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- 0:00Well, I don't have the pleasure of knowing you.
- 0:02My name is Brandon Delage. I'm I'm the teaching team here
- 0:05at Saint City. We're going to be teaching from
- 0:06the Bible today in Genesis chapter 38.
- 0:09So you have a Bible. Go ahead and turn.
- 0:11There's the first book of the Bible.
- 0:13I think it's on page 32 of 1 of the Bibles in front of you, Remy
- 0:16in Genesis chapter 38. I'll meet you there in just a
- 0:19moment. Now there's a story in the Bible
- 0:23that if I were to ask you to read of people, you would not
- 0:29want to do it. It is a story of betrayal, a
- 0:34story of lies, of cheating, sex, death.
- 0:43That is not like the tagline, no, no, no.
- 0:48That is Genesis 38. That is Jesus's family tree.
- 0:53Matthew chapter one verse one when describing Jesus, his
- 0:58genealogy says this, that the genealogy of Jesus Christ, the
- 1:01son of David, the son of Abraham.
- 1:05Abraham was the father of Isaac, and Isaac the father of Jacob,
- 1:09and Jacob the father of Judah and his brothers, and Judah the
- 1:12father of Perez and Zerah. By Tamar.
- 1:17At Christmas, we celebrate the arrival of Jesus through that
- 1:20family line, through that family tree.
- 1:24But for us to understand why Jesus came for Christmas, we
- 1:29must understand whose family he came from.
- 1:33And in Matthew chapter one, we just read a few names.
- 1:37We read the name of Jesus, David, Abraham, Isaac and Jacob
- 1:42and Judah. And then there's a woman there
- 1:45by the name of Tamar that's curious.
- 1:53You see, Matthew didn't list I, Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob's
- 1:56wives, Rebecca, Rachel and Sarah.
- 1:59No, no, no, he listed, the first woman he listed was Tamar.
- 2:05This month we're looking at the women in the genealogy of Jesus,
- 2:09the five mothers of Jesus going back up his family tree.
- 2:14We're kind of going to ancestry.com up in Saint City
- 2:16for the next month, looking deep, deep into Jesus's family
- 2:21line and story. What we'll find in Jesus family
- 2:24tree is what you might find in many of our lives.
- 2:29A broken family, a redeeming God.
- 2:35And you'll discover that it was a sovereign Christmas.
- 2:39Christmas changed everything because there might be some
- 2:45skeletons in your or your family's closet today.
- 2:50And how is it that you go about life?
- 2:52How is he going to go through this Christmas season cleaning
- 2:54up the wickedness that you've experienced or the wickedness
- 2:58you've done in your life? How are you going to clean that
- 3:01up? And I want to share with the
- 3:04story of a woman in Genesis, Tamar Jesus is 35 times great
- 3:10grandmother, by the way. That's how far back in the
- 3:13family tree we went. We're here in Genesis.
- 3:17We're right smack dab in the beginning of the story of
- 3:20Joseph, the guy who you might know is the guy with the big
- 3:22colorful coat that they made a Broadway play after.
- 3:26We're two chapters in and this guy, Judah, is the fourth born
- 3:30son of Joseph's dad, Jacob. His name is Judah.
- 3:34It's about 500 years before Moses.
- 3:37And as much as this is a sermon about Tamar, we can't miss that
- 3:41before this chapter ends, Judah becomes the most morally
- 3:44compromised person, the most morally compromised character in
- 3:48the story. I want to read the stories for
- 3:50you once, and then I'm going to help you understand what it
- 3:52means for your life. Genesis 38 says this.
- 3:55It happened at that time, at that time that Judah went down
- 4:02from his brothers and turned aside to a certain, a dolomite
- 4:05whose name was Hira. There Judah saw the daughter of
- 4:09a certain Canaanite whose name was Shua, and he took her and
- 4:13went into her and she conceived and Boris son and he called his
- 4:16name, uh, she conceived again and Boris son, and she called
- 4:19his name Onan. Yet again she bore a son and she
- 4:22called his name Shayla. Judah was in Chezib when she
- 4:26bore him. And Judah took a wife for uh,
- 4:29his first born and her name was Tamar.
- 4:31There's our main character, but uh, Judah's first born was
- 4:35wicked in the sight of the Lord, and the Lord put him to death.
- 4:43Then Judah said to Onan, go into your brother's wife and perform
- 4:46the duty of a brother-in-law to her, and raise up offspring for
- 4:49your brother. But Onan knew that the offspring
- 4:53would not be his. So whenever he went into his
- 4:55brother's wife, he would waste the seaman on the ground so as
- 4:58not to give offspring to his brother.
- 5:00And what he did was wicked in the sight of the Lord, and he
- 5:05put him to death also. Then Judah said to Tamar, his
- 5:09daughter-in-law, remain a widow in your father's house till
- 5:12Shayla, my son, grows up. For he feared that he would die
- 5:16like his brothers. So Tamar went and remained in
- 5:19her father's house. In the course of time the wife
- 5:22of Judah, Shua, Shua's daughter died.
- 5:25And when Judah was comforted, he went up to Timna to his sheep
- 5:28shearers, he and his friend Hira the Dolomite.
- 5:30And when Tamar was told, your father-in-law is going up to
- 5:33Timna to shear his sheep, she took off her widows garments and
- 5:37covered herself with a veil, wrapping herself up, and sat at
- 5:41the entrance to Anayam, which is on the road to Timna.
- 5:45For she saw that Shayla was grown up, and she had not been
- 5:48given to him in marriage. When Judah saw her, he thought
- 5:53she was a prostitute, for she had covered her face.
- 5:55She turned to her. He turned to her at the roadside
- 5:58and said, Come, let me come in to you.
- 6:00For he did not know that she was his daughter-in-law.
- 6:03She said, What will you give me, that you may come in to me.
- 6:06He answered, I will send you a young goat from the flock.
- 6:11And she said, If you give me a pledge until you send it.
- 6:15He said, What pledge shall I give to you?
- 6:18She replied, Your signet and your cord, and your staff, that
- 6:22is in your hand. So he gave them to her and went
- 6:24into her, and she conceived by him.
- 6:26Then she arose, and she went away, taking off her veil.
- 6:29She put on the garments of her widowhood.
- 6:31When Judah sent the young goat by his friend to the Adolamite
- 6:33to take back the pledge from the woman's hand, he did not find
- 6:36her. And he asked the men at the
- 6:38place, hey, where's the cult prostitute who's at?
- 6:39And I am at the roadside and they said there's no cult
- 6:41prostitute that's been here. So he returned to Judah and said
- 6:44I have not found her. Also the men in the place said
- 6:47there was no cult prostitute that's been here.
- 6:49And Judah replied, let her keep the things as her own or we
- 6:52shall be laughed at. You see, I sent this young goat
- 6:55and you did not find her. About three months later, Judah
- 6:58was told, Tamar, your daughter-in-law has been
- 7:01immoral. Moreover, she is pregnant by
- 7:04immorality. And Judah said bring her out and
- 7:07let her be burned. And as she was being brought
- 7:10out, she sent word to her father-in-law by the man to whom
- 7:14these belong, I am pregnant. And she said please identify
- 7:20whose these are, the signet and the cord and the staff.
- 7:24And then Judah identified them and said, She is more righteous
- 7:29than I, since I did not give her to my son Shayla, and he did not
- 7:34know her. Again, when the time of her
- 7:37labor came, there were twins in her womb.
- 7:39And when she was in labor, one put out a hand, and the midwife
- 7:42took and tied a scarlet thread on his hand, saying this one
- 7:45came out first. But as he drew back his hand,
- 7:48behold, his brother came out. And she said, What a breach you
- 7:51have made for yourself. Therefore, his name was called
- 7:54Perez. Afterward, his brother came out
- 7:57with the scarlet thread on his hand, and his name was called
- 7:59Zarah. These are God's words for us
- 8:02today. That is a crazy story.
- 8:05I know. You're like you're preaching
- 8:07that Christmas time. That's a crazy story, dude.
- 8:09Yeah, I know. It's in Jesus family tree.
- 8:11I want to help you understand what it means for life in the
- 8:13form of a big idea. Write this down if you'd like to
- 8:15take notes. That Christmas reminds me that
- 8:17God's grace is bigger than wickedness.
- 8:21Christmas, Jesus coming to earth from heaven to earth as a baby,
- 8:26reminds me that God's grace is bigger than wickedness.
- 8:31His grace is bigger than injustice.
- 8:33It is bigger than evil. God's grace is bigger than it.
- 8:39Grace, if you're unfamiliar with the word or I haven't thought
- 8:42about its definition, is just getting something that you don't
- 8:45deserve. Grace is getting something you
- 8:48don't deserve. It's when you rage punch
- 8:49somebody in the face and they give you a gift card to your
- 8:52favorite restaurant. That's how ridiculous and
- 8:54radical grace is. You get something you don't
- 8:57deserve. And that's who God is in this
- 9:01story, gracious. And God's grace is the best
- 9:10thing going on planet earth. And I want to help you believe.
- 9:15Embrace your life, what do it mean?
- 9:18So what does God's grace help me believe?
- 9:20I think it helps you believe two things amidst wickedness in your
- 9:23life. The 1st is this, that when life
- 9:26feels unfair, God still sees me. God's grace helps me believe
- 9:33that when life feels unfair, God still sees me.
- 9:38Look back at the text with me. If you could verse one, it
- 9:42happened at that time that Judah went down from his brothers.
- 9:46Now Judah is disobeying God here.
- 9:48He is not supposed to be in the he's not supposed to be there.
- 9:58He's not supposed to be in Canaan.
- 9:59Judah is supposed to be with his father and his brothers, but
- 10:03he's not. This is about 800 years before
- 10:08King David, 1800 years before Jesus.
- 10:11Yet even in Genesis chapter 38, God is quietly and subtly
- 10:16shaping the line of the Messiah and Judah's disobeying him.
- 10:21And in verse 2, he does something that a lot of people
- 10:24in Genesis do. He sees something that he wants
- 10:26and he takes it. That's always code for sin.
- 10:31He saw the daughter of a certain Canaanite woman and he took her
- 10:35and went into her. And so begins his family tree.
- 10:40We don't even know this woman's name, but they have three sons,
- 10:43Ur, Onan, and Shayla. I want to help you make sense of
- 10:47this crazy Jerry Springer like moment happening in the Bible.
- 10:51OK? They have three kids.
- 10:54Uh, the first one, this dude is so terrible, so wicked that God
- 11:00puts him to death. He's so awful.
- 11:06It's on site. God puts him to death.
- 11:09That's how bad of a husband Tamar's first marriage is.
- 11:15That, uh, received God's judgement then and there.
- 11:24I shudder to think about what was happening inside of that
- 11:26marriage. And that's her first one.
- 11:31We get a little closer look, though, at her second marriage.
- 11:34You see, there's a marriage custom at this time that would
- 11:37preserve the deceased brother's family line and help protect the
- 11:43widow socially and financially. So she goes from ER to his
- 11:47brother Onan. And Onan is understanding of the
- 11:51reality that the baby that she's going to have will not be his.
- 11:55He might be the one to have made it, but in no sense will be his
- 11:59child. It will be his brother ER.
- 12:02And so he does something also wicked and terrible and awful.
- 12:09He does something horrible in secret that he thought only
- 12:12Tamar would know. But God sees Tamar, and he sees
- 12:19the wickedness of Onan, something he thought that he
- 12:25could hide, God saw. So you have Judah with three
- 12:31sons, ER, Onan, and now Shayla. And Tamar is told by Judah, hey,
- 12:37when he grows up, he's yours. She's owed a husband legally,
- 12:42and Judah does not deliver. So if you're Tamar, here's where
- 12:47you're at in life. You've had not one horrible
- 12:51husband, but two. You've been used, abused, and
- 12:56completely neglected, completely written off, forgotten,
- 13:02justified in your anger because you've been treated unjustly in
- 13:05your marriage. And I wonder just how alone and
- 13:10how hurt and how abused she felt, how deep her longing was
- 13:15for justice. And that level of injustice
- 13:22might feel unrelatable to you. It might feel extreme until you
- 13:27realize that you relate to it Every time you say that is not
- 13:31fair. Maddie and I, we take turns like
- 13:36being the responsible one at bedtime, OK?
- 13:39And Maddie will go through the routine that we always do.
- 13:43This is teeth brush, pajamas on, go to the bathroom, get your
- 13:46water bottle ready, say your prayers, read a book, light the
- 13:48candles. I mean, there's so many things
- 13:50that happen at bedtime. And thankfully, we have a list
- 13:52that we go through on our wall and Maddie will go through those
- 13:55things and she'll run the system and it goes great.
- 14:01Now the next night, it'll be my turn.
- 14:04I will do the same prayers. I will do the same order of the
- 14:10routine. I will tuck the kids in
- 14:12precisely how she just did. And suddenly the kids are very
- 14:18upset about that. It is just not fair.
- 14:21I would do the same thing Maddie does, and I don't get the same
- 14:24result. Kids are awake, they're crying,
- 14:28they're negotiating, they're asking questions that they
- 14:30didn't even have until now. It's it's just not fair,
- 14:34frankly, that I would give the same level of effort and they
- 14:36don't respond in the exact same way.
- 14:39And when this isn't fair, turns from like confusion into anger,
- 14:47is where it actually becomes painful.
- 14:50When the this isn't fair that this thing happened to me, that
- 14:54I'm experiencing this suffering, this injustice, this wickedness
- 14:58and this evil. When that happens to you and you
- 15:01look out at other people's life and you go, this is not fair.
- 15:08It's a cry for justice in the human heart.
- 15:12It's your heart's way of telling you that you're longing for
- 15:15something deeper. Because we get angry when we
- 15:18don't get what we expected. We when we don't receive what we
- 15:23thought we earned, when life doesn't pay us back the way we
- 15:27assumed it would. We get angry and upset at the
- 15:31lack of justice in our life and injustice.
- 15:36That statement of this isn't fair, says the quiet part out
- 15:39loud. That we believe that if we do
- 15:42the right things, we get the right results with our life.
- 15:46We can avoid the suffering, we can avoid the injustice or the
- 15:50evil in our life. So we can't help but say it,
- 15:55this isn't fair. Did you know something that God
- 16:01put that there in your heart? That longing for justice, that
- 16:06cry for things being right and fair.
- 16:11God put that there. That's what justice is.
- 16:15Now, there's two sides to the justice coin.
- 16:19There's the first, which I think many of you would thinking of as
- 16:21justice, and that's why you feel justified in saying this isn't
- 16:24fair, is that you think justice is punishing evil doers.
- 16:29That's how our courtroom sees it.
- 16:30You do something wrong, you go to prison.
- 16:33That's how justice works. But there's a deeper kind of
- 16:39justice that is real justice. Yes, according to the Bible, we
- 16:42do punish evil doers. That's a good thing.
- 16:44But there's a deeper level to justice.
- 16:47God's ultimate justice is restoring everything to, as it
- 16:52should be said, simpler, putting things right.
- 16:59That's ultimate justice. And in the Garden of Eden, when
- 17:05God created the world, there was only justice, there was only
- 17:10peace. There was no need even for
- 17:13justice, really, because everything was already put
- 17:15right. But then sin enters the world
- 17:18and it goes haywire. There is suddenly a need for
- 17:23punishing justice in the world, and there's a need for peace
- 17:27everywhere. And it doesn't take long in the
- 17:31book of Genesis to discover just how bad and how dark and how
- 17:35wicked and how consequential sin is.
- 17:38You see, socially, there's immediately injustice.
- 17:41I mean, there's murder within the first family.
- 17:45There's hatred internally, physically, their bodies already
- 17:50begin to bear the consequences of sin with sickness and death
- 17:54and decay. We need justice and for God to
- 18:00be just, He must punish evildoer sinful people, bringing in the
- 18:06punishing justice that is required.
- 18:09But for God to be loving, He must bring ultimate justice,
- 18:14putting things as they should be, putting things right.
- 18:20And what will happen is, is as we await the Savior's arrival on
- 18:26planet earth, you will see across the Bible people trying
- 18:29to self justify trying to make things right in their life
- 18:34without God. In fact, every major religion in
- 18:38the world, you know what they're trying to do, telling you that
- 18:41you can earn it, that you deserve it, that you're entitled
- 18:45to the justice. But do you know how God solves
- 18:48the problem of justice in the world?
- 18:50Do you know the mystery of the gospel is that Jesus took on
- 18:54punishing justice for you and for me so that we could receive
- 18:59God's ultimate justice fully and finally.
- 19:02That's what the wonder of Jesus is.
- 19:04He took on punishing justice so we could have the ultimate
- 19:08justice that our life, that our eternity we be put right by
- 19:12himself and his offering for us. He made peace by the blood of
- 19:17his cross. And that is the great wonder of
- 19:20the Gospel, that the cross is where God is perfectly loving
- 19:25and perfectly just, where his punishing justice and ultimate
- 19:29justice collide. And the most beautiful and
- 19:31horrific act in human history, that the God man Jesus would die
- 19:37for sinners like you and I ultimately just in paying for
- 19:42the evil, paying for the sin, paying for the wickedness,
- 19:46loving, and that he took it upon himself.
- 19:51And the most unfair moment in human history is not what you
- 19:55are experiencing. The most unfair moment in human
- 19:59history was the moment that Jesus Christ paid for a sin that
- 20:03wasn't his for he who knew no sin.
- 20:08He made him who knew no sin tibisin on our behalf that we
- 20:11might become the righteousness of God.
- 20:16God sees you, He sees the wickedness, He sees the
- 20:22injustice you've experienced, and he sees you to the point
- 20:28that He cared enough to die for you and your sins.
- 20:33Now listen to me. There are going to be moments in
- 20:36your life when people go back on their word to you that your
- 20:42parent said they were going to be there for you in a certain
- 20:46way and they were not. God sees that and He will not go
- 20:53back on His word. There will be moments when
- 20:55people cheat you, but God does not.
- 21:01One of the greatest acts of betrayal that exists is cheating
- 21:04on your spouse. And listen to me.
- 21:07God sees you in the midst of that injustice, when people
- 21:12forget you, that that friendship just disintegrated overnight and
- 21:17that they abandoned you. God has not.
- 21:20God still sees you when people cheat you, when they forget
- 21:24about you, when they go back on their word, God sees you.
- 21:30When life feels unfair, God sees you.
- 21:34God's grace is on the way. And God's grace helps me believe
- 21:38that justice is coming either in this life at the cross, or in
- 21:43eternity. We filter it through the life of
- 21:48Jesus, the one who'd come way later through Tamar.
- 21:54And that's what every Tamar needs is the hope of Jesus.
- 21:58Second, God's grace doesn't just help me believe that when life
- 22:01is unfair, God still sees me. But second, when I fail, God can
- 22:05still redeem. When I fail, when I sin, when
- 22:13I'm the screw up in the story, God can still redeem.
- 22:20The temptation is to read a story like this, and it's a
- 22:23story, right? So you're going to see yourself
- 22:25as a character, and the natural inclination might be to see
- 22:29yourself as the victim, Tamar, in this story.
- 22:32But there's a wisdom in seeing yourself as Judah, ER, and Onan
- 22:38as well. And in our world today, Judah
- 22:42would be Chris Harrison style cancelled for what just happened
- 22:46in this Bible. OK, that's a bachelor reference
- 22:49for those of you who don't know what I just talked about.
- 22:50OK, I got you. So what happened in the story?
- 22:55What happens next? Well look back at the text of me
- 22:58verse 11. Judah said to his to Tamar his
- 23:01daughter-in-law, remain a widow in your father's house till my
- 23:04son grows up. And what stops him from actually
- 23:08doing it? Look at the next part of the
- 23:10verse. For he feared that his son
- 23:14Shayla would die. Fear stops Judah from giving
- 23:19Tamar his third son. He is not trusting God, he is
- 23:25trusting the pattern. Not only is he trusting in the
- 23:30pattern, he's trusting in his sexual desire.
- 23:32So what does he do? He predictably responds to the
- 23:35death of his wife in a way Tamar was totally expecting.
- 23:37That says a lot about Judah, by the way.
- 23:40Hey, how's this guy going to grieve?
- 23:41He's going to go on a hook up with a prostitute.
- 23:44So she dresses herself up shrewdly.
- 23:46She goes to where he's going to be.
- 23:49He's got no only fans or Tinder to mess with.
- 23:51This is his only option. So what does he do?
- 23:53He goes there and he sleeps with his daughter-in-law, not
- 23:56knowingly that it was his daughter-in-law.
- 23:59And he pays her off wallet keys, gives them to her and goes, hey,
- 24:04this is this is security balance just in case the GOAT doesn't
- 24:08come to you. But the joke's on him.
- 24:14He was doing the wrong thing. He was disobeying God.
- 24:17He was dishonouring his daughter-in-law, and this should
- 24:20cost him everything. This decision should cost Judah
- 24:25everything. He is now the most morally
- 24:27compromised person in the story. He's the villain.
- 24:31He's a moral deadbeat. And Genesis 38 teaches us that
- 24:37God advances his promises not through a moral resume, not
- 24:43through the people who look like they have it all figured out.
- 24:45They're all together. But he also does not abandon
- 24:49people because of moral failure, that all he has to work with are
- 24:57broken, messed up, sinful people.
- 24:59So that's who he uses. That's it.
- 25:03And Judah, by all accounts, should be labeled a failure.
- 25:09His kids are a disaster. His marriage couldn't have been
- 25:13good. He should not be a character
- 25:15that we know of or even preach about on a Sunday morning.
- 25:19He should be written off. And you'd be surprised at what
- 25:22the world would be willing to write off.
- 25:26Here's a picture of Times Square in the 1970s.
- 25:29It is not the Times Square that you know.
- 25:32This is not a street where good things happen.
- 25:35It was filled with porn theaters, with peep shows, with
- 25:40prostitutes calling out in broad daylight, drug deals in broad
- 25:44daylight. Rolling Stone called 42nd St.
- 25:49the sleaziest block in America, not a back alley, the center of
- 25:58New York City, which is, according to Hamilton, is the
- 26:02greatest city in the world. By every measure, Times Square
- 26:07had failed. Businesses left.
- 26:10Investors walked away. Parents warned their kids to
- 26:14stay away from it. City leaders were debating
- 26:17whether or not they should tear it down.
- 26:18Not save this thing. I mean, this was a place that
- 26:21was known as unsafe, undisciplined and embarrassing
- 26:26to the city of New York. It was a place you would have
- 26:31written off, a place you'd forget.
- 26:35And Despite that, with a little intentionality, a little vision,
- 26:38a little effort, Times Square was transformed into one of the
- 26:41most visited locations in the world.
- 26:44Families, tourist, global clouds, global crowds.
- 26:47Excuse me? It's a place to travel to, not a
- 26:50place to run from. Reminding us that what the world
- 26:55cancels, redemption can still reclaim.
- 27:01Now, if you only judge Times Square by what it was in the 70s
- 27:04and 80s, you'd never believe what it became.
- 27:09And I wonder, if someone were to judge your life by its worst
- 27:14season, would they assume what your future would be?
- 27:22The world's definition of grace labels people as unredeemable.
- 27:30Here's the amazing news of Christmas.
- 27:33God's grace is Wilder and more radical than you can imagine.
- 27:38Genesis 38 is more than just a story of injustice.
- 27:42It is a story of Judah's transformation.
- 27:45Let me give you a high level view of his story arc.
- 27:47The chapter before 37. He's the guy who sells his
- 27:50brother Joseph into slavery. That's his idea.
- 27:53Now in 38, he does some bad things, but he recognizes, Do
- 27:59you see that in the text that she is more righteous than I?
- 28:03He says that in the text. That's his conversion moment.
- 28:06And look what changes. You see in 39, we get the
- 28:10contrast between Judah and Joseph, his brother.
- 28:13Where Judah is sexually immoral, Joseph is sexually pure when
- 28:18tempted with Potiphar's wife in chapter 44, Judah, where he was
- 28:24once the brother who sold Joseph into slavery, that he actually
- 28:28offers himself to be enslaved for his other brother Benjamin
- 28:32in his place. And in Genesis 49, his
- 28:35repentance brings about the ultimate blessing and redemption
- 28:38that the King of Kings would come from Judah's lineage.
- 28:43It is a story of transformation. And there are two people here in
- 28:47this room today, those who like Judah, see their need for God's
- 28:52grace, and a second person, those who are still blind to
- 28:56their need for the same grace to enter their life.
- 29:01Now, you may not have sinned the way Judah did here, but you are
- 29:05in need of the same grace. You don't deserve it.
- 29:12You couldn't earn it, but your unrighteousness needs the
- 29:18righteousness of God. You have the same problem as
- 29:21Him. And the invitation of Christmas
- 29:24is not to clean yourself up, but rather to come clean before a
- 29:28holy God. That is the call of Christmas to
- 29:32you. It is the reminder that God's
- 29:35grace is bigger than your wickedness.
- 29:38St. City, listen to me.
- 29:39You may have a broken family, but you serve a redeeming God.
- 29:44You may have a broken story, but you worship a sovereign
- 29:48Redeemer. There is no mess that Jesus
- 29:50can't make a message. There is no test that he can't
- 29:53turn into a testimony. There is no trial that he can't
- 29:55turn into His triumph. Christmas proves to you once and
- 29:59for all that God's grace is bigger than any wickedness that
- 30:02you have committed. That is God's love for you
- 30:06through Jesus Christ. It proves that once and for all
- 30:12that the lion of the tribe of Judah has come to save you from
- 30:15your sin. His grace has scandalously
- 30:20changed many lives, and it can change yours too.
- 30:26It sounds scandalous, doesn't it, that God could love Judah
- 30:30and Tamar all the same, and yet that's His redeeming power.
- 30:39That's what God can do. God can redeem it not because
- 30:42you deserve it, not because you could earn it, but His
- 30:45redemption payment is 1 you couldn't make.
- 30:47It is a check you could not cash.
- 30:49His redemption came through His perfect blood on a cross for
- 30:52you, for every Judah who would ever live.
- 30:56It's God's grace, and it helps you believe that when you fail,
- 31:03God can still redeem it. This is the story of Scripture,
- 31:07the story of God, that God with us, his radical love for us.
- 31:12It can save ridiculously sinful people, messed up people.
- 31:18It's the story of God with us. Judah's life proves that
- 31:22redemption is possible, and Christmas proves that it's
- 31:28personal. One last thing before I close.
- 31:34The story of Tamar is a personal story, and nothing is more
- 31:38personal than a name, right? When somebody knows your name,
- 31:42you're like, man, we're on a personal level now.
- 31:44Feels great. The name Tamar means something.
- 31:47It means palm tree. That's what it means.
- 31:50It means palm tree, which is a symbol in the Bible of
- 31:54uprightness and fruitfulness. Whenever a palm tree is talked
- 31:58about, that's what's symbolizing uprightness, meaning you live a
- 32:01life of character and integrity, but also of fruitfulness.
- 32:06And if you stopped reading the Bible in Genesis, you'd only
- 32:11know that she got some earthly justice.
- 32:12She got to have the baby, she got to have twins, right?
- 32:16If you were an Israelite who got Genesis at the mount at Mount
- 32:20Sinai when Moses came down the mountain with it, you would know
- 32:24that Judah's line is going on through some crazy story.
- 32:29That's what you'd know. But if you're here today and
- 32:34you're hearing this and you're hearing the names, you're
- 32:36hearing the story, you're hearing God at work and you're
- 32:40thinking back to the beginning and you're like, man, my family
- 32:42tree is messed up and I still feel ashamed.
- 32:45Tamar, the mother of Jesus, has good news.
- 32:50She has good news for you. Your family will affect you, but
- 32:54by God's grace, it does not have to define you.
- 32:59Your family and its dysfunction does not have to define you.
- 33:06You can repeat it the same dysfunction, or you can rebel
- 33:10against it, or you can receive the same grace every mother of
- 33:15Jesus needed. It is a wonderful spiritual
- 33:19advantage to be on this side of Jesus because we can know that
- 33:22Tamar is a woman known for uprightness and fruitfulness,
- 33:27that that justice was coming. And you know something that she
- 33:30didn't that one day, thousands of years later, that justice
- 33:34would wear skin. It would be Jesus Christ of
- 33:39Nazareth, the Savior of the world, The story that is one of
- 33:43the craziest stories in all the Bible.
- 33:46God can redeem for good, the good of bringing His Son into
- 33:50the world. Her story did not end in Genesis
- 33:53because the most upright man, the most fruitful man to ever
- 33:56live, Jesus Christ, would come through her line, and he can
- 34:01bear the same fruit in yours. God can use your story.
- 34:06He can use your life for great things.
- 34:08Jesus Christ of Nazareth, His grace has come for the
- 34:11wickedness of this world. He would come to save it.
- 34:14His grace is bigger than wickedness.
- 34:18Can you believe it? I'm so thankful for His word.
- 34:24Would you join me as I pray and thank Him for it too?
- 34:26Lord, would we be reminded this Christmas that Your grace is
- 34:31enough and it is bigger, it is louder, and God, it is better
- 34:37than anything else going on planet earth.
- 34:41And so, God, I pray for every person here who is stuck in the
- 34:46injustice right now, that their mind is trapped on what happened
- 34:50to them. Lord, the thing that makes them
- 34:53cry out, life is not fair. I pray God, for a sense of your
- 34:57peace and your justice to sweep over their soul.
- 35:02It's not fair. I have this condition.
- 35:05It's not fair. They have the things.
- 35:07It's not fair. I was born into this family.
- 35:09It's not fair about my financial picture.
- 35:12It's not fair. God, would that be flipped and
- 35:15say, God, you, it's not fair that you've provided for me,
- 35:20Jesus Christ. It's not fair that you can heal
- 35:23what has been broken by the world.
- 35:26But I don't deserve it. I couldn't earn it.
- 35:28But God, you've given it and I receive it, Lord, for every
- 35:31person here who has a sense of their inner Judah, the person
- 35:35who's done terrible things that they wish they could clean up
- 35:38like a stain they could wash away from their life, that there
- 35:44is so much pain from it, so much hurt, so much shame and
- 35:49embarrassment. God, would they let the grace of
- 35:53God wash over them and flood their life?
- 35:57That they would believe that your grace is bigger than their
- 36:00wickedness, that it can redeem what the world calls lost and
- 36:05broken. What the world would write off.
- 36:08God, you would write in to the story of what you're doing in
- 36:11the world. Oh God, would you do what only
- 36:18you can do? And would you remind us that
- 36:21your grace is bigger than our wickedness?
- 36:24In Jesus name, Amen.