi would
- 26:54Speaker 3: come out and he'd have a big boa around his neck,
- 26:56Speaker 3: and then chauffeur guy, his boyfriend, the blonde guy, he'd
- 26:59Speaker 3: have arm next.
- 27:00Speaker 2: To him like this and he'd say hello kids, hop
- 27:03Speaker 2: a Snicker's bar and he'd give these huge Snickers bars
- 27:06Speaker 2: out and then I'd go change in the Batman and
- 27:08Speaker 2: come back again. And we would keep changing our outfits
- 27:11Speaker 2: because he had the biggest candy bars, and it was
- 27:14Speaker 2: so cool and I always loved being a part of that.
- 27:17Speaker 2: And my uncle was gay, my mom's brother, and so
- 27:20Speaker 2: I was raised with this sense of gayness in our house,
- 27:23Speaker 2: which was like a different time. Nowadays, everybody's flying a
- 27:26Speaker 2: rainbow flag and stuff, but back in those days, it
- 27:29Speaker 2: was like some more broke back Mountain type stuff, especially
- 27:32Speaker 2: for my uncle who had come from Cape Bretton and
- 27:35Speaker 2: he was a musician.
- 27:36Speaker 1: So okay, And what did your mother do all day?
- 27:41Speaker 2: So my mom was a teacher, an English teacher, and
- 27:44Speaker 2: she demanded she wouldn't even accept an A minus. I
- 27:48Speaker 2: had to get straight a's. And I would always get
- 27:51Speaker 2: bad citizenship grades because I was always making smart at
- 27:57Speaker 2: I just couldn't help it, and I was pushing things
- 27:59Speaker 2: to the limit. But I got a's and I loved school,
- 28:05Speaker 2: like I loved going there, and I liked studying guitar,
- 28:08Speaker 2: and I started playing guitar when I was six years old,
- 28:11Speaker 2: And so my mom really made sure I practiced. She
- 28:15Speaker 2: was very strict about it. She said, if I pay
- 28:17Speaker 2: for lessons, you're practicing forty five minutes every day, no excuses,
- 28:23Speaker 2: Not thirty minutes, not forty two minutes forty five minutes,
- 28:27Speaker 2: and I realized how hard it was to learn guitar,
- 28:31Speaker 2: and I hated it. But after twenty one days it
- 28:34Speaker 2: became a habit, just like anything, and then I just
- 28:38Speaker 2: would get so into it. My guitar was my best
- 28:40Speaker 2: friend because I stuttered as a little kid, and I
- 28:43Speaker 2: had asthma and exema, and so I would just be
- 28:49Speaker 2: alone in my room playing guitar, and I loved it.
- 28:52Speaker 1: So how many kids in the family just.
- 28:55Speaker 2: Too my sister. I have an older sister, and you
- 29:00Speaker 2: know how, I think you've written about this too in
- 29:02Speaker 2: your letter. A lot of times somebody has an older
- 29:05Speaker 2: sibling and that older sibling is the one who turns
- 29:09Speaker 2: the other one onto music. And my sister had exquisite
- 29:13Speaker 2: taste in music, and she would make me put my
- 29:17Speaker 2: head between the speakers and she would put on Joni
- 29:20Speaker 2: Mitchell Courton Spark and say, listen to it, really listen
- 29:25Speaker 2: to it with your head between the speakers, and you
- 29:27Speaker 2: would hear Joni. All of a sudden, love came to
- 29:30Speaker 2: my door with a sleeping role and a madman's soul.
- 29:34Speaker 2: I thought for sure I'd seen him dancing up a
- 29:38Speaker 2: river in the dark looking through a woman to the
- 29:42Speaker 2: core and spa and I would listen to that, my
- 29:47Speaker 2: mind would be blown. We had a Moranz receiver, these
- 29:50Speaker 2: big speakers, and my sister would have me. Then she
- 29:53Speaker 2: would put on another record and we would listen to music,
- 29:57Speaker 2: and really listen to music. I'm talking like where you
- 30:00Speaker 2: would drink it in. And I remember I went to school, Bob,
- 30:05Speaker 2: and there was a Jewish girl named Hallie Rothstein, and
- 30:09Speaker 2: she was so beautiful and they had been living on
- 30:12Speaker 2: a kabbutz in Israel, and her dad, Jean Rothstein, was
- 30:16Speaker 2: the chemistry teacher, and he was so cool, and he
- 30:21Speaker 2: also did the hiking club and he went out of
- 30:24Speaker 2: town on business and Hallie Rothstein asked me to come over.
- 30:28Speaker 2: And I was fifteen years old and she had me
- 30:32Speaker 2: come over. I know, I couldn't believe it, and I thought,
- 30:35Speaker 2: this is when I'm going to lose my virginity. And
- 30:38Speaker 2: I always loved the I just my mom was like,
- 30:42Speaker 2: you're Catholic. You got the only dated Catholic girl. And
- 30:45Speaker 2: so when I heard Hallie Rothstein was Jewish, it was
- 30:48Speaker 2: like that forbidden fruit. It even made me like her more.
- 30:51Speaker 2: And they would talk about you know, how they would
- 30:55Speaker 2: celebrate Hanukkah, and I found it all so interesting. And
- 30:59Speaker 2: my gay uncle Louie would dress me up and I
- 31:02Speaker 2: would sing Fiddler on the Roof songs to all his
- 31:04Speaker 2: gay boyfriends. And so I always had this love of
- 31:07Speaker 2: the Jewish faith because it was so different to me.
- 31:10Speaker 2: So my uncle Louie would dress me up and I'd
- 31:12Speaker 2: sing if Iridi go dumb, and he'd have his arms
- 31:18Speaker 2: around a couple guys, and I thought that's how all
- 31:21Speaker 2: kids grew up. But I went over to Halle Rothstein's house,
- 31:25Speaker 2: and I remember she wanted me to bring some boons
- 31:28Speaker 2: farm wine over, and I was only fifteen years old.
- 31:31Speaker 2: So I went to the liquor store, and everybody knew
- 31:34Speaker 2: there was this old perverted guy that would sit outside
- 31:37Speaker 2: the liquor store and if you let him touch your
- 31:39Speaker 2: leg a little bit, he would go in and buy
- 31:42Speaker 2: you the wine or the beer you want. So I
- 31:45Speaker 2: remember having this whole existential crisis. Do I let the
- 31:47Speaker 2: old man touch me so I can go to Halle
- 31:50Speaker 2: Rothstein's house and lose my virginity. And I rode my
- 31:53Speaker 2: bike over to her house and the old man was there.
- 31:58Speaker 2: He got to grab my leg and he comes out
- 32:01Speaker 2: with a bottle of Boons Farm wine and I had
- 32:03Speaker 2: it in a brown paper bag, and I was so disgusted.
- 32:06Speaker 2: After the old man grab my leg. I was riding
- 32:08Speaker 2: my bike to Ali Rothstein's and I had screwed the
- 32:10Speaker 2: cap and I was drinking the wine and chugging it.
- 32:13Speaker 2: And I went over to her house and I crawled
- 32:15Speaker 2: in the window of her room and then we started
- 32:18Speaker 2: making out. And you know, back in the early seventies,
- 32:22Speaker 2: you would make out with the girl and she'd have
- 32:24Speaker 2: Levi's five oh one button flies on and she would
- 32:27Speaker 2: let me on dudes like two buttons, and I'd get
- 32:30Speaker 2: my hand ride down her pants almost to the promised Land,
- 32:33Speaker 2: and then she'd pull it up put it back on
- 32:35Speaker 2: her boop. We both had braces, and the braces were
- 32:38Speaker 2: clicking as we were making out, and the dried saliva smell,
- 32:42Speaker 2: you could smell it wafting up your nostrils and we're
- 32:45Speaker 2: making out. But then back in those days, you couldn't
- 32:48Speaker 2: just put your iPhone on Spotify shuffle and have it
- 32:52Speaker 2: keep playing music. No, the record would die out. So
- 32:56Speaker 2: you hear this, and she asked to get up change
- 33:00Speaker 2: the record, so she gets up to change the record
- 33:03Speaker 2: and she puts on this other record. Come back. I
- 33:06Speaker 2: think I'm gonna lose my virginity to this beautiful Jewish girl.
- 33:09Speaker 2: We're making out. One thing leads to another, and I
- 33:13Speaker 2: hear this voice, this beautiful voicego moving in silent desperation,
- 33:21Speaker 2: keeping the nih on the Holy lad a hypathetical destination.
- 33:27Speaker 2: Say who is this Walking Man? And I just stopped
- 33:31Speaker 2: kissing her and I said who's that? She said, it's
- 33:35Speaker 2: James Taylor. And I just looked at the album covered
- 33:39Speaker 2: Walking Man. He was in this cool pose. And back
- 33:43Speaker 2: in those days, you couldn't look up if they were
- 33:44Speaker 2: shopping at Kroger and what they looked like, and when
- 33:47Speaker 2: they were getting their groceries. All you had was the
- 33:50Speaker 2: mystery of what was on that album. And you held
- 33:53Speaker 2: that big album up and you look at the back
- 33:55Speaker 2: of You're like Danny Kortzmark Russell, kunkle Leland Sklark. Who
- 34:00Speaker 2: are these people? These are gods. I need to know
- 34:03Speaker 2: about all these players and who they are. And I
- 34:06Speaker 2: looked at Hallie. I said, I'm sorry, I have to go.
- 34:09Speaker 2: Can I borrow this record? She said, I guess so,
- 34:13Speaker 2: so I didn't lose my virginity because I wanted to
- 34:16Speaker 2: go home and listen to James Taylor and hear Danny
- 34:19Speaker 2: Korchmark Cooch. They called him Cooch. That's all I knew.
- 34:23Speaker 2: Cooch was his name. I needed to do my research
- 34:27Speaker 2: and I needed to listen to this James Taylor guy.
- 34:29Speaker 2: Then years later, Danny Goldberg signs me to Mercury Universal Records,
- 34:36Speaker 2: and Timothy White, the now deceased editor of Billboard Magazine,
- 34:41Speaker 2: calls me up because he hears my record One Left Shoe,
- 34:44Speaker 2: and he says, Steve, I'm wondering if you were influenced
- 34:47Speaker 2: at all by James Taylor because of your fingerpick. I
- 34:51Speaker 2: really like this record, And I said, was I influenced
- 34:54Speaker 2: by James Taylor? And I proceeded to tell him about
- 34:57Speaker 2: the old man grabbing my leg embraces, clicking the drive Sliva,
- 35:02Speaker 2: the buttons on the Levi's five oh one, my hand,
- 35:05Speaker 2: going down to the promised land of Nirvana. And I said,
- 35:09Speaker 2: because of James, I didn't lose my virginity, and Timothy
- 35:12Speaker 2: White goes, oh my god, I love this story. Listen.
- 35:16Speaker 2: I'm friends with James Taylor. He's in Martha's Vineyard. Right now,
- 35:20Speaker 2: I'm gonna call him up, and would you tell him
- 35:23Speaker 2: that story? Well, Bob, I'm freaking out because James Taylor
- 35:29Speaker 2: was like one of my heroes. Right. So he gets
- 35:32Speaker 2: James on the phone in Martha's Vineyard. Timothy White's in
- 35:35Speaker 2: New York Billboard Magazine office, and I'm in San Diego,
- 35:39Speaker 2: and it's like a split screen, triple screen Doris da
- 35:42Speaker 2: Pillow talk. We're all on our phones. Can't see him,
- 35:45Speaker 2: but I can imagine it. And then all of a sudden,
- 35:48Speaker 2: right before James gets on the phone, Timothy White says,
- 35:51Speaker 2: tell James's story, but don't tell him the part about
- 35:54Speaker 2: the old man grabbing you, because that's kind of he
- 35:57Speaker 2: doesn't need to hear that. But tell him the story
- 35:59Speaker 2: about everything else. And I said, okay, okay. And so
- 36:01Speaker 2: that James gets on the line and I hear that
- 36:04Speaker 2: sweet tenor voice go hello, Steve, and I go James,
- 36:10Speaker 2: He goes yeah, Timothy goes tell them the story, and
- 36:12Speaker 2: then I go, I let an old.
- 36:13Speaker 4: Man grab my balls.
- 36:16Speaker 2: I couldn't help myself. And then I proceeded to tell
- 36:22Speaker 2: him the whole story. And after I told James Taylor
- 36:25Speaker 2: the whole story. There was this awkward pause on the line,
- 36:28Speaker 2: and then I heard James go, well, I hope you've
- 36:31Speaker 2: gotten laid since.
- 36:36Speaker 1: Okay, a little cleanup. Where's Hallie today?
- 36:41Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I would like to know. I need
- 36:44Speaker 2: to track her down on Facebook, but I have some
- 36:47Speaker 2: friends that told me I think she might still be
- 36:50Speaker 2: in Palm Springs. I would love to know how she's doing.
- 36:53Speaker 2: I would love her to hear that story because it
- 36:56Speaker 2: really was a memory mark.
- 36:58Speaker 1: Okay, you would have this one my old sensibility. This
- 37:01Speaker 1: doesn't come out of nowhere. What was going on in
- 37:04Speaker 1: your home that you had this way of looking at things, insights,
- 37:10Speaker 1: telling these funny stories. Was this your mother? Was this
- 37:13Speaker 1: your father? Your gay uncle? Where did this come from?
- 37:16Speaker 2: It was a combo meal deal. My dad would write
- 37:19Speaker 2: poems and he would run around the house and tap
- 37:22Speaker 2: dance and sing. He would always sing the Canadian national
- 37:26Speaker 2: anthem to me in the morning, so I would know
- 37:29Speaker 2: my Canadian roots. And my mom played piano and guitar
- 37:34Speaker 2: and would sing like an angel. And my uncle Louis
- 37:38Speaker 2: was a genius piano player, and so I was a
- 37:42Speaker 2: combination of all of them. And my uncle would always
- 37:46Speaker 2: have me play at recitals, and I would do the
- 37:49Speaker 2: part of Joel Gray and Cabaret. At a very young age.
- 37:53Speaker 2: I could do everything I could get up there, and
- 37:55Speaker 2: he would paint a little mustache on me and I'd
- 37:58Speaker 2: go become Bear, come and I would do the whole
- 38:03Speaker 2: thing and gabba lay, oh, gaballet do gabal lele, and
- 38:08Speaker 2: he would dress me up as Oliver, and I didn't
- 38:10Speaker 2: know how weird it was, because he'd have like eight
- 38:12Speaker 2: gay men over to the house and he would dress
- 38:15Speaker 2: me up like Oliver and make me go, please, suh,
- 38:18Speaker 2: may I have some more? And then they'd go, he
- 38:21Speaker 2: wants more. And then I'd have to think, oh, well,
- 38:24Speaker 2: buye this wonderful morning, and I'd put on a whole
- 38:28Speaker 2: show for them and I'd see how it worked. And
- 38:30Speaker 2: that was where I really started learning stuff because of
- 38:33Speaker 2: all of them. And he took me to see Julian
- 38:35Speaker 2: Bream at the Hollywood Bowl at the age of six
- 38:39Speaker 2: years old, Ella Fitzgerald, Carmen McCrae, Sarah Vaughan, Jesus Christ, Superstar,
- 38:46Speaker 2: god Spell, Hair. He took me to every Planet of
- 38:49Speaker 2: the Apes movie. My uncle Louis was just he was
- 38:52Speaker 2: so good for me.
- 38:54Speaker 1: Okay, that's your musical background. How about your twisted sense
- 38:58Speaker 1: of humor and your observational character.
- 39:02Speaker 2: So I started the rugburns in a garage and Sandy.
- 39:07Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no, no, way before.
- 39:08Speaker 2: That, way before that was okay?
- 39:11Speaker 1: Was it the type of thing you were all having
- 39:13Speaker 1: dinner together and people were telling long stories where you
- 39:16Speaker 1: were cracking jokes at the table. This sensibility has to
- 39:20Speaker 1: come from somewhere.
- 39:22Speaker 2: I think it was because my mom was really strict,
- 39:27Speaker 2: so I liked finding a way to get my sister
- 39:29Speaker 2: to laugh. Because my sister had a bit of depression
- 39:34Speaker 2: and my mom suffered from depression. So my mom had
- 39:37Speaker 2: to get shock therapy and the house was always really dark,
- 39:42Speaker 2: and I remember she came out of shock therapy and
- 39:45Speaker 2: she didn't know who we were, and it scared me,
- 39:49Speaker 2: and she would I would come home and she would
- 39:51Speaker 2: always be crying and the house would be dark. So
- 39:54Speaker 2: I would play classical guitar songs to her and I
- 39:56Speaker 2: would try to make her laugh. I really wanted to
- 39:59Speaker 2: make my mom happy because it hurt me to see
- 40:02Speaker 2: her so sad, and my sister was really sad. So
- 40:07Speaker 2: I would figure out what made them laugh. So if
- 40:11Speaker 2: I was able to do the Lord's Prayer with a
- 40:14Speaker 2: French accent without my mom hearing it at church to
- 40:18Speaker 2: get my sister to laugh, I would.
- 40:20Speaker 5: I would.
- 40:21Speaker 2: That's where things started. I would if false it would
- 40:25Speaker 2: be that name, SOI Kingdom come and Kathy would be
- 40:29Speaker 2: laughing so hard and my mom would get mad, and
- 40:31Speaker 2: then I'd find out a way to get my mom
- 40:33Speaker 2: to laugh. But honestly, I really believe I'm I think
- 40:39Speaker 2: you know, my mom died a few years ago and
- 40:41Speaker 2: the first thing I said was do you think she
- 40:43Speaker 2: loved me? And I think she did. But I used
- 40:50Speaker 2: to feel like the audience is kind of like my mom,
- 40:55Speaker 2: and maybe I'm on this search to win over the
- 40:58Speaker 2: audience to get her a rooval, And so I think
- 41:02Speaker 2: that's where it all started. Was I wanted to make
- 41:05Speaker 2: sure that I could try to make her happy because
- 41:08Speaker 2: I wanted to make sure she loved me. And I
- 41:12Speaker 2: haven't done deep therapy at all on it, but I
- 41:16Speaker 2: sort of have a sense that the audience is like
- 41:19Speaker 2: my mother.
- 41:27Speaker 1: Okay, before you get to the Rugbirds, you're going to school,
- 41:31Speaker 1: You're a smart kid, You're sort of sassy, which is
- 41:36Speaker 1: frustrating because you're doing well, but the teachers don't like
- 41:39Speaker 1: the disturbance. Did you have a lot of friends, Did
- 41:42Speaker 1: you play sports? Were you in student government or were
- 41:45Speaker 1: you off to the left somewhere.
- 41:48Speaker 2: So I was into student government and I loved sports.
- 41:54Speaker 2: I ran across country. I was on the wrestling team,
- 41:58Speaker 2: and I was in drama, so I did all the drama.
- 42:03Speaker 2: I did everything. Wrestling practices would go late. The only
- 42:07Speaker 2: reason I was on the wrestling nam is because I
- 42:09Speaker 2: didn't make the basketball team and the wrestling coach saw
- 42:12Speaker 2: me crying when I saw my name wasn't on the list,
- 42:15Speaker 2: and he said he needed a ninety eight pounder and
- 42:18Speaker 2: I weighed about ninety two pounds in ninth grade. So
- 42:22Speaker 2: I got on the wrestling team. And I wrestled for
- 42:25Speaker 2: four years ninth, tenth, eleventh, and twelfth grade. And I
- 42:29Speaker 2: got really good at it and it really helped me
- 42:31Speaker 2: because I didn't quit. But I was the only guy
- 42:34Speaker 2: on the wrestling team that was also in drama. And
- 42:37Speaker 2: I was in the Madrigals, which was the top singing
- 42:39Speaker 2: group where we would go to other schools and compete
- 42:42Speaker 2: sing songs in Latin and French and German, and so
- 42:47Speaker 2: I was constantly busy in school, constantly, and I think
- 42:51Speaker 2: part of that too was I didn't want to go home.
- 42:53Speaker 2: Because I went home, I felt a sense of darkness
- 42:58Speaker 2: and I didn't want to see my mom sad.
- 43:01Speaker 1: Okay graduate from high school?
- 43:03Speaker 2: Then what So I graduated from high school and I
- 43:07Speaker 2: went away. My sister had gone away to up with people.
- 43:11Speaker 2: Do you remember Up with People?
- 43:13Speaker 1: Absolutely used to be the halftime show with the NFL.
- 43:16Speaker 2: Oh yeah, So my sister she went away to up
- 43:20Speaker 2: with people and I was playing.
- 43:21Speaker 1: Oh, well, well that just doesn't happen by accident. How
- 43:24Speaker 1: did she get up with people?
- 43:25Speaker 4: So?
- 43:26Speaker 2: Up with People came to Palm Springs High School, which
- 43:29Speaker 2: is where I graduated from, and she applied and got in.
- 43:33Speaker 2: So she left me her Dodge Demon three on a
- 43:37Speaker 2: tree and on the back was a bumper sticker that
- 43:39Speaker 2: said give Jesus a chance. She got me stoned before
- 43:44Speaker 2: she left, taught me out to smoke beeed, and so
- 43:48Speaker 2: she she leans to go to up with people, and
- 43:53Speaker 2: then Up with People came back to our high school
- 43:56Speaker 2: and I went, man, I got to get out of here.
- 43:58Speaker 2: If I could go away with up with people, that
- 44:00Speaker 2: would be the greatest thing in the world. So they
- 44:03Speaker 2: came into our high school and played I've Never Forgotten
- 44:06Speaker 2: the shows in a big assembly hall a theater in
- 44:10Speaker 2: our Palm Springs High and I went up and I said,
- 44:13Speaker 2: can I apply for Up With People? And all my
- 44:15Speaker 2: friends were like, the stupid man, don't do that, like
- 44:19Speaker 2: all their wrestling friends. They're so lame. So I auditioned
- 44:23Speaker 2: for them, and I've Never Forgotten. I played a song
- 44:25Speaker 2: called Romanza, this Andre Segovia piece that's really sad. It's
- 44:30Speaker 2: a beautiful piece, Romanza, and I played it and they went, man,
- 44:34Speaker 2: you're a really gig guitar player. And then they ended
- 44:37Speaker 2: up giving me a scholarship Up with People. So I
- 44:40Speaker 2: got accepted and I went and I lived in Tucson.
- 44:44Speaker 2: And this is back in nineteen seventy eight. Like most
- 44:47Speaker 2: people have like that started band, like the Rugburns have
- 44:50Speaker 2: like punk credibility. You know, they're listening to television and
- 44:53Speaker 2: CBGB's what's happening. Not me. I was in Eliza Minelly
- 44:58Speaker 2: Barber streisand and Up with p People, Joel Gray and
- 45:01Speaker 2: classical guitar and so Up with People. I go over
- 45:06Speaker 2: there and I auditioned, and I live in Tucson and
- 45:09Speaker 2: I get in casts I think I was in cast
- 45:11Speaker 2: A and we were in the Latin American group. So
- 45:15Speaker 2: we went and lived in Mexico and we would sing
- 45:18Speaker 2: instead of up with people, because the song up with
- 45:20Speaker 2: people goes up up with people you meet and wherever
- 45:24Speaker 2: you go. But ours was biev lahente, and so we
- 45:28Speaker 2: would live with Mexican families and that's where I learned Spanish.
- 45:32Speaker 2: And then we went to Argentina and imagine I was
- 45:34Speaker 2: eighteen years old and I was in the band of
- 45:38Speaker 2: up with people playing guitar and we had like a
- 45:40Speaker 2: full orchestra, French horns, timpany, drums, everything, and that was
- 45:44Speaker 2: where I learned about soundcheck, loading and staying with people
- 45:49Speaker 2: in their houses. We'd have to write them a thank
- 45:51Speaker 2: you note afterwards. And we'd stay with all these different people,
- 45:54Speaker 2: and we traveled around the world and I got out
- 45:57Speaker 2: of up with people, and then I went away to
- 45:59Speaker 2: college University of San Diego, Catholic University, which made my
- 46:04Speaker 2: mom happy because it was Catholic, and I graduated from
- 46:08Speaker 2: there and that was where I started well a little
- 46:10Speaker 2: bit slower, okay.
- 46:12Speaker 1: So everybody Up with People has a tom No one
- 46:15Speaker 1: continues to stay in.
- 46:16Speaker 2: The act that no one what.
- 46:20Speaker 1: Okay, let's say I join up with People. Do I
- 46:23Speaker 1: know going in that I have a two year tenure
- 46:25Speaker 1: and then I'm done? Oh can you be in for
- 46:27Speaker 1: ten years?
- 46:28Speaker 2: Oh, it's a one year tenure. So you go in
- 46:32Speaker 2: and it's like going through boot camp. You learn all
- 46:34Speaker 2: these songs. My fingers that blisters on them. They got
- 46:37Speaker 2: me an ovation guitar around back guitar Glenn Campbell Artists
- 46:41Speaker 2: signed by Glenn Campbell, and I had that Ovation acoustic guitar.
- 46:46Speaker 2: So I go in for a whole year, and Bob,
- 46:52Speaker 2: it's so goofy to say, I think I'm the only
- 46:55Speaker 2: person in the world who has co written a song
- 46:57Speaker 2: with Billy String's Jewel Mojo Nixon and wasn't up with
- 47:01Speaker 2: People and played CBGB's and got to open for the Ramones,
- 47:05Speaker 2: Like it just doesn't make sense.
- 47:08Speaker 1: Okay, okay, but just staying with up with People for
- 47:11Speaker 1: one second. Up with People didn't have a religious element.
- 47:15Speaker 2: Did it.
- 47:15Speaker 1: No?
- 47:16Speaker 2: It was about kind of building bridges. It was non denomination,
- 47:20Speaker 2: right right, right.
- 47:21Speaker 1: But the things that are clean and cut have a
- 47:24Speaker 1: reputation under the surface of being the wildest, the most sex,
- 47:29Speaker 1: the most drugs, the mold booze. What was it like
- 47:32Speaker 1: being in up with people?
- 47:33Speaker 2: Oh my god. So there were all kinds of cast relationships,
- 47:38Speaker 2: like you're told you can't date somebody in it. That's
- 47:41Speaker 2: kind of the reason I wrote the song hand Job
- 47:44Speaker 2: on a Church Bus, Like I have a song called
- 47:46Speaker 2: hand Job on a Church bus. Like there was stuff
- 47:48Speaker 2: going on. There was gay stuff going on and cast
- 47:52Speaker 2: relationships happening. I remember I had a cast girlfriend and
- 47:56Speaker 2: a girl named Kathy McCarty, and we would have to
- 47:59Speaker 2: find places to meet up, to sneak out of our
- 48:02Speaker 2: host families or go in because you always stayed with families.
- 48:06Speaker 2: So I would find out where she lived, and we
- 48:08Speaker 2: didn't have Google maps. It was nineteen seventy eight. I'd
- 48:12Speaker 2: have a street map in Mexico, and I'd at midnight
- 48:15Speaker 2: climb out of the window of my place, find out
- 48:18Speaker 2: what Kathy McCarty was, sneak into the room where she
- 48:22Speaker 2: had a cast mate with her in another bed who
- 48:24Speaker 2: was asleep, and have the most silent sex that was
- 48:28Speaker 2: so forbidden, and the forbidden sex is the best, and
- 48:32Speaker 2: then climb back in the window of somebody's house in Mexico,
- 48:36Speaker 2: wake up in the morning and act like I've been
- 48:38Speaker 2: in sleep, and then surreptitiously walk by her on the
- 48:42Speaker 2: bus the next day and kind of wink and we'd
- 48:43Speaker 2: be laughing at what we pulled off. Yeah, it was crazy.
- 48:47Speaker 2: There was a lot of sex happening.
- 48:50Speaker 1: What about the University of San Diego? What was your
- 48:53Speaker 1: experience there?
- 48:55Speaker 2: Now that was really cool because what I did was
- 48:59Speaker 2: I went to gross I'mont College first and I took
- 49:02Speaker 2: classical guitar because they had a classical guitar.
- 49:04Speaker 1: Oh wait, wait, wait, wait wait wait, not everybody knows that.
- 49:07Speaker 1: Tell us a little bit more about that.
- 49:09Speaker 2: Okay. So in San Diego there's a bunch of different
- 49:12Speaker 2: colleges and they have junior colleges, that's what they're called.
- 49:15Speaker 2: So a junior college I went to because Grossmont College
- 49:20Speaker 2: was in La Mesa, and they had a classical guitar
- 49:23Speaker 2: department run by a guy named Miles Moignier. So Miles
- 49:29Speaker 2: was a great classical guitar teacher, and I was in
- 49:31Speaker 2: love with the classical guitar. I was learning box forat
- 49:35Speaker 2: I was doing duet pieces with Miles, so he was playing.
- 49:39Speaker 2: It was nineteen seventy nine at a place in La
- 49:42Speaker 2: Mesa called Porfivore, a Mexican restaurant, and then another restaurant
- 49:48Speaker 2: in Eltahonne, California, and that was called Ela Migo Ballroom.
- 49:52Speaker 2: So Miles went, hey, you're pretty good. I can't always
- 49:56Speaker 2: play well. You sub for me at the gigs. So
- 49:58Speaker 2: here I am nineteen years old playing at elam Ego
- 50:02Speaker 2: Ballroom and at poor Footbore, playing like four nights a week,
- 50:07Speaker 2: classical guitar, four hours a night, five hours a night.
- 50:10Speaker 2: I'd get a break in the middle. They'd feed me
- 50:13Speaker 2: when I got in and feed me again when I left.
- 50:16Speaker 2: I was a growing kid. I'd did two Mexican meals.
- 50:19Speaker 2: I had it made Bob. I was getting twenty five
- 50:22Speaker 2: bucks a night sitting in the corner playing classical guitar pieces.
- 50:26Speaker 2: And then one night I sang a song, and I
- 50:30Speaker 2: sang the song Time in a Bottle by Jim Crochy,
- 50:33Speaker 2: and we were only supposed to play, but I sang
- 50:36Speaker 2: Time in a Bottle and one of the waitresses was
- 50:39Speaker 2: named Brenda. I'll never forget. She was like forty five
- 50:42Speaker 2: years old. She came up to me and she goes, hey,
- 50:45Speaker 2: you can sing. I didn't know you could sing. You
- 50:48Speaker 2: sounded really good. Come outside, you want to smoke a
- 50:51Speaker 2: joint with me? And it was like Steve Martin and
- 50:53Speaker 2: the Jerk. And I went all right. And she was
- 50:55Speaker 2: this tough biker chick. So I smoked a joint with her.
- 50:58Speaker 2: And then she said, my old out of town at
- 51:01Speaker 2: a biker rally in Sturgis. He's got choppers out there.
- 51:05Speaker 2: He's shown him with all his biker friends. Why don't
- 51:07Speaker 2: you come over the house with smoke some more weed
- 51:09Speaker 2: and drink some beer. So I went over to her
- 51:11Speaker 2: house and it was in this area of Elkoholm that
- 51:15Speaker 2: was kind of scary. And she brings me into her house.
- 51:18Speaker 2: One thing leads to another. We end up in their waterbed.
- 51:21Speaker 2: We're having sex. I'm nineteen years old. Also, I hear
- 51:25Speaker 2: this Harley pull up in the driveway. She goes, you
- 51:28Speaker 2: gotta get out of here. You gotta get out of
- 51:30Speaker 2: the window right now. That's my old man. He'll kill you.
- 51:33Speaker 2: And I said, I thought you said he was in Sturges.
- 51:35Speaker 2: She said, he doesn't trust me. I think he came back.
- 51:38Speaker 2: He will kill you. And I remember leaving out of
- 51:42Speaker 2: that window, and one of my shoes was left there.
- 51:45Speaker 2: It was my left shoe, and I ran out and
- 51:48Speaker 2: I never showed up again at that place. I just
- 51:51Speaker 2: quit playing classical guitar in that one restaurant because that
- 51:54Speaker 2: guy was going to be looking for me. And to
- 51:56Speaker 2: this day, So I was in nineteen seventy nine and
- 51:59Speaker 2: she was four five years old. I was nineteen. I
- 52:01Speaker 2: don't know how old she'd be today, but I'm still scared.
- 52:05Speaker 2: When I see a biker come up, I imagine him
- 52:07Speaker 2: coming up with like a voicebox thing in his throat.
- 52:10Speaker 2: I'm going to kill you. I'm ninety.
- 52:16Speaker 1: Okay, how do you segue from community college to University
- 52:22Speaker 1: of San Diego?
- 52:23Speaker 2: So I went to UH Crossmont College. Then I went
- 52:27Speaker 2: to San Diego State for a year, and I'll never forget.
- 52:30Speaker 2: I was there the day John Lennon died. And at
- 52:34Speaker 2: San Diego State they had these music rooms, and in
- 52:38Speaker 2: those music rooms, you would show them your student card
- 52:41Speaker 2: and they would have Vinyl records and you could go
- 52:43Speaker 2: all alone in a music room and they'd have headphones
- 52:47Speaker 2: and it was amazing. Bob and I'd pull a record
- 52:50Speaker 2: out and I go ros Daman vibrations, re reggae music
- 52:55Speaker 2: that sounds interesting, and I put it on and all said,
- 52:59Speaker 2: I to hear Bob Mark like I'd never heard that.
- 53:01Speaker 2: It was like this whole foreign feat and I got
- 53:04Speaker 2: to listen to as many records as I want. So
- 53:07Speaker 2: I finished that year out there, and then I was
- 53:10Speaker 2: driving around San Diego and I saw University of San Diego,
- 53:14Speaker 2: Catholic University, and it all goes back to my mom.
- 53:16Speaker 2: I wanted to please her. I thought my mom would
- 53:19Speaker 2: like it if I went to USD. It's a Catholic school.
- 53:22Speaker 2: So I applied, got in, and I remember what got
- 53:25Speaker 2: me in was that when you were in up with people,
- 53:27Speaker 2: you're the kind of guy we want.
- 53:31Speaker 1: So I.
- 53:33Speaker 2: Know, I know, I know, it's just so wrong. And
- 53:37Speaker 2: so I got into the University of San Diego and
- 53:40Speaker 2: I played in the folk mass in church, and that's
- 53:43Speaker 2: where the rugburns started because I knew all the folk
- 53:46Speaker 2: songs because I was in a church choir my whole
- 53:49Speaker 2: life in the Catholic Church. I would sing all those
- 53:52Speaker 2: songs and so I knew them all. Like the Lamb
- 53:56Speaker 2: of God, Lamb of God, you take away the sins
- 54:00Speaker 2: of the world have mercy on us. Lamb of God,
- 54:04Speaker 2: you take away the sins of the world, grand us piece.
- 54:08Speaker 2: But I rewrote that as a punk rock song and
- 54:11Speaker 2: I had to go, Lamb of God, you take away
- 54:14Speaker 2: the sins of the world every day, give them back.
- 54:17Speaker 2: We want them back. Well, you think it's so cool,
- 54:20Speaker 2: you can take them away any time you want. We
- 54:22Speaker 2: got nothing to say, so we rewrote that. And that's
- 54:24Speaker 2: where the rugburn started. Was at USD and the guy
- 54:28Speaker 2: I started with was a guy named Rob Driscoll, and
- 54:31Speaker 2: we did classical guitar duets together, and now the Rugburns
- 54:35Speaker 2: started as classical guitar duets like box Beret and we
- 54:39Speaker 2: would play outside at Balboa Park for passing change. And
- 54:42Speaker 2: then our first gig was at Oh Hungary's where they
- 54:45Speaker 2: had yard long piers and I got really drunk and
- 54:47Speaker 2: broke a yard long pier and rather than pay us,
- 54:50Speaker 2: we had to pay them fifty bucks for the broken
- 54:53Speaker 2: glass that we did. And that was how we got started.
- 54:58Speaker 1: Okay, that's what while you're still going to school, or
- 55:02Speaker 1: really does your career start after you finish school?
- 55:05Speaker 2: So it started in school. Now I studied political science
- 55:10Speaker 2: with a minor in Spanish, so sometimes I like to
- 55:13Speaker 2: say I knew I wouldn't have a job, but at
- 55:15Speaker 2: least i'd know why. And so there I was. And
- 55:20Speaker 2: I would bring home professors to Palm Springs, all the
- 55:24Speaker 2: way from San Diego for Thanksgiving dinner. I would invite them,
- 55:28Speaker 2: and one of them was a Nixon apologist right wing
- 55:31Speaker 2: professor named doctor Starter, real right wing, and the other
- 55:35Speaker 2: was a San Denista loving socialist named doctor gil Otto.
- 55:40Speaker 2: And doctor Stoddard and doctor Otter Auto would come to
- 55:44Speaker 2: Palm Springs. I would drive them, my professors from University Bob.
- 55:48Speaker 2: I drive them two and a half hours. My mom
- 55:50Speaker 2: would have them over and the professors would get drunk
- 55:53Speaker 2: and try to hit on my sister, just like Elvis
- 55:56Speaker 2: Presley tried to hit on my sister when he Elvis
- 55:58Speaker 2: had me on his shoulders my sister, but these professors
- 56:02Speaker 2: were hitting on my sister. And I would ask them
- 56:04Speaker 2: political questions to try to get them into an argument.
- 56:07Speaker 2: It was like I was. It was almost like I
- 56:10Speaker 2: was Chris Matthews or somebody. I would ask me questions,
- 56:13Speaker 2: what do you think about this? And I'd get them
- 56:15Speaker 2: going at each other. They'd be screaming at each other.
- 56:17Speaker 2: It was really fun. We'd have the best political discussions.
- 56:21Speaker 2: He had a book written on Nixon Ping pong diplomacy,
- 56:24Speaker 2: and gil Otto would talk all about the Sandinistas and
- 56:27Speaker 2: what was going on in Central America. And I found
- 56:30Speaker 2: both sides really riveting and fascinating. And I've always been
- 56:34Speaker 2: a political animal because of that.
- 56:38Speaker 1: Okay, you graduate from college, do you ever think about
- 56:41Speaker 1: getting a street job.
- 56:43Speaker 2: Yes, So I got out of college, and the day
- 56:46Speaker 2: I got out of college, they had, you know how,
- 56:48Speaker 2: they would have job boards where they put all the jobs.
- 56:51Speaker 2: USD had that, and I was on the Speakers committee
- 56:55Speaker 2: at USD, so we would bring in speakers. You remember
- 56:59Speaker 2: John Anderson ran for president. He was the guy that
- 57:02Speaker 2: was kind of into no taxes. We got to bring
- 57:05Speaker 2: John Anderson in to talk. And then one day a
- 57:09Speaker 2: senator came in, and I was on the speakers committee.
- 57:12Speaker 2: I got to have dinner with him. And it was
- 57:13Speaker 2: a senator named Joe Biden. And so Joe Biden came in,
- 57:19Speaker 2: I have dinner with him, and it was at that
- 57:21Speaker 2: moment I went, oh, my god, this guy is going
- 57:25Speaker 2: to be president. Of course, this is back in nineteen
- 57:27Speaker 2: eighty three or eighty four. And I remember he looked
- 57:32Speaker 2: like Charles Groden, and I always loved Charles Groden and
- 57:36Speaker 2: the stuff he did with Goldie Hahn and Joe Biden
- 57:40Speaker 2: was just so charming and so fun to have dinner with.
- 57:43Speaker 2: And I went, I would quit everything and go work
- 57:46Speaker 2: on this guy's career. Little did I know he would
- 57:48Speaker 2: be president so many years later when he was old.
- 57:52Speaker 2: But back in the day, that guy was sharp and
- 57:55Speaker 2: he was so charming, and it was really neat to
- 57:57Speaker 2: say that I had dinner with Joe Biden. Got out
- 58:01Speaker 2: of USD. I graduated, had really good grades, and I
- 58:04Speaker 2: applied for a job at a plastics factory because my
- 58:08Speaker 2: parents used to always go to me plastics, plastics, just
- 58:14Speaker 2: like in the graduate and so I thought my mom
- 58:19Speaker 2: would be happy if I got this job. Honestly, Bob,
- 58:21Speaker 2: the theme I'm finding out you're like a great shrink.
- 58:25Speaker 2: You asked really good questions, and I'm going to reiterate
- 58:28Speaker 2: this long time. I love you like I always have.
- 58:31Speaker 2: I love your letter. I love what you write, and
- 58:34Speaker 2: you've taught me a lot of just being yourself. That's
- 58:37Speaker 2: all you can be. I'm apologetically you. And so the
- 58:41Speaker 2: theme of this is I wanted to please my mom
- 58:43Speaker 2: and get a real job, even though I wanted to
- 58:45Speaker 2: just play music. So the night before the interview for
- 58:50Speaker 2: my job, there was this girl that lived at the
- 58:52Speaker 2: beach right by me named Kiara Talini, beautiful Italian girl,
- 58:57Speaker 2: and she was in her room and I was walking
- 59:00Speaker 2: down by the beach and she was with Elizabeth, her roommate,
- 59:03Speaker 2: and she said, hey, Steve, I've you ever eating magic mushrooms?
- 59:06Speaker 2: And I said no, but I want to. So she said,
- 59:09Speaker 2: we just got some and I said, well, I got
- 59:11Speaker 2: an interview at eight am. I had a plastics factory.
- 59:15Speaker 2: And she said, oh, they'll be worn off by them.
- 59:19Speaker 2: So it was midnight and I ate these magic mushrooms.
- 59:23Speaker 2: It didn't kick in. It had been an hour. It
- 59:26Speaker 2: was one in the morning, so I said, give me more.
- 59:28Speaker 2: They gave me more, and it kicked in at about
- 59:30Speaker 2: two am. And when it kicked in, I was out
- 59:35Speaker 2: with my fucking mind. I took a can of spray
- 59:38Speaker 2: paint out and started spray painting the wall of my house.
- 59:40Speaker 2: I had Elizabeth and Kiara with me. I said, let's
- 59:43Speaker 2: all three of us get in the bathtub and get
- 59:45Speaker 2: a dozen eggs, and we took off our clothes, were
- 59:48Speaker 2: in our underwear, and then they broke eggs over my head.
- 59:53Speaker 2: And I remember this feeling so free and so good.
- 59:57Speaker 2: And next thing I knew, my roommate came in and said, dude,
- 1:00:00Speaker 2: I got to take you to your job interview. It
- 1:00:01Speaker 2: was seven. I had egg in my hair and I
- 1:00:04Speaker 2: bought an old suit at a thrift store. I duct
- 1:00:07Speaker 2: taped up the pants and I went in for a
- 1:00:09Speaker 2: job interview. I was tripping balls on shrooms and this guy,
- 1:00:14Speaker 2: Tom Plane sits behind this desk and he was a
- 1:00:17Speaker 2: Wharton graduate from University of Pennsylvania, and he said, tell
- 1:00:21Speaker 2: me why I should hire you, dude, this is why
- 1:00:23Speaker 2: mushrooms were so cool back then. It was like I
- 1:00:26Speaker 2: became Tony Robbins or Stephen Covey the Seven Habits of
- 1:00:29Speaker 2: highly effective people. I sat down and told him why
- 1:00:32Speaker 2: he needed to hire me at his plastics factory because
- 1:00:35Speaker 2: he had a product called slip Fix that could repair
- 1:00:38Speaker 2: PBC pipe. And I said, let me tell you why
- 1:00:41Speaker 2: you need to hire me. I'm going to get a
- 1:00:43Speaker 2: truck and a barbecue, and I'm going to go out
- 1:00:45Speaker 2: where the contractors go and I'm going to make them
- 1:00:47Speaker 2: hot dogs, and he goes hot dogs and I said, yeah,
- 1:00:50Speaker 2: I'm gonna call it slip fis and dogs, and I
- 1:00:53Speaker 2: will sell more than you've ever expected in your life. Dude.
- 1:00:57Speaker 2: This guy's mind was blown. And then he took out
- 1:00:59Speaker 2: a piece of paper and he wrote seventeen point five
- 1:01:03Speaker 2: and that was his offer for a salary for me,
- 1:01:05Speaker 2: and he slid it across the table and I didn't
- 1:01:08Speaker 2: know what it meant. So I crossed that ou out
- 1:01:10Speaker 2: and I wrote fourteen point two. He goes, what do
- 1:01:15Speaker 2: you mean that's less than I'm offering you? And I
- 1:01:18Speaker 2: didn't even break a beat and I said, why would
- 1:01:21Speaker 2: I want more when I could have less? And he
- 1:01:24Speaker 2: said what do you mean? I said, I want back
- 1:01:26Speaker 2: in deals, Tom, And I said, I know I'm going
- 1:01:30Speaker 2: to sell a lot. I need a company car. I
- 1:01:32Speaker 2: need a percentage of sales. And he said, I like
- 1:01:34Speaker 2: your style. He hired me right there. He said, you
- 1:01:37Speaker 2: can take the company on a car home. In my mind,
- 1:01:39Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm tripping balls on trims. Let me pick
- 1:01:42Speaker 2: it up on Monday. So I got the job. He
- 1:01:45Speaker 2: gives me the job. I worked there for three years,
- 1:01:49Speaker 2: went to sales conferences, everything I would tell people I
- 1:01:53Speaker 2: wasn't up with people to try to get them to
- 1:01:54Speaker 2: trust me. And after three years, I read a book
- 1:01:58Speaker 2: called The Edge by William Somerset Mom and Mom is
- 1:02:03Speaker 2: spelled im a Uga Champ, great author. That book changed
- 1:02:08Speaker 2: my life because the protagonist in the story was a
- 1:02:11Speaker 2: guy named Larry Daryl, and he wants to just go
- 1:02:14Speaker 2: bum around Europe, and that's what I wanted to do.
- 1:02:17Speaker 2: I wanted to play my guitar on the streets. So
- 1:02:19Speaker 2: I went into my boss's office. I said I need
- 1:02:22Speaker 2: some time on He said how much time do you need?
- 1:02:25Speaker 2: A week? Two weeks? I want to go to Europe
- 1:02:28Speaker 2: and he says I said to him, I need nine
- 1:02:31Speaker 2: months and he looked at me like I was crazy.
- 1:02:33Speaker 2: He said why, I said, because I want to play
- 1:02:35Speaker 2: my guitar on the streets. And he goes for passing change.
- 1:02:37Speaker 2: I said yeah, and he said like a bum and
- 1:02:39Speaker 2: I go yeah, like a bum And he said, you
- 1:02:42Speaker 2: know what, I'm going to give you nine months off,
- 1:02:44Speaker 2: but you have to shake my hand and promised me
- 1:02:46Speaker 2: you'll come back and work for me after nine months.
- 1:02:48Speaker 2: And I said, I'm a man of my word. I
- 1:02:49Speaker 2: will do that. He gave me. Nine months off, I
- 1:02:53Speaker 2: went to Europe. I played guitar on the streets. I'd
- 1:02:55Speaker 2: already been in the Rugburns, started the Rugburns, but I
- 1:02:58Speaker 2: wanted to be a street musician. Nine months I went
- 1:03:01Speaker 2: all around Ireland. I hitchhiked, rode a bicycle, played in
- 1:03:05Speaker 2: front of the Loop in Paris. I played in Amsterdam.
- 1:03:08Speaker 2: Then I want to see what it'd be like to
- 1:03:09Speaker 2: busk in Morocco, so I went to Africa. Busked in Morocco,
- 1:03:13Speaker 2: went to Lisbon, Portugal, Bartholona, Spain, everywhere, ended up in England,
- 1:03:19Speaker 2: and then went up to Sweden Norway. Met beautiful people
- 1:03:24Speaker 2: and I would play guitar on the streets. Lived in Amsterdam.
- 1:03:27Speaker 2: And after nine months I came back and my hair
- 1:03:29Speaker 2: was long. He made me cut it, and he hired
- 1:03:32Speaker 2: me back, and I did it for three more years. Well.
- 1:03:35Speaker 2: I played at nights and then I said I've got
- 1:03:38Speaker 2: to quit now. And I'm still friends with that guy
- 1:03:41Speaker 2: Tom Play. I just stayed at his beachfront palace in
- 1:03:45Speaker 2: San Diego. He has like a ten million dollar house
- 1:03:47Speaker 2: right on the beach, and he's still a dear friend
- 1:03:50Speaker 2: of mine. And he laughed so hard because he comes
- 1:03:52Speaker 2: to my shows and sees the crazy shit I say
- 1:03:54Speaker 2: on stage, and I always make him stand up and
- 1:03:57Speaker 2: take a bow. Changed my life.
- 1:04:00Speaker 1: Oh okay, Yeah, that whole tripping sales pitch. Did you
- 1:04:04Speaker 1: live up to it?
- 1:04:06Speaker 2: Oh? I was really good. It was bizarre. I don't
- 1:04:11Speaker 2: even I could go in there and I could sell
- 1:04:12Speaker 2: anything to anyone because I would just become their friend
- 1:04:16Speaker 2: and then take them out to dinner and they'd start
- 1:04:18Speaker 2: getting orders coming in. So yeah, I made him a
- 1:04:21Speaker 2: lot of money, and that's why he kept me on.
- 1:04:23Speaker 2: But I knew my life wasn't as a nipple salesman.
- 1:04:26Speaker 2: I sold nipples, is what it was. PVC nipple is
- 1:04:29Speaker 2: a piece of pipe that's threaded. And I said, when
- 1:04:32Speaker 2: I'm eighty years old and I'm on my deathbed, do
- 1:04:36Speaker 2: I want to look back on my life and go, hey,
- 1:04:38Speaker 2: you were a great nipple salesman. Or do I want
- 1:04:41Speaker 2: to say you didn't whist out and you followed your
- 1:04:44Speaker 2: heart and you lived your dream, which was to play music,
- 1:04:49Speaker 2: make cassettes. The rug Burns we had cassette release parties.
- 1:04:53Speaker 2: You know, would we would have this whole scene we
- 1:04:55Speaker 2: created because I always believed rather than play in a
- 1:04:59Speaker 2: bar without our has a scene like the Chasmon in
- 1:05:01Speaker 2: San Diego or something. Find a bar that's your own.
- 1:05:04Speaker 2: And that's what I told Jewel as well. Find a bar,
- 1:05:09Speaker 2: create your own scene, and people will come to you,
- 1:05:13Speaker 2: kind of like you. You started your lefts Its letter,
- 1:05:16Speaker 2: you were mimiographing that shit.
- 1:05:18Speaker 4: You.
- 1:05:19Speaker 2: I mean, I knew of you back when I was
- 1:05:21Speaker 2: signed by Danny Goldberg back in those days, and you
- 1:05:26Speaker 2: would have the lefts Its Letter and then you just
- 1:05:28Speaker 2: went digital. You've always gone with the thing, and you
- 1:05:32Speaker 2: created your own thing. And there's nothing better than home cooking.
- 1:05:37Speaker 2: That's why when I read a biography of Steve Jobs
- 1:05:39Speaker 2: or Elon Musk by Walter Isaacson, I relate, or Phil
- 1:05:44Speaker 2: Knight even I relate to all those guys because they
- 1:05:47Speaker 2: were singular, purpose driven. It's not about how rich you are,
- 1:05:51Speaker 2: what you have, or if somebody has more people than
- 1:05:54Speaker 2: you and they're playing to a stadium. No, what it's
- 1:05:57Speaker 2: about is were you in the flow? How did you
- 1:06:00Speaker 2: live your life? Were you in the flow? Did you
- 1:06:02Speaker 2: find something that you had to do because I have
- 1:06:06Speaker 2: to do this, like I have to play shows. I
- 1:06:09Speaker 2: will play shows till I die.
- 1:06:18Speaker 1: Okay, go back for three years after being in Europe,
- 1:06:22Speaker 1: you quit. Tell me about quitting. Do you say, well,
- 1:06:25Speaker 1: I have enough money in the bank. What was the
- 1:06:28Speaker 1: plan when you quit? And what actually happened?
- 1:06:32Speaker 2: So he gave me a forty thousand dollars payout, and
- 1:06:38Speaker 2: I remember I called my friend Jerry and Boseman Montanae.
- 1:06:42Speaker 2: I said, I just got forty thousand dollars and it
- 1:06:46Speaker 2: was nineteen ninety two, and he said to me, You're
- 1:06:50Speaker 2: never going to get that much money again. Put it
- 1:06:52Speaker 2: in the bank, don't touch it. You'll never get that again.
- 1:06:57Speaker 2: So I put it in the bank. Everybody in San
- 1:07:02Speaker 2: Diego was getting record deals, right. It was at the
- 1:07:05Speaker 2: time when things were just starting to happen Rocket from
- 1:07:08Speaker 2: the Crypt, Rust, Blink Inch a Miniature. There was this
- 1:07:16Speaker 2: whole punk scene happening, and so the Rugburns. I became
- 1:07:21Speaker 2: really good friends with Mojo Nixon and the Beat Farmers.
- 1:07:24Speaker 2: Those guys were kind of my teachers. So I said
- 1:07:27Speaker 2: to myself, I gotta go out and keep playing music.
- 1:07:31Speaker 2: So this guy who was in the Beat Farmers, his
- 1:07:33Speaker 2: name was Buddy Blue. He's now deceased, but he was
- 1:07:36Speaker 2: also a writer for the San Diego Reader and for
- 1:07:39Speaker 2: the Union Tribune, and he was in the Beat Farmers.
- 1:07:41Speaker 2: Buddy Blue got me signed to Bizarre Planet Records and Bizarre.
- 1:07:47Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, wait wait I yeah, wait, Wait a second.
- 1:07:50Speaker 1: I knew Herb and his brother, but there were stories
- 1:07:54Speaker 1: onto themselves. How do you get hooked up with Herb cold?
- 1:07:58Speaker 1: I know?
- 1:07:59Speaker 2: Is this crazy? So what happened is Buddy Blue was
- 1:08:02Speaker 2: signed to Bizarre and so he brought them in to
- 1:08:06Speaker 2: see me, Herb Cohen and said, you got to see
- 1:08:09Speaker 2: this guy. He's in this duo. We were a duo Rugburts,
- 1:08:12Speaker 2: Me and Rob Driscoll, and he came to see us,
- 1:08:15Speaker 2: immediately signed us and said you need to come up
- 1:08:19Speaker 2: to La meet Mutt Cohen, and I want you to
- 1:08:24Speaker 2: do an ePK. They used to do epk's back then,
- 1:08:27Speaker 2: electronic press kits where they would send them out on
- 1:08:29Speaker 2: a video cassette. And my ePK was me with Wildman
- 1:08:34Speaker 2: Fisher because Wildman Fisher was on Bizarre and wild Mount
- 1:08:37Speaker 2: Fisher would walk around and for those of you listen
- 1:08:40Speaker 2: out there, wild Mount Fisher was signed by Zappa and
- 1:08:42Speaker 2: he was this guy you would go.
- 1:08:43Speaker 4: My name is Larry.
- 1:08:45Speaker 2: I have a sister, and we have this whole thing
- 1:08:48Speaker 2: where he would go up to people who's a better songwriter,
- 1:08:50Speaker 2: Steve Poltzer, Wildman Fisher and wild Mattfisher would have crumbs
- 1:08:54Speaker 2: in his beard and just crazy stuff. So we make
- 1:08:58Speaker 2: this electronic press kit the rugber Get signed. Next thing
- 1:09:01Speaker 2: I know, we're playing at like the True Badoura in
- 1:09:04Speaker 2: La and Club Lingerie and all these different places, and
- 1:09:09Speaker 2: so weird Al would always come out to see us,
- 1:09:11Speaker 2: and so weird Al loved a song by the Rugburns
- 1:09:15Speaker 2: called Dix Automotive. Because of Dick's automotive, weird Aal wrote
- 1:09:19Speaker 2: the song Albuquerque, which is one of his songs he wrote,
- 1:09:22Speaker 2: but it's a direct takeoff of the Rugburns, but he
- 1:09:25Speaker 2: didn't credit us. I kind of wish he would have,
- 1:09:27Speaker 2: but it's okay. He wrote Albuquerque. If you ab di'x
- 1:09:31Speaker 2: automotive and Albuquerque he's doing. He would always he was
- 1:09:34Speaker 2: obsessed with that song, would come in and listen to.
- 1:09:37Speaker 2: John was living in Ocean Beach, California with his girlfriend
- 1:09:39Speaker 2: Juliet's where I'm talking really rapid, and so we get
- 1:09:43Speaker 2: signed herb Cohen for whatever reason, loves me. He flew
- 1:09:48Speaker 2: He would fly me to Paris with him to meet
- 1:09:51Speaker 2: this guy named Ben Waugh who worked at Monterey Jazz
- 1:09:55Speaker 2: Fest and stuff. And Herb Cohen was this insane guy
- 1:09:59Speaker 2: who used to to run guns with Fidel Castro. He
- 1:10:02Speaker 2: signed Lenny Bruce, Alice Cooper, Linda Ronstadt, Tom Waits. I
- 1:10:06Speaker 2: mean his history is crazy. They on the publishing on
- 1:10:10Speaker 2: Everybody's talking at me. Fred Neil saw on that Harry
- 1:10:13Speaker 2: Niels would say, so, Herb Cohen would fly me to
- 1:10:16Speaker 2: Paris out of the blue and go, I know a
- 1:10:19Speaker 2: great place where we can get couscous on Saturdays. Are
- 1:10:22Speaker 2: you in? And he would buy me and him tickets
- 1:10:25Speaker 2: first class, probably charge it to me, and then he'd
- 1:10:29Speaker 2: pay like three hundred dollars cab. Right, we'd end up
- 1:10:31Speaker 2: in some nondescript Moroccan neighborhood in Paris eating couscous with
- 1:10:36Speaker 2: Ben Law. I mean, being signed by Herb Cohen was
- 1:10:40Speaker 2: like a blessing. Even though he took half the publishing.
- 1:10:44Speaker 2: I didn't even care. And he would show up at
- 1:10:46Speaker 2: my gigs and Herb would go because Herb if put
- 1:10:49Speaker 2: anybody out there listening. He was on the cover of
- 1:10:51Speaker 2: Nighthawks at the diner with Tom Waits, he's the guy
- 1:10:54Speaker 2: sitting in that picture, and Herb Cohen would go, you
- 1:10:58Speaker 2: need to get midgets on the stage with you, and
- 1:11:01Speaker 2: don't drink whiskey. Put iced t in the whiskey bottle.
- 1:11:06Speaker 2: So we get signed to that label and this guy
- 1:11:10Speaker 2: Mike Haller and ninety one X starts playing a song
- 1:11:13Speaker 2: called Hitchhiker Joe and the song starts kind of getting
- 1:11:17Speaker 2: college radio favorite type stuff. So we end up going
- 1:11:20Speaker 2: on tour with the band X and I'd split my
- 1:11:23Speaker 2: head open. I had fifty six stitches in my skull
- 1:11:26Speaker 2: and we would play with X and John Doe and
- 1:11:30Speaker 2: then we got to play with the Ramones and Cleveland,
- 1:11:33Speaker 2: and it was just nuts because Joey Ramone was really
- 1:11:36Speaker 2: nice to me. They didn't let bands stay backstage when
- 1:11:40Speaker 2: they would be on, but Joey went, you guys are cool,
- 1:11:42Speaker 2: you could watch us play. But everything changed when Mojo
- 1:11:45Speaker 2: Nixon took me out, because Mojo was insane, and we
- 1:11:51Speaker 2: would play stashes in Columbus, Ohio, and a biker would
- 1:11:55Speaker 2: show up and you'd go come down to the basement.
- 1:11:58Speaker 2: I just made some crystal meth in the desert in
- 1:12:01Speaker 2: Baker's Field, and Mojo was like Saddam Hussein, and he
- 1:12:04Speaker 2: would have me try his drugs to make sure they
- 1:12:06Speaker 2: weren't poisonous first before he did them. So you go
- 1:12:09Speaker 2: have Bolts try that drug. And so I would snort
- 1:12:12Speaker 2: the meth and then we would be out of our
- 1:12:15Speaker 2: minds and the Rugburanns would go on stage and just
- 1:12:17Speaker 2: destroy shit, get the power turned off on us. And
- 1:12:20Speaker 2: Mojo came up with this quote, no mom meth, but Bolts, y'all.
- 1:12:24Speaker 2: Motherfucker is gonna make me work too hard. And so
- 1:12:28Speaker 2: we became super close with him. And so the only
- 1:12:31Speaker 2: couple times I'd done meth where with Shane McGowan of
- 1:12:34Speaker 2: the Pogues and with Mojo Nixon and think I'm the
- 1:12:37Speaker 2: only guy that sat on Elvis Presley's shoulders and snorted
- 1:12:41Speaker 2: meth out of Shane McGowan's dirty thumbnail, and then with
- 1:12:44Speaker 2: Mojo Nixon's drug taster. And so our shows just became
- 1:12:49Speaker 2: nuts where we would just anything would go on stage,
- 1:12:54Speaker 2: and the Rugburnds toured hard.
- 1:12:56Speaker 1: It was crazy, okay, continue So.
- 1:13:00Speaker 2: As we were going on the road, we had this
- 1:13:04Speaker 2: drummer in the band. We became a full band, and
- 1:13:06Speaker 2: we went from being a duo. Herb Cohen thought we
- 1:13:09Speaker 2: should get a drummer and a bass player, and so
- 1:13:12Speaker 2: I would go up to La a Lot to Herb
- 1:13:14Speaker 2: and Mutt's office and they also have a son, Evan
- 1:13:18Speaker 2: Con and I would hang out with Herb and Mutt
- 1:13:21Speaker 2: in their office all the time, and Herb would go,
- 1:13:24Speaker 2: I know a great place that makes a great oxtail soup.
- 1:13:28Speaker 2: We're going to go over there. And we would go
- 1:13:30Speaker 2: to Musso and Franks and just hang out, Me and
- 1:13:33Speaker 2: Herb Cohen. It was crazy. So they would give us
- 1:13:35Speaker 2: money to go out on the road. We toured NonStop.
- 1:13:39Speaker 2: We would go for like nine months at a time.
- 1:13:42Speaker 2: And we had this old van and most band members
- 1:13:45Speaker 2: when they're in a van, they put band stickers on it,
- 1:13:49Speaker 2: you know it's a band. But I came up with
- 1:13:51Speaker 2: this idea because fans are always getting broken into tint
- 1:13:54Speaker 2: out the windows black and on the side, just put
- 1:13:57Speaker 2: Saint Joseph's Catholics had that on the back and on
- 1:14:01Speaker 2: the sides.
- 1:14:03Speaker 4: Nobody ever broke into our van, never, So we.
- 1:14:08Speaker 2: Would just drive down the road in this van and
- 1:14:11Speaker 2: it says Saint Justine's Catholic school. I remember one time
- 1:14:13Speaker 2: we were in West Virginia and we got pulled over.
- 1:14:17Speaker 2: But if you really inspected the van, on the roof,
- 1:14:19Speaker 2: we had all these naked lady playing cards, you know
- 1:14:21Speaker 2: where they used to sell those at truck stops where
- 1:14:23Speaker 2: the girls would have big boobs and they'd be a
- 1:14:26Speaker 2: deck of fifty two cards. We had them glued to
- 1:14:29Speaker 2: the ceiling of the van, and my hair was like
- 1:14:31Speaker 2: long and striped, weird. And we had this record out
- 1:14:35Speaker 2: called Morning Wood. It was on bizarre and then we
- 1:14:38Speaker 2: had Mommy, I'm sorry, this other one where I'd be
- 1:14:41Speaker 2: in a pink dress. And so this state trooper pulled
- 1:14:45Speaker 2: us over when we were in the rugbords and he
- 1:14:47Speaker 2: starts looking at us and looking at our hair, and
- 1:14:50Speaker 2: he goes, what is Saint Justsephe's Catholic school? I said,
- 1:14:52Speaker 2: And I remember I said to him, I'm just singing
- 1:14:54Speaker 2: for the Lord, sir. And then he saw make a
- 1:14:57Speaker 2: lady playing cards and he didn't know what was going on.
- 1:15:00Speaker 2: Just get out of the van. He looked at the
- 1:15:03Speaker 2: van and he didn't know what to do. And this
- 1:15:06Speaker 2: is the weirdest thing that's ever happened to me. He goes,
- 1:15:09Speaker 2: you can go and he goes here, maybe you need these,
- 1:15:11Speaker 2: and he gave me some handcuffs with a key, like
- 1:15:15Speaker 2: real cop handcuffs. He gave me them, Bob, and I
- 1:15:19Speaker 2: remember I would pull them out on stage and a
- 1:15:22Speaker 2: big part of my show would be I'd handcuff myself
- 1:15:24Speaker 2: to the drum kit and I put the key somewhere
- 1:15:28Speaker 2: and I'd fake like I lost it, like I was
- 1:15:30Speaker 2: going to be chained to the floor of the whole show.
- 1:15:33Speaker 2: So then we played in a Chicago at a club
- 1:15:36Speaker 2: called shubas Southport and Belmont. There was a girl that
- 1:15:39Speaker 2: was beautiful named Anastasia who was the booking agent. Now
- 1:15:44Speaker 2: she's a big part of my life because she went
- 1:15:46Speaker 2: to UCLA and I took her to a place called
- 1:15:51Speaker 2: mccabs in Santa Monica to see a guy named Loud
- 1:15:54Speaker 2: and Wayne right the third And I remember when I
- 1:15:58Speaker 2: was with her at that show, I watched Luden Wayne Wright,
- 1:16:01Speaker 2: and that's when I saw my future. So what I
- 1:16:05Speaker 2: mean is I'm watching Laden Wayne Write play on stage
- 1:16:08Speaker 2: at mccabs and I was in the rugburns and I
- 1:16:11Speaker 2: have my arm around Anastasia and I looked at her.
- 1:16:14Speaker 2: I've never forgotten this and I said I can do that,
- 1:16:18Speaker 2: and she goes, what do you mean? I said, what
- 1:16:20Speaker 2: he's doing, I can do that. I'm in the Rugburns
- 1:16:22Speaker 2: right now wearing a dress on stage. But that's my future.
- 1:16:26Speaker 2: I don't mean I can be him. I mean I
- 1:16:28Speaker 2: can do what he's doing and I can make a living.
- 1:16:32Speaker 2: Everything came before I saw everything my future. And then
- 1:16:37Speaker 2: Anastasia got a job as the booking agent moved out
- 1:16:39Speaker 2: to Chicago. I remember I showed up sorrow. I had
- 1:16:43Speaker 2: just gotten the handcuffs, and I said, why don't you
- 1:16:45Speaker 2: meet me anywhere in Europe this summer. Let's take two
- 1:16:48Speaker 2: weeks and go make love on the beaches somewhere. And
- 1:16:51Speaker 2: we opened up the Let's Go Europe book. This is
- 1:16:54Speaker 2: pre internet, and I said, wherever my finger touches on
- 1:16:57Speaker 2: the page, you're going to meet me there. In October.
- 1:17:00Speaker 2: It was a place called Making Use and Greece. She
- 1:17:03Speaker 2: showed up and I brought the handcuffs, and I was
- 1:17:08Speaker 2: with my friend Kevin McGrath, who I wrote I want
- 1:17:10Speaker 2: all my friends to be happy about. He died of
- 1:17:13Speaker 2: cancer and he came out to run the Athens Marathon.
- 1:17:18Speaker 2: I brought the handcuffs Bob and Tom Petty had just
- 1:17:21Speaker 2: come out with free Fall, and so we were walking
- 1:17:24Speaker 2: on the down the streets and Greece and making us
- 1:17:27Speaker 2: singing She's a good girl, loves her mama, drinking shots
- 1:17:32Speaker 2: of Luzo, but me and Anastasia are fake drinking the
- 1:17:34Speaker 2: shots because we had no money, so we were all
- 1:17:36Speaker 2: sharing a room. I wanted to have sex with Anastasia,
- 1:17:39Speaker 2: but Kevin was going to be in the room, so
- 1:17:41Speaker 2: I needed to get him drunk enough where he was
- 1:17:43Speaker 2: passed out because I wanted to use the handcuffs on Anastasia.
- 1:17:47Speaker 5: So we're walking on the streets going She's bat and
- 1:17:50Speaker 5: I'm a bad boy living in Mezieda, and then he's
- 1:17:54Speaker 5: getting the chorus.
- 1:17:55Speaker 2: I'm free free falling. So we go back to the room,
- 1:17:59Speaker 2: Kevin asses out, Anastasia goes. I brought over some sexy
- 1:18:04Speaker 2: lainger aim and to go in the bathroom and change
- 1:18:06Speaker 2: into it. So I got totally naked and I handcuffed
- 1:18:10Speaker 2: myself to the ceiling fan, and then the ceiling fan
- 1:18:13Speaker 2: was kind of going slow, so I was like a
- 1:18:15Speaker 2: rotisserie chicken. But I almost looked like an egon ChIL
- 1:18:18Speaker 2: painting because I was real skinny, my fingers are real long,
- 1:18:22Speaker 2: and I'm hanging from the ceiling fan twirling around real slow,
- 1:18:26Speaker 2: and Kevin's asleep and I'm nude. Anastasia walks out in
- 1:18:31Speaker 2: some sexy lingerie and she sees me, and she goes,
- 1:18:34Speaker 2: you're a bad boy. And then all of a sudden,
- 1:18:36Speaker 2: Kevin sits up like a mummy.
- 1:18:37Speaker 5: And goes living in Resida, and he was awake the
- 1:18:41Speaker 5: whole time. I'd seen everything. So this is the kind
- 1:18:45Speaker 5: of shit. This is why I do this line of work.
- 1:18:48Speaker 5: For the handcuffs, for the love, and for the music
- 1:18:53Speaker 5: and all of that stuff. To have been able to
- 1:18:55Speaker 5: have been signed to Bizarre Planet Records after being on
- 1:18:58Speaker 5: up with people, I mean, come on, it's a great life.
- 1:19:02Speaker 5: We get to live here, Bob.
- 1:19:05Speaker 1: So how did it end with Herb?
- 1:19:07Speaker 2: What happened was Herb I would go up and see
- 1:19:12Speaker 2: in La and then I met this girl named Jewel,
- 1:19:15Speaker 2: and Jewel was working at a place called Java Joe's,
- 1:19:19Speaker 2: and that was in Poway, California. So I would come
- 1:19:22Speaker 2: off of the road with the rugburns and I'd gotten
- 1:19:24Speaker 2: in a fistfight with our drummer and I had a
- 1:19:26Speaker 2: big old black eye and I had taught Joe's strummer
- 1:19:29Speaker 2: from the class how to play black jacket. Vegas got
- 1:19:33Speaker 2: to see him play at the joint. He was with
- 1:19:35Speaker 2: Joe Strummer and the Mescaleros and I walk in I
- 1:19:39Speaker 2: got a black eye, and I show up at this place,
- 1:19:41Speaker 2: Java Joe's, and there's this blonde girl and she's beautiful
- 1:19:45Speaker 2: and she says, oh, I like the Rugburns. How can
- 1:19:48Speaker 2: I get a following like the Rugburns? And she was
- 1:19:51Speaker 2: making me some tea. It was midnight. They would run
- 1:19:53Speaker 2: an illegal poker game in the back of Java Joe's.
- 1:19:56Speaker 2: And I said, well, you should find your own place
- 1:19:59Speaker 2: and that that doesn't have a music scene and make
- 1:20:01Speaker 2: it your own. I'm a big believer and create your
- 1:20:04Speaker 2: own scene. And so Jewel says, you want to hear
- 1:20:07Speaker 2: some of my songs and I said sure. So she
- 1:20:09Speaker 2: takes me out to her Volkswagen van. She was living
- 1:20:11Speaker 2: in it in the back of Java Jo's and Powie
- 1:20:14Speaker 2: and we made stained glass art and then we fell
- 1:20:17Speaker 2: in love and we would go surfing together and we
- 1:20:21Speaker 2: found a place for her to play. And so at
- 1:20:26Speaker 2: the time I was still signed with the Rugburns. And
- 1:20:28Speaker 2: then Jewel and myself. We ended up in Mexico surfing
- 1:20:33Speaker 2: and we ended up on a drug bust with all
- 1:20:36Speaker 2: these cops and the pictures are online where there was
- 1:20:39Speaker 2: tons of weed and we end up on this drug bust.
- 1:20:44Speaker 2: We take pictures with her arms around these cops. And
- 1:20:46Speaker 2: that's when I went back and we wrote this song
- 1:20:48Speaker 2: called you Were Meant for Me in the room, which
- 1:20:50Speaker 2: meant nothing to me at the time. Little did I
- 1:20:52Speaker 2: know it was like writing a winning lottery ticket. So
- 1:20:56Speaker 2: we write this song you Were Meant for Me. Come
- 1:20:58Speaker 2: back to the United States from Mexico. We go out
- 1:21:02Speaker 2: for six year old tacos.
- 1:21:04Speaker 4: Wh whoa whoa, whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa.
- 1:21:05Speaker 1: What happened with the drug bust?
- 1:21:07Speaker 2: Oh? So we're out. We break into a hotel room
- 1:21:10Speaker 2: in a place called Bahia. They San Luis Gonzaga, and
- 1:21:13Speaker 2: I'm with Jewel and she wants to go well watching.
- 1:21:17Speaker 2: So nobody's in the hotel, so we kick open one
- 1:21:20Speaker 2: of the doors. We fall asleep in a king sized
- 1:21:22Speaker 2: bed with Mexican blankets. We wake up and the sun's
- 1:21:26Speaker 2: coming up and I look out the window and Jewel goes,
- 1:21:29Speaker 2: oh my god, this is beautiful. So we go out
- 1:21:31Speaker 2: on the beach and she says, we got to get
- 1:21:33Speaker 2: a boat, and none of us had any money. So
- 1:21:36Speaker 2: we're sitting on the beach and Jewels in a yellow bikini.
- 1:21:39Speaker 2: She looks beautiful, and these four Mexican federales come down
- 1:21:43Speaker 2: the beach with guns in their belts and they walk
- 1:21:46Speaker 2: up to us. It's like something out of a Clint
- 1:21:47Speaker 2: Eastwood film and you can see the heat rising off
- 1:21:51Speaker 2: the sand and they say, would you guys like to
- 1:21:54Speaker 2: go watching? So I said no because I was scared
- 1:21:58Speaker 2: to go out on a boat with them, but Jewel
- 1:22:00Speaker 2: said yes, so I had to go. So we go
- 1:22:02Speaker 2: out on the middle of the water the Bahia. They
- 1:22:05Speaker 2: sent the weeds Gonzaga and these guys have automatic weapons.
- 1:22:09Speaker 2: They're just looking at Jewel in this yellow bikini. I
- 1:22:13Speaker 2: think they're gonna kill me, throw me overboard. It's like
- 1:22:16Speaker 2: a Cone Brothers Blood Simple or something. And so instead
- 1:22:20Speaker 2: they get a call on their radio and they say, hey,
- 1:22:22Speaker 2: we have to go catch these drug smugglers and we
- 1:22:25Speaker 2: don't have time to take you back to shore and
- 1:22:27Speaker 2: put on these bulletproof vests. So we put on the vests.
- 1:22:30Speaker 2: My heart's found it, so fast. The boat goes to
- 1:22:33Speaker 2: this little island. It's like Miami Vice. You see these
- 1:22:37Speaker 2: drug smugglers running. They caught the slowest one. He tells
- 1:22:40Speaker 2: them where all the weed is. So the cops make
- 1:22:43Speaker 2: me go to this boat and carry all the weed
- 1:22:45Speaker 2: back to the boat and they give those guys those
- 1:22:48Speaker 2: plastic ties around their wrists. They have like six drug smugglers.
- 1:22:52Speaker 2: And we get on the boat with the drug smugglers
- 1:22:54Speaker 2: who look at me like I'm stealing their weed, and
- 1:22:57Speaker 2: they're like they want to kill me and the cops there.
- 1:23:00Speaker 2: So we go back to the shore and we get
- 1:23:03Speaker 2: out and I said, well, we're going to get going.
- 1:23:04Speaker 2: I I just wanted to get the hell out of there.
- 1:23:06Speaker 2: And I said, what are you guys going to do?
- 1:23:08Speaker 2: And they said, this is the largest drug bust we've
- 1:23:11Speaker 2: had in years in this area. We're going to have
- 1:23:13Speaker 2: a party. And so we go to walk away and
- 1:23:17Speaker 2: the cock goes stay by Bena key, which means Steve
- 1:23:20Speaker 2: come here. And I said what he said, I want
- 1:23:22Speaker 2: you to take some And this is back in like
- 1:23:25Speaker 2: nineteen ninety two, right, maybe ninety four, I think, And
- 1:23:29Speaker 2: he opens up a switchblade and he stabs one of
- 1:23:32Speaker 2: the kilos of this Mexican dirt, and you can smell
- 1:23:35Speaker 2: the skunk smell coming up through my nostrils, and he says,
- 1:23:38Speaker 2: take some. So I'm trying to figure out what less
- 1:23:40Speaker 2: than announces, and I stick my long, bony fingers in
- 1:23:43Speaker 2: to grab the weed out, and as I do, he says,
- 1:23:46Speaker 2: take the whole kilo jewel, digs her fingernails into my
- 1:23:50Speaker 2: arm and goes, Steve, don't do it. You're gonna end
- 1:23:52Speaker 2: up in jail. It's going to be like Midnight Express.
- 1:23:54Speaker 2: I'll be talking to you from me on a glass wall.
- 1:23:57Speaker 2: And then I just said, a man with the badge
- 1:24:00Speaker 2: in Mexico is telling me to take the jewel, and
- 1:24:04Speaker 2: they pulled their guns out, and I took the whole kilo,
- 1:24:07Speaker 2: and they said, let's take a picture. So if you
- 1:24:09Speaker 2: look and type in Jewel drug Bust photos, you'll see
- 1:24:13Speaker 2: us and all this weed shoved into a black suburban.
- 1:24:16Speaker 2: Behind us. We're holding Corona beers or some kind of beer,
- 1:24:18Speaker 2: and we have guns in our hands, and the cops
- 1:24:21Speaker 2: are next to us in Mexico. And these pictures I
- 1:24:24Speaker 2: think made High Times magazine, and my parents were so proud.
- 1:24:28Speaker 2: So we went back to the room after the drug bust,
- 1:24:32Speaker 2: and I gave the kilo to this old woman who
- 1:24:35Speaker 2: was making some spaghetti sauce for a Mormon youth group,
- 1:24:39Speaker 2: and she poured the whole kilo into the spaghetti sauce
- 1:24:42Speaker 2: fed the youth group. And I woke up at midnight
- 1:24:45Speaker 2: and all these Mormon missionary kids were like playing frisbee
- 1:24:48Speaker 2: and stuff. And I came back, got in bed with Jewel,
- 1:24:51Speaker 2: woke up in the morning and I grabbed the guitar,
- 1:24:53Speaker 2: and Jewel goes, do the thing where you make up
- 1:24:55Speaker 2: a song, So I start doing the riff you were
- 1:24:57Speaker 2: meant for me. Little do I know this song's gonna
- 1:25:01Speaker 2: sell millions and millions of records, like ten million. Who
- 1:25:04Speaker 2: knows set a record on the Billboard Top one on
- 1:25:06Speaker 2: your chart. I have no idea I'm writing something that's
- 1:25:10Speaker 2: gonna pay me the rest of my life. And so
- 1:25:13Speaker 2: we write the song, but then we write a second
- 1:25:16Speaker 2: song called food Stamp Love, and I go, this is
- 1:25:18Speaker 2: the hit you were meant for me sucks. Food Stamp
- 1:25:21Speaker 2: Love's cool, and the whole chorus was I'm sick of
- 1:25:24Speaker 2: your Foodstamp Love about a lever who doles out food
- 1:25:27Speaker 2: do you like, it's a government assistance program, and Jewel goes,
- 1:25:30Speaker 2: I'll never forget jewels. She was like, I think you
- 1:25:32Speaker 2: were meant for me as the hit, not Foodstamp Love.
- 1:25:35Speaker 2: And we're driving back to get to San Diego, and
- 1:25:39Speaker 2: you were meant for me flies out of the window.
- 1:25:41Speaker 2: We didn't have iPhones back then. It was on like napkins.
- 1:25:45Speaker 2: It was written and it flew out, and I go,
- 1:25:47Speaker 2: it's okay, we got food Stamp Love and Jewel goes.
- 1:25:51Speaker 4: You gotta go back and get you were meant for me.
- 1:25:53Speaker 2: Those words were cool, please Si. We got in an argument.
- 1:25:57Speaker 2: I made a U turn. I drove back. You were
- 1:26:00Speaker 2: meant for me the winning lottery ticket that was on
- 1:26:03Speaker 2: the freaking ground. And then we drove across the border
- 1:26:06Speaker 2: and we go to a Mexican place called La Posta
- 1:26:09Speaker 2: on University Avenue where drug dealers and prostitutes would hang
- 1:26:13Speaker 2: out and it's the only place that was opened late
- 1:26:15Speaker 2: at night, and you would get a bean and cheese
- 1:26:17Speaker 2: burrito and six year old tacos with guacamole. Stick the
- 1:26:21Speaker 2: Crispy World taco with the shredded beef inside, stick it
- 1:26:25Speaker 2: in the bean burrito and then bite that for the crunchiness. Boh,
- 1:26:29Speaker 2: it's sublime with the guacamole a on top of the
- 1:26:32Speaker 2: six year old tacos for like a dollar ninety nine.
- 1:26:35Speaker 2: So we're sitting out there, me and Jewel and there's
- 1:26:38Speaker 2: four prostitutes and they say, what do you guys hippies?
- 1:26:41Speaker 2: And we go yeah, and they said you sing songs
- 1:26:44Speaker 2: and I go yeah. They go, sing us a song.
- 1:26:46Speaker 2: I go, we just wrote a song called you Were
- 1:26:48Speaker 2: Meant for Me. You want to hear it now if
- 1:26:49Speaker 2: you look at Timespace Continuum. Nobody'd ever heard that song
- 1:26:53Speaker 2: but me and Jewel and now four hookers. So we
- 1:26:56Speaker 2: sing it for the four hookers. I go, tell us
- 1:26:58Speaker 2: who should sing the song? So I sang it first,
- 1:27:01Speaker 2: and then Jewel sang it, and then they clapped for
- 1:27:05Speaker 2: both of us, and they said we're going to go
- 1:27:06Speaker 2: over here and deliberate and we'll let you know. We'll
- 1:27:09Speaker 2: come back tell you should sing it. And it was
- 1:27:11Speaker 2: a quick verdict, which is never good. Off they came
- 1:27:14Speaker 2: back and the lead prostitute, I said, have you reached
- 1:27:18Speaker 2: a decision and she said yes, we have your honor,
- 1:27:20Speaker 2: and I said, please let us know, and they looked
- 1:27:22Speaker 2: at Jewel and they said, honey, you sing that that
- 1:27:25Speaker 2: white boy can't sing. You do the song. And that's
- 1:27:29Speaker 2: that was our an R department. And then Jewel ended
- 1:27:32Speaker 2: up getting signed to Atlantic Records by the same guy
- 1:27:35Speaker 2: you signed me, Danny Goldberg, because he was the Atlantic
- 1:27:38Speaker 2: back then he was the president of the ACLU. He
- 1:27:40Speaker 2: would switch things. He was married to Rosemary Carol, you know,
- 1:27:44Speaker 2: who had been married to Jim Carroll, and Rosemary was
- 1:27:47Speaker 2: Nirvana's lawyer. And so Jewel gets signed and everybody's going,
- 1:27:53Speaker 2: you were met from me, this is the hit, and
- 1:27:55Speaker 2: I was like, what about food stamp love?
- 1:27:58Speaker 5: No like fuck you?
- 1:28:00Speaker 4: That song means nothing, and I remember being really hurt.
- 1:28:03Speaker 2: And then Neil Young came to see Jewel play at
- 1:28:06Speaker 2: the Interchange, which was the scene she created because we
- 1:28:09Speaker 2: found it and it would get so packed. Neil Young
- 1:28:12Speaker 2: came all the way down at San Diego would record
- 1:28:15Speaker 2: her outside of it, and then asked if we would
- 1:28:17Speaker 2: come live at his ranch to make his record. So
- 1:28:20Speaker 2: me and Jewel move up to Elliott Roberts Place that
- 1:28:24Speaker 2: was on Neil Young's property because Elliott was going through
- 1:28:26Speaker 2: a divorce and wasn't there, so we lived on Neil
- 1:28:29Speaker 2: Young's Ranch and the Stray Gators were the band, and
- 1:28:32Speaker 2: I got to beat the guitarist. The drummer was Kenneth Butchery,
- 1:28:36Speaker 2: who was the drummer on Rainy Dame Women number twelve
- 1:28:38Speaker 2: and thirty eight. I think that's the numbers from the
- 1:28:40Speaker 2: Bob Dylan song.
- 1:28:41Speaker 1: I never thirty five, but that's okay.
- 1:28:43Speaker 2: Thirty five right, yeah, thank you? And so I remember
- 1:28:47Speaker 2: I walked in, I saw Kenneth Buncher. I go, Kenneth Butchery,
- 1:28:50Speaker 2: you're the guy that did that beat. Will you do it? Bob?
- 1:28:53Speaker 2: This is one of my favorite moments in life. He
- 1:28:55Speaker 2: looked at me and goes, young Man, Yes I will,
- 1:28:57Speaker 2: and he went and I was in heaven. The bass
- 1:29:05Speaker 2: player was Tim Drummond. He was so good. It was
- 1:29:09Speaker 2: produced by the guy that was in Neil Young's band,
- 1:29:12Speaker 2: Ben Keith, who also played pedal steel guitar on Patsy
- 1:29:16Speaker 2: Klein's Crazy. We had the coolest band and I got
- 1:29:19Speaker 2: to play guitar, so we did. You were meant for me.
- 1:29:22Speaker 2: We lived at Neil Young's ranch and Ben Keith and
- 1:29:25Speaker 2: Neil Young couldn't believe how much food I could eat
- 1:29:27Speaker 2: because I'm so skinny, but I was always hungry from
- 1:29:31Speaker 2: the Rugburns days. So Neil Young had his own personal
- 1:29:34Speaker 2: chef who he called Cookie, and they would weigh me
- 1:29:37Speaker 2: before breakfast and after breakfast because they said they'd never
- 1:29:40Speaker 2: seen anybody eat so much. I was like a snake
- 1:29:42Speaker 2: with apossum and his stomach, and so he would Neil
- 1:29:47Speaker 2: Young would.
- 1:29:48Speaker 4: Go, that was a four and a half pounder.
- 1:29:51Speaker 2: So then we'd go into the studio and we recorded
- 1:29:54Speaker 2: You Were Meant for Me, and Atlantic stuck with that record,
- 1:29:58Speaker 2: and the version of You Were Me for Me didn't
- 1:30:02Speaker 2: do a lot early, and they got it redone by
- 1:30:06Speaker 2: some other guy who was a famous producer, Peter Collins
- 1:30:10Speaker 2: or something. He redid it and they got Flee to
- 1:30:14Speaker 2: play bass on it, and so they they did you
- 1:30:18Speaker 2: Were Meant for Me again, and at first they had
- 1:30:20Speaker 2: Sean Penn direct the video, and Sean Penn had stolen
- 1:30:24Speaker 2: jewel from me and so he directed the video. So
- 1:30:28Speaker 2: I was glad when the video failed because then they
- 1:30:30Speaker 2: redid it and I was the guy in the video
- 1:30:33Speaker 2: with jewel and I'm not wearing a shirt, and that
- 1:30:36Speaker 2: version went really big and Flee played bass on it,
- 1:30:39Speaker 2: and so it was pretty cool. Because I got to
- 1:30:41Speaker 2: see Flee when we played Woodstock ninety nine and Fleega
- 1:30:45Speaker 2: was about to go on stage naked, and I remember
- 1:30:48Speaker 2: he didn't even have a sock over as Dick. And
- 1:30:50Speaker 2: I remember talking to Flee and I had smoked some
- 1:30:52Speaker 2: fog hat weed because Jewel bought fog hats sold tour bus,
- 1:30:56Speaker 2: and I was so stoned, and I remember just looking
- 1:30:58Speaker 2: at Flee's Dick and you should not be named Flee
- 1:31:02Speaker 2: because that thing's big and he's a little guy, and
- 1:31:05Speaker 2: he's jumping around on stage at Woodstock ninety nine is
- 1:31:08Speaker 2: Dick's flopping around. And I remember before he went on,
- 1:31:11Speaker 2: he was like, did you like the bass part? I
- 1:31:13Speaker 2: laid on you were meant for Me? And when we
- 1:31:16Speaker 2: played the riots calmed down. There was like all these
- 1:31:18Speaker 2: limp biscuit dudes out there. Nobody was rioting because we
- 1:31:22Speaker 2: were singing you were Meant for Me, and everybody was
- 1:31:25Speaker 2: at peace at that moment, and Juel End had to
- 1:31:27Speaker 2: set on who Will Save Your Soul? And Elvis Costello
- 1:31:30Speaker 2: went on before us. He had warned us it was
- 1:31:31Speaker 2: getting crazy, and then we got off stage, and then
- 1:31:34Speaker 2: the Chili Peppers were the final band, and you could
- 1:31:36Speaker 2: hear what.
- 1:31:38Speaker 1: Give it to your mom?
- 1:31:39Speaker 2: On fleas Dick's flapping around and people are setting porta
- 1:31:41Speaker 2: potties on fire and everything. But when we played, I
- 1:31:45Speaker 2: got to tell you, Bob, there was peace at Woodstock
- 1:31:47Speaker 2: ninety nine.
- 1:31:49Speaker 1: Okay, Slower, did she already have to deal with Atlantic
- 1:31:54Speaker 1: when you went to Neil Young's ranch? Or was it
- 1:31:57Speaker 1: the work you did there that got you the deal?
- 1:32:00Speaker 2: She already had the deal. She got the deal already.
- 1:32:04Speaker 2: She got signed out of the interchange, and Tommy Mottola
- 1:32:10Speaker 2: was coming down. He bought her a guitar from Sony Records.
- 1:32:13Speaker 2: There was all these There was a bidding war, and
- 1:32:15Speaker 2: I remember we met am at Erdigend. Then he had
- 1:32:20Speaker 2: this cane and it was amazing to meet him. And
- 1:32:26Speaker 2: then Danny won the bidding war. Jewel got signed and
- 1:32:32Speaker 2: Neil Young had already heard of her, So Neil Young said,
- 1:32:35Speaker 2: why don't you come open for me at Madison Square Garden.
- 1:32:38Speaker 2: I think it was like a couple of nights sold out.
- 1:32:41Speaker 2: So he flies Jewel in to open for Neil Young
- 1:32:44Speaker 2: at Madison Square Garden before her record's out. Nobody really
- 1:32:49Speaker 2: knows who she is. And he comes backstage and he goes,
- 1:32:53Speaker 2: how you doing, Jewel, She's not too good and Neil
- 1:32:57Speaker 2: Young why not? And she goes come about to open
- 1:33:00Speaker 2: for Neil Young at Madison Square Garden and it's sold out,
- 1:33:04Speaker 2: and Neil Young goes, ah, it's just another hash house
- 1:33:08Speaker 2: on the road to success. Show them no respect, which
- 1:33:13Speaker 2: I think to this day is the best advice. And
- 1:33:16Speaker 2: uh so, then the record Jewel goes out and she
- 1:33:19Speaker 2: would open. I was with her. She would open for
- 1:33:20Speaker 2: Peter Murphy and there'd be all these goth fans there
- 1:33:23Speaker 2: and Jewel would come out barefoot and go, Hi, I
- 1:33:26Speaker 2: just want you guys to know I believe in angels.
- 1:33:29Speaker 2: And I would think I'd be standing side stage going,
- 1:33:32Speaker 2: don't say that these are goth people. But to Jewel's credit,
- 1:33:36Speaker 2: she was true to herself and it worked and she
- 1:33:40Speaker 2: would win over these goth crowds. Then next thing, you know,
- 1:33:44Speaker 2: the songs gets legs and it starts breaking all these records,
- 1:33:47Speaker 2: and I am now checks were coming in and I
- 1:33:50Speaker 2: was using my mom and dad's address and checks would
- 1:33:52Speaker 2: be like one hundred and thirty thousand dollars and my
- 1:33:55Speaker 2: dad would call me up and go, this must be
- 1:33:57Speaker 2: a mistake. I'll put it in my account how much
- 1:34:00Speaker 2: faith he in me?
- 1:34:09Speaker 1: Just so I got it straight. Sean Penn stole Jewel,
- 1:34:14Speaker 1: but then she came back to you.
- 1:34:16Speaker 2: Well we did. We did that show in La I
- 1:34:22Speaker 2: think it was the Leno Show, Jay Leno Show, and
- 1:34:28Speaker 2: Jewel was opening for Liz Fair at the will Turn
- 1:34:33Speaker 2: and so she would have me come out and we
- 1:34:36Speaker 2: would play some songs and by the I still love Jewels.
- 1:34:39Speaker 2: She's like one of my best friends. Like, that's the
- 1:34:41Speaker 2: coolest thing. Is our relationship so fun? So we did
- 1:34:46Speaker 2: the Jay Leno Show and that was I think Michael
- 1:34:50Speaker 2: Caine was on it, and I remember I was backstage
- 1:34:54Speaker 2: and I asked Michael Caine to make an outgoing message
- 1:34:57Speaker 2: on my answering machine. We were getting our makeup and
- 1:34:59Speaker 2: on the same time, and I had a flip phone,
- 1:35:03Speaker 2: you know before we had iPhones, and I said, will
- 1:35:05Speaker 2: you make my outgoing message of Michael King goes sure,
- 1:35:08Speaker 2: and when it beats, he goes, hello, this is Michael Caine.
- 1:35:11Speaker 2: Steve's nodding. They'll call you when he's recovered. It was
- 1:35:15Speaker 2: so cool. Off the top of his said, So we
- 1:35:17Speaker 2: do the show and then Sean Penn came to the
- 1:35:22Speaker 2: Liz Fair Show and Liz Ferrer was playing I'm a
- 1:35:25Speaker 2: huge fan of Liz Fair, Exile and Guieville and all
- 1:35:27Speaker 2: that stuff. And then he invited us over to his
- 1:35:31Speaker 2: trailer in Malibu because his house burnt down where he
- 1:35:34Speaker 2: lived with Madonna, and so that house burnt down, and
- 1:35:38Speaker 2: then I think he and Robin Wright had broken up
- 1:35:42Speaker 2: or something. So he invited us to his trailer. And
- 1:35:45Speaker 2: so we go to Sean Penn's trailer and Malibu overlooking
- 1:35:48Speaker 2: the water, and I remember he had a broken nose
- 1:35:51Speaker 2: and we were smoking weed. Jewel didn't smoke, she didn't drink.
- 1:35:55Speaker 2: Me and Sean were smoking weed and he was playing
- 1:35:57Speaker 2: me tapes that do you remember Dave Baerwald, David and David,
- 1:36:03Speaker 2: that band.
- 1:36:03Speaker 1: I know Dave Bearwald.
- 1:36:05Speaker 2: Well, yeah, so Dave Barwald had given Sean these tapes
- 1:36:09Speaker 2: he got from the CIA of bombings going on. Sean.
- 1:36:12Speaker 2: I remember I was talking about everything. Sean knows a
- 1:36:15Speaker 2: lot of stuff, like I love Sean Penn. But I
- 1:36:18Speaker 2: remember I was so stoned and I went and took
- 1:36:20Speaker 2: a piss and Sean was pissing next to me, and
- 1:36:24Speaker 2: I remember I looked at his Dick for some reason
- 1:36:27Speaker 2: because we were pissing side by side. I remember thinking,
- 1:36:30Speaker 2: holy shit, he's gonna steal Jewel. I saw the future.
- 1:36:34Speaker 2: I'm really good at seeing things. And I remember then
- 1:36:38Speaker 2: she was in New York and I called her room
- 1:36:41Speaker 2: and Sean Penn was in the room and answered the phone.
- 1:36:43Speaker 2: I remember I go Sean and he goes Steve, and
- 1:36:47Speaker 2: that was it. I was sad for a while. And
- 1:36:49Speaker 2: then she flew to con Film Festival with Jack Nicholson
- 1:36:53Speaker 2: and Sean Penn, but then they didn't last and then
- 1:36:58Speaker 2: Jewel redid you were met from. Peter Collins was the producer,
- 1:37:02Speaker 2: and redid it because they thought I could be a hit.
- 1:37:04Speaker 2: And then Flee played bass on it and they kept
- 1:37:07Speaker 2: my guitar part, and then Jewel asked me to be
- 1:37:10Speaker 2: in the video, so I was like that. That was
- 1:37:12Speaker 2: when MTV was huge. So I was the shirtless guy
- 1:37:15Speaker 2: in the video and we were like the remote host
- 1:37:18Speaker 2: of the MTV Music Awards. And me and Jewel lived
- 1:37:21Speaker 2: in wind and Sea Beach and La Joya, and they
- 1:37:24Speaker 2: had all these MTV crew there and they go, let's
- 1:37:26Speaker 2: cut the Jewel Saint with Steve Poltz and La Joya
- 1:37:29Speaker 2: and we would talk about the Music Awards, and that
- 1:37:32Speaker 2: video was everywhere, and I was for a while known
- 1:37:34Speaker 2: as the dude in the Jewel video and people would
- 1:37:38Speaker 2: see me, go, that's the dude from the Jewel video.
- 1:37:40Speaker 2: Like bikers and shit would come up and want me
- 1:37:42Speaker 2: to sign their old ladies breasts and stuff. I was
- 1:37:44Speaker 2: always scared it was gonna be the biker that was
- 1:37:46Speaker 2: gonna kill me. I had slept with this old lady
- 1:37:49Speaker 2: when he was at Sturgis. But uh, yeah, it was
- 1:37:53Speaker 2: crazy all that stuff that happened.
- 1:37:54Speaker 1: Okay, once, once Sean stole Jewel, it was never a romance.
- 1:38:00Speaker 1: We knew and Jewel again.
- 1:38:01Speaker 2: No, then we were just buddies. Actually got closer. We
- 1:38:06Speaker 2: just got super close, you know, like at first you
- 1:38:08Speaker 2: go through a heartbreak and I was really sad, and
- 1:38:12Speaker 2: then I just thought, you know what, you get over it.
- 1:38:16Speaker 2: And I love her so much and she's such a
- 1:38:19Speaker 2: good friend of mine and she's so creative. To this day,
- 1:38:22Speaker 2: we're just super close. So but Sean did steal her
- 1:38:25Speaker 2: from me.
- 1:38:27Speaker 1: I s okay, let's go back to you were meant
- 1:38:30Speaker 1: for me. It sounds like you wrote it, but it's
- 1:38:35Speaker 1: credited to you and Jewel.
- 1:38:36Speaker 2: Oh no, we co wrote it.
- 1:38:39Speaker 1: Okay, so you co wrote it? Do you own fifty
- 1:38:42Speaker 1: percent of the song?
- 1:38:43Speaker 2: Yeah. I could have never written it without her, like
- 1:38:46Speaker 2: I could have never written with it. I would have
- 1:38:48Speaker 2: never said you were met from her.
- 1:38:50Speaker 1: Okay, just just aligning the stories. Yeah, okay, So there's
- 1:38:53Speaker 1: one hundred cents in the U in a dollar. Was
- 1:38:58Speaker 1: your deal with publishing? Deal with her Cohen already over?
- 1:39:01Speaker 1: How come he didn't get half the publishing?
- 1:39:03Speaker 2: Oh yeah, he got money too. Yeah, herb got a
- 1:39:06Speaker 2: lot of money, and Bob Duffy and Evan Cohen and
- 1:39:10Speaker 2: Mutt Cohen. I don't even know how it works. I've
- 1:39:12Speaker 2: never you know, I've never cared enough because I always
- 1:39:17Speaker 2: had I was always making money. All I cared about
- 1:39:20Speaker 2: was playing shows. So I was never the kind of
- 1:39:23Speaker 2: guy who was nikelaing diming stuff. I mean, I probably
- 1:39:27Speaker 2: had a bad deal because I signed it on the
- 1:39:29Speaker 2: hood of a Cadillac outside Molly Malone's in la and
- 1:39:33Speaker 2: I was like, you'll give me two thousand bucks cash
- 1:39:36Speaker 2: right now if I signed half my publishing away, Because
- 1:39:38Speaker 2: that was how those guys worked back in those days.
- 1:39:41Speaker 2: So yeah, they probably owned part of it. I've never
- 1:39:46Speaker 2: analyzed it.
- 1:39:47Speaker 1: So at this point in time, is there still reasonable
- 1:39:51Speaker 1: income from you where men for me?
- 1:39:53Speaker 2: Yeah? You know what's weird? I still get checks. It's bizarre,
- 1:39:58Speaker 2: like it's not huge, but it it makes me money.
- 1:40:01Speaker 2: And it's pretty cool because it still comes in and
- 1:40:05Speaker 2: I'm waiting for it to be used in some movie
- 1:40:08Speaker 2: one day, like where Well Ferrell's naked singing it at
- 1:40:11Speaker 2: karaoke or something.
- 1:40:13Speaker 1: Well, I don't want to be your lawyer here, but
- 1:40:15Speaker 1: there's rites of reversion, et cetera. You might be able
- 1:40:18Speaker 1: to get the other half of the publishing back. Really,
- 1:40:21Speaker 1: not that I'm giving Yeah, not that I'm giving you
- 1:40:23Speaker 1: any legal advice. Check with your attorney. I'll leave it
- 1:40:26Speaker 1: at that. Okay, So you're married to Sharon today. How
- 1:40:32Speaker 1: many times you've been married?
- 1:40:34Speaker 2: Once?
- 1:40:36Speaker 1: So how did you meet Sharon?
- 1:40:38Speaker 3: Then?
- 1:40:38Speaker 1: When did you meet Sharon?
- 1:40:41Speaker 2: So? I met Sharon she had a hair salon in
- 1:40:45Speaker 2: San Diego, and I went in to get my haircut,
- 1:40:50Speaker 2: and we were both friends with a friend of mine
- 1:40:53Speaker 2: who got murdered, Steve Boge, and so I had come
- 1:40:58Speaker 2: out of rehab and we would do victims of violent
- 1:41:03Speaker 2: crime benefit shows at the Caspo in San Diego and
- 1:41:06Speaker 2: we would sing. My friend Steve was in a band
- 1:41:09Speaker 2: called CLA that stood for Carnivorous Lunar Activity, and so
- 1:41:15Speaker 2: we would sing all the Carnivorous Lunar Activities songs and
- 1:41:20Speaker 2: I would learn all the parts that Steve wrote, and
- 1:41:24Speaker 2: we had written a song called Hitchhiker Joe together, and
- 1:41:27Speaker 2: so that was where I met Sharon because she played
- 1:41:31Speaker 2: bass in the band, and so we started dating. And
- 1:41:36Speaker 2: she has been really good for me because you know
- 1:41:38Speaker 2: how that whole same behind every man, that whole thing,
- 1:41:43Speaker 2: and she is organized. So see, I used to make
- 1:41:48Speaker 2: money on the road and I would come off the
- 1:41:50Speaker 2: road with Jewel, and I was making great money because
- 1:41:53Speaker 2: I was opening every show as Rusted Route would go
- 1:41:55Speaker 2: on first, I'd go on in the middle, and then Jewel.
- 1:41:58Speaker 2: We'd play Red Rocks or The Gorge, and I was
- 1:42:01Speaker 2: selling like if we played Royal Albert Hall in London
- 1:42:04Speaker 2: a couple nights in a row, I would sell like
- 1:42:07Speaker 2: three fifty four hundred CDs a night. Back in nineteen
- 1:42:11Speaker 2: ninety seven of One Left Shoe this Mercury release, and
- 1:42:15Speaker 2: Bob I had so much money. I would come home.
- 1:42:17Speaker 2: I would shove it into suitcases. And I lived at
- 1:42:19Speaker 2: the beach, would just leave my doors open. I wouldn't
- 1:42:22Speaker 2: even put the money in the bank. I don't know why.
- 1:42:24Speaker 2: So I would have like four hundred grand in my
- 1:42:27Speaker 2: closet and old suitcases. I just shove it in there,
- 1:42:30Speaker 2: come off the road. I lived in a shitty apartment
- 1:42:32Speaker 2: and drove an old Ford truck. I never cared about money.
- 1:42:36Speaker 2: I didn't need it. I just knew. I bought my
- 1:42:38Speaker 2: clothes at thrift stores. I had my one guitar I needed,
- 1:42:41Speaker 2: and I had an audience. That's what I cared about.
- 1:42:44Speaker 2: So I didn't pay my taxes for like ten or
- 1:42:48Speaker 2: eleven years. And the irs showed up at my apartment
- 1:42:53Speaker 2: and they were outside the door, and I came walking up,
- 1:42:57Speaker 2: and they go, does Steve Poltz live here? It was
- 1:42:59Speaker 2: at wind and Sea Beach and La Joya, right across
- 1:43:01Speaker 2: from the pump house that Tom Wolfe the pump House
- 1:43:03Speaker 2: came about. And so I said, I don't know who
- 1:43:06Speaker 2: you're talking about. I remember I ran as fast as
- 1:43:09Speaker 2: I could down the beach and I got away. And
- 1:43:13Speaker 2: then I called this guy who was the CFO of
- 1:43:16Speaker 2: the San Diego Padres and he met me. He said,
- 1:43:20Speaker 2: meet me at the tilted Kilt. And the tilt kilt
- 1:43:22Speaker 2: is like a Hooters, but for girls that dress and
- 1:43:26Speaker 2: plaid skirts and their boobs are pushed together. And so
- 1:43:30Speaker 2: that was where the accountant wanted me to meet him,
- 1:43:32Speaker 2: at the tilted kilt. I've never forgotten this, So Sharon
- 1:43:35Speaker 2: put all my IRRs notices in a brown wrinkled paperbag.
- 1:43:38Speaker 2: I'd never opened them, and I show up at the
- 1:43:41Speaker 2: tilted Kilt with Bob Crozdill, the accountant who's still my accountant.
- 1:43:46Speaker 2: And he opened up each one as he would eat
- 1:43:49Speaker 2: some of his nachos with his other hand, and he
- 1:43:52Speaker 2: opened him up and he looked and his face was
- 1:43:55Speaker 2: kind of growing a little more pale with each one.
- 1:43:58Speaker 2: And I remember finally when he was and I go,
- 1:44:00Speaker 2: is it bad? Is it bad? Is it bad? And
- 1:44:04Speaker 2: he looks at me and he put his hand on
- 1:44:06Speaker 2: top of mine across the table, and he goes, I've
- 1:44:09Speaker 2: seen worse. We're going to get through this together. And
- 1:44:13Speaker 2: it made me feel so good. And then everybody said,
- 1:44:17Speaker 2: you can make a deal with the irs. They'll make
- 1:44:19Speaker 2: a deal. And the irs said, not only were it
- 1:44:22Speaker 2: not going to make a deal with mister Poltz. He's
- 1:44:24Speaker 2: lucky he's not going to jail for willful negligence to
- 1:44:27Speaker 2: pay taxes. The next morning, I woke up and the
- 1:44:29Speaker 2: night before I'd had four hundred and fifty thousand dollars
- 1:44:32Speaker 2: in my checking account like an idiot, like not even
- 1:44:35Speaker 2: really earning interest, and it was gone, and I remember thinking,
- 1:44:39Speaker 2: they're going to probably take my money, and I thought,
- 1:44:42Speaker 2: if they take it, I want to kill myself. I
- 1:44:44Speaker 2: want to take it out first and give it to
- 1:44:45Speaker 2: my niece and nephew. But then once they took the
- 1:44:48Speaker 2: money away, I remember going I felt a sense of
- 1:44:51Speaker 2: peace because I paid off my debt to the irs,
- 1:44:55Speaker 2: and it was almost as if somebody said, if you
- 1:44:57Speaker 2: give us four hundred and fifty thousand dollar, you will
- 1:45:01Speaker 2: have peace of mind. I'd say take it. I'd give
- 1:45:03Speaker 2: you anything to have peace of mind. So then I
- 1:45:06Speaker 2: just built it all up again, and I still had
- 1:45:08Speaker 2: that money in my closet, and I slowly would put
- 1:45:11Speaker 2: it into my account, nine nine hundred dollars at a
- 1:45:14Speaker 2: time and get everything going again. I don't know why
- 1:45:17Speaker 2: I wasn't putting it in the bank, because it wasn't
- 1:45:19Speaker 2: like it was I was a drug dealer, so yeah,
- 1:45:23Speaker 2: it's pretty crazy.
- 1:45:25Speaker 1: Well you brought this up, you said, Sharon. Agent organization
- 1:45:29Speaker 1: sit you straight.
- 1:45:30Speaker 2: So Sharon was like, you need to put your money
- 1:45:32Speaker 2: in the bank, you need to put it in a
- 1:45:34Speaker 2: Schwap account, you need to buy some property. And she's
- 1:45:39Speaker 2: really really organized. She got my whole life in order.
- 1:45:43Speaker 2: And I remember at the time, by then I'd gotten
- 1:45:45Speaker 2: out of rehab. I got dropped from Mercury Universal Records,
- 1:45:49Speaker 2: I got dropped from CIA. I didn't have an agent.
- 1:45:53Speaker 2: I was booking myself. I was playing gigs. I went
- 1:45:57Speaker 2: from flying private jets with Jewel to being in a
- 1:46:01Speaker 2: Volkswagen van staying in trailer parks. And I remember thinking,
- 1:46:04Speaker 2: I did this whole tour where I called it the
- 1:46:06Speaker 2: where did it all Go Wrong? Tour. I would play
- 1:46:10Speaker 2: like twenty three people in Iowa, and I would say
- 1:46:13Speaker 2: to the audience, last night I found myself negotiating in
- 1:46:16Speaker 2: a trailer park to get my costs down in my
- 1:46:19Speaker 2: Volkswagen van from forty dollars a night to twenty eight
- 1:46:23Speaker 2: dollars a night. And as I popped the top of
- 1:46:25Speaker 2: my west Bali at Camper before I went to sleep,
- 1:46:27Speaker 2: I said, where did it all go wrong? And that's
- 1:46:30Speaker 2: what I named the tour, and I thought it was
- 1:46:32Speaker 2: the funniest thing. So I got signed by this guy
- 1:46:36Speaker 2: named Charles Dreby to be my manager. At the time,
- 1:46:38Speaker 2: he was managing Blind Boys of Alabama, and it was
- 1:46:42Speaker 2: He's still a friend of mine, he's an attorney. But
- 1:46:44Speaker 2: it was the wrong mix because my first posters I
- 1:46:47Speaker 2: sent out was me catching a rock in the air,
- 1:46:51Speaker 2: opposing like I'm catching a rock, but it was blurred
- 1:46:53Speaker 2: and I called it the Catch a Falling Turd Tour,
- 1:46:56Speaker 2: and Charles Dreby got so mad. He was like, we
- 1:46:58Speaker 2: poked the Blind Boys, but this is not how we
- 1:47:01Speaker 2: want to be represented. And that was a three year
- 1:47:03Speaker 2: management deal. I was so glad when it was over,
- 1:47:07Speaker 2: and then I ended up getting finally got a booking
- 1:47:11Speaker 2: agent again, and man, I'm still with him to this day.
- 1:47:14Speaker 2: And I have the best manager, a nice Jewish boy
- 1:47:18Speaker 2: named philine Son with seven S Management out of Denver.
- 1:47:22Speaker 2: I love my manager, phil line Son, and I love
- 1:47:25Speaker 2: my booking agent, Adam Bauer. He's with Madison House. He
- 1:47:29Speaker 2: was with Fleming Artists and took me with him when
- 1:47:31Speaker 2: he went to Madison house, and I say this to
- 1:47:34Speaker 2: this day. I would not take any other agent. Anybody
- 1:47:37Speaker 2: could come with me with any offer about anything, or
- 1:47:40Speaker 2: another manager told me promised me in the world. I
- 1:47:42Speaker 2: would not leave either of these guys because they took
- 1:47:46Speaker 2: me in like a rescue dog. Adam Bauer saw something
- 1:47:49Speaker 2: in me and has slowly built me up. I'll be
- 1:47:52Speaker 2: playing Newport Folk Fest this year. I play all these
- 1:47:54Speaker 2: great festivals. I tour everywhere, and I'm so loyal to
- 1:47:58Speaker 2: that guy. I want him to make money and I
- 1:48:01Speaker 2: want my manager, Phill to make money, like I would
- 1:48:04Speaker 2: do anything for these guys. And we're the smallest team.
- 1:48:07Speaker 2: Sharon books all the travel and we're Marriotts. We always
- 1:48:13Speaker 2: stay Marriotts. Sharon has a sewed down We're special, like
- 1:48:17Speaker 2: they have Titanium Platinum where this special top level called
- 1:48:21Speaker 2: Ambassador Elite. And it's so funny because they have a
- 1:48:24Speaker 2: special carpet you stand on when you stay at really
- 1:48:26Speaker 2: nice places like we are here in Sydney, Australia at
- 1:48:29Speaker 2: the Hyde Park And whenever I stand there, there's businessmen
- 1:48:32Speaker 2: behind me and they always go, excuse me, sir, you're
- 1:48:35Speaker 2: supposed to be over there, yes, And they go to
- 1:48:36Speaker 2: the business time behind. I go, no, this is a
- 1:48:38Speaker 2: line for me because the way I look, and they go,
- 1:48:41Speaker 2: this is ambassador Elite. I go, yeah, I'm Ambassador Elite
- 1:48:45Speaker 2: and they go, oh, I'm sorry, and they just look
- 1:48:47Speaker 2: really weird, and I'm Ambassador Elite. I get upgrades to suites.
- 1:48:52Speaker 2: And my manager always gets me the best deals of
- 1:48:56Speaker 2: playing gigs, like gets my offers up and my booking
- 1:49:00Speaker 2: agent does too. They work in tandem and we're just small,
- 1:49:03Speaker 2: bare bones operation and we make a great living.
- 1:49:07Speaker 1: Okay to sharing. Always go on the road with you.
- 1:49:10Speaker 2: She's with me almost always, and she doesn't always come
- 1:49:14Speaker 2: to the shows. She'll stand and we'll get somebody else
- 1:49:17Speaker 2: to sell merch. But she gets up in the morning.
- 1:49:21Speaker 2: She packs us. She's highly organized. Make sure we get
- 1:49:24Speaker 2: to the airport on time. Make sure we're getting all
- 1:49:27Speaker 2: our points for national executive car rental the best and
- 1:49:34Speaker 2: getting good places to stay. If I do the Chaamo cruise,
- 1:49:39Speaker 2: she gets us packed for that. Make sure my passports
- 1:49:43Speaker 2: don't expire ab a Canadian passport in a United States passport. Everything,
- 1:49:47Speaker 2: So she's the organized side of that. And Phil Einson
- 1:49:51Speaker 2: with seven s, my manager. He looks at the bigger
- 1:49:55Speaker 2: picture of things, and Adam is the booking agent, because
- 1:49:58Speaker 2: you really need a good agent and you need a
- 1:50:00Speaker 2: good manager. As you know.
- 1:50:02Speaker 1: Okay, you don't have any children, right.
- 1:50:05Speaker 2: We have a son, Neil, who is twenty nine years old,
- 1:50:11Speaker 2: but he's from her prior husband.
- 1:50:17Speaker 1: How do you end up moving to Nashville?
- 1:50:20Speaker 2: So I left San Diego eight years ago. Sharon wanted
- 1:50:29Speaker 2: to move. She sold her hair salon, and she thought
- 1:50:33Speaker 2: we should go to Nashville because she saw everybody living
- 1:50:36Speaker 2: there and every time we play festivals, people would be there.
- 1:50:40Speaker 2: So we moved to Nashville and bought a house. I
- 1:50:44Speaker 2: never wanted to own a house, and Sharon said, you
- 1:50:46Speaker 2: really need to own a house, and she's always owned
- 1:50:49Speaker 2: real estate. So we bought a house together eight years ago,
- 1:50:52Speaker 2: which was the best move ever. Like, Sharon has been
- 1:50:54Speaker 2: so good for me. Now I'm a homeowner. My money
- 1:50:58Speaker 2: is in a Charles Schwab account and I could retire,
- 1:51:02Speaker 2: and so she said, you need to be in Nashville.
- 1:51:05Speaker 2: So that's how I ended up writing songs with like
- 1:51:07Speaker 2: Billy Strings and Molly Tuttle and Oliver Wood. Everywhere I
- 1:51:14Speaker 2: go at Sierra Hall, there's all these friends of mine
- 1:51:17Speaker 2: that are songwriters, and just being in that area, crumbs
- 1:51:20Speaker 2: will fall on your plate just from being there. It's
- 1:51:24Speaker 2: just it's such a great vibrant city to live in.
- 1:51:27Speaker 2: I'd always been in San Diego and said to come
- 1:51:30Speaker 2: to Nashville's I think the only place I would live
- 1:51:34Speaker 2: other than Nashville would be Los Angeles, and that might
- 1:51:37Speaker 2: be our next move because I miss California so much.
- 1:51:41Speaker 1: Tell us about your heart attack.
- 1:51:43Speaker 2: Well, I had a stroke, is what it was. Right
- 1:51:49Speaker 2: about nine years ago. I was on stage at World
- 1:51:53Speaker 2: Cafe Live in Wilmington, Delaware, and I went blind in
- 1:51:58Speaker 2: the middle of my show, and I thought they had
- 1:52:00Speaker 2: turned the lights out, but it was I couldn't see,
- 1:52:05Speaker 2: and I didn't tell the audience because I didn't want
- 1:52:07Speaker 2: to upset them. But I was singing the same verse
- 1:52:10Speaker 2: over and over to an old Rugburn song called single Life.
- 1:52:14Speaker 2: So I played single Life over and over and over,
- 1:52:19Speaker 2: and then people were looking at me like this guy's
- 1:52:23Speaker 2: I don't know what's happened to him. They thought I
- 1:52:24Speaker 2: was taking the piss out of him, and the way
- 1:52:26Speaker 2: Andy Kaufman might like, just to see how long I
- 1:52:29Speaker 2: could keep a bit going. But it wasn't that, And
- 1:52:32Speaker 2: so I got rushed to the hospital and if you
- 1:52:35Speaker 2: ever want to get to the front of the line,
- 1:52:37Speaker 2: tell them you've gone blind. And it's like a curtain
- 1:52:39Speaker 2: coming down. They fast track you ahead of the guy
- 1:52:42Speaker 2: with the ice pick in the side of his head
- 1:52:43Speaker 2: and everybody else. And so they did these tests, and
- 1:52:47Speaker 2: I've never forgot the lady. She was from India, doctor Mody,
- 1:52:51Speaker 2: I think was her name, and she said, mister Poltz,
- 1:52:53Speaker 2: you've had a stroke. You're going into the stroke woard.
- 1:52:56Speaker 2: And I couldn't see and then my vision came back,
- 1:52:58Speaker 2: and when it came back, I couldn't read, like the
- 1:53:00Speaker 2: letters didn't make sense to me. And it took a
- 1:53:04Speaker 2: couple of weeks and then everything started getting back in order.
- 1:53:07Speaker 2: But I didn't want to drive for a few months.
- 1:53:09Speaker 2: And I remember Sharon was like, you're going to drive again,
- 1:53:11Speaker 2: and she pulled the car over and made me drive,
- 1:53:14Speaker 2: kickstarted me. And I recuperated from that stroke and went
- 1:53:18Speaker 2: back out on the road. And they don't know why
- 1:53:21Speaker 2: it happened, because I'm pretty healthy, but things happened.
- 1:53:26Speaker 1: And no after effects whatsoever.
- 1:53:30Speaker 2: No, I've been really lucky, really lucky. I hope. You
- 1:53:34Speaker 2: know that. Doctor told me he didn't know why it happened,
- 1:53:37Speaker 2: but he said, the next time it does, it'll probably
- 1:53:39Speaker 2: kill you. I remember because the other night I was
- 1:53:41Speaker 2: on tour and I was in the United States, and
- 1:53:43Speaker 2: I did fifteen shows with a good friend of mine
- 1:53:45Speaker 2: named Paul Thorne. Do you know Paul.
- 1:53:48Speaker 1: Yes, I don't know him personally, but I've seen him.
- 1:53:50Speaker 1: I know who he is.
- 1:53:50Speaker 2: Yeah, So he's a He was a boxer and he
- 1:53:53Speaker 2: lives in tup Blow, Mississippi, and he fought roberted around.
- 1:53:57Speaker 2: We did a tour. It's really fun today because if
- 1:54:00Speaker 2: you're a solo artist, you can do tours with people
- 1:54:02Speaker 2: where you're on stage and trade songs. We discovered each
- 1:54:05Speaker 2: other on Komo Cruise. We played in the theater and
- 1:54:09Speaker 2: we realized we had a good vibe together because I'm
- 1:54:11Speaker 2: kind of so cal and he's really Southern Mississippi kind
- 1:54:15Speaker 2: of guy. And so we were on stage together and
- 1:54:19Speaker 2: playing all these shows. And I just finished that tour
- 1:54:23Speaker 2: and then came to Australia and I thought I was
- 1:54:26Speaker 2: having a heart attack on that last tour and I
- 1:54:29Speaker 2: missed a show because I had chest pains and it
- 1:54:31Speaker 2: freaked me out, and I never I'm not a hypochondriac,
- 1:54:35Speaker 2: Like I never go to the doctor. I should. I
- 1:54:37Speaker 2: read your letter and you're always telling us we need
- 1:54:39Speaker 2: to go to the doctor. I do get my teeth
- 1:54:40Speaker 2: cleaned every three months. I and your letter is making
- 1:54:44Speaker 2: me go I need to And I love it when
- 1:54:46Speaker 2: you say that in your letter. It's really important. And
- 1:54:49Speaker 2: so I was on stage and I got chess pains
- 1:54:53Speaker 2: and I didn't know what it was and I didn't
- 1:54:55Speaker 2: tell Paul, and I went to the room that night
- 1:54:57Speaker 2: and it got worse than at two am, googling chest
- 1:55:01Speaker 2: pains and a nausea, and it said, immediately call an ambulance.
- 1:55:05Speaker 2: But I had a showing at the Vogel and Red Bank,
- 1:55:07Speaker 2: New Jersey the next day. My buddy Mojo Nixon had
- 1:55:10Speaker 2: just died of a heart attack. So I thought, I
- 1:55:12Speaker 2: wonder if I'm having a heart attack Mojo just died,
- 1:55:15Speaker 2: And instead I called an Uber like an idiot, and
- 1:55:21Speaker 2: I'd got this uber and that uber driver was from Iraq.
- 1:55:24Speaker 2: He was from Baghdad, and as we were driving there,
- 1:55:27Speaker 2: I thought, I'm gonna die in the uber because it
- 1:55:28Speaker 2: got worse than chest pains. This was just two weeks ago.
- 1:55:32Speaker 2: And my last thing I said to the uber driver
- 1:55:34Speaker 2: was I'm sorry we bombed you guys. I was apologizing,
- 1:55:39Speaker 2: and then we pull up to the emergency room. He goes,
- 1:55:42Speaker 2: are you sick? And I didn't want to upset them,
- 1:55:44Speaker 2: so I said no, I'm just visiting someone here, and
- 1:55:47Speaker 2: so I got out and they fast tracked me because
- 1:55:49Speaker 2: I told him I was having chest pains, and they said,
- 1:55:53Speaker 2: do you have heart disease in your family? And I
- 1:55:55Speaker 2: said no, and then he goes, you don't have any
- 1:55:58Speaker 2: and I said no, And I said, well, my mom
- 1:56:00Speaker 2: had a heart attack, and he said, well that's heart disease.
- 1:56:03Speaker 2: And he goes how old was she when she had
- 1:56:05Speaker 2: I go sixty four. He goes how old are you?
- 1:56:06Speaker 2: I go sixty four, and then he goes, is your
- 1:56:09Speaker 2: mom still allowed to go No, she died of heart
- 1:56:11Speaker 2: failure at the age of eighty eight. He goes, anybody
- 1:56:14Speaker 2: else in your family?
- 1:56:14Speaker 3: I go no.
- 1:56:15Speaker 2: I go oh.
- 1:56:15Speaker 4: Wait.
- 1:56:15Speaker 2: Her younger brother died of a massive heart attack at
- 1:56:18Speaker 2: forty four, and then Uncle Louis died as well of
- 1:56:21Speaker 2: heart failure, and so didn't at her sister, aunt Sylvia,
- 1:56:23Speaker 2: and the guy's like what part of heart disease in
- 1:56:26Speaker 2: your family? Don't you understand? So they did the treadmill
- 1:56:29Speaker 2: stress test on me, and he goes, I can't get
- 1:56:33Speaker 2: your heart beat up. Even if you're in great shape.
- 1:56:35Speaker 2: Your recovery time's great. They did the photos. He goes,
- 1:56:37Speaker 2: you have a really healthy heart. What do you do?
- 1:56:40Speaker 2: And I said, I dance around on stage every night
- 1:56:42Speaker 2: because I don't sit. I'm running around stage. And he said, well,
- 1:56:47Speaker 2: your heart looks good. What did you eat for dinner?
- 1:56:50Speaker 2: And I said, I don't like to read the menu
- 1:56:52Speaker 2: because I have add and I just like, I don't
- 1:56:54Speaker 2: like to think about it. I'm in a hurry, so
- 1:56:56Speaker 2: I just let the waitress decide for me, and she
- 1:56:59Speaker 2: suggested it She's burger with deep bread pickles and hot sauce.
- 1:57:02Speaker 2: He said, have you ever had heartburn before? And I
- 1:57:04Speaker 2: said no. Back once I ate four bites of that
- 1:57:07Speaker 2: deep bread pickles, it really affected me, and he said
- 1:57:10Speaker 2: it mimics a heart attack. And I had chest pains
- 1:57:14Speaker 2: for like four days after that, but now I feel great.
- 1:57:16Speaker 2: So I'm back up and hat.
- 1:57:18Speaker 1: Well, you know, here's my warning if you have heart
- 1:57:22Speaker 1: disease in your family. There's a million other tests they
- 1:57:25Speaker 1: need to do besides treadmill tests itself is not that accurate,
- 1:57:29Speaker 1: but usually it's false positives. Do not think that you
- 1:57:34Speaker 1: get a path. You have to get the carotid artery scan.
- 1:57:38Speaker 1: You gotta get all the stuff because listen, I have
- 1:57:42Speaker 1: one of my close friends, his father died of a
- 1:57:44Speaker 1: heart attack at sixty seven, said, oh yeah, I went
- 1:57:47Speaker 1: to the regular doctor. He fell over with a heart
- 1:57:50Speaker 1: attack at sixty seven. Oh yeah, I was totally healthy.
- 1:57:53Speaker 1: And then that's it. I mean, I see this special
- 1:57:55Speaker 1: heart doctor, which I would recommend to you because with
- 1:58:00Speaker 1: that amount of heart disease in your family. You know,
- 1:58:03Speaker 1: the guy in the er, you know, it's good that
- 1:58:05Speaker 1: he you know, don't take that as a complete pass,
- 1:58:08Speaker 1: even though your symptoms may have been because of the
- 1:58:11Speaker 1: deep right pickle. It's like you have no idea what's
- 1:58:16Speaker 1: going on. Everybody thinks they're cool, and it just like
- 1:58:19Speaker 1: Russ never sleeps, Calcium never sleeps. But changing subjects completely.
- 1:58:26Speaker 1: Speaking of the dearly departed Mojo Nixon, you know, he
- 1:58:32Speaker 1: had somewhat of a record career and then he had
- 1:58:35Speaker 1: a giant career as a personality. He was on outlaw country,
- 1:58:39Speaker 1: on serious XM. You have a lot of personality, You
- 1:58:44Speaker 1: tell a great story. Have people ever offered you similar opportunities?
- 1:58:50Speaker 2: People keep telling me to start a podcast, write a book,
- 1:58:54Speaker 2: and I'll see what happens. You know, you never know.
- 1:59:00Speaker 1: Well, I'm actually talking about something different. I'm talking about
- 1:59:03Speaker 1: you're sitting there and reading a book. Whatever, Jered you
- 1:59:07Speaker 1: have to get an email out of the blue. Hey,
- 1:59:09Speaker 1: I'm aware of you. You'd be good for me on
- 1:59:12Speaker 1: X on the radio, on TV. God knows what. That
- 1:59:15Speaker 1: never happened to you. No, well, I'm surprised. I mean,
- 1:59:20Speaker 1: I don't want to put too much faith in the
- 1:59:23Speaker 1: uh you know, and the people who might make decisions.
- 1:59:27Speaker 1: But you're certainly a man of a lot of personality,
- 1:59:32Speaker 1: riveting stories, and a unique outlook. And Steve, I want
- 1:59:38Speaker 1: to thank you so much for taking this time to
- 1:59:40Speaker 1: speak with me and my audience.
- 1:59:42Speaker 2: Thank you. Bob. I'm a huge fan of yours, so
- 1:59:44Speaker 2: it's a pleasure to be on your show.
- 1:59:47Speaker 1: And it's always great to see you in mine in
- 1:59:49Speaker 1: the box. Till next time. This is Bob left sets
- 2:00:00Speaker 1: sh