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Listen Up: We Don't Know What Others Are Going Through! · D-constructing Topics

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  What's going on, everybody? And what's going on, folks?
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  My name is David, and I'm your legendary, legendary host of this legendary podcast.
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  Today, we're going to make it happen. Got a little bit of that little calm music
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  in the background, if you will.
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  And welcome to my podcast. And today, we got a good one. Today, we got a life's lesson.
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  And before I proceed, I just want to say it's this, because this podcast or this episode,
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  know it's gonna be a little bit of you know
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  emotional it's gonna be a little oh it's
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  gonna hit that it's gonna hit that little nerve because after
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  all we're all humans and we all make mistakes and
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  many times when we make mistakes bad
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  decisions whatever it is many of
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  us we don't know where to go we don't know who to talk to but i just want to
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  say is this that if you're going through our situation regardless of what it
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  is that's pushing your mind to to the limit where you just don't know what to
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  do what to read sometimes you feel like you want to give up,
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  reach out it's going to be very emotional because today's episode is going to
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  be about basically in life as we humans we don't know what people are going through.
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  We don't know that and sometimes as humans we either stay silent we keep it to ourselves,
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  which is all fine and dandy but once
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  again i just want to encourage people as you're listening to this podcast and
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  You're going to listen to this calm music. Ooh, it's going to be calm,
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  relaxed, because we're here. Life's lesson.
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  When we sometimes, and many times, we don't know what people are going through.
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  And that is also including myself. But we're going to hit that like button,
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  now europe africa somewhere in russia i gotta say somewhere russia but you know
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  russia canada north america south america we here we here,
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  we are here and i want to share this little kind of uh little,
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  little thing of me what happened to me a couple of years ago.
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  free to comment and feel free to reach out to me that's for sure that's why
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  i'm here it's deconstructing topic podcast whoo it's david let's go but i just
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  want to say it's this couple of years ago,
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  a friend of mine very endearing uh send me a video memo.
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  And i remember when the person text me the video memo i was like okay okay,
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  there were actually it was a video memo wishing happy birthday to me and they
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  basically were just thanking me and how much they they appreciate me and how
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  important my friendship is to them and I was kind of thrown off I'll be honest
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  now it broke me I ain't gonna lie kind of broke my,
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  hit that emotional thing that somebody's reaching out thanking you for being
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  there and I'm like okay wow,
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  I didn't know, you know, that I meant that much to that person.
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  And I start to kind of go back and start to realize, because after that video
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  memo, I'm like, wow, you know, what did I do?
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  You know, again, but then again, I guess what it is that I'm just natural,
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  naturally very helpful to people.
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  And I'm, and then, you know, for those people that know me personally and especially
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  at work, that's a lot of times what I do is this, that I go around the whole
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  office and just want to make sure everybody's doing good. Hey,
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  how you doing? How's your family?
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  Because I often said, sometimes we don't know and many times we don't know what
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  people are going through.
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  You would think, and when that person sent me that little video memo, I was caught off guard.
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  I'm like, I didn't know he was going through that.
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  But me, naturally, I'm that type that that's just how my natural being is,
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  that just talking to people.
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  That's just how I am, but I didn't know the much impact of my words was making to this person.
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  And when they told me about what was happening in their life,
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  that they might have made some bad decisions here. And I'm like, wow.
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  And I'm like, damn, what did I say again? But just the fact that sometimes what
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  we get caught on is that in life, we tend to make these certain decisions.
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  And again, I always said that when we make decisions, we don't know whether
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  it's going to be good. We don't know what's going to be bad.
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  But sometimes internally, internally, internally, let's go.
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  We know we did something and we know that we effed up.
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  And eventually those things they just catch up to you and we just stay silent we don't say anything,
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  and with that person it's like wow once that
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  they started telling me the little story and then the things
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  that I said it's like wow because sometimes in
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  life we need that reminder or we
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  need to remind ourself that hey I'm this
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  person and I'm going through this and I'm
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  just you know people would even notice but you start
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  to open up you're gonna meet somebody that's gonna be the same
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  way that's going through something because at the end guess what we're all
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  humans and when we're all humans no matter
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  what work or walk of life no matter where we at you could grab 10 different
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  people from 10 different countries and we're gonna sit down and we're all gonna
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  find something that we have in common it's that human thing of hey we made a
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  decision it became a bad decision and we knew it and we couldn't address it.
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  And this is where I say, once we find ourselves in that situation, we have to address it.
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  And what that person, when they were telling me was that, hey,
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  this happened and, you know, it came down to a little bit of the financial aspect.
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  But even mentally, physically, spiritually, sometimes we have to go to certain
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  things and we got to hit that reset button.
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  And once we hit that reset button,
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  we have to also kind of remind ourself because it's never too late.
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  It doesn't matter whether you're a certain age.
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  It doesn't matter if you're experienced. It doesn't matter if you live in this
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  world a little bit longer.
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  Decisions catch up to you Bad decisions catch up to you And we always have to
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  remember That whatever the decision Or whatever it is that's catching up to
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  you Let that be the biggest lesson of your life,
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  And I remember Talking to this individual And I told him exactly that.
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  That be the biggest lesson of your life. And what I told all that person,
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  that person right now is doing well. And it also goes to me.
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  There's certain decision and there's certain things that I got to address in
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  my life. That's why I do this beautiful podcast.
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  Because whoever's listening to out there, many people, which I appreciate, listen, we are humans.
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  We don't think right sometimes. times and when
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  we have like these clouds over our head we start to spun
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  around go here make this decision here boom boom
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  boom boom boom and i remember people that
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  i know they they start going in a spiral egg they start
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  shopping they start drinking they start doing snow they start smoking
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  they start you know whatever vices that you have it multiplies
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  because when we don't know what people go through
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  and you see these people oh man i'm living a
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  good life i i went and ate and whatever but then
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  the next week i have no
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  money but you see what i'm saying sometimes that's what
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  happens in life and when we go through these
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  emotions about what we don't know sometimes it's always good to talk to people
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  communicate listen open up the lake kovid brian he always says storytelling
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  when you tell a story and you start to open up to people and i'm not saying
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  that And sometimes in life.
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  We always got to live with that thing where if, you know, we always,
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  hey, we don't want to talk about our business.
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  We don't want to, you know, just stay silent. We don't want to say,
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  but sometimes it's okay to.
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  And then life is going to put people just like the individual in the video.
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  You're going to put these people in. The one thing that this person said is
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  that I was listening. And that's deep.
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  I was doing a podcast a couple of weeks ago.
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  Shout out to my people over there at Tegu's TV. We was doing a nice little podcast
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  with Nisi on Filter. Follow us on Tegu TV as well.
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  Or techtv.com. Appreciate it. We had a conversation, and I was telling them
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  a story of someone who said, for some reason, they spent most of their lives listening.
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  And we all agree. Those people there in that table is like, wow,
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  we lost the art of listening.
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  And you don't know how deep that goes because sometimes we just want to brush people off. Look at you.
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  You got this 24-carat gold ring, whatever it is. Look at you. You're up to par.
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  But then they knock on your door and they say, can I talk to you?
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  You know, give it 20 minutes. Okay.
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  20 minutes pass. That person is the same. Hey, can I talk to you?
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  You have one minute? Oh, I got a meeting. Well, I got to do something. I got a podcast.
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  Oh, can I talk to you? Hold on. Let's schedule something.
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  Sometimes we brush people off, right? This happens to us. family, friends, colleagues.
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  Hey, no, some couple of people that I kind of brush people off,
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  but I'm trying to do this within one hour.
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  But think about that person and what they going through.
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  We don't know what they're going through. All they want to do is talk.
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  Have you been in that situation and not only do the person who someone is reaching
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  and you trying to reach to somebody? This happened a lot.
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  If that haven't happened to you, then you're not human. I don't know what the hell you like.
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  And you're living a perfect life. I don't know. I kind of doubt it, but still.
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  Even when you're living good, there's still, you always use this thing where,
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  out of 10 things that happen in life, nine out of 10 is going to be bad.
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  What do you do with that one?
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  Talk to people. Listen to people.
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  When you don't know what you're going through, and sometimes when I take it
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  back, a lot of times we know what we're going through and we just want to keep
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  it to ourself, it's always good to start to thinking, who can I talk to?
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  And this is why I left my information, the information in regards to seek for
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  constant or anything like that.
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  But there's many people that are surrounded by people.
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  And you never know when you tell a story
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  you never know who's listening and what they can do and that's exactly what
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  happened in the video with that person i did something i did something i'd be
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  honest i'm not gonna mention it here it's a little bit personal but i did something
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  and that one little thing that i did.
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  To help that person's life. And we always want to remember is this,
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  regardless of what side of the table you are, when we live with people or we're
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  surrounded by people, it's always good to be a little transparent.
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  If you are in the side of I'm going through something, but I don't want to talk
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  to people, it's always good to open up to a couple of people and be transparent.
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  Because again, you never know who can help you.
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  And if you're in the other side And you see that you're talking to people I
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  want people to kind of change How they talk to people In a sense of Or at least
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  remember it's this We could talk about sports We could talk about religion We
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  could talk about whatever Concert, music, whatever it is,
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  Hey, want to talk about sports?
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  Before I talk about sports I just want to ask you a question How you doing?
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  That's all And I spend my life Living that life where I go all around everywhere
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  I go how you doing how you feeling how's your family how's your friends how's everybody.
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  Because that little thing there it could
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  change somebody's life in an instant even if they're going through a lot and
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  you want to hit that and you know I just want to go back and I did mention this
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  that when you're on that side that you are going through something or you're
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  on the other side that someone is talking to you and they going through something
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  and you'll be like oh I never new.
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  So it was good that both of us, hey, listen, just hit that reset button.
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  Mentally, physically, spiritually, financially, do something where you can say
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  to yourself, okay, it's not going to happen again.
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  I created this little episode, this beautiful episode.
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  I did this beautiful episode because in life, we kind of be humans.
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  And we kind of get stuck in this kind of thing where it's like,
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  oh, man, what to do? Oh, man, you know?
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  And we don't want to get caught up doing the same thing over and over and over
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  because we will never learn.
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  And you don't want to do the same thing, the same bad decision that you always
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  made. because one day it will be too late.
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  So if you're listening to this, let's make it happen. Once again,
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  reach out if you need counseling. I'm going to put the information.
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  If you're out there, be like, hey, let's go, man.
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  Okay, I see where you're coming from deconstructing. I see. So basically the
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  little lesson of the day is like, hey.
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  Be mindful of your surrounding and those people that are surrounding you,
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  whether it's your family, friends, colleagues, whatever it is,
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  teammates, whatever it is, be mindful.
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  So it doesn't matter where somebody is always happy, somebody is always sad, somebody is in between.
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  One minute they're happy, one minute they're sad, vice versa.
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  Just ask them how you're doing.
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  And that would change that person's life, believe me. And if you are in a situation
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  where these individuals or even yourself, you open up to the issues that you're having,
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  always remind yourself, let this be the biggest lesson of your life.
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  That whatever I did wrong, it will not happen again.
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  Because life, there's a lot of wrong things that's going to happen,
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  but there's a lot of wrong things that should not occur time after time after time.
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  Let's get it. It's the good boy Deconstructing Topic Podcast.
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  Once again, let this be the biggest lesson of your life And hit that like,
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