Latest / Motivational Podcast / FAIL FORWARD – Turn Every Failure into a Stepping Stone
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- 0:08Speaker 1: I made my decision and stood next to you, and
- 0:11Speaker 1: it was an honor, and I wouldn't change that for
- 0:15Speaker 1: the whole world, not one minute of it.
- 0:33Speaker 2: The difference between average people and achieving people is their
- 0:38Speaker 2: perception of and response to failure. Nothing else has the
- 0:45Speaker 2: same kind of impact on people's ability to accomplish their desire.
- 0:50Speaker 2: How people see failure and deal with it impacts every
- 0:53Speaker 2: aspect of their lives. Certainly, all people like to think
- 0:58Speaker 2: of themselves as above average, but achievers seem to leave
- 1:02Speaker 2: average in the dust. Failure is far more common than success,
- 1:09Speaker 2: Poverty is more prevalent than wealth, and disappointment more normal
- 1:14Speaker 2: than a rival. Because in life, the question is not
- 1:23Speaker 2: if you will have problems, but how you're going to
- 1:26Speaker 2: deal with your problems. Are you going to fail forward
- 1:30Speaker 2: or backward? You have the potential to overcome any problems, mistakes,
- 1:40Speaker 2: or misfortunes. All you have to do is learn to
- 1:44Speaker 2: fail forward. Now the tables are turned by hope, as
- 1:48Speaker 2: spirit isn't crushed. Well, if you don't do anything about it,
- 2:14Speaker 2: then everything just stays the same. Can you honestly say you're.
- 2:18Speaker 3: Okay with that?
- 2:25Speaker 4: Each of us lives dependent and bound by our individual
- 2:30Speaker 4: knowledge and our awareness. All that is what we call reality. However,
- 2:38Speaker 4: both knowledge and awareness are equivocal. One's reality might be
- 2:43Speaker 4: another's illusion. We all live inside our own fantasies.
- 2:49Speaker 2: You are the only person who can really label what
- 2:52Speaker 2: you do a failure. Success is not a destination where
- 3:00Speaker 2: you arrive one day. Instead, it is the journey you take.
- 3:04Speaker 4: They kid you're gonna do it, Yes I am.
- 3:10Speaker 2: I have to, and whether or not you succeed comes
- 3:15Speaker 2: from what you do day to day. Failure works the
- 3:18Speaker 2: same way. It's not someplace you arrive, it's how you
- 3:23Speaker 2: deal with life along the way. Truly, no one can
- 3:30Speaker 2: conclude that he's failed until he breathes his last breath.
- 3:34Speaker 2: Until then, he's still in process and the jury is
- 3:39Speaker 2: still out. I absolutely detest the bullies in town who
- 3:47Speaker 2: pray and pick on the week, for what really bothers
- 3:50Speaker 2: me is people like you who just let it happen
- 3:52Speaker 2: and don't fight back. I really wish I were stronger.
- 4:00Speaker 2: People think failure is the enemy. It's not. Most people
- 4:04Speaker 2: try to avoid failure like a plague, but it takes
- 4:07Speaker 2: adversity to create success. People think failure is final.
- 4:19Speaker 3: It's not.
- 4:21Speaker 2: Even what may appear to be a huge failure. Does
- 4:24Speaker 2: it need to keep you from achieving the terrible truth
- 4:33Speaker 2: is that all roads to achieve it lead through the
- 4:36Speaker 2: land of failure. Are we going to sleep life away,
- 4:42Speaker 2: avoiding failure at all costs, or are we going to
- 4:45Speaker 2: wake up and realize that failure is simply a price
- 4:48Speaker 2: we pay to achieve success? All right, won't lose, I'll
- 5:02Speaker 2: win no matter what.
- 5:18Speaker 3: Wake up to reality. Nothing ever goes as planned in
- 5:28Speaker 3: this accursed world. The longer you live, the more you
- 5:34Speaker 3: will realize that the only things that truly exist in
- 5:38Speaker 3: this reality are merely pain, suffering, and futility. Listen, everywhere
- 5:48Speaker 3: you look in this world, wherever there is light, there
- 5:51Speaker 3: will always be shadows to be found as well. As
- 5:56Speaker 3: long as there is a concept of victors, the vanquished
- 5:59Speaker 3: will all so exist. The selfish intent of wanting to
- 6:06Speaker 3: preserve peace initiates wars, and hatred is born in order
- 6:12Speaker 3: to protect love. There are nexuses causal relationships that cannot
- 6:17Speaker 3: be separated.
- 6:19Speaker 1: It's time you bit the bullet and started caring about
- 6:22Speaker 1: something with all your heart and energy. But you can't
- 6:25Speaker 1: care about it if you're always holding yourself back in
- 6:27Speaker 1: case it doesn't work out. At last, I enter a
- 6:33Speaker 1: fight for which I don't know the outcome.
- 6:36Speaker 3: The tension is mounting in my neck.
- 6:48Speaker 2: Get a new definition of failure. See it as the
- 6:51Speaker 2: price you pay for progress. If you can change the
- 6:54Speaker 2: way you see failure, you gain the strength to keep
- 6:57Speaker 2: running the race. Failure is simply a price we pay
- 7:02Speaker 2: to achieve success. Is that all you got for me?
- 7:19Speaker 1: Damn, I can't stop thinking about it.
- 7:22Speaker 2: I gotta relax, I gotta calm down. I'm going to win.
- 7:26Speaker 2: I will win when you're angry and bunch, full blast,
- 7:32Speaker 2: full blast.
- 7:33Speaker 3: Right.
- 8:08Speaker 4: Now, let's do this. In this final battle, there will
- 8:50Speaker 4: be no boundaries. The only rule is kill or be killed.
- 8:58Speaker 2: What you have to tell your self is I'm not
- 9:01Speaker 2: a failure. I failed at doing something. Every successful person
- 9:06Speaker 2: is someone who failed, yet never looked at himself as
- 9:10Speaker 2: a failure.
- 9:16Speaker 1: I won't just throw people away, get let go. I
- 9:20Speaker 1: never would have gotten this far without those guys' help.
- 9:23Speaker 1: And whenever I was getting my head rearranged, it was
- 9:25Speaker 1: always because I cared about them that I could win.
- 9:29Speaker 2: And that's precisely the reason you've been limited.
- 9:31Speaker 4: Up till now.
- 9:32Speaker 2: You're too soft. You don't need anyone but yourself. Don't
- 9:35Speaker 2: you understand that.
- 9:52Speaker 1: Get on your feet. I'm firing one last shot with
- 9:55Speaker 1: all I've got, and it's gonna end this fight one
- 9:57Speaker 1: way or another. No more stupid surprises their face. You
- 10:02Speaker 1: show me everything you've got right now. If I win
- 10:06Speaker 1: this time, I don't ever want to see you back up.
- 11:17Speaker 2: All great achievers are given multiple reasons to believe they
- 11:21Speaker 2: were failures, but in spite of that, they persevere