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S5 E8 Celebrate Love · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast
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  Speaker 1: with her radio. I'm Ben, I'm at and I'm in
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  Speaker 1: studio and there's a reason why I can't wait any longer.
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  Speaker 1: Ashley has teased me for a long time saying she's
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  Speaker 1: got some news. I think I know what it is.
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  Speaker 1: Act like you haven't known. I know. Actually there's a
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  Speaker 1: lot I don't know, so I want to learn along
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  Speaker 1: with the listeners. I'm just gonna pull my seat back,
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  Speaker 1: grab my water, relax, and let Ashley tell us what
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  Speaker 1: it is we've all waited for. Okay, that's so awkward
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  Speaker 1: it yes you Okay, at you? Okay? You want me
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  Speaker 1: to say my big news is that Jared as in
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  Speaker 1: Jared Haven, my my love from Bachelor in Paradise season
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  Speaker 1: two and three, and one of my best friends for
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  Speaker 1: the past three years is now my boy friend. Oh
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  Speaker 1: you make me almost I'm gonna cry. Take a second,
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  Speaker 1: cry a little bit. Be a better podcast that way,
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  Speaker 1: when you know what's funny is like you can think
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  Speaker 1: about that stuff, but as soon as the words start
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  Speaker 1: coming out of your mouth, that's when you get terry.
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  Speaker 1: Does that happen with you too? Definitely? Yeah, I mean
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  Speaker 1: I think most of the time, when when I have
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  Speaker 1: a big announcement or something really heavy on my heart,
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  Speaker 1: when I finally start speaking about is when it becomes true.
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  Speaker 1: And you, I mean, I want you to share with
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  Speaker 1: our listeners your story from the really from whatever perspective
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  Speaker 1: you want. But you've waited to tell people for a
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  Speaker 1: long time. Yeah, the slab a timeline on it. But
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  Speaker 1: we've been dating for a few months, and I just,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I think that we've always had so much
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  Speaker 1: scrutiny of our relation and ship in public, and I
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  Speaker 1: think we just kind of wanted to hide for a
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  Speaker 1: little bit, especially at the beginning, you know, during that
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  Speaker 1: weird transition. It wasn't it wasn't a weird transition, but
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  Speaker 1: to go from really good friends to boyfriend and girlfriend,
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  Speaker 1: I guess things could go weary, but it definitely didn't.
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  Speaker 1: It was the most natural transition ever. And now Jared's
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  Speaker 1: always like, can you believe a couple of months ago
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  Speaker 1: we never kissed. We didn't kiss, I didn't touch you,
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  Speaker 1: And I'm like, I know that was kiss that was
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  Speaker 1: all on you, that was all you. And He's like,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know why I didn't do this for so
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  Speaker 1: long and now you guys kiss, Yes, like with tongue
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  Speaker 1: sometimes that's nice. Um, Actually, let's start at the beginning.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I'm not a huge tongue person. I mean
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  Speaker 1: I watched you on Souls this season. I saw, all right,
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  Speaker 1: this is about Jared. Actually, all right, here's the thing.
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  Speaker 1: You came off Winner Games in a relationship with somebody,
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  Speaker 1: and I think everybody out there is going to be
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  Speaker 1: asking the timeline, and that's not necessarily important. There is
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  Speaker 1: no crossover. There is no weirdness here, no crossover. I
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  Speaker 1: never cheated on Kevin or anything like that. Um, But
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  Speaker 1: did Jerry talk about his feelings for me before everybody
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  Speaker 1: witnessed it on the Winter Games? Yes? So all of
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  Speaker 1: this because it's such a long story, like there's three years.
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  Speaker 1: There's two televised chapters in our story, and then there's
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  Speaker 1: another televised chapter of me individually. So we put together
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  Speaker 1: an episode of my YouTube series, The Story of Us.
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  Speaker 1: It's you know, the past season that aired in March
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  Speaker 1: was all about different couples and the stories of how
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  Speaker 1: they met and fell in love and all like the
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  Speaker 1: big significant points in their relationship. So I thought, what
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  Speaker 1: better way to really explain all the nuances in our story,
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  Speaker 1: because there are so many details and things that happened
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  Speaker 1: that will make it all make way more sense to
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  Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation why we weren't together and why we are
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  Speaker 1: now once they watch this. So for everybody out there
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  Speaker 1: listening right now, outside of all the television, outside of
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  Speaker 1: the shows, you have a boyfriend. His name is Jared.
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  Speaker 1: This is very personal to you, and I've I actually
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  Speaker 1: uh have talked to a few people who have been
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  Speaker 1: around your relationship, um, and I didn't exactly know what
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  Speaker 1: was going on. I knew that you guys were together.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't know how serious it was, and it was weird.
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  Speaker 1: When you asked me last week you said, it's going
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  Speaker 1: really good, huht And I'm like, then, it's like going
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  Speaker 1: better than good about like our kids and our literal
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  Speaker 1: rest of our lives together. And so this is very
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  Speaker 1: real and very personal, and it's something that is really
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  Speaker 1: intimate and has taken a while to get there. Actually,
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  Speaker 1: I want I want to start this whole thing because
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  Speaker 1: we need to talk about it. Who is Jared? You stop,
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna make me cry point He's my soulmate? And
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  Speaker 1: when did you find this out? I think the first
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  Speaker 1: day I've met him. But this is why you have
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  Speaker 1: to watch our story. No, no, no, this is why
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  Speaker 1: you have to talk about it here. No, Actually, how
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  Speaker 1: has Jared's feelings transformed for you? Then she's crying right now,
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  Speaker 1: which is one of the best things ever. Not because
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  Speaker 1: she's crying, but because she's so happy, and that's These
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  Speaker 1: are good tears. And I'm gonna take a picture so
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  Speaker 1: that everybody sees us at some point later. I think
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  Speaker 1: this marks the first time I cried on the Um. Actually,
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  Speaker 1: I love you. It's really complicated. Um. In a way,
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  Speaker 1: he was harboring feelings for a while, but he he
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  Speaker 1: didn't want to come out with them until he was
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  Speaker 1: one or honestly, he kind of said he needed an earthquake,
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  Speaker 1: and like he got its earthquake and then he told me.
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  Speaker 1: And then he's been like super happy and amazing, Like
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  Speaker 1: he was in such a dark place for a while,
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  Speaker 1: and now he's just like a mushball in the best way,
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  Speaker 1: and he's like so full of love. Um. But yeah,
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  Speaker 1: he obviously explains like all these weird, dark feelings and
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  Speaker 1: like gil in shame and like all this was going
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  Speaker 1: on inside him, and he explains it all in the
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  Speaker 1: story of us when you guys can watch, because we
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  Speaker 1: really felt like we needed to sit down together as
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  Speaker 1: a two of us and really go through step by
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  Speaker 1: step of how it evolved because people didn't get to
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  Speaker 1: see a lot of it. And I'm done, he Actuley, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: there's the love cry. Do you love him? Yes? I
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  Speaker 1: love him very much? Does he love you? Yeah? He's
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  Speaker 1: so cute. Every day he goes, oh, I just this
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  Speaker 1: is the moment where a podcast just doesn't do it.
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  Speaker 1: He goes. Every day he goes, do you know how
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  Speaker 1: much I love you? I don't think you know? All right,
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  Speaker 1: there you go, take a second. I feel like I
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  Speaker 1: just maybe needed a good cry. Actually, the silence says
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  Speaker 1: it all on this That's okay, Emma done my back
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  Speaker 1: up today, Ashley, I Connettie. Everybody is in love with
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  Speaker 1: Jared haven I. I'm gonna take a second here. We
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  Speaker 1: have seen um a roller coaster ride for Ashley and
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  Speaker 1: myself on this podcast, and this podcast has been a
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  Speaker 1: great place to be vulnerable, to be transparent, to try
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  Speaker 1: to release all of our weirdness, and we've been criticized
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  Speaker 1: because of it, and you know what the point is,
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  Speaker 1: We want to relate and we want to. The podcast
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  Speaker 1: has been therapeutic because it allows us to talk. And
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  Speaker 1: I'm sitting here with my wonderful co host Ashley, who
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  Speaker 1: I've been on a show with now, who have seen
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  Speaker 1: take a step into a relationship with somebody who's a
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  Speaker 1: great guy, and then I've seen her get swept off
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  Speaker 1: her feet by somebody that she was in love with
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  Speaker 1: for a long time. And she's now been told I
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  Speaker 1: love you, I love you. And if you don't believe
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  Speaker 1: in love everybody, if you don't believe that real love exists,
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  Speaker 1: then comes in this part the studio with me right now.
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  Speaker 1: I'll prove it to you, actually prove it to you.
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  Speaker 1: Taylor Swifts and they at our cults are in this.
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  Speaker 1: Of course. She said that it's she finds it so
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  Speaker 1: important to be to tell stories of high emotion and
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  Speaker 1: be so expressive about every period that she goes through
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  Speaker 1: because because that helps people not feel like they're alone
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  Speaker 1: or they have something to look forward to, and it's
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  Speaker 1: we need those stories that people can relate. Anyway, I
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  Speaker 1: didn't do that very well. I didn't explain what she
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  Speaker 1: said very well, but thinking about it a lot. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: in the hack. Hi guys, Hello, congratulations, you announced this
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  Speaker 1: for you. It did. No one can see this, but
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  Speaker 1: my smile is just hurting my face right now. Happiness
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  Speaker 1: looks good on you. Becca. How how is it last? Like?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, what has been twelve hours since you've
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  Speaker 1: announced that you you've you're engaged? What does it feel like?
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  Speaker 1: It feels great? Um? I texted him this morning and
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  Speaker 1: I was like, it's finally out there. Obviously I can't
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  Speaker 1: say who, but it's just I can't wait for the
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  Speaker 1: season to start. First of all, be because I'm excited
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  Speaker 1: to see what I miss and I'm just excited for
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  Speaker 1: it all to plant and for everyone to see this
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  Speaker 1: time around it worked again so much more, and I'm
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  Speaker 1: just the happiest is that you look um glowing. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: like I remember for me that first couple of hours
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  Speaker 1: when you could actually release it, because it is it's
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  Speaker 1: it's it's a scary, you know, interviews are scary when
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  Speaker 1: you're hiding so much and I have no poker face,
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  Speaker 1: and so we were deciding to know how much do
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  Speaker 1: we release, how much do we do we keep to ourselves?
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  Speaker 1: And I'm like, look, anytime somebody asked me, I just
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  Speaker 1: start smiling, and I can't always keep it together. So
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  Speaker 1: it's good that it's finally out there. That's so funny
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  Speaker 1: that you say that, because my mom always tests whether
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  Speaker 1: my sister and I like a guy or not by saying,
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  Speaker 1: can you say his name with a straight face? So
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  Speaker 1: if I were to like, just you know, roll through
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  Speaker 1: your guys right now, the one that you have the
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  Speaker 1: big smile when you say his name, I would know
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  Speaker 1: who it was. But I'm going to cover my mouth
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  Speaker 1: the entire time. I want to be spoiler free though,
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  Speaker 1: so I'm going to look down. We're gonna run through
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  Speaker 1: Alex Blake, Chase, Chris. I will do that later. I
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  Speaker 1: would love to run through every guy on this list.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm telling you actually, I mean this is what
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  Speaker 1: our our second season of the Bachelorette, and I feel
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  Speaker 1: like I'm getting better and better at judging these guys.
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  Speaker 1: And she's got a good looking group. She does. I
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  Speaker 1: knew this from when I did interview with some of
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  Speaker 1: your guys for Access before the season starting. I was like,
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  Speaker 1: wait a second, I had my work cut out for me. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: they're good, got a tan group. There's like this Jordan guy.
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  Speaker 1: He looks like he's gold Jordan, maybe wearing makeup. Jordan's
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  Speaker 1: is a model. Yeah, he puts a lot of time
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  Speaker 1: into his appearance and it works. Yeah, he hasn't time
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  Speaker 1: into the appearance. We called him Captain America for a while.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that's accurate. I'm assuming you still don't
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  Speaker 1: call him Captain America, do you. I think everybody will
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  Speaker 1: know from the first episode that he is not your man. Um.
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  Speaker 1: With that, let's move in. We have a lot of
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  Speaker 1: listener questions, Ashley. Let's start off by asking a question
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  Speaker 1: from Katie. She said, why did you become the Bachelor
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  Speaker 1: instead of just marrying Ben? Instead? After we had you
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  Speaker 1: on the podcast last week for the Vegas episode, everybody
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  Speaker 1: was like, I'm sure Becca is really happy with who
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  Speaker 1: she picked during our season, but she and Ben are
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  Speaker 1: so cute together, and I have to kind of agree.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you play this one out, Becca. I
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  Speaker 1: will say, so one of the places we went to,
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  Speaker 1: we say that this beautiful resort, and we were walking
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  Speaker 1: around and there was a guy who had just gotten
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  Speaker 1: off a boat with his family, and I think he
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  Speaker 1: was a little bit tipsy, and he was from Dunburn.
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  Speaker 1: He's like, Ben's your guy? Go with Ben? And then
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  Speaker 1: I had like twenty minutes later and he's still yelling
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  Speaker 1: about Ben. I'm like, I like, this guy never met Ben,
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  Speaker 1: but he loved you. That's really sweet. That doesn't answer
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  Speaker 1: the question, Becca, anyways, Let's move on. What is your
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  Speaker 1: favorite place you traveled to? Well? I don't think I
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  Speaker 1: can say all the places we went to this season,
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  Speaker 1: but I will say last year in our season, I
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  Speaker 1: think one of my favorite places was Paris, and we
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  Speaker 1: you know, had only been there for a couple of days.
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  Speaker 1: We really only had one day to walk around and explore,
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  Speaker 1: but it was beautiful and I want to go back
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  Speaker 1: there so bad. Maybe you'll do it with your love me.
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  Speaker 1: That's nice. The city of love, I think so it is.
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  Speaker 1: I think so. I've heard underwhelming things about Paris. Really,
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  Speaker 1: I think it's just because they don't love US Americans. See,
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  Speaker 1: I was kind of nervous to go there because I
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  Speaker 1: knew that. But their food is so incredible there. They
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  Speaker 1: have like the weirdest thing. They're soup everywhere. Got soup
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  Speaker 1: there and it was so good. And they're wine and cheese, creamy,
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  Speaker 1: creamy stuff. That's why loaded up with butter and milk,
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  Speaker 1: creamy stuff. Actually, all right, this is always a question
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  Speaker 1: that I get, and think it's one of the better
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  Speaker 1: ones that people ask me consistently. How did ari season
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  Speaker 1: prepare you for being the Bachelorette? Oh? That's a good one,
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  Speaker 1: I think. I mean, it's interesting because I'm the only
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  Speaker 1: person to have gone through the entire season, was engaged,
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  Speaker 1: had happy couple weekends for a while, and then obviously
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  Speaker 1: that ended. So I really I feel like I was
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  Speaker 1: pretty well rounded into everything that went on, and I
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  Speaker 1: also learned from his time his season, the things that
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  Speaker 1: he did and said, it helped me realize what I
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  Speaker 1: want to do in a relationship and with these guys,
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  Speaker 1: and what I want to say or maybe not say,
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  Speaker 1: what I want to do or maybe not do with them.
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  Speaker 1: And so I think I just went into it with
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  Speaker 1: the mindset of I want to respect every guy here,
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  Speaker 1: everyone's time, and to just treat them how I would
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  Speaker 1: want to be treated. And I just learned that through
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  Speaker 1: you know, interacting with the girls on our season and
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  Speaker 1: with Ari himself. Do you feel like you have more
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  Speaker 1: respect or less respect for Ari now that you've gone
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  Speaker 1: through it. Definitely more And I've said this multiple times.
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  Speaker 1: I can empathize with him a lot more just knowing
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  Speaker 1: you know, it's tough and and if you're doing the
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  Speaker 1: entire journey right, you're definitely falling for people and feelings
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  Speaker 1: are building for more than just one person, And so
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  Speaker 1: being on this side now, I can definitely see where
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  Speaker 1: he was startling at the end. That's what I was
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  Speaker 1: gonna ask, actually, because at the super tease at the
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  Speaker 1: end of your episode, you say that you fell in
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  Speaker 1: love with you people. I haven't even seen the super
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  Speaker 1: tease yet, m hm. I have work to do well. Becky,
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  Speaker 1: at one point in your life you said that you
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  Speaker 1: fell in love with two people. Hey, there's no judgment
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  Speaker 1: in this room. We get it. We get it. All
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  Speaker 1: started with Ben and then everybody started following just people
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  Speaker 1: started to actually talk about it. Yeah, that's the first
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  Speaker 1: time anybody actually, you know, had the cojones to say, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I actually like a lot of people here. I will say.
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  Speaker 1: There's just a lot of love throughout the entire season,
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  Speaker 1: with not only some of the guys, but with the
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  Speaker 1: entire crew and the producers. And one spoiler, I met
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  Speaker 1: Wayne Newton's monkey on one of the dates. Oh my god,
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  Speaker 1: his name is Boo, and I fell head over heels
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  Speaker 1: right away. I'm like, the season is over. It's for this.
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  Speaker 1: It's it's not surprising to me that Wayne Newton sweeps
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  Speaker 1: the Bachelor at off your feet at what how old
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  Speaker 1: is he? Like seventy great head of hair and the
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  Speaker 1: fellow great hair hair, great head of hair. You would
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  Speaker 1: steal your heart someway somehow, It's done that so many people.
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  Speaker 1: His wife stold my heart too. They're both amazing, Becca.
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  Speaker 1: After night one, how many do you feel we're legitimate
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  Speaker 1: contenders for your heart. M hmm. So after night one,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. I think at that point I didn't know,
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  Speaker 1: but I definitely well, I will say I had a
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  Speaker 1: journal throughout the entire season, and after Night one there
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  Speaker 1: were five guys that really stood out to me that
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  Speaker 1: I wrote about in my journal. Okay, I tried to
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  Speaker 1: keep a journal. Um, I made it two days. I
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: look back. It's really hard. Usually last season, on Aura's time,
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: I would journal every single day, and this time I
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: had to do it like once a week usually when
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: we would travel, because that's the only time I had.
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: I remember on Crystal season, I did it once a week,
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: which that's nothing, but then I couldn't keep up the
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: rest of the other ones. Yeah, I gave up. I
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: mean I would love to. I think it's a good
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: habit and something you're gonna look back on, uh and
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: and appreciate hopefully. Um. And it was also really it
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: was really good for me, honestly, looking back post relationship
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: for me and seeing kind of uh that first moments
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: when we met and then progressing through the whole you know,
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: journey together to kind of see maybe where you know,
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: the questions I didn't ask. It actually helped maybe a
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: better dater, I hope. Now, well that's what one of
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: one of the producers told me, who I was really
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: close with. She at one point halfway through, She's like,
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: just go back and read your journal. If you're ever
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: confused about anything, go back and maybe that'll give you
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: some insight. And so I did that, and it was
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: fun to see where my feelings change throughout the entire
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: time with some of these guys, where they progress, where
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: they started to diminish, and and it's fun. Last season
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: I did it to watching, you know. I wrote every
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: day and then every week I would watch it back
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: as the show would air, and so I could kind
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: of laugh back and remember the funny moments. I didn't
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: always make it on TV. But yeah, it definitely gives
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: a lot more insight to the right questions, what you want,
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: what you don't want in a partner. It's helpful, at
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: least for me it was. I can imagine, speaking of
• 20:37
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• 20:40
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• 20:43
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• 20:46
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• 20:49
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  Speaker 1: did you looking back now in the season without hearing
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: this is this is pre um public's opinion of how
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: you handled things, because at this point, just and this
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: is not about me, I feeled miserably. You're gonna kill it.
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: I've already seen the first episode. You're amazing this this
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: whole season I'm excited for. But when I said, in
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: your position, this is not to scare you. You're gonna
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: be great, but the scary little bit um It wasn't
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: until the final weeks of my season the Bachelor I
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: really felt the pressure from the outside world because I
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: did I had told two people I love them, and
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: then all of a sudden the criticism started to come.
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: Is there anything on your season you don't give specific
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: examples that you look back on now and you say
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: I may be made a mistake or I should have
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: handled it differently. I mean, I'm sure I'm going to
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: get backlash on really everything, because people always have things
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: to say about everything. But right now, I don't think
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: I have any major things that I regret or that
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: I would take back. And you know, living in the
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: moment for certain things sending people home, it's like for me.
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: There's not a rural book on how you break up
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: with somebody. And I'm sure that there are things that
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: I missed when sending somebody home, or that I should
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: have said or didn't say. But overall, I think I
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: handled every situation. How you know that was right for me?
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, nothing major it comes out, though.
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: I mean, we're gonna make mistakes and break up. That's
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: the case. And that's the thing. It's like when I
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: would end things with the guys, I always wanted to
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: try and give a reason at least so they had something,
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: you know, that they would know it's not them specifically,
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: it's just like how I'm feeling. And that's where I
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: think I struggled the most. But sometimes I just couldn't
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: give a reason other than I just don't feel it
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: all the way and I just don't see it. And
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: I think that was tough for some of the guys.
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: But I didn't want to waste anyone's time. Like actually
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: said last week, there's a chemistry aspect when you just
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: don't feel it, you just don't feel it exactly. You
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: have to say it or it's just gonna get worse
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: and worse. For them. What kind of season should we
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: expect with you? Is it going to be like a
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: Caitlin Joejoe season where it's pretty obvious the entire time
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: not maybe not so much to the audience, but you
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: yourself knew the entire time who you're going to pick,
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: who you're still wanted, or maybe he's been holding up
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: the pictures. Or is it going to be more like
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: a Rachel season where it's gonna be you're a little
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: bit torn, but between two or a couple of guys
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: like she was with Peter and Brian. Um. I think
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: it's going to be a nice mix of a Caitlin,
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: Jojo and Rachel and you'll see it all unfold. Um.
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: I surprised myself throughout it too, like I'd like Caitlin,
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: Jojoe and Rachel. If I get a mix of all three,
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: I feel like that's pretty good, pretty good. Hopefully then
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: kill it. They're so great. Okay, we have a little
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: bit of a surprise for you. We have a special
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: guest on the phone. Hello, special guests. Hello, everyone, Do
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: you know who that is? Keep talking? Keep talking? Is
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: this Carolin? Yeah? Sorry, that back up a little bit. Hi,
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: how are you how's it going? I miss you? You
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: look so exciting, like you literally looked so happy and
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: everything that I'm seeing what they like to be that happy?
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: Tell me, Caroline, you're you're sitting, Uh, where do you live?
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: Right now? Where you at? I'm I'm actually like about
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: to your show a house right now. I totally forgot
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: we were doing this today and I was like, everybody
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: feels about us. I just don't know what say the
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: week it is? I don't know. Did you could you
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: tell from a distance that Becca was happy? Could you
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: tell just by looking at the pictures and seeing her
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: in interviews that something different was happening with her? She
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: is shooting sunshine out of her ass, like shooting sunshine
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: out of her that's a picture for the Bachelor. Yeah,
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: there we go. No, she always has been like a
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: really happy person, but she's blowing so told you again,
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: I know, I know we missed Caroline before we head
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: out here, because we're a couple. More surprises for Becca?
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: Can you give Becca? We have a time. You're the best,
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: but we have a little bit. What advice or encouragement
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: do you have to say to send backa off here? Um? Well,
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: when I saw him recently, I gave her some advice
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: and I hope that it worked. Um seems like it
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: might have. Um, but I mean, I don't know. I
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: think I don't know what just I don't honestly, what
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: do you think I know? Ben? What am I supposed
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: dater are here? Like? Just good luck? I mean, if
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: she seems like she doesn't need it, stupid happy. So
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: I will say that bit of advice. I'm not going
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: to give it away because I want people to watch
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: it and hear it from your mouth. But it was
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: probably the strangest, most solid bit of advice I've ever received.
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: And good right, it's a good one. We could not
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: expect anything less from Caroline. Caroline, thank you so much
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: for coming the podcast. I wish it could be longer.
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: But I love you guys and taking care of my
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: girl from me over there, all right later Luther. Next
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: surprise guest Hello, Hello, Hello, Hi, Guessing Game Part two?
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: Oh my god? Wait hello hello, this is Kendall. Wait
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: ye bad friend. You're not a bad friend at all.
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: One more guest, Hi, Hi, how are you? I couldn't
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: hear what you're I'm good? Are you okay? Now I
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: can totally tell it to you. Okay, miss you. I
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: miss you too. How are you good? Are you in
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: l A right now? Yeah? I just picked up lunch.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: I'm walking back to the office right now. Seeing we're
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: super happy that you're on the podcast. We've been talking
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: to a few of of Becca's closest friends from the show. Um,
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: looking if you have any advice or encouragement to send
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: Becca off with all of our listeners listening to send
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: her off? Wait, can I ask Becca a question? You
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: can ask her anything you want? Becca? Are you engaged?
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: I am morning? Never. The last time I saw you,
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: I was like you, guys, I might be engaged. Did
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: he pick out a better ring than Ari? Oh? Yeah?
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: Hell yeah? Okay good? Where is it? Does this mean
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: you get to wear it now? No? We Becca? When
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: do you leave l A? I don't know exactly. I
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: don't know. Okay, well, okay, advice I don't know. Becca
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: is killing it. I don't even know what advice she
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: needs to give me some advice? Well see, and uh
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: Becca is sitting here just glowing, um super excited. When
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: when she guessed your name, you should have seen her face.
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: Her smile even went bigger than it already is. Right now.
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: I love you. I'm so thanks girl. I'm so proud
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: you for surviving that experience. We will have to double
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: date very soon. Yes, I would love that double date,
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: triple day, double date, triple day. I'm down for the
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: triple day. But did you just say that Sanna's a boyfriend? Do? Wow?
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: This is an episode of love and thanks for coming
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: the podcast. Of course. It's good talking to you, guys.
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: Love you, I love you. Hey bye. In our round
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: of surprise guests, we have another one. Hello there, this
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: is kindall. Yes you Hi? Oh man, Hi, how are good?
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: How are you? I'm good? Oh my gosh? How is
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: this roland of everything for you? It's crazy but so good,
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: so good. Oh so your friends don't read your news.
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: I know I'm a bad friend finding I mean, I'm happy.
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: I think you seem really happy. So I'm so happy
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: for your love. I am thank you. I can't wait
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: for you to meet the lucky guy I know. And
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: when I say lucky, it's because he gets to meet you.
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: She's still in the bachelorette mode. She's quick, she's smooth,
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: she has a little good treat. Yeah, that's a good one.
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: Becca Nice. I was impressive. Kendall, We're asking all of
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: Becca's friends to come on and if you have any
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: encouragement or just any words for Becca now that all
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: of our listeners are listening, what would that be? Oh gosh,
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: I mean Beca is like a poer of them. I
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: think she has everything handled it. I think, honestly back
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: that you've been through so much that I know that
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: this is just gonna be so wonderful and happy for you.
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: So I us like, I don't know what me about
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: love because I don't know if that seems to be
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: the trend. I was gonna say, everybody's saying that. No,
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't even want to give Beck advice.
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: I just want her to give advice to me. No
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: one needs my advice. She's engaged fun now I know,
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: found love for life. So I mean keeping Thanks, Thanks Candall, Hey, Kendall,
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: thanks so much, Love you Ken Becca. You it is clear, um,
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: this has not been a secret to any of us.
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: You are loved, you are supported. That we had after
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: after finding Roads, we had these all of your friends
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: in studio at like eleven thirty at night, and all
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: they could talk about was how great you are, which
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: which is not common in this world. I feel like
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: to get that much support from people that have been
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: on your season. There was no ounces of jealousy, there
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: was no ounces of m venus. It was just strictly
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: we can't wait for Becca to be happy. And you're
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: smiling ear to ear right now. Um, and you have
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: the best teeth. Yeah. I always wanted braces and had them,
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: had them, and I was so jealous. You haven't had
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: braces enough. Do they look like God has blessed Becca?
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: I don't want them for a month, just so I
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: can switch colors out. Believe a. Becca, Thank you so much.
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: You are cherished. You are America's bachelorette. Thanks for coming
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: almost for this podcast. I have zero to how Becca
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: is going to be one of the best bachelorettes of
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: all time. And that's why after this uh little segment,
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: I want to take a little time to rank our
• 34:08
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• 34:25
  Speaker 1: on my couch all the time, and it was like
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: that four o'clock pizza order come through in the morning
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: and I'd eat it up with the little cheese sticks.
• 34:34
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• 34:38
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  Speaker 1: will be one of my favorites. Let's rank our top five,
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• 37:29
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  Speaker 1: go season. Okay, Ashley, You're number five favorite bachelorette season ever?
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: Is Oh my god? Can I have a minute. I'm
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: gonna go with Ashley. Ashley a bear Number five, Ashley,
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  Speaker 1: That is a big season for you, and you have
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  Speaker 1: I mean that's you've you've lined him up JJ, I
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  Speaker 1: should have been a bachelrette. I mean Caitlin was great.
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  Speaker 1: She should have been a bachelor, But like that seems
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  Speaker 1: our final segment, I want to take one second here
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  Speaker 1: before we get started, and I guarantee you that our
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: emails will be filling up, filling up with questions about
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: Jared Nashley, So make sure you ask us at ben
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: an Ashley at I Heeart meeting. But before you ask,
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  Speaker 1: watch the story of us because that will actually explain
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  Speaker 1: many of your questions. Yes, so make sure you watch
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  Speaker 1: and Jared put a ton of time into It's just
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• 42:40
  Speaker 1: want to take some time to read through some of
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: our reader or listener emails. UM. I want to start
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: with one from Sarah. Sarah says and the title of
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: it is I know one of the final four from
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: Becca season. Interesting. I always like these. Let's read it.
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: I haven't read it yet, so let's see where it goes.
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  Speaker 1: I'm a Bachelor Bachelorette fan from day one. I've watched
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: every single episode of every single season, including every single
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: episode of every single spin off. Wow, meaning I was
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: fourteen when the show started. And yes, of course I
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: take great pride in that I was very excited when
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: Becca was announced to the Bachelor because, as most of
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: America saw, she deserved it over any other girl. I
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: know how Becca feels, like a lot of girls out there,
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: getting blindsided by a guy is never easy, and she
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: handled the situation like a boss. All of America became
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: Becca's fans that Monday night. I agree. So the really
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: reason I'm writing in is because that I'm even more
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: excited about this season because I know one of the
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: final contestants. We grew up in the same town and
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: with this school together, as well as hung out in
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: the same friend group. He dated one of my good
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: friends all throughout high school and most of college. My
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: good friend is actually getting married this fall to an
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: amazing guy, so it all worked out in the end.
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: I'd love to help Way. I'd love to help Way
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: and on your thoughts about this guy. He's revealed as
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: Top four and the only reason I know he made
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: it to hometowns is because I heard through the grape
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: vine and it was all over the local media that
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: Becca and the suitor we're in the school in the
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: town shooting their date. Hopefully talk to you soon, Sarah.
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: That's really sweet. I bet that's exciting for her. This
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: is really nice to hear because this girl obviously admires him.
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: I think. I mean it says I don't know Becka's
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: Final four yet, but what it says is we've got
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: I mean, I remember last season. What wasn't it that
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: we've got an email for the final four that was like,
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: I don't like this guy. Girl, she's not trustworthy, she's
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: in it for the wrong reasons. It was a pretty
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: like scaling, scathing email about one of the people that
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: was about Mark. I think from it. But I like
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: these emails more. Yeah, I like these emails more actually
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: got for Yes. So now that you you know you're
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: the single one on this panel of two, we need
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: to get you married. Yeah. Well, Tess wants to be
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: your wife. No, no, no, she doesn't. She doesn't, She says, Ben,
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: will you marry us? So well, let's let's read on. Ben.
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: Like you, I've always been a strong believer in love,
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: and even when I felt I was losing it, I
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: still believed. I truly feel like amidst all the negativity
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: and difficulty we've faced in this world, love conquers all.
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: But I have doubted that I would ever find someone
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: to fall in love with as much as I felt
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: like I would never find someone who loved me as
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: much I love as like as much as I've always
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: felt like I would never find someone who loved me
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: as I'm as much as I loved them. I've been
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: told my expectations are too high, I'll never be satisfied,
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: and that there is no such thing as perfect, But
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: that is what I'm searching for. That is true, there
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: is no such thing as perfect, But I do believe
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: that there is someone perfect for me, and I am
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: so incredibly happy to say that I have found him. Hey,
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: haven't we all in this room except a few marry us?
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: She wants you to official My fiance. Robert was born
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: and raised in geist Indiana. As a graduate of Indiana University,
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: he moved to Milwaukee to work for Coles Corporation headquarters,
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: where we ultimately met through mutual friends. Two years later,
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: we moved back to India to be closer to our family,
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: and just days before this past Christmas, he got down
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: one knee and asked me to be his wife. Of course,
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: I said yes. We are in the midst of planning.
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: On December wedding here in Indianapolis, and as you have
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: mentioned on the podcast, you're ordained in the states of Indiana.
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: I can't tell you how much it would mean to
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: us if you married us. How I mean, honestly, I
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: don't this is I don't take this lightly. Test Um.
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: I am ordained now in the state of Indiana. Um,
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: why did you get ordained in Indiana? I knew you
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: were in Vegas because my cousin, my amazing cousin, Rebecca,
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: is getting married and she asked me if I would
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: marry her and her husband. This is honestly, it's like,
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: actually that even like you to say that to me
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: makes me feel very special because this is a very
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: serious thing. Love and in the commitment of a marriage
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: is something that I don't take lightly, and so to
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: have anybody wanting me to officiate that for example, I
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: want to pause for one second. One of the most
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: impactful moments I think of this year will be the
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: sermon um that the pat preacher did at Um Harry
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: and Megan's wedding this last week. Yeah, he stood up
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: and he spoke clearly and confidently about what he believed.
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: But he also spoke clearly and confidently about love and
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: how love conquers all and that love exists and love
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: is real. And that is when he was saying that,
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: I said, this is a moment in history that I'm
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: watching that Harry and Megan will remember forever. And so
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: the back to this email, uh test, Please, I would
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: love to talk to more about this. Obviously there's a
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: lot of that we would have to work out, um logistically,
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: so please email me at contact dot Ben dot Higgins
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: at gmail dot com. Um, but just know this, no
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: matter how this plays out, I am super honored that
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: you even thought of me to do this. It is
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: a huge deal. Um, and God bless and geez, let's
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: celebrate love today. I mean this is that the podcast name.
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: Let's name of that celebrate love? Jez all Right, Final
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: email saving myself for marriage? Should I go on the Bachelor?
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: From Becca different Beca. I'm an eighteen almost nineteen year
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: old college student and I have never been in a relationship,
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: so I'm pretty set on wanting to do the Bachelor
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: after I graduate college. Come on, Bigger Dreams. All of
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: my friends tell me that this is a bad decision
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: and to just wait for it to happen. I have
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: a fear that I literally won't ever find someone, don't
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: we all. I grew up watching The Bachelor and Bachelor,
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: and I have always wanted to do it to find
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: my future person. What is your advice on this? Okay,
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: we'll pause here, and here's my first advice. If your
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: friends are telling you it's a bad decision. When you
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: say all of my friends are telling me it's about decision,
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: it's probably a bad decision. It's not about decision. Look
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: how it turned out for me. Agreed. You're you're in
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: a place in life that I bet your friends would
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: have told you about decision. So whatever is going on
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: in her life, her friends like, don do it. She's
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: also eighteen going on nineteen. Again don't don't do it?
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: And I think mid twenties is a great time to
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: sign up. Yeah, so I'm not saying it's always a
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: bad decision. The Bachelor has been great to me, like
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: I've said, But if you're all of your friends are
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: advising you not to, I would hesitate to do it.
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: They love you, I'm assuming. Also, eighteen nineteen years old
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: without having had a relationship is so perfectly normal. I
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: think you may even be in the majority of these days.
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: I know that, you know, back in the day, high
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: school sweethearts was such a thing, but as as generations
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: go on, I feel like people aren't getting into serious
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: relationships until there were late teens. Actually, when when did
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: you first have your first boyfriend? Okay, but like this year?
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: How old? How old were you when you have your
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: first boyfriend? Like this year? Okay, you're doing fine. Back up,
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: I'm saying, okay, second part of the email. I'm saving
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: myself till marriage, and I feel like nowadays it is
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: hard to find someone with the same views on that.
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: I would love to marry someone that has saved himself
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: for me too. When I am dating someone, I always
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: feel insecure knowing that I cannot give them that. Even
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: if they say that they're okay with me not wanting sex,
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: I am used to the guy dropping me. Eventually. If
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: you guys have told me they did not feel good
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: enough for me because I don't drink, do drugs, or
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: have sex, I tell them they're good enough for me,
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: even though in my mind I want someone with similar
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: views as me. I would love if you guys could
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: give me some advice, because you all give amazing advice.
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: That's nice just winging him, and I absolutely love and
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: look up to you. Okay. Uh, I'm a little confused
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: because the email starts with saying that she's never been
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: in a relationship, and then she says when I am
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: dating someone, So maybe she's okay, dating and relationship is
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: different right in today's world, because that's something I'm not
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: catching on because I was going to respond by saying
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: that a lot of the guys that I didd before
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: having a boyfriend would tell me that not so much
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: that they weren't good enough for me, but that they
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: didn't really want the responsibility of being my first, because
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: then they're like, what if we do this? And then
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: I decided that it's we're not in it for the
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: long haul. I think it puts a lot of pressure
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: on guys to think that like they're going to be
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: with you for almost ever. They'd have to write. I mean,
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: the separation from somebody being your first as as a
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: physical partner carries a lot of weight, and it should.
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: And so here's here's the advice. You're asking for someone
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: with similar views, morals, life experiences you And that's okay,
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: that's great, Becca, You're in this to find your person,
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: not what the world tells you should be your person,
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: and not what the world tells you should do to
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: find your person. If that's something you desire, If you
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: want to find a man who will look you in
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: the eyes and say have waited for you. Now, I'm
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: gonna tell you right now, not everybody's perfect. There. There's
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: always gonna be baggage, there's always gonna be things that
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: they bring into the relationship. But if you're looking for
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: somebody to simply look you in the eyes and say
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: I have waited for you, no matter what that means,
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: then find him. Somebody would do it. They're totally out there. Also,
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: I know this is a little bit of a spoiler alert,
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: but in the teaser, the season long teaser, Colton admits
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: that he's a virgin and he's not necessarily waiting for marriage,
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: but he's waiting for like the you know, love and
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: like to feel secure in it. And so if a
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: really hot guy who seems to have it all going on,
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: like Colton is a virgin, there are others out there
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: and you should hold out for him, yeah, or or
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: offer I mean, and I also want to preface it
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: by saying there's a lot of good guys that they
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: offer grace to the guys that have maybe made a
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: decision or who that they're not happy about or thrilled about,
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: or maybe made, you know, a ba jillion decision that
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: they're not happy about with, but they're coming to the
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: relationships saying I'm sorry, I'm laying this out here and
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: I'm asking you to love me for who I am
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: today and that I want to be with you forever. Becca.
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: But I also want to say it is admirable for
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: you to stand on what you believe, and it's admirable
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: for you to stand on what boundaries you've set for
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: yourself in life. Don't sacrifice those boundaries for the attention
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: or admiration of somebody else out there. Stand firm on
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: what you believe is true and right and admirable. Um I,
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: Becca am a huge fan of this email. Uh wait,
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: save yourself. Sex is a very very very powerful thing
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: that should not be taken lightly. But also remember that
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: when you do meet that guy and he does you
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: can look you in the eyes. Grace is also something
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: you can offer. Actually, I just think you're a little
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: sappy today. Are you able to all the perfect things?
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: He said, that's so well, I'm not gonna elaborate every week.
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm not gonna elaborate on that because why
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: mess with perfection. Oh that's where we just let you
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: have your soapbox with Jared. It's kind of like a
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: perfect relationship. You're just gonna keep watching that from a distance.
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: I can't wait till, like every single year, one of
• 54:17
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  Speaker 1: right now. Do it. It's this is one of my
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  Speaker 1: favorite times of the year. I do enjoy the heat.
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  Speaker 1: I feel alive. There's one thing that ruins it's it's
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  Speaker 1: I'm well. The one thing that can tinue to happen
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  Speaker 1: so good. But but every season of it, we're just
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  Speaker 1: you gotta live life with your heart low and your
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  Speaker 1: head high. And this is one way that my heart
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  Speaker 1: stays low. Allergies I have allergies to every single thing
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  Speaker 1: that exists in this world. You don't look like you. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: can't sleep in the night. I'm coughing, I'm sneezing, I'm wheezing.
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  Speaker 1: This is disgusting, and I'm gonna share it. That's what
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  Speaker 1: I do as a child. I my allergies is so bad.
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  Speaker 1: I had ragweed and grass allergies. I have shellfish allergies too,
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  Speaker 1: But that's just beside the point that happens all year round.
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  Speaker 1: I would blow my nose and then I don't know
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  Speaker 1: if you know anybody that that does this as well.
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  Speaker 1: You blow, know, you blow your nose in a cleanex
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  Speaker 1: and then you'd wipe, wipe my eyes because they would
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  Speaker 1: be like, you know, crusty, and I couldn't figure out
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  Speaker 1: eyes as a child. Learn my lesson from the very beginning.
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  Speaker 1: But here's what I do today. Kind of allergic to
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  Speaker 1: your on snot or was there like I think it's
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  Speaker 1: infection there I don't know what. It's just disgusting. Whatever
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  Speaker 1: is happening, it's not supposed to happen that way. So
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  Speaker 1: here's my segment that I want to take up with
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  Speaker 1: allow somebody who really enjoys the warm weather to also
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  Speaker 1: best season of the year. I don't want to count
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  Speaker 1: on Clarton. I don't want to sneeze and wee through
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  Speaker 1: my night sleep. What I really want to do is
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  Speaker 1: be able to walk outside, take a deep breath, and say,
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  Speaker 1: whoa God, Welcome to another day. But instead I'm sneeze
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  Speaker 1: I really do love this season of life. The weather
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  Speaker 1: is getting nicer out, the lake is happening. Why not?
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  Speaker 1: A lake Indiana is calling my name very soon? You
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  Speaker 1: know what else is called my name? Very soon? Actually,
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna take me whitewater raft I'm taking you white
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  Speaker 1: I'm on my way here in two hours to Indianapolis, Indiana,
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  Speaker 1: sure if you're at the Indianapolis five hundred, come out
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  Speaker 1: love to see Uh. It's kind of fun. One of
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  Speaker 1: and wave in the parade. That's so fun. So I'm
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: going back home to Winda like Indiana and Indianapolis five hundred.
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  Speaker 1: I'll be there. Uh later at night, Ashley, you're a
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  Speaker 1: little hype right now. I am a little high. Allergies
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  Speaker 1: makes you sleepy. I don't know what it is anymore. Hey,
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