169 Great at Career...but still Longing for Lasting Love?

Violet Lange's Pleasure Path · Jul 14, 2026 · 32m

You're brilliant at what you do. You've built a meaningful career, overcome incredible challenges, and created a successful life. So why does lasting love still feel elusive?

If you've ever wondered why someone can look perfect on paper but still not feel like home,

or if you've ever heard you're intimidating or too picky,

or if you're crushing it in your career but just can't seem to figure out love, this episode is for you.

Here I explore why many accomplished women unknowingly approach dating the way they approach work—leading with strategy, competence, and self-protection instead of…