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Forgiven by the King, Called to Forgive: The Gospel Logic of Mercy (Matthew 18:21–35) · Reformed Thinking

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So in the year 2024, United States household debt actually
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crossed $17.5 trillion, which is, yeah, it's a number so huge
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that the human brain almost just shuts down when you hear it.
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Right, it just becomes an abstraction.
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Yeah, totally abstract. But that abstraction translates
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to a really crushing reality on the ground for people.
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I mean, it means marriage is falling apart under the weight
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of unpaid mortgages. It means parents staring at the
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ceiling at 3:00 in the morning, just paralyzed by anxiety over a
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credit card minimums. Well, for sure, debt of that
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magnitude drives human beings to absolute despair.
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It does, but what if you were told that you hold a personal
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liability, like a spiritual Ledger of offenses against a
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holy God that makes $17.5 trillion look like spare change
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you found in the couch cushions? Welcome to Reformed thinking.
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You know, when you look closely at human nature, you find a
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really startling contradiction right at the center of how we
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relate to one another. Yeah, that attention is always
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there. Right.
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Human beings are just absolutely desperate to receive grace when
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we fail, but at the same time we are fiercely, almost violently,
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resistant to extending that same grace when someone fails us.
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We really are. We want God and our neighbors to
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overlook our massive, repeated faults, but we keep meticulous,
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detailed receipts of every single slight committed against
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us. So today we are opening up a
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source text that attacks this contradiction head on.
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We are doing a deep dive into an analysis of Jesus's parable of
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the unforgiving servant from Matthew chapter 18, verses 21
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through 30. Five, and that staggering
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spiritual insolvency you just mentioned?
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That is the central reality we have to confront today.
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Our mission for this deep dive is to examine the theological
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weight of this specific parable through a strictly Reformed
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lens. Which is such a vital framework
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for this text. It really is.
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We are going to observe how Christ's words totally demolish
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human self righteousness. We'll see how they highlight the
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necessity of sovereign grace and how they demand a radically
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changed heart from anyone who claims to belong to the King.
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Yeah, so this is not just a moralistic fable about being a
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nicer person. No, not at all.
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We are looking at the terrifying, awe inspiring
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arithmetic of divine justice and Divine Mercy.
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And to grasp the weight of this parable, we first have to look
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at the question that prompted Jesus to tell the story in the
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1st place. Right?
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We have to. Get into the context.
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Yes, we have to move from our modern anxiety about student
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loans and interest rates back to the ancient context of the
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covenant community in the 1st century.
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Jesus does not just drop this parable out of a clear blue sky.
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The context is critical. This passage does not exist in a
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vacuum. It's right in the middle of a
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very specific discourse. Right.
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It immediately follows Jesus's explicit instructions on church
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discipline, which you find right there in Matthew 18, verses 15
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through 20. Christ is outlining the life of
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the ecclesia, the gathered Church.
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Yeah, the local body of believers.
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He is just told his disciples that if a brother sins against
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you, you're to go and tell him his fault privately, and if he
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refuses to listen, you take one or two others along with you.
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And it escalates from there. Right.
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If he still refuses you, tell it to the church.
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And if he refuses to listen even to the church, let him be to you
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as a Gentile and a tax collector.
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So Jesus requires his church to pursue holiness and to confront
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sin head on. And that sets up a massive
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tension right from the start, because when you talk about
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confronting sin, taking witnesses and bringing matters
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before the church, it sounds like a legal courtroom it.
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Sounds very rigid, yeah. Very rigid, but then he
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transitioned straight into forgiveness.
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This means the forgiveness he is about to discuss is not some
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sentimental permissiveness. No, it is not turning a blind
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eye to abuse. Right or smiling and pretending
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evil does not hurt. It is a gritty, realistic
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necessity for sinners living together under Christ's rule.
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You have a community that must uphold absolute moral truth
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while simultaneously overflowing with mercy.
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Which? Is a very hard balance to
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strike. It is.
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And right on the heels of that heavy instruction about
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confronting sin, Peter speaks up.
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Peter asks, Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me?
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And I forgive him until seven times.
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And Peter probably thought he was being so generous there.
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Oh, he definitely did. Now, if you study the rabbinic
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tradition of the 1st century, you see why Peter frames the
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question this way. The prevailing thought among the
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religious leaders of the day was that you only needed to forgive
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someone three times. Only three times.
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Yeah, three strikes and you're out on the 4th offence.
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The obligation for mercy expired and you were legally and morally
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cleared to retaliate or cut the person off.
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So Peter takes that cultural standard double S It adds one
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for good measure and offers up 7 times.
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He genuinely believes he's being incredibly magnanimous here.
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He really does. He expects Jesus to validate his
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extraordinary patience. But Jesus flips Peter's entire
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worldview upside down. Jesus responds by commanding
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forgiveness 77 times or in some Greek manuscripts and
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translations 70 * 7 which. Is just a massive number.
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It is, but the specific number Christ chooses is not random.
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It points to a fascinating historical and biblical
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connection. The source material points out
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that this is a direct calculated allusion to Genesis chapter 4,
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verse 24. Oh, going all the way back to
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Genesis, yes. Effectively reversing the
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depravity of Lamech. If you go back to the early
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chapters of Genesis, Lamech was the descendant of King Cain, of
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course, was the first murderer, and God placed a mark on Cain,
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declaring that anyone who killed him would face a sevenfold
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vengeance. Right, God's protection over
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Cain. Generations later, Lamech takes
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that standard of divine protection and twists it into a
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boast of human malice. Lamech gathers his wives and
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sings a song about his own capacity for violence.
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He claims that he kills a man just for striking him, and a
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young man simply for wounding him.
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He's basically bragging about his brutality.
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He. Is then Lamech boasts if Cain's
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revenge is sevenfold, then Lamechs is 70 sevenfold.
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He brags about exponential disproportionate retribution.
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He takes pride in being completely unmerciful so.
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Jesus is pulling directly from that specific story.
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Yes. Where Lamech boasted of a 70
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sevenfold vengeance, Christ steps into history and demands
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A70 sevenfold grace. He takes the ancient metric for
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human depravity and blood feuds and flips it into the absolute
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standard for Kingdom mercy. I love that historical
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connection because it exposes what is really going on in
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Peter's head. Think about Peter's mindset
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here. He operates like a frequent
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flyer program for resentment. That's a great way to put it.
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He wants to earn enough grievant smiles so he can eventually cash
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them in for a guilt free revenge trip.
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He wants to know the actual boundary where his patients can
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legally stop and where his retaliation can officially
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begin. He wants.
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A quota. Yeah, a quota.
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He wants to be able to put a little check mark in his mental
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notebook every time his brother wrongs him. 123456 and on that
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seventh time he wants the satisfaction of closing the
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book, slamming it on the table and saying I am now justified in
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my bitterness. You have exhausted your Grace
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account. And we do the very same thing
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today. We really do.
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We do the exact same thing in our modern relationships.
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We keep mental filing cabinets of every time a spouse
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overlooked us, a Co worker took credit for our project, or a
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friend spoke sharply to us. Waiting for that limit to hit
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right. We wait for the moment we reach
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our internal quota so we can unleash our resentment with a
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clean conscience. We want a mathematical formula
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that permits us to withhold love.
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And that is the theology Jesus completely dismantles right
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here. Jesus abolish is the entire
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principle of calculation. The Kingdom of heaven does not
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operate by the mathematics of pride.
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Wow, the mathematics of pride. Score keeping is the instinct of
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the fallen human heart. Fallen humanity seeks to justify
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bitterness under the guise of righteousness.
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Peter thought his total of 7 was large enough to impress God, but
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Jesus shows that the act of counting itself is the problem.
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Because if you're counting, you aren't really forgiving.
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Spot on. You cannot operate as a private
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auditor of other people's failures when you yourself
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survive only by undeserved parting.
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The Ledger has to be laid down entirely because Grace has
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entered the account. The moment you are counting the
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offenses, you've already stopped forgiving so.
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Forgiveness is basically a state of being, not a transaction.
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Yes. Forgiveness in the Kingdom of
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Christ is qualitative, not quantitative.
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It is a disposition of the heart, not a tally on a
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chalkboard. So since Jesus rejects Peters
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petty arithmetic, he tells a story that blows up the scale
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entirely. He shifts the focus away from
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these horizontal day-to-day irritations between people and
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forces Peter to look at our vertical insolvency before God.
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That vertical relationship is everything here it.
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Is Jesus says the Kingdom of heaven is like a king who wished
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to settle accounts with his servants, and one servant is
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brought in who owes 10,000 talents.
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Let's breakdown the math here, because the Greek text reveals
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an amount that is intentionally absurd.
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It is completely off the charts the.
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Phrase is Mirren Talenton. A single talent in the Greco
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Roman world was equivalent to roughly 20 years of a day
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laborers wages. 20 years, yeah. 20 years of back breaking sunup
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to sundown physical labor for one single unit of this currency
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and this man owes 10,000 of them.
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The word Maria is the highest numerical term available in the
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ancient Greek language. It was.
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As high as they could count, right?
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It was often used to represent an incalculable multitude.
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It's akin to saying a zillion today, but with actual
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mathematical weight behind it. So you take 20 years of wages
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and you multiply it by 10,000. You arrive at 200,000 years of
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Labor which. Is just an impossible figure.
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We are talking about billions, perhaps trillions of dollars in
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modern equivalents. It is a sum that is physically
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impossible to settle. Even if this man lived 1000
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lifetimes and gave every single penny back to the king without
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ever buying food or shelter, he couldn't do it.
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The hyperbole is intentional, and it is devastating.
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Christ paints a picture of total hopelessness.
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This servant is not struggling under a heavy burden that he
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might eventually relieve through disciplined budgeting.
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He's. Not just behind on his car
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payment, no. He is crushed beneath an
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obligation that renders him morally and practically
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bankrupt. But look at the illusion of
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moralism the servant displays in response.
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When the king orders him to be sold along with his wife and
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children to recoup a tiny fraction of the loss, the
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servant falls on his knees. He.
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Gets desperate, he. Does he pleads, Have patience
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with me and I will pay you everything.
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Wait, hold on. I'm putting myself in the
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servant's shoes for a second. He is not running away.
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He is not denying the debt exists.
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He is asking for a payment plan. That is how it sounds at first.
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Yeah, to a modern listener, that actually sounds incredibly
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responsible. He is looking the king in the
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eye and promising to make it right.
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Why does the text view this specific promise so negatively?
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Why is his attempt to pay back the debt considered a bad thing?
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Because it reveals A terrifying blindness to his own condition,
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his promise to pay it back is an utter impossibility.
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The author of our study calls The Servants Promise a
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masterpiece of self delusion. A masterpiece of self delusion.
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That's a strong phrase it. Is because this man honestly
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thinks he just needs a better installment plan.
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He thinks he needs an extension on the deadline.
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He completely fails to realize he is utterly bankrupt.
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This points directly to the Reformed doctrine of total
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depravity as articulated in the Westminster Confession of Faith,
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Chapter 60. Let's break that down for a
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minute. So total depravity does not mean
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a person is as evil as they could possibly be in their
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outward actions. It means that the corruption of
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sin has extended to every part of their nature, their mind,
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their will, and their affections.
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So. The whole system is infected.
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Exactly. I mean, yes, completely infected
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in his fallen state, man is completely unable to contribute
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a single cent toward his own redemption.
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He lacks the spiritual capital to pay off his moral debt.
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But he still thinks he can. Right.
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The servant thinks that with enough time, enough effort,
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perhaps enough religious zeal, he can satisfy the King's
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righteous demands. The text thoroughly refutes the
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Roman Catholic notion of a treasury of merit or any
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moralism that suggests fallen humans can somehow compensate
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God for their sin through good works, penance or charity.
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So trying to pay God back is actually an insult to the scale
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of the debt, yes. The debt of sin is not difficult
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just because the number of our sins is large.
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It is impossible to pay because the one offended is infinitely
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holy. Every sin is a crime of cosmic
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treason against the Creator of the universe.
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Cosmic Tree. You cannot pay off a debt of
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infinite offense with the finite stained currency of human works.
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And the consequences of this infinite debt are catastrophic.
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The king initially commands that the man, his wife, his children
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and all that he has be sold into slavery.
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The ancient world had very strict brutal laws regarding it.
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Wasn't like modern bankruptcy, no.
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You did not just declare bankruptcy and start over with a
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lower credit score. Your entire household was
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liquidated. Your family was sold into forced
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labor. Yes.
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This illustrates the judicial reality of sin.
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Sin carries generational and communal consequences.
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Guilt before a holy God is not a private, isolated matter.
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It infects everything connected to the center.
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It's. Contagious.
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Almost it. Is and this judicial reality
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shatters the modern prosperity gospel, which treats God as a
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cosmic vending machine or a debtor to man.
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The prosperity gospel suggests that if we just speak the right
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words, claim the right promises, or possess enough faith, God
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owes us a blessing like. God is obligated to us.
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Right. It reduces the Almighty to a
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business partner who is contractually obligated to make
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us wealthy and healthy. But this parable shows we bring
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absolutely nothing to our salvation except the sin that
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makes it necessary. We are totally destitute.
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We have 0 leverage. 0 The servant's plea for more time is
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the instinctive religion of fallen humanity.
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Give me time and I will earn my way out.
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Let me try harder. Let me be a better person.
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But the Sinner does not need installment payments.
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The Sinner needs full, absolute cancellation of the debt.
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The Sinner needs a substitute. With the servant facing total
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ruin and offering an empty, delusional promise to pay back
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trillions of dollars on a laborer's wage, the narrative
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hinges entirely on the unexpected reaction of the king.
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The servant begs for time, but the king gives him something
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entirely different. Something.
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He could never have anticipated. Yeah, the text uses a very
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specific Greek term here, splanchnizomae.
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The king is moved with pity. This word does not mean he just
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felt a little bit bad for the guy.
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It refers to a gut level yearning in the inward parts.
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It's a very physical description.
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It is, the ancients believe the bowels, the guts, were the seat
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of human emotion. So this is a visceral physical
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compassion. In the New Testament, this
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specific word is used almost exclusively to describe divine
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compassion. It's.
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A uniquely divine response. Yeah, it is the same word used
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to describe the way Jesus felt when he saw the harassed and
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helpless crowds, or when he saw the widow of Nain weeping behind
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the coffin of her only son. It is a divine, agonizing love
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that compels action. And that compassion originates
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entirely within the king. The servants false promise did
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not merit this pity. The servant did not negotiate
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well enough to earn it. The King's action is completely
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sovereign. It's.
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Completely one sided, right? We look at this through the
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framework of the Westminster Confession, specifically Chapter
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11 on justification. This moment is a brilliant
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illustration of a unilateral monarchistic act.
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Let's define that term for anyone listening who might not
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be familiar. Good idea.
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Monarchism means the work is done by one party alone, as
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opposed to synergism, which is a cooperative effort in
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justification. God acts monergistically.
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He justifies the ungodly based entirely on His free grace.
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So the servant didn't cooperate to get the forgiveness.
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No, not at all. It is not based on the sinner's
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ability to pay. It's not based on God looking
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down the quarters of time and foreseeing that the Sinner will
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eventually become a good, manageable person.
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The action, the decision, and the staggering cost belongs
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solely to the King. The.
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King absorbs it all. The initiative lies entirely
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with the throne, not with the debtor.
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The king absorbs the financial loss because his character is
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defined by this gut level mercy. But.
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That raises a massive theological problem, doesn't it?
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How so? Well, you cannot just make
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trillions of dollars disappear into thin air.
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If a bank forgives your mortgage today, the bank absorbs that
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financial loss. The debt does not vanish into
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the ether. Someone always pays for it.
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If the king cancels 10,000 talents, the king is personally
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taking a 10,000 talent hit to his own treasury.
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That is the crucial theological point, Scripture interpreting
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Scripture, which is a primary interpretive principle in the
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Westminster Confession. Chapter 1, paragraph 9 shows
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that God cannot simply ignore His own justice.
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He can't just sweep it under the rug.
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He cannot. He cannot just wave a magic wand
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over the universe and pretend cosmic treason never happened.
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A just judge must punish crimes. If a human judge let a serial
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killer walk free just because he felt bad for him, we would call
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that judge corrupt. We would want that judge removed
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from the bench of. Course, God is not a corrupt
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judge. Therefore this astonishing
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compassion points directly to the cross.
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Christ is not just wave away the debt, He pays it in his own
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blood. This is the doctrine of Penal
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substitution Area tournament. So the debt was actually paid,
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just not by the servant? Yes.
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The king absorbs the massive loss, but the Gospel reveals the
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mechanism of how God can do this while remaining perfectly just.
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Christ steps in as the substitute.
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He lives the perfect life the servant failed to live, and on
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the cross he bears the infinite wrath of God against the sins of
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his people. He.
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Takes a hit. He.
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Satisfies the inflexible claims of divine justice, but the
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servant could not repay in 200,000 years of Labor.
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Christ answers completely by His obedient life and His atoning
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death. The debt is not ignored, it is
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transferred to the shoulders of the Son of God.
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So if the debt is truly that massive, and the King's
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forgiveness is truly that absolute, you would expect this
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servant to walk out of the palace a completely changed man.
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You would think so. You would expect him to be
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weeping with joy in the streets, hugging strangers, buying
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everyone dinner, overflowing with this gut level compassion
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he just received. He was facing the loss of his
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wife, his children, his freedom and his entire future.
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In one breath, he was given his life.
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Back a total reset, yeah. A total reset, but the story
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takes a jarring, violent turn. It reveals the true, wretched
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state of his unregenerate heart. The forgiven servant walks out
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of the throne room, finds a peer, A fellow servant who owes
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him 100 denarii. Let's look at the math again.
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A denarius was roughly one day's wage for a laborer.
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A. Single day's wage.
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Right, so 100 denarii is 100 days wages.
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It is about 1/3 of a year salary.
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It is a mathematically insignificant fraction compared
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to what he owed the king. I hear what you're saying about
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the math, but practically speaking it is incredibly
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difficult to tell someone who has been defrauded or abused
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that their perpetrators debt to them is insignificant compared
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to their debt to God. That is a very valid point. 100
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days wages is still a substantial amount of money.
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If someone stole four months of your salary today, you would be
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severely impacted. You might miss rent, you might
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lose your car. You would feel a massive sense
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of betrayal. The text isn't minimizing the
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genuine pain of earthly offenses, is it?
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How do we navigate that without minimizing the real pain people
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experience? That is a very serious pastoral
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observation. The Bible never minimizes human
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suffering, and it never commands us to pretend the betrayal,
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theft, abuse, or slander do not hurt.
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They cause genuine, sometimes lifelong damage.
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The 100 denarii represents real loss.
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OK, so the pain is validated. It is, however, the force of the
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parable lies entirely in the proportion the first servant was
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forgiven an absolute ocean of liability.
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He was facing an eternity of ruin for a dead of billions, yet
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he is prepared to utterly destroy a fellow human being
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over a single drop. An ocean versus a drop, yes.
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The math is what makes the hypocrisy so glaring.
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Whatever our fellow humans may owe us, no matter how deeply
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they have wounded us, it cannot compare to the infinite
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magnitude of what we owe a perfectly holy God.
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That's. A really hard truth to swallow.
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It is very hard when we fail to see the proportion we elevate
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our own pain above God's holiness.
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We act as if our localized suffering is the center of the
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moral universe, while ignoring the cosmic rebellion we have
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perpetrated against the Creator. And his reaction to this dead of
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100 denarii is shockingly violent.
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The text says the servant seizes his peer by the throat and
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begins choking him. The Greek verb used here is
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epnogen. It's a.
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Very aggressive word. It is.
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What is terrifying about this specific word is that it is in
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the imperfect tense, grammatically, that indicates A
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continuous, ongoing, relentless action.
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He is not just grabbing his shirt collar for a moment of
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intimidation, he has his hands wrapped around his fellow
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servants neck, actively suffocating him, repeatedly
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demanding pay what you owe. He is literally squeezing the
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lifeout of him he. Is squeezing the lifeout of a
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man over four months pay he then throws the man in a debtors
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prison, ensuring his family will suffer until the dead is
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magically produced the. Psychological terror in this
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scene is brilliant. The chilling repetition designed
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by Christ in the narrative cannot be missed.
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When the second servant is attacked, he falls down and
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makes a desperate plea. What?
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Does he say? He says have patience with me
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and I will pay you. It is the exact same phrase,
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word for word, that the first servant used in front of the
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king just moments before. Wow.
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Word for word, yes. The first servant hears his own
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former cry echoing back at him from the lips of his peer.
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He sees the same posture of desperation, but he feels
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absolutely nothing. It is a stunning display of
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spiritual amnesia. Spiritual amnesia.
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This is what pride does to the human mind.
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Pride selectively edits our memory.
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It magnifies the sins of others while entirely erasing our own.
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He remembers the 100 Dinari owed to him with perfect crystalline
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clarity, but he has completely forgotten the 10,000 talents He
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was just forgiven so. His memory works just fine when
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he is the victim. Precisely, his memory is highly
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functional when it comes to his rights, but completely broken
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when it comes to his pardon. You know, the author of our text
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draws a really provocative parallel here.
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They look at modern secular movements.
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And just to be clear, we are just impartially reporting what
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the author observed in the source material here, right?
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We're just looking at the sources analysis.
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Right, so the author specifically looks at cancel
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culture and critical race theory, and they observed that
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these frameworks operate on a very similar system of
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perpetual, unpayable debt. According to the analysis, these
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modern systems demand absolute systemic payment and endless
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personal vengeance. So there's no mechanism for
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actual forgiveness. According to the source, no.
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They create a society where offenses can never truly be
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wiped clean, where apologies are never sufficient, and where
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individuals are forever defined by their worst mistakes or their
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ancestral guilt, the author argues they mirror the
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unforgiving servants refusal to extend grace, choosing instead
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to nurse grievances and demand retribution rather than seeking
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actual redemption. When you look at those
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contemporary frameworks objectively, the comparison
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illustrates the stark contrast between the world standard of
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justice and the Kingdom standard of grace.
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They are totally opposed to each other.
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They are. The worldly standard is
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fundamentally about demanding strict, exacting payment for
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every slight. It says you owe me and I will
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not rest until you are ruined. It uses shame and exclusion as
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weapons to enforce compliance. But the Kingdom operates
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differently. The Kingdom standard is entirely
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different. It is about mimicking Divine
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Mercy. It recognizes that our only true
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right before God was the debtors prison, yet we were released at
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the cost of the King's own son. So to demand that from others is
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just hypocritical, yes. A heart that demands strict
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payment from others. A heart that participates in the
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endless cycle of cultural cancellation while relying on
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free grace from God is living in a state of grotesque theological
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hypocrisy. It is demanding the law for
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everyone else while demanding grace for yourself and.
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That hypocrisy does not go unnoticed.
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The narrative connects this private violence back to the
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public community, just as Jesus taught earlier in Matthew 18
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about the church being a covenant community that handles
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disputes together, the King's household watches this unfold.
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They. See the whole thing they.
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Do the fellow servants see the choking?
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They see the man dragged away to prison and the text says they
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are deeply grieved. They go and report this cruelty
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to the king. This is a heavy reminder that
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sin is never truly private. It always has collateral damage.
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Always a merciless, bitter spirit poisons the whole
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fellowship of the church. When you refuse to forgive
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someone, you do not just isolate yourself from that one person.
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You introduce a toxin into the entire body of believers.
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And the King's response to this report is terrifying.
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He summons the man back to the throne room and looks at him.
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Notice the title he gives him. He does not call him confused.
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He doesn't say. He made a mistake.
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He. Does not say he is emotionally
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strained from the trauma of his previous debt.
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He does not suggest he just needs more time to heal or some
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therapy to process his feelings. He calls him a wicked servant.
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Wicked. Yes.
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The more logic the king uses is inescapable.
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Should not you have had mercy on your fellow servant as I had
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mercy on you? To receive divine pity, to be
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spared from total annihilation, and then actively refused to
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show pity to a neighbor is the definition of moral evil.
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It's just flat out evil it. Is a fundamental rejection of
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the logic of grace. It proves that the servant loved
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the benefit of forgiveness, but he absolutely hated the
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principle of forgiveness. The King's sentence is immediate
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and severe. The man is delivered to the
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tormentors until he pays his unpayable debt.
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Now let's connect the dots here. We already established
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mathematically that 10,000 talents is impossible to pay.
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It would take hundreds of thousands of years of Labor.
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He can. Never pay it off right?
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So delivering him to the jailers until the debt is paid means
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this punishment has absolutely no end.
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He can never satisfy the requirement.
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The source identifies this consequence clearly as a picture
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of eternal conscious torment. It is a picture of hell.
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Which introduces a massive theological tension and we must
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clarify the Reformed theology here to prevent a severe
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misunderstanding of the Gospel. Yeah, we need to be really clear
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here the. Question is this, Does this
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parable teach that a truly justified believer can lose
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their salvation? If you are a Christian and you
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stumble into sin by holding a grudge against a family member,
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does God revoke your justification, reinstate your
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10,000 tower dead and send you to hell?
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That is a terrifying thought. It is, but the Reformed
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tradition firmly says no, and it cites the Westminster Confession
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of Faith, Chapter 7 on the perseverance of the Saints.
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The doctrine states that those whom God has accepted in His
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beloved, effectually called and sanctified by His Spirit, can
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neither totally nor finally fall away from the state of grace.
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So they are secure. Their salvation is secured by
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the unchangeable love of God the Father and the efficacious merit
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and intercession of Jesus Christ.
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Wait if the. Doctor of Perseverance says true
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believers cannot lose their salvation.
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How do we reconcile the text? The man is explicitly told his
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massive debt is forgiven in verse 32, and then in verse 34
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he is cast to the tormentors. To a plain reading, it looks
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like he had salvation and then he lost it because he failed a
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moral test. The key is understanding the
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nature of parables and the nature of visible versus
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invisible realities in the church.
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The unforgiving heart is not a loss of grace, but proof of its
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absolute absence from the very beginning.
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So he was never truly forgiven in a spiritual sense.
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Right. The servant experienced an
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outward temporal suspension of consequence in the parable,
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which represents the external privileges of being part of the
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visible church. He tasted the patience of the
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king, but his violent, unforgiving, throat grabbing
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nature proved his heart was never actually transformed.
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He was never regenerated. He looked the part, but he
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wasn't changed. As the apostle John writes in
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First John 2.18, they went out from us, but they were not of
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us, for if they had been of us, they would have continued with
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us. If a person remains habitually
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bitter, merciless and cruel as a pattern of life, it proves they
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have never been born again by the Holy Spirit.
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Because a good tree bears good fruit.
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Exactly. Yeah.
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I mean, yes. A heart completely untouched by
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grace cannot produce grace. The wicked servant represents
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the false professor. Someone who sits in the Pew,
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sings the hymns, uses the theological language of being
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forgiven, but shows by their relentless, unyielding
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resentment toward others that they are total strangers to the
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king. They have the vocabulary of
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grace, but none of the reality. Which brings up the Westminster
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Confession, chapter 19, discussing the law of God.
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If we cannot lose our salvation, how should the justified, secure
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believer understand this severe, terrifying warning about the
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tormentors? Why does Jesus speak so harshly
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to people who are supposedly safe in His grace?
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The warning functions is what theologians call the third use
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of the law. It acts as a rule of life.
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It calls true believers to serious, agonizing self
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examination. We have to test ourselves.
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Yes, we must examine the reality of our union with Christ.
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True saving faith inevitably produces the fruit of a
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forgiving spirit. Not perfectly, of course.
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True believers will often struggle with bitterness.
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They will shed tears fighting against the desire to retaliate.
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It's still a fight. But the overall trajectory of a
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justified life is toward mercy. The warning in this parable
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wakes us up from spiritual lethargy.
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It acts like a splash of ice water to the face, forcing us to
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ask, Is my life demonstrating the mercy I claim to rely on for
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my eternal survival? That's a sobering question.
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If I am comfortable living in perpetual bitterness, I have
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every reason to question whether I actually know Christ at all.
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So what does this all mean for you listening right now?
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The theology is heavy, but it cannot stay in the abstract.
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This deep dive has to move from the 1st century Roman courts
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into your living room, your workplace, in your church.
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We. Have to bring it home, yeah.
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The text breaks this practical application down into three
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specific areas, Head, heart, and hands.
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Let's start with the head. But understanding the math in
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your head isn't enough, is it? Because when someone actually
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wrongs you, the anger doesn't live in your intellect, it lives
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in your gut. The head represents the
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intellectual baseline. You must actually believe the
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staggering reality of your own spiritual insolvency.
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You cannot view your sin as a series of minor slip UPS,
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unfortunate mistakes, or psychological trauma responses
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you. Have to own it.
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You have. To look at the law of God and
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admit I owe 10,000 talents, I have committed cosmic treason.
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You have to grasp the doctrine of justification intellectually.
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The reality that your billions in debt were cancelled solely by
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sovereign compassion, not your own effort.
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If you think you earned it, you'll never forgive anyone
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else, right? If you think you are basically a
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good person who just needs a little bit of God's coaching to
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reach your potential, you will never be able to forgive others.
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Why? Because you don't think you've
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been forgiven of much. You think God gave you a slight
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discount? Wow, a slight discount only.
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People who know they were saved from the gallows can look at an
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offender and offer pardon. Then we move to the heart, which
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targets your affections. This is where it gets incredibly
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uncomfortable. The text demands a gut level
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gratitude for the King's mercy, which must naturally produce a
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holy revulsion at our own self righteousness it.
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Targets our deepest feelings it. Does it means actively
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identifying and crushing the idols of victimhood?
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In our modern psychological landscape, it is remarkably easy
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to build a core identity around how we have been wronged.
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We take our past injuries and we wear them like armor.
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It's. Very common today we.
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Use the very real trauma we have experienced as a shield to
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justify our current cruelty, our sharp tongue, or our refusal to
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love. We say you don't understand what
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they did to me, so I have the right to be bitter, but the.
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Text won't allow that, yeah. No.
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The heart application means realizing that the ground is
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completely level at the foot of the cross.
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Your trauma is real, but it does not grant you an exemption from
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the command to love. And finally, the hands.
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This is the outward obedience. And frankly, this is where the
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theology hits the pavement. It is the hardest part of the
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Christian life if it's. The actual action.
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It means going to the spouse who betrayed your trust, the parent
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who neglected you, the sibling who lied about you, or the
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church elder who handled the situation terribly and offering
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genuine heart level pardon. You actually have to do it You.
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Do it means laying down the weapon you have been holding
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against their throat. You actively stop demanding that
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they pay you back for the emotional relational debt they
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owe you. You cancel the 100 denarii.
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But practically speaking, how does a person actually do that?
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When the betrayal is deep? When the wounds refresh?
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When the person who hurt you isn't even sorry, human
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willpower is not enough to just let it go it.
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Definitely isn't. You can't just grit your teeth
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and force your heart to feel mercy towards someone who
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destroyed your life. What is the actual mechanism for
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forgiveness here? You cannot do this by following
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psychological checklist or muscling through with sheer
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willpower. You cannot look within yourself
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to find the strength, because within yourself is only the
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flesh which desires vengeance. So.
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We have to look outside ourselves.
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Yes, you can only drop the Weapons of Bitterness because
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you are clothed in Christ. The Holy Spirit is the agent who
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enables you to release the throat of your debtor, and the
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text beautifully connects this ongoing need for reorientation
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to the Lord's Supper. The communion table the.
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Sacraments are given to us to strengthen our weak faith.
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When the Church gathers at the Communion table, it is a
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physical, visible sign that your infinite debt was nailed to the
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cross. You take the bread and the cup
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into your hands. You.
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Can physically touch it. You taste the bitterness of the
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wine representing the blood that paid your 10,000 talents.
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You do not come to the table because you have achieved
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perfect moral victory over your grudges.
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You come because you are a bankrupt debtor who has been
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shown immeasurable pity. We come desperate.
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As you physically participate in the Lord's Supper, the Holy
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Spirit reorients your brains perspective on justice and
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mercy. Empowered by that union with
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Christ, sustained by the ordinary means of grace, you
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find the supernatural strength to extend that pity horizontally
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to the people around you. You forgive because you are
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continually feeding on the forgiveness of Christ.
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We have covered a massive amount of theological and practical
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ground today. We have looked at the sheer
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crushing weight of 10,000 talents, 200,000 years of
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unpayable debt. A debt we could never touch.
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Right. We have seen the liberating,
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unilateral truth of Christ's payment on the cross, and we
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have seen the terrifying, blinding hypocrisy of choking
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our neighbors for pennies when we have been forgiven billions
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it. Puts everything in perspective.
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It really does. I want to leave you with a final
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thought to Mull over as you go about your week, as you sit in
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traffic or as you interact with that family member who always
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gets under your skin. Something to really sit with,
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yeah. When you look closely at the
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grievances you hold onto, the grudges you nurse in quiet
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moments, the resentments you refuse to let go of, ask
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yourself a very hard question. Are those grievances really
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protecting your righteous sense of justice?
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Or are they quietly proving that you still do not comprehend what
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it costs the king to forgive you that?
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Is the ultimate test. If our earthly resentments are a
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mirror, what do they reflect about our understanding of the
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Cross? Thank you for joining us for
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this deep dive on reformed thinking.