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Nollwood Actress Rosy Meurer And Evan Okoro's Divorce Drama · DidiLawren

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  Hello and welcome back to the episode of Bantu Lorencia.
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  How are you all doing? If you're doing great for
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  today's episode, I want to bring you updates on Nollywood,
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  Nollywood marriages, specifically between Nollywood
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  actress Rosie Mirror and Nollywood actress Evans Okoru.
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  Now, as we all know, Rosie Mirror filed for the boss some
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  days ago and social media has been buzzing people.
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  Some people are happy, some people are excited.
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  I don't think anybody felt pity or felt sorry for Rosie because
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  we all saw it coming. It wasn't his surprise.
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  We are. We were not shocked because Hola
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  Kuni Churchill had been married before he married Tuntodique.
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  The first wife had made or laid the same complaint about
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  Churchill. Tuntodique married Churchill.
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  Tuntodique also said the same thing.
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  She said she was the one that married Churchill.
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  In fact, she said she was initially posting about Mr X and
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  people thought Churchill was Mr X, but apparently Churchill was
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  not even Mr X was dating somebody else before she met
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  Churchill. So Churchill kind of told her to
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  introduce to introduce him as Mr X, which she thought, you know,
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  then she, she didn't want to make it look like she was
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  jumping from one relationship to the other.
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  So she introduced Churchill as Mr X only for Churchill to to do
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  her Yahoo. Yahoo.
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  She spent all her money to marry Churchill and then Churchill
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  left her or started dating Rosie Mira.
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  Now Rosie is coming out to say that she, she's been blamed for
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  something she knows nothing about.
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  According to Rosie, she is not responsible for the breakup
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  between Churchill and Tondo Dickey, which I think it may be
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  possible because you know, we are too quick to blame the
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  woman. We are too quick to jump into
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  conclusion. We're too quick to say OK
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  points. You know, the fingers are the
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  second wife not minding whatever has been going on between the
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  the 1st and the husband and the wife.
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  But This is why you don't get involved.
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  If somebody had been married before or if somebody is
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  currently married and you're dating that person, chances are
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  that you're going to bear, you know, the the short end of the
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  state. They're going to blame you.
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  They're going to call you a home wrecker.
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  Now, Rosie, who disappeared from social media after filing and
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  according to the story, their relationship had been fractured
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  for a very long time even before that was one of the major
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  reasons why Churchill was able to reconcile with Tonto DK with
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  his full chest and was posting her and King Andre.
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  So according to the story, Rosie had relocated to Cancun, Mexico,
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  so she's running a restaurant there while Churchill is running
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  numerous businesses. OK, Churchill.
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  So she is saying that she wants to reintroduce herself.
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  I think she's coming back. Maybe Churchill kind of made her
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  or maybe the whole controversy surrounding the fact that she
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  snatched somebody's husband made her kind of moved away from the
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  limelight. And she was having children, you
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  know, and she was also, you know, she had toddlers.
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  So but now Rosie is saying that she is reintroducing herself as
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  Rosie. Mira, let me play that video for
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  you to to see. Hi, I'm Rosie.
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  Mira. Let's say time away can either
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  make you or break you. I mean, assume me.
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  It burnt me. I know I disappeared.
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  And I'm sorry. I mean, I'm truly sorry.
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  Sorry for the silence. I'm sorry for the absence.
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  But I mean, in all of this, I didn't stop it.
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  But now I'm back and I'm ready to give you everything that I
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  have. I mean, I'm ready to play every
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  character. I'm ready to be the broken girl,
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  the fearless woman, the lover girl fighter, the villain and
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  the survivor. I mean every character and every
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  story that needs to be told, I'm here to live it.
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  This isn't just a return, it's a rebirth.
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  And with this new beginning, I'm happy to bring to you guys to
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  introduce to you guys something very close to my heart,
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  something dear to me. Rosie Mira Studios.
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  Yes, I know I did it. I mean, it's a new home for
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  powerful storytelling. I mean, we're bringing to you
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  strong stories, stories that will impact your life, stories
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  that, I mean, families can connect to.
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  You said this is more than a comeback.
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  It's a movement. And I am ready to take this
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  journey with you again to please guys, just like subscribe,
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  follow my channel and, you know, share with your friends, share
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  with everyone. Show me love.
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  It's a girl, Rosie Newer. You already know this, and you
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  know I love you regardless. Now Rosie, Rosie is back and
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  Rosie is starting a new channel or a new chapter.
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  She's starting a studio where she's going to be producing
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  movies. I think she's just looking for a
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  distraction. She's just finding something
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  that she could pour her energy into, channel all the whole, you
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  know, publicity that she's currently getting into, which is
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  a very good thing because she's been hiding all this while she's
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  been defending Churchill from pillar to post.
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  Churchill never said a word. She went under the freeze.
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  She talked about, oh, even that if it that if it asked her like,
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  why won't Churchill come out and say some of these things that
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  you're saying? And she said, oh, he's a very
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  shy person. He's very shy.
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  He cannot say anything. Churchill as people are talking
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  or allegedly he's trying to reconcile with Tonto Dickey.
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  And all I can say is Tonto Dickey, let your guard be up.
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  Leave Churchill alone. You said he's 2 minutes man,
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  leave 2 minutes man alone. No, leave Churchill alone.
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  Leave Churchill alone. If Churchill is begging, let him
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  have a relationship with his son.
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  Let him, you know, be cordial with him.
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  You're radical for Jesus. Don't go and commit adultery,
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  Churchill. Leave Churchill alone and find a
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  pastor instead of getting married to Churchill.
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  I would personally recommend you to marry a pastor.
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  I honestly I don't like anybody marrying a pastor.
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  But in this case, instead of going back to Churchill, look
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  for a pastor. Even if it's a broken one, look
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  for marry them, marry them. Don't go back to Churchill.
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  People are saying that, oh, you know, marriages don't work.
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  If somebody snatch somebody from another person that at the end
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  of the day is going to it's it's build, it's a false foundation
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  and it's going to fall down. Another Hollywood actress, Evan
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  to Kuru. Evan got married to a very young
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  man, a very young boy was unmarried.
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  You know who Eligible bachelor what you consider an eligible
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  bachelor. Although he did not have any
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  money to spend on her, but a Vance got to a stage where she
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  felt she wanted to get married, she wanted to start a family.
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  She had made money in Hollywood, she had made money from
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  endorsing, she had endorsement deal, She has made money from
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  selling products. So she needed a man.
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  She had acquired properties. All or the only thing lacking
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  was a husband to share everything with.
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  So when Evans met her husband Prince, she felt OK, this is the
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  person that she can build with. Yes, he doesn't have money, but
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  she has money to, you know, that can take care of the both of
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  them. Now, according to Advance,
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  unknown to her, her ex-husband was planning on repossessing or
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  possessing all her properties. She said before they got
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  married, he was asking her for documents, house documents and
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  everything. And she was like, you know,
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  we're not even married. I bought all these things before
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  I met you. So, you know, let's relax.
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  And she said as a wife, she was willing to be submissive.
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  She was willing to give him everything.
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  But immediately after the marriage, he started mounting
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  pressure. Just one week after the
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  marriage, he was already asking for house documents.
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  She was giving him money to start a business.
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  But he wanted he wanted to be the man he wanted.
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  He he felt uncomfortable that that his wife had all these
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  properties, has all this money and he did not have anything.
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  So he wanted her to sign everything to him.
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  Every money coming into her account.
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  He wanted to be in charge of how the money is being spent.
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  That was a problem. So she said, no, I'm not going
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  to give you my, my house properties, all these things I
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  bought before I met you, before I married you.
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  We're just one week into this whole thing.
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  And then, according to Evans, he brought a woman into their
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  matrimonial home two weeks after they got married.
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  She begged him not to, you know, sleep with her, as in he slept
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  with her in the same house but in in a different room.
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  She said she begged him. She kneels down.
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  She begged him not to, not to. OK, allow her to stay, but stay
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  with me. You're my husband, Evans said.
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  He did not listen. He spent the whole night with
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  this other lady in her house, points of correct her house.
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  This is a house that he was trying to drag to collect the
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  property from her. So she said that was the
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  beginning of the end. She said she decided and then he
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  was insulting her, telling her that her BBL stings, talking
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  about he was just. She said he was just being
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  nasty. Just because she wouldn't share
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  money with him, she wouldn't sign away her properties to him.
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  Now a lot of people were saying that this this, there's no way
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  you could have married somebody and within two weeks all these
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  things is happening. You knew before you get got into
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  the the marriage that this man was asking you for properties.
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  This man was asking you to sign away everything to him.
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  If you are not willing to sign away everything, why did you
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  marry him? Now I saw a video of on their
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  wedding day where Evans was trying to introduce her
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  mother-in-law and this woman would not even smile.
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  People were now telling her smile.
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  She let me just play that video for you to for you to understand
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  what I'm talking about. So this was Evans on her wedding
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  day introducing her mother-in-law.
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  She was literally begging her to smile and she was telling her I
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  love you and she was like you love me, you love me.
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  Obviously the family had or the her son had told her that his
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  new wife or his wife to be had refused to sign documents away
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  to him. Maybe that was why she was
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  hostile. That wedding shouldn't have
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  taken place in the first place, but now Ivance is coming out to,
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  you know, give her one side of the story.
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  She made different videos explaining and explaining and
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  explaining. Let me just play a little bit of
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  her explanation. When he was making market of me
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  that talking about indecent dressing and BBL smelling and
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  all that. You cannot scratch a wound.
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  I am one person that does not pretend you cannot scratch
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  someone's wound and expects her not to react.
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  No, I don't hide. I forgive this guy.
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  I post his family. They know me.
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  Even Shamaka sometimes she posts me.
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  I comment on that conversation because I have a free heart.
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  I forgive this guy. Long ago I even extended hands
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  of friendship when I when I ran away and said my life was in
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  danger. My life was freaking in danger.
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  I was not sleeping well. When I know this guy does not
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  love me. I was like oh this guy will not
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  love me like this. When they carry woman, they
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  enter my face, they carry pillows by me.
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  Did I give call of threat of kidnapping?
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  I did and I I believe he was the one that of the life that.
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  Call. To make me run away.
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  But say yes, I forgive this guy. He treated, he treated me like
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  this guy. Tell me, say he gets you get my
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  nude. See, I don't want to go see.
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  I did not post so many things because of the love I have for
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  the father and for the mother. You understand me Namio?
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  Like so many things happened. I didn't, I didn't want to talk
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  anymore. I even came out to counter
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  everything and tell and tell the world that he is he is rich,
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  that he can spend 20 million in a day just to make him do do
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  whatever. Because I think I don't block
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  where no man will come again. The question is marriage is
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  these days, is, is it really worth it?
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  Because yes, I understand that. And we're just seeing the bad
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  news. We're just seeing, you know,
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  the, the bad side of things. But there are happily married
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  people, obviously. But the reality is, I think
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  women have. We've come of age, women are now
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  working, making money, still understanding that they are
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  homemakers. But I think men, our parents or
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  the generation before us did not do a good job in bringing up the
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  man or training the man because they, they all they told them
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  was that they're going to be providers.
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  They're going to be, you know, the provider of the family.
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  You know, you are the man, you are the provider.
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  So when that man cannot provide or when a woman is now the
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  provider or has more money, it becomes a problem.
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  It becomes a problem. So what happened to DK?
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  Because Dondo? DK was still the one spending on
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  Churchill and he left her to go and marry Rosie who he was now
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  spending on. And then Evan Socorro was
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  spending on her husband and he brought in another woman into
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  the house who he was taking care of.
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  That then begs the question. Marrying down is advisable.
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  Marrying below your, your financial capacity is it
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  advisable because especially as a as a man, it's not a problem
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  because you're going to be naturally or traditionally
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  you're going to be the provider. So it doesn't change the order
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  of things. But as a woman, I think the only
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  way that could work is even if you surrender all your paycheck,
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  sign away everything at the back of there's still that ego bruise
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  at the back of the mind of that man thinking that maybe you look
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  at him wrongly, be like, oh, because you're the one making
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  the money. You look at him, you know,
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  there's there's simple quarrels. I mean, two people living in the
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  house, there's bound to be issues.
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  So maybe whenever that issue comes up, he will tell you, oh,
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  is it because you're the provider, it's a problem.
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  Let me know as a man, this question is for the men.
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  Would you marry somebody who earns more than you?
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  If yes, can you handle the pressure?
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  If no, why? And as a woman, if you earn more
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  than a man, would you marry that man?
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  Would you be willing to sign, give your paycheck to him, sign
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  away every of your possessions to him to make him feel like the
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  traditional man? Are you willing to do that?
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  Let me know what you think. Thank you very much for watching
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  Bye.