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- 0:34Speaker 3: Hi.
- 0:35Speaker 2: Nice to meet you.
- 0:36Speaker 1: Nice meeting you too. And what an incredible book, A
- 0:38Speaker 1: very very up to date style of book. The way
- 0:41Speaker 1: that you break it up between the characters and how
- 0:43Speaker 1: the relationships grow beyond different things that change in personal lives.
- 0:47Speaker 1: I just thought it was very community driven. Did you
- 0:49Speaker 1: feel that when you were writing it?
- 0:52Speaker 2: Wow? Thank you so much.
- 0:54Speaker 3: I'm so glad to hear that. Did I feel that
- 0:56Speaker 3: it was very community driven?
- 0:58Speaker 2: Yeah? I kind of did. I'm a very I'm an
- 1:03Speaker 2: average person.
- 1:04Speaker 3: I'm just a stay at home mom, and I felt
- 1:06Speaker 3: like I needed to express just certain things that people
- 1:11Speaker 3: around me were going through. So yeah, community base for sure.
- 1:15Speaker 1: So then when you're watching people around you, does that
- 1:17Speaker 1: make because I call that the silent wolf or a
- 1:19Speaker 1: silent watcher, one who stands back and just observes. And
- 1:23Speaker 1: I learned that in martial arts, that you learn more
- 1:25Speaker 1: on the sidelines. What about you as an author?
- 1:30Speaker 2: That's funny.
- 1:31Speaker 3: I do there are a lot of times when I
- 1:34Speaker 3: just do sit back and watch. And my mother at
- 1:39Speaker 3: one point has said to me, you know, you need
- 1:41Speaker 3: to be a little bit more out there. You're a listener,
- 1:43Speaker 3: not a talker. And I kind of feel like observationally
- 1:49Speaker 3: it makes more sense. You get to see people in
- 1:52Speaker 3: their true form that way. I don't know, I kind
- 1:55Speaker 3: of I agree.
- 1:57Speaker 1: Developing the characters, I mean, we've got Mona, We've got
- 1:59Speaker 1: great We've got everybody inside this book. And the way
- 2:02Speaker 1: that once again, that the way that you break it up.
- 2:04Speaker 1: It's like you give me the opportunity to go knock
- 2:07Speaker 1: on their door and not ask for a cup of sugar,
- 2:09Speaker 1: but just hey, what you been up to then? And
- 2:11Speaker 1: you share it with us and we're all going, yeah,
- 2:14Speaker 1: me too.
- 2:15Speaker 2: So thanks.
- 2:17Speaker 3: I feel like when I wrote this, I wanted it
- 2:19Speaker 3: to be something relatable. So the characters Mona and Grace
- 2:23Speaker 3: and then as who's an.
- 2:25Speaker 2: Older woman, there's nothing way out there.
- 2:28Speaker 3: The situations that happened to them are very ordinary, just
- 2:31Speaker 3: people around towns, things that everyone goes through. Just something
- 2:35Speaker 3: very relatable, and so I felt like there should be
- 2:40Speaker 3: a reason to see what these people are going through
- 2:42Speaker 3: and maybe just everyday people can associate with them from that.
- 2:48Speaker 1: Well, I mean, look at the way that Mona is
- 2:49Speaker 1: freed from her home life in the way of basically
- 2:52Speaker 1: being the you know, like when I went through when
- 2:55Speaker 1: my daughter graduated from UCLA. All of a sudden, it's
- 2:57Speaker 1: like this house is mine now. You mean I don't
- 2:59Speaker 1: have to share with anybody. I mean I do, but
- 3:01Speaker 1: I don't, but it's mine. I mean, there are so
- 3:03Speaker 1: many different changes that we go through, and you're you
- 3:06Speaker 1: are very transparent with that. I mean, this really should
- 3:08Speaker 1: be a TV show on Netflix.
- 3:10Speaker 2: Oh, I'll take it for sure. What a fantasy. Thank you?
- 3:14Speaker 1: I mean, thank you, that's the realism that you placed
- 3:16Speaker 1: in it. And you know, it was Mark Twain that said,
- 3:18Speaker 1: if you can't be yourself, then why are you writing?
- 3:20Speaker 1: I mean, that's the thing about it, And that's what
- 3:21Speaker 1: I like about this is that you give us that
- 3:23Speaker 1: world where I really feel like that we are neighbors.
- 3:27Speaker 2: Oh thanks, that's great. Yeah.
- 3:31Speaker 3: So, like Mark Twain, so I know that he has
- 3:33Speaker 3: attributed to a famous quote like write what you know ye,
- 3:38Speaker 3: and so I feel like I tried to do that
- 3:41Speaker 3: a little. Not that the stories are based on my
- 3:43Speaker 3: life for my family or anything like that, but like
- 3:46Speaker 3: I said, just something that would be relatable to people.
- 3:50Speaker 1: Now in your own family, because you did bring that
- 3:52Speaker 1: up that you're you're a stay at home mom. What
- 3:54Speaker 1: are the traditions that you're starting with your generation that
- 3:57Speaker 1: will become I mean you're step one? What will be
- 3:59Speaker 1: step two? Or do you have the continuation throughout your
- 4:01Speaker 1: life of that that everything that happened before you got here?
- 4:05Speaker 2: Hmm interesting. I feel like maybe maybe a combination.
- 4:12Speaker 3: Yeah, I know that, like family dinners are very important
- 4:17Speaker 3: and that's been throughout the time. You know, that's something
- 4:21Speaker 3: that I can't attribute it for myself, but I think
- 4:23Speaker 3: it's important at the end of the day to connect
- 4:25Speaker 3: with your family and figure out what happened during the day.
- 4:29Speaker 3: But like you said, I mean my kids now are
- 4:32Speaker 3: grown and so I have the house to myself.
- 4:35Speaker 2: I probably just turn my dog in the background.
- 4:39Speaker 3: Like you know, it could be a very lonely existence,
- 4:43Speaker 3: but yet a good existence that they're all often happy
- 4:46Speaker 3: with their own lives.
- 4:47Speaker 2: And I kind of heared off topic.
- 4:50Speaker 1: Well, and the thing is is that you you give
- 4:53Speaker 1: us that opportunity, though, to be able to see life
- 4:56Speaker 1: beyond our four walls, because it is so easy. And
- 4:59Speaker 1: I always blame this the COVID lockdown. It's too easy
- 5:02Speaker 1: to go shut the front door and binge watch. And really,
- 5:05Speaker 1: I mean, you give your book says no, no, there's
- 5:07Speaker 1: something that's going on out here. You can look at
- 5:09Speaker 1: it and look at what's happening around you go get
- 5:11Speaker 1: involved with it.
- 5:13Speaker 3: That's really sweet. So I finished actually writing this book
- 5:17Speaker 3: during COVID, So.
- 5:18Speaker 2: That was a long time ago.
- 5:19Speaker 3: Yeah, And so it's been six years already since I
- 5:23Speaker 3: finished writing. And someone asked me, you know, is it
- 5:27Speaker 3: pertinent to today? And I kind of feel like, yeah,
- 5:29Speaker 3: it is, because the lessons that were involved in writing
- 5:33Speaker 3: the story are kind of timeless. It's be kind to
- 5:36Speaker 3: others and you don't know what's going on in someone
- 5:38Speaker 3: else's world, and so after all this time, I still
- 5:43Speaker 3: think it's kind of relevant.
- 5:45Speaker 1: Please do not move. There's more with Jerrelyn Bass Greenberg
- 5:47Speaker 1: coming up next. The name of the book Drama Drama Drama.
- 5:55Speaker 1: We are back with author Jerrelyn Bass Greenberg. You must
- 5:59Speaker 1: be somebody who picks up a book and you go
- 6:01Speaker 1: to the index, or you find out things in the
- 6:03Speaker 1: beginning and you decide in that moment, because the way
- 6:05Speaker 1: that you break it down with a fresh start, things
- 6:08Speaker 1: aren't always what they see and be true to yourself
- 6:10Speaker 1: right away. As a reader, I'm going, oh, really, well,
- 6:13Speaker 1: what do you know about this? You know, all of
- 6:15Speaker 1: a sudden, now you've got my inquisitive mind. And I
- 6:17Speaker 1: didn't have to go to a national inquirer to get activated.
- 6:21Speaker 2: Oh that's really sweet.
- 6:22Speaker 3: So, like I said, I'm a stay at home mom
- 6:25Speaker 3: or you know, now my kids are grown.
- 6:27Speaker 2: So I was a stay at home mom and.
- 6:29Speaker 3: I felt like I should write a story based on
- 6:34Speaker 3: you know, three different levels of characters, and drama drama
- 6:38Speaker 3: drama is you know, each one of them has their
- 6:41Speaker 3: own dramas to go to. But like what you said,
- 6:44Speaker 3: the book is broken down like a drama in three
- 6:47Speaker 3: different acts, and so life to me, and like.
- 6:51Speaker 2: I said, I'm just a stay at home mom.
- 6:53Speaker 3: I'm not a writer like you are every day writing
- 6:55Speaker 3: in a journal or I just felt like life is
- 7:00Speaker 3: a drama and you have to get through it the
- 7:03Speaker 3: way that you can and the best that you can.
- 7:05Speaker 2: And like I said, just be kind.
- 7:08Speaker 1: Are you a daily writer in the way of journaling,
- 7:10Speaker 1: because I mean the way that you write here, it's
- 7:12Speaker 1: done in such a personable way, and the fact that
- 7:15Speaker 1: you know that you used drama not once but three times,
- 7:17Speaker 1: I'm going, oh, wow, you know what we're doing with
- 7:20Speaker 1: that writing instrument.
- 7:22Speaker 2: That's very sweet.
- 7:23Speaker 3: No, No, I'm not, like I said, I don't journal
- 7:28Speaker 3: every day.
- 7:28Speaker 2: This was kind of like a I don't know, a
- 7:32Speaker 2: dream for me.
- 7:34Speaker 3: I always, in my past likes to read, and I
- 7:37Speaker 3: always thought at some point I would write a book.
- 7:40Speaker 3: I remember in high school reading you know, a side
- 7:44Speaker 3: readings or whatever, and thinking, oh, this is what my
- 7:46Speaker 3: book is going to be like or after the fact
- 7:50Speaker 3: when I was when I was a young mother, I
- 7:52Speaker 3: would cut things out of the newspaper when that was
- 7:54Speaker 3: still a thing, and just about people who wrote books
- 7:58Speaker 3: or the connections that they had and things like that,
- 8:00Speaker 3: and I just always thought, well, maybe someday I'll write
- 8:02Speaker 3: a book, And then the opportunity when I just had
- 8:06Speaker 3: some time on my hands and decided now's.
- 8:09Speaker 2: The time I would do it.
- 8:10Speaker 3: But other than that, no, I don't daily journal like
- 8:13Speaker 3: you do or anything. I'm not classically trained in writing.
- 8:18Speaker 1: Oh that's the part that I like is that that
- 8:20Speaker 1: people go, well, why don't you go back to school
- 8:22Speaker 1: and learn to write and to do the painting a set?
- 8:24Speaker 1: Because I don't want to. It's because I like making
- 8:28Speaker 1: these huge mistakes that make people go, what the hell, dude,
- 8:31Speaker 1: what's going on with your grammar today? It's called speaking
- 8:34Speaker 1: my street, That's what it is. But let's talk about
- 8:37Speaker 1: Esther in the way that what did you learn through Esther?
- 8:40Speaker 1: Because we're all going up there and maybe that's my
- 8:43Speaker 1: attraction to the book, is that you've got three different
- 8:45Speaker 1: levels of life, and it's like I'm learning from each
- 8:47Speaker 1: one of these.
- 8:49Speaker 3: Yeah, so Esther's the one that I haven't experienced yet.
- 8:55Speaker 3: So Grace, she's fourteen years old, and I have experienced
- 9:00Speaker 3: being a new girl, and well not even a new girl,
- 9:03Speaker 3: but a girl in high school, and Mona was a
- 9:08Speaker 3: young mother whose child was going, you know, not needing
- 9:12Speaker 3: her as much anymore. And I have experienced that, but esther,
- 9:15Speaker 3: the character is an older woman who's starting assisted living,
- 9:19Speaker 3: and so yeah, I haven't experienced that time yet. So
- 9:23Speaker 3: for me, that was a very interesting character to create.
- 9:27Speaker 3: And I thought back to my grandmother, who was very
- 9:31Speaker 3: in charge. But she would tell me about the lady
- 9:34Speaker 3: down the hall and some of you right, and some
- 9:37Speaker 3: of the things that the lady down the hall would do,
- 9:39Speaker 3: and she would get really upset with like stuff like that.
- 9:43Speaker 3: And I remember thinking, oh my god, here's my grandmother
- 9:46Speaker 3: and she's talking the same way that I, as a.
- 9:48Speaker 2: Young mother, would talk. And it just it's just dawned
- 9:51Speaker 2: on me.
- 9:52Speaker 3: That no matter how old you are, you're still having
- 9:55Speaker 3: the same feelings and same thoughts. I mean, I'm sure
- 9:58Speaker 3: if you close your eyes, you don't feel your age.
- 10:01Speaker 2: You feel like you're a younger person, as do. I know.
- 10:03Speaker 1: I'm fourteen. I am fourteen totally. And that's the person
- 10:07Speaker 1: that I have to sit down with when when because
- 10:09Speaker 1: people will go when you get to retire from radio,
- 10:11Speaker 1: I mean forty six years dude, and I go you
- 10:13Speaker 1: know when I sit down with that fourteen year old
- 10:15Speaker 1: self and say thank you for the dream, but we're done,
- 10:18Speaker 1: and I don't have that courage. And that's why I
- 10:20Speaker 1: think I'm really intrigued by your book is because you
- 10:23Speaker 1: talk about three different levels. So it doesn't matter if
- 10:26Speaker 1: it could be three different people. It's still one life.
- 10:28Speaker 1: We see ourselves in every single one of these characters,
- 10:30Speaker 1: so it's one character to those of us that are reading.
- 10:34Speaker 2: That was the plan. Oh I love that. Thank you,
- 10:37Speaker 2: it's amazing. Wow, thank you.
- 10:39Speaker 1: And how did you continuity? I mean, how did you
- 10:41Speaker 1: deal with that as that as that writer of this book?
- 10:44Speaker 1: I mean, I want to talk about the disciplines because
- 10:47Speaker 1: there are people that are that are listening right now
- 10:49Speaker 1: that have little things that they've written. They've hidden, they've
- 10:51Speaker 1: put it away someplace, they've crumpled it up, through it away,
- 10:54Speaker 1: and it's like, no, share your story.
- 10:58Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 10:58Speaker 3: So ahead funny that you said that hidden away because
- 11:02Speaker 3: I started writing this book in secret, because, like I said,
- 11:07Speaker 3: I haven't been classically trained. I don't I'm not a writer.
- 11:10Speaker 3: I don't journal every day. I just had it in
- 11:14Speaker 3: my head that maybe I should write a book. So
- 11:16Speaker 3: I kept it secret, and I was having a discussion
- 11:20Speaker 3: with my middle daughter about something totally unrelated, and she
- 11:24Speaker 3: said to me, Wow, that was really powerful.
- 11:26Speaker 2: You should write a book. And I said, well, well,
- 11:30Speaker 2: I kind of already started.
- 11:31Speaker 3: To write a book, and so she was really supportive
- 11:34Speaker 3: after that, and I kind of let my other kids in,
- 11:36Speaker 3: my daughter's.
- 11:37Speaker 2: In and my husband and yeah, and then.
- 11:39Speaker 3: I got what I what I kind of felt were
- 11:41Speaker 3: signs from the universe.
- 11:44Speaker 2: I don't know if you've experienced, right, but.
- 11:46Speaker 3: Like like names of characters would come up out of
- 11:49Speaker 3: the blue, or or songs that I had in my story,
- 11:52Speaker 3: and I felt like, yeah, I should be doing this.
- 11:54Speaker 2: I really should.
- 11:55Speaker 3: And then, like I said, I finished writing it during COVID,
- 11:59Speaker 3: which was six years ago at that point, and I
- 12:03Speaker 3: really didn't know what to do with it at that point,
- 12:06Speaker 3: you know, like I knew nothing about publishing and going
- 12:08Speaker 3: into the industry, and so I took a writing class,
- 12:11Speaker 3: and I gave it to a couple of friends who
- 12:13Speaker 3: kind of put it on the shelf and didn't really
- 12:15Speaker 3: do anything with it. So I kind of waited some time,
- 12:18Speaker 3: and then I got picked up by my publisher, She
- 12:21Speaker 3: Writes Press, and they said to me, we won't be
- 12:25Speaker 3: publishing the story for another.
- 12:27Speaker 2: Year and a half if that works in your timeline.
- 12:30Speaker 3: And I thought, I thought, okay, well I'll do it.
- 12:32Speaker 3: Why not because I wrote this book so long ago.
- 12:35Speaker 3: But I got to take a chance on myself and
- 12:37Speaker 3: I'm going to do it.
- 12:38Speaker 1: Did you use it writing instrument in the way of
- 12:41Speaker 1: using a pan? I hate that word pan? But did
- 12:43Speaker 1: you use it writing instrument? Or did you did you
- 12:45Speaker 1: tap it into a computer?
- 12:47Speaker 3: I did tap it into a computer. But I do
- 12:50Speaker 3: have my pun with me at all times. Something about
- 12:53Speaker 3: old school, right we all need to.
- 12:56Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, because I'll go into a pond now, yeah,
- 12:58Speaker 1: I'll do a pawn shop, I'll do any antique store.
- 13:00Speaker 1: And the first place I go to are the old
- 13:02Speaker 1: writing answerment saying, well, that one doesn't work it. You know,
- 13:04Speaker 1: look at the nib on it. It sucks. And I'll go,
- 13:06Speaker 1: you know what, even better, we're gonna rebuild this monkey,
- 13:08Speaker 1: and we're gonna I'm taking the history from this thing
- 13:11Speaker 1: and it's going into my pages. And then now, my
- 13:14Speaker 1: my crazy thing is I'm burying pans throughout the Carolinas
- 13:17Speaker 1: because I believe that it's the earth that's speaking to
- 13:20Speaker 1: us as the muse. Well, I want to listen to them,
- 13:22Speaker 1: So I'm burying the pans and then I go back
- 13:24Speaker 1: and get them, just to see if the earth talk
- 13:26Speaker 1: of that pan. I'm a freak, and I'm a freak.
- 13:29Speaker 2: No, I love it. I hope that that gives you
- 13:32Speaker 2: some inspiration. That's great.
- 13:33Speaker 1: Well, it leads me to people like yourself, who have you?
- 13:36Speaker 1: Know you you didn't have the time in the world
- 13:38Speaker 1: to put a story together, but you found that time
- 13:40Speaker 1: and you and you put it away. Yes, you gave
- 13:41Speaker 1: it patience and everything. But yet now look at it
- 13:44Speaker 1: and the and here's the cold hard facts. It belongs
- 13:46Speaker 1: to us. Now, it doesn't belong to you. The readers
- 13:50Speaker 1: are going mind, mind, mind mine.
- 13:53Speaker 2: I love that.
- 13:54Speaker 3: Thank you so much, because truly I have great imposture
- 13:58Speaker 3: syndrome and it just makes me feel really good to
- 14:02Speaker 3: think that people out there like it.
- 14:04Speaker 2: Thank you.
- 14:04Speaker 1: So, Now where do you grow from here? Because that's
- 14:07Speaker 1: always the toughest thing. I mean, it's like a black
- 14:09Speaker 1: belt in martial arts. Oh you got your first one,
- 14:11Speaker 1: Well how about number two? Well I know it all, No,
- 14:12Speaker 1: you don't know it all. So them, what are you
- 14:14Speaker 1: going to do? With book number two and as we
- 14:16Speaker 1: grow forward.
- 14:18Speaker 3: So I have a couple of ideas, but really I
- 14:22Speaker 3: haven't really done anything with them yet. I just kind
- 14:25Speaker 3: of want to ride this rave wave and see how
- 14:28Speaker 3: this goes. But yeah, I'm not so sure what my
- 14:32Speaker 3: future holds.
- 14:33Speaker 1: Well, here's the challenge. You talk about music in this,
- 14:36Speaker 1: and I need to ask this because are you a
- 14:37Speaker 1: musician or is this another side of your creativity saying
- 14:40Speaker 1: the next book, see if you can write some music
- 14:43Speaker 1: to go with it and create a soundtrack to it
- 14:45Speaker 1: because we grew up in that generation.
- 14:48Speaker 3: Wow.
- 14:49Speaker 2: So I actually I took piano lessons, so.
- 14:53Speaker 3: That's part of my my want to do list is
- 14:57Speaker 3: to learn how to write songs. So I haven't accomplished
- 15:01Speaker 3: that yet, but maybe in the future I would.
- 15:03Speaker 2: And thank you for that aspiration.
- 15:05Speaker 1: Yeah, because it's still it's still a texture of writing,
- 15:07Speaker 1: and it's like and that's what's fun about sitting down
- 15:09Speaker 1: with songwriters is that they can tell an entire book
- 15:12Speaker 1: in three minutes and forty five seconds. And I'm blown
- 15:15Speaker 1: away by that skill.
- 15:17Speaker 2: Yeah, I am too, I am too.
- 15:20Speaker 1: Where can people go to find out more about you?
- 15:23Speaker 1: Because I want them to be a part of your
- 15:25Speaker 1: growing period, because you know, I always get jealous of
- 15:27Speaker 1: the jks and all that kind of stuff that people got.
- 15:29Speaker 1: I read the first book, and I'm going and you're
- 15:31Speaker 1: with them now eighty books later. God, I want to
- 15:33Speaker 1: That's who I want people to be. I want them
- 15:35Speaker 1: be there at the beginning so that we can be
- 15:37Speaker 1: with them as we celebrate the big, big, big moments.
- 15:40Speaker 3: Oh, I love it. I hope that there are eighty
- 15:42Speaker 3: books in me that I'm fantastic. My website people can
- 15:48Speaker 3: find me is that Jerlyn that's called g e r
- 15:51Speaker 3: I l y n bast Greenberg g r.
- 15:55Speaker 2: E e n b e r g dot com. That
- 15:58Speaker 2: is my website.
- 16:00Speaker 3: My socials are Jerlyn dot Bass dot Greenberg or jerlynd
- 16:05Speaker 3: Bass Greenberg and I will be doing a book signing
- 16:10Speaker 3: in Vernon Hills on October twenty fourth at our Bros.
- 16:12Speaker 2: Bookstore.
- 16:13Speaker 3: Wow.
- 16:13Speaker 1: Well, if you ever make it to the Carolinas, there's
- 16:15Speaker 1: a lot of mom and pop operations here that really
- 16:18Speaker 1: do support local writing and writing from people that you
- 16:22Speaker 1: know that are just you know, looking for that one opportunity.
- 16:24Speaker 1: So if you ever put it on the on the map,
- 16:26Speaker 1: just come to Carolina. We'll take good care of you.
- 16:29Speaker 2: I would love to thank you excellent.
- 16:31Speaker 1: Will you be brilliant today and please come back to
- 16:34Speaker 1: this show anytime in the future. The door is always
- 16:36Speaker 1: going to be open for you.
- 16:38Speaker 2: I love that. Thank you so much. Errow and you'd
- 16:41Speaker 2: be brilliant too,