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Happy Hour #93: They Shoot Single People, Don't They? (SATC S2, Ep4) · Stuff Mom Never Told You

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  Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and welcome to Stephie
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  Speaker 1: never told you a production of iHeart Radio. And welcome
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  Speaker 1: to our sub series, subsub sub sub series of Happy Hour.
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  Speaker 1: And we are back with watching Sex in the City
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  Speaker 1: and giving you some great commentary or not so great
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  Speaker 1: commentary of us watching sex in the City. Yes, um,
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  Speaker 1: and if you are new to this segment, Samantha has
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  Speaker 1: seen all of these episodes, watched them and at a
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  Speaker 1: formative time we'll say and I this is my first
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  Speaker 1: time and it's been very, very fun. We took a
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  Speaker 1: bit of a break, but now we are back and
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  Speaker 1: we have had some guests and we are looking for
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  Speaker 1: more guests, and that guest could be you. So please
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  Speaker 1: stay tuned at the end for more information about how
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  Speaker 1: to how to possibly join us on these very fun
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  Speaker 1: happy hours where we are drinking right now, very lovely
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  Speaker 1: drink that Samantha made. Yes, I mean, can you describe
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  Speaker 1: you want to describe it? I was gonna let you,
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  Speaker 1: but yes, no, I created a new I guess cocktail.
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  Speaker 1: It's not new. I'm sure people have done it, but
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  Speaker 1: it's new to me. Where I took fresh lemon juice,
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  Speaker 1: fresh cherries, fresh basil, uh and then take someone gave
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  Speaker 1: because I have someone here, no judgment please, um and
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  Speaker 1: some vodka and I muddled it all together and then
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  Speaker 1: I poured it in a glass and added some sparkling water.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, so we wanna call it the Cherry on Top. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: I like it, and it's the color is beautiful, It's
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  Speaker 1: very vibrant, it's very refreshing, a light for summer. But
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  Speaker 1: I think it's perfect for her sex in the city
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  Speaker 1: because they drink a lot of cosmopolitics. This the color
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  Speaker 1: wise very reminiscent of a cosm Paul time. But like
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  Speaker 1: I said, the cherry on top, the cherry on Top,
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  Speaker 1: And thank you Samantha for making this and sharing it. Um.
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  Speaker 1: As always, if you do choose to drink during these segments,
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  Speaker 1: please do so responsibly. But yeah, this is a nice
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  Speaker 1: cocktail for whatever. On season two episode four. Okay, so
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  Speaker 1: yes we are on a season two episode four. Let's
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  Speaker 1: do a quick recap us on the episode three. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: Episode three was tricky for me, but in terms of
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  Speaker 1: guessing what it was about. But essentially it was like
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  Speaker 1: all men are who aren't who aren't taken, who are
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  Speaker 1: single after thirty are problematic, but then you look in
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  Speaker 1: the mirror as a woman and you also have your
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  Speaker 1: own issues. Samantha's laughing at my facial expression and pantomiming
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  Speaker 1: I'm looking in the mirror at recording bing is amazing.
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  Speaker 1: I mean you're getting a whole actual airs. Yes, yes,
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  Speaker 1: so that I think. I mean, maybe I'm reading too
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  Speaker 1: deeply into it, but carries still hung up on big
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  Speaker 1: and that's expressing itself via other relationships. We had Mr Pussy,
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  Speaker 1: which I guess we should talk about. These are not
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  Speaker 1: necessarily save for work. Perhaps were like, I like how
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  Speaker 1: we put that at the end. Yeah, Charlotte was with him,
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  Speaker 1: but they had like no real foundation of relationship, but
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  Speaker 1: very good sex. Meanwhile, Samantha got some plastic surgery done.
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  Speaker 1: But then I sort of had a moment of breakdown
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  Speaker 1: at what the doctor was suggesting other things she should
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  Speaker 1: get done. Um. And this was based on a man
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  Speaker 1: during a sexual interaction telling her she was old, an
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  Speaker 1: old woman. Um, and she kind of panicked. I mean
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  Speaker 1: it's sure though she was older. I am an older
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  Speaker 1: woman in our relationship as well, with that relationship with
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  Speaker 1: my partner, but it's still kind of shocking. Well, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and I mean that was the first date. There was
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  Speaker 1: a lot of talk about first dates in that episode
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  Speaker 1: in past episodes, and so that was to come out
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  Speaker 1: on a first date and say that. But I mean,
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  Speaker 1: like Sam does not do first dates as she does
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  Speaker 1: state sex after first dates, sex after first dates. Well,
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  Speaker 1: very good, it is good. That's a good weekend, all right.
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  Speaker 1: So this one I have a feeling you're going to
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  Speaker 1: have a hard time with as well. The titles have
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  Speaker 1: been hard. That decided to make it a little harder
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  Speaker 1: this time around. I think that didn't on purpose. There
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  Speaker 1: was they knew what was going to happen today, um
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  Speaker 1: specifically with us obviously. So you're ready for this title? Yes,
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  Speaker 1: I had to look it up because it's kind of longer.
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  Speaker 1: It is called they shoot single people, don't they? Oh
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  Speaker 1: my gosh, they shoot single people, don't they? There is
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  Speaker 1: a famous actor that you're going to love on here
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  Speaker 1: that it makes an appearance very quick. Oh, it's more excited.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know who could be Okay, I mean it
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  Speaker 1: has to be some It has to be something around
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  Speaker 1: judgment around single people. But who is they in this question?
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  Speaker 1: Who is they in this context? As you think too?
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  Speaker 1: I think too deep. We need Christine. I'm never going
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  Speaker 1: to forget as she nailed it at one time. Oh good,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, judgment around single people, that's all
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  Speaker 1: I got. A right, that's vague. And yeah, and they
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  Speaker 1: go to a globe A right, let's not completely well,
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  Speaker 1: I think that should be every time they go to
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  Speaker 1: work globe. All right, Well, here we go. Let's see
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  Speaker 1: if they go to a club. They're at the club.
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  Speaker 1: One point for you. Friends all found themselves without a
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  Speaker 1: relationship at the exact same time. So that is a
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  Speaker 1: thing your friend group maybe more so. But my friend group,
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  Speaker 1: I've not had them. Whereas everyone is single, I'm typically
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  Speaker 1: always just the single one and everybody else is a relation.
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  Speaker 1: It's rare. I feel like in my particular friend group,
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  Speaker 1: we have had a lot of times where we've all
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  Speaker 1: been single and we very much lean into it. It's nice. Actually, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's fun life without men. Were going dancing with your friends? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: su club I have, but that period of my life
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  Speaker 1: is mostly over, but for a while, yeah, and it
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  Speaker 1: was really fun. That's why I do. When I was
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  Speaker 1: Zoomba or I go hang out with my workout friends
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  Speaker 1: and our cardio jam I did go to one that
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  Speaker 1: was very fun where we were all single and we
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  Speaker 1: had a code and we had like, oh, if I'm
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  Speaker 1: dancing with this guy and I give you like this look.
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  Speaker 1: And I remember talking to a guy and my friend
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  Speaker 1: gave me the look and I was like, I'm sorry,
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  Speaker 1: I gotta go rescue her. And I just went and
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  Speaker 1: did it. And it was nice. So if you saw
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  Speaker 1: someone too close, my move was to literally come in
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  Speaker 1: between the dude or someone coming to you and you
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  Speaker 1: grab the girl's hand, spin them out. That dancing partner.
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  Speaker 1: That good was it was good too. It was good
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  Speaker 1: at it. They were very confused. Yes, I'm sure, I'm sure.
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  Speaker 1: I was dragging my tired yet single and fabulous as
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  Speaker 1: how I'm at dawn. I decided my best bet to
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  Speaker 1: avoid looking like I'd been up all night was to
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  Speaker 1: stay up all morning. O carry stayed up all night.
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  Speaker 1: I try to do this. I can't do it as
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  Speaker 1: much anymore. It's stamp ate. I'm at the photo shooting.
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  Speaker 1: Everyone's freaking out. I'm there twenty minutes. Twenty minutes, I said,
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  Speaker 1: twenty minutes. There's some nights you just shouldn't go out
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  Speaker 1: and party all night before photo shoot is one, but
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  Speaker 1: those that's the nightmare, right, Yeah, I'm not. I'm not
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  Speaker 1: gonna sleep and stay up all night and then you
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  Speaker 1: fall asleep and you miss it. I happened to be
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  Speaker 1: in Canada. I almost missed my flight right when the
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  Speaker 1: pandemic was arting, and I was like, oh, I'll never
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  Speaker 1: fall asleep. And then I get a call from the
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  Speaker 1: hotel people like did she falls? Like no, like throwing things. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: we're gonna there's gonna be time time for makeup. Right.
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  Speaker 1: One time I was in a movie. The makeup person
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  Speaker 1: asked me. She was like, you you should use these
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  Speaker 1: eye drops. I can tell you don't sleep enough. And
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  Speaker 1: I was like, you're right, but they had brutally honest.
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  Speaker 1: Being single and fabulous also frees up one's weekends. Saturday's
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  Speaker 1: usually spent browsing with him in solo are left to
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  Speaker 1: more practical things like power This is a good episode.
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  Speaker 1: We've talked about this episode. Actually you and I you'll
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  Speaker 1: see wife. But I love this random walking that they do.
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  Speaker 1: Moves my mom, my mom's friend. She does power walking
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  Speaker 1: every time I see her, and it just brings a
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  Speaker 1: smile to my face. She has got places to go,
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  Speaker 1: got it, I don't do it. I wonder if the
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  Speaker 1: you know what power walking? Please let us know that dude,
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  Speaker 1: who's that? And off the malic? Just I want to
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  Speaker 1: fake orgasms with. So Miranda just had to run into
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  Speaker 1: she hooked up with, but faked orgasm. She faked or
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  Speaker 1: guest him. Yeah, I've done that. I'm just wanting to
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  Speaker 1: get it over with. Yeah. I stopped for fresh supplies
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  Speaker 1: when oh, no, single and fabulous question mark hanging right
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  Speaker 1: next to Martha Stewart living Carrie Bradshaw dying of embarrassment
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  Speaker 1: and it's not a good picture and she's about to
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  Speaker 1: a cigarette. Tom was an out of work actor friend
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  Speaker 1: Charlotte had come to depend on to do the occasional
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  Speaker 1: male things she needed done around her apartment because he wasn't.
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  Speaker 1: I've had this thought that I could use somebody taller
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  Speaker 1: in my life. No reason to get a relationship. You
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  Speaker 1: can name it whatever you want to name it. One
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  Speaker 1: time I had to like move a big mattress up
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  Speaker 1: the stairs alow and I was like, this is why
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  Speaker 1: people date other people, Yes, but also this is what
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  Speaker 1: you have friends exactly. You can go sailing old lobsters.
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  Speaker 1: The old lobsters is that dirty talk, Beach. I think
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  Speaker 1: they might be. Definitely. I want to grab you, want
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  Speaker 1: to get some of that shrumps butter. Everyone's turned off
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  Speaker 1: the podcast. Now this is awkward. Now did that do
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  Speaker 1: something wrong tonight? Because I mean, you came every other
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  Speaker 1: time she's trying to now have the conversation about sex. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: hey tell me, well I didn't exactly come all those
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  Speaker 1: other times. Is it worse to have the tough later
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  Speaker 1: or be honest up from I think if it's honestly,
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  Speaker 1: like the first time is awkward, so I get it. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: do you have like a physical problem or if it
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  Speaker 1: becomes her yeah, no offense, I love it. I love
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  Speaker 1: this like man, yeah, oh, no one's ever fixed with me.
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  Speaker 1: This is also a sidebuild episode. He calls every woman
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  Speaker 1: in his life. It's like, did you fake it? They're
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  Speaker 1: all like, yes, I'm not leaving. Stay magically in a
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  Speaker 1: relationship with her. Fixed guy, m M any guy that
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  Speaker 1: this happened to me where I was like, I've got
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  Speaker 1: to move this couch and it's like, I'll come help
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  Speaker 1: you in the next thing. I know we're dating. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: that's funny. I think that's definitely something that I've done
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  Speaker 1: to spend more time with people, like if we're already
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  Speaker 1: interested in each other that I'm like, oh yeah, you
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  Speaker 1: wanna help me with this? Can you? Can you put
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  Speaker 1: this together for me? I don't have that voice yell,
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  Speaker 1: but you know, make an excuse is good to hang out.
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  Speaker 1: And there it was her magazine pity from the man
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  Speaker 1: who sells me my Marlborough lights, and I decided I
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  Speaker 1: was staring at her with pity. This happened to me
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  Speaker 1: with a lift driver once. Oh no, I didn't have
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  Speaker 1: the magazine cover, but he was like, you weren't married,
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  Speaker 1: it's too late for you. She had nothing to do
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  Speaker 1: but sit and wait for him. Oh, now knew that
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  Speaker 1: we William wasn't ever going to show up. He was
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  Speaker 1: one of those men. I've never officially been stood up.
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  Speaker 1: Have you never showed up somewhere that I'm waiting on someone?
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  Speaker 1: I've never been stood up. I was broken up with
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  Speaker 1: very publicly once at the dining hall in Georgia Tech.
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  Speaker 1: Oh you let me have it dramatic. It was quite
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  Speaker 1: drag unnecessarily dramatic, but partly because I stood him up
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  Speaker 1: because we were supposed to watch the finale of Loss together.
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  Speaker 1: I forgot. So you've got two points for the single
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  Speaker 1: people that and a point in the half for the
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  Speaker 1: for the club club. There were two clubs. I knew
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  Speaker 1: this one, um, but yeah, So this was about whether
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  Speaker 1: or not singleness was allowed or people miserable should be
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  Speaker 1: fake it to be relationship. I think that's a huge
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  Speaker 1: one because that's one of the conversations I have had
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  Speaker 1: many times because I did not get into relationships until
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  Speaker 1: much later, so almost in my thirties that I really
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  Speaker 1: have relationships, and I'm like, how do you get to
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  Speaker 1: this point? And I don't know if I want to
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  Speaker 1: do this because so many people were miserable but they
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  Speaker 1: didn't want to be alone. Yeah. Yeah, and that's why
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  Speaker 1: I think it depends on the person is. For me,
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  Speaker 1: I would rather be alone, even though I have been
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  Speaker 1: a relationship that I was just in and I was
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  Speaker 1: taking it because I thought I should be in a relationship,
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  Speaker 1: But personally, I would rather be alone. However, I have
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  Speaker 1: other friends where I think they would prefer to take
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  Speaker 1: it right then be at So I know a few
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  Speaker 1: people have asked when they are going through really hard
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  Speaker 1: times and it just doesn't make sense why you would
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  Speaker 1: do it. I was like, you know, why do you?
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  Speaker 1: And the conversation is we've worked too long and I
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  Speaker 1: don't want to waste this what we've already worked on. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I think that's a different mindset because I've heard that too,
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  Speaker 1: and it reminds me of the argument about like renting
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  Speaker 1: versus buying. If you put this much time into a person,
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  Speaker 1: well we can't just bag out now, right. And I
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  Speaker 1: know for religious older couples in my life, they've told me,
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  Speaker 1: like you know, divorce are breaking up is just not
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  Speaker 1: on the table. It's just not there. So they're gonna
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  Speaker 1: be together. And like I said, I think it's just
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  Speaker 1: different mindsets for different people. Um. And if you're on
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  Speaker 1: the same page and you're coming from a healthy standpoint,
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  Speaker 1: that's okay, right, But if you're just you can't be alone,
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  Speaker 1: you might want to excite about why. I thought that
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  Speaker 1: was interesting, But I did like this is one of
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  Speaker 1: those that they were in their thirties and none of
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  Speaker 1: them are really married and some of the stage unmarried.
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  Speaker 1: Like I liked that aspect, like right now I'm older
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: than them, I saying, just Samanth, thus I should be
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  Speaker 1: going to see a doctor, apparently getting a clown uh,
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  Speaker 1: John on my stomach, But like just having knowing seeing
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  Speaker 1: them really made it a different Like you can have
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  Speaker 1: a life outside of just marriage. As what we see
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  Speaker 1: in sitcoms, that's not the case. So that's one of
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  Speaker 1: the things. Of course they talk about, you know, finding relationships.
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  Speaker 1: So that was a little difficult, but it's it's interesting
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  Speaker 1: to see because at this end she's happy being alone.
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  Speaker 1: She's okay, did she almost slide into I have to
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  Speaker 1: find someone to validate myself? Yes, but she walked away
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: from that, poor proudly. Cooper sir. Yeah, I think again,
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: like this came out in early two thousand's and still
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  Speaker 1: is this kind of rare to see. It's becoming more common,
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  Speaker 1: but especially then, like seeing women who weren't in a
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  Speaker 1: relationship at that age and we're still going out and
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  Speaker 1: doing things, and you know, sure they are trying to
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  Speaker 1: fire relationships, but ultimately, I still feel like their friendships
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  Speaker 1: is the that's the thing that stays. Like these men
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  Speaker 1: come and go, but their friendships stays. And so yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I think it's pretty it's good to see. Yeah, so
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: what do you think about this episode? I enjoyed it.
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  Speaker 1: I have to admit I was nervous about the whoever
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: was going to show off. It was a lot of
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: anticipation and it was good. Um. I enjoyed it. And
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: as someone who is you know, single and has had
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: a lot of these thoughts, I've talked about all these
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: thoughts on the show, it did resonate with me. And
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: I've also had the very bad picture taken where I'm like,
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: oh no, I'm a mess. So I related to that
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: as well. That's constant. Now. I don't try to get
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  Speaker 1: pictures taken. Nope, me to heaven forbid, the camera accidentally
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: be facing you when you turn it on. Actually, I
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: took one from my Instagram and I I was like, yeah,
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: this is who I am. Yeah, embrace it. Embrace it U.
• 19:17
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• 19:22
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