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💎 RHOBH Recap plus Serving Dish and Amy's Vintage Segment · Drama, Darling: A Real Housewives Comedy Podcast

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  Speaker 1: Drama Darling, Drama, Darling.
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  Speaker 2: Drama Darling.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, what's up everybody? Welcome back to Drama Darling. I'm
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  Speaker 1: here with Deanna Chang. Welcome in, Deanna.
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  Speaker 2: Well, thank you so much, Amy, pleasure to be here.
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  Speaker 2: I like you in these glasses and a turtleneck.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you very much. I am enjoying the gorgeous California
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  Speaker 1: crisp chill air for today's Beverly Hills recap. All right,
• 0:42
  Speaker 1: before we get into our recap of Beverly Hills, I
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  Speaker 1: would love to do just a little serving dish, serving dish,
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  Speaker 1: shake it, shake it, shake it. First off, I saw,
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  Speaker 1: you know, when I open this up, it's really everywhere
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  Speaker 1: that Bethany frank Goal says she has stage two chronic
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  Speaker 1: kidney disease. And she says to go get all your
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  Speaker 1: blood work done. I did a little research. It looks
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  Speaker 1: like you can, you know, you can tackle this by
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  Speaker 1: medication and diet changes and things like that. I did
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  Speaker 1: not see a post that she did. I'm just seeing
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  Speaker 1: the headlines. But it looks like she her kidney function
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  Speaker 1: was coming up low. So look, I'm looking at people
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  Speaker 1: and I'm just looking at the comments. And Patti Stanger says,
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  Speaker 1: no alcohol and organic, clean diet only. Well, the irony
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  Speaker 1: is that wouldn't you just think that that's what Beth
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  Speaker 1: and He's been doing forever? I mean, she's always been
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  Speaker 1: a healthy eater for the most part. We've seen her
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  Speaker 1: cook a million things. She has been on the ground
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  Speaker 1: floor of organic and healthy. Yeah, natural, thank you natural foods. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: all right, So it'll be interesting to see more of
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  Speaker 1: her journey on this. But you know, in other news,
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  Speaker 1: you know what was flying around in the world of
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  Speaker 1: housewives last night all over my.
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  Speaker 2: Social media and Amy Well, let me.
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  Speaker 1: Tell you, Deanna, there was a little, oh, I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: a white party over at Kyle Richard's house and as
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  Speaker 1: it turns out, they were filming for Housewives Road Trip.
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  Speaker 1: There was there were things that we people were posting
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  Speaker 1: about Luanne de lis SEPs, you know, coming in on
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  Speaker 1: ah what is it called, oh, a zip line and
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  Speaker 1: singing a song as the entertainer. Would you happen to
• 2:37
  Speaker 1: know anything about this, Dana Chang?
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  Speaker 2: Look what I happened to know anything about it? Yes?
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  Speaker 1: Really? What did you know? What could you know?
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  Speaker 2: Well, listen, I will be doing a full deep dive
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  Speaker 2: when we get to that episode. But at this moment,
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  Speaker 2: I will say in shock news, in a turn of
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  Speaker 2: events that I could have never seen coming, I along
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  Speaker 2: with my husband attended the White Party.
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  Speaker 1: But are you I'm feigning like this is the first
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  Speaker 1: time I've heard, but I mean, I can't believe Deanna
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  Speaker 1: Chang was at this white party? Can you guys? Even? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: we're not going to be able to talk about it,
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  Speaker 1: but just know that our very own Deanna Chang. Deanna Chang,
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  Speaker 1: frequent co host of Drama Darling, is the co host
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  Speaker 1: and co writer of the sub Stack How to Be
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  Speaker 1: Less Old. You know the montage Queen herself was there
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  Speaker 1: in all of this glory, and this is the announcement
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  Speaker 1: it's worthy of, you know, taking a pause on this front.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, it's feels like a fever dream quite frankly,
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  Speaker 2: and I don't know that it will take me till
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  Speaker 2: it comes out, probably to process the experience, right, But yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I did. I was there, which.
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  Speaker 1: Is so weird. I think you're still in shock.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you're right.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, I'm really proud to just know you in
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  Speaker 1: this situation and I can't wait to hear more about it.
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  Speaker 1: So congratulations, congratulations.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you. Yeah, twenty twenty six, just coming.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I did say I want new and unexpected
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  Speaker 2: experiences and did you six? So yes it did. Wow,
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  Speaker 2: have been set.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so over, Amanda Rich.
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  Speaker 2: We're not gonna yeah, we won't commit your name to Francis.
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  Speaker 1: I just found the beginning of this Beverly Hills episode
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  Speaker 1: to be very relatable. Like the amount of times I
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  Speaker 1: get my key h mixed up with my four black
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  Speaker 1: luxury vehicles. Oh you just you know, like seeing Kyle
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  Speaker 1: run around and being like, oh right, the wrong keys,
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  Speaker 1: right wrong. It's hard. You know, that lifestyle is hard,
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  Speaker 1: and you get you get locked in, you get blocked
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  Speaker 1: in by all of your luxury vehicles, and it's just tough.
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  Speaker 1: You guys, Like if you only knew what it's like.
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  Speaker 1: That's a perfect example of you know, my life, and
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  Speaker 1: and so I just feel like that was a really
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  Speaker 1: relatable scene. And also just boxing just accessories for horses,
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  Speaker 1: you know, like again, yes, relatable. So you know, I
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  Speaker 1: joke obviously, but I love this. This is what I
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  Speaker 1: love about Beverly Hills, Like, yes, get those keys mixed up.
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  Speaker 1: You know, you have so many cars you can even
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  Speaker 1: keep track and please, let's see all the things you
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  Speaker 1: order for your horse sudden. It's great.
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  Speaker 2: This is fun, you know, that's what we call.
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  Speaker 1: Fun, top tier and money.
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  Speaker 2: And then we were blessed with Rachel at the.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, what goes out, what goes around comes around,
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  Speaker 1: and you know she's been there, She's gone there for years.
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  Speaker 1: This is giving, It is giving the right Chell's Zou Project,
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  Speaker 1: it is giving right Chel's Shopping Vintage. This is what
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  Speaker 1: made me fall in love with Rachel Zo, what made
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  Speaker 1: me fall in love with Bravo TV is her at
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  Speaker 1: these incredibly upscale vintage resale shops and what goes around
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  Speaker 1: comes around. I know she was there back in like
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  Speaker 1: twenty ten. And there's another place that she would frequent
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  Speaker 1: called Decades, and these stores, I mean I couldn't imagine
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  Speaker 1: going in one. I mean I would never be able
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  Speaker 1: to obviously afford anything at this point in my life.
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  Speaker 1: But of course, after I read rich Af, I will
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  Speaker 1: thank you. But oh my gosh, and I love that
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  Speaker 1: Rachel is very forward facing about the fact that is
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  Speaker 1: a complete addiction. I mean like it's a problem, like
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  Speaker 1: it's a disease. So and I get it. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: once you get to that point, I mean, how can
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  Speaker 1: you stop? How could you stop?
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  Speaker 2: Well, you can't. And also everything she showed us was phenomenal,
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  Speaker 2: like it was all that possible, gorgeous and getting to
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  Speaker 2: see it through her eyes because she knows and it's
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  Speaker 2: all Rachel stuff, you know, and it's all like and
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  Speaker 2: I I just what a perfect scene of her holding
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  Speaker 2: one last item and getting it tallied up. And the
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  Speaker 2: man in charge was like, I think you can get that,
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  Speaker 2: Like I know that ten k is about the top
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  Speaker 2: of what we should ever be doing. Yeah, in a
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  Speaker 2: single day. Yeah, yeah, yeah, And we haven't gotten there yet, right,
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  Speaker 2: So I think that gets us there. And she was
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  Speaker 2: like okay, okay, and she threw it in.
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  Speaker 1: She threw it in. Oh my god. It's so satisfying.
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  Speaker 1: You know, no one deserves it, more like she just
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  Speaker 1: deserves it. She has manifested this for her life, Like
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  Speaker 1: just watching her back in the day and what she
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  Speaker 1: did to build her career as a stylist and when
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  Speaker 1: she would get into these stores back then, you know,
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  Speaker 1: she wasn't racking up the amount that she does today,
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  Speaker 1: which is really exciting to see how she's grown her
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  Speaker 1: empire and now she's able to leave there with ten k.
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  Speaker 1: I remember when she was on the Rachel Zo project,
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  Speaker 1: it was like she could she would have to maybe
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  Speaker 1: walk out sometimes without anything and just try some stuff on.
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  Speaker 2: And don't like that for her? I don't either. She
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  Speaker 2: wanted it.
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  Speaker 1: And also she walks in and her bag is there,
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  Speaker 1: so now she has stuff in there. It's just it's exciting.
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  Speaker 1: It's exciting for her. What a wonderful revisit my journey
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  Speaker 1: with vintage clothes. It's thread up at this point. There
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  Speaker 1: actually are so several benched stores, obviously in Los Angeles,
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  Speaker 1: but there are some that are like a little bit
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  Speaker 1: more attainable, realistic things like that. You know there are
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  Speaker 1: some like that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, they're not Chanelle. Like when you're in a
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  Speaker 2: Chanell area, you know that's gonna that's the top of
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  Speaker 2: the luxury chain and the top of the resale chain,
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  Speaker 2: because nothing does better than Chanel in resale. So you're
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  Speaker 2: as high up as you can go. Right now.
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  Speaker 1: There is a place that's in Burbank that has a
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  Speaker 1: similar name. That's like what goes around comes around and.
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  Speaker 2: It Liz goes there, Oh really loves it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that place. So that I've gotten stuff
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  Speaker 1: from there, and it's on it's on Bourbank Boulevard. It's
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  Speaker 1: right near Pinocchio's, like right across the street from Pinocchio's Deli.
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  Speaker 1: So I mean talk about two of my favorite things.
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  Speaker 1: It's like this Italian deli restaurant.
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  Speaker 2: Well I know that, and I don't know if you've
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  Speaker 2: had the experience, but I believe Liz has a salesperson
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  Speaker 2: who you met at my Liz Keener. She has a
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  Speaker 2: salesperson there. Yeah, and she like has really helped her.
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  Speaker 2: Like she'll just go in and be like I need
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  Speaker 2: going to X, Y and Z wow the budget and
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  Speaker 2: she'll help her pick things.
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  Speaker 1: No, I am not. It's amazing because I don't freak
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  Speaker 1: out my store very often. But that's incredible.
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  Speaker 2: This is just like how the woman her offering Like
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  Speaker 2: it's not like, you know.
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  Speaker 1: You don't need to be on a first name basis, like, oh, she's.
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  Speaker 2: Just like super helpful really like grab things and try
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  Speaker 2: them on and knows like looks at your body and
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  Speaker 2: knows what would be good.
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  Speaker 1: Kind of thing.
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  Speaker 2: You know.
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  Speaker 1: That's really cool. I would love to be able to
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  Speaker 1: spend more time doing things like that. Yeah, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I'd like to manifest that's for myself in twenty twenty six.
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  Speaker 1: And I love putting things in my life that are
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  Speaker 1: of a vintage era. I think that it's a slippery
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  Speaker 1: slope because you know, like with my house in terms
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  Speaker 1: of decorating, I don't want to just have like all vintage.
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  Speaker 1: I would like to do a mix. And it is
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  Speaker 1: like a slippery slope because I'll find things on Facebook
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  Speaker 1: Marketplace that I'll want to get and I'm like, that's
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  Speaker 1: just too far, Like you can't get this, like Louis
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  Speaker 1: the fourteenth chair that is upholstered in a ridiculous way
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  Speaker 1: that won't fit at all, and get the side table,
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  Speaker 1: like it's just too much so you have to balance it.
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  Speaker 1: And by the way, I'm not like getting all this stuff.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just like bookmarking it and just thinking for future.
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  Speaker 2: So Amy, you have mentioned Facebook Marketplace on the last
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  Speaker 2: five or six podcasts I've done with you.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, because I'm really you were into it now there.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know what to do. I've only I don't
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  Speaker 2: know how to search. I've never considered it, and I
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  Speaker 2: am very inspired by your Facebook market Place work.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you for acknowledging it. I feel seen and I
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  Speaker 1: want to share this, and then I know that we
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  Speaker 1: will need to move on obviously. Okay, I'm a troll,
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  Speaker 1: and I've been a troll for a long time. I've
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  Speaker 1: gotten some things on there, but like, but it starts
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  Speaker 1: with trolling, because you've got to really be on there
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  Speaker 1: to get your algorithm set and to really understand what's
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  Speaker 1: going on, what areas, areas you're willing to go in
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  Speaker 1: where you don't want to, what the scams are, things
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  Speaker 1: like that. And so the most recent thing I got
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  Speaker 1: were two pieces of art and they're very small, and
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  Speaker 1: they are unbelievably gorgeous, most Italian mosaic pieces of work,
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  Speaker 1: and I think they're of value, and I didn't pay
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  Speaker 1: as much as they are valued at for sure. I'm
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  Speaker 1: always trolling art work and so when a piece comes
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  Speaker 1: around and it's a real like it's an oil paint
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  Speaker 1: or something like that, which is what I'm looking for,
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  Speaker 1: like really authentic pieces, and I don't care if they're
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  Speaker 1: like of name, just beautiful and real. I want to
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  Speaker 1: get it. So that's where I'm at now with it.
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  Speaker 2: I love to see some snaps if you could.
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  Speaker 1: Just I will this because I got it this week.
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  Speaker 1: So I got those Italian mosaics this week. So it's fresh,
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  Speaker 1: it's fresh, fresh, fresh. I'm going to send you what
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  Speaker 1: I got.
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  Speaker 2: So and the exchange is just we're doing it by
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  Speaker 2: mail you. Now, why did I think for Facebook Marketplace,
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  Speaker 2: I had to like schlep over to someone's house, I do.
• 13:35
  Speaker 1: Oh no, yeah, it's a meetup.
• 13:37
  Speaker 2: Oh it is? It is a meetup? Yeah yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 2: so I okay, so where are we meet? Like that
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  Speaker 2: throws me?
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  Speaker 1: So, oh yeah, that's why you got to be real
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  Speaker 1: careful and that you know, typically I stay in Santa
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  Speaker 1: Clarita and it's less chance of scams. However, I might
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  Speaker 1: head on over to where'd I go? I went in
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  Speaker 1: Encino to get these mosaics. And the reason why I
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  Speaker 1: went outside of my boundaries is because of the research
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  Speaker 1: that I did. This person. I could tell they they've
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  Speaker 1: sold a lot of stuff, they have a high rating.
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  Speaker 1: It was a woman. She with the interaction that I
• 14:13
  Speaker 1: was doing with her, it was like very specific, very careful.
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  Speaker 1: She knew what she was doing. She was following up.
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  Speaker 1: We went into a Starbucks like that main strip.
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  Speaker 2: That's are we at a seven eleven or are we
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  Speaker 2: at a Starbucks.
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  Speaker 1: Star at a Starbucks, there's plenty of things around, Like
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  Speaker 1: sweet Greens was right across the way. She was like, now,
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  Speaker 1: you know, we're messaging on Facebook marketplace. You don't give
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  Speaker 1: phone numbers. You stay on the message. She's like, I
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  Speaker 1: am outside of Starbucks, in front of the CVS on
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  Speaker 1: a bench.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, you stay like message as you approach.
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you know. It's so you stay there and
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  Speaker 1: it's like you don't know what you're getting into it.
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  Speaker 1: Most times I've gone to people's houses in Santa Clarita. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'm pulling up. They come out and you have high
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  Speaker 1: cash in your hands. Hot cash. It's usually hot cash.
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  Speaker 1: It's or they will say like PayPal or Venmo. I've
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  Speaker 1: usually always done cash. I got a nineteen fifties Walnut
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  Speaker 1: magazine rack that was like fifteen dollars and it was
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  Speaker 1: in great condition and it's a beautiful piece. I'm putting
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: my daughter's like art stuff and piano books in it.
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  Speaker 1: So a kitchen bench that was Santa Clarita also went
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: to the guy's house. He brought it out. He put
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  Speaker 1: it in my car. You know, thank you. I love
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  Speaker 1: you so much, Like I could talk to you all day,
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: all freaking day. Dam I'm just trying to think of
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  Speaker 1: some of the things that I got. Oh, a couple
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  Speaker 1: other pieces of artwork. Well, went to this woman's house.
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  Speaker 1: She's actually running a little vintage boutique out of her house.
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  Speaker 1: Didn't know that until I showed up. Okay, did you.
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  Speaker 2: Take a look around?
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  Speaker 1: Sure? Did?
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  Speaker 2: Do we leave with any additional pieces?
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  Speaker 1: Sure? Did? Wow? Okay, yeah, Okay. So but this is where, again,
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying is a slippery slope, because I can't
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  Speaker 1: be collecting kitschy ass stuff left and right, or else
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  Speaker 1: I'll be it will turn into yeah, you got to
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  Speaker 1: stop and you got to look around, and I have
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  Speaker 1: to like take stock. Yeah, I can't just keep collecting
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  Speaker 1: little shit. You know. That's where I'm like, Okay, so
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  Speaker 1: now I'm just trolling and I'll get Now I'm being
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  Speaker 1: very specific about the things that I'm looking for.
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  Speaker 2: Intentional m Yeah, because it sounds like the fabrication on
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  Speaker 2: that Louis the fourteenth chair would have really set your
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: home into chaos.
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: That's exactly right. You said it perfectly.
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  Speaker 2: If you rolled up with your hot cash in hand,
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  Speaker 2: and I know you need to move forward but and
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  Speaker 2: you didn't care for the look of it. Are you
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  Speaker 2: locked in? Or can you march yourself right back to
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  Speaker 2: the car and take off?
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  Speaker 1: Great question. I've not been in that situation, but I
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  Speaker 1: would feel fine if I showed up and it didn't
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  Speaker 1: represent the pictures, and I would say, this doesn't represent
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  Speaker 1: the pictures and it's not as in good condition as
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  Speaker 1: I expected, So I'm going to have to say no.
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  Speaker 1: For that reason, I'm out. But you could also say
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: in the message, I'm really interested, I'd really like some
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: more pictures. I'd like some more measurements. I've asked for
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: measurements before, and or if that's not enough and it
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: is a hefty price tag, I would say something like,
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  Speaker 1: I'm would it be okay if I came to look
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: at it, I'm really not certain and they would say no,
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: or they'd say yes. You know, you could absolutely say that,
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: because if you do say like I want to come
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  Speaker 1: and get it, and they commit to you and they've
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: got other people interested, and then you show up and
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: you're like no, then that they can rate you poorly.
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  Speaker 2: So yeah, we don't want that. We can't afford that.
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  Speaker 2: Not we cannot have our ratings must be up and
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  Speaker 2: that's the ratings matter. Minder to march yourself over to
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  Speaker 2: Apple Podcasts and rate and review you know what I mean,
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  Speaker 2: like give five stars and give a gorgeous little review, because.
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: Wow, wow, that is some wow. Thank you so much
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: for saying that, I'm just going to give some I'm
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: going to give some go go music for that. Okay,
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: that'll circle us back into Beverly Hills. Thank you for
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: staying tuned for this Facebook Marketplace break down with Danna
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: and Okay, so Rachel and Bo's are really talking about
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: Amanda dropping that AVI stuff and how she's the money
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: queen they are, they're questioning her authenticity and Rachel is like,
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: I would never read a book called rech as Fuck.
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: By the way, claw Rachel's red, dark red burkin that
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: she had with her. Do you know that? When I
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: did my cabaret in Las Vegas, I was like, I
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: knew I was going to do the Rachel's audience interaction bit,
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: and I was like, I got to get some I'm
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: going to get the work in the work and from Walmart.
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: Remember when those came out?
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I got.
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: One in dark red looks just like that, except it's bigger,
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: I know, and I was carrying it around the audience.
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: I couldn't believe it. I was like, well, you know
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: when you.
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: Led in, Yeah, yeah, yeah, period, you.
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: Know, yeah, Okay. So this is a really devastating about Amanda.
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: We learn, you know, when she's at her beach rental,
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: about her twins and that she lost one, and that's
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: a devastating thing. We also we did. I forgot that
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: she shared that, you know before, when she was when
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: they were I think Jennifer Tilly's and you know, now
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: we're on the anniversary of this, and to learn about
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: her husband and how he's got such a connection with
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: their with their child and he senses him and she
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: doesn't have that. So for her to be, you know,
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: talking with the psychic and wanting to get some sort
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: of read on that and a feel for that, I
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: appreciated the psychic didn't just say, oh, yeah, I'm sensing something.
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: She like, she didn't feel anything, and she didn't like
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: fake it, and she sent her off with like, I
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: hope that you know, you can sense him and try
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: to do some meditation and things like that. Yeah, it
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: was really really sad when they were at Rachel's event,
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: and it had to it came out the way that
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: it came out when Durii confronted her that she was like,
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: I'm not in a space to receive this because of
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: this anniversary of the death of my son. What a
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: jarring moment for everybody to experience. It would have been
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: not good if she hadn't said something. I wish that
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: for her own protection, that she could have either gotten
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: ahead of it and told people ahead of it or
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: said to Derry like, can I talk to you for
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: a second aside, you know, like it's not the time
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: and place, Please do not come to me with this
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: right now, because this is what I'm dealing with. So
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: they could have had like a one on one moment
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: because deree could not. I am shocked at the I'm
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: appalled at the level of narcissism and how out of
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: touch Derry could be to continue the conversations.
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: One of the wildest things and the most dense and
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: ridiculous and discussed like it was wow.
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: Derya, like how do you come back from that? Like
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: you kept going? And then also so where it is
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: is everyone else to not step in and say, Derete,
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: shut the fuck up? Derete, you need to stop right now.
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: Why didn't anybody even say anything to Drete?
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: I asked myself the same question cynically, I wondered, if
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: it's because they're just like, when these moments come up,
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: we need to just allow the person to hang themselves,
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: and it's better for the show. On the other hand,
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: I do think, like when we said, we did learn it,
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: but what we I don't know how everyone thought about it,
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: but it's it's like hearing the story of like having
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: given birth held in her arms five the baby was
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: five days old, Like that is a whole another situation,
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: Like you can imagine maybe the baby didn't make I
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: don't know, it's all tells, right, but what happened to
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: her is, yeah, unbelievably horrific. Oh it's there's no word.
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: It's the worst. It's there's no words.
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: When she told that story in the pictures, I was crying.
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: I just broke down and cried. I mean, no one
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: should experience anything, and no one should experience any horror
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: in their lives period. But that was just a truly,
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: truly heartbreaking situation that no person should have to endure.
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: And I hate that it had to come up like that,
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: and then we're now in a situation where she has
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: to argue with someone about the mourning and grieving that
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: on that day. Like, now we're in the weeds of
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: having this that she has to like say to Dereate,
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: I don't you know, I thought I told you that
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: I didn't want to talk about that, and you kept going.
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: Well, it was crazy, you know, no matter what, should
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: she have been there? Should she been home? I'm sure
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: A producer was like, well, you know, this is your
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: story and it is a big event, and like it
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: may be an opportunity to connect with the girls over it.
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: You know, she's hot, Like she's hot off of a
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: sit down with a psychic talking about it, feeling going
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: through the emotions of not being able to connect the
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: way her husband does. It's like and then you know,
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: Duriad because like it was started off crazy because you
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: know Sutton and Tillie are they want them to regurgitate
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: what just happened foreverone to discuss. Yeah, Durid's sitting there
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: looking over like it's done. You guys are find anyway
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: I have to go comfort, Like so she might just
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: started out crazy, yeah, which was like I got a
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: gun for this girl, just like the energy behind it
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: was just like, you guys are find anyway, let me
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: deal with my thing, right, And I think so part
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: of me is like the girls are just letting her
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: hang out there for the show, and the other part
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: is they are all processing that she lost a baby
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: in a new way like we were. I do believe,
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: and that this is the day and like, how do
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: you even You don't know each other, so it's so
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: hard and we're at a beautiful dinner and like this,
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: where can we all even what could we even say?
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: You know? So yes, somebody should have been like.
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: Well, say Darite, shut up. Anybody should have said Every
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: person at that table should have said Darit it's not
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: the time. She just yes, and Amanda, I am so sorry,
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: and let's take a second and have a moment of silence.
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: I mean, look, I know that we're not all perfect people,
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: and we don't all know what to do in a
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: shocking situation. And I think they're all shock But honestly,
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: the real Housewives of Beverly Hills, silence is loud and
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: disrespectful in the worst at the worst times, they are
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: dangerous with their silence. They are hurtful with their silence,
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: and no one has any excuse for not speaking up,
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: in my opinion, in that moment. Yeah, I agree, she
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: didn't know.
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: It's a legitimate mistake because they didn't know. I mean,
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: you know, it was a legitimate mistake, Amanda a little
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: bit like let me let her walk out this door
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: feeling a little better than she does right now, Duri
• 26:31
  Speaker 2: come here, like, yeah, this is like.
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: I'm so glad that Kathy did that. What a prise
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: that she stepped up.
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean she's the only one who did anything. Ultimately, Yeah, Like,
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: I agree with you full stop. It was insane that
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: no one even whispered durit stop like it was in
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: Saint Duriy.
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: Or you know, or kicked her.
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: You know something that I also was thinking based on
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: like Sutton's reaction and a couple like I'm like, I
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: think they also felt blindsided by production, like they should
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: have known, do you know what I mean, Like they
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: should have known that this was part of today, like
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: in a note somewhere. Oh god, you know what I mean?
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: Do you think they can give those kinds of notes?
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: I mean, that would be that would take away from
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: the authenticity in general.
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: I wonder if it's when it's something like this, if
• 27:24
  Speaker 2: they do, if there's something where it's like, you should
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: know this. This shouldn't be a gotcha that someone it's
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: the it's the day so once.
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: But but yeah, but you know what, Amanda made it
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: a gotcha by that because and I'm not saying that
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: she did something wrong. I'm just like we're using that
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: language that they they were blindsided because Amanda chose to
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: not share that at the beginning of the night, during
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: the night at that to that point when she went
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: over to the psychic, when she came back from the psychic,
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: but she maybe she would have in a little while.
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: Durit blindsided Amanda by bringing it up immediately right, and
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: Amanda was kind of blindsided by responding in that way.
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: So it's kind of like, had Dearit not brought it
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: up so quickly, maybe Amanda would have shared that within moments.
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: So it with the timing was off for everybody because
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: Amanda had just come back from that reading and she
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: pulled herself together relatively quickly, And if anyone knew Amanda better,
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: maybe they would have seen that she was upset. But
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: they don't really know her like she came back to
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: the table, she wasn't like collected perfectly. Yeah, I agree,
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: what a mess. I mean, it was a mess.
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: And Derry, it was a full stop asshole. Asshole with
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: her apology when she went back to the door, asshole
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: in the moment, not not backing.
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: All the way off to have like even to go
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: to the door and be like, I'm so sorry, I'm
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: so sorry, but you saying that PK. I'm like, are
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: you kidding me? Right now? You're taking your screaming selfishness
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: to a level that like we won't be able to
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: recover from this is now it was crazy, I mean,
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: and now we're all we last week were just so
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: nauseated by Amanda and all this stuff, and now it's
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: like we couldn't have her back more no matter how
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: she handles it or what she does or says. At
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: least for now, it's like.
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: Oh, well for this night, like she was one hundred
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: percent correct in the way that she said, like regardless
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: like what I experienced is I told you this and
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: you proceeded with that. Yeah, there's no, she didn't go
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: over the top. She did. She just said, you know
• 29:49
  Speaker 2: that that is what happened, and that is information I
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: just got from you, and I'm not interested in a hug.
• 29:56
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  Speaker 1: is talking to the psychic and she gets that card
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: with the money, yeah, I mean, you cannot write this
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: stuff and no one is going to tell me that
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: it's not working for Amanda. It's working. It's working for her.
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: It's working. It's working. It's working. We're working. It's working.
• 35:13
  Speaker 2: It's working, it.
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: Has worked, and it will con and it's continued to work.
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: Whatever it is that's going to come out in the wash,
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: if it's anything sketchy or whatever it is, but listen,
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: it's working. And I like that. She was like, you're
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: a manifestor times one hundred and She's like, yeah, I
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: wrote a book about you know, it's that part you're like, okay,
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: eye roll, but it's it's there.
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: I mean, she did you know. I mean listen she
• 35:38
  Speaker 2: we were having a real tough time with her first
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: of all. Dry writing a memoir just makes you know,
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: it just it just feels funny too.
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: Erica, when she was like the dery wrote it, she'd
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: never be finished with it. It was like the greatest
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: thing in Derey having to say it's about time. I well,
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: you must have had a lot of time when you
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: wrote your book. Hello burn that was kind of an
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: awesome burn. I loved it.
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I love burns.
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: I think come out with some burns. Yeah they're unexpected.
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: Well yes, because you don't expect that, right.
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: And she delivers them like she delivers everything else, which
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: is pretty solid. You know.
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: It's like, I have too bestsellers. I know, whatever I
• 36:31
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• 36:35
  Speaker 2: she and then I remember, oh, yeah, style it is
• 36:37
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• 36:42
  Speaker 2: that's a deeper cut, you know. I didn't wasn't aware,
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: but then like twenty eighteen, pretty mess bestseller New York Times.
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: I mean Brian Morlin. Brian Moylin, Oh, why, yeah, that's
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: why it was a New York Times bestseller because he
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: wrote it and oh my god, yeah no, I know
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: it's been a long time. I mean yeah, So I
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: did love the chanting of book deal, book Deal, book Deal.
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: I love that they were all like throwing out their
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: best seller badges. It's great, it's great.
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: It's crazy and you're I really was like, Okay, that
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: is why this show and why when people get on it.
• 37:23
  Speaker 2: You know, it's not just the paycheck, like there are
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: opportunities that are just staggering. You know that that because
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: they don't even talk about Erica doesn't even talk about
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: the fact that she's the best selling New York Times
• 37:34
  Speaker 2: bestselling author. You know, well, she had at least.
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: Not every week, but she's.
• 37:41
  Speaker 2: Not leading with it. It's not like she's that's not
• 37:44
  Speaker 2: you know, what she's wearing.
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: I see your point. She's not wearing that. What she
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: is wearing is a wild outfit in that confessional with
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: the hat, and I'm definitely here for it. And I
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: don't know what brand that is. What is the e
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: e E e.
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: Oh, but I thought it was Erica Erica. Yeah, I
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: don't know, but it's great. It's very cartoon Jessica Rabbit
• 38:07
  Speaker 2: from like some sort of some sort of cartoon like
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: she would be a character in that you know movie.
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: I know, like that, very Erica Jane, and it's very
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: old school Erica. You know, we need it, you know,
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: we need and she's she's not on that budget anymore.
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: So I was happy that she was able to scrape
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: that together.
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: And I will say that one one thing from the
• 38:33
  Speaker 2: Beverly Hills Kyle White Party or the White Party with Kyle,
• 38:37
  Speaker 2: I will say, oh boy, she was the least exciting
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: to look at, and as they said about Courtney Kardashian
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: on The Kardashians, You're the least interesting to look at.
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: And it was like, where's Erica? You know, So just
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: gonna say that moving.
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: Wow, that is a shocker. And so I'm glad to
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: see that she's showing up in her confessional like this.
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: And I'm also happy to see that she's not living
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: beyond her means hopefully.
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: Unlike to read buying her a little bit.
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: Just gonna say that, Sorry, I didn't mean to cut
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: you off.
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: No, I mean yes, you know, yes, like learn from Erica.
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: It may not be a best seller, and she probably
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: will make one hundred thousand dollars. She'll probably make two
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: hundred thousand dollars as at least two hundred thousand dollars,
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: so all right, but it's just not I could be wrong.
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: I think she's making over one hundred thousand for the advance.
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: I do you do?
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: Okay, And I think they're basing it on the comps,
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: which would be other Housewives.
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: Erica, Rachel, Rachel, thank you everybody, Yeah, thank you everyone
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: surrounding me today. Yeah.
• 39:48
  Speaker 2: Yes, So whether it sells or not, but like they
• 39:52
  Speaker 2: can look at those comps and you can give her
• 39:54
  Speaker 2: a nice advance. It's just not it's not the time
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: to be buying many Kelly's.
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: No, no. But as Rachel said, it's a problem. It's
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: a disease, you know, and I'm sure Darit has it.
• 40:12
  Speaker 2: So she has this same she has a similar affliction.
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: Getting back to the point of Amanda being nauseating at
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: the beginning of this episode, which is like, I uh,
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: Amanda is like a ghostwriter. Oh well, I just sat
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: down and wrote my book, like I just wrote it
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: because I never even thought about having someone else write
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: it for me. I just wrote it, and so that's
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: why I write it. I mean, why don't you write
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: your book? I'm a writer, be a writer. Is So
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: she's annoying, difficult, She.
• 40:47
  Speaker 2: Is not a BLI I can't imagine that she has
• 40:50
  Speaker 2: a friend, you know, she just I can't imagine that
• 40:54
  Speaker 2: there's someone dealing with her that she's not paying, you know, m.
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: M yeah, I mean, and you know what Dorita is
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: right time. The reason why is because of time, like
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: not just because it would take her a long time
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: to write the book if she were to put pen
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: to paper. But you have to strike while the iron
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: is hot. And she's in the middle of a very
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: contentious divorce. She's at the height of deridism. You know,
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: she's hot off of cigarette in the car, you know,
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: a winding down malhalland drive. Last year, she's becoming more
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: real in terms of like what she's going through. And
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: so if it's not now, it's never. So she has
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: to do it, and they have to turn it around fast,
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: and they're going to film about it, so they need
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: to do it now.
• 41:47
  Speaker 2: You're so right. In addition, like she I feel she's
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: been on the cutting block for a few seasons.
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: Oh my god.
• 41:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so yeah, it's go time, you know, in a
• 42:00
  Speaker 2: very real way.
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: So new management team, and that was interesting. Yeah, I
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: know that was exciting.
• 42:08
  Speaker 2: I do, like I want too little English girls with
• 42:12
  Speaker 2: blowouts to like be getting me work period.
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: I do, and to be saying stuff to you like
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: you're going to be in a much better place a
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: year from now financially, emotionally, physically. I was like, wow,
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: that's yep, let's go. I know, it was such a
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: great thing. I felt like lifted from that situation very much.
• 42:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'm like, you know what, this was shot
• 42:38
  Speaker 2: whenever was shot Darit is in like every other Housewife
• 42:42
  Speaker 2: branded commercial, and she's good in them.
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: She's great. Yeah, she really is. She is really good.
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: So yeah, for those gals to be welcoming her into
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: the next era.
• 42:56
  Speaker 2: Let's let's go. I mean, I just don't know how
• 42:59
  Speaker 2: interesting Derweet's story is.
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: Well, that's the other thing. But at least she's gonna
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: get some money for it, and she's going to do
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: it and we'll see what happened this whole Yeah. Like,
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: and I don't remember what the name of her book
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: is because it's on pre order right now. Shit, Oh really,
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: Oh hold on, let me see. Yeah, I mean it's
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: it's called Unburdened, a memoir. Wait, I sound like Rachel Zo.
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: It's called Unburdened, a Memoir by dubek Kemsley. So it
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: is in stock. It's twenty eight ninety nine. I'm seeing
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: here is it target? So go get it?
• 43:40
  Speaker 2: Well, it's you know, unburdened is so like Kamala's unburdened
• 43:44
  Speaker 2: by what has been? Or what that race was that
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: she said a million times. I'm like, I need, yeah,
• 43:50
  Speaker 2: we we need to be unburdened by what has been.
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: But like unburdened, it's oh, it's pre order. Sorry, it's
• 43:57
  Speaker 2: pre order now comes out April twenty five. First, So
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: those the ghostwriter and Dirt they're working on it as
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: we speak it And you know, un burdened is part
• 44:06
  Speaker 2: of her tagline. She's like, now I'm finally unburdened something
• 44:11
  Speaker 2: like that. Well, listen, the team got together a comprehensive plan.
• 44:15
  Speaker 2: Will it move. I don't feel when I tell you, Amy,
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: I feel zero called to read and pre order Unburdened.
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I know I feel the same way, and yet
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: I will do it for the Bravo book Club here
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: on Drama Darling. Sure, and I might listen to it.
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: I think it would be fun to hear Durrate do it.
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: And I'm going to put it in uh two times
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: the speed, so it'll be and then the gay But
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: a lot of like closives is probably what it's going
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: to be.
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: Like, how did you come up with that?
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: I don't know because I've always because I've talked about
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: Erica's book and high Speed or remember I do that bit.
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it'll be fun. It'll be fun when we
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: do that. So uh, all right, well let's see Sutton's
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: so funny. Sutton and Jennifer they get into it a
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: little bit because Kyle just ran right over. Look at
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: this little Kyle. Look at Kyle running right over old
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: school like you, who are you?
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: Kyle?
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: Are you a new housewife? Welcome in the way you're acting.
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: Look at you running over and telling someone something.
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: It's I don't know how to feel about it. I'm like, well, listen,
• 45:33
  Speaker 2: she's doing the work, I guess, and.
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: He's doing Yeah, I had you got to take it
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: for reps, you know what I mean, Like it's a
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: housewife reps. She's doing the reps. She's showing up. She's like,
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: I got to run some laps. I just got to
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: do the work. I gotta get in, I gotta do
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: some core work. I gotta just like tell somebody something
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: that someone else said, like get let's get back to basics.
• 45:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, back to bes. And as they're calling her out
• 45:58
  Speaker 2: around the table, which was I do just want to
• 46:01
  Speaker 2: nod to the candles. And the table was so stunning.
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: I know, let's shout out for the power out right.
• 46:09
  Speaker 2: It really was like romance, Like I wanted to be there.
• 46:13
  Speaker 2: It was so gorgeous and so I just want to
• 46:16
  Speaker 2: say that. But and Kyle looks grat and green. But
• 46:20
  Speaker 2: whenever she was given and I was dying for that,
• 46:24
  Speaker 2: do you or cape on Tilly? But whenever people were God,
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: that was stunning.
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: I thought Rachel was going to crawl up under there
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: like a Christmas Carol, like the ghost of a Christmas
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: past when when the kids are like underneath there and
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: they're called like need and want or whatever.
• 46:43
  Speaker 2: Oh. I like that. She was both need and want.
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I need and I want like Charles Dickens, like
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: I need this cape. I'm gonna crawl up underneath that
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: the gust of Christmas future, fast and present.
• 47:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you know it was absolutely like breath taking to
• 47:07
  Speaker 2: I mean, you're coming to a friend's dinner. It wouldn't
• 47:10
  Speaker 2: occur to me to put on a beat it jeweled cape,
• 47:13
  Speaker 2: but like, it was so stunning. She looked beautiful. But
• 47:17
  Speaker 2: when these girls are saying, like Kyle Kyle told me
• 47:22
  Speaker 2: it was Kyle Kyle's just mm hmm.
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: There was no nothing, zero, That's what is like. She
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: was like a producer. That's how I saw her in
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: that moment.
• 47:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, totally.
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: And I liked how when when Sutton went over and
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: said she doesn't remember saying it or like and then
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: Kyle's like, why a thing? I was like, may not
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: you know, I'm not gonna me. I don't I tell it.
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: I'm honest, I'm honest. Jennifer did really tiptoe around it
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: though for sure she did not own it. Think well,
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: I think at first she did, right, didn't she?
• 47:58
  Speaker 2: She was like, well, she owned it beautifully. In the
• 48:02
  Speaker 2: city initial sit down, she was like, yeah, you know,
• 48:06
  Speaker 2: this is how I was feeling. And I did say
• 48:09
  Speaker 2: that you you know, might have been the exact phrasing,
• 48:12
  Speaker 2: but yeah, you're right, say that this is part of
• 48:14
  Speaker 2: what like I was a.
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: She she tipped okay, let me let me rephrase it.
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: She did tiptoe around like saying really cut and dry
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: what she said about Sutton, which is like.
• 48:27
  Speaker 2: That's bally wyah guys or whatever.
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: And so instead she just like she so twinkly like
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: massaged it to owning it. It was like a masterclass
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: of house whip.
• 48:40
  Speaker 2: Her in the initial sit down, yes, yes, yes, see,
• 48:45
  Speaker 2: oh god, I you didn't have I know, I thought
• 48:51
  Speaker 2: she heard it. I think she was like, damn, okay,
• 48:55
  Speaker 2: well I have to yeah, And then I thought she
• 48:59
  Speaker 2: she gave it to Suttin like, yeah, you know, I
• 49:03
  Speaker 2: was hurt by the way you were snapping at me,
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: and it did make me think about Garcel and some
• 49:08
  Speaker 2: of how she might have been feeling. Of course i'm piaphrasing,
• 49:11
  Speaker 2: but I thought she kind of owned it in a
• 49:14
  Speaker 2: way I don't hear very often, and it allowed Sutton
• 49:18
  Speaker 2: to go like, yeah, I did snap at her, and
• 49:20
  Speaker 2: I need to be better at that, you know, and
• 49:22
  Speaker 2: that's something I'm working on.
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: She did acknowledge that she snapped at her, but I
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: didn't hear an apology. She never apologized to her for
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: snapping at her. Oh, she just was like, yeah, you
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: get better at that. Yeah it Wahi is kind of
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: weird because it felt like they had that moment, they
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: moved on and they never talked about it again. And
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: it would have been nice to see Sutton be like,
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry snapped at you because you're a good friend
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: or something, but she didn't. She just kind of like
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: said I need to get better at that. I guess
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: to us, but she never really said it to Jennifer
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: is the one who had to like eat shit basically.
• 49:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know what they my all in. I
• 50:01
  Speaker 2: was like, they are real friends. They said what they
• 50:05
  Speaker 2: needed to say, and they moved past it. And then
• 50:07
  Speaker 2: I think like it felt like Tilly around the table
• 50:12
  Speaker 2: is where she got more stuck because she didn't want
• 50:15
  Speaker 2: to say Kyle's the one who you know I like,
• 50:20
  Speaker 2: you know, she didn't want to.
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: She was almost like, am I doing this show wrong? Like?
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: What do I do? When I get some direction? She
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: was she was like.
• 50:29
  Speaker 2: I have to do this again. We did do it.
• 50:31
  Speaker 2: It's like, yeah you do.
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: Actually, yeah right, I already did my take. Do I
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: need to do redo this in front of everybody? And
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: she was like, we're making a mountain out of a molehill.
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: I did appreciate that, and and it kind of like
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: moved by quickly, which was sort of nice. But I
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: wonder if Jennifer and Kyle will get into it. I
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: don't think they will. I don't think Jennifer is gonna
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: bring it up again, but Kyle keeps kind of throwing
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: her under the bus and like tattletailing.
• 50:58
  Speaker 2: She made a.
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah. So anyway, I feel like that we kind of
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: covered it all. Those were the big things.
• 51:06
  Speaker 2: Those were the begetting her retrieval.
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she's got those two eggs that she's hopefully
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: gonna get to make some embryos.
• 51:17
  Speaker 2: I missed you do miss Buzz at the table? You
• 51:19
  Speaker 2: know both I do bows. Sorry, yeah, I know Bo's
• 51:23
  Speaker 2: at the table.
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. That was a bummer. But Kathy going
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: over to Sutton's house to get her hair blown out
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: was great. It was great.
• 51:32
  Speaker 2: Do Rachel and Kathy live on the same grid and
• 51:36
  Speaker 2: then they both went out?
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, I believe they do. I think I know
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: where Rachel lives, like I have the idea of whereabouts
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: that she lives, and I think that Kathy does live
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: nearby there. I mean it is Beverly Hills proper, so great.
• 51:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Rachel is in Beverly Hill. Ye okay, that's nice.
• 51:56
  Speaker 2: I mean it feels like she's so few people. Yes,
• 52:00
  Speaker 2: I know, I know, I know, because it's also just
• 52:04
  Speaker 2: not like it's of a time and people with means
• 52:10
  Speaker 2: want to be in more cool you know, like it's
• 52:15
  Speaker 2: just there's something about over the hills. It's like very
• 52:18
  Speaker 2: old school.
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you're right in the hills, right, the Hollywood Hills.
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: They're going to go up and the bird streets, as
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: Josh Altman says over a million dollar listing, you know,
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: that's about as classic as they're going to get. Are
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: the bird streets that are, you know, the older streets,
• 52:33
  Speaker 1: the older houses and things like that. But they're going
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: to go up in the Hollywood Hills. They're going to
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: go to Encino, They're going to go to Calabasas. They're
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: going to go Yeah, you know.
• 52:42
  Speaker 2: Given those feelas and things like that like it are
• 52:44
  Speaker 2: more hip hip for someone's.
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: Clarita Glass El Park. You know, these are the hot
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: places Santa Clarita. Have you ever heard of it?
• 52:55
  Speaker 2: I don't know if you guys are familiar with Santa Clarita. Yeah,
• 52:58
  Speaker 2: you know not how are those guys doing at the valley?
• 53:02
  Speaker 2: You know, you know, when they're not on, you really
• 53:04
  Speaker 2: release them. But I'm wondering.
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, Well we'll get out of here. Yeah,
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: let's get out of here. Yeah. I think we're good
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: to go. Everybody did, Yeah, I loved what we did
• 53:13
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