Latest / Burning Brightly / 69. How to Grow Your Coaching Business
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- 0:00The
- 0:00bummer
- 0:00is
- 0:00that
- 0:00these
- 0:01small,
- 0:01simple
- 0:01steps
- 0:02are
- 0:02not
- 0:02exciting.
- 0:03They're
- 0:03not
- 0:03sexy.
- 0:04They're
- 0:04not
- 0:04grandiose.
- 0:05Nobody's
- 0:05going
- 0:05to
- 0:05be
- 0:06like,
- 0:06Oh,
- 0:06you
- 0:06posted
- 0:06every
- 0:07day
- 0:07on
- 0:07social
- 0:07media
- 0:07this
- 0:08week.
- 0:08Good
- 0:08job.
- 0:09Nobody
- 0:09cares.
- 0:10Right?
- 0:10They
- 0:10don't
- 0:10seem
- 0:11to
- 0:11matter.
- 0:11important,
- 0:12but
- 0:12it's
- 0:12these
- 0:12small
- 0:13ones
- 0:13that
- 0:13make
- 0:14all
- 0:14the
- 0:14difference.
- 0:15Eventually,
- 0:15you're
- 0:15going
- 0:15to
- 0:15get
- 0:16to
- 0:16a
- 0:16point
- 0:16where
- 0:16these
- 0:16small,
- 0:17simple
- 0:17actions
- 0:17are
- 0:18just
- 0:18second
- 0:18nature
- 0:19to
- 0:19you.
- 0:19They're
- 0:19just
- 0:19a
- 0:19habit.
- 0:20And
- 0:20then
- 0:20you
- 0:20can
- 0:21build
- 0:21from
- 0:21there
- 0:21and
- 0:22do
- 0:22bigger,
- 0:22greater
- 0:23things.
- 0:23But
- 0:23if
- 0:23you
- 0:23don't
- 0:24start
- 0:24small,
- 0:24you
- 0:25never
- 0:25make
- 0:25progress.
- 0:28This
- 0:28is
- 0:28Burning
- 0:28Brightly,
- 0:29a
- 0:29podcast
- 0:30for
- 0:30Christian
- 0:30moms
- 0:30who
- 0:31are
- 0:31feeling
- 0:31called
- 0:31to
- 0:31build
- 0:32a
- 0:32business
- 0:32and
- 0:32share
- 0:33their
- 0:33light
- 0:33with
- 0:33the
- 0:33world.
- 0:34I'm
- 0:34Bonnie
- 0:35Wiscombe,
- 0:35a
- 0:35life
- 0:35coach,
- 0:36mom,
- 0:36and
- 0:37entrepreneur,
- 0:38and
- 0:38I'm
- 0:38honored
- 0:38to
- 0:38be
- 0:38your
- 0:38guide
- 0:39as
- 0:39you
- 0:39face
- 0:39this
- 0:39business
- 0:40building
- 0:40adventure
- 0:41full
- 0:41of
- 0:41highs,
- 0:42lows,
- 0:42and
- 0:42everything
- 0:43in
- 0:43between.
- 0:44This
- 0:44is
- 0:44where
- 0:44we
- 0:44help
- 0:44each
- 0:45other
- 0:45find
- 0:45the
- 0:45courage
- 0:46to
- 0:46shine.
- 0:51Hey
- 0:51there.
- 0:51So
- 0:51I
- 0:52bet
- 0:52that
- 0:52you
- 0:52got
- 0:52into
- 0:52the
- 0:52coaching
- 0:53space
- 0:53to
- 0:53make
- 0:54an
- 0:54impact,
- 0:54to
- 0:55make
- 0:55a
- 0:55difference,
- 0:55to
- 0:56change
- 0:56the
- 0:56world
- 0:56in
- 0:56some
- 0:56way
- 0:57or
- 0:57another.
- 0:57But
- 0:57why
- 0:58in
- 0:58the
- 0:58world
- 0:58is
- 0:59it
- 0:59so
- 0:59hard
- 0:59to
- 0:59build
- 1:00the
- 1:00business
- 1:00aspect
- 1:01of
- 1:01it?
- 1:01Why
- 1:01can't
- 1:02you
- 1:02find
- 1:02clients?
- 1:02Why
- 1:03can't
- 1:03you
- 1:03make
- 1:03money?
- 1:04I
- 1:04get
- 1:04it,
- 1:04my
- 1:04friend.
- 1:05I
- 1:05have
- 1:05been
- 1:05there
- 1:05too.
- 1:06If
- 1:06you
- 1:06are
- 1:06tired
- 1:06of
- 1:06running
- 1:07around
- 1:07and
- 1:07trying
- 1:07all
- 1:07the
- 1:07things
- 1:08that
- 1:08the
- 1:08experts
- 1:08tell
- 1:08you
- 1:08to
- 1:08do
- 1:09and
- 1:09still
- 1:09not
- 1:09making
- 1:10any
- 1:10money
- 1:10as
- 1:10a
- 1:10coach,
- 1:11then
- 1:11this
- 1:11is
- 1:11for
- 1:12you.
- 1:12So
- 1:12let's
- 1:12dive
- 1:13into
- 1:13this.
- 1:13Here's
- 1:14the
- 1:14issue.
- 1:14Being
- 1:14a
- 1:14coach
- 1:15and
- 1:15being
- 1:15a
- 1:16business
- 1:16owner
- 1:16require
- 1:17two
- 1:17very
- 1:18different
- 1:18skill
- 1:18sets.
- 1:19Being
- 1:19a
- 1:20coach
- 1:20requires
- 1:20compassion
- 1:21and
- 1:22understanding
- 1:22and
- 1:23a
- 1:23listening
- 1:23ear.
- 1:24It
- 1:24involves
- 1:25seeing
- 1:25things
- 1:25from
- 1:26a
- 1:26different
- 1:26perspective.
- 1:27It
- 1:27involves
- 1:27helping
- 1:27clients
- 1:28stay
- 1:28accountable,
- 1:29managing
- 1:29their
- 1:29own
- 1:29minds,
- 1:30staying
- 1:30neutral
- 1:30while
- 1:31you
- 1:31look
- 1:31at
- 1:31their
- 1:31lives.
- 1:32So
- 1:32many
- 1:32deep
- 1:33skill
- 1:33sets
- 1:33that
- 1:34I
- 1:34bet
- 1:34you're
- 1:34really
- 1:34good
- 1:35at.
- 1:35Unfortunately,
- 1:35building
- 1:36a
- 1:36business
- 1:36requires
- 1:37much
- 1:37different
- 1:37skills
- 1:38and
- 1:38they
- 1:38are
- 1:38real
- 1:39tactical
- 1:39skills
- 1:40that
- 1:40we
- 1:40have
- 1:40to
- 1:40develop
- 1:41or
- 1:41we're
- 1:41never
- 1:41going
- 1:41to
- 1:41have
- 1:41a
- 1:42successful
- 1:42business
- 1:42like
- 1:43we're
- 1:43dreaming
- 1:43of.
- 1:43Being
- 1:43a
- 1:43business
- 1:44owner
- 1:44requires
- 1:44being
- 1:45analytical
- 1:45and
- 1:46creative.
- 1:47You
- 1:47have
- 1:47to
- 1:47be
- 1:47able
- 1:47to
- 1:48try
- 1:48and
- 1:48try
- 1:48and
- 1:48try
- 1:49and
- 1:49fail
- 1:49and
- 1:49still
- 1:49get
- 1:50up
- 1:50and
- 1:50keep
- 1:50going.
- 1:51You
- 1:51have
- 1:51to
- 1:51be
- 1:51disciplined.
- 1:52You
- 1:52have
- 1:52to
- 1:52be
- 1:52consistent
- 1:53and
- 1:53you
- 1:53have
- 1:53to
- 1:53be
- 1:53a
- 1:53big
- 1:54thinker
- 1:54who
- 1:54was
- 1:54willing
- 1:55to
- 1:55be
- 1:55persistent
- 1:56until
- 1:56it
- 1:56works.
- 1:57But
- 1:57I
- 1:57bet
- 1:57you
- 1:57can
- 1:57see
- 1:58some
- 1:58of
- 1:58those
- 1:58skills
- 1:59in
- 1:59yourself.
- 2:00You
- 2:00just
- 2:00haven't
- 2:01yet
- 2:01figured
- 2:01out
- 2:01a
- 2:01way
- 2:01to
- 2:02combine
- 2:02them
- 2:02in
- 2:03a
- 2:03way
- 2:03that
- 2:03works
- 2:04and
- 2:04is
- 2:04profitable
- 2:05for
- 2:05you.
- 2:05So
- 2:05we're
- 2:05going
- 2:05to
- 2:05talk
- 2:06about
- 2:06that
- 2:06today.
- 2:06First
- 2:07of
- 2:07all,
- 2:07of
- 2:07course,
- 2:07you
- 2:07have
- 2:07to
- 2:08believe
- 2:08that
- 2:08you
- 2:08can
- 2:08become
- 2:09a
- 2:09successful
- 2:09business
- 2:09owner.
- 2:10We
- 2:10know
- 2:10as
- 2:10coaches,
- 2:11the
- 2:11mind
- 2:11is
- 2:12the
- 2:12key
- 2:12to
- 2:12everything.
- 2:13So
- 2:13if
- 2:13you
- 2:13don't
- 2:13believe
- 2:13you
- 2:14can
- 2:14do
- 2:14it,
- 2:14you
- 2:15can't,
- 2:15you're
- 2:15not
- 2:15going
- 2:16to
- 2:16be
- 2:16able
- 2:16to
- 2:16do
- 2:16it.
- 2:16That
- 2:16is
- 2:17the
- 2:17truth.
- 2:17So
- 2:18step
- 2:18number
- 2:18one
- 2:18is
- 2:18going
- 2:19to
- 2:19be
- 2:19working
- 2:19on
- 2:19your
- 2:20own
- 2:20mindset.
- 2:20Of
- 2:20course
- 2:21you
- 2:21know
- 2:21that,
- 2:21but
- 2:21I'm
- 2:21going
- 2:21to
- 2:21talk
- 2:21about
- 2:22three
- 2:22other
- 2:22steps
- 2:22that
- 2:22are
- 2:23critical
- 2:23for
- 2:23building
- 2:24a
- 2:24business
- 2:24that
- 2:24is
- 2:24successful
- 2:25today
- 2:26and
- 2:26in
- 2:26the
- 2:26longterm
- 2:27so
- 2:27that
- 2:27you
- 2:27can
- 2:27make
- 2:28a
- 2:28difference
- 2:28in
- 2:28the
- 2:28world
- 2:28like
- 2:28you're
- 2:28dreaming
- 2:29of
- 2:29and
- 2:29actually
- 2:30make
- 2:30money
- 2:30to
- 2:30change
- 2:31your
- 2:31family's
- 2:31life.
- 2:31Okay,
- 2:32so
- 2:32step
- 2:32number
- 2:32one,
- 2:33you
- 2:33need
- 2:33to
- 2:33know
- 2:33and
- 2:34intimately
- 2:34understand
- 2:35the
- 2:35basic
- 2:36customer
- 2:36journey
- 2:37for
- 2:37your
- 2:37customer
- 2:37or
- 2:38client.
- 2:38What
- 2:38does
- 2:38that
- 2:39mean?
- 2:39It
- 2:39means
- 2:39what
- 2:40are
- 2:40the
- 2:40steps
- 2:40they're
- 2:41going
- 2:41to
- 2:41have
- 2:41to
- 2:41go
- 2:41through
- 2:41to
- 2:42be
- 2:42willing
- 2:42to
- 2:42buy
- 2:43from
- 2:43you?
- 2:43You
- 2:44would
- 2:44never
- 2:44meet
- 2:44a
- 2:44person
- 2:45online,
- 2:45a
- 2:45random
- 2:46stranger
- 2:46and
- 2:46get
- 2:47married
- 2:47to
- 2:47them
- 2:47the
- 2:47next
- 2:47day.
- 2:48That's
- 2:48weird
- 2:48and
- 2:48creepy.
- 2:49Similarly,
- 2:50it
- 2:50is
- 2:50extremely
- 2:51rare
- 2:51to
- 2:51confront
- 2:52a
- 2:52business
- 2:52online
- 2:52and
- 2:53immediately
- 2:53pay
- 2:53them
- 2:54money.
- 2:54That
- 2:54might
- 2:54happen
- 2:55with
- 2:55a
- 2:55random
- 2:55business
- 2:56on
- 2:56Amazon,
- 2:56but
- 2:56it's
- 2:56not
- 2:57going
- 2:57to
- 2:57happen
- 2:57For
- 2:57a
- 2:57coach
- 2:58who's
- 2:58asking
- 2:58hundreds
- 2:59or
- 2:59thousands
- 2:59of
- 2:59dollars
- 3:00to
- 3:00work
- 3:00with
- 3:00someone.
- 3:01Your
- 3:01audience
- 3:01needs
- 3:02to
- 3:02know
- 3:02you,
- 3:02they
- 3:02need
- 3:02to
- 3:03like
- 3:03you,
- 3:03and
- 3:03they
- 3:03need
- 3:04to
- 3:04trust
- 3:04that
- 3:04you
- 3:04can
- 3:04give
- 3:05them
- 3:05results.
- 3:06If
- 3:06they
- 3:06don't
- 3:06believe
- 3:06those
- 3:07things
- 3:07and
- 3:07they
- 3:07don't
- 3:07like
- 3:08you
- 3:08for
- 3:08whatever
- 3:08reason,
- 3:09they're
- 3:09never
- 3:09going
- 3:09to
- 3:09pay
- 3:09you
- 3:10the
- 3:10money
- 3:10that
- 3:10you
- 3:10are
- 3:10asking
- 3:11to
- 3:11give
- 3:11them
- 3:11this
- 3:12transformation
- 3:12in
- 3:12your
- 3:12life.
- 3:13So
- 3:13that's
- 3:13what
- 3:13we
- 3:13have
- 3:13to
- 3:14understand.
- 3:14What
- 3:14steps
- 3:15do
- 3:15they
- 3:15have
- 3:15to
- 3:15go
- 3:15through
- 3:15in
- 3:16order
- 3:16to
- 3:16be
- 3:16ready
- 3:17to
- 3:17hire
- 3:17me
- 3:18and
- 3:18have
- 3:18faith
- 3:19in
- 3:19themselves
- 3:19and
- 3:20in
- 3:20me
- 3:20in
- 3:21helping
- 3:21them
- 3:21get
- 3:21those
- 3:22results.
- 3:22So
- 3:22that
- 3:22basic
- 3:23customer
- 3:23journey
- 3:23has
- 3:23three
- 3:24steps.
- 3:24Lots
- 3:25of
- 3:25threes
- 3:25today.
- 3:26Number
- 3:26one,
- 3:26you
- 3:26have
- 3:26to
- 3:26be
- 3:27able
- 3:27to
- 3:27find
- 3:27new
- 3:28leads.
- 3:28What
- 3:28is
- 3:28a
- 3:28lead?
- 3:29It
- 3:29is
- 3:29any
- 3:29person
- 3:30who
- 3:30has
- 3:30given
- 3:30you
- 3:30their
- 3:30contact
- 3:31information.
- 3:31So
- 3:32if
- 3:32you
- 3:32have
- 3:3250,
- 3:33000
- 3:33followers
- 3:33on
- 3:33Instagram
- 3:34or
- 3:34more,
- 3:34those
- 3:34are
- 3:34not
- 3:35leads.
- 3:35Those
- 3:35are
- 3:35just
- 3:35followers
- 3:36and
- 3:37you
- 3:37could
- 3:37lose
- 3:37your
- 3:37account
- 3:37tomorrow.
- 3:38Or
- 3:38as
- 3:38we've
- 3:38seen
- 3:39lately,
- 3:39Instagram
- 3:39could
- 3:40switch
- 3:40their
- 3:41algorithm
- 3:41up
- 3:41so
- 3:41that
- 3:42none
- 3:42of
- 3:42your
- 3:42followers
- 3:42are
- 3:43even
- 3:43seeing
- 3:43your
- 3:43content.
- 3:44That
- 3:44is
- 3:44not
- 3:44a
- 3:45lead.
- 3:45So
- 3:45you
- 3:45have
- 3:45to
- 3:45get
- 3:46your
- 3:46audience
- 3:46to
- 3:47become
- 3:47leads.
- 3:47What
- 3:47does
- 3:47that
- 3:48look
- 3:48like?
- 3:48Looks
- 3:49like
- 3:49exchanging
- 3:49value
- 3:50for
- 3:50their
- 3:50email
- 3:51address.
- 3:51What
- 3:51are
- 3:51you
- 3:51going
- 3:51to
- 3:51give
- 3:52them
- 3:52in
- 3:52exchange
- 3:53for
- 3:53a
- 3:53way
- 3:53to
- 3:53contact
- 3:53them
- 3:54regularly?
- 3:54Now
- 3:55how
- 3:55do
- 3:55we
- 3:55find
- 3:55these
- 3:56leads?
- 3:56Lots
- 3:56of
- 3:56different
- 3:57ways.
- 3:57Probably
- 3:57social
- 3:58media
- 3:58you're
- 3:58already
- 3:58doing,
- 3:58maybe
- 3:59on
- 3:59YouTube,
- 3:59word
- 4:00of
- 4:00mouth.
- 4:00If
- 4:00you
- 4:00have
- 4:01clients
- 4:01or
- 4:01other
- 4:01people
- 4:01that
- 4:02know
- 4:02how
- 4:02you
- 4:02can
- 4:03give
- 4:03them
- 4:03transformations,
- 4:04ask
- 4:04them
- 4:05to
- 4:05tell
- 4:05their
- 4:05friends
- 4:05about
- 4:05you,
- 4:05referrals,
- 4:06right?
- 4:07Maybe
- 4:07even
- 4:07paid
- 4:08ads
- 4:08or
- 4:08getting
- 4:08in
- 4:08front
- 4:08of
- 4:09other
- 4:09people's
- 4:09audiences,
- 4:10like
- 4:10swapping
- 4:10podcast
- 4:11interviews
- 4:11or
- 4:11guest
- 4:12posting
- 4:12on
- 4:12someone's
- 4:13blog.
- 4:13Lots
- 4:13of
- 4:14different
- 4:14ways
- 4:14to
- 4:14get
- 4:14in
- 4:14front
- 4:15of
- 4:15strangers
- 4:16in
- 4:16the
- 4:16hopes
- 4:16that
- 4:16they
- 4:16will
- 4:16give
- 4:17you
- 4:17their
- 4:17contact
- 4:17information.
- 4:18So
- 4:19once
- 4:19we
- 4:19have
- 4:19leads,
- 4:20step
- 4:20number
- 4:20two
- 4:20in
- 4:20the
- 4:20customer
- 4:21journey
- 4:21is
- 4:21to
- 4:21nurture
- 4:22those
- 4:22leads.
- 4:23Again,
- 4:23like
- 4:23the
- 4:23dating
- 4:23analogy,
- 4:24if
- 4:24you
- 4:24meet
- 4:24a
- 4:24stranger
- 4:25and
- 4:25you
- 4:25go
- 4:25on
- 4:25a
- 4:25date
- 4:26or
- 4:26two,
- 4:26now
- 4:27how
- 4:27do
- 4:27we
- 4:27nurture
- 4:27this
- 4:28relationship
- 4:28until
- 4:28it
- 4:29becomes
- 4:29something
- 4:29more
- 4:29serious?
- 4:30We
- 4:30do
- 4:31this
- 4:31with
- 4:31more
- 4:31free
- 4:32content
- 4:32and
- 4:32more
- 4:33free
- 4:33help.
- 4:33When
- 4:34do
- 4:34you
- 4:34want
- 4:34to
- 4:34work
- 4:34with
- 4:34somebody
- 4:35online
- 4:35when
- 4:35they've
- 4:35already
- 4:36helped
- 4:36you
- 4:36get
- 4:36results
- 4:37in
- 4:37some
- 4:37way
- 4:37or
- 4:37another
- 4:38through
- 4:38their
- 4:38free
- 4:38content,
- 4:38again,
- 4:39blogs,
- 4:40podcasts,
- 4:40YouTube
- 4:41videos,
- 4:42email
- 4:42sequences,
- 4:43right?
- 4:43If
- 4:43you're
- 4:43sending
- 4:44out
- 4:44emails
- 4:44every
- 4:44week,
- 4:45is
- 4:45it
- 4:45giving
- 4:45them
- 4:45really
- 4:46good
- 4:46value
- 4:46that
- 4:47is
- 4:47helping
- 4:47them
- 4:47get
- 4:48to
- 4:48a
- 4:48better
- 4:48place
- 4:49so
- 4:49that
- 4:49they
- 4:49know
- 4:50when
- 4:50they're
- 4:50really
- 4:51ready
- 4:51to
- 4:51see
- 4:51results,
- 4:51they
- 4:52come
- 4:52and
- 4:52pay
- 4:52you
- 4:52for
- 4:52those
- 4:53results.
- 4:53So
- 4:53that's
- 4:53the
- 4:54nurturing
- 4:54step.
- 4:54Find
- 4:55those
- 4:55leads,
- 4:55nurture
- 4:56those
- 4:56leads.
- 4:56And
- 4:56then
- 4:56the
- 4:56third
- 4:57step
- 4:57in
- 4:57that
- 4:57customer
- 4:57journey
- 4:58is
- 4:58to
- 4:59help
- 4:59them
- 4:59become
- 5:00clients.
- 5:00How
- 5:00do
- 5:00we
- 5:00help
- 5:01them
- 5:01become
- 5:01clients?
- 5:01By
- 5:01converting
- 5:02them
- 5:02to
- 5:02clients.
- 5:02This
- 5:03is
- 5:03like
- 5:03the
- 5:03proposal
- 5:04in
- 5:04a
- 5:04relationship,
- 5:04the
- 5:04engagement,
- 5:05right?
- 5:05How
- 5:06do
- 5:06we
- 5:06get
- 5:06ready
- 5:06for
- 5:07marriage
- 5:07or
- 5:07that
- 5:07client
- 5:08coach
- 5:08relationship?
- 5:09Now
- 5:09there's
- 5:09lots
- 5:09of
- 5:09different
- 5:10ways
- 5:10to
- 5:10ascend
- 5:10the
- 5:10relationship
- 5:11to
- 5:11where
- 5:11they
- 5:11pay
- 5:12you
- 5:12money,
- 5:12but
- 5:12that
- 5:13could
- 5:13look
- 5:13like
- 5:13webinars
- 5:14where
- 5:14you
- 5:14pitch
- 5:14your
- 5:16It
- 5:16could
- 5:16look
- 5:16like
- 5:16sales
- 5:17calls
- 5:17for
- 5:17a
- 5:17lot
- 5:17of
- 5:17us.
- 5:17It's
- 5:17just,
- 5:18we
- 5:18get
- 5:18on
- 5:18a
- 5:18one
- 5:18on
- 5:18one
- 5:18call
- 5:19with
- 5:19somebody
- 5:19and
- 5:19we
- 5:19say,
- 5:19Hey,
- 5:20tell
- 5:20me
- 5:20about
- 5:20your
- 5:20problem.
- 5:21I'll
- 5:21tell
- 5:21you
- 5:21about
- 5:21my
- 5:21solution.
- 5:22Does
- 5:22it
- 5:22sound
- 5:22like
- 5:22a
- 5:22good
- 5:22fit?
- 5:23And
- 5:23they
- 5:23say
- 5:23yes
- 5:24or
- 5:24no.
- 5:24And
- 5:24we
- 5:24move
- 5:24on.
- 5:25In
- 5:25other
- 5:25words,
- 5:25anytime
- 5:26you
- 5:26are
- 5:26chatting
- 5:27with
- 5:27somebody
- 5:27and
- 5:28you
- 5:28offer
- 5:28a
- 5:28solution
- 5:29to
- 5:29their
- 5:29problem
- 5:30and
- 5:30they
- 5:30choose
- 5:30to
- 5:30work
- 5:31with
- 5:31you,
- 5:31that
- 5:31is
- 5:32how
- 5:32you
- 5:32convert
- 5:33them
- 5:33into
- 5:33a
- 5:33client.
- 5:34so
- 5:34that
- 5:34is
- 5:34step
- 5:35number
- 5:35one
- 5:35of
- 5:35how
- 5:35to
- 5:35grow
- 5:35your
- 5:36coaching
- 5:36business
- 5:36is
- 5:36be
- 5:37really
- 5:37familiar
- 5:37with
- 5:38that
- 5:38customer
- 5:38journey.
- 5:39Step
- 5:39number
- 5:39two,
- 5:40actively
- 5:41manage
- 5:41your
- 5:41stories.
- 5:42What
- 5:42stories
- 5:43am
- 5:43I
- 5:43talking
- 5:43about?
- 5:44I'm
- 5:44talking
- 5:44about
- 5:44the
- 5:44mental
- 5:45stories
- 5:45that
- 5:45go
- 5:45through
- 5:46our
- 5:46mind
- 5:46all
- 5:47day
- 5:47long,
- 5:47like
- 5:48a
- 5:48loop
- 5:48stories
- 5:49that
- 5:49we
- 5:49think
- 5:50are
- 5:50truth.
- 5:51This
- 5:51is
- 5:51what
- 5:51life
- 5:51coaches
- 5:52do,
- 5:52right?
- 5:52We
- 5:53manage
- 5:53the
- 5:53mind
- 5:54so
- 5:54that
- 5:55we
- 5:55can
- 5:55go
- 5:55out
- 5:55and
- 5:55accomplish
- 5:56big
- 5:56dreams.
- 5:57It's
- 5:57always
- 5:57our
- 5:58mind
- 5:58that's
- 5:58keeping
- 5:58us,
- 5:59always
- 6:00our
- 6:00mind
- 6:00that's
- 6:00keeping
- 6:00us
- 6:00stuck.
- 6:01We
- 6:01know
- 6:01that
- 6:02when
- 6:02we
- 6:02coach
- 6:02people
- 6:02on
- 6:02weight
- 6:03loss
- 6:03or
- 6:03organization
- 6:04or
- 6:04relationships
- 6:05or
- 6:05anything
- 6:05else,
- 6:05it's
- 6:06the
- 6:06same
- 6:07thing
- 6:07in
- 6:07business.
- 6:08This
- 6:08is
- 6:08why
- 6:09I
- 6:09chose
- 6:10to
- 6:10get
- 6:10certified
- 6:10as
- 6:10a
- 6:10life
- 6:11coach
- 6:11before
- 6:11coaching
- 6:12on
- 6:12business.
- 6:12I
- 6:12would
- 6:12try
- 6:12to
- 6:13help
- 6:13friends
- 6:13and
- 6:13family
- 6:13with
- 6:13business.
- 6:14They'd
- 6:14ask
- 6:14for
- 6:14my
- 6:14advice.
- 6:15They'd
- 6:15say,
- 6:16how
- 6:16would
- 6:16you
- 6:16build
- 6:16this
- 6:16business?
- 6:17What
- 6:17should
- 6:17I
- 6:17do
- 6:17next?
- 6:18And
- 6:18I
- 6:18would
- 6:18give
- 6:18them
- 6:19advice
- 6:19and
- 6:19then
- 6:19they
- 6:19wouldn't
- 6:20take
- 6:20action
- 6:20and
- 6:20it
- 6:20drove
- 6:20me
- 6:21crazy.
- 6:21I'm
- 6:21thinking,
- 6:22why
- 6:22are
- 6:22you
- 6:22asking
- 6:22me
- 6:22for
- 6:23advice
- 6:23if
- 6:23you're
- 6:23not
- 6:23taking
- 6:23action?
- 6:24Because
- 6:24the
- 6:24stories
- 6:25were
- 6:25keeping
- 6:25them
- 6:25stuck.
- 6:26Once
- 6:26I
- 6:26learned
- 6:27that
- 6:27and
- 6:27I
- 6:27learned
- 6:27how
- 6:27to
- 6:28push
- 6:28through
- 6:28those
- 6:28stories,
- 6:28how
- 6:29to
- 6:29break
- 6:29them
- 6:29apart,
- 6:29dismantle
- 6:30them
- 6:30a
- 6:30little
- 6:30bit,
- 6:31then
- 6:31I
- 6:31could
- 6:31really
- 6:32help
- 6:32my
- 6:32friends
- 6:32and
- 6:32family
- 6:33and
- 6:33clients
- 6:33get
- 6:34the
- 6:34results
- 6:34they
- 6:34wanted
- 6:35because
- 6:35they
- 6:35knew
- 6:35how
- 6:36to
- 6:36push
- 6:36through
- 6:36those
- 6:36stories.
- 6:36So
- 6:37what
- 6:37stories?
- 6:38keep
- 6:38you
- 6:38stuck
- 6:39when
- 6:39it
- 6:39comes
- 6:39to
- 6:40growing
- 6:40your
- 6:40coaching
- 6:40business.
- 6:41Now
- 6:41there
- 6:42are
- 6:42a
- 6:42handful
- 6:42of
- 6:42them
- 6:42that
- 6:43almost
- 6:43all
- 6:43of
- 6:43us
- 6:43go
- 6:44through
- 6:44at
- 6:44one
- 6:44time
- 6:45or
- 6:45another.
- 6:45So
- 6:45I'm
- 6:45going
- 6:45to
- 6:45list
- 6:45them
- 6:46for
- 6:46you.
- 6:46A
- 6:46big
- 6:47one
- 6:47is
- 6:47imposter
- 6:48syndrome.
- 6:48That
- 6:48means
- 6:49feeling
- 6:49like
- 6:49you
- 6:49don't
- 6:50belong,
- 6:50feeling
- 6:51like
- 6:51you're
- 6:51not
- 6:51a
- 6:51good
- 6:51coach.
- 6:52You're
- 6:52not
- 6:52a
- 6:52good
- 6:52business
- 6:52owner.
- 6:53You
- 6:53don't
- 6:53belong
- 6:54in
- 6:54the
- 6:54entrepreneur
- 6:54space.
- 6:55You
- 6:55don't
- 6:55belong
- 6:56on
- 6:56this
- 6:56side
- 6:56of
- 6:56the
- 6:56camera
- 6:57or
- 6:57phone
- 6:58or
- 6:59in
- 6:59person
- 6:59coaching
- 7:00another
- 7:00human
- 7:01being.
- 7:01If
- 7:01you
- 7:01feel
- 7:01like
- 7:02an
- 7:02imposter
- 7:02in
- 7:02any
- 7:03way,
- 7:03shape,
- 7:03or
- 7:03form,
- 7:04feel
- 7:04Then
- 7:04that
- 7:04might
- 7:04be
- 7:05what's
- 7:05plaguing
- 7:05you.
- 7:06What
- 7:06kind
- 7:06of
- 7:06stories
- 7:07are
- 7:07keeping
- 7:07this
- 7:07imposter
- 7:08syndrome
- 7:08in
- 7:08place?
- 7:09Are
- 7:09you
- 7:09telling
- 7:09yourself
- 7:10that
- 7:10you
- 7:10don't
- 7:10belong
- 7:10there?
- 7:10Are
- 7:10you
- 7:11telling
- 7:11yourself
- 7:11you
- 7:11can't
- 7:11charge
- 7:12a
- 7:12certain
- 7:12amount?
- 7:13What
- 7:13is
- 7:13the
- 7:13thought
- 7:13loop
- 7:13that
- 7:14keeps
- 7:14you
- 7:14in
- 7:14that
- 7:15negative
- 7:15space?
- 7:16Another
- 7:16big
- 7:16one
- 7:16is
- 7:17fear
- 7:17of
- 7:17failure.
- 7:17We
- 7:18know
- 7:18that
- 7:18it's
- 7:18going
- 7:19to
- 7:19require
- 7:19more
- 7:19than
- 7:19one
- 7:19try
- 7:20to
- 7:20build
- 7:20a
- 7:20successful
- 7:20business.
- 7:21And
- 7:21if
- 7:21you've
- 7:22tried
- 7:22it
- 7:22for
- 7:22more
- 7:22than
- 7:22five
- 7:22minutes,
- 7:23you
- 7:23know
- 7:23it's
- 7:23going
- 7:23to
- 7:23require
- 7:24failure
- 7:24after
- 7:25failure
- 7:25after
- 7:25failure.
- 7:26I
- 7:26personally
- 7:26actually
- 7:27love
- 7:27the
- 7:28term
- 7:28failure
- 7:28now
- 7:28because
- 7:29I've
- 7:29taken
- 7:29it
- 7:29to
- 7:30mean
- 7:31a
- 7:31trial
- 7:31that
- 7:31didn't
- 7:32work.
- 7:32And
- 7:32so
- 7:32now
- 7:32I
- 7:32know
- 7:33that's
- 7:33not
- 7:33the
- 7:33way
- 7:33to
- 7:33build
- 7:34my
- 7:34business.
- 7:34Now
- 7:34I'm
- 7:34going
- 7:34to
- 7:34find
- 7:35a
- 7:35different
- 7:35way
- 7:35to
- 7:35build
- 7:35my
- 7:36business,
- 7:36right?
- 7:36Failure
- 7:37is
- 7:37so
- 7:37useful.
- 7:38But
- 7:38if
- 7:38we're
- 7:38afraid
- 7:39of
- 7:39it,
- 7:39we
- 7:39are
- 7:39never
- 7:40going
- 7:40to
- 7:40be
- 7:40successful
- 7:40because
- 7:41we
- 7:41have
- 7:41to
- 7:41be
- 7:41willing
- 7:42to
- 7:42fail.
- 7:42We
- 7:42have
- 7:42to
- 7:42be
- 7:43willing
- 7:43to
- 7:43mess
- 7:43up.
- 7:44And
- 7:44we
- 7:44have
- 7:44to
- 7:44be
- 7:45willing
- 7:45to
- 7:45not
- 7:46make
- 7:46it
- 7:46mean
- 7:46anything
- 7:46negative
- 7:47about
- 7:47us,
- 7:47right?
- 7:48Failing
- 7:49is
- 7:49good.
- 7:49If
- 7:49you
- 7:50can't
- 7:50fail,
- 7:50you
- 7:51cannot
- 7:51build
- 7:51a
- 7:51business.
- 7:52So
- 7:52the
- 7:52next
- 7:52time
- 7:53you
- 7:53fail,
- 7:53so
- 7:53for
- 7:53example,
- 7:54you
- 7:54put
- 7:54out
- 7:55a
- 7:55product
- 7:55or
- 7:55an
- 7:55offer
- 7:56or
- 7:56something
- 7:56and
- 7:56people
- 7:57don't
- 7:57buy
- 7:57it.
- 7:57I
- 7:57want
- 7:58you
- 7:58to
- 7:58tell
- 7:58yourself,
- 7:59I
- 7:59just
- 7:59figured
- 7:59out
- 7:59something
- 8:00that
- 8:00doesn't
- 8:00work.
- 8:01I'm
- 8:01that
- 8:01much
- 8:01closer
- 8:02to
- 8:02figuring
- 8:02out
- 8:02what
- 8:02does
- 8:03work.
- 8:03So
- 8:03that
- 8:03fear
- 8:03of
- 8:04failure
- 8:04is
- 8:04a
- 8:04big
- 8:05story
- 8:05that
- 8:05keeps
- 8:05us
- 8:05stuck.
- 8:06What
- 8:06about
- 8:06a
- 8:07fear
- 8:07of
- 8:07embarrassment?
- 8:08A
- 8:08lot
- 8:08of
- 8:08people
- 8:08are
- 8:09worried.
- 8:09Well,
- 8:09I
- 8:10want
- 8:10to
- 8:10be
- 8:10a
- 8:10coach
- 8:10and
- 8:10I
- 8:10want
- 8:11to
- 8:11offer
- 8:11help,
- 8:11but
- 8:11what
- 8:12are
- 8:12my
- 8:12friends
- 8:12and
- 8:12family
- 8:12going
- 8:12to
- 8:12say?
- 8:13What's
- 8:13my
- 8:13neighbor
- 8:13going
- 8:13to
- 8:13say?
- 8:14What
- 8:14am
- 8:15I
- 8:15going
- 8:15to
- 8:15look
- 8:15like
- 8:15when
- 8:15I
- 8:15start
- 8:16making
- 8:16videos
- 8:16on
- 8:17Instagram
- 8:17or
- 8:17on
- 8:17YouTube
- 8:18or
- 8:18somewhere
- 8:18else?
- 8:18What
- 8:19are
- 8:19people
- 8:19going
- 8:19to
- 8:19say?
- 8:20Well,
- 8:20I
- 8:20don't
- 8:20know.
- 8:20It
- 8:20doesn't
- 8:20matter
- 8:21cause
- 8:21what
- 8:21they
- 8:22say
- 8:22is
- 8:22completely
- 8:22irrelevant
- 8:23to
- 8:23your
- 8:23business.
- 8:23It
- 8:24does
- 8:24not
- 8:24mean
- 8:24anything.
- 8:25Your
- 8:25neighbor
- 8:25can
- 8:26hate
- 8:26your
- 8:26business
- 8:26and
- 8:27you
- 8:27can
- 8:27still
- 8:27go
- 8:27on
- 8:27to
- 8:27make
- 8:27a
- 8:27million
- 8:28dollars.
- 8:28Your
- 8:28neighbor
- 8:28never
- 8:29has
- 8:29to
- 8:29be
- 8:29a
- 8:29client
- 8:29or
- 8:29a
- 8:29customer
- 8:30nor
- 8:30your
- 8:30mom
- 8:31or
- 8:31your
- 8:31sister
- 8:32or
- 8:32anybody
- 8:32else
- 8:33in
- 8:33your
- 8:33life.
- 8:34You
- 8:34can
- 8:34be
- 8:34successful
- 8:34regardless
- 8:35of
- 8:35what
- 8:35the
- 8:35people
- 8:36around
- 8:36you
- 8:36say.
- 8:36There
- 8:37are
- 8:37clients
- 8:37and
- 8:37customers
- 8:38for
- 8:38you.
- 8:39So
- 8:39you
- 8:39have
- 8:39to
- 8:39watch
- 8:40out
- 8:40for
- 8:40those
- 8:40stories
- 8:40that
- 8:40are
- 8:40saying,
- 8:41someone's
- 8:41going
- 8:41to
- 8:41make
- 8:42fun
- 8:42of
- 8:42me.
- 8:42Somebody's
- 8:42going
- 8:43to
- 8:43say
- 8:43something
- 8:43nasty.
- 8:44Yeah.
- 8:44Welcome
- 8:44to
- 8:44the
- 8:44internet.
- 8:45People
- 8:45say
- 8:45mean
- 8:46things,
- 8:46move
- 8:47through
- 8:47it.
- 8:47Check
- 8:47those
- 8:48thoughts.
- 8:48And
- 8:49then
- 8:49finally,
- 8:49another
- 8:49big
- 8:50one
- 8:50that
- 8:50I
- 8:50especially
- 8:51see
- 8:51amongst
- 8:51Christian
- 8:52women
- 8:52is
- 8:52the
- 8:52fear
- 8:52of
- 8:53being
- 8:53salesy.
- 8:54Nobody
- 8:54wants
- 8:54to
- 8:54come
- 8:55off
- 8:55as
- 8:55spammy.
- 8:55The
- 8:55idea
- 8:56of
- 8:56looking
- 8:56like
- 8:56a
- 8:56used
- 8:56car
- 8:57salesman
- 8:57is
- 8:58everyone's
- 8:58worst
- 8:59nightmare.
- 8:59You
- 8:59don't
- 9:00want
- 9:00your
- 9:00friends
- 9:00turning
- 9:00around
- 9:00and
- 9:00running
- 9:01the
- 9:01opposite
- 9:01direction
- 9:01when
- 9:01they
- 9:02see
- 9:02you
- 9:02because
- 9:03you
- 9:03feel
- 9:03salesy.
- 9:04This
- 9:04is
- 9:04just
- 9:05a
- 9:05story.
- 9:06What
- 9:06does
- 9:06salesy
- 9:06mean?
- 9:07Why
- 9:08do
- 9:08you
- 9:08not
- 9:08like
- 9:08that
- 9:09type
- 9:09of
- 9:09salesperson?
- 9:10What
- 9:10do
- 9:10you
- 9:10think
- 9:10or
- 9:10feel
- 9:11when
- 9:11you
- 9:11confront
- 9:11them?
- 9:12And
- 9:12how
- 9:12do
- 9:12you
- 9:12avoid
- 9:13thinking
- 9:13or
- 9:13feeling
- 9:14that
- 9:14way
- 9:14when
- 9:15you
- 9:15show
- 9:15up
- 9:16to
- 9:16sell
- 9:16something
- 9:16to
- 9:17someone
- 9:17else?
- 9:17What
- 9:18is
- 9:18a
- 9:18sales
- 9:18experience
- 9:19you've
- 9:19been
- 9:19in
- 9:20on
- 9:20the
- 9:20client
- 9:20or
- 9:21customer
- 9:21side
- 9:21that
- 9:21you've
- 9:21really
- 9:22enjoyed?
- 9:22How
- 9:23could
- 9:23you
- 9:23channel
- 9:23that?
- 9:24Right?
- 9:24There
- 9:24is
- 9:25no
- 9:25such
- 9:25thing
- 9:26as
- 9:26good
- 9:26or
- 9:26bad
- 9:27sales.
- 9:27It's
- 9:27just
- 9:27the
- 9:27emotions
- 9:28you
- 9:28want
- 9:28to
- 9:28feel
- 9:28around
- 9:29it.
- 9:29So
- 9:29how
- 9:29can
- 9:29you
- 9:29be
- 9:29a
- 9:30saleswoman,
- 9:30salesperson
- 9:31who
- 9:32It
- 9:32creates
- 9:33the
- 9:33kind
- 9:33of
- 9:33emotions
- 9:33that
- 9:34you
- 9:34love
- 9:34in
- 9:34your
- 9:35clients
- 9:35or
- 9:35customers.
- 9:36Now
- 9:36this
- 9:36is
- 9:36what
- 9:36I
- 9:37do
- 9:37all
- 9:37day
- 9:37long
- 9:38with
- 9:38my
- 9:38clients,
- 9:38is
- 9:38we
- 9:39look
- 9:39at
- 9:39those
- 9:39stories,
- 9:40we
- 9:40look
- 9:40at
- 9:40those
- 9:40soundtracks
- 9:40and
- 9:41we
- 9:41tweak
- 9:42them
- 9:42a
- 9:42little
- 9:42bit.
- 9:42We
- 9:42try
- 9:43to
- 9:43loosen
- 9:43their
- 9:43grip
- 9:44on
- 9:44us
- 9:44so
- 9:44much.
- 9:45When
- 9:45we
- 9:45tell
- 9:45ourselves
- 9:45these
- 9:45stories
- 9:46long
- 9:46enough,
- 9:46they
- 9:47become
- 9:47truth
- 9:47in
- 9:48our
- 9:48mind,
- 9:48even
- 9:49though
- 9:50they're
- 9:50not
- 9:50serving
- 9:50us
- 9:50very
- 9:51well.
- 9:51So
- 9:51if
- 9:51you
- 9:52find
- 9:52these
- 9:52stories,
- 9:52It
- 9:52could
- 9:52be
- 9:53causing
- 9:53problems
- 9:53for
- 9:53you
- 9:53as
- 9:54well.
- 9:54Here
- 9:54is
- 9:54how
- 9:55to
- 9:55loosen
- 9:55their
- 9:55hold
- 9:56on
- 9:56your
- 9:56brain.
- 9:56Number
- 9:57one,
- 9:57identify
- 9:58the
- 9:58story.
- 9:58What
- 9:59is
- 9:59it
- 9:59you're
- 9:59telling
- 9:59yourself?
- 10:00So
- 10:00let's
- 10:00go
- 10:00back
- 10:00to
- 10:00imposter
- 10:01syndrome.
- 10:01Maybe
- 10:01the
- 10:02line
- 10:02that
- 10:02keeps
- 10:02running
- 10:02through
- 10:02your
- 10:03head
- 10:03is,
- 10:03I'm
- 10:04not
- 10:04a
- 10:04good
- 10:04coach.
- 10:05Maybe
- 10:05you
- 10:06didn't
- 10:06have
- 10:06a
- 10:06lot
- 10:06of
- 10:06faith
- 10:06in
- 10:06your
- 10:07certification
- 10:08program,
- 10:08or
- 10:08maybe
- 10:08you
- 10:08didn't
- 10:08take
- 10:09a
- 10:09certification
- 10:09program,
- 10:09but
- 10:10you
- 10:10feel
- 10:10strongly
- 10:10about
- 10:10helping
- 10:11people.
- 10:11Your
- 10:12brain
- 10:12keeps
- 10:12coming
- 10:12back
- 10:12to,
- 10:13I'm
- 10:13not
- 10:13a
- 10:13good
- 10:13coach.
- 10:13Okay.
- 10:13So
- 10:14identify
- 10:14that
- 10:14story.
- 10:15Number
- 10:15two,
- 10:16call
- 10:16it
- 10:16out
- 10:17as
- 10:17a
- 10:17story.
- 10:18Remind
- 10:18yourself.
- 10:19There's
- 10:19not
- 10:19really
- 10:19any
- 10:20such
- 10:20thing
- 10:20as
- 10:20a
- 10:20good
- 10:20coach
- 10:21or
- 10:21a
- 10:21bad
- 10:21coach.
- 10:21Some
- 10:21people
- 10:22are
- 10:22going
- 10:22to
- 10:22love
- 10:22my
- 10:22coaching.
- 10:22Some
- 10:23people
- 10:23are
- 10:23not
- 10:23going
- 10:23to
- 10:23like
- 10:23it,
- 10:24right?
- 10:24So
- 10:24call
- 10:25it
- 10:25out
- 10:25as
- 10:25a
- 10:25story.
- 10:25It's
- 10:25not
- 10:26factual
- 10:26or
- 10:26objective.
- 10:27It's
- 10:27just
- 10:27subjective.
- 10:28It's
- 10:28what
- 10:28your
- 10:28brain
- 10:29is
- 10:29coming
- 10:29up
- 10:29with.
- 10:30Number
- 10:30three,
- 10:30ask
- 10:31yourself,
- 10:31what
- 10:32else
- 10:32is
- 10:32true?
- 10:32What
- 10:33else
- 10:33is
- 10:33true
- 10:34about
- 10:35this
- 10:35story?
- 10:36So
- 10:36I
- 10:37might
- 10:37not
- 10:37consider
- 10:37myself
- 10:38a
- 10:38good
- 10:38coach
- 10:38right
- 10:38now,
- 10:38but
- 10:39I
- 10:39have
- 10:40the
- 10:40tools
- 10:40to
- 10:40become
- 10:40a
- 10:40better
- 10:40coach.
- 10:41entire
- 10:41internet
- 10:42at
- 10:42my
- 10:43fingertips.
- 10:43I
- 10:43bet
- 10:44I
- 10:44could
- 10:44become
- 10:44a
- 10:44better
- 10:44coach
- 10:45with
- 10:45more
- 10:45practice,
- 10:45right?
- 10:46So
- 10:46it's
- 10:46okay
- 10:47to
- 10:47believe
- 10:47I'm
- 10:47not
- 10:47a
- 10:47great
- 10:47coach
- 10:48right
- 10:48now
- 10:48if
- 10:49I
- 10:49also
- 10:49believe,
- 10:50I
- 10:50know
- 10:50how
- 10:50to
- 10:50become
- 10:50better,
- 10:51And
- 10:51then
- 10:51finally
- 10:52shift
- 10:52yourself
- 10:53into
- 10:53a
- 10:53place
- 10:53where
- 10:53you
- 10:54can
- 10:54believe
- 10:54both.
- 10:55Can
- 10:55I
- 10:55believe
- 10:55that
- 10:56I'm
- 10:56not
- 10:56a
- 10:56great
- 10:56coach
- 10:56right
- 10:56now
- 10:57and
- 10:57I
- 10:57can
- 10:57become
- 10:57better?
- 10:58Sure.
- 10:58And
- 10:58that
- 10:59feels
- 10:59so
- 10:59much
- 10:59more
- 10:59powerful
- 11:00than
- 11:00sitting
- 11:01and
- 11:01staying
- 11:01stuck
- 11:01in
- 11:01that
- 11:02story
- 11:02of
- 11:02I'm
- 11:02not
- 11:02a
- 11:02good
- 11:02coach.
- 11:03I'm
- 11:03not
- 11:03a
- 11:03good
- 11:03coach.
- 11:03So
- 11:04identify
- 11:04the
- 11:04story,
- 11:05call
- 11:05it
- 11:05out
- 11:05as
- 11:05unhelpful
- 11:06and
- 11:06something
- 11:06you
- 11:06want
- 11:07to
- 11:07let
- 11:07go
- 11:07of.
- 11:07Ask
- 11:08yourself
- 11:08what
- 11:08else
- 11:08is
- 11:08true
- 11:08and
- 11:09then
- 11:09shift
- 11:09into
- 11:09a
- 11:09place
- 11:09where
- 11:09you
- 11:10can
- 11:10believe
- 11:10both
- 11:10things.
- 11:11All
- 11:11right.
- 11:11So
- 11:11we've
- 11:11identified
- 11:12that
- 11:12customer
- 11:12journey.
- 11:13We
- 11:13are
- 11:14actively
- 11:14managing
- 11:14our
- 11:14stories,
- 11:15managing
- 11:15our
- 11:15mind.
- 11:16The
- 11:16final
- 11:16thing
- 11:16we
- 11:16need
- 11:17to
- 11:17do,
- 11:17be
- 11:18consistent.
- 11:19This
- 11:19can
- 11:20be
- 11:20so
- 11:20difficult,
- 11:20especially
- 11:21when
- 11:21we
- 11:21don't
- 11:21see
- 11:21evidence
- 11:22that
- 11:22what
- 11:22we're
- 11:22doing
- 11:22is
- 11:23actually
- 11:23working.
- 11:24You
- 11:24have
- 11:24to
- 11:24get
- 11:24up
- 11:25and
- 11:25do
- 11:25it
- 11:25again
- 11:26and
- 11:26do
- 11:26it
- 11:26again
- 11:27and
- 11:27do
- 11:27it
- 11:27again.
- 11:28Even
- 11:28when
- 11:28it
- 11:28seems
- 11:28like
- 11:28it
- 11:28doesn't
- 11:29work.
- 11:29The
- 11:29fact
- 11:30of
- 11:30the
- 11:30matter
- 11:30is
- 11:30anytime
- 11:31we
- 11:31want
- 11:31to
- 11:31see
- 11:31a
- 11:31transformation
- 11:32or
- 11:32success
- 11:32in
- 11:32any
- 11:33area
- 11:33of
- 11:33our
- 11:33life,
- 11:34the
- 11:34results
- 11:34come
- 11:35after
- 11:35days,
- 11:36weeks,
- 11:36months,
- 11:37sometimes
- 11:37years
- 11:38of
- 11:38consistent,
- 11:39small
- 11:40efforts.
- 11:41Take
- 11:41weight
- 11:41loss,
- 11:41for
- 11:41example.
- 11:42What
- 11:42if
- 11:42the
- 11:42first
- 11:43time
- 11:43you
- 11:43cut
- 11:43out
- 11:43sugar,
- 11:44you
- 11:44expected
- 11:44to
- 11:44lose
- 11:4450
- 11:45pounds,
- 11:45you'd
- 11:46be
- 11:46seriously
- 11:46disappointed.
- 11:47And
- 11:47you
- 11:47would
- 11:48want
- 11:48to
- 11:48go
- 11:48right
- 11:48back
- 11:48to
- 11:48the
- 11:48sugar
- 11:49because
- 11:49you
- 11:49think
- 11:49this
- 11:50doesn't
- 11:50work.
- 11:50I
- 11:51give
- 11:51up.
- 11:51Or
- 11:51the
- 11:52first
- 11:52day
- 11:52you
- 11:52counted
- 11:52macros,
- 11:53you're
- 11:53like,
- 11:53this
- 11:53is
- 11:53the
- 11:53day
- 11:54I'm
- 11:54going
- 11:54to
- 11:54lose
- 11:5410
- 11:54pounds.
- 11:55No,
- 11:55that's
- 11:55not
- 11:55realistic.
- 11:56We
- 11:56know
- 11:56that.
- 11:56It
- 11:57sounds
- 11:57silly
- 11:57when
- 11:57we
- 11:58talk
- 11:58about
- 11:58it
- 11:58like
- 11:58that,
- 11:58but
- 11:59in
- 11:59business,
- 11:59we
- 12:00expect
- 12:00immediate
- 12:00results.
- 12:01We
- 12:01put
- 12:01out
- 12:01a
- 12:01reel
- 12:01on
- 12:02social
- 12:02media
- 12:02and
- 12:03we
- 12:03expect
- 12:03it
- 12:03to
- 12:03get
- 12:045,
- 12:04000
- 12:05views.
- 12:05Well,
- 12:05it's
- 12:05not
- 12:05working.
- 12:06Well,
- 12:06it's
- 12:06not
- 12:06working.
- 12:07Well,
- 12:07yeah,
- 12:07right
- 12:08now
- 12:08it's
- 12:08not
- 12:08working
- 12:08because
- 12:09we
- 12:09haven't
- 12:09been
- 12:09doing
- 12:09it
- 12:10long
- 12:10enough.
- 12:11Small,
- 12:11tiny,
- 12:12consistent
- 12:12efforts
- 12:12over
- 12:13time
- 12:13is
- 12:13what
- 12:13will
- 12:13give
- 12:13you
- 12:14success.
- 12:15The
- 12:15bummer
- 12:15is
- 12:15that
- 12:15these
- 12:16small,
- 12:16simple
- 12:16steps
- 12:17are
- 12:17not
- 12:17exciting.
- 12:18They're
- 12:18not
- 12:18sexy.
- 12:19They're
- 12:19not
- 12:19grandiose.
- 12:20Nobody's
- 12:20going
- 12:20to
- 12:20be
- 12:21like,
- 12:21Oh,
- 12:21you
- 12:21posted
- 12:21every
- 12:22day
- 12:22on
- 12:22social
- 12:22media
- 12:23this
- 12:23week.
- 12:23Good
- 12:23job.
- 12:24Nobody
- 12:24cares.
- 12:25Right?
- 12:25They
- 12:25don't
- 12:25seem
- 12:26to
- 12:26matter.
- 12:27important,
- 12:27but
- 12:28it's
- 12:28these
- 12:28small
- 12:28ones
- 12:29that
- 12:29make
- 12:29all
- 12:29the
- 12:29difference.
- 12:30Eventually,
- 12:31you're
- 12:31going
- 12:31to
- 12:31get
- 12:31to
- 12:31a
- 12:31point
- 12:32where
- 12:32these
- 12:32small,
- 12:32simple
- 12:32actions
- 12:33are
- 12:33just
- 12:34second
- 12:34nature
- 12:34to
- 12:34you.
- 12:35They're
- 12:35just
- 12:35a
- 12:35habit.
- 12:36And
- 12:36then
- 12:36you
- 12:36can
- 12:36build
- 12:37from
- 12:37there
- 12:37and
- 12:37do
- 12:37bigger,
- 12:38greater
- 12:38things.
- 12:39But
- 12:39if
- 12:39you
- 12:39don't
- 12:39start
- 12:39small,
- 12:40you
- 12:40never
- 12:40make
- 12:41progress.
- 12:42The
- 12:42fact
- 12:42of
- 12:42the
- 12:42matter
- 12:43is
- 12:43these
- 12:43small,
- 12:43simple
- 12:43things
- 12:43will
- 12:44feel
- 12:44like
- 12:44not
- 12:44enough.
- 12:45I
- 12:45guarantee
- 12:45you
- 12:46most
- 12:46Fridays,
- 12:47I
- 12:47think,
- 12:48gosh,
- 12:48what
- 12:48did
- 12:48I
- 12:48even
- 12:49get
- 12:49done
- 12:49this
- 12:49week?
- 12:49It
- 12:49doesn't
- 12:50feel
- 12:50like
- 12:50enough,
- 12:50but
- 12:51I
- 12:51put
- 12:51out
- 12:51my
- 12:51podcast
- 12:52and
- 12:52I
- 12:52posted
- 12:52on
- 12:52social
- 12:52media
- 12:53and
- 12:53I
- 12:53emailed
- 12:53my.
- 12:54List,
- 12:54and
- 12:54I
- 12:54did
- 12:55the
- 12:55small,
- 12:55simple
- 12:55things
- 12:55that
- 12:55I
- 12:56was
- 12:56supposed
- 12:56to
- 12:56do,
- 12:56even
- 12:56though
- 12:56they
- 12:57don't
- 12:57look
- 12:58big
- 12:58and
- 12:59little
- 12:59by
- 12:59little,
- 12:59that's
- 13:00what
- 13:00yields
- 13:00success.
- 13:01In
- 13:01truth,
- 13:02not
- 13:02everyone
- 13:03is
- 13:03willing
- 13:03to
- 13:03do
- 13:03those
- 13:03small,
- 13:03simple
- 13:04things.
- 13:04In
- 13:04fact,
- 13:04very
- 13:05few
- 13:05people
- 13:06are
- 13:06willing
- 13:06to.
- 13:07A
- 13:07lot
- 13:07of
- 13:07people
- 13:07try
- 13:07business
- 13:08for
- 13:08a
- 13:08while
- 13:08and
- 13:08then
- 13:08they
- 13:08give
- 13:09up
- 13:09because
- 13:09it
- 13:09didn't
- 13:09yield
- 13:09the
- 13:09success
- 13:10they
- 13:10wanted
- 13:10in
- 13:10three
- 13:10months,
- 13:11six
- 13:11months,
- 13:11maybe
- 13:11even
- 13:11a
- 13:11year,
- 13:12but
- 13:12that's
- 13:12how
- 13:13you
- 13:13are
- 13:13going
- 13:13to
- 13:14win
- 13:14is
- 13:14by
- 13:14sticking
- 13:15with
- 13:15it
- 13:15and
- 13:15doing
- 13:15those
- 13:16small,
- 13:16simple
- 13:16things
- 13:16for
- 13:17a
- 13:17long
- 13:17time.
- 13:18So
- 13:18the
- 13:19trick
- 13:19is
- 13:19to
- 13:19just
- 13:19keep
- 13:19showing
- 13:20up
- 13:20every
- 13:20single
- 13:20day.
- 13:20Take
- 13:21some
- 13:21small
- 13:21action
- 13:22in
- 13:22those
- 13:22three
- 13:22steps
- 13:23of
- 13:23your
- 13:23customer
- 13:23journey.
- 13:24Every
- 13:24single
- 13:24week,
- 13:25find
- 13:25those
- 13:25new
- 13:25people,
- 13:26nurture
- 13:27them,
- 13:27convert
- 13:27them
- 13:28to
- 13:28clients,
- 13:28and
- 13:28eventually
- 13:29you
- 13:29will
- 13:29start
- 13:29seeing
- 13:30success.
- 13:30It's
- 13:30like
- 13:31getting
- 13:31a
- 13:31freight
- 13:31train
- 13:32moving,
- 13:32right?
- 13:32At
- 13:32the
- 13:32beginning,
- 13:33it's
- 13:33so
- 13:33hard.
- 13:34It
- 13:34feels
- 13:34like
- 13:34every
- 13:35step
- 13:35forward
- 13:35is
- 13:36a
- 13:36Herculean
- 13:37effort.
- 13:37And
- 13:37then
- 13:38eventually,
- 13:38It's
- 13:39going
- 13:39along
- 13:39at
- 13:39a
- 13:39clip
- 13:40that
- 13:40you
- 13:40get
- 13:40to
- 13:40even
- 13:40hop
- 13:41on
- 13:41and
- 13:41ride
- 13:41for
- 13:41a
- 13:41little
- 13:41bit.
- 13:42That's
- 13:42when
- 13:42your
- 13:42business
- 13:42is
- 13:43making
- 13:43money.
- 13:43It's
- 13:44profitable.
- 13:44And
- 13:45it's
- 13:45really
- 13:45making
- 13:45an
- 13:45impact
- 13:46that
- 13:46you
- 13:46dreamed
- 13:46that
- 13:46you'd
- 13:47be
- 13:47able
- 13:47to
- 13:47make.
- 13:47But
- 13:47at
- 13:48the
- 13:48beginning,
- 13:48it's
- 13:48going
- 13:49to
- 13:49be
- 13:49hard.
- 13:49It's
- 13:49supposed
- 13:50to
- 13:50be
- 13:50hard.
- 13:51There
- 13:51isn't
- 13:51one
- 13:52single
- 13:52moment
- 13:52that's
- 13:52going
- 13:53to
- 13:53make
- 13:53you
- 13:53feel
- 13:53like
- 13:53a
- 13:53success
- 13:54in
- 13:54business
- 13:54until
- 13:55one
- 13:55day
- 13:55you
- 13:55wake
- 13:55up
- 13:55and
- 13:55go,
- 13:56Oh,
- 13:56it's
- 13:56everywhere.
- 13:57I
- 13:57see
- 13:57signs
- 13:57of
- 13:57success
- 13:58everywhere.
- 13:58It
- 13:58just
- 13:59kind
- 13:59of
- 13:59creeps
- 13:59up
- 13:59on
- 13:59you
- 14:00because
- 14:00of
- 14:00those
- 14:00small,
- 14:00simple
- 14:01steps.
- 14:01So
- 14:02get
- 14:02out
- 14:02there,
- 14:02be
- 14:03consistent,
- 14:03manage
- 14:04your
- 14:04brain,
- 14:04take
- 14:05action
- 14:05in
- 14:05all
- 14:05three
- 14:06of
- 14:06those
- 14:06steps
- 14:06of
- 14:06your
- 14:06customer
- 14:06journey.
- 14:07And
- 14:07you
- 14:07will
- 14:07absolutely
- 14:08see
- 14:08success.
- 14:09Just
- 14:09remember
- 14:09that
- 14:09every
- 14:09mistake,
- 14:10failure,
- 14:11misstep,
- 14:11screw
- 14:11up
- 14:12along
- 14:12the
- 14:12way
- 14:12is
- 14:13one
- 14:13step
- 14:13forward
- 14:14in
- 14:14the
- 14:14right
- 14:14direction.
- 14:15Good
- 14:15luck,
- 14:15my
- 14:15friends.
- 14:16I'm
- 14:16rooting
- 14:16for
- 14:16you.
- 14:18Are
- 14:18you
- 14:19ready
- 14:19to
- 14:19start
- 14:19or
- 14:19grow
- 14:20your
- 14:20dream
- 14:20business?
- 14:21Click
- 14:21the
- 14:21link
- 14:21in
- 14:21the
- 14:21show
- 14:21notes
- 14:22to
- 14:22download
- 14:22the
- 14:22free
- 14:23starter
- 14:23guide
- 14:23to
- 14:23building
- 14:24a
- 14:24business
- 14:24or
- 14:24to
- 14:25schedule
- 14:25a
- 14:25free
- 14:25coaching
- 14:25call
- 14:26And
- 14:26if
- 14:27you
- 14:27loved
- 14:27this
- 14:27episode,
- 14:28Don't
- 14:28forget
- 14:28to
- 14:28leave
- 14:29a
- 14:29review
- 14:29and
- 14:29share
- 14:29it
- 14:29with
- 14:30a
- 14:30friend
- 14:30who
- 14:30might
- 14:31be
- 14:31feeling
- 14:31the
- 14:31call
- 14:31to
- 14:32burn
- 14:32a
- 14:32little
- 14:33brighter.