Latest / Reformed Thinking / The Sovereign Appointment: Providence, Prayer, and the Bride (Genesis 24:10-14)
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- 0:00Welcome back to Reformed Thinking.
- 0:01I'm your host, and as always, we're here to dig into Scripture
- 0:04and theology from the perspective of the Westminster
- 0:06Standards. And today we're hitting a topic
- 0:09that I think for a lot of Christians is just a source of
- 0:12constant low grade anxiety. Oh, absolutely.
- 0:15We're talking about guidance, finding God's will.
- 0:18It's the question behind everything, isn't it?
- 0:20Who am I supposed to marry? Should I take this job?
- 0:23Which city should I move to? I mean, we live in this age of
- 0:26just paralyzing decision fatigue.
- 0:29Right. And for believers, there's that
- 0:30extra layer, this fear of missing it, you know, as if
- 0:34God's will is some tiny little target in the dark, and if you
- 0:36step one inch to the left, you've ruined.
- 0:39Out failed the cosmic test. Exactly.
- 0:41So to really get at the heart of this, we're not starting with a
- 0:44systematic theology text today. We're actually going to a story.
- 0:48We're going to Genesis 24 and we'll be focusing on verses 10
- 0:53through 14. Now, if you grew up in the
- 0:55church, you know this story. It's Abraham's servant going to
- 0:58find a wife for Isaac. Usually gets the flannel graft
- 1:01treatment as you know this quaint little romance.
- 1:03And that's the first thing we have to just throw out.
- 1:06If you come to Genesis 24 looking for a Hallmark movie,
- 1:08yeah, you are going to miss the entire point.
- 1:10I mean the gravity of what's happened.
- 1:12It's not a romance. It's so much more.
- 1:15This is, and I don't think this is an overstatement.
- 1:17This is a theological emergency A.
- 1:19Theological emergency? OK, that sounds a little
- 1:21dramatic for what is basically an arranged marriage.
- 1:24Well, think about the context. I mean, where are we in the
- 1:26story of Genesis? Sarah has just died.
- 1:29The text tells us Abraham is well advanced in years.
- 1:33He's an old man and the entire promise of God.
- 1:37Everything from Genesis 3, Genesis 12, Genesis 15, it is
- 1:40all hanging by a single very fragile thread.
- 1:43And that thread is Isaac. That thread is Isaac.
- 1:45He is the seed. He's the miracle child.
- 1:47He is the one through whom all the nations of the earth are
- 1:50supposed to be blessed. If Isaac doesn't have a son, and
- 1:53if that line dies out, the promise fails.
- 1:57So the whole plan of salvation is at risk.
- 1:59On the line right here. So the crisis isn't just, you
- 2:02know, Isaac is 40 and single. The crisis is that if he marries
- 2:05A Canaanite woman, someone from the Pagan culture surrounding
- 2:08them, that's it. The holy, distinct messianic
- 2:12line just gets absorbed into idolatry.
- 2:15It's over. Abraham is basically fighting
- 2:17for the future of the gospel. He is, and that's why he makes
- 2:20his servants swear this incredibly serious oath.
- 2:22I mean putting his hand under his thigh.
- 2:25It's a way of invoking the covenant of circumcision.
- 2:28It's as serious as it gets. Do not get a wife from the
- 2:30Canaanites. So that's sets the stage.
- 2:33A crisis of cosmic proportions. And how does God solve it?
- 2:37And this is really the hook for our whole deep dive today,
- 2:40right? There's no burning Bush, no
- 2:42Thunder from heaven. He doesn't part the sea.
- 2:44Nope. God solves this crisis with a
- 2:47servant who doesn't even get a name in this chapter, 10 camels,
- 2:50a journey of about 500 miles, and a prayer at a well.
- 2:53And that gets us to our main point, our thesis for today,
- 2:56This passage, if we read it carefully, it just completely
- 2:59destroys our modern, fuzzy, mystical ideas about finding
- 3:03God's will. It really does.
- 3:04It teaches us the doctrine of Providence, specifically what
- 3:08the Westminster's confession calls God's use of secondary
- 3:11causes. Ordinary means.
- 3:14Exactly. Ordinary means God governs the
- 3:17world through things like human planning, travel, thirst, and
- 3:22even the schedule of chores in an ancient village.
- 3:24OK, let's unpack that then. Our first section in the outline
- 3:27is the covenant context and what the notes called the myth of
- 3:30neutrality. That phrase really stands out.
- 3:33What do we mean by that? We'll just think about how we
- 3:36approach a big decision today. We tend to see ourselves, as,
- 3:40you know, totally autonomous. We're standing in front of a
- 3:42blank canvas and the question is, what do I feel like
- 3:45painting? What's best for me?
- 3:47What's going to advance my career?
- 3:48The idea that all options are on the table.
- 3:51Right, that's the miss of neutrality, that our choices are
- 3:53just these big open fields for self-expression.
- 3:56But the. Servant.
- 3:57In this story, he doesn't have a blank canvas, does he?
- 4:00Not even close. His canvas already has borders
- 4:03painted on it. His mission is bounded by an
- 4:05oath. He is explicitly forbidden from
- 4:08one course of action. The Canaanites and commanded
- 4:11toward another Abraham's kin in Mesopotamia.
- 4:13His decision making is already hemmed in by God's revealed
- 4:17will, spoken through His Master. Yes, and that is a huge
- 4:21theological point for us. For the Christian, guidance
- 4:25isn't about standing in an open field and asking what's my
- 4:27preference. It's about standing on a path
- 4:29and asking what has God already commanded regarding his
- 4:32covenant? We're not our own right?
- 4:34We were bought with a price. Our decisions aren't neutral.
- 4:37They are acts of allegiance or or acts of rebellion.
- 4:40That's it. The servant isn't going to
- 4:42Mesopotamia because the food is better or the scenery is nicer.
- 4:46He's going because that's the only way to preserve the
- 4:49covenant line from being swallowed by idolatry.
- 4:51It is an act of theological separation.
- 4:54It's like a train on a track. You might feel like the rails
- 4:56are restricting you, but actually they're the only thing
- 4:59that allows you to get where you're going.
- 5:00Without them, you're just a wreck.
- 5:02The covenant commands or the rails?
- 5:04That's a great analogy. It really is true.
- 5:07Freedom isn't the absence of boundaries, it's finding the
- 5:10right boundaries that lead to flourishing.
- 5:13So let's talk about the servant himself.
- 5:14He's anonymous here. Yeah, totally anonymous.
- 5:17Most traditions says it's probably a laser of Damascus who
- 5:20Abraham mentions way back in Genesis 15 as his heir before
- 5:24Isaac was born, but the text just calls him the servant.
- 5:28Which seems significant. It is.
- 5:30His identity is swallowed up in his mission.
- 5:32He's a steward. He's not on a personal quest.
- 5:35He carries Abraham's authority. His will is submitted to his
- 5:39master's will. OK, that brings us to verse 10.
- 5:42This is what our notes call the anatomy of faithful Action.
- 5:45And I love this because it gets so practical, so logistical.
- 5:48It starts then the servant took ten of his master's camels.
- 5:52All right, let's just pause there. 10 camels.
- 5:54We hear camels and we think, I don't know, a picture from a zoo
- 5:57or something. Or nativity scene, right?
- 5:59But in the Middle Bronze Age, 10 camels is not a small detail.
- 6:03This is an enormous statement. What kind of statement is this?
- 6:06Like rolling up in a fleet of 10 brand new Mercedes SUV's.
- 6:10It's even more than that. I think this is a logistical
- 6:12Armada. Camels were the peak of long
- 6:15distance transport technology. They were incredibly valuable.
- 6:18Taking ten of them is a projection of power and wealth.
- 6:22It says my master Abraham is a Prince.
- 6:25He is a man of incredible substance.
- 6:27It's a display of Abraham's glory.
- 6:30And he doesn't just take the camels, the text says he took
- 6:32all sorts of choice gifts from his master.
- 6:34Yeah. The phrase there implies he had
- 6:36access to all of Abraham's wealth.
- 6:38It's what one of our sources called a blank check.
- 6:40He's going to negotiate a bride price, the Mohar, right?
- 6:43He's not going to show up and just hope to charm his way into
- 6:46this arrangement. He's prepared.
- 6:48He has the resources to pay whatever is required.
- 6:51But this is the theological meat of it, isn't it?
- 6:53The servant prepares. He plans.
- 6:55He doesn't just sit in his tent and pray.
- 6:56Lord teleport a wife for Isaac into the camp.
- 6:58That's it. This is pure, practical, applied
- 7:01Reformed doctrine of Providence. It's Westminster Confession,
- 7:04Chapter 5, Section 3IN action, God, in his ordinary Providence,
- 7:08maketh use of means. The servant uses means.
- 7:12He packs the bags, he preps the animals.
- 7:14He figures out the route. And it's a heck of a route.
- 7:16Oh, it's a monster of a journey. From Hebron, where they were up
- 7:20to Aram Naharim, you're looking at 450, maybe 500 miles.
- 7:25On foot with camels. On foot with a caravan, you're
- 7:28talking about a month of travel one way.
- 7:29A month of walking a. Month of dust and heat and the
- 7:33danger of bandits. And this is such a powerful
- 7:36counter narrative to a certain kind of hyper spirituality you
- 7:41see today, this quietism. You mean the let go and let God
- 7:45philosophy that sees planning as a lack of faith?
- 7:48Exactly that. The idea that if God wants me to
- 7:50get married, the right person will just knock on my door, or
- 7:53if God wants me to have a job, the CEO will call me while I'm
- 7:56on the couch. But that's not faith, that's
- 7:58fatalism. True faith acts.
- 8:01True faith packs the camels. The servant trusts the God who
- 8:04ordains the end of finding the wife, but he participates in the
- 8:07means God is ordained, which includes the travel, the gifts,
- 8:11the whole plan. So using your brain, using your
- 8:13resources, planning ahead, that's not unspiritual.
- 8:16No, it's the very anatomy of faithful action.
- 8:20It's how we show we're good stewards of what God has given
- 8:23us. We plan because we trust that
- 8:25God is sovereign over our planning.
- 8:28I like that it redeems the mundane, doesn't it?
- 8:30The scheduling, the budgeting, the packing, it's all part of
- 8:34our walk with God. It is absolutely spiritual work.
- 8:37Every step of that 500 mile journey was an act of worship.
- 8:41So after a month of this, he finally arrives.
- 8:43He gets to the city of Nahor, and this brings us to Section 3,
- 8:48Sanctified common sense. We're in verse 11 now, and he
- 8:51made his camels kneel down outside the city by a well of
- 8:54water at evening time, the time when women go out to draw water.
- 8:58OK, notice the strategic brilliance here.
- 9:00This isn't random. He doesn't just wander into the
- 9:02city center hoping to bump into some.
- 9:04No, he goes straight to the well.
- 9:06He goes to the one place he knows he'll find the specific
- 9:08demographic he's looking for. It's the village water cooler.
- 9:11And the timing is key. The timing is everything.
- 9:15At evening time. You don't haul water in the
- 9:17blistering heat of the midday sun in the Near East.
- 9:20It's foolish. It's dangerous.
- 9:23You go in the cool of the evening when the work day is
- 9:25done. And there's a social dynamic
- 9:28too, right? He doesn't go to the city gate.
- 9:30Correct. The city gate was the
- 9:32courthouse, the Stock Exchange, the men's clubs.
- 9:35It's where the elder sat and made deals.
- 9:37If he went there, he'd be dealing with fathers and
- 9:39brothers immediately. But he needs to see the
- 9:42potential brides themselves. So he goes to the sphere of
- 9:46domestic work, he goes to the well, he's a brilliant
- 9:48strategist. He's thinking, OK, where are the
- 9:50young unmarried women of the town likely to be, and when will
- 9:54they be there? It's just logic.
- 9:56It's sanctified common sense. That's the perfect term for.
- 9:58It it is, we so often want God's Providence to look like some
- 10:02kind of supernatural magic trick.
- 10:04A lightning bolt, a voice from a cloud.
- 10:07But most of the time, Providence just looks like good sense.
- 10:10God governs his world through its created regularities.
- 10:14People get thirsty. The sunsets.
- 10:16Chores have to be done. The servant isn't fighting
- 10:18against those realities. He's aligning himself with them
- 10:21to meet his goal. He didn't wait for some mystical
- 10:24feeling or a supernatural pull to lead him down a certain St.
- 10:27He used the brain and God gave him.
- 10:30And that's a massive lesson for us, using your intellect, doing
- 10:33your research, positioning yourself wisely, that that is
- 10:35not a sign of weak faith. It's how you partner with God in
- 10:38His providential working. So he's there, he's at the well,
- 10:41the sun is going down, the camels are settled, and only now
- 10:44after all this planning and travel, does he pray.
- 10:46Verse 12 And he said, Oh Lord God of my master Abraham, please
- 10:51grant me success today. This prayer is just packed with
- 10:54theology. Let's break it down.
- 10:55First, the address. Oh Lord, that's Yahweh, the
- 10:58personal covenant name of God, God of my master Abraham.
- 11:01He's not just praying to the universe or some generic higher
- 11:04power. No, he's being incredibly
- 11:06specific. He is anchoring his entire
- 11:08request in redemptive history. He's appealing to the God who
- 11:12called Abraham out of this very region, the God who made
- 11:15specific, unbreakable promises to him.
- 11:18He knows exactly who he's talking to.
- 11:19He does, and then the request itself.
- 11:22Please grant me success today. Now in English that sounds
- 11:26fairly simple, but the Hebrew word here is doing some very
- 11:29heavy theological work. OK, what's the keyword we need
- 11:31to know? The verb is hocker.
- 11:34It comes from the root Cara, which means something like to
- 11:37encounter or to happen upon. But here it's in what's called
- 11:40the Hifil stem, which is causative.
- 11:42OK. For those of us whose Hebrew is
- 11:45a bit rusty, what does a causative stem do?
- 11:49It means he's not just asking for something to happen, he's
- 11:52asking God to cause it to happen.
- 11:53The literal translation is something like cause it to
- 11:56happen before me today or make an appointment for me.
- 11:59Make an appointment that is, that's incredibly specific and
- 12:03confident language. It's.
- 12:04Stunningly confident, and this prayer, this one word, just
- 12:07obliterates the idea of open theism.
- 12:10The idea that God doesn't know or control the future choices of
- 12:13free individuals. Exactly.
- 12:15I mean, think about what this servant is asking for.
- 12:18For this prayer to be answered, God has to sovereignly
- 12:20orchestrate 1000 tiny details. He has to control the exact
- 12:25moment a specific young woman decides to leave her house.
- 12:29Right. Her walking speed, whether she
- 12:31stops to talk to a friend on the way, which path she takes, her
- 12:35decision to come to this well and not another at this exact
- 12:38minute. If she left her house 2 minutes
- 12:41later, she would have missed him entirely.
- 12:43He's asking God to be the divine micromanager of the universe for
- 12:46the sake of this covenant mission.
- 12:48Yes, He's asking God to make her seemingly chance movements
- 12:51intersect perfectly with His prepared presence.
- 12:54He believes that what looks like coincidence to us is in reality
- 12:58a divine appointment. As RC Scroll used to say, there
- 13:01are no maverick molecules. Not a single one.
- 13:04This servant has a robust, sovereign view of God.
- 13:08And then look at his motivation, the basis of his appeal, he
- 13:11says. And show steadfast love to my
- 13:13master Abraham. Steadfast love.
- 13:15That's cheesed, isn't it? That's cheesed.
- 13:18One of the absolute pillar words of the Old Testament.
- 13:21It doesn't just mean affection. It means loyal love, covenant
- 13:25faithfulness, mercy that is rooted in a sworn promise.
- 13:28So he's not arguing his own case.
- 13:30He's not saying, God, please do this for me because I'm such a
- 13:33good servant and I walked 500 miles.
- 13:35Not at all. He doesn't plead his own merit.
- 13:38He doesn't even really plead Abraham's merit.
- 13:40He pleads God's character. He pleads God's faithfulness to
- 13:43his own promises. The argument is essentially God.
- 13:47You promised to Abraham a seed. You promise to bless the nations
- 13:51through him. This marriage is necessary for
- 13:53that promise to continue, so be faithful to your own word.
- 13:57Precisely. And that just revolutionizes how
- 13:59we should think about prayer. Prayer is not about trying to
- 14:02bend God's arm to get Him to do something He doesn't want to do.
- 14:04It's about aligning our request with His revealed promises and
- 14:08asking him to act consistently with his own character.
- 14:10Lord, be who you said you would be.
- 14:13That's a powerful way to pray. It's the most powerful way.
- 14:15OK, so he prays this incredibly specific, theologically rich
- 14:19prayer, but then he does something that I think makes a
- 14:23lot of modern Christians a bit nervous.
- 14:25He proposes a test, a sign, verses 13 and 14.
- 14:29He says basically, let it be that the young woman to whom I
- 14:32say please let down your jar that I may drink.
- 14:36And she says drink, and I will also give your camels a drink.
- 14:39Let her be the one. Right.
- 14:41And the immediate question is, is this like Gideon putting out
- 14:44the fleece? Is he just, you know, looking
- 14:46for a random sign? Like flipping a coin or that
- 14:49thing people do where they just open their Bible and point to a
- 14:51verse and say that's God's will. And we have to be very, very
- 14:54clear, this is not a Pagan omen. In the ancient world, divination
- 14:57was common. You look at how birds fly, or
- 15:00you'd inspect the liver of a sacrificed animal to try and
- 15:02discern the will of the gods. Arbitrary sign.
- 15:05Totally arbitrary. There's no moral content.
- 15:07If the next person I see is wearing blue, I'll know is God's
- 15:09will. That's not faith, it's
- 15:12superstition. The servant's test is completely
- 15:14different because it is ethically meaningful.
- 15:17OK, how so? What makes it meaningful?
- 15:19It's designed to reveal character, not just to identify
- 15:22a random person. And to see that, we have to do
- 15:26what our outline calls the mathematics of the test.
- 15:29This is where those 10 camels become more than just a status
- 15:32symbol. They're not just for show
- 15:33anymore. They're thirsty.
- 15:34They are extremely thirsty. A camel, after a long journey
- 15:38across the desert, can drink an astonishing amount of water.
- 15:42We're talking 20, maybe 25 gallons. 25 gallons for one
- 15:47camel. Per cow and he has 10 of them.
- 15:49That's 250 gallons of water. About that, yeah, 250 gallons.
- 15:54To put that in perspective, a standard bathtub holds about 40
- 15:57gallons, so this is like filling 6 bathtubs with water.
- 16:00And how is she supposed to get this water?
- 16:02She has a jar. A clay jar.
- 16:05A typical jar from that period might hold, let's be generous
- 16:08and say 3 gallons. So 250 gallons, 3 gallons at a
- 16:11time. My math isn't great, but.
- 16:13You're looking at over 80 trips. 80. 80 times she has to lower
- 16:17that jar into the well or spring, which takes strength,
- 16:20hoist up 25 lbs of water, carry it over the through, pour it in
- 16:24and then go back and do it all over again.
- 16:25This isn't just a small favor, this is an afternoon of hard
- 16:29physical labor. It's hours of back breaking work
- 16:32and remember, she volunteers for this.
- 16:34That's the test. He only asks her sip for
- 16:36himself. Please let me drink a little
- 16:38water. And any decent person would do
- 16:40that. That's basic hospitality.
- 16:42That's the baseline. Giving a drink to a thirsty
- 16:44traveler is expected. It's the principle we see later
- 16:47in Leviticus 19. But for her to say drink and I
- 16:51will water your camels also, that is something else entirely
- 16:54that is extraordinary. It's proactive, radical
- 16:56hospitality. It is a virtue discovery
- 16:59mission. He is designed a test that will
- 17:01reveal very clearly three specific character traits, 1
- 17:06hospitality, 2 Industry, a willingness to work hard, and
- 17:10three, initiative. She does more than she is asked.
- 17:14She sees a need and meets it without prompting.
- 17:17She goes the extra 80 trips to the well.
- 17:18She does, and the servant knows that the woman who will be the
- 17:22next matriarch of the covenant family, the new Sarah, needs to
- 17:25be exactly this kind of person. It's not about beauty or status.
- 17:28It's about having the heart of a servant.
- 17:30It requires grit. So the sign isn't magical, it's
- 17:33a character audit. That is the perfect way to put
- 17:35it. He is looking for the visible
- 17:38evidence of an invisible quality.
- 17:41The visible fruit of virtue reveals the invisible root of
- 17:45God's choice. And that connects to another
- 17:47Hebrew word in our notes for verse 14, he asks, Let her be
- 17:51the one whom you have appointed. Yes, the verb there is yakka.
- 17:54It's a legal term. It means to prove, to decide a
- 17:57case, to adjudicate. Adjudicate so he sees this as a
- 18:01verdict. He does.
- 18:02He's not asking God to make a choice in that moment.
- 18:05He believes God has already made the choice in His eternal
- 18:08decree. He is asking for the evidence to
- 18:10be presented in court, so to speak.
- 18:12He's asking for the verdict to be made public through her
- 18:14actions. God, show me the woman you
- 18:16already chosen. Not God.
- 18:18Please choose this woman. That is a critical distinction,
- 18:20and it tells you everything about his understanding of
- 18:22Providence. Providence is simply God's
- 18:25eternal decree being executed in time and space.
- 18:28The servant is just asking to see that day's page of the
- 18:31script. OK, this is amazing.
- 18:33We have the covenant context, the faithful action, the
- 18:36specific prayer, the character test.
- 18:39Let's zoom out a bit Now as this is Reformed thinking.
- 18:42We always have to ask, where is the gospel in this?
- 18:45How does this connect to Christ? This brings us to typology.
- 18:49And we want to be careful here, right?
- 18:50We're not looking for a secret code where the camels represent
- 18:53the 10 commandments or something silly like that.
- 18:55Right, no over allegorizing. But there is what we'd call a
- 18:58clear canonical trajectory. The patterns in this story are
- 19:02preparing us for a greater reality.
- 19:04So let's look at the main figures first.
- 19:07Isaac. He's weirdly passive in this
- 19:09whole story. He's totally absent from the
- 19:11action, isn't he? He's the beloved son, the son of
- 19:14the promise. He had a miraculous birth.
- 19:16He was symbolically offered up and received back from the dead
- 19:19on Mount Moriah in Genesis 22. And now he just waits.
- 19:23He waits in the promised land while a bride is sought for him
- 19:26and brought to him. That pattern should sound very
- 19:28familiar to us. It should.
- 19:30It's a shadow of Christ the Son, who, having completed his work
- 19:34and ascended into heaven, now waits for his bride, the Church,
- 19:38to be gathered from the nations and brought to him.
- 19:40OK, so Isaac is a type of Christ.
- 19:43What about the servant? Well, think about him.
- 19:46He's nameless in the story. His entire purpose, his whole
- 19:49mission is to glorify his master Abraham, and to secure a bride
- 19:54for the son Isaac. He speaks of the son's
- 19:56inheritance. He brings gifts like a deposit
- 19:59or a down payment to secure the bride.
- 20:01That sounds a lot like the work of the Holy Spirit.
- 20:03It's a beautiful parallel. The Holy Spirit is sent from the
- 20:06Father and the Son. He doesn't speak on his own
- 20:08authority. His mission is to gather the
- 20:10Church from the far country of the world, to convict her, to
- 20:13seal her with the earnest or the down payment of her inheritance,
- 20:17and to bring her safely to Christ.
- 20:18And that leaves Rebecca. Rebecca is a type of the church.
- 20:22She's found among a Pagan people, even if they are related
- 20:24to Abraham. She's called to leave her
- 20:26country and her father's house, and this is key.
- 20:30She has to make a choice. Later in the chapter, her family
- 20:33asks her will you go with this man?
- 20:36And she gives her own consent. I will go.
- 20:38She agrees to go and marry a man she's never even seen.
- 20:41Exactly just like the Church. First Peter 1.8 Though you have
- 20:44not seen him, you love him. And her defining characteristic,
- 20:47that radical servant hearted act of giving water.
- 20:51It anticipates the Church's calling.
- 20:53We are saved by grace, to be sure, but we are saved unto good
- 20:56works called to give a cup of cold water to the least of
- 20:59these. Wow.
- 21:00When you see it like that, the whole story just opens up.
- 21:03It's not just an ancient anecdote, it's a portrait of the
- 21:06Gospel in miniature. God was writing this story, this
- 21:09pattern of redemption, long before Christ came.
- 21:12The incredible lengths God goes to in this chapter to secure a
- 21:15bride for the Son of the promise are just a faint echo of the
- 21:18lengths he would go to at the cross to secure a bride for his
- 21:21own son. So.
- 21:22Let's bring it home. Let's talk application.
- 21:25We've got people listening right now, facing huge decisions,
- 21:28feeling that anxiety we talked about at the beginning.
- 21:31What does Genesis 24 say to them?
- 21:33Well, the first thing it does is it corrects our errors first.
- 21:36It's a powerful correction against mysticism.
- 21:38Stop. Waiting to hear an audible voice
- 21:40from heaven. Stop waiting for voices, says.
- 21:42Stop looking for signs in the sky.
- 21:44Stop trying to interpret your dreams.
- 21:47God has given you His revealed will in His word.
- 21:49Start there and use the wisdom He's giving you.
- 21:53Second, it corrects the error of pragmatism.
- 21:55Right. Don't just do what seems to work
- 21:58or what will bring the most worldly success.
- 22:00The servant could have found a much easier match among the
- 22:03Canaanites, probably. But he wasn't looking for what
- 22:05was easy. He was looking for covenant
- 22:07faithfulness and virtue. And my favorite, it corrects the
- 22:10error of luck. We have to just remove that word
- 22:13from our Christian vocabulary. It doesn't exist.
- 22:16There is no luck. There is no chance.
- 22:18There is only the meticulous sovereign Providence of God.
- 22:21Every single drop of water that went into that through was
- 22:24ordained for the foundation of the world.
- 22:26OK, so with those errors corrected, what's the positive
- 22:30model? If I'm facing a decision, a new
- 22:33job let's say, what's the step by step process this chapter
- 22:37gives me? Step one.
- 22:38Obey God's revealed moral will. This is the train track.
- 22:43Is the job itself sinful? Does it require you to lie or
- 22:46cheat? Does it prevent you from
- 22:48gathering with the Saints for worship?
- 22:50If the answer to any of those is yes, but then the answer is no,
- 22:54you don't even need to pray about it.
- 22:55It's off the table the. Boundaries of the canvas.
- 22:57OK, Step 2. Use means do the work, update
- 23:01your resume, network, research the company, do the interview
- 23:04prep. Position yourself faithfully
- 23:06just like the servant positioned himself at the well.
- 23:08Don't just sit back and wait for a call.
- 23:10Be active, not passive. Step 3.
- 23:12Pray and pray. Specifically, pray for Hack for
- 23:15a divine appointment. Ask God to cause His will to
- 23:18happen before you, to open the right doors and close the wrong
- 23:21ones, and base that prayer on His.
- 23:23She's on His covenant love and faithfulness to you in Christ.
- 23:26And finally, Step 4. Look for confirmation in virtue.
- 23:30Does this opportunity align with who God has called me to be?
- 23:34Will it allow me to serve others?
- 23:36Will it grow me in godliness? The servant looked for the fruit
- 23:40of godly character as the sign that he was on the right path.
- 23:44I think we have to spend a minute on relationships in
- 23:46marriage because the camel test might be the single best piece
- 23:50of dating advice in the entire Bible.
- 23:52It really is incredible. We live in a culture that is
- 23:55obsessed with vibes and chemistry.
- 23:57We're looking for a spark, you know?
- 23:59Do they like the same music I like?
- 24:01Do they make me laugh? Do we have that connection?
- 24:03Right, and the servant could not have cared less about a spark.
- 24:06He was looking for sweat. That's a great line.
- 24:08He didn't care about a spark, he cared about sweat.
- 24:11He was looking for the person who serves when it's
- 24:13inconvenient, the person who works hard when nobody's
- 24:16watching, the person who gives generously without being asked.
- 24:20That is the camel test. And it is such a powerful rebuke
- 24:24to our modern self-care. Set your boundaries, culture.
- 24:28Now, boundaries can be good, but our default posture is so often
- 24:31about self preservation. Rebecca's default was self
- 24:34giving. She saw a need and ran toward
- 24:37it, even at great personal cost. That's the economy of the
- 24:39Kingdom of God, isn't it? Whoever would be greatest among
- 24:42you must be your servant. So if you're single and looking
- 24:45for a spouse, stop looking for the most attractive person or
- 24:48the funniest person. Look for the person who
- 24:51figuratively is always watering the camels.
- 24:54And even more, if you want to be a godly spouse, start looking
- 24:57for camels to water. That is deeply convicting.
- 25:00It should be for all of us. We have covered so much ground
- 25:03here, from a 500 mile journey to the doctrine of open theism.
- 25:07As we start to wrap up, what's the single big take away from
- 25:10Genesis 24? The summary is this.
- 25:13Abraham's servant found the right bride for the son of the
- 25:15promise, not by luck or by magic, but by a dependent,
- 25:19active, working faith in the sovereign God of Abraham.
- 25:22He combined high octane theology with rolling up his sleeves and
- 25:25doing the hard work. And what's a final thought you
- 25:27want to leave our listeners with?
- 25:29I just can't get away from the image of the well.
- 25:32The servant, a man stands by a well and asks a woman for a
- 25:36drink of water so that the line of promise can continue.
- 25:39Centuries later, Jesus, the ultimate son of promise, sits
- 25:43down by a well in Samaria. John, Chapter 4.
- 25:45Exactly. But he turns the whole story on
- 25:48its head. He doesn't just ask for water,
- 25:50he offers living water. The servant called a bride to
- 25:53Isaac to preserve a physical lineage.
- 25:56Jesus calls a bride to himself to give her eternal life.
- 25:59That's a powerful. Connection.
- 26:00And so the challenge for every one of us is the same one that
- 26:03was put to Rebecca. The question came to her will
- 26:06you go? She could have said no.
- 26:09She could have stayed in the familiar comfort of her father's
- 26:11house. But she said I will go.
- 26:13And the question for us is, are we like the citizens of Nahor
- 26:16who stayed behind, or are we like Rebecca, who heard the call
- 26:18and said I will go to a bridegroom she had never seen?
- 26:21That is the question. Well, thank you for listening to
- 26:24this deep dive on reformed thinking.
- 26:26We hope this look at Genesis 24 helps you see your decisions,
- 26:30your work, and maybe even your own camels in a whole new light.
- 26:34Indeed, trust the God of the appointment.
- 26:36He is faithful. We'll see you next time.