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The Pumpkin Patch · Second Date Update

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  All right, let's do it. We've got Maddie on the line and Cromwell
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  obviously went on a great first date. Now she's getting ghosted. Niece to
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  know why. Good morning Maddie, Good morning, Well, welcome to the
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  show. I hope we can help you out. Aura, producer says,
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  you went on a date with a guy named Sean. Tell Us about this
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  great first date, Oh my gosh, it was probably the best date I've
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  been on in maybe ever. We went to a pumpkin patch, picked out
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  pumpkins, and then we went to a brewery for drinks. It was honestly
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  very romantic. Oh my gosh. Okay, so a pumpkin patch. I
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  mean, there's the time of season you go for a nice little walk through
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  a pumpkin patch. Did you feel like the conversation flowed? Yes, yeah,
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  No, it was a great time. I thought we clicked very well.
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  We had great drinks, we had great conversation. It was a good
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  time. Yeah. I texted him twice now and I haven't heard anything back.
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  As a guy, a pumpkin patch date is kind of like a letdown,
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  like there's really what yeah, really, you really can't get the Jen
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  reving on a pumpkin patch date, if you know what. I also,
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  Jeff, they also went to a brewery after. I think it sounds like
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  a great date. Yeah, but it's also a first date. Jeff,
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  chill out. Well, I mean, this is twenty twenty three. People
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  move fast, Savanna, you know what. This isn't the olden days,
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  Maddie. Don't listen to him. He doesn't like to do a lot of
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  walking. That's his problem. And I think, Pat, yeah, yeah,
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  I understand that. So you reached out to Sean and you're getting ghosted.
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  You texted him a couple of times. Yeah, I've texted him at
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  least twice. Now, all right, Well, to me, it sounds
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  like a great date. I don't know what could have gone wrong, especially
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  if you felt a connection. I'm gonna we're gonna put you on hold,
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  and we're gonna call up Sewan and ask him. You're gonna be listening in,
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  Maddie, and you can jump into the conversation and talk to him anytime
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  you want. Okay, Okay, thank you, all right, hold on,
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  we're gonna call him up. You'll be listening in hold on. Nothing
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  more romantic than walking through a muddy field looking at pumpkins. I think it's
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  romantic, dude, it's follish. Add some spiked cider and hunk and cheese
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  and I'm in love. Yes, guys just walk around with cheese in their
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  pockets. Well you should. Oh, Hello, is this Sean? Yeah?
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  Hi, Sean, This is Courtney. Sean, what's up? It's
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  Walmart, Jeff. Hey, it's Savannah. Hey. How's it going?
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  Good? Good? We're I gotta tell You're on the radio. You're on
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  Kiss ninety five to seven this morning. Okay, sure, I'll tell you
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  why. You're on. Something called second date update. If somebody goes on
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  a first date and they feel a connection, but they get ghosted, they
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  call us and we get answers. So Maddie called us to tell us about
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  a great date you took her on. Yeah, okay, Well here's the
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  deal, Sean. She told us you guys went to a punkin Patch.
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  She said, you guys also had some beers at a brewery. She said
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  it was a great first date, like probably the best she's ever had.
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  She felt a connection. She said, you're a great guy. She reached
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  out you. I think she said she tecked what she say, You guys
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  tected them twice or something. Two text messages and you're and you're like a
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  ghostinger. Yeah, okay, look that the date was great. There was
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  nothing wrong with the date. But I gotta be I gotta be honest.
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  When I carried her pumpkin into her car, I was completely shocked by what
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  I saw. Her car was a mess. There was it was like there
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  was trash all over the place. I saw underwear, I saw sock,
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  I saw food wrappers. It was like the nastiest thing I've ever seen.
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  You know, I just I cannot go on anymore gates with somebody. If
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  they keep their car like that, they are not going to be able to
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  keep their life any cleaner. So it was just a sign that that was
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  not ridiculous line to do with keeping my life together. My car fin messy
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  car means messy room means messy whatever, like it just it goes down the
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  line and it was like the messiest car I've ever seen. Well, I'm
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  busy. I have to travel a lot for work and sometimes I have to
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  live out of my car. I don't really see this is a huge problem.
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  What's up with What's up with the undies? You change your undies in
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  the car. Do you live in your car? Because that's kind of what
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  it felt like. Maybe it was her dirty laundry taking it to the laundry
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  mat. What the hell I mean if you again? So I have to
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  have clothes to change into, like what But they looked dirty and they looked
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  like ruined about the back seat like it didn't look like it was laundry being
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  taken to a lote. It looked like it been there for a while.
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  I don't know, Maddie, Like I have like some straw wrappers and stuff
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  from Duncan in my car, but I feel like when you have like half
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  your closet in there, that's not really the best first impression. Well,
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  she didn't, Maddie, you didn't know he was gonna come to listen.
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  I'm gonna be with Maddie on this. I've seen some really trash cars in
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  the past, Like sometimes you just get too busy to clean out your car.
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  We took generate cars. I didn't know you were gonna go look in
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  my car and judge me. Courtney. I gotta I gotta agree with Sean
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  on this one. When a guy sees it, when a guy sees a
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  girl's messy car. It just means that their life is chaotic as well.
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  Yet over it exactly and agrees, Okay, I don't need any more chaos
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  in my life at this moment. It just was really it was very telling.
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  All right, Well, the three of you can go on a date
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  then, and Maddie and I will go out Matt Maddie, Yeah, I
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  guess it sounds like it's just it's not a love match. To be honest,
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  I totally understand people who are like you know, maybe you're working two
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  jobs, you're taking your laundry of the laundromat, you don't have time to
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  eat. You he grabs fast food. I think, to judge her on
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  just the mess of her car is a little shallow. That's me. I
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  would love to offer you guys a second date, and maybe you take public
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  transportation and I'll pay for it. I'll pay for the date. No for
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  me, it's for me. It's a no. Sorry, all right,
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  Yeah, I don't want to be with someone who acts like that. Well,
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  Maddie, you got your answer, thank you, yep. And Sean,
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  thank you for being honest. Yep. I'm sure thanks for having me
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  on. I guess