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- 0:07Speaker 1: Sable Advice, Spice and Low Low Welcome to the Naughty
- 0:16Speaker 1: but Night Show. I'm your host, Rob Shooter. Joining me
- 0:18Speaker 1: today is my friend Donnie Meetcham from Naughty Gossip dot Com. Donnie, Hello, Love,
- 0:23Speaker 1: how are you good morning? I even I even showered
- 0:25Speaker 1: for you this morning, So it's after a great start, Honey,
- 0:30Speaker 1: What more could I want? Your fresh as a daisy?
- 0:33Speaker 1: Have you been happy? Birthday? Was your birthday last week?
- 0:35Speaker 1: What did you do? It was good? We are still
- 0:38Speaker 1: in quarantine. So I was in my apartment with my
- 0:41Speaker 1: roommates and we drink a little too much, which we
- 0:44Speaker 1: will talk about later. But we had fun and we
- 0:47Speaker 1: just watched movies and play games. It's amazing you can
- 0:50Speaker 1: drink way more at home because you don't have to
- 0:52Speaker 1: pay for it by the glass. So what always cuts
- 0:55Speaker 1: me off when I'm at drinking with friends is I'm
- 0:57Speaker 1: very cheap, just spend that much money. But that's right
- 1:00Speaker 1: the way it cuts me up. I hear too, you're
- 1:02Speaker 1: moving to l A. When's that happening? It's actually happening.
- 1:05Speaker 1: I'm going to go visit family for a couple of
- 1:07Speaker 1: weeks because I haven't seen anybody in months and then
- 1:11Speaker 1: after that moved to l A so I can chase
- 1:13Speaker 1: the celebrities around ten Town for you guys. I love
- 1:17Speaker 1: that You'll be at l A Bureau. Donny, what's that
- 1:20Speaker 1: I hear? What time is it? It is he time.
- 1:24Speaker 1: So the lead story today Joe Judaice called pole dancing
- 1:28Speaker 1: a quote respectable job. Let me explain what's happening here.
- 1:32Speaker 1: So for Father's Day, Teresa from the Real Housewives popped
- 1:36Speaker 1: up a throwback picture of Joe and their four daughters
- 1:39Speaker 1: and she captioned it, Happy Father's Day. The girls miss
- 1:43Speaker 1: you today and every day. That's awfully nice. So Joe
- 1:46Speaker 1: was deported after he got out of jail. He's now
- 1:48Speaker 1: in Italy. He's not spending a lot of time with
- 1:51Speaker 1: his girls, and so Teresa put up this lovely memory
- 1:54Speaker 1: that should have stopped there. But oh no, no, no, no.
- 1:57Speaker 1: Not in the world of the internet, some naughty commenter
- 2:01Speaker 1: wrote the following, you're a failed father and two of
- 2:04Speaker 1: those four girls are going to end up on the
- 2:06Speaker 1: pole ouch. Joe responded pretty quickly, telling that person to
- 2:11Speaker 1: remove themselves from Teresa's pages and also to he defended
- 2:16Speaker 1: pole dancers. He said, it is a respectable job. However,
- 2:19Speaker 1: his daughters have chosen a different career path. This is
- 2:23Speaker 1: so interesting to me, Donnie One. What an awful thing
- 2:26Speaker 1: for someone to comment. Why are people so mean and
- 2:29Speaker 1: on social media? Donnie? Why? Or this commenter got exactly
- 2:33Speaker 1: what they wanted. They got Joe's attention. He responded to
- 2:36Speaker 1: them because the reality starts, they can't keep their mouth shuts.
- 2:41Speaker 1: They do like attention. I've met a lot of reality stars,
- 2:43Speaker 1: even the ones I like do like the spotlight. That's
- 2:46Speaker 1: why they are reality stars. If you're shy, don't go
- 2:49Speaker 1: on a reality show. So Joe did respond. He did
- 2:52Speaker 1: give them some oxygen, I guess. But also too, I
- 2:54Speaker 1: think it's really interesting here that if somebody came after
- 2:58Speaker 1: my children, particularly my daughters, I guess, and suggested they
- 3:01Speaker 1: were going to be strippers, I would be really angry
- 3:03Speaker 1: with that. Joe took the high road here and he
- 3:06Speaker 1: sort of defended strippers, I guess, sex workers to people
- 3:10Speaker 1: that pole dance, saying it's a job. What do you think, Donny,
- 3:15Speaker 1: You're right, Joe would have been a terrible father though,
- 3:17Speaker 1: if he would have just been like, call my daughter
- 3:19Speaker 1: strippers there. But also he did the right thing because sex.
- 3:23Speaker 1: Work is work. These women are having to work. Men
- 3:26Speaker 1: do it too, and it's like it is work and
- 3:29Speaker 1: it's how they get by. And I think there's nothing
- 3:31Speaker 1: wrong with it. It's so interesting. I'm trying to be
- 3:34Speaker 1: so cool about it. When people talk about prostitution or strippers,
- 3:37Speaker 1: it does raise an eyebrow for me. I came from
- 3:40Speaker 1: quite a conservative background. Although I like to think I
- 3:42Speaker 1: accept everybody. I try not to judge. I do try,
- 3:46Speaker 1: but it is a little bit tricky for me this one.
- 3:48Speaker 1: Although I've got to admit I think Joe handled this
- 3:52Speaker 1: just beautifully, which brings us to our pole question of
- 3:56Speaker 1: the day. Joe calls pole dancing a respectable job. What
- 4:01Speaker 1: do you think is it respectable to work on a pole?
- 4:05Speaker 1: What a question? Yes or no? Go to a Twitter
- 4:08Speaker 1: page at Naughty Nice Rob, or you can comment on
- 4:11Speaker 1: our Facebook page Naughty Gossip. Tell the truth. Tell me
- 4:14Speaker 1: exactly what you feel about this. Is this something that
- 4:17Speaker 1: you would be fine with if your kids did it?
- 4:20Speaker 1: Or maybe not? Let me know, Donnie, what are you
- 4:22Speaker 1: working on? My friend? Well, someone who has no issues
- 4:26Speaker 1: with dancing on a pole. We have seen Miley Cyrus
- 4:30Speaker 1: do all kinds of crazy things. Well, usually when she
- 4:34Speaker 1: has announcements, it's these big, wild things, but she actually
- 4:36Speaker 1: announced something kind of amazing. She was on the Big
- 4:39Speaker 1: Ticket podcast, Oh Beautiful podcast, and what she was saying
- 4:42Speaker 1: is that she's actually six months sober now and that's
- 4:46Speaker 1: a that's a really great thing because she actually she
- 4:49Speaker 1: had vocal surgery and November, which a lot of people
- 4:52Speaker 1: didn't know about, and it took that time after that
- 4:55Speaker 1: or she was she wanted to get her body right.
- 4:57Speaker 1: She even goes on to say that she has a
- 4:59Speaker 1: lot of addic issues and mental health challenges that run
- 5:02Speaker 1: in her family, so she knew she had a problem
- 5:05Speaker 1: and she kind of wanted to face that head on.
- 5:07Speaker 1: And I think it is hard to do for somebody
- 5:10Speaker 1: who's in the spotlight because drinking is a part of
- 5:13Speaker 1: your job. It sounds terrible the same, but you're out
- 5:15Speaker 1: your party and you're having late nights. Yeah, I think.
- 5:19Speaker 1: I mean, I know a lot of famous people. I
- 5:21Speaker 1: worked for a lot of them too. The ones that
- 5:23Speaker 1: are the most successful, though, are the ones that really
- 5:25Speaker 1: really focus on their craft. And Miley said that too.
- 5:28Speaker 1: So initially she stopped drinking. I think she stopped using
- 5:31Speaker 1: marijuana two, which has been vocal about She's been talking
- 5:34Speaker 1: about that for years. She stopped because of the surgery,
- 5:37Speaker 1: and then she realized. She said that she actually wakes
- 5:40Speaker 1: up in the morning and doesn't have a hangover, and
- 5:42Speaker 1: she talks about the joy of being clear headed. I
- 5:46Speaker 1: must admit, for the last four months that we've been
- 5:48Speaker 1: in quarantine, I've not touched a drop and Donny, you know,
- 5:51Speaker 1: I like a drink with me, so I'm not drunk
- 5:55Speaker 1: in the last four weeks. Part of the joy of
- 5:57Speaker 1: not drinking is I pop out of bed now like
- 6:00Speaker 1: a piece of toast at seven AM. My eyes open,
- 6:03Speaker 1: I'm full of energy, I'm not hungover, and I sort
- 6:05Speaker 1: of like the way I feel at the moment. Also
- 6:08Speaker 1: to Miley said, the misinterpretation, the mis conception is that
- 6:12Speaker 1: people that don't drink are not fun. Well, you can
- 6:16Speaker 1: call Milly a lot of things, but you can't say
- 6:18Speaker 1: she's not fun. She's a lot of fun. So I
- 6:20Speaker 1: think she's really sort of clarifying that too. I love
- 6:23Speaker 1: this story, Miley, thank you for sharing. And Mark Melkin,
- 6:26Speaker 1: who does the Big Ticket podcast, I've known him for
- 6:29Speaker 1: twenty years. He used to be a gossip colonist here
- 6:32Speaker 1: in New York at the Daily News. So I've known
- 6:34Speaker 1: him for ever. Congratulations on the podcast, Mark, we love it. Okay,
- 6:38Speaker 1: let me clear my voice here, Donnie, forgive me. We're
- 6:40Speaker 1: known A rider. Is making a very very interesting revelation
- 6:45Speaker 1: about her friendship with Kiana Reeves. He's just lovely so
- 6:49Speaker 1: she said. They met on the set of Dracula a
- 6:52Speaker 1: long time ago, and the director, Francis Ford Coppola, you
- 6:56Speaker 1: know him from the Godfather movies, is a big time director.
- 6:59Speaker 1: He wanted to yell at her, to actually yell profanities,
- 7:05Speaker 1: vulgar vulgar things at were knowna to make her cry
- 7:09Speaker 1: in the scene, to get her into character. He refused.
- 7:12Speaker 1: He said, absolutely not. I'm not doing that at all.
- 7:15Speaker 1: And that's when this friendship started. So it's a friendship
- 7:18Speaker 1: based on not what he did, but what he didn't do.
- 7:22Speaker 1: I think that's marvelous. Johnny. Have you ever been in
- 7:25Speaker 1: a work environment where you've been asked to do something
- 7:27Speaker 1: that wasn't right and you said no, where are you?
- 7:30Speaker 1: The heart part is is so I'm a goody goody
- 7:33Speaker 1: when it comes to work, and sometimes I can be
- 7:35Speaker 1: a terrible thing to where I hate saying no out
- 7:38Speaker 1: of the fear of getting in trouble, so I might
- 7:41Speaker 1: have done things that I in my heart I knew.
- 7:44Speaker 1: I was like, I probably shouldn't do this, but I'll
- 7:46Speaker 1: do it anyway. It's because I don't want to get
- 7:47Speaker 1: in trouble for it. I see it is. I have
- 7:51Speaker 1: been the same. I'm not anymore now. I hopefully I do.
- 7:54Speaker 1: I stand up and say I say no. But in
- 7:56Speaker 1: the past, particularly when I was a publicist, I would
- 7:59Speaker 1: do some awful things. And I've got to admit one
- 8:01Speaker 1: of the bosses I had really believed in getting the
- 8:04Speaker 1: best out of people by shouting at them, by making
- 8:07Speaker 1: their lives awful, by letting them think they could be
- 8:10Speaker 1: fired at any moment. I learned that, and I'm ashamed
- 8:12Speaker 1: to admit it. For over like a decade, I learned
- 8:16Speaker 1: from the school that you had to scream and shout
- 8:18Speaker 1: to make people do their best work. And I'm absolutely wrong.
- 8:22Speaker 1: And I knew in my heart that that wasn't me.
- 8:25Speaker 1: So for almost a decade I felt like I was
- 8:28Speaker 1: playing a character that wasn't me, and it led me
- 8:30Speaker 1: to a little bit of depression because I wasn't being myself.
- 8:32Speaker 1: Every day. I've rejected that now and now, I truly
- 8:36Speaker 1: believe that the way to get the best work out
- 8:39Speaker 1: of people is to be decent. I really believe that, Donny.
- 8:43Speaker 1: Do you think you'll get there? Are you? Are you
- 8:45Speaker 1: getting there a little bit? I think as you get older,
- 8:47Speaker 1: you learned that it's okay to say no to certain things,
- 8:50Speaker 1: and you also you get more convictions and you learn
- 8:53Speaker 1: to stand by them. It is so tricky and telling
- 8:56Speaker 1: people what to do, Like, I get it. All these
- 8:58Speaker 1: people give advice and you're like, if I did that,
- 9:00Speaker 1: I'd lose my job. So I do get it. But
- 9:03Speaker 1: think about it. When you're told to do something that
- 9:06Speaker 1: isn't you, particularly at work, think about it. I'm not
- 9:09Speaker 1: telling you not to do it. It's your choice. But
- 9:11Speaker 1: if you do do it, you won't be happy if
- 9:13Speaker 1: you if you don't do it, you won't be happy.
- 9:15Speaker 1: It's really really complicated. So I certainly understand it. But Wena,
- 9:19Speaker 1: thank you. This is a lovely story, Donnie. What's happening
- 9:22Speaker 1: with Miley is ex Liam Hensworth. So actually so we've
- 9:26Speaker 1: been reporting, especially in Adagasta, that Liam has been kind
- 9:30Speaker 1: of silently dating this girl, Gabriella. She's twenty three years old,
- 9:34Speaker 1: she's a model, She's gorgeous. He's gorgeous, Liam actuous, gorgeous.
- 9:41Speaker 1: But we know that Miley had been actively dating. She's
- 9:45Speaker 1: been out there, but Liam has been kind of keeping
- 9:47Speaker 1: it low key. Well, Liam decided to finally bring his
- 9:50Speaker 1: girlfriend to a family lunch with his brother Chris and
- 9:55Speaker 1: the brother Luke Chris's wife Elsa. So for me, people
- 9:58Speaker 1: might think that's something smart, but it's actually something huge
- 10:01Speaker 1: because when you're ready to introduce the family to the
- 10:04Speaker 1: new girlfriend or boyfriend, that means this is going somewhere,
- 10:07Speaker 1: that this is a real serious relationship. Oh, I absolutely agree.
- 10:12Speaker 1: My reported on this is the mom was there too,
- 10:13Speaker 1: So wouldn't your mom's there? Your brother's and and your
- 10:17Speaker 1: brother's wife is one thing, but mommy. Once you invite mommy,
- 10:20Speaker 1: then you know something really special is going on. I'm
- 10:22Speaker 1: told he's not planning to rush into another marriage, but
- 10:26Speaker 1: maybe an engagement. We spotted them, you're right, Donnie, about
- 10:28Speaker 1: seven months ago, I think, on a beach, kissing, hugging.
- 10:31Speaker 1: They looked glorious in their little tiny bathing costumes. He
- 10:35Speaker 1: was also grabbing her bottom. They're the real deal. Hopefully,
- 10:39Speaker 1: hopefully you have found the one my friend. This story
- 10:42Speaker 1: made me scream. So Lady Gaga, Lady Gaga's dad is
- 10:46Speaker 1: revealing what she got him for Father's Day, and she
- 10:49Speaker 1: spent four dollars one to three four dollars. So Lady
- 10:52Speaker 1: Gaga got her dad for Father's Day a box of
- 10:55Speaker 1: Oreo cookies. Those are his favorite. They cost around four dollars. Interesting, Leah,
- 11:00Speaker 1: Oreos cookies have increased thirty in sales since the pandemic.
- 11:06Speaker 1: We're all eating our feelings. So Lady Gaga got her
- 11:09Speaker 1: dad a box of box of cookies. What do you
- 11:11Speaker 1: think of you? If your daughter, if you know somebody
- 11:13Speaker 1: really rich, do you expect an expensive gift? Donna? It's
- 11:18Speaker 1: hard because the thing is so she's probably already bought
- 11:20Speaker 1: him a car whatever in the past. But four dollars.
- 11:23Speaker 1: It's very meaningful because it's something that he really loves
- 11:26Speaker 1: and enjoys. But now, so four dollars for Father's Today,
- 11:30Speaker 1: that's amazing. But Christmas, she better step it up. She's
- 11:34Speaker 1: got to deliver it Christmas. I have a couple of
- 11:36Speaker 1: very rich friends. Let me ask the question another way.
- 11:39Speaker 1: If you have a rich friend, do you expect a
- 11:42Speaker 1: good gift? I do I'm sorry. If you're listening, you
- 11:45Speaker 1: know who you are. At Christmas, I expect a really
- 11:48Speaker 1: good gift if you were worth many millions of dollars,
- 11:51Speaker 1: What a really nice gift? What do you think? Donny?
- 11:54Speaker 1: Am I wrong? No? I mean I'm not rich, so
- 11:56Speaker 1: people don't expect nice gifts from me at all. But
- 11:59Speaker 1: I can see where if you're I would just be like,
- 12:02Speaker 1: this is all you got me. This is it. My
- 12:09Speaker 1: general not not totally, but my general observations about this.
- 12:14Speaker 1: My friends that have the least money are the most generous. Honestly,
- 12:18Speaker 1: my friends that have millions, I don't have many, but
- 12:21Speaker 1: a few friends of mine are really, really, really rich
- 12:24Speaker 1: and not as generous as my friends who don't have
- 12:27Speaker 1: a lot of money. When we come out for drinks,
- 12:29Speaker 1: to me, you always offer to pay on Miss Deep pays,
- 12:32Speaker 1: Mark Gloopo pays. My rich friends split the bill. That's
- 12:36Speaker 1: how they keep the money. They don't spend it if
- 12:39Speaker 1: they split the bill. We were out of dinner at
- 12:42Speaker 1: Joe Allen's before the Pandemic, which is like a theater
- 12:44Speaker 1: hangout restaurant. It's delicious there in New York, and the
- 12:47Speaker 1: check came. I was with a rich friend. We split
- 12:49Speaker 1: it and they had two drinks and technically they should
- 12:53Speaker 1: have paid. I'll let me. I could go on forever,
- 12:55Speaker 1: but I won't. We're going to take a quick break.
- 12:57Speaker 1: We will be right back. Welcome back to the Naught
- 13:03Speaker 1: even my show host Rob shooting with my friend Donny
- 13:05Speaker 1: meat Chum from Naughty Gossip dot com. Donnie, let's get
- 13:08Speaker 1: to the polls. Very official music there. So yesterday we
- 13:15Speaker 1: talked about this new biography that Harry has participated in.
- 13:19Speaker 1: We asked, will it trash William? Yes or no? Let's
- 13:22Speaker 1: see the results. Wow, you guys are so nice. Seventy
- 13:26Speaker 1: one percent of you said no, he wan trash William.
- 13:29Speaker 1: They are blood. I love how kind we all are
- 13:33Speaker 1: on this show. We've developed such a nice community of listeners.
- 13:36Speaker 1: I'm so proud of us all. Donny, where are you
- 13:39Speaker 1: on this? Do you think the book will trash his
- 13:41Speaker 1: brother William? What do you think? As much as I
- 13:44Speaker 1: wish that Harry would sit there and right now when
- 13:47Speaker 1: we were six years all he would not get to
- 13:50Speaker 1: share with me, but he won't. He acted. I think
- 13:53Speaker 1: he's really going to take the high road on this one.
- 13:56Speaker 1: I have mixed feelings about this. I think he's going
- 13:59Speaker 1: to be neutral. You know, like when you're asked a
- 14:01Speaker 1: question about a friend or somebody you know but you
- 14:04Speaker 1: don't really like, but you don't want to trash them. So,
- 14:06Speaker 1: for example, Donnie, what do you think of Claire? You'll
- 14:08Speaker 1: be like, she's nice. That means you don't really like it.
- 14:11Speaker 1: She's fine. Oh, she's great. We've what we've done, We've
- 14:14Speaker 1: done it, we've had it done to us. I think
- 14:16Speaker 1: that's what Harry is going to do. I think he's
- 14:18Speaker 1: going to be neutral, which really needs that he is furious. Hey,
- 14:23Speaker 1: don't forget to vote on today's pole about Joe judaic Ice.
- 14:27Speaker 1: Go to our Twitter page That's naughty nice Rob or
- 14:30Speaker 1: our Facebook page and already gossip to leave a comment
- 14:32Speaker 1: and check back tomorrow to hear your results are Now, Donnie,
- 14:37Speaker 1: you've got the nicest of the day. Who you got?
- 14:41Speaker 1: So the exist of the day is actually the group
- 14:43Speaker 1: the Black Eyed Peas. So let me explain why. So
- 14:48Speaker 1: the black Eyed piece we know is consists of well,
- 14:50Speaker 1: I am it's like the big star of it, and
- 14:52Speaker 1: then Fergie who is also she's a the female of
- 14:56Speaker 1: the group but also the big singer of the group. Well,
- 14:59Speaker 1: they had worked together for a long time, but recently
- 15:01Speaker 1: they had released new music, putting out a new album,
- 15:04Speaker 1: and glaringly absent was Fergie. So people began to think, oh,
- 15:10Speaker 1: there's a huge split in the group, because you know
- 15:12Speaker 1: girl groups and these boy groups, they don't last forever
- 15:15Speaker 1: and sometimes they end cannon nasty. Well, well, I am, well,
- 15:18Speaker 1: I am wanted to make sure that he put it
- 15:20Speaker 1: out there. The reason Fergie left the group is because
- 15:23Speaker 1: she wants to focus on being a mom. That sweet
- 15:28Speaker 1: I think that's a really really sweet swoman. Really big
- 15:30Speaker 1: of him too. Fergie always says that they're still family.
- 15:33Speaker 1: She loves them, she supports their albums and their work.
- 15:36Speaker 1: She always promotes them on her social media, but she
- 15:39Speaker 1: just doesn't want to go back to the group. Would
- 15:41Speaker 1: you be mad, Donnie, if I left our little group here?
- 15:44Speaker 1: Would you be furious if there was no group left after?
- 15:47Speaker 1: I would be lived? See that's you just hit the
- 15:51Speaker 1: nail on the head. If you leave the group and
- 15:54Speaker 1: the group carries on without you quite successfully, so then
- 15:57Speaker 1: there's no reason to be angry. So for instance, when
- 16:00Speaker 1: Posh Spice wouldn't go on tour with the Spice girls.
- 16:03Speaker 1: Last year, they weren't that angry because they went on
- 16:05Speaker 1: tour without her. They sold out and they didn't have
- 16:08Speaker 1: to split the money so many ways, so they were
- 16:10Speaker 1: fined about it. Now, if I'm just in Timberlake and
- 16:13Speaker 1: I leave the group, because without Justin there's no group,
- 16:16Speaker 1: it's like a Destiny's child. With that Beyonce, there's no group.
- 16:21Speaker 1: So really here, although he's being nice and saying he's
- 16:24Speaker 1: thrilled that fergus a mom and good for her, there's
- 16:26Speaker 1: a little bit of a dig in there too, because
- 16:28Speaker 1: basically they're saying, we're do be fine without you, you
- 16:31Speaker 1: know what I mean. Okay, let me do the naughtiest
- 16:33Speaker 1: of the day, norty naughty, naughty, noughty noughty of the day.
- 16:38Speaker 1: Jimmy Kimmel has issued an apology for wearing black face.
- 16:41Speaker 1: So he issued an apology after an old video resurfaced
- 16:45Speaker 1: of him not only using black face impersonating Snoop Dogg,
- 16:50Speaker 1: he's also using the N word. So he put out
- 16:53Speaker 1: a statement just as people are saying his show should
- 16:56Speaker 1: be canceled. He said that he was reluctant to a
- 17:00Speaker 1: dressed this because a lot of people in our culture
- 17:02Speaker 1: at the moment, in the world at the moment, I
- 17:04Speaker 1: think that saying sorry is a weakness. It's not, but
- 17:07Speaker 1: unfortunately that's what a lot of people think. He said
- 17:10Speaker 1: it was a mistake to delay this response. He adds
- 17:14Speaker 1: that there's nothing more important to him than your respect,
- 17:17Speaker 1: and he apologizes to those that he has hurt or
- 17:20Speaker 1: offended by the makeup he wore or the words that
- 17:23Speaker 1: he spoke. The Daily Mail is now reporting that he's
- 17:26Speaker 1: left l A. He's fleed from l as their headline,
- 17:29Speaker 1: and we don't know where he is in a secret location.
- 17:32Speaker 1: He shows on hiatus until September. My sources tell me
- 17:35Speaker 1: it will be back. I know people that work on
- 17:37Speaker 1: that show, and they swear. They tell me he's not
- 17:39Speaker 1: a racist. He's made terrible mistakes in the back in
- 17:42Speaker 1: the past. Now he's addressed them. What do you think
- 17:46Speaker 1: it's tricky? It is tricky. I'm glad he addressed him.
- 17:49Speaker 1: I was a little curious as to because it was
- 17:51Speaker 1: announced a week ago that his show was going to
- 17:53Speaker 1: be taking a little bit of a hiatus and that
- 17:56Speaker 1: other people might step in and kind of host a
- 17:58Speaker 1: show for him. So I was shocked. Now I kind
- 18:01Speaker 1: of see why. Um, but it goes back to think
- 18:04Speaker 1: like Tina Fey recently announced that four episodes of Dirty
- 18:07Speaker 1: Rock were being removed because of black face, and you
- 18:10Speaker 1: just have to think. It's like, it's very tricky, but
- 18:13Speaker 1: I'm glad that these people are stepping up and saying,
- 18:16Speaker 1: you know what, we did something wrong and we're trying
- 18:19Speaker 1: now to take you for responsibility for that. Well yeah,
- 18:23Speaker 1: and and make it make it right. It really makes
- 18:26Speaker 1: me sad about this one, and I'd love to know
- 18:28Speaker 1: what you think about this. Should it be canceled? Is
- 18:31Speaker 1: an apology enough? I'd like to think that we're all
- 18:33Speaker 1: allowed to make mistakes. I think it's about who we
- 18:36Speaker 1: are now. I also know, because of what's going on
- 18:39Speaker 1: in the world that not being a racist is no
- 18:41Speaker 1: longer enough. You've got to speak up. You've got to
- 18:45Speaker 1: do something. You can't be passively now on the sidelines.
- 18:49Speaker 1: So in the past I'm not a racist. I'm certainly not.
- 18:52Speaker 1: But in the past I haven't done enough. I haven't
- 18:54Speaker 1: spoken up enough. Now, when you see things that are wrong,
- 18:58Speaker 1: you have to speak out. You aren't ignoring anymore, Donnie.
- 19:01Speaker 1: We have friends who bury their head in the sand
- 19:04Speaker 1: and don't say anything. I think that's a mistake. What
- 19:07Speaker 1: do you think now, Like you said, it's not good
- 19:09Speaker 1: enough just to not be racist. You have to actively
- 19:12Speaker 1: be anti racist, right, and that absolutely we owe that
- 19:16Speaker 1: to everybody, absolutely right. And now for a moment of robber.
- 19:20Speaker 1: So hopefully for twenty minutes or so we make your
- 19:22Speaker 1: giggle or smile, we have a moment or a little
- 19:24Speaker 1: bit more serious today's moment of rob When you were
- 19:27Speaker 1: kind to yourself, it makes you the type of person
- 19:31Speaker 1: who's kind to other people. And when you're kind to
- 19:34Speaker 1: other people, you develop friendships, relationships that you never dreamed
- 19:39Speaker 1: would even be possible. I'm kind to myself now. For
- 19:42Speaker 1: a long time, I beat myself up all the time.
- 19:44Speaker 1: I said things to myself that I wouldn't say to
- 19:46Speaker 1: an enemy. I've stopped doing that. Now. I'm kind to me,
- 19:49Speaker 1: and you'll never guess what's happened. I'm kind to other
- 19:52Speaker 1: people too now, and because of that, I have some
- 19:55Speaker 1: of the best friendships ever, including all of you. Donnie,
- 19:58Speaker 1: where are you on this? I'm gonna be honest. It's
- 20:01Speaker 1: hard to be kind yourself all the time. Nobody beats
- 20:04Speaker 1: you up like you do, because because you know what
- 20:08Speaker 1: you're expecting, and you know what you want out of life,
- 20:10Speaker 1: and if it doesn't come true, you're like, oh, I'm
- 20:12Speaker 1: such a loser, and it's it's hard not to be
- 20:14Speaker 1: nice to yourself. Nip it in the birds. Next time
- 20:17Speaker 1: you look in the mirror and you think you have
- 20:18Speaker 1: a big nose, a big ears, or you don't like
- 20:20Speaker 1: your hair, Nip it in the bird. Now, when I
- 20:22Speaker 1: look in the mirror, I find one thing that I
- 20:24Speaker 1: like about myself. It takes me a few minutes when
- 20:26Speaker 1: I and I say it out loud. Donnie, let me
- 20:29Speaker 1: say out loud. We love having you here. Thank you
- 20:32Speaker 1: so much, and you guys, thank you for listening to
- 20:35Speaker 1: the Naughty but Nice with Rob Show, a production of
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- 20:50Speaker 1: you've got to be a nice. Nice, take care of everybody.
- 20:57Speaker 1: It's not even nice with ra two