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90 Day Fiancé Season 12 Episode 8 “Love Is a Work in Progress” Part 2 · Vanity Farah with Chris Farah

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to part two of this Vanity Farrah episode
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Speaker 1: talking about ninety day fiance. It's season twelve, episode eight.
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Speaker 1: Love is a work in progress. Okay, my babes, Let's
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Speaker 1: move on to Shy and Annabell. So she's making him
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Speaker 1: a smoothie, honey, and it has banana, so you know
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Speaker 1: it's good. What's a smoothie without banana? Nothing I want?
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Speaker 1: He's like, okay, let's go meet Aunt Alison at a
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Speaker 1: grocery market. I thought that was interesting and then I
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Speaker 1: was like, so he could pay for the groceries, right,
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Speaker 1: What a weird thing to think that you're like meet
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Speaker 1: up with He's worried that Allison thinks that he's neglecting her,
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Speaker 1: and we know that's a very good possibility because she
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Speaker 1: was upset about that too. Annabelle and Shay go to
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Speaker 1: this grocery market. They meet up in the produce aisle.
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Speaker 1: Now Annabelle wants to go hang out with her kids,
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Speaker 1: which makes more sense because Alison, you know, isn't the greatest.
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Speaker 1: And Alison's like, what am I going to come hang
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Speaker 1: out with you guys? And Annabelle's like, well, I can
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Speaker 1: make some chicken a dobo for you, and she's like, yeah,
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Speaker 1: just text me, I'll come over and i'll know for
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Speaker 1: the kids.
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Speaker 2: And Annabelle's like, yeah, that's why I'm not texting you.
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Speaker 1: Alison is very very quick to be like, so what
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Speaker 1: happened to that fight with you guys? And she's smiling
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Speaker 1: the entire time, and it's so funny because she literally
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Speaker 1: brings up this discussion with Angie and Annabelle and Alison's
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Speaker 1: daughter's like, mom, right looking at her, what the fuck
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Speaker 1: are you bringing this up for? But that's also Shay's face,
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Speaker 1: who's like, why are you bringing this up? What are
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Speaker 1: you doing? And Alison's like, well, just because have you
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Speaker 1: called Nicole to get her stuff out of the shed?
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Speaker 1: And Annabelle's like, what do you mean? What stuff? What shed?
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Speaker 1: And it's slipped by Alison that Nicole needed to store
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Speaker 1: some furniture and things and she is like, well, just
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Speaker 1: use a shed that's already on the property, and Nicole
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Speaker 1: was like okay, and so she did, and now Alison
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Speaker 1: either wants that shed but Anna annabel figures out that
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Speaker 1: obviously her stuff is there and that is not good.
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Speaker 1: Annabel's like, I want all of her things off my property.
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Speaker 1: I want all of her stuff out of your head.
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Speaker 1: I don't want her around physically, mentally, spiritually, not her things,
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Speaker 1: not her I don't want to have to owe her
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Speaker 1: anything or she has anything up.
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Speaker 2: On me, which is that you're housing her stuff. Now.
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Speaker 1: Annabelle is so pissed. She's like, I want the stuff
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Speaker 1: out today. So Alison's like, well, he still protects her,
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Speaker 1: and Annabelle's like, was it because he still loves you?
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Speaker 2: I'm sorry? Is it because he still loves her? And
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Speaker 2: Alison's like, what do you think. I don't know. Yes.
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Speaker 1: So they go look at this stuff and Shaye's like,
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Speaker 1: I'll text her, and then it's revealed that she hasn't
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Speaker 1: texted back yet, so Shae has to call her. And
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Speaker 1: Nicole's like, well, if you want that stuff gone, yeah,
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Speaker 1: just sell it, and so Shaye's like okay, and then
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Speaker 1: Anna Belle's like what you just say okay to do
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Speaker 1: and he's like, I'm going to just sell the things
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Speaker 1: for her and she's like, no, bitch, I said I
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Speaker 1: want her to come get her shit. I didn't say
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Speaker 1: I want you to do her another favor.
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Speaker 2: And he's like.
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Speaker 1: He likes being the guy that takes care of things.
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Speaker 1: I think that that's a way that he gets confidence
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Speaker 1: from women, Like he takes care of the bill, he
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Speaker 1: takes care of their things for them, and then he
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Speaker 1: is endeared to them in some way. That's how he
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Speaker 1: sees himself as being like a hero and how women
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Speaker 1: like you know, fall for him. Anna Belle's like, you're
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Speaker 1: only mine doing that for me. So Annabell's pissed because
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Speaker 1: he feels like Shae is lying to him, and so
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Speaker 1: she calls him a bitch and her confessionals which is true,
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Speaker 1: and goes to talk to Alison, and Allison said, well,
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Speaker 1: you know what, I'm gonna be real honest with you.
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Speaker 1: The day you came home from the Philippines. I'm sorry,
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Speaker 1: the day he came home from the Philippines and being
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Speaker 1: engaged to you. I've seen him for two years just
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Speaker 1: talk to Alison all the time, smack her butt, talk
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Speaker 1: about her body. I also heard him say that he
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Speaker 1: loves her and always will. And then Alison's like, I'm
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Speaker 1: not doing this to break up Shae and I mean
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Speaker 1: slash my dad and annabel I'm doing this woman to
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Speaker 1: woman from Annabelle to me, just because I wouldn't want
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Speaker 1: a guy to be fucking me over, like my dad
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Speaker 1: is fucking her over, and we're supposed to one hundred
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Speaker 1: percent believe that, But also we know in our hearts
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Speaker 1: that Allison doesn't want to share daddy with annabel Alison
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Speaker 1: wants things to remain like status quo, which is that
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Speaker 1: she takes care of Shay and her and Shae go drinking,
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Speaker 1: and she hasn't had any drinking time, and she doesn't
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Speaker 1: really want to drink that herbal tea.
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Speaker 2: She doesn't want to drink herbal tea.
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Speaker 1: She'll take a banana smoothie though, so make a big
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Speaker 1: batch in the morning. But another part of this is
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Speaker 1: interesting is that I want to say this, We're supposed
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Speaker 1: to believe that Shay hasn't spent any time with Alison,
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Speaker 1: But why I find that to be interesting, if not true,
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Speaker 1: is the way that Annabelle goes and like hangs out
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Speaker 1: with Alison's children, Like you know, she's like holding Allison's
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Speaker 1: little girl and stuff, and Alison's little girl is like
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Speaker 1: allowing that. So if they had only met the first night,
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Speaker 1: I don't think that both Annabelle nor Alison's child would
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Speaker 1: be so comfortable with each other. But the fact they
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Speaker 1: are comfortable with each other at this point makes me
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Speaker 1: feel like they have hung out more than we've seen,
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Speaker 1: which would make sense because Alison lives on that property,
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Speaker 1: so we have to assume that they open the door
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Speaker 1: every morning, whose kids are running around, you know, and like,
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Speaker 1: are those kids not going to come visit Grandpa like
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Speaker 1: they are?
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Speaker 2: I don't know.
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Speaker 1: I just want to bring that up because I feel
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Speaker 1: like logically that makes sense logically, but obviously it's also
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Speaker 1: this thing where Alison knows producers want Nicole to come in,
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Speaker 1: and they had teas that Nicole could just show up
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Speaker 1: at any time because it's a small town. So I
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Speaker 1: was still and I wonder why we didn't get Nicole
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Speaker 1: either at the grocery market or at the spa or
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Speaker 1: at that one bar, you know, Like it feels like
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Speaker 1: now we're setting up Nicole to come for this very
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Speaker 1: specific purpose of getting her things out of the shed.
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Speaker 1: But I would much rather see her in the wilderness
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Speaker 1: of Paduca. Like, obviously there is a lake, and shit
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Speaker 1: goes down at this lake, so I need to be
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Speaker 1: taken to the lake.
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Speaker 2: I need the story to happen at the lake. I'm
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Speaker 2: so sorry.
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Speaker 1: If you're hearing like trucks back up. That's what happens
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Speaker 1: all day long here, just trucks all the time. I
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Speaker 1: know where they're going on, honey, but they're always backing up,
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Speaker 1: you know, with that back beep on there.
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Speaker 2: I also wonder.
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Speaker 1: Why Shaye and Nicole aren't together, Like, is it because
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Speaker 1: Nicole has had.
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Speaker 2: Issues with the law? Is she like? Is it because
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Speaker 2: she cheated on her?
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Speaker 1: Because of course we got Nicole talking to Shae in
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Speaker 1: the first episode and saying that she wants to come
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Speaker 1: talk about Annabelle. But it's like, I want to know
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Speaker 1: why it didn't work out. They were married for like
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Speaker 1: two seconds. So anyway, I feel bad for annabel though
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Speaker 1: I will say spoiler alert, I think that she's still
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Speaker 1: very much in Paducah. So I don't know exactly how
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Speaker 1: one hundred percent truthful all of this in God, okay,
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Speaker 1: Malcolm and Asha, oh my goodness, gracious, what a fucking nightmare.
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Speaker 2: Okay, So.
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Speaker 1: He and her the next morning after our Dinner from Hell,
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Speaker 1: have a divide between them.
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Speaker 2: And the divide is this Malcolm.
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Speaker 1: No, his family thinks Asha is a disrespectful, spoiled brad
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Speaker 1: who wants to change him and is mean and controlling
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Speaker 1: and doesn't really love him and doesn't care enough to
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Speaker 1: show respect to his family. She's bossy, and he knows
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Speaker 1: his family not going to be into it. But he
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Speaker 1: also knows that she's bossy, and what are you going
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Speaker 1: to tell her like to do? Because the thing about
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Speaker 1: Asia is that she thinks that God works divinely through
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Speaker 1: every one of her words and acts. So have you
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Speaker 1: talk against her, You're talking against God. God is really
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Speaker 1: the only way to get to Ashia. You can't get
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Speaker 1: to Ashia. So she's upset that he didn't back her
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Speaker 1: up about like getting the whites of his eyes wider
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Speaker 1: at the dinner table, and as they're going to go
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Speaker 1: down they're obviously going to see his family again, He's like,
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Speaker 1: don't ever bring up my hair ever again, and she
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Speaker 1: like doesn't get it. She's like, we do get like
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Speaker 1: a very petulant Asia, And often her foundation in these
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Speaker 1: scenes is much too yellow. So unfortunately, if you are
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Speaker 1: going to be so hyper critical of someone, it like
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Speaker 1: invites a hyper critical eye on you. And we're like, well,
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Speaker 1: we can do some things first here. Let's stop worrying
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Speaker 1: about the speki sawdust and our brother's eye all the time.
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Speaker 2: There's this great big plank in yours. You know. I
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Speaker 2: love that saying. It's also very biblical, so it makes
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Speaker 2: sense here.
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Speaker 1: That's what I feel like. I wish they would say
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Speaker 1: to her if any way, God bless she comes down
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Speaker 1: and he's like, okay, so here's the thing. When you
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Speaker 1: see my mom and dad, please address them by sir
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Speaker 1: and madam.
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Speaker 2: She's like, hey, ma, hey, pa, They're like.
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Speaker 1: He immediately corrects her to say sir and ma'am, and
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Speaker 1: she's like, oh, sir, hi, sir, hi, ma'am. You know
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Speaker 1: why I thought this interesting is because there's this part
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Speaker 1: of I guess stereotypical Southern culture that like Southern people
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Speaker 1: are supposed to be more like chivalrous or respectful towards others,
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Speaker 1: like you know, yeah, I remember like when my cousin
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Speaker 1: would come to La or whatever, she what I was like,
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Speaker 1: thank you, ma'am, thank you sir. And my cousin Monique,
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Speaker 1: and I'd be like, what, that's crazy. And so there
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Speaker 1: is a part of me that's like, I'm surprised that Asha,
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Speaker 1: like being from the fucking South like Alabama, isn't more
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Speaker 1: like on her like decorum with elders.
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Speaker 2: But she's not.
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Speaker 1: She's seemingly super casual, and it's I think seemingly because
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Speaker 1: she feels like she has more money than him and
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Speaker 1: so they should be like respectful of her because she's
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Speaker 1: paying for this like huge Airbnb that everyone's staying at.
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Speaker 1: His mom has all of the ideas you would think
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Speaker 1: a person would have from a traditional culture, like that
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Speaker 1: women should never disobey men and very much respect men,
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Speaker 1: and also like you know, submit to them or whatever.
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Speaker 1: And she is frankly speechless over how she seen Asha
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Speaker 1: treat her beloved chosen for son. She feels like, because
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Speaker 1: he doesn't have money, she thinks it's okay just telling
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Speaker 1: him what the fuck to do, and that's not right.
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Speaker 2: Now.
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Speaker 1: In the car going to the market, we have a
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Speaker 1: cute little moment where Asha is wearing like a wearable
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Speaker 1: fan like headphones and she lets Malcolm use it for
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Speaker 1: a second.
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Speaker 2: He's like, yeah, that shit's real good, and she's like, yeah,
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Speaker 2: I know.
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Speaker 1: He's like, let's talk about my mom, and she's like,
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Speaker 1: the first time I met them, I called the mom
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Speaker 1: and dad mom pa. I don't understand why it's changed now,
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Speaker 1: and it's like, no, it never changed. It's just that
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Speaker 1: you said that and I didn't correct you, and now
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Speaker 1: I'm correcting you because.
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Speaker 2: I thought maybe it was just a fluke. But no,
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Speaker 2: like that's how it is.
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Speaker 1: She's like, well, are you dating me? Are you dating
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Speaker 1: your family? And he's like, no, I'm dating you, but
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Speaker 1: you're also dating me. Now he knows how to get
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Speaker 1: to her, which is that you can't use logic or reason.
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Speaker 1: So he's like, I just don't know of God really
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Speaker 1: wants us to be married. Now, when he says that,
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Speaker 1: she is pissed. She's like, are you confused? And he's
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Speaker 1: like yeah.
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Speaker 2: She's like, you're letting others dictate your choices. He's like, no,
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Speaker 2: I'm not.
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Speaker 1: But the thing about it is he is because he
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Speaker 1: and it's hard to understand where his own opinion lies,
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Speaker 1: because he's either allowing them to dictate his choices or her.
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Speaker 1: It is this thing where the perceived knowledge is that
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Speaker 1: without her he is not going to get to America,
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Speaker 1: and without her doing any kind of work or paying
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Speaker 1: for an anything, they wouldn't be able to be together.
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Speaker 2: And so.
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Speaker 1: Whether she is operating on top of that and therefore
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Speaker 1: would be different if she was in a relationship with
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Speaker 1: someone else who either had a bunch of financial security
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Speaker 1: or was American.
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Speaker 2: It's a little confusing.
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Speaker 1: I don't think that she's been in a lot of relationships,
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Speaker 1: but you really see someone who is intrinsically combative and
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Speaker 1: like kind of spoiled and kind of pissy. She doesn't
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Speaker 1: seem to have like an ability to hold space for
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Speaker 1: like who he is or what he wants, or how
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Speaker 1: his life is, or what would make him and his
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Speaker 1: family feet feel good.
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Speaker 2: About this situation.
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Speaker 1: She doesn't seem to think that she needs to win
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Speaker 1: over his family at all. Whether she doesn't care about
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Speaker 1: their opinion, she's kind of and that's what it feels like.
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Speaker 1: She's kind of like, listen, if the visa went through,
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Speaker 1: you would have left these people and we would never
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Speaker 1: talk to them because you'd be in America. So why
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Speaker 1: do I care about their opinions right now? I shouldn't
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Speaker 1: even be with them right now. That is like her
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Speaker 1: vantage point. So whether she thinks then that he would
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Speaker 1: be in America and then having to say yes to
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Speaker 1: anything she said, anything she wanted to change, and she
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Speaker 1: would have like no resistance against that from him nor
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Speaker 1: anyone else, is interesting A lot of her opinions are this,
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Speaker 1: whatever I say is the right thing, and if you
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Speaker 1: don't agree, you just don't know the right thing to do.
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Speaker 1: But you'll just say yes to me and then trust
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Speaker 1: it later as being the right thing for you. Because
17:12
Speaker 1: I know he obviously is embarrassed by the hair thing.
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Speaker 1: I think that he was like, listen, I can get
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Speaker 1: my skin clear, and I don't mind, you know, doing something.
17:27
Speaker 1: I wonder why, like a chemical peel was the only option,
17:30
Speaker 1: but he doesn't want to have hair transplant surgery. And
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Speaker 1: I honestly feel like it's insulting to talk about someone's
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Speaker 1: like head to toe looks in that way. And I
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Speaker 1: don't quite understand why she doesn't have someone in her
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Speaker 1: life to be like, well, how would you feel if
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Speaker 1: he told you all the things he wanted to change
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Speaker 1: about you? Like how would that make you feel? Because
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Speaker 1: I think she's a beautiful woman, besides the fact that
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Speaker 1: I do think she needs like different foundation, but like
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Speaker 1: no one's perfect, Like you know, why would you open
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Speaker 1: the door.
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Speaker 2: For a criticism of yourself? Like if.
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Speaker 1: You know you know that, like you know, there's things
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Speaker 1: we all can work on. I yeah, Like I wonder
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Speaker 1: what her end game is anyway, they fight, They go
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Speaker 1: to the market. She finds one little green number she
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Speaker 1: would like to wear. He was like, he haggles for
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Speaker 1: the price, and she's like, half of me was like.
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Speaker 2: Don't haggle.
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Speaker 1: It's so uh, we don't do that in America, and
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Speaker 1: the other half of me was like, okay, good give
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Speaker 1: me a cheaper price. We're like, oh, okay, And then
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Speaker 1: she ends up also being like should we get something
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Speaker 1: for your mom?
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Speaker 2: Now?
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Speaker 1: It's interesting because he knows the answers yes, And at
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Speaker 1: this point I'm like, okay, you have the propensity and
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Speaker 1: the ability to give her something like meaningful. But they
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Speaker 1: end up with spuying like kind of the ugliest, cheapest,
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Speaker 1: the most simple, just black and white purse. And this
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Speaker 1: outing at the market gives both sets of parents a
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Speaker 1: time to talk. The mom wants to talk to Juliette honey,
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Speaker 1: and we want Juliet to talk to the.
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Speaker 2: Mom so easily.
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Speaker 1: The mom brings up women submitting in Nigeria, and Malcolm's
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Speaker 1: mom is like, you know, it's customary for women to
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Speaker 1: submit to their husbands and to submit to men and
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Speaker 1: not have to like be loud about their opinions on everything,
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Speaker 1: and I feel like it should be this way, even if.
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Speaker 2: The man doesn't have any money.
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Speaker 1: And Juliet knows what she's saying, and Juliet's like, well,
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Speaker 1: I don't think Asha's pushing him around. I don't think
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Speaker 1: that she's doing that. And we're like, okay, well come on.
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Speaker 1: He's like, you know, she knows.
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Speaker 2: How to live in this world.
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Speaker 1: She is thirty eight, and when she drops at thirty eight,
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Speaker 1: because truly, Aisha looks really great for her age, Malcolm's
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Speaker 1: mom's like, what thirty eight so close to forty?
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Speaker 2: Oh, honey, that was the opening of a floodgate.
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Speaker 1: Because then Malcolm's parents are like, women should get married
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Speaker 1: at twenty five, twenty five, well, thirty least, this is
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Speaker 1: at the most thirty. They should be dating the person
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Speaker 1: at twenty five. They should get married at twenty seven.
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Speaker 1: They should be having kids at thirty, because there's no
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Speaker 1: way you're going to be on this earth to take
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Speaker 1: care of your children if you have them past thirty five.
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Speaker 1: No no, no, no, no, no, no no no no.
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Speaker 1: The dad's like, I'll tell you what's knocking at the door.
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Speaker 1: Menopause right there, honey. Basically, she has what four eggs left?
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Speaker 1: Is that what you're saying, she has four eggs left?
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Speaker 1: Already told you how many kids we want? One billion.
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Speaker 2: They are so upset at that she's thirty eight, which.
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Speaker 1: I I kind of unfortunately am happy about this because
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Speaker 1: I don't quite understand why Asha feels so confident and
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Speaker 1: everything that she brings to the table without any sort
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Speaker 1: of insecurity. And so if they're going to latch onto
21:46
Speaker 1: something that's going to be horrible for her, just so
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Speaker 1: that she is taught a lesson, which is that everyone
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Speaker 1: has something and to stop being hypercritical about, you know someone.
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Speaker 1: I do think that she can be brought down a peg. Also,
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Speaker 1: would God want her to face this humiliation? Would God
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Speaker 1: be like, you deserve to be made to feel less than.
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Speaker 2: I'm like, what does she want?
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Speaker 1: Does she want him to come to America and like
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Speaker 1: be a model and then for her to like live
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Speaker 1: off his modeling salary. It feels very much like she's
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Speaker 1: like a passport bro that just wants like a very
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Speaker 1: hot young piece to feel good about herself, like on
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Speaker 1: her arm. And also to further the storyline that God
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Speaker 1: has chosen her as a prophet and as a person
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Speaker 1: that gets to have a hot husband for the rest
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Speaker 1: of her life.
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Speaker 2: Like it feels kind of like this.
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Speaker 1: Way of checking something off the list that like has
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Speaker 1: deeper meaning. I would I need to know what her
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Speaker 1: dating history is, Like I know that she has that
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Speaker 1: long ass list where she wants like a small footed man,
23:12
Speaker 1: but like I would love to talk to someone who
23:14
Speaker 1: has dated.
23:15
Speaker 2: Her and like what it was like for them.
23:19
Speaker 1: But yeah, like his parents are like, you can't take
23:24
Speaker 1: our son at thirty eight, honey, our son needs a
23:28
Speaker 1: young woman with the two ovaries that are just pumping
23:32
Speaker 1: out all the things on a daily basis, pumping them
23:36
Speaker 1: eggs out. Now, Juliette's listening to this and is too
23:44
Speaker 1: unfortunately like lovely in southern to say anything that is
23:50
Speaker 1: probably in her mind, but I want to hear it.
23:54
Speaker 1: I wonder if she's just gonna go back and tell
23:56
Speaker 1: Asha what happened and then they're gonna like because Asia
23:58
Speaker 1: seems like she we'll speak her mind more than Juliette does.
24:08
Speaker 1: Juliet only speaks her mind in passing when like something
24:11
Speaker 1: comes out when you realize like is in her head,
24:13
Speaker 1: but you know, wasn't supposed to be said out loud. Okay,
24:25
Speaker 1: my loves is that all the is that all the
24:27
Speaker 1: couples that I do it? No, I didn't talk about
24:32
Speaker 1: Malaury and Rashid. Okay, So Mallory and Rashid for their segments,
24:38
Speaker 1: we're getting hardcore and like angry chick country music, which
24:41
Speaker 1: I don't mind. I really don't now. In the morning,
24:46
Speaker 1: he's doing dishes and he asks why she didn't clean
24:48
Speaker 1: up last night, and they reveal in confessionals they fight
24:52
Speaker 1: daily about cleanliness, and she's like, I don't understand why
24:56
Speaker 1: I'm I put my shit together.
24:58
Speaker 2: You know, you're just so obsessed with cleanliness.
25:00
Speaker 1: He's like, well, I just don't want you to have
25:02
Speaker 1: dirty plates in this thing for five to six days.
25:04
Speaker 1: She's like, I don't do that. And the way that
25:07
Speaker 1: he says that she's lying lets us all know.
25:10
Speaker 2: That she is lying. I love it.
25:14
Speaker 1: But they're on their way to get a bidet, okay,
25:17
Speaker 1: because he needs a bidet, and she understands and also
25:21
Speaker 1: agrees that it is cleaner.
25:23
Speaker 2: It's a cleaner way to live.
25:25
Speaker 1: And let me just say that every time they're in
25:27
Speaker 1: their confessionals.
25:28
Speaker 2: It is he's super cute.
25:33
Speaker 1: At one point, he talks about what the bidet says
25:36
Speaker 1: to him.
25:37
Speaker 2: When he walks in the room, He's.
25:38
Speaker 1: Like, welcome, muschite. You can shoot in my mouth. You know,
25:43
Speaker 1: You're just like hah. It's adorable. He really is cute,
25:46
Speaker 1: and I feel like you can really feel the love
25:47
Speaker 1: between them. They crack each other up, and that makes
25:50
Speaker 1: me feel like they like each other. Now they go
25:56
Speaker 1: to a fancy establishment and look at full day toilets,
26:01
Speaker 1: and the full bidet toilets are expensive. They range from
26:04
Speaker 1: like eleven hundred to eight hundred, but it has all.
26:07
Speaker 2: Of the fancy schmancy things.
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Speaker 1: It'll vibrate, which I thought was so funny, like, yeah,
26:12
Speaker 1: vibrate just to shake any of the loose change off,
26:16
Speaker 1: I mean what. But also the warm water, the pulsing.
26:22
Speaker 1: He is like astounded. He's like, I can't even imagine
26:26
Speaker 1: how amazing this would be. And on the way there,
26:30
Speaker 1: he had a bite of her Starbucks sandwich and she
26:35
Speaker 1: watches him and then she starts hysterically laughing because it
26:38
Speaker 1: has bacon in it.
26:39
Speaker 2: So he spits out the bacon and has to use
26:41
Speaker 2: water to like clean his mouth.
26:43
Speaker 1: I mean, he cares about his butt, He cares about
26:46
Speaker 1: his you know mouth, he says, pork doesn't clean the body,
26:50
Speaker 1: and then God says.
26:51
Speaker 2: Pork is dirty. It's just interesting that God made all these.
26:58
Speaker 1: Things and allows us to eat everything, and then which
26:59
Speaker 1: is like this one thing is dirty, because like, why
27:06
Speaker 1: wouldn't you think that, like crabs or lobsters are dirty,
27:09
Speaker 1: like you know the land I'm sorry the secretters anyway?
27:15
Speaker 2: Aren't snails dirty? I don't know? Okay.
27:18
Speaker 1: So I had also stopped by her accident location. Now
27:27
Speaker 1: this also felt producer led where he's like, I want
27:31
Speaker 1: to see it and she's like, well, I don't want
27:33
Speaker 1: to see it. I've never gone there, and he's like okay.
27:35
Speaker 1: So she does go there, and then they get out
27:37
Speaker 1: and they're just standing there and he has like a
27:39
Speaker 1: sad moment where he's like, I was so sad when
27:41
Speaker 1: this happened to you because I wasn't able to be there,
27:44
Speaker 1: and I thought to myself, if you died, I would
27:46
Speaker 1: just never get married again because I'm in love with you.
27:48
Speaker 2: And it was cute at the same time, but also
27:50
Speaker 2: I'm like, if you really loved.
27:51
Speaker 1: Someone and someone was like, I don't go back to
27:53
Speaker 1: this triggering place that I had a horrible accident at,
27:57
Speaker 1: and then it really changed the trajectory of my life.
27:59
Speaker 1: And I'm you know, somewhat PTSD about it. You wouldn't
28:03
Speaker 1: be like, okay, let's go. Then you'd be like, okay,
28:06
Speaker 1: that makes sense you and be like let's get past it,
28:10
Speaker 1: me and you. But that's what happens or whatever. And
28:13
Speaker 1: we're supposed to like be like okay with it. But
28:14
Speaker 1: then they go look at toilets, and the whole time
28:17
Speaker 1: they're looking at these toilets, and you know, she has
28:20
Speaker 1: the conversation where she's like, I'm the one paying for everything,
28:23
Speaker 1: and so I don't really want to pay money for
28:25
Speaker 1: this toilet.
28:26
Speaker 2: And then we.
28:26
Speaker 1: Realize that he's like, well, you have money because of
28:28
Speaker 1: the accident, because she, you know, had a settlement. So
28:31
Speaker 1: we're then supposed to be like, Forrashet, that's not your money.
28:34
Speaker 2: Though.
28:35
Speaker 1: The major thing on all of our minds and we're screaming,
28:38
Speaker 1: is that we want to be like, just get a tushy.
28:43
Speaker 1: Just get a fucking tushy, Get a bday seat. You
28:47
Speaker 1: don't need a whole ass toilet, you just get a
28:50
Speaker 1: B day seat, Get a tushy. There's different models. There's
28:55
Speaker 1: one that does have I think warm water, but it
28:58
Speaker 1: has to have a clug by it. You could just
29:00
Speaker 1: get the other one that just connects to your toilet,
29:04
Speaker 1: but they don't ever talk about the tushy. Instead, the
29:10
Speaker 1: only option is a whole bidet toilet, which I'm just
29:15
Speaker 1: gonna say is probably a good investment. Her place is
29:21
Speaker 1: cute and it's all like you know, modern decourse, so
29:23
Speaker 1: you know you're gonna make money on this place when
29:28
Speaker 1: you decide to sell it. And I think it's a
29:30
Speaker 1: great feature to have a bidet toilet.
29:34
Speaker 2: You can even get like a portable bidet. I don't know.
29:38
Speaker 1: I was just like, it's not just this eight hundred
29:42
Speaker 1: dollars option. There's also like a sixty dollars option that
29:47
Speaker 1: can be installed today. Okay. He also has just never
29:57
Speaker 1: lived alone because he, you know, comes from a culture
30:00
Speaker 1: where they stay with their parents until they have to
30:03
Speaker 1: you know, so he has never paid a bill, doesn't
30:05
Speaker 1: have to pay mortgage, you know, like he gets his
30:10
Speaker 1: whole life cooked and cleaned for. He does have to
30:14
Speaker 1: like give his parents money, but you know, they're all
30:16
Speaker 1: he has a bunch.
30:16
Speaker 2: Of brothers, so there's a lot of extra hands around.
30:24
Speaker 1: And she's like, yeah, but in America, you live by yourself,
30:27
Speaker 1: and you do pay all your bills, you pay your mortgage,
30:30
Speaker 1: like you do pay your taxes, and it feels like
30:33
Speaker 1: adulting happens a lot easier. And so it's sometimes difficult
30:37
Speaker 1: to discuss such things with someone who doesn't adult yet
30:41
Speaker 1: on like a hardcore American level in the sense. And
30:45
Speaker 1: I'm not saying there's this sounds like I'm saying only
30:49
Speaker 1: Americans are adults. No, it's just saying that, like when
30:52
Speaker 1: you come from a society that is like individualistic, you
30:57
Speaker 1: have to do a bunch of shit by yourself, you know,
31:00
Speaker 1: and it's not great, and it's also can be like overwhelming.
31:04
Speaker 1: You know, I don't know where Mallory's like parents are
31:09
Speaker 1: in life. We know who you know, we know her
31:15
Speaker 1: friends are around, but it's interesting we haven't really met
31:20
Speaker 1: a lot of like her parent situations, and I you know,
31:23
Speaker 1: want to know why.
31:27
Speaker 2: But yeah, he also.
31:29
Speaker 1: Bringing up her money was not a good look for him,
31:33
Speaker 1: Like if he just thinks that she's just made of
31:35
Speaker 1: dollar bills from this accident. And even if he, you know,
31:43
Speaker 1: isn't well versed on everything, anyone would know it should
31:47
Speaker 1: know at a certain age that eight hundred American dollars
31:51
Speaker 1: is a lot.
31:52
Speaker 2: It's a lot of money.
31:54
Speaker 1: It's almost one thousand dollars, only because it's like in
32:00
Speaker 1: Turkish money. If she was to say what the equivalent is,
32:03
Speaker 1: he knows that's a lot of money. Even if he
32:07
Speaker 1: was like, you have it, you would have a moment
32:09
Speaker 1: to understand, like, oh shit, eight hundred.
32:11
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I wouldn't.
32:13
Speaker 1: I was hoping it'd be like two fifty at most.
32:19
Speaker 1: I love that this salesperson is like, well, if budget's
32:23
Speaker 1: a factor we can look at. It's always interesting when
32:27
Speaker 1: salespeople don't want to admit that something's expensive or kind
32:33
Speaker 1: of wants to hint that money.
32:35
Speaker 2: Is an object. Okay, well money's no object. Well it is.
32:40
Speaker 2: Money is an object.
32:42
Speaker 1: I mean it might not be super tangible because credit
32:44
Speaker 1: cards exist or whatever, unless you're Edward and you just
32:47
Speaker 1: roll around one hundred dollar bills, but like, it is
32:50
Speaker 1: an object. You know, you sall something for the object cash.
32:55
Speaker 1: If money is no object, then why are we even
32:58
Speaker 1: talking about price?
32:59
Speaker 2: Just give it to me for fere, you know.
33:04
Speaker 1: But she's so proud of those toilets, the warming of them,
33:09
Speaker 1: the pulsating, I mean, Rashid is so excited about that
33:13
Speaker 1: fucking a day. He's like, I'm getting horny, and then
33:20
Speaker 1: when he goes and tries them honey on location, he
33:25
Speaker 1: can't get over it. A good bidet is great. It
33:30
Speaker 1: is definitely such a loving feeling to give yourself that
33:34
Speaker 1: after you BM, everything is as fresh as a daisy,
33:40
Speaker 1: and the water has a stream that is supported with
33:44
Speaker 1: high pressure, and you can move up and down and
33:46
Speaker 1: get all the crevices and then just a little dab
33:49
Speaker 1: dab is like you are freshly showered. It's that freshly
33:53
Speaker 1: showered feeling. But I mean, you can really do that
33:59
Speaker 1: with a tushi. I don't love the fact that he
34:07
Speaker 1: brings up her money and sort of tries to guilt
34:09
Speaker 1: her into buying something by being like, but I love
34:13
Speaker 1: my whole family, so you buy me this eight hundred
34:17
Speaker 1: dollar ass wiping machine. She's like, but I'm sorry, I
34:24
Speaker 1: almost lost my life for this money. I almost died
34:29
Speaker 1: because of this. I have three less feet of intestines.
34:34
Speaker 1: I hope that she has like a financial person in
34:36
Speaker 1: her life that is good with money and also like
34:41
Speaker 1: investing for her, like if she got a large sum
34:44
Speaker 1: of money, like if there is like a large principle.
34:47
Speaker 1: I certainly hope it's like in like a high yielding
34:51
Speaker 1: savings account or like no, maybe more like a vanguard
34:54
Speaker 1: or something like SMP where it has like returns, you know,
34:58
Speaker 1: because I'm hoping that she has invested it in a
35:02
Speaker 1: way where she can like live off like some of
35:05
Speaker 1: the dividends that get paid back to her because of
35:08
Speaker 1: how well it's invested.
35:11
Speaker 2: That would be like my I mean, advice for her
35:16
Speaker 2: and advice for everyone.
35:20
Speaker 1: So anyways, I immediately want to know if someone has
35:27
Speaker 1: made them get a tushy. He's online on TikTok. I
35:30
Speaker 1: saw him like doing those lives, those battles, if you will.
35:36
Speaker 1: I don't quite understand a lot of people do battles
35:39
Speaker 1: on TikTok, you know, like Florian does.
35:44
Speaker 2: It feels so weird, like.
35:45
Speaker 1: You're just supposed to go live and just hope that
35:47
Speaker 1: the people that follow you will give you more money
35:49
Speaker 1: and more likes and hearts and a timeframe than someone else,
35:55
Speaker 1: and you're just supposed to sit there and just thank them.
35:57
Speaker 2: That's so weird. But he really wants that a day,
36:01
Speaker 2: so you can go give him like some splashy emojis.
36:05
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36:50
Speaker 1: hope that you're having a really great Sunday night, Monday,
36:55
Speaker 1: or the beginning of the week. I hope that you
36:58
Speaker 1: have like fun things happening to get into that July
37:01
Speaker 1: fourth weekend.
37:02
Speaker 2: Take care of yourselves.
37:04
Speaker 1: I'm going to be watching my baby bald eagles that
37:06
Speaker 1: are in Big Bear Valley. I hope that the fireworks
37:09
Speaker 1: don't disturb them, and they're going to be fledging soon,
37:12
Speaker 1: which means they're going to be fledgling, which means they're
37:14
Speaker 1: going to fly away from their nests, which is so crazy.
37:16
Speaker 1: I watched them when they poked out of their eggs. Oh,
37:20
Speaker 1: the beauty of life, the circle of life. Okay, hand
37:29
Speaker 1: on heart. We're going to give some grace to ourselves
37:32
Speaker 1: and just be like, this is our circle of life.
37:34
Speaker 1: Nothing says life more than breath, right, So just holding
37:39
Speaker 1: our hearts, feeling our breaths, feeling our life force. Everything
37:44
Speaker 1: comes back around. Everything is happening at all times. It's
37:48
Speaker 1: not stopping for our own insecurities or worries. It's on
37:53
Speaker 1: keeping on because you know that's how life works, and
37:57
Speaker 1: therefore that's how we should work. Thoughts and worries are intangible,
38:02
Speaker 1: you know, things that change, so might as well breathe
38:10
Speaker 1: into them, let them go, as we know that life
38:12
Speaker 1: in this world pulses on just like a bidet. Okay,
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Speaker 1: two breaths.
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Speaker 2: All right, babes, take care of yourself and what another,
38:40
Speaker 2: stand up for what you believe and make heart and
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Speaker 2: I'll talk to you later. Bye,