Latest / Podcast - Big 98.7 / I'm NEVER Going Back

Transcript

I'm NEVER Going Back · Podcast - Big 98.7

• 0:02
  Speaker 1: Feeling good here today, Angie is Yeah, it's weather like
• 0:05
  Speaker 1: we're gonna have for the next two days.
• 0:08
  Speaker 2: Well, actually, let me rephrase.
• 0:10
  Speaker 1: The past weather we've had has been a good reminder
• 0:13
  Speaker 1: that I'm gonna wake up and I'm going to go
• 0:15
  Speaker 1: to work every single day and work my little booty
• 0:18
  Speaker 1: off so that there is something I never have to
• 0:20
  Speaker 1: go back to not having. Do you have I'm never
• 0:23
  Speaker 1: going back moment? Let us know about it. At seven
• 0:27
  Speaker 1: oh one two eight zero one eight seven. You know
• 0:29
  Speaker 1: what happens, Angie when it's like minus ten outside.
• 0:32
  Speaker 3: Or the worst day of my life when.
• 0:34
  Speaker 1: It snows and you have to clean off your car.
• 0:40
  Speaker 1: You have to either scrape off that frost that is
• 0:43
  Speaker 1: just a nightmare and never comes off, or you've got
• 0:46
  Speaker 1: to get all the snow off before you drive.
• 0:48
  Speaker 2: Because you don't want to kick it.
• 0:49
  Speaker 1: I hate that I have worked for thirty five years
• 0:53
  Speaker 1: out the womb. I started working for thirty five years
• 0:57
  Speaker 1: so that I could have a two car garage. Okay,
• 1:01
  Speaker 1: I am not an animal. At one point, Corey and
• 1:03
  Speaker 1: I did not have a two car garage. Do you
• 1:06
  Speaker 1: think I would make my poor sweet loving wife park
• 1:09
  Speaker 1: outside of No course I would not do that.
• 1:11
  Speaker 2: I'm not an animal.
• 1:13
  Speaker 1: Right, So when we got our first two car garage
• 1:17
  Speaker 1: in Iowa, I said, I'm never I mean, this is great.
• 1:20
  Speaker 1: I'm never going back. So when we got to Fargo,
• 1:24
  Speaker 1: we have a two car garage. That's one of those
• 1:26
  Speaker 1: must halves.
• 1:27
  Speaker 2: You know. Some people are like, oh, I have to
• 1:29
  Speaker 2: have two bathrooms.
• 1:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll have none bathrooms before I have not a
• 1:33
  Speaker 1: two car garage. Okay, we got this two car garage.
• 1:36
  Speaker 1: That's insane. This two car garage that's insulated. I'm never
• 1:43
  Speaker 1: going back. It's not heated, but it is insulated, so
• 1:48
  Speaker 1: it really never get that cold in there. It's always
• 1:51
  Speaker 1: in like the thirties when I leave my house, no
• 1:53
  Speaker 1: matter what the temperature is.
• 1:54
  Speaker 3: So now you'll never go back.
• 1:55
  Speaker 2: I am never going back.
• 1:59
  Speaker 1: I will go out side to go to the bathroom
• 2:01
  Speaker 1: and embarrass myself in front of my neighbors before I
• 2:04
  Speaker 1: ever park outside in barga. I am never doing it.
• 2:07
  Speaker 1: I won't do it. So I will show up to
• 2:09
  Speaker 1: work here every single day to make sure I can
• 2:11
  Speaker 1: still afford that two car garage.
• 2:14
  Speaker 2: I just can't.
• 2:14
  Speaker 1: So funny, it's kind of like if you're a lady,
• 2:16
  Speaker 1: right and you date a dude who has his own car. Yeah,
• 2:19
  Speaker 1: you're never going You're never going back to like sadly
• 2:23
  Speaker 1: having to go out with some guy who has a scooter.
• 2:25
  Speaker 3: No, no, you want a car.
• 2:28
  Speaker 4: You know what though, for me, now that you mentioned it,
• 2:32
  Speaker 4: two bathrooms are busted. I cannot have a home with
• 2:37
  Speaker 4: only one bathroom.
• 2:38
  Speaker 3: It's me and three boys.
• 2:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's true, you do need one.
• 2:44
  Speaker 3: I need my own.
• 2:45
  Speaker 2: I think that's fair.
• 2:46
  Speaker 1: And I did ask this question here and some of
• 2:49
  Speaker 1: these responses are great and very thoughtful and a little
• 2:52
  Speaker 1: less jokey than ours. Angieh. Having your own place. This
• 2:56
  Speaker 1: is from Melissa. She said having roommates can be a
• 2:59
  Speaker 1: nice way to save some money, but it's really hard
• 3:02
  Speaker 1: to go back once you've been able to afford your
• 3:05
  Speaker 1: own place. That is true when you can walk around
• 3:07
  Speaker 1: the house in your underwear, leave the dishes till the
• 3:10
  Speaker 1: next day, you know, you don't have to worry about
• 3:12
  Speaker 1: making your roommates mad if you're playing music at night
• 3:15
  Speaker 1: or whatever.
• 3:15
  Speaker 3: You know, I just realized I've never lived alone.
• 3:19
  Speaker 4: I went from my mom's house to being with my husband,
• 3:22
  Speaker 4: to then I had kids, and now Mike lives with me.
• 3:26
  Speaker 3: Wow. You're living a life Melissa that I don't know.
• 3:28
  Speaker 2: This is another fantastic one from Alex.
• 3:31
  Speaker 1: She said, keeping your house at a temperature that's comfortable,
• 3:35
  Speaker 1: so so cozy and warm in the winter and cool
• 3:38
  Speaker 1: in the summer. I feel like this is a dad
• 3:41
  Speaker 1: everyone has. Okay, you grew up in that house with
• 3:44
  Speaker 1: sixty six degrees in January, and you're asking dad, like
• 3:48
  Speaker 1: the little kid who wants some more porridge? Hey, can
• 3:50
  Speaker 1: I have samoa? But you're talking about heat in the house,
• 3:53
  Speaker 1: not cat. Gotta save some money, put on another jacket, son.
• 3:58
  Speaker 1: And then these are other great answers. Sit noise canceling
• 4:01
  Speaker 1: headphones for air travel business class on flights over eight hours.
• 4:06
  Speaker 2: Now, that is an answer.
• 4:07
  Speaker 4: I like, I've never been fancy enough to fly anywhere
• 4:10
  Speaker 4: that's eight hours.
• 4:11
  Speaker 2: I like that. All right, that's a great answer.
• 4:13
  Speaker 1: And then hiring movers, it does get to the point
• 4:16
  Speaker 1: where like, yeah, I'll get some pizza and beer, Like
• 4:18
  Speaker 1: isn't really gonna.
• 4:19
  Speaker 3: Be no, no, no, no no.
• 4:20
  Speaker 1: I'll help you move something, you know, I'll help you
• 4:23
  Speaker 1: with the couch or the or the stuff.
• 4:25
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I people really move stone.
• 4:27
  Speaker 4: Do you move your phone into your hands, so you
• 4:29
  Speaker 4: can call the movie.
• 4:30
  Speaker 2: That's right.
• 4:34
  Speaker 5: Celebrating life's little victories. Every morning we practice gratitude on
• 4:39
  Speaker 5: Big ninety eight point seven.
• 4:41
  Speaker 2: If I could, I.
• 4:42
  Speaker 3: Would keep this feeling in a basket job busted out
• 4:45
  Speaker 3: when it was someone's acting hard.
• 4:47
  Speaker 5: Sure your little victories with us at seven oh one
• 4:50
  Speaker 5: two eight oho one ninety eight seven.
• 4:52
  Speaker 2: Kids, I also needed to win that day, all right.
• 4:55
  Speaker 1: First and foremost, a big shout out this morning, Angie
• 4:57
  Speaker 1: to Bethany. Bethany for her, This is actually kind of
• 5:01
  Speaker 1: like a major victory, but we're gonna lump it.
• 5:03
  Speaker 3: We're gonna take all the victory.
• 5:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's right. Any any victory is accepted.
• 5:07
  Speaker 1: Yes, she said, I scored an interview with a charitable
• 5:10
  Speaker 1: or organization that has been long near and dear to
• 5:15
  Speaker 1: me for a long time.
• 5:16
  Speaker 2: I'm so excited.
• 5:17
  Speaker 3: Oh this is great. Oh I hope she gets it.
• 5:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Bethany, text us back, what's the organization?
• 5:23
  Speaker 4: Yeah, give us a little give us the dates we
• 5:25
  Speaker 4: need the update when you land the job, because that's
• 5:27
  Speaker 4: what we're manifest that's right.
• 5:29
  Speaker 3: Then you text us back again, and your little victory
• 5:32
  Speaker 3: will be that you landed the job.
• 5:34
  Speaker 1: Heck, yeah, Angie, Do you have a little victory for
• 5:37
  Speaker 1: us today other than if you don't know this about
• 5:40
  Speaker 1: our near and deer Angie your internet famous. Oh my gosh, no,
• 5:44
  Speaker 1: ang is famous right now on the internet.
• 5:47
  Speaker 4: I posted a nostalgic reel on Instagram and it's kind
• 5:51
  Speaker 4: of like blown up a little bit, and I'm very surprised,
• 5:55
  Speaker 4: and so that's cool.
• 5:56
  Speaker 3: But that's not my little bit pretty sick, thank you, pretty.
• 6:00
  Speaker 3: I just feel weird like talking about that kind of stuff.
• 6:02
  Speaker 2: Wow, I'll do it for you.
• 6:04
  Speaker 4: But my real little victory is that I'm a bad
• 6:07
  Speaker 4: mom and I finally did something that I've been meaning
• 6:12
  Speaker 4: to do for a long time, and that's finding my
• 6:16
  Speaker 4: kids a pediatrician here in the FM area.
• 6:20
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I finally did. Yesterday. I took Aiden, the.
• 6:24
  Speaker 4: Older one, for his wellness check and everything is good
• 6:29
  Speaker 4: and he really likes his pediatrician, and so I check
• 6:34
  Speaker 4: that off the list of adult mom things I'm supposed
• 6:37
  Speaker 4: to do.
• 6:38
  Speaker 1: Well, there you go, a pediatrician. What do they do
• 6:42
  Speaker 1: at a wellness check? I need to learn?
• 6:44
  Speaker 4: Oh ah, they just well he's a teenager. He's fifteen,
• 6:48
  Speaker 4: so it's a little bit different than when you take
• 6:50
  Speaker 4: the baby for a check up.
• 6:51
  Speaker 2: No, I'm just talking kids in general.
• 6:53
  Speaker 3: Oh, they just do you know the steps?
• 6:57
  Speaker 4: And I asked them if anything is going on when
• 6:59
  Speaker 4: they're a teenager. There's this questionnaire that they have to
• 7:03
  Speaker 4: fill out that the kid fills out and then you
• 7:06
  Speaker 4: don't watch them fill it out because you don't want
• 7:07
  Speaker 4: to pressure them to have any you know, right, you
• 7:10
  Speaker 4: want him to answer truthful yes, exactly.
• 7:12
  Speaker 3: And so U how.
• 7:13
  Speaker 2: Nervous did that make you? I'm just kidding, do you
• 7:17
  Speaker 2: know why?
• 7:17
  Speaker 4: Aiden let me see the answers after And I was like,
• 7:20
  Speaker 4: I don't want to pressure you know whatever, And.
• 7:22
  Speaker 3: He's like, no, what do I care?
• 7:24
  Speaker 4: And so, you know, I saw the questionnaire and I'm like, oh,
• 7:27
  Speaker 4: you think you live a good life?
• 7:29
  Speaker 2: Okay, good, Yeah, there you go.
• 7:31
  Speaker 5: But we had a.
• 7:31
  Speaker 4: Blast actually, Like I feel like Aiden and I really
• 7:35
  Speaker 4: bonded during this pediatrician visit, Like we had such a
• 7:39
  Speaker 4: good time yesterday.
• 7:41
  Speaker 3: So I was very happy about that. What about you, Gabe,
• 7:44
  Speaker 3: what's your little victory?
• 7:45
  Speaker 2: That's very sweet.
• 7:46
  Speaker 1: So mother son bonding, We're out that here on big
• 7:48
  Speaker 1: ninety eight point seven.
• 7:50
  Speaker 2: My little victory last night?
• 7:52
  Speaker 1: I got myself, I tell you what, Right in the
• 7:55
  Speaker 1: mood for the Olympics. So okay, oh, I watched and
• 7:58
  Speaker 1: Netflix I think right now is kind of the crown
• 8:01
  Speaker 1: jewel for the most part when it comes to sports documentaries.
• 8:05
  Speaker 2: They do such a wonderful job.
• 8:06
  Speaker 1: But there is a really, really awesome documentary about the
• 8:11
  Speaker 1: nineteen eighty Olympic hockey team who took down the Soviets,
• 8:17
  Speaker 1: who was the greatest hockey team in the world.
• 8:19
  Speaker 3: Is this about what the movie Miracles?
• 8:21
  Speaker 1: Exactly exactly what it is. I want to watch this, Yeah, okay,
• 8:25
  Speaker 1: it's very cool. There's a ton of Minnesota references. They
• 8:29
  Speaker 1: talk to a player who went to the University of
• 8:31
  Speaker 1: North Dakota, like it's just a Midwest person's dream, and
• 8:35
  Speaker 1: or I guess if you live in Massachusetts, because there
• 8:37
  Speaker 1: was a lot of Boston guys.
• 8:38
  Speaker 2: On the team as well.
• 8:39
  Speaker 1: And it was wonderful and I could not be more
• 8:43
  Speaker 1: ready for the USA hockey team to walk into these
• 8:46
  Speaker 1: Olympics and take Canada and take their gold medal from
• 8:51
  Speaker 1: them and bring it back to the US. I do
• 8:55
  Speaker 1: this with a lot of sports right before the season.
• 8:57
  Speaker 1: I'll watch like a movie just to kind of get
• 8:59
  Speaker 1: in the in the mood for you know, I watch
• 9:01
  Speaker 1: remember the Titans before football every year.
• 9:04
  Speaker 3: Gabe, I really like this. This is really cool.
• 9:07
  Speaker 4: Okay, well, then I'm gonna watch it too. I want
• 9:09
  Speaker 4: to hide myself for the Olympics. They kick off on Friday, right.
• 9:12
  Speaker 1: That's right, February fifth, and uh before hockey starts.
• 9:16
  Speaker 3: Corey and I so wait, that's tomorrow. Yeah, oh so
• 9:20
  Speaker 3: not Friday.
• 9:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, well maybe the ceremony is tomorrow.
• 9:25
  Speaker 2: Oh okay, the actual event. I'll have to double check.
• 9:28
  Speaker 2: But I'm get away.
• 9:28
  Speaker 3: Okay, I gotta watch. What is the documentary called.
• 9:31
  Speaker 2: That's a great question.
• 9:32
  Speaker 1: I actually don't remember now that I think it was
• 9:35
  Speaker 1: just one of the it's the Top ten or whatever. Yeah,
• 9:38
  Speaker 1: and I now I'm gonna watch begrudgingly. Corey will watch
• 9:43
  Speaker 1: it as well, because she couldn't care less, but she's
• 9:45
  Speaker 1: gonna watch. We're gonna watch Miracle as well, the movie,
• 9:48
  Speaker 1: and it was just such a good documentary. Highly recommended
• 9:52
  Speaker 1: for any hockey fan or just any one who wants to,
• 9:55
  Speaker 1: I don't know, get psyched up for the Olympics.
• 9:56
  Speaker 4: If you're gonna make Corey watch Miracle, then she should
• 9:59
  Speaker 4: make you watch Heated Rivalry.
• 10:02
  Speaker 2: Oh is that on HBO? I don't. We don't have that.
• 10:04
  Speaker 2: I don't. Well, yeah we do. It's probably mixed in
• 10:06
  Speaker 2: with Hulu.
• 10:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I want any kind of hockey. I'm down here, yes, Angie,
• 10:13
  Speaker 1: to celebrate such a wonderful day of hitting thirty degrees.
• 10:17
  Speaker 2: I wanna. I got just a little brain teaser. I
• 10:20
  Speaker 2: want to play with you here today.
• 10:21
  Speaker 3: Why are you doing this to me? Why are you
• 10:23
  Speaker 3: making me use my brain more than I normally?
• 10:28
  Speaker 2: Because it's good for you?
• 10:29
  Speaker 1: Angka, Okay, I want you to try to do this
• 10:32
  Speaker 1: as fast as possible.
• 10:34
  Speaker 2: That's the that's kind of the caveat here.
• 10:36
  Speaker 3: This is a think fast situation.
• 10:38
  Speaker 4: Think fast, tell you right now, I'm gonna fail, all right,
• 10:41
  Speaker 4: I'm right.
• 10:42
  Speaker 2: I think you're gonna do wonderful. Okay.
• 10:44
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 10:45
  Speaker 1: Give me three words to describe winter weather that start
• 10:50
  Speaker 1: with the letter B, blesstery, and bananas. Why was burr one?
• 11:02
  Speaker 1: I couldn't think of it. It's the most obvious one.
• 11:05
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, that counts as a word. Excellent, Sure, okay, Angie.
• 11:10
  Speaker 1: Something you mix into ice cream that starts with the
• 11:13
  Speaker 1: letter C fast, fast fast caramel, that's exactly right.
• 11:17
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 11:18
  Speaker 1: Something you would notice on a person that starts with
• 11:21
  Speaker 1: the letter T teeth. That's a great one.
• 11:24
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 11:25
  Speaker 1: Something at the doctor's office that starts with the letter B.
• 11:30
  Speaker 3: Oh, no, I'm not thinking fast here. That starts with
• 11:33
  Speaker 3: the letter B. Yeah, at the doctor's office.
• 11:35
  Speaker 1: Yep, how about I'll give you. I'll give you one
• 11:37
  Speaker 1: to get your brain gone. How about like a band aid.
• 11:40
  Speaker 3: Oh, that's the only one, the only thing.
• 11:44
  Speaker 2: Blood.
• 11:45
  Speaker 3: Oh.
• 11:46
  Speaker 4: I literally was just at the doctor's office and my
• 11:50
  Speaker 4: kid had blood drawn and I didn't think and they
• 11:52
  Speaker 4: gave him a band aid.
• 11:53
  Speaker 2: Wow.
• 11:53
  Speaker 3: Okay, I failed that one.
• 11:55
  Speaker 1: Okay, I got two more for you. This one should
• 11:57
  Speaker 1: be pretty easy. A topping for pizza that starts with
• 12:01
  Speaker 1: the letter.
• 12:01
  Speaker 4: P pineapple, and I don't want any pineapple hate. Okay,
• 12:06
  Speaker 4: pineapple belongs on pizza. So fun, I'll die on the hill.
• 12:10
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 12:10
  Speaker 1: My last one for you. An animal at the zoo
• 12:13
  Speaker 1: that starts with the letter B.
• 12:15
  Speaker 5: Bird.
• 12:17
  Speaker 3: There's birds at the zoo.
• 12:19
  Speaker 1: Tons of birds. There's birds at the zoo that aren't
• 12:21
  Speaker 1: even zoo animals. Yeah, there eating all the popcorn that's
• 12:24
  Speaker 1: hanging out on the ground. Today's Variety Big ninety eight
• 12:30
  Speaker 1: point seven. It's Gabe and Angie Cloudy today and eventually
• 12:33
  Speaker 1: we get up to thirty degrees. Tonight that was Olivia
• 12:37
  Speaker 1: Dean Best New Artist in Well Deserving. So that's by far.
• 12:40
  Speaker 1: I think my favorite song every time it comes on,
• 12:43
  Speaker 1: I turn it every single time. And speaking of the Grammys,
• 12:50
  Speaker 1: Cher had a moment that, of course only Share could have,
• 12:54
  Speaker 1: even though things happen like this in award shows all
• 12:56
  Speaker 1: the time.
• 12:57
  Speaker 2: By now, I'm sure you've heard.
• 12:58
  Speaker 1: You know, she had an issue with announcing record of.
• 13:03
  Speaker 2: The Record of the Year, Thank you.
• 13:05
  Speaker 4: She said it was Luther Vandross, which it was not.
• 13:09
  Speaker 4: He been dead for a long time.
• 13:11
  Speaker 2: Kendrick Lamar.
• 13:12
  Speaker 3: Yes, but the song was Luther, So she's like one.
• 13:15
  Speaker 2: Of three years.
• 13:16
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but she actually wasn't embarrassed by it.
• 13:22
  Speaker 3: Of course she's not. She's Share.
• 13:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah, would she care?
• 13:24
  Speaker 3: Why would she care?
• 13:25
  Speaker 4: If that happened to a regular folk like you or
• 13:28
  Speaker 4: me or you listening, you'd probably be a bit embarrassed. Not.
• 13:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think it's that bad. I mean, when
• 13:35
  Speaker 1: you have a like a banger, you don't get embarrassed
• 13:41
  Speaker 1: when something goes wrong at the Granny.
• 13:43
  Speaker 4: I don't have a hit song, so I get embarrassed.
• 13:48
  Speaker 4: He's not easily, but yeah, do.
• 13:51
  Speaker 2: You is there something that has happened like that?
• 13:54
  Speaker 1: Have you?
• 13:54
  Speaker 2: Have you been publicly embarrassed like that?
• 13:56
  Speaker 4: Angie bruh, Yes, and let me tell you, yes, And
• 13:59
  Speaker 4: let me tell you what is today?
• 14:01
  Speaker 3: The fourth?
• 14:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 14:02
  Speaker 3: In twelve days?
• 14:04
  Speaker 4: No, I don't know how to math when is Valentine's Day?
• 14:08
  Speaker 3: Ten days?
• 14:09
  Speaker 2: In ten days, I was speaking of public embarrassed. That's
• 14:14
  Speaker 2: one of the easy numbers. And that was just ten.
• 14:18
  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I'm a disaster.
• 14:20
  Speaker 4: In ten days, it'll be the sixteenth anniversary of when
• 14:27
  Speaker 4: this public embarrassment happened. And I think sixteen years it's
• 14:31
  Speaker 4: a long time ago. Why are you still thinking about it?
• 14:33
  Speaker 1: We want to hear about your public embarrassment. By the way,
• 14:36
  Speaker 1: seven oh one two, eight zero one, nine eighty seven.
• 14:38
  Speaker 1: Don't you dare leave Angie on this island alone?
• 14:40
  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.
• 14:41
  Speaker 4: Yes, Misery loves embarrassment loves company, That's right. So I
• 14:46
  Speaker 4: had gotten dressed to go out for Valentine's Day with
• 14:49
  Speaker 4: my then husband, and I was feeling a little insecure
• 14:54
  Speaker 4: when I got dressed because I had gained a few
• 14:57
  Speaker 4: happy pounds in the recent months.
• 15:01
  Speaker 2: It's called love weight.
• 15:02
  Speaker 3: Yeah, love weight.
• 15:03
  Speaker 2: You were just in love.
• 15:04
  Speaker 3: Yeah, love weight. So I had love handles, okay, And
• 15:08
  Speaker 3: I got dressed for.
• 15:09
  Speaker 4: This Valentine's Day and I wasn't feeling my best, but
• 15:11
  Speaker 4: you know, I was happy to be going out with
• 15:13
  Speaker 4: my man.
• 15:14
  Speaker 3: Yeah, And so we went out.
• 15:15
  Speaker 4: We went to get drinks at the casino and you know,
• 15:19
  Speaker 4: play some slots and whatever.
• 15:21
  Speaker 3: And as we're walking through holding hands.
• 15:25
  Speaker 4: I see a woman walking in the opposite direction and
• 15:28
  Speaker 4: we kind of make eye contact because I could tell
• 15:30
  Speaker 4: that she was like looking at me. And then we
• 15:33
  Speaker 4: passed each other. And so I'm walking a few more
• 15:36
  Speaker 4: steps with my guy, and all of a sudden, I
• 15:39
  Speaker 4: hear like a shuffling, like someone hurrying back to where
• 15:43
  Speaker 4: I was.
• 15:45
  Speaker 3: And she taps me on the shoulder.
• 15:46
  Speaker 4: I turn around and it's the lady who was looking
• 15:49
  Speaker 4: at me and made eye contact with me, and she
• 15:51
  Speaker 4: looked very concerned and with a sense of urgency. She
• 15:56
  Speaker 4: pulls my hand and she puts a card in it
• 16:00
  Speaker 4: and then kind of gives me this concerned nod and
• 16:03
  Speaker 4: walks away.
• 16:03
  Speaker 3: And I thought, what is this?
• 16:06
  Speaker 4: And I looked down at the card she placed in
• 16:08
  Speaker 4: my hand, and it was an ad for shapewear.
• 16:13
  Speaker 3: Oh, she saw me and thought this lumpy frumpy.
• 16:18
  Speaker 4: That she couldn't let it go. She watched past me
• 16:22
  Speaker 4: and thought, no, no.
• 16:26
  Speaker 6: She hands me and I'm looking at this card and
• 16:30
  Speaker 6: I don't care that he is my man, like that's embarrassing,
• 16:33
  Speaker 6: and I'm looking at it and he's like, what's that?
• 16:35
  Speaker 4: And I don't want to tell him, like, oh, this
• 16:36
  Speaker 4: woman saw me and thought, wow, she looks real bad.
• 16:39
  Speaker 4: You need shapewear. But I felt awful and I cried
• 16:45
  Speaker 4: like it was not yep, I'm sorry that happened to you, Angie.
• 16:49
  Speaker 3: I mean, she wasn't wrong, but like, girl, mind.
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: Your business, Garlett, can you help out? Angie?
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: Here?
• 16:55
  Speaker 2: What happened to you? Walking onto a stage trying to
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: play it cool?
• 16:59
  Speaker 3: And then I tripped again on the way to my seat.
• 17:02
  Speaker 3: The applause felt not supported.
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: Nothing more embarrassing than trying to get up in front
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: of people and falling over. You know who knows a
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: lot about that, Jennifer Lawrence. Oh, she falls all the time,
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: so scart.
• 17:15
  Speaker 4: Always when she's accepting an oscar, so like it's fine.
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: They cancel each other out.
• 17:20
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: Now I have a lot of nieces. Well, actually I
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: mostly have just nephews. I only have a couple of
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: nieces a lot of boys in the Corey and Gabe
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: family here, and one of my nephews, whom I love
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: with my entire heart, is very sweet, sweet young man.
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: He sadly had a report card recently that had his
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: mother my sister in law, in a tizzy. All right,
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: a report card was fair for the most part, solid,
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: you know, very good, okay, but there's a little comment
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: in there that felt all too close to home for me,
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: as my nephew sometimes is a little talkative and disruptive
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: in class.
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: So talkative and disrupt.
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: Was something I saw, I am not kidding you on
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: every report card from kindergarten to eighth grade, obviously, And
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: so I'm sitting there talking to my sister on the line,
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: Well he'll be fine, Licole, I turned out, Oh god, no,
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: that was not the right thing to say at all.
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: And I wanted to know so I can pass this
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: news on to my sister in law. If you had
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: an elementary report card that said talk too much in class?
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: What do you do for a living? Is my nephew
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: still destined for greatness? I need something to pass along
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: to her, Okay? I asked this on Facebook. And there
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: are a lot of people who are talking a little
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: too much in class. And you know what's so strange
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: about it, so many of them have gone on to
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: be teachers. Emily ironically a teacher, Jessica a teacher. We
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: also had Robin a teacher, Kendra teacher. This person works
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: in elementary special education.
• 19:10
  Speaker 4: Okay, this is talking is important communications, that's what it is.
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Laura also a teacher and a counselor. There are
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: a lot of teachers who are a little disruptive in
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: elementary school class.
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: It sounds like when they were growing up.
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: I love this.
• 19:27
  Speaker 4: I feel like this is excellent news to deliver to
• 19:29
  Speaker 4: your sister in law.
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: By the way, I also had talks too much on
• 19:34
  Speaker 3: a few report cards.
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: I would assume that would be a safe bet. Yeh.
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and I have the same profession as you.
• 19:39
  Speaker 4: I don't like that your sister in laws discounting radio personnelity.
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, you could go on to change the world.
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: Seventh point one two eight zero one nine eight seven.
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: If you ever had talks too much on a report card,
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: what do you do for a living?
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: Now?
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: There are some people who are not teachers of go
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: in the comments. What an overwhelming amount of people go
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: and you know, talk or communicate for a living, which
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: is kind of funny.
• 20:08
  Speaker 4: My high school boyfriend Riley Berry would net. I mean,
• 20:12
  Speaker 4: this man would never shut up and it was always
• 20:16
  Speaker 4: some Well, let me be devil's advocate.
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: Nobody cares except for now. He's a lawyer.
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: Really yeah, it's quite literally his job to be an advocate.
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and the devil this is am I the problem?
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: It's the problem?
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: It's me.
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: We'll hear one side of the story and with your help,
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: am I the problem with?
• 20:45
  Speaker 5: You? Decide if it's right or if maybe you're the problem.
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: I'm hardly the problem.
• 20:50
  Speaker 5: On Big ninety eight point seven.
• 20:53
  Speaker 4: Matt wrote into us and he gets straight to the point.
• 20:56
  Speaker 3: Hi, Gabe and Angie, here's the situation.
• 21:00
  Speaker 4: I went on a third date with someone I'm really
• 21:02
  Speaker 4: into and she mentioned that she's in therapy and has
• 21:05
  Speaker 4: been for seven years. She said she started after college
• 21:08
  Speaker 4: because she felt overwhelmed after graduation.
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: I didn't say anything to her on the date, but I.
• 21:14
  Speaker 4: Was thinking about it after and that doesn't and doesn't
• 21:18
  Speaker 4: that seem like a little much that she's still in therapy. No, offense,
• 21:22
  Speaker 4: but it makes me worry. She's crazy, my sister. My
• 21:26
  Speaker 4: sister says it's a green flag that she is constantly
• 21:30
  Speaker 4: working on bettering herself.
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: I guess I can see that. But after seven years, haven't.
• 21:34
  Speaker 4: You learned everything you could learn unless you really got problems?
• 21:39
  Speaker 3: What do you guys think, Matt?
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: What do you think?
• 21:45
  Speaker 4: Seven on one, two, eight on one, nine eight seven.
• 21:47
  Speaker 4: Give us a call, give us a text. We also
• 21:49
  Speaker 4: have this up on the Big ninety eight point seven
• 21:50
  Speaker 4: Facebook page. I think Matt doesn't know anything about therapy
• 21:56
  Speaker 4: at all, other than like therapy is a thing. I
• 22:00
  Speaker 4: think that's where the issue lies. I don't think it's
• 22:05
  Speaker 4: a red flag.
• 22:06
  Speaker 3: That she is in therapy, even if it's.
• 22:08
  Speaker 4: Been for seven years. I think, like his sister said,
• 22:11
  Speaker 4: I think that's a green flag, right I what are
• 22:15
  Speaker 4: your thoughts on that? I want the guys perspective, actually,
• 22:18
  Speaker 4: because I feel like generally I feel like the girlies
• 22:22
  Speaker 4: are more open and into therapy than men.
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: Dude sit in a garage and singing Creed songs while
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: chugging bush lights.
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: That's worse.
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: That's our therapy right there, I will I will say
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: seven years Matt might be onto something. Maybe she's learned
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: a lot of skills and tools that can help her,
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: you know, navigate through life, which is very hard for
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: a lot of people.
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: With seven years.
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: Maybe at this point she just really likes having someone
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: to talk to, all right. Maybe she doesn't necessarily even
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: go there to learn things. Maybe she just wants to
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: go at this point to vent or get things off
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: her chest, or talk to someone she can trust that
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: isn't a family member that's gonna give her real advice,
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: who knows going to therapy for that, Not that there's
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: any amount of time to go to therapy right right,
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: but going for that long, maybe it just really helps
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: her navigate problems in a more in a way that
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: she can handle it better, you know what I mean.
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: It doesn't have to be I'm trying to I'm trying
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: to better myself or fix myself. Maybe it's, hey, I
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: treat this as almost like going to the gym.
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: You know, you got to go.
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: To the gym, Yeah, for the gym to keep your
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: keep your you know, your fitness up.
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: Maybe she goes.
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: There to keep her mental That is something she's willing
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: to obviously pay for, and it just helps her navigate life.
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: I don't see anything wrong with that. You do what
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: you gotta do.
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: My wife is a social worker who deals with people
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: who uh, you know, could use, do use, or need
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: to use therapy. So there's never gonna be anything negative
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: about that coming from me.
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: Oh, I love that you're on the therapy train.
• 23:53
  Speaker 4: You know what. Also, I'm not gonna lie to you, Matt.
• 23:57
  Speaker 4: If she can afford therapy for the last seven and yees,
• 24:00
  Speaker 4: she got money, Honey, you better hang on.
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she can afford therapy. That means you guys are
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: getting appetizers when you go out to eat two eight
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: zero one nine eight seven. If you had any advice
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: for Matt, what would it be this morning?
• 24:21
  Speaker 4: On the problem is Matt is stating a girl that
• 24:25
  Speaker 4: he really likes, but she's been in therapy for seven years,
• 24:29
  Speaker 4: and he considers.
• 24:31
  Speaker 3: That a red flag.
• 24:33
  Speaker 4: But he wants to know if he's the problem for
• 24:35
  Speaker 4: thinking that it's a red flag.
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I do want to try to maybe defend and
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: save my boy Matt a little bit.
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: Maybe what he did not convey in this email very
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: well is maybe he's thinking, like, oh, she has a
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: lot on her plate right now. Maybe a relationship isn't
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: the best thing to pursue at this moment.
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: Maybe hopefully that kind of what you mean.
• 24:57
  Speaker 4: Well, I we only have the words he wrote into us. Okay,
• 25:01
  Speaker 4: We're so sorry.
• 25:02
  Speaker 3: It's matter.
• 25:04
  Speaker 4: We posted this on the Big ninety eight point seven
• 25:06
  Speaker 4: facebook page. Also, if you want to chime in, you
• 25:09
  Speaker 4: can text us or call us seven on one two
• 25:11
  Speaker 4: eight on one nine eight seven.
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: What are the people saying about.
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: Matt Amanda said, this is a green flag that she
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: can recognize she needs and seeks help.
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: She's not crazy, she's evolving.
• 25:22
  Speaker 3: I like that. That makes sense to me.
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: Now we do have someone on the other side of this, Angie.
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: This would be Larissa. She said, therapy isn't mental ass forever.
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: It's supposed to be temporary. I feel that's a bit
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: too long as well. So this isn't quite clear cut
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: and dry as it might say.
• 25:39
  Speaker 4: I really thought all the ladies were gonna be on
• 25:41
  Speaker 4: the side of yes, therapy. Interesting Larissa, Well, I did
• 25:45
  Speaker 4: like this take. Daniellea said that she thinks that people's
• 25:50
  Speaker 4: jobs think first responders, doctors, nurses, et cetera, can create
• 25:54
  Speaker 4: different traumatic events that need to be processed and talked
• 25:58
  Speaker 4: about in a productive way so that they don't manifest
• 26:02
  Speaker 4: into something like PTSD. Think of it like being proactive. Yeah, okay, met, Matt,
• 26:08
  Speaker 4: do you even know what this girl does for a living.
• 26:11
  Speaker 4: If she's like a nurse or a doctor first responded,
• 26:15
  Speaker 4: Those jobs I think have a higher, you know, risk
• 26:18
  Speaker 4: for trauma to occur.
• 26:21
  Speaker 3: And I think it makes sense to be in therapy.
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and going for seven years? Like, what does that
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: necessarily mean? Does that like if she's going every single
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: day for seven years, or maybe it's like, you know,
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: once a month, or she takes a couple of months off.
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: Maybe it's like an often on situation. You know, it
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: could be a fluid moving thing. It doesn't mean yep
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: at three every single day, I have this appointment blob,
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Matt.
• 26:46
  Speaker 4: I think I would encourage you to inquire more about
• 26:51
  Speaker 4: what her therapy looks like. She might even ask you
• 26:54
  Speaker 4: to go to couple's therapy.
• 26:55
  Speaker 3: Because maybe you're being a little too.
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: Much, sir. I haven't been able to say that in
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: quite some time.
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: Tomorrow might be one of those days you want to
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: live over and over and over. When we hit forty
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: in February, yes, the Groundhog's Day was this past week.
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: Obviously you know that by now you know that punk
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: Satani Phil saw the shadow we get a long winter.
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: But he's wrong a lot. All right, we're gonna call
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: it the Spain of Spade Angie. The movie Groundhogs Day
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: boosted popularity of said holiday with good old punk Satani Phil.
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: And if you're unaware of the movie, you know, and
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: you know horrible explanations basically about just reliving the same
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: day over and over. Essentially, Yeah, what day in your
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: life would you choose to relive over and over and
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: over if you could?
• 27:47
  Speaker 3: Okay?
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: I And also you can answer this for us, by
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: the way, seven one two eight zero one nine eight seven.
• 27:53
  Speaker 3: I was thinking about it.
• 27:54
  Speaker 4: There were two days that came to mind, and I
• 27:57
  Speaker 4: think I'm gonna go with because we're close to Valentine's Day,
• 28:03
  Speaker 4: I think I'm gonna go with the day that I
• 28:07
  Speaker 4: met my now boyfriend Mikey, because I didn't meet him.
• 28:13
  Speaker 4: The day that we met wasn't the day that we like,
• 28:16
  Speaker 4: you know, became an item.
• 28:18
  Speaker 3: It wasn't a date.
• 28:19
  Speaker 4: We just met that day he was my should I
• 28:23
  Speaker 4: just okay, I'll make this the abridged version. He was
• 28:26
  Speaker 4: my teacher when I was in third grade, and then
• 28:28
  Speaker 4: I never saw him again for twenty six years. But
• 28:31
  Speaker 4: then I wanted to find him via.
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: Social media, yeah, a.
• 28:35
  Speaker 4: Social media to bank him for being my favorite teacher
• 28:38
  Speaker 4: in the land.
• 28:39
  Speaker 3: So we had.
• 28:40
  Speaker 4: Decided to meet up at a coffee.
• 28:43
  Speaker 3: Shop, and so we did.
• 28:44
  Speaker 4: And so that day when we met at the coffee shop,
• 28:48
  Speaker 4: we just had such a nice, wholesome reunion and it
• 28:51
  Speaker 4: was such a delight. And then from there I went
• 28:54
  Speaker 4: and met up with my sister and my girlfriends and
• 28:57
  Speaker 4: we had brunch. And then from there I went to
• 28:59
  Speaker 4: my mom's house and I spent just the rest of
• 29:02
  Speaker 4: the evening with her and she made me a home
• 29:04
  Speaker 4: cooked meal.
• 29:05
  Speaker 3: I was on vacation from work, and it was great.
• 29:08
  Speaker 4: And then I woke up the next day and got
• 29:10
  Speaker 4: on a plane and went back to where I lived.
• 29:13
  Speaker 4: So if I just woke up and didn't have to
• 29:16
  Speaker 4: get on a plane and go back to where I lived,
• 29:18
  Speaker 4: I would wake up, meet Mikey again, have brunch with
• 29:22
  Speaker 4: my sister, hang out with my mom. If I could
• 29:24
  Speaker 4: relive that day over and over, that would be magical.
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that'd be wonderful. Yeah, that's a great choice. Mine
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: is hands down. September thirtieth of twenty twenty three. That
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: was the day that your boy got married as forever
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: one of the most fun, loving, exciting days of all time.
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: It was so cool and the day went off without
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: a hitch as far as I'm aware. There were no
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: problems at our wedding, or if there was, thank god,
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: our guest did a great job and not let me
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: know about it or Corey know about it. And it
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: was just so fun and one of on that day.
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: I did not really drink a ton at my wedding.
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: Obviously I had some beers with the boys or whatever,
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: but yeah, I did not, you know, really go all
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: out on the drinking because I wanted to remember the
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: day and I stuck to that, and I did pretty
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: well because I was kind of scarred growing up, you know,
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: I saw cousins or as I got older friends who
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: had got married, and it definitely hit the sauce a
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: little bit hard, and I'm like, oh man, this fun,
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: exciting day was kind of ruined by you puken in
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: the bathroom before you get up to the And I said,
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: I don't want to, I don't want my wedding day
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: to be like that, and to this day it was
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: still by far the most fun thing of all time.
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: If the Vikes go on next year to win the
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: Super Bowl, wow, I'll still have the same answer for
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: you this year that wedding day was.
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: It was so much fun.
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: I would do that over and over and over. A
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: close second would be just kind of my bachelor party
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: all group did to one because yeah, one there was
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: a lot of debauchery.
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: Okay, and there are chunks of that I probably don't remember. Well.
• 31:04
  Speaker 4: You know what I love, Gabe. I love this version
• 31:07
  Speaker 4: of you, Gabe, the loving, sweet guy who just loves
• 31:12
  Speaker 4: his wedding and wanted to make sure that he remembered
• 31:15
  Speaker 4: everything from his wedding day.
• 31:17
  Speaker 3: I like this.
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: This is the version I give you every day, Angie.
• 31:20
  Speaker 3: Sorry you do.
• 31:28
  Speaker 5: Starting off the day with something good.
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: This is Gabe's good News.
• 31:32
  Speaker 5: On Big ninety eight point seven.
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: A ninety six year old grandmother is helping cook up
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: tradition at Sliced Bakeshop and Luncheonette in South Fargo. Every Tuesday,
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: Mary Anne visits her granddaughter's bakery to make Nephla soup
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: using simple garden grown ingredients that she learned from her mother.
• 31:56
  Speaker 3: We're gonna have nephlas soup today.
• 31:58
  Speaker 6: My mother never never having learned to read or write
• 32:04
  Speaker 6: any language, but she could cook.
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: I'm ninety six. I don't remember, and I have to
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: look the recipe in order to make sure I don't
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: miss anything.
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: She still lives independently, mary Anne, and she gardens. She
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: comes from a hard working immigrant family that spent decade
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: and she spent excuse me decades as a foster parent,
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: caring for more than three hundred children. She said she
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: enjoys being around people and sharing her love of cooking.
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: Ninety six and still getting after it.
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: She does keep that recipe close though, And you know what,
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: I would too, because my memory stinks.
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Shea battie. I love her. This is amazing.
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: And you know the old saying the world is full
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: of nice people. If you can't find one, you gotta
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: be one.