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Romeo In The Morning 6-15-26 · Romeo In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: I was going on as Romeo. We made it back.
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  Speaker 1: It's Monday. We got into a little bit about Father's Day,
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  Speaker 1: talking about whose day is it? Whos decide what you do?
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  Speaker 1: And then I guess the man purse. Have you guys
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  Speaker 1: heard about this? I guess men are wearing purses. A
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  Speaker 1: friend of mine was asking what's in him? I have
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  Speaker 1: no idea. Let's find out. I need your opinion. So
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  Speaker 1: someone close to me passed away about six years ago.
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  Speaker 1: Over the weekend, I found out his older brother, which
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  Speaker 1: I was close to, also is being is being with
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  Speaker 1: the baby mama of the person who died. So, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: the older brother, So, the older brother to the person
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  Speaker 1: who died is now being with the baby mama. So
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  Speaker 1: I cut him off. I'm no longer talking to him.
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  Speaker 1: My family says, I'm messed up for cutting him off.
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  Speaker 1: What do you think? I think you're messed up for
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  Speaker 1: cutting him off? Sorry, man, I mean unfortunately, in this life,
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  Speaker 1: in this world, we live and people passed away, some younger,
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  Speaker 1: some older, some too soon. And what do you expect
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  Speaker 1: people to do if the older brother is with his
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  Speaker 1: brother's ex his brother's baby mama. You know, do you?
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  Speaker 1: By the way, just so you know, headbutt Raider, there
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  Speaker 1: was a point in history where if there were two
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  Speaker 1: brothers and one of them was married and the other
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  Speaker 1: one wasn't, and the brother that was married passed away,
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  Speaker 1: the other brother's obligation was to move in and take
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  Speaker 1: care of that family. So that's nothing new. It's not weird,
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  Speaker 1: it's not strange. It's things happen for all you know.
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  Speaker 1: And this is the other thing I will say about
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  Speaker 1: this specifically, because you said the one brother passed away.
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  Speaker 1: For all you know, they might have found they might
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  Speaker 1: have found healing together over there over her baby daddy
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  Speaker 1: and his brother. They might have consoled each other, and
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  Speaker 1: that's how they got through. You never know. It's not
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  Speaker 1: it's not shady. Let me put it to you like that.
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  Speaker 1: I know when you hear that and you say it
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  Speaker 1: to me, head butt raider, it's not shady. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: they weren't. They weren't together while the brother was still alive.
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  Speaker 1: They weren't cheating. You know, they might have found comfort
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  Speaker 1: in each other. You can't you can't really argue with that.
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  Speaker 1: So it's not strange for that to happen, or is
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  Speaker 1: it wrong? At least I don't think maybe maybe I'm
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  Speaker 1: wrong about that. So I got this from headbut raider.
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  Speaker 1: He says, I need your opinion.
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  Speaker 2: Rome.
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  Speaker 1: About six years ago, a friend of has passed away.
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  Speaker 1: Over the weekend, I found out that his older brother
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  Speaker 1: is with the baby mama of the of his younger
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  Speaker 1: brother who passed away. So so I cut him off.
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  Speaker 1: I'm no longer talking to him. My family says, I'm
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  Speaker 1: messed up for cutting him off. What do you think?
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  Speaker 1: I think you're messed up? I mean mean, people, you know,
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  Speaker 1: grieve in different ways. I just I don't I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: all right, are the kids being taken care of?
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  Speaker 3: Now?
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  Speaker 1: The older brothers stepped up and now was raising the
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  Speaker 1: children and all that. Why would you think that was
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  Speaker 1: a bad thing? I mean, I'm assuming that they weren't
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  Speaker 1: having an affair while the younger brother was still alive.
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  Speaker 1: So I don't know what you expect people to do?
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  Speaker 1: Good morning? What's going on?
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  Speaker 4: You don't might be right about that?
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  Speaker 5: Right?
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  Speaker 1: No? No?
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  Speaker 6: No, no, no.
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  Speaker 5: Huh?
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  Speaker 7: What's wrong with it?
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  Speaker 1: What's wrong with what? Him being mad at his friend
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  Speaker 1: because the brother got with the other brother, the brother
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  Speaker 1: who passed aways baby mama.
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  Speaker 6: I mean, people with feelings you know, this is Baker's field.
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  Speaker 8: There's nothing but feelings out here.
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  Speaker 1: Well, that's just dumb, though. I mean the guy, the
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  Speaker 1: guy passed away. What if she used to do forever?
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  Speaker 6: I mean, if by mom gonna be a widow.
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  Speaker 1: You guys are so ridiculously insecure. You guys are ridiculous.
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  Speaker 4: You know.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, he's an idiot, just like you. You both dummies, all right,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, that's just ridiculous to think that. Okay, I'm sorry,
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  Speaker 1: I know it's I know that. You guys, how could
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  Speaker 1: you ask somebody to do that? You know, if if
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  Speaker 1: your spouse or your baby mommy, your baby daddy passes
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  Speaker 1: away uh early or younger than they they absolutely should have,
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  Speaker 1: You're just supposed to be a widow for the rest
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  Speaker 1: of your life. That's what you're supposed to do that. Now,
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  Speaker 1: that seems so ridiculous to ask somebody to do that.
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  Speaker 1: Why would you want that? Why would you want your
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  Speaker 1: your partner if you unfortunately passed away early in life?
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  Speaker 1: Why would you want your partner to be alone? I mean,
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  Speaker 1: how selfish is it to think like that? Or is
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  Speaker 1: that not selfish? Maybe I'm wrong? Maybe maybe head butt
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  Speaker 1: Rudder's right. Head butt Raider is right. Maybe I'm wrong.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe I'm wrong, Maybe I'm wrong already four two, five, four,
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  Speaker 1: seven to seven. I just I guess I don't see
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  Speaker 1: it that way. I wouldn't want somebody to be alone
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  Speaker 1: and have to mourn me for any reason.
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  Speaker 9: I don'tn't.
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  Speaker 1: I wouldn't want that for somebody already four two, five,
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  Speaker 1: four or seven to seven. All right, So head butt
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  Speaker 1: Raider has brought something up. He was looking for your opinion.
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  Speaker 1: He says, about six years ago. You're six years ago.
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  Speaker 1: Close friend of has passed away. Over the weekend, he
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  Speaker 1: found out that the friend's older brother, who he's also
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  Speaker 1: close to, is with the baby mama. The person who
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  Speaker 1: passed away to the younger brother. The older brothers with
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  Speaker 1: his younger brother's family. Now it looks like, he says,
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  Speaker 1: So I cut him off no longer talking to him.
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  Speaker 1: My family says, I'm messed up for cutting him off.
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  Speaker 1: I think that is kind of messed up too, Roan.
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  Speaker 1: What about the kids? They go from cousins to stepbrothers
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  Speaker 1: and sisters. What they call him stepdad or uncle? I
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  Speaker 1: don't know, But is he taking care of the kids?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, how's that working out? We're not what's going on?
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  Speaker 7: Yes, this topic?
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  Speaker 10: Yes, come on, now, that's out of pocket for the brother. Yeah,
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  Speaker 10: eight billion people plus in this world.
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  Speaker 3: And he goes to the sister.
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  Speaker 1: Well, let me ask you this question. Let me ask
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  Speaker 1: you this question. Okay, the heap about raiders said the
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  Speaker 1: brother passed away six years ago, so twenty twenty. What
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  Speaker 1: if they just got together last this year? Is that
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  Speaker 1: still wrong?
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  Speaker 10: It's still wrong.
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  Speaker 11: Let me tell you what, okay is what about kids?
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  Speaker 3: So it goes from uncle to dead dad, that's just ruthless.
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  Speaker 1: Well what if he's providing and taking care of the
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  Speaker 1: kids as his own? Does that change anything?
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  Speaker 4: Okay?
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  Speaker 10: I feel like it's imbeddedly wrong just that.
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  Speaker 1: But you know, but you do know that there was
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  Speaker 1: a time when other family when that happened, and I
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  Speaker 1: think the Old West or something that the brother would
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  Speaker 1: step in and take care of the family after that.
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  Speaker 9: I think it's beautiful financially supportively, but not romantically.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, all right, And maybe I'm wrong about it. I
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  Speaker 1: just I just look at the morning part. I would
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  Speaker 1: just think I would want anybody in my life if
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  Speaker 1: I died, I would want everybody in my life to
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  Speaker 1: be happy. And not care about me because are so.
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  Speaker 1: But however they get there is how they get there,
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  Speaker 1: and I wouldn't care about that. So, but I'm not
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  Speaker 1: going to argue with you guys if you think it's wrong.
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  Speaker 3: All right, I just want to.
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  Speaker 1: Bye, thank you? All righty fourteen ft four seven to seven.
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  Speaker 1: So there you go. All right, it's wrong. It's wrong
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  Speaker 1: for the brother to so head butt Raider, maybe you
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  Speaker 1: are right. I knew maybe you are right. Head butt Raider.
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  Speaker 1: Do come up with some crazy things. Man, He texts
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  Speaker 1: me about some crazy things. He was talking about his friend.
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  Speaker 1: I guess one of his friends passed away six years
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  Speaker 1: ago and he found out that his friend's older brother
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  Speaker 1: is now with the baby mama. And he was saying
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  Speaker 1: that he has cut off the friend's older brother because
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  Speaker 1: of it. I guess headbutt Raiders family is telling him
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  Speaker 1: that he's wrong for doing it. Good morning out what's
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  Speaker 1: going on?
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  Speaker 7: So?
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  Speaker 2: And so I agree and disagree on you guys. Just
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  Speaker 2: a point, okay, So the family members, cousins and friends
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  Speaker 2: should not get with the baby mama. Pat Paul, Well,
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  Speaker 2: I'm not gonna sit here and have my baby mama
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  Speaker 2: uh more and me what I make she wants to
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  Speaker 2: move on, she can't. They can't be with enough family members,
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  Speaker 2: friends and nothing like that.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, either way, why what is your reasoning behind that?
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  Speaker 8: Because it's probably a good security over a lot of people,
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  Speaker 8: because maybe when you guys work together, that one person
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  Speaker 8: wanted to get with your girl.
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  Speaker 2: What's your what's your baby? Mama?
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  Speaker 8: You know, it's like I'm being honesty for a lot
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  Speaker 8: of us. You know, they probably won the minute, but
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  Speaker 8: I will, you know, because I want to be looking
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  Speaker 8: down here, like, what the.
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  Speaker 1: Hell hol that? That does change the dynamic. If there
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  Speaker 1: was if your brother was sitting there waiting to get
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  Speaker 1: with your and wanted your girl and waited until and something,
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  Speaker 1: that does change the dynamic of the conversation. What is
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  Speaker 1: they were just mourning you and then all of a
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  Speaker 1: sudden feelings things happen. Does that change your dynamic? Does
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  Speaker 1: that change your opinion?
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  Speaker 6: Uh?
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  Speaker 8: Maybe if there's words, maybe there's just how to plea
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  Speaker 8: one time.
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  Speaker 2: Clean, but to have a relationship after the fact, it
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  Speaker 2: was still never change.
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  Speaker 7: My opinion.
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  Speaker 1: Thanks for calling. I mean, it does change the set,
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  Speaker 1: It does change the dynamic of the conversation. If you
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  Speaker 1: if if whoever gets with your baby Mama after you
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  Speaker 1: pass away. He's been waiting for something to happen so
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  Speaker 1: that he could slide in here that I agree with
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  Speaker 1: you guys. That changes I don't know, but that does
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  Speaker 1: change the conversation already four two, five, four or seven
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  Speaker 1: and seven. Headbutt Raider do come up with some crazy things.
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  Speaker 9: Man.
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  Speaker 1: He text me about some crazy things. He was talking
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  Speaker 1: about his friend. I guess one of his friends passed
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  Speaker 1: away six years ago, and he found out that his
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  Speaker 1: friend's older brother is now with the baby mama. And
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  Speaker 1: he was saying that he has cut off the friend's
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  Speaker 1: older brother because of it. I guess headbutt Raiders family
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  Speaker 1: is telling him that he's wrong for doing it. Good morning,
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  Speaker 1: not what's going on?
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  Speaker 7: Hey, what's wrong?
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  Speaker 9: Hey?
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  Speaker 3: Man?
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  Speaker 12: Hey?
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  Speaker 13: You know what.
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  Speaker 12: I don't think you're wrong with their room because usually
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  Speaker 12: with something like that happens in the family, don't the deals.
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  Speaker 4: Usually is the kids look up to him like dads
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  Speaker 4: already anyways, you.
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  Speaker 1: Know, yeah, I think so, But there there is.
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  Speaker 12: I mean, why did everybody hate you?
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  Speaker 13: Uh?
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  Speaker 9: I don't know.
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  Speaker 7: And then he's going to.
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  Speaker 12: Keep the kids close to the family right there, all
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  Speaker 12: the same Grandma and grandpa, everybody I mean, what more
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  Speaker 12: do they want?
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  Speaker 7: Oh good for her, for her to get a new man,
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  Speaker 7: and they.
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  Speaker 4: Don't want the kids around her eighteen anymore, you know
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  Speaker 4: what I mean.
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  Speaker 11: You know, the new man could just.
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  Speaker 4: Say no, control everything, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 8: So they're good.
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  Speaker 13: They're keeping the kids in the family, the old lady
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  Speaker 13: in the family.
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  Speaker 4: Everything that should be all good.
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  Speaker 1: All thanks, all right? Later? Are they bore two? About
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  Speaker 1: four seven to seven? Uh? Uh na brou he was?
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  Speaker 1: Uh she was? Was the jealous brother. Oh no, that's
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  Speaker 1: not what happened. You got you guys got to stop
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  Speaker 1: watching true crime? Uh yo, Rome, what would you do?
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  Speaker 1: Would you do that?
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  Speaker 14: No?
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  Speaker 1: See, but here's the thing I'm not coming from the perspective.
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  Speaker 1: If I was in that situation, I would not do it.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I would not. If my brother passed away,
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  Speaker 1: I would not get with his girl. But in fairness,
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  Speaker 1: if the roles were reversed, I wouldn't. It wouldn't bother me.
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  Speaker 1: That's what that's I guess I should put it like that.
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  Speaker 1: I wouldn't do it, but it wouldn't bother me, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I'm roam. So he got married to the brother. The
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  Speaker 1: brother's baby, Mam and have kids with him. I know
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  Speaker 1: you guys are trying to be funny, but uh yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you're just not. And doctor Dev is here. You know,
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  Speaker 1: doctor Dev. He is our classic surgeon, our reconstructive surgeon.
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  Speaker 1: He's the guy we talked to about medical stuff that's
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  Speaker 1: going on in our town. What's going on? Doctor Dev?
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  Speaker 13: Good morning.
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  Speaker 7: Now let's see things are.
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  Speaker 1: Great right now?
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  Speaker 13: Good, but listen, there's some great stuff to talk about,
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  Speaker 13: things that you know, read the book and that for.
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  Speaker 7: A while over the last year or.
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  Speaker 9: So, and now I think it's time to talk about
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  Speaker 9: it because of course it's becoming controversial, right, So it's peptide, yeah,
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  Speaker 9: and you know it's it's kind of controversial, kind of
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  Speaker 9: not but in my mind, you know, when teenagers start
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  Speaker 9: to get involved and my son's asking me questions and
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  Speaker 9: you know my son really will Yeah, he's asking me questions,
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  Speaker 9: it's time to start talking about it publicly because that
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  Speaker 9: means other people have questions.
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  Speaker 1: Well, first of all, what are peptides. There's like a
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  Speaker 1: million of them or something, right, and they they mix
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  Speaker 1: them together is something that you can combined it.
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  Speaker 7: That's right, that's right.
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  Speaker 9: You know, our body is made up of lots and
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  Speaker 9: lots of peptides, proteins, and so those proteins, you know,
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  Speaker 9: have functions in our bodies. So like if you look
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  Speaker 9: at insolent, insulin is a peptide. Imagine, okay, if you
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  Speaker 9: look at other hormones, they're peptides. And so when you
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  Speaker 9: think about the way life is and what we use
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  Speaker 9: it for and how we function, all these things that
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  Speaker 9: we use it for are basically their proteins inside our body.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 9: They're made up of a bunch of different amino acids,
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  Speaker 9: and when those amino acids get smaller, those are little.
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  Speaker 1: Peptiles okay, okay, okay.
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  Speaker 9: And they worn't to do certain things, so they can
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  Speaker 9: build muscle, they can regulate glucose, you know, they can
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  Speaker 9: regulate other hormones, and so when you take those are
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  Speaker 9: they can really change the way your body behaves. And
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  Speaker 9: FDA doesn't really approve many.
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  Speaker 1: Of them at all.
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  Speaker 15: Right now, of course, now there are just I believe,
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  Speaker 15: if I understand correctly, there are companies now, or doctors
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  Speaker 15: now or professionals now that actually mix and make combinations
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  Speaker 15: of peptides for people, specifically for their bodies.
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  Speaker 1: Is that true?
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  Speaker 9: That's right?
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  Speaker 7: Okay, that's exactly right.
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  Speaker 9: And that's why I want to talk about it, because
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  Speaker 9: there's lots and lots of people after high thing peptides,
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  Speaker 9: and no one really knows what's real and what's not
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  Speaker 9: because people don't necessarily do their homework.
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  Speaker 7: What they do is they ask, you know, they ask their.
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  Speaker 16: Friends, and they ask their friends, or they go to Instagram.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, and you know, I think the keys is because
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  Speaker 9: you know why people do that, Heromeio. I'm finding out
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  Speaker 9: people ask their friends and people go to Instagram because
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  Speaker 9: none of these people can say no. None of these
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  Speaker 9: people usually.
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  Speaker 7: Will say, oh, that's a bad idea.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, now you see what I mean from what.
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  Speaker 1: I understand, and I'm just going off what I've heard
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  Speaker 1: is that you can order versions of this online and
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  Speaker 1: even though you're supposed to be a doctor to use them,
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  Speaker 1: but you just add an ingredient or something like that.
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  Speaker 1: Is that Is that true or not true? Yeah?
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  Speaker 9: Okay, so yes, you can order them online. So when
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  Speaker 9: you order them online, it gets what the companies always
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  Speaker 9: say online. It says for research purpose.
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  Speaker 7: There's only yes, not to be used on.
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  Speaker 6: Humans or animals.
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  Speaker 1: Gotcha, gotcha, gotcha, gotcha.
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  Speaker 14: It's just right on there.
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  Speaker 9: Almost every tithing something says that it's for research purposes only,
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  Speaker 9: and you mix it with sterile water.
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  Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, Wow.
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  Speaker 9: They're all kind of water based. Yeah, these are water
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  Speaker 9: based molecules. And they look like powder when you look
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  Speaker 9: at them in a vial, they look like right, and
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  Speaker 9: you mix them and then you inject them, and you know,
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  Speaker 9: there's YouTube videos on how.
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  Speaker 7: To use this stuff.
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  Speaker 9: There's all kinds of stuff out there, Romeo and wow.
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  Speaker 9: And so I had a long talk with my son
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  Speaker 9: about this, and I said, look, my man, let's let's
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  Speaker 9: go through all of these and really really talk about things.
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  Speaker 9: So let me throw some names out there.
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  Speaker 3: Romeo.
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  Speaker 9: Okay, so people know, and people can always call you
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  Speaker 9: and say, hey, you know, I want to talk to
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  Speaker 9: doctor dev about this, or they can always call our
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  Speaker 9: office and talk about it. Okay, but it's an in
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  Speaker 9: person conversation. But there's a peptide like uh bpc okay vpc.
• 17:03
  Speaker 9: Then there's pep tides called semi glue tide, and those
• 17:06
  Speaker 9: are the ones that are like the glucose ones that
• 17:09
  Speaker 9: people are using right now. Oh okay, there's redda true tide. Okay,
• 17:15
  Speaker 9: there's yeah, there's epetide.
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: I mean, so think about it.
• 17:18
  Speaker 9: There's all these little things. Usually anything with tide is
• 17:23
  Speaker 9: usually a pep tide. Okay uh. And then there's other
• 17:26
  Speaker 9: ones like BPC that necessarily don't end in that, that
• 17:29
  Speaker 9: are also peptides.
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: Now are these Are these all not necessarily good for you?
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: Or no?
• 17:35
  Speaker 11: No?
• 17:35
  Speaker 9: No, Actually, Romeo on the contrary, you know, I will
• 17:39
  Speaker 9: tell you that I from my research and my my
• 17:42
  Speaker 9: intelligence behind it is that they are all helpful and
• 17:46
  Speaker 9: good for you. Use the right way and with the
• 17:49
  Speaker 9: right supervision, the right direction, they are all very good
• 17:52
  Speaker 9: for you.
• 17:53
  Speaker 7: But they do have to be you know.
• 17:55
  Speaker 9: I mean, of course, I know it's hard because the FDA,
• 17:59
  Speaker 9: you know, our country a little different. The FDA really
• 18:02
  Speaker 9: regulates so many things. But in the right hand, you
• 18:06
  Speaker 9: can benefit from the line of these that a lot
• 18:08
  Speaker 9: of people have.
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: Well, Doctor dev homo real real quick, all right, we're
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: talking to doctor Deva this morning. We'll get back to
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: the peptides in just a minute. Doctor devis here. We're
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: talking about these peptides. I guess the peptides, Doctor dev
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: Good morning, are good. What's this has to do with
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: some of the weight loss stuff? Right? With those empic
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: and things like that. Those are yes, sir, you say
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: you just said a few minutes ago that they can
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: be very helpful for you and be positive for you.
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: What is what's the controversy and the negativity that's coming
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: out with these peptides?
• 18:40
  Speaker 9: Okay, so the controversy really the negativity surround surrounded by
• 18:47
  Speaker 9: the FDA not necessarily approving it of human use. Kind
• 18:51
  Speaker 9: of right, that's one of the biggest things.
• 18:54
  Speaker 7: That's really bigger.
• 18:55
  Speaker 13: Than more, that's bigger than anything.
• 18:56
  Speaker 9: However, like you know, the anti doping agencies. Yeah, okay,
• 19:04
  Speaker 9: they actually have banded Oh really, yeah, because because they
• 19:10
  Speaker 9: say it's a non approved substance, so it's classified. Here's
• 19:15
  Speaker 9: the thing, it's classifized as an unapproved drug and cannot
• 19:19
  Speaker 9: be legally cannot be legally prescribed.
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: So you so, as a doctor, have you been have
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: you guys been using peptides for years and now they're
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: just becoming trendy and popular or can you not prescribe
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: them to your patients?
• 19:35
  Speaker 9: So we've been using medications that are pep tides, right,
• 19:40
  Speaker 9: it's true since an excuse me, but not off label.
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: Oh I see what you're saying.
• 19:49
  Speaker 9: Okay, okay, okay, all right, So that's that's the important part. Now,
• 19:54
  Speaker 9: if you really want to really talk about it, you
• 19:56
  Speaker 9: know BPC, I should let people know what it is is.
• 20:00
  Speaker 9: It's called body protection compound BPC, and BPC is actually
• 20:06
  Speaker 9: made in the stomach.
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, in the stomach.
• 20:13
  Speaker 9: The research of this of this compound goes back to
• 20:17
  Speaker 9: like the nineteen hundred You remember Pablo Padloft dog then
• 20:21
  Speaker 9: he brings the bell and salivate. Well, he did studies
• 20:26
  Speaker 9: on using dogs gastric juices and gave it to humans
• 20:31
  Speaker 9: and humans got better.
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: Oh wow, yeah, think.
• 20:34
  Speaker 9: About this was back then.
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it is a long time ago.
• 20:36
  Speaker 4: This kind of study would never be.
• 20:37
  Speaker 9: Done now, A long time ago.
• 20:39
  Speaker 14: Right.
• 20:40
  Speaker 9: And so that's you know gas, that's a gastric secretion,
• 20:44
  Speaker 9: gastric juices, and those gastric juices is where BPC comes
• 20:48
  Speaker 9: from protection compoundk okay. And so you know they when
• 20:53
  Speaker 9: you break a large molecule down into smaller functional molecules,
• 20:58
  Speaker 9: that is the your what you're doing is isolating the
• 21:01
  Speaker 9: smaller fragments that are peptide.
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: Oh I see, oh I see okay, okay, right.
• 21:05
  Speaker 4: Yep, yep.
• 21:07
  Speaker 9: And so these are the things that are being helpful
• 21:09
  Speaker 9: right now in our society.
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: So are are people miss using these? Are these peptides
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: causing harm to people who are not using them properly
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: with proper doctor. They're just going online and ordering the
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: product and mixing it themselves and taking it and they're
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: having issues.
• 21:27
  Speaker 9: Yeah, So, Romeo, what I can tell you is that
• 21:30
  Speaker 9: I don't know the answer to that.
• 21:31
  Speaker 6: I'm not avoiding the question.
• 21:32
  Speaker 9: I just don't know people are truly being harmed.
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: Okay, Okay.
• 21:36
  Speaker 9: All I can tell you is there's a lot of
• 21:39
  Speaker 9: controversy surrounding the and and I don't even want to
• 21:42
  Speaker 9: say if the efficacy is good or not, whether or
• 21:44
  Speaker 9: not it works or not. I can't even say that.
• 21:47
  Speaker 9: All I can tell you is that there's a lot
• 21:49
  Speaker 9: of controversy, and be careful where you get your supply.
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: Well, now, now I got to go conspiracy on you,
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: doctor dev Are Are the American medical whoever makes the pills?
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: Are they the ones creating this controversy because they want
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: people to stay away from and keep going. I mean,
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 22:11
  Speaker 9: Yeah, That's that's why I love talking to you about
• 22:14
  Speaker 9: these things, because you know this is now Here's the
• 22:17
  Speaker 9: thing robo. It went from a controversial conversation to an intelligent,
• 22:22
  Speaker 9: rational conversation. Right, that's the thing. And that's where that's
• 22:27
  Speaker 9: where I guess if you're really I guess the word
• 22:30
  Speaker 9: is that I don't even know if I understand the word.
• 22:32
  Speaker 6: It's gas light, Yeah exactly.
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: I mean the pharmaceutical companies don't want them, don't want
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: people getting something that takes away from their profit margins.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: That's right, that's right.
• 22:41
  Speaker 7: And so are we?
• 22:43
  Speaker 9: Are you and I starting something? Maybe not you, but
• 22:46
  Speaker 9: am I starting something that causes people to say, hell,
• 22:50
  Speaker 9: you know this is this is something that we should
• 22:52
  Speaker 9: really look into.
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: Well, the black car from Pfizer shows up, you'll know,
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: lo's doctor Dev. It must have lost them. I cut
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: him off. All right, I'm here, Oh there you are, Okay,
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: all right, doctor Dev. Hold on a second, Doctor Dev
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: is here. Uh but I forgot the dame of I
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: forgot the name of your office. I just totally slipped
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: my mind.
• 23:21
  Speaker 9: Our surgery is Surgery Group, yeah, and my plastic surgery
• 23:25
  Speaker 9: side is California Institute. And it's uh or or just
• 23:30
  Speaker 9: doctor Dev is good enough.
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: For doctor Dev. What's you phone number? Dodor Dev?
• 23:33
  Speaker 9: It's six.
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: Hold on one second, no, doctor Dev is here. Come in,
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: Doctor Dev.
• 23:40
  Speaker 9: Good morning.
• 23:41
  Speaker 4: Now.
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: For those of you that don't know him, should know
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: him by now. He is a plastic surgeon, reconstructive surgeon.
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: He has a medical uhh surgery center which he can
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: do a lot of things out or it's an in
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: and out proceed It's a place where you get in
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: and out procedures, which we've learned. Doctor Dev is not
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: necessarily a bad thing for a lot of people over
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: the years. I do want to ask you about doctor
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: Dev for people that I mean, you and I are older,
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: the old school. We're used to going to the doctor's
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: office and sitting there, and our parents taught it. We
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: went to the doctors our parents went to. I mean,
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: I've gone to you for almost thirty years now, so
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: it's not even a you know, I don't even know
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: when somebody's looking for a doctor. What do they do
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: nowadays that you go online? I mean, and I hear
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: a lot of people are just going online and hyping
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: in their medical conditions. What if people do nowadays? What
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: it's the safest and best way for people to deal
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: with health issues.
• 24:34
  Speaker 9: Yeah, so I think people are doing all those things
• 24:36
  Speaker 9: around me. However, I think, you know, personally, I think
• 24:40
  Speaker 9: it's almost I'm not going to say insulting, but I
• 24:44
  Speaker 9: think it's not a good idea to go through Yelp.
• 24:48
  Speaker 16: Okay, Okay, okay, because here's the thing is that, you know,
• 24:53
  Speaker 16: Yelp's more commercial.
• 24:54
  Speaker 9: And retail in my mind, Okay, if you're using Yelp
• 24:58
  Speaker 9: for a true, truly healthcare service that's about patient care.
• 25:04
  Speaker 9: You know, one burrito like one Theresa burrito can be
• 25:08
  Speaker 9: the same, yeah, okay, but one human being can't be.
• 25:12
  Speaker 16: The same every day, absolutely, and the inside of a
• 25:17
  Speaker 16: human being is not the same, and the way the
• 25:20
  Speaker 16: doctor has to treat you can't be the same.
• 25:23
  Speaker 7: So I think that.
• 25:24
  Speaker 9: If you if you consider that, you really have to
• 25:27
  Speaker 9: be very very personal about it, and you can't look
• 25:30
  Speaker 9: at it from a perspective of, hey, you know the
• 25:33
  Speaker 9: Yelp with you for this one said the doctor was terrible.
• 25:35
  Speaker 6: To me and didn't give me what I needed.
• 25:37
  Speaker 9: You know, maybe the patient didn't mean that.
• 25:39
  Speaker 4: You see what I mean?
• 25:41
  Speaker 9: You really have to have a one on one personal
• 25:44
  Speaker 9: interaction with with the physician, and I don't think you
• 25:48
  Speaker 9: can really say that you know this doctor was bad
• 25:52
  Speaker 9: or you know, the staff was bad or whatever. I mean,
• 25:54
  Speaker 9: sometimes the staff isn't great.
• 25:56
  Speaker 7: I get it. And sometimes physicians.
• 25:57
  Speaker 9: Are are not good to people. And I'm I'm not
• 26:00
  Speaker 9: standing by that either. I'm just saying is that you
• 26:03
  Speaker 9: you need good healthcare, good quality healthcare, and you have
• 26:06
  Speaker 9: to have a one on one exclusive relationship with a
• 26:09
  Speaker 9: physician and that requires time and dedication.
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: On both ends. Gotcha? Gotcha? So where do we how
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: do we find that nowadays? If I'm just you know,
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: are we still just going where? I don't even know? Doctor?
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't I would even know how to deal. I've
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: known you for so long that I wouldn't even know
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: how to tell somebody, Hey, yeah, I need a doctor.
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: What do I do.
• 26:30
  Speaker 9: This way?
• 26:31
  Speaker 14: Why?
• 26:31
  Speaker 9: Why has your relationship with me? Forget about anything else?
• 26:34
  Speaker 9: But why has your relationship as a patient position lasted
• 26:37
  Speaker 9: so long? Because you can call me and tell me
• 26:39
  Speaker 9: any problem that you have, and if I don't know it,
• 26:42
  Speaker 9: I get you to the person.
• 26:43
  Speaker 7: That does exactly I think.
• 26:46
  Speaker 9: And and by the way, how did you and I meet?
• 26:48
  Speaker 9: We met through a mutual friend. Absolutely, so I think
• 26:51
  Speaker 9: it starts there. Ask your mother, father, or sister, brother,
• 26:55
  Speaker 9: ask a very very close friend you've known for a
• 26:57
  Speaker 9: long time, not someone you just met at the baseball field,
• 27:01
  Speaker 9: you know, game something, but someone you well and someone
• 27:05
  Speaker 9: who knows you. That's where you start, you know. But
• 27:09
  Speaker 9: or yeah, sometimes you go online and you say, uh,
• 27:12
  Speaker 9: you know, I have a very rare disease. Which doctor
• 27:16
  Speaker 9: is an expert in the field, you know, something like that,
• 27:19
  Speaker 9: But you don't say you know, you don't just go
• 27:21
  Speaker 9: to Yelp and look at someone's reviews. And the reason
• 27:25
  Speaker 9: why is because everyone has a different review based on
• 27:29
  Speaker 9: their experience.
• 27:31
  Speaker 16: Yeah, it's you know, one person, one person could have
• 27:35
  Speaker 16: a negative review and you can have another person has
• 27:37
  Speaker 16: a positive review.
• 27:38
  Speaker 9: Yeah, if there's only two reviews online, which one do.
• 27:40
  Speaker 5: You go with.
• 27:41
  Speaker 9: On the other hand, if there's a thousand reviews, Yeah,
• 27:44
  Speaker 9: If there's a thousand reviews online and all those reviews
• 27:47
  Speaker 9: are great, but what if the person doesn't really understand you, Yeah,
• 27:51
  Speaker 9: then your review is going to be bad.
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: I do have one last question for you, doctor before
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: I let you go. Sure do we still should we
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: still get a second opinion? I was listening to some
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: stories just over the last few months about people getting
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: fraudulent doctors out there, and we know they're out there,
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: but there's a lot of great doctors. Do people not
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: get second opinions anymore? Is that not a thing?
• 28:13
  Speaker 9: Yeah? You know, Romeo, I am a big proponent of
• 28:16
  Speaker 9: second opinions. And I'll tell you what, most good ethical
• 28:20
  Speaker 9: doctors will always welcome a second opinion because this is truly,
• 28:24
  Speaker 9: truly regarding the best interests of the patient. And so
• 28:29
  Speaker 9: I always, always will suggest the second opinion if there's
• 28:33
  Speaker 9: any doubts. Now, usually patients don't really have any doubts,
• 28:37
  Speaker 9: and they're very confident in what you tell them at
• 28:40
  Speaker 9: your interaction with them. However, sometimes some patients are I'm
• 28:44
  Speaker 9: not really sure, you know, I like what you're saying,
• 28:47
  Speaker 9: or I think you're right, but you know I hear
• 28:50
  Speaker 9: something different, And so I always say, look, let me
• 28:53
  Speaker 9: give you some names of some other people. Talk to them,
• 28:56
  Speaker 9: and if you want, come on back and let's talk
• 28:59
  Speaker 9: again and beat it on what you here.
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, doctor dev thanks for joining us this morning.
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: Doctor watch phone number again, doctor Depp. So some people know.
• 29:09
  Speaker 9: Zero one.
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: All right, So you're back. We're going through the summer.
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: We'll see you next Friday, all right, all right, Doctor Death.
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: And she was telling me her and her husband were
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: at Rubens Mexican Joint Mexican restaurant over on Rose Death
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: and she was asking me, Hey, Roam, can you find
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: out why all of these men what's in the purses
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: they're carrying? And I said, men carrying purses? What are
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: you talking about? She goes, yeah, everybody. She was in
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: the place for about an hour, says everybody had a purse.
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: All these men had a purse. I'm like, everybody really,
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: so what uh, what do you mean have a purse?
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: And I said, I haven't seen a guy with a
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: purse ever. And then I realized I have a best
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: friend now I recall carries some sort of I don't
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: know if it's a fanny pack or a satchel or
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: but he does carry some sort of version of a purse,
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: and uh when we go places, and I don't know
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: what he carries in it, but anyway, that's what you
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: What are you carry for any of you guys out
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: there who are walking around with these merses? Is that
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: what they call him man purse?
• 30:23
  Speaker 4: Is that?
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: From friends? I think, what uh? What are you carrying
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: in him? So I got to spend half my day yesterday,
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: or at least a couple hours of my day, having
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: a conversation about what's what these guys are carrying in
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: their purse or bags or whatever. They are already four two, five,
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: four or seven to seven. A friend of mine, she
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: calls me yesterday to tell me about how all these
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: dudes are walking around with these purses. And I don't
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: know if they're like a satchel or if they're like
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: a man. I don't know what they are because I
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: ain't never seen it. I mean I heard a fanny packs.
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: Maybe she was talking about that, but she was curios,
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: asking me wrong. You got to find out what's it?
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: What are you guys carrying in these things? I don't
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: know they're wallets. I have no idea, But I don't
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: see a lot of that. I see, she said, Oh,
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: she goes, I seen like twelve guys with one, twelve
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: different men wearing one. I'm like, okay, were they all together?
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: Maybe it maybe it was a fashion statement. I don't know.
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: But then I remember I have a friend, a real
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: my best friend. He I've seen him carry something like
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: some version of that. I think it might be a
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: fanny pack that he wears across his chest. But I
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: have seen it, but I don't see a lot of
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: guys walking around with that. Hey, you have and cheese fan.
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: I got a man purse only when I travel, have
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: my keys, wallet, phone, and my glock nineteen. You know
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: what's funny about you said that is because that was
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: the first thing my friends thought. That's why they had him,
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: was to carry guns. That was the first thought, probably,
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: And I thought, no, really, I don't know what are
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: you carrying your man person, friend of mine. I just
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: thought she was being crazy, right. She calls me up
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: and says she was over to front of our friend
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: of mine's restaurant and she saw all these dudes. In
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: her words, all these dudes had man purses on mercies,
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: whatever you call him. I don't know. She was asking,
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: you got to find out what they're carrying. I have
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: no idea. I have never seen that. Now. Like I said,
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: I do have one friend who now that I recall,
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: I remember him wearing what appeared to be like a backpack.
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: I'm not a backpack, I'm sorry, a fanny pack, but
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: he would wear it across his chest. I don't know
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: if that's what she's talking about or not. What did all,
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: big boy? Oh, don't make me make fun of the twins,
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: big boy, love your boys yet, room. The twins have
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: coach bags? What the hell you need that for? We
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: carry our wallets, battery packs and cords, cords and phones,
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: oh and snacks. They look like overpriced backbacks. I'm gonna guess,
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: big boy, you were a part of you weren't a
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: part of that. I'm gonna guess your wife is the
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: one who got those for the boys. Oh, man, No,
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: I gotta make fun of the twins, all right? Eight
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: four two, five four seven the seven. Yeah, I don't
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: know what you guys are carrying. I don't see a
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: lot of these guys carrying purses, so I don't. Uh.
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: I don't know where my friends are hanging out, but
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: they must see them much more than I do. In fact,
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: before they brought it up to me yesterday, didn't even notice.
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: I didn't even notice anybody doing it it, Romeo, I
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: actually carry one, and in mind, I carry my Pew
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: pew and extra magazines just in case I'm at Chase
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: Bank and Baker. So, oh god, you know what's funny
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: is that is the one thing when she called me
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: to tell me is that she thought the guys that
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: were carrying those things because they had guns, that they're
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: carrying their guns in there. Maybe all right, maybe maybe
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: they're right already four two, five, four or seven to seven.
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: A good day, Romeo the bread man. Here, many men
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: carry satchels just to carry more stuff rather than carry
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: all of it in their pockets, plus having everything easily accessible.
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: But best believe a lot of men carry firearms in
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: them as well. Well, okay, I'm fair enough, I'm not Uh,
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: how much does a guy really have to carry though
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: your phone, your wallet, and your car keys? Does a
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: man really need to leave his house with anything other
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: than his wallet, his phone, and his car keys? Alrighty?
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: Four two, five, four or seven to seven?
• 34:54
  Speaker 9: So?
• 34:54
  Speaker 3: Uh?
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: A friend of mine she calls me and she tells
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: me she wants me to find out what you guys
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: are carrying in your purses. Now, I I don't need
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: I didn't even I thought she was crazy, right, So apparently,
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: and apparently I'm wrong about it, because I'm sitting here
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: seeing you guys text me and call me about what's
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: in these purses that you guys are carrying. And I
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: to be honest, I haven't even seen one. I haven't
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: even seen anything. Uh, you guys carrying one? So okay,
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: hey Rome, it's a cover up for the lady boys
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: who like to act tough that carry these their firearms
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: in the man purse. Okay, I don't even know what
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: that means. But uh, Roam, these guys saw Floyd Mayweather
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: wearing one, but it was full of cash. Bakersfield guys
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: have lip gloss and a sleeve of ritz crackers. Hey, Roam,
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: they're uh, they're called. Oh, you guys are so uh.
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: I you know, some of you guys are just uh,
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: some of you guys when you text me, it's just embarrassing. Yes,
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: ready to rob you. I know you can't handle the
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: fact that a man might be carrying a purse. Some
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: of you guys really do live in the stone age.
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: Hey Rome. My friend's dad has been wearing a fanny
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: pack since the nineties. He keeps his gun and cashing it. Well,
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: and that's what I thought it was when my friend
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: called me and she said, all these guys are wearing
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: these purses, and I thought, well, maybe they're just fanni packs.
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: What are you talking about? So apparently I'm wrong everybody's strapped.
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: Um oh no, Rome, Oh it was your son in
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: law and your daughter and your son and mother. They're fourteen.
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: Does age make a difference? Yeah, well, big boy, why
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: are you letting your boys wear them? I mean they
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: are Gucci right, oh? Coach backs, coach backs? So was
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: your Well, maybe they're fashionable. I mean you can't if
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: it's a fashion thing. I understand that. If it's a
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: fashion thing, right, you know, kids, especially if your boys
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: are fourteen, they're trying to stay fashionable. I understand that.
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I get it, kids like it does
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: make a difference, Yes, big boy, it does make a
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: difference if they're young, because kids like to be fashionable.
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: And if wearing a purse whatever this version of a
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: man purse is or whatever it is, is a fashion thing,
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: then I can understand these young kids wearing them because
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: I mean, they wear crocs, and you know how stupid
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: they looking. Crocs are the stupidest shoe ever made in
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: the history of fashion. But these kids think they're fashionable,
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: so they wear them. So, yes, age does matter. Already fourteen, five,
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: four or seven to seven, all right, I carry my
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: firearm like a real man with it on my hip. Oh,
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: some guys say, these guys carry lipstick and an extra
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: pair of high heels. I carry my firearm like a
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: real man and with it on my hip. Okay, well
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: that was part of the conversation though. We were thinking
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: that a lot of these guys who are wearing these
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: mercies or these purses or whatever you want to call them. Uh,
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: they might have a name, I don't know what the
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: name is, might be carrying guns in them. All right,
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: already fourteen four seven to seven. So yeah, a friend
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: of mine, she said she's seen all everybody, all these
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: guys wearing purses yesterday. So she said, Rome, you need
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: to find out what they're carrying. And I was just like, yeah,
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I've never seen a guy with a purse.
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: Fanny packs, yes, but I guess I really don't know
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: what you're talking about. Moran. Hell, what's going on?
• 38:38
  Speaker 7: Big roam?
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: I want a big bro.
• 38:45
  Speaker 6: You hit it right on the head. They got fron
• 38:49
  Speaker 6: Burman bags, you know, glasses, they wear these fancy glasses.
• 38:55
  Speaker 6: They have to wear all kinds of jewelry. They didn't
• 38:57
  Speaker 6: let her walking down a runway. Bro, I'm like, damn,
• 39:01
  Speaker 6: what kind of job. You gotta dut on that crack.
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: Well, yeah, you know, this kid's gotta stay fashionable, they do.
• 39:13
  Speaker 6: You know what the funniest part is about it. We'll
• 39:17
  Speaker 6: be on vacation and all I hear is my daughter, Hey,
• 39:20
  Speaker 6: put this in your back, hold the tree. I just
• 39:28
  Speaker 6: shake my head like, oh, you know what I mean.
• 39:34
  Speaker 6: At least they were carrying hang guns up in there.
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: They got snacks.
• 39:41
  Speaker 17: They gotta roll a rich crackers, like that guy said.
• 39:48
  Speaker 17: But they are fourteen though. You better hold you hold
• 39:53
  Speaker 17: good with them.
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: You better good, you know what. You better hope reader
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: is not listening right now because she goes. You got
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: hell to pay when you get home.
• 40:02
  Speaker 7: To summer school right now.
• 40:03
  Speaker 6: You know they're all that makes and the bottom. But
• 40:11
  Speaker 6: I didn't buy them my daughter bottom, my daughter and
• 40:14
  Speaker 6: her own.
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: Man, does Martin?
• 40:16
  Speaker 6: If you wait your money on that?
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: Hey, does Marty wear one?
• 40:21
  Speaker 6: I've never seen where one?
• 40:22
  Speaker 17: Okay, okay, just try just check her are like three
• 40:26
  Speaker 17: runners and buck.
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: That's hilarious, that's so funny.
• 40:31
  Speaker 6: Why would you spend your money on that?
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: You know somebody's gonna carry everything.
• 40:36
  Speaker 6: Yeah, and that might be. That might be okay, because
• 40:41
  Speaker 6: I'm not gonna lie. They had a few things for
• 40:42
  Speaker 6: me on the PLA. I'm not gonna lie about it.
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: Right A big boy, you're so dumb. I mean, kids
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: like to be fashionable. They're just boys. They're fourteen year
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: old boys there, you know, they stay fashionable. They're trying
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: to be fashionable. Alreadie four TOI Pop seven seven a rommerse.
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: But I did have to tell you a dude to
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: get out of the way so I could wash my hands.
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: He stood at the mirror putting it on lip gloss
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: in uh Prugatti's Was it in his purse? Well, maybe
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: you got to carry your lip gloss somewhere, you know,
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: why not in your purse, orrse, whatever it's called. Alreadie
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: fourpops seven, I don't know, to be perfectly honest with you,
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: I've never seen it. What what we're talking about right now,
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: I have never seen. So I don't know if it's
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: just I don't go out enough, or the places I
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: go they don't. Guys don't carry them. I just I had.
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: It was a friend of mine who had who brought
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: it to my attention yesterday, And want to know what
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: you guys are carrying in them? So yeah, I don't know.
• 41:53
  Speaker 13: Hey, I have one of those Bolta's a lucine, that's
• 41:55
  Speaker 13: what they're called.
• 41:56
  Speaker 7: They're called what boltas a lutine?
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: I don't even know what the hell that's. What does
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: that mean?
• 42:02
  Speaker 13: It's a manpers? Is this the manpers?
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: Why do you call it that?
• 42:07
  Speaker 13: Because that's what they're called in Mexico. Oh okay, yeah,
• 42:11
  Speaker 13: they're they're pretty, they're pretty handy. You know, it just
• 42:13
  Speaker 13: depends where you go. You get looked that kind of weird,
• 42:16
  Speaker 13: but you get.
• 42:16
  Speaker 7: Used to it.
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: What do you call them again?
• 42:19
  Speaker 7: Boltas a lusine?
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: That's not derogatory, is it. I don't know, you don't
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: even know what it means.
• 42:29
  Speaker 7: No, I just know that's what they call them.
• 42:31
  Speaker 13: You can buy them at the swamp meats in Mexico.
• 42:34
  Speaker 7: Okay, they got Prada.
• 42:36
  Speaker 13: And what I like to carry is I'll carry my
• 42:39
  Speaker 13: car keys, a beat box, my wallet, and depending where
• 42:44
  Speaker 13: I'm going, you know, probably a nine and that's it.
• 42:48
  Speaker 7: I mean, okay, it's for the belly coos.
• 42:54
  Speaker 13: It's like, you know, you have your emos, you have
• 42:56
  Speaker 13: your cowboys.
• 42:57
  Speaker 7: You know you got your belly coos too.
• 43:00
  Speaker 13: Okay, I'm all right, fair enough, all right, all right.
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: What did you what did you? What did you call
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: it again?
• 43:08
  Speaker 7: Both sides? A lucine, ah lucin? Yeah, oh I never
• 43:13
  Speaker 7: heard that?
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: All right?
• 43:14
  Speaker 13: Oh man, I'm so glad I got to teach you
• 43:16
  Speaker 13: something today, wrong to teach you something every day? I
• 43:20
  Speaker 13: got you this.
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: I'm okay. All right, Well, have you ever need one?
• 43:26
  Speaker 3: Let me know.
• 43:26
  Speaker 13: I'll get you one from Mexico. They're nice.
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: How much do they cost a couple like two hundred pressels?
• 43:32
  Speaker 7: Maybe two fifty?
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: And what and what? Uh? And what? What do you
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: carry this again? I'm sorry I wasn't paying attention.
• 43:40
  Speaker 13: It's okay, I carry like when I'm in America, I'll
• 43:44
  Speaker 13: carry a be bog, my car keys, my money.
• 43:47
  Speaker 7: And a nine depending where I'm going.
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: Okay, you know, okay.
• 43:55
  Speaker 7: It doesn't all fit in my pocket.
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to look it up and see what
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: these things you're talking about are.
• 43:59
  Speaker 7: But all right, look yeah, look it up?
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: All right, Yeah, I don't know. All right, Well there
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: you go already fourteen five, four seven to seven.
• 44:11
  Speaker 6: Hey, what's up wrong?
• 44:12
  Speaker 7: Man?
• 44:13
  Speaker 13: I think who's lost?
• 44:15
  Speaker 4: We're not talking about his baby bag where he carries
• 44:18
  Speaker 4: his apple juice.
• 44:18
  Speaker 12: That it sucker in. You know what I mean.
• 44:21
  Speaker 4: We're talking about them handbag of those boys be carrying.
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what he said. He carries one of those.
• 44:27
  Speaker 4: No, it's more of a baby bag if you see,
• 44:29
  Speaker 4: it's like a diaperbag than when he carries.
• 44:31
  Speaker 7: Bro Okay, it hangs over him. All right, Hey boy,
• 44:36
  Speaker 7: you leave that boys alone.
• 44:37
  Speaker 4: You know, I mean, it's early in the week to
• 44:39
  Speaker 4: get grounded.
• 44:39
  Speaker 13: Bro.
• 44:40
  Speaker 4: You whatever they want they get, you know, Mama got him.
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 44:46
  Speaker 4: Hey, hey, Roman, the boys took care of me when
• 44:48
  Speaker 4: they're on vacations. They brought me a special gift and
• 44:51
  Speaker 4: their own personal boys that they bought.
• 44:53
  Speaker 6: Popa picking on.
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: You give me a call, all right, all right, I
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: need fourteen five, four seven seven. Let's see here. What'd
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: you send me here?
• 45:03
  Speaker 12: Rome?
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: Headbut Raider checking in real men wear they're a gun
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: on their waist. They don't don't need extra mags unless
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: you can't aim. Okay, thanks head about Rader for pointing
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: that out to us. Hey, Rome, most of these guys
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: talking about men wearing crossbags are insecure and insecure and
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: care what people think about them and wish they could
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: wear them. But I wear one to hold the glock
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: and cash. Well, that's all we were wondering, is what
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: you guys are carrying them. I mean, I actually, to
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: be honest with you, didn't even know you guys were
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: wearing them. I had no idea to my friend, she
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: told me yesterday and I still haven't seen one, so
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: I have no idea what you guys are talking about.
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: She just asked me, Hey, Rome, can you find out
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: what these guys are carrying in their nurses and I
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: glocks in cash? There you go, hey Rome, those man
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: persons you're talking about is a trend going on in
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: the Hispanic community where the people's wearing them or trying
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: to portray image of being with the business because a
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: lot a lot of heavy people from Mexico carry them
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: like they used to carry guns, drugs, money, et cetera.
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: Oh so it's a it's a it's a Mexican thing.
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: That would make sense because my friend who called me
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: was at a Mexican restaurant when she saw all the guys.
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: According to her, all the guys were wearing these these
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: purses or man person whatever you call them. I don't know. Okay,
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: Well there you go. It's a trend. YO wrong let's
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: see here, all these little edgars want to be gangsters.
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: Where these fake Louis and fake Gucci cross body bags?
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: Is that what they're called? Okay, well, there you go.
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: It's a trend. I've kind of assumed it would. It
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: be a trendy thing. I mean, hey, is what it is?
• 46:58
  Speaker 9: Right?
• 47:00
  Speaker 12: All right?
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: If we're to you, no, no, no, I don't want
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: to go. Okay, there you go. Father's Day is coming.
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: It's gonna be on this Sunday. Right. I was talking
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: to a friend of mine yesterday. We all we were
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: out having a couple of drinks and we were all
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: talking about Father's Day. Neil, what what do you want
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: to do for Father's Day?
• 47:16
  Speaker 9: Right?
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: His wife was asking him, and he goes, yeah, I
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: don't really want to do anything. Just stay at home.
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: You know, we'll have dinner.
• 47:23
  Speaker 9: Just to no.
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: Well, the wife, his wife and the kids actually want
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: to do something for him more than just stay at
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: home because he is a I mean, he's a great dad,
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: works hard, and they just for some reason in their mind,
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: their idea of a great Father's Day for him is
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: to go out, you know, get something to eat, go
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: out and do something as a family. Right, whether you
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: go to the movies, go to the boulevard, go to whatever,
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: just do something together. Right, he doesn't really want to
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: do that. He's just kind of wants to stay home
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: and hang out. So here's my question you, and this
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: was the conversation we're having yesterday was whose father's Day? For?
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: Whose Mother's Day?
• 48:12
  Speaker 7: For?
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: Who's your birthday? For? Who's your anniversary for? I mean,
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: all of these special occasions that come up your yeah,
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: your birthday. At what point is it about you and
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: what you want as opposed to about everybody else and
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: what they want? Because really, the conversation yesterday for him
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: was he it was about what they wanted to do
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: with the justification of for him, right, So what are
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: you supposed to do about that? You know, at what
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: point or is there any occasion that is supposed to
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: be about you? But yet everybody else is making it
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: about themselves under the you know, under this idea of oh, no,
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: we're doing it for you. What do you do already?
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: Four two, five, four or seven and seven? Who gets
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: to make the decision?
• 49:17
  Speaker 9: You know?
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: It's like they always say, a funeral is not for
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: the dead, it's for the living, for them to feel
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: better and celebrate, and however they you know, to mourn
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: and feel better. So which is all understandable. But for
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: Father's Day, is it about what the family wants to
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: do for him because they have an idea of what
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: they should do for him even though he has a
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: different idea of what he wants to do. How does
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: that work? What about your birthday? What about Mother's Day?
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: What about your anniversary? I mean, at what point do
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: you get to decide what you want to do for
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: an occasion that's supposed to be about you, not other people?
• 49:58
  Speaker 4: Hey, what's up wrong? Man? We got that same thing
• 50:02
  Speaker 4: going out of my house and it's two two events.
• 50:05
  Speaker 4: My daughter turned one of them turned me twenty one,
• 50:06
  Speaker 4: and she wants a basic party. She live at the
• 50:09
  Speaker 4: you know what I mean? She wants stuff like that,
• 50:11
  Speaker 4: and my wife's.
• 50:12
  Speaker 7: Like, no, we gotta do this, babe. It's her birthday.
• 50:14
  Speaker 7: But she wants She's like that.
• 50:16
  Speaker 13: I don't want all these cano feeds and all this,
• 50:18
  Speaker 13: do you.
• 50:18
  Speaker 12: Know what I mean?
• 50:19
  Speaker 4: I just want a base say party, okay, cool? Well,
• 50:21
  Speaker 4: Father's Day. They're talking about Father's Day, Rome. I just
• 50:23
  Speaker 4: want to throw some meat on some ribs and traychip
• 50:25
  Speaker 4: on the grill and get home, okay, you know.
• 50:28
  Speaker 7: What I mean.
• 50:29
  Speaker 4: And they're like, no, Dad, we should go out to
• 50:31
  Speaker 4: a restaurant. We should go. We want to do this.
• 50:33
  Speaker 4: They want to make this, And I'm like, why would
• 50:35
  Speaker 4: you guys want to make spaghett if I don't even
• 50:36
  Speaker 4: like spaghetti? You know what I mean? Like, I'm like,
• 50:39
  Speaker 4: did you let me barbie there? But Dad, but we
• 50:41
  Speaker 4: want to Okay, tell us what you want us to
• 50:42
  Speaker 4: cook and we'll cook.
• 50:43
  Speaker 14: It for you.
• 50:44
  Speaker 4: I want to go on a barbecue grill and enjoy
• 50:46
  Speaker 4: a nice cool bear and cook me some try tips
• 50:48
  Speaker 4: and some ribs. And they're bumped about it, and I
• 50:52
  Speaker 4: don't know. That's what I enjoy doing.
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, makes sense.
• 50:56
  Speaker 4: I mean I enjoy doing it. Plus I'm being looking
• 50:59
  Speaker 4: for my family and joint Okay, so you know what
• 51:02
  Speaker 4: I mean. I'm like, dude, like is it is it
• 51:05
  Speaker 4: your guy this day?
• 51:05
  Speaker 13: Or is that Father's Day?
• 51:07
  Speaker 4: And that's the only day we really get wrong, you
• 51:09
  Speaker 4: know what I mean, because even my birthday they do
• 51:11
  Speaker 4: what they want to celebrate, you know what I mean.
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. At what point do you are
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: you doing it for? For whoever? The occasion is for
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: for yourself exactly.
• 51:20
  Speaker 14: So I'm holding my ground now.
• 51:21
  Speaker 4: We're all putting my edge foot on the ground, and
• 51:23
  Speaker 4: I'll think, you know what, I'm throwing my meat on
• 51:25
  Speaker 4: the ground.
• 51:25
  Speaker 7: If they want to go.
• 51:26
  Speaker 4: Out, they can go out.
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: If they want to go without me, that's fine.
• 51:29
  Speaker 4: I'm perfectly fine. I'll just sit there and enjoy my whole.
• 51:32
  Speaker 13: Beer and me and my dog and we'll be happy
• 51:34
  Speaker 13: right later.
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: I mean, he makes it. That's the point though, And
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: that's the conversation I was having with another friend of mine.
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: He wants to do what he wants to do for
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: Father's Day, but because his wife and kids, just like
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: Rupin said, have their own idea of what they want
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: to do, at what point is it you know what?
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: It's my day? You know, I don't know already? Four
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: two five for seven seven. There are a lot of
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: people out there that they have their own ideas of
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: what is best for you, right But when it's about
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: you and it's your day, maybe your wife and kids
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: need to just shut up and do what you.
• 52:15
  Speaker 9: Want to do.
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: So Father's Days on Sunday and yesterday I was having
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: a conversation with wife and he has his idea of
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: what he wants to do for Father's Day. He just
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: wants to hang out the house. They got a pooled,
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: they got a barbecue. Well, her and the kids want
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: to do something totally different. They want to go out,
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: they want to go do stuff, right, That's not what
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: he wants. So what point when the day is about you,
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: whether it be a father's Day, a mother's day, whether
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: it be a birthday. At what point when the day
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: is about you, do you get to say what happens?
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: Why do you? Why would your wife and kids get
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: to tell you what you want to do on Father's Day? Already?
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: Four two, five, four or seven seven? What's going on?
• 53:01
  Speaker 13: It's about the dad day.
• 53:05
  Speaker 8: They get to day, right, so they get their Frothers Day.
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: I hate to sell you, but there's a lot of
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: moms out there who have their own idea what the
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: dad should want for Father's Day, and they're gonna do it.
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: These dads are gonna have to suck it up.
• 53:17
  Speaker 13: That's to that, because it's all about the dad.
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: It's on their day, all right, all right, thanks for calling.
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: I mean that's what I would say. But I mean,
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: is there there's got to be occasions where like Father's
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: Day being one of them where he gets to decide
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: what he wants to do, and just because it's not
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: what you think he should want to do, you guys
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: got to accept it. Mom's kids. You gotta just understand
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: if he wants to stay at home and not do much,
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: stay at home and not do much, don't try to
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: push something on him that he doesn't want to do,
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: because that's what you want to do.
• 54:00
  Speaker 8: You like go out.
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: Most dads don't want to go out to brunch or
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: breakfast or dinner on Father's Day. Most dads want to
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: stay at home and most of them actually in Bakersfield
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: want to cook, want to grill themselves because it's gonna
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: be a beautiful Sunday afternoon and they just want to
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: be around with their kids, hanging out, you know, buy
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: the pool or whatever. So but you, Mom, since you
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: have a different version of what you think should be
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: done on a day, and I would say, I'm gonna
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: be honest. Let's be honest with you. The reason these women,
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: these wives don't want to stay at home and barbecue
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: is because they don't want to have to help cook.
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: They don't want to have to make sides. They don't
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: want to have to entertain, They don't want to have
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: to do anything really for him, So it's easier for
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: them just to go out and have breakfast, by dinner,
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: whatever the case means. You know, they just really are
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: You're just being selfish at this point. If you don't
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: if you don't want to do what your husband, the
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: father of your kids, wants to do on Father's Day,
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: you're just kind of being selfish. You got your own
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: time to pick and choose what you want. So you
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: guys got to understand that. I mean, it's just yeah,
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: that's just just just if he wants to stay at home,
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: let him stay at home. There's no reason for you
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: guys to try to push your ideas of what he
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: should want on Father's Day or or his birthday or
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: any other day that's dedicated to him, because you don't
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: want him. You don't want you his ideas and your
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: kid's ideas pushed on you when it's your day, So
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: why do it to him? Already? Fourteen five, four or
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: seven to seven? It's more what's going on?
• 55:52
  Speaker 12: Hi?
• 55:52
  Speaker 14: Are you still talking about the Father's Day?
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah? What's up?
• 55:56
  Speaker 6: Well?
• 55:56
  Speaker 13: For me, I say, it's all.
• 55:59
  Speaker 5: Based on how he treated you for Mother's Day.
• 56:02
  Speaker 3: So for Mother's Day, I had to go to the
• 56:04
  Speaker 3: in law.
• 56:05
  Speaker 14: So guess what Father's Day.
• 56:06
  Speaker 8: We're doing what I want to do.
• 56:12
  Speaker 14: I'm getting my way. No matter what your day, my
• 56:15
  Speaker 14: day is.
• 56:16
  Speaker 5: Still my way.
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's hilarious. Why did you have to
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: go to the in laws for mother?
• 56:21
  Speaker 14: Oh?
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: You had to go to his mom's house.
• 56:23
  Speaker 10: Yes, his mom's house.
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: I'll give you that one if you if he's not
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: taking care of you first on Mother's Day because he's
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: a little mama's boy, I'm with you. I'll give you
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: that one. Okay, thank you? Yes, all right, Yeah, you're right,
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: you're right, all right. I don't really think you can
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: argue with your logic, right because I've always told you
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: you're the person that comes first is your immediate family.
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: Whoever lives in your household. Your mom on Mother's Day
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: does not come first. Your wife does, or the mother
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: of your children. Uh so at the side with her, Hey, Romeo,
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: ready to rob here? Yeah? It all started last month.
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: The kids and the old lady been getting me gifts.
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: I'm happy for the gifts, but I'm hearing that they
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: want to take me out to dinner. But I have
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: a plan in mind already. I want a barbecue, simple
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: dinner ribs and try tip with homemade chili beans, jalapeno poppers,
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: and call off the next day. Sure, I mean, if
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: that's what you want, that's what you should get right now?
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: What they want Father's Day is coming. A friend of
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: mine and his wife, we were talking about Father's Day
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: and they got a couple of kids. Well, apparently he
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: has his idea of what he wants to do for
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: Father's Day. The wife and kids have a different idea
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: of what they want to do for him for Father's Day.
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: So why is that even a conversation? Why it's Father's Day?
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: There are some days or events that are strictly for
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: you and you get to decide what's up, not what
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: their idea of what you want? One is, how is
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: that even a conversation, to be honest with you already?
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: Four two five four or seven to seven eight, rom
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: I'm not big on sweets, and I'm still giving a
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: birthday cake, given a birthday cake every year. My family
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: are the ones who eat it and take it home
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: with them. But that's what I'm saying, It's your birthday
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: So why if you don't want a cake, why do
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: you well, I mean a bird. I guess it's a
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: little bit different, just because you know, a cake is
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: kind of for everybody on your birthday. They could get
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: you something different as well. But yeah, that's my point
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: is at what point is it about you and not
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: about what somebody else wants to do for you or
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: their idea of what you want, even though you've told
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: them what you really want. Hey, Romeo, it's Reuben again.
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: The family just said they heard me on the radio. Now.
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: They said, we'll take you out to breakfast. I said, no,
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: I want to fire up the fire up the blanche
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: early in the morning, make some ham brash brown sauce
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: at some bacon. They said, but it's Father's Day. You
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: shouldn't have to do be doing anything. I told them,
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: this is what I want to do, so either join
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: me or do something on your own. But that's what
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: I'm saying. Their idea of what you want? What is
• 59:19
  Speaker 1: what gives? And I know Reuben Ruben's got daughters and
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: a wife, So what gives these women in your life
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: the audacity to tell you what you want? When you're
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: saying this is what I want man just selfish, you
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: know what.
• 59:38
  Speaker 3: It's me and my boys want to go out on
• 59:40
  Speaker 3: Father's Day. We're going out with my husband. If we
• 59:44
  Speaker 3: want to stay in, then I'll go ahead and took
• 59:46
  Speaker 3: him his favorite meal.
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: Wait wait, who hold on? Who's getting to decide whether
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: you go?
• 59:51
  Speaker 5: I told you me and the kids, Me and the kid,
• 59:54
  Speaker 5: we want to go out.
• 59:55
  Speaker 3: We're going to go out.
• 59:57
  Speaker 14: Guys, we're going out.
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 13: Then I'll cook him something.
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 3: Guys, it will be depending on how he's been throughout
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 3: that week, if it's been nice or not, or what
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 3: he did for me for Mother's Day.
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: You don't realize you didn't see ourself as you are.
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 3: And I'll tell you why I thought about it. I
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 3: thought about it, report and called this Okay, Life's not
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 3: guaranteed every day. This may be the only fathers that
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 3: we have or the only mothers that we have. And no, no, no,
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 3: I'm being curious, you know, like like stuff happens like
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 3: you know.
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: You know, and you gotta be that cynical about life.
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 14: No no, no, And not only that, but look, kids
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 14: grow up, they leave the nest, okay, you know, and
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 14: they order become teenagers and then they don't want to
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 14: be with us, okay, and then also there will be
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 14: a time where the dads they want to be celebrated.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 14: But then, you know, if you celebrate a man too long,
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 14: and then he doesn't want a celebration, and then when
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 14: you finally don't do one, and then he expect one.
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 7: Who's that fall?
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 11: You know, you want to do so much for me,
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 11: I mean perspect I mean, if he's serious about not
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 11: wanting to go out, then yeah, maybe I'll.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 5: Take that into consideration. Okay, but until until the kids
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 5: are old enough to get out of the house, you know,
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 5: or they're over eighteen and all, and they're far away
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 5: at score or something.
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 13: We're doing whatever.
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 7: I mean, the kids want fair enough, okay, all right,
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 7: if you're gonna.
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 11: Have a little toxic I hear, and you want your
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 11: your dinners and you and all that stuff cook and
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 11: you want to have your house and order and everything,
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 11: you're gonna listen, but you're gonna be excited afterwards. He
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 11: loves going out with the kids, even though he says
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 11: he doesn't get the presence. And then they're talking about
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 11: what their favorite part of the day was.
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: Okay, all right, all right, all right, have a damn
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: you women are selfish? My god, what is wrong with you?
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: That's just what he'll do what me and the kids want. No,
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: that is just that's awful, alrighty four two five four
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: seven to seven. We're talking about Father's Day and there
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: seems to be, and now that I'm learning more and more,
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: a discrepancy on what you should do for Father's Day.
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: Who comes first, the father or the wife and kids?
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: Who gets to decide what happens. I think the father
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: should get to decide what happens, and if the wife
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 1: and kid don't like it, well suck it up. It's
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: not your day. But I'm noticing that a lot of
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: wives and kids are deciding for the father what he
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: wants to do. Yeah, I don't know about that, all right, Hey,
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: rom For me, we host just about every holiday. My
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: wife and I do a lot of cooking. So my
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: ideal Father's Day is chilling, chilling in our movie room. Yes,
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: Headbutt Raider has a movie room in the house. But
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: one year my mother in law showed up with her
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 1: man three years with steaks and wanted me to cook them.
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: I was so pissed. Father's Day is always hot. I
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: barbecue so much. The last thing I wanted to do
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: was barbecue on Father's Day. But that's just me. Your
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: mother in law showed up with her man of three years.
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: Well why didn't Why didn't you? Why didn't you do?
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: It's your day? What do you Why did the mother
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: in law? Why did your mother in law get to
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: decide what you wanted to do on your Father's Day?
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: I mean, that's on you head, But Rady, you got
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: to check her. Sometimes you got to check a mother
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: in law.
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 12: Bro.
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I don't know what. Yeah, I don't know.
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: That's crazy to me that, uh, that your mother in
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: law got to decide and not only that her guy
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: got to decid already four two five, four or seven
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 1: to seven. Hey, Romeo, you were talking about Father's Day.
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 1: I'm one of those fathers. Every year my wife and
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: kids they want to take me out to the restaurant
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 1: they want to go to. I don't say much. I
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: just go out and do it. But let me ask
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: you this question. How do you feel about the fact
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: that I end up paying the bill even though we're
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: doing something I don't want to do and it's for them.
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 1: Shouldn't at least my wife pay the bill? I mean
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: that it's coming out of the same bank account, right
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: or is it you guys got separate? I mean, I don't. Yeah,
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: she should at least let me put it to you
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: like this, whether it's coming out of the same bank
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: account or not. And it's everybody's money. Your wife should
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: at least go through the motions of paying the bill
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: for optics. Okay, Yeah, she should be the one paying
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 1: the bill, not you, even though it might be the
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: same you know, bank account or whatever. I don't know
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: what your situation is, but yes, absolutely, one percent. Yes.
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: A guy text me he was talking about how for
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: Father's Day he does what his family wants, and apparently
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: his wife and kids want to go out to eat,
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: you know, even though he doesn't want to do that,
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: they do, And he says, shouldn't she at least pay
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 1: the bill? Apparently he must pay the bill. Shouldn't she
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: at least pay the bill? Yeah, she should at least
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: go through the motions. I know a lot of you
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: guys have your your your bank accounts combined, and I
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: don't know does she work or not, but she should
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: at least go through the motions of paying the bill.
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: So for optics. So it looks like she's taking you
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: out even though you're doing nothing that you want to do,
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: and it's all about her and the kids. So sounds
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: me like you had a selfish wife, But that would
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: just be me already four to two, four or seven
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 1: to seven. His money is my money, My money is
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: his money. My husband told me to correct him if
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: he ever said otherwise, because I'm a stay at home mother.
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: That's why my man is fluffy because he says the things,
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: because he says things like this, recognize stay at home
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: mom's do work hard too. Okay, well, it's still not
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 1: your day. It's Father's Day. So I don't I'm not
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: really sure what what you're talking about. I don't know.
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 1: Are we trying to celebrate you or what are we
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: doing here. It's not mother's Day, it's not stay at
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: home mother's day. It's father's Day. But even in that case,
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 1: you should be even in that situation, you should still
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: be paying the bill, not having him pay the bill.
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: Alrighty four two, five, four, seven to seven. What else
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: did you send me? Basically, Rome, it's what the wife thinks.
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 1: Oh you're talking about this is the one who said
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: his money's my money. Because you're a state home. It's
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: what the wife thinks, because if you look at it,
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 1: can the kids ages age newborn to eight years old
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: do something for the dad? No, the mom is making
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: the gift and celebration for the husband, So the husband
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 1: should just be happy he's being celebrated, unlike how men
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 1: usually do us. When the kids are old enough responsible,
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 1: then they can do what they want. So if they
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: forget or a bad gift, then I'll say, well, you
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: did say you wanted X, Y and Z. Okay, No,
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: I don't know what you're talking about here. Yeah, but
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 1: if he says he wants to stay home as opposed
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: to go out, what does that have to do with
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 1: the kids? What that has nothing to do with the kids.
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: So the mom gets to decide what he gets to
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: do on Father's Day because you got to put together
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: the gifts for the kids. It's his money. Anyways, you
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: just said it. Throw me over in the morning every
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: morning morning. On ninety four point one,