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Can anyone with your keys access your house as and when they want? · Anele and the Club on 947

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  Speaker 1: Wake up with a plang, Hi, wake up and the club.
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  Speaker 2: On nine four seven.
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  Speaker 1: I said this right before the seven o'clock news. Typically
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  Speaker 1: you weren't in here someone to say it again. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: most of your problems in life stem from the fact
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  Speaker 1: that you don't tell people what time it is.
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  Speaker 3: The first time they tried, Oh oh, I carry two watches.
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  Speaker 2: I stay ready.
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  Speaker 4: Hey guys, I gave my sister my speake y a
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  Speaker 4: while ago, and she and that whole time that she's
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  Speaker 4: had it, has come over to my place twice without
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  Speaker 4: my knowledge. The second time she was here, I actually
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  Speaker 4: came home early and I found her just chilling on
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  Speaker 4: my couch, like just watching TV. I'm like, what's going
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  Speaker 4: what's going on? So I eventually changed my locks. Now
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  Speaker 4: she's angry. She made a whole thing about it, and
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  Speaker 4: she even told my mom, and my mom says that
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  Speaker 4: I embarrassed her, and everyone is busy acting like I'm
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  Speaker 4: the one who is the problem here.
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  Speaker 5: So here's the thing though, all right, Rhannie, you should
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  Speaker 5: have told your sister you changed the locks. No, because
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  Speaker 5: now she randomly pitched up on a day and then
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  Speaker 5: she couldn't get in. And I can understand her embarrassment and.
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  Speaker 1: Wait to hang on the person who has been going
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  Speaker 1: to someone else's house un announced without telling anyone. That's
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  Speaker 1: the person who must tell that we change the locks.
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  Speaker 2: This is tricky because it's your sister.
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  Speaker 3: And then it's your sister allowed to just turn up
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  Speaker 3: at your house any time of the day, any day
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  Speaker 3: of the week.
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  Speaker 5: Well, luckily I've made sure I love very far from her,
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  Speaker 5: so it's very inconvenient for it to do that.
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  Speaker 2: But if you give someone the keys to your house, eh.
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  Speaker 1: For emergencies, For emergencies, I'm out of town, can't get
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  Speaker 1: can't get in my house. Something is needed. You guys
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  Speaker 1: can't get hold of me, right and you guys want
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  Speaker 1: to check you from fine emergency chilling watching TV on
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  Speaker 1: a random Wednesday without telling me.
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  Speaker 5: I still think because I have no one has keys
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  Speaker 5: to my house. Why except because that's the point. If
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  Speaker 5: you give someone keys to your house, then.
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  Speaker 1: You're saying that they may come to your house whenever
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  Speaker 1: they want.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just saying that there's a chance they could.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know that.
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  Speaker 6: No one's got keys to our house except for when
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  Speaker 6: we go away. Then we leave for an emergency. But
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  Speaker 6: we do at the same time, say, you know, if
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  Speaker 6: you don't have water, you don't have electricity or whatever,
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  Speaker 6: we're away, you welcome to to use our shower or
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  Speaker 6: whatever and ever. Right, But but I just think that
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  Speaker 6: if somebody gives you the keys to their home, you're
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  Speaker 6: not going to chill. You go just use your own
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  Speaker 6: count in your own house to chill. Don't come to
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  Speaker 6: my house just because what or if you want to
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  Speaker 6: just ask.
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  Speaker 1: Imagine you guys are away right in Portugal for a
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  Speaker 1: month and your keys and then friends are mind are like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: let's have lunch. I'm like, no, let's go over it
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  Speaker 1: at Cindy's house.
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  Speaker 6: Absolutely not why because it's my house exactly.
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  Speaker 2: You would never know she's in Portugal. But I would.
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  Speaker 5: By the way, if Sydney gave you keys to our house,
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  Speaker 5: we would totally have a party there.
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  Speaker 2: Stunning God, I would know.
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  Speaker 6: I have such a I've got cameras and an alarmsist
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  Speaker 6: would monitor everything. Our kids say, worst house to sneak
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  Speaker 6: out of.
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  Speaker 2: Ever.
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  Speaker 1: But let's say we are there and then you call
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  Speaker 1: me like, hey, what are you doing in my house
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  Speaker 1: with none of your friends? Oh? No, we just came
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  Speaker 1: to chill. You gave me the keys.
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  Speaker 6: I'd be like, okay, and then I'd hang up and never.
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  Speaker 1: Give your keys again. Oh, talk to me again.
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  Speaker 6: I just think ask permission. Guys in life. Just ask
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  Speaker 6: if it's okay. Nine times out of ten the person
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  Speaker 6: will say it's totally fine. It's just about respect, about
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  Speaker 6: for other people's space and their homes.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. No, look, I like I say, Rhanni.
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  Speaker 5: The first problem here is really that you didn't tell
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  Speaker 5: people you were changing the locks, and.
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  Speaker 2: You should That's the fifth problem.
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  Speaker 5: No, I think you should have said I'm changing the
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  Speaker 5: locks because I'm not happy with the situation.
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  Speaker 3: Sorry, so, Frankie, you're jumping all of these hoops. I
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  Speaker 3: must go to the trouble. I shouldn't even have to
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  Speaker 3: go through the trouble of changing my locks for you
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  Speaker 3: to respect my boundary.
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  Speaker 1: In fact, what it needs to send his sister the
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  Speaker 1: bull to change those locks because it's all on her.
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  Speaker 2: No.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, I can see that she just popped in
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  Speaker 5: to watch a little bit of TV because he's got
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  Speaker 5: premium subscription.
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  Speaker 1: All I'm saying is the first time she came to
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  Speaker 1: your house and announced when you were not the you
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  Speaker 1: have told her that you better cut this thing out.
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  Speaker 2: When yeah, well, look I do agree.
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  Speaker 5: If you're not happy with that situation, you should say
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  Speaker 5: I put that boundary there. But if you're going to
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  Speaker 5: give people keys to your house.
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  Speaker 2: Then okay.
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  Speaker 6: So then he let's say, Frankie, he gives so his sister's.
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  Speaker 1: Got the key.
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  Speaker 6: Now he comes out the shower, he thinks he's home alone, Tara,
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  Speaker 6: she's on the couch.
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  Speaker 2: Is that okay? He has to think about it well.
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  Speaker 1: Or maybe he's there and he's having a nice time
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  Speaker 1: with four ladies. She is four, yes, four, Because guys,
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  Speaker 1: people allowed to do what they want in their homes.
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  Speaker 1: It's not illegal to be there with four lovely no.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, no no no.
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  Speaker 5: If you're sneaking into my house, what you find is
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  Speaker 5: what you find, eh like.
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  Speaker 1: But Yanny doesn't want her to find anything because it's
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  Speaker 1: his privacy. He doesn't want people to know that he
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  Speaker 1: does certain things. That's why people have their own homes.
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  Speaker 1: We move out of our parents' homes because we want
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  Speaker 1: to do our own things.
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  Speaker 5: Guys, Yai is not alone in this. I'm telling you now.
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  Speaker 5: Lots of people have given family. I think family more
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  Speaker 5: than friends. Maybe the family keys and the family pitch.
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  Speaker 1: Up no Vin is the only person in the world with.
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  Speaker 2: This happens to my neighbors?
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  Speaker 3: Will find the body, Darling, No one has the key?
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  Speaker 1: Oh one one eight thirty eight nine four seven. Is
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  Speaker 1: we any wrong? The family is ganging up on him
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  Speaker 1: because he changed the lock to his house because his
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  Speaker 1: sister had keys to his and he was just tired
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  Speaker 1: over just rocking up. Now the mom's up said, you
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  Speaker 1: embarrass your sister. Huh not, miss I don't know how
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  Speaker 1: to call you and tell you and tell you that
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to your house. She's the one that's embarrassed.
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  Speaker 4: She Hey, guys, I gave my sister my speake y
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  Speaker 4: a while ago, and she, in that whole time that
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  Speaker 4: she's had it, has come over to my place twice
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  Speaker 4: without my knowledge. The second time she was here, I
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  Speaker 4: actually came home early and I found her just chilling
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  Speaker 4: on my couch, like just watching TV. I'm like, what's
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  Speaker 4: going what's going on? So I eventually changed my locks.
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  Speaker 4: Now she's angry. She made a whole thing about it,
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  Speaker 4: and she even told my mom, and my mom says
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  Speaker 4: that I embarrassed her, and everyone is busy acting like
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  Speaker 4: I'm the one who is the problem. You.
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  Speaker 1: Weally should have told the sister from the start the
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  Speaker 1: keys off for emergencies. My brother has my keys and.
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  Speaker 3: He has access to my complex, but I've never experienced
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  Speaker 3: him coming over unannounced sling kings.
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  Speaker 1: Oh what the sister was over stepping boundaries? And what
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  Speaker 1: does the mom mean that Yanni embarrassed her sister? Can't
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  Speaker 1: do what she was when she came to the house.
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  Speaker 1: Oh no, I actually don't think it's a problem.
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  Speaker 4: But also I have the keys to my brother's house
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  Speaker 4: and I just popping unannounced.
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  Speaker 6: I'm actually popping in later.
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  Speaker 3: Guys, you can't treat your siblings house like a milky
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  Speaker 3: where you just kind of guy as you please.
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  Speaker 2: And what is it because you're siblings?
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  Speaker 1: No, because Vianna isn't say he's got a girlfriend or
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  Speaker 1: a wife or whatever. But also you're disrespecting that person
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  Speaker 1: as well, because why are you just walking up to
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  Speaker 1: my man's house unannounced?
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  Speaker 5: But maybe you guys are really close and your friends,
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  Speaker 5: so it's not as I get what you're trying to say.
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  Speaker 2: But I'm saying, maybe we all get along really like her,
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  Speaker 2: and then.
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  Speaker 1: Even if we do get along, these boundaries. I must
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  Speaker 1: let you know if you know what, even as you
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  Speaker 1: are opening the door with my key, give me a ring,
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  Speaker 1: be like hey, and then I'm at your apartment. I'll
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  Speaker 1: be a little you know, thrown back like, okay, what
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  Speaker 1: are you doing in my apartment? I'm just here to chill.
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  Speaker 1: Let me know. You can't be a surprise.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, well, if you're not there and I leave everything
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  Speaker 5: the way I found it, oh like a burgler.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean that took nothing, just coming to and
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  Speaker 2: watch some TV or whatever the day of the week.
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  Speaker 1: Where do you watch TV? Where do you play PlayStation?
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  Speaker 2: I had some time off now and I just thought
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  Speaker 2: i'd pop in.
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  Speaker 1: Jilliett's Good morning.
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  Speaker 7: Morning and Eli in the cloud. I hope you guys
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  Speaker 7: a while.
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  Speaker 1: No, we're not wrong, Jili, we're not We're not okay.
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  Speaker 7: So I agree that the sister isn't the wrong, but
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  Speaker 7: I just wondered, why is Leihannie's so passive aggressive in
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  Speaker 7: the way that he deals with the situation, Like, if
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  Speaker 7: your sister's doing funny things, talk to her and say,
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  Speaker 7: your sister, this is not okay. You can't just rock
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  Speaker 7: up the house. Or if he feels like his privacy
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  Speaker 7: is now are not safe, then he can ask for
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  Speaker 7: the keys back. Why is he going to spending all
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  Speaker 7: this money to surprise the system? Now the locks a
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  Speaker 7: suddenly change.
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  Speaker 2: See, Julie, I agree with you.
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  Speaker 5: That's where he's going wrong here, because just set the boundary.
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  Speaker 5: Why are you now you're going out of your way
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  Speaker 5: to embarrass the sister because she's in the pitch up
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  Speaker 5: and everyone's gonna look at her.
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  Speaker 3: No, here's the thing. She clearly likes surprises, so he
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  Speaker 3: gave her one t.
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  Speaker 7: She's always retribution.
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  Speaker 1: Because here's the thing, guys, we are all now focusing
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  Speaker 1: our attention on what he did in retaliation. No one
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  Speaker 1: is look at what she did. Why are we walking
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  Speaker 1: over what she did? You can't go to somebody's house
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  Speaker 1: and announced, purely because you were given the keys for emergency.
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  Speaker 5: She innocently just went to go spend her off day there, Juliet,
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  Speaker 5: Do you have the keys to anyone's house?
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  Speaker 7: I don't. No, that's not true. I have the keys
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  Speaker 7: to my mom's house.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, And do you pop in there unannounced? Sometimes?
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  Speaker 1: I do?
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  Speaker 7: Sometimes, yeah, but only even my mom's away. Oh, if
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  Speaker 7: there's no water or something, your.
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  Speaker 1: Mom's going to change the locks on you. One of
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  Speaker 1: these days, But.
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  Speaker 7: Also it's a turbic man. Sometimes you have no water.
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  Speaker 7: I don't have to tell her that that's the key,
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  Speaker 7: that that's what's happening.
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  Speaker 2: And no one has keys to your house.
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  Speaker 7: She has keys to my house.
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  Speaker 1: And can she just pop over unannounced?
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  Speaker 7: I mean I wouldn't expect it to come and chill
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  Speaker 7: on my couch. Definitely, But if there's no water and
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  Speaker 7: I'm away, she doesn't have to get hold of me
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  Speaker 7: to come and shower.
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  Speaker 2: This is what else are you learning? Are you learning
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  Speaker 2: things about it?
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  Speaker 8: No?
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  Speaker 1: I'm I'm writing down more things that I don't like
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  Speaker 1: about people. But the lista's growing by the day. Good morning, Samuel,
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  Speaker 1: and santin.
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  Speaker 7: Good morning, how's everybody? My thing is around trust? Like
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  Speaker 7: this guy gave his sister the key because of trust,
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  Speaker 7: and she's broken that trust. And it doesn't matter that
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  Speaker 7: she's been passive aggressive. Trust has been broken and you
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  Speaker 7: deserve to be embarrassed.
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  Speaker 9: If that's how you feel.
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  Speaker 1: Exactly anything else on the floor.
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  Speaker 3: H.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly.
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  Speaker 5: No, I'm trying to say, sam if if that boundary
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  Speaker 5: was set from the beginning, so when he gave the keys,
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  Speaker 5: he said, listener, these are for emergencies.
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  Speaker 2: Only you don't come to my house.
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  Speaker 7: That's what was say, Frankie. Nobody gives you the key
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  Speaker 7: pick so that you can come and sit on the couch.
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  Speaker 4: They give it to you in case of emergency.
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  Speaker 7: That's why you give someone else your key.
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  Speaker 1: Otherwise would just move in together. And guess what, he
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  Speaker 1: doesn't live with the sister because he doesn't want to.
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  Speaker 2: Did you give the key? Because you say in case
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  Speaker 2: you want to come around?
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  Speaker 1: What is like a remote roommate. It's like, what is
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  Speaker 1: the backpacker?
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  Speaker 2: Does anyone have keys to your house?
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  Speaker 7: No, not yet, but I will give to my sister.
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  Speaker 7: But my sister phoned me on the way and says, hey,
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  Speaker 7: I just need to stop for.
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  Speaker 9: A second the bathroom.
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  Speaker 2: So on the way it's fine, yeah, yes, but she phones.
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  Speaker 4: Uh.
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  Speaker 1: There's a little a little device that you guys have
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  Speaker 1: in your hands all the time. It's called a setular
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  Speaker 1: device and settler mobile device. And you pick it up
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  Speaker 1: and you call somebody if you're gonna go to their house,
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  Speaker 1: whether they're there or not, and whether you've got keys
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  Speaker 1: or not. In general, you tell people when you come
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  Speaker 1: into the house when they're there, how much more when
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  Speaker 1: they're not there.
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  Speaker 2: Sam, if your.
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  Speaker 5: Sister popped around when you weren't there, I'm chilling on
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  Speaker 5: your couch with.
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  Speaker 1: That body, and she would never.
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  Speaker 2: If she did, Sam, if she did, would it bother you?
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  Speaker 10: Would it bother me?
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  Speaker 3: No?
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  Speaker 1: If I wasn't there, if I bother me, If you
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  Speaker 1: were there she popped in, it bother you because you
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  Speaker 1: don't want people surprising.
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  Speaker 7: You just coming.
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  Speaker 9: Rocking up, for sure.
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  Speaker 1: But if you're not there, well you know what we
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  Speaker 1: don't know.
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  Speaker 7: We don't know, but trust guys, Sam, don't fold.
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  Speaker 1: Dude.
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  Speaker 7: You came.
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  Speaker 1: You came out so strong. You came out so strong too.
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  Speaker 5: That what I'm trying to follow the lines, Sam, I'm
• 13:02
  Speaker 5: trying to illustrate that it's all fine, fine and well
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  Speaker 5: to judge Banni here and his sister.
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  Speaker 2: So it's your sister.
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  Speaker 3: A good sibling should always be a flight or three
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  Speaker 3: taxis away attack.
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  Speaker 4: Hey, guys, I gave my sister my spa key a
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  Speaker 4: while ago, and she, in that whole time that she's
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  Speaker 4: had it, has come over to my place twice without
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  Speaker 4: my knowledge. The second time she was here, I actually
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  Speaker 4: came home early and I found her just.
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  Speaker 1: Chilling on my couch, like just watching TV. I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: what's going what's going on?
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  Speaker 4: So I eventually changed my locks.
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  Speaker 1: Now she's angry.
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  Speaker 4: She made a whole thing about it, and she even
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  Speaker 4: told my mom, and my mom says that I embarrassed
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  Speaker 4: her and everyone. It's busy actink like I'm the one
• 14:01
  Speaker 4: who is the problem here. These things that the sister
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  Speaker 4: can't do at the mom's house or where she lives.
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  Speaker 2: Now, she comes to her brother's house and does a day.
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  Speaker 8: When my sister was pregnant, she came over to visit
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  Speaker 8: unannounced for a weekend and Monday she went to work.
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  Speaker 8: She came back and then by Friday, I asked the
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  Speaker 8: what's happening?
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  Speaker 2: When are you going home? And she was like, oh no,
• 14:26
  Speaker 2: I've moved in here.
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  Speaker 11: Tell you I have got a speaking which I've given
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  Speaker 11: to my next door neighbor so that if anything happens
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  Speaker 11: at my house. She's on retirement, so then she can
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  Speaker 11: get in if the police need to get in, or
• 14:39
  Speaker 11: if the ambulance needs to get in, or the fire department.
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  Speaker 11: But she's definitely not going to come and sit on
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  Speaker 11: my couch and have a cup of coffee.
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  Speaker 2: That won't happen. I know that won't.
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  Speaker 1: Happen because she's normal. Good morning, good Na you in
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  Speaker 1: four ways. Joanne is about to love this school. I
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  Speaker 1: hope he's listening.
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  Speaker 9: I learned to you guys doing morning morning.
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  Speaker 1: So this used to happened with you, Hey, with your
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  Speaker 1: mom and your sister.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, they were in code. They would pop in un
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  Speaker 9: announce whenever they feel like it, and they would just
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  Speaker 9: rock up and I'll be like, but what are you
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  Speaker 9: doing here? So what I ended up doing was I
• 15:16
  Speaker 9: didn't change the logs. I just moved.
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  Speaker 2: You just moved. You didn't tell them, frastic.
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  Speaker 9: I didn't tell if I didn't say anything, I just
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  Speaker 9: moved and tell me? Is right? A good sibling is
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  Speaker 9: a flight or three textes away now and three texts away,
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  Speaker 9: they can't touch me.
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  Speaker 5: Goodn Hang on a second, So did you have a
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  Speaker 5: conversation with them or are you just scared of confrontation?
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  Speaker 9: No? No, I did have the conversation that listen. You
• 15:40
  Speaker 9: can't just pop in and announce, especially because I was
• 15:42
  Speaker 9: dealing with my partner, So they would just pop in
• 15:45
  Speaker 9: and we would be relaxed in our house and then
• 15:48
  Speaker 9: all of a sudden, there's people at the gates, and
• 15:50
  Speaker 9: but why is your mom here. Why didn't you see anything?
• 15:53
  Speaker 9: So I was like, you know what, let's pack up
• 15:54
  Speaker 9: our stuff and let's move.
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: And that's how you protect your peace. Ladies and gentlemen.
• 15:59
  Speaker 2: This one.
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: Fandrastic suddic, But you have to because your mom and
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: your sister are not only disrespecting your partner, but they're
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: disrespecting you. They're telling you that it doesn't matter how
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: hard you work, how much of a sanctuary you can
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: build for yourself. They are always entitled. They are always
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: entitled to it. But it's like, guys, there is no
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: said rule around family. I can see family when I
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: want to see family, do you know what I'm saying?
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: And your mom and your sister didn't get that. And
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: then when they found that new people living in there, Yeah, there.
• 16:36
  Speaker 9: Was new people living in there, and it was a shock,
• 16:38
  Speaker 9: like oh my god, why oh Now you know how
• 16:41
  Speaker 9: many partner feels when you just pop in and announce
• 16:44
  Speaker 9: Now you're embarrassed and they don't live there anymore.
• 16:47
  Speaker 5: Well, I was gonna ask, and now you live in
• 16:49
  Speaker 5: a new place, Katano and have they come to visit
• 16:50
  Speaker 5: you there?
• 16:52
  Speaker 9: They tried to pull that stuck. That's what I'm saying
• 16:55
  Speaker 9: is right the good simply three taxis away. So they've
• 16:58
  Speaker 9: got on a TEXTI and then they got and then
• 17:00
  Speaker 9: they had to call and be like, oh, we were
• 17:02
  Speaker 9: trying to come, we were lodged. They were like, but
• 17:04
  Speaker 9: who did you tell? Why didn't you say anything? And
• 17:07
  Speaker 9: then they had to find their way back because they
• 17:10
  Speaker 9: just decided I'm going to get on a text here
• 17:12
  Speaker 9: and go see this person.
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: Have they ever been to your house?
• 17:16
  Speaker 9: Now, yeah, they have. They made an announcements. Oh huh,
• 17:21
  Speaker 9: they got permission and then they came through and like,
• 17:25
  Speaker 9: this is how it's done people. Why just pop in?
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: This is not a communal house.
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: No, okay, love it.
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: Oh god, I wish you would write a book. Thank
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: you to be the short work in the world. Just
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: move house, move there's the town on tabby you in Boksburg.
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: You say you are the sister that just rocks up unannounced.
• 17:44
  Speaker 10: Winning a little tea next year. You must not thank you.
• 17:51
  Speaker 10: I am now as I'm talking to you. I spent
• 17:57
  Speaker 10: two days at her house and you, when you know
• 18:01
  Speaker 10: it is my sisters. Whenever I feel like popping in,
• 18:05
  Speaker 10: I got there. I moved there three years ago. I
• 18:08
  Speaker 10: still have closed.
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: And does the system my mind, not at all.
• 18:14
  Speaker 10: So sometimes when I get there, she's not there. I
• 18:17
  Speaker 10: clean up to the dishes, do the washing, and then
• 18:19
  Speaker 10: I and then she'll know when I that I was, say,
• 18:22
  Speaker 10: you'll know that I was.
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah, the cleaning happs because you you you're trying to
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: buy favor, because you know what you're doing. Yeah, time
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: to be helpful. It's going to be helpful around you.
• 18:36
  Speaker 6: So that.
• 18:38
  Speaker 10: No, she knows. Sometimes when she when she's dead, I
• 18:42
  Speaker 10: sits at the gates. I know if they are day
• 18:45
  Speaker 10: she can't even hear. She's on the other side of
• 18:47
  Speaker 10: the room I opened for myself. And the next thing
• 18:49
  Speaker 10: when I probably like, oh you're here.
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: Now, cute you do hood it does yours have a man?
• 18:56
  Speaker 10: We both singles.
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: That's why I sing.
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: That's why you are exactly why.
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: No man's gonna stick around for this lack of boundary.
• 19:06
  Speaker 5: Hang on a second, tabby. I gotta ask one thing though.
• 19:08
  Speaker 5: So you're talking about going to your sister's house. Does
• 19:11
  Speaker 5: she come to your house? Is it the same?
• 19:13
  Speaker 9: She does?
• 19:13
  Speaker 10: And when she gets to my house, she last, she
• 19:16
  Speaker 10: goes straight to my bedroom and she yes, And if
• 19:19
  Speaker 10: there was a man in your bedroom, guess what your
• 19:20
  Speaker 10: sister wouldn't be able to go.
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: Well, well, why.
• 19:28
  Speaker 6: You know?
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: Whayabby? Don't listen to an I love this relationship.
• 19:32
  Speaker 4: You do?
• 19:34
  Speaker 10: There you go? When a Frankie, this is a family,
• 19:37
  Speaker 10: don't take it. Think it's the stakes of our cars.
• 19:42
  Speaker 10: Visit a man's house. So whenever, whatever car you want
• 19:45
  Speaker 10: to drive, you just asked the kids.
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: And sharing is caring?
• 19:50
  Speaker 10: Is sharing?
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: When a Frankie, when tabby wait, I tell you get
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: into a relationship. Let's see which like, let's see your
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: relationship is gonna survive this? Just walk into the main
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: bedroom and sleep.
• 20:00
  Speaker 5: Maybe they're all lovely. Maybe it's wonderful having these people around.
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: Now, you've never been taught by your parents that you
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: don't just walk into a person's main bedroom.
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I look at the main bedroom, Holly Ground, what.
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: Are you doing there?
• 20:11
  Speaker 6: Hi?
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: I'm learning about people in the city. I'm learning. Look,
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: it's back to making your morning in La and the Club.
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: I love this show on nine four seven