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- 0:00Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast
- 0:03Speaker 1: with our radio. Welcome to the Almost Famous Friends Giving Ashley, Uh,
- 0:09Speaker 1: would you like to introduce your family? Hi? Everyone, Thank
- 0:13Speaker 1: you for all for being here, for the ones watching
- 0:16Speaker 1: live or the ones just watching the podcast version. This
- 0:19Speaker 1: is my husband Jared. I don't know if you guys
- 0:22Speaker 1: know him. And this is my sister's dog, Gergy. He
- 0:26Speaker 1: lived with us for a long time when we all
- 0:28Speaker 1: lived together. And then this is our our fatty Lois.
- 0:31Speaker 1: She's not fatty, she's just big bones. She's a little
- 0:33Speaker 1: of her weight. The vet says, I guess it's been
- 0:35Speaker 1: a while step seen Lois. Lois has looked like she's
- 0:38Speaker 1: a healthier than I. Everybody's put on a couple of
- 0:42Speaker 1: pounds during COVID. Okay, she's no different you. Ben are
- 0:46Speaker 1: joined by beautiful Jessica. She is here now. She wasn't
- 0:52Speaker 1: able to make our last live podcast. Um. She has
- 0:55Speaker 1: been in school to be an esthetician, which I can't
- 0:59Speaker 1: wait to sorry you to be able to extract my face,
- 1:02Speaker 1: grass I would love to nothing would be me have here.
- 1:06Speaker 1: That's very exciting, So I'll be putting a little story
- 1:08Speaker 1: real quick. Ashley. Okay, So yesterday, Jessica says, hey, how
- 1:12Speaker 1: about you coming to school for a second. Um, I
- 1:16Speaker 1: need to check off some treatments. And so she gave
- 1:18Speaker 1: me a what's called a back facial. Oh so does
- 1:23Speaker 1: that feel like a massage? But you extract his backne?
- 1:26Speaker 1: M hm? And how much backne? Does Ben have? You
- 1:30Speaker 1: only had one? What? I was pleasantly surprised because I've
- 1:35Speaker 1: never looked at his back really before until yesterday. But
- 1:38Speaker 1: it was it was very clear. Honestly, I need like
- 1:41Speaker 1: a chest facial because when I work out, I get
- 1:44Speaker 1: like all these little pimples on my chest. You know.
- 1:46Speaker 1: Sometimes Ashley just doesn't know when too much is too
- 1:50Speaker 1: much enough. But hey, here's the here's the end result.
- 1:54Speaker 1: I feel asleep. It was incredible. And so if anybody
- 1:57Speaker 1: else is out there watching and Jessica is about to
- 1:59Speaker 1: get her, lie since and you would like an amazing
- 2:02Speaker 1: back facial or face facial, hit her up nice? Sorry
- 2:09Speaker 1: I just coughed a little bit. Hey, uh, actually, what
- 2:12Speaker 1: are you most excited for tonight? This is a big
- 2:14Speaker 1: deal for us. Well, I think I'm most excited to
- 2:16Speaker 1: talk to Crystal because we get basically the first interview
- 2:20Speaker 1: that she's done since announcing her pregnancy. She's been so
- 2:24Speaker 1: open about on Instagram this week, so I'm excited to
- 2:28Speaker 1: talk to her about the timeline. You know, how many
- 2:30Speaker 1: months was she dating her boyfriend before she got pregnant? Uh,
- 2:34Speaker 1: how much of a shock was it? Yeah? What about you?
- 2:38Speaker 1: I would say, I mean that's a big deal. Also,
- 2:40Speaker 1: Chris Souls Crystals has been somebody um that we ever
- 2:43Speaker 1: got to talk to in a while, right, I mean,
- 2:45Speaker 1: obviously he's been through a lot of seasons of life recently. Um,
- 2:48Speaker 1: I think Crystals super intriguing. I think Crystals. I actually
- 2:51Speaker 1: think our guest tonight might be the best lineup of
- 2:53Speaker 1: guests that we've ever had on a live podcast. I agree.
- 2:58Speaker 1: J Jarre's here too, So yeah, yes, Now before we
- 3:04Speaker 1: do begin, I don't know if you're ready for this,
- 3:05Speaker 1: but we are. Um. Jessica has spent the afternoon cooking
- 3:10Speaker 1: up our favorite turkey recipe and we'd like to show
- 3:13Speaker 1: it off because we spent a offenoon doing it. I
- 3:15Speaker 1: know this is friends giving. Uh, so do you mind
- 3:18Speaker 1: going to the the turkey real quick? And I think I
- 3:21Speaker 1: should probably go and show off my cream corn, which
- 3:23Speaker 1: is in its last hour of cooking in the crock pot.
- 3:26Speaker 1: It is truly the easiest. Ye, It's like it's unfair
- 3:32Speaker 1: that you had the turkey and that I did something
- 3:35Speaker 1: that truly took me five minutes in the pot. It's
- 3:38Speaker 1: the Yeah, it's the easiest. Do you want to see
- 3:39Speaker 1: should I go? I want to bring the whole pot
- 3:44Speaker 1: thing over it? All right, it's kind of happy. Yeah, okay, fine,
- 3:47Speaker 1: Jared's gonna bring the pot over. So this is how
- 3:49Speaker 1: juicy our turkey is. Now give me a second to
- 3:51Speaker 1: explain this. It was so juicy. Yeah, yeah, here, here
- 3:58Speaker 1: it is. It's it's it's really big, it's really heavy.
- 4:08Speaker 1: It looks great. All right, you're good now, are you? Um?
- 4:16Speaker 1: It's a butterball turkey, which means that it's really good. Best.
- 4:24Speaker 1: Are you guys going to one save that for Thanksgiving?
- 4:28Speaker 1: Is it gonna stay fresh for a week or are
- 4:30Speaker 1: you gonna like make turkey sandwiches of it all week?
- 4:32Speaker 1: Are giving? Completely turkeyed out at the end of this?
- 4:35Speaker 1: So this is the plant. So because we had friends giving,
- 4:37Speaker 1: friends giving, and we knew this is a big nine,
- 4:39Speaker 1: we had a lot of people out there watching. We're
- 4:40Speaker 1: really excited about um about just doing this that. Uh,
- 4:46Speaker 1: we literally made this turkey and then after we started
- 4:48Speaker 1: cooking and I was like, Hune, we have another took
- 4:51Speaker 1: kirky turkey coming along the way in like a few days.
- 4:55Speaker 1: So we're gonna cut this thing up. Uh and uh
- 4:59Speaker 1: now ashore in the whole thing over. But before your gift,
- 5:04Speaker 1: I do want to add that this turkey is unique
- 5:06Speaker 1: and this is a this is a family recipe here.
- 5:12Speaker 1: So there's things that we've done. Um, we've smoked the
- 5:16Speaker 1: turkey in my past, which has been a big deal.
- 5:19Speaker 1: I'm really a big fan of smoking turkey. Or also
- 5:23Speaker 1: we've deep fried turkey. So we get a big deep
- 5:25Speaker 1: friar and we deep fried the turkey. Those are two
- 5:29Speaker 1: ways that the Higgins family has done this. Tonight, we
- 5:32Speaker 1: smoked the turkey. It's fantastic. I'm really proud of my
- 5:35Speaker 1: fiance for doing it. Uh. It's really heavy and so hey,
- 5:38Speaker 1: I'll pass it over to you to explain your dish.
- 5:40Speaker 1: But turkey at least got shown off. This chair is
- 5:45Speaker 1: a family. It's a family. It's a token. Okay, So Jared,
- 5:52Speaker 1: we're gonna pull it. This is us right now. The
- 5:54Speaker 1: entire crock pot came over um into my dad's study.
- 5:58Speaker 1: So yeah, I'll hold this and you can show off
- 6:02Speaker 1: the corn, all right. So all you do is put
- 6:06Speaker 1: a whole thing of of cream of what was it
- 6:10Speaker 1: called cream cheese in here, a stick of butter, three
- 6:15Speaker 1: packs of frozen corn, and then I put some um,
- 6:20Speaker 1: what is it cracker barrel cheddar cheese in here as well,
- 6:23Speaker 1: and one cup of whole milk, and then you get
- 6:27Speaker 1: this cream corn which could use another hour in here
- 6:29Speaker 1: to really solidify, but it's really delicious and I've been
- 6:33Speaker 1: making it for the past I think this will be
- 6:35Speaker 1: the fourth Thanksgiving, and his parents love it. They request
- 6:39Speaker 1: it now every year, which brings us to our first
- 6:43Speaker 1: thank you, Thank you van a white of court cream corn. Yes, um,
- 6:48Speaker 1: thank you very much, babe. You can. Let's bring us
- 6:51Speaker 1: to our first question though from the fans out there,
- 6:54Speaker 1: it's how are we spending Thanksgiving? Then you go first, yea,
- 6:59Speaker 1: so are things given? This year is gonna be? This
- 7:02Speaker 1: is our first year that we had to really start
- 7:05Speaker 1: to decide, like how we're gonna spend the holidays. You know,
- 7:07Speaker 1: we love our families. Our families are really important to us,
- 7:10Speaker 1: but we do live in separate areas, and so we
- 7:13Speaker 1: have to kind of compromise and balance, which is I
- 7:15Speaker 1: would say one of the hardest things as a couple
- 7:19Speaker 1: to like, one of the first big hurdles. And so
- 7:21Speaker 1: this year we're gonna go uh to spend it with
- 7:24Speaker 1: my family, if COVID willing. We're still actually in the
- 7:27Speaker 1: midst of trying to figure that out. Uh to Indianapolis, Indiana,
- 7:31Speaker 1: And we're gonna spend it with my family in Indianapolis. Uh,
- 7:34Speaker 1: my mom and dad and um and Grandma is gonna
- 7:37Speaker 1: be there, with my aunts and uncles and cousins. Gonna
- 7:39Speaker 1: be great. Um. But I don't know if anybody out
- 7:42Speaker 1: there is watching, I would love to hear from you
- 7:45Speaker 1: if you are. But we're just running into it this
- 7:47Speaker 1: week where we're realizing that holidays are gonna look a
- 7:50Speaker 1: lot different for a lot of people, and that we
- 7:53Speaker 1: still don't know if we're gonna be kind of here,
- 7:58Speaker 1: maybe kind of in quarantine for the holiday, which would
- 8:00Speaker 1: be really sad and unfortunate, but it is something that
- 8:03Speaker 1: we're having to talk about. We just started talking about today.
- 8:06Speaker 1: Are you guys going to switch off for Christmas? Was
- 8:08Speaker 1: that the initial plan? Yeah, we're gonna we're our plan
- 8:11Speaker 1: is to go to spend it with her family for Christmas.
- 8:14Speaker 1: So for us, Jared's parents are coming down here to Virginia.
- 8:19Speaker 1: We are they're getting tested over the weekend and then
- 8:23Speaker 1: they're going to get tested again once they land or
- 8:26Speaker 1: a couple of days or yeah, yeah, just about when
- 8:28Speaker 1: they land, and then Jared and I flew here yesterday.
- 8:31Speaker 1: I got tested on Monday, and we are going to
- 8:33Speaker 1: get tested again on Monday. So that is how we
- 8:37Speaker 1: are doing things around at the ken Nettie Haypen household. Yeah,
- 8:42Speaker 1: it's a it's a weird time and I don't know
- 8:44Speaker 1: it's for us. It got kind of sad today, like
- 8:47Speaker 1: I would be, to be honest, like we we're both
- 8:49Speaker 1: kind of emotional about the the holiday changes and kind
- 8:53Speaker 1: of the I feel like this is the first time
- 8:56Speaker 1: since COVID's hit that it's really starting to affect um.
- 9:01Speaker 1: You know, you can you can miss your family for
- 9:03Speaker 1: months and you cannot be around them, and you can
- 9:04Speaker 1: skype with them and you can be locked inside and
- 9:07Speaker 1: not with them, but when the holidays hit, uh, it
- 9:10Speaker 1: starts to get pretty emotional. And I think for us
- 9:14Speaker 1: it started really feeling that way today as we started
- 9:16Speaker 1: to get emails and UM had to start really considering.
- 9:19Speaker 1: So outside of that, our plan is to go to Indianapolis,
- 9:22Speaker 1: have a great time with my family, and then go
- 9:24Speaker 1: to Connecticut, uh to celebrate with just his family. Uh
- 9:28Speaker 1: for Christmas. Um, Hey, I want to just take a
- 9:31Speaker 1: second year. Actually, this other show is gonna work tonight.
- 9:33Speaker 1: We're gonna bring on these guests. Each one of them
- 9:36Speaker 1: has a very very special recipe that they've planned one
- 9:39Speaker 1: of their favorites for the holidays. Are just one of
- 9:41Speaker 1: their favorites of raw that they're gonna be showing off
- 9:43Speaker 1: or kind of teaching us how to cook. We've left
- 9:45Speaker 1: it open to them whatever they want to do. Uh.
- 9:47Speaker 1: We're also gonna be diving into their life. But in
- 9:50Speaker 1: the meantime, we do have a couple of people behind
- 9:52Speaker 1: the scenes. Uh, and we really want to take your questions.
- 9:55Speaker 1: So if you have any questions for us, we can't
- 9:57Speaker 1: promise all of them will be answered, but please submit
- 10:00Speaker 1: your questions and we will gather them an answer them
- 10:03Speaker 1: as we go throughout the show. Uh. This is an
- 10:05Speaker 1: interactive show. This is a special shows the celebration. I mean,
- 10:08Speaker 1: I've got a drink here, I told Ashley if if
- 10:10Speaker 1: I'm not a little loosey goosey by the time this
- 10:12Speaker 1: thing is done, I have not done this right. Look
- 10:15Speaker 1: at my look at my bachelorette, and will you accept
- 10:17Speaker 1: this rose cup. This has to do with one of
- 10:19Speaker 1: our sponsors. We'll talk about it later. They're a really
- 10:22Speaker 1: cool cocktail company. And we also want to bring bring
- 10:24Speaker 1: to attention the fact that we have a donation button
- 10:28Speaker 1: around here on the screen at the donation jar. The
- 10:32Speaker 1: proceeds of this will be going to No Kid Hungry
- 10:34Speaker 1: to help feed hungry kids in America. Alright, guys, so
- 10:38Speaker 1: don't forget to don't I if you can and submit
- 10:41Speaker 1: your questions. We're going to get these interviews Roland, starting
- 10:45Speaker 1: with Cristal Hi, how are you? You look so cute?
- 10:50Speaker 1: Thank you. We are getting festive over here. My mom
- 10:55Speaker 1: just arrived here a few hours ago. So Mom and
- 10:59Speaker 1: I are slaying in the kitchen. It's nice. It looks
- 11:03Speaker 1: very festive there, and it looks it looks so things
- 11:06Speaker 1: giving themed. And you're just the cutest pregnant person ever.
- 11:09Speaker 1: And I think that if there's anybody here we're waiting
- 11:11Speaker 1: for a recipe from it's crystal because like, how did
- 11:14Speaker 1: you possibly make your Thanksgiving Day recipe a healthy one?
- 11:19Speaker 1: Did you? I did so. I actually a recipe, I
- 11:22Speaker 1: mean a sweet potato pomegranate spinach Salad's very healthy Dill cookbook,
- 11:29Speaker 1: and it is so healthy and delicious and so simple
- 11:34Speaker 1: to make. So I'm just gonna I wish I could
- 11:37Speaker 1: like hold up my camera and show you guys, but
- 11:41Speaker 1: I guess I'll tilt down. It's super simple. We just
- 11:45Speaker 1: prepped some arugula in some bowls, diced up to sweet potatoes,
- 11:51Speaker 1: cooked it for four hundred degrees, got them all roasted
- 11:55Speaker 1: with some olive oil, some salt and pepper. So we
- 12:00Speaker 1: just have pumpkin seeds, feta cheese or a vegan feta,
- 12:05Speaker 1: you can do that, and then pomegranate kernels, and essentially
- 12:10Speaker 1: you're just gonna sprinkle, you know, Chipotle style, whatever you
- 12:15Speaker 1: went on the salad and however much you want a
- 12:18Speaker 1: little salt and pepper, and then I made a pomegranate juice,
- 12:23Speaker 1: red wine vinegar dressing to drizzle all over. That sounds great,
- 12:31Speaker 1: that food salad for friends Giving. There's no calories with
- 12:37Speaker 1: anything you eat, no at all. I'm gonna tell you
- 12:42Speaker 1: two things really quick. Um one is this. I'm really
- 12:46Speaker 1: excited now. I don't know about you actually, just through
- 12:48Speaker 1: the rest of the night because I know crystals presentation
- 12:50Speaker 1: is going to be the best presentation. Like I can't
- 12:54Speaker 1: wait to see souls get in here and like be
- 12:56Speaker 1: like I totally forgot to make anything. Well would I
- 12:58Speaker 1: do in the fridge? And it's important. I really think
- 13:05Speaker 1: the food takes better when you take a little extra
- 13:07Speaker 1: time just stuff make it with some love. Wow. Okay,
- 13:11Speaker 1: speaking of Uh and Crystal, what have your pregnancy cravings been?
- 13:20Speaker 1: You know, I had a lot of aversions. I will
- 13:22Speaker 1: say my biggest one was, unfortunately, protein shakes and apple
- 13:28Speaker 1: cider vinegar, which is synonymous with my name. But now
- 13:34Speaker 1: I'm back to craving them. Not episode. I'm creating protein shakes,
- 13:41Speaker 1: protein smoothies, fresh berries, and I'm creating cheese and dairy,
- 13:47Speaker 1: which I've never been into before. Like I've never been
- 13:52Speaker 1: into it or you've tried not to be into it. No,
- 13:56Speaker 1: I was always pretty. I was always pretty pretty, vegan,
- 14:00Speaker 1: very vegetarian. But I'd eat cheese now and then. But
- 14:03Speaker 1: I buy the little kid cheese sticks and I still
- 14:06Speaker 1: call them all day long with little sliced apples like
- 14:10Speaker 1: the little inner child in these kind of got to
- 14:13Speaker 1: play and I'm here for it. The this is uh,
- 14:18Speaker 1: this is a big time in your life, and obviously
- 14:20Speaker 1: this is a special holiday for you. I think everybody
- 14:23Speaker 1: out there has been super interesting. I know. Actually I've
- 14:25Speaker 1: talked about for a few weeks. Now. Can you walk
- 14:28Speaker 1: us through, uh, your experience over the last couple of months,
- 14:31Speaker 1: finding out your pregnant and then now entering into the
- 14:34Speaker 1: holidays for the very first time knowing that you have
- 14:38Speaker 1: something growing inside of you? Uh, what are the emotions?
- 14:43Speaker 1: How are you holding up? Has there been ups and downs? Yeah?
- 14:47Speaker 1: I would say that, you know, this year, I think
- 14:50Speaker 1: for everyone has been a year you know of a
- 14:53Speaker 1: lot of ups and downs. And I know for me,
- 14:55Speaker 1: it's really made me identify am I in line? Am
- 14:59Speaker 1: I'm making choice with the life I really want to live.
- 15:01Speaker 1: Am I making myself proud? And I really planning for
- 15:04Speaker 1: a bright future for me and the future I know
- 15:07Speaker 1: I deserved and want to I want And it made
- 15:11Speaker 1: just gave me a lot of clarity on what was
- 15:13Speaker 1: really important for me and for me, like becoming a
- 15:17Speaker 1: mom and and being close with my family. Um, is
- 15:22Speaker 1: just something so dear to my heart. So we're so excited.
- 15:26Speaker 1: I can't believe I'm pregnant and having a baby. It's
- 15:30Speaker 1: blows my mind. I just went to my ultrasound on
- 15:34Speaker 1: a couple of days ago and got to see the
- 15:36Speaker 1: baby moving inside me, like moving, like kicking and thumb
- 15:41Speaker 1: to the face. And I just are feeling little kicks
- 15:46Speaker 1: in my belly this week, which I was thought it
- 15:50Speaker 1: was like just kind of gas bubbles, but they've been
- 15:52Speaker 1: confirmed as kicks, and it's wild. And you know, coom
- 15:59Speaker 1: and say, there's this really special bond with baby, like
- 16:02Speaker 1: in your belly when you can feel it and no
- 16:05Speaker 1: one else knows. It's this little sacred experience. So I
- 16:10Speaker 1: feel so blessed to have Miles as a partner, for
- 16:15Speaker 1: our families to be so excited, so supportive, and we
- 16:21Speaker 1: just couldn't be more excited. So last month you announced
- 16:25Speaker 1: your relationship with Miles. How long have you guys been dating?
- 16:29Speaker 1: Do you mind? Do you mind us asking we met?
- 16:32Speaker 1: We've been dating since since May? Okay, and then you
- 16:35Speaker 1: found out you're pregnant early August mid How did he
- 16:41Speaker 1: How did he feel about baby coming so soon into
- 16:44Speaker 1: a relationship, well both of us. It's so funny because
- 16:49Speaker 1: the week before we found out we were pregnant, we
- 16:52Speaker 1: were really made some big strides for our plans together
- 16:56Speaker 1: in our future and kids with something always talked about
- 17:00Speaker 1: up from the very very beginning, because I was Miles
- 17:03Speaker 1: knowing where I was in my life and I was
- 17:06Speaker 1: ready to start a family in a near future, and
- 17:09Speaker 1: I needed to make sure that he was really in
- 17:10Speaker 1: alignment with that in order for us to really move forward.
- 17:14Speaker 1: So we had that conversation, like early, Miles was suchless.
- 17:19Speaker 1: I think we both were um because we were just
- 17:23Speaker 1: like whoa. But ultimately we just felt really blessed that
- 17:28Speaker 1: this was a gift for us to come together. It
- 17:31Speaker 1: was something that we had been asking for. I had
- 17:34Speaker 1: been praying about. I knew that this was my year
- 17:37Speaker 1: to start a family, and sometimes things happen a little
- 17:42Speaker 1: sooner than you expect, but like there's a bigger plan
- 17:46Speaker 1: for us, and we just came into faith and trust
- 17:49Speaker 1: and that was a huge thing for me to get
- 17:52Speaker 1: out of this whole experience. It's men, who I am,
- 17:58Speaker 1: how I'm showing up for myself might be business, my family,
- 18:00Speaker 1: my friends, my clients. Am I being the role model
- 18:05Speaker 1: I want to be for my child, and so it's
- 18:08Speaker 1: been so cool to grow in that aspect. And I've
- 18:13Speaker 1: never felt such a a passion and a purpose to
- 18:17Speaker 1: show up um day to day. It's really beautiful. So
- 18:22Speaker 1: when people are like, it's changed you and you just
- 18:24Speaker 1: don't know until you go through it, I'm going through
- 18:28Speaker 1: it and I'm I'm really like awakening to this whole
- 18:31Speaker 1: new side of me, which is it's so beautiful. Really,
- 18:36Speaker 1: that's awesome. I know that you had a lot of
- 18:39Speaker 1: morning sickness, you had a rough first crime master. Did
- 18:42Speaker 1: you feel like this during it or you coming to
- 18:44Speaker 1: that awakening now that you're starting to feel better. I
- 18:47Speaker 1: did not have this awakening, Okay, no, I being opposite. Honestly,
- 18:54Speaker 1: I wrote a post this a few days ago when
- 18:57Speaker 1: I was in a dark, bad play because I could
- 19:01Speaker 1: barely leave my house. I couldn't want to block water
- 19:04Speaker 1: made me throw up water. So that was really tough
- 19:09Speaker 1: mentally because I've always been an athletic person, very much
- 19:11Speaker 1: into my morning early routines, into my working out, into
- 19:15Speaker 1: my intermittent fasting and smoothies and bone broth fast whatever.
- 19:19Speaker 1: So losing that not how I had clung so long
- 19:24Speaker 1: to of who I was, based on my routines, on
- 19:27Speaker 1: kind of how I performed my days. Was really difficult
- 19:30Speaker 1: because I could only lay in bed and watch Homeland,
- 19:35Speaker 1: which turns out commodies are actually the answer to my ladies,
- 19:40Speaker 1: not drama, not you need to laugh. Um. So since
- 19:46Speaker 1: I've been feeling better. Um, but ultimately, when I was
- 19:49Speaker 1: feeling like that, I just kind of had to make
- 19:52Speaker 1: a choice like this is really tough, but it's also
- 19:54Speaker 1: a blessing and I need to show up and become
- 19:56Speaker 1: more mentally stronger than I've ever had before. So it
- 20:00Speaker 1: was a huge moment for me. Actually was my mom
- 20:04Speaker 1: telling me that I needed What did she say, She's
- 20:09Speaker 1: gonna start crying. But there was a conversation with my
- 20:11Speaker 1: mom where I was like, I can't keep thinking, I
- 20:16Speaker 1: can't keep laying in bed feeling sorry for myself. I
- 20:19Speaker 1: need to get up and and change my ways and
- 20:21Speaker 1: be grateful for this. So I really dug in deep
- 20:25Speaker 1: into my strength and really pulled myself up and said,
- 20:30Speaker 1: this is going to be the best thing that ever
- 20:31Speaker 1: ever happened to me, and it is that is awesome. Um.
- 20:37Speaker 1: I do have one more question. Ben I know I
- 20:39Speaker 1: want to get to your question, but I'm dying to
- 20:42Speaker 1: know how you met Miles. So Miles and I met.
- 20:46Speaker 1: I actually knew his mom, him and I or his
- 20:49Speaker 1: mom and I had gone on a retreat the previous
- 20:51Speaker 1: year and we're like a spirituality personal development retreat and
- 20:56Speaker 1: we were um, we were accountability partners. I knew Katie.
- 21:01Speaker 1: I loved her. I vibed so much with her and
- 21:06Speaker 1: my we knew each other for a mutual friend who
- 21:08Speaker 1: was my high performance coach and my coach, Carrie Smith
- 21:13Speaker 1: with the Awakening trainings. She came over and she's like,
- 21:17Speaker 1: I have the perfect guide for you. It's Katie's son.
- 21:20Speaker 1: And I was like, Katie and I are friends, I
- 21:23Speaker 1: can't date her son. And she just kind of really
- 21:27Speaker 1: encouraged it for weeks and I was like, I'm not dating.
- 21:32Speaker 1: I'm just doing my thing. And finally I was just
- 21:35Speaker 1: curious because Carrie was so adamant about connecting us, and
- 21:41Speaker 1: when we met, I just knew why she was so
- 21:47Speaker 1: certain of us being a great match for each other. Well, Christine,
- 21:52Speaker 1: we really appreciate you coming on. Best of luck here
- 21:54Speaker 1: in the next upcoming months, we're celebrating you and uh,
- 21:58Speaker 1: happy Thanksgiving. Thanks joining us guys. Lot of love to
- 22:03Speaker 1: all of you and everyone watching, Bye you too. So
- 22:18Speaker 1: up next we do have Wells Adams. He's gonna be
- 22:20Speaker 1: joining us. Who knows what he's cooking. He does cooking
- 22:22Speaker 1: on his Instagram all the time. Wells coming onto the show. Uh,
- 22:27Speaker 1: teach us what's going on. There's the beautiful face, one
- 22:29Speaker 1: of my favorite people of all times. Cheers, yes, cheers, Wells.
- 22:37Speaker 1: We've got a big episode tonight. Um. Now here's the thing.
- 22:42Speaker 1: This is our podcast tonight. But you have a podcast
- 22:45Speaker 1: of your own going on before we get started with
- 22:48Speaker 1: whatever you're cooking, because who knows what you're gonna do next. Uh,
- 22:52Speaker 1: let's stay sober and tell him about what The Wells Cast.
- 22:56Speaker 1: Uh yeah, The Wells Cast is my weekly podcast today
- 22:58Speaker 1: with My Heart and the Bait. The kind of the
- 23:04Speaker 1: idea for it is origin stories. I'm kind of fascinated
- 23:07Speaker 1: with how really successful people became successful. Um. So we
- 23:11Speaker 1: talked to actors, we talked to musicians, we talked to
- 23:15Speaker 1: reality TV idiots, um, everyone in between. And I'm not
- 23:22Speaker 1: so interested in you know, uh, what you're doing now
- 23:27Speaker 1: that you have the blue check mark. I'm more interested
- 23:30Speaker 1: in how you got that blue check mark and finding
- 23:33Speaker 1: out what the blueprint was for you to become successful.
- 23:35Speaker 1: And it's really interesting to find out how these these artists,
- 23:41Speaker 1: these musicians, these actors, these really famous people you know,
- 23:45Speaker 1: worked and hustled and grinded and did all they can
- 23:48Speaker 1: do to get to where they are and it's really inspiring.
- 23:51Speaker 1: It's a cool podcast, and so if you're interested in
- 23:53Speaker 1: that kind of stuff, go listen to it. Well, if
- 23:57Speaker 1: there's one episode of the podcast that somebody who's never
- 24:00Speaker 1: into your podcast before should listen to to hook them,
- 24:03Speaker 1: what would it be. I mean, the first one is
- 24:06Speaker 1: really funny how this all came about. I had this
- 24:09Speaker 1: idea for for origin stories, and the first one we
- 24:12Speaker 1: were doing at the I Heart Fest. Uh god, I
- 24:16Speaker 1: guess it was two years ago, back when things were
- 24:18Speaker 1: kind of normal and we had Derek and Dean and
- 24:22Speaker 1: Jared on and I had Jared. That was like the
- 24:26Speaker 1: air podcast has ever done. It was so much funks.
- 24:29Speaker 1: Like I came in the room, we were all a
- 24:30Speaker 1: little hungover, and I said, hey, guys, I've got this idea.
- 24:33Speaker 1: I just want to find out what were all the
- 24:35Speaker 1: things you did before you got on the show, and
- 24:38Speaker 1: so it turned into this episode of everyone talking about
- 24:41Speaker 1: their rap sheets, like how everyone had gotten arrested at
- 24:44Speaker 1: some point or like pulled over and troumble with the law.
- 24:47Speaker 1: Of course, Dean had like the most elaborate crazy story. Um,
- 24:51Speaker 1: that one's really funny. But they're all really good. It's
- 24:54Speaker 1: it's it's so uh my guests are so kind of
- 24:57Speaker 1: like all over the place that I would I would
- 24:59Speaker 1: say us too, to go like look through to find
- 25:03Speaker 1: guests that really suit, like what you're into, Like we
- 25:06Speaker 1: had make It Hilty on this last week. So if
- 25:08Speaker 1: you're big into you know, Broadway or we're acting. She
- 25:11Speaker 1: was on the show smash like if you're into that,
- 25:13Speaker 1: like that's perfect for you. But you yeah, she that
- 25:17Speaker 1: was a great show. Like when Sarah heard that, she's
- 25:19Speaker 1: like lost her mind. Victor Oladipo is a you know,
- 25:23Speaker 1: is a basketball player, and um, you know, it's just
- 25:26Speaker 1: kind of like everywhere in between. So whatever you're into,
- 25:28Speaker 1: go check it out. If not, don't worry about it.
- 25:30Speaker 1: I don't care either way. Well, we all care about food.
- 25:34Speaker 1: So what did you make tonight? Well, I'm gonna make
- 25:37Speaker 1: it for you right now. So, um, I do my
- 25:39Speaker 1: Cooking Wells segment on my Instagram a lot, and it's
- 25:41Speaker 1: it's very popular. Um and so I've been making a
- 25:44Speaker 1: lot of poached eggs recently. Um and so everyone has
- 25:48Speaker 1: been asking for how to make poached eggs. I thought
- 25:50Speaker 1: I would do my avocado toast with a poach egg
- 25:53Speaker 1: on top. Um. And So here's the thing I'm letna
- 25:56Speaker 1: show you guys. Okay, so I got some water boiling
- 25:59Speaker 1: in a spot, right. First trick is get your water
- 26:03Speaker 1: up to about the rivets right here. Okay, so halfway.
- 26:07Speaker 1: The most important thing for a poached egg is you
- 26:10Speaker 1: need to start with vinegar. You cannot poaching egg without vinegar.
- 26:13Speaker 1: And this is how I was taught on the Food
- 26:15Speaker 1: Network of how to measure this cooks in America. Yes
- 26:20Speaker 1: that I won, by the way. Uh So it's like
- 26:24Speaker 1: it's like, but that's how much you want to put
- 26:26Speaker 1: in it? Maybe a do? Okay, So you got the
- 26:32Speaker 1: vinegar in there. This that's well, like keeps the eggs together. Right,
- 26:36Speaker 1: Let's see if I can do this well. Is the
- 26:38Speaker 1: water boiling at this point? Yeah? So I had the
- 26:41Speaker 1: water bowling already, but you can put it in beforehand
- 26:43Speaker 1: and start the boil, it doesn't really matter, okay, um,
- 26:47Speaker 1: and then you just want to crack the eggs, make
- 26:48Speaker 1: sure you don't break the yolk, and throw them in there.
- 26:51Speaker 1: I do too, And this, by the way, it's like
- 26:54Speaker 1: my favorite thing to make I don't know every morning,
- 27:00Speaker 1: mainly because the lawn does it a lot. And now
- 27:02Speaker 1: he thinks he's super cool and I have to beat
- 27:04Speaker 1: him at it, of course with the break and yoke challenge.
- 27:09Speaker 1: I feel like this is the kind of egg that
- 27:11Speaker 1: your average person doesn't know how to make at home,
- 27:14Speaker 1: so great a job for doing this. It's like everyone's
- 27:17Speaker 1: very um scared to do it, and they shouldn't because
- 27:21Speaker 1: it's actually the easiest way and it's also the healthy way,
- 27:23Speaker 1: healthiest way because there's no oil, there's no butter that
- 27:25Speaker 1: we're doing. Okay, So then what I did is I
- 27:27Speaker 1: toasted up some bread. Okay, Now here's the secret. I mean,
- 27:30Speaker 1: if you don't like garlic, then don't do this. But
- 27:33Speaker 1: don't like garlic exactly, it's crazy talk. So what the
- 27:37Speaker 1: secret to this is? You get your toasted bread and
- 27:41Speaker 1: you take a rock clove of garlic and you actually
- 27:44Speaker 1: rub it on. And what's crazy is that hotbread will
- 27:47Speaker 1: actually melt the garlics. It's already melted in half. Do
- 27:50Speaker 1: both sides, so really get some good garlic on that. Right,
- 27:55Speaker 1: I'm gonna this is gonna be almost gone. It's almost gone, right,
- 27:59Speaker 1: And then I don't know, I'm gonna do two different ones. Okay,
- 28:01Speaker 1: I'm gonna do a like a traditional and I'm gonna
- 28:05Speaker 1: do like a spicy one. So like whatever you guys
- 28:07Speaker 1: are into, I like mayo on my avocado toast. Some
- 28:10Speaker 1: people don't, but those people are people are still polarized,
- 28:16Speaker 1: polarized when it comes to Mayo, and I will never
- 28:19Speaker 1: understand why somebody wouldn't like Mayo. It's the greatest condimental.
- 28:23Speaker 1: What's your opinion on Mayo? Well, I was gonna agree
- 28:26Speaker 1: with you guys until Wilson it's the greatest condiment. I
- 28:28Speaker 1: think horse shradish is the greatest condiment. But that's my
- 28:31Speaker 1: own opinion. That's what a lawn thinks is the greatest condiment.
- 28:34Speaker 1: Where is the lawn? Well, this is what you need? Um, Yeah,
- 28:40Speaker 1: But I feel like there's Mayo or Mayo additives in
- 28:44Speaker 1: horse radish, Like I feel like horse radish is just
- 28:46Speaker 1: like spicy mayo. You're crazy. Horse radish is literally horse
- 28:50Speaker 1: shradish in vinegar um. But there's no there's no like
- 28:55Speaker 1: egg yolks in it. Nope, spicy mayo is probably my
- 28:59Speaker 1: favorite condiment. Here's a question for you all, as as
- 29:02Speaker 1: well as continues here for him out there watching. There's
- 29:05Speaker 1: about a year ago and before Covid Wells and I
- 29:09Speaker 1: am Alan, who was a producer on the show for
- 29:11Speaker 1: a long time, considered starting a company that I still
- 29:13Speaker 1: would like uh to to start uh and it was
- 29:17Speaker 1: gonna be a horse radish company. Is actually gonna be
- 29:19Speaker 1: a condiment company. Would anybody be interested if we started
- 29:23Speaker 1: a condiment company focusing on really good horse radish? If so,
- 29:27Speaker 1: please write your response now. It might help us set
- 29:30Speaker 1: up for a better and brighter future. I thought we
- 29:33Speaker 1: were doing a condom company. That's interesting. I didn't be
- 29:37Speaker 1: good questions. Feisty condoms was not a part of that
- 29:40Speaker 1: conversation that changes everything all right? By by now my
- 29:46Speaker 1: eggs should be done. Okay, so slotted spoon and then
- 29:52Speaker 1: fish him out. I've never done this while holding. They
- 29:56Speaker 1: need a little bit more time. Okay, Well, hey, Wells,
- 29:59Speaker 1: A couple of questions is, as you're efforts. Of our
- 30:02Speaker 1: two questions that from the audience, one is how are
- 30:05Speaker 1: you and Sarah's celebrating Thanksgiving? Is the first, Well, we
- 30:08Speaker 1: were going to have our friends over. We've got kind
- 30:10Speaker 1: of a little bit of a quarantine crew. Um, but
- 30:13Speaker 1: now since everything's kind of shutting down again, we think
- 30:16Speaker 1: we're just gonna do just like her brother, um and
- 30:20Speaker 1: my brother and keep it really kind of kind of chill. Yeah. Yeah,
- 30:26Speaker 1: I don't know family there. That's good. The second question
- 30:30Speaker 1: we have is who do you think will be married next?
- 30:34Speaker 1: From the franchise. Um, I'd say they're better me. Oh
- 30:43Speaker 1: that there's Jojo and Jordan's too. Oh yeah yeah, and
- 30:48Speaker 1: they were supposed to get married. They were like the
- 30:51Speaker 1: same with us, like they were supposed to get married
- 30:53Speaker 1: and then the shutdown happened. Yeah yeah, so yeah, the
- 30:59Speaker 1: three of those them. Yeah, that's a good one. Okay,
- 31:02Speaker 1: So I got my poached eggs out. But here's the trick.
- 31:04Speaker 1: They're wet, right, so you need to put them on
- 31:08Speaker 1: on a paper towel to kind of like drain a
- 31:09Speaker 1: little bit, right, and they can sit for a bit.
- 31:12Speaker 1: Here's another trick. By the way, this is the one
- 31:14Speaker 1: that I did learn on Food Network that I absolutely love.
- 31:17Speaker 1: You can cook like a bunch of of of poached eggs,
- 31:21Speaker 1: and then you can throw them in an ice bath
- 31:23Speaker 1: to stop the cooking. Like right when you're done, you
- 31:25Speaker 1: can put them in the refrigerator cold, and then like
- 31:28Speaker 1: a couple of hours later, you can heat heat water
- 31:31Speaker 1: up to like h like a little bit of a
- 31:34Speaker 1: boil um and you can throw them back in for
- 31:37Speaker 1: like five seconds and then boom their perfect first and
- 31:39Speaker 1: eggs benedict and you didn't have to like do it
- 31:41Speaker 1: all at the same time, so they're solidifies and then
- 31:46Speaker 1: it liquidizes again, yeah, because you're only cooking at to
- 31:50Speaker 1: like a certain point. And then um, and then you
- 31:53Speaker 1: can kind of heat it back up. All right, So
- 31:54Speaker 1: here we go. I got my two these are these
- 31:56Speaker 1: are getting ready? I told you, well, I like onions.
- 31:58Speaker 1: I'm gonna throw on some. I did some. I spread
- 32:00Speaker 1: on it on the top of these. Okay, Um, can
- 32:03Speaker 1: you see it? Yeah, it's beautiful. And then smell absolutely
- 32:08Speaker 1: awful or garlic and onions. Poor Sarah, that's hey, but
- 32:13Speaker 1: she loves it too, so it's perfect. Gas Bill feed
- 32:15Speaker 1: it together. You'll never be able to tell. Yeah. And
- 32:18Speaker 1: then I did somehow paint your slice really really thin. Okay,
- 32:22Speaker 1: this has been my spicy one. Um, and then I'm
- 32:28Speaker 1: gonna go get my eggs please, They're now drained and perfect.
- 32:38Speaker 1: All right, here we go. I never knew how to
- 32:40Speaker 1: make poached eggs. This is a big deal for me tonight. Yeah, okay,
- 32:44Speaker 1: so we'll do this one on top of the spicy one,
- 32:49Speaker 1: and this one on top of the regulan one. And
- 32:51Speaker 1: then so here's what I like to do. Hold on
- 32:55Speaker 1: a season the eggs can guys see it. Yeah, okay,
- 32:58Speaker 1: you got a season eggs with some pepper. Right. This
- 33:02Speaker 1: looks like something you'd order for brunch out at a restaurant.
- 33:06Speaker 1: This is a little salt, and then you need to
- 33:09Speaker 1: poor since you cook this with no with no fat
- 33:11Speaker 1: on it, you gotta put a little bit of oil
- 33:14Speaker 1: on it on top. And then this is my spicy one.
- 33:19Speaker 1: It's kind of like it's a Mexican flavor. Or I'm
- 33:21Speaker 1: gonna kind of garnish it with some cilantro and then
- 33:26Speaker 1: top it with a little bit uh saracha. And then
- 33:34Speaker 1: here we go. Let's see. Now here's the piece of
- 33:39Speaker 1: the resistance. Do I get a good A good egg
- 33:43Speaker 1: yolk break. Here we go? Uh, yeah, you do? You
- 33:57Speaker 1: go boys and girls. Minutes as we say goodbye to
- 34:01Speaker 1: you are your next Chris Harrison. You're crushing it all
- 34:04Speaker 1: these shows? Are you? Uh? Are you taking his place? Next?
- 34:08Speaker 1: What are you talking about? In the last episode, Ashley
- 34:10Speaker 1: and Jared got more spring time than I did? Ye?
- 34:12Speaker 1: Fair enough? Hey, Wells, you're the best. Make sure you
- 34:15Speaker 1: go check out the Wales cast. Thanks for teaching us
- 34:17Speaker 1: how to do that tonight. You're the best. Happy Thanksgiving,
- 34:19Speaker 1: enjoy yourself. We'll be talking to really really soon. Hey.
- 34:27Speaker 1: Up next, we're gonna have Tim on. Tim's gonna teach
- 34:30Speaker 1: us how to make a cocktail. Actually, you give your
- 34:31Speaker 1: cocktail set? Ready? I do? Right here? What's up, Tim?
- 34:36Speaker 1: How are we doing? We're good? How are you? I
- 34:40Speaker 1: got my Thanksgiving cocktail stuff? Tim? Real quick? How about
- 34:44Speaker 1: you explain who you are, why are you're even here,
- 34:47Speaker 1: what your partnership is with the Bachelor, And then let's
- 34:49Speaker 1: teach us how to make a cocktail. Absolutely after Wells
- 34:53Speaker 1: is brunch. I think I'm thirsty. How about you guys?
- 34:58Speaker 1: Perfect compliment? Yeah, have a good cocktail. Right we're brunching.
- 35:01Speaker 1: We must have Cocktails. So I'm the founder of source
- 35:04Speaker 1: Craft Cocktails. We're the largest craft cocktail delivery business in countries.
- 35:09Speaker 1: So we deliver cocktails from your phone directly to your
- 35:12Speaker 1: front door. Uh. And with all the drama going on
- 35:15Speaker 1: this season, we partnered up with Chris Harrison and the
- 35:19Speaker 1: producers of the Bacherette and we have actually built the
- 35:23Speaker 1: first ever in the world's most dramatic cocktail ever. You
- 35:27Speaker 1: guys delivered that package to me today. You really are
- 35:30Speaker 1: all over the country because I had a messenger come
- 35:33Speaker 1: to my door with a bachelorette bag in suburban Virginia today.
- 35:37Speaker 1: It was pretty cool, and this drink is delicious good.
- 35:41Speaker 1: I'm so glad that you guys are gonna enjoy And
- 35:43Speaker 1: that's that's our whole purpose. Right, everybody, stay safe, but
- 35:46Speaker 1: that doesn't mean that you can't have fun and drink
- 35:48Speaker 1: good cocktails at home. So let me show you how
- 35:51Speaker 1: we make the two cocktails that are are associated with
- 35:56Speaker 1: the Bacherette that you can order from source crop Cocktails
- 35:59Speaker 1: dot com. Does that sound good? Okay? So the first
- 36:03Speaker 1: one is called the First Impression Rose uh. And so
- 36:07Speaker 1: what we're gonna do, uh is we're gonna take our
- 36:10Speaker 1: spar Noff zero sugar infusion, the strawberry rose kind and
- 36:14Speaker 1: all of this comes in your kit. So from source
- 36:16Speaker 1: cock Cocktails dot Com from your phone, you literally get
- 36:19Speaker 1: a kid with an actual red rose. You get the infusion,
- 36:23Speaker 1: you get the seltzer, you get the jiggers, you get
- 36:27Speaker 1: commemorative cups like literally everything to make the cocktails. Phone
- 36:31Speaker 1: the door. So here's how we make it. You'll take
- 36:34Speaker 1: ice into your rocks glass, you'll take your snaring Off
- 36:38Speaker 1: zero sugar, and you're gonna fill up your jigger, which
- 36:40Speaker 1: is a bartender's measuring cup two thirds of the way,
- 36:43Speaker 1: which is one and a half ounces. So now we've
- 36:46Speaker 1: got the base spirit in the cocktail. And what we're
- 36:50Speaker 1: gonna do next, uh, is we're gonna add our fresh
- 36:54Speaker 1: non alcohol mixers. So these are made locally in every
- 36:57Speaker 1: single city New York DC. My Amy j there, Ben, Yeah,
- 37:03Speaker 1: do you have Do you have the mixer? Yes? So good? Good.
- 37:08Speaker 1: So what we're gonna do is, we're gonna take our
- 37:09Speaker 1: jigger and you'll notice it has two sides, right, it
- 37:11Speaker 1: has a one on side and a two outside. We're
- 37:14Speaker 1: gonna use the big and we're gonna fill it all
- 37:16Speaker 1: the way up to the top two ounces, and we're
- 37:19Speaker 1: gonna pour it in over our infusion, our Smarial zero sugar.
- 37:24Speaker 1: And I noticed, wells he learned a trick on the
- 37:27Speaker 1: Food Network with the vinegar when you're poaching eggs. I
- 37:30Speaker 1: believe if I caught it quickly, he called it a spluche.
- 37:34Speaker 1: So we're gonna do this. We're gonna take our sparial
- 37:36Speaker 1: zero sugars siltzer. We're just gonna give it a little spluche.
- 37:41Speaker 1: There we go. That's right, We're gonnap it up. This
- 37:46Speaker 1: is gonna taste perfect with his poached eggs and avocado toast.
- 37:52Speaker 1: Give me a little bit of a stir. So we're
- 37:55Speaker 1: gonna drop the temperature. We're gonna add a little bit
- 37:57Speaker 1: of what's called the luction, which is fancy bart under
- 37:59Speaker 1: a chocolate, a little bit of water, which is basically
- 38:02Speaker 1: going to combine that infusion strawberry roads, the strawberry cure
- 38:06Speaker 1: of the mix, and then using the bubbles of the
- 38:09Speaker 1: seltzer on the top. And that is your first impression.
- 38:12Speaker 1: Cheers cheers to this. Yeah, yeah, I mean I made
- 38:15Speaker 1: this behind the scenes. I didn't pretty much exactly the
- 38:18Speaker 1: way you did. A little bit less fancy, but the
- 38:20Speaker 1: same mixtures. And by the way, this smear and off
- 38:22Speaker 1: zero sugar is incredible. I'm so glad you enjoy it,
- 38:26Speaker 1: and I'm glad you made one early. And that's just
- 38:29Speaker 1: you doing product quality control for the audience. Greatly appreciated.
- 38:34Speaker 1: My wife still thinks I started the whole company because
- 38:36Speaker 1: I like product quality control. She's wrong. So we have
- 38:42Speaker 1: one other cocktail that I'll show you very quickly how
- 38:45Speaker 1: to make, and this is called our Final Roads. We're
- 38:48Speaker 1: actually shipping this cocktail for the season finale, not because
- 38:53Speaker 1: there's gonna be so much drama. We knew you hadn't
- 38:55Speaker 1: have a cocktail. And what you're gonna do is you're
- 38:58Speaker 1: gonna take your mix, You're gonna fill up two ounces
- 39:02Speaker 1: into a stemless wine glass and using your jigger, which
- 39:06Speaker 1: comes in the kit. It's the only tool you need
- 39:08Speaker 1: to be a professional bartender at home. All these other
- 39:11Speaker 1: things you see on my bar are mainly to make
- 39:13Speaker 1: me look cool. The reality is that you have a jigger,
- 39:16Speaker 1: you can proportion of cocktail, and now you can make
- 39:18Speaker 1: great cocktails at home. Who knew it had such a
- 39:20Speaker 1: fun name. A jigger, that's right, that'ser's measuring cup. And
- 39:25Speaker 1: what you're gonna do is you're gonna top it off
- 39:27Speaker 1: with this wonderful flavor, so raspberry rose flavor, and you're
- 39:31Speaker 1: gonna give it about four ounces and top it right
- 39:34Speaker 1: up so you have a full cocktail. You have a
- 39:38Speaker 1: low a D D option right to a little less
- 39:41Speaker 1: alcohol content. Uh, and you've got what we call a sparkler,
- 39:45Speaker 1: and this cocktail is your final roads. Thank you so much,
- 39:50Speaker 1: Tim for teaching us how to make these fancy drinks.
- 39:53Speaker 1: Love the titles so you can see at the bottom.
- 39:57Speaker 1: Here're gonna source craft cocktails dot com. I'm assuming right
- 40:01Speaker 1: when you get on you can find the final rows
- 40:03Speaker 1: for the finale of the season and all the other
- 40:05Speaker 1: cocktails them in a bunch of other options if you
- 40:07Speaker 1: if those don't intrigue you, uh as much as the other.
- 40:11Speaker 1: So hey, Tim, thanks a lot for coming on. We
- 40:14Speaker 1: really appreciate it. Thanks for your partnership with The Bachelor,
- 40:16Speaker 1: and uh we will continue to enjoy these great you
- 40:19Speaker 1: know cocktails that showed up to my door too. It's
- 40:22Speaker 1: really awesome. I really loved it. Well, I'm glad you
- 40:25Speaker 1: guys got to enjoy them. Thanks for letting us be
- 40:28Speaker 1: a part of the Bachelor franchise and cheers. Hope everybody
- 40:31Speaker 1: has a great Thanksgiving here? How many Thanksgiving? Alright, guys.
- 40:36Speaker 1: Earlier this week I said that if our next guest
- 40:39Speaker 1: and didn't make something with corn, something was very wrong.
- 40:43Speaker 1: And apparently Chris Souls, come on in, did not make
- 40:48Speaker 1: anything with corn? Farmer, what did you make for us?
- 40:53Speaker 1: I made something with corn? Oh you did? Okay, okay,
- 40:58Speaker 1: what is it? Let's that's sweetcorn. This is my I'm
- 41:03Speaker 1: spilling it on the table right now because I do
- 41:08Speaker 1: nothing more than this. Literally in bed was like, I
- 41:13Speaker 1: predict that Souls has the worst presentation of all of
- 41:16Speaker 1: our guests. Comes. Well, hey, Chris, how are you doing?
- 41:22Speaker 1: We miss you, miss you too. I'm doing good. I
- 41:26Speaker 1: worked really hard this afternoon and tried to make something, uh,
- 41:31Speaker 1: you know, special for you guys. So, yeah, I don't
- 41:36Speaker 1: have a really great presentation like Wall's head and I'm
- 41:40Speaker 1: gonna screw this up royally, but you know, I've really
- 41:45Speaker 1: put a hundred percent effort into it and made a
- 41:48Speaker 1: pork loin with asparagus and um oh, so that's the
- 41:53Speaker 1: sky dish. Yeah, that's just the side, you know. We're
- 41:57Speaker 1: doing the real Those are professionals. License do you do
- 42:02Speaker 1: you slice meat like that for your women? Without your
- 42:14Speaker 1: kind kind of a man where to go from me
- 42:16Speaker 1: at home and present me and plate like that? I'd
- 42:19Speaker 1: be like, this is very well, John, look at then
- 42:23Speaker 1: this is what we can't do now, Chris, speaking of women,
- 42:29Speaker 1: I do have something to talk to you about. I'm
- 42:33Speaker 1: not allowing you today ever again. You wanna know why,
- 42:38Speaker 1: because any time you start dating anybody, you stopped coming
- 42:42Speaker 1: on our podcast. That's true. He was like, I'm gonna
- 42:46Speaker 1: come on. No, No, can't come on. Why is that? Oh,
- 42:52Speaker 1: it's like, you know, relacious are hard enough, you know,
- 42:56Speaker 1: just some things are best left unsaid, So I can't.
- 43:04Speaker 1: Are you're gonna say anything about what happened with Victoria
- 43:10Speaker 1: she spilled her guts to neck. Yeah, no, yeah, she's
- 43:16Speaker 1: a great person. Then I'm you know, we're still working
- 43:20Speaker 1: on things. So yeah, uh, just trying to be a farmer.
- 43:30Speaker 1: I mean, you're a heck of a one at that.
- 43:32Speaker 1: You're an incredible farmer. In fact, Uh, you know, we
- 43:36Speaker 1: just miss you and that's the main point of this
- 43:38Speaker 1: whole thing. But we do see that you're sitting inside
- 43:41Speaker 1: this beautiful house. Now, uh not that long ago. Uh
- 43:46Speaker 1: you had a massive accident happened inside the house where
- 43:49Speaker 1: the house burnt, right, and smoke damage is everywhere. Um,
- 43:54Speaker 1: and this is all newly renovated, right. Yeah, yeah, we
- 43:58Speaker 1: did every did everything that. The whole deal was. I
- 44:02Speaker 1: came home one night and and uh, I was traveling
- 44:05Speaker 1: for some random thing, and I came home and the
- 44:09Speaker 1: whole house was it was literally uh black with with
- 44:14Speaker 1: sut from a thing that started firing my basement and
- 44:19Speaker 1: then so it was Yeah, it was a kind of
- 44:22Speaker 1: a it was horrible. I'm so sorry. I mean, this
- 44:27Speaker 1: sounds really horrible. But on the bright side, it looks
- 44:30Speaker 1: like the remodel is beautiful. It's been beautiful. I have
- 44:33Speaker 1: a lot of thanks to go out to Veronica and
- 44:36Speaker 1: Valencia that took care of it. And she came out
- 44:40Speaker 1: and took a while, but yeah, she did an amazing job.
- 44:44Speaker 1: It's yeah, it's a it's too nice for me, you know,
- 44:49Speaker 1: I feel like I shouldn't even be living here. I
- 44:52Speaker 1: could live in a trash can. But it's been really
- 44:57Speaker 1: really thankful for the work that she did to to
- 45:01Speaker 1: make it like it's it's actually really really nice. So
- 45:05Speaker 1: I'm thankful. Chris is um fresh corn? Does it taste different?
- 45:11Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah? You cannot. You cannot if it's like,
- 45:16Speaker 1: yeah yeah, you can't even explain the difference between like
- 45:22Speaker 1: what you get out of the field and this is
- 45:24Speaker 1: like the corn that I just showed you is something
- 45:26Speaker 1: my mom. She's done it my whole life and probably
- 45:30Speaker 1: her parents life, and its kind of thing something she
- 45:34Speaker 1: does every every summer and then she freezes it. And
- 45:38Speaker 1: I've kind of lived off this really actually every meal
- 45:42Speaker 1: we have have and this is frozen, but the fresh
- 45:45Speaker 1: stuff is even better. It's not not even, but this
- 45:48Speaker 1: is pretty damn good too. Can we go to Iowa
- 45:52Speaker 1: one day and just visit him on the far I
- 45:54Speaker 1: would actually have a blast doing that live podcast from
- 45:58Speaker 1: Chris's house. Why not? I missed that that week on
- 46:01Speaker 1: my episode I'm on that season. I got cut right
- 46:05Speaker 1: before that week before I got Chris before. Um. One
- 46:13Speaker 1: question for you, I think I'm intrigued by I don't
- 46:15Speaker 1: know if anybody else is. I'm sure there are people
- 46:17Speaker 1: out there, and don't forget anybody out there watching or
- 46:19Speaker 1: listening right now, please ask your questions. I mean, Ashley
- 46:22Speaker 1: wanted to say anything like who's Chris willing to slice
- 46:26Speaker 1: his meat for? And uh everything else just ask away.
- 46:29Speaker 1: We're we're free in the loopy right now. But hey, Chris,
- 46:33Speaker 1: uh and all and all seriousness. Um, you know, obviously
- 46:37Speaker 1: we're all living in amongst our houses right now, and
- 46:40Speaker 1: we're all starting to realize that any amount of kind
- 46:42Speaker 1: of freedom we had is now being restricted back into
- 46:47Speaker 1: our homes. How is this time during a pandemic affected farming? Um?
- 46:52Speaker 1: An agg have you noticed the difference? Are you holding up?
- 46:58Speaker 1: You know? The cool thing about this one time in
- 47:00Speaker 1: my life that I've been like really appreciative to live
- 47:03Speaker 1: and be in agriculture is now because we're you know,
- 47:07Speaker 1: we we can just go to work and I mean
- 47:09Speaker 1: we don't have to we're not having the social distance
- 47:12Speaker 1: because that's kind of how we are anyway. So it's
- 47:16Speaker 1: like you just go to work and and you know that.
- 47:20Speaker 1: So yeah, so it's kind of like it's more like, uh,
- 47:26Speaker 1: just another day really where you know, I live three
- 47:31Speaker 1: miles away from a town of foreigner people, so it's
- 47:34Speaker 1: not really, Uh, social distinct is not a huge issue.
- 47:39Speaker 1: You know. It's kind of like, yeah, it's well, we're
- 47:42Speaker 1: we're fortunate to be in the role we are and
- 47:45Speaker 1: kind of don't have to rely on on certain aspects
- 47:49Speaker 1: that are being restricted and I haven't. You don't see
- 47:53Speaker 1: people wearing masks around here. Uh, but we're not around
- 47:58Speaker 1: a lot of people, so we're very I feel very
- 48:02Speaker 1: fortunate right now, almost kind of thankful that I have
- 48:08Speaker 1: going on what I have going on, being in the
- 48:11Speaker 1: middle of nowhere. Yeah. Yeah, one more question for you
- 48:16Speaker 1: before we let you go. Kim wants to know if
- 48:18Speaker 1: you would ever be open to the idea of being
- 48:21Speaker 1: the Bachelor again. I'm too old for that. No, you're not.
- 48:25Speaker 1: You're not. I don't know. Maybe he is. And I
- 48:29Speaker 1: only say that because Ben and I had an off
- 48:31Speaker 1: Mike conversation where we were like, is this as exhausting
- 48:36Speaker 1: as it used to be? Like when we when we
- 48:38Speaker 1: like go and do visits on the show, We're like this,
- 48:41Speaker 1: this is a lot. And I don't think I could.
- 48:44Speaker 1: I don't think I could start fresh again or like
- 48:46Speaker 1: do a whole season at the age of thirty two.
- 48:48Speaker 1: You have to like have like a vigor for yeah,
- 48:52Speaker 1: you have a vigor. Yeah, I mean maybe I've lost
- 48:56Speaker 1: my vigor. I don't know, but I like to. It's
- 49:00Speaker 1: nice to watch other guys go through it, and it
- 49:02Speaker 1: was a great experience, but I you know, it's uh,
- 49:06Speaker 1: it's not something that I have a huge desire to do,
- 49:09Speaker 1: and I don't think anybody would want me to do
- 49:11Speaker 1: it anyway, So it's uh, you know, but it's it's yeah,
- 49:16Speaker 1: it's it was a great experience. It's kind of something
- 49:21Speaker 1: I'm thankful that I've got to be a part of.
- 49:23Speaker 1: And at this point, uh, you know, it's nice to
- 49:26Speaker 1: just not be uh you know, as you guys can tell,
- 49:30Speaker 1: I don't really get too involved in social media and
- 49:34Speaker 1: and that whole thing. And it's like, yeah, it's nice
- 49:37Speaker 1: to just meet people naturally. Yeah, it's always it's always
- 49:42Speaker 1: exciting when you're back, but it is there's a degree
- 49:46Speaker 1: of exhaustion that comes with it. I can't imagine going
- 49:49Speaker 1: on a date every night. I don't know how you
- 49:51Speaker 1: guys did it, both of you. Chris. Chris is the man.
- 49:54Speaker 1: He's got energy for days. Well, hey, Chris, we love you. Uh, well,
- 49:59Speaker 1: all we love you. Please come on the show more often.
- 50:02Speaker 1: I hope to see you soon, buddy, You're the man.
- 50:04Speaker 1: Thanks for cooking for us tonight. Once again, that sweet corn.
- 50:07Speaker 1: That's a little uh pork roin some asparagus. It's something beautiful. Chris.
- 50:12Speaker 1: We'll talk to you soon, buddy. Put that recipe on
- 50:15Speaker 1: your Instagram. That was a waste of a great looking
- 50:19Speaker 1: meal without knowing how to cook it. Chris, love you
- 50:22Speaker 1: by Thank you guys. Well, Ashley, Uh, this is a
- 50:35Speaker 1: really special part of our show. Um, we're gonna pull
- 50:38Speaker 1: away from the interviews for just a second, um, and
- 50:40Speaker 1: we're gonna bring on somebody. We are going to talk
- 50:42Speaker 1: to him for a bit, but we're gonna bring on
- 50:45Speaker 1: somebody who's incredibly talented. I would argue will be the
- 50:49Speaker 1: most talented person we bring on tonight. There's some amazing people.
- 50:53Speaker 1: Chris Watson, come on into almost Hey Chris, what's going on?
- 50:57Speaker 1: So see good to see you guys. Are you doing?
- 51:02Speaker 1: We're awesome? How are you? I'm I'm awesome. That was
- 51:06Speaker 1: That was quite the segment with the Chris I gotta
- 51:10Speaker 1: I won't make any awkward jokes or references. We'll see well, Chris,
- 51:18Speaker 1: obviously we know you from a Bachelor shows into your
- 51:21Speaker 1: heart you uh are somebody who has can continue to
- 51:25Speaker 1: shine since the show and continue to be a part
- 51:27Speaker 1: of the franchise. In fact, we've seen appearances here and there,
- 51:31Speaker 1: and we're really thankful to have you tonight. One of
- 51:34Speaker 1: my favorite parts about Thanksgiving is the music. Honestly, they
- 51:37Speaker 1: gets played during it. My family gets together, we have
- 51:40Speaker 1: good food, we have good drink, we listen to music
- 51:42Speaker 1: at the end of the night, and everybody kind of
- 51:43Speaker 1: danced around. Chris, I know you're here tonight to play
- 51:48Speaker 1: a little something for us. What are you gonna play?
- 51:52Speaker 1: I'm gonna play a little blue song. And this one's
- 51:55Speaker 1: called called Calm Glue. Call me blue glue, okay, because
- 52:00Speaker 1: I'm stuck on you, let's hear it. I got a
- 52:07Speaker 1: reason to be true and believe me. Use, I'm more
- 52:13Speaker 1: on you. When you're scared all along, quit your crying
- 52:20Speaker 1: baby and pick up the phone and not then keeping
- 52:26Speaker 1: me from you again. Might as well call me clue.
- 52:34Speaker 1: Might as well comic clue, might as well comic cool.
- 52:50Speaker 1: Chris's oh good amzing than pop your music? Like if
- 52:58Speaker 1: people are super interressing here more, where can they find you?
- 53:01Speaker 1: My website, in my instagram, it's all tell them wants
- 53:03Speaker 1: them to eat L L E M W A T
- 53:06Speaker 1: S O N. But I'm on Spotify, Instagram, all that stuff.
- 53:10Speaker 1: Tell us about the new single that comes out next Friday.
- 53:13Speaker 1: Santa CLAUSA stole my girlfriend? Is this about Brie? Did
- 53:16Speaker 1: Santa Steel? Burris? So? Santa Claus? You know, I wish
- 53:21Speaker 1: I wish she still wasn't single, you know what I'm saying,
- 53:23Speaker 1: because I would have known to not let him down
- 53:25Speaker 1: the chimney because obviously, like who what girl would want
- 53:27Speaker 1: to be saying they divorced? I mean, you know, I mean,
- 53:32Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. It's twenty things been crazy,
- 53:34Speaker 1: so you know. But now, yeah, Sobre and I have
- 53:38Speaker 1: this single coming out. The rest of the songs on
- 53:40Speaker 1: the album are a little more straightforward Christmas, but this
- 53:43Speaker 1: is like one of the fun songs that we have.
- 53:44Speaker 1: Um and uh st picks Friday with the music video. Now,
- 53:48Speaker 1: can you give us any updates on on Brie? How
- 53:51Speaker 1: she doing? What's life like? She's doing good? I mean,
- 53:55Speaker 1: life is good. I mean we're trying to keep as
- 53:58Speaker 1: busy as we can and um, you know, time away
- 54:01Speaker 1: in the pandemic is really tough, you know, because it
- 54:03Speaker 1: feels like we're long gone for longer because everybody's quarantined
- 54:07Speaker 1: when we're not together. So so she's still in Utah
- 54:10Speaker 1: in l A. But we see each other for a
- 54:11Speaker 1: couple of weeks and you know, we're really making it work.
- 54:13Speaker 1: So so no Thanksgiving together for you guys this year. No, no,
- 54:18Speaker 1: But we're looking at Christmas because my my birthday and
- 54:20Speaker 1: Christmas are right at the same time, and she has
- 54:22Speaker 1: family in Florida, so probably for that great well, we
- 54:25Speaker 1: wish the best for you guys. Cutest couple. Can't look
- 54:29Speaker 1: to hear the music that comes out next Friday too
- 54:31Speaker 1: of you thanks, thanks, appreciate it and yeah, Ben, I
- 54:35Speaker 1: I completely agree. Like in my house, that's when the
- 54:37Speaker 1: records come out, like and we put on like all
- 54:39Speaker 1: the old reggae James in Motown. Like that's like when
- 54:42Speaker 1: it's really like Thanksgiving and the holidays. So it's something
- 54:44Speaker 1: special man. In fact, this is a little behind the scenes.
- 54:48Speaker 1: I don't know if I ever says, but one of
- 54:49Speaker 1: the things that I want to start with uh with
- 54:52Speaker 1: my fiance jet Uh my grandfather who passed away just
- 54:56Speaker 1: a few years ago. Her she lost both of her
- 54:58Speaker 1: grandfather's last year. Her mom's dad and my mom's dad
- 55:03Speaker 1: are big dancers that I'm gonna get little emotionals talking
- 55:06Speaker 1: about they're big dancers, they love to dance, and they
- 55:09Speaker 1: weren't great at it um. And so one of my
- 55:11Speaker 1: things that I promised Jess is we're gonna dance all
- 55:15Speaker 1: the time. And so one of the holiday traditions that
- 55:19Speaker 1: we're gonna have is put on those records, put it
- 55:22Speaker 1: on that music. Uh, and we're gonna dance together, and
- 55:26Speaker 1: we want to do it every year. So thank you
- 55:28Speaker 1: for joining us. This means a lot and makes the
- 55:30Speaker 1: holiday super specially the man, Chris, thanks for having me.
- 55:34Speaker 1: You the best. Thanks for Chris Well, Ashley, We uh
- 55:41Speaker 1: sorry about that. That was weird. It was so sweet
- 55:44Speaker 1: that and it's something that I think is so lovely.
- 55:48Speaker 1: I sometimes think about putting my little record player on
- 55:51Speaker 1: and dancing with Jared and like trying to pretend like
- 55:54Speaker 1: we're dirty dancing and all that, but then I just
- 55:56Speaker 1: don't ever do it. I should just like he should
- 55:58Speaker 1: walk in the door and I should just like jump
- 56:00Speaker 1: in his arm. Sometimes. Yeah, it's something special, it makes
- 56:03Speaker 1: it unique. And uh, yeah, I don't know, it's been
- 56:06Speaker 1: it's been a big year. Uh just lost both her
- 56:08Speaker 1: grandfather's last Uh, you know, you know year and a half,
- 56:13Speaker 1: so it's been a big year and so this holiday
- 56:15Speaker 1: is a super special one. One way to make the
- 56:19Speaker 1: new year and the in the holidays extra special is wine,
- 56:23Speaker 1: Ashley Why it's a big deal. And we have our
- 56:25Speaker 1: next guest, Big Ben Flantic is on and he is
- 56:28Speaker 1: going to tell us about the wine that a lot
- 56:30Speaker 1: of you received for joining the podcast night. What up, Ben?
- 56:36Speaker 1: We're good are you? And you're not in New York yet,
- 56:39Speaker 1: are you? Um? I left New York a few days ago.
- 56:42Speaker 1: I met my nineties seven year old grandmother's house in Connecticut.
- 56:46Speaker 1: My grandma's hence like the like the pilgrim esque photos
- 56:52Speaker 1: in the She's just the sweetest thing ever. I love
- 56:56Speaker 1: her so much. Same, she's the cutest thing. I was
- 56:59Speaker 1: just talking to it earlier. I'm sorry, I'm a little distracted.
- 57:02Speaker 1: Jared just came in with a ornament that my mom
- 57:05Speaker 1: had in the ornament box that was um token, my
- 57:10Speaker 1: ex boyfriend, and he's dangling it in front of me, like,
- 57:14Speaker 1: what the hell is this? He's decorating the tree. You're
- 57:18Speaker 1: trending the tree already. Yeah, we would like to have
- 57:22Speaker 1: it completely done it by Thanksgiving. Jared's parents are coming,
- 57:25Speaker 1: So we're just trying to get the house all together.
- 57:28Speaker 1: So Ben, you're at your nineties seven year old grandmother's
- 57:31Speaker 1: house in Connecticut. Now, if all goes well and we're able,
- 57:36Speaker 1: Connecticut will be where I'm spending Essex. Connecticut's well where
- 57:40Speaker 1: I'll be spending uh the Christmas time with justice family.
- 57:44Speaker 1: You know, that's still up in the air, but it's
- 57:46Speaker 1: the plan at this point. What is your Thanksgiving? It
- 57:49Speaker 1: a look like Thanksgiving. I'm heading back to Sonoma for Thanksgiving, uh,
- 57:54Speaker 1: and then Christmas back here um to New York and
- 57:57Speaker 1: in Connecticut. But I will be home with the mom's sister,
- 58:01Speaker 1: brother in law, niece, the gang in Sonoma. Oh nice, nice, Okay,
- 58:06Speaker 1: So tell us about the wine that some of us
- 58:09Speaker 1: received then? Has it right there? It's such a pretty pig,
- 58:14Speaker 1: isn't it nice? Yeah, let's before I get into the wine.
- 58:17Speaker 1: People have a hard time with with the skin contact
- 58:20Speaker 1: and color on rose. A lot of it is just
- 58:22Speaker 1: like time spent on the skins, right. It's common misconception
- 58:26Speaker 1: because people think that like the darker rose's are going
- 58:28Speaker 1: to be sweeter, but that's not true. It's just it's
- 58:32Speaker 1: just purely about the time spent on the skin, and
- 58:34Speaker 1: like the type of grape that it was made from,
- 58:36Speaker 1: the red the red grape that was made from UM.
- 58:38Speaker 1: That particular vintage is um zim fandel p Grenashans and
- 58:44Speaker 1: so from two different single vineyards in Mendocino and Lodi Counties. UM.
- 58:48Speaker 1: And you have it all trucked in, so it gets
- 58:50Speaker 1: like bounced for a couple of hours in the trucks
- 58:53Speaker 1: and it gets to my winery. Well that's where the
- 58:56Speaker 1: color comes from, because like most of the time people
- 58:59Speaker 1: will leave it on on the skins for like hours,
- 59:02Speaker 1: maybe a day, but like by the time the fruit
- 59:04Speaker 1: gets to me, I'm like pull it off, let's press
- 59:06Speaker 1: this thing, let's get it out and want to dry.
- 59:08Speaker 1: I pick it really um early, so like the alcohols
- 59:12Speaker 1: are really low and it's like bright and um can
- 59:15Speaker 1: age out for a while. Nice, it's beautiful. It's like
- 59:18Speaker 1: one of those bottles you don't even want to open.
- 59:20Speaker 1: You want to display it. Yeah, the labels really pretty.
- 59:23Speaker 1: My friends shoot um a bunch of bouquets of flowers
- 59:27Speaker 1: and like we found pulled like one of the little
- 59:29Speaker 1: images off of it and like zoomed in and I
- 59:32Speaker 1: actually was in Um, I took my mom to d
- 59:34Speaker 1: C and we did the net. We were at the
- 59:36Speaker 1: National Gallery of Art and I was at the Rembrandt
- 59:39Speaker 1: exhibit when my designers called me and so it was
- 59:43Speaker 1: in this really dark mood because rembrand it's very dark,
- 59:46Speaker 1: and I was like, you know what, let's dark in
- 59:48Speaker 1: this thing? Up I have for the whole thing. I
- 59:52Speaker 1: have a question about wine. Uh does it apply to
- 59:56Speaker 1: white wine that it ages better or is that just
- 59:59Speaker 1: a red wine thing? No, there's certain whites that can
- 1:00:02Speaker 1: that can run you know, years, um, if they're stored properly.
- 1:00:07Speaker 1: The great Burgundies of France are are the white Burgundies
- 1:00:10Speaker 1: of France are some of my favorites. And I've had
- 1:00:12Speaker 1: those wines in the you know, sixties, seventies and they
- 1:00:15Speaker 1: still taste great. The red wines will generally age a
- 1:00:19Speaker 1: little bit longer. So I mean, obviously this is a
- 1:00:22Speaker 1: wine from your collection. Again, you can go to uh
- 1:00:26Speaker 1: the website which I think is ion dot wine, dot
- 1:00:30Speaker 1: on cool. How do you get dot wine? There aren't
- 1:00:34Speaker 1: there aren't very many out there, but I have a
- 1:00:37Speaker 1: dot wine and yeah, that's especially you can go You
- 1:00:40Speaker 1: can go to that website and find this. This is
- 1:00:42Speaker 1: gonna be great. In fact, as soon as I'm done,
- 1:00:46Speaker 1: uh with this thing, Jess and I are popping this
- 1:00:48Speaker 1: thing open. We have a good time with it. Um.
- 1:00:50Speaker 1: Now we have a question from the audience. Lisa asks you, Ben,
- 1:00:55Speaker 1: what's the Thanksgiving food that you just don't get? I
- 1:01:00Speaker 1: think we talked about you. I told you guys what
- 1:01:02Speaker 1: I didn't get last week. We talked, We talked about this.
- 1:01:05Speaker 1: I'm not a big fan of like dried fruit and stuffing.
- 1:01:07Speaker 1: But here's my other thing that I don't get, Like
- 1:01:10Speaker 1: bread on the table. What's the point Like you have stuffing,
- 1:01:13Speaker 1: Like there's enough starch rolling around with mashed potatoes and
- 1:01:16Speaker 1: all this stuff. Like I don't need any more general roles.
- 1:01:20Speaker 1: It's the one time of year that maybe we can
- 1:01:22Speaker 1: say no to bread because we don't need to be
- 1:01:25Speaker 1: filled up on it. We're just we should save that
- 1:01:28Speaker 1: space for something that we have as more of a rarity. Correct.
- 1:01:32Speaker 1: And then we have another question from de Mario. He says,
- 1:01:36Speaker 1: as we approached the new year, what are you most
- 1:01:38Speaker 1: excited about in just the fact that it won't be
- 1:01:43Speaker 1: obviously been been a weird one. Um, I'm not going
- 1:01:49Speaker 1: to get political here. I think just a fresh start.
- 1:01:51Speaker 1: I think, um, you know, it's a it's a great
- 1:01:54Speaker 1: reset for for everyone. Um, we've got good vaccine news.
- 1:01:58Speaker 1: We had great vaccine news. Rights that's good news. So
- 1:02:02Speaker 1: that's really really awesome. Um, you know, Faser Modena doing
- 1:02:07Speaker 1: their things. I'm really really proud of those guys. And
- 1:02:11Speaker 1: you know, hopefully we're able to get back out and
- 1:02:13Speaker 1: and um hang with people in public settings and celebrate
- 1:02:16Speaker 1: the way we used to. That's right. Well, the questions
- 1:02:19Speaker 1: are rolling in for you, Ben. I don't know, you look,
- 1:02:21Speaker 1: you look smart, and so I must you just want
- 1:02:23Speaker 1: to hear from you. Uh, Eda asks do you still
- 1:02:26Speaker 1: watch The Bachelor? I don't, you know, it's like once,
- 1:02:31Speaker 1: what is it like once you've seen the hamburger being made?
- 1:02:34Speaker 1: You know that that kind of thing. It's been a
- 1:02:37Speaker 1: long time, honestly. Um, I watched part of your season, Ben,
- 1:02:40Speaker 1: just because I was you know, I'm a fan, you're ami.
- 1:02:43Speaker 1: Um that might have been the that might have been
- 1:02:46Speaker 1: the last one. It's been a bit, man. Well, I
- 1:02:50Speaker 1: totally the stand actually and I watch it. We break
- 1:02:53Speaker 1: it down every week here on the podcast. And you've actually,
- 1:02:56Speaker 1: I mean you've been a regular on this podcast the
- 1:02:58Speaker 1: last couple of weeks. Uh. Now, one thing about one
- 1:03:02Speaker 1: that we have talked about with you. Uh that I
- 1:03:04Speaker 1: think I'm excited to find out with you now? Is
- 1:03:08Speaker 1: uh kind of what life's gonna look like for you?
- 1:03:09Speaker 1: Obviously you're talking about New York and Noman kind of
- 1:03:12Speaker 1: doing the bicoastal thing. Is that still in the plans? Uh?
- 1:03:17Speaker 1: Is that is that? Did you find a place in
- 1:03:19Speaker 1: New York? Yeah? It's moving man. I Um. I was
- 1:03:22Speaker 1: out with my real tor all day Sunday and um
- 1:03:24Speaker 1: found a few places today I really liked. And Uh,
- 1:03:27Speaker 1: I just secure a home in Sonoma. So I've got
- 1:03:30Speaker 1: one coast covered. The other one is is coming very
- 1:03:33Speaker 1: very soon. I'm heading back to New York tomorrow. So, um,
- 1:03:37Speaker 1: the home search continues. And that is the plan, man.
- 1:03:41Speaker 1: That is that is the plan? Stand sounds good? No one,
- 1:03:44Speaker 1: no life. No. I'm ready to pull my stuff out
- 1:03:48Speaker 1: of storage and like you know, plants some roots. All right. Yeah, anyway,
- 1:03:55Speaker 1: I do have a big question for you now. This
- 1:03:57Speaker 1: I just came to my mind. I'm super interested in
- 1:03:59Speaker 1: this nine seven year old grandma. Drink your wine. Uh, dude,
- 1:04:04Speaker 1: I can't ship to Connecticut. It's so brutal. It's like
- 1:04:06Speaker 1: State Island won't do it either. You can't ship to
- 1:04:09Speaker 1: her An Island. I can't. But she drinks this um
- 1:04:12Speaker 1: so I made a seven hour bolon as today on
- 1:04:14Speaker 1: the stove. She'd never had Italian food like this. And
- 1:04:18Speaker 1: she drinks a it's like a reasoning from Austria called
- 1:04:23Speaker 1: relax and it's like bottle and she has like her
- 1:04:26Speaker 1: little she has these cute little like old you know,
- 1:04:29Speaker 1: colonial glasses and grandma glasses. And we're like, I was like, yeah,
- 1:04:35Speaker 1: we like cracking out of like five pm. It's like
- 1:04:37Speaker 1: time for Frito's and our splashes of wine. It's my
- 1:04:41Speaker 1: she's just the best. She's amazing, and she's like self
- 1:04:43Speaker 1: sufficient and cruising and still lives in her house and
- 1:04:45Speaker 1: she's just the best. There's something in that Tri State
- 1:04:49Speaker 1: area water that's my Grandma's right outside New York. To
- 1:04:53Speaker 1: or these winters, I don't know today. It needs a lot.
- 1:05:00Speaker 1: You've been great to us, and you've been great to
- 1:05:02Speaker 1: the people watching. I want to again just mentioned Ion
- 1:05:05Speaker 1: Dot Wine. You've been really really good to this podcast.
- 1:05:09Speaker 1: Uh and uh yeah, So go out there and check
- 1:05:11Speaker 1: out the wine. I hope everybody listening can be good
- 1:05:13Speaker 1: to be in in return. So, hey, having a great
- 1:05:15Speaker 1: Thanksgiving to your grandmother, Thanks for sharing you with us.
- 1:05:20Speaker 1: Thank you. Lastly, we have a special makeup guest. Guest
- 1:05:26Speaker 1: just for me, I mean not just for me, but
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- 1:05:40Speaker 1: is going to be representing Lime Life Makeup. I'm wearing
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- 1:06:41Speaker 1: What makes the shaving kit special? So? Ben, I see
- 1:06:47Speaker 1: that you saw it, but you didn't have a chance
- 1:06:48Speaker 1: to try it, right, keeps growing it out? What do
- 1:06:51Speaker 1: you mean? No? Remember skincare here around? Yeah? No, I
- 1:06:58Speaker 1: got it. My fiance is an institution. So like I,
- 1:07:02Speaker 1: I know all about this. I'm in on it, but
- 1:07:04Speaker 1: it's no shave November, and um, I'm trying the best
- 1:07:08Speaker 1: I have. But yes, you did send me a great
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- 1:07:13Speaker 1: a couple of days, probably a couple of weeks, maybe
- 1:07:15Speaker 1: after after awesome, So we'll check back in. But first,
- 1:07:18Speaker 1: so you tried the mascara. The mascarat is a waxy
- 1:07:23Speaker 1: and actually, seriously, it doesn't clump, it doesn't smudge once
- 1:07:27Speaker 1: it's on. It's on. It's so awesome. And I'll show
- 1:07:31Speaker 1: you this liner too. So I'm wear eyeliner on the
- 1:07:35Speaker 1: inside of my waterline and I get so tired of
- 1:07:40Speaker 1: its smudging and then always gets right underneath like it
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- 1:08:09Speaker 1: it at an angle because otherwise you're going to see
- 1:08:11Speaker 1: all the magic. Um, so you basically turn it on.
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- 1:10:05Speaker 1: We are going to stick around for another couple of
- 1:10:07Speaker 1: minutes and answer a couple more questions before we answer
- 1:10:10Speaker 1: me questions. N we do have a big thing actually
- 1:10:12Speaker 1: night his new favorite app uh something we came across
- 1:10:15Speaker 1: the reasonably recently, but it's something that we're really enjoying.
- 1:10:18Speaker 1: It's called Stereo U and this Tuesday, in fact, we
- 1:10:22Speaker 1: kind of want to share it with all of you
- 1:10:24Speaker 1: watching anybody listens to the podcast This Tuesday, which is
- 1:10:28Speaker 1: at one pm Pacific, we're gonna be doing a live
- 1:10:31Speaker 1: question and answer. In fact, what you're gonna see next
- 1:10:34Speaker 1: us answering these questions that you've sent in. We want
- 1:10:37Speaker 1: to do this more often. It's fun for us, it's
- 1:10:38Speaker 1: interactive for us. It's it's more on the spot. As
- 1:10:41Speaker 1: you've seen the night asked you is gonna say a
- 1:10:43Speaker 1: thing or two that's gonna make me blush. Um. You
- 1:10:45Speaker 1: could ask us anything you want and watch us answer
- 1:10:48Speaker 1: your questions live. So join us again. That's on the
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- 1:11:00Speaker 1: Join us. It's free. It's gonna be a blast. It's
- 1:11:03Speaker 1: this Tuesday night. So Ashley, as you mentioned just a
- 1:11:05Speaker 1: second ago, uh, the same thing we'll kind of do
- 1:11:07Speaker 1: on Tuesday night with the Steer App is we're gonna
- 1:11:10Speaker 1: answer some questions. Now, Okay, let's do it. Thank you
- 1:11:15Speaker 1: for getting that in, Ben, because that is important. I
- 1:11:17Speaker 1: really want everybody to be there for that. Q and
- 1:11:19Speaker 1: I on Tuesday. I love Q and As. I think
- 1:11:21Speaker 1: that that's when you get the best bachelor juice. I agree, No,
- 1:11:25Speaker 1: I'll say anything. Okay, let's get a question in here. Oh,
- 1:11:30Speaker 1: who would you like to do your next in depth with?
- 1:11:34Speaker 1: I always say like Emily Maynard Jojo a great bachelorette. Yeah,
- 1:11:42Speaker 1: I think that would be my top list. Two. I
- 1:11:43Speaker 1: think the Emily Maynards of the world. Uh, you know,
- 1:11:46Speaker 1: for a long time it was Andy Dorfman. We were
- 1:11:48Speaker 1: able to have her on just a few weeks ago.
- 1:11:50Speaker 1: That was big. Jojo would be fantastic. Even Jojo and
- 1:11:53Speaker 1: Jordan together would be really fun. Um, but they're kind
- 1:11:59Speaker 1: of like you know, and who knows. Here soon we
- 1:12:01Speaker 1: could have a Mirror Ball champion, Caitlin Bristow coming back
- 1:12:04Speaker 1: on for another in depth to talk about her experience. Uh,
- 1:12:08Speaker 1: you know, taking down the mirror Ball. But it's been
- 1:12:11Speaker 1: really fun. Those in Depths just to give you a
- 1:12:12Speaker 1: quick before we answer our last question here. Uh, those
- 1:12:15Speaker 1: in Depths came from a few years ago. Actually, I
- 1:12:17Speaker 1: just wanted to do something that allowed us to dig
- 1:12:20Speaker 1: in a little deeper to the lives of the people
- 1:12:22Speaker 1: in the show. As Wills was mentioning you know, uh,
- 1:12:25Speaker 1: he does this whole podcast to find out you know
- 1:12:27Speaker 1: what what who you were before the show, and that's
- 1:12:29Speaker 1: kind of what in depths are so tune into those.
- 1:12:32Speaker 1: But I actually I think you you and I both
- 1:12:34Speaker 1: agree on who do you want to do? I think
- 1:12:36Speaker 1: that would be really, really fun. I also would love
- 1:12:39Speaker 1: to do one on Matt James before his season, because
- 1:12:44Speaker 1: we don't we you know, we don't really know him
- 1:12:47Speaker 1: that well, and I'd love for people to get to
- 1:12:48Speaker 1: know him better and then get more attached to him
- 1:12:51Speaker 1: and root for him even more once his season starts.
- 1:12:53Speaker 1: All right, we got one more question, and that is
- 1:12:56Speaker 1: what are your favorite Thanksgiving traditions? Um? Well, my dad's
- 1:13:02Speaker 1: stuffing is kind of a tradition in the sense that
- 1:13:05Speaker 1: it's the only time he cooks all year, and it's
- 1:13:07Speaker 1: an amazing recipe that has been passed down from my grandmother. Um.
- 1:13:12Speaker 1: And I also think that this is like the thing
- 1:13:15Speaker 1: that you dread around the Thanksgiving table when you're a kid,
- 1:13:19Speaker 1: but then you grow to appreciate it. My mom always
- 1:13:21Speaker 1: just has us go around the table and talk about
- 1:13:23Speaker 1: what we're thankful for. Now I get a little like
- 1:13:25Speaker 1: emotional now right, yeah, special, right. I mean as a kid,
- 1:13:29Speaker 1: you hate it. You're like, I don't want to talk
- 1:13:31Speaker 1: about what I like. You're like, no, this is good
- 1:13:34Speaker 1: or what's important to me? Yeah, and it matters now
- 1:13:38Speaker 1: I think that, And I I mean maybe it's uh,
- 1:13:42Speaker 1: maybe it's so simple, but I live in you know,
- 1:13:45Speaker 1: thousands of miles from any family now, and uh, I
- 1:13:49Speaker 1: think being with family is so cool for the holidays,
- 1:13:52Speaker 1: like having everybody together again and making a priority to
- 1:13:55Speaker 1: be together again and remember that you know, all the
- 1:13:58Speaker 1: memories you haven't making new memories. I think, uh, you know,
- 1:14:02Speaker 1: I'm realizing more than ever. And I think a lot
- 1:14:03Speaker 1: of people out there watching that life moves on very quickly,
- 1:14:07Speaker 1: Like life moves fast, and we've just spent the last
- 1:14:10Speaker 1: at least eight months of all of our lives away
- 1:14:13Speaker 1: from a lot of people we love. And so if
- 1:14:15Speaker 1: you have the opportunity this holiday season, I'm gonna preach
- 1:14:18Speaker 1: to you for a second, But if you have the
- 1:14:19Speaker 1: opportunity this holiday season to be around family, know how
- 1:14:22Speaker 1: special that is and take advantage of you know, tell
- 1:14:25Speaker 1: the people that you see you love that you love them,
- 1:14:28Speaker 1: h listen to their stories, find out who they are. Um,
- 1:14:32Speaker 1: this is a big, big time for a lot of people,
- 1:14:34Speaker 1: and I think the holidays are kind of the mark
- 1:14:36Speaker 1: where you can really invest into the health and mental
- 1:14:39Speaker 1: health of your family, the emotional health of your family,
- 1:14:42Speaker 1: and just be around him once again. Well, actually, as always,
- 1:14:45Speaker 1: I'm thankful for you. You know, this is years in
- 1:14:48Speaker 1: the making. I don't know, we're coming up on what
- 1:14:51Speaker 1: is this four years of doing this podcast, three and
- 1:14:53Speaker 1: a half full years. Yeah, three and a half four
- 1:14:56Speaker 1: years wild and really thankful for you than for you
- 1:15:02Speaker 1: in your heart, your eloquence. Uh. But it has been
- 1:15:12Speaker 1: a wild ride. It continues to be a wild ride.
- 1:15:14Speaker 1: And for any out there watching right now we're listening
- 1:15:16Speaker 1: to this, we're thankful for you all. You've kept this going.
- 1:15:19Speaker 1: You you do a lot. And so hey two in
- 1:15:22Speaker 1: this I do have something really cool. Actually, you donated
- 1:15:25Speaker 1: a bunch of really cool stuff, uh to Honduras here
- 1:15:28Speaker 1: recently after the two hurricanes hit. Uh. Here's something that
- 1:15:31Speaker 1: many people don't know about this podcast. Uh. This podcast
- 1:15:35Speaker 1: allows generous Coffee to continue, Like this is what pays
- 1:15:39Speaker 1: for generous coffee. Uh. This podcast allows he may Hope
- 1:15:42Speaker 1: United to have donations sent in this podcast after we
- 1:15:47Speaker 1: mentioned on the podcast last week had multiple people I
- 1:15:51Speaker 1: don't know how many donate and give aid to the
- 1:15:54Speaker 1: people in Honduras. So this podcast is special and the
- 1:15:57Speaker 1: listeners are special. This is a big deal. We don't
- 1:16:00Speaker 1: want to want to underestimate that, and we're not stop
- 1:16:02Speaker 1: anytime soon. So this is one Thanksgiving. There's many more
- 1:16:05Speaker 1: to go with that. Hey, Ashley, I've been been, I've
- 1:16:09Speaker 1: been Ashley. We'll be back next week, you know, for
- 1:16:12Speaker 1: our regular recap and that Q and A on Tuesday.
- 1:16:14Speaker 1: See you, guys. We're thankful for you, thankful for you.
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