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- 0:06Farewell is also going course pergarlo well way in the middle direction taken to reach
- 0:12the end, proposed a set of data that indicate the way to reach a
- 0:16place. I think we are going direction that is given in writing for Maria
- 0:21Day of Aleman good end of a book that contains a defeat then in line
- 0:27marked on the map of tides to guide the pilots, it escapes or course
- 0:37let rote courses ros think walking with indes Garcia and Paula Ancay, punctures that
- 0:46give it punctures and thread how well you are well and you well a bit
- 0:52adhered to or maybe I have allergy or all the evils of the world if
- 0:56suddenly I have a terrible energy you need information about this energy. All of
- 1:03a sudden you' re also told about the flight. In that case,
- 1:07I can also do great traffic work because nothing. Today we come to talk
- 1:11about power, but a very concrete thing. We wanted to talk about the
- 1:17idea that we exercise power where they let us exercise it, that is,
- 1:23we think of these people who are being subdued or subjugated in a power relationship.
- 1:26We can think of many examples and they themselves exercise power also over other
- 1:30people who are vulnerable, that is, the vulnerable, exercising power over the
- 1:34vulnerable. We wanted to talk about this. There is a very typical example
- 1:37that everyone can understand, which is when a person ascends into a company and
- 1:40begins to behave with others, as his boss behaved. With him there are
- 1:44wonderful bosses who not so much the majority could say the same. And this
- 1:48happens. Not good, Javier' s boss,' cause he' s
- 1:51gonna take care of him. Well, we' re our own bosses,
- 1:53too. Yeah, yeah, but by the way, power itself clear,
- 1:56I exercise the Brothers over Paula. Yes, we exercise mutual power. Well,
- 2:00if you sometimes exercise the car, the power of self- exploitation as
- 2:06of exploiting others. That is the agenda for all the self- employed.
- 2:08I believe yes, then there are obvious power exercises in society that everyone,
- 2:13well they will sound. Evidently, for example, men over women, who
- 2:15have resources and money against those who do not. What we said in companies
- 2:20or in organizations, those who rule, those who care, those who command,
- 2:23And we could even think about them in ecological terms, the power that
- 2:28we humans exert, over animals, over our environment. Well, with the
- 2:30subject of exploitation, it also occurs in this field and this exercise of power
- 2:34and this domination, because it is everywhere, it is something very human and
- 2:38as far as people are concerned, we have some power and control. There
- 2:40is this temptation to abuse him, to crush those below him, and to
- 2:45become small tyrants in our personal and professional lives. I mean, I think
- 2:47it' s a drive that everyone has felt at some point and that we
- 2:51have to try, well, relax it. I don' t know if
- 2:54you' ll talk about it, but you' ve seen the film,
- 2:59the experiment not that it speaks of this class, sociological experiment of putting some
- 3:05people in a prison, some as jailers and others as prisoners, and seeing
- 3:09how they react and how they act among themselves. And jailers end up becoming
- 3:12tyrants and end up mistreating, torturing people who are like prisoners. Well,
- 3:19that' s a good movie we signed up for, because it' s
- 3:23just what we came to talk about. Power is given in personal, family,
- 3:24good, loving relationships of all kinds, and today' s idea is
- 3:28that we exercise power where they leave us, and sometimes that involves exercising it
- 3:30badly over people who are very vulnerable or in a situation similar to us.
- 3:36We have thought that this issue of power is obviously given a lot in fiction.
- 3:39Just what you were saying and we have come up with a very obvious
- 3:43example that everyone will know that it is the calis and in a game of
- 3:46thrones the mother puts that you start two, of course they sell it there
- 3:49mayor drug. It starts by being subdued and then I don' t know
- 3:52if you' ve seen at the end of the game between thrones, but
- 3:55it ends up good at doing bad things. She doesn' t turn herself
- 3:58into a tyrant And this happens to me It' s an anecdote that'
- 4:01s kind of funny. The only two months she works in a company,
- 4:03a classic company, my boss had an apple, the cell phone that every
- 4:08time she shakes it, a whip comes out, that is, the sound
- 4:10of a serious whip. Yeah, it was like funny jaja stoso is done
- 4:14in an ironic way but actually, the clear thing is where it' s
- 4:17clear. Sure, I mean, it was funny, but then of course.
- 4:19If this person, because he exploits the employees, you say" fuck
- 4:24" the whip was serious, you wouldn' t like to have a real
- 4:26good one, there are many companies no longer with the sound of whip,
- 4:29which would perhaps be too much. But if there is an alarm or a
- 4:30sound that when you get up from the company, in some production companies to
- 4:34the farm, sounds alarm that this person is not in their job. You
- 4:40have a very limited and determined time to go to the toilet to do your
- 4:45needs, but you have to come back before that time meets, because if
- 4:46you don' t cry weapons again, what a horrible horror indeed. I
- 4:48was hiding in the bathroom to cry, not to cry, but you almost
- 4:53know like. I need a break from looking at so many extremities I'
- 4:57m going to the bathroom with my cell phone for a while this while it
- 5:00sounded yes, while it sounded like the whip. Just totally, because today,
- 5:02in this course, we wanted to put some examples of this way of
- 5:06exercising the power over which you can through social classes, mothers and daughters,
- 5:12lovers or friends. We' re not doing this tour. Yes well,
- 5:14I' m going to start by telling you how this power is exercised among
- 5:19different social classes and I read a text that I recommend a lot. I
- 5:21think it' s published in context, but also on Dialnet. I found
- 5:25it that it is the source of information that I carry genetically embedded in my
- 5:29brain, which is called to you are to be, which is simply saying
- 5:32I am against feminism, what about my writing it Nuria alabao and the author
- 5:38wonders further, it is super well written and super clear, super accessible.
- 5:42Why most feminist achievements do not reach poor women or even often seek to criminalize
- 5:46them from their point of view. And he does a review. Few policies
- 5:50are made from feminism that think about improving the living conditions of those below.
- 5:57He says that in most policies they are designed and actually for and by middle
- 6:00and upper class, and he gives examples of areas where there is usually no
- 6:05impact, for example, progress that has to do with caring improvements in the
- 6:10labour rights of domestic workers, which is true that things have been done,
- 6:13but much remains to be done. Or the universality and gratuitousness of children'
- 6:16s schools, which are things that would change the lives of many women.
- 6:20It says that what doesn' t have to do with sexuality or violence,
- 6:25glass ceilings or symbolic policies has less chance of getting into the agenda. That
- 6:30' s right. So she talks that feminism itself is a social field in
- 6:32Gurdie' s terms, which, by the way, is a great author
- 6:35to think about power, just like Fuco, that we haven' t brought
- 6:39them here. But we highly recommend the symbolic field or symbolic power, the
- 6:43Habitus and all this kind of terms where social meanings are negotiated and disputed.
- 6:47In feminism there are also struggles between different types of power. We have economic,
- 6:53cultural, social, symbolic power and there are also struggles and I think
- 6:56this is fundamental among people who try to make hegemonic, certain speeches or put
- 7:02some issues at the center. And also, evidently, feminists who occupy places
- 7:05of power or who have a position in a higher social class, have more
- 7:10speakers, reach more places and get their issues to become the center of the
- 7:15discourse. So, for Nuria praised, feminism is a reflection of the social
- 7:19structure and we can differentiate between feminism from above and below. There is a
- 7:27feminism that considers society to be okay, but that women need to take up
- 7:30decision- making positions, that this could be considered liberal feminism. In this
- 7:34case, only a few women benefit that this she talks a lot about quotas
- 7:40and all this kind of stuff we don' t want women to occupy places
- 7:44in big companies like we talked about yesterday why not say Carmen Calvo type,
- 7:48profile, woman who gets to very high positions and that seems like the cool
- 7:54of feminism. So am I for a sub- paragraph. I don'
- 7:56t know what you think, Javier, but talking to friends who work in
- 7:59companies and who have started to do or how we notice that there is like
- 8:03a generational difference in this that these women who obviously had to fight to get
- 8:05the jobs where they are, like they want the same thing for young women
- 8:11and maybe generations now say good. Same. I don' t want this.
- 8:13Maybe I want to live my life in another way, not focus so
- 8:16much on my work that my job is just my job and it' s
- 8:18changed. We believe a little bit that perception of what it means to achieve
- 8:22equality. Yes, of course, what I call Tatcher feminism, which I
- 8:28put, for example, as what a woman should do in life, what
- 8:31she should aspire to is become Margaret Tcher. And it seems to me that
- 8:35there are other ways that are much nicer, nicer and more enjoyable to become
- 8:43an empowered woman or a woman a position in the world. Yes, moreover,
- 8:48that implies a bit also sometimes how to become, that is, to
- 8:50behave how men have behaved that perhaps we can find, as I was going
- 8:54to say that temente, in the end it is to occupy the position of
- 8:58man instead of occupying the position of woman or of what is a human being
- 9:03in the end and to occupy a position that I know in a big electrical
- 9:05company or all these kinds of things that are have no terrible consequences in other
- 9:09areas or, therefore, in the labour rights that you are there. I
- 9:13don' t know what kind of advance I mean. Yeah, there'
- 9:15s a woman on the management team, but if this company is shit like
- 9:18that, you have to go beyond just being there. Yeah. That is
- 9:20why the subject of the class, because it is very interesting, clear and
- 9:24although it is a debate around the different feminisms, for me liberal feminism is
- 9:28almost an eximo in the specie of contradiction in the terms, because liberalism or
- 9:31neoliberalism, which is the one that has been imposed as the theoretical and practical
- 9:35branch is based on the exploitation of bodies and is based on inequalities and precisely
- 9:39takes advantage of the inequality of women. Then talk about liberal feminism. I
- 9:43understand that this debate exists from academia and that from liberalism one can, of
- 9:48course, defend feminism. But from reality, the neoliberal liberal capitalist system has
- 9:56imposed inequality as a form of profit, it goes through everything completely. In
- 10:01fact, Nuria Alabao has just one sentence that says that, according to this
- 10:07liberal feminism, a basis of the racialized, impoverished and unequal social pyramid is
- 10:11left behind. That' s why she defends class- eyed feminism, which
- 10:16is just interested in those below and says one of the great issues we face
- 10:20from a class feminism is how we can make an interclassist movement like feminism,
- 10:24a useful tool for transformation that breaks classism and situates the interests of those below
- 10:28in the center. Then he claims this look that seeks not only to occupy
- 10:37certain spaces, but to redistribute wealth and power. And from this perspective,
- 10:41she talks a lot about this. It is necessary to listen to women who
- 10:45have different concerns than you can have and that is why it is important that
- 10:48in many groups of discussion and political organization of militancy also occupy important spaces women
- 10:56propose from different places within the social classes and say. If we don'
- 11:01t want to be subordinated, it' s because we want a world where
- 11:05no one has to be, which is a phrase that sums up a little
- 11:09bit the idea we wanted to deal with right in this episode, whether you
- 11:11don' t want to be subjugated to power or someone to exercise power over
- 11:15you, why, why if you want to exercise it over someone else.
- 11:15It' s this temptation Paula used to say at first. Of course,
- 11:18there is a way to end power or reduce power without exercising power. Sure,
- 11:24that' s the big question, that' s a very good question.
- 11:26Sure. In the end, it is true that Jolin that all the
- 11:30movements have leaders and people who maybe because they progress things in a certain way
- 11:35and those people, then, have work teams, thinking about the most practical.
- 11:37But of course, we have to look for ways to do this without
- 11:41exploiting the rock, even in private life, which is what we will talk
- 11:43about later that sometimes cost not in relationships. I don' t know maternal
- 11:48or paternal subsidiaries it' s hard not to exercise that power you have over
- 11:50your child, which is beneath you in some ways. Then we were wondering
- 11:54just this is no good for high- middle- class women to occupy important
- 11:58positions in large companies, while others take care of them. Of course,
- 12:01the issue of care is very interesting to think about all these issues and we
- 12:05wanted to bring some examples of women exercising power in their homes, because in
- 12:09the end, well, women have been oppressed. We all know this and
- 12:11we were wondering where they can exercise themselves, because where they leave them and
- 12:16it is usually the domestic sphere and, in line with this, we wanted
- 12:20to recommend a book called Cristina Sánchez Andrade' s famulas, which is one
- 12:24of these small booklets of anagram that we always have in our pocket. It
- 12:26looks like one that' s orange for people to distinguish, identify. Yes,
- 12:31it is a very good book and it is not one of the best
- 12:33known in the collection, but we like it because they are testimonies of women
- 12:37who clean houses and care for children. Many of them are internal and all
- 12:41are migrants. Well this, of course, here in Spain and what they
- 12:43tell, besides good that obviously there is a great lack of legal protection around
- 12:48their situation and they narrate the testimonies abuses on the part, especially of the
- 12:52women of the house, who are, therefore, traditional marriages of men and
- 12:58women, and the woman is the one who organizes the tasks the house and
- 13:00the one who decides and how it is treated the intern and what is the
- 13:03relationship that the family has with her. And if we traditionally consider the house
- 13:07as the woman' s kingdom and that these women have been subjected to care,
- 13:11cleanliness, etc etc, we might think that they are exercising power over
- 13:15a weaker, poorer woman, over whom they can indeed command because with their
- 13:18husbands they will exercise power, because they do not. In fact, there
- 13:22' s one of the stories that was a girl who looked after an older
- 13:26marriage in the moral or looked like a mega rich area and told how the
- 13:31woman wouldn' t let her scrub with this house thing as a kingdom,
- 13:33suddenly enters an outsider into your house and it' s like the only power
- 13:37you' ve ever had, which is to occupy and run that house.
- 13:41Suddenly it' s how you do everything wrong, the only one who knows
- 13:43how to do this. It' s me and I crushed her in a
- 13:46way that ended up throwing her out because I thought she was trying to seduce
- 13:48her husband, who was a lord. I think I had to ceymer or
- 13:50some kind of disease, just like this thing that you' re being invaded
- 13:54by your kingdom, one person the only kingdom you' ve ever been clear
- 13:56about. On the other hand, and these women who hire interns, we
- 14:01could say that they take a little male role in making decisions that concern the
- 14:03domestic and are demanding co- incidents in the worst of the senses There is
- 14:09an example that where that type of abuse looks very good, which is that
- 14:13Davy Ivan that of Honduras, told that the woman left her stained compress attached
- 14:18to the panties so that she would pick it up and thought jo you can
- 14:20not even pick up your own compress. It' s a self- evident
- 14:26thing, and she was telling an example. Yes, I did. If
- 14:28you say something to the woman in the house, the first thing they say
- 14:31is I pay you, it' s your turn to do what you have
- 14:35to do. That' s very humiliating. It' s not this argument
- 14:39of how I' m paying you for some very little money, but it
- 14:43wouldn' t matter, because I can send you whatever it is to get
- 14:46you to pick up my compress and all this kind of stuff. And there
- 14:46' s a class component that' s evident here, because humiliation is kind
- 14:50of channeled through that inequality between the inmate and the woman in the house.
- 14:54Yes, besides, what you said about the sentence of and if you say
- 14:58something to him, it is very good, because Cristina Sánchez Andrade, who
- 15:01has an introduction in the book that tells a little why to collect these testimonies
- 15:05and why to do it this way, because they are only testimonies. There
- 15:07is no conclusion, no reflection. And it was fair, because those women
- 15:11can' t talk, they can' t say anything, not even between
- 15:15them, because then you can accuse each other or steal jobs, because there
- 15:18' s a lot of competition, because it' s a very poor sector
- 15:22of women. And well it' s important like this thing that you can
- 15:24talk about. That' s also the maid' s story. It is
- 15:28reminding me very much of what you speak of humiliation and cruelty as a form
- 15:31of submission and a form of distinction between classes. Not she is subjected by
- 15:37the lady of the House precisely through games many times of humiliation. You have
- 15:43to do this. Even when he sees that he approaches the husband, precisely
- 15:46what he does is to look for tricks to undermine his dignity. Of course,
- 15:52it was just one of the examples we talked about at home yesterday.
- 15:54And, moreover, it is a very good example, because in the story
- 15:56of the maid it looks very good that these dynamics of humiliations between women also
- 16:00husbands. Men are like in their dome, or part of making state and
- 16:03women decisions, and not only wives, but aunts who are called the ones
- 16:07who educate the maids. They are also women who, in turn, are
- 16:12subject to the system that is created in the state' s gilia, this
- 16:17terrifying stofic, and who subject women who are destined as being raised and to
- 16:21go to children as rabbits. Very good example of vulnerable against vulnerable, that
- 16:26class war that, moreover, is so interesting to the elite that while you
- 16:27are fighting down there, we, up here, are calmly smoking pure and
- 16:32drinking with Jack absolutely because in this sense we wanted to recommend an article that
- 16:37is called women, migrants and care work transformations of the domestic sector in Spain,
- 16:42which is by Magdalena Díaz and Raquel Martínez Buján and they explain that many
- 16:47times what is done when a woman goes to work outside the home, is
- 16:51all those activities that were part of the interior and reproductive work are externalized and
- 16:56they comment that this is what makes replicate the model of more traditional family organization,
- 17:00because the tasks are kept inside the home and in women' s hands.
- 17:07What they change is those hands because maybe a woman can work in exchange
- 17:11for someone else taking care of her, not work at home for her.
- 17:15And all this kind of stuff and money is always the mechanism through which this
- 17:18woman can get out of the house to work while another takes care of it.
- 17:25And I already, Herrero, have a lot of ideas about this,
- 17:29but is there one that always stays very in my mind that what you buy
- 17:32is time, that is, when you have the money to hire a person
- 17:34to look after you or work at home for you or whatever it is you
- 17:37buy is time? When a person cares, you make your life. This
- 17:42is seen a lot with the care of older people. I think it'
- 17:45s one of the issues that hurts me the most. In this sense,
- 17:48people who live with older people throughout the day and often as with diseases that
- 17:55affect communication and this kind of thing, it is very hard to be very
- 17:59long with a person in this state and then and clearly, without working conditions
- 18:03and all this kind of things and what you buy is time, it is
- 18:08the time of that person who is not doing his life, you are not
- 18:11talking to his family, he is not enjoying what he wants to enjoy,
- 18:15but taking care of you and time is not a very valuable thing, which
- 18:18is that it is not an exchange that goes far beyond the economic one,
- 18:22because many of these women of famulas counted, for example, that they are
- 18:26raising children while their children are in the countries of origin being cared for by
- 18:30grandparents and that children develop a very complicated relationship, because it is how you
- 18:33are. You' re not raising other people who aren' t me,
- 18:36but at the same time you' re sending all the money for that kid
- 18:38to have a life. So they' re kind of things that shouldn'
- 18:41t be bought economically, because they have value far beyond that. And it
- 18:45is very significant that being in the year two thousand twenty- four, such
- 18:51care of both the home and the people still remains female. That is to
- 18:55say, we have made no progress on that term at all. We can
- 18:59' t imagine there' s a cleaning man coming home to clean up your
- 19:04home. Sure, well, we can' t imagine. It' s
- 19:07just, well, ladies of the cleaning, just the authors of that article,
- 19:11which is me they used to put on their goose bumps, they did
- 19:14a study of what ads are asked for when you' re looking for a
- 19:18woman to go take care of your father, your mother. Or whatever,
- 19:18and it' s like it' s better if they' re Latinas,
- 19:23because they' re more affectionate and they also believe in the good God,
- 19:29and besides, they' re very nice and they' re laughing, they
- 19:32have a very sweet hecs accent, yes not all of it is racism in
- 19:37an exaggerated way And yes, it' s terrifying and it' s also
- 19:41seen in families, which I think we can all think of examples, when
- 19:45grandfather or grandmother gets malgo, we have to take care of him. It
- 19:45is automatically thought that such care will fall on the daughters, that is,
- 19:48when there are daughters and sons or sisters, and brothers it is almost always
- 19:52the sisters who take care of it, as we automatically go there. Yes,
- 19:56and in the case of migrant women, I also remember that he was
- 19:59and without papers and is in a complicated irregular situation. Better because she'
- 20:03ll be more desperate if she doesn' t have family in Spain. Better
- 20:04because it doesn' t get distracted, that' s how you' re
- 20:07looking for a slave like that wasn' t looking for a slave who treated
- 20:11bad and good. Okay. There are terrifying cases of its published in the
- 20:15press that have occurred more, taking advantage precisely of the inequality of both gender
- 20:19and race as well as class, thus making real barbarities, from rape to
- 20:25this submission and almost kidnapping of people. There are terrible things, terrible stories,
- 20:30and I was also thinking that nurses are nurses in the health care person.
- 20:37Most of the ninety percent are women. However, when we climb the
- 20:40scale between doctors and doctors there is greater parity. Yeah, I probably don
- 20:45' t know, but I' m pulling a triple. But in the
- 20:47people who run the hospitals, not the hospital management team, because surely we
- 20:51will see greater inequality as we go up not totally and for all these things
- 20:55commented nuria washed in the article that on the basis of a class feminism of
- 20:59this, the deprivatization of the care, the universalization and that the living conditions
- 21:04of the caregivers are improved. Yes, we also wanted to give you an
- 21:08example of something that you mentioned before, without on the subject of paternal and
- 21:11maternal relations subsidiaries, with the book of the horrible daughters of Blanca to the
- 21:15house, which is an essay published in books of the CAO that besides,
- 21:18we were little with her in a live that we did and is, therefore,
- 21:19the best person in Spain or Blanca. We raise a kiss and it
- 21:22is a book that is very interesting because it talks about the relationship between mothers
- 21:26and daughters and Blanca proposes that, just as we have the concept of motherhood
- 21:30and fatherhood, we have not developed a thought about the hijidad, which is
- 21:33something that, moreover, we all share. We are not all daughters and
- 21:36sons of interesting years. Yeah, so is the thing that we all human
- 21:38beings share. The only one may be that we are clear children, we
- 21:42are good condition, as everyone is mother, father, but everyone is son.
- 21:45Yes, and the book is composed of many testimonies of these so-
- 21:49called horrible daughters whose relationship with their mothers is very complicated and is, in
- 21:53many cases, traversed by situations of abuse, ill- treatment, or it
- 21:57is simply a very tense relationship and this type of relationships points white. They
- 22:00always have a lot to do with power. Some of the answers she offers
- 22:03to the question of why these tensions occur and these discomforts in mother- daughter
- 22:07relationships have a lot to do with the fact that these mothers, for example,
- 22:11have had children because it was what touched not really something desired. They
- 22:15' ve built their identity on the basis of being mothers, they' ve
- 22:21had to stick to an idea of motherhood that' s completely mystified, that
- 22:26' s being disassembled now a little bit through women who start talking about mothers
- 22:30not being perfect and angelic, and it' s ridiculous to think about it
- 22:33that way. And they are people who have experienced similar situations themselves with their
- 22:37own progenitors. So, well, the book talks a lot about how these
- 22:41relationships are traversed by feelings of guilt, fear or demands of mutual perfection from
- 22:45mothers to daughters to mothers. And there is a very powerful idea in the
- 22:49essay that that mothers exercise a power and control over their daughters, just as
- 22:53they have exercised it in the house. In this we talked about the kingship
- 22:57of women in this type of family as more traditional, and there is a
- 23:03control of daughters as if they were a property that, curiously and you see
- 23:07the testimonies, is not given in the sons. The women say my brother
- 23:11had a lot more freedom to develop as outside the house and I was far
- 23:17more alibied. No, and this control is meant to be this is also
- 23:21a very interesting idea to turn daughters into future dominated that sometimes mothers, perhaps
- 23:25as if they are not fully aware of this, but through the control of
- 23:27the domination of tips linked to type fear, don' t go alone on
- 23:32the street, don' t go with this person. Don' t do
- 23:33this, don' t do that. They turn their daughters into people who
- 23:37are submissive to the roles of patriarchy. And then, because patriarchy is happy
- 23:41and those daughters are not clear because patriarchy reproduces totally, then they too,
- 23:47probably with their daughters, save the exact same thing reproduced to you really put
- 23:53that same fear. In fact, the White Book is a little bit like
- 23:57an attempt to think about how you can break that terrifying chain that you have
- 24:02just mentioned and also about reconciliation in some sense, to understand that there are
- 24:04things that your mother has done, just because she is educated and trained in
- 24:08that control and that domination, and not because it is bad or because it
- 24:14is not clear if she is often a victim of an inherited system. You
- 24:15have to understand people as in their context, that many times, because the
- 24:18margin of action that you have, well, is limit. Listen among lovers,
- 24:22of course, among lovers, it is very interesting and we wanted to
- 24:26talk it to the thread of a book that is called the lover of marguerity
- 24:30Duras, that is classic yes, that is published in Tuskets, that has
- 24:32a book per quito is thinking it when I do not know if you have
- 24:36read it, that it is called writing temorituras that for writers yes favorite I
- 24:40recommend it very much, it is very nice and the lover is a novel
- 24:42of eighty- four, that is good, the novel that gives it like
- 24:45to Margerit hard much international recognition. They give her the Goncourt Prize, not
- 24:47that it is this prize so prestigious that she also took our dear Annier.
- 24:51Yes, and it is a novel that happens in the French Indochina, which
- 24:55narrates the relationship between an intimate relationship between a 15- year- old young
- 24:59girl, who is European, who comes from a family without much money,
- 25:02and a man, a young man but older than them, who is twenty
- 25:07- seven years old, who is Vietnamese Chinese and yes, who has money
- 25:10because he has inherited it from his family. And it is a novel that
- 25:11talks a lot about the intersection between eroticism and power, which is a subject
- 25:14that has been treated a lot in literature and hard marguerit in his work.
- 25:17It goes around this intersection between eroticism, sexual power. Well, if you
- 25:22' re interested in these issues, it' s very interesting and in the
- 25:25lover, what we see is a link, because we could say illegitimate to
- 25:30moral and legal even and maybe we automatically think that the one exercising power is
- 25:33that older man. But some readings of the novel have been made which they
- 25:36consider is that it is also the girl who guides the lover and who is
- 25:40looking for as her own self- discovery. Perhaps how to get out into
- 25:44a universe that she finds, evidently, suffocating and poor that this also brings
- 25:47us the question of how free are these decisions that are made as a way
- 25:51out of poverty And there are many areas in which this can be applied.
- 25:55We' re talking about interns, because this could be another example. And
- 25:56the older man, for let' s say he doesn' t enjoy power
- 26:00in the society in which he lives either, because he' s a Chinese
- 26:04man colonized by Europeans, who can' t go where he wants. I
- 26:07mean, there are certain spaces you can' t occupy. He' s
- 26:10very conditioned by his father, who gives him the money. And then there
- 26:12are, like many powers that cross much to exercise power in different spheres.
- 26:18And it' s a very interesting book to think about. And in the
- 26:22book it seems that the encounters that they have, that even if they have
- 26:25their own forms of power, between the relationship that they maintain are a way
- 26:29of escaping those, gear hierarchies that occur in society, not beyond the limits
- 26:30of the culture of what is considered civilized. Clearly, yes, and it
- 26:36is true that reading the work today is not the same as reading it in
- 26:37the year eighty- four. We read it from a different view, especially
- 26:41these days that much is being talked about about consent, with the film that
- 26:45they have made of book of Oanesa Espringora. Well, they' re like
- 26:48two books that you can read and think about. It' s very interesting,
- 26:52of course, as you were counting it, because, indeed, in
- 26:53the avant is also a 15- year- old girl, who is about
- 26:57the age Espringorra was when he had the relationship with that man much older than
- 27:00her. It must also be said, but it is true that at the
- 27:04time where it is located and the place Indochina, there is not the same
- 27:11relationship between the ages that we would now have. Now it would be an
- 27:14obvious case of pederasty. In that case it is a woman who is narrating
- 27:18the novel, who has a power, let' s say or a consciousness
- 27:25of an almost adult woman autonomy and then it has been known well that a
- 27:30book was published that this was based on real experiences of Margarita Dura of course,
- 27:34of course that' s why I said it yes, because I don
- 27:38' t think that that to the same case as Lolita, Nor much is
- 27:41the consent that, by the way, if they are done, the film
- 27:47is very interesting, because there is a clear patriarchal male power of a man
- 27:52who is violating and is handling and manipulating a girl or a teenager and,
- 27:55moreover, legitimized by the whole environment, of course that is the strong good,
- 27:57legitimized by all literary environment, by all. Let' s say the
- 28:00dome, the French cultural elite, from television and radio to publishing houses,
- 28:06because the books in which he counted, his diaries, of which he told
- 28:08this relationship, were applauded and for this reason he was invited to go to
- 28:14the media. Yes, yes, it' s a strong story that,
- 28:15by the way, our cyberlocutorists made a program talking about this topic and the
- 28:21book and the movie that is already very big. Yeah, it' s
- 28:23super interesting and we' re done with another story and another exercise. This
- 28:26will please you to exercise the power that here there are doubts that is a
- 28:30book of this Inveck is of mice and men, a very famous book that
- 28:36deals with the topic of friendship between two men who are day laborers who go
- 28:40looking for ranch work on ranch and one, that is George, takes care
- 28:42of the other one called Lenny, because the latter has an intellectual disability that,
- 28:48by the way, we commented on the well defined and written. That
- 28:49there is intellectual disability in this book, which is very, very early and
- 28:56still costs us how to make fictional cultural products that treat this as intelligent Mary.
- 29:02Well, and he does very well, well, we' re obviously
- 29:04talking about this inso. He' s doing everything right, yeah, well.
- 29:07But also, by the way, there are books about the writing of
- 29:11stein Bay of Letters and now I will look for the title that I do
- 29:12not remember. What' s his name when he writes to ste dld.
- 29:15I already bought that. The other day I' m reading a pound.
- 29:18It is already that I am finishing east of Eden and I would now like
- 29:22to read the clear letters because he is counting. The writing process is very
- 29:25hard and sometimes painful. It' s not easy, which then seems easy
- 29:29as a reader. Actually, for the writer it has been a British struggle
- 29:33that we love Stein Tai' s Stein fans. Yes, ma' am,
- 29:37after hearing I want we had to do a reading club of this po.
- 29:40We could have from here in ply to. Yeah, totally in favour.
- 29:44Yeah, plus, we made one of mice and men because we'
- 29:47re reading IRA grapes with a group of people who are also being super interesting,
- 29:51wonderful. Yeah, and it was very curious because with this book it
- 29:53' s amazing of the different readings they had done, not because it'
- 29:57s like they two travel together. The Georges who takes care of making the
- 30:00decisions. However, Lenny is, let' s say, a fairly important
- 30:04economic source, because he has a physical strength as incredible. Then we talked
- 30:10about whether there is friendship, but we may also find power in this relationship,
- 30:15for example, that George is exercising power over Lenny. So there are
- 30:18theories of literary criticism that say that maybe this relationship is not just like a
- 30:22pure crystalline innocent friendship, but that they are two people who barely have possessions.
- 30:27Working conditions are terrible. Your dreams always save to have as your own
- 30:32land and not have to go from ranch to ranch working, then we see
- 30:36that there is a person who makes all the decisions of the relationship and we
- 30:40can think is taking care of you or is dominating you. There' s
- 30:42protection, there' s domination, or it' s even equal. There
- 30:45are both. In fact, in the reading club the idea arose that perhaps
- 30:48in all personal relationships there are certain hierarchies or we exercise power one another in
- 30:53such a way that it is not clear. George is exercising power and domination
- 30:59in the n the only place where he can do what Lenny is. Controlling
- 31:03Lenny is the only thing he can do, the only control he can exercise.
- 31:06What we were saying, not exercising power where you can. He has
- 31:08nothing of his, he has no possessions or family, he has no friends
- 31:12beyond Lenny. In fact, it is a beautiful book to also think about
- 31:15loneliness, because usually these men traveled alone and yet they go together. So,
- 31:22well, we encourage people to, even if they read it and because
- 31:26there were people who said it was a relationship of love, honest and pure,
- 31:29there is nothing power. There are other people who said good. It
- 31:30looks the same to me. Yes, that there is some domination in some
- 31:33way or maybe even that taking care of a person with the intellectual disability that
- 31:38he has that sometimes things happen. In fact, in the book I'
- 31:41m not going to say what happens, but things happen and maybe some domination
- 31:45is inevitable as a way to care, or to control or protect. So,
- 31:49we encourage people to tell us what they think? Because, of course,
- 31:53this subject you are talking about seems very interesting to me, because all
- 31:57human relations could be seen from the perspective of power. But sometimes it'
- 32:01s terrifying that we think almost as if we were state entities relating to each
- 32:08other from power. I' m not saying it doesn' t exist,
- 32:10but sometimes we say no. Love is also a relationship of power. Friendship
- 32:13is a relationship of powers that I sometimes command and sometimes you command. I
- 32:17also believe that there is also an economic part in which one seems to want
- 32:22to extract something from the other, which is not to say that it does
- 32:25not exist, but that sometimes I find it dangerous to think always from there,
- 32:30because it seems that we eliminate that part of the purity of frankness,
- 32:35of generosity, of solidarity, of cooperation, in which there is no power,
- 32:38because there is a horizontality that sometimes good, as we say, is
- 32:42undulating. It is true that yes, sorry, that it is much more
- 32:45useful than simply saying yes, George is taking advantage and exercising a power over
- 32:49Lenne and I think it is a book as I do not know so well
- 32:52treated and with so many matillas that one cannot be so clear category. And
- 32:54I think about it, but not just about Esteinbeck' s novel anymore.
- 32:59I think about it in general human relationships, that this is a lot of
- 33:01talk about whether the relationship, for example, as a couple is a relationship
- 33:06of power, of course, as well as much that we think about it,
- 33:08so because we are as in a cynical moment in that sense. I
- 33:10don' t believe in what' s also political? It is always all
- 33:14political, obviously, but it seems that the vision always has to be from
- 33:16politics and sometimes I am a little afraid that we will also remove part of
- 33:21humanity, of Laura' s Mystery, which have the relationships that go beyond
- 33:25the political and economic categories that we sometimes talk about managing our relationship, managing
- 33:30our time. We are managers, we are like entrepreneurs of love, entrepreneurs
- 33:37of friendship. Management is a thing that we think a lot, because we
- 33:40haven' t found a word yet, that is, we ask for it
- 33:44here in the day. Yes, because managing is that it' s true
- 33:46that company sounds and I can give you like repelus, but it' s
- 33:51true that jo is a very accurate definition for what you do because we thought
- 33:54of it, like other words, like facing or facing and what and what
- 33:59and how it doesn' t end like fitting in so. But it'
- 34:00s true what you' re saying is that it' s a vocabulary that
- 34:05' s inherited absolutely from the business issue and the issue of power. And
- 34:06I agree with what you have said, that we must also give value to
- 34:08the issue of purity and noncense, that it may be there or to the
- 34:10issue of horizontality and not rationalize everything that also has a lot to do with
- 34:15that. Yes, yes, in fact, as a conclusion, we wanted
- 34:21to ask ourselves, well, then, that indeed, this possibility of analyzing
- 34:24everything from power, as Javier said, and of exercising power where we can
- 34:29do it, where it leaves them, where they let us that it is
- 34:31usually to exercise power over those who are below us, either in the social
- 34:35hierarchy, in the family, in the economic and perhaps this exercise of power.
- 34:38This is a response to being subordinate to other people. This mentality of
- 34:44stepping on me, because I step on those I can want to ask ourselves
- 34:47if there are no other ways of thinking things and why choose to exercise power
- 34:52instead of trying to undo it as much as possible. Of course, precisely
- 34:57other ways may be to begin to undo that notion of how long we are
- 35:00exercising power, to think differently, to think from other places that that does
- 35:05not have to prevent, that we feel that sometimes we exercise power in a
- 35:08bad way over others, but that sometimes not all are power relations. I
- 35:10think they can be relationships of another kind of equality, collaboration, collaboration,
- 35:15recovery. Yeah, it' s interesting that we change the perspective a little
- 35:20bit to the way we think, because they give it too.