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Self-Image, Wealth & Worth: The Real Reason Your Income Isn’t Expanding Ft. Danielle Amos · Beyond Limits With Olivia Marie

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  SPEAKER_01: Welcome to Beyond Limits, the podcast designed to unlock your highest potential with powerful strategies, energetic frequencies, and mindset shifts to create a limitless life.
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  SPEAKER_01: Each episode dives deep into what it really takes to build a life and business beyond the ordinary standard.
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• 0:48
  SPEAKER_01: Hey everyone, welcome back to the Beyond Limits podcast.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm excited to have another powerhouse guest for you, Danielle Amos.
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  SPEAKER_01: She is the mystic millionaire, and she not only helps you reinvent your self-image and self-concept, but is going to amplify your impact and your income.
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  SPEAKER_01: And with that, welcome to the show.
• 1:08
  SPEAKER_01: Thank you.
• 1:09
  SPEAKER_01: Thanks for having me.
• 1:10
  SPEAKER_01: So for people who aren't familiar with you, what you do, can you give us a run through of how you got into this work, how you discovered it?
• 1:17
  SPEAKER_01: I know you've been in it for so long, but like what really opened you up to it?
• 1:22
  SPEAKER_02: Well, I was open to this work when I was 17.
• 1:27
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, wow.
• 1:28
  SPEAKER_02: I watched the Doors movie.
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  SPEAKER_02: How much I was into this at 17.
• 1:33
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 1:34
  SPEAKER_02: So 17, I watched the Doors movie.
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  SPEAKER_02: I was in high school.
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  SPEAKER_02: I came home from a party and it was on TV.
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  SPEAKER_02: And there was this scene where there was a shaman in the desert.
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  SPEAKER_02: For those anyone that remembers that movie with Val Kilmer.
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  SPEAKER_02: And I resonated with that scene.
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  SPEAKER_02: It was like I I was started humming the song.
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  SPEAKER_02: The shaman was humming, and I knew the song.
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  SPEAKER_02: And it was full body too.
• 1:58
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
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  SPEAKER_02: And I became obsessed with Jim Morrison.
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  SPEAKER_02: I would read all the books about him.
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  SPEAKER_02: And I that got me into reading about Buddhism and peyote.
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  SPEAKER_02: And I was I became very curious.
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  SPEAKER_02: And then I went to Queens, which we were talking about earlier.
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  SPEAKER_02: And um in my second year physics class, I had a nervous breakdown and a panic attack.
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  SPEAKER_02: And the professor at the time, and I walked out of the exam, so I would have got zero.
• 2:24
  SPEAKER_02: And I went to the health unit.
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  SPEAKER_02: They gave me a letter.
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  SPEAKER_02: I went to speak to my professor, and she said, I believe you know the info.
• 2:33
  SPEAKER_02: Can I give you an oral exam?
• 2:36
  SPEAKER_02: And so she asked me the question.
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  SPEAKER_02: She first asked me permission if she could help regulate my nervous system.
• 2:42
  SPEAKER_02: But she didn't say in those words.
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  SPEAKER_02: She just said, breathe with me.
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  SPEAKER_02: And then she started asking me questions.
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  SPEAKER_02: And I got 97% on that exam.
• 2:50
  SPEAKER_02: And that fascinated me.
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  SPEAKER_02: I was like, and she's like, yeah, all the information's there.
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  SPEAKER_02: It's just in your subconscious mind.
• 2:55
  SPEAKER_02: You just like freaked out, blocking yourself.
• 2:57
  SPEAKER_02: And she said, I think you need to go speak to the Buddhism professor and learn to meditate.
• 3:03
  SPEAKER_02: And so I went and met with a Buddhism professor.
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  SPEAKER_02: I enrolled in the um in Buddhism as one of my electives.
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  SPEAKER_02: And I was already studying world religions because of my high school fascination of um philosophy.
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  SPEAKER_02: And um I studied that.
• 3:22
  SPEAKER_02: And in that pro in that class, I decided that I wanted to go to India and meet the Dalai Lama, as you do.
• 3:28
  SPEAKER_02: So I wrote him a letter back in like 98 and got an audience in 99 with him.
• 3:33
  SPEAKER_02: Traveled to India, did a 10-day silent meditation retreat, fast forward, came back to Canada many years later after living abroad and traveling, and went into the corporate world because I was taught that, you know, I needed to get a real job and stop uh traveling.
• 3:49
  SPEAKER_02: And so I bought a car, got an apartment, and got into hospitality at the time and started drinking and escaping and spent quite a few years, like 15 years in that world.
• 4:05
  SPEAKER_02: But I was consulting, so more like the business side of what I do now, but let go of the spiritual side, put all my books in a box.
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  SPEAKER_02: And then in 2010, my daughter was born.
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  SPEAKER_02: And a year after she was born, I could not stand being in a job anymore.
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  SPEAKER_02: And I said yes to network marketing because I thought that that was like the door to entrepreneurship.
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  SPEAKER_02: And in network marketing, I was coached to read all the books that I had read in my 20s.
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  SPEAKER_02: And so I literally pulled out the box and started remembering.
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  SPEAKER_02: I was like, oh my gosh, I used to meditate, I used to do all this.
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  SPEAKER_02: And um I thought I would be successful in network marketing because I had a successful corporate career, but I was not, and I started thinking something was wrong with me.
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  SPEAKER_02: And so I did what any logical person would do, and I quit my job in the corporate, and I was earning over$100,000 a year.
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  SPEAKER_02: Now I was the director of product development for uh organization here in Ontario, and I assumed that I just needed more time and to work harder on my network marketing side hustle.
• 5:18
  SPEAKER_02: And my results did not change with more time and more hard work.
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  SPEAKER_02: And so that's when I found Bob Proctor.
• 5:26
  SPEAKER_02: Implemented what he taught about upgrading your identity, your self-image, mindset, understanding how it all works, and within six months tripled my income.
• 5:37
  SPEAKER_02: Wow.
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  SPEAKER_02: And it was really easy.
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  unknown: Wow.
• 5:39
  SPEAKER_02: I didn't work any harder, I worked less.
• 5:42
  SPEAKER_01: Do you feel like when you were you came home that night from the party and you saw it on the TV?
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  SPEAKER_01: Did you know at that moment, like, oh, this is, or is it only in hindsight we were like, oh my god, like the the synchronicity of I was there, I saw this thing, and it kind of opened something.
• 5:57
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I didn't know uh at the time at all.
• 6:01
  SPEAKER_02: Um, I just I became really obsessed.
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  SPEAKER_02: Like, and I found two other friends that love Jim Morrison.
• 6:09
  SPEAKER_02: So there were three of us, two guy friends, uh, that uh listened to the doors non-stop.
• 6:14
  SPEAKER_02: And I just it felt like just an obsession.
• 6:16
  SPEAKER_02: But it was like I could not, I couldn't turn it off.
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  SPEAKER_02: Like that scene, I can see it right now in my mind.
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  SPEAKER_02: Like he has a horse, though it's a white dunes, and he's like humming like that.
• 6:30
  SPEAKER_02: And he had like a drum, and I just it was such a knowing feeling, but I didn't know what it was then.
• 6:38
  SPEAKER_02: It was like, yeah, to your point, connecting the dots later.
• 6:41
  SPEAKER_01: Do you feel like you had to go through like discovering it, but then putting it all in a box and then opening it up again?
• 6:48
  SPEAKER_01: Like, do you feel like there was something about that in-between time where you had to shut it down that you had to either go through or learn from so that you could rediscover it again?
• 6:56
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I mean, I th I often think about the opposite.
• 7:00
  SPEAKER_02: Like, what if I didn't spend 15 years in like a different career?
• 7:06
  SPEAKER_02: You know, I I feel like where would I be at one point, Olivia?
• 7:10
  SPEAKER_02: I thought I was gonna be a nun, like meditating in a cave.
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  SPEAKER_02: Like when I went to India, like I asked, what does it like how does one do this?
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  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
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  SPEAKER_02: And and I I didn't.
• 7:21
  SPEAKER_02: I had a boyfriend at the time, and he's like, You are insane if you want to do this.
• 7:25
  SPEAKER_02: But I was so interested in learning about this the way.
• 7:30
  SPEAKER_02: And for me at that time was Buddhism and um and practicing it and really becoming embodied that I didn't know how to how one was supposed to bring these tangible ways of being into like the Western world and to like the business life.
• 7:46
  SPEAKER_02: But everyone around me thought that I was crazy and I listened to them.
• 7:50
  SPEAKER_02: Um, and I couldn't see and I wanted like a life as a as a mom and stuff.
• 7:54
  SPEAKER_02: So, but I digress.
• 7:56
  SPEAKER_02: So I I think um the what was supposed to happen in one as I connect the dots looking backwards, if I would have stayed on that path and become a nun, um I believe that my experience would have been one-sided as far as like, yes, maybe more enlightened in a way, like through practice of meditation.
• 8:25
  SPEAKER_02: And though what I got from going into hospitality and eventually having a corporate career is that my career in corporate, one, I learned to speak in front of people, which I love public speaking.
• 8:38
  SPEAKER_02: And I that training started in that job where I had to host sessions for three to five hundred people.
• 8:45
  SPEAKER_02: And second was my consulting.
• 8:49
  SPEAKER_02: I really um used to consult businesses on it was in food tourism, but like how to grow to meet the expectations of their consumer, which is really beneficial, yeah, obviously in business and to help my clients as well.
• 9:03
  SPEAKER_02: So I often bring that in.
• 9:05
  SPEAKER_02: It's not something I advertise or anything, but I often bring that in.
• 9:07
  SPEAKER_02: So I think the the diversity because of the way I went, that's what I've told myself is the benefit because I used to think of like, gosh, I'd be so much further if I just stayed in that.
• 9:21
  SPEAKER_02: But I don't know that that would be true.
• 9:22
  SPEAKER_01: I don't think that's true.
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  SPEAKER_01: I think there there was a reason.
• 9:25
  SPEAKER_01: There's a you had to learn all that, and it made that well-rounded kind of perspective, and you learned all of that wisdom through it that you then can then bring through.
• 9:33
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 9:33
  SPEAKER_01: So you tripled your income.
• 9:34
  SPEAKER_01: Is that when you started like helping people coaching-wise?
• 9:38
  SPEAKER_01: Like, yeah.
• 9:39
  SPEAKER_02: So I s took this, the program with Bob Proctor, um, to help myself.
• 9:46
  SPEAKER_02: I had no intentions to be a coach.
• 9:49
  SPEAKER_02: I really loved network marketing.
• 9:51
  SPEAKER_02: And I had at by the time I tripled my income, I was growing a really big team with my company, and I really loved it.
• 9:59
  SPEAKER_02: Um and though when I like it, it was like I had this magic sauce, like um, and I had been struggling for so long, thinking that something was wrong with me, that I knew that other women were feeling the same.
• 10:18
  SPEAKER_02: So in that just that December, I knew that I had to help other people, and my transformation was so obvious to the people around me that I had people like, what are you doing?
• 10:28
  SPEAKER_02: You have to tell me, you have to show me.
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  SPEAKER_02: And so that December, when I finished the program, it was a six-month program.
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  SPEAKER_02: Um, I decided to become a coach and go back and be certified in the same methodology that I learned.
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  SPEAKER_02: And it was because of how much I suffered prior to understanding.
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  SPEAKER_02: Like I had no idea that my inside world was even impacting my results.
• 10:54
  SPEAKER_02: Like the Danielle before was all in the 3D.
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  SPEAKER_02: Like, I do this to get this result.
• 11:00
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 11:03
  SPEAKER_01: When you went through that whole program, what would you say was like the biggest change in your self-concept that allowed you to, you know, triple your income and make less?
• 11:14
  SPEAKER_01: Okay, was there one like belief or one shift that you would say, oh, for me, it was this thing that really unlocked it?
• 11:20
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 11:20
  SPEAKER_02: Well, first of all, to take radical responsibility for my results.
• 11:24
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, you're speaking my life.
• 11:25
  SPEAKER_02: I love I love radical responsibility because before that I was a really good victim.
• 11:30
  SPEAKER_02: I had every reason outside of me as to why my results weren't my results.
• 11:34
  SPEAKER_02: So, for example, my husband didn't believe in any of this.
• 11:38
  SPEAKER_02: He thought that I was joining a cult.
• 11:40
  SPEAKER_02: And so, um, you know, I so then I would blame him.
• 11:45
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 11:45
  SPEAKER_02: That like he thought network marketing was a cult, and then he thought Bob Proctor was a cult.
• 11:49
  SPEAKER_02: So very convenient.
• 11:50
  SPEAKER_02: So then because he didn't believe in me, I would be like, well, he's sabotaging me.
• 11:56
  SPEAKER_02: It's because he's not agreeing with what I'm doing.
• 12:00
  SPEAKER_02: And then it was the economy.
• 12:02
  SPEAKER_02: So I was in network marketing when people weren't buying extra things, and the company that I was with was skincare and it cost more money.
• 12:11
  SPEAKER_02: So then I blame the economy.
• 12:13
  SPEAKER_02: People didn't have disposable income.
• 12:15
  SPEAKER_02: So you can see where we're going here.
• 12:16
  SPEAKER_02: It was everything outside of me.
• 12:20
  SPEAKER_02: And when I was told that my results were for direct reflection of my inside world, I was like, what are you talking about?
• 12:27
  SPEAKER_02: No, like I can actually prove it.
• 12:29
  SPEAKER_02: The economy I can prove.
• 12:30
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 12:31
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 12:31
  SPEAKER_02: And I was really good at making excuses and reasons.
• 12:36
  SPEAKER_01: I'm curious because this is something I always talk about is radical responsibility and you know, telling people and clients, like, you're the result.
• 12:44
  SPEAKER_01: How did you not go into shame?
• 12:46
  SPEAKER_01: Because what I've noticed about people is this pendulum swing between blaming economy, the algorithm, outside, mom, dad, partner, and then they pendulum saying, Well, I guess it's all my fault, and I guess I'm just horrible and I am not capable, and I guess I can't do this.
• 13:02
  SPEAKER_01: How did you, when you took radical responsibility, not pendulum swing?
• 13:06
  SPEAKER_01: And then it almost gets like the opposite of victim, but like you're just it's still powerlessness, it's just powerlessness on the other side.
• 13:12
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I love that question.
• 13:13
  SPEAKER_02: I definitely spent time in shame when I first got into this material.
• 13:20
  SPEAKER_02: One of the first things we do and I do with clients is to uh have them make a list so that they can take responsibility of their way of like their way of being, their thinking, and that's not serving them.
• 13:35
  SPEAKER_02: And then they, and so when I did that for myself, I was like, oh my gosh, this list is so long, like I'm horrible and I need to change all of it now.
• 13:46
  SPEAKER_02: I so I was in a really, let's call it bad place for probably six weeks.
• 13:52
  SPEAKER_02: My coach never told me to be objective.
• 13:55
  SPEAKER_02: So I didn't know that I was supposed to look at myself or what I could do was look at myself objectively and not take it personally, that we all receive a program.
• 14:05
  SPEAKER_02: Doesn't matter who we are, that the our programming was most likely attached to lack and limitation.
• 14:12
  SPEAKER_02: 97% of the population, I would say.
• 14:15
  SPEAKER_02: And so it didn't matter what I knew consciously, I was programmed to operate at a different level.
• 14:21
  SPEAKER_02: And so it's it's like not my fault because I didn't program myself.
• 14:27
  SPEAKER_02: My parents did, but they did the best they could, or my caregivers or my teachers.
• 14:32
  SPEAKER_02: And though once I become conscious of it, it's my responsibility to change it.
• 14:36
  SPEAKER_02: And so that's where the radical responsibility comes in.
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  SPEAKER_02: So I spent six weeks in the shame.
• 14:42
  SPEAKER_02: And actually, my husband was like, This program is supposed to help you, and you're miserable.
• 14:46
  SPEAKER_02: You are so hard on yourself.
• 14:48
  SPEAKER_02: Now you are like exactly what you were talking about.
• 14:52
  SPEAKER_02: And then I asked for help from my coach, and he's like, You're you're meant to look at your life like you were a scientist, like a scientist would look at yourself.
• 15:01
  SPEAKER_02: And so that's what I now coach my clients to do right from the beginning is like be objective.
• 15:06
  SPEAKER_02: You let's like you didn't know better.
• 15:08
  SPEAKER_02: You you're doing the best you could.
• 15:10
  SPEAKER_02: And then from there, now once you know, let's not choose this way of being going forward.
• 15:16
  SPEAKER_01: Because I think once you get there, it's the most freeing thing of like, well, it's all it's all on me, but like it's also all on me.
• 15:23
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 15:24
  SPEAKER_01: So I'm like, but there's so much freedom and there's so much limitless.
• 15:28
  SPEAKER_01: And if you can get over the and not go into shame, but hold that quote unquote pressure that it's all on you.
• 15:35
  SPEAKER_01: To me, that that's more free and expansive than anything.
• 15:38
  SPEAKER_01: Cause like whatever we want, we just we can go out and get.
• 15:41
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 15:42
  SPEAKER_02: And you can literally be do and have anything, anything, any.
• 15:46
  SPEAKER_02: So it's like whatever image you create in your mind.
• 15:50
  SPEAKER_02: And then, which I love, I love that we came together, Olivia, like, because it's like, can I regulate that picture then?
• 15:57
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 15:59
  SPEAKER_01: What do you feel?
• 16:00
  SPEAKER_01: Because you've been in this work for so long, is one of the biggest challenges or things that prevent people from locking in that new self-concept or that new, I know you don't call it identity, you want more self-image and self-concept, from locking in that self-image.
• 16:18
  SPEAKER_02: Well, I think you want to be careful that your old programming, your old identity, your old self-image.
• 16:26
  SPEAKER_02: And you speak about this with nervous system regulation, like it wants to keep you safe.
• 16:31
  SPEAKER_02: And so and change is seen by your subconscious mind as not being safe.
• 16:40
  SPEAKER_02: And so you really are up against like it's an uphill battle.
• 16:46
  SPEAKER_02: Um, and that your what I call your programming, your paradigm is sneaky.
• 16:52
  SPEAKER_02: So it knows ways that are unique to you, like the things you need to hear, the projections you get from other people in order to knock you out.
• 17:02
  SPEAKER_02: And so you've got to be willing to override it and almost expect.
• 17:07
  SPEAKER_02: And I say, like the paradigm's gonna, it's almost like a child, it's going to have a hissy fit.
• 17:13
  SPEAKER_02: Say the same thing.
• 17:14
  SPEAKER_02: I literally like it's gonna throw a temperature in order to stop you.
• 17:18
  SPEAKER_02: And so, are you gonna buy into it or are you going to lean into your vision, your goal achieved self and practice at that level?
• 17:28
  SPEAKER_02: And so it's like to expect it, but not to use the law of assumption like we talk about to assume the good.
• 17:34
  SPEAKER_02: It's like, yeah, I expect it's like, oh yeah, there you are having your temper tantrum, just like right on time.
• 17:40
  SPEAKER_02: I see you, and I'm not gonna fall for it.
• 17:43
  SPEAKER_01: We are such on the same wave.
• 17:45
  SPEAKER_01: Like, I'm just like nodding, like, yep, temper tantrum the same thing.
• 17:49
  SPEAKER_01: How important would you say your environment and your surroundings is to your self-image in terms of you know the rooms you put yourself in, the conversations, uh, what you consume on social media, friendships, relationships, everything.
• 18:02
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 18:03
  SPEAKER_01: Can we dive into like what people, yeah?
• 18:06
  SPEAKER_02: Well, I mean, here's the thing.
• 18:07
  SPEAKER_02: First of all, that that new version of you, everyone around you, up until that your decision to be step into a new version of you is in harmony with the old version, right?
• 18:23
  SPEAKER_02: So your friends and your family and you love them, but they want you to stay the same.
• 18:28
  SPEAKER_02: Not even, it's not conscious, but they're just in harmony.
• 18:31
  SPEAKER_02: Like that's why you're friends because you think alike, it's a law of vibration.
• 18:36
  SPEAKER_02: So you're in harmony with them.
• 18:38
  SPEAKER_02: And so then you step into this new version of you, you're no longer in harmony with them.
• 18:42
  SPEAKER_02: So now you're creating friction.
• 18:44
  SPEAKER_02: It's like an X, Y vibration.
• 18:45
  SPEAKER_02: Before you were X and X, it's like the flock of the what is it like the people, the I know what you mean.
• 18:51
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 18:52
  SPEAKER_02: Of the birds fly like like, yeah.
• 18:55
  SPEAKER_02: Everyone knows what we're talking about, like, like flock or something like that.
• 18:58
  SPEAKER_02: Anyway, it's okay.
• 19:00
  SPEAKER_02: Um, so you're in harmony, but then now you are now at a Y vibration and they're at X, and X and Y's aren't matching.
• 19:06
  SPEAKER_02: And so there's gonna be some tension.
• 19:08
  SPEAKER_02: So there's either you're going to dim your light to stay in harmony with them, or you'll stay in this new version of you, which is going to not be easy.
• 19:19
  SPEAKER_02: And they will either rise to join you or not, and just vibrate out of your life.
• 19:26
  SPEAKER_02: And so you've got to on purpose put yourself in rooms, hire mentors, have uh like accountability partners, people that will call you out anytime you go back into that old version of you.
• 19:40
  SPEAKER_02: Yep.
• 19:41
  SPEAKER_02: If not, you're back there, and that upgrade is temporary.
• 19:46
  SPEAKER_02: And I think this is a big part of as coaches, as people that create communities, this is our responsibility is to create communities where there is accountability, where we do call them out lovingly.
• 20:00
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 20:01
  SPEAKER_01: I full body chills.
• 20:02
  SPEAKER_01: I agree so much.
• 20:04
  SPEAKER_01: And often I find, and I was speaking about this, I think, in one of my solo podcast episodes a little bit ago, you can notice where you revert back to old identities.
• 20:12
  SPEAKER_01: Like if you go out with Sally from high school and you're used to drinking, all of a sudden you weren't drinking, but now like you went out all the weekend and you're drinking and staying up late.
• 20:20
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 20:21
  SPEAKER_01: Or you go home even.
• 20:22
  SPEAKER_01: Like you might even notice you revert back to an old identity when you're at home with your parents on all of these things.
• 20:27
  SPEAKER_01: And if you don't catch that, then you're keep going back to the old identities.
• 20:31
  SPEAKER_01: Or maybe you're talking to people who are toxic and like they they're like gossipy and they they tear down other women, or you're talking to maybe colleagues that you know in business, and they're like, Well, business is slow and the algorithm this and money is this.
• 20:45
  SPEAKER_01: That's gonna get into your subconscious and that's going to revert back.
• 20:49
  SPEAKER_01: So it's like you're doing all this work, but you're surrounding yourself with people that are pulling you back into that old self-image.
• 20:56
  SPEAKER_01: And it's like you're creating more work for yourself by having what I call like bowling balls attached to your ankles because you're trying to drag yourself into a new one, but the surroundings is always trying to pull you back.
• 21:07
  SPEAKER_01: And that's gonna feel so much harder.
• 21:09
  SPEAKER_01: It's gonna feel like you're trying to swim and climb like against the current, versus if you were to cut that loose, then you would you would fly so much.
• 21:17
  SPEAKER_01: And I think that's where so much frustration I think happens for people who are doing the work.
• 21:21
  SPEAKER_01: It's like then maybe they are doing some of the work and they're working on their self-image, but they revert back because of the conversations they're having, the information they're consuming, the rooms they're putting themselves in, the relationships that they're having, and the conversations within that, like you said, out of fear of like, well, what if they don't rise?
• 21:38
  SPEAKER_01: Like, yeah, you know, we were speaking about in your episode.
• 21:42
  SPEAKER_01: You know, if you rise and your partner's like this, what's gonna happen?
• 21:45
  SPEAKER_01: Will I lose all my friends?
• 21:47
  SPEAKER_01: Will I lose these people?
• 21:48
  SPEAKER_01: What would you say to someone who potentially that could mean losing a partner or friends, or they may not relate to the people they're surrounding yourself with?
• 21:58
  SPEAKER_01: Cause I know for my clients, I work with People, well, if I cut out all these people that are toxic, I'm essentially cutting out pretty much everyone.
• 22:05
  SPEAKER_01: And then I'll be quote unquote alone.
• 22:07
  SPEAKER_01: So what would you say to someone who's navigating that in between of like, well, I don't want to revert back, but if I were to be honest, like a lot of the people would pull me back into that old self-image.
• 22:17
  SPEAKER_01: How would you navigate that?
• 22:18
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I think that this is really common.
• 22:21
  SPEAKER_02: And I can even hear some of my clients saying, like, well, I don't want to leave them behind.
• 22:26
  SPEAKER_02: Like they feel responsible for them, for them.
• 22:30
  SPEAKER_02: And you you can't.
• 22:32
  SPEAKER_02: Like you, you have one life in this body, as far as we know.
• 22:36
  SPEAKER_02: And if you stay small so that other that you stay connected with those people, like, is that really, let's think about that.
• 22:45
  SPEAKER_02: On your deathbed, do you live with regrets then?
• 22:47
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, absolutely you will.
• 22:48
  SPEAKER_02: And so you've got a choice, and that choice, ideally, you're choosing to rise to live your best possible life.
• 22:59
  SPEAKER_02: And what I noticed for myself, because I used to think the same thing.
• 23:05
  SPEAKER_02: And I was willing for more years than I would like to admit to lower, dim my light, to lower my vibration, to stay in harmony in my marriage.
• 23:16
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 23:17
  SPEAKER_02: Because it was the only way to keep harmony in our house.
• 23:20
  SPEAKER_02: And so I would go out and rise, and then I'd have to come back to the house and dim my light, or else there would be too much friction.
• 23:29
  SPEAKER_02: And I didn't need to do that.
• 23:32
  SPEAKER_02: What I learned was that I can go into my new identity, my new self-image, raise my vibration.
• 23:41
  SPEAKER_02: And if he felt a pull, and this is the same thing for your friends as well, for those that feel the pull, they'll actually be inspired by you.
• 23:49
  SPEAKER_02: But you've got to keep yourself at that high-flying disc.
• 23:53
  SPEAKER_02: And they'll rise to join you if they're meant to.
• 23:57
  SPEAKER_02: So you're actually opening the space for their involvement or their evolution.
• 24:02
  SPEAKER_02: And so with my ex-husband, I noticed that there were periods where he would come up and rise with me.
• 24:09
  SPEAKER_02: Now it didn't last, which is then he vibrates out of my life because that's just the way.
• 24:14
  SPEAKER_02: Because I learned that I had to stay up here.
• 24:16
  SPEAKER_02: But I wasn't even giving him permission to rise because I kept lowering.
• 24:20
  SPEAKER_02: He didn't have to.
• 24:21
  SPEAKER_02: I would just lower.
• 24:22
  SPEAKER_02: Does that make sense?
• 24:23
  SPEAKER_02: And that's what a lot of us do.
• 24:24
  SPEAKER_02: We're not even giving our circles the opportunity to meet us.
• 24:29
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 24:30
  SPEAKER_02: And I think then we're now doing a disservice because this world literally needs every single light worker, every single person who's attracted to this material and our work.
• 24:41
  SPEAKER_02: The world needs us right now to stay in our power and to stay up here.
• 24:46
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 24:47
  SPEAKER_01: And I think that's also why people experience so much of that oscillation, is because they go up, but then they, in certain circumstances, they go smaller, whether it's with friends or romantic partner.
• 24:56
  SPEAKER_01: And so that's where they get the frustration.
• 24:59
  SPEAKER_01: It's like, oh my self-image, but then I get pulled down.
• 25:01
  SPEAKER_01: And so they experience like a groundhog day or that loop.
• 25:04
  SPEAKER_01: But I think this is also where you're talking about mentorship.
• 25:07
  SPEAKER_01: It's important, you know, if you feel like, oh, I'd be leaving all this behind, then go put yourself in spaces where there are those other women who are thinking like that, who are like that, like in-person events, masterminds, mentorship, whatever you need to do, because there are those groups.
• 25:20
  SPEAKER_01: You don't actually have to be in like the in-between alone.
• 25:23
  SPEAKER_01: You just need to put yourselves also, remove yourself from one, but actively put yourself in the other because you don't have to be alone in the middle.
• 25:30
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 25:30
  SPEAKER_02: And we can see, like it's easy to see what we're leaving behind.
• 25:34
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 25:34
  SPEAKER_02: And there's no way of knowing how good it is actually on the other side.
• 25:40
  SPEAKER_02: And that I, and this has happened to me, is where I have put myself over and over and over in those rooms and hired the mentors and all the things and stayed in that energy.
• 25:52
  SPEAKER_02: And then people I thought I was leaving behind actually came to join me.
• 25:57
  SPEAKER_02: Not some of them not right away, but like I have friends five years later that have come and joined my community.
• 26:03
  SPEAKER_02: That's amazing.
• 26:05
  SPEAKER_02: So, and it's we can't be responsible.
• 26:07
  SPEAKER_02: Like it's not up to us.
• 26:09
  SPEAKER_02: And there's nothing bad.
• 26:10
  SPEAKER_02: We're not better because we're growing up.
• 26:12
  SPEAKER_02: Like that's so important.
• 26:13
  SPEAKER_02: Understand, you know, they're doing their life and you do yours and do it on your term.
• 26:19
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, one is not better than the other.
• 26:21
  SPEAKER_01: They're just like different resonant frequencies.
• 26:23
  SPEAKER_01: That's it.
• 26:23
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 26:23
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, I don't want a somebody to go, you know, especially now.
• 26:27
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 26:28
  SPEAKER_02: And though there's nothing wrong with the people that are choosing to stay asleep.
• 26:34
  SPEAKER_01: So because you're so focused on self-image and the concept of yourself, are there things that you do regularly to keep expanding that?
• 26:44
  SPEAKER_01: And like, what are the things or what is the work that you do with people that where you're always like expanding it?
• 26:50
  SPEAKER_01: Because I'm sure it goes beyond like wearing the lip gloss she wears and stuff like that.
• 26:54
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I mean, the outer image, uh, the outer identity is important.
• 26:59
  SPEAKER_02: Um, and it's like one small piece to what self-image really is, which is why I use that term versus identity.
• 27:08
  SPEAKER_02: I believe the identity is, um, I believe that we all have different identities.
• 27:13
  SPEAKER_02: Like I have an identity as a mom, as a CEO, and then within that, I've got self-image.
• 27:18
  SPEAKER_02: So the self-image I like to think about is your the concept that you have of yourself or the way that you view yourself, and then the way that you believe others view you.
• 27:27
  SPEAKER_02: So it's not just how you view yourself, it's like what I think you think of me.
• 27:32
  SPEAKER_02: Which one do you think is more powerful?
• 27:34
  SPEAKER_01: Um or has more like weight in your system.
• 27:37
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, probably what other you think others think of you.
• 27:40
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, that's what I was gonna say.
• 27:41
  SPEAKER_01: That's why I asked.
• 27:42
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, and uh we and it's more than just thinking.
• 27:46
  SPEAKER_02: So, excuse me, I think where um it can appear that it's not holistic, like say mindset work, is that we think that mindset work is only conscious conscious thoughts, but it's not.
• 28:03
  SPEAKER_02: So your self-image is something that exists on all three levels in which the human exists, uh the spiritual plane, the intellectual and emotional planes, maybe those are two in depending on uh the way that we've studied this work, and then the then the physical plane.
• 28:22
  SPEAKER_02: And so you want to address your self-image on all of those levels, and so on the spiritual plane is the truth with a capital T of who and what you actually are, so God's eye view or the universe's view of you as a limitless being with infinite potential, then the thinking mind, which is involves your conscious thinking, which doesn't do anything, by the way, and then your subconscious, which is where your work is so powerful.
• 28:56
  SPEAKER_02: Um, and that's the programming, and then that leads to the feeling, which is all the nerve body stuff, the vibration, the nervous system.
• 29:05
  SPEAKER_02: And then that leads to your actions, the physical, but also the way I dress, the way I speak and meet meet and greet other people.
• 29:13
  SPEAKER_02: And so self-image is on all three levels, and I completely forget your question, but I no, no, it's great.
• 29:20
  SPEAKER_01: But I feel like sometimes when people think about self-concept self-image, they only think about the physical.
• 29:25
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 29:25
  SPEAKER_01: They think about well, this is the almond milk that version when we would drink, this is how she'd do her hair, this is how she would dress.
• 29:31
  SPEAKER_01: I mean, that's the fun stuff.
• 29:32
  SPEAKER_01: It's fun, but it's missing, I think, some of those other layers that you talked about.
• 29:36
  SPEAKER_02: It does not work without the other layers.
• 29:38
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 29:38
  SPEAKER_02: It's not, it's it's like the end result of it.
• 29:43
  SPEAKER_02: But if you are not in alignment with all three levels, it doesn't matter what car you drive.
• 29:49
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 29:49
  SPEAKER_02: It doesn't matter what suit you wear.
• 29:52
  SPEAKER_01: Of all of those levels, would you say it's like a downstream effect where because the physical is the last one?
• 29:57
  SPEAKER_01: It's kind of starts up here and then it kind of trickles down.
• 30:00
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, absolutely.
• 30:02
  SPEAKER_02: I often though don't work with clients on the spiritual plane until later.
• 30:10
  SPEAKER_02: Because I work, yeah, because I find that most people, if I say to you, and you're new to this work and you're so focused in the physical world, if I say to you, okay, Olivia, you can be do and have anything you desire, that you have infinite potential and that you were created in God's image.
• 30:29
  SPEAKER_02: Most people that are so locked into the 3D will look at me like I have three heads.
• 30:33
  SPEAKER_02: You're like, what in the world are you actually talking about?
• 30:36
  SPEAKER_02: What does it mean?
• 30:36
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 30:37
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 30:37
  SPEAKER_02: And so instead, I will go into the conscious thought.
• 30:42
  SPEAKER_02: And this is where and why I teach people to think about self-image as a creation that they're creating, because it's a conscious exercise, that they're gonna write out who they are, what they're wearing at that level as a starting point to like activate the imagination.
• 30:59
  SPEAKER_02: But then from there, I want them to think about okay, what are they thinking?
• 31:03
  SPEAKER_02: How are they feeling?
• 31:04
  SPEAKER_02: What does their body feel like?
• 31:06
  SPEAKER_02: Like, is there safety?
• 31:08
  SPEAKER_02: That the similar to the questions that you ask.
• 31:11
  SPEAKER_02: And then from there, identify what's in the subconscious mind.
• 31:14
  SPEAKER_02: So that's how we bring in that the subconscious piece or the feeling piece, and then go to the physical.
• 31:21
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 31:21
  SPEAKER_01: What would you say is the most common?
• 31:25
  SPEAKER_01: I don't like the word block because I don't believe we're blocked, but like limitation or thing that comes up for women coming into your world to do this work that you're like, oh, this is a very prominent pattern that people tend to encounter.
• 31:38
  SPEAKER_02: I would say the hard work paradigm.
• 31:42
  SPEAKER_02: That it has to be like hard to be hard.
• 31:44
  SPEAKER_02: Why do you think that is?
• 31:45
  SPEAKER_02: I think because that's how we've been programmed to we're we've been conditioned to believe that.
• 31:50
  SPEAKER_02: And like I my grandmother found out my daughter wants to go to Queens and she says, Well, you can do anything as long as you work hard for it.
• 31:59
  SPEAKER_02: I would like uh, you know, so it's so deeply ingrained.
• 32:06
  SPEAKER_02: So deep.
• 32:07
  SPEAKER_02: And we are spiritual beings in this physical body, so we believe that it's the action that gets us the result.
• 32:14
  SPEAKER_01: And then if we don't have the result that we want, well, we must have to take more action, and more doesn't even more, and then we dilute ourselves and it's just scattered action, action for the sake of action, and maybe it's action for the wrong self-image, and it just perpetuates.
• 32:27
  SPEAKER_02: And then we have narratives on social media that kind of make fun of some of the work that we do, and and it's like, well, you can't just meditate all day and wait for a million dollars.
• 32:37
  SPEAKER_02: Well, you actually like you could, you could, and not that's not that either of us do that, right?
• 32:41
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, you could.
• 32:42
  SPEAKER_02: But you you can't that is where I believe that the human is actually going, is to actually like the law of transmutation of energy is that I don't need to do.
• 32:52
  SPEAKER_02: If I feel inspired to do, then I get to do, but it's actually not necessary, but it is necessary for the masses because of how locked in we are in the physical.
• 33:04
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 33:05
  SPEAKER_01: 100%.
• 33:05
  SPEAKER_01: I'll I say to my clients all the time, you don't need to do to get, you don't need to do to get.
• 33:08
  SPEAKER_01: Where are you doing to get?
• 33:09
  SPEAKER_01: Where are you doing to get?
• 33:10
  SPEAKER_01: It's just like it's so even I I've noticed that people making a lot of money still, it's like to go that next level, it almost like the conditioning comes back.
• 33:19
  SPEAKER_01: It's like they unlearned it, but then they think to now go to the next level, they almost revert back to like, well, I must need to do more.
• 33:25
  SPEAKER_01: And it's like things that came up that you transcended at the beginning of your business when you were getting into energetic work, all of a sudden that narrative got created because it was still present.
• 33:33
  SPEAKER_01: You know, if you're going to multi-million, it's like, oh, well, no, that must require hard work.
• 33:38
  SPEAKER_01: Totally.
• 33:38
  SPEAKER_01: But you've gotten on board only to like a certain point, but you're so right.
• 33:41
  SPEAKER_01: This and it's so deep.
• 33:43
  SPEAKER_01: It's come back for me.
• 33:44
  SPEAKER_01: So deep.
• 33:45
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 33:45
  SPEAKER_01: Doing to get doing to get.
• 33:46
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 33:46
  SPEAKER_01: And I I agree with, I feel like we could have a whole other episode of like the future of humanity where we're going in terms of like instant creation.
• 33:53
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 33:53
  SPEAKER_01: We're just scratching the surface.
• 33:55
  SPEAKER_02: And I noticed that that idea for myself personally, that idea of doing to get comes back if I'm in a moment of opposites or like at the rhythm of my business isn't where I'd like it to be.
• 34:07
  SPEAKER_02: But really, it's just the law of the rhythm playing out, and I've just got to hold that space.
• 34:12
  SPEAKER_02: But I'll be like, oh, what do I need to do?
• 34:15
  SPEAKER_02: You know, and it's like it's present.
• 34:18
  SPEAKER_02: And I think it's going, it's like, it doesn't have to be.
• 34:22
  SPEAKER_02: And what I've noticed is it's an ongoing deprogramming.
• 34:26
  SPEAKER_01: And kind of like we were saying about the environment.
• 34:27
  SPEAKER_01: And then it also gets reinforced by either parents or people around us and online on social media, people like teams, you know, all telling us that thing.
• 34:35
  SPEAKER_01: So it's when you're also bombarded, it's like you constantly have to like fend it off, like swatting a fly away because the conditioning is so present in life.
• 34:43
  SPEAKER_01: It's like you get yourself great, and then it's like making your sure you stay clear of that and stay like focused is huge.
• 34:49
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 34:50
  SPEAKER_02: And and to make a promise to like the action that I do take is because I'm inspired to take it.
• 34:58
  SPEAKER_02: It lights me up.
• 35:00
  SPEAKER_02: And so to pay attention to your point when I'm doing action to get, and then like being willing to scrap it.
• 35:10
  SPEAKER_02: Like one of the things that I think probably, my team's probably listening, but like most annoys them is like, yeah, we're not doing that.
• 35:16
  SPEAKER_02: Like, we I know we spent all this time, but like, no, no more.
• 35:20
  SPEAKER_02: Like, sorry.
• 35:21
  SPEAKER_02: Because I realize, I recognize, like, I don't actually want to do this.
• 35:25
  SPEAKER_02: This is like a conditioning that I believe that we have to, and I don't want to have to do anything.
• 35:31
  SPEAKER_01: I think that's a very powerful thing for everyone listening to ask themselves.
• 35:34
  SPEAKER_01: Is where am I doing something because I think I have to do it in order to get that?
• 35:40
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, I think I have to do this, I think I have to be like this, I think I have to.
• 35:44
  SPEAKER_01: And where it feels like you're pushing that boulder uphill versus, like you said, doing it because you are and we're on the same wavelength, although it's a kind of reverberating, you're gonna feel less friction.
• 35:54
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 35:54
  SPEAKER_02: And it's scary to admit some of those things, especially if you have other people that you're working with and you've invested money into a thing, time into a thing, and then you recognize it and you're like, oh shit, I've gotta like stop doing this.
• 36:14
  SPEAKER_02: I know it's not gonna make logical sense.
• 36:16
  SPEAKER_02: I know there's an impact.
• 36:17
  SPEAKER_02: I know everyone's been excited about this, but and I gotta and I tattooed the words trust yourself on my arm to remind me to trust.
• 36:27
  SPEAKER_01: What do you think allows you to trust yourself?
• 36:29
  SPEAKER_01: Or what has helped you trust yourself when the evidence is like doesn't make sense, it's illogical.
• 36:36
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, well, um, I think living the impact of not trusting myself.
• 36:42
  SPEAKER_01: Con no to me, contrast is a huge thing.
• 36:44
  SPEAKER_01: Of like I know what it's like to not, and I don't ever want to go back.
• 36:46
  SPEAKER_01: No, I think that's perfect.
• 36:47
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I think knowing that is and then you have to hang in and huge letters on my arm.
• 36:52
  SPEAKER_02: I can't see it.
• 36:54
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 36:56
  SPEAKER_00: What time are we at?
• 36:58
  SPEAKER_00: Oh no, how long have we been recording?
• 37:01
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, half an hour.
• 37:06
  SPEAKER_00: Um but you can I just hear that in lock because I was holding it out.
• 37:12
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 37:12
  SPEAKER_00: I feel good like you're always holding it, I feel bad.
• 37:16
  SPEAKER_02: It like tends to creep down a little bit.
• 37:26
  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
• 37:26
  SPEAKER_00: It shouldn't move now.
• 37:28
  SPEAKER_02: Okay.
• 37:30
  SPEAKER_02: Okay, great.
• 37:32
  SPEAKER_01: Can I keep going?
• 37:34
  SPEAKER_01: So I want to touch on because you speak on self-image also related to income, and I really want to like ask a few questions and dive a little bit into money.
• 37:42
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 37:43
  SPEAKER_01: What do you think is like the biggest change or belief that is locked into someone's self-I know we talked about the hard work around income and why changing the self-image can impact your income so dramatically, but also so quickly.
• 37:59
  SPEAKER_01: Because I know you shared you three times your income.
• 38:01
  SPEAKER_01: I mean, without working more, that's so powerful.
• 38:04
  SPEAKER_01: Like you can make a shift today and your income can change tomorrow.
• 38:09
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, well, a lot of people when they relate to money, they don't do the mathing correctly.
• 38:19
  SPEAKER_02: Um, and it it relates to self-image, but I think it more relates to this logical thinking that we've been programmed to believe about money, that we believe that whatever money you have in your bank account, or we're programmed to believe that whatever money you have in your bank account is all that there ever will be.
• 38:38
  SPEAKER_02: It's not true, but people feel like it and they do math that way.
• 38:41
  SPEAKER_02: So it's like I have a thousand dollars in my bank account.
• 38:43
  SPEAKER_02: I just received a bill for 500.
• 38:46
  SPEAKER_02: Logically, that leaves me with 500.
• 38:49
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 38:49
  SPEAKER_02: But I don't like one plus one equals two.
• 38:52
  SPEAKER_02: I believe one plus one equals eleven.
• 38:54
  SPEAKER_01: Go on.
• 38:55
  SPEAKER_01: You are not, you didn't.
• 38:56
  SPEAKER_01: I literally I have a live that I did like I'm just the synchronicities between us are it's literally called one plus one does not equal two, it equals eleven.
• 39:05
  SPEAKER_01: We are so insane.
• 39:06
  SPEAKER_01: This is I'm so glad we met.
• 39:07
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 39:07
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, okay, keep going.
• 39:08
  SPEAKER_01: Wow.
• 39:09
  SPEAKER_02: So this this math isn't correct.
• 39:12
  SPEAKER_02: Yep.
• 39:13
  SPEAKER_02: And so if you are going to continue to make decisions, a thousand dollars minus five hundred equals five hundred, you'll never live in abundance.
• 39:25
  SPEAKER_02: It's just, it's so it's how you are identifying with money that needs to change, which is why it comes back to identity and self-image.
• 39:33
  SPEAKER_02: It's your understanding of the math.
• 39:34
  SPEAKER_02: So let's do the millionaire math thing now.
• 39:37
  SPEAKER_02: So I've got$1,000, I receive a bill today for$500.
• 39:43
  SPEAKER_02: Now my work is how I relate to investing that money.
• 39:47
  SPEAKER_02: So I never use the word spend.
• 39:50
  SPEAKER_02: So when I release money, I release it and it must come back to me.
• 39:55
  SPEAKER_02: So I'm doing the infinity sign with my hands right now because I release the$500.
• 40:01
  SPEAKER_02: I no longer I don't anchor in that I have$500 back in my account.
• 40:06
  SPEAKER_02: Instead, I look at and I consciously create a story that serves me around where I'm releasing that money.
• 40:13
  SPEAKER_02: So now I have it's for my phone bill, let's say, or it could be for coaching.
• 40:18
  SPEAKER_02: And I'm paying this$500 and I'm investing it.
• 40:23
  SPEAKER_02: And in that moment that I pay the bill, I think about, I want to put the money through a lens of appreciation so it multiplies and comes back tenfold.
• 40:34
  SPEAKER_02: So the the filter is appreciation.
• 40:37
  SPEAKER_02: So I now think about my phone bill or think about the coaching and think about the return on that investment.
• 40:43
  SPEAKER_02: So my phone allows me to connect with my clients, it allows me to post to Instagram, it's all and all and everything that I do, I connect with my clients, that makes me money.
• 40:53
  SPEAKER_02: So I can literally see where that$500 I'm investing comes back and earns me$5,000 because of the story that I'm if it's$500 that I'm investing in a team member or a uh coaching or mentorship, that$500, well, I'm that that mentor is saving me time and money.
• 41:12
  SPEAKER_02: That team member is helping me impact.
• 41:15
  SPEAKER_02: So again, I can see that where that$500 is now coming back as$5,000.
• 41:19
  SPEAKER_02: But I've got to put it through the lens and consciously create a story that serves me.
• 41:23
  SPEAKER_02: So now I had$1,000 in my bank account.
• 41:26
  SPEAKER_02: I've just turned$500 that I've invested into$5,000.
• 41:30
  SPEAKER_02: Let's do that math.
• 41:32
  SPEAKER_02: That's$6,000 in my bank account.
• 41:36
  SPEAKER_01: I love this.
• 41:36
  SPEAKER_01: I love this perspective.
• 41:37
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, yeah.
• 41:38
  SPEAKER_01: Because it's the meaning and that changes.
• 41:40
  SPEAKER_01: I mean, I talk about nervous system.
• 41:41
  SPEAKER_01: That whole process you just went, put us through, will change how your nervous system responds.
• 41:46
  SPEAKER_01: Cause now it's not like, oh, I'm down 500.
• 41:48
  SPEAKER_01: It's I've gained 5,000, 6,000, whatever at multiple thousands.
• 41:53
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 41:53
  SPEAKER_01: And that feels different to the system.
• 41:55
  SPEAKER_01: And then we're not reacting to money in the same way.
• 41:57
  SPEAKER_01: We don't feel that same.
• 41:59
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 41:59
  SPEAKER_02: And you can't fake it.
• 42:00
  SPEAKER_02: So this is where like you've got to really sit with it and create the story and really spend the time to believe that story, which is where your work is so beneficial.
• 42:10
  SPEAKER_02: It's like anchoring that in, regulate the nervous system through the story with what you're saying.
• 42:15
  SPEAKER_02: And you'll know when you feel it, when you believe it.
• 42:17
  SPEAKER_02: And it's going to take practice.
• 42:19
  SPEAKER_02: So you want to practice it when you're paying the phone bill, when you're paying your mentor, when you're out for uh paying the bill at the restaurant, when you're out for groceries.
• 42:27
  SPEAKER_02: So there's very tangible.
• 42:29
  SPEAKER_02: And this is why I love money, is because money is everywhere.
• 42:32
  SPEAKER_02: You cannot get away from using it in your day-to-day life.
• 42:35
  SPEAKER_02: It is such a good teacher for what you believe.
• 42:39
  SPEAKER_02: And so you all day, you probably have what, a hundred different opportunities in a day to anchor in this new self-image to regulate your nervous system so that you feel worthy of money, that you can receive it.
• 42:53
  SPEAKER_02: Actually practice, actually use it.
• 42:56
  SPEAKER_02: And this is where people don't because they're so busy throughout the day that they're not conscious.
• 43:02
  SPEAKER_02: But really, you've got a huge opportunity.
• 43:05
  SPEAKER_02: And so much so that within the next hour, if you take on this exercise, the next time you interact with money, notice what happens the hour after that.
• 43:18
  SPEAKER_02: And you'll see it comes into your life, Napoleon Hill and think and grow rich.
• 43:22
  SPEAKER_02: He says it's gonna flow so fast, you're gonna wonder where it was hiding all those lean years.
• 43:26
  SPEAKER_02: And that's what my clients experience.
• 43:29
  SPEAKER_01: I love that.
• 43:30
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 43:30
  SPEAKER_01: No, it's huge because then you're any.
• 43:33
  SPEAKER_01: If you think about how much time we spend money, it can be the coffee shop, team members, this investing mentorship.
• 43:38
  SPEAKER_01: And if you do this exercise over and over and over again, your bank account is huge.
• 43:42
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 43:42
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 43:43
  SPEAKER_01: Like conceptually and you're energetically, it's huge.
• 43:46
  SPEAKER_01: And then Raleigh rushes to fill it.
• 43:48
  SPEAKER_02: And you have no reason to then like want to hold on to money, which is one of the biggest mistakes people do because they don't do math properly.
• 43:55
  SPEAKER_02: They're like, well, I can't pay that bill because then it's only leaving me 500 and they're And lack and scarcity, but taking money out of circulation kinks your money hose.
• 44:04
  SPEAKER_02: It does not work.
• 44:06
  SPEAKER_02: And so then it allows you to let go of the money freely because you can see how it comes back.
• 44:10
  SPEAKER_02: And then you'll actually notice.
• 44:12
  SPEAKER_02: So this is where you practice the application of what I'm teaching.
• 44:16
  SPEAKER_02: And then in your physical reality, you're going to get evidence of more money.
• 44:20
  SPEAKER_02: So you're going to be like, and you, and then it's your responsibility to make sure that you're connecting the dots.
• 44:26
  SPEAKER_02: It's like, oh my gosh, because I paid that bill with the story of money coming back and I had to keep it in circulation and then putting it through the lens of appreciation.
• 44:35
  SPEAKER_02: Of course, that client just paid in full for$5,000.
• 44:39
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 44:39
  SPEAKER_02: That's exactly what Danielle and Olivia were talking about.
• 44:42
  SPEAKER_02: And then now you have the evidence.
• 44:43
  SPEAKER_02: And here's the thing: it may not be$5,000 from one, it may not even be in the next hour.
• 44:49
  SPEAKER_02: You've just, you've got to really pay attention to what you're attracting into your physical reality because none of it's a coincidence.
• 44:56
  SPEAKER_02: And if you say, oh, maybe it's that you found a hundred-dollar bill and you're like, well, that's not what they were talking about.
• 45:02
  SPEAKER_02: They said it would come through a client.
• 45:03
  SPEAKER_02: I'm like, no, money comes through the path of least resistance.
• 45:06
  SPEAKER_02: Make sure that you are tracking it all and understanding that none of it is a mistake, that it's all because of your vibration.
• 45:16
  SPEAKER_02: And then before you know it, you're going to have experiences to solidify your understanding and belief of how all this works, that no one can then take it away from you because you've applied now this wisdom.
• 45:30
  SPEAKER_01: And you keep applying it over and over again.
• 45:32
  SPEAKER_01: And then it does like speed up.
• 45:33
  SPEAKER_01: So it may take a little bit at first, but I guarantee you I know I have, and you probably have times like you spent the money and it came back like instantly or like within for sure the hour that day and it came back so quick.
• 45:44
  SPEAKER_01: The more you do it because you've compounded that effect in your system.
• 45:48
  SPEAKER_01: Totally.
• 45:49
  SPEAKER_01: So I have one more question.
• 45:50
  SPEAKER_01: I feel like we could talk for hours, but it's a question I'll ask everyone because it's called the Beyond Limits podcast.
• 45:57
  SPEAKER_01: What does it mean to you to live beyond limits?
• 46:00
  SPEAKER_02: Who to have incredible courage to first of all use your imagination to dream big.
• 46:07
  SPEAKER_02: So there's no going beyond a limit if you don't give yourself permission to create the vision in the first place.
• 46:15
  SPEAKER_02: And I would say that that's where most people are keeping themselves stuck, is that the picture that they create for themselves is a logical next step to one.
• 46:24
  SPEAKER_02: And it takes great courage to admit what you truly desire.
• 46:29
  SPEAKER_02: I remember the time when I put on my paper that I wanted to be Bob Proctor's protege.
• 46:34
  SPEAKER_02: I had no business.
• 46:35
  SPEAKER_02: It was 2017.
• 46:36
  SPEAKER_02: I had no results in this work.
• 46:39
  SPEAKER_02: And I wrote it on my paper and like covered up what I wrote because I didn't want anyone else to see, because I was in a seminar with Bob Proctor.
• 46:47
  SPEAKER_02: And but that that took great courage.
• 46:50
  SPEAKER_02: And then years later, I was actually named that.
• 46:54
  SPEAKER_02: And I share that because all those thoughts, like who do you think you are?
• 46:59
  SPEAKER_02: All the limitations come up.
• 47:01
  SPEAKER_02: And that's what, and what if I what if that never happens?
• 47:03
  SPEAKER_02: Like, what if I disappoint myself?
• 47:05
  SPEAKER_02: So to live a limitless life, you've got to have the courage to admit those deep desires that are in your heart.
• 47:12
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, full body chills.
• 47:13
  SPEAKER_01: I feel like that was such a beautiful way to end the episode.
• 47:15
  SPEAKER_01: Danielle, thank you so much for coming on, for giving us your wisdom, your heart, for sharing your journey and all of the fantastic things that you are doing.
• 47:23
  SPEAKER_01: We will leave Danielle's information down below.
• 47:26
  SPEAKER_01: You're gonna have to check her out and let me know how this episode resonated for you.
• 47:30
  SPEAKER_01: And I will see you in the next one.
• 47:31
  SPEAKER_01: Bye.