Latest / TMI / Ep. 417 "The New Black Body" with Dr Michael Jones and Marcia Dyson
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- 0:01Speaker 1: That's how we owned it. That's how we own it.
- 0:05Speaker 1: What's up, Family, I'm your girl, Tamika D. Mallory. It's
- 0:08Speaker 1: your boy, my son in general, and we are your
- 0:10Speaker 1: hosts of street politicians, the place where the streets and
- 0:13Speaker 1: politics meet. What's goods? Another week we listen. We had
- 0:20Speaker 1: I think I mentioned last week, but we had over
- 0:22Speaker 1: thirty thousand downloads of new people to stause. I told
- 0:27Speaker 1: you number one. You think I'm playing number one, You
- 0:29Speaker 1: think we're playing number one, number one. We're going to
- 0:32Speaker 1: the top of the charts. And we got a new look.
- 0:35Speaker 1: We got a new posters. When we did okay your
- 0:38Speaker 1: nice What was this from this double X when we
- 0:44Speaker 1: interviewed the freshman class. Yeah, we all need stres. You
- 0:47Speaker 1: see me with my little oh lord anyway, Yeah, your
- 0:52Speaker 1: African guards. That's I love the fact that you know
- 0:55Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I gotta do what I do, man,
- 0:57Speaker 1: You know what I represent. You see Black King's young
- 0:59Speaker 1: Black King. We're outside shout out to a b n
- 1:02Speaker 1: remember our friends that that Bronx logo on shout out
- 1:05Speaker 1: to b X logo logo. That's my guy. You know
- 1:08Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Came home from from prison and doesn't
- 1:12Speaker 1: understand the world. We left Thine hit the ground running.
- 1:16Speaker 1: He ain't out there on hand man selling clothes out
- 1:20Speaker 1: his trunk. He got his shirts, shirts on screen, he
- 1:25Speaker 1: got CDs, he got your listening. And he also is, uh,
- 1:31Speaker 1: what's the word, not brokering but doing peace sort of deals.
- 1:38Speaker 1: Oh yeah, he bought you together. Always back on the
- 1:43Speaker 1: same shoutout. Shout out to Hogan, Shout out to brons logo,
- 1:47Speaker 1: Shout out to everybody, Shout out to my man Katie
- 1:50Speaker 1: Katie's birthdays after we actually today. He was also one
- 1:53Speaker 1: of the people that, you know, a lot of times
- 1:55Speaker 1: we'll be having brothers as brothers we have disagree you know,
- 1:59Speaker 1: we have them, so sometimes we got to sit down
- 2:01Speaker 1: at the table. But it takes other brothers and sisters
- 2:03Speaker 1: that see what's happening and say, hey, the relationships are
- 2:06Speaker 1: too valuable and you got to bring people together and
- 2:09Speaker 1: make sure they have conversations. Shout out to bron Slogogo, bronlogo. Yeah,
- 2:15Speaker 1: I love this sweater. Actually, it's like shout out to trade.
- 2:18Speaker 1: Ain't you by NASA? Asshole? He said, whatever one you
- 2:22Speaker 1: want to be asked whole by nature and Trade is
- 2:30Speaker 1: doing amazing work. Got a hot wheels. Trade got a
- 2:35Speaker 1: hot wheels. Did you see it? He got his own
- 2:37Speaker 1: hot wheels with the slab, you know, the new Chevy
- 2:41Speaker 1: with the spokes hanging out. Love the Trade guy everything.
- 2:44Speaker 1: He should have it because he's in Louisiana, out there
- 2:47Speaker 1: risking his life, trying to save people right now in
- 2:49Speaker 1: the um in the with with Hurricane Ida, and there's
- 2:54Speaker 1: another hurricane comment that people are bracing themselves for. And
- 2:57Speaker 1: when I talked to Trade to the other day, the
- 2:59Speaker 1: way he looked was like it was it just and
- 3:05Speaker 1: Until Freedom is now trying to solicit um. We are
- 3:09Speaker 1: soliciting truck drivers to pick up supplies in the state
- 3:14Speaker 1: they live in and drive it down to Louisiana to
- 3:16Speaker 1: meet Trade and the family at Relief Gang so that
- 3:20Speaker 1: these UH supplies can be distributed. So if you have
- 3:23Speaker 1: a truck, you need to email us at organizing at
- 3:25Speaker 1: until Freedom dot com. You got a truck, you got
- 3:28Speaker 1: an extra few days, We'll get the supplies in your
- 3:31Speaker 1: in your area where you can pick them up and
- 3:33Speaker 1: bring it down to Louisiana. So today's show is I'm
- 3:38Speaker 1: super excited because you know got this belly, you know,
- 3:43Speaker 1: and I'm you know, trying to consider exactly how well.
- 3:47Speaker 1: First of all, I'm not two pound soaking with Okay,
- 3:49Speaker 1: I'm not because I can remember a few months ago
- 3:53Speaker 1: that I was talking to like you, and I think
- 3:56Speaker 1: we were all on a call on on the zoom,
- 3:59Speaker 1: you and Angelo and Linda and somebody else, and I
- 4:03Speaker 1: was eating and it was like eleven something at night
- 4:06Speaker 1: and you were like, yo, you can't really eat that
- 4:08Speaker 1: at night, Like your face is fat, Like you really
- 4:11Speaker 1: hurt my feelings when you said what you said, and
- 4:15Speaker 1: it made no it wasn't a joke because it's true.
- 4:18Speaker 1: It's true. But it's cool though. I think you know
- 4:20Speaker 1: a little way you need a little weight. Yeah, that's
- 4:23Speaker 1: what I'm saying. It's not like, yo, you're fat and sloppy.
- 4:25Speaker 1: I'm just but you just stuff on your face at
- 4:28Speaker 1: eleven twelve o'clock at night, it's just like my favorite
- 4:31Speaker 1: time to eat. You gotta happen and I need a
- 4:37Speaker 1: whole steak at twelve a m. You listen to me,
- 4:40Speaker 1: women are so into vanity but don't want to do
- 4:46Speaker 1: the things that's necessary. You want to let me go
- 4:49Speaker 1: this nip tuck, let me do this. Well, how about
- 4:51Speaker 1: not eating at twelve o'clock? I know I do. You know?
- 4:55Speaker 1: How about some sit ups? How about this? I do
- 4:57Speaker 1: that too, but I might just imagine it down so
- 5:00Speaker 1: that and then I can have a start. Why don't
- 5:03Speaker 1: you start? I know, I'm gonna see with Jennifer Williams,
- 5:08Speaker 1: my friend, my dear sister, our friend who is a
- 5:12Speaker 1: she's a workout expert. Okay, she's like yo six. They
- 5:18Speaker 1: don't do working out, no more like that, just they
- 5:21Speaker 1: just but you know, I think you can work out
- 5:23Speaker 1: in Hey, it's a balance. But you know today today today,
- 5:27Speaker 1: I might sometimes I do work out today. You don't
- 5:33Speaker 1: know everything. I'm just trying to when you do it
- 5:36Speaker 1: when I'm by myself. Yeah, people, sometimes I don't be
- 5:40Speaker 1: with y'all. I got my own thing I do. I
- 5:42Speaker 1: do work out, all right, thank you. And sometimes I
- 5:45Speaker 1: lay in my bed and I do these things with
- 5:49Speaker 1: my legs circular. I do that. I do a little
- 5:53Speaker 1: bit of squats that my knees because of the marching.
- 5:58Speaker 1: My knees have issues where the squatting. They're telling me
- 6:02Speaker 1: I might not be able to do squatting as much.
- 6:04Speaker 1: So I gotta find another way. I'm gonna figure it out.
- 6:06Speaker 1: All I'm saying is that today there's a man who's
- 6:10Speaker 1: joining us that might be able to flatten it down.
- 6:14Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying. Listen, I appreciate him. He's he's dope,
- 6:17Speaker 1: but you know, I hope he tells you how to
- 6:20Speaker 1: start exercise. But before we get to our guests, we
- 6:24Speaker 1: have some other things. And you know, because I'll be thinking.
- 6:34Speaker 1: I was just thinking to myself, Governor Abbot, right in Texas, right,
- 6:40Speaker 1: I saw you in a bunch of men, which thank
- 6:42Speaker 1: you so much, who all posted this thing that said,
- 6:46Speaker 1: um men should not be controlling women's bodies. And I
- 6:50Speaker 1: think that is just so so so powerful that men
- 6:53Speaker 1: are making that statement. But Governor Abbott, it's either either
- 6:58Speaker 1: he hates women or he's just dumb. It's one of
- 7:02Speaker 1: two things. It could be both, but you know, no,
- 7:07Speaker 1: he's either either he hates women or he's just dumb.
- 7:11Speaker 1: And the reason why I say that it is because
- 7:13Speaker 1: this statement that he made where he says, I know
- 7:17Speaker 1: what we're gonna do about the rapist. So this is
- 7:19Speaker 1: after in Texas they put all of these provisions around
- 7:24Speaker 1: women being able to get abortions, and in fact um
- 7:28Speaker 1: and I guess the six weeks. You can't get an
- 7:30Speaker 1: abortion after six weeks. But then I saw that the regulations,
- 7:33Speaker 1: the people who actually regulated and reported are the citizens.
- 7:37Speaker 1: So it's it's pitting you and me against one another.
- 7:40Speaker 1: That if you believe I shouldn't get an abortion, or
- 7:42Speaker 1: if you know you heard me say that I'm nine
- 7:45Speaker 1: weeks and I'm going somewhere to get an abortion, or
- 7:47Speaker 1: you learn about somebody who might be helping folks to
- 7:51Speaker 1: go get you know, the proper care, that you can
- 7:54Speaker 1: report me and then I can be fine ten thousand
- 7:56Speaker 1: dollars and get in trouble, like, hold the hell, what
- 7:59Speaker 1: are y'all talking about? It's so it's dangerous, it's ignorant,
- 8:04Speaker 1: and it's and it's white because you need to get
- 8:07Speaker 1: hit in your mouth and right talking people business. But anyway,
- 8:13Speaker 1: and so it is it's very dangerous. And what they're
- 8:16Speaker 1: doing isn't It isn't a It is a deliberate attempt
- 8:20Speaker 1: to roll back Rovie Wade and take away women's rights
- 8:24Speaker 1: to have abortions. And this has been something that we
- 8:26Speaker 1: knew that Republicans specifically, we're going to be working on
- 8:30Speaker 1: and that's why they wanted Kavanaugh to get his seat
- 8:33Speaker 1: on the Supreme Court. Um, and that's what they're doing. Right.
- 8:36Speaker 1: The Supreme Court is already agreeing, unfortunately, with this decision
- 8:40Speaker 1: in Texas. So when the reporters asked Governor Abbott, he's
- 8:46Speaker 1: dumb or he's crazy or something. When they asked this man,
- 8:51Speaker 1: what are you gonna do about rapists, he responded, We're
- 8:56Speaker 1: gonna arrest the rapists, basically, gonna put a bounty on
- 8:59Speaker 1: the rapist's head. It so you're saying that after they rape,
- 9:03Speaker 1: you'll arrest him. So forget about the fact, like at
- 9:07Speaker 1: that point that I've been raped, I got a baby
- 9:09Speaker 1: in my stomach that I don't want, don't need, too young, whatever,
- 9:14Speaker 1: all the circumstances that's just attached to the trauma that
- 9:17Speaker 1: I'm not even able to deal with. And so then
- 9:20Speaker 1: I'm just supposed to get to have this baby while
- 9:24Speaker 1: you arrest this rapist possibly. And by the way, the laws,
- 9:28Speaker 1: just so you know, in a lot of ways do
- 9:31Speaker 1: not really protect women the way that they should or protect,
- 9:34Speaker 1: as you said, people who have been raped in general.
- 9:38Speaker 1: So I'm trying to understand that he hate women or
- 9:41Speaker 1: is he stupid? You think he's a little bit of both,
- 9:45Speaker 1: a little bit of both. I just think to force
- 9:48Speaker 1: someone to have a baby, you know, based on circumstances
- 9:51Speaker 1: that are less than fortunate, that are legal, that that
- 9:55Speaker 1: are traumatizing, you just can't do it. Just can't all
- 9:58Speaker 1: of those things. I mean. But when we when you
- 10:00Speaker 1: said the rape thing, that's just to me, it's just
- 10:02Speaker 1: like sid bro, like, come on, it's not even funny.
- 10:08Speaker 1: It's really just sad because the mind state. Listen, I'm
- 10:10Speaker 1: trying to tell you, the mind state of a white
- 10:13Speaker 1: supremacist is dangerous, you know what I'm saying? Like something
- 10:17Speaker 1: I forgot. I think it was de l. Hugeley who
- 10:19Speaker 1: said the worst place for a black person to live
- 10:22Speaker 1: is in the mind of a white supremacis you know
- 10:26Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And when you start really looking at
- 10:29Speaker 1: these situations like it's so many, it's so deep. This
- 10:32Speaker 1: situation is just so deep, it goes beyond that. It's
- 10:35Speaker 1: a whole another show we can have. But just just
- 10:37Speaker 1: the dynamics of him just saying we're just gonna arrest
- 10:40Speaker 1: him and just not looking at what the question actually
- 10:43Speaker 1: was saying. The question was like what do you want
- 10:45Speaker 1: to do about the people rape these women? We still
- 10:47Speaker 1: got that the baby. Bro he's talking about something that's
- 10:51Speaker 1: not connected. It's not just arrest rapist. But we're saying
- 10:55Speaker 1: that the woman who now has the baby in her stomach,
- 11:00Speaker 1: who or or the or the fetus, the embryo, the embryo,
- 11:05Speaker 1: the embryo, the embryo, right or The feat is you're
- 11:09Speaker 1: now are carrying this thing, this life is life, and
- 11:14Speaker 1: you are saying, I cannot I think, well, it's potential, Like, well,
- 11:20Speaker 1: the point is that up until six weeks, what they're
- 11:23Speaker 1: saying is that it's not a life up until six weeks.
- 11:26Speaker 1: Then they're saying after six weeks it becomes a life.
- 11:29Speaker 1: What I'm saying is I it's not in the earth
- 11:32Speaker 1: in the world yet, and I can't think me right,
- 11:42Speaker 1: so and then and then you know, I mean, I
- 11:44Speaker 1: think about my own abortion story, and it's like, and
- 11:47Speaker 1: there's so many women who are telling their stories. If
- 11:50Speaker 1: I had a baby at the time that I was pregnant,
- 11:54Speaker 1: and by the way, I was more than six weeks pregnant,
- 11:57Speaker 1: and I had to have a two day proceed year
- 12:00Speaker 1: where the first day they go in and they do
- 12:03Speaker 1: something that basically makes you start contracting and then the
- 12:07Speaker 1: next day they go in and take the baby. I
- 12:09Speaker 1: had to go through that because I was too young
- 12:13Speaker 1: to have a baby. First of all, I didn't even
- 12:15Speaker 1: know I was pregnant, because I don't even know my body.
- 12:17Speaker 1: For too long, I didn't know. I didn't know anything
- 12:20Speaker 1: about being pregnant. Then when I figured out that I
- 12:22Speaker 1: was pregnant, I was too scared to tell someone that
- 12:25Speaker 1: I was that I was pregnant. I don't tell my
- 12:26Speaker 1: mother that. So all of the decision making, trying to
- 12:30Speaker 1: get my friends to help me find a place to go,
- 12:33Speaker 1: and everything that I went through. It took me some time.
- 12:35Speaker 1: And then, by the way, I wasn't putting that on
- 12:37Speaker 1: my parents insurance policy because I didn't want them to know.
- 12:40Speaker 1: I didn't know that at that time that they wouldn't know,
- 12:42Speaker 1: but I thought they might have started to get the
- 12:45Speaker 1: money together to go have an abortion. It was a
- 12:47Speaker 1: lot of stuff that had to happen. I had. I
- 12:49Speaker 1: needed time to get it together. And so you know,
- 12:52Speaker 1: there are people with stories similar stories, and I just
- 12:55Speaker 1: I don't And even if we do decide as women
- 12:58Speaker 1: that we shouldn't be having abortions at a certain time,
- 13:00Speaker 1: it should be our decision to make, and we should
- 13:03Speaker 1: be having those conversations in conjunction with other women leaders
- 13:07Speaker 1: and then deciding what is the best for what's the
- 13:09Speaker 1: best for us, for our bodies, and of course keeping
- 13:12Speaker 1: in mind that there is a father, there is a
- 13:15Speaker 1: man who's involved that should be able to have some
- 13:18Speaker 1: say so. But nonetheless, I, as a woman, have to
- 13:21Speaker 1: be the one to bring life. And I just I'm
- 13:24Speaker 1: just the thing that scares me is that then the
- 13:26Speaker 1: idiot And excuse me, I don't know if I'm supposed
- 13:29Speaker 1: to call people idiots, but I said it. But the
- 13:31Speaker 1: other one that either hates women or is dumb and
- 13:33Speaker 1: hates black people and hates poor people and hates everybody
- 13:37Speaker 1: is governor the Santis in Florida. Now he's talking about,
- 13:41Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we're gonna look at the same type of
- 13:43Speaker 1: thing here, and it's going to be everywhere. It's gonna
- 13:45Speaker 1: be an Alabama, It's gonna be everywhere if we don't
- 13:48Speaker 1: stop it. So it's a very very very serious and
- 13:50Speaker 1: concerning thing. Um and and and and and it's scary
- 13:55Speaker 1: as hell. And what's more scary is what women will
- 13:59Speaker 1: do as an alternative because they ain't gonna have no baby.
- 14:02Speaker 1: If they can't have a baby, that's a fact. We
- 14:06Speaker 1: know that because we remember, yeah and watch the movie
- 14:10Speaker 1: what is It? Precious? It's in there, you know what.
- 14:19Speaker 1: I appreciate the fact that you let me on us
- 14:22Speaker 1: on this show, have so many people that helped me
- 14:25Speaker 1: think through my own life's choice. You know, you make
- 14:30Speaker 1: a lot of decisions. I don't. I don't we make
- 14:33Speaker 1: them together. I mean, don't try to act like you
- 14:35Speaker 1: know we don't have them. But see the guests that
- 14:38Speaker 1: we have today here with us. UM is going to
- 14:40Speaker 1: talk about some stuff that engage involves men as well,
- 14:44Speaker 1: not just us women in our class. It's about time.
- 14:49Speaker 1: So I am so grateful to have Dr Michael Jones
- 14:53Speaker 1: with us today. Now for you all who may not know,
- 14:56Speaker 1: first of all, you've seen them on TV. Of course
- 14:58Speaker 1: you have. We actually put up a post looking for
- 15:01Speaker 1: some uh folks out there who may have had botched
- 15:05Speaker 1: plastic surgery jobs, and people were like, well, I don't
- 15:08Speaker 1: I didn't have that, But I know you need to
- 15:09Speaker 1: have Michael Jones. You need to have Dr Jones because
- 15:13Speaker 1: they've been watching you on TV. He is a celebrity.
- 15:17Speaker 1: Um And you know, he probably doesn't want him to
- 15:19Speaker 1: be called a celebrity, but he's a celebrity. The world
- 15:22Speaker 1: renow the world renowned plastic surgeon to many of the
- 15:26Speaker 1: stars across the country. There have been people who talk
- 15:31Speaker 1: about the great work and service that they've had um
- 15:34Speaker 1: with Dr Michael Jones. And he also specializes in ethnic
- 15:38Speaker 1: care and and specifically key Lloyd's, which we're really really
- 15:41Speaker 1: going to delve into today. Um My, A couple of
- 15:44Speaker 1: my family members suffer with key Lloyd's and it's always
- 15:48Speaker 1: been a conversation since we were small. People could not
- 15:50Speaker 1: get piercings. M My sister actually never was able to
- 15:54Speaker 1: pierce her ears, and there was always a concern that
- 15:58Speaker 1: any nick you get it could turn into a Hi
- 16:00Speaker 1: Lloyd because it's obviously a big stigma in our community.
- 16:02Speaker 1: So we're really happy to have you here to talk
- 16:04Speaker 1: about this stuff today, Dr Jones. I am really happy
- 16:07Speaker 1: to be here. Thank you for having me on your show. Yes,
- 16:11Speaker 1: welcome the street politicians and hearing all you guys talk
- 16:14Speaker 1: me up that just I just feel great. Yeah no,
- 16:16Speaker 1: but you I mean, you are who you are. We
- 16:18Speaker 1: don't have to make it up. You had nine offices
- 16:21Speaker 1: around the country, so your servicing people everywhere. Listen, we
- 16:26Speaker 1: want to be where the people are, and not all
- 16:28Speaker 1: of our patients can come to us here in New
- 16:30Speaker 1: York City, so we reached out. We went to other
- 16:33Speaker 1: cities where there is a high density of people of color.
- 16:35Speaker 1: So we're also in New Jersey, We're also in the
- 16:38Speaker 1: d C. Area. We're also in Atlanta, also in Florida, Miami, Houston,
- 16:43Speaker 1: and l A. Now, but people act like they're not
- 16:46Speaker 1: getting plastic surgery, like they're like, you know, no, these
- 16:49Speaker 1: are my breast you know, well, you know, more and
- 16:52Speaker 1: more people are being more open about it. It's it
- 16:54Speaker 1: used to be taboo in our community. People were like,
- 16:57Speaker 1: oh no, that's that's something that's not for us as
- 16:59Speaker 1: people of color. It's more for those rich white people.
- 17:02Speaker 1: But the reality is people have been black people have
- 17:04Speaker 1: been having plastic surgery for years. It's just now starting
- 17:07Speaker 1: to become more commonplace where we actually talk about it
- 17:09Speaker 1: and we're okay sharing our experience. That makes sense, Okay,
- 17:13Speaker 1: So two piggyback off of what Tomka just said, um
- 17:18Speaker 1: as you being one of the people who talk about
- 17:21Speaker 1: we have some males up here for a change, because
- 17:24Speaker 1: it always about what women are dealing with most of
- 17:26Speaker 1: the time. You know, two questions I want to ask, First,
- 17:30Speaker 1: is what made you get into plastic surgery? And then
- 17:33Speaker 1: I want to also ask, like, how many men actually
- 17:35Speaker 1: get plastic surgery? Alright, great questions. I went into plastic
- 17:39Speaker 1: surgery because I love making people happy. And I started
- 17:45Speaker 1: off doing oncology type of surgery. It's cancer surgery, and
- 17:50Speaker 1: it was difficult for me because I like to get
- 17:52Speaker 1: to know my patients. I like to get to know
- 17:54Speaker 1: their families. And then I would spend eighteen twenty twenty
- 17:57Speaker 1: four hours trying to remove their cancer and reconstruct their
- 18:01Speaker 1: their defects after we took the cancer out, and despite that,
- 18:05Speaker 1: many times those patients would die. And so then that
- 18:09Speaker 1: was really hard for me to handle. So I wanted
- 18:12Speaker 1: to change. I wanted to to pivot and take care
- 18:15Speaker 1: of patients that I could grow old with, people that
- 18:18Speaker 1: I can make a difference in their lives, people that
- 18:19Speaker 1: I could actually help restore their self confidence, their self esteem,
- 18:23Speaker 1: make them feel better about themselves, whether it's because of
- 18:25Speaker 1: a cosmetic issue or a reconstructive issue. And so that's
- 18:29Speaker 1: kind of why I went into what I do. Mhm.
- 18:33Speaker 1: So the men, now, as far as men brothers are
- 18:37Speaker 1: having plastic surgery, believe it, they are. We we have surgery.
- 18:42Speaker 1: The most common procedures for us are liposuction because we
- 18:45Speaker 1: we struggle to get rid of those love handles and
- 18:47Speaker 1: that little bit of fat down the lower abdomen. Bleft replasty,
- 18:51Speaker 1: the eyelids, the bags under the eyes, the bags over
- 18:54Speaker 1: the eyelids, that's very common for men. And then rhinoplastic
- 18:59Speaker 1: um is really one of the most common things for
- 19:00Speaker 1: men that no surgery, nose reshaping where we're actually you know,
- 19:06Speaker 1: helping to define the nose or refine it or get
- 19:09Speaker 1: rid of a defect or hump or bump or wide
- 19:11Speaker 1: nostrils or flat bridge. So men, okay, But the the
- 19:16Speaker 1: the narrative that's out there is that it's mainly gay
- 19:20Speaker 1: men who are having you know, surgery to make themselves
- 19:24Speaker 1: look more I guess feminine. I guess, you know, But
- 19:28Speaker 1: I don't know that that's true because I think that
- 19:30Speaker 1: is not the case. It is not the case. We
- 19:33Speaker 1: do have our share that are doing somewhere like licosuction
- 19:38Speaker 1: or Brazilian butt lifts for certain reasons. But that is
- 19:41Speaker 1: not the majority that we see. The majority are very
- 19:44Speaker 1: you know, confident, testosterone producing men. They really are are
- 19:49Speaker 1: are inclined to want to just look better. Well, yeah,
- 19:53Speaker 1: because there ain't These men ain't men. The first person
- 19:55Speaker 1: I've heard, it's only two people that I know that
- 19:58Speaker 1: um Kanye said that he got some surgery done, and
- 20:01Speaker 1: I know that funk Master Flex actually talked about it.
- 20:05Speaker 1: But it's not a lot of men who really say
- 20:07Speaker 1: that they're going on. I think it definitely is a stigma,
- 20:10Speaker 1: like men don't really want to talk about it, but
- 20:13Speaker 1: it's not something that is prevalent that actually know about.
- 20:15Speaker 1: So to hear you say this is like, well, so
- 20:17Speaker 1: all the men in the gym who are looking like
- 20:20Speaker 1: you know that they are all sexy. You're telling me
- 20:23Speaker 1: some of them have actually sucked it out, just like
- 20:26Speaker 1: a few of us, because I need to suck mine
- 20:27Speaker 1: out to tell you the truth. Listen, some of us,
- 20:29Speaker 1: some of us will. You know, you might be in
- 20:31Speaker 1: the gym, you're working out, but you still may need
- 20:33Speaker 1: a little help. You may not be able to see clearly.
- 20:36Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you this story. I'm not gonna tell
- 20:38Speaker 1: your name, but we had a Mr. Olympian and an
- 20:42Speaker 1: Olympian Mr. You know the guys who do the muscle
- 20:45Speaker 1: building contest. This guy won many of them. But every
- 20:49Speaker 1: time he prepared for a contest, he gave himself a
- 20:51Speaker 1: little steroids. So when he gave himself the steroids, he
- 20:54Speaker 1: would get a little pooch. He would get a little
- 20:57Speaker 1: bit of what called kind of comasteria where he gets
- 20:59Speaker 1: a little man boots. And he didn't like that and
- 21:01Speaker 1: it effected his competition. So we helped him by doing
- 21:04Speaker 1: a little micro liposuction, little mini liposuction in those areas
- 21:07Speaker 1: to get rid of those problem parts of his body.
- 21:11Speaker 1: But this was a big dude, so slim people like
- 21:15Speaker 1: me right because I'm little. Most people look at me
- 21:17Speaker 1: and they're like, there's nothing wrong with you. But there
- 21:20Speaker 1: is a pouch that is sitting out in my stomach
- 21:22Speaker 1: and it's so funny. We went to Fatio's birthday party
- 21:27Speaker 1: recently and I had on this really nice dress and
- 21:31Speaker 1: it was nice and fitted, and I was speaking and
- 21:35Speaker 1: I knew going out the door that I had the
- 21:38Speaker 1: conversation in the mirror, like, oh, this is really serious.
- 21:41Speaker 1: I knew it was growing. I've been seeing it. It's
- 21:43Speaker 1: it's not just pandemic weight, it's just weight period. And
- 21:47Speaker 1: I but when I finished talk, you know, speaking at
- 21:50Speaker 1: his event, the pictures went viral and many of them
- 21:54Speaker 1: came back to me with people who were my friends, like,
- 21:56Speaker 1: what's going on with your stomach? Are you pregnant? Because
- 21:59Speaker 1: my stomach is it's out. So people like me, do
- 22:02Speaker 1: they get liposection or they're too small? People like you
- 22:07Speaker 1: get liposection. Realistically, LiPo suction is for the young. It's
- 22:11Speaker 1: really shouldn't be done in people that are older because
- 22:14Speaker 1: as we get older, our skin allasts to see. That
- 22:17Speaker 1: spring to our skin decreases. So when you take the
- 22:20Speaker 1: fat out from behind the skin, if you are older,
- 22:23Speaker 1: it's not going to snap back. It's actually gonna want
- 22:25Speaker 1: to hang. So when you're younger and you have nice
- 22:28Speaker 1: spring to your skin, that's actually the ideal time to
- 22:31Speaker 1: take that fat out because it will lay flat and
- 22:34Speaker 1: you will look great. Well, I gotta ask one more
- 22:37Speaker 1: things we know is still it's still no. So let's
- 22:44Speaker 1: talk about breast and plants because obviously every it's a
- 22:49Speaker 1: big thing. Everybody, all my friends talk about it, and
- 22:52Speaker 1: many of them have done it, some fake like they haven't,
- 22:55Speaker 1: and we know others they are very honest and saying
- 22:58Speaker 1: that they have, and they're like they're out. The girls
- 23:00Speaker 1: are hanging. So I'm just so, do you do a
- 23:03Speaker 1: lot of breast implants? We do a lot of breasts,
- 23:06Speaker 1: to be honest with you, in our Black community, they're
- 23:09Speaker 1: not a lot of women that actually do the augmentations.
- 23:11Speaker 1: There are a lot of women that do the reductions
- 23:14Speaker 1: and do the lifts because they've had pregnancy, the breasts
- 23:17Speaker 1: have gotten and gorged with milk, and then the milk
- 23:19Speaker 1: dissipates and now the breast hang and they're sagging. So
- 23:22Speaker 1: we do a lot of breast lifts, a lot of
- 23:24Speaker 1: breast reductions, and more and more now we're starting to
- 23:28Speaker 1: see a lot of lifts with augmentation with the implants.
- 23:31Speaker 1: So we do a lot of those and how often?
- 23:35Speaker 1: So what are the risks? Because it is it? Health?
- 23:39Speaker 1: Is it? How healthy? Is what is the risk? Like?
- 23:42Speaker 1: You know, because a lot of I hear a lot
- 23:43Speaker 1: of women say I want to get this in this
- 23:45Speaker 1: and I'm like, well, and a lot of them. For
- 23:47Speaker 1: some reason. For me, I think it's become like a trend,
- 23:50Speaker 1: like it's become a train and a lot of women
- 23:52Speaker 1: who are saying they want to get it, I'd be like, wolly,
- 23:54Speaker 1: I don't really see the knee, you know, So what
- 23:57Speaker 1: what do you think the risk of versus reward? Like
- 24:00Speaker 1: most people happy afterwards, or that you're getting complains people
- 24:03Speaker 1: that I shouldn't have done it, Like what is well,
- 24:05Speaker 1: you know, that's a great question, and the reality is
- 24:08Speaker 1: why is someone presenting in the first place for it? Right,
- 24:10Speaker 1: So if you have if you're now a fourty year
- 24:14Speaker 1: old woman who back in her twenties had very perky breasts,
- 24:18Speaker 1: walked around and you were confident, and then you had
- 24:21Speaker 1: four children, and now your breasts aren't quite where they were.
- 24:25Speaker 1: Maybe now you're divorced. Maybe now you're a little depressed
- 24:28Speaker 1: because you're going back onto the dating scene. So we're
- 24:31Speaker 1: here to help that person feel self confidence again, to
- 24:34Speaker 1: be powerful again. And so there are risks. It is
- 24:39Speaker 1: not like going to the nail salon. It's not like
- 24:42Speaker 1: going to the hairdresser. There are real concerns, but the
- 24:45Speaker 1: rewards can be quite rewarding that self confidence, that empowerment
- 24:49Speaker 1: that we're helping them with. But the risk are they're
- 24:53Speaker 1: bleeding infection um, the fact that sometimes if if you're
- 24:57Speaker 1: working with an implant and it gets infected, the body
- 25:00Speaker 1: doesn't really then want it anymore. It tries to push
- 25:02Speaker 1: it out. That's called extrusion, where it tries to pop
- 25:04Speaker 1: the implant back out. And the most common thing that
- 25:07Speaker 1: happens with with breast implants is that sometimes the capsule
- 25:11Speaker 1: or the scar that forms around the implant, because the
- 25:13Speaker 1: body sees this as foreign. It knows it's not supposed
- 25:16Speaker 1: to be there, so it tries to wall it off
- 25:18Speaker 1: from the rest of your body, forms a capsule around it.
- 25:21Speaker 1: And in most people it's fine. The breast has nice
- 25:23Speaker 1: natural mobility and the capsule is nice and thin. But
- 25:26Speaker 1: in very rare instances, that capsule can start to thicken,
- 25:29Speaker 1: almost like forming a keyloid on the inside of the
- 25:32Speaker 1: body around the implant. When that happens, it starts squeezing
- 25:36Speaker 1: on the implant, the breast doesn't move as well, and
- 25:39Speaker 1: in the worst case scenarios, it can cause pain and
- 25:41Speaker 1: deformity to the breast, and then we have to go
- 25:43Speaker 1: in remove the implant, remove the capsule. Do you remove
- 25:46Speaker 1: it and put another one in, or it depends on
- 25:49Speaker 1: what the client wants, or is it Okay, so this
- 25:52Speaker 1: is my last question on this because I know I'm
- 25:56Speaker 1: I'm digging into it, but seriously, so it's it's fat grafting.
- 26:00Speaker 1: Do you think that's a better option for people who
- 26:04Speaker 1: might feel like I'm worried about that encapsulation issue. I
- 26:08Speaker 1: think it's an option for the right person, because some
- 26:11Speaker 1: people are a cups and they want to be d
- 26:14Speaker 1: R and you can't get there and you can't solved.
- 26:18Speaker 1: So you might get one cup size change with with
- 26:22Speaker 1: fat grafting, and or you have to do it multiple
- 26:24Speaker 1: times because you're putting it in, you expand the skin,
- 26:27Speaker 1: some wait several months or a year, then do it
- 26:29Speaker 1: again and you might get a bigger size. The nice
- 26:31Speaker 1: thing about fat grafting is that it is it is
- 26:35Speaker 1: your body's own tissue, so you don't have that same
- 26:38Speaker 1: those same issues with the body rejecting it, the same
- 26:41Speaker 1: issues with extrusion, the same issues with capsular contraction. But
- 26:47Speaker 1: on the other side, there's some people that believe that
- 26:51Speaker 1: by putting in the fact, it's less predictable result because
- 26:54Speaker 1: not all the facts going to survive, some of it's
- 26:56Speaker 1: gonna dissipate, some of that's going to resolve and may
- 27:00Speaker 1: not give you the ultimate results that you're looking for.
- 27:04Speaker 1: So I have a question, most people satisfied or do
- 27:09Speaker 1: you have more people who are like what is the ratio?
- 27:13Speaker 1: Because I look at Ky Michelle, She's like, it's the
- 27:15Speaker 1: worst thing. Michelle did too much. There's a lot of
- 27:20Speaker 1: people who you know that, there's a lot of people
- 27:23Speaker 1: that I look at that have done it and I
- 27:24Speaker 1: feel like they've done too much, and I don't know
- 27:27Speaker 1: if they're happy or not. So I just want to know,
- 27:29Speaker 1: what do you what are you hearing from the patients?
- 27:32Speaker 1: We would not be in business and if our patients
- 27:35Speaker 1: were unhappy. So the vast majority of our patients are happy.
- 27:39Speaker 1: That is the purpose of why we exist and to
- 27:42Speaker 1: make people happy. Were happy. But he brings up a
- 27:47Speaker 1: very good point. Too much can be too much, and
- 27:50Speaker 1: so very often in my day I am telling people
- 27:53Speaker 1: that know we I'm not comfortable giving you additional surgery
- 27:57Speaker 1: or giving you what you want for the next procedure,
- 28:00Speaker 1: because I do feel that as a doctor we have
- 28:02Speaker 1: to do no harm. And so there's a point where
- 28:05Speaker 1: more surgery leads to harm. When you look at Michael Jackson,
- 28:08Speaker 1: at some point he did too much and then he
- 28:11Speaker 1: lost the skin on his nose. Yeah, so BBLS is
- 28:14Speaker 1: sometimes doing a little bit too much, like not saying
- 28:17Speaker 1: just the BBL surgery, but I've seen people do too
- 28:21Speaker 1: much back there. Well, you know, there's there's this different
- 28:25Speaker 1: concept that people have a beauty and I'm trying to
- 28:30Speaker 1: say a really nice but you know, I'm not a
- 28:33Speaker 1: fan of that very ant look appearance. I like a
- 28:38Speaker 1: very natural but a nice heart shape or bubble bud
- 28:42Speaker 1: or you know, whatever you want to call it, but
- 28:44Speaker 1: a nice natural booty. But a lot of these women
- 28:48Speaker 1: are having multiple procedures. They're doing it to three times
- 28:51Speaker 1: to really get that expansion and the very odd expansion
- 28:55Speaker 1: around the hips, so they literally look like ants where
- 28:57Speaker 1: the mid section is very big and then the legs.
- 29:02Speaker 1: And I don't think that but ratio. It has to
- 29:09Speaker 1: work up, it has to work right, and that that
- 29:11Speaker 1: doesn't look good. It does, so you don't think that's
- 29:14Speaker 1: just a bad plastic surgeon. Now, that's the patient asking
- 29:17Speaker 1: as that's the concept of their in their head of
- 29:21Speaker 1: their beauty. So let's talk about scarring um because that
- 29:25Speaker 1: would be you know, and I assume that you work
- 29:29Speaker 1: on people who have key Lloyd's, which is a real
- 29:31Speaker 1: like we're learning that key Lloyd's is a real serious thing,
- 29:34Speaker 1: but what exactly is it? That's yeah, okay, good because
- 29:37Speaker 1: I was going to ask to people who get plastic
- 29:40Speaker 1: surgery not know that the keyloid. Is there a way
- 29:42Speaker 1: for you to know prior to surgery and then deal
- 29:45Speaker 1: with it? You know that that's a great question. Key
- 29:48Speaker 1: Lloyd's are really these tumorous growths of scar tissue. So
- 29:53Speaker 1: anytime you cut yourself, you have an incision, or you
- 29:56Speaker 1: just bump yourself on the table. If you're a keyloid former,
- 30:00Speaker 1: that little laceration, that little cut can evolve into a
- 30:03Speaker 1: scar tissue that grows outside the boundaries of that initial
- 30:07Speaker 1: incision or scar, and so it then starts growing into
- 30:10Speaker 1: other parts of your body and starts to take over
- 30:13Speaker 1: and trap hair follicles and lead to all kinds of
- 30:16Speaker 1: other issues. Would you know if you were a keyloid
- 30:18Speaker 1: former before you went to have plastic surgery, you might
- 30:21Speaker 1: not know. You may have gone your whole life never
- 30:25Speaker 1: had a keyloid before, and then you had cosmetic surgery
- 30:28Speaker 1: or or even a heart surgery or necessary purnious whatever
- 30:33Speaker 1: the surgery is and then you're you develop a keyloid.
- 30:36Speaker 1: And the keyloids are incredibly painful, they continue to grow, often,
- 30:40Speaker 1: they itch, They can be incredibly debilitating. They can keep
- 30:44Speaker 1: you up at night. They are a problem that up
- 30:47Speaker 1: to of people of color, people of color, Asians, Latins,
- 30:52Speaker 1: people of African descent will have. So there's a lot
- 30:56Speaker 1: of people in the world that are suffering from keyloids
- 31:00Speaker 1: of key Lloyd's right now. And you have worked on
- 31:03Speaker 1: some big, big, some of those keloids that I've seen.
- 31:07Speaker 1: I was like, wow, I didn't even know that we
- 31:11Speaker 1: work on. We work on some that are the size
- 31:14Speaker 1: of a peak, and we work on some that take
- 31:16Speaker 1: over the entire face, take over the entire back, and
- 31:20Speaker 1: it's horrible for these patients. We we had a gentleman
- 31:23Speaker 1: who came to us from Chicago area, um Keenan, who
- 31:28Speaker 1: was featured on our show, who he got his whole
- 31:31Speaker 1: church involved because he just didn't have insurance that would
- 31:34Speaker 1: cover his procedures. So he got his church involved to
- 31:36Speaker 1: give him a donation to travel all the way to
- 31:38Speaker 1: New York to have his surgery. And it we couldn't
- 31:41Speaker 1: do it in one surgery. It took years, years for
- 31:44Speaker 1: us to remove all of the key Lloyd's on his face.
- 31:48Speaker 1: He couldn't go out. He wore a towel around his
- 31:51Speaker 1: neck all the time because they were draining chronics while
- 31:54Speaker 1: they drain pus foul smelling discharge. We're coming out and
- 32:00Speaker 1: to me that insurance companies don't see this as being
- 32:03Speaker 1: like an issue that should be on the list of
- 32:05Speaker 1: things they cover. You know, it takes a lot of fighting.
- 32:09Speaker 1: We spend a lot of our time caring for our
- 32:11Speaker 1: patients and trying to convince the insurance companies that this
- 32:14Speaker 1: is a necessary procedure. Now, you imagine walking around with
- 32:19Speaker 1: a beard of key Lloyd's just hanging off of your face,
- 32:23Speaker 1: and you think that that is cosmetic. To remove that
- 32:26Speaker 1: is cosmetic. It's not cosmetic. It is a medical condition
- 32:30Speaker 1: that needs to be paid for by these insurance companies.
- 32:33Speaker 1: But the insurance company insurance companies know that the vast
- 32:37Speaker 1: majority of people that get this are brown people. There
- 32:41Speaker 1: are people, and so they don't want to pay for that.
- 32:44Speaker 1: Why what what is it some some genetic thing? It
- 32:48Speaker 1: is genetic, and that's and that is that is the point.
- 32:51Speaker 1: We don't know why it was formed. In my opinion
- 32:55Speaker 1: is that evolution somehow wanted to try to create stronger
- 32:59Speaker 1: scars because if you cut yourself, and before we had antibiotics,
- 33:03Speaker 1: if you cut yourself, you wanted that that cut to
- 33:05Speaker 1: heal and never open again. But oftentimes, you know, you've
- 33:08Speaker 1: seen a boxer who you know, every time it gets
- 33:10Speaker 1: in the ring, that one cut constantly is opening up.
- 33:14Speaker 1: So in the in an evolution, maybe we form that
- 33:17Speaker 1: stronger scar so that those cuts wouldn't open up, you
- 33:20Speaker 1: wouldn't get that infection, and you wouldn't die. So how
- 33:24Speaker 1: did you So did you have a patient that you
- 33:27Speaker 1: were doing plastic surgery on who got keyloids and then
- 33:29Speaker 1: you were like, oh, shoot, this is an issue. Or
- 33:31Speaker 1: do you just have people that showed up like can
- 33:32Speaker 1: you help me with this? When we first opened our doors,
- 33:35Speaker 1: we had people that just walked in and said, hey,
- 33:37Speaker 1: I've got a keiler. You know, the most common place
- 33:39Speaker 1: for a brother having a keyloid is in the back
- 33:41Speaker 1: of his neck, because you know, we shave our heads close.
- 33:45Speaker 1: The barber get a little too close. They go a
- 33:47Speaker 1: little too close. In this the hair follicles shrink below
- 33:51Speaker 1: the skin. As those hair follicles are growing back, or
- 33:54Speaker 1: the hair is growing back, it curls because we have
- 33:56Speaker 1: curly hair, it creates an ingrown hair, and that ingrown
- 33:59Speaker 1: hair creates inflammation that then leads to this big key
- 34:03Speaker 1: lloyd and so um, yeah, these those that's the most
- 34:07Speaker 1: common sight for men. And imagine trying to sleep on that.
- 34:12Speaker 1: Imagine trying to sleep on that every single night you
- 34:15Speaker 1: are sleeping on a rock. Wow, that can also be used,
- 34:20Speaker 1: I mean I would. So that's like an advocacy issue
- 34:23Speaker 1: for people especially, Like I said, I didn't know that
- 34:27Speaker 1: other people of color experienced key lloyd NG, but I've
- 34:30Speaker 1: seen for black women and again in my family, it's
- 34:33Speaker 1: an issue, and it's almost like you know, it's it's
- 34:38Speaker 1: like a it's like a it's like something where I
- 34:41Speaker 1: feel like my sister, at some point in her life,
- 34:43Speaker 1: she probably dealt with a little bit of insecurity, you know,
- 34:45Speaker 1: just because she has key Lloyd's or could not do
- 34:48Speaker 1: certain things, always had to have the clip on earrings.
- 34:52Speaker 1: But you know, of course now she's like, hey, it's
- 34:55Speaker 1: right here, she's you know, she's cool. But she always
- 34:59Speaker 1: said to me, are you sure you cut? Like let's
- 35:02Speaker 1: check it, Like it's a it's a worry, a concern
- 35:04Speaker 1: for everyone that you would get these key Lloyd's, But
- 35:07Speaker 1: I had no idea that people were getting them to
- 35:10Speaker 1: that extent. Wow, were you doing God's work. We're very
- 35:17Speaker 1: honored to be able to care for our patients because
- 35:19Speaker 1: the common theme amongst all of them is that they
- 35:22Speaker 1: don't know where to turn they have these We had
- 35:25Speaker 1: a patient yesterday who came from Buffalo said she went
- 35:29Speaker 1: to twenty practices in Buffalo, even went to the Cleveland clinic,
- 35:35Speaker 1: and no one wanted to treat her key lloyd. She
- 35:37Speaker 1: had a key Lloyd in the pubic area, so she
- 35:39Speaker 1: was incredibly self conscious. This thing was quite large in
- 35:43Speaker 1: their groin area, so she was very self conscious, didn't
- 35:47Speaker 1: want to be intimate any longer. And she was just depressed,
- 35:52Speaker 1: incredibly depressed, even contemplated suicide. And so she had nowhere
- 35:56Speaker 1: else to turn, no other practice. But we at Lexington
- 35:59Speaker 1: Play six certain are specializing in this disorder because we
- 36:03Speaker 1: know that there's it's an underserved community that is adversely
- 36:08Speaker 1: affected by it. Children too, children as well. How many
- 36:12Speaker 1: how many surgeries have you actually performed around I would
- 36:16Speaker 1: say as far as in my entire practice of been
- 36:19Speaker 1: practicing now for about twenty one years. I've probably done
- 36:21Speaker 1: over ten thousand, maybe fifteen thousand, actually fifteen thousand cases,
- 36:26Speaker 1: but we've done as a practice over ten thousand key Lloyds,
- 36:29Speaker 1: Key Lloyd, Keyloyd. You don't even know how all other
- 36:33Speaker 1: things you've done, but you know what you're You're so incredible.
- 36:36Speaker 1: And of course, um, the our director and strategists for
- 36:41Speaker 1: street politicians is your beautiful wife, Miss kat Lene, who
- 36:45Speaker 1: happens to be always over there, always Washington. Yeah, she
- 36:48Speaker 1: looks damn good. I asked you all today. Y'all are
- 36:51Speaker 1: working out like you guys are not even doing all
- 36:54Speaker 1: the body stuff actually, like what isn't so much? You're
- 36:58Speaker 1: going to yoga. I'm like, huh, I do a little
- 37:00Speaker 1: brotts though, you do? Yeah? You know. Yeah, my mom
- 37:06Speaker 1: had she had a stroke and her arm she's they're
- 37:10Speaker 1: trying to get it back and they use both tox
- 37:12Speaker 1: shots and the doctor he's so fine, this nice doctor.
- 37:16Speaker 1: He's like, you know, shoot, my mom, mom, and my
- 37:17Speaker 1: mom's like he's single. So my mom's like, you need
- 37:20Speaker 1: to go with me to to get my botox shots
- 37:23Speaker 1: so you can see the doctor because he likes you.
- 37:25Speaker 1: So we were like having maybe a marriage over both times.
- 37:30Speaker 1: But we didn't talk about people who go out of
- 37:33Speaker 1: the country and they get surgery and then you know
- 37:36Speaker 1: you're here about to cement all kinds of things, horror stories.
- 37:40Speaker 1: Why don't you tell, you know, our listeners and viewers today,
- 37:44Speaker 1: why that cheaper surgery out of the country might be
- 37:49Speaker 1: much more dangerous. You know, you're not You have no
- 37:53Speaker 1: idea what you're walking into. You may have had a
- 37:55Speaker 1: friend that has gone there and did okay, But what
- 37:58Speaker 1: happens when you go and things don't go okay? What
- 38:02Speaker 1: happens when you have an infection? Do you travel thousands
- 38:05Speaker 1: of miles back in a situation where you really shouldn't
- 38:09Speaker 1: even be on an airplane? You don't. And so it's yes,
- 38:13Speaker 1: you can get a lot of surgery done for very cheap,
- 38:16Speaker 1: but you may be getting operated on by someone who
- 38:18Speaker 1: is not a doctor. You don't know what's going to
- 38:22Speaker 1: happen in your recovery period. Are you going to have
- 38:24Speaker 1: a complication that needs to be addressed. Who had been
- 38:26Speaker 1: in the United States is now going to want to
- 38:28Speaker 1: take care of you. We've had lots of patients to
- 38:30Speaker 1: try to come to us, and sometimes we're able to
- 38:32Speaker 1: do things, and sometimes we say, you know what, it's
- 38:34Speaker 1: this is not something that we really want to to
- 38:37Speaker 1: delve into because we don't want to be further complicating
- 38:41Speaker 1: an issue. So it's it's a scary time. We have.
- 38:45Speaker 1: We've had patients that have gone away and come back
- 38:48Speaker 1: and said that they've had now sexually transmitted diseases, yet
- 38:51Speaker 1: they're not sexually active, So what's happening when they're asleep?
- 38:56Speaker 1: Who knows? It is incredibly dangerous. It's not something that
- 39:00Speaker 1: we advocate at all. And even in the United States,
- 39:04Speaker 1: we have a lot of these now chop shops opening up,
- 39:07Speaker 1: these high volume, low priced places to have surgery that
- 39:11Speaker 1: are often causing a lot of complications and causing a
- 39:15Speaker 1: bad reputation for a lot of what we do in
- 39:17Speaker 1: cosmetic and plastic surgery. Yeah, because it's gonna cost you
- 39:20Speaker 1: a few dollars to get Dr. John, but you get right.
- 39:28Speaker 1: So we're here in Park Avenue and we have we
- 39:32Speaker 1: have no black man on a Park Avenue. We have
- 39:35Speaker 1: we have the highest quality of care that we can
- 39:38Speaker 1: give to you. I want my facility to be able
- 39:41Speaker 1: to take care of my parents, and so we have
- 39:44Speaker 1: the best nursing care. We have the best post operative care,
- 39:48Speaker 1: we have the best surgical facilities at all costs. You know,
- 39:51Speaker 1: I wish my my employees would work for nothing, but
- 39:53Speaker 1: they don't. Now we want you to stay price exactly
- 39:57Speaker 1: as it is. And trust me, Kathleen and all her
- 40:00Speaker 1: projects that she works on, she needs you to keep
- 40:03Speaker 1: your price exactly as it is because we're one of
- 40:06Speaker 1: those projects that we're here begging every week. Cat please
- 40:09Speaker 1: please please thank you again. We appreciate you. All right,
- 40:19Speaker 1: So we have a friend friends to the show. We've
- 40:23Speaker 1: got a lot of great friends that do a lot
- 40:24Speaker 1: of great things every uh week. It seems like we
- 40:29Speaker 1: have someone that we really truly respect. And in this situation,
- 40:33Speaker 1: I hate to start off with or let me not say, hey,
- 40:37Speaker 1: I don't want to always start with introducing a woman
- 40:42Speaker 1: or man by talking about their spouse. But you know
- 40:46Speaker 1: that our big brother Dr Michael Eric Dyson, who's been
- 40:50Speaker 1: on this show and who is someone that um and
- 40:53Speaker 1: you know, I just I just love him down, we
- 40:55Speaker 1: both do. We've had debate conversations with Dr Dice and
- 41:00Speaker 1: but what people do not always know Most people know,
- 41:03Speaker 1: but some people don't know that the powerhouse that helps
- 41:06Speaker 1: Dr Dison to be who he is is his wife
- 41:09Speaker 1: Marcia Dyson, you know for sure. You know, the two
- 41:15Speaker 1: of them serve on so many different councils and panels
- 41:18Speaker 1: and in strategy rooms, UM, where people, you know, while
- 41:23Speaker 1: Dr Dyson is there and everybody knows it and they're like, yeah,
- 41:26Speaker 1: whatever you said. But they turned around, they're like, well,
- 41:28Speaker 1: what do you think Marcia? Because she's brilliant. UM. She
- 41:34Speaker 1: is both internationally and here nationally respected UM and a
- 41:39Speaker 1: renowned activist leader UM and a big sister to so
- 41:43Speaker 1: many of us that are younger activists who are just
- 41:47Speaker 1: sort of coming up. And I'll tell you the things
- 41:49Speaker 1: about the Dicens is they are the realest people ever.
- 41:52Speaker 1: Like they're not the types that are so they booge
- 41:56Speaker 1: you down the earth though, because they booge So let
- 42:02Speaker 1: me just give you a proper um introduction. Because you
- 42:07Speaker 1: do so much, uh. Marcia Dyson is the founder of
- 42:11Speaker 1: the Women's Global Institute, a member of United Justice Coalition
- 42:17Speaker 1: and Government and Public excuse me, and Government and Public
- 42:21Speaker 1: Committee member for the Coalition of Hope. You do so
- 42:24Speaker 1: much international work, UM. And on this episode today we
- 42:29Speaker 1: focused on and we've been focusing a lot on black health,
- 42:32Speaker 1: and obviously, uh, you know, plastic surgery is one of
- 42:36Speaker 1: those things that we talked with Dr Michael Jones about that,
- 42:38Speaker 1: and he talked about Key Lloyd's and all all of
- 42:41Speaker 1: those issues. But there's an international crisis happening at the
- 42:45Speaker 1: same time, and we have to make sure that we
- 42:47Speaker 1: keep our audience and our supporters and listeners aware of
- 42:52Speaker 1: things that we see on TV because we see it,
- 42:56Speaker 1: we hear it, but we don't understand at all what's
- 43:00Speaker 1: happening in Afghanistan and how it impacts us and how
- 43:03Speaker 1: it just impacts people in general in this country and abroad.
- 43:06Speaker 1: So dcor so, Miss Dyson, thank you so much for
- 43:10Speaker 1: being with us today. Let's talk Marcia about what's happening
- 43:13Speaker 1: in Afghanistan. First of all, I want to thank you,
- 43:16Speaker 1: my sweetheart, for having me on your show, and much
- 43:20Speaker 1: success to you and your co host and your whole team.
- 43:23Speaker 1: And as far as that bullgie down like I'm Chicago,
- 43:26Speaker 1: but I always say I can be good with this,
- 43:28Speaker 1: and I could be hood with this. It depends on
- 43:30Speaker 1: how you roll up on me. Is how I just
- 43:33Speaker 1: want to get that straight right. But you know what
- 43:39Speaker 1: I love about you, Tamica. We do work on social
- 43:41Speaker 1: justice work here in America, but my whole world is
- 43:45Speaker 1: my block, and when we look at Afghanist standard situation there,
- 43:49Speaker 1: it really has an impact on all of American citizenry.
- 43:53Speaker 1: I'm teaching, of course at Fisk University on global leadership
- 43:57Speaker 1: and culture diplomacy because I'm trying to tell the East
- 44:00Speaker 1: to boys scholars that no matter what your education, dreams
- 44:04Speaker 1: and aspirations might be, what your whatever your entrepreneur pursuits
- 44:09Speaker 1: might be, in the future, we have to look at
- 44:11Speaker 1: our foreign affairs like we do our domestic affairs and
- 44:15Speaker 1: our relationship affairs with our soul called lovers, because it
- 44:19Speaker 1: is an affair. So in an affairs, how you get
- 44:22Speaker 1: into it, but it's also how you get out of it,
- 44:25Speaker 1: because we know that if you leave a woman or
- 44:27Speaker 1: a man and they're kind of piste off at you,
- 44:29Speaker 1: they're gonna be some scorn somewhere. We have been in
- 44:32Speaker 1: Afghanistan more than the twenty years that most people believe
- 44:35Speaker 1: that has told to us. I remember all the way
- 44:38Speaker 1: back in the seventies having friends who were actually serving
- 44:42Speaker 1: in Afghanistan as black young men in that particular region,
- 44:47Speaker 1: and we get into that region because of American imperialism. Yes,
- 44:51Speaker 1: I have said the eye word under the auspices that
- 44:54Speaker 1: that we had to safeguard that area. But we have
- 44:57Speaker 1: to look at our global positioning in the relations ships
- 45:00Speaker 1: that we have with our country on a real tip.
- 45:03Speaker 1: If not, I'll be lying to you. But fast forward
- 45:06Speaker 1: going to these twenty years, it was also our engagement
- 45:09Speaker 1: was deeper because we were trying to recharge the investment
- 45:13Speaker 1: of the advancement or to stop or block the investment
- 45:17Speaker 1: of communism or Russia's influence in that region. Right, this
- 45:23Speaker 1: big great bear called Russia was the auspices into which
- 45:27Speaker 1: we maintain our prescationing there in Afghanistan. So now fast
- 45:33Speaker 1: forward ten years later and this administration's willingness to and
- 45:37Speaker 1: most Americans, especially the military, wanted to tire of that
- 45:40Speaker 1: particular region. The money that we poured into it, that
- 45:43Speaker 1: we could have put into our schools, into our justice,
- 45:45Speaker 1: social programs, right into our healthcare situations, that the waste.
- 45:49Speaker 1: But again, like I started, is how you in an affair, right,
- 45:53Speaker 1: give him somebody a certain amount of days in that
- 45:55Speaker 1: particular region. And I've worked all throughout the Middle East,
- 45:58Speaker 1: been on the conflict of the water Lebanon and Syria
- 46:01Speaker 1: during conflict, meeting with the Freedom Army, interacting with Livia
- 46:05Speaker 1: with Caduti Son on creating democratic socialist societies. I know
- 46:09Speaker 1: that time for them, it's not our same same time table.
- 46:13Speaker 1: So it's how we left it. And so when I
- 46:16Speaker 1: tell my students why it's important that you look at
- 46:18Speaker 1: your world and no foreign affairs, because not only are
- 46:22Speaker 1: the money spent impact your future because you're gonna pay
- 46:26Speaker 1: for that particular thing in your future taxes, right, but
- 46:30Speaker 1: how your future gonna be in your lively because right
- 46:33Speaker 1: now we left that country with an enemy who left
- 46:36Speaker 1: us with the kiss that said deaf to America. You know,
- 46:41Speaker 1: so we have the cript and blood things coming on,
- 46:43Speaker 1: and we put ourselves at a disadvantage. We extracted or
- 46:47Speaker 1: subtracted our troops out of a region and that now
- 46:52Speaker 1: we're back in that region on the peripheral at a disadvantage.
- 46:55Speaker 1: So if we're looking at its season, we put ourselves
- 46:59Speaker 1: at a disadvent and so now we're there, right. I
- 47:02Speaker 1: remember a conversation I had in two thousand eight was
- 47:04Speaker 1: Senator McCain on Afghanistan and what he was telling me
- 47:09Speaker 1: at that particular time because of my global interests and
- 47:12Speaker 1: because of my work with United Nations and in other
- 47:15Speaker 1: foreign UH groups around the world, right especially the Coalition
- 47:20Speaker 1: of Hope, which by the way is UH consortium of
- 47:24Speaker 1: active and retired military men around the world and women,
- 47:29Speaker 1: as well as global nonprofit organizations and global social activists.
- 47:34Speaker 1: Is that the reason why we have to know what
- 47:37Speaker 1: is going on in the world, because of how our
- 47:39Speaker 1: policies impact us in our future. One Afghanistan will be
- 47:44Speaker 1: the telling and I think the legacy that this administration
- 47:48Speaker 1: is going to leave behind with our our our our
- 47:51Speaker 1: our NATO pat right we're in now with NATO, but
- 47:54Speaker 1: we left them stranded because they're also situated to be
- 47:57Speaker 1: more vulnerable than we are. And we have to look
- 48:00Speaker 1: at that and disproportionately when we look at the first
- 48:03Speaker 1: young people, the first armed forces members that were killed,
- 48:07Speaker 1: they were children, mostly of color and under the age
- 48:10Speaker 1: of twenty four. Our children disproportionately enlisted military services to
- 48:15Speaker 1: be educated and have entrepreneur or career opportunities. So we
- 48:20Speaker 1: have a vested interests and as we serve this country.
- 48:23Speaker 1: But like again, what we have to say is why
- 48:25Speaker 1: we're there because so called Russian communism influence. But second,
- 48:30Speaker 1: how we get out Now what I want to say
- 48:32Speaker 1: about Coalition of Hope and the real reason and I'm
- 48:35Speaker 1: getting very passionate about this, and I really thank you
- 48:37Speaker 1: for having me on the show, is that we are
- 48:40Speaker 1: being vetted by the Department of Defense and the State
- 48:45Speaker 1: Department to actually go and to evacuate and rescue individuals
- 48:50Speaker 1: that we have left behind. I'm really proud to say
- 48:53Speaker 1: to Meka that we have rescued over eight hundred individuals
- 48:56Speaker 1: and have made safe over fifteen hundred in virtuals. Are
- 49:00Speaker 1: these American citizens? These are Americans, and there are allies.
- 49:04Speaker 1: And when you look at the women, the first we
- 49:07Speaker 1: call them hbt s in military terms, that's highly valued targets.
- 49:12Speaker 1: Anybody in the last twenty years who have befriended American citizenry,
- 49:18Speaker 1: who have allied themselves to the agenda of America in Afghanistan.
- 49:23Speaker 1: As Afghani's right, Afghans are highly valued targets. So it's
- 49:28Speaker 1: the women who were educated, the women pilots, some of
- 49:31Speaker 1: them I'm told have been killed. Right, It's the women
- 49:34Speaker 1: in music, It's the educators. Just this past week along
- 49:38Speaker 1: the women who had the protests were beaten and the
- 49:42Speaker 1: men who who photographed that protests were beaten and almost killed.
- 49:46Speaker 1: And that's what we left behind. We thought didn't think
- 49:49Speaker 1: about them. So it's not just our natal allies, it's
- 49:52Speaker 1: the people who have given their lives to make sure
- 49:56Speaker 1: that our spot in Afghanistan was safe. So we could
- 50:00Speaker 1: say that we left a three hundred thousand armed um
- 50:03Speaker 1: Afghan military, but we left billions of military. Now there's
- 50:07Speaker 1: gonna be used against us, right because we didn't think
- 50:10Speaker 1: about that. And even though you train someone, it's like
- 50:13Speaker 1: saying for any high school group, okay, and trained you,
- 50:17Speaker 1: so you're going off and you get your pH d. No,
- 50:19Speaker 1: you have to really look at what is lacking. And
- 50:22Speaker 1: that's not enough time. When you understand the region, when
- 50:25Speaker 1: you understand the people, when you understand tribalism, when you
- 50:28Speaker 1: understand the history fifty years long, it's just not about
- 50:32Speaker 1: afghan So also, we've made ourselves vulnerable to the big
- 50:37Speaker 1: giant countries who hate us. Russia and China. They were
- 50:41Speaker 1: the first two countries who basically sold in two or
- 50:45Speaker 1: recognized the Teleban as the regulated or the governance over Afghanistan.
- 50:51Speaker 1: We should be shaken in our boots, right when we
- 50:55Speaker 1: think about those three countries. So what I want to
- 50:57Speaker 1: inform people just in general, when we think about the women,
- 51:00Speaker 1: the children, the vulnerability. The Taliban said a few weeks ago,
- 51:05Speaker 1: women go to your houses, will deal with you later.
- 51:07Speaker 1: I know what that means. Right, It's more than just
- 51:10Speaker 1: covering up in a burke walk. Right, there's the lack
- 51:13Speaker 1: of education, the freedom of speech, being able to travel
- 51:17Speaker 1: without a male and sometimes even without So all I
- 51:20Speaker 1: want to say to you is the world is at
- 51:22Speaker 1: our door. I'm asking for Haiti. I know there's work there.
- 51:27Speaker 1: I'm doing work there. I know New Orleans and New
- 51:29Speaker 1: Jersey American citizens are under siege right now. But this
- 51:33Speaker 1: is American crisis that I want to expose to American
- 51:36Speaker 1: citizens from a very grassroot level, that we need to
- 51:39Speaker 1: be engaged wherever we can around the world. American citizen
- 51:42Speaker 1: re regardless of our ethnicity and race, sexual orientation, or
- 51:46Speaker 1: whatever the case may be, have always been the greatest
- 51:48Speaker 1: humanitarians around the heart. So I'm appealing to your listeners
- 51:55Speaker 1: appealing he definitely appealing to because for me listening to you, like,
- 51:59Speaker 1: I what about it? You know I've heard about Afghanistan
- 52:02Speaker 1: and taken. Now, you just brought up so many different
- 52:05Speaker 1: dynamics that that we should really be scared at this point,
- 52:09Speaker 1: like this ain't just you know, we left, Like basically
- 52:12Speaker 1: what you said is that we left, you know, them
- 52:17Speaker 1: under rule of people who actually don't like us, who
- 52:21Speaker 1: are going to utilize that territory, utilize all of those
- 52:24Speaker 1: things against us, And we left them, and we left
- 52:28Speaker 1: the people there with a bad taste in their mouth
- 52:30Speaker 1: against us, so they can utilize that against us as well.
- 52:34Speaker 1: And then we left some of our own people there
- 52:36Speaker 1: that are going to be a threat to us, that
- 52:38Speaker 1: is gonna be threats to them. So there's so many
- 52:40Speaker 1: different dynamics when I listened to this. So basically we
- 52:44Speaker 1: should have just never left, or we should have took
- 52:46Speaker 1: more time. How do you what do you think it
- 52:48Speaker 1: should have been a plant? Right? Well, let me go
- 52:51Speaker 1: back to that conversation which I forget about with Sinnator McCain.
- 52:53Speaker 1: He told me even then when I questioned about it,
- 52:56Speaker 1: because my concern was all of the block and minority
- 52:58Speaker 1: of poor white chill drink going over to these dangerous
- 53:01Speaker 1: areas fighting wars that we didn't start right, not really
- 53:04Speaker 1: knowing the hitting agendists for these particular interests or unders
- 53:08Speaker 1: mining in those particular areas. He said, yes, we we
- 53:12Speaker 1: stayed there too long. We the the love affair has
- 53:16Speaker 1: been too long. But anybody who would take us out
- 53:19Speaker 1: of that country is lying to us, or they're they're
- 53:23Speaker 1: not they're not wise, okay, because he was saying, because
- 53:27Speaker 1: when you make a mess, you have to make sure
- 53:29Speaker 1: that we have some housekeepers there and I'm paraphrasing him
- 53:32Speaker 1: to clean up the mess because it was so deeply
- 53:34Speaker 1: in trenched that we should never leave. He said, it
- 53:37Speaker 1: may not be over, but covertly we should always be there.
- 53:41Speaker 1: And the signals to the telebon was that, oh, overly,
- 53:45Speaker 1: we're out of here. As soon as they got that
- 53:47Speaker 1: was so right, they started their formation. It wasn't a
- 53:50Speaker 1: Beyonce formation, but it was a formation that is now
- 53:53Speaker 1: working against us and working against the allies that we
- 53:56Speaker 1: had within the country, those in the particular region around
- 54:00Speaker 1: round Afghanistan and our European partners, which we're now seeing
- 54:05Speaker 1: our separating themselves and saying that America has not protected us.
- 54:09Speaker 1: America has left even the European countries more vulnerable, and
- 54:12Speaker 1: they're on their own. So now are we are our
- 54:14Speaker 1: own if we don't have them. And that's the reason
- 54:17Speaker 1: why impact American citizenry are form affairs and foreign policies
- 54:23Speaker 1: supersede our domestic policies because they could be the ones
- 54:27Speaker 1: who take us out more than most American citizens understand
- 54:31Speaker 1: and recognized. And why I'm teaching that to my students
- 54:34Speaker 1: that they fully understand that we are global citizens. We
- 54:38Speaker 1: are governed not only by American regulations, but all these
- 54:41Speaker 1: foreign pacts, some known and some not known, that would
- 54:45Speaker 1: come back and bite us in our butt if they
- 54:47Speaker 1: have not probably been a reason to waftable. And I
- 54:53Speaker 1: was just gonna say, you know, we just are coming
- 54:56Speaker 1: out of uh, the remembrance of September eleven, that was
- 55:02Speaker 1: just a few days ago, and it makes me think
- 55:05Speaker 1: of exactly what you said, that we're now creating more vulnerabilities.
- 55:08Speaker 1: In fact, I think I was listening to UM. I
- 55:11Speaker 1: wasn't watching the TV, but I believe it was UH
- 55:15Speaker 1: one of the directors and the seat within the CIA
- 55:19Speaker 1: as they were preparing for Non eleven talking about the
- 55:23Speaker 1: concerns around not just terrorism across the borders, but domestic
- 55:28Speaker 1: terrorism that is UM instigated by external factors and so
- 55:35Speaker 1: listening to what you're saying, it sounds like these things
- 55:38Speaker 1: can be connected. Um and so it is definitely a concern.
- 55:41Speaker 1: And if nothing else, we should be educated, We should
- 55:44Speaker 1: know exactly we should be We should know. So what
- 55:47Speaker 1: can people do? Well? First, I would like for everybody
- 55:52Speaker 1: go to the CEO h Air Care Afghanistan on go
- 55:56Speaker 1: fund me and to make a contribution if you And
- 56:00Speaker 1: but also I'm advise you as I advise my students
- 56:03Speaker 1: and my friends. You know, I know, we like TikTok
- 56:06Speaker 1: and we like you know, the the versus and all
- 56:10Speaker 1: of that, but we really need to start reading our
- 56:12Speaker 1: foreign affairs policy. We really need to start looking at
- 56:15Speaker 1: not just the personality of our elected officials, but those
- 56:18Speaker 1: committees that they sit and start reading some of the
- 56:21Speaker 1: information that is that impacts our everyday life, based on
- 56:25Speaker 1: art form, our our foreign policies that are impacting us domestically,
- 56:29Speaker 1: because it also talks about how the money is flowing
- 56:32Speaker 1: and going. And remember that no matter what city you
- 56:35Speaker 1: live in, state or or whatever, no matter your sorority
- 56:39Speaker 1: of fraternity, we are in this together. We are on
- 56:41Speaker 1: this globe like a baseball floating into Earth and if
- 56:45Speaker 1: it gets hit and make a home run, you know
- 56:48Speaker 1: we're gonna fly off of this thing together. We are
- 56:51Speaker 1: on this Titanic together, So we need to know what
- 56:53Speaker 1: is on this ship. Who is the captain? Who are
- 56:56Speaker 1: the captains? Right, It's not just one person, It's not
- 56:59Speaker 1: just our p said that, it's a whole group of
- 57:01Speaker 1: leadership that impact our everyday life. So knowledge, like in
- 57:05Speaker 1: everything to make or what you do on the street,
- 57:08Speaker 1: you're not just doing it groping in the dark. You
- 57:10Speaker 1: are informed when you are activating your social activism, no
- 57:15Speaker 1: matter where it. Maybe I've seen you do it, but
- 57:17Speaker 1: I also know that you have made a game plan.
- 57:20Speaker 1: You are informed, you have a wise console, and that's
- 57:23Speaker 1: what we need to do. Knowledge above everything. So can
- 57:27Speaker 1: I just want to ask one more question? And I
- 57:28Speaker 1: know you gotta go, but I'm just because there's so
- 57:31Speaker 1: much information. Some people are saying that this deal was
- 57:35Speaker 1: signed by Trump before he left office to end to leave.
- 57:40Speaker 1: People are saying his but to withdraw the truth. So
- 57:43Speaker 1: how what was the process? Like, how did this come
- 57:46Speaker 1: about that we just left the truth? What was the process?
- 57:50Speaker 1: I think, first of all, you know, we have this
- 57:52Speaker 1: tendency to popularize and romanticize everything. Remember what the conversation
- 57:58Speaker 1: I told you I had with sen it to a
- 58:00Speaker 1: can to two thousand and eight. It's not personality driven.
- 58:03Speaker 1: It's campaign written right. Everybody make their campaign promises and
- 58:07Speaker 1: everybody want to scratch it off or erase it like
- 58:10Speaker 1: on the talk About board, as if that ends at all.
- 58:14Speaker 1: And sometimes you can't. Some things are in permanent marker
- 58:17Speaker 1: and you just can't do it that easily. So I
- 58:20Speaker 1: won't say that it was just Trump. I did hear
- 58:22Speaker 1: him saying how he was gonna extrapolate the people immediately,
- 58:26Speaker 1: and again that would have been wrong. What we need
- 58:29Speaker 1: is not these key cliches, not these sound bites. This
- 58:32Speaker 1: is when we need to inform information and to do
- 58:34Speaker 1: things right. And this is another thing I'm gonna say.
- 58:36Speaker 1: The reason why I look what you guys are doing
- 58:38Speaker 1: with your podcast because I know that you're the truth.
- 58:41Speaker 1: We need our journalists to be able to have the information.
- 58:44Speaker 1: And I told my students, if Colin Powell was given
- 58:47Speaker 1: the wrong information about the weapons of mass destruction, what
- 58:50Speaker 1: in the hell you think you're getting right? This and
- 58:54Speaker 1: this information and half truths will only get us half
- 58:57Speaker 1: asked results. And it and and danger, which means that
- 59:02Speaker 1: we're all burden. I told me we're in this urgency
- 59:05Speaker 1: of now that we're all burton to really try to
- 59:07Speaker 1: get depth into the truth and we don't can't no
- 59:10Speaker 1: offense to anybody. And I coined the term T E
- 59:13Speaker 1: L E band the tele band versus the teleban, right
- 59:18Speaker 1: the TV band TV sad. If you're getting stuff and
- 59:22Speaker 1: you're reading off a teleprompter, nor offense to anybody. I
- 59:25Speaker 1: want to say this that you're getting information that you
- 59:27Speaker 1: haven't been able to research yourself and get it for
- 59:29Speaker 1: more than one agency. Then your spewing and choose yourself.
- 59:33Speaker 1: Like Michael always says, you invoked him to beginning. He
- 59:36Speaker 1: likes to uh phrase. The theologian Howard Therma says, you
- 59:40Speaker 1: can take your cup to the Atlantic Ocean, fill it
- 59:43Speaker 1: with the Atlantic ocean, but it's not all the Atlantic Ocean.
- 59:46Speaker 1: This time and age more than any time of my
- 59:49Speaker 1: eight decades living because I celebrate myself left birthday, because
- 1:00:01Speaker 1: right queen. But this worriedness of the soul is crocking.
- 1:00:07Speaker 1: But that's okay. I got the future of my hope
- 1:00:09Speaker 1: and young women like Tamika and you to make sure
- 1:00:13Speaker 1: that my golden years are not lying continuously with the
- 1:00:17Speaker 1: tears that I shared over the misinformation of the lack
- 1:00:19Speaker 1: of information that young people are given because mostly technology.
- 1:00:23Speaker 1: One thing I told my students if there's also if
- 1:00:26Speaker 1: you're doing your research on the infinite finiteness of Google,
- 1:00:29Speaker 1: you have not done your the infinite finite on that.
- 1:00:34Speaker 1: Listen and the infinite and finiteness of Google. And that's
- 1:00:41Speaker 1: why you can tell doctor and perfect doctor, I can
- 1:00:46Speaker 1: just sit there and listen to your talk all day.
- 1:00:48Speaker 1: I'm telling you, y'all, you have such a way of words,
- 1:00:51Speaker 1: but you have the words because you have the knowledge, um.
- 1:00:54Speaker 1: And you have the knowledge because you've done the work.
- 1:00:57Speaker 1: And so I just want to thank you publicly, as
- 1:00:59Speaker 1: I always say, for being a friend a big sister
- 1:01:02Speaker 1: to so many of us, um, without judging us, and
- 1:01:06Speaker 1: just being there, standing firm and you know, you are
- 1:01:09Speaker 1: such a real one. And so what you're educating us
- 1:01:12Speaker 1: on in Afghanistan. You know I've been saying this quote
- 1:01:15Speaker 1: almost every week on our show that at one point
- 1:01:17Speaker 1: Dick Gregory said that you know, we as activists and leaders,
- 1:01:22Speaker 1: you put on a pair of glasses and now you
- 1:01:24Speaker 1: see the things that are not just what other people
- 1:01:27Speaker 1: want you to see, but you know what is and
- 1:01:29Speaker 1: then you have a responsibility to do something with it.
- 1:01:32Speaker 1: And that's a big burden. But now that you've given
- 1:01:35Speaker 1: us the burden, we certainly want to carry the message.
- 1:01:37Speaker 1: And I thank you so much for educating us on
- 1:01:40Speaker 1: this crisis that's happening and they're talking about it and
- 1:01:42Speaker 1: some people are paying attention, but our communities don't pay
- 1:01:45Speaker 1: attention enough, and so we want to make sure that
- 1:01:48Speaker 1: we get this info out there. Thank you so much.
- 1:01:50Speaker 1: Adding me, I want you guys to come to Fisk
- 1:01:53Speaker 1: University to we love to wed love to love you much.
- 1:01:58Speaker 1: Thank you God. Probably so man Marcia dis First of all,
- 1:02:04Speaker 1: she's super smart. Like some stuff she was talking about,
- 1:02:06Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to Quali back and be like break
- 1:02:08Speaker 1: that down. She is phenomenal and she's a beautiful woman.
- 1:02:14Speaker 1: No way, no way on guards black is different, is different,
- 1:02:21Speaker 1: and she but she takes care of herself as well.
- 1:02:24Speaker 1: Her husband's dope. Man. Just listening to her, like I
- 1:02:28Speaker 1: get meserized just watching her, and then I'd be like,
- 1:02:31Speaker 1: oh that's okay, I see right, Because they're both so
- 1:02:35Speaker 1: brilliant but you know the thing about it, um and
- 1:02:38Speaker 1: I noticed is totally off the topic. But when I say,
- 1:02:42Speaker 1: like he takes care of her as well, and he does.
- 1:02:46Speaker 1: Definitely that's his wife. You see them all the time together.
- 1:02:49Speaker 1: But she's so engaged in her own stuff. She's got
- 1:02:52Speaker 1: her own LFE like she's not sitting around. In fact,
- 1:02:56Speaker 1: she helps him and then goes about her business. She's
- 1:02:58Speaker 1: not sitting around waiting on him at all to help
- 1:03:02Speaker 1: her feel like she's achieving. Right, She's an overachiever. She's teaching, speaking, organizing,
- 1:03:10Speaker 1: sitting on boards, doing things and just being so active
- 1:03:14Speaker 1: all the time. And that for me is such it's
- 1:03:16Speaker 1: it's such mentorship about women, women in relationships and just
- 1:03:21Speaker 1: women in relationship with yourself that you really do have
- 1:03:24Speaker 1: to keep yourself going and not ever allow Um, you know,
- 1:03:28Speaker 1: other people in spaces to make you because I've seen
- 1:03:31Speaker 1: her leave spaces and go create some other dope stuff
- 1:03:34Speaker 1: like people want Marcia Dison. It's not the other way around,
- 1:03:37Speaker 1: dope man. Just listening to her, Man once again shout
- 1:03:41Speaker 1: out to her and information that she gave us about Afghanistan.
- 1:03:44Speaker 1: She broke it down. So now I really paying attention,
- 1:03:46Speaker 1: like before us always left aghanderstands messed up and you're here.
- 1:03:49Speaker 1: But when you listen to her break now the consequences
- 1:03:53Speaker 1: you know, abroad and right now inside of America and
- 1:03:57Speaker 1: all those things is really serious, which rings me to
- 1:04:00Speaker 1: my I don't get it. You know our brother RV. Roland,
- 1:04:09Speaker 1: you know who's definitely one of our you gotta have.
- 1:04:15Speaker 1: He just got a new job. He's working with um
- 1:04:18Speaker 1: Utah Jazz, you know, so shout out to Earth. But
- 1:04:21Speaker 1: this is what he's now with this Earth. I know
- 1:04:24Speaker 1: that he's a trainer's training for Utah Jazz right now,
- 1:04:29Speaker 1: so shout out to him for that. But this is
- 1:04:31Speaker 1: something that he's really been passionate. But one of his brothers,
- 1:04:35Speaker 1: you know, Julius Jones, not his somebody that he grew
- 1:04:39Speaker 1: up with, he played ball with, who was also a
- 1:04:42Speaker 1: basketball player. You know that he he sees as a brother.
- 1:04:45Speaker 1: Julius Jones is being it's on death row right, you know.
- 1:04:50Speaker 1: And and based off all things, information that somebody has
- 1:04:53Speaker 1: came forward to admit to the crime that he's been
- 1:04:57Speaker 1: convicted of. There's a lack of DNA, he was only nineteen,
- 1:05:01Speaker 1: he has an alibi. All of these things and he's
- 1:05:04Speaker 1: been sitting on death row for twenty years, not giving
- 1:05:06Speaker 1: a new heroing, not giving anything. And I just really
- 1:05:09Speaker 1: don't get how things like that happen. How do you
- 1:05:13Speaker 1: make a decision to take someone's life to end, you know,
- 1:05:16Speaker 1: especially in this day and name, when DNA is clearing
- 1:05:19Speaker 1: people and all, we're finding out every day that people
- 1:05:23Speaker 1: are being convicted of crimes that they shouldn't be. You know,
- 1:05:26Speaker 1: some people that people are being overly sent and shout
- 1:05:29Speaker 1: out to Dante mitche who just came home a couple
- 1:05:32Speaker 1: of days ago. You know, what you're saying is that
- 1:05:35Speaker 1: people are being um over sentenced over scientists. So when
- 1:05:40Speaker 1: you look at these situations and now this man is
- 1:05:43Speaker 1: scheduled to be executed in less than a month next month, Yeah, yeah,
- 1:05:48Speaker 1: I thought for some reason, yes, next month, this man
- 1:05:51Speaker 1: is scheduled to be I really just don't get how
- 1:05:55Speaker 1: a good conscious, good faith in the name of justice,
- 1:05:59Speaker 1: that you ex acute someone who did a crime supposedly
- 1:06:04Speaker 1: that you there there is so many different elements that
- 1:06:07Speaker 1: says there's a possibility that there's the slightest possibility that
- 1:06:11Speaker 1: he didn't commit this crown and you're scheduled to take
- 1:06:14Speaker 1: this man's life. You know, you you haven't said, you
- 1:06:16Speaker 1: know what we want to were gonna give you life,
- 1:06:19Speaker 1: a prisondent, give you an opportunity evidence if we give
- 1:06:22Speaker 1: these you know, hearings and things, because there there is
- 1:06:25Speaker 1: a possibility that this man is actually innocent, you know,
- 1:06:29Speaker 1: and they're about to take this man's life. But I
- 1:06:32Speaker 1: really just don't get that for the life of me.
- 1:06:34Speaker 1: You know, death penalty is one of those things that's
- 1:06:36Speaker 1: very very strange to me, you know, especially when there's
- 1:06:39Speaker 1: not clear and undoubted evidence that somebody did something that
- 1:06:44Speaker 1: is even worth being put to death for. If you
- 1:06:48Speaker 1: can't completely there, if there's any shadow of a doubt
- 1:06:52Speaker 1: that the person committed these crimes and you're taking their life,
- 1:06:55Speaker 1: it's just inhumane for me, you know. So I really
- 1:06:58Speaker 1: just don't get it, and I don't even know how
- 1:07:00Speaker 1: to say it. Man, We're going to continue to advocate
- 1:07:03Speaker 1: for him, you know, write letters for him. Go to
- 1:07:06Speaker 1: my page. You know, she'll probably see the post where
- 1:07:09Speaker 1: we just said about Julius Jones. For some reason, I
- 1:07:13Speaker 1: thought it was three months. I didn't realize it the
- 1:07:15Speaker 1: month it's literally next month, literally October, oh, because the first, Yeah,
- 1:07:19Speaker 1: I know why because the first this the other post
- 1:07:22Speaker 1: that we put up was two months ago and it
- 1:07:25Speaker 1: was coming in three months, and then today we're talking
- 1:07:28Speaker 1: about it now being a month while and you know
- 1:07:32Speaker 1: the thing about and I'm sure I know Julius Jones
- 1:07:35Speaker 1: has family. Obviously we support his family, but I feel like,
- 1:07:40Speaker 1: for he's been fighting so hard. I mean, they did,
- 1:07:44Speaker 1: um the long Walk, which was I forget how many miles,
- 1:07:48Speaker 1: things like over a hundred miles in protests of this execution. Um,
- 1:07:53Speaker 1: they've been trying to bring awareness through every every every
- 1:07:58Speaker 1: every you know, pers sin and every avenue possible to
- 1:08:03Speaker 1: bring attention to this situation and stop the execution. And UM,
- 1:08:09Speaker 1: I think that I feel worried that if it happens,
- 1:08:12Speaker 1: that earth will never be the same, you know that mentally,
- 1:08:16Speaker 1: he'll never be the same because he's really fighting for
- 1:08:18Speaker 1: a man and speaking to Julius and listening to you know,
- 1:08:21Speaker 1: somebody that's on death row. Uh that what is the
- 1:08:25Speaker 1: movie that um happens in the town that my mother
- 1:08:28Speaker 1: is from? Oh boy? Uh, Jamie Fox plays the man
- 1:08:34Speaker 1: on on death row, Mercy Mercy. So that movie takes
- 1:08:39Speaker 1: place in a in a town called Monroe, VL, Alabama,
- 1:08:43Speaker 1: which you know, Um, that's the town that my mother
- 1:08:45Speaker 1: was raised in, a town that I actually was raised
- 1:08:48Speaker 1: in every summer and so mercy, uh. And there are
- 1:08:51Speaker 1: other stories to kill a mock and bird. All of
- 1:08:53Speaker 1: that is from this particular town. And UM, this man, uh, Jimmy,
- 1:08:59Speaker 1: who's on death row, we watch his story and the
- 1:09:02Speaker 1: story of others who are in those cells next to
- 1:09:05Speaker 1: him that are about to be executed, most of them
- 1:09:08Speaker 1: for things that, as you said, maybe they should receive
- 1:09:10Speaker 1: life in prison. But for someone to believe that they
- 1:09:13Speaker 1: are the executioner, that their God to take their lives,
- 1:09:16Speaker 1: I don't know. And you know, I've had to ask myself,
- 1:09:19Speaker 1: especially with Teri's dad being murdered, you know what I
- 1:09:23Speaker 1: have supported the death penalty, And my honest answer is no,
- 1:09:26Speaker 1: I don't support the death penalty at all, Um, no
- 1:09:29Speaker 1: matter how heinous the crime. Maybe I just don't support
- 1:09:32Speaker 1: the death penalty. And that's tough because if somebody raped
- 1:09:35Speaker 1: my daughter or something like that, I don't know, like
- 1:09:38Speaker 1: at that point I might have to revisit how I feel.
- 1:09:41Speaker 1: But understanding what I know about this system, well, I'm
- 1:09:46Speaker 1: just saying I don't have First of all, my son
- 1:09:48Speaker 1: is twenty two at this point. I hope he doesn't.
- 1:09:51Speaker 1: I just wonder if I had a child right now,
- 1:09:53Speaker 1: hopefully I would have a dought it was as a person.
- 1:09:57Speaker 1: But I get your point because and so daughters the
- 1:09:59Speaker 1: same with you do something to myself. That's right, daughter's son.
- 1:10:02Speaker 1: That doesn't matter. So you know, I just think about it,
- 1:10:04Speaker 1: that happened, where how would my my opinion change? And
- 1:10:10Speaker 1: yet I still have to say I don't support the
- 1:10:12Speaker 1: death penalty. So you know, our prayers to Julius Jones
- 1:10:17Speaker 1: and his family, um and these days before possible execution.
- 1:10:22Speaker 1: And it's just like I'm Shaun King is also advocating
- 1:10:26Speaker 1: for a man who's on death row. It just seems
- 1:10:29Speaker 1: like this is such a terrible It's something I really
- 1:10:34Speaker 1: looked every day we see where you know the system
- 1:10:39Speaker 1: has failed and made mistakes. And when you know that
- 1:10:41Speaker 1: the system is as flawed as our system is, when
- 1:10:44Speaker 1: you're senting someone to death, you know, knowing that there's
- 1:10:48Speaker 1: a possibility that they could they could be wrong, you know,
- 1:10:51Speaker 1: it's just to me, well, we've we've got to have
- 1:10:55Speaker 1: we've been doing black health and we should continue to
- 1:10:58Speaker 1: get back to that, but I think next week we
- 1:11:00Speaker 1: should be talking to Dante, Dante Mitchell, do we Julius,
- 1:11:07Speaker 1: we should probably we should do that, but we should
- 1:11:11Speaker 1: also have like Joe take eat our sister who was
- 1:11:14Speaker 1: at the a CP for years. That's what she did,
- 1:11:16Speaker 1: abolishing the death penalty. Um, she did a lot of
- 1:11:19Speaker 1: work there. So I think those are good shows for
- 1:11:22Speaker 1: us to focus on. So hey, team, we've got a
- 1:11:26Speaker 1: bunch of shows already playing. So um. That brings us
- 1:11:30Speaker 1: to the end of this show that we covered a lot.
- 1:11:32Speaker 1: We went from one end of the spectrum to the net.
- 1:11:35Speaker 1: It's never never a dull moment. Shout out Tomorrow, Sea Dyson, Dr.
- 1:11:39Speaker 1: Michael Jones, Michael Jones, you know, don't get too much.
- 1:11:43Speaker 1: But we don't like it. Just I'm trying to tell you,
- 1:11:46Speaker 1: don't get six. But if you've got six butts in
- 1:11:49Speaker 1: one leg, we don't like it. It's not appealing. We
- 1:11:52Speaker 1: don't think it's cute. We're not sexy. It looks stupid.
- 1:11:55Speaker 1: It's not really a good thing. So if you're doing
- 1:11:57Speaker 1: it for you, cool, But no man is a factor
- 1:12:00Speaker 1: to a woman who has six that's a that's a
- 1:12:02Speaker 1: bold faced line. It is absolutely, because there's a meme
- 1:12:08Speaker 1: that's going around right now, and I'm not saying that
- 1:12:11Speaker 1: all women that's got big BBL booties are wards. Okay,
- 1:12:15Speaker 1: so let me just give that little uh disclaimer. But
- 1:12:19Speaker 1: the meme says, I spent my whole life trying to
- 1:12:22Speaker 1: be a good girl to find out that men actually
- 1:12:24Speaker 1: like holds and so but quote unquote the word the
- 1:12:28Speaker 1: H word that w but the professional in the hood
- 1:12:35Speaker 1: is h you using the professional world the holes you
- 1:12:40Speaker 1: talking about quote unquote that you said, because I don't
- 1:12:42Speaker 1: get sta the holes you told about ones with six
- 1:12:46Speaker 1: but two that's not true. That's not true. So I
- 1:12:49Speaker 1: don't believe all of them are. But I just want
- 1:12:51Speaker 1: you to understand the ones that I see on the internet,
- 1:12:55Speaker 1: and you see the women shaking their heads that are
- 1:12:58Speaker 1: getting passed from one man to the next. They got
- 1:13:01Speaker 1: b b B b b BL Okay, don't get it twisted,
- 1:13:06Speaker 1: And they're getting passed from one because well that's okay,
- 1:13:08Speaker 1: but guess what, But guess what they maybe they may
- 1:13:11Speaker 1: be getting past, but they'd be getting past. And the
- 1:13:15Speaker 1: ones that got little b bbs, our little b bbs.
- 1:13:19Speaker 1: You know, we're still trying to find him. You don't want,
- 1:13:23Speaker 1: I don't want. Are you trying to find a dude?
- 1:13:26Speaker 1: That's because I get me a b BL and see
- 1:13:30Speaker 1: if that helps me with my quest to find me
- 1:13:34Speaker 1: a husband. Going to but I am gonna get this man.
- 1:13:39Speaker 1: If you've got three as in one leg. The question
- 1:13:43Speaker 1: is going to be the time of it is too
- 1:13:44Speaker 1: much when it's sitting up back, Sis, it don't look good, Sis.
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