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306. Day 12: A New Year Blessing for the Part of You That’s So Tired Of Divorce · Dear Divorce Diary: A Fresh Approach To Healing Grief & Building A Life Of Confidence After Divorce

• 0:49
  SPEAKER_02: Hi, love.
• 0:50
  SPEAKER_02: Welcome to day twelve of the twelve days of divorced Christmas or the twelve days of becoming her.
• 0:57
  SPEAKER_02: As we wrap up these twelve days with you, we just want to leave you with a blessing.
• 1:02
  SPEAKER_02: We just want to leave you with a super nurturing, maternal, grounding witnessing of you and what you just moved through these last 12 days.
• 1:15
  SPEAKER_02: We love you so much.
• 1:16
  SPEAKER_02: Just enjoy this next beat.
• 1:23
  SPEAKER_02: Hi, love.
• 1:24
  SPEAKER_02: Welcome to Dear Divorce Diary, the podcast helping divorcees go beyond talk therapy to process your grief, find the healing you crave, and build back your confidence.
• 1:34
  SPEAKER_02: I'm your host, Don Wiggins, a therapist, coach, integrative healer, and divorcee.
• 1:40
  SPEAKER_02: Join me for a fresh approach to healing grief and building your confidence after divorce.
• 1:53
  SPEAKER_02: Hi, love.
• 1:55
  SPEAKER_02: Sit with us for a minute.
• 1:58
  SPEAKER_02: Let us just hold this moment with you.
• 2:01
  SPEAKER_02: You've been so strong, even when you didn't want to be, even when you felt like you couldn't.
• 2:09
  SPEAKER_02: And we just want to tell you, you did beautifully.
• 2:15
  SPEAKER_02: You don't have to pretend right now.
• 2:19
  SPEAKER_02: You don't have to be brave.
• 2:22
  SPEAKER_02: Just breathe.
• 2:25
  SPEAKER_00: We've got you.
• 2:28
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, sweet friend, you have carried so much in that tender heart of yours.
• 2:35
  SPEAKER_00: Come, rest for a second.
• 2:37
  SPEAKER_00: Let the world be quiet.
• 2:39
  SPEAKER_00: Nothing you have felt was wrong.
• 2:41
  SPEAKER_00: Nothing you needed was too much.
• 2:44
  SPEAKER_00: You were allowed to be tired.
• 2:46
  SPEAKER_00: You are allowed to want comfort.
• 2:48
  SPEAKER_00: You are allowed to need people.
• 2:52
  SPEAKER_00: I'm right here.
• 2:55
  SPEAKER_00: I am going nowhere.
• 3:00
  SPEAKER_01: Hi, gorgeous.
• 3:02
  SPEAKER_01: I see the ache you try to hide.
• 3:05
  SPEAKER_01: Look at me for a second.
• 3:07
  SPEAKER_01: You don't have to carry that alone anymore.
• 3:10
  SPEAKER_01: You're not difficult.
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  SPEAKER_01: You're not dramatic.
• 3:15
  SPEAKER_01: You are not too much.
• 3:18
  SPEAKER_01: You've just been hurting.
• 3:20
  SPEAKER_01: And anyone who loves you would understand that.
• 3:25
  SPEAKER_01: Let yourself lean a little.
• 3:27
  SPEAKER_01: Let yourself knead a little.
• 3:30
  SPEAKER_01: We've got you now.
• 3:33
  SPEAKER_01: Okay?
• 3:34
  SPEAKER_02: One more breath with us, love.
• 3:42
  SPEAKER_02: Here is our prayer for you as we step into a new year.
• 3:48
  SPEAKER_02: May you feel chosen.
• 3:50
  SPEAKER_02: May you feel wanted.
• 3:53
  SPEAKER_02: May you feel safe in the deepest parts of yourself.
• 4:00
  SPEAKER_02: And may you walk forward knowing you never have to do any of this alone again.
• 4:08
  SPEAKER_02: We love you.
• 4:10
  SPEAKER_02: Rest now.
• 4:12
  SPEAKER_02: You are held.
• 4:30
  SPEAKER_02: You can find more at mycoachdawn.