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Work harder, prove them wrong · Motivational Podcast

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  Speaker 1: What's the difference between I like you and I love you?
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  Speaker 1: Which is a brilliant question, and the Buddha replied, when
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  Speaker 1: you like a flower, you simply pluck it, but when
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  Speaker 1: you love a flower, you water it every day. And
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  Speaker 1: to me, the one night stand, the pawn, the dopamine hit,
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  Speaker 1: the release a chemical is the plucking. Right, That's what
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  Speaker 1: we're all plucking all day long because that's all we
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  Speaker 1: can do. But the watering, the intimacy, developing, intimacy, growing
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  Speaker 1: from entertainment to experiments, to experiences, to education to engaging
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  Speaker 1: in service together, all of this creates so much intimacy
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  Speaker 1: that physical intimacy is a natural byproduct. It's not something
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  Speaker 1: you have to manage or engineer or manufacture like. It's
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  Speaker 1: not this separate thing. It's based on how close I
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  Speaker 1: feel to you. And the point is when don't feel
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  Speaker 1: close to our partners because we don't do anything that
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  Speaker 1: makes us closer every day.
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  Speaker 2: Love is a choice. When I decide to love somebody
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  Speaker 2: and be with them and respect them and be loyal,
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  Speaker 2: it means that no matter how how fluctuated my feelings
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  Speaker 2: are or what I'm going through, that I stand with
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  Speaker 2: that choice I make and I stick to my ground
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  Speaker 2: because it's a choice and I understand that that person
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  Speaker 2: is exactly what I need, and therefore I don't depend
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  Speaker 2: on my feelings or emotions. I'm depending on the choice
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  Speaker 2: I make, and think about it in this way, like
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  Speaker 2: you love your parents so much, but sometimes you want
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  Speaker 2: to kill them, right, Yeah, it's because feelings go up
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  Speaker 2: and down and you cannot take decisions based on your emotions.
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  Speaker 2: So but sadly, nowadays people are loving based on their
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  Speaker 2: feelings and how they feel and their mood and all that.
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  Speaker 2: But love is just a choice, and the choices you
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  Speaker 2: make are a reflection of who you are as a person.
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  Speaker 1: Sleeping in the same bed as someone does not make
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  Speaker 1: you close to someone. Living in the same house as
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  Speaker 1: someone does not make you close to someone. The only
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  Speaker 1: thing that makes you feel close to someone is when
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  Speaker 1: you feel you can be open and when you feel seen,
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  Speaker 1: heard and understood in your most vulnera darkest and open times.
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  Speaker 1: If you can do that, everything else is gonna work.
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  Speaker 1: But if you can't do that, you can't just make
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  Speaker 1: it happen in a moment because you meant to be together.
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  Speaker 3: She didn't fall in love with you because you remembered
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  Speaker 3: her birthday and bought her flowers and valadines. She fell
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  Speaker 3: in love with you because when you woke up in
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  Speaker 3: the morning, you said good morning to her before you
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  Speaker 3: checked your phone. She fell in love with you because
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  Speaker 3: when you went to the fridge to get yourself a drink,
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  Speaker 3: you got her one without even asking. She fell in
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  Speaker 3: love with you because when you had an amazing day
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  Speaker 3: at work and she came home and she had a
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  Speaker 3: terrible day at work, you didn't say yeah, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: but let me tell you about my day. You sat
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  Speaker 3: and listened to her awful day, and you didn't say
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  Speaker 3: a thing about your own.
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  Speaker 2: Bism nay.
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  Speaker 3: This is why she fell in love with you. I
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  Speaker 3: can't tell you exactly what day, and it was no
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  Speaker 3: particular thing you did. It was the accumulation of all
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  Speaker 3: of those little things.