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An Unlikely Affair: Vegas Went Full WrestleMania (Part One) · Untraditionally Lala

• 0:01
  Speaker 1: Hi Amber, Hilelah, Welcome to an unlikely Affair. Hey babes,
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  Speaker 1: it is La La Kent here with my angel, my rock.
• 0:13
  Speaker 2: Oh how I needed Vegas with you.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, me too.
• 0:17
  Speaker 2: I know.
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  Speaker 1: I'm so happy that we have an unlikely affair and
• 0:19
  Speaker 1: that we get to record an unlikely affair here in Vegas.
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  Speaker 3: I know, WWE, Baby, it's a good weekend.
• 0:25
  Speaker 1: Did you ever think that you would put the two
• 0:26
  Speaker 1: of those together an unlikely affair in WrestleMania.
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  Speaker 3: No, but let me tell you something. Nothing in life
• 0:33
  Speaker 3: shocks me anymore. But I am so excited to go
• 0:36
  Speaker 3: to WrestleMania.
• 0:37
  Speaker 1: I'm so excited that when we had the belatwins on,
• 0:41
  Speaker 1: they were like they just like dropped it, like you
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  Speaker 1: guys should come, and we said fun, yes, yes, yeah.
• 0:46
  Speaker 3: I remember watching WWE with my dad sometimes and I
• 0:50
  Speaker 3: was just so blown away by I was like, oh
• 0:54
  Speaker 3: my god, how are they not really like crying? And
• 0:56
  Speaker 3: then I realized it's like it's they're athletes, but they're
• 1:00
  Speaker 3: so good at what they do, and there's so much
• 1:02
  Speaker 3: precision and like training and just mastering the art of wrestling.
• 1:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, for an audience, it's like a full performance. Yeah,
• 1:11
  Speaker 1: it's a lot of worlds coming into one, like on Crack,
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  Speaker 1: I am so dead, No, I can't wait. And just
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  Speaker 1: the level of fandom because it's a world that I've
• 1:24
  Speaker 1: never experienced. But to me, it's kind of like the
• 1:27
  Speaker 1: Bravo universe, like when you go to Vegas for Bravo Con. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and people who aren't in that bubble don't even realize
• 1:34
  Speaker 1: what it's like. These wrestlers walk I could feel that,
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  Speaker 1: I'm so happy that you fixed it.
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  Speaker 3: It was bothering me. That was like coming up on
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  Speaker 3: your chin.
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  Speaker 2: I could feel it, and I kept going like this.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, what is that? Thank you?
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  Speaker 3: You're welcome.
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  Speaker 1: You walk in these these wrestlers are going to be
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  Speaker 1: treated like they're the Beatles.
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  Speaker 2: It's wild, wild.
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  Speaker 3: It just shows you. It kind of brings me back
• 1:57
  Speaker 3: to when I was on All My Children, and the
• 2:00
  Speaker 3: the fan base, even in the soap world is so
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  Speaker 3: beyond anything I ever experienced. I mean this took you
• 2:07
  Speaker 3: all the way back into like people that were in
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  Speaker 3: jail that would watch soaps. I would get fan letters.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, Laala, I used to get so much fan
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  Speaker 3: mail that we all kind of share the same person
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  Speaker 3: that ran our fan group, but it would be like
• 2:23
  Speaker 3: inmate number two four five sixt seven from you know, Louisville, Kentucky,
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  Speaker 3: and then they would write this letter. It was bizarre
• 2:31
  Speaker 3: and I'm like, wow, this just goes to show you
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  Speaker 3: like people really invest their time, their money, their energy
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  Speaker 3: into And by the way, like we heard, these tickets
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  Speaker 3: are not cheap, so people are really You have to
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  Speaker 3: love this world and people do. People are bananas and
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  Speaker 3: I'm so excited to experience it.
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  Speaker 2: I am too.
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna be studying how they actually do like moves, and.
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  Speaker 1: I hope they open with the chair. It reminds me
• 2:59
  Speaker 1: of Shrack where it's like give him the chair in
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  Speaker 1: check yeah, where he goes to Lord Farquad, oh mom head.
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  Speaker 2: Get must back.
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  Speaker 1: And then he has to fight all of his his guards. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: and the audience goes wild and it is like WrestleMania.
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  Speaker 2: I have kids. I have kids.
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  Speaker 3: Don't have to say it's been a minute since I
• 3:21
  Speaker 3: watched Shreck.
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  Speaker 1: How do you feel being in Vegas when you're sober?
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god, I love it?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, tell me why?
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  Speaker 3: Because I look at people who are either doing the
• 3:34
  Speaker 3: walk of shame okay, or look absolutely miserable the next
• 3:39
  Speaker 3: morning in line to get coffee. Yeah, or they're still
• 3:42
  Speaker 3: sitting at the black checked tables, or like at the
• 3:46
  Speaker 3: slaw machines and.
• 3:47
  Speaker 1: You thought they had a BBL but really they have
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  Speaker 1: depends on Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you're like, I actually don't think that person has
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  Speaker 3: left since the last time I saw that. Yeah, it
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  Speaker 3: feels so good to be sober and wake up, because
• 3:58
  Speaker 3: there's something about Vegas that already kind of makes you
• 4:01
  Speaker 3: feel like a little bit tired because you literally get
• 4:04
  Speaker 3: stuck inside, like we haven't been outside. Besides, we've just
• 4:08
  Speaker 3: walked into an.
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  Speaker 1: Uber and I walked out like this, like you haven't
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  Speaker 1: seen this by day?
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  Speaker 3: Right, So I love It's just Vegas is so special
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  Speaker 3: to me.
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  Speaker 1: I really love it here too, and I love that
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  Speaker 1: you and I yet again decided to share a suite
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  Speaker 1: again again. Tell the story how it happened, Well, let
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  Speaker 1: me tell I'll tell you how. I don't tell the
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  Speaker 1: whole story, but this trip was going to be where
• 4:37
  Speaker 1: we were bringing people with us, and then.
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  Speaker 3: By people she means the opposite sex.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, and then last minute things just shifted and I
• 4:49
  Speaker 1: was like, I'm not sleeping without amber, Like it's just
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  Speaker 1: not happening. But even when you come to LA and
• 4:56
  Speaker 1: you stay with me, you don't stay in the guest room.
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  Speaker 1: We sleep in the same bed, like it's a non negotiable.
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  Speaker 1: We go somewhere together. And it actually worked out perfectly.
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  Speaker 1: I was legitimately upset that, like the plan fell through right,
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  Speaker 1: and I got I got very regulated, disregulated, emotional. The
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  Speaker 1: world is crashing down on me. And since we've the moment.
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  Speaker 1: I saw your face though yesterday.
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  Speaker 2: I walked into the wind.
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  Speaker 1: You guys in amber, you did look like like you're beautiful,
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  Speaker 1: You're stunning.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, thank you for starting with that first say that,
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  Speaker 2: But I look at her.
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  Speaker 1: She got in at like seven thirty in the morning
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  Speaker 1: to Vgas.
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  Speaker 3: I came from Montana. Yeah, I got up at four thirty, Yes,
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  Speaker 3: drove to the airport. My flight was six fifteen down
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  Speaker 3: the runway landed, and I was like, what now. I
• 5:55
  Speaker 3: showed up at the wind and literally there's nobody except
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  Speaker 3: the maintenance worker and like a janitor, and I'm like,
• 6:02
  Speaker 3: does anyone need help? Because I couldn't check into the
• 6:04
  Speaker 3: room until three. No.
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  Speaker 1: By the way, if I was just a regular old
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  Speaker 1: person walking by you yesterday, I would have gone, Oh
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  Speaker 1: my god, that is like a beautiful woman.
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  Speaker 2: But I know my Amber.
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  Speaker 1: I know those eyes, those angel eyes. And I was like,
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  Speaker 1: because I know her, but if I didn't, all in
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  Speaker 1: the same time, that woman is strictly in Vegas to
• 6:27
  Speaker 1: have some cocktails and gamble from the time she gets
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  Speaker 1: here until the time she got like she's not leaving
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  Speaker 1: this law machine. I was like, wow, we need a nap.
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  Speaker 1: But I looked the same way because I was no,
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  Speaker 1: you did it. Yes, I didn't know.
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  Speaker 3: You didn't.
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  Speaker 2: No, you didn't do you know what we needed.
• 6:42
  Speaker 1: We needed Chinese food, which is what we got, just
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  Speaker 1: a lot of sodium.
• 6:47
  Speaker 3: Oh that is why you woke up, you said, I
• 6:49
  Speaker 3: feel really puffy. That's what it was worth it in
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  Speaker 3: your fight. Didn't take off her, No.
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  Speaker 1: They had us sitting on the runway for fucking forty
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  Speaker 1: five minutes. I was like, this is where I lose
• 6:59
  Speaker 1: my fucking mind. Anyway, I land, Amber's looking gorgeous, obviously,
• 7:04
  Speaker 1: but we eat and it just Vegas is so different now.
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  Speaker 1: And granted I've been sober for you know, seven and
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  Speaker 1: a half years, but usually when I don't come to
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  Speaker 1: Vegas to just like just for like a trip, like
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  Speaker 1: it's always something where we were working. There was one
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  Speaker 1: time that I came to Vegas randomly and I was
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  Speaker 1: super pregnant and I was coming for Lovers and Friends,
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  Speaker 1: which is a festival, a music festival. I've never felt
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  Speaker 1: more vulnerable by the way. To walk into nightclubs or
• 7:35
  Speaker 1: any type of day club and you're pregnant and there's
• 7:38
  Speaker 1: no father. You feel very you feel very strange.
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  Speaker 3: You're like, I will never forget. When I was twenty one,
• 7:45
  Speaker 3: I was pregnant with London. It was New Year's Lennon
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  Speaker 3: was born on February first, so I was very pregnant. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: and I was like, one hundred percent I'm going to
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  Speaker 3: Vegas for New Year's because I'm not gonna be left behind.
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  Speaker 3: The other person was like, I'm going with or without you.
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  Speaker 3: So I drove, had an uber take me for a
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  Speaker 3: driver from LA I couldn't get on a plane because
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  Speaker 3: I was too pregnant. It's too much. It was a risk.
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  Speaker 3: I'll never forget going into the nightclub and I am
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  Speaker 3: litt I have to find this photo and show you.
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  Speaker 3: I was nine eight and a half, nine months pregnant
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  Speaker 3: with London, and I'm just massive walking through the nightclub.
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  Speaker 3: Fifty was performing and I was like, loved him. It
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  Speaker 3: was such a weird experience, but I love it. That's
• 8:26
  Speaker 3: how much I fucking love the city. It's the great
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  Speaker 3: one of the Like most people are like, how do
• 8:31
  Speaker 3: you like? I call it Disneyland for adults.
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  Speaker 1: Right where you can be there sober. But most people
• 8:37
  Speaker 1: at Disneyland aren't sober. That a is adults. They're like
• 8:40
  Speaker 1: they're drinking. They're drinking more there than in Vegas.
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  Speaker 3: One hundred percent. I would be too if I could.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, But yesterday was just full of just like talking, connecting.
• 8:50
  Speaker 1: We always have so much to talk about it and
• 8:53
  Speaker 1: something happened that I'm not going to share, but it
• 8:55
  Speaker 1: was a pretty intense phone call that I got, and
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  Speaker 1: I hope one day that I can share it because
• 9:00
  Speaker 1: it just it just never fucking.
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  Speaker 3: Ends, never ends.
• 9:05
  Speaker 2: It never ends.
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  Speaker 1: And the day that we can just fucking mention it all,
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  Speaker 1: Bethany Frankel style legs spread, fucking.
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  Speaker 2: Mention it all, I can't fucking wait. But I got
• 9:15
  Speaker 2: this phone call. I see him when I was like, girl,
• 9:18
  Speaker 2: we got to talk. You will never believe the phone.
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  Speaker 1: Call that I just had. So we talked about that.
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  Speaker 1: We went into we window shopped. I found some really
• 9:29
  Speaker 1: cute Christian lubetans. We I talked her off the ledge
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  Speaker 1: because I was ready to drop five grand on heels
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  Speaker 1: yesterday and she was like, don't do it.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, give it twenty four hours.
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  Speaker 3: I came to in the morning and then this morning
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  Speaker 3: you were like this morning, I was like, I don't
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  Speaker 3: think I should buy the shoes. See, if you had
• 9:46
  Speaker 3: been drinking, you would have been one for me, one
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  Speaker 3: for you, one for you. Know what I mean, Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I would have been.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, not good. And then we had like a cute
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  Speaker 1: little dinner together. We stayed in our sweatpants the entire time.
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  Speaker 3: It was the best.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: And I literally looked at you while we were walking
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  Speaker 3: through the wind and I was like, this is how
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  Speaker 3: I've always wanted to do Vegas. I don't want to
• 10:07
  Speaker 3: be running around Vegas with like six inch heels like
• 10:10
  Speaker 3: some of the girls that we saw yesterday. I mean, yes,
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  Speaker 3: there's a time and place.
• 10:13
  Speaker 1: There was something very cute about watching a group of
• 10:16
  Speaker 1: girls who were probably in their you know, early to
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  Speaker 1: mid twenties, short little skirts heels.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, you fucking get it, baby.
• 10:25
  Speaker 1: You just have the funnest time of your life because
• 10:27
  Speaker 1: there's going to be a man that comes into your
• 10:29
  Speaker 1: life fucks you up. He's going to be your baby
• 10:31
  Speaker 1: daddy and you're never gonna feel this way again.
• 10:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so just you go, girl.
• 10:38
  Speaker 3: I agree, live your life.
• 10:40
  Speaker 1: We went back up to the room at what not
• 10:42
  Speaker 1: a thirty nine mm hmm. Took our little I'm trying
• 10:45
  Speaker 1: to get off the unism.
• 10:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah that's hard.
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  Speaker 1: It's so hard because I've been taking it since my
• 10:52
  Speaker 1: life took a turn and I have had nothing but
• 10:55
  Speaker 1: sleepless nights. And then my doctor drops on me like,
• 10:58
  Speaker 1: oh yeah, you know that causes early on set dementia.
• 11:03
  Speaker 2: And I was like, better start having it then.
• 11:08
  Speaker 1: So I would do a half and then I broke
• 11:10
  Speaker 1: it down into a third and now I'm on this
• 11:12
  Speaker 1: amazing concoction of I do two let Me sleep gummies
• 11:18
  Speaker 1: with two magnesium. But you and I both last night
• 11:22
  Speaker 1: were like struggling to go to sleep.
• 11:24
  Speaker 3: Oh I was in the bed, out of the But
• 11:26
  Speaker 3: I also have been going through a very messed up
• 11:29
  Speaker 3: time with my sleep. I can't, I don't sleep, I don't.
• 11:31
  Speaker 3: I literally have had the worst anxiety where the next day.
• 11:36
  Speaker 3: My heart hurts from having so much anxiety. It's a
• 11:39
  Speaker 3: weird like pocket that I'm in and it's gonna pass.
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, I'm on the one milligram of melotonin, two
• 11:46
  Speaker 3: elfie and nines and uh magnesium and I still was
• 11:51
  Speaker 3: going absolutely but it. I literally got up in the
• 11:53
  Speaker 3: middle of the night. I was like, I'm gonna go
• 11:54
  Speaker 3: in the other room and read.
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  Speaker 1: I know, And I kept trying. I would be like,
• 11:58
  Speaker 1: you can turn the light on to be like it's
• 11:59
  Speaker 1: too bright, and then you look for a blanket. I'm like,
• 12:01
  Speaker 1: there's a blanket on the bed. You could read in
• 12:03
  Speaker 1: the bed. I'm like doing anything to be like just
• 12:04
  Speaker 1: stay in the.
• 12:05
  Speaker 2: Fucking bed, don't leave this room, don't leave this room.
• 12:07
  Speaker 1: And then I came back, I know, And then you
• 12:10
  Speaker 1: popped one more of something. I did one more magnesium
• 12:14
  Speaker 1: and after that it was like two quartses.
• 12:18
  Speaker 2: I gotta get my dosage right.
• 12:20
  Speaker 1: Sometimes you do.
• 12:20
  Speaker 3: You just lay there and I'm like, God, please please,
• 12:24
  Speaker 3: I don't ask for much today, or I didn't ask
• 12:26
  Speaker 3: for much today. Just let me freaking sleep.
• 12:29
  Speaker 1: And then he doesn't, and it's like, well, it's clear
• 12:31
  Speaker 1: your fucking asleep.
• 12:32
  Speaker 2: So you're of no help right now.
• 12:34
  Speaker 1: Catch you in the morning. No, I don't know when
• 12:39
  Speaker 1: that happened to me. Where I am such a square
• 12:42
  Speaker 1: there's someone that whatever. We won't go into the boy,
• 12:46
  Speaker 1: but they asked me, are you going to be up
• 12:48
  Speaker 1: for a minute? And I was like, oh wow, I
• 12:52
  Speaker 1: am a square at seven forty five and he's asking
• 12:55
  Speaker 1: if I'm going to be up for a minute. Because
• 12:58
  Speaker 1: I'm like, this is so embarrassing.
• 13:00
  Speaker 3: You're so predictable. You come into the room, You're like,
• 13:03
  Speaker 3: all right, I'm gonna take a bath. So I'm learning,
• 13:05
  Speaker 3: like how you travel. You love your baths, which I
• 13:07
  Speaker 3: do too. You turn on friends like I turn on
• 13:11
  Speaker 3: the news, which is probably why I have anxiety. You
• 13:13
  Speaker 3: like change it immediately to friends, Like it's so I
• 13:15
  Speaker 3: know exactly what side of the bed you want to
• 13:17
  Speaker 3: sleep on. I know you're on the right side. I'm
• 13:19
  Speaker 3: on the like because I know from being at your house,
• 13:21
  Speaker 3: I get it. We're becoming such great travel partners.
• 13:25
  Speaker 2: I know. And we never run out of things to
• 13:27
  Speaker 2: talk about.
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  Speaker 3: Never.
• 13:38
  Speaker 2: This is a great friendship.
• 13:39
  Speaker 1: It's a great friend and we had like a very
• 13:41
  Speaker 1: sweet moment today on the couch. You were reminiscing about
• 13:44
  Speaker 1: a time with whose name we.
• 13:46
  Speaker 2: Shall not mention.
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  Speaker 1: Is reminiscing a positive word, because if it.
• 13:52
  Speaker 3: Is, well, I'm gonna tell you this, you could use
• 13:55
  Speaker 3: a word reminiscing in this this part. Because I had
• 13:59
  Speaker 3: a lot of amazing trips to Vegas. Not all of
• 14:03
  Speaker 3: them were great, but I had so much fun in
• 14:08
  Speaker 3: Vegas in my twenties, and not all of them were
• 14:11
  Speaker 3: alcohol fueled. Like, yeah, I had the kids. We would
• 14:13
  Speaker 3: bring the kids. We would go out with the kids,
• 14:16
  Speaker 3: go to the pool, go to the eminem and do
• 14:18
  Speaker 3: all the Coca cola, all that stuff. And so there
• 14:21
  Speaker 3: are some really great moments in Vegas that I had.
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  Speaker 3: But you were talking about.
• 14:26
  Speaker 1: I'm talking about, Oh, you're talking about the LA thing.
• 14:29
  Speaker 1: I'm talking about the La thing that you talked about.
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  Speaker 1: Just something that I think you experienced with that person
• 14:38
  Speaker 1: that even if you say you're over it now, like
• 14:40
  Speaker 1: it left a mark where you could tell me that
• 14:44
  Speaker 1: story and just want you could tell it a hundred
• 14:46
  Speaker 1: times and when you tell it, I can see in
• 14:49
  Speaker 1: your eyes that you're reliving that moment.
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  Speaker 3: And that's healthy.
• 14:53
  Speaker 2: No, I mean, I don't think it's healthy or unhealthy.
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  Speaker 1: I think That's just what happens with experiences that shape
• 14:59
  Speaker 1: you and become core memories. It is what it is,
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: you know, I, just as you were talking about it,
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  Speaker 1: had like this overwhelming emotional response that you had that
• 15:13
  Speaker 1: experience that you saw with your own eyes, and then
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: later down the line, I participated in something that you
• 15:21
  Speaker 1: then saw with your own eyes, and I just had
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: this moment of feeling emotional, deep regret even though we've
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: come so far that like, I love you so much
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: and I can't believe how far and we've spoken about
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: this on the podcast many times, but how far we
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: have come, and how you have just become such a beautiful.
• 15:43
  Speaker 2: Just like the missing.
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: Piece in my world that just like fits so perfectly.
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: And I'm looking at you naked in the shower as
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: we're talking about the guy you just FaceTime while I'm
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: butt naked filling out the tub and I'm just like wow.
• 15:58
  Speaker 3: And then I get out of the shower my towel on,
• 16:00
  Speaker 3: and then I get in the bath. Well, I put
• 16:02
  Speaker 3: my feet in the bath and we just talk.
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she puts her feet in, I'm naked, like scrubbing
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: my armpits, and she's like, this is what he just said,
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: how do I respond. I'm like, this is the most
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: unlikely affair I have ever seen in my fucking life.
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: And I'm just obsessed with you. I thank you, You're welcome.
• 16:21
  Speaker 3: I'm obsessed with you. And you know what, let's go
• 16:23
  Speaker 3: back to that moment really fast, because you know, when
• 16:28
  Speaker 3: I see you, when I tell those stories, it's not
• 16:33
  Speaker 3: that I'm trying to reopen that wound for me, it's
• 16:38
  Speaker 3: I never gave myself permission to thaw. And like when
• 16:42
  Speaker 3: I go into those stories in great details, and like
• 16:46
  Speaker 3: I open the door, I clock the purse, I go upstairs,
• 16:49
  Speaker 3: the lights are off, like I remember the lamp, I
• 16:51
  Speaker 3: know how the room was, Like there's so many specific
• 16:54
  Speaker 3: It's funny because I can't tell you what I did yesterday,
• 16:56
  Speaker 3: but I know exactly what happened, like you know, ten
• 16:59
  Speaker 3: years ago. It's just those moments of where I now,
• 17:03
  Speaker 3: for the first time in my life, am giving myself
• 17:06
  Speaker 3: permission to have those moments. And then when I see you,
• 17:11
  Speaker 3: it's just it's grief. And like I said to you
• 17:13
  Speaker 3: this earlier, that you never stop grieving. And I know
• 17:19
  Speaker 3: there's a lot of people out there that have experienced this,
• 17:22
  Speaker 3: but I will grieve forever because it was not only
• 17:27
  Speaker 3: a seven and a half year marriage, but there's still
• 17:31
  Speaker 3: you know, we still have to deal with each other
• 17:34
  Speaker 3: because we have children together and that's never gonna stop.
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: And even when the kids turn eighteen, I'm still gonna
• 17:39
  Speaker 3: have to deal with this person. And so it's like
• 17:42
  Speaker 3: you have to just give yourself permission. Even just talking
• 17:44
  Speaker 3: about it out, I feel like I feel much lighter.
• 17:48
  Speaker 3: And then to see you, like you're fucking amazing, Lala,
• 17:51
  Speaker 3: like you are such a big part of my story
• 17:54
  Speaker 3: in my life, and like there's no doubt in my
• 17:57
  Speaker 3: mind that this everything is working out and happening exactly
• 18:02
  Speaker 3: how God planned it.
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: I think so too, Yeah, I think so too. So
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: that's those are our Vegas experiences. They they are windows, shopping,
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: going to coffee shops, try attempting to gamble.
• 18:17
  Speaker 3: Taking baths, taking.
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: Baths, nine nighttime routines, crying on the couch and bonding.
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: But there is nothing like Vegas. And I think we
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: should plan a trip where we come back here. I
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: would like us to at some point sit down and
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: talk about the even not with our ex, but just
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: any place that maybe is a trigger for us because
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: we've had a bad experience and go to those places
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: and recreate new memories.
• 18:43
  Speaker 3: I'm definitely not going to the ramata Inn.
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: I would never take you to the honey, Are you
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: kidding me? I guess that could be really interesting. I'm
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: talking about like Miami.
• 18:54
  Speaker 3: All right, okay, fine, that we should go into go
• 18:57
  Speaker 3: to Miami. That would be a hard one for me.
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: I just the thought of touching down in Miami puts
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: a lump in my throat.
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: I think, yeah, but I think we should.
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: I know, I gotta, I gotta come to terms with Miami.
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I think we go.
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: We rent like a fabulous house, we get a yacht,
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: We fucking just blow it out the ass Miami. Baby,
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: we take hot men to fuck all day long. We'll
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: leave the kids at home for this trip.
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: You know, Like I'm trying.
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: To be outside where the pool is, with like the
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: waterfront and have a man just fucking chowing down.
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, my god, there we go. Now that's a new experience.
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: That is a new experiences pass. I'm down.
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: It's Miami. They've seen crazier shit.
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, yeah, exactly.
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: I loved this episode, by the way, you did.
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: I love ending an episode with the thought of me
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: just being eaten out.
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: Anyway, I love you guys. Ember loves you too.
• 20:01
  Speaker 3: I love I love you.
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: Thank you for listening to another episode of an Unlikely Affair.
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: We're going to catch you next Thursday night for a
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: brand new episode. Love you bye,