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Are Women More Masculine Than Feminine? · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: It's topic time call eight hundred five five one oh
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  Speaker 1: five want to join it to the discussion with the
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  Speaker 1: Breakfast Club morning. Everybody is j n V. Charlemagne the guy.
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  Speaker 1: We had a yan La bon zat here this morning
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  Speaker 1: and we were talking about all women more masculine than feminine.
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  Speaker 1: That's a that's a choosing, violent question. I'm gonna be
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  Speaker 1: honest with you, but that's what Let's create a clip.
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  Speaker 1: What is the distinction between feminine power and masculine power?
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  Speaker 1: And we've been conditioned and trained to be men in skirts.
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  Speaker 1: We do everything like men, we compete like man. I
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  Speaker 1: said this on our spot a few weeks ago. I said,
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  Speaker 1: most women want their boyfriend to act like their girlfriends,
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  Speaker 1: you know, chatting, shopping, but when the man comes home,
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  Speaker 1: what they meet as another dude. Now, when Ayala was here,
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  Speaker 1: I was silent because I had nothing to say about that.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not a woman. I don't identify as a woman.
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  Speaker 1: I don't have a whoha okay, I have a he
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  Speaker 1: heat all right, Um, yes you know. And so I'm
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  Speaker 1: just here to I'm just here to listen to the
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  Speaker 1: phone calls. And you know, I don't want to hear
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  Speaker 1: from nothing but women about this. I don't want to
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  Speaker 1: hear about it. I don't want to hear from nobody
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  Speaker 1: with a penis. If you identify as a man, I
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  Speaker 1: don't want to hear from you. Hello, who's this Hey, Shelisa,
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, Good morning. Do you think a women are
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  Speaker 1: more masculine than feminine nowadays? Yes? I do, But it's
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  Speaker 1: not because we want to. I think it's because we
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  Speaker 1: have to. Like I worked with a big superman and
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  Speaker 1: when I tell you, I have argued with these been
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  Speaker 1: like women just to prove that, Hey, you know, I'm
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  Speaker 1: a woman. They don't open doors, they don't lift anything
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  Speaker 1: happy anymore. And let's not even get started about how
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  Speaker 1: a lot of them want you to become fifty fifty
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  Speaker 1: and how old, Like why am I gonna sit here
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  Speaker 1: and do all of that when I am already when
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  Speaker 1: it on my own, Like I don't need you to
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  Speaker 1: come in and su all of that, Like it's stupid. Lisa,
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  Speaker 1: let me ask you a question. Do you think part
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  Speaker 1: of this is because I would say in the last
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  Speaker 1: I would say maybe ten years, everybody's been talking. Everybody
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  Speaker 1: wants everything fifty fifty women want the same amount as men.
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  Speaker 1: So it's kind of like, well, if you want the
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  Speaker 1: same amount, do the same amount. I don't look at
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  Speaker 1: it like that, but do you think maybe that's part
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  Speaker 1: of it? It could be part of it, But I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna say this, like from where I come from, my
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  Speaker 1: grandma worked, my grandfather worked, but when she wanted to
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  Speaker 1: retire into her business, my grandfather made a show that
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  Speaker 1: was possible. I have my other grandmother and my dad's side,
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  Speaker 1: I don't ever recall her working like in my entire life,
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  Speaker 1: I don't recall her having a job, but things got done.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like they talk about the want these women
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  Speaker 1: to step back into these roles, but they're not doing
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  Speaker 1: well their grandfathers have done. And that was say all
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  Speaker 1: the bills. M Okay, thank you. I'm just listening. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: let's go to another I'm just listening to this, this
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  Speaker 1: trauma being spilled over this radio this morning. What what
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  Speaker 1: I've told Detroit? So what do you think you think
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  Speaker 1: women are more masculine and feminine? I think women have
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  Speaker 1: become more masculine because the saves hand to not because
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  Speaker 1: we want to lore, because we choose to but because
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  Speaker 1: we don't have men to lead up. And that's not
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  Speaker 1: I'm not There are some very good strong men that
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  Speaker 1: leads their women. But in most cases we have to
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  Speaker 1: become masculine because we have to be, not because we
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  Speaker 1: want to be. Um. Yeah, I don't think it's a
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  Speaker 1: choice anymore. So, you know, it's interesting when people say that,
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  Speaker 1: because it's like a man shouldn't dictate how you how
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  Speaker 1: you move right, Like like just because a man isn't
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  Speaker 1: showing up the way he needs to show up, doesn't
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  Speaker 1: mean you got to be more masculine, does it. Well,
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  Speaker 1: we're supposed to be a helpmate, and if we believe
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  Speaker 1: we're not, we don't have the person that were supposed
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  Speaker 1: to be helping. Then we got carried a load on
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  Speaker 1: our own. But I think than us becoming more ambasculine
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  Speaker 1: or feeling like we need to be in that position, no,
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  Speaker 1: I think we've done it because it has to because
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  Speaker 1: the pass through, not because we have a choice because
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  Speaker 1: the men are making in that area. I also wonder
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  Speaker 1: what the balance is right, because you gotta have sacred
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  Speaker 1: masculine and you gotta have divine feminine, like they both
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  Speaker 1: exist in in both genders. So I wonder what that
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  Speaker 1: balance looks like. Well, what are you doing that you
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  Speaker 1: feel like is masculine that you shouldn't be doing? Wearing
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  Speaker 1: right guard? Shut up? Taking out the trash, yeah yeah,
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  Speaker 1: taking out the trash, yeah, my oil change yeah, um,
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  Speaker 1: taking my card to the car wash, yeah, well, taking carts,
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  Speaker 1: things like that. That's things like that. My dad definitely
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  Speaker 1: did that for my mom. My mom, I don't think
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  Speaker 1: you ever been to a car wash, only a gas
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  Speaker 1: station if she had to. And I do the same
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  Speaker 1: thing for my wife. My wife does get car washes,
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  Speaker 1: though she'll go with if she if she has time.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, my wife has never seen the inside of
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  Speaker 1: an other places like real men like your wife getting
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  Speaker 1: hit on the most at the dance station. You should
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  Speaker 1: never let your wife go to the dance station. That's
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  Speaker 1: what she don't get. What's driving and she's on E
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  Speaker 1: Like come on, now, some of this is ridiculous. That's
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  Speaker 1: that's the true because like when like when my wife,
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  Speaker 1: when I usually on the weekends, I take all I
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  Speaker 1: take my wife's cars to get gas, to take my
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  Speaker 1: daughter's cars to get gas. What if she's driving during
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  Speaker 1: the weekend, she's on E. Also, let's reverse that if
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  Speaker 1: a man cooks and a man cleans, is that things
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  Speaker 1: that are are regulated only the women know. Because there's
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  Speaker 1: plenty of single men out here who don't have nobody
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  Speaker 1: to cook for them and have nobody to clean for them,
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  Speaker 1: needs to survive, and they probably a look more. They
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  Speaker 1: probably look more in touch with they feving inside as well. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: you right, and you're right, not in a negative way
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  Speaker 1: like a next note, but there's probably more in touch
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  Speaker 1: with I think cooking when I looked by myself cooking
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  Speaker 1: and cleaning with just basic necessities you needed to survive.
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  Speaker 1: And Lowland, you're right, and that's why you appreciate a
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  Speaker 1: woman more once you finally do get one, because she's
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  Speaker 1: your helpmate and she usually takes on those type of
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  Speaker 1: responsive Okay, and Lola, you're right. Yesterday my wife went
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  Speaker 1: to the car wash to get a call clean and
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  Speaker 1: you know what, dude, tolerance, that's the last time she's
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  Speaker 1: going to that guy, damn every day for that damn
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  Speaker 1: car was be jealousy like I want to get Holida,
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  Speaker 1: I want to go to the car I want to dude,
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  Speaker 1: hollidat me, shut up man eight und five eight five
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  Speaker 1: one oh five one. I Yan Love Zon. She was
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  Speaker 1: here earlier this morning and she was saying that women
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  Speaker 1: are more masculine today than feminine. Let's talk about it.
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  Speaker 1: about Iyan Love von Zon. She was here earlier and
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  Speaker 1: she was talking about women being more masculine than feminine today.
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  Speaker 1: Let's just listen. I'm just listening. What is the distinction
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  Speaker 1: between feminine power and masculine power? And we've been conditioned
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  Speaker 1: and trained to be men in skirts. We do everything
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  Speaker 1: like men, We compete like man. I said this on
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  Speaker 1: our spot a few weeks ago. I said, most women
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  Speaker 1: want their boyfriend to act like their girlfriends, you know,
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  Speaker 1: chatting shoppings, but when the man comes home, what they
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  Speaker 1: meet as another dude. I'm just sitting here listening like
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  Speaker 1: I was sitting here listening when I Yalla Bonzan was talking.
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  Speaker 1: Because I'm not a woman and I don't identify as
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  Speaker 1: a woman, I have thoughts, but I would rather hear
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  Speaker 1: what women got to say. Let's go to the phone lines. Hello,
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  Speaker 1: who's this angel? Angel? What I do? What I do?
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  Speaker 1: You know what we're talking about? I called him to
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  Speaker 1: get in on y'all like carel y'all know it's twenty
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  Speaker 1: twenty three. Of course we're doing way more masculine works
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  Speaker 1: than feminine. Or if we use the more, way more
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  Speaker 1: masculine energy than we're working in our femin it has
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  Speaker 1: to stop. I'm gonna need you all to get these
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  Speaker 1: communities and rebuild these fells. Okay, they don't took over
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  Speaker 1: our clothes. They want to do everything we do, so
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  Speaker 1: now we gotta do everything y'all supposed to be going.
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  Speaker 1: I'm over it. Okay, thank you? Hello, who's this ard?
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  Speaker 1: Good morning? God? What do you think you think women
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  Speaker 1: are more masculine and feminine? No? I think that depending
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  Speaker 1: on the situation, the woman's gonna shout her femininity. Like
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  Speaker 1: if you're not giving enough energy where we feel the
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  Speaker 1: need to be soft and subtle, then we're not going
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  Speaker 1: to be. We're going to be. I guess men were masculine,
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  Speaker 1: but all in all, not at all true. Okay, well,
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  Speaker 1: thank you mama, Thank you every today too. Hello. Who's
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  Speaker 1: this the subscriber? Hey, good morning. We're asking do you
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  Speaker 1: think women are more masculine and feminine? Um? Yes, here
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  Speaker 1: tend to be more masculine. Um. I'd myself from real life,
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  Speaker 1: and I didn't a lot more masculine than I would warmly.
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  Speaker 1: And I feel like that's just a hardship men today,
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  Speaker 1: at least the men that I came across, has not
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  Speaker 1: been masculine themselves. So I find myself having to pick
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  Speaker 1: up where they're not doing, and I just find myself
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  Speaker 1: just being you know, in your face round, I got
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  Speaker 1: it myself, I'm gonna do it myself like. And I
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  Speaker 1: realized that I was masculine when I had finally had
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  Speaker 1: a daughter, and I realized there was something feminine about me.
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  Speaker 1: And I realized, like maybe that was a problem in
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  Speaker 1: a lot of my relationships that I didn't know how
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  Speaker 1: to be just a woman in a skirt. I was
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  Speaker 1: trying to be, you know, play the role of a
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  Speaker 1: man while still being a woman. And I feel like
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  Speaker 1: a lot of women are like that, because not all men,
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  Speaker 1: but a lot of men in a round, they are
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  Speaker 1: not masculine anymore. So if a woman is what a
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  Speaker 1: man that's not presenting a safe an environment where she
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  Speaker 1: can grow and flourish and be feminine, her masculine decided
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  Speaker 1: wanted to come out. Okay, I'm gonna be honest with you, man.
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  Speaker 1: I blame Beyonce. Why do you blame Beyonce? We have
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  Speaker 1: a generation of women raised by Beyonce, you know, and
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  Speaker 1: I love Beyonce. Y'all know my Pinkett Smith went free
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  Speaker 1: knows Carter. But Beyonce, you know, she told y'all to
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  Speaker 1: be independent women. Oh my lady independent? Oh yeah, hand
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  Speaker 1: the man man all of that, you know, And then
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  Speaker 1: it was all my single ladies. And then she wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: get married on y'all ass okay, and left y'all out
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  Speaker 1: here confused with no direction. What happened to the independent
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  Speaker 1: woman era? Somebody has to admit that being an independent
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  Speaker 1: woman is overrated. And the reason women were independent is
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  Speaker 1: because they had to be, Okay, it was almost out
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  Speaker 1: of out of survival, right, not because they wanted to be.
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  Speaker 1: I do know. We have to find a balance, though,
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  Speaker 1: because the world is never gonna be what we needed
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  Speaker 1: to be until everyone has the right balance of sacred
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  Speaker 1: masculine and divine feminine. That's when the world is, uh,
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  Speaker 1: you know, gonna gonna be, gonna be what we wanted
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  Speaker 1: to be. Is that your moral of the story. That
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  Speaker 1: is definitely my moral of the story. Nobodycause nobody said that.
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  Speaker 1: Yet nobody has said you know, uh, you know, nobody
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  Speaker 1: admitted being an independent woman was overrated. And by the way,
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  Speaker 1: being a single man is overrated. Like the only reason
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  Speaker 1: people want to be independent is because they feel like
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  Speaker 1: they have to be in that moment. But everybody wants
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  Speaker 1: a partner, bro. Everybody wants a partner that they can
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  Speaker 1: grow with. Everybody wants a partner that they feel protects them,
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  Speaker 1: provides for them. Everybody wants a partner that's gonna have
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  Speaker 1: their back. Man. That's it. Like what mefor Man said,
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  Speaker 1: all I need rubbed me on my back baby and
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  Speaker 1: tell me everything will be okay. Everybody wants that. Say
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  Speaker 1: it with me. Stop stopping. See this is y'all problem.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all spend fifteen years singing all them damn songs and
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  Speaker 1: telling the universe y'all want to be a single lady.
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  Speaker 1: I'm a single lady. I had to damn that back then.
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  Speaker 1: Forget all that. Tell the universe you want a partner
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  Speaker 1: a man. Okay, men, tell the universe you want you
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  Speaker 1: a woman. Say it. We need more positive music. What's
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  Speaker 1: the record that can bring people together? Man,