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We Wrote Megan's Dating App Bios · Podcast - Big 98.7

• 0:02
  Speaker 1: So are you on the dating apps currently right now, Megan?
• 0:08
  Speaker 2: No, absolutely not.
• 0:10
  Speaker 1: If Gabe or myself write you a dating bio that
• 0:16
  Speaker 1: you deem worthy.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 0:19
  Speaker 1: Would you consider reactivating the dating apps?
• 0:22
  Speaker 4: Because I think Gabe and I have some ideas for you.
• 0:26
  Speaker 1: Oh, boy.
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  Speaker 3: I'll consider it if something's worthy.
• 0:28
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 0:29
  Speaker 5: I think this is time for one of these.
• 0:31
  Speaker 2: Oh, my goodness.
• 0:33
  Speaker 1: Yes.
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  Speaker 6: Now, I have compiled a dating bio that I think
• 0:37
  Speaker 6: Megan would actually like.
• 0:38
  Speaker 5: I am playing the woman, not the game.
• 0:40
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 0:41
  Speaker 5: You know what I mean? You know, it's like in poker.
• 0:43
  Speaker 5: You play the man, not the cards.
• 0:44
  Speaker 3: Sure.
• 0:45
  Speaker 5: I am playing the woman, not the profile. Perfect.
• 0:48
  Speaker 4: Let's hear what you got. And hopefully mine is better.
• 0:50
  Speaker 4: Because I like to win.
• 0:52
  Speaker 5: Go ahead, Gabe.
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  Speaker 6: Because normally I would put together something for you, Megan,
• 0:55
  Speaker 6: that's really just hilarious.
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  Speaker 5: And funny.
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  Speaker 2: You're not going funny today?
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  Speaker 5: And good for the radio. But I'm actually going to
• 1:01
  Speaker 5: do one that you might use.
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  Speaker 2: A solid.
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  Speaker 5: Okay.
• 1:03
  Speaker 2: Let's hear it.
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  Speaker 5: All right.
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  Speaker 6: Here would be my dating profile for our Megan, whom
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  Speaker 6: we love to death. I'm looking for someone who can
• 1:09
  Speaker 6: hold a conversation longer than, hey. I may talk for
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  Speaker 6: a living, but I would appreciate full sentences while texting
• 1:15
  Speaker 6: or even better, talking in person. I might be the
• 1:19
  Speaker 6: only person you swipe right who would enjoy spending a
• 1:22
  Speaker 6: day getting coffee and then a thrift store date.
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  Speaker 5: See, I'm financially responsible.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, I love that.
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  Speaker 6: I know. I have a full-time job, my own money,
• 1:31
  Speaker 6: and zero patience for you up texts.
• 1:34
  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 6: I'm going to reply with, nope, I'm asleep. Try again
• 1:39
  Speaker 6: when you're offering dinner and a personality.
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  Speaker 5: All right.
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  Speaker 4: Wow.
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  Speaker 6: Swipe right if you're emotionally available, financially stable, and can
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  Speaker 6: put your phone down at dinner. Swipe left if you
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  Speaker 6: just got out of something and are simply looking for
• 1:51
  Speaker 6: a 1 a.m.
• 1:53
  Speaker 5: Buddy situation.
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  Speaker 3: Wow.
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  Speaker 6: P.S., I'm a proud dog mom, and I know it's
• 1:58
  Speaker 6: annoying when girls say, be prepared to rank below my dogs. So,
• 2:02
  Speaker 6: I'm just looking for someone who can share first place
• 2:04
  Speaker 6: with my fur babies.
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  Speaker 4: Wow, okay.
• 2:07
  Speaker 2: That was actually pretty solid.
• 2:08
  Speaker 5: That was actually really impressive. That's actually kind of cute.
• 2:10
  Speaker 2: That is actually pretty much me right there.
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  Speaker 4: I'm actually very surprised. Why do you know Megan so well?
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  Speaker 4: I don't like this. Okay.
• 2:19
  Speaker 2: What did you?
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  Speaker 5: Okay.
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  Speaker 4: I'm really.
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  Speaker 2: Angie, I can't wait to hear yours, though.
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  Speaker 4: You should not be thrilled.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 4: No, here is.
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  Speaker 1: I went a lighter route, I think. I kept it
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  Speaker 1: a little shorter. Here's my dating bio for Megan.
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  Speaker 2: I'm Megan.
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  Speaker 4: I'm a baddie.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm dating as exploration for the possibility of marriage.
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  Speaker 1: As long as your frontal lobe is fully formed and
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  Speaker 1: you want to walk down the aisle at some point,
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  Speaker 1: I'm open to chatting and.
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  Speaker 4: Then some wink, wink, nudge, nudge. You know what I'm
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  Speaker 4: talking about.
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  Speaker 5: I don't. What are you talking about?
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  Speaker 6: Holding hands.
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  Speaker 4: Going out to dinner also.
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  Speaker 1: If your mind went somewhere else, loves it, and you're
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  Speaker 1: my kind of guy.
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  Speaker 4: Also, must love dogs.
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  Speaker 5: That's actually great.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, I kind of love both of them, I'm not
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  Speaker 3: going to lie. So one is on one dating app
• 3:12
  Speaker 3: and the other is on the other dating app.
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  Speaker 5: Oh, there we go.
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  Speaker 3: To see which one, like, what kind of possibilities are
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  Speaker 3: out there, right?
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  Speaker 1: Also, based on those, if you heard these bios and thought,
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  Speaker 1: I want to date Megan, give us a call, 701.
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  Speaker 5: 701-280-1987.
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  Speaker 6: Which, also, let us know which dating app you think
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  Speaker 6: Megan should go, not dating app, dating profile she should
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  Speaker 6: go for which app.
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  Speaker 5: Will one of these work on one app, one of
• 3:39
  Speaker 5: them on the other?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, is one more Tinder and one is more Hinge?
• 3:43
  Speaker 5: Yeah, or is one more FarmersOnly.com, right?
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  Speaker 6: 701-280-1987.
• 3:46
  Speaker 5: Drop it, drop it. Big 98.7. Celebrating life's little victories. Victory.
• 3:56
  Speaker 5: Every morning we practice gratitude on Big 98.7.
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  Speaker 6: If I could, I would keep this feeling in a
• 4:01
  Speaker 6: plastic jar.
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  Speaker 5: Bust it out whenever someone's acting hard.
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  Speaker 3: I just really needed a win, you know.
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  Speaker 5: Share your little victories with us at 701-280-1987.
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  Speaker 6: And Megan, do you have a little victory to get
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  Speaker 6: our day started today? Get us started off on the
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  Speaker 6: right foot.
• 4:16
  Speaker 2: I'm going to do my best.
• 4:17
  Speaker 3: So as we know, I moved into a house in
• 4:20
  Speaker 3: Horace not too long ago.
• 4:21
  Speaker 2: So you're trying to.
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  Speaker 3: Find little pieces still for the house. And I went
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  Speaker 3: and took it to a Facebook marketplace this weekend.
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  Speaker 5: Oh, OK.
• 4:29
  Speaker 3: And I was looking for a grill and I found
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  Speaker 3: the ultimate grill, picked it up yesterday. And it's like
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  Speaker 3: this seven burner grill.
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  Speaker 2: It's got the little side grill.
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  Speaker 3: As well, where you can like put the pot on,
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  Speaker 3: you can cook there, but also it's got a rotisserie
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  Speaker 3: that works like this whole thing. And I'm not, I
• 4:50
  Speaker 3: can't even like, I'm not going to say how much
• 4:51
  Speaker 3: I spent on this cause it wasn't much.
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  Speaker 2: I felt like it was the biggest deal ever. Um,
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  Speaker 2: but I was like so excited.
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  Speaker 3: So I just, so you know, you're all going to
• 5:00
  Speaker 3: be invited over soon for some, uh, cooking and I'm
• 5:02
  Speaker 3: like sure to grill some vegetables and stuff for you
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  Speaker 3: so don't worry but um it's gonna have plenty of
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  Speaker 3: food and so it's a very me thing where I
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  Speaker 3: went thrifting in a chicken marketplace and found the ultimate.
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  Speaker 1: You always find the best stuff though like it'd be
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  Speaker 1: different if you were thrifting and you always walked away
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  Speaker 1: with trash like you always find treasure and I love.
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  Speaker 6: That for you thank you the old saying someone else's
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  Speaker 6: trash needs to be changed to someone else's trash is
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  Speaker 6: just Megan's Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Because she finds it all the time.
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  Speaker 4: She always finds the right stuff.
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  Speaker 2: I love it. Come shopping with me.
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  Speaker 4: All right.
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  Speaker 2: And what about you?
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 4: I feel really proud of this.
• 5:41
  Speaker 1: And I have to give a big thank you, Gabe,
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  Speaker 1: to your wife, Corey, because there's a dish that I make.
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  Speaker 4: That the kids call it the good pasta.
• 5:51
  Speaker 5: Oh, I know where this is going.
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  Speaker 4: It's just the way I season it, whatever. They love it.
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  Speaker 4: So then you had.
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  Speaker 1: Told me that Corey does this little trick where she
• 6:02
  Speaker 1: adds cream of mushrooms.
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  Speaker 5: Yep.
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  Speaker 4: Right. Into the sauce.
• 6:07
  Speaker 1: And so I had to get a vegan version. So
• 6:10
  Speaker 1: I was waiting on this package for a vegan mushroom
• 6:14
  Speaker 1: soup for like four days. But it finally came in
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  Speaker 1: because I wanted to eat it, too. And so I
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  Speaker 1: made the pasta with the cream of mushroom. And I
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  Speaker 1: served it to the kiddos, and they said, this might
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  Speaker 1: be better than the good pasta.
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  Speaker 6: All right.
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  Speaker 5: And I was.
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  Speaker 1: Like, yes.
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  Speaker 4: So they were very excited. There were no leftovers.
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  Speaker 1: Like, these kids gorged themselves on this pasta. And so, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: big thank you to your wife, Corey, for that pasta hack.
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  Speaker 1: And it really is so delicious. I don't think I'll
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  Speaker 1: make it different ever again.
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  Speaker 2: I have to try this now. Like, guess what I'm
• 6:46
  Speaker 2: making this week?
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  Speaker 6: Yes.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, it's funny you say that because that's exactly what
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  Speaker 5: I made yesterday.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, really?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, it was kind of my turn, you know?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: And I don't know how to make anything but that.
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  Speaker 6: So that's about all I got for you. My little victory,
• 7:00
  Speaker 6: Kaylee starts daycare today.
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  Speaker 5: Aww.
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  Speaker 6: I get to go pick up Kaylee at, you know,
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  Speaker 6: before noon, right before noon, and listen to her try
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  Speaker 6: to explain to me how her day was.
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  Speaker 5: I have a feeling she'll just be passed out the
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  Speaker 5: whole car ride home.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, yeah, that's exhausting.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, so I'm looking forward to that. I'm sure mom
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  Speaker 6: not thrilled.
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  Speaker 2: Tears will be spilled, I'm sure.
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  Speaker 5: 100%. And I'm just excited for her.
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  Speaker 6: I think it's kind of cool she gets to go
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  Speaker 6: meet some little baby friends and enjoy a.
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  Speaker 5: Day of daycare.
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  Speaker 6: And I do hope Corey has a good day at
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  Speaker 6: work because she has not been there in a while.
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  Speaker 6: She'll be just fine. No, I'm looking forward to it, though.
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  Speaker 6: It should be fun to go pick her up and
• 7:41
  Speaker 6: see how that first day went. Now, one thing we
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  Speaker 6: like doing here on the Big 98.7 Morning Show is
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  Speaker 6: discussing whether one of those hacks you see on TikTok
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  Speaker 6: is a TikTok whack or a TikTok hack.
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  Speaker 5: And we have one that there's zero chance I'm trying ever. Really? Ever.
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  Speaker 2: What about you, Ang?
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  Speaker 4: I don't know. Give me the details again.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, well, it's really simple.
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  Speaker 3: It's this thing that just kind of blew up where
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  Speaker 3: it's called the boiled zucchini trend or whole zucchini challenge.
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  Speaker 2: Whatever you want to call it.
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  Speaker 3: Basically, the first one who did this, they boiled an
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  Speaker 3: entire zucchini whole.
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  Speaker 2: They let it cool.
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  Speaker 3: They dressed it up with some basic toppings, and they
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  Speaker 3: ate it, just the whole thing, the giant vegetable, like
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  Speaker 3: a giant vegetable popsicle, basically.
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  Speaker 6: Okay.
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  Speaker 5: Like a zucchini banana?
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  Speaker 2: No, not as sweet. And that's it. That's what the
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  Speaker 2: challenge is. And some people are like, oh, it's a
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  Speaker 2: little too soggy. They don't like it.
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  Speaker 3: But I'm like, oh, so we're eating our vegetables as
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  Speaker 3: the challenge? Great.
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  Speaker 2: My mom would have loved this.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: This is a good trick for that. You're right.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, okay. So this is the challenge?
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  Speaker 4: Okay. Maybe that is the move, though.
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  Speaker 1: If there are kids who aren't trying to eat their
• 9:00
  Speaker 1: vegetables and then you're like, Well, you're not going to.
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  Speaker 4: Hear it's a TikTok trend. It's a TikTok trend to
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  Speaker 4: eat a whole zucchini. And then they're like, OK, fine,
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  Speaker 4: because they want to be.
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to like come up with a reason why
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  Speaker 1: this would be a thing.
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  Speaker 2: Like a genius mom.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 9:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: OK.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, so would you do this with like a
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  Speaker 3: giant broccoli head of broccoli?
• 9:21
  Speaker 1: Just boil a head of broccoli and eat it.
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  Speaker 2: Is this a challenge we need to start a little TikTok?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 9:28
  Speaker 1: Yes let's just do the big 98.7 broccoli challenge yeah
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  Speaker 1: and see who like gloms on.
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  Speaker 6: And does it broccoli i'd be down for zucchini i
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  Speaker 6: don't care if you boil it i don't care if
• 9:40
  Speaker 6: you put it in the oven you could go out
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  Speaker 6: in your backyard rub two sticks together and start a
• 9:45
  Speaker 6: fire and try to cook the zucchini in it your
• 9:48
  Speaker 6: boy's not doing it i am out no matter how
• 9:50
  Speaker 6: you make it what about like.
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  Speaker 5: A You know, I'll pass, okay?
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  Speaker 2: That's so funny.
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  Speaker 5: I'm just out. I have tried so hard to like zucchini. Really?
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  Speaker 6: Can't do it. It's just like avocado. I've tried so hard.
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  Speaker 6: You're a wild boy.
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  Speaker 1: My nine-year-old, his favorite vegetable is zucchini. It used to
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  Speaker 1: be broccoli. Now it's zucchini. And I'm just thrilled that
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  Speaker 1: my kid has.
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  Speaker 5: A favorite vegetable. Yeah, that's a good start.
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  Speaker 4: But only one kid. The older one is like absolutely not.
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  Speaker 6: And see, that's what's because I love broccoli. I love
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  Speaker 6: like peas, carrots. I love a lot of vegetables.
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  Speaker 5: Zucchini.
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  Speaker 6: I am out 1000 percent. So I'm calling it a
• 10:29
  Speaker 6: tick tock whack.
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  Speaker 4: I'm calling it a tick tock hack.
• 10:36
  Speaker 3: I'm going to call it a TikTok hack too because
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  Speaker 3: I think that moms will find this and be like,
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  Speaker 3: look at this.
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  Speaker 4: You've been outnumbered. We're bringing you a boiled zucchini tomorrow.
• 10:45
  Speaker 5: This is Am I the Problem?
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  Speaker 3: It's me.
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  Speaker 5: We'll hear one side of the story and with your help.
• 10:57
  Speaker 4: Am I the problem?
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  Speaker 5: Decide if it's right or if maybe you're the problem.
• 11:02
  Speaker 5: I'm hardly the problem. On Big 98.7.
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  Speaker 4: We had Carmen write in to us. Hi, Big Morning Show.
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  Speaker 1: I'm in a relationship and not sure how we can
• 11:13
  Speaker 1: move forward, but I really want to make it work.
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  Speaker 1: My boyfriend and I were together for a year before
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  Speaker 1: I found out that eight months in, he had basically
• 11:23
  Speaker 1: cheated on me. I found inappropriate chat messages with an
• 11:27
  Speaker 1: escort and he admitted he hooked up with her once
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  Speaker 1: in Vegas.
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  Speaker 5: Well, that's not basically cheating, though. That's just cheating.
• 11:37
  Speaker 1: Well, I think the reason she's trying to soften it
• 11:40
  Speaker 1: is because we broke up, but he was persistent in
• 11:43
  Speaker 1: winning me back and I never stopped loving him. So
• 11:47
  Speaker 1: we got back together three months ago. But obviously, I
• 11:51
  Speaker 1: still have my doubts. So yes, from time to time,
• 11:54
  Speaker 1: I will check his phone and I always have his
• 11:56
  Speaker 1: location tracked.
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  Speaker 4: And he agreed to this when we got back together.
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  Speaker 1: But now he gets really frustrated and even mad when
• 12:05
  Speaker 1: I go to check his phone. I haven't found anything
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  Speaker 1: and he says nothing is going on. So I don't
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  Speaker 1: see the problem. I need the peace of mind. But
• 12:14
  Speaker 1: now it's causing a lot of fights. Unsure what to do.
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  Speaker 1: Would love any advice. Let us know what advice you
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  Speaker 1: have for Carmen in this situation. 701-280-1987.
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  Speaker 4: We also have this up on the Big 98.7 Facebook page.
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  Speaker 1: I'm curious your thoughts, Megan, because I know that you
• 12:35
  Speaker 1: are very.
• 12:36
  Speaker 4: Intolerant of cheating. So please give me your thoughts.
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  Speaker 3: However, she decided, because they broke up for three months
• 12:44
  Speaker 3: after this happened, and then she decided to go back
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  Speaker 3: to him.
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  Speaker 2: So here's the thing.
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  Speaker 3: You probably won't forget, but if you've forgiven, you need
• 12:53
  Speaker 3: to move on, and you need to believe that he
• 12:57
  Speaker 3: is going to become a better person, and you can't completely.
• 13:02
  Speaker 2: stay on you can't keep going back to.
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  Speaker 1: That okay I agree with you wholeheartedly and I never
• 13:08
  Speaker 1: you know choose the side of the cheater however that's
• 13:12
  Speaker 1: where my head was at Gabe what do you think
• 13:14
  Speaker 1: because she did decide to work it out with him
• 13:17
  Speaker 1: and it's like then you can't keep bringing up the
• 13:20
  Speaker 1: old thing if.
• 13:20
  Speaker 3: You've forgiven him you need to actually forgive him because
• 13:24
  Speaker 3: it sounds to me that she hasn't completely because you
• 13:27
  Speaker 3: have to let it go you have to move on
• 13:29
  Speaker 3: from it.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah Yeah, it doesn't sound, I mean, obviously a very
• 13:32
  Speaker 6: scumbag thing to do. I will say, at least this
• 13:35
  Speaker 6: was a professional and not, you know, Emily in accounting.
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  Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, Gabe.
• 13:40
  Speaker 2: Cheating is cheating.
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  Speaker 5: It doesn't matter.
• 13:42
  Speaker 2: I know, I know.
• 13:44
  Speaker 1: Professional is a crazy thing to say.
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  Speaker 6: In all seriousness, it's unfair to both of them at
• 13:53
  Speaker 6: this point. Now, not that probably this guy deserves a ton.
• 13:55
  Speaker 5: Of grace, but.
• 13:56
  Speaker 6: It's not very fair if you're going to break up,
• 13:58
  Speaker 6: get back together, and then continue to hold this over
• 14:01
  Speaker 6: his head forever.
• 14:02
  Speaker 5: At that point, you should just be apart. Right?
• 14:04
  Speaker 4: That's what I think, too, because then, like, what fun
• 14:06
  Speaker 4: is that for anyone?
• 14:08
  Speaker 6: Yeah, he's miserable, you're miserable. And misery loves other misery,
• 14:12
  Speaker 6: except the rest of us.
• 14:13
  Speaker 5: Yeah. It's not fun to be around.
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  Speaker 6: So I would say either they need to just take
• 14:17
  Speaker 6: a longer break, they need some more time apart than
• 14:20
  Speaker 6: three months, or yeah, just cut the cord and be done.
• 14:22
  Speaker 4: Or just be done. All right, what do you think?
• 14:24
  Speaker 4: What's your advice for Carmen?
• 14:26
  Speaker 6: 701-280-1987.
• 14:26
  Speaker 4: Curious how everybody takes this. Drop it, drop it. Big 98.7.
• 14:29
  Speaker 4: It's me, high on the.
• 14:38
  Speaker 4: Carmen is in a relationship.
• 14:41
  Speaker 1: She had been with this guy for a year and
• 14:43
  Speaker 1: then found out that he had cheated on her. But
• 14:48
  Speaker 1: when they broke up, he worked really hard to win
• 14:50
  Speaker 1: her back.
• 14:50
  Speaker 4: And so she said, okay, fine. They got back together.
• 14:53
  Speaker 4: But her rules were... I need to have your location
• 14:58
  Speaker 4: and I get to.
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: Check your phone whenever I want. And he said, OK, fine,
• 15:02
  Speaker 1: because they still wanted to be with each other.
• 15:04
  Speaker 4: Yeah. But now it's causing problems.
• 15:07
  Speaker 1: He's getting frustrated and even mad whenever she's trying to
• 15:10
  Speaker 1: check his phone.
• 15:11
  Speaker 4: And so she wants our advice. Like, what do I
• 15:13
  Speaker 4: do here?
• 15:14
  Speaker 5: How do we move forward?
• 15:15
  Speaker 6: Before we get to the comments and the texts, a
• 15:18
  Speaker 6: lot of them can be summed up with this.
• 15:20
  Speaker 5: I'm doing this tonight.
• 15:22
  Speaker 6: A little NSYNC bye-bye-bye is what we're seeing a lot of.
• 15:26
  Speaker 2: A thousand percent.
• 15:28
  Speaker 3: Because Taryn says, if you have to resort to phone checks,
• 15:31
  Speaker 3: your trust is gone.
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: Don't waste your time any further.
• 15:34
  Speaker 3: This will be hovering over both of your heads the
• 15:37
  Speaker 3: entire time together, so I'd cut your losses now. Unless
• 15:40
  Speaker 3: you two can get into therapy to work to build
• 15:41
  Speaker 3: that trust.
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: Back, but Oh, yeah.
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: Therapy is always a good answer, but just so few
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: people ever want to take that risk, right?
• 15:48
  Speaker 6: That's a very dude go-to to, like, get back with someone. Like, oh,
• 15:52
  Speaker 6: I'll go to therapy with you. They say it, but.
• 15:54
  Speaker 4: Hey, I've been in that boat.
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: We went to therapy one time, and then he didn't
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: do the homework assignment.
• 16:00
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 16:01
  Speaker 5: Kayla out of Horace said he cheated.
• 16:04
  Speaker 6: You gave him a second chance and the phone checks
• 16:06
  Speaker 6: were his deal to get you back. He doesn't get
• 16:09
  Speaker 6: to change the rules just because he's annoyed.
• 16:12
  Speaker 5: Nothing to hide. Nothing to be mad about. Oh, how funny.
• 16:16
  Speaker 4: Tiana and Glendon also on the same tip.
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: The second he agreed to her stipulations to get back together,
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: he gave up.
• 16:23
  Speaker 4: The right to get ticked off over it. And I
• 16:26
  Speaker 4: hope he hears this.
• 16:28
  Speaker 5: Oh, all right.
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: Oh, Darlene says, you will never trust him again. And
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: it shows.
• 16:33
  Speaker 3: What he did was 100% wrong. And honestly, there's a
• 16:35
  Speaker 3: 50-50 chance he'll do it again. I don't know the
• 16:38
  Speaker 3: basis of your relationship during that time, though. When you
• 16:41
  Speaker 3: decide to forgive someone for something that involves trust, you
• 16:43
  Speaker 3: can't continuously put them out like that. You either try
• 16:46
  Speaker 3: and trust them first, to let them build or you don't.
• 16:49
  Speaker 3: And the relationship is 100% done.
• 16:51
  Speaker 4: That's where, yeah, that's where I stand.
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: I think, girl, either you stop or you have to
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: let it go.
• 16:58
  Speaker 5: Like you have to break up.
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: Because holding it over his head forever, if you chose
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: to get back with him, like, honey bunny, you gotta.
• 17:04
  Speaker 4: Let it go.
• 17:06
  Speaker 6: Three months wasn't long enough of a break, in my opinion.
• 17:08
  Speaker 6: They should have almost done like a full year and
• 17:11
  Speaker 6: really came back as two completely different people.
• 17:13
  Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe.
• 17:14
  Speaker 5: If they were going to come back.
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: So I think the two things here, it's either bye-bye-bye
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: or let it go.
• 17:19
  Speaker 4: Let it go.
• 17:22
  Speaker 5: Yeah. Drop it, drop it. Big 98.7. Don't you tell
• 17:24
  Speaker 5: me you're full, just eat it.
• 17:26
  Speaker 6: We're going to take a little trip down memory lane
• 17:30
  Speaker 6: this morning. I feel like, you know, every family. had
• 17:34
  Speaker 6: that restaurant that you went to for everyone's birthday, Father's Day,
• 17:39
  Speaker 6: Mother's Day, Indigenous People's Day. You were just there celebrating
• 17:45
  Speaker 6: for whatever reason. Lo and behold, I don't know if
• 17:48
  Speaker 6: the kids know this growing up, but it was probably
• 17:50
  Speaker 6: just because that was the restaurant where mom and dad
• 17:52
  Speaker 6: could find something that the kids all liked and they
• 17:55
  Speaker 6: weren't sitting there fighting over where to go.
• 17:56
  Speaker 5: That's right.
• 17:57
  Speaker 6: That's how it got started with my family growing up
• 17:59
  Speaker 6: in Minneapolis with Old Country Steak Buffet. Tough to complain
• 18:05
  Speaker 6: about a meal when there's all the meals there.
• 18:08
  Speaker 4: That was your celebration restaurant.
• 18:10
  Speaker 5: That is where we went to for birthdays.
• 18:13
  Speaker 6: That's where we went to the first time after I
• 18:15
  Speaker 6: got arrested for the first time.
• 18:18
  Speaker 5: What?
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: That's a celebration.
• 18:20
  Speaker 5: We did do that, actually.
• 18:21
  Speaker 6: The first time I ever got in big trouble was
• 18:25
  Speaker 6: with my buddy Sam, and it just involved some graffiti.
• 18:29
  Speaker 6: It wasn't like we didn't hurt anybody or whatever. But
• 18:31
  Speaker 6: we got in trouble, and later that night, we were
• 18:33
  Speaker 6: at Old Country Steak Buffet.
• 18:36
  Speaker 4: That is crazy.
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: Here's mine. I would have been grounded for, like, months.
• 18:41
  Speaker 5: Oh, yeah.
• 18:42
  Speaker 6: No, I was in big, giant trouble, but my parents
• 18:44
  Speaker 6: had already decided they weren't making anything. It's your last
• 18:51
  Speaker 6: meal before.
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: 701-280-1987.
• 18:53
  Speaker 6: What was your family's go-to celebration restaurant for whatever the
• 18:57
  Speaker 6: celebration was?
• 18:58
  Speaker 5: Let us know this morning. Did you two have one?
• 19:00
  Speaker 3: Oh, most definitely. So I grew up just north of
• 19:03
  Speaker 3: Detroit Lakes. So Bonanza was definitely a big one around there.
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: And I see a few people put that. But for us,
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: it was a lot of the times Chinese dragon. Best
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: Chinese food around there. But here was the thing. So
• 19:18
  Speaker 3: that was like everybody. We loved it, everything. My youngest
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: brother was always so picky about everything. but he had
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: to have a cheeseburger and cottage cheese because he didn't
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: like his fries because he didn't like fries back then
• 19:29
  Speaker 3: as a child. I'm sorry.
• 19:31
  Speaker 4: So how would you guys finagle that at Chinese?
• 19:34
  Speaker 3: So for some reason, so my parents would get like
• 19:36
  Speaker 3: pick up a McDonald's cheeseburger or something and they would
• 19:38
  Speaker 3: let them bring, cause he was a child and they
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: didn't have it.
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: And then for some reason they've still would allow him
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: to then bring it.
• 19:44
  Speaker 5: They wanted him quiet in there while everyone else was
• 19:46
  Speaker 5: spending money. I know.
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: I'm like, quit ruining this for the rest of us.
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: I want my Chinese food.
• 19:51
  Speaker 4: That's so funny.
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: I didn't have a celebration restaurant per se growing up,
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: but I grew up in Las Vegas, Nevada. So any
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: celebration thing was like, you know, spin the wheel in
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: which buffet are we going to at which casino.
• 20:06
  Speaker 4: Never like on the strip casinos.
• 20:08
  Speaker 5: Always the off the.
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: Strip ones with the cheaper buffet.
• 20:12
  Speaker 4: But I didn't hate that growing up.
• 20:14
  Speaker 5: You went to the buffets on the stripe instead of
• 20:16
  Speaker 5: the strip.
• 20:16
  Speaker 3: Exactly.
• 20:17
  Speaker 4: I was at Arizona Charlie's. Have you ever heard of
• 20:20
  Speaker 4: Arizona Charlie's? Probably not.
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: Probably not.
• 20:23
  Speaker 6: It's funny you said bonanza, Megan, because Sarah said bonanza,
• 20:27
  Speaker 6: which meant dad.
• 20:28
  Speaker 5: Got a raise.
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: Right?
• 20:29
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I love it.
• 20:31
  Speaker 6: I love this one from Susan. She said, we went
• 20:33
  Speaker 6: to Red Lobster or Olive Garden for my kids' birthdays.
• 20:36
  Speaker 6: I was working at the restaurant while I was pregnant
• 20:39
  Speaker 6: with them. To this day, surf and turf is my
• 20:42
  Speaker 6: eldest son's favorite food and spaghetti my youngest.
• 20:45
  Speaker 5: I ate on the job a lot. I love it.
• 20:48
  Speaker 6: You know, when you get a discount, absolutely. One thousand percent.
• 20:52
  Speaker 6: We had Ramsey who said American Steak Buffet. It's kind
• 20:55
  Speaker 6: of interesting. It's always a buffet.
• 20:57
  Speaker 4: You get a lot of bang for your buck.
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: Lisa said Red Lobster and that like my kids always
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: thought Red Lobster was fine dining.
• 21:05
  Speaker 5: Oh, that's what I thought.
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: Yes, absolutely.
• 21:07
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 21:07
  Speaker 4: I mean, for all intents and purposes. Yes. So Red
• 21:10
  Speaker 4: Lobster was the celebration restaurant.
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: Okay, Tammy has my heart.
• 21:13
  Speaker 3: She's like country kitchen, which was the first serving job
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: I ever had was at a country kitchen.
• 21:19
  Speaker 4: Ah, you were serving up celebration meals.
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: I love this. Probably not to Tammy, but maybe somebody else.
• 21:25
  Speaker 6: A little trip down memory lane right there. 701-280-1987 if
• 21:27
  Speaker 6: you had a celebration restaurant growing up.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: Well, Gabe and I every Monday, so today will be
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: no different. Our celebration restaurant is Casa Mexico.
• 21:38
  Speaker 5: That's right. Yeah.
• 21:40
  Speaker 6: No one celebrates the start of the work week like
• 21:42
  Speaker 6: Big 98.7 for lunch.
• 21:45
  Speaker 5: Drop it, drop it.
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: Big 98.7.
• 21:46
  Speaker 5: I need some coffee. Starting off the day with something good.
• 21:52
  Speaker 5: This is Gabe's Good News on Big 98.7.
• 21:57
  Speaker 6: Fargo is stepping up to help with the nationwide blood shortage.
• 22:01
  Speaker 6: The Red Cross says there's a big need right now
• 22:04
  Speaker 6: for B-negative blood and type O blood. Last Thursday, a
• 22:08
  Speaker 6: few dozen people stopped by the Vitalant Bloodmobile in Fargo
• 22:12
  Speaker 6: to roll up their sleeves and donate. And if you
• 22:15
  Speaker 6: wanted to help, you've got two chances now. This week,
• 22:18
  Speaker 6: Vitalin is hosting blood drives tomorrow at Sanford's health on Broadway.
• 22:23
  Speaker 6: And again, on Thursday at border States electric in Fargo,
• 22:27
  Speaker 6: it's a very simple way to do something really great
• 22:29
  Speaker 6: for somebody in need. I have a grandma who had
• 22:32
  Speaker 6: donated like gallons, gallons and gallons and gallons.
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: It's one of the simplest ways to really help out
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: and make a huge impact.
• 22:40
  Speaker 4: And I am always an advocate for donating blood.
• 22:43
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: Plus, you get, like, snacks and juice afterwards, so win-win.
• 22:46
  Speaker 4: Yeah, super win-win.
• 22:48
  Speaker 6: The cookies and juice are definitely a nice touch at
• 22:50
  Speaker 6: the end. Yeah, I think I've donated seven times, so
• 22:53
  Speaker 6: one more would be eight. Yes.
• 22:56
  Speaker 4: Thank you for doing math.
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: Seven plus one, eight.
• 22:59
  Speaker 3: Okay, good.
• 22:59
  Speaker 5: Simple math.
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: Okay, before you two get after me.
• 23:01
  Speaker 5: For me here.
• 23:01
  Speaker 6: I'm trying to do some math. I think eight donations
• 23:04
  Speaker 6: is what, like four quarts or something? I'd have to
• 23:06
  Speaker 6: double check. Someone do the math for me and send
• 23:08
  Speaker 6: it to me. It's 701.
• 23:10
  Speaker 5: Jeepers.
• 23:10
  Speaker 3: Cripes.
• 23:11
  Speaker 6: A guy can't even do a good thing without getting
• 23:13
  Speaker 6: attacked on his math skills here on Big 98.7. Unlike
• 23:17
  Speaker 6: these two today. Don't forget, the world is full of
• 23:20
  Speaker 6: nice people. And if you can't find one, you gotta
• 23:22
  Speaker 6: be one. There's two people who could really learn that
• 23:24
  Speaker 6: this morning. Also, broken crayons. Also, broken crayons.
• 23:29
  Speaker 5: They still color.