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- 0:02Speaker 1: Hi and Samy with Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio. And
- 0:05Speaker 1: this is your sacred space for spirituality, intuition, manifestation, and
- 0:11Speaker 1: metaphysical wisdom. Okay, so the question is how do I
- 0:15Speaker 1: stop obsessing over timing? Well, I completely understand this one.
- 0:22Speaker 1: Here's what I know. Yeah, I expect that it's going
- 0:27Speaker 1: to come. So you have to trust that in that
- 0:31Speaker 1: spirit gets that whatever time that you need this thing
- 0:34Speaker 1: to show up, like really needed to show up. We
- 0:37Speaker 1: make up a lot of timings in our mind, and
- 0:39Speaker 1: timing's already made up, and the spirit world does not
- 0:43Speaker 1: use our timing for things. The spirit world uses our
- 0:48Speaker 1: preparation to know the right time, our belief, our willingness
- 0:53Speaker 1: to receive. All of that opens the door to your desire.
- 1:00Speaker 1: And so what you have to do is stay consistent
- 1:04Speaker 1: because that is a gesture to the universe that you
- 1:08Speaker 1: do believe it's going to come. Know that you can't
- 1:12Speaker 1: force it right, you can't push past this recipe of
- 1:18Speaker 1: divine timing, and respect that it's a journey and don't
- 1:23Speaker 1: stop and before you know it, whatever it is that
- 1:26Speaker 1: you want will show up at the exact right time
- 1:30Speaker 1: you need it. Now, another layer to this what I've
- 1:33Speaker 1: recognized as of late, over the last couple of years
- 1:36Speaker 1: of playing with a lot of energy in a lot
- 1:38Speaker 1: of different ways. What I do know to be true
- 1:42Speaker 1: is that an aspect of divine overflow is that everything
- 1:52Speaker 1: shows up at the right time, and so sometimes something
- 1:59Speaker 1: will take longer than you think it should, or maybe
- 2:03Speaker 1: you will need more time, and so you requests more time.
- 2:07Speaker 1: That's all a part of being blessed, and we have
- 2:10Speaker 1: to appreciate that and know that the exact moment we
- 2:13Speaker 1: need it, that exact moment, which will usually feel like
- 2:18Speaker 1: it's at the final hour, that's when the desire will
- 2:22Speaker 1: show up. And it's reminding me of a quote from
- 2:30Speaker 1: Florence Scoville Shin And I don't know if it's in
- 2:39Speaker 1: the magic path of intuition or in the game of
- 2:42Speaker 1: life and how to play it. Let me see, if
- 2:46Speaker 1: you'll just bear with me, mom, I'm going to try
- 2:47Speaker 1: to search it really quickly. Essentially, what she's saying while
- 2:54Speaker 1: I'm searching is that oftentimes our desire shows up at
- 2:59Speaker 1: the fire final moment, because there is so much of
- 3:02Speaker 1: a shift and energy in us that has to occur,
- 3:07Speaker 1: that that is when it can come through and so
- 3:09Speaker 1: assuming you don't give up and you still hold it
- 3:13Speaker 1: in faith even when it's so uncomfortable. In fact, I
- 3:17Speaker 1: think I just did a show on this, actually the
- 3:21Speaker 1: dark the darkness before the dawn. If you can hold faith,
- 3:30Speaker 1: continue on, stay consistent, it will manifest and it will
- 3:36Speaker 1: be the exact time you need it. And so we
- 3:40Speaker 1: have this perspective that, oh, I need to do things early,
- 3:43Speaker 1: or it needs to have been done at this time.
- 3:45Speaker 1: But again, we make up all these timing restrictions, right,
- 3:50Speaker 1: and that's what they are. They're restrictions, and I do
- 3:53Speaker 1: believe they hold our humanness accountable to some degree. However,
- 4:01Speaker 1: manifestation consists of our expectation that it's going to happen,
- 4:10Speaker 1: our preparation, our belief, and our willingness to receive. That
- 4:18Speaker 1: is what opens doors. So your faith, your faith, and
- 4:23Speaker 1: when your faith, I can see it psychically, it's like
- 4:29Speaker 1: it's almost like we're at this moment or at this
- 4:32Speaker 1: moment or at this moment, and we can choose, like right,
- 4:35Speaker 1: we can choose the door to all Right, I don't
- 4:38Speaker 1: think this is going to work. I'm so uncomfortable and
- 4:41Speaker 1: I'm giving up. I'm going to make up whole bunch
- 4:43Speaker 1: of stories why it didn't work, or we can choose
- 4:48Speaker 1: here's the door. I don't know what's on the other
- 4:50Speaker 1: side of this door, but I'm going to still hold
- 4:51Speaker 1: this faith. I'm going to still hold this faith. I
- 4:53Speaker 1: might be really uncomfortable, but there has to be away.
- 4:56Speaker 1: There has to be away. So I'm going to choose
- 4:58Speaker 1: this door, and you choose that door, and then that
- 5:02Speaker 1: door leads to your desire. Immediately, immediately, I had something
- 5:09Speaker 1: in my life that was it felt delayed, felt very delayed.
- 5:14Speaker 1: It was like two weeks delaid. And it was like
- 5:17Speaker 1: the final moment, Like I knew in my gut, this
- 5:21Speaker 1: is the moment, right And I wanted to stress and worry,
- 5:28Speaker 1: and I already been stressed and worry worrying, And then
- 5:31Speaker 1: I always have a moment where I'm just like, listen, self,
- 5:36Speaker 1: we know stress isn't going to work, and yes this
- 5:38Speaker 1: thing is important, and yes I've been praying about it,
- 5:41Speaker 1: and yes I've been working at it, and there has
- 5:45Speaker 1: to be a way. There has to be a way.
- 5:48Speaker 1: And I settled into myself. And what I mean by that,
- 5:52Speaker 1: you root in, you find your center, you come back
- 5:56Speaker 1: to present moment. So you're not thinking about, oh my god,
- 5:59Speaker 1: if this doesn't work, this doesn't work, you come back
- 6:01Speaker 1: to present moment and you're like, there has to be
- 6:04Speaker 1: a way. And I remember sitting there and I felt
- 6:07Speaker 1: the click when I came back into the moment where
- 6:10Speaker 1: I was just like, this is gonna work, right, I'm
- 6:13Speaker 1: in full faith right now, And all of a sudden,
- 6:16Speaker 1: I was doing something and I got an idea and
- 6:23Speaker 1: I executed the idea right that was my intuition, and
- 6:27Speaker 1: then it turned around like this is something that might
- 6:30Speaker 1: have taken days right of back and forth and back
- 6:34Speaker 1: and forth, and I mean instantaneously it was done. It
- 6:41Speaker 1: takes us walking up to the very edge of our
- 6:46Speaker 1: faith and then we realize, oh, there's even more faith
- 6:50Speaker 1: in me, and that's what spirit wants. All of this
- 6:54Speaker 1: is a journey of faith. This whole human experience is
- 6:59Speaker 1: a journey of faith. And so a part of that
- 7:03Speaker 1: journey is walking up to that edge edge edge and recognizing, oh,
- 7:07Speaker 1: there's even more faith in me than I thought. And
- 7:14Speaker 1: that is how timing works out in your favor. So
- 7:17Speaker 1: timing is in fact an illusion, though you know, we
- 7:22Speaker 1: have these timing constructions in our life to hold us accountable.
- 7:26Speaker 1: So in no way do I want you to be like, well, God,
- 7:28Speaker 1: she's just gonna come through. I heard Amy say on
- 7:31Speaker 1: the podcast that screw human timing, screw deadlines, it's just
- 7:36Speaker 1: gonna all work out. That is some self sabotaging bullshit,
- 7:42Speaker 1: And you have to stay in it. So that's where
- 7:45Speaker 1: you stay in the game. You stay consistent, You stay consistent,
- 7:49Speaker 1: You stay consistent, You stay consistent. It's a journey, and
- 7:54Speaker 1: through the peaks in the valleys, you stay on the path,
- 7:58Speaker 1: through the peaks in the valleys, you stay on the path,
- 8:01Speaker 1: and your consistency leads to the result you most desire.
- 8:06Speaker 1: So that's how you stop obsessing about timing, is that
- 8:09Speaker 1: you're aware of it and you keep going and let
- 8:13Speaker 1: your faith expand, you let your faith move you forward,
- 8:17Speaker 1: and let your faith lead to the very manifestation of
- 8:22Speaker 1: your desire. And so my start guys are saying, before
- 8:25Speaker 1: I wrap review, what faith is so optimism And I
- 8:29Speaker 1: did a lot of reasearch to figure out what it is.
- 8:31Speaker 1: So optimism intuition, taking action based on the intuition that
- 8:38Speaker 1: you've received. And the last piece is trust you trust,
- 8:44Speaker 1: And I heard I did a meditation this morning, and
- 8:52Speaker 1: it was like one of those talking meditations as the
- 8:54Speaker 1: person talked the whole time, and she said, faith is
- 9:00Speaker 1: the bridge between the scene and the unseen, and so
- 9:09Speaker 1: what gets you over the hump, if you will, is
- 9:16Speaker 1: your trust. So again that components of faith are optimism.
- 9:23Speaker 1: You have to believe that things are going to work
- 9:24Speaker 1: out in your favor and that there is a positive
- 9:30Speaker 1: on the other side. Intuition, trusting your intuition, receiving your intuition,
- 9:37Speaker 1: taking action so you get an intuitive message, you take action,
- 9:42Speaker 1: and an action, I will always say is two parts.
- 9:45Speaker 1: Action is doing the things you know to do right.
- 9:49Speaker 1: You have to keep showing up and doing what you've
- 9:51Speaker 1: sensed is the right thing to do. And along the way,
- 9:54Speaker 1: you're going to get these moments, these divine inspirations, and
- 9:59Speaker 1: you follow those as well, and then you trust you trust,
- 10:04Speaker 1: and that is how you stop obsessing. Over time. It's
- 10:09Speaker 1: totally fine if you're reeling and like, oh my god,
- 10:12Speaker 1: it's going to work, it's yeah. I was doing all
- 10:14Speaker 1: of that, but there was a moment. My spare guards
- 10:19Speaker 1: are like, be clear with people because you're going to
- 10:23Speaker 1: hear this and you'll want it. Your mind will want
- 10:24Speaker 1: to be like, oh wow, I don't have to do it.
- 10:27Speaker 1: You do. It's this, This is work, this is spiritual work.
- 10:32Speaker 1: And so I want to say during all of this
- 10:34Speaker 1: time that I'm reeling about this timing issue I had
- 10:39Speaker 1: to hit something by a certain time. I'm praying. I'm
- 10:44Speaker 1: praying the whole time. I am, i am casting, i
- 10:49Speaker 1: am throwing every ritual I have, I'm covering in light,
- 10:53Speaker 1: I'm affirming, I'm affirming. Oh my god, I'm affirming. I
- 10:57Speaker 1: am affirmed and affirmed around that thing. I am doing
- 11:02Speaker 1: the work and I'm taking a practical action, so it
- 11:08Speaker 1: all goes together. Are you showing up for the journey?
- 11:13Speaker 1: Are you actively participating in the journey? Are you taking
- 11:16Speaker 1: step after step after step? And it may look like
- 11:21Speaker 1: a mess as you're doing it, and you may feel
- 11:23Speaker 1: like a message you're doing it, but if you stay
- 11:27Speaker 1: with it, you will get there and your manifestation is
- 11:33Speaker 1: just on the other side. So I pray this was helpful.
- 11:38Speaker 1: Thank you so much for listening to that. You know,
- 11:47Speaker 1: this spiritual stuff is real and it often makes sense
- 11:51Speaker 1: when you're listening to a show like this one, and
- 11:54Speaker 1: you might find it difficult though to apply it. In
- 11:58Speaker 1: your real life. This is all very nuanced. It's not,
- 12:02Speaker 1: but it feels that way in our human body, and
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