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IS HAVING A BOYFRIEND EMBARRASSING ? · Relatables

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  Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables, Baby big girl, it's like, let
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  Speaker 1: me come to you, let me buy you a drink.
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  Speaker 2: That's how it goes.
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  Speaker 3: I swear it's more like, baby girl.
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  Speaker 2: Oh you're talking about that song you do your dance,
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  Speaker 2: let me see you.
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  Speaker 3: Relatable. The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself, Addie Clark
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  Speaker 3: ak Mummy, and my partner in crime, mister Jake Craig
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  Speaker 3: aka Daddy.
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  Speaker 1: Yes. And he's Mummy because he just has he just
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  Speaker 1: has love love for everyone.
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  Speaker 3: And Jake is Daddy because he's always here for the baddies,
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  Speaker 3: and you guys are the baddies. I have two things,
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  Speaker 3: maybe three, okay, definitely two dos.
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  Speaker 2: Two things to start the episode.
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  Speaker 1: Number one foster dog Hallie Yeah, is in studio, run
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  Speaker 1: in front of us.
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  Speaker 3: We got a crowd.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not gonna bother her, but.
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  Speaker 1: If she comes over, I may bring her up on
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  Speaker 1: my lap so you may get to see her if
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  Speaker 1: you're watching the video.
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  Speaker 2: Number two, Oddie, I had a morning.
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  Speaker 1: A morning, okay, so I about a year ago, maybe longer.
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  Speaker 1: Actually no, who cares about.
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  Speaker 2: A year ago? Right?
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  Speaker 1: I remember I was driving my car and I still
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  Speaker 1: lived here. Driving out, I pull out of my driveway
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  Speaker 1: and I start hearing a sound. And the best way
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  Speaker 1: I could describe it is it sounded like if you
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  Speaker 1: had a metal cylinder and then a flat piece of
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  Speaker 1: metal and you rolled the metal cylinder and the flat
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  Speaker 1: piece of metal was resting on the cylinder. Can you
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  Speaker 1: like kind of picture that noise? Yeah, And so like
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  Speaker 1: the consistency of the wheel spinning is like, so my
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  Speaker 1: car made that noise.
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  Speaker 3: Kind of like there's no brake pad.
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  Speaker 2: It's kind of sounded like that. Okay, right, there's really
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  Speaker 2: weird consistent sound. And then I hit a bump.
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  Speaker 3: Can you just describe to people what car you have?
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  Speaker 3: I have a hyonda gets and what does that look like?
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  Speaker 3: So it's considered a hat. Two doors technically three.
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  Speaker 2: Including the boot door the trunk door, and the only
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  Speaker 2: way I can describe it is small.
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  Speaker 3: It's like a go kardad.
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  Speaker 1: It's like it's like a go cart. And so I
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  Speaker 1: heard this noise and I was like, fuck, what is that?
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  Speaker 1: I remember pulling over, I go slow. The sound is
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  Speaker 1: like there, but it's slower, so it depends on how
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  Speaker 1: fast I'm going. I hit a bump and it's like
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  Speaker 1: something flipped noise is gone.
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  Speaker 2: I thought, oh wow, beautiful dub. I'll ignore that.
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  Speaker 1: And then it happened two more times, and I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I think by one of the times, I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to the mechanic very soon, like I'm sure
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  Speaker 1: he will notice if something is out of whack, and
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  Speaker 1: so I didn't do anything about it. It's been to
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  Speaker 1: the mechanic multiple times.
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  Speaker 2: Nothing always says everything's great.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, this morning, I get two minutes away from my house.
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  Speaker 2: All right, I need you to put your headphones on.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, did you record the sound, oddie?
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  Speaker 1: I need you to listen now. I recorded this purely
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  Speaker 1: to tell mechanic because I didn't record this thinking I
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  Speaker 1: would bring this to the podcast. And I thought I
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  Speaker 1: might bring this to the podcast and tell right, this
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  Speaker 1: is what it sounded like this morning. Okay, I'm ready,
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  Speaker 1: headphone more.
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  Speaker 3: Why sounds like a train stopping.
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  Speaker 2: So that is ten times worse than last year's sound.
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  Speaker 3: Wait a second, So your car's making that sound and
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  Speaker 3: then you proceed to drive an hour and a half
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  Speaker 3: from Sydney to the center. Okay, way, way, way way.
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  Speaker 3: So I as soon as it started happening, and then
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  Speaker 3: you hear a cookook and it goes away.
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  Speaker 1: As soon as I started happening, I pull over and
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  Speaker 1: I'm only on like two three minutes from my house,
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  Speaker 1: and so I was like, damn it. I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I was like, that's way, way worse than it's ever been.
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  Speaker 1: So I thought, I think I might actually have to
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  Speaker 1: really do something about this.
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  Speaker 2: And so I was talked.
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  Speaker 1: I went forward like five meters still sounded there, and
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  Speaker 1: I was like okay.
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  Speaker 2: I checked.
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  Speaker 1: Beth had already left for work, and I was like,
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  Speaker 1: oh shit, so her car is not an option. I've
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  Speaker 1: got Hallie. I can't really take a train. And I
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  Speaker 1: was like, okay, I'm gonna have to go home and
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to call Audie and just like explain
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  Speaker 1: the situation. And so I'm on a main road, I turn,
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  Speaker 1: I go to I pull my blinker on to turn
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  Speaker 1: and cross the road and go into a driveway turn around,
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  Speaker 1: and so i'd fully swivel to make the turn, waiting
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  Speaker 1: for a little gap in the traffic.
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  Speaker 3: I go ortometer.
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  Speaker 2: It doesn't make the noise, and.
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  Speaker 1: I was like okay, So instead of turning around straight away,
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  Speaker 1: I was like, I'll just pull out. I'll go straight
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  Speaker 1: for a bit and turn around if I need to.
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  Speaker 1: I pull out and the noise is gone. Oh and
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  Speaker 1: so I was thinking, okay, I said, what I'll do
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  Speaker 1: is I'll give myself.
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  Speaker 2: Until the freeway.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god.
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  Speaker 2: And if it doesn't come back, I should be fine.
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  Speaker 3: So I drove all the way here, dude, I mean,
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  Speaker 3: I'm here. No more sound, no sound, bro. I want
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  Speaker 3: to start a petition right now. How much wrecking your
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  Speaker 3: car is worth?
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  Speaker 1: Like not.
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  Speaker 2: Two K.
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  Speaker 1: According to the government six but like actually, oh yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you wouldn't want to pay more than like two three
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  Speaker 1: thousand dollars.
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  Speaker 3: For two three thousand dollars, okay, this is a petition
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  Speaker 3: to sell your car and get something that's more safe,
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  Speaker 3: a just even spend, like we got some money in
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  Speaker 3: the business, like eight K. Get like a nice little
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  Speaker 3: like I don't know, what's a Toyota Yaris something yeah, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: just like a twenty twelve model, like something that look
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  Speaker 3: one hundred thousand k's good brand. Here's a petition right now.
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  Speaker 3: If someone says I reckon, If there's thirty comments of
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  Speaker 3: Jake saying get a new car, we'll get in one
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  Speaker 3: the axle comes off your car mid freeway. Look, there's
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  Speaker 3: a drive shaft that sounds like the drive shaft.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know what that was, and it hasn't happened again.
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  Speaker 3: It's like, it's just like when you got a problem
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  Speaker 3: with your car and you just turn the music up here,
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  Speaker 3: that's right. Wait that you could not turn the music
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  Speaker 3: off for that it was loud.
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  Speaker 1: So so basically, yeah, I've gasloped myself. And I said, like,
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  Speaker 1: so if I get here and it's sweet, and I
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  Speaker 1: get home and it's sweet, I will not drive it
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  Speaker 1: on Wednesday. I'm either going to take BET's car if
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  Speaker 1: it's if it's available, or I will just public transport
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  Speaker 1: it for a day. And I do actually think I'm
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  Speaker 1: coming to terms with the fact that I need.
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  Speaker 2: I think it's not a want.
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  Speaker 3: It's a knee It's almost a scrap yard type car. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: oh yeah it is. Yeah, Like I would only keep
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  Speaker 3: it to wrap it. Yeah, I kind of want to
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  Speaker 3: keep it for the business, keep it, wrap it relatable,
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  Speaker 3: keep it. We could keep it here, Yeah, I see
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  Speaker 3: no reason why not. Yeah, there's the petition. If Jake
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  Speaker 3: gets thirty comments on this episode episode saying sell the
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  Speaker 3: car only third or wrap the car okay, thirty on
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  Speaker 3: Spotify and thirty on YouTube. So sixty Jake will buy
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  Speaker 3: a new car and we get to wrap his little gets.
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  Speaker 1: Here's my question, right, is it worth getting another kind
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  Speaker 1: of shitty car?
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  Speaker 2: Or do I? The only thing is if I.
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  Speaker 1: Wanted to get a brand new car, I would have
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  Speaker 1: to have a loan, and I don't want that to
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  Speaker 1: affect our chances of getting a house.
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  Speaker 3: That's what open our circumstances get Like, yeah, ten thousand
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  Speaker 3: eight to ten thousand other one, that's still a nice car.
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  Speaker 2: It will still be totally fine. Let's be real, because
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  Speaker 2: last week I hate my new car.
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  Speaker 3: Five years Yeah, I feel like you didn't your personal
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  Speaker 3: owner now he's not having a nice car.
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  Speaker 1: My mindset with the car I have now was a
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  Speaker 1: that was supposed to be like a half a year.
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  Speaker 3: How long has it been, dude?
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  Speaker 2: Nearly five?
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  Speaker 3: Mate, that's been a good run.
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  Speaker 2: I had a great run. Losses had a great run.
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  Speaker 1: Damn it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, yeah, look up some stuff you can get
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  Speaker 3: something cool? Yeah, yeah, go to a four door.
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  Speaker 2: Anybody selling the car everybody.
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  Speaker 1: I was so upset when it happened to because I
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  Speaker 1: was like, damn it, Like so I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: he's right, and not even I reckon. Three days ago
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  Speaker 1: Beth said to me, she said, Jake, you need a
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  Speaker 1: new car, so you genuinely you do.
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  Speaker 3: And I was like yeah, yeah, yeah, I said, like
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  Speaker 3: two weeks ago you said to me all the time
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  Speaker 3: planning to move to Queensland. I was like, Jack, and
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  Speaker 3: you should probably sell it to drive eight hours to Queensland.
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  Speaker 1: You always tell me and said it like yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I just can't bring mysel right off. My friend can't
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  Speaker 2: bring myself to let go over it.
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  Speaker 3: That's why we can keep it, keep it in the business.
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  Speaker 3: Live on. Yeah, Live long and prosper. We'll get it
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  Speaker 3: shiped up the Queens Live Long and Prosper is the
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  Speaker 3: Star Trek reference right there. Well, okay, I.
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  Speaker 1: Will do some car hunting. Let's I'll do some car
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  Speaker 1: hunting and I'll come with some options next week.
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  Speaker 2: Give me options.
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  Speaker 3: You want three options? Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: All right, okay, yeah, I like that.
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  Speaker 3: You do. You do two and I bring a curveball three.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you're gonna bring something cool and I want it.
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  Speaker 3: Give me the same price range and I'll bring something
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  Speaker 3: for the people about that. You bring two, I'll bring one.
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  Speaker 3: Tell me the price range, and I'll get you something.
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  Speaker 3: Everyone knows I'm a warrior. Actually, can you get it
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  Speaker 3: for me?
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  Speaker 2: Because you're you're you're good at lowborne if it's on marketplace.
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  Speaker 1: So that's the two things. My third thing was I
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  Speaker 1: remembered because I could feel it. We just went to
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  Speaker 1: the gym, and so I changed my whole outfit and
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  Speaker 1: i've I haven't changed back in the same socks.
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  Speaker 2: I was wearing. So I'm wearing jeans with short socks.
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  Speaker 3: Oh ikey, that's so ell. And the reason I remember
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  Speaker 3: it is because I felt the breeze on my ankles,
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  Speaker 3: like there's a breeze in here talking about Oh. I
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  Speaker 3: wanted to bring up one thing to start actually all right,
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  Speaker 3: and it was going up a trend on TikTok or
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  Speaker 3: the radio. But more so, have you seen the new
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  Speaker 3: Vogue article that's going viral? I have seen this is
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  Speaker 3: having a boyfriend embarrassing now, and I wanted to talk
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  Speaker 3: about it. It's a good question, what do you reckon?
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  Speaker 2: Here's the thing, here's what I think. I think. If
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  Speaker 2: the question is having a boyfriend embarrassing is a question
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  Speaker 2: that even exists, then men have failed very bad at something.
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  Speaker 3: Men have done so badly to even have this be
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  Speaker 3: a question, is what you're saying. It's but also, we're
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  Speaker 3: boyfriends of relationships. Is it embarrassing to be our counterpart?
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  Speaker 2: See would? I don't think Best's embarrassed by me, and
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  Speaker 2: I wouldn't say Cassie's embarrassed by you?
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  Speaker 3: No, But who are embarrassed by their boyfriends? The people
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  Speaker 3: in relationships who aren't being treated correctly?
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  Speaker 2: Man, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: It just worries me that the question being asked is
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  Speaker 1: even like a valid question.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I think it even stated like it's cooler to
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  Speaker 3: be single and do your own thing and be a
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  Speaker 3: boss as bitch than it is to try and get
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  Speaker 3: in a relationship, because ten twenty years ago everyone used
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  Speaker 3: to want that relationship, go home to cuddles, But men
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  Speaker 3: aren't being that person that you want to come home
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  Speaker 3: to anymore.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, shit, I was. I saw this thing actually yesterday,
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  Speaker 2: and I think.
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  Speaker 1: It was It wasn't the exact guy, you know how
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  Speaker 1: there's that guy on the subway that says, like, what's
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  Speaker 1: your hot take? Like subway takes. It was a different guy.
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  Speaker 1: It was in like Central Park or something, and he
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  Speaker 1: asked a girl you know what's your hot take, and
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  Speaker 1: it was something that we've done. It was that you're
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  Speaker 1: a great man is an average woman. And the way
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  Speaker 1: she explained it was really good. She said, we men
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  Speaker 1: that have empathy, understanding, listen to your problems, clean their house.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, do like you know, have an emotional conversation,
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  Speaker 1: have support you. All these things. They get put on
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  Speaker 1: this massive pedestal. But for a woman, just her like,
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  Speaker 1: not even her best friend, just one of her friends,
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  Speaker 1: is literally that. So why do they then need a man?
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  Speaker 2: Is the question? Because you know, it's not the olden
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  Speaker 2: days anymore, like everyone's fucking even though it's it's still
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  Speaker 2: a like equality is still a huge issue. But you
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  Speaker 2: know women are out there being CEOs and running businesses
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  Speaker 2: and having good, high paying jobs and stuff like. They
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  Speaker 2: don't need men anymore, no, like, So it was a
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  Speaker 2: good point. It's a good question. Is having a boyfriend
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  Speaker 2: fucking embarrassing?
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  Speaker 3: I think it's a good question and kind of the
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  Speaker 3: shift in mindset as well, because if you do have
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  Speaker 3: that mindset, it kind of goes back to how we
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  Speaker 3: say on the podcast, relationships.
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  Speaker 2: Come when you least expect it. Yeah, and if girls are.
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  Speaker 3: Doing the things they want to do, being whoever they
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  Speaker 3: want to be, and not even thinking about it. They
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  Speaker 3: will track the men who aren't in that category. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: so I think it is that it's interesting to see
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  Speaker 3: that shift. And like you said, it used to be
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  Speaker 3: always like they provide, they do all that. Yeah, now
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  Speaker 3: don't do anything.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Men used to have this stupid reason to this
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  Speaker 1: like stupid argument as to why they, I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: weren't intact.
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  Speaker 2: In the emotional areas of life.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if that's like the perfectly correct thing
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  Speaker 1: way to say it, but they used to have this, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: super good reason of being the owner, being the bread winner.
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  Speaker 3: But I think it's too many scapegoats for men. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: we can just call them excuses to not be emotional
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  Speaker 3: or to not be there for their partner because they
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  Speaker 3: do all these other things that aren't even anything. I
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  Speaker 3: don't know.
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  Speaker 1: Do men just fucking suck or is it some men
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  Speaker 1: that fucking suck? I don't actually know.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's hard too, because there definitely are good men
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  Speaker 3: out there, yeah, one hundred percent. But there's no way
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  Speaker 3: or there's no where to see that as someone who
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  Speaker 3: isn't in the relationship with them, whereas I don't want
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  Speaker 3: to say, like, uh, I'm trying to give them like
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  Speaker 3: there are good men. I don't know what I'm trying to.
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  Speaker 1: It's hard, No, I know you're trying to say you
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  Speaker 1: like you're not trying to be that person that says, like,
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  Speaker 1: you know, but there is still good out there, like
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  Speaker 1: trying to argue it like you don't want to be
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  Speaker 1: that person, but.
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  Speaker 3: Also the kind of do because you want to give
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  Speaker 3: people hope.
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  Speaker 2: True, you want to get people hope.
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  Speaker 1: It's like people know that there's good men out there,
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  Speaker 1: you know, like people do know that, like they're not dumb,
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  Speaker 1: obviously there is fucking good men out there.
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  Speaker 2: But and like by no means, I don't think you're
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  Speaker 2: trying to.
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  Speaker 1: Like give the bad men an excuse by saying there
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  Speaker 1: is some good men out there. But I know what
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  Speaker 1: you're trying to say. It's hard to get it across
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  Speaker 1: where it's almost like hmmm, because the argument of so
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  Speaker 1: let's say, like we could break it down kind of
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  Speaker 1: dumb for us, Like I feel like we need a
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  Speaker 1: man's plain to ourselves. So you know how people hate cops.
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  Speaker 1: Some cops are dicks, right, they abuse the power and
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  Speaker 1: so you could argue like, it's not all cops though,
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  Speaker 1: you know, but you could say, okay, cool, No, it's
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  Speaker 1: definitely not all cops. Some cops are probably great, but
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  Speaker 1: it is some cops, so there is a problem. Just
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  Speaker 1: because it's not all cops doesn't mean there's a problem.
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  Speaker 1: It's like how when people say it's not all men,
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  Speaker 1: they're trying to say it's almost like they're trying to
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  Speaker 1: give an excuse for all men because there's some men
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  Speaker 1: that are good. But it's like, obviously there's some men
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  Speaker 1: that are good, but there is a huge problem with men,
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  Speaker 1: and it's a men's problem.
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  Speaker 3: And how do you fix the problem when women are
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  Speaker 3: so vocal about it but there's still no action being
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  Speaker 3: taken by men. Or where I was going with it
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  Speaker 3: is you don't see the action by the good men
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  Speaker 3: because it's so niche, so minuscure.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Maybe I was actually listening to an episode of
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  Speaker 1: Abby Chatfield's podcast where she had this doctor on and
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  Speaker 1: his name is doctor Vincent Hurley, and.
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  Speaker 2: So he actually is a.
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  Speaker 1: He's very in the he used to be a cop,
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  Speaker 1: and he very in the violence against women, right like
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  Speaker 1: men's violence against women, And she was talking to him,
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  Speaker 1: and she said that when she told a friend of
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  Speaker 1: hers who has a podcast and it's two men I
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  Speaker 1: believe in the podcast, they were like, oh, who do
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  Speaker 1: think we should have a podcast? And she said, oh, well,
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: I'm having Doctor Vincent early on, and I think he
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: would be great. You know, he talks about like Valance scains,
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: women and stuff. It's great, it's great cause and the
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: guy that hosts the podcast goes, oh, like yes, one
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: hundred percent. But I don't know how it would come
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: across as three white men talking about that. And she
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: was like, why, it's a men's issue. And so I
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: think all men, good ones included, so like you and me,
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: excepting that it's embarrassing to have a boyfriend, you know,
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: violence against women, all these things, like everything, excepting that
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: it's a men's issue, and the good men start talking
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: about it is probably the best way to at least
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: have younger generation have someone better to look up to.
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: Okay, So it's got to come from the people who
• 18:06
  Speaker 3: are already doing it.
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: I think so.
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: And I think it's going to come from the people
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: that so like, there's plenty of good men out there
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: that would so like the Actually, I reckon so the
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: men that say it's not all men are probably the
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: men that are good, but they feel kind of attacked
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: by a woman saying something bad that men do and
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: grouping men into one. And so the guy that goes
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: it's not all men, he feels attacked because he feels
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: as though he is a good man.
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: But he shouldn't feel attacked.
• 18:39
  Speaker 3: What's as simple as leading by example, I think so, Yeah,
• 18:44
  Speaker 3: talking about the issue, Yeah, raising awareness about it. Yeah,
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: even when in quotes you're not part of the problem,
• 18:51
  Speaker 3: even though you are, well.
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, a massive part of the problem. You're part of
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: the solution. You're part of the solution, is correct. And
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: one thing that Beth actually taught me, this massive part
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: of the problem is the fact that the good men
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: don't talk about it.
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: Like.
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: It's hard. I will admit it's hard for me to accept.
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: The fact that as what I believe myself and you
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: to be two good men being part of the problem,
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: where you know, Vogue brings up all violence against women
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: and stuff, being like a massive part of the problem
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: is the fact that admittedly we're a bit we're afraid
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: to speak about it, you know, like and the fact
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: that we're afraid to speak about it is. It's a
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: huge part of the problem. So I guess all we
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: have to do is fucking talk about it. Like but again,
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: it's like we're like, okay, yeah, what do we talk.
• 19:39
  Speaker 3: About thinking about us and making a difference? Though, how
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: do we do it in a way of we're two men, right,
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: but we have a ninety percent female audience. As much
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: as it's good to talk about it, but we're going
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: the men need to hear women know about it.
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: I mean, I guess ten yea better than zero.
• 19:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly.
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: Maybe we should have doctor Vincent early on. We don't
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: do guests really, but he'd be a good one to
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: have on. It was an interesting conversation.
• 20:05
  Speaker 3: He's interesting.
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: This guy is passionate. I've never seen he's passionate. He's
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: fucking he was pretty. He was like a cop in
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: the eighties or something. He was like, dude, I've seen
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: some ship. Yeah.
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: But I mean back to the topic of is having
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: a boyfriend embarrassing? I want to know probably from our
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: women audience. Comment comment fun commenting about my car.
• 20:30
  Speaker 4: Batties Week three, Week three, Week three of things that
• 20:43
  Speaker 4: aren't just for boys, Number one.
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: Being the funny one big, the funny one. Don't take
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: that away from us.
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: But I mean, I got to agree, as much as
• 20:54
  Speaker 3: I hate to admit it, hands up true, very true.
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: I will also admit the best compliment I would prefer
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: a your I would prefer like your decent looking, but
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: fuck you're funny.
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I would prefer that. Then just you're handsome but boring.
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: So please don't take it away from now. I'm just kidding.
• 21:21
  Speaker 3: And they have such a different sense of humor too. Yes,
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: I feel like, if anything, it kind of compliments each other,
• 21:27
  Speaker 3: dynamic between Yeah, I'm male and female.
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: I think I'm trying not too past relationships and current,
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: like I find the girlfriends I've had, even though one
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: of them was kinda ended badly, second one, third one
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: is current. Each one, I feel like it's quite funny.
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: I feel you shouldn't say it like that.
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: It's current, like it's gonna end.
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: But no, see, I think Beth is hands down one
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: of the first people I know because we will just
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: like lay in bed and watch videos and chuckle.
• 22:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you know anyway, all right.
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: Things and I'm just for boys. You're gonna hate this
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: low balling people on marketplace.
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: Ah, that's my thing though.
• 22:11
  Speaker 3: That's all his favorite pastime, right. I actually personally not
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: the biggest fan. Girls have caught on to it, you know.
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: It's funny.
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: Beth does it. Yeah, and she does it well. She
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: hits them with a classic I'll pick it up now
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: and like offer a hundred bucks. Yeah, I'll pick it
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: up now for the tricks.
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, now cash offer cash as well. I sold
• 22:34
  Speaker 3: something on marketplace other day. Dude rocked up and he's like, oh,
• 22:38
  Speaker 3: I forgot to get cash out and the transfer me
• 22:41
  Speaker 3: in front of me. It was the awkwardest thing, putting my
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: bank details in and chair.
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: It's too much time. Yeah, with a random He was
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: in my house and I was like, what are you doing?
• 22:48
  Speaker 3: Dude?
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: Did I tell you what happened to the other day? No,
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: Beath and I picked up outdoor chairs, right, bargain two
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: hundred bucks. Hundred bucks a chair.
• 22:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: We pull into the apartment, get into their parking space,
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: all right, pull out. There's a guy that meets us.
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: Girlfriend's waiting at their car. We stop, I get out.
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: She goes you that guy from Instagram. I said, don't
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: do that to me. I'm podcaster, all right. Things that
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: aren't just for boys, energy.
• 23:14
  Speaker 3: Drinks, energy drinks.
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: Explain, mate, think about it. Most energy drinks branded for men.
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: It's all balls and monsters.
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: Oh that's actually so true, right, That's why Marissa created
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: Perfect Ted Healthy Energy drinks.
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: They weren't even made with us guys in mind. And
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: they slap.
• 23:31
  Speaker 3: Let me see perfect Ted Healthy Energy powered by Marcher
• 23:37
  Speaker 3: all natural ingredients.
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, this looks legit, mate, They're good. That one apple
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: raspberry pretty damn good. Juicy peach? Oh my god, say less,
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: Where do I get it? Coles?
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: Just cals, get stocked up, bro, I'm going to add
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: He's up next is the lemmas. If you want to
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: get your dilema I read it is link in the
• 24:01
  Speaker 3: description or link in bio on Instagram. Scroll at the
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: bottom says dilemmas. But Jake, I fucked up almost. I
• 24:10
  Speaker 3: reckon this would have been the worst fuck up. We've
• 24:13
  Speaker 3: stuffed up a few times upon the three years of
• 24:16
  Speaker 3: doing this, but I reckon this would have been the
• 24:18
  Speaker 3: worst fuck up of all time. What So, to me,
• 24:22
  Speaker 3: the worst fuck up is like, I hate it, hate it,
• 24:25
  Speaker 3: hate it when we accidentally click record on something.
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: Also when we accidentally don't click record on something.
• 24:31
  Speaker 3: Now, I reckon, this is worse. So this document that
• 24:33
  Speaker 3: I just talked about, the Dilemma's document, is three years
• 24:36
  Speaker 3: old pretty much. So my emails started to bounce the
• 24:40
  Speaker 3: other day because I ran our space of the fifteen
• 24:44
  Speaker 3: gigs and I was like, what the fuck do I
• 24:47
  Speaker 3: have fifteen gigs being used up on Google Drive because
• 24:51
  Speaker 3: we use dropbox for the podcast. So I went on
• 24:53
  Speaker 3: my drive and I'm like, let's just fucking delete everything.
• 24:55
  Speaker 3: I haven't been on here in years. And then I
• 24:57
  Speaker 3: go on there and delete everything. And then when I
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: was scheduling the episode that came out and went to
• 25:02
  Speaker 3: go do dilemmas and I'm like, I go on my
• 25:04
  Speaker 3: Google forms and I'm.
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: Like, where the fuck is it?
• 25:08
  Speaker 3: And I'm like, where the fuck is dilemmas? And this
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: is this has over three thousand, five hundred dilemmas on it,
• 25:14
  Speaker 3: and I'm like, where where the fuck is this? And
• 25:16
  Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, no, I deleted I forgot. They're all connected.
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: That's also this dilemmas Patreon dilemmas sign off the episode
• 25:25
  Speaker 3: and there was one more yeah, And then I also thought,
• 25:30
  Speaker 3: I'm like every single episode that I've linked that means
• 25:33
  Speaker 3: the links won't work in there anymore. So not only
• 25:35
  Speaker 3: do we lose the fucking file, also every single link
• 25:38
  Speaker 3: for the past three years won't work.
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: Had you was like genuine feeling when you realize this
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: day you thought you'd done this.
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: My stomach dropped and I'm like, there's no way. We
• 25:46
  Speaker 3: have to make a new one. And I was like,
• 25:48
  Speaker 3: please be a trash. And I told you midweek that
• 25:51
  Speaker 3: something corrupt because I didn't want tell you because I
• 25:53
  Speaker 3: want to. I wanted to tell you on here. The
• 25:55
  Speaker 3: corruption was my brain. And then I went out there
• 25:58
  Speaker 3: in the trash and I went through and I could
• 26:00
  Speaker 3: restore all of them, and I was like, thank the Lord, Oh.
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: My god, so you actually did throw them out, though.
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: Yes, threw out. I threw them out because I just
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: deleted everything undry years bro, I said, I just selected everything,
• 26:12
  Speaker 3: didn't read a single thing, and click delete. Holy show.
• 26:16
  Speaker 3: Restored it, and then I went back onto it because
• 26:18
  Speaker 3: for some reason, we have a business email, and then
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: when we started, we probably didn't even have the business
• 26:21
  Speaker 3: email connected to it. So I was like, oh, fire out,
• 26:24
  Speaker 3: So I'm just gonna have to pay for more drive
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: the business. Yeah, But I was like, but I was
• 26:29
  Speaker 3: on principle, like I'm not using this shit a pin
• 26:32
  Speaker 3: for it.
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: It's like, I think it's like six bucks a month.
• 26:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but we would pay for drop Box. And I
• 26:36
  Speaker 3: was like, that was almost the worst fuck up ever, Dude,
• 26:39
  Speaker 3: that's fine. That would have been bad. Eh.
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: So basically going off that, that's actually a good segue. So, baddies,
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: we're gonna went out to cheeky little excuse me, extra
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: free episode. You know, we usually chuck something like this
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: on Patreon five dollars a month and whatever. We're giving
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: it to you for free on Wednesdays. Starting from the Wednesday
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: coming we're going to be posting a dilemmas episode or
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: it could be a confession session confession session episode, it
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: could be a stimulated whatever feeling that week. Now, So
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: the Dilemma's episodes that are coming out on the Wednesday,
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: they're going to be themed. I will be asking on
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: the Instagram story each week to bring in your dilemmas
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: and then these ones are going to be staying the same,
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: so same link, same everything. These ones are just whatever
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: dilemma you've got going. So if you see a story
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: and you have a current dilemma, that you've wanted to
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: submit then, and it falls under that category that I
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: put up.
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: It's all for free or for free on this episode.
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: So what I was going to say was I should
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: use the relatables email because do we have storage on
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: that one?
• 27:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: I think so use Roletto's email to make the link
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: to it.
• 27:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, cool. Anyway, ask actually, have you ever in
• 27:58
  Speaker 3: the three years we've been doing this made a Google
• 28:01
  Speaker 3: form for this podcast? No?
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: I don't know how. I actually don't know how. So
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: when I said.
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: I, I actually what I meant, I that single one
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: letter and word I translate to will be relegating to ay.
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: To create a Google.
• 28:18
  Speaker 3: Alright, let me kick things off. Okay, mine's juice title.
• 28:23
  Speaker 3: My mum recently started dating my boyfriend's dad. Soh my god.
• 28:29
  Speaker 3: My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now.
• 28:32
  Speaker 3: It's not some high school fling or some short term thing.
• 28:35
  Speaker 3: We're generally serious about each other. And then a few
• 28:38
  Speaker 3: months ago our parents met through us and they recently
• 28:41
  Speaker 3: hit it off. At first we thought it was kind
• 28:44
  Speaker 3: of funny and harmless, but now it's turned into something real.
• 28:48
  Speaker 3: They go on dates, they stay over at each other's house,
• 28:52
  Speaker 3: and it's getting to the point where it's clear they
• 28:54
  Speaker 3: might actually end up together long term. Now here's where
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: it gets awkward. If they do stay together, my boyfriend
• 29:05
  Speaker 3: and I would technically become step siblings. People keep making
• 29:10
  Speaker 3: comments about how weird it is, and honestly, it's starting
• 29:13
  Speaker 3: to get in my head. We didn't do anything wrong,
• 29:16
  Speaker 3: we were together first, but I can't help it feel
• 29:18
  Speaker 3: like we're living in some twisted family drama. So my
• 29:22
  Speaker 3: question is is it actually wrong to keep dating him
• 29:25
  Speaker 3: if our parents do end up together. Are we crossing
• 29:28
  Speaker 3: some moral line here? Or are people just making it
• 29:31
  Speaker 3: weirder than it really is? Should one of us end
• 29:34
  Speaker 3: it before things get even messier? Or do we just
• 29:36
  Speaker 3: keep doing what makes us happy and ignore everyone else.
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: That is, hands down the craziest dilemma is that real?
• 29:49
  Speaker 2: That has to be real? How could you make that up?
• 29:51
  Speaker 3: Honestly, I would be.
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: Pissed, first of all, selfish from the parents.
• 29:57
  Speaker 3: I'd be so selfish, all right. I'll be thinking they're like, oh,
• 30:01
  Speaker 3: this isn't serious. We can like move things further a
• 30:04
  Speaker 3: little bit. They're only twenty, We're fucking fifty. We need this.
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: Can I give bad advice? Before I give maybe good
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: or just different.
• 30:14
  Speaker 3: Advice luke warm advice.
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, My bad advice is break up with your boyfriend.
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: All right, you guys break up, Let your parents get together,
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: get married. You guys are step brother stepsister, all right,
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: just have some of that crazy step bro steps is
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: fantasy sex or is that just.
• 30:33
  Speaker 2: A guy thing from like fucking corn corn corn. I
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: don't want to say the actual words.
• 30:40
  Speaker 3: I think it's just a guy that's not a girl thing.
• 30:43
  Speaker 3: And also I think the fact that they were already
• 30:46
  Speaker 3: dating before it makes it worse. O.
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: Wait, this is actually crazy. Yeah, don't don't take that.
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: That's just like something that pop to mastro. But I
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: would be living at my back my dad or my mom. Yeah,
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: so I'd be given ultimatums.
• 31:01
  Speaker 3: I would be the easiest answer right here is telling
• 31:04
  Speaker 3: your parents that this is not on. We were here first,
• 31:08
  Speaker 3: fuck off, Like you guys have had a life. Yeah right,
• 31:11
  Speaker 3: we want to live ours.
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: We break up by all means whatever, But don't then
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: fucking don't you dare think about doing this?
• 31:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah, like this was my thing, don't you dare enter
• 31:22
  Speaker 3: into it?
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: Hey?
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: I actually, to be fair, I reckon if I saw
• 31:26
  Speaker 3: a future with my girlfriend, like I wanted to marry them,
• 31:30
  Speaker 3: which I think this person is. I would say to
• 31:32
  Speaker 3: my dad or mum, like, I'm not going to talk
• 31:34
  Speaker 3: to you if you keep seeing their dad.
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: I would give an aultimatum.
• 31:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd be like, it's either if it's my dad,
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: it's head to my dad. It's either you and I
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: have a relationship, all right, or we don't have a relationship.
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: Black and white, all right. I'm not arguing with you
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: about it. I don't give a fuck about how you
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: feel about it, because there's eight billion other people in
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: the world. Figure it out.
• 31:57
  Speaker 3: What if he's like, you know, I haven't moved on
• 32:00
  Speaker 3: from your mother in like ten years. This is the
• 32:03
  Speaker 3: first girl I've actually seen a future with.
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: To someone else, the first your hand, your bag, fuck off,
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: get out of my relationship.
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: That's insane. Now, that makes us what the fuck?
• 32:17
  Speaker 3: That's how I would be acting to. I would be
• 32:19
  Speaker 3: lived and I would stand on business to a Yeah,
• 32:22
  Speaker 3: ultimatum would be given. Wait, so you did a nice thing, right,
• 32:28
  Speaker 3: You wanted to bring your families closer together. You guys
• 32:30
  Speaker 3: are taking shit serious, right, So you introduce your parent
• 32:32
  Speaker 3: obviously both you know they're both single, introduce them the
• 32:36
  Speaker 3: first time they hang out one on one, and I
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: find out the ultimatums getting.
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: Dropped first time the first time.
• 32:43
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'd also be like, what are you doing your own?
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: I would also be like, dad, that's so embarrassing. Yeah,
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: I'd be like, seriously sorted out. That is so embarrassing
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: all your life dude. Also, I feel like when you
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: become a parent, you become a parent first. That should
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: allays come first over getting with someone else.
• 33:03
  Speaker 3: Agreed, Yeah, agreed.
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's actually such a good point. When you become
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: a parent, is it, it's your children's happiness first and
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: then yours.
• 33:14
  Speaker 2: Is that that's like rule of thumb? Yeah, well I
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: think it's that crazy?
• 33:17
  Speaker 3: Is that rules? So I think if the decision is
• 33:19
  Speaker 3: child's happiness, getting my dick wet, I think it's an
• 33:24
  Speaker 3: easy decision. It's a good point.
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: Now we're slowly focusing on the boyfriend's POV, so we're
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: thinking aboutur dads, right, what about her and her mom?
• 33:33
  Speaker 3: Okay, let me think about this. I feel like it's
• 33:39
  Speaker 3: worse because you go you can find in your mum
• 33:42
  Speaker 3: about your relationship with your part.
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: Very often have a closer relationship with your mom.
• 33:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and she's kind of abbused that because she would
• 33:50
  Speaker 3: know like to be fair, not to be to be fair,
• 33:52
  Speaker 3: that's not the right word. The dad and son relationship.
• 33:55
  Speaker 3: He doesn't know how of how much of a connection
• 33:58
  Speaker 3: this means to you. But a mum and her daughter,
• 34:01
  Speaker 3: she should know how much this connection means to you.
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: This is narcissism behavior to me. Narcissism behavior. I'm terrified
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: of this. Yeah, that's scary.
• 34:09
  Speaker 3: I think that's a simple solution. And you should stand
• 34:11
  Speaker 3: on business and you're not for you you were considering
• 34:13
  Speaker 3: and breaking up with your partner for your parents' sake
• 34:16
  Speaker 3: or because it's weird. No, fuck that fuck damn.
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: All I'm saying is that that initial time they first
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: hang out, deltamatums coming out, I would say like, you
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: better fucking fix your shit. Yeah, and I would be like, dude,
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: that is so embarrassing. I would I would be little him. Yeah,
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: belittle my mum too.
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: That is so embarrassing.
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: It shows like true colors a little bit.
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's fraw. I'm so sorry. Okay, I thought mine
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: was kind of good. That was crazy.
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: Anyway, mine's got a good title too. Help, I don't
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: want to fuck my boyfriend?
• 34:50
  Speaker 3: Oh shit? Does it start with I love my boyfriend
• 34:55
  Speaker 3: so much? It's tall, handsome, funny.
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: But doesn't even say that. Okay.
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: So I started dating a guy a month or so ago.
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: I like him a lot for his personality. I've been
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: able to have conversations with him that it's taken me
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: years to have in the past. I feel truly emotionally
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: safe with him, like no conversation is off the cards.
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: We have a lot of similar interests too, but I
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: don't find myself wanting to, as some of the baddies
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: would say, rip off his shirt and break the buttons open.
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: I remember when someone said were saying, don't do that.
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: It's clear that he wants me in that way, and
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: I feel guilty that I'm taking it, sorry not taking it,
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: that I'm faking it.
• 35:38
  Speaker 3: Oh?
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: Is this normal?
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: Should I be concerned that I feel this way so
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: early on? Do I just need time to warm up
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: considering I have some trauma in this area. Please help
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: a girl out.
• 35:49
  Speaker 3: I beg I feel like this is relatable too, and
• 35:54
  Speaker 3: it comes back to comparison, and she's obviously comparing her
• 35:57
  Speaker 3: relationship to other relationships. It's hard though, because are you
• 36:01
  Speaker 3: comparing it to others or are you comparing it to
• 36:04
  Speaker 3: what he wants.
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: I mean, it sounds like you're just not attracted to
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: the guy.
• 36:09
  Speaker 3: But no, it's also it could come back to being
• 36:11
  Speaker 3: asexual or not. Like it's a good point to sex
• 36:14
  Speaker 3: that much, and.
• 36:15
  Speaker 2: Especially with trauma in the past, I never know what
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: bring what like, what it's going to do to you.
• 36:20
  Speaker 3: It's good that you specify how good he is it
• 36:22
  Speaker 3: talking and you feel emotionally safe, because that's step one,
• 36:26
  Speaker 3: because you just need to tell him how you feel because.
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: Or I just that's that would be so hard to hear.
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: Like I don't know if this is an insecure thing.
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: Or anything like that.
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: But if my girlfriend came to me and she said,
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: I just fucking love everything about you, you know, I like
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: everything about you. You make me feel emotionally safe. You know,
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: I haven't been able to do this for years x
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: y Z, but I just you just don't turn me on.
• 36:51
  Speaker 3: No, No, that's not what you say. Okay, because I.
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: Was gonna say, like I would just be I would
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: think I'd be doing I think I would be doing
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: her a favor by saying I really appreciate you saying that.
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: First of all, I'll check a little bit, but then
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: obviously we can end it like I don't want you
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: feel guilty.
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: I don't want to force yourself.
• 37:07
  Speaker 3: Well, she needs to ask herself if it's he doesn't
• 37:11
  Speaker 3: turn her on or I'm not turned on, because if
• 37:14
  Speaker 3: she said all those things, you're a perfect boyfriend. True,
• 37:17
  Speaker 3: But I'm not getting horny at the moment, I'm at all.
• 37:22
  Speaker 3: I'm not into sex and it's nothing on you. Yeah,
• 37:24
  Speaker 3: I'm just in a stage in my life where does
• 37:27
  Speaker 3: she not want to rip anyone's shirt off? Or yeah,
• 37:29
  Speaker 3: you going on like the gym and thinking there's a
• 37:31
  Speaker 3: hot dude there and you want to do that. I
• 37:32
  Speaker 3: want to rip his shirt off because that's a problem.
• 37:33
  Speaker 3: But if you're not turned on by anyone, I think
• 37:36
  Speaker 3: it's okay.
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: Damn bro, that's a good point because some if.
• 37:40
  Speaker 3: My girlfriend came to me and it also there's so
• 37:42
  Speaker 3: many determines, hormonal factors, life, what's going on, how stress
• 37:46
  Speaker 3: you are, your mental health, it could be that many
• 37:49
  Speaker 3: different things, and you go through all the steps together
• 37:51
  Speaker 3: and get through it. And also because you never want
• 37:53
  Speaker 3: to have sex with him because he wants it and
• 37:56
  Speaker 3: you don't because you'll begin to resent him and he's
• 38:00
  Speaker 3: but know as to how you're feeling, because you never
• 38:02
  Speaker 3: ever want to have sex with someone just because you think.
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: They want it. Yeah, and you're just doing it because
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: you feel as though that's because they want it, like
• 38:08
  Speaker 2: you should be doing it.
• 38:09
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, that's not the right reason to have sex.
• 38:11
  Speaker 3: It's because you are attracted to him and you feel
• 38:14
  Speaker 3: like you want to have sex. Yeah, you want to
• 38:16
  Speaker 3: get that emotional yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, fucking yeah. And
• 38:20
  Speaker 3: I think that's where a lot of people do go
• 38:22
  Speaker 3: wrong in a relationship. They have sex out of what
• 38:24
  Speaker 3: they think the counterpart wants. Oh drop. So the simple
• 38:30
  Speaker 3: answer is ask yourself if you're not turned on by anyone,
• 38:33
  Speaker 3: or is it just him?
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: Because also, fucking good point. Didn't think of that.
• 38:36
  Speaker 3: Also, you might just be like, he's allowed to be perfect,
• 38:38
  Speaker 3: but he's not hot, and that's fine. It sounds shallow,
• 38:41
  Speaker 3: but it's not like you need to be attracted to
• 38:43
  Speaker 3: someone to be with them.
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: That's a good point, man. I feel like that's.
• 38:46
  Speaker 3: Where people go wrong with I'm not wrong. Wrong is
• 38:49
  Speaker 3: in the right word. People struggle to break up with
• 38:52
  Speaker 3: someone or realize this isn't right purely ever looks because
• 38:56
  Speaker 3: it sounds shallow at face value, and I don't think
• 38:58
  Speaker 3: it is.
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, like people would judge you for it.
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: But it's also like, okay, what would you do if
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: you're in that situation? Yeah, he's gonna do it makes
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: you happy?
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: I like that that you're gonna ask yourself, am I
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: literally just not turned on by anyone? Or am I
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: just not turned on by him?
• 39:14
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: And it's a great place to start.
• 39:16
  Speaker 3: There's so many steps too. We talked about it, like
• 39:18
  Speaker 3: a couple of episodes to getting turned on and turning
• 39:21
  Speaker 3: yourself on or be in this be in a situation
• 39:24
  Speaker 3: where you could be turned on.
• 39:25
  Speaker 2: Man four place starts in the morning.
• 39:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah exactly, And that conversation could start
• 39:31
  Speaker 3: with I want you to tell me how beautiful I
• 39:32
  Speaker 3: am when I'm leaving, give me a kiss, slap my
• 39:34
  Speaker 3: bum if that's what you're like, like, stuff like that,
• 39:36
  Speaker 3: what's appropriate to you?
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: Slap him in the faces?
• 39:39
  Speaker 3: Us twelve hours twelve hours early because if he just
• 39:42
  Speaker 3: kisses you once and then goes do you want to
• 39:43
  Speaker 3: have sex? And you're like, well, I'm not turned on
• 39:45
  Speaker 3: and we'll be like, well, fair, that's actually valid.
• 39:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like, there's no wonder you don't want to
• 39:48
  Speaker 2: rip his shirt off?
• 39:49
  Speaker 3: Want to die on me? First, Let's talk about the
• 39:51
  Speaker 3: positions you want to do, like fucking.
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: Like get me heated?
• 39:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah, let me think about it for half an hour,
• 39:57
  Speaker 3: how much I want to Maybe he can't.
• 39:58
  Speaker 2: He'll come before it even happens. Go again, No, valid,
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: I like that.
• 40:04
  Speaker 3: That's actually so Valid's start with that. Yeah, bad is up?
• 40:13
  Speaker 3: Next is ig question of the Week and Jake, this
• 40:16
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• 40:20
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• 40:21
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• 40:25
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• 40:29
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• 40:31
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• 40:35
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• 40:39
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• 40:42
  Speaker 2: someone was wanting to do it and.
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: Saying you yeah, I'd be like, I like that before
• 40:51
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• 41:05
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• 41:25
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• 41:30
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• 41:32
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• 41:33
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• 41:45
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• 41:47
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• 41:47
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• 41:51
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• 41:54
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• 41:56
  Speaker 1: And fucking taggers and your hot girl walks. We want
• 41:58
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• 41:59
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• 42:01
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• 42:04
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• 42:06
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• 42:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, technical batty shit. Okay.
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: Things men do that make you say, I wa, this
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: one hurt me because I do it and.
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: I know you would do it.
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: Okay, Okay.
• 42:20
  Speaker 2: When they have a sore throat and try to swallow,
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: but they move their whole head with the swallow to
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: show that they're in pain.
• 42:28
  Speaker 3: Show me some sympathy. Oh, I so do that, bro,
• 42:34
  Speaker 3: I so do that.
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: That is you too, because you're trying to like it's
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: almost like you're trying to not let a part of
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: your throat move because when it moves, that's when it hurts.
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: You're trying to just let it like I'm trying to
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: throw the spit back there or.
• 42:48
  Speaker 3: Something that what kind of hurts a little. Yeah, that
• 42:52
  Speaker 3: was me because it hurts. I so do that though,
• 42:57
  Speaker 3: And you sowed you definitely do things men do that
• 43:02
  Speaker 3: make you say ooh thinking that house chores are only
• 43:05
  Speaker 3: for women. Oh my god, that.
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: I saw one that I said, quote like a quote
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: from a man, I clean my apartment and I and
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: I cook my dinners and stuff. And then undneath they
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: were like, okay, being a normal human question Mark, it's
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: like valid, It's.
• 43:22
  Speaker 3: Like you're it's like your dating profile.
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: I have a clean apartment, Like, okay, you're a human,
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: you have actual like human fucking what's it called levels
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: of I don't know, expectations.
• 43:34
  Speaker 3: I'll tell you what. We're going to get into Love
• 43:36
  Speaker 3: Island in the next segment. Oh my, but those men
• 43:40
  Speaker 3: made me realize how men ah and how bad they are,
• 43:44
  Speaker 3: and how embarrassing it would be to be dating someone
• 43:47
  Speaker 3: like that. If that's the norm. No, I mean, like
• 43:50
  Speaker 3: fucking COI.
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you're talking about a couple of aut a couple.
• 43:54
  Speaker 3: If that's the normal. I didn't. I it's hard for us.
• 43:57
  Speaker 3: I forget men like that exist. This guy, I can't
• 44:00
  Speaker 3: be real. Is he putting on a facade but he's not.
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: I was watching it with Beth and I was kind
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: of like, I was just cringing, and I was just
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: like an episode ended and I just went, oh my God,
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: like guys like that actually do exist?
• 44:13
  Speaker 3: Yeah, And he was like things men do that make
• 44:15
  Speaker 3: you say, ooh, can I have a kiss?
• 44:18
  Speaker 2: Give me a kiss?
• 44:19
  Speaker 3: Come on? And she's like, no, give me a kiss.
• 44:21
  Speaker 2: The fact that she said no, We'll get into that lady.
• 44:24
  Speaker 3: Yeah, oh my god.
• 44:25
  Speaker 2: I was like, oh, you know what's hilarious? My next one.
• 44:32
  Speaker 2: Things men do that make you say you Kai from
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: Love Island.
• 44:38
  Speaker 3: Things men do that make you say ooh, quote, you're
• 44:40
  Speaker 3: too emotional, says the guy who punched the wall after
• 44:43
  Speaker 3: after losing a FIFA.
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: Honestly valid Yeah, so validated.
• 44:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Men have no emotions except for when it comes
• 44:56
  Speaker 3: to playing a game. Yeah, I have one about.
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: What's what are things men that? What do men do
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: that make you say you when his football team scores?
• 45:07
  Speaker 3: I saw one like that too, and they get up
• 45:10
  Speaker 3: and it's always four Australians, it's n RL. Yeah, and
• 45:14
  Speaker 3: then like they run around and ship or you're not.
• 45:16
  Speaker 2: Gonna lie guilty, like getting into a game the team
• 45:19
  Speaker 2: you want to win scores like we' scored.
• 45:22
  Speaker 3: I've never seen you do that ever.
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: I've done it when watching like a Grand Finale with
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: a group of mates, kind of like be like, I.
• 45:32
  Speaker 3: Tell you, what's made it worse is that men gamble
• 45:34
  Speaker 3: on it?
• 45:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah? No, yeah, I'm not about that.
• 45:37
  Speaker 3: I've never been a big games Cassie, my girlfriend, came
• 45:40
  Speaker 3: to me the Melbourne Cup was on. I didn't realize
• 45:42
  Speaker 3: she came back from work and she's like, oh, I
• 45:46
  Speaker 3: bet for the first time. I was like, oh yeah,
• 45:49
  Speaker 3: first time ever. And then she proceeds to tell me
• 45:51
  Speaker 3: how gambling works, and she's like, if you put more
• 45:54
  Speaker 3: money on, you win more money back. And I'm like, like, Cassie,
• 46:00
  Speaker 3: Cassie living under a fucking rock. She bet on the winner.
• 46:04
  Speaker 3: She put ten dollars down on one fifty.
• 46:05
  Speaker 2: Oh sick. Yeah, but that's where it starts.
• 46:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's where he was telling me about it. And
• 46:11
  Speaker 3: then she for the next like half an hour, she's like, oh, yeah,
• 46:13
  Speaker 3: I might doing it again. No, no, don't let her do it, Cassie, like,
• 46:16
  Speaker 3: cut your head. Yeah, this is where men start all
• 46:19
  Speaker 3: my days. I'm glad as a man, I've never been
• 46:21
  Speaker 3: able to get into gambling or the pokey suppose that's
• 46:25
  Speaker 3: gambling or betting on any type of sport, but emphasizes
• 46:27
  Speaker 3: the passion because money is involved.
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right. Anyway, here we go.
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: Here's another one that falls under this category. Things men
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: do that make you say you punching the air when
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: excited or feeling victorious.
• 46:41
  Speaker 3: No, no, I'm against that one. I feel like, if
• 46:43
  Speaker 3: you're passionate about something, like in a sense of like,
• 46:46
  Speaker 3: I don't know, you just got a job promotion. Yeah,
• 46:49
  Speaker 3: for me, let's list some emotion. Yeah, come on. Things
• 46:54
  Speaker 3: men do that make you say ooh saying hey, baby
• 46:57
  Speaker 3: girl or good girl?
• 46:59
  Speaker 2: No becos fucking girls?
• 47:01
  Speaker 3: A good one, baby girl? Baby? Why are therese you
• 47:06
  Speaker 3: not you? Maybe it's who sang it.
• 47:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it is who's saying it. Because I also saw
• 47:11
  Speaker 2: one when.
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: It said it said so things men did that you,
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: And it was when a man acts more attractive than
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: he is. Yes. So those are the type of men
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: that have like a bit too much confidence for for
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: what they portray.
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: Maybe, and they would say something like, baby girl, good girl?
• 47:30
  Speaker 3: What that song? Baby girl?
• 47:33
  Speaker 2: What's your name? Let me talk to you, Let me
• 47:36
  Speaker 2: buy you a drink.
• 47:37
  Speaker 3: I think that's how it goes.
• 47:39
  Speaker 2: I don't know if I'm saying the right. It starts
• 47:42
  Speaker 2: with a baby girl, let me come.
• 47:47
  Speaker 3: To you, let me buy you a drink.
• 47:49
  Speaker 2: That's how it goes.
• 47:50
  Speaker 3: I swear it's more like, baby girl.
• 47:53
  Speaker 2: Oh you're talking about that song?
• 47:55
  Speaker 3: You do your dance?
• 47:55
  Speaker 2: Let me see.
• 48:01
  Speaker 3: Okay, this one's fucking a punch in the face for me.
• 48:04
  Speaker 3: Things men do that make you say you having hairy toes.
• 48:08
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you do too.
• 48:11
  Speaker 2: Surely you do as well. I'm not a hairy man,
• 48:13
  Speaker 2: you know that, but sure you have to hair in
• 48:15
  Speaker 2: your toes.
• 48:15
  Speaker 3: I've got a few little like straight.
• 48:17
  Speaker 2: I have so much hair in my toes. Death makes
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: so much fun of me for this that when they
• 48:22
  Speaker 2: when I get out of the shower.
• 48:23
  Speaker 3: My big toes have a they have a part like
• 48:26
  Speaker 3: a hair, like a head of hair has a part.
• 48:27
  Speaker 2: They have a part in that that you can style
• 48:30
  Speaker 2: it crazy.
• 48:33
  Speaker 3: You should gell that shit up. Imagine walking in on
• 48:36
  Speaker 3: you like cutting trimming your toe hair. I argue this
• 48:41
  Speaker 3: is the best one things men do that make you
• 48:43
  Speaker 3: say ooh, and I'm picturing like sixty year old man
• 48:47
  Speaker 3: at work.
• 48:48
  Speaker 2: You should smile more.
• 48:50
  Speaker 3: Oh my god.
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: That's like middle aged to older men. Probably even younger
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: men do it too, but Bets said it's super common.
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: It's like working in hospitality.
• 49:01
  Speaker 3: Yeah, oh my god, going off that you were prettier
• 49:05
  Speaker 3: if you smiled.
• 49:09
  Speaker 2: There should be times where you're allowed to physically assault someone.
• 49:13
  Speaker 2: And then when the police ask, and then they say why,
• 49:16
  Speaker 2: they say, oh, he said I should smile more.
• 49:19
  Speaker 3: And then they go, oh, Valley.
• 49:21
  Speaker 2: You should be able to physically assault someone after that.
• 49:24
  Speaker 3: Oh my god.
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: Agree things men do that makes that you not use
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: wet wipes for their butt?
• 49:31
  Speaker 3: Wait a minute, Wait a minute, who's doing that? I
• 49:34
  Speaker 3: remember when we went on our camping extravaganza up the
• 49:38
  Speaker 3: East Coast of Australia. Those wet wipes. I think you
• 49:40
  Speaker 3: introduced me to them because you're doing your number two
• 49:43
  Speaker 3: is in the bush. You don't want to put too
• 49:46
  Speaker 3: much toilet paper there because you have to like bury
• 49:48
  Speaker 3: it or like take away some biogradable wet wipes. Yeah, bro,
• 49:52
  Speaker 3: we were clean. That was a baby's bum I got
• 49:55
  Speaker 3: I but you don't do it.
• 49:56
  Speaker 2: At home for the lack of showering. It was the
• 49:59
  Speaker 2: cleanest my button ever.
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: It's a crazy thing to say, but okay, I chose
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: this one because I don't do this, because who's gonna
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: do that? But also, here's another thing is I was
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: listening to a podcast the other day and someone told
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: told me one of them told the other post that
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: they have flushable wet wipes.
• 50:19
  Speaker 3: I've seen them.
• 50:21
  Speaker 2: Interesting, Let's be real, it's like a jungle down there. Yeah,
• 50:25
  Speaker 2: it's probably would be better.
• 50:26
  Speaker 3: Yeah, no dingle berries. Can I ask you a question,
• 50:28
  Speaker 3: how do you wipe?
• 50:29
  Speaker 2: I'm really like, I go, I go, what do you do?
• 50:34
  Speaker 3: So? I, for some reason, I used to be a standard.
• 50:38
  Speaker 3: You know what's crazy is I knew that and I
• 50:40
  Speaker 3: remember giving a ship for No.
• 50:41
  Speaker 2: No, no, I don't know what change me. Something changed me,
• 50:45
  Speaker 2: But I don't tell me. You go like this now?
• 50:47
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I go middle. You don't, No, you don't. I
• 50:51
  Speaker 3: used to be a standard out the back. Go back
• 50:54
  Speaker 3: to it, half squad, go back to it. But now
• 50:56
  Speaker 3: I'm a middle. It's the best thing.
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: No, no, it's not because you want to know why?
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: Because I my mom. My mom taught me how to
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: wipe my bum right as all mums do now. She
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: taught me the way she was taught.
• 51:09
  Speaker 2: And it was that.
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: When my balls dropped. All right, the first time I
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: got pull on my balls, I switched up.
• 51:19
  Speaker 2: I'm telling you, now, what do you do with them?
• 51:22
  Speaker 3: Then there's a massive gap between your nuts and your
• 51:25
  Speaker 3: ask ask.
• 51:26
  Speaker 2: What do you do with your balls? There's no way
• 51:29
  Speaker 2: you aren't spreadshit up into your taint.
• 51:31
  Speaker 3: No, you just just go there and stop.
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: Me.
• 51:36
  Speaker 3: Let me, let me. I'm feeling like my subconscious has
• 51:38
  Speaker 3: been taken over. Let me have a bit of a
• 51:40
  Speaker 3: think about it next time I do it, and I'll
• 51:41
  Speaker 3: get back to you.
• 51:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, what do you do with your balls?
• 51:43
  Speaker 3: Tell me? I remember, but I'm trying to think what
• 51:45
  Speaker 3: made me change because I remember. I think I've told
• 51:49
  Speaker 3: this before, but when I was in Greece playing futsalol,
• 51:53
  Speaker 3: We're on like a soccer camp, a football camp or whatever,
• 51:56
  Speaker 3: and all the boys were sucking around when I was
• 51:57
  Speaker 3: taking a ship, and they like got into the bathroom
• 51:59
  Speaker 3: and were standing wiping, and then someone said like, oh,
• 52:02
  Speaker 3: why you're standing? And I was like, oh, I was like,
• 52:05
  Speaker 3: because I think I was sixteen or sevent eight, I
• 52:06
  Speaker 3: was like, oh, I was trying to close the door
• 52:08
  Speaker 3: on is because.
• 52:09
  Speaker 2: It's so easily influenceable.
• 52:11
  Speaker 3: You're like, because I was embarrassed that I was standing
• 52:13
  Speaker 3: when I was wiping.
• 52:17
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, Okay, I think it's your term.
• 52:21
  Speaker 3: Things men do that make you say ooh, No knowledge
• 52:25
  Speaker 3: of the female body other than where to put their d.
• 52:29
  Speaker 2: Yes fair, Hey, I know, last couple weeks I spoken
• 52:32
  Speaker 2: with her.
• 52:33
  Speaker 1: I don't know where the clid is and stuff like that,
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: but I do have other knowledge of the female body.
• 52:36
  Speaker 2: I will give you that. The women's body. Yeah.
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: People don't like when we say female yeah women, okay.
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: Things men do the mixed you when you just want
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: to complain about something, but they give you a solution.
• 52:48
  Speaker 3: Ah, just be there to support me. I don't want solutions.
• 52:51
  Speaker 3: I don't want logic. Yeah, okay, this is my last one.
• 52:55
  Speaker 3: Can you be the girl in this scenario?
• 52:58
  Speaker 2: Sure?
• 52:59
  Speaker 3: Okay. Things men do that make you say.
• 53:03
  Speaker 2: Where's my hug at?
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: Oh oh, I'd say, yeah, come here, throat.
• 53:14
  Speaker 2: Like a throat jab would do. I think that would
• 53:16
  Speaker 2: do it effect if you hit the Adam's apple, that
• 53:18
  Speaker 2: would broat jabs can suck up. I would like I
• 53:21
  Speaker 2: would want to clap they.
• 53:23
  Speaker 3: I'm more of like a karate kick type dude.
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: Throat jab Yeah, it's good response to me.
• 53:29
  Speaker 3: I feel like girls with the right height to get
• 53:30
  Speaker 3: the angle of trajectory to go straight in the neck
• 53:33
  Speaker 3: where it's like I'm a bit like you're right, yeah, yeah.
• 53:36
  Speaker 2: Where's my hug at? What's a good thing to like
• 53:39
  Speaker 2: shatter some some.
• 53:40
  Speaker 3: Where's my hugger? And then you could say, I don't
• 53:44
  Speaker 3: know where's.
• 53:45
  Speaker 2: My didn't you get one from them on the way?
• 53:51
  Speaker 3: That's actually good? Last one?
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: I don't know if you'd get this. But I get this,
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: and it's embarrassing. I'm not gonna lie things men do
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: that makes that you belly button fluff.
• 54:00
  Speaker 3: I don't get that belly button because you have hair there. Yeah,
• 54:05
  Speaker 3: I get.
• 54:05
  Speaker 2: I get Hello Li into my belly button.
• 54:06
  Speaker 3: It's crazy.
• 54:07
  Speaker 2: Actually, it's actually comical. It's like animation comical.
• 54:10
  Speaker 3: People used to give me a ship because like, I
• 54:12
  Speaker 3: can't grow a beard or a bustache.
• 54:14
  Speaker 2: I'm blessed, ye jealous.
• 54:15
  Speaker 3: I don't shave ship. Yeah yeah, I'm not a hairy dude.
• 54:18
  Speaker 2: I've been so lazy lately. I just buzz it down
• 54:20
  Speaker 2: to this level.
• 54:20
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't be bothered. I kind of like you
• 54:23
  Speaker 3: with hair like that. Thank you.
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: I was thinking, was you know I was gas like myself,
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: think like Andrew Winchester vibes.
• 54:31
  Speaker 3: Fucking let's go start calling your scruffs.
• 54:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's fucking degrading. Don't do that.
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: Moving on, man, Okay, Baddies Love Island Week two in
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: the Villa.
• 54:49
  Speaker 3: This week in the.
• 54:50
  Speaker 2: Villa, we had Kai come in Jana.
• 54:53
  Speaker 3: I wish he didn't.
• 54:55
  Speaker 2: I hate him.
• 54:56
  Speaker 3: I feel bad for Yanna same.
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: Here's why I was going to message you midweek, and
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: just like question we could talk about it now and
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: question whether or not I ethically feels wrong to support
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: the show, because one, what they did Diana, it's fucked
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: up what they did Diana.
• 55:16
  Speaker 3: She was like shaking, and also seeing how this guy
• 55:20
  Speaker 3: acts and the trauma that they've brought back into the
• 55:23
  Speaker 3: villa for her. Yeah, and the premise of the show
• 55:25
  Speaker 3: when she's trying to get with other people, Yeah, unfair,
• 55:28
  Speaker 3: they only r Yeah, so they.
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: They they surely don't know what happened to that relationship.
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: What if he was abusive? Yeah, exactly, and then he
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: walks into the villa and she's like, now stuck in
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: this villa with an abusive act. Like I was like fine,
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: I was like, what the fuck? And like he was
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: very clearly very emotionally fucking abusive.
• 55:52
  Speaker 3: Emotionally and he's very controlling, yeah, and like mentally controlling
• 55:56
  Speaker 3: of like what you can and can't do I feel.
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: And he's insecure and shit, it's he is a very
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: difficult watch. So that's where I was gonna say, like,
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: what's fucking the vertict? Do we support the show by
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: talking about it on our show? It's fucking Like.
• 56:08
  Speaker 2: I was like what the hell?
• 56:09
  Speaker 3: Ah, And before that, I was thinking Cooper was bad.
• 56:13
  Speaker 3: But although Cooper is very thick, Yeah, and I know
• 56:16
  Speaker 3: there's something this came out about Cooper where he bashed
• 56:19
  Speaker 3: a dude, Yeah at a or whatever, But he's thick
• 56:23
  Speaker 3: as fuck and dumb. But also some of his terminology
• 56:26
  Speaker 3: and mindset when this confrontation is happening happening is still correct. Yeah.
• 56:32
  Speaker 3: When he's saying this like it's up to her, dudes,
• 56:34
  Speaker 3: take a step back, she can decide whatever she wants.
• 56:37
  Speaker 3: Stop forcing her and putting in a situation that makes
• 56:39
  Speaker 3: her uncomfortable. Yeah, I was making Cooper look good. He
• 56:42
  Speaker 3: still understands it.
• 56:43
  Speaker 2: It was a very, very yeah, hard watch.
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: So I think like it's gotten a little like my
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: feelings of that it's gotten a little better. I think,
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: I don't know, like bringing it up again though, you
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: think about it.
• 57:00
  Speaker 3: A bit of last week we talked about it.
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah, So they're painting Lacey as the biggest villain. Here's
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: the thing. I genuinely was like, yeah, villain Lacey.
• 57:15
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: The only reason I said they're painting as a villain
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: is because I've seen multiple videos of people saying I
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: know Lacey and yes, she's young, obviously, like she's young,
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: immature and shit, but she is hands down the nicest
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: person I know. So they are painting as a villain.
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: But I was also then thinking, like, you know, Yana's
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: X walks in, she's shaking from anxiety.
• 57:40
  Speaker 2: Lacey sees that, and she still.
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: Goes like she she she still does the actions that
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: make her a bit of a villain, if that makes sense.
• 57:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think going behind your friends back and hooking
• 57:50
  Speaker 3: up with their ex even though you did meet three
• 57:53
  Speaker 3: days ago, is never wrong. Yeah, it's not fair. And
• 57:56
  Speaker 3: obviously the TV have the producers have played on that
• 58:00
  Speaker 3: because they're thinking this is good TV, which is annoying.
• 58:02
  Speaker 3: But yeah, I don't know, this is the first time
• 58:04
  Speaker 3: watching it. I'm kind of with you in a sense
• 58:06
  Speaker 3: of like, if everyone doesn't watch the show and doesn't
• 58:08
  Speaker 3: support it, it's not going to be a thing. Yeah,
• 58:10
  Speaker 3: and like, and it's crazy that it's the concept as
• 58:13
  Speaker 3: a whole. I can see why people watch it, but
• 58:15
  Speaker 3: supporting what they're doing to these girls slash platforming, this
• 58:20
  Speaker 3: dude also not doing I know Cooper did the action
• 58:24
  Speaker 3: of hitting someone else after the show, but he.
• 58:27
  Speaker 2: Actually did it before the show, because the show's pre recorded.
• 58:30
  Speaker 3: Do you fucking due diligence and find that shit out,
• 58:33
  Speaker 3: fucking do some retar its going on live TV. Potentially
• 58:36
  Speaker 3: having a career out of this obviously has ruined it now. Yeah,
• 58:39
  Speaker 3: but like that's taken away from a good man. You
• 58:41
  Speaker 3: could highlight, but you've got someone who has the traits
• 58:44
  Speaker 3: to hit someone. And then Ki the other dudes are nice.
• 58:48
  Speaker 2: The other dudes actually are nice.
• 58:49
  Speaker 3: We could get onto we mislabeled mick I reckon, So.
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what that's fuck talking about that? Yeah,
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: it's all about the good ones. Yeah, Connor and Isabelle
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: they are good, am I right?
• 58:59
  Speaker 3: Or actually there's a new man that's come in and
• 59:01
  Speaker 3: they bill the tail in and Isabelle's kind of like
• 59:04
  Speaker 3: but also you don't know if she's actually entertaining it
• 59:06
  Speaker 3: or they're making her say that. So there's actually a
• 59:09
  Speaker 3: little bit of entertainment there.
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: I found out something about that TP. Oh, so that
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: TP is like a little conversation TP. Right, there's a
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: producer standing right there obviously, and the camera standing right there,
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: and apparently in the tepe they manufacture those conversations.
• 59:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, fuck the shower, I think if they let it
• 59:30
  Speaker 2: flow a bit, they'll let it flow. But things like.
• 59:33
  Speaker 3: Because that made me think less of Isabelle, even though
• 59:35
  Speaker 3: her actions with Cooper after Connor sorry after we're so genuine.
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, so it's it's that's the thing is is
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: it's apparently pretty manufactured in that tepe. I don't know
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: if it's just the teepeer or the whole thing, but
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: like that TP is a very manufactured thing and.
• 59:53
  Speaker 3: Other good couples. Ross Ross is coming into his own
• 59:56
  Speaker 3: skin really like same with Shan Ross and Shan. Shan's
• 59:59
  Speaker 3: funny like Sean week one her tick, I reckon was
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 3: talking too much, so and she just said random ship.
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 2: Well, well, I don't even think she was talking too much.
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: I think that she was trying to just entertain, entertain,
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: make the show good, get a bit of personality on
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: the show, which respect.
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 2: But I think that she's actually.
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 3: Well I was trying to say, maybe not talk too much,
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 3: but like saying shit, she didn't actually believe it. Agreed, Yeah, agreed,
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 3: And I actually think now she's showing her true colors
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 3: and she's a weapon.
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 2: She's she seems very nice, very mature, very.
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 3: Same we've I like Gabby's a little bit toxic, but
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 3: I really like her.
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 2: I think Gabby's hilarious.
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and she's like standing on business. I like her. Jotham,
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 3: I like jan Tootham. It seems a bit thick.
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: The thing I like about Jotham is, in my opinion,
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: he's actually been pretty honest.
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 3: Same.
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's my vibe overall vibe.
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 3: I think he's great.
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 3: And then Mick.
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 2: Let's get on to Mick Nick Mick.
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 3: I like Mick. He's my favorite.
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 2: Now I recond we severely severely did our boy Mick wrong.
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 3: But okay, this is the producer's fault. What they made
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 3: him say portrayed him as such a bad, toxic man.
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 3: And then he comes in. He's this funny guy with
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 3: the quirkiest, coolest sense of humor, actually treats all the
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 3: women with respect. Yeah, and then he's just kind of funny.
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's hilarious.
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 3: The whole fucking omelet thing with Yanna, my god.
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: So he starts making an omelet for Yana, and then
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: Yanna's X walks in.
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 2: She's stressing, he's still making the omelet. He's like terrible timing,
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, and he's stressing about this omelet.
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: He doesn't give a fuck about like a French so
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: and so then all the girls got to have a
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: chat and she's talking about her, talking about her X cup,
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: and so he's the omot's ready.
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 2: He comes out. He goes, do you want it to me?
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 2: It was the funniest thing. She goes, no, I'm good,
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 2: I'm going good for the mode. He goes, okay, cool, cool, cool,
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 2: And he's just thinking, like he is so upset about
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 2: this omelet thing in a funny way. And so for
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 2: just the whole day he's trying to get her to
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 2: have this omelet. And then he finally Kai finally comes
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 2: upstairs and mixed there trying to get her eat this omelet,
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 2: brings it back to the kitchen and he says to Kai, mate,
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 2: you couldn't have come in a worse time. He literally
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 2: says that to him, I was like.
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 3: And then at the end of the four episodes you
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 3: get per week, two bombshells came in. What are their names?
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 2: Matao Matao.
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 3: Tamara Tomorrow. She was Irish Irish model in Melbourne and
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 3: Cooper's talking to her thinking he's putting in business putting
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 3: fucking the work in together and he walks downstairs like
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 3: have fun. Mick.
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 2: Following that, she's like, conversation is gone forever.
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 3: I feel I've been talking to Cooper for days. Oh
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 3: my god. Mick comes in asking for tig, drops it
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 3: on Cooper and ship and is this playing on Cooper's
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 3: Like Cooper's desperate because he obviously wants to survive and
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 3: he's gonna get better.
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he doesn't have a couple, and they did send
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: him a text saying, Cooper, but a couple up, we'll
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: get out.
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so he's in a tough position.
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 3: And then Mick came in and she's laughing and honestly,
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 3: Mick and what's her name?
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 2: Tomorrow Tomorrow look good together? They do.
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 3: They look good together.
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 1: The funniest part of that is so Cooper thinks he's
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: chatting her up. She's like, this is going on for
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: days and then he leaves. Ross goes, how do you
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: think it went?
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 2: Like? Do you think I reckon? He goes, oh, br
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 2: it's so on?
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And I was like, no, they've done him so dirty,
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: Like I feel bad for the embarrassment, but they've done
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: him so dirty.
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 3: And I was like, no, it's not Coop, I know,
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 3: and Mateo is obviously going to try to get Isabelle.
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 3: I haven't seen enough of him, though, I've got good,
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 3: good first impressions. Or the one thing when Sean said
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 3: something about her heart.
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 2: That was weird, Yeah, she like straight away.
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 3: That was one of the things where she was talking
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 3: to like She's like, how tall are you? Yeah, and
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 3: then he's like, doesn't look like you're sure. I was like, fuck,
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 3: and it's just like a way to heart. I saw
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 3: a video on TikTok of they measured him bang on
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 3: six foot, damn on his afro, on his afro, So
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 3: he's probably same as you, but with his broad bang
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 3: on six foot, it's not that much of an I bought,
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 3: I thought to pull up bar and all you're.
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 2: Gonna say, you bought like soule insert and an inversion table?
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 3: Is that to make it taller?
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 2: Well, I bought them.
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  Speaker 1: So I bought the pull up bar to do dead hanks, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and pull ups and ship at home if ever just
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  Speaker 1: like skipped gym, But I bought them to do dead
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  Speaker 1: hans And because I want it, I'm gonna my shoulders.
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  Speaker 2: Are a funk off out of alignment.
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  Speaker 1: And I think that's one of the reasons I get
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: mad migraines because I've been doing like a bunch of
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: research on it gives you weird knots that don't go away.
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: They give you migraines. Dead hanks really good for like
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: alignment and ship inversion table really good for lower back
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: and just all that backhouse. But at the same time
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: make a taller Gravity.
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 3: Is an inversion table where you strap yourself on and
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 3: then turn yourself upside out. Yes, that's gonna be in
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 3: your house.
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 2: It's gonna be up upstairs, on top on the roof.
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  Speaker 3: Things men do make you say, oh that it's gonna
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 3: be on the roof. Bro imagine bad like roof.
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  Speaker 2: No one goes out there.
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 3: You're upside down on the roof. Hey give me fifteen.
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  Speaker 3: All right, Well let's leave it on peak and pit
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 3: of this week of Love Island. I open the omelet
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  Speaker 3: with Mick oh one and Pitt Kai Kai can actually
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  Speaker 3: like I want him to get I reckon they The
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 3: bad thing about it as well being pre recorded, is
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  Speaker 3: they can't gauge what the audience is saying. Oh my god,
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 3: but they could if but they actually could yeah, they could.
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 3: They should be able to tell, but they if it
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  Speaker 3: wasn't recorded live, they should vote him out. Make everyone
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 3: else vote him out for being toxic. Yeah, it's not
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 3: fair on Yana or any of the.
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 2: Other guys like that.
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: That that conversation where like Lazy was talking to Cooper,
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: Ki comes over, he's done. All right, you've got five
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: minutes and shit like that's insane, very insane.
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 2: All right, bout his comments time.
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 3: If I get your comment, read oh yeah, this comment below,
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 3: and we might get to it next week.
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 2: I've got one.
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: I actually got one from Spotify because I was earlier
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: in the week. I was like going through some comments
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: and I was looking at replying to a few, and
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 1: Erica long she I want to say she did me dirty,
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: but she didn't. I'll take my medicine because she didn't
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: do me dirty. She just she just told me. What's
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: what if you use Google Maps to get you places,
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: you can use the internet to educate yourselves to get
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: your girls to the place of an orgasm?
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 3: Is that it?
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: Especially knowing that the majority of women don't reach climax
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: by just vaginal penetration, little biology lesson here.
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 2: I was like, fuck, I never said I don't make
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 2: her organs.
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 3: You were digging yourself a whole. I was just under honest.
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 3: I was just thinking, like, like, I know that spot
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 3: this is more than one g spot. Like, go do
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 3: some research and I will, like.
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 1: I here's the thing is, Like if you gave me
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: a diagram, I could tell you where it is.
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 2: What I'm telling you is I've never had, never laid
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 2: eyes on it.
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 3: And go do some research and tell us what you find. Okay,
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 3: I will next comments next week, I will Okay, my one,
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 3: I've got Spotify. Caitlin said, absolutely love the podcast. It's
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 3: a thick way to start my week. Both of these
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 3: baddies were so inspiring. I'm going to vote for Chelsea,
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 3: but Taylor was so cool as well.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 2: Now, to be fair, sorry to the baddies.
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: Was actually that's a hard choice to choose very out
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: of chasing Chelsea and Taylor. Wow.
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 3: But now it's time for one of you baddies to
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 3: sign off the episode. If you want to get called
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 3: by us, it'll be linked in the description. Today we
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 3: are calling Stella.
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 2: Hello Stella speaking Hello Stella. It's Jak and Noddy from
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 2: the Relatables.
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 3: How are you Oh my fucking no way, let's go,
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 3: yes way.
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, Hi god, how are you going so good?
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 2: What's up?
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 3: Stella?
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 2: Hi guys? I love you guys. You guys just have BADDI.
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 2: Thank you so much, Stella.
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: We would love it if you could sign off the
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 1: episode for us.
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, Okay, I've got one for you.
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 2: Ready. Would you rather want to say? Oh my god,
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 2: I can't believe we did that.
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, I can't believe we didn't do that.
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 2: Live your life. Oh yeah, guys, it's awesome you are.
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 2: Let's see you guys all the time. It's your inspiration.
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 3: Oh ship, let's go.
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 2: Thank you.
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 3: It's a coroove effort.
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 2: Thank you so much, Stella, no worries. Guys are so
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 2: good to talk cool and you. Thank you for signing up,
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 2: Thank you for answering. We hope you have a wonderful day.
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 3: You too, See you guys, mat she matched the energy.
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah you did all right to all the baddies are
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 2: stuck around. This is Hallie. Thank you for watching Stay Bad.
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 2: Say stay Bad.