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You Cannot Tell Everybody Your Business · Regina Swarn Audio Series Presents

• 0:38
  SPEAKER_00: Hello there.
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  SPEAKER_00: Welcome back to another recording of Ratina Sworn Audio Series Presents.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, how's everybody doing since the last time we spoke?
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  SPEAKER_00: I hope you're fine.
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  SPEAKER_00: I hope you're well, hope you're doing good.
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  SPEAKER_00: Me, I'm doing great.
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  SPEAKER_00: I tell you already, if if if I got breath in my body, uh food on my table, got my strength, life, health, and strength that the Lord only can give me, then I'm doing wonderful.
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  SPEAKER_00: I want to speak very briefly about sharing your business with the wrong people.
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  SPEAKER_00: Sometimes you got to keep your business to yourself.
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  SPEAKER_00: You it's it's good to have a really good friend, someone that that's really close to you, someone that you really trust, and they trust you.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's okay, you but you got to know that they are your friend.
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  SPEAKER_00: You got to know that that particular family member is close to close enough to you to not share your business.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I knew I had that with Laura, you know, I had that with her, my sister Laura.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you got a friend like that, that you know uh, you know, keep your business your business, and you guys got a bun like that, that's awesome.
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  SPEAKER_00: But don't tell your business to everybody.
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  SPEAKER_00: I have my life, my private life is just that, my private life.
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  SPEAKER_00: I do not share my stuff on Facebook, I do not share my stuff on Instagram.
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  SPEAKER_00: Sometimes people they don't know what's going on in my life, so what they would do is they would go and try to listen to the podcast to see what's going on.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's a shame to me.
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  SPEAKER_00: You gotta go to the podcast to listen, to see who I stop in my life, or may Lori, or may Lori.
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  SPEAKER_00: But um, anyways, I just don't tell everybody my business.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't.
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  SPEAKER_00: If something is going on in your life, sometimes you got to find just you got to have just that few prayer warriors that you know that you can depend on that you can go to.
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  SPEAKER_00: You know that they got your back because they are going to the Lord with your situation, with your problem, with your whatever.
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  SPEAKER_00: Even if you got a friend and you know you guys can talk, and you got the good vibes.
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  SPEAKER_00: I like when people say I'm sending good energy, good vibes.
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  SPEAKER_00: I believe in that.
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  SPEAKER_00: I do because it's positive energy.
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  SPEAKER_00: Anytime a person is going through a sickness or going through something in their life, you better make sure that you got prayer warriors behind you, or somebody you know you can trust, because in that bunch, if any one of those people are negative or they are a gossiper, just gonna mess up everything because again, you can't tell everybody your business.
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  SPEAKER_00: You know, and and I think I got a I think I got a good I think I got a good few people that I that I lean on.
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  SPEAKER_00: I hope so, you know.
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  SPEAKER_00: Once I find out that they're not, I I I get rid of 'em.
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  SPEAKER_00: It just is what it is.
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  SPEAKER_00: You know, but I I think now I do.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't tell everybody my business.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't like telling people what's going on in my life.
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  SPEAKER_00: I just tell certain people so they can pray.
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  SPEAKER_00: And you know, people put their business on Facebook.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's dumb, you know?
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm not gonna knock you for what you do.
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  SPEAKER_00: You wanna say, everybody pray for me.
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  SPEAKER_00: And a lot of people feel like the more prayers the better, so they'll post their business out in public.
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  SPEAKER_00: If that's how they feel, I can't knock them for that because that's the way they feel.
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  SPEAKER_00: Me personally, if I got a problem going on, I am not gonna post it out there on um social media.
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  SPEAKER_00: That is me, see, I'm different from you, from others.
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  SPEAKER_00: I have a different way of operating, a different way of doing things.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I'm not gonna put my stuff out there.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's nothing you can do.
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  SPEAKER_00: A lot of people are nosy.
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  SPEAKER_00: So in my mind, if something is going on in my life, I go to the prayer warriors that I'm close to and I say, Look, I I need you to pray, I need and because I know we're all on one accord.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're all on one accord, you know?
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  SPEAKER_00: And when you got of just a fateful few, the Bible didn't say you have to have a whole gang.
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  SPEAKER_00: You don't have to have a whole gang of people.
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  SPEAKER_00: Just where a few where two or three agree.
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  SPEAKER_00: Trust me, that's all you need.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I'm not gonna put my stuff out there on social media.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm not gonna put uh anybody else's stuff out on social media.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't personally operate like that.
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  SPEAKER_00: There are certain certain family members that I don't tell things to.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't talk to my family about anything.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because they're a bunch of gossipers.
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  SPEAKER_00: They are.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you if a person ever say that to you about something that another person has told them, let me tell you something.
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  SPEAKER_00: You better run as fast as you can away from that person.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because that person, if they're telling another person's business, what do you mean if it's it's just between you and me?
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  SPEAKER_00: What do you mean by that?
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  SPEAKER_00: You want to run from that person.
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  SPEAKER_00: I mean you run from them really fast.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because uh you can't trust people.
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  SPEAKER_00: I I have a problem with tr I have a problem with trusting people.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm sorry.
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  SPEAKER_00: It call me crazy.
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  SPEAKER_00: Call me crazy.
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  SPEAKER_00: People do it all the time.
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  SPEAKER_00: I have a problem with trusting people.
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  SPEAKER_00: I do, I tr I don't trust everybody.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I just don't.
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  SPEAKER_00: I I I'd rather if if something I got something in my life, I'd rather tell a few faithful few than to that I think and as I hope that I can trust in.
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  SPEAKER_00: I hope, you know.
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  SPEAKER_00: But I I rather tell a few faithful few than to tell people then they're gonna go run back and just one, that one, that one, that one, that way.
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  SPEAKER_00: You cannot trust everybody.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so like I say, I don't knock people when they put their business on Facebook when they they want to tell what's going on in their life.
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  SPEAKER_00: I I used to do that, what, ten years ago?
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  SPEAKER_00: I used to do that.
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  SPEAKER_00: Everything that went on in my life, I post it right there so people can know, so they can be praying for me, so they can take up an offering, or or they didn't have, I don't think, cash up at the time, so people would get together and raise up money and things like that.
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  SPEAKER_00: You know, and I used to do that.
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  SPEAKER_00: But I realized, I said, Lord, you know what?
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  SPEAKER_00: You say where two or three agree in my name.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's all you need.
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  SPEAKER_00: But I cannot tell other people how to run or or live their lives.
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  SPEAKER_00: I personally don't put my business out there on social media.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't need a hundred a thousand people praying for me.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't need that because somewhere in that bunch of a thousand people, somebody is negative.
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  SPEAKER_00: Somebody in there is is their best don't have your best wishes at heart.
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  SPEAKER_00: Somebody in that thousand.
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  SPEAKER_00: So when you put your stuff out there on Facebook and on these lines for people to see and say, This is what's going on for me, be praying for me, da da da da da da.
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  SPEAKER_00: Some people might really feel you know feel bad and be praying for you or raise money for you.
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  SPEAKER_00: A lot of times that's what people wanted them to do, and that's fine too.
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  SPEAKER_00: But everybody out in that bunch is not they don't have your best interests at heart.
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  SPEAKER_00: So be very selective, be very careful how you put your business out on social media.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because again, everybody out there don't do not have your best interests at heart.
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  SPEAKER_00: Thanks for listening.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm Regina Sorin.
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  SPEAKER_00: I just wanted to share that with you because a lot of people, a lot of times, they don't know what's going on in my life because I I'm not gonna tell you what's going on in my life.
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  SPEAKER_00: My personal life is my personal life, and I've very few people I actually even talk to.
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  SPEAKER_00: And even people that I talk to, I don't a lot of people I don't tell them anything, so they don't know what's going on in my life.
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  unknown: They don't know.
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  SPEAKER_00: But there are people that I do talk to that I do tell, this is what's up, you know, da-da-da.
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  SPEAKER_00: You cannot tell everybody your business.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's it's not wise for me, and I'm gonna say it again, it's not wise for me to put all of my business on social media.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you are sick and you're putting your business on social media and you're telling and you think the more prayers the better.
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  SPEAKER_00: No, it's not.
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  SPEAKER_00: No, it's not.
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  SPEAKER_00: A lot of times people want to be, they want that pity.
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  SPEAKER_00: They want I'm sorry, I'm telling you the truth tonight.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm telling you the truth tonight.
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  SPEAKER_00: A lot of times people want that pity.
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  SPEAKER_00: So they'll put that out there so more people can get can can can like.
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  SPEAKER_00: People are so into likes.
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  SPEAKER_00: God, people are so into likes and what how many people like something.
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  SPEAKER_00: That don't mean flip to me.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't care if nobody likes something.
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  SPEAKER_00: I prefer not to put all my business out there.
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  SPEAKER_00: And sometimes people are put stuff out there because they want you to like it, they want you to know that they're sick and all of these things, this, that, and the other.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's not always wise.
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  SPEAKER_00: But that is them.
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  SPEAKER_00: I can't tell them how to live.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm talking about me, baby.
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  SPEAKER_00: Me.
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  SPEAKER_00: I was kind of cut from a different cloth than most people.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm sorry.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I almost think that Paul Simon sometimes I wonder did he write this song about me.
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  SPEAKER_00: Still crazy after all these years.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because I am still crazy, as people say, she's crazy.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I don't know what they mean when they say that.
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  SPEAKER_00: Not bragging on myself, but I'm just saying.
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  SPEAKER_00: But I love that song, still crazy after all these years.
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  SPEAKER_00: Still crazy.
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  SPEAKER_00: Still crazy, still crazy after all these.
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  SPEAKER_00: I love that song by Paul Simon Man.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because people call me crazy all the time, okay?
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  SPEAKER_00: But that's good not to be liked or loved by everybody, because I know I'm not liked or loved by everybody.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I and I find that I love that.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you're not going through something in your life and everything is easy, easy peasy in your life, something's wrong.
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  SPEAKER_00: Something's wrong if everything is easy peasy.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you're not going through something or you something things are not if everything is so easy going, something is wrong.
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  SPEAKER_00: You know?
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  SPEAKER_00: I thank God for the trials and tribulations that I have.
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  SPEAKER_00: I thank God for 'em.
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  SPEAKER_00: That let me know, God, hey.
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  SPEAKER_00: And give me a reason to stay on my knees, stay on my knees praying.
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  SPEAKER_00: That gave me a reason to do that.
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  SPEAKER_00: So yeah, I had I had to bring up that Paul Simon song, you know what I mean?
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  SPEAKER_00: I love it.
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  SPEAKER_00: I think I'm gonna listen to that tonight.
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  SPEAKER_00: Wow.
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  SPEAKER_00: Still crazy after all these years.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, I mean, people used to call me crazy years ago.
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  SPEAKER_00: That girl is crazy.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's still saying that lady's crazy.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I don't mind, I don't mind what people say.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let me talk.
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  SPEAKER_00: But again, if you got business, you don't want everybody to know your business, be careful how you share your business with people with people.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because everybody do not need to know your business.
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  SPEAKER_00: Be careful who you talk to about your business, because everybody don't have your best interests at heart.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right, Tina Sworn, thank you so much for joining me.
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  SPEAKER_00: You can contact me at SwornRetina at gmail.com.
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  SPEAKER_00: Have a great, great evening and be safe.