Latest / Let’s Never Meet Again - Dating Horror / First date story from hell
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- 0:00Speaker 1: We listen and we don't judge.
- 0:02Speaker 2: Storytime edition.
- 0:03Speaker 1: You see them dating apps? I need you right now.
- 0:05Speaker 1: Right now.
- 0:06Speaker 3: If you own the app, go delete it. I don't
- 0:07Speaker 3: care which app you want. Go delete it and send
- 0:09Speaker 3: it right back to the app store. Get ready with
- 0:11Speaker 3: me for the gym while I tell you guys about
- 0:12Speaker 3: the worst date I've ever been on in my life.
- 0:15Speaker 1: And yes, I met this person on a dating app.
- 0:17Speaker 3: I met him on Hinge. That app is not Hinge worthy. Okay,
- 0:21Speaker 3: we met on Hinge about like two years ago. Okay,
- 0:23Speaker 3: it's like a year ago. And we're going to call
- 0:24Speaker 3: him Crash Out because everything about him was a crash out.
- 0:27Speaker 1: For real, for real, for real.
- 0:29Speaker 3: The only reason why I downloaded Hinge was because I
- 0:31Speaker 3: was bored, obviously. The only reason people download dating apps
- 0:33Speaker 3: is because they're bored.
- 0:39Speaker 3: And I went to my likes, and
- 0:41Speaker 3: I came across this guy, and he's not even my type.
- 0:43Speaker 1: Honestly, he was like 5'9.
- 0:45Speaker 3: And I'm 5'6, so honestly, you gotta be like a
- 0:48Speaker 3: good six feet for me to even consider talking to you.
- 0:50Speaker 1: The Libra, we flirt a lot. Like, somebody will flirt
- 0:53Speaker 1: with me, and I'll be flirting right back. It's so bad.
- 0:55Speaker 1: Don't judge me.
- 0:56Speaker 3: Crashaw had commented on one of my pictures of K-Beautiful
- 0:58Speaker 3: or something like that. I don't have the app anymore,
- 1:00Speaker 3: so I can't like go back and be like, oh,
- 1:02Speaker 3: like this is what he said. But obviously, it caught
- 1:03Speaker 3: my attention. That's why I replied back to him. Because
- 1:05Speaker 3: if he was born, I never responded back. I did
- 1:07Speaker 3: not care.
- 1:08Speaker 1: So I responded back and we ended up talking that
- 1:11Speaker 1: same day. I was at work.
- 1:12Speaker 3: I used to work two jobs at that point. I
- 1:13Speaker 3: was working at Trader Joe's and I also used to teach.
- 1:15Speaker 3: So on the weekends, I was working at Trader Joe's.
- 1:17Speaker 3: So I got off work on Saturday because I was
- 1:18Speaker 3: rushing home. I had to get ready to go to
- 1:20Speaker 3: a birthday dinner for one of my coworkers. And we're
- 1:22Speaker 3: going to say coworker for this point because that's not
- 1:24Speaker 3: a friend for the way that situation ended.
- 1:27Speaker 1: Anyways, back to the story. Remember I said that we're
- 1:28Speaker 1: going to come back to that situation.
- 1:30Speaker 3: I'm home from work and I was prepping my nails
- 1:31Speaker 3: because I wanted my nails to look good for when
- 1:32Speaker 3: I go out to the birthday dinner.
- 1:33Speaker 1: And he was like, oh, you want to FaceTime?
- 1:35Speaker 2: So I was like, sure, why not?
- 1:36Speaker 1: Like, I like a little conversation. You know what I'm saying?
- 1:39Speaker 1: So we ended up talking and mind you, did y'all
- 1:42Speaker 1: just see that?
- 1:43Speaker 2: Oh, no. We were talking on the phone.
- 1:44Speaker 1: The entire time.
- 1:45Speaker 2: While I was getting ready.
- 1:46Speaker 1: Not the entire time. Obviously, I wasn't showing him everything
- 1:48Speaker 1: I was doing. This man could flirt. Like, I don't
- 1:50Speaker 1: know what it was. I think he was also a Libra.
- 1:52Speaker 1: Was he?
- 1:52Speaker 2: I don't know.
- 1:53Speaker 1: But the girl told me that she wants to cancel.
- 1:56Speaker 1: I was pissed. I was like, whatever, cool. So anyways,
- 1:58Speaker 1: I ended up.
- 1:58Speaker 3: Taking off my makeup and I just laid back in
- 2:00Speaker 3: my bed and he calls me like around 1130, I think.
- 2:03Speaker 1: No, I think it was like 12 o'clock and he
- 2:04Speaker 1: was going home. So he lived in Jersey. I lived
- 2:06Speaker 1: in Brooklyn, New York. So Jersey's not that far from
- 2:08Speaker 1: New York. So I was like, you know what? He's cool.
- 2:10Speaker 1: He's having a great conversation. Week of vibe, right? Week
- 2:12Speaker 1: of vibe.
- 2:12Speaker 3: And we're on FaceTime and I'm just in my bed
- 2:14Speaker 3: laying down and he's talking to me. That's another red flag.
- 2:16Speaker 1: Like, you should not even be talking to nobody at
- 2:17Speaker 1: that damn 12 o'clock.
- 2:18Speaker 4: No.
- 2:19Speaker 3: He's like, oh, I wanted to go out with you tomorrow.
- 2:21Speaker 3: Your dad said that you was free. And I was like, no,
- 2:23Speaker 3: I never said that I was free. What are you
- 2:24Speaker 3: talking about?
- 2:25Speaker 1: I mean, he gets mad at me. Like, out and over.
- 2:26Speaker 1: He was like, nah, your dad said that you could.
- 2:28Speaker 1: I said, the freak. Tell his for y'all. And he
- 2:32Speaker 1: was like, oh, no, you cut off.
- 2:33Speaker 2: You cut off.
- 2:34Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, because you are getting angry for no reason.
- 2:36Speaker 3: Why are you getting angry for?
- 2:37Speaker 2: I don't even know you.
- 2:38Speaker 1: Let's go back to the fact that I don't know you.
- 2:41Speaker 1: I don't. So who are you talking to? I was
- 2:44Speaker 1: pissed at that point. But I was like, let me
- 2:45Speaker 1: calm down.
- 2:45Speaker 2: Let me hear him out.
- 2:46Speaker 1: And then the next morning, he calls me back at
- 2:48Speaker 1: like 1030 in the morning.
- 2:49Speaker 3: I was at work at that point, but I was
- 2:50Speaker 3: on break on the phone. And he was like, oh, yeah,
- 2:53Speaker 3: I'm sorry about last night. He was a little bit tipsy.
- 2:54Speaker 3: So that's why he was acting like that.
- 2:55Speaker 5: I'm like, OK.
- 2:56Speaker 1: I already in my head was like, let this man go.
- 2:58Speaker 1: Let this man go. Let this man go.
- 2:59Speaker 3: But I don't know why I still continue to do it.
- 3:01Speaker 3: Mind you, I'm going to say it again. We listen
- 3:03Speaker 3: and we don't judge. That Saturday, he did tell me
- 3:05Speaker 3: that he wanted to plan a date with me. He
- 3:07Speaker 3: wanted to plan to see me on Monday. Fast forward
- 3:09Speaker 3: to Monday.
- 3:10Speaker 1: He calls me and I'm at work, but I didn't
- 3:11Speaker 1: answer the phone. I'm with my kids. I'm teaching. I
- 3:13Speaker 1: called him back and then I was just telling him
- 3:16Speaker 1: about my date.
- 3:16Speaker 3: He was very comforting, doing all the stuff that I
- 3:18Speaker 3: would want somebody to do when I'm feeling down.
- 3:21Speaker 2: I was very excited.
- 3:22Speaker 1: I was thrilled to go on this date.
- 3:25Speaker 2: Y'all, I'm rushing home.
- 3:26Speaker 3: I want to get ready so that I can be
- 3:27Speaker 3: early and on time for the date because I hate
- 3:29Speaker 3: being late.
- 3:29Speaker 1: That's one of my pet peeves. I hate being late.
- 3:31Speaker 1: And I hate when other people are like, that pisses
- 3:33Speaker 1: me off real bad.
- 3:34Speaker 3: I told him that I was going to be there
- 3:35Speaker 3: around 7.30. He's like, okay, cool. I'll also be there
- 3:37Speaker 3: around that time. Remember he said that. Remember he said that.
- 3:41Speaker 3: But I have to tell y'all, we did plan to
- 3:42Speaker 3: go to Dave & Buster's and he also was going
- 3:44Speaker 3: to take me to this taco place.
- 3:45Speaker 1: Really, really nice taco place. I'm waiting outside of Dave
- 3:47Speaker 1: & Buster's for him.
- 3:48Speaker 3: As I'm waiting, I call him to see where he's at.
- 3:51Speaker 3: And he's like, oh, I just got off train or something.
- 3:53Speaker 3: Something happened with his train, blah, blah, blah, blah. So
- 3:55Speaker 3: he's going to be probably 15 minutes late. So I
- 3:56Speaker 3: was like, all right, now I'm going to... you can't
- 3:59Speaker 3: control the train so i'm not gonna be pissed off
- 4:01Speaker 3: by that i haven't met you yet he finally got
- 4:03Speaker 3: there and i see a guy like walking through the
- 4:05Speaker 3: door and mind you we're still on the phone so
- 4:06Speaker 3: i have the earpods since i can hear him talking
- 4:07Speaker 3: while he's walking through the door he comes inside and
- 4:10Speaker 3: i'm just standing there i want to give you an
- 4:12Speaker 3: exact visual of how it was let me so let
- 4:13Speaker 3: me move back i'm standing here like in front of
- 4:16Speaker 3: the door so he's on the other side he's coming
- 4:18Speaker 3: in from like right here he came in from here
- 4:20Speaker 3: so he spot me he already knew where i was
- 4:22Speaker 3: at so i'm like okay um hi i'm here And
- 4:27Speaker 3: he gives me a side hug.
- 4:28Speaker 2: I said, excuse me, sir? I was like, what is that?
- 4:30Speaker 1: What is that side hug? Like, what are you doing?
- 4:31Speaker 3: And he acted like he didn't see me twice. I
- 4:33Speaker 3: was like, nah, nah, nah, you about to piss me off.
- 4:35Speaker 3: I proceed to walk outside because there's no way that
- 4:36Speaker 3: this man is going to act like he don't freaking
- 4:38Speaker 3: see me. Like, I didn't waste all my time coming
- 4:39Speaker 3: all the way here for you to act like you
- 4:40Speaker 3: don't see me. And you did it to me, like,
- 4:42Speaker 3: not once, but twice. I didn't let you have it
- 4:44Speaker 3: a third time because you're not going to play in
- 4:45Speaker 3: my face.
- 4:46Speaker 2: Thank you.
- 4:47Speaker 1: So I'm looking and I'm trying to call my Uber.
- 4:48Speaker 1: He walks outside and he starts, like, screaming.
- 4:50Speaker 4: He's like.
- 4:51Speaker 6: out of here, out of here, out of here, like, nah,
- 4:54Speaker 6: you playing with me right now, you playing.
- 4:55Speaker 1: With me right now, you made me come all the
- 4:57Speaker 1: way from Jersey for.
- 4:58Speaker 3: This, for this, for this, nah, I said, hold on,
- 5:02Speaker 3: you're not gonna make me look like if I'm talking, like,
- 5:03Speaker 3: if I'm the person that you're talking to, absolutely not,
- 5:06Speaker 3: so I walk outside.
- 5:07Speaker 1: And I start walking to the train, the man starts following.
- 5:09Speaker 2: Me, and.
- 5:12Speaker 3: I'll be laughing, this is not funny, but, like, he
- 5:14Speaker 3: literally starts following me, like, I said, oh, no, and
- 5:17Speaker 3: I'm trying to lower his voice to see if I'll
- 5:19Speaker 3: still have a conversation.
- 5:19Speaker 1: With him, bro who are you who are you this
- 5:22Speaker 1: is literally.
- 5:23Speaker 3: My first time meeting you and this is the way
- 5:24Speaker 3: that you're acting like oh my freaking god like what
- 5:28Speaker 3: the hell did i just get myself into like.
- 5:31Speaker 1: As i'm like going down.
- 5:32Speaker 3: The train station i'm like looking back every single time
- 5:34Speaker 3: to see if this man is following me like i
- 5:36Speaker 3: can't believe i'm telling y'all this story anyways We move.
- 5:39Speaker 3: Like in the trains, you can like keep walking. I
- 5:41Speaker 3: kept walking and walking and walking to like the end
- 5:43Speaker 3: of the cart because I'm like, nah, I got to
- 5:44Speaker 3: see if he's actually following me. The brain was just
- 5:46Speaker 3: telling me to like just be on like super, super focused.
- 5:49Speaker 3: God is telling me, yeah, I need to start moving
- 5:50Speaker 3: right now. Like I'm bringing God right now. Back then,
- 5:53Speaker 3: I wasn't praying.
- 5:54Speaker 1: I wasn't doing nothing.
- 5:54Speaker 3: Like I noticed why I definitely did not have like
- 5:57Speaker 3: a covering over my life because I made.
- 5:58Speaker 1: Stupid decisions like these.
- 6:00Speaker 3: So in my brain, I was like, if I get
- 6:01Speaker 3: off at J Street Metro, it's like if I come
- 6:02Speaker 3: out the train and if he comes out the train, then.
- 6:04Speaker 1: I'll know if he's following me. It made sense in
- 6:07Speaker 1: my head, so I did that.
- 6:08Speaker 3: Off the train, I immediately called my sister, and I
- 6:10Speaker 3: was literally telling her, like, bro, you wouldn't believe what
- 6:12Speaker 3: the hell happened to me. I called my sister, and
- 6:14Speaker 3: I blocked his number right there and deleted the app
- 6:16Speaker 3: because that was a big sign.
- 6:18Speaker 1: I should not have been on it in the first place.
- 6:20Speaker 3: Moral of the story is, stop trying to seek validation
- 6:22Speaker 3: from these stupid dating apps.
- 6:23Speaker 1: You don't need to be on it.
- 6:24Speaker 3: Stop putting yourself into situations where you can possibly be
- 6:27Speaker 3: in danger.
- 6:28Speaker 2: Be safe.
- 6:29Speaker 1: Don't trust nobody. Be on your P's and Q's. When
- 6:31Speaker 1: it comes to dating, don't settle for nothing with a man.
- 6:33Speaker 1: The first red flag, run.
- 6:35Speaker 3: Immediately literally making this video because i know that there's
- 6:38Speaker 3: other people out there that are on these dating apps
- 6:39Speaker 3: thinking that you're about to find your husband you're not
- 6:41Speaker 3: i'm sorry one percent of people do so i'm pretty
- 6:44Speaker 3: sure you're not okay no i did not hear from
- 6:47Speaker 3: that person ever again after that day not even a
- 6:49Speaker 3: text free number nothing like i've never heard from him
- 6:51Speaker 3: ever again that situation could have been way worse than
- 6:53Speaker 3: how it ended but i'm thankful to god that he
- 6:55Speaker 3: was on my side thank god for my safety and
- 6:56Speaker 3: that yeah i didn't end up in a dumpster anyways
- 6:59Speaker 3: i'll talk to.
- 7:00Speaker 7: Y'all later I just walked out in the middle of
- 7:02Speaker 7: a date with this guy and I'm literally outside the
- 7:04Speaker 7: restaurant waiting for my Uber because not only was this
- 7:07Speaker 7: man 30 minutes late to our date, but he was
- 7:09Speaker 7: complaining about literally everything.
- 7:11Speaker 2: Mind you, he told me to pick a restaurant.
- 7:13Speaker 1: So I picked Outback because it's at a good price point.
- 7:15Speaker 2: The food is good.
- 7:16Speaker 7: We come to Outback and he's literally complaining that his
- 7:18Speaker 7: drinks don't taste good.
- 7:20Speaker 2: They don't have any alcohol in them.
- 7:22Speaker 7: Okay, now that I'm home, let me tell you what happened.
- 7:24Speaker 7: He was 30 minutes late. I was sitting at the
- 7:26Speaker 7: booth for 30 minutes by myself.
- 7:28Speaker 2: Cool.
- 7:29Speaker 7: So when he finally gets there, he doesn't like give
- 7:31Speaker 7: me a reason or an excuse as to why he
- 7:33Speaker 7: was late.
- 7:33Speaker 1: He just sits down and says, how you doing?
- 7:36Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm good.
- 7:38Speaker 7: So we ordered drinks and I think the drinks are
- 7:41Speaker 7: pretty good and strong. He said that there's no alcohol
- 7:43Speaker 7: in his drinks. I'm like, are you an alcoholic by
- 7:47Speaker 7: any chance?
- 7:47Speaker 2: Cause shit tastes like alcohol to me. So I guess
- 7:50Speaker 2: he didn't like that little joke.
- 7:52Speaker 1: Cool.
- 7:52Speaker 2: Then when we ordered appetizers, he said it was cold.
- 7:56Speaker 1: That shit was not cold to me.
- 7:57Speaker 2: I don't know.
- 7:58Speaker 7: It seemed like he was low-key trying to make up
- 8:00Speaker 7: excuses to get shit.
- 8:01Speaker 2: Taken out of the bill.
- 8:02Speaker 7: Anyway, then we order our food and he's complaining the
- 8:05Speaker 7: whole time that it's taking way too long.
- 8:07Speaker 2: So I'm like, I mean, just give it a minute. Like,
- 8:09Speaker 2: you see, like, there's people.
- 8:10Speaker 1: We're not the only ones in the restaurant.
- 8:12Speaker 7: So the food finally comes and he tells our server...
- 8:15Speaker 7: This took way too long. Like what, what was going
- 8:17Speaker 7: on back there? So I was like, oh, we're sorry.
- 8:19Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying?
- 8:20Speaker 1: Like we only have two cooks back there tonight.
- 8:22Speaker 2: We had a lot of call outs. I'm like, oh,
- 8:24Speaker 2: don't even worry about it.
- 8:25Speaker 1: I'm a server too.
- 8:26Speaker 2: I work at a restaurant. I know what it's like.
- 8:28Speaker 2: You're good. Trust. He was like, no, actually you're not good.
- 8:31Speaker 2: Cause I'm starving. I shouldn't wait this long for my food.
- 8:33Speaker 1: I'm looking at him like.
- 8:34Speaker 2: Like disgusted.
- 8:37Speaker 1: Like you immediately turn me off.
- 8:38Speaker 2: You're disgusting.
- 8:40Speaker 7: So I asked our server to get me a to-go container,
- 8:43Speaker 7: and I got my food to go, and I will.
- 8:45Speaker 1: Be eating this at home while I watch American Dad.
- 8:49Speaker 1: Thank you for the free meal.
- 8:50Speaker 8: I will never go on a date with you ever again.
- 8:54Speaker 2: Have a good night, and you're a fucking asshole.
- 8:59Speaker 6: So in honor of Valentine's Day, I'm going to give
- 9:00Speaker 6: y'all one of my worst date ever experiences.
- 9:02Speaker 7: Okay.
- 9:04Speaker 1: So I.
- 9:06Speaker 2: Met somebody.
- 9:08Speaker 1: We say, okay, we're going to meet at 3 o'clock.
- 9:12Speaker 6: So, originally, we were supposed to go somewhere else, but
- 9:14Speaker 6: I had already ate because I'm not going to wait
- 9:17Speaker 6: all day and starve for nobody.
- 9:19Speaker 1: I'm not doing that.
- 9:20Speaker 6: So, I already ate, so I'm like, I'm not really
- 9:21Speaker 6: that hungry. We can do something like B-dubs. We can
- 9:23Speaker 6: go to Buffalo Owlings, and I can just get me
- 9:25Speaker 6: a drink, get some little chicken tenders or whatever, call
- 9:28Speaker 6: it a day.
- 9:28Speaker 1: Cool. So, we say 3 o'clock.
- 9:31Speaker 2: Okay, cool. So, I get there like 3.05.
- 9:33Speaker 1: He's not there.
- 9:36Speaker 6: So I'm texting him like yeah you know I'm here
- 9:39Speaker 6: you know what's your ETA because I'm already like I
- 9:42Speaker 6: don't feel like playing like I don't like people being
- 9:43Speaker 6: late like it's already red flag so he's like oh
- 9:47Speaker 6: I'm like uh 15 minutes away which puts us at
- 9:50Speaker 6: damn near 3 30 so why you didn't just say
- 9:52Speaker 6: 3 30 but anyways he was like um go you
- 9:57Speaker 6: can go in and have a drink on me and
- 9:59Speaker 6: I tell back, like, who else was the drink going
- 10:02Speaker 6: to be on? Because I know you didn't feel like
- 10:05Speaker 6: the drink.
- 10:06Speaker 1: Was going to be on me. So at that point,
- 10:09Speaker 1: I had already walked in anyway in order to drink.
- 10:12Speaker 1: So for one, like, we're a little bit too late.
- 10:14Speaker 1: And two, like, what do you mean on you? Like,
- 10:17Speaker 1: who else was it going to be on? So, he, LOL,
- 10:21Speaker 1: never mind. You know what I meant. I didn't, but okay.
- 10:25Speaker 2: So, he shows.
- 10:27Speaker 6: Up at like 3.30. I'd already had a drink. I
- 10:32Speaker 6: already ordered my food or whatever because I'm not finna play. Like,
- 10:35Speaker 6: I ain't got time for this. So, he come. Basically,
- 10:40Speaker 6: my food coming right after he arrived. So, he looking
- 10:42Speaker 6: crazy like, oh, you know, you could have asked.
- 10:44Speaker 2: Me that one time.
- 10:45Speaker 1: I could have, but I didn't, you know.
- 10:46Speaker 2: So.
- 10:48Speaker 6: conversation was trash beyond trash um he was kind of
- 10:52Speaker 6: ugly in person so i didn't like that and as
- 10:58Speaker 6: we're wrapping up get ready to go he was like
- 11:00Speaker 6: yeah so what you about to do i said go
- 11:03Speaker 6: home he's like i would do what i said smoke
- 11:10Speaker 6: my hookah watch tv i don't know whatever i feel
- 11:12Speaker 6: like when i get home so he um Because I
- 11:17Speaker 6: was going to say, you know, I could follow you,
- 11:20Speaker 6: but I know you're probably not. And I'm like, that
- 11:23Speaker 6: wasn't even going to be an option regardless. I'm like,
- 11:25Speaker 6: that's never an option. Because I know you ain't think
- 11:27Speaker 6: I just, I'm finna fuck for no damn chicken tenders.
- 11:30Speaker 1: Like, I'll give you the $ 20.
- 11:31Speaker 2: Like, don't do that. Don't ever do that.
- 11:35Speaker 1: So, you could tell his whole mood changed.
- 11:37Speaker 6: So, I'm guessing that's what his agenda was when he
- 11:39Speaker 6: went to Buffalo Wild Wings.
- 11:42Speaker 2: Because I don't know.
- 11:43Speaker 1: I blame the women.
- 11:43Speaker 6: Because y'all set the bar at hell. And that's why
- 11:45Speaker 6: these niggas feel comfortable doing what they doing. So, after that,
- 11:50Speaker 6: we got our bag.
- 11:52Speaker 1: Well, I got my bag.
- 11:54Speaker 4: I left.
- 11:55Speaker 1: I said bye.
- 11:55Speaker 6: I didn't give him no hug. Nothing like that. And
- 11:58Speaker 6: I never spoke to him again. And he didn't reach out. So,
- 12:00Speaker 6: he knew he fucked up too. So, that's one of
- 12:03Speaker 6: my worst day ever experiences. Let me know if y'all
- 12:06Speaker 6: want to hear another one. Let me tell y'all about
- 12:09Speaker 6: my date with me on Last Night Park.
- 12:11Speaker 1: The fucking one.
- 12:12Speaker 4: All right, so last night I went on the first
- 12:14Speaker 4: date with somebody that I met at the big gym
- 12:16Speaker 4: this year.
- 12:16Speaker 1: I met him in the VIP section.
- 12:19Speaker 4: You know, I should have known it was a red
- 12:21Speaker 4: flag when he didn't approach me.
- 12:23Speaker 1: His fucking friends approached me. Oh, my friend think you nice. Like, yeah,
- 12:28Speaker 1: let him.
- 12:28Speaker 2: Get your number. How do we?
- 12:32Speaker 4: Like, he can't come and introduce himself. He does come
- 12:35Speaker 4: and say hi. He hands me his phone. And I
- 12:38Speaker 4: put the wrong number in there. I ain't going to lie.
- 12:40Speaker 1: But he doubled back, and he was like, oh, the
- 12:42Speaker 1: message was green, like, you sure that's you?
- 12:44Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh, shit.
- 12:46Speaker 1: I put the real number in there. So I'm just like, okay.
- 12:48Speaker 4: Because I was feeling a little under pressure, but that's
- 12:50Speaker 4: neither here nor there. Long story short, he ended up
- 12:53Speaker 4: hitting me up, like, what you and your homegirls finna do?
- 12:56Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, we finna go to the club. Y'all
- 12:59Speaker 4: gonna slide?
- 13:00Speaker 2: Like, yeah, we gonna slide. We gonna come get a section, boom, boom, boom.
- 13:02Speaker 2: I'm like, all right, cool.
- 13:04Speaker 4: Because that's gonna put money in my friend's pocket.
- 13:06Speaker 2: So, yeah, best slide. They never slap. They go to
- 13:08Speaker 2: white bar. Um, okay. Yeah, strike two, bitch. You is
- 13:13Speaker 2: a liar.
- 13:14Speaker 4: So, um, down the line, he ended up hitting me
- 13:17Speaker 4: back up a couple days later, like, hey, you know,
- 13:20Speaker 4: I'm sorry about that the other night. Um, and these
- 13:23Speaker 4: other things, like, he has tried to reach out a
- 13:25Speaker 4: couple times before then, but I just wasn't fucking with him.
- 13:27Speaker 1: So he apologized for that, too. Like, maybe I came
- 13:29Speaker 1: off wrong. Like, I really do want to get to
- 13:31Speaker 1: know you.
- 13:32Speaker 2: I really want to take you out.
- 13:33Speaker 1: Boom. I'm like, all right, cool.
- 13:35Speaker 2: Couple questions.
- 13:36Speaker 4: Well, why didn't you approach me on your own? He
- 13:38Speaker 4: was just basically like, you know, I was just a
- 13:40Speaker 4: little nervous. You know, I haven't been dating in a
- 13:43Speaker 4: couple years. Like, the person that I was dating, I
- 13:46Speaker 4: knew her since I was 13. We've been broke up
- 13:48Speaker 4: for two years. We've been dating for over, actually dating
- 13:52Speaker 4: for over a decade. So, you know, you know, that's
- 13:55Speaker 4: pretty much what's going on.
- 13:56Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, okay, cool. A nigga that don't
- 13:59Speaker 1: understand a relationship is a nigga I need to get
- 14:00Speaker 1: to know.
- 14:02Speaker 2: Okay, so... These are some facts.
- 14:04Speaker 1: That y'all need to know while listening to this story.
- 14:06Speaker 4: I did a little pre-check on this nigga because it's like,
- 14:08Speaker 4: I really don't know you for real.
- 14:10Speaker 2: So I got to ask you a few questions.
- 14:14Speaker 1: And the point of this is because I'm dating with intention.
- 14:17Speaker 2: I'm not going to lie.
- 14:18Speaker 4: Like, I need to know what are your plans for me,
- 14:21Speaker 4: what you got going on now. We already don't know
- 14:24Speaker 4: much about each other. So before I even waste your
- 14:26Speaker 4: money and my time, I need to ask you a
- 14:28Speaker 4: few motherfucking things before we get started.
- 14:31Speaker 2: First day first.
- 14:33Speaker 4: The first thing that I asked him was, why didn't
- 14:36Speaker 4: you talk to me on your own? I already told
- 14:39Speaker 4: y'all what his answer was to that. Second thing I asked,
- 14:44Speaker 4: I said, do you have kids? This is the important thing, y'all.
- 14:49Speaker 4: This is the root of the whole day.
- 14:53Speaker 1: Do you have kids?
- 14:56Speaker 2: He started off was like, yeah.
- 14:58Speaker 1: How many do you have?
- 15:00Speaker 2: Baby, I ain't got none. Dude, you got kids or not?
- 15:03Speaker 2: Because we can cut it short now. Yeah, I got
- 15:08Speaker 2: two kids. I'm like, okay.
- 15:10Speaker 1: He's like, no, I'm just playing.
- 15:11Speaker 2: I got three. I'm like, oh. Oh. You know, that's
- 15:16Speaker 2: changing things around this bitch. But you know what? I
- 15:18Speaker 2: was like, I have played dated somebody.
- 15:21Speaker 1: Don't ask me what that means. I played dated somebody
- 15:23Speaker 1: that had three kids before.
- 15:25Speaker 4: Long as I really got to see them, especially now
- 15:28Speaker 4: until I decided we're going to even go anywhere.
- 15:31Speaker 2: Like, that's cool.
- 15:32Speaker 4: Are you an active father? So he kept sending me
- 15:35Speaker 4: pictures of his kids.
- 15:36Speaker 1: I'm like, damn, these kids are so cute. When I
- 15:40Speaker 1: say I ain't seen no kids this cute in a minute.
- 15:42Speaker 4: Like, I hate when a motherfucker show their kids. And
- 15:44Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, cute puppy. Because I know that's me.
- 15:50Speaker 4: But these kids are cute. I'm like, oh, he wants
- 15:54Speaker 4: to stay in a relationship. And he appropriate real nice.
- 15:57Speaker 2: Okay, these are checks. Intentional.
- 16:01Speaker 1: So he told me all about his trucking company.
- 16:04Speaker 4: And how much they spend on the nanny.
- 16:07Speaker 2: I'm like, damn. So what's your big mama do?
- 16:11Speaker 1: She a nurse. Okay.
- 16:12Speaker 2: Why don't y'all work out? Oh, you know, we've been
- 16:15Speaker 2: together so long. We just kind of grew apart. Damn.
- 16:18Speaker 2: I'm like, why didn't y'all get married.
- 16:20Speaker 4: With all these kids? You know, that was my fault.
- 16:23Speaker 4: And he started talking about his trauma with his parents.
- 16:25Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, cool. You know how to communicate. Say
- 16:27Speaker 2: what's wrong. Pinpoint.
- 16:29Speaker 1: You know.
- 16:30Speaker 2: Went to therapy.
- 16:31Speaker 1: Yes! Come back for part two.
- 16:34Speaker 2: Hold on.
- 16:35Speaker 4: Now, let's just go to the date. Because these things
- 16:38Speaker 4: are what I'm under the impression of. I've been lied to. So,
- 16:46Speaker 4: by the end of dinner, like, we having a good time. Like,
- 16:48Speaker 4: we having good conversations. And Let me also throw in
- 16:53Speaker 4: the point that we only had one mixed drink, one shot.
- 16:56Speaker 1: That was it because I'm like, I can't be drinking.
- 17:00Speaker 4: I won't be drinking, especially because I still don't quite
- 17:03Speaker 4: know you yet.
- 17:04Speaker 1: This is our limit.
- 17:05Speaker 2: This is what we're doing. Boom. Cool.
- 17:10Speaker 4: So as he's talking, he goes, yeah, because my firstborn,
- 17:15Speaker 4: he was born in a hospital, but my last three
- 17:17Speaker 4: was born in a house. your last three wait rolling
- 17:24Speaker 4: back because a bitch that wasn't listening would have caught
- 17:27Speaker 4: that because i'm actually a little interested at this point
- 17:29Speaker 4: and now i'm like.
- 17:32Speaker 1: So at this point i'm ready to fucking go.
- 17:34Speaker 4: I'm like nah bitch we can really wrap this up
- 17:37Speaker 4: like four kids.
- 17:37Speaker 2: I can't do shit.
- 17:40Speaker 4: I can't do shit with this information yeah it's time
- 17:42Speaker 4: to go then i'm like no i'm like are you
- 17:46Speaker 4: serious show me the kids He shows me a picture
- 17:50Speaker 4: with him with all four of the fucking kids. I said,
- 17:53Speaker 4: very cute. But yeah, no, I said, that baby look fresh.
- 17:57Speaker 1: He like, he's one, but I mean, he's one and
- 18:00Speaker 1: a half.
- 18:01Speaker 2: So he's going to be two.
- 18:02Speaker 4: I said, so you fucked your baby mama less than
- 18:04Speaker 4: a year ago, which means it's possible for y'all to
- 18:05Speaker 4: fuck again. And then y'all been together. You said you
- 18:09Speaker 4: met when he was 13 and y'all been dating for
- 18:11Speaker 4: over 10 years. So where am I not to see
- 18:14Speaker 4: that this is something that you can come back to?
- 18:16Speaker 4: I also have four kids. I don't give a fuck
- 18:18Speaker 4: how long he was with anybody. Because I know once
- 18:22Speaker 4: I put my bid in, like, we good. But you
- 18:25Speaker 4: will never see it, honey. You will never see it.
- 18:28Speaker 4: So the waiter come bring the bill. And he's just,
- 18:31Speaker 4: you know, he's still.
- 18:32Speaker 1: Talking to him. He don't have to check.
- 18:34Speaker 2: Boom, boom, boom.
- 18:35Speaker 1: Put the money down.
- 18:37Speaker 2: I grab the bag. I'm like, let's go. I get up.
- 18:40Speaker 2: I start storming out.
- 18:41Speaker 1: I'm just knowing he right behind me because he knew
- 18:44Speaker 1: it was time to go.
- 18:45Speaker 2: The fucking food was packed up and everything. He paid
- 18:47Speaker 2: the bill.
- 18:48Speaker 4: I'm like, okay, well, that's life. Like, man, I'm so sorry. Like,
- 18:51Speaker 4: this date was going amazing. Like, I just feel so,
- 18:55Speaker 4: I feel so bad that he just still doing this.
- 18:57Speaker 2: I'm like, now this bitch drunk. Oh, my God. So
- 19:00Speaker 2: I get up. I'm storming out.
- 19:02Speaker 1: That time I get to the elevator and I push
- 19:05Speaker 1: the button. I turn around and see.
- 19:06Speaker 2: If he behind me. When I say, oh. When I
- 19:10Speaker 2: say I've seen.
- 19:11Speaker 1: This nigga knees go that way and his body go
- 19:12Speaker 1: this way, he passes out. This nigga passes out and
- 19:16Speaker 1: hit the floor, Jesus.
- 19:19Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, my God.
- 19:21Speaker 9: So I run back over there and I'm like, this
- 19:24Speaker 9: nigga pretending to pass out?
- 19:26Speaker 4: And at this point, I'm like, I ain't never seen
- 19:28Speaker 4: nobody do all this just so I could feel bad
- 19:30Speaker 4: so we could get back on a good note. Bitch,
- 19:33Speaker 4: you're done after this. He tried to get up. Gee,
- 19:36Speaker 4: he passes back out. So I'm like, oh, this nigga
- 19:40Speaker 4: for real. This nigga really just passed out. So I'm
- 19:46Speaker 4: asking the security. I'm like, what should I do? Do
- 19:48Speaker 4: we call the police?
- 19:49Speaker 2: The host? is running over there. She's like, I'm calling
- 19:51Speaker 2: the ambulance. I'm like, call the ambulance.
- 19:53Speaker 4: And then I grab his coat and I'm just literally
- 19:57Speaker 4: soaking in worry and embarrassment.
- 20:02Speaker 2: I'm like, oh shit.
- 20:03Speaker 1: This nigga didn't tell me none during dinner. He be
- 20:06Speaker 1: passing out and shit.
- 20:08Speaker 4: So He get up, we go to the front, and
- 20:12Speaker 4: the security sits him down, and they go get him
- 20:15Speaker 4: some water. I'm like, you, what just happened? Like, you
- 20:20Speaker 4: need to say something. Or don't say nothing.
- 20:23Speaker 2: Relax.
- 20:24Speaker 10: I don't know.
- 20:25Speaker 1: Six or nine, after a sip of water, this nigga like,
- 20:27Speaker 1: all right, come on, let's go. We good.
- 20:28Speaker 2: I said, I ain't getting in.
- 20:29Speaker 1: The car with you.
- 20:31Speaker 2: You passing out?
- 20:32Speaker 1: We got to get on Lake Shore and try to
- 20:34Speaker 1: get back on, bitch. This won't be my last.
- 20:37Speaker 2: No, sorry.
- 20:38Speaker 1: So you can roll me off the fucking cliff because
- 20:40Speaker 1: you can't talk to.
- 20:40Speaker 4: Me because, bitch, you just passed out after having to
- 20:43Speaker 4: tell the truth about your poor kids. I wouldn't be
- 20:47Speaker 4: surprised if this was your last reason. Something ain't sitting
- 20:51Speaker 4: right with me, and I promise.
- 20:53Speaker 2: You I'm not getting back in that car with you.
- 20:55Speaker 1: So we sitting there because he's still kind of going
- 20:57Speaker 1: in and out.
- 20:57Speaker 2: They like, yeah, he need an ambulance.
- 20:59Speaker 1: We're not letting you leave out.
- 21:02Speaker 2: At all.
- 21:02Speaker 1: So they come asking me questions. And this is what
- 21:05Speaker 1: I was worried about. In the midst of the worry
- 21:07Speaker 1: and embarrassment, I'm about to say.
- 21:09Speaker 4: These folks don't think I did something to this man.
- 21:12Speaker 4: I promise you I'm not Diddy. I promise you I
- 21:15Speaker 4: am not Rick or Tross. Y'all quit playing.
- 21:17Speaker 2: Quit playing. I didn't do this stuff. This is not me.
- 21:22Speaker 2: And now I'm like, what the fuck? These people asking
- 21:25Speaker 2: for my information.
- 21:25Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my God.
- 21:27Speaker 2: I had to take a food break.
- 21:28Speaker 4: I'm hungry.
- 21:29Speaker 2: I'm trying to tell y'all this bullshit. Long story short.
- 21:37Speaker 2: Long story short, make sure you ask those questions on
- 21:40Speaker 2: that first date. Because people will... He lasted me the
- 21:44Speaker 2: whole dinner.
- 21:44Speaker 4: Started trying to make sure he didn't slip up saying
- 21:47Speaker 4: four kids. And when that motherfucking shot and drink got
- 21:50Speaker 4: in his ass.
- 21:51Speaker 2: He slipped up. Stay vigilant. Ask those questions.
- 21:59Speaker 4: And be prepared to flee at any moment because... That
- 22:02Speaker 4: nigga's passing out. I don't know, but wow.
- 22:07Speaker 1: I've never had no shit like that happen to me.
- 22:11Speaker 2: He sure made an impression.
- 22:12Speaker 1: If he was trying to make one, honey, he made one.
- 22:16Speaker 11: I literally just hopped out of a moving car because
- 22:18Speaker 11: I was on a date from hell. When I tell
- 22:20Speaker 11: you I didn't even wait for this man to pull over,
- 22:22Speaker 11: he was over an hour late for our date.
- 22:24Speaker 1: Over an hour late, two hour date.
- 22:26Speaker 2: I should have known.
- 22:27Speaker 4: Then to just cancel the shit because you're not respecting
- 22:29Speaker 4: my time.
- 22:29Speaker 11: However, I overlooked it because I'm like, oh my God,
- 22:31Speaker 11: I've known this person since high school, you know? And
- 22:34Speaker 11: he's communicating with me, letting me know like, hey, I'm
- 22:36Speaker 11: going to be, you know, this amount of minutes late. Like,
- 22:38Speaker 11: you know, he's calling me, texting me, letting me know
- 22:39Speaker 11: what's up because there's traffic. You know, we live here
- 22:41Speaker 11: in LA, shit happens. He's coming off work, whatever. So
- 22:43Speaker 11: I was cool with it.
- 22:44Speaker 1: I was like, all right, cool.
- 22:45Speaker 2: You're being communicative.
- 22:46Speaker 11: Like I'll still continue the date. He comes to pick
- 22:48Speaker 11: me up over an hour late, And when I get
- 22:50Speaker 11: in the car, we hug. Hey, nice to see you.
- 22:51Speaker 11: Haven't seen you in a while. Like, you know, good
- 22:53Speaker 11: to see you.
- 22:53Speaker 2: Right.
- 22:54Speaker 11: And then I let him know, like, hey, like you're
- 22:55Speaker 11: an hour late. Like next time, like, please don't show
- 22:57Speaker 11: up so late because like I won't like going to date.
- 23:00Speaker 11: Like I was being firm. I wasn't being a bitch.
- 23:02Speaker 11: I wasn't being condescending. I wasn't yelling. I wasn't being aggressive.
- 23:04Speaker 2: None of that shit.
- 23:05Speaker 11: I was just letting him know, like, hey, I'm a
- 23:06Speaker 11: very punctual person. My time is valuable to me. And
- 23:09Speaker 11: if you're going to tell me you're going to be
- 23:10Speaker 11: here at six o'clock, don't show up past six. OK,
- 23:12Speaker 11: don't show up at especially seven o'clock an hour later.
- 23:14Speaker 11: And do you know that this man turned his car
- 23:17Speaker 11: around like I'm taking you back home? Like, who do
- 23:19Speaker 11: you think you are telling me that I can't be late?
- 23:20Speaker 1: Pick you up to a date.
- 23:21Speaker 11: I drove 30 minutes to pick you up and I
- 23:24Speaker 11: pay for these tickets and blah, blah, blah, blah.
- 23:26Speaker 1: And who do you think you are?
- 23:28Speaker 2: Who the fuck do I think I am, sir?
- 23:30Speaker 11: Like, this is why they warn you don't ever date
- 23:32Speaker 11: the person that has chased you for a long time,
- 23:35Speaker 11: that has wanted you for a long time, because they're
- 23:37Speaker 11: usually crazy. I jumped out of a halfway moving car
- 23:40Speaker 11: tonight because I could not get away from this man
- 23:43Speaker 11: fast enough. And I left his door wide the fuck open.
- 23:45Speaker 11: And he like busts a bitch in the middle of
- 23:47Speaker 11: the street, like pills off. What the fuck is wrong
- 23:50Speaker 11: with you men? Are you seriously mad because someone told
- 23:52Speaker 11: you don't be an hour late to picking them up?
- 23:54Speaker 11: The woman that you've been chasing for over 20 years
- 23:56Speaker 11: finally gives you the time of day. I feel like
- 23:58Speaker 11: this is one of those moments where he had it
- 24:01Speaker 11: in his mind the whole time to play in my
- 24:02Speaker 11: face because he wanted to get back at me from
- 24:04Speaker 11: 20 years ago or something. Now, mind you, this is
- 24:06Speaker 11: not an ex. I've never done anything to this man.
- 24:08Speaker 11: I've never slept with him, never kissed him, never like
- 24:11Speaker 11: curved him in any type of way, never played with
- 24:12Speaker 11: this man's emotions. But I feel like because he didn't
- 24:15Speaker 11: have access to me for over 20 years when he
- 24:16Speaker 11: finally got the opportunity, he wanted to like show me
- 24:19Speaker 11: who's boss.
- 24:22Speaker 2: Okay hey friend i got a story time for y'all
- 24:28Speaker 2: y'all and i swear if somebody would have came and
- 24:30Speaker 2: told me this story and said that it happened to
- 24:32Speaker 2: them i probably wouldn't even believed it i was like
- 24:34Speaker 2: girl you lying on but it happened to me i
- 24:40Speaker 2: had the date from hell i don't even know should
- 24:43Speaker 2: i call it a date since we was yeah okay
- 24:46Speaker 2: i had the date from hell Let me tell y'all
- 24:49Speaker 2: what happened. Okay, so let's take it back a little bit.
- 24:52Speaker 2: So we live in Indiana, and I met this guy
- 24:56Speaker 2: from Louisiana who's currently living here now, okay? Y'all, a
- 25:01Speaker 2: fine specimen. Do you hear me? Drives along. He got
- 25:04Speaker 2: a beautiful smile. He got dimples. Personality top tier, okay?
- 25:11Speaker 2: Then his sense of humor. Like, when I say he
- 25:13Speaker 2: will have you... Cracking up from the time you step
- 25:16Speaker 2: foot in his presence to the time you leave. Like,
- 25:18Speaker 2: I'm not playing. Funny as hell. And me, that's the
- 25:23Speaker 2: way to my heart. Like, I love a funny, goofy
- 25:25Speaker 2: person because I'm funny and goofy, okay? And then the accent, too. Like,
- 25:30Speaker 2: I'm an accent girly. I love a man with an accent.
- 25:33Speaker 2: It drives me crazy. Okay, so fast forward. We're seeing
- 25:36Speaker 2: each other. We're talking to each other daily. We done
- 25:40Speaker 2: started doing the grown people stuff, punching on each other.
- 25:43Speaker 2: All that, everything cool, okay? Okay, so fast forward to yesterday.
- 25:49Speaker 2: So this is my birthday weekend. My birthday is actually
- 25:51Speaker 2: on Monday, okay? So I basically told him, like, I
- 25:54Speaker 2: want to start celebrating yesterday. So I texted him the plan.
- 26:00Speaker 2: He like, all right, back. When he got off work,
- 26:02Speaker 2: he called me. He was like, all right, I'm going
- 26:04Speaker 2: to go home, shower, get dressed. And I wanted him
- 26:07Speaker 2: to go pick up my friend, too. I'm going to shower,
- 26:09Speaker 2: get dressed, and I'm going to come pick y'all up.
- 26:10Speaker 2: We're going to hit the liquor store and get a
- 26:13Speaker 2: room and just chill, have fun. All right, cool. Oh,
- 26:16Speaker 2: mind y'all, I don't even drink, but I chose last
- 26:19Speaker 2: night to have a couple cut waters. So we picked
- 26:23Speaker 2: my friend up. We go to the liquor store. We
- 26:26Speaker 2: go get something to eat. Okay, it was one point
- 26:29Speaker 2: he got out the car. So I'm like, friend, what
- 26:30Speaker 2: do you think? She was like, friend, I really like
- 26:32Speaker 2: him for you.
- 26:33Speaker 1: He's handsome.
- 26:34Speaker 2: He's cool as hell. Like, he seem like a vibe. Like,
- 26:37Speaker 2: y'all vibe, you know, y'all vibing. Y'all vibe is vibing. Like,
- 26:41Speaker 2: I like y'all together. And I'm like, I know, friend.
- 26:43Speaker 2: So you think he's a keeper? She was like, yes, friend.
- 26:45Speaker 2: He's definitely a keeper.
- 26:46Speaker 6: Okay?
- 26:49Speaker 2: So we up at the room.
- 26:51Speaker 3: We talk.
- 26:52Speaker 2: Playing games we taking shots we having fun like vibing
- 26:56Speaker 2: out y'all the vibe was vibing okay so then me
- 26:59Speaker 2: and my friend we step out to go have a
- 27:01Speaker 2: smoke then we come back in okay everything's still cool
- 27:05Speaker 2: at this point so when we come back in my
- 27:08Speaker 2: friend goes to use the bathroom okay i go over
- 27:11Speaker 2: on a bed with him cuddling with him hugging up
- 27:14Speaker 2: on him kissing up on him and stuff and then
- 27:16Speaker 2: all of a sudden i hear him say your friend
- 27:19Speaker 2: just said are you outside So I said, what? He
- 27:24Speaker 2: was like, she just said, are you outside? I said, no,
- 27:27Speaker 2: she didn't. Like, what are you talking about? He was like, yes,
- 27:31Speaker 2: she did. I know what I heard. I'm like, she
- 27:32Speaker 2: did not say that. She literally FaceTimed one of her friends. Okay.
- 27:36Speaker 2: So he set up and it seemed like as soon
- 27:38Speaker 2: as he set up, you heard a knock on the door. Okay.
- 27:41Speaker 2: So then he jumped up, he goes to the door.
- 27:43Speaker 2: He like, um, fat, hand me my shirt. So I
- 27:45Speaker 2: handed him his shirt. And then he was like, ask,
- 27:48Speaker 2: who is it? And I'm like, who is it? I
- 27:49Speaker 2: look out the peephole. Nobody's out there. In my head,
- 27:53Speaker 2: I'm just thinking, like, it's the kids playing on the door.
- 27:56Speaker 2: That's what kids do at hotel. They knock and run.
- 27:59Speaker 2: They do it on TikTok all the time. So then
- 28:02Speaker 2: my friend coming out the bathroom, right, so he's putting
- 28:05Speaker 2: on his shirt, and he look at her and say,
- 28:08Speaker 2: if anything happen, I'm taking your head off first. I
- 28:15Speaker 2: turned around and look and said, Lucifer? Okay, so I'm
- 28:21Speaker 2: not going to make this too long, so y'all got
- 28:22Speaker 2: to come back for part two so I can tell
- 28:24Speaker 2: y'all how I met Lucifer, Javante Satan last night in
- 28:28Speaker 2: the flesh. Friend, did you come back for part two?
- 28:34Speaker 2: You're definitely messy. You're definitely messy. Okay, part two. So
- 28:40Speaker 2: I looked at Lucifer, and I'm like, what is going on?
- 28:45Speaker 2: I'm confused. What are you angry about? Why are you
- 28:48Speaker 2: coming at her like that? This dude's talking about some,
- 28:51Speaker 2: she told somebody, she asked somebody, was they outside? She's
- 28:54Speaker 2: got somebody coming up here to set me up, to
- 28:57Speaker 2: rob me. This is that and third. I'm like, bro, what?
- 29:00Speaker 2: You are being real crazy right now. She never said
- 29:03Speaker 2: that at all. You are tripping.
- 29:05Speaker 4: Okay.
- 29:06Speaker 2: So he gets on the phone. and calls his brother
- 29:09Speaker 2: so he shares his location with his brother so his
- 29:11Speaker 2: brother's on his way up here his brother on the
- 29:13Speaker 2: phone talking stuff so not only is the brother on
- 29:15Speaker 2: the way he on the phone talking stuff he acts
- 29:17Speaker 2: like he's gonna knock a friend out y'all he is
- 29:19Speaker 2: holding his hostage in this room okay he is standing
- 29:23Speaker 2: in front of the door and will not move and
- 29:27Speaker 2: every time we're trying to get to the door he's
- 29:28Speaker 2: like pushing his back like act like he's gonna knock
- 29:31Speaker 2: us out He also, him and my friends that he
- 29:33Speaker 2: going back and forth, he like, uh, get your partner,
- 29:37Speaker 2: get your partner. I'm like, I am getting hurt. but
- 29:39Speaker 2: you gotta calm down too. So they going back and forth.
- 29:42Speaker 2: Before I knew it, he slid the bag off the
- 29:45Speaker 2: Crown Royal bottle. Had it like this. It was getting
- 29:50Speaker 2: ready to crack her with it. So I grab his
- 29:52Speaker 2: hand like, you not doing this. You need to calm down.
- 29:55Speaker 2: Nobody is trying to do nothing to you. nobody's trying
- 29:59Speaker 2: to do nothing to you y'all this man does not
- 30:04Speaker 2: even carry cash on him everywhere we go he tapped
- 30:08Speaker 2: back i've never even seen him use the debit card
- 30:11Speaker 2: i always see him use his phone so what they're
- 30:13Speaker 2: gonna come up there put a pew pew to your
- 30:15Speaker 2: head say uh put your face in the phone and
- 30:17Speaker 2: do the face id and empty your cash app like
- 30:19Speaker 2: what i'm confused what are you talking about At this point,
- 30:24Speaker 2: I'm so pissed off, I take my cup of water
- 30:25Speaker 2: and I just launched it. And it hit the AC
- 30:28Speaker 2: unit and the whole AC unit broke. And I didn't
- 30:30Speaker 2: care at that point because I'm ready to go. You
- 30:32Speaker 2: are tripping. Like, why would I try to set you
- 30:33Speaker 2: up to get robbed? You know where I live at.
- 30:35Speaker 2: You know where my mom lives at. My kids live here.
- 30:37Speaker 2: Why would I do that? And you use tax to pay.
- 30:44Speaker 2: I'm confused. So the brother gets there. He bars in
- 30:48Speaker 2: the room talking stuff to us. They all trying to talk.
- 30:50Speaker 2: We are two females. Who did nothing to you. Like
- 30:56Speaker 2: y'all feel real tough. Two females. Y'all was so crazy.
- 31:01Speaker 2: If they would have stayed there five minutes longer. They
- 31:04Speaker 2: would have seen the lady. Cussing out her two sons.
- 31:09Speaker 1: For going around.
- 31:10Speaker 2: Knocking on people's doors. When they were supposed to be
- 31:13Speaker 2: going downstairs. To the vending machine and back. If they
- 31:17Speaker 2: would have stayed there five minutes. They would have seen this.
- 31:20Speaker 12: Crazy.
- 31:22Speaker 2: Needless to say, we get outside. I'm trying to, he
- 31:25Speaker 2: pushing me away from the truck.
- 31:26Speaker 1: He trying to set me up.
- 31:29Speaker 2: Y'all, I'm so done. And what is so crazy, y'all,
- 31:34Speaker 2: I really, really liked him. Like, I really liked him
- 31:37Speaker 2: a lot. He even met my kids. That's how much
- 31:42Speaker 2: I liked him. Like, I can't believe it. Like, I
- 31:47Speaker 2: don't want to talk to nobody else. Like, I'm done.
- 31:51Speaker 2: I'm over it, friend.
- 31:52Speaker 4: Mm-mm.
- 31:53Speaker 1: I'm over it. I'm done.
- 31:55Speaker 2: Spend money to get to know you.
- 31:58Speaker 1: Because you asked me to come here with you to
- 32:02Speaker 1: get to know me. So.
- 32:04Speaker 2: This is your idea, not mine. I mean, I'm not
- 32:06Speaker 2: really tripping right now. I mean, I got the money.
- 32:08Speaker 2: I can pay for it. I just felt like, you know,
- 32:11Speaker 2: we just vibing right now. We're just getting noticed. Well,
- 32:14Speaker 2: I mean, no, it's all good. I mean, I get it.
- 32:16Speaker 4: Like, y'all, like, y'all female, I mean, y'all, y'all, y'all women, like, y'all,
- 32:19Speaker 4: you know, like, that's what y'all be on.
- 32:21Speaker 2: Like, you know, so it's all good.
- 32:24Speaker 13: I don't know if you mean that's what we be on, but, because,
- 32:28Speaker 13: you know, you may trip about the money, right?
- 32:30Speaker 2: No. So what you tripping about? Trying to figure out. Why?
- 32:34Speaker 1: It's got to be understood that we always, as men,
- 32:37Speaker 1: we got to spend money.
- 32:38Speaker 3: Because it's understood that you had asked me to come
- 32:41Speaker 3: here to spend your money.
- 32:44Speaker 2: See, that's what I'm saying. Spend your money. What would
- 32:46Speaker 2: that even mean?
- 32:47Speaker 14: Yeah, because it wasn't my idea.
- 32:52Speaker 2: So where'd it go?
- 32:55Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 32:55Speaker 2: Somebody got to pay it today.
- 32:58Speaker 1: He went to the bathroom.
- 32:59Speaker 2: He'll be back to pay it.
- 33:00Speaker 1: Matter of fact, where is it?
- 33:01Speaker 2: It's in the back.
- 33:06Speaker 5: Okay, I'll be right back.
- 33:21Speaker 15: Y'all, that mofo was crazy, okay? That was the worst
- 33:27Speaker 15: motherfucking date I have ever been on. He's somewhere in
- 33:32Speaker 15: the bathroom right now.
- 33:33Speaker 1: I don't get that.
- 33:34Speaker 2: I'm not going back. I'm heading to my car. I
- 33:38Speaker 2: got hair on my lip.
- 33:40Speaker 1: I can't.
- 33:46Speaker 10: Get ready with me to go out to dinner while
- 33:48Speaker 10: I tell y'all about the last date that I had
- 33:50Speaker 10: that went absolutely terrible. Basically, I had met this guy
- 33:52Speaker 10: when I was out, and honestly, that was mistake number one.
- 33:55Speaker 10: But after I met him, he would always invite me out.
- 33:57Speaker 10: He would randomly text me and be like, hey, I
- 34:00Speaker 10: have a table here. I have a section here. You
- 34:02Speaker 10: should come out. And I never really took him up
- 34:04Speaker 10: on the offer because every single time he would invite me,
- 34:06Speaker 10: I just didn't have the urge to go for some reason.
- 34:09Speaker 1: And another day, a random day, he randomly texted me.
- 34:12Speaker 1: He was like, hey, you know, I have tickets to
- 34:14Speaker 1: a Cubs game. I want you to come with me.
- 34:16Speaker 1: And in my mind, I'm like, fuck it.
- 34:17Speaker 10: I might as well go. I used to date a
- 34:19Speaker 10: guy that played for the Cubs. So in my mind,
- 34:21Speaker 10: I was like, you know what? I want to show
- 34:22Speaker 10: my ex. how bad he fumbled and on top of
- 34:25Speaker 10: that it's free tickets and i haven't gone to a
- 34:27Speaker 10: cubs game in a long time so why not i
- 34:29Speaker 10: get to the day and he's kind of already acting
- 34:31Speaker 10: weird the goal is for me to meet him at
- 34:33Speaker 10: his house and we're gonna go to the game from
- 34:35Speaker 10: his house and we're gonna drive together as soon as
- 34:37Speaker 10: i get to his house he's already kind of acting
- 34:39Speaker 10: weird like he's doing one of those nonchalant trying to
- 34:41Speaker 10: act real cool type of things i'm not the one
- 34:44Speaker 10: for that honestly i don't really like him like that
- 34:47Speaker 10: so i'm not gonna coddle to him like oh my
- 34:48Speaker 10: god what's wrong and are you okay? I'm not going
- 34:51Speaker 10: to do none of that. Cause I don't really give
- 34:53Speaker 10: a fuck.
- 34:53Speaker 4: So honestly, he kept giving me little tests to like,
- 34:57Speaker 4: see if I care or not.
- 34:58Speaker 10: Cause he kept saying shit. He'd be like, Oh, you know,
- 35:01Speaker 10: what's something that would make you mad that I would do?
- 35:05Speaker 10: And I was like, Oh, act crazy or disrespectful.
- 35:07Speaker 2: He was like, what?
- 35:08Speaker 1: Like what's crazy?
- 35:08Speaker 2: Like talking to other girls.
- 35:09Speaker 10: I said, no, I don't really care about that. The
- 35:12Speaker 10: look on his face. He was like, Oh, Cause I
- 35:14Speaker 10: genuinely don't care. Like you can talk to other girls.
- 35:16Speaker 10: I hope you do.
- 35:17Speaker 6: It takes you off of my hands. To be honest,
- 35:19Speaker 6: I'm just going for the vibes. I'm not going because
- 35:23Speaker 6: I like you.
- 35:23Speaker 1: Not really.
- 35:24Speaker 10: So on our way to the game, we did pick
- 35:26Speaker 10: up his friend, which honestly I didn't mind because his
- 35:28Speaker 10: friend was kind of cute. So I didn't mind that
- 35:31Speaker 10: at all. So we get to the game and our
- 35:33Speaker 10: seats are actually really good.
- 35:34Speaker 1: I was surprised. Our seats were a seat right.
- 35:38Speaker 2: Above the field.
- 35:38Speaker 1: So we had really good seats and I could see everything.
- 35:42Speaker 10: But as the game is going on, like the guy
- 35:44Speaker 10: that I'm on the date with, he's just getting so touchy.
- 35:47Speaker 10: Like he's just totally invading my personal space. He keeps
- 35:50Speaker 10: doing that thing where if he's trying to talk to me,
- 35:53Speaker 10: like he like guides my face to look at him.
- 35:56Speaker 10: And I don't like that shit. It bothers me so much.
- 35:59Speaker 10: I do not touch my face. Like I have a
- 36:01Speaker 10: whole face of makeup on. Why would you put your
- 36:03Speaker 10: dirty ass hands on my face? But the first time
- 36:08Speaker 10: he grabbed my face, I didn't say anything because it
- 36:10Speaker 10: caught me off guard. The second time I was playful
- 36:13Speaker 10: and I was like, OK, you know, and then the
- 36:15Speaker 10: third time I was like, OK, I don't like when
- 36:17Speaker 10: you touch my face.
- 36:18Speaker 1: I have makeup on. I don't know where your hands
- 36:19Speaker 1: have been. Please stop touching my face.
- 36:21Speaker 10: Honestly, I think what was irritating me most was the
- 36:24Speaker 10: fact that he was scaring the hoes like this.
- 36:26Speaker 1: And I know it's probably not shit of me, but.
- 36:29Speaker 10: It's a first date. You know what I'm saying? Like,
- 36:32Speaker 10: why are you why are you being so touchy? Why
- 36:33Speaker 10: do you keep putting your arm around me? Why do
- 36:35Speaker 10: you keep trying to, like, when you have to talk
- 36:37Speaker 10: to me, you're, like, putting your hand on my head?
- 36:39Speaker 10: It's just weird-ass shit. I don't like that. You know
- 36:42Speaker 10: how guys are. Like, they do that when they're trying
- 36:44Speaker 10: to show other people, oh, like, look who I'm with.
- 36:46Speaker 2: So it's just like, stop.
- 36:48Speaker 1: Like, stop trying to show me off.
- 36:49Speaker 2: Like, chill. Chill.
- 36:50Speaker 10: So the game ends. Honestly, I should have just left
- 36:53Speaker 10: it in there. But he was saying, like, oh, you know,
- 36:55Speaker 10: we're all going to go out and we're going to
- 36:57Speaker 10: celebrate because they won. So, you know, I have a
- 37:00Speaker 10: table and a section at this place. And... This is
- 37:04Speaker 10: my problem. It's really hard for me to say no
- 37:05Speaker 10: to going out. That's my problem right now. So instead
- 37:09Speaker 10: of going home, my dumb ass is like, OK, sure.
- 37:11Speaker 10: Because in my mind, I'm thinking like I am not
- 37:14Speaker 10: obligated to stay near or talk to this man.
- 37:16Speaker 1: I'm just here for fun. I don't have to do anything.
- 37:19Speaker 10: Yeah, I was sitting next to him at the game
- 37:21Speaker 10: and I let something slide because I'm sitting next to you.
- 37:24Speaker 1: These are our seats. But now that the game is over.
- 37:27Speaker 1: I can do whatever I want.
- 37:28Speaker 10: But the rest of the night, this man keeps doing
- 37:30Speaker 10: weird shit. Like every guy that would try to talk
- 37:32Speaker 10: to me, he would go up to me like, oh,
- 37:33Speaker 10: you're trying to talk to her and try to start shit.
- 37:36Speaker 10: And I literally would have to keep going up to
- 37:37Speaker 10: him and be like, dude, we're not together.
- 37:40Speaker 1: Stop. No, obviously because we're out, it's loud. So he's like, what?
- 37:43Speaker 1: And I'm like, you're frightening the hoes.
- 37:47Speaker 2: Stop it.
- 37:48Speaker 1: We are not together.
- 37:50Speaker 2: I tell y'all that man got so mad. Oh my gosh.
- 37:53Speaker 1: Like he was about to throw a fit.
- 37:54Speaker 10: And there was even one time where like the friend
- 37:56Speaker 10: that we came with was trying to talk to me
- 37:58Speaker 10: and I was letting him because I thought he was already, you.
- 38:00Speaker 2: Know, he's a little cute, whatever.
- 38:03Speaker 4: And he starts like getting ready to headbutt this man.
- 38:06Speaker 4: You know how crazy you have to be to headbutt somebody?
- 38:09Speaker 4: Hold on, let me repeat this.
- 38:10Speaker 14: Do you know how fucking crazy you have to be
- 38:13Speaker 14: to headbutt somebody? You're ready to not only knock them out,
- 38:16Speaker 14: but to knock yourself out just to harm someone else.
- 38:19Speaker 16: Bye.
- 38:20Speaker 1: I can't.
- 38:21Speaker 10: So obviously by this point, this man is a confirmed
- 38:23Speaker 10: weirdo in my head, okay? There's no ifs, ands, or
- 38:25Speaker 10: buts about it. He is a confirmed weirdo. So I
- 38:27Speaker 10: start being mean to him. Should I have done that?
- 38:30Speaker 2: Maybe not.
- 38:30Speaker 10: But I just start doing little, you know, mean shit
- 38:33Speaker 10: because now I'm going to teach you a lesson, okay?
- 38:36Speaker 1: Now I'm going to teach you a lesson.
- 38:37Speaker 10: So I just basically started, like, the rest of the
- 38:39Speaker 10: night as I'm there, every time he would do something,
- 38:41Speaker 10: I would.
- 38:42Speaker 1: Start bitching him, okay?
- 38:44Speaker 10: So I would say little things like, stop, give me
- 38:45Speaker 10: your card. And this man would take out his card
- 38:49Speaker 10: and just give it to me. Every time he would
- 38:51Speaker 10: do some shit, I'd be like, go over there, go
- 38:53Speaker 10: over there. And he would go and he would sit.
- 38:56Speaker 10: And I'd go over and I'd put my hand on
- 38:57Speaker 10: my hip and I'd be like, give me your card.
- 38:59Speaker 10: I need your card again.
- 39:00Speaker 2: I'm buying more drinks.
- 39:01Speaker 1: I'm getting this. Girl, ooh, I said girl like I'm
- 39:04Speaker 1: on FaceTime.
- 39:05Speaker 10: It got to a point where this man ended up
- 39:07Speaker 10: getting drunk and he didn't even realize that he kept
- 39:11Speaker 10: giving me his card.
- 39:12Speaker 2: So I just started ordering stuff.
- 39:14Speaker 10: And I know what y'all are thinking. You're like, oh,
- 39:16Speaker 10: I would have just left or KT, why didn't you
- 39:17Speaker 10: just leave? I told y'all I had a problem, okay?
- 39:21Speaker 10: It's hard for me to say no when someone invites
- 39:22Speaker 10: me out. What did the Lorax say? I speak for
- 39:25Speaker 10: the trees. Bitch, I speak for the bottle girls. I
- 39:27Speaker 10: don't know what to tell y'all. Basically, long story short,
- 39:30Speaker 10: before i left i called my bitch and then i
- 39:32Speaker 10: left got my car went home and then i blocked
- 39:34Speaker 10: him on everything and then my clothes that i had
- 39:38Speaker 10: ordered from when he was giving me my card came
- 39:40Speaker 10: in about a.
- 39:40Speaker 2: Week later.
- 39:42Speaker 6: All right so y'all wanted it so i'm gonna give
- 39:45Speaker 6: it to y'all story time on a fucking date from
- 39:49Speaker 6: hell from last night like i cannot make this up
- 39:53Speaker 6: like we as women we have to come together as
- 39:57Speaker 6: a whole and really start exposing these fucking bitches niggas
- 40:00Speaker 6: that be cash fishing not catfishing cash fishing these niggas
- 40:05Speaker 6: pockets be cash fit catfish yo like that should be
- 40:08Speaker 6: crazy to me Anyway, long story short, a couple days ago,
- 40:13Speaker 6: I think it was like on like Thursday. Today is Tuesday,
- 40:15Speaker 6: you know. I think it was on like Thursday or whatever.
- 40:17Speaker 6: My friend ended up texting me, sending me this boy
- 40:19Speaker 6: picture like, oh yeah, he want you. So I'm like, okay.
- 40:22Speaker 6: I'm like, he real cute or whatever. He got all
- 40:24Speaker 6: this money in a picture, butterfly doors up and shit.
- 40:28Speaker 1: Like he look like he having. So she like, all right, well,
- 40:31Speaker 1: can I give me your number? So I say, yeah.
- 40:33Speaker 1: So she give him my number or whatever.
- 40:35Speaker 2: He don't call me until yesterday.
- 40:37Speaker 1: Which was Monday.
- 40:38Speaker 6: Now it's a lot i could say like a lot
- 40:41Speaker 6: of red flags that was happening because we was on
- 40:43Speaker 6: like facetime like like for like a long time yesterday
- 40:45Speaker 6: or whatever it's a lot of red flags that happened
- 40:47Speaker 6: like within the conversation of him just you know being
- 40:50Speaker 6: cringe and saying like little sexual shit or whatever but
- 40:53Speaker 6: all right cool whatever i didn't pay no mind because
- 40:55Speaker 6: it's not happening I just want to get to the
- 40:58Speaker 6: motherfucking date, okay? So we on FaceTime or whatever. He
- 41:02Speaker 6: basically like, all right, where we going type shit or whatever.
- 41:05Speaker 1: So I'm like, I don't care. Like, whatever, whatever. We
- 41:08Speaker 1: come up with the idea to go drunk bowling.
- 41:11Speaker 6: So long story short he ended up he ended up
- 41:13Speaker 6: with being with some boy or whatever and he basically
- 41:16Speaker 6: was asking me like where my friends at or whatever
- 41:18Speaker 6: so they like tape your friend so i end up
- 41:20Speaker 6: calling my friend i end up calling my friend like
- 41:23Speaker 6: add her to the call so they kind of talking
- 41:25Speaker 6: or whatever but the other boy was just like kind
- 41:27Speaker 6: of like he just.
- 41:28Speaker 1: Was like i don't know they.
- 41:30Speaker 6: Just i could get into the details if y'all want
- 41:32Speaker 6: the details of like how everybody in the friend and
- 41:34Speaker 6: stuff was, like, on the phone and stuff like that, and, like,
- 41:36Speaker 6: the little weird cringe-ass sexual shit they was saying.
- 41:39Speaker 1: On the phone, but it was, like, whatever, and then, like, as.
- 41:40Speaker 6: Soon as we had said something about it, they were like, oh,
- 41:42Speaker 6: have a sense of humor, and it's like, bitch, we
- 41:44Speaker 6: got sense of humor, but nobody's doing, nobody's doing nothing
- 41:46Speaker 6: with y'all, and then the friend, too, like, too, no shade,
- 41:50Speaker 6: because he was cool, but he just, fuck them, I
- 41:53Speaker 6: don't care, long story short, or whatever, we get.
- 41:58Speaker 1: Ready, or whatever, we like, all right, we gonna go to, um, we.
- 42:02Speaker 6: Was trying to debate whether we was gonna go to either, like,
- 42:04Speaker 6: North Bowl or South Bowl or.
- 42:06Speaker 2: Whatever, right?
- 42:07Speaker 6: Now, I went on a date to one of them
- 42:10Speaker 6: bowls before. I don't remember which one it was, but
- 42:12Speaker 6: it was one of them or whatever. Um, so I
- 42:15Speaker 6: didn't know which one was which, but I know the boy, like,
- 42:17Speaker 6: when I finally go pick my friend up or whatever,
- 42:19Speaker 6: we get in the car and shit, and I call
- 42:20Speaker 6: him and shit, and he like, alright.
- 42:22Speaker 1: Well, like, which one we going to, whatever, whatever.
- 42:25Speaker 6: So, I forgot which one he said was which, but
- 42:27Speaker 6: he was telling me, like, oh... well this one i
- 42:30Speaker 6: think he said north bowl like you gotta pay for
- 42:33Speaker 6: parking or whatever and south bowl they got a parking
- 42:35Speaker 6: light so to me no shade you asking me on
- 42:40Speaker 6: a date so i just feel like you know as
- 42:43Speaker 6: a man like it goes without saying like nigga i
- 42:46Speaker 6: feel like you should be paying for every fucking thing
- 42:47Speaker 6: no shade so long story short he like um telling
- 42:52Speaker 6: me which one got parking or whatever so i'm like
- 42:54Speaker 6: oh well i don't really want um go to uh
- 42:56Speaker 6: north bowl if i gotta pay for parking to me
- 43:00Speaker 6: that was his cue to say like um oh like
- 43:05Speaker 6: it's cool like i got you i'll pay for your parking.
- 43:07Speaker 1: Like it don't matter instead do y'all want to know
- 43:09Speaker 1: what this nigga did he said oh.
- 43:13Speaker 6: Well we could just go to south bowl so i'm
- 43:15Speaker 6: like well why south bowl he said because he just
- 43:16Speaker 6: said you don't want to pay for parking ew so
- 43:20Speaker 6: that was red flag number that was red flag number
- 43:22Speaker 6: one it was red flag before this but i'm talking
- 43:24Speaker 6: about that we talking about the broke cash fishing shit
- 43:27Speaker 6: so that was red flag number one red flag number
- 43:29Speaker 6: two was i'm like all right uh we'll meet y'all
- 43:33Speaker 6: or whatever whatever i'm like i gotta uh stop to
- 43:35Speaker 6: get gas first though because like you know i gotta
- 43:38Speaker 6: get gas or whatever now y'all could y'all could feel
- 43:41Speaker 6: however y'all want to feel about this part but to
- 43:43Speaker 6: me i feel like i don't know like to me
- 43:46Speaker 6: i feel like he should have been offering something for
- 43:48Speaker 6: gas but maybe that's just me maybe that's just me
- 43:50Speaker 6: i don't know nigga you calling me out i'm telling
- 43:52Speaker 6: you i need gas in my car i feel like
- 43:53Speaker 6: you should be sending me something i ain't gonna stay
- 43:55Speaker 6: for my tank up or nothing but nigga if you
- 43:57Speaker 6: want me to come to you and meet you i
- 43:58Speaker 6: feel like you should be saying something i should be
- 44:00Speaker 6: sending something i don't know okay boom we finally get
- 44:03Speaker 6: to the fucking place.
- 44:04Speaker 1: Or whatever yo i cannot make this up we get
- 44:08Speaker 1: to the place and shit so We at the front and.
- 44:12Speaker 6: Shit, so they got to pay for the games and shit.
- 44:14Speaker 6: So the girl basically asked him, like, do we want
- 44:15Speaker 6: one or two games or whatever. Mind you, my friend
- 44:18Speaker 6: is already rubbed the wrong way because the boy, I
- 44:21Speaker 6: don't know. Like, he, like, his friend, like, grabbed her.
- 44:23Speaker 6: I think she tried to say he's low-key, tried to, like,
- 44:25Speaker 6: touch her.
- 44:26Speaker 1: Butt or something. I didn't see it.
- 44:27Speaker 6: I just know when I turned around, her face was
- 44:29Speaker 6: bulged up and she was, like, kind of pushing him
- 44:30Speaker 6: off or her type shit.
- 44:32Speaker 1: Mind you, the friend looked dusty as shit. Like, no shade.
- 44:35Speaker 1: I don't want to say on me, but he looked
- 44:37Speaker 1: so fucking dusty, like... g fazo's on big ass baggy
- 44:41Speaker 1: ass sweatpants he just looked at dirty like like a
- 44:43Speaker 1: fucking t-shirt like he just rolled out of bed mind
- 44:46Speaker 1: you they on the phone with us talking about yeah
- 44:47Speaker 1: because what y'all wearing y'all need to put that shit
- 44:50Speaker 1: on throw some prodders on or something like what and
- 44:52Speaker 1: you came out the fucking house looking like that you
- 44:54Speaker 1: came out the house looking like that and you talking
- 44:56Speaker 1: about us you're talking about us like telling that just
- 44:59Speaker 1: y'all like.
- 45:00Speaker 6: Y'all it was yo so long story short or whatever
- 45:04Speaker 6: we at the front and shit and you know he's
- 45:07Speaker 6: they about to uh pay for the games and shit
- 45:08Speaker 6: so The girl, she's like, do y'all want one or
- 45:12Speaker 6: two games and shit?
- 45:13Speaker 1: So I was going to say one because my friend,
- 45:17Speaker 1: she was already, like, just irritated. But the boy was like, no,
- 45:20Speaker 1: one game going to go by fast and shit, blah, blah, blah. Like,
- 45:22Speaker 1: we could do two games, whatever, whatever. So she said,
- 45:25Speaker 1: all right, cool.
- 45:26Speaker 6: She said, she's like, it's going to be $ 80. So
- 45:30Speaker 6: they like, all right, I guess they trying to like
- 45:32Speaker 6: figure out how they're going to split it or whatever.
- 45:34Speaker 1: Obviously it should be 50-50 or whatever, but it's like,
- 45:37Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 45:38Speaker 6: Y'all probably don't think I'm shallow, but the way they
- 45:41Speaker 6: was like, scrambling for the money and pulling out little
- 45:44Speaker 6: ass like fives and ones and shit like that like
- 45:47Speaker 6: i don't know it was something about it that just
- 45:49Speaker 6: gave like it was something about it y'all y'all just
- 45:51Speaker 6: had to be here i don't know but long story
- 45:53Speaker 6: short they ended up paying for the shit or whatever
- 45:55Speaker 6: the 80 dollars So me and my friend, we there,
- 45:59Speaker 6: but we don't got no socks on or whatever. Like
- 46:01Speaker 6: we don't got no socks. So obviously if we won't
- 46:03Speaker 6: put the bowling shoes on the ship.
- 46:04Speaker 2: We need socks. We're not going to put our bare
- 46:05Speaker 2: feet in there or whatever.
- 46:06Speaker 6: So basically the girl, she was like, you got socks.
- 46:09Speaker 6: So she like, you got socks. So she basically like they, they,
- 46:11Speaker 6: they $ 2 a piece or whatever. so she's saying that
- 46:15Speaker 6: they're two dollars a piece the niggas are standing right
- 46:18Speaker 6: there so i'm sitting there like i'm looking at kimmy
- 46:21Speaker 6: so i'm like but they're not saying nothing so i'm
- 46:23Speaker 6: like okay well i guess i gotta take my card
- 46:25Speaker 6: or whatever so i started pulling out my uh my
- 46:28Speaker 6: phone or whatever to tap because i'm like i'll take
- 46:29Speaker 6: this shit for a little ass for.
- 46:31Speaker 1: It like it ain't it ain't that deep or whatever but.
- 46:33Speaker 6: Finally at the little minute they finally started scrambling again
- 46:37Speaker 6: and then the boy had ended up pulling out a
- 46:39Speaker 6: five or whatever because we kind of was like it
- 46:41Speaker 6: was kind of it was just like.
- 46:42Speaker 1: Awkward long story short y'all fast forward we get to
- 46:46Speaker 1: the fucking the little lane or whatever that we in
- 46:48Speaker 1: this shit we get to the lane and shit and
- 46:52Speaker 1: the boy the boy that i was with or whatever
- 46:54Speaker 1: he basically like um my i should have put this
- 46:57Speaker 1: together because i forgot that before we went he did
- 46:59Speaker 1: ask me like what do we drink and shit like
- 47:00Speaker 1: that but the boy he basically like all right like
- 47:03Speaker 1: yeah we just going we gonna make a rule to
- 47:05Speaker 1: the game or whatever like um If you get a
- 47:09Speaker 1: gutter ball, like whoever get a gutter ball, you got
- 47:11Speaker 1: to take a shot for every time you get a gutter.
- 47:13Speaker 1: So we're like, all right, fuck it.
- 47:16Speaker 2: So my friend, she like, oh.
- 47:17Speaker 6: Well, if we drink it, she's like, I need to
- 47:19Speaker 6: eat something because I'm hungry, whatever, whatever. So she ends
- 47:23Speaker 6: up ordering food or whatever. The girl come over, she
- 47:25Speaker 6: take her order and shit like that.
- 47:26Speaker 2: She's ordering food, right?
- 47:28Speaker 1: She's ordering food and these niggas see her ordering food.
- 47:31Speaker 6: So she orders her food she end up ordering these
- 47:34Speaker 6: tacos they was only like 14 dollars or some shit
- 47:36Speaker 6: like that so the girl she basically like um you
- 47:39Speaker 6: know like y'all had to like start a tab or
- 47:41Speaker 6: whatever so as she's saying that the niggas is right
- 47:44Speaker 6: there my whole thing is why is it but you
- 47:46Speaker 6: my whole thing is for one you don't even have
- 47:48Speaker 6: to start a tab if you got cash let's start
- 47:49Speaker 6: there if you got money and you're ready to pay
- 47:51Speaker 6: for it right then and there you don't have to
- 47:52Speaker 6: start no tab or whatever So, she's saying she's hungry,
- 47:55Speaker 6: she wants to order food, but nobody.
- 47:56Speaker 1: Else is saying nothing. Like, she was, like, the only
- 47:58Speaker 1: person in that moment that wanted to eat or whatever.
- 48:00Speaker 6: But my whole thing is, y'all niggas hear my friend
- 48:02Speaker 6: saying that she's.
- 48:02Speaker 1: Hungry, and y'all hear her ordering food.
- 48:04Speaker 6: Long story short, the lady, she, like, you've got to
- 48:07Speaker 6: start the tab, whatever, whatever. But my friend, she, like,
- 48:09Speaker 6: she didn't have her card or whatever, so she's, like,
- 48:11Speaker 6: can you just tap it, like, just start the tab
- 48:12Speaker 6: or whatever. So, I'm going to order, I'm going to
- 48:15Speaker 6: tap my card, but... i'm taking i'm purposely taking on
- 48:19Speaker 6: because my whole thing is that's not shit that i'm
- 48:20Speaker 6: used to if i'm out with a nigga i don't
- 48:21Speaker 6: have to do none of that he's going to say
- 48:23Speaker 6: order which one give which one whatever whatever i don't
- 48:24Speaker 6: even have to think twice late twice nothing he's going
- 48:27Speaker 6: to be on it already even if i'm opening up
- 48:29Speaker 6: i'm off to save x say what the fuck i
- 48:31Speaker 6: went so i'm sitting there like screen fake scrambling with
- 48:35Speaker 6: my phone because i'm like about to tap my shit
- 48:36Speaker 6: but my whole thing is You see me over here
- 48:39Speaker 6: doing this. You just heard my friend saying she won't
- 48:40Speaker 6: order food. Why is nobody saying nothing? Y'all, do y'all
- 48:43Speaker 6: know I took my card from my friend's shit and
- 48:46Speaker 6: they let me do it and they didn't say nothing?
- 48:48Speaker 6: She walked over to me and we just both look
- 48:50Speaker 6: at each other. She said, I thought somebody was about
- 48:51Speaker 6: to like offer to pay or something. I said, yo,
- 48:53Speaker 6: I said, me too. She said, oh yeah, I don't
- 48:55Speaker 6: like that.
- 48:55Speaker 1: I said, me either.
- 48:56Speaker 6: We both of them shit like, oh bitch, we about
- 48:57Speaker 6: to leave. Like, what the fuck type time is your
- 48:59Speaker 6: niggas on? I'ma have to do a part two, y'all,
- 49:01Speaker 6: because it gets worse. Like, it really gets worse. This
- 49:03Speaker 6: part probably didn't see on that band, but I'm telling y'all,
- 49:05Speaker 6: this shit gets worse because it's.
- 49:07Speaker 4: Like, Huh?
- 49:08Speaker 1: Like, what the fuck? Like, yo, these niggas be cash fishing.
- 49:12Speaker 1: I'm telling you. But I'm about to do a part two.
- 49:15Speaker 1: All right, y'all. So I'm back with part two of
- 49:19Speaker 1: The Date From Now. last night. So mind you, y'all know,
- 49:22Speaker 1: I don't know if y'all know, but if y'all don't.
- 49:23Speaker 2: Know, I'm a YouTuber.
- 49:24Speaker 6: I'm going to put the more detailed version on my
- 49:26Speaker 6: channel because I'll be doing three times a shit on here.
- 49:28Speaker 1: Just a little sidebar. Anyway. Yeah, so.
- 49:32Speaker 6: She so she walked over to me we like standing
- 49:34Speaker 6: shoulder to shoulder she said i thought somebody was about
- 49:36Speaker 6: to like offer to pay so we both looking at
- 49:38Speaker 6: each other like yeah bitch i thought so too like
- 49:39Speaker 6: what the fuck is going on why do i keep
- 49:41Speaker 6: taking me to like scrambling for my phone and shit
- 49:44Speaker 6: like y'all niggas just keep not like i don't know
- 49:46Speaker 6: it was weird all right cool the niggas ain't ain't
- 49:49Speaker 6: ain't say shit about the food ain't nothing they let
- 49:51Speaker 6: my friend order it and let me take my card
- 49:53Speaker 6: for it to open the tab open the tab because
- 49:55Speaker 6: i didn't pay for it right then and there okay
- 49:57Speaker 6: cool right.
- 49:58Speaker 1: Yo, so the game starts.
- 50:01Speaker 6: So the order that it went in was my boy,
- 50:04Speaker 6: her boy, me, and then her. Like, that was the
- 50:07Speaker 6: order of the game or whatever. So my boy go
- 50:10Speaker 6: first or whatever. And I think he.
- 50:12Speaker 1: I don't know if he got a gutter or if
- 50:13Speaker 1: he got a miss.
- 50:14Speaker 6: Either way, it was, like, one of the two turns
- 50:15Speaker 6: that he had.
- 50:16Speaker 1: He had, like, missed the ball or whatever. He ain't
- 50:18Speaker 1: hit no pins. He not gonna pins them. So, all right, cool.
- 50:21Speaker 1: He go to.
- 50:23Speaker 6: It's time for him to take his shot because this
- 50:24Speaker 6: the rule that he just made.
- 50:26Speaker 17: So.
- 50:27Speaker 6: I see him go over to the bar. So I'm
- 50:29Speaker 6: thinking he's going over to the bar to order a shot.
- 50:32Speaker 6: I'm thinking he's going over to the bar to order
- 50:34Speaker 6: a shot, but I'm.
- 50:35Speaker 1: Not paying attention. So he come over. He, uh, no, no, no.
- 50:41Speaker 1: What the fuck happened? I guess when my.
- 50:43Speaker 6: I think when my, like, turn rolled around or something,
- 50:46Speaker 6: he must have, like, took his shot while I wasn't
- 50:47Speaker 6: looking because I did not see this dirty-ass shit that.
- 50:50Speaker 1: This dirty-ass stuff that he pulled.
- 50:51Speaker 6: I did not see it. I didn't pay attention to it,
- 50:53Speaker 6: and I didn't see it until it was my turn
- 50:55Speaker 6: to take a shot. So, long story short, it get
- 50:57Speaker 6: to my turn, and I end up getting a gutter
- 50:59Speaker 6: because I sucked the oil.
- 51:02Speaker 5: So.
- 51:03Speaker 6: he's like okay we taking shots or whatever so i'm
- 51:06Speaker 6: like okay you say we.
- 51:08Speaker 1: Taking shots i'm like okay so i'm gonna go get my.
- 51:10Speaker 6: Shot now again this is me like testing to see
- 51:13Speaker 6: how fast you're gonna fucking move because obviously if i
- 51:15Speaker 6: have to take a shot you see me walking over
- 51:17Speaker 6: to the bar to get a shot why are you
- 51:20Speaker 6: not saying anything why are you not walking over to
- 51:22Speaker 6: getting my shot for me why are you not paying
- 51:23Speaker 6: like i'm just very confusion okay so as i'm at
- 51:29Speaker 6: the bar or whatever about to order a shot he
- 51:32Speaker 6: called me like, yo, like, what you doing or whatever,
- 51:34Speaker 6: I turn around, like, huh, I'm thinking, I'm like, oh,
- 51:37Speaker 6: he must be about to give me my money for
- 51:38Speaker 6: my shot or whatever, like, okay, cool, you, you, you
- 51:41Speaker 6: doing what you're supposed to do now, yo, do y'all
- 51:44Speaker 6: know that this nigga calls me back, my, like I said,
- 51:49Speaker 6: this butterfly door stacks of money in a picture and
- 51:52Speaker 6: all this shit, yo, do y'all know that when I
- 51:56Speaker 6: walk back over to this motherfucking lane, this boy, like,
- 52:01Speaker 6: oh he like no here here he got he got
- 52:06Speaker 6: a bottle of liquor right y'all think.
- 52:09Speaker 1: I'm talking about a real bottle.
- 52:11Speaker 2: Yo he had a fucking.
- 52:13Speaker 1: Water bottle filled up with liquor with titles ew What
- 52:21Speaker 1: the fuck is wrong with you?
- 52:23Speaker 6: That's some little boy dirty ass, broke ass shit. We're
- 52:26Speaker 6: at a fucking bowling alley. Bro, it's a bar here.
- 52:29Speaker 6: You couldn't afford shots. So you brought a bottle of liquor,
- 52:34Speaker 6: a water bottle of.
- 52:36Speaker 1: Liquor into this bowling alley.
- 52:38Speaker 6: So while I'm thinking he's over there ordering a fucking shot,
- 52:43Speaker 6: ordering his shot. The nigga's over there asking a bartender
- 52:47Speaker 6: for empty cups. He's asking her for, look, I still
- 52:49Speaker 6: got the cup in my car.
- 52:51Speaker 1: He's asking a bartender for cups. For his fucking bottle
- 52:55Speaker 1: of liquor. His water bottle of liquor. Yo, me and Kimmy,
- 53:00Speaker 1: we're not, oh shit, I didn't mean to say my
- 53:01Speaker 1: bitch name, but it is what it is.
- 53:03Speaker 6: When I tell you me and her was texting each
- 53:06Speaker 6: other the entire time we was.
- 53:07Speaker 2: There, Kimmy, yo, she was hot. She was, I was hot.
- 53:11Speaker 1: But she really was.
- 53:12Speaker 6: Hot because she said, bitch, I was about to go
- 53:14Speaker 6: to fuck the D and you fought me out for
- 53:16Speaker 6: this shit.
- 53:16Speaker 1: I said, yo, she said, where the fuck you find me?
- 53:18Speaker 1: I said, yo, I said, this is my first, this
- 53:20Speaker 1: is our first link up. I said, this nigga called
- 53:21Speaker 1: me today, said he wanted to go somewhere. I said,
- 53:23Speaker 1: fuck it, come on. Yeah, never the fuck again because
- 53:26Speaker 1: I don't even, I don't even, we ain't even going
- 53:28Speaker 1: to get into this.
- 53:30Speaker 6: Y'all the nigga had a water bottle filled up with
- 53:33Speaker 6: liquor like some shit you do when you kind of
- 53:34Speaker 6: sneak it in the fucking club or a fucking movie
- 53:36Speaker 6: theater or some shit like but as a man nobody
- 53:39Speaker 6: it's cool when girls do shit like that we sneak
- 53:41Speaker 6: liquor in places as a man and as a man
- 53:43Speaker 6: that's supposed to have money what the.
- 53:44Speaker 1: Fuck is you doing filling up a water bottle with
- 53:46Speaker 1: liquor you don't have no money you don't have no
- 53:48Speaker 1: money you can't buy no shots you can't buy no
- 53:51Speaker 1: drinks This.
- 53:52Speaker 6: Ain't my first drunk bowling day, but guess what? The
- 53:54Speaker 6: last nigga I went with come to find out when
- 53:56Speaker 6: it was too late. That nigga was broke as fuck too,
- 53:58Speaker 6: but guess what? When we was there, he was doing
- 54:00Speaker 6: what the fuck he was supposed to do. He was
- 54:01Speaker 6: spending money and buying drinks and buying this and buying that.
- 54:04Speaker 1: Y'all niggas don't got no money for a shot? I'm confusing.
- 54:09Speaker 1: That shit triggered me all the way off.
- 54:11Speaker 6: Like, y'all know that when y'all be knowing y'all, when
- 54:13Speaker 6: y'all chilling with somebody, you just know this is the
- 54:16Speaker 6: last time this nigga's ever going to see my fucking
- 54:18Speaker 6: face again.
- 54:18Speaker 1: Like, never the fuck again. Like, never again.
- 54:22Speaker 6: So cool we it's like fucking we put the vibes
- 54:25Speaker 6: you know we take we taking a shot scene which
- 54:27Speaker 6: i probably shouldn't have been fucking doing because nigga i
- 54:29Speaker 6: don't know where the fuck you got that liquor for
- 54:31Speaker 6: i don't know if you got something in there then
- 54:32Speaker 6: the first shot you took i'm watching that nigga take
- 54:34Speaker 6: you first because bitch.
- 54:35Speaker 1: What the fuck is you trying i don't know.
- 54:36Speaker 6: What the fuck you're doing but now it's like it's
- 54:40Speaker 6: like this vibe's winning at this point because it was
- 54:41Speaker 6: like bitch i'm no after this i'm never seeing this
- 54:43Speaker 6: nigga again i'm he's done a dying fast forward now
- 54:50Speaker 6: i'm hungry now.
- 54:51Speaker 1: I'm hungry I'm fucking hungry. So, I'm about to go
- 54:56Speaker 1: order me some food. Again, these niggas watching me look
- 55:01Speaker 1: at the menu. They're looking at me look at the menu.
- 55:04Speaker 2: Go over the menu.
- 55:05Speaker 6: I'm scanning the menu. These niggas is looking at the
- 55:07Speaker 6: menu and shit like that.
- 55:10Speaker 2: I cannot make this up.
- 55:12Speaker 1: So, I'm like, alright, well, I'm about to go order
- 55:15Speaker 1: my food.
- 55:15Speaker 6: Mind you, all of this shit is so awkward to
- 55:17Speaker 6: me because if I'm out with a nigga, any nigga.
- 55:21Speaker 6: Don't have to do all of this even the niggas
- 55:23Speaker 6: that i call my brother i wish they like nobody's
- 55:26Speaker 6: ever gonna make me feel that awkward to the point
- 55:28Speaker 6: where i got a fake scramble for my phone to
- 55:29Speaker 6: be like is these niggas gonna bust a move or
- 55:31Speaker 6: what i'm confused so walk over to the girl to
- 55:36Speaker 6: order my food niggas still not saying shit they watching
- 55:39Speaker 6: this every fucking thing niggas said i'm just coming to
- 55:42Speaker 6: pay for the game and pay for these six dollar
- 55:44Speaker 6: shoes and that's the fuck it your bitch is on
- 55:46Speaker 6: your own after that figure it out That's what it
- 55:49Speaker 6: was on. That's what they was on. I go to
- 55:51Speaker 6: the bar. I find the same.
- 55:54Speaker 1: Girl or whatever. I order my food or whatever.
- 55:57Speaker 6: I said I wanted a BDI quesadilla. Another meal that
- 56:03Speaker 6: was only like $ 14 to $ 15.
- 56:04Speaker 1: Kimmy shit.
- 56:05Speaker 6: She got like $ 14 Korean tacos or some shit like that.
- 56:07Speaker 1: I got a BDI quesadilla. $ 14 a piece.
- 56:10Speaker 2: $ 15 a fucking piece. Not shit, okay?
- 56:19Speaker 6: Yo, I'm ordering my food and shit. She put the
- 56:21Speaker 6: order in. Again, I'm confused. Y'all keep watching this douche.
- 56:24Speaker 1: And y'all not saying nothing. Y'all not doing nothing.
- 56:26Speaker 6: Y'all not giving us the cash for nothing. Y'all not
- 56:28Speaker 6: saying nothing. I'm so confused. So, I look over and.
- 56:36Speaker 6: .
- 56:39Speaker 1: I'm skipping the part.
- 56:41Speaker 6: I'm skipping the part. These niggas ordered they food at
- 56:44Speaker 6: the same time as me. Like the girl, she had
- 56:46Speaker 6: one of them mobile drawings. You know, the drawing where
- 56:48Speaker 6: it's like you can walk around and take the order
- 56:50Speaker 6: on a little. tech machine thing or whatever that's what
- 56:53Speaker 6: she was doing so these niggas was ordering food and
- 56:56Speaker 6: i i got up to like order my food and
- 56:58Speaker 6: i guess at the same time they was like ordering
- 57:01Speaker 6: they food and all i see was kimmy texting me
- 57:04Speaker 6: like she texted me saying all this shit and she's
- 57:06Speaker 6: like no bitch come come over here and order your
- 57:08Speaker 6: shit with they shit i turned around these niggas is
- 57:11Speaker 6: ordering food like when they own little like they ordering
- 57:13Speaker 6: food Y'all see me over here ordering food. Y'all didn't
- 57:17Speaker 6: say nothing. Y'all over here putting in your own order
- 57:19Speaker 6: for food. Like, y'all over here putting in your own
- 57:21Speaker 6: order for food. So, I go over there. So, the
- 57:25Speaker 6: girl come to me after. And I see her little
- 57:29Speaker 6: tab thing. It's everybody's food on my tab. The tab
- 57:33Speaker 6: that I open.
- 57:33Speaker 1: Y'all.
- 57:39Speaker 2: I see all.
- 57:40Speaker 6: Everybody's food on the tab that I opened. When she said,
- 57:44Speaker 6: can you tab for me because I don't got my card, whatever, whatever.
- 57:47Speaker 6: I see everybody's food on that tab.
- 57:50Speaker 2: I'm confused.
- 57:51Speaker 6: So I told her, girl, I said, hold on. I said,
- 57:53Speaker 6: you said this is tab, right? I said, so all
- 57:55Speaker 6: this is about to be.
- 57:57Speaker 1: On my card. So she's like, well, yeah, because such
- 58:00Speaker 1: and such, whatever, whatever.
- 58:01Speaker 6: I said, oh, no.
- 58:02Speaker 2: I said, no. Like, what the fuck?
- 58:05Speaker 6: What the fuck is wrong with her? Like, please stop
- 58:08Speaker 6: playing with me. So, the girl, I'm like, no.
- 58:13Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't want all that.
- 58:14Speaker 6: Because then at this point, y'all done already rubbed me
- 58:17Speaker 6: the wrong way. Y'all been rubbing me the wrong way.
- 58:20Speaker 1: All fucking day.
- 58:20Speaker 6: Y'all done wasted my whole fucking day. Y'all done already
- 58:23Speaker 6: rubbed me the wrong way, and I'm getting little signs,
- 58:25Speaker 6: and y'all just give me the feeling that if we
- 58:28Speaker 6: was out to eat at a restaurant, y'all niggas probably
- 58:29Speaker 6: get up and down and dance or something and leave
- 58:31Speaker 6: us with the check type shit. Like, it happened to
- 58:34Speaker 6: bitches before, so I wouldn't be surprised if it fucking happened.
- 58:37Speaker 2: That's the vibes that I get from y'all.
- 58:39Speaker 6: At this point, it's giving very broke, very, very.
- 58:42Speaker 1: Broke vibes, okay? I'm gonna have to do a part three.
- 58:45Speaker 1: I'm about to record it right now. Like for part three.
- 58:49Speaker 6: So, I'm back with part three, y'all. So, the girl,
- 58:56Speaker 6: so I'm telling her, I'm like, no, get this shit
- 58:58Speaker 6: off my tab. Ain't shit going on this tab. Because
- 59:00Speaker 6: my whole thing is, why the fuck y'all niggas not, like,
- 59:03Speaker 6: why is nobody busting no type of move? Y'all waiting
- 59:05Speaker 6: for us to do everything. And that's weird. That's making
- 59:08Speaker 6: me feel uncomfortable. And it's making me feel awkward.
- 59:10Speaker 1: Like, it's weird as fuck. And me and her just
- 59:11Speaker 1: texting each other like, yo, what the fuck is up
- 59:13Speaker 1: with these niggas? We ain't used to no shit like that.
- 59:15Speaker 1: Is y'all cool? So.
- 59:18Speaker 6: the girl go over and i can't hear exactly what
- 59:20Speaker 6: she's saying but i she went over there and sat
- 59:23Speaker 6: next to them and i went and sat right next
- 59:24Speaker 6: to her while she was explaining whatever the fuck she
- 59:26Speaker 6: was explaining to them explaining to them nigga this shit
- 59:28Speaker 6: ain't going on this tape i don't know what the
- 59:29Speaker 6: fuck y'all doing so long story short i guess she
- 59:33Speaker 6: was just on some shit like yeah so she don't
- 59:35Speaker 6: want her on her tab whatever whatever or whatever and.
- 59:39Speaker 1: She like well uh.
- 59:42Speaker 6: No before that She said she basically letting him know
- 59:46Speaker 6: that I don't want all.
- 59:47Speaker 1: That shit on my tab or whatever. The friend started
- 59:50Speaker 1: just shaking his head. Mad as shit. Shaking his head.
- 59:52Speaker 1: Just shaking his head. Bitch, what the fuck is you
- 59:55Speaker 1: so mad about?
- 59:56Speaker 2: I'm confused.
- 59:58Speaker 1: What the... What you so mad about?
- 1:00:00Speaker 2: Like, what.
- 1:00:01Speaker 1: Why are you mad?
- 1:00:03Speaker 14: You.
- 1:00:04Speaker 1: You mad because I said get it off my tab?
- 1:00:06Speaker 6: I shouldn't even have no fucking tab, bitch.
- 1:00:09Speaker 2: Let's start there.
- 1:00:11Speaker 1: You're mad because I didn't want the shit on my tab?
- 1:00:13Speaker 2: Are you.
- 1:00:15Speaker 1: yo, so, after that, he, like, um, she, like, she
- 1:00:21Speaker 1: just turned.
- 1:00:21Speaker 6: Around and asked me, she, like, well, what tab is, like,
- 1:00:23Speaker 6: the tacos going on, saying, talking about my friend's tacos,
- 1:00:26Speaker 6: because my friend.
- 1:00:27Speaker 1: You know, she ordered food way before everybody else, like,
- 1:00:29Speaker 1: she ordered food, basically, as soon as.
- 1:00:30Speaker 6: We got there, type shit, so, that was what I had, uh,
- 1:00:34Speaker 6: did or whatever, so, she, like, well, what tab is
- 1:00:36Speaker 6: that going on, but I look on these niggas' faces,
- 1:00:38Speaker 6: I just was, like, I said, you know, I.
- 1:00:39Speaker 1: Said, it don't, it don't matter, like, I don't really care,
- 1:00:42Speaker 1: because I didn't want.
- 1:00:43Speaker 6: To, like, I feel like, like, if I would've said,
- 1:00:45Speaker 6: put it on their tab, and they would've, I probably
- 1:00:47Speaker 6: would've cursed them the fuck out if they tried to
- 1:00:48Speaker 6: make a face or something, because at this point, I
- 1:00:49Speaker 6: just feel like y'all dirty as shit, y'all broke as shit,
- 1:00:51Speaker 6: and y'all don't have no fucking money, so at this point,
- 1:00:53Speaker 6: I'm like, it don't even matter, like, you good, I'll
- 1:00:54Speaker 6: pay for.
- 1:00:55Speaker 1: That, whatever, but bitch.
- 1:00:56Speaker 6: Y'all tripping if y'all think about to have all your
- 1:00:58Speaker 6: shit on my tab, so, long story short, somehow, someway,
- 1:01:01Speaker 6: I added my shit to their tab, but I still
- 1:01:04Speaker 6: ended up paying for my friend's stuff, or whatever, because
- 1:01:06Speaker 6: it was like, I didn't even want to make that
- 1:01:07Speaker 6: a whole thing, but why is anything a whole thing
- 1:01:09Speaker 6: when y'all should be, y'all supposed to be treating us
- 1:01:11Speaker 6: to this whole fucking date, I'm so confused, so, like
- 1:01:15Speaker 6: I said, the friend mad as shit, ugly as shit,
- 1:01:17Speaker 6: shaking his head, Or whatever, talking about, like, after the
- 1:01:21Speaker 6: girl walked away, he like, oh, I think he was
- 1:01:22Speaker 6: saying to the girl, like, yeah, because it.
- 1:01:24Speaker 1: Don't matter because I'm paying for everything anyway. So why
- 1:01:26Speaker 1: are you not paying for me? Why are you not
- 1:01:29Speaker 1: paying for it? Why is it taking for me.
- 1:01:31Speaker 6: To open up a tag and do all this shit
- 1:01:34Speaker 6: for you.
- 1:01:34Speaker 1: To say, oh, I paid.
- 1:01:35Speaker 6: You're not paying for nothing. No, the fuck you're not.
- 1:01:38Speaker 6: You sitting here watching me and my front order for
- 1:01:40Speaker 6: y'all doing all type of weird ass crummy ass shit.
- 1:01:43Speaker 6: You're not paying for that. Yeah, because I'm paying for
- 1:01:45Speaker 6: everything anyway. I was paying for everything. And no, the
- 1:01:47Speaker 6: fuck you wasn't, bitch. No, the fuck you wasn't.
- 1:01:50Speaker 2: Stop lying.
- 1:01:51Speaker 1: You ain't got it. You ain't got the 15 for
- 1:01:54Speaker 1: my little orders.
- 1:01:56Speaker 2: Clock it.
- 1:01:58Speaker 6: So that was that or whatever. After that, then the
- 1:02:00Speaker 6: vibes was really off because I think them niggas, at
- 1:02:03Speaker 6: least the friend, probably must have wanted a free meal
- 1:02:05Speaker 6: or something. I think that was the finesse or something
- 1:02:07Speaker 6: because after that, the vibes changed completely.
- 1:02:10Speaker 1: Niggas was mad. I ain't going to say too much
- 1:02:12Speaker 1: that my boy was mad, but.
- 1:02:13Speaker 6: The friend was hot. It was just, like, real weird. Like,
- 1:02:17Speaker 6: the vibes was just off. And it was just, like,
- 1:02:19Speaker 6: why is the vibes off? Why are y'all making it weird?
- 1:02:21Speaker 1: Because y'all broke.
- 1:02:22Speaker 2: Why are we?
- 1:02:23Speaker 1: Why y'all, like, taking it out on us that y'all
- 1:02:25Speaker 1: don't got no money? Like, I'm confused.
- 1:02:27Speaker 6: So, long story short, me and Kimmy is texting the
- 1:02:29Speaker 6: whole entire time. Like, bitch, I ain't ready to go. Like,
- 1:02:30Speaker 6: we about to run out of here.
- 1:02:32Speaker 1: Whatever, whatever.
- 1:02:33Speaker 6: Long story short, we still bowling because we going to
- 1:02:35Speaker 6: finish the game. But at this point, I'm mad as
- 1:02:37Speaker 6: shit because the nigga done bought two games. And I'm like,
- 1:02:39Speaker 6: I feel like we've already been here too fucking long
- 1:02:41Speaker 6: with your life. No, I ain't mad as shit. Somehow
- 1:02:45Speaker 6: some way or like my last turn you know how
- 1:02:48Speaker 6: like when you bowling is if you don't get a
- 1:02:50Speaker 6: strike like you knock some pins down and then some
- 1:02:52Speaker 6: more then you basically get two turns in one turn
- 1:02:54Speaker 6: type shit. When I was in the middle of taking
- 1:02:56Speaker 6: like my second turn. the fucking lane, I don't know, like,
- 1:03:00Speaker 6: is the lanes timed or something, I don't know, the
- 1:03:02Speaker 6: fucking lane had, like, cut off, and, like, it went black, and, like,
- 1:03:05Speaker 6: the game basically ended, so we didn't even finish the game,
- 1:03:08Speaker 6: it just ended type shit, I did not remind them
- 1:03:10Speaker 6: of their second fucking game, I wanted to fucking go,
- 1:03:12Speaker 6: we didn't even say we was leaving that for me,
- 1:03:14Speaker 6: and we just started putting our shoes on and shit, and.
- 1:03:17Speaker 1: Yeah, so, do y'all know that the fucking, so what happened.
- 1:03:22Speaker 6: Was, oh, Kimmy was trying, Kimmy was trying really, uh, like, like, like,
- 1:03:29Speaker 6: she was, she wasn't even trying, um, like, get them
- 1:03:31Speaker 6: no heads up, like, she's like, I gotta go to
- 1:03:33Speaker 6: the bathroom, I gotta go to the bathroom too, so
- 1:03:35Speaker 6: I'm getting my shoes or whatever, but I had left
- 1:03:37Speaker 6: my food on the table, because I was gonna come
- 1:03:38Speaker 6: back and get, she said, oh, no, you're not taking, she,
- 1:03:40Speaker 6: you're not, she's like, you're not taking your food to
- 1:03:41Speaker 6: the bathroom, so.
- 1:03:42Speaker 1: I'm out here, I'm cracking up, because I'm like.
- 1:03:43Speaker 6: Oh, this bitch trying to really just dust these niggas, like,
- 1:03:46Speaker 6: I'm cracking the fuck up, so we go to the bathroom,
- 1:03:50Speaker 6: and we come back, but the whole time we been,
- 1:03:52Speaker 6: I'm like, bitch, these niggas probably took my fucking food, like,
- 1:03:55Speaker 6: I know they taking it, she's like, yeah, they about
- 1:03:56Speaker 6: to eat it on the way home, like, we big,
- 1:03:58Speaker 6: and like, niggas is broken shit, yo, so we get
- 1:04:00Speaker 6: back to the table and shit, so we just like, oh, yeah,
- 1:04:03Speaker 6: we about to leave, whatever, whatever, or whatever, now, I
- 1:04:06Speaker 6: don't know if this happened before we went to the bathroom,
- 1:04:08Speaker 6: or after we went to the.
- 1:04:09Speaker 1: Bathroom, bitch, do y'all know that.
- 1:04:12Speaker 6: The girl is coming to, like, charge the tab like
- 1:04:16Speaker 6: for them to pay their tab or whatever and i
- 1:04:18Speaker 6: don't know which one of them it was i low-key
- 1:04:20Speaker 6: feel like it was my boy but my bag was
- 1:04:23Speaker 6: turned so all i did i heard him say it
- 1:04:25Speaker 6: but i didn't see who said it but i think
- 1:04:27Speaker 6: it was my boy like by the by the voice
- 1:04:28Speaker 6: i think it was him do y'all know these niggas
- 1:04:31Speaker 6: go to pay for the tab now mind y'all i
- 1:04:33Speaker 6: told y'all i've been paid for my friend's stuff but
- 1:04:36Speaker 6: with their um tab it was my my food and
- 1:04:40Speaker 6: both of their food like my food and the two boys.
- 1:04:42Speaker 1: Or whatever So, do y'all know, I hear one of.
- 1:04:47Speaker 6: Them talking about, saying to the girl, talking about, well, wait,
- 1:04:50Speaker 6: where them quesadillas at? Basically asking, like, what tab is
- 1:04:55Speaker 6: them quesadillas on?
- 1:05:03Speaker 2: Yo, why the.
- 1:05:05Speaker 6: Fuck do it matter what tab the quesadillas is on?
- 1:05:08Speaker 6: You worried about what my quesadillas, you don't even want
- 1:05:10Speaker 6: to pay for my food. Yo, this Mr. Butterfly Doors.
- 1:05:15Speaker 6: Butterfly Doors, he got the Butterfly Doors in the back.
- 1:05:18Speaker 1: I'm confused.
- 1:05:19Speaker 6: You got that shit on in every picture. Yeah, everybody
- 1:05:22Speaker 6: hyping you. Yeah, he really got money.
- 1:05:24Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah. This and that. It's always the ones that
- 1:05:27Speaker 1: get hyped up that don't got shits. That don't got shit. Oh,
- 1:05:31Speaker 1: my fucking God. You want to ask this bitch, this girl,
- 1:05:36Speaker 1: this lady. Where the quesadillas at?
- 1:05:39Speaker 2: My quesadillas?
- 1:05:40Speaker 1: You mean my quesadillas is on your tab or something?
- 1:05:43Speaker 6: You mad or something? Like, I'm confused. Why do I
- 1:05:47Speaker 6: matter where the quesadillas at? Why do I matter? Why the, why, y'all. Y'all, y'all, y'all.
- 1:05:55Speaker 1: It gets worse. yo, when I tell you, I'm like,
- 1:06:00Speaker 1: all right, my year, we about to leave, she gotta
- 1:06:01Speaker 1: get up, she gotta get up real early for work.
- 1:06:03Speaker 6: I'm like, yeah, we out, blah, blah, blah, whatever, whatever,
- 1:06:05Speaker 6: we skating, bye, I'm telling Kimmy, I mean, Kimmy Earl, like, go, go, go, bitch,
- 1:06:10Speaker 6: when I.
- 1:06:10Speaker 1: Tell y'all we ran out there fucking bowling alley, we.
- 1:06:14Speaker 6: Ran so fucking fast that I left with the shoes
- 1:06:18Speaker 6: by accident, I left with the.
- 1:06:23Speaker 16: I left with the fucking bowling shoes by accident, that's
- 1:06:27Speaker 16: how fast we were trying to get the fuck out
- 1:06:29Speaker 16: of there, away from them niggas, I guess in the car, I.
- 1:06:34Speaker 6: Guess in the car, I said, yo, I said, I
- 1:06:38Speaker 6: looked to my right, I said, yo, I took the shoes,
- 1:06:41Speaker 6: I opened my door, I just threw the fucking shoes
- 1:06:43Speaker 6: in the bushes, like, I ain't trying to take your shit,
- 1:06:45Speaker 6: y'all can have your fucking shoes, but I'm not going
- 1:06:46Speaker 6: back in that place, no, I don't want to cross that,
- 1:06:48Speaker 6: we leaving, we're out, like, no, Bitch, we got in
- 1:06:52Speaker 6: that car and was fucking gagging.
- 1:06:55Speaker 2: And it's still not over. It's still not over. It's
- 1:06:59Speaker 2: only going to be.
- 1:07:01Speaker 6: It's only going to be one more part.
- 1:07:04Speaker 2: But, like, yeah.
- 1:07:05Speaker 1: I'm probably about to... Yeah, I'm about to just do
- 1:07:09Speaker 1: the part four now. But long story short, we ended
- 1:07:13Speaker 1: up running out that fucking bowling house.
- 1:07:15Speaker 2: I took the fucking shoes with me. Didn't mean to
- 1:07:17Speaker 2: do that.
- 1:07:18Speaker 1: I said, yo, these niggas, yo... I'm probably going to
- 1:07:22Speaker 1: show you all the messages between me and my friend
- 1:07:24Speaker 1: because that shit was so fucking funny. Actually, hold on.
- 1:07:28Speaker 2: I'm about to. Yeah, I'm cranking up.
- 1:07:30Speaker 1: So this is the messages. This is us texting while
- 1:07:32Speaker 1: we're here. She's going to text.
- 1:07:33Speaker 6: Me talking about the liquor in the bottle is annoying
- 1:07:35Speaker 6: me already. I said, bro, never again. Actually, very much
- 1:07:38Speaker 6: blacked out.
- 1:07:38Speaker 1: But she said he's looking at the menu for his soap.
- 1:07:42Speaker 1: I said, crack the fuck up, yo, date from hell.
- 1:07:44Speaker 6: She said, no, come order. That's when I went to
- 1:07:46Speaker 6: the bar to order my food. She said, no, come
- 1:07:48Speaker 6: order when you order.
- 1:07:48Speaker 1: I'm not even playing.
- 1:07:49Speaker 2: And I turned around and.
- 1:07:50Speaker 1: This nigga really was ordering food without me.
- 1:07:52Speaker 2: She said, watch this.
- 1:07:53Speaker 6: I said, and I'm, we were just talking. So I'm saying,
- 1:07:58Speaker 6: I'm saying never again. So she's like, oh, I throw
- 1:08:00Speaker 6: trouble at the same age. She said, I'm, she said, I'm, I'm,
- 1:08:04Speaker 6: she said, so it's over. So, I texted, I said,
- 1:08:08Speaker 6: it's supposed to be.
- 1:08:09Speaker 2: A second game.
- 1:08:10Speaker 6: I'm not reminding her. She said, no, I want to go.
- 1:08:12Speaker 6: I done put my shoes on and everything. So, then
- 1:08:14Speaker 6: I put my shoes on and we just went to
- 1:08:16Speaker 6: the bedroom. But, yeah, yo, I'm about to do the
- 1:08:20Speaker 6: last part because it's still going on.
- 1:08:23Speaker 1: It was still going on after the day I met.
- 1:08:25Speaker 2: So, all right, yo, I'll.
- 1:08:27Speaker 1: Be back with part four of the day from hell. So.
- 1:08:33Speaker 6: We leave, we run, we did a dash on them niggas,
- 1:08:37Speaker 6: so I'm gonna say about 30 minutes fucking passed, and
- 1:08:44Speaker 6: I guess that's when their guilt started to kick in,
- 1:08:48Speaker 6: them niggas knew we was gonna talk about.
- 1:08:49Speaker 17: Them, 30 minutes passed, 30 minutes passed, and a boy
- 1:08:55Speaker 17: finally decides to call me, now at this point, we
- 1:08:59Speaker 17: still in the car my friend's still in the car
- 1:09:01Speaker 17: with me or whatever so i answered the phone so
- 1:09:04Speaker 17: i'm like hello.
- 1:09:05Speaker 6: So he's like yeah uh hold on or whatever so
- 1:09:08Speaker 6: i guess at this point him and a friend is
- 1:09:10Speaker 6: separated at this point or whatever.
- 1:09:12Speaker 1: So So the friend must have told him, like, tap
- 1:09:19Speaker 1: me in on the phone call or whatever. So we
- 1:09:21Speaker 1: on three way.
- 1:09:22Speaker 6: So the friend, like, my joy, all this time went
- 1:09:25Speaker 6: by at this point. If you really felt a way
- 1:09:27Speaker 6: or if you really, if you didn't feel so guilty
- 1:09:28Speaker 6: or whatever the case may be, I feel like you
- 1:09:30Speaker 6: would have called and you would have called immediately after
- 1:09:33Speaker 6: we left or you would have said something while we
- 1:09:35Speaker 6: was there.
- 1:09:36Speaker 1: That shit sat with y'all and y'all started thinking like, oh, no.
- 1:09:39Speaker 6: Like, yeah.
- 1:09:40Speaker 1: So anyway.
- 1:09:42Speaker 6: They call or whatever. And the friend like, yeah, so
- 1:09:46Speaker 6: what was all that about?
- 1:09:48Speaker 1: And da-da-da-da-da.
- 1:09:49Speaker 6: And I don't understand why we had to get separate tabs.
- 1:09:53Speaker 6: We didn't have to, boo. You made it that way.
- 1:09:57Speaker 6: Y'all said, y'all made it so fucking weird. He basically
- 1:10:00Speaker 6: was like, yeah, because I was paying for everything anyway. No,
- 1:10:02Speaker 6: you were not. You were not paying for everything. Then
- 1:10:05Speaker 6: goes to tell us. This is how I know you
- 1:10:07Speaker 6: wasn't fucking paying for.
- 1:10:08Speaker 2: Everything, bitch.
- 1:10:09Speaker 1: Goes to tell us.
- 1:10:11Speaker 6: Yeah, because we just got into it real bad with
- 1:10:13Speaker 6: the people at the place because they tried to charge
- 1:10:16Speaker 6: us for.
- 1:10:17Speaker 2: My friend food.
- 1:10:22Speaker 1: So, y'all got into it after we left. Y'all got
- 1:10:27Speaker 1: into it. So, mind you, my friend, she like, yeah,
- 1:10:30Speaker 1: she like, because she like, Ming.
- 1:10:31Speaker 6: Already paid for it. Like, she paid for it. So, like,
- 1:10:35Speaker 6: how are they trying to charge.
- 1:10:36Speaker 1: Us for something?
- 1:10:37Speaker 6: And they're like, yeah, that's what we're saying. And they're
- 1:10:40Speaker 6: trying to charge us again. Yo, first of all, y'all
- 1:10:44Speaker 6: fucking lying. Second of all, if they was trying to
- 1:10:47Speaker 6: charge y'all for her food, what the fuck is the issue? Like,
- 1:10:54Speaker 6: you really bitching over some $ 14 taco? You saying that
- 1:10:57Speaker 6: y'all just got into it real bad over the people
- 1:10:59Speaker 6: because they tried to charge y'all for this and that
- 1:11:01Speaker 6: and all this other shit? Now, granted, I do understand
- 1:11:04Speaker 6: because if I paid for it, why.
- 1:11:05Speaker 2: Is you trying to charge?
- 1:11:06Speaker 6: But that don't even matter. They was complaining as if, like,
- 1:11:10Speaker 6: it was, y'all. oh so complaining about uh almost having
- 1:11:17Speaker 6: to pay for uh her food or whatever i'm just
- 1:11:20Speaker 6: so like bad at this point like long story short
- 1:11:25Speaker 6: the friend basically trying to explain himself like yeah it
- 1:11:27Speaker 6: was never about the tab it was.
- 1:11:28Speaker 1: Never about paying i.
- 1:11:29Speaker 6: Was gonna pay for everything so why didn't you why
- 1:11:33Speaker 6: didn't you And she basically started chopping him. She's like,
- 1:11:37Speaker 6: what you don't understand is this not what the fuck
- 1:11:39Speaker 6: we used to.
- 1:11:40Speaker 1: Anytime, if we're going to go out with a nigga,
- 1:11:42Speaker 1: it's not even nothing to be discussed.
- 1:11:45Speaker 6: Like, there's no reason why y'all both sat there and
- 1:11:47Speaker 6: watched us order food and y'all didn't pay for the shit.
- 1:11:50Speaker 6: Y'all didn't say nothing. Y'all didn't give us no cash.
- 1:11:52Speaker 6: Y'all talking about the tab. This is what this dumbass
- 1:11:54Speaker 6: nigga going to say. Yeah, because y'all fucking with some
- 1:11:57Speaker 6: hood niggas. And we some hood niggas. And you know
- 1:12:00Speaker 6: a lot of hood niggas.
- 1:12:01Speaker 1: Don't got cards. Who? Mine do.
- 1:12:05Speaker 2: So, I'm confused.
- 1:12:07Speaker 6: Woodhood niggas don't got cards. Granted, I know some people don't,
- 1:12:11Speaker 6: but it's 2020 fucking 6. I don't care if you
- 1:12:14Speaker 6: the fucking biggest drug... Y'all know what I'm trying to say.
- 1:12:16Speaker 1: I can't even say it.
- 1:12:18Speaker 6: But, my whole thing is, y'all talking about, oh yeah, because,
- 1:12:22Speaker 6: so to open a tab, you needed a card, and
- 1:12:25Speaker 6: to do that, you would've had to add a card anyway,
- 1:12:27Speaker 6: so it still would've been one of y'all that would've
- 1:12:28Speaker 6: had to add the card on the tab anyway, because
- 1:12:30Speaker 6: neither one of us had cards.
- 1:12:32Speaker 1: Damn!
- 1:12:33Speaker 6: And like my friend said yesterday, bitch, don't invite me out.
- 1:12:36Speaker 6: If you don't got a debit card, credit card, even
- 1:12:38Speaker 6: a fucking EBT card, nigga, don't say shit to me, okay?
- 1:12:41Speaker 1: Don't say nothing to me.
- 1:12:43Speaker 6: And then you fucking lied because I sat there.
- 1:12:46Speaker 1: And watched y'all pay for y'all food with tab. I
- 1:12:48Speaker 1: watched a friend do it.
- 1:12:49Speaker 6: So, and on top of that, like I said, if
- 1:12:52Speaker 6: you have money and you're paying right then and there,
- 1:12:55Speaker 6: a tab don't exist.
- 1:12:56Speaker 1: You don't have to open no tab. So what are
- 1:12:58Speaker 1: we talking about? Y'all was playing the game. Y'all was
- 1:13:01Speaker 1: playing the game.
- 1:13:02Speaker 6: Long story short, my friend started blanking on him, and
- 1:13:04Speaker 6: she hung up on him, and another, like, five to
- 1:13:08Speaker 6: ten minutes passed.
- 1:13:09Speaker 1: They called back again.
- 1:13:11Speaker 2: Neil, what y'all feeling?
- 1:13:12Speaker 1: Why do y'all keep.
- 1:13:13Speaker 6: Calling, feeling the need to explain yourself? This nigga popping
- 1:13:16Speaker 6: and talking about, yeah, because niggas got $ 15, 000. Like, y'all
- 1:13:19Speaker 6: ain't fucking with no broke niggas. We got $ 15, 000.
- 1:13:22Speaker 1: Where is that, though?
- 1:13:24Speaker 2: Y'all niggas don't got $ 15, 000.
- 1:13:25Speaker 1: What? What? Stop fucking playing with me, yo.
- 1:13:28Speaker 2: Stop playing with me. Y'all niggas don't got $ 15, 000.
- 1:13:29Speaker 1: Y'all probably don't even know what that shit feels like.
- 1:13:32Speaker 1: Y'all broke and shit. Y'all broke and shit. Broke and shit.
- 1:13:35Speaker 6: I don't give a fuck. Yeah, niggas got 15,000. So
- 1:13:39Speaker 6: my friend ends up hanging up and she ended up
- 1:13:40Speaker 6: getting out the car. I dropped her off or whatever.
- 1:13:43Speaker 6: They calls back again. This is how you know they
- 1:13:45Speaker 6: feel guilty. And they know that we was about to
- 1:13:46Speaker 6: go fucking talk about them.
- 1:13:47Speaker 1: Because why do y'all keep calling Phyllis and need to
- 1:13:49Speaker 1: explain yourself if.
- 1:13:50Speaker 6: Y'all didn't feel like y'all didn't do nothing wrong? This
- 1:13:53Speaker 6: is all shit that should have.
- 1:13:53Speaker 1: Been said there. Or better yet, nothing should be said
- 1:13:56Speaker 1: because y'all should have been knowing how to fuck the period. So...
- 1:14:01Speaker 1: They basically called back, so the boy, like, yeah, no,
- 1:14:04Speaker 1: call her back, call her.
- 1:14:05Speaker 6: Back, because something, something, and if, yeah, I don't know
- 1:14:09Speaker 6: how it is between y'all two talking about me and
- 1:14:11Speaker 6: my boy.
- 1:14:11Speaker 1: He like, but if it was a chance of me
- 1:14:13Speaker 1: and her.
- 1:14:14Speaker 6: Doing, possibly going out again, like, man was.
- 1:14:17Speaker 1: Just going to be with, bro, why you think she
- 1:14:19Speaker 1: want to go out with you?
- 1:14:20Speaker 2: You true, first of all, and you broke.
- 1:14:22Speaker 6: And while he was there, he was trying to ask
- 1:14:24Speaker 6: her for a second date. She said, I'm not going
- 1:14:25Speaker 6: out with you. She said, you want to know why?
- 1:14:29Speaker 6: He said, oh, I didn't know it was why. She said, yeah,
- 1:14:30Speaker 6: it's a why. And then, I don't know, whatever happened,
- 1:14:33Speaker 6: she basically, I don't know. But long story short, nigga,
- 1:14:35Speaker 6: if you ain't know the why, you know them.
- 1:14:37Speaker 1: Yeah. So, that was that or whatever. Y'all, this is
- 1:14:41Speaker 1: how you know they was starting to over-explain themselves.
- 1:14:44Speaker 6: Like, y'all waited until 30 minutes later to call us. Like,
- 1:14:48Speaker 6: y'all was trying to think of what to say because
- 1:14:49Speaker 6: y'all know y'all fucked up.
- 1:14:51Speaker 2: And fucked up literally, too.
- 1:14:52Speaker 6: In real life, them pockets is fucked up, and she
- 1:14:55Speaker 6: was just chopping him, and he just, he was, like,
- 1:14:58Speaker 6: talking over her, and, like, yelling over her, trying to explain,
- 1:15:00Speaker 6: it's nothing to talk about, sir, y'all know this shit
- 1:15:03Speaker 6: was a dunyon, because y'all ain't had no man for
- 1:15:06Speaker 6: the fun, y'all ain't had no fucking money, no pig, nothing, nothing,
- 1:15:11Speaker 6: them butterfly doors, yeah, it's all made up, that shit
- 1:15:15Speaker 6: was AI, no, I don't give a fuck, I don't
- 1:15:16Speaker 6: give a fuck how much people tell you, tell me
- 1:15:18Speaker 6: that a nigga got money, fuck out of here, So
- 1:15:21Speaker 6: the funny part, so I ended up telling my friend
- 1:15:23Speaker 6: what happened or whatever.
- 1:15:24Speaker 1: Then when she ended up texting me, like, what you doing?
- 1:15:25Speaker 1: I'm like, bitch, I just got over a date with
- 1:15:27Speaker 1: this fucking nigga that you tried to set me up with, bitch.
- 1:15:30Speaker 6: And I'm telling her everything, and she's like, oh, my God.
- 1:15:32Speaker 6: She said, no, I'm getting pranked right now. She's like,
- 1:15:35Speaker 6: he embarrassing me. Yo, I was cracking the fuck up because, yo,
- 1:15:39Speaker 6: she was vouching for this nigga so hard. She's like, no,
- 1:15:41Speaker 6: I go out with him all the time. Like, no,
- 1:15:43Speaker 6: them date really got da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da. I said, first of all,
- 1:15:47Speaker 6: I don't even know if I.
- 1:15:48Speaker 1: Said it in the first part, but the first red flag,
- 1:15:50Speaker 1: for real, for real, before any words, I'm.
- 1:15:53Speaker 6: On FaceTime with you. I don't know if I said
- 1:15:55Speaker 6: it already, but like, why the fuck is the roof
- 1:15:57Speaker 6: of your car dirty and shit? It's dirty and shit.
- 1:16:01Speaker 1: I don't know. No get money, nigga.
- 1:16:03Speaker 6: That's walking around with a dirty roof, and like I said,
- 1:16:05Speaker 6: I try to give him the benefit of the doubt,
- 1:16:06Speaker 6: because I'm like, maybe he's one of the niggas that
- 1:16:08Speaker 6: be switching in and out, he driving his little, little.
- 1:16:11Speaker 1: Lemon or whatever right now, because.
- 1:16:12Speaker 6: That's, you know, you know, when you, I don't know
- 1:16:14Speaker 6: what he is, or, you know, I don't know so
- 1:16:16Speaker 6: much his business, but I'm like, maybe he's swapping out
- 1:16:18Speaker 6: shit like that, maybe that ain't his shit, I don't know,
- 1:16:20Speaker 6: but roof, dirty as shit, like, dirty as shit, that
- 1:16:25Speaker 6: was the first, like, that was the first sign right there,
- 1:16:27Speaker 6: and it's like, we both had a bad feeling, and
- 1:16:29Speaker 6: then we both still went, like, But I'm glad I
- 1:16:32Speaker 6: didn't suffer by myself.
- 1:16:34Speaker 1: But y'all, like, what? These niggas is crazy, like crazy.
- 1:16:39Speaker 6: So this is how you know he was guilty because
- 1:16:42Speaker 6: my friend basically posted on her Facebook the fact you
- 1:16:43Speaker 6: got some, you know, tree or whatever and she said
- 1:16:47Speaker 6: he never responded to me she said he just responded
- 1:16:49Speaker 6: to me and he want me to meet him and
- 1:16:50Speaker 6: those other shit i said oh i said that's because
- 1:16:52Speaker 6: he feel guilty and he tried to check your temperature
- 1:16:54Speaker 6: to see if i said anything or mention anything to
- 1:16:56Speaker 6: you about it so and i'm telling that shit she
- 1:16:59Speaker 6: pulled up on her she said oh my god she
- 1:17:00Speaker 6: said can i say something to him i want to
- 1:17:02Speaker 6: say something to him i'm like don't even say nothing
- 1:17:04Speaker 6: but this is so funny because they That girl was
- 1:17:07Speaker 6: eating him the fuck up. Y'all know y'all was dead-ass wrong.
- 1:17:10Speaker 6: Then all of a sudden, you want to meet up
- 1:17:11Speaker 6: with my friend. She said, you don't never comment on
- 1:17:12Speaker 6: her shit, never nothing. Then you just got so much
- 1:17:14Speaker 6: to say, you're trying to explain yourself. You're trying, like,
- 1:17:16Speaker 6: overly explaining yourself. He knew not to call my phone again,
- 1:17:20Speaker 6: and I'm blocking him anyway.
- 1:17:21Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck.
- 1:17:22Speaker 6: We straight unfollowed them niggas. Yeah, it's nothing to talk about.
- 1:17:26Speaker 6: There's nothing to talk about, babe. There's nothing to talk about.
- 1:17:29Speaker 6: Nothing to talk about, babe. But, yeah, that was the
- 1:17:31Speaker 6: story time of the fucking date, double date from fucking hell,
- 1:17:35Speaker 6: and Leave me the fuck.
- 1:17:36Speaker 1: Alone because I just don't want none.
- 1:17:38Speaker 2: Of y'all niggas. Leave me the fuck alone.
- 1:17:40Speaker 6: Y'all don't be talking about shit. Y'all don't be on shit.
- 1:17:42Speaker 6: That's why I stay to myself. Like, I just want
- 1:17:44Speaker 6: to date myself. Like, y'all niggas is ew.
- 1:17:47Speaker 2: Like, ew.
- 1:17:48Speaker 1: Like, just, I don't know. I don't know. But, yeah,
- 1:17:52Speaker 1: that was a sturdy time, y'all.
- 1:17:55Speaker 18: Do you guys want to hear my story? It was
- 1:18:00Speaker 18: a date from hell, y'all. A date from hell. First off,
- 1:18:05Speaker 18: The lady at my job, she hooks me up with
- 1:18:07Speaker 18: her son. She's like, yeah, my son is a nice man.
- 1:18:10Speaker 18: He know how to take care of his women.
- 1:18:12Speaker 3: Walk, walk, walk, walk.
- 1:18:13Speaker 2: Okay, that's fine.
- 1:18:14Speaker 1: Boom.
- 1:18:15Speaker 18: So our first date, he's like, you think that you
- 1:18:17Speaker 18: can pick me up? I'm like, pick you up? He's like, yeah,
- 1:18:20Speaker 18: because I've been drinking. Right there, red flag.
- 1:18:23Speaker 2: I'm like, all right.
- 1:18:24Speaker 1: So I waited two hours to pick this man up.
- 1:18:26Speaker 2: I called him. I'm like, it's been two hours.
- 1:18:28Speaker 1: You think you sobered up? You think you can drive?
- 1:18:30Speaker 1: He's like, nah, I'm still kind of tipsy.
- 1:18:31Speaker 2: I'm like, all right, whatever.
- 1:18:33Speaker 1: That was another red flag.
- 1:18:34Speaker 2: Then you lying.
- 1:18:35Speaker 18: I pulls up on him. He stays in the suites,
- 1:18:38Speaker 18: the weekly. Another red flag. He takes five minutes to
- 1:18:43Speaker 18: come outside. Another red flag. He comes outside in a
- 1:18:47Speaker 18: cardboard cowboy hat. and someone like me what i look
- 1:18:52Speaker 18: like he just all excited about what he look like
- 1:18:55Speaker 18: like he's some female or something Then I gets out
- 1:18:58Speaker 18: to hug him and his stomach was so hard, y'all.
- 1:19:01Speaker 1: It was like it pushed me.
- 1:19:05Speaker 2: Okay.
- 1:19:06Speaker 1: Then we get to the bowling alley. He got the
- 1:19:08Speaker 1: money for the bowling alley.
- 1:19:09Speaker 2: Thank God.
- 1:19:10Speaker 1: So I tell him that I want to get some snacks.
- 1:19:14Speaker 18: So he goes, he's like, okay. He swipes his card
- 1:19:17Speaker 18: for some snacks, y'all. Tell me why I declined. He
- 1:19:21Speaker 18: didn't even swipe it the second time or use another card.
- 1:19:23Speaker 18: He just immediately turned around, looked me in my eyes
- 1:19:25Speaker 18: and was like, I grabbed the wrong card.
- 1:19:29Speaker 2: You think that you can swipe your card?
- 1:19:33Speaker 18: You better be lucky everything on this list is mine.
- 1:19:35Speaker 18: Because he didn't.
- 1:19:37Speaker 1: Want nothing on the snack list.
- 1:19:38Speaker 2: So I ended up swiping like $ 16. I ended up
- 1:19:40Speaker 2: swiping my card.
- 1:19:41Speaker 1: Red flag, another red flag.
- 1:19:45Speaker 2: Boom.
- 1:19:45Speaker 18: After that, he's drunk, right? So when it's time for
- 1:19:52Speaker 18: him to roll the ball... his whole butt come out, y'all,
- 1:19:56Speaker 18: I'm talking about whole plumber butt, whole plumber butt, so
- 1:19:59Speaker 18: I leans over to the side, and I quietly tell him, like,
- 1:20:02Speaker 18: you know your butt is out, can you pull up
- 1:20:05Speaker 18: your drawers, or are they too little, like, what's going on,
- 1:20:08Speaker 18: he looks me in my eyes, and he says, oh.
- 1:20:12Speaker 1: Ain't nothing wrong with showing a little butt, what the fuck, I.
- 1:20:18Speaker 18: Didn't know if I was, I didn't know if the
- 1:20:20Speaker 18: camera's gonna pop out at this point, I'm like, Just cameras?
- 1:20:23Speaker 2: He's like, you seem irritated. Yo booty out. Not even
- 1:20:27Speaker 2: a female. Yo booty out.
- 1:20:30Speaker 1: Boom. So I eat my little snacks. It ended up
- 1:20:32Speaker 1: being like some little wings.
- 1:20:34Speaker 18: I didn't eat them all, so I left them on
- 1:20:35Speaker 18: the table. So on our way leaving, while he picks
- 1:20:39Speaker 18: up my food, my to-go food, and take it home with.
- 1:20:42Speaker 2: Him, I said, you taking it home with you? He
- 1:20:46Speaker 2: was like, yeah. If you don't want it, I'll take it.
- 1:20:49Speaker 2: You didn't even pay for it.
- 1:20:51Speaker 1: You want to just eat my leftovers off the table? Oh,
- 1:20:54Speaker 1: you ain't got no money. Then on top of.
- 1:20:57Speaker 18: That, when he asked me to pick him up, he
- 1:21:01Speaker 18: said park next to my car. I parked next to
- 1:21:03Speaker 18: his car, y'all. It was like this car ain't ran
- 1:21:05Speaker 18: in 20 years. It had dust on top of it.
- 1:21:08Speaker 18: That car don't run. That's why you needed a ride.
- 1:21:11Speaker 18: So the next day I go to work and his
- 1:21:14Speaker 18: mom see me and she like, so how did it
- 1:21:15Speaker 18: go with you and my son? I was like, girl,
- 1:21:17Speaker 18: your son came outside drunk. She was so embarrassed.
- 1:21:20Speaker 1: But I had to tell her.
- 1:21:21Speaker 2: I don't care.
- 1:21:22Speaker 1: So now everything is just so awkward with me and
- 1:21:23Speaker 1: her now.
- 1:21:24Speaker 18: Like, girl, you knew your son was a bum, right?
- 1:21:27Speaker 18: Or did you not know that? Because I'm her.
- 1:21:33Speaker 2: Period. And you knew that.
- 1:21:35Speaker 18: That's why you tried to cop gravy with your son.
- 1:21:37Speaker 18: But he's a bum. Then she gonna say, girl, he
- 1:21:40Speaker 18: need to lay down that bottle. So you knew he
- 1:21:41Speaker 18: was on the bottle?
- 1:21:45Speaker 8: Don't play with me. I can bust this on your
- 1:21:47Speaker 8: head right now. I can bury outside and nobody will
- 1:21:50Speaker 8: know that I did it. So I met this guy
- 1:21:52Speaker 8: through Instagram. He just messaged me and we started talking.
- 1:21:55Speaker 8: We talked for about, I think, two months. It was
- 1:21:59Speaker 8: like two months before I saw him for the first time.
- 1:22:01Speaker 8: So this guy doesn't live close. He lives hella far, actually,
- 1:22:06Speaker 8: like in a different city. One day I was at
- 1:22:08Speaker 8: home and I had nothing to do.
- 1:22:09Speaker 2: He messaged me.
- 1:22:10Speaker 4: He was like, yeah, can I take you out to
- 1:22:12Speaker 4: do something? He said, I'm going to drive to your
- 1:22:14Speaker 4: city after work. So I'll be there quite late. What
- 1:22:17Speaker 4: can we do?
- 1:22:18Speaker 1: That's actually the first red flag.
- 1:22:20Speaker 2: Like if you want to.
- 1:22:20Speaker 8: See me come with a plan, like what do you
- 1:22:22Speaker 8: want us to do? Basically there's this arcade that just
- 1:22:25Speaker 8: opened in my city.
- 1:22:26Speaker 1: We can go there. It's open to like one.
- 1:22:29Speaker 2: O'clock at night. He was like, perfect. I'm on my way.
- 1:22:32Speaker 2: Second red flag, he was hella late.
- 1:22:34Speaker 8: He was hella late and he was coming up with excuses.
- 1:22:36Speaker 8: Back then I wasn't that annoyed that he was late
- 1:22:38Speaker 8: because like I said, I was at home anyways. I
- 1:22:40Speaker 8: wasn't doing anything. When he finally arrived, I got downstairs
- 1:22:44Speaker 8: in the car. huge mistake i made was i gave
- 1:22:48Speaker 8: this guy my full address like.
- 1:22:50Speaker 2: Oh my god it's fucking fly so.
- 1:22:52Speaker 4: I gave this guy my full address ladies if you
- 1:22:55Speaker 4: start dating never do this this.
- 1:22:57Speaker 1: Guy like a couple.
- 1:22:58Speaker 8: Blocks away the wrong number i don't know what but
- 1:23:01Speaker 8: never give that guy the full address mind you he's
- 1:23:03Speaker 8: never been in my city before So I asked him,
- 1:23:05Speaker 8: do you know the way?
- 1:23:06Speaker 2: He was like, yeah, yeah, I'll find it. I'll find it.
- 1:23:09Speaker 1: I told him, if you want, I can put the
- 1:23:10Speaker 1: address in your phone, like GPS.
- 1:23:12Speaker 2: He's like, no, I'll find it. I'll find it.
- 1:23:14Speaker 8: He put an address in his phone where we were
- 1:23:16Speaker 8: going and he kept making the wrong turn.
- 1:23:18Speaker 1: Sir, how do you not know when to turn left? Like, huh?
- 1:23:23Speaker 2: Oh, something I forgot.
- 1:23:24Speaker 4: Before we were going to the arcade, we were going
- 1:23:26Speaker 4: to go get some drinks in cafe, restaurant, bar, something
- 1:23:28Speaker 4: like that.
- 1:23:29Speaker 8: Cafe was closed by the side because he was late.
- 1:23:32Speaker 8: And he kept making the wrong terms.
- 1:23:33Speaker 4: There was a night shop at the corner, and he
- 1:23:35Speaker 4: asked me, like, yeah, can you go get something for me?
- 1:23:38Speaker 2: Can you go get something to drink? Excuse you?
- 1:23:41Speaker 4: I mean, it's not the worst thing ever, but I mean, like,
- 1:23:44Speaker 4: on a first date, why do you, I.
- 1:23:46Speaker 1: Don't know, it's kind of weird.
- 1:23:47Speaker 2: It's weird. He did give me.
- 1:23:49Speaker 4: His card, because I was not going to pay for that, man.
- 1:23:53Speaker 4: So he did give me that card, and I went
- 1:23:54Speaker 4: to the night shop, and I bought us some drinks.
- 1:23:56Speaker 2: This was my cue to go. This was my.
- 1:23:58Speaker 8: Opportunity to just book an Uber and go home. I
- 1:24:02Speaker 8: ignored my intuition and I just got back in the car.
- 1:24:05Speaker 1: And this guy proceeded to tell me, yeah, I'm actually
- 1:24:07Speaker 1: really tired. I think I'm just going to go back
- 1:24:10Speaker 1: to your like area where you live.
- 1:24:14Speaker 8: So the date is just you driving us to the
- 1:24:17Speaker 8: night shop?
- 1:24:18Speaker 1: Is that the date? I just said, okay. And we went.
- 1:24:23Speaker 2: I know. They have like quiet.
- 1:24:25Speaker 1: Neighborhoods as well. So he just drove up there.
- 1:24:28Speaker 2: And just, you know, talked in the car.
- 1:24:30Speaker 1: He's like, yeah, let's play a game.
- 1:24:31Speaker 8: The game he wanted to play was he puts on
- 1:24:34Speaker 8: a song and we have.
- 1:24:35Speaker 4: To guess which song that is. I love to play games.
- 1:24:39Speaker 4: I love any type of games, everything. So I'm very competitive.
- 1:24:43Speaker 4: And I was starting to win. Like, you know, I
- 1:24:45Speaker 4: got a few song rights or whatever. This man started
- 1:24:48Speaker 4: to get mad. Oh, you're not giving me enough time
- 1:24:50Speaker 4: to guess a song. That's not how the game works, sir.
- 1:24:54Speaker 4: He's starting to get mad.
- 1:24:55Speaker 1: And he's like, yeah. That's wrong with the people from
- 1:24:57Speaker 1: your city.
- 1:24:58Speaker 2: Me, I'm a very sarcastic person.
- 1:25:01Speaker 1: Very, very sarcastic. So I thought that this guy was laughing,
- 1:25:04Speaker 1: that he was making jokes. He's like, yeah, that's what's
- 1:25:05Speaker 1: wrong with you guys in the city. I'm gonna just
- 1:25:08Speaker 1: tell you where this guy is from.
- 1:25:09Speaker 2: He's from Charleroi.
- 1:25:09Speaker 1: If you're from Belgium, you know. What is he doing?
- 1:25:12Speaker 1: There's nothing to do there. So I was laughing.
- 1:25:14Speaker 8: I was like, yeah, you like your city is so
- 1:25:17Speaker 8: like this. Nothing to do, boring. He licked me dead
- 1:25:19Speaker 8: in the eyes. I can never talk bad about my
- 1:25:21Speaker 8: city again.
- 1:25:21Speaker 2: Okay.
- 1:25:24Speaker 1: That was so fucking weird.
- 1:25:25Speaker 2: The mayor.
- 1:25:27Speaker 1: Sir, do you have a key to the city?
- 1:25:28Speaker 2: I'm confused.
- 1:25:29Speaker 1: I forgot a major detail.
- 1:25:30Speaker 8: But sometimes when I won, he would like punch me
- 1:25:33Speaker 8: on my arm, but not like hard or anything, you know,
- 1:25:35Speaker 8: just like, don't know.
- 1:25:39Speaker 1: Thinking about this, this is so crazy.
- 1:25:40Speaker 8: He would punch me hard. Like I thought he was playing.
- 1:25:43Speaker 8: He would punch me sometimes. And then he would be like, yeah,
- 1:25:45Speaker 8: I know people who can really get like messy.
- 1:25:48Speaker 2: Mind you, I thought.
- 1:25:49Speaker 4: This man was like trying to flirt with me or whatever.
- 1:25:51Speaker 1: I don't know what I was thinking. I basically proceeded
- 1:25:55Speaker 1: to tell him, don't think that I don't know people.
- 1:25:57Speaker 2: Like, I know people too. You know, I was trying
- 1:25:59Speaker 2: to act out self or whatever. I don't fucking know.
- 1:26:02Speaker 1: This guy, actually, I have to put this down for
- 1:26:04Speaker 1: a second. This guy proceeded to look at me, look
- 1:26:09Speaker 1: me dead.
- 1:26:09Speaker 8: In the eye, grabbed a hammer from beneath his chair,
- 1:26:13Speaker 8: a crusty, dusty, old, musty ass hammer.
- 1:26:18Speaker 1: And he told me, don't play with me.
- 1:26:20Speaker 8: I can bust this on your head right now. I
- 1:26:23Speaker 8: can bury outside and nobody will know that I did it.
- 1:26:29Speaker 2: He's like, bah, bah, bah. That's what I'm going to
- 1:26:33Speaker 2: do to you. That's what I'm going to do to you.
- 1:26:34Speaker 2: You keep playing.
- 1:26:36Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, baby. Shit was getting serious. This
- 1:26:39Speaker 1: man was dead ass. He was serious. This time I
- 1:26:42Speaker 1: knew I needed to get the hell out of that car.
- 1:26:45Speaker 1: I needed to ASAP. Milwaukee. I even asked him, baby,
- 1:26:49Speaker 1: drive me back. He's like, why do you want to go?
- 1:26:51Speaker 2: I said, yeah, it's getting late. I don't want to stay.
- 1:26:53Speaker 2: I want to go. This guy, hey!
- 1:26:57Speaker 8: This guy looked at me and he said, so I
- 1:26:59Speaker 8: drove all the way to your city and you're not
- 1:27:01Speaker 8: even going to do nothing with me? You're not even.
- 1:27:02Speaker 2: Going to touch me?
- 1:27:05Speaker 1: I beg your pardon!
- 1:27:06Speaker 2: What? No, no, no, no. Rewind.
- 1:27:10Speaker 1: What?
- 1:27:11Speaker 8: The night was not crazy enough. This guy is asking
- 1:27:14Speaker 8: me stupid nonsense things. I was so confused. It was
- 1:27:17Speaker 8: my cue to hop out of the car.
- 1:27:20Speaker 1: And that's what I did, girl. I hopped out of
- 1:27:22Speaker 1: the car and I started walking.
- 1:27:23Speaker 4: He started following me around, so he drove like right
- 1:27:27Speaker 4: next to me while I was walking back home.
- 1:27:29Speaker 1: He started telling me, get back in the car, get
- 1:27:31Speaker 1: back in the car. And I said, no, I don't
- 1:27:33Speaker 1: want to get back in the car.
- 1:27:33Speaker 2: Like, you're freaking me out. He's like, yeah, give me
- 1:27:35Speaker 2: a kiss, give me a kiss. I was like, no, sir, no.
- 1:27:39Speaker 2: The hell?
- 1:27:40Speaker 8: He parked the car right in front of me. He
- 1:27:43Speaker 8: looked at me, and he had this look in his eye.
- 1:27:46Speaker 8: I just knew that man was going to drag me
- 1:27:48Speaker 8: into his car. Even to be funny, that man was
- 1:27:50Speaker 8: going to drag me into his car.
- 1:27:51Speaker 2: God is real.
- 1:27:53Speaker 8: God is real because by that moment, the moment he
- 1:27:55Speaker 8: just like drove in front of me, the police drove
- 1:27:59Speaker 8: by and they were looking at us. When he saw
- 1:28:01Speaker 8: the police, he drove right off. He left and I
- 1:28:04Speaker 8: was like.
- 1:28:05Speaker 2: Hey, thank God.
- 1:28:06Speaker 8: I don't even know what was going to happen if
- 1:28:09Speaker 8: the police was, God forbid, I don't even want to
- 1:28:10Speaker 8: think about that. But I was so scared that he
- 1:28:13Speaker 8: was waiting on me at my house because like I said,
- 1:28:15Speaker 8: I gave him.
- 1:28:16Speaker 1: My full address.
- 1:28:17Speaker 2: Look at me.
- 1:28:17Speaker 8: Luckily, by the time I got home, he was gone.
- 1:28:19Speaker 8: He wasn't, he wasn't outside my door. I got back home,
- 1:28:23Speaker 8: blocked him immediately on all platforms. I think like a
- 1:28:26Speaker 8: month later, I went to the club.
- 1:28:28Speaker 2: There he was.
- 1:28:29Speaker 1: He was standing there looking at me, hella mad. And
- 1:28:31Speaker 1: I was mad confused, like, why is you mad? Like,
- 1:28:34Speaker 1: he looked hella mad at me.
- 1:28:35Speaker 4: And I was like, no, no, no, no, no, this
- 1:28:37Speaker 4: guy is so scary i just left i went.
- 1:28:39Speaker 1: To the table and enjoyed my night he.
- 1:28:42Speaker 8: Was so scary if you're watching you're weird you're real
- 1:28:46Speaker 8: weird that's why i would never date guys from belgium
- 1:28:49Speaker 8: again god.
- 1:28:51Speaker 13: Forbid storytelling how i just went on the worst first
- 1:28:54Speaker 13: date of my life ever this is i'm still trying
- 1:28:57Speaker 13: to wrap my head around it honestly so I went
- 1:28:59Speaker 13: out with one of my coworkers yesterday, so I thought
- 1:29:03Speaker 13: it was a safe bet. It's somebody who I've, you know,
- 1:29:04Speaker 13: built banter with. We've had a relationship, so it's like we're,
- 1:29:07Speaker 13: you know, it was close. Her birthday is today, so
- 1:29:11Speaker 13: I decided let me just go ahead and actually take
- 1:29:13Speaker 13: her on a date. Like I said, we've been flirting
- 1:29:14Speaker 13: around the office, so it just made sense.
- 1:29:16Speaker 2: All right, cool.
- 1:29:17Speaker 13: So I invited her to the date, but I invited
- 1:29:20Speaker 13: her on Wednesday. I said, hey, I want to take
- 1:29:22Speaker 13: you out on Friday. So this is something we already
- 1:29:25Speaker 13: had planned.
- 1:29:25Speaker 2: She knew about it.
- 1:29:26Speaker 1: Cool.
- 1:29:27Speaker 2: Friday comes i go into.
- 1:29:28Speaker 13: Work you know i'm expecting to see her she's not
- 1:29:30Speaker 13: there she she doesn't come to work that day so
- 1:29:33Speaker 13: i don't really overthink it but i am thinking like
- 1:29:35Speaker 13: okay you know if she's not coming to work kind
- 1:29:37Speaker 13: of like changes the plans a little bit but again
- 1:29:39Speaker 13: i don't stress it she calls me once today is
- 1:29:41Speaker 13: about to be over and she says oh you know
- 1:29:43Speaker 13: are we still going out where do you want to
- 1:29:44Speaker 13: meet asking me about the plans mind you she already
- 1:29:47Speaker 13: knew the plans but cool i have no problem with
- 1:29:49Speaker 13: reiterating the plans i say we're gonna meet at such
- 1:29:52Speaker 13: such spot at 5 30 all right cool That's a
- 1:29:55Speaker 13: mutual time for both of us because we work at
- 1:29:57Speaker 13: the same job.
- 1:29:58Speaker 1: I know what time she gets off from work.
- 1:30:01Speaker 13: We're off at the same time, so it's easy for
- 1:30:03Speaker 13: us to meet in this middle place at the same time.
- 1:30:06Speaker 2: I get there. They're at 530.
- 1:30:08Speaker 1: Happy hour is going on. You know, I'm waiting. I'm waiting.
- 1:30:14Speaker 1: She doesn't show up until 6 o'clock. Happy hour ends
- 1:30:16Speaker 1: at 6.
- 1:30:17Speaker 13: But mind you, because I see that she's late, I'm like,
- 1:30:19Speaker 13: all right, let me go ahead and order things for
- 1:30:21Speaker 13: the table.
- 1:30:21Speaker 2: I order two red wines. And I ordered some calamari.
- 1:30:25Speaker 2: All right, cool.
- 1:30:26Speaker 13: She doesn't get there until six o'clock. As soon as
- 1:30:28Speaker 13: she gets there, she sits down. She's she's complaining about
- 1:30:32Speaker 13: the drink that I ordered her. But mind you, this
- 1:30:34Speaker 13: is happy hour. So it's kind of like you missed it.
- 1:30:37Speaker 13: I was trying to, like, do you a favor and
- 1:30:38Speaker 13: get you something, whatever.
- 1:30:40Speaker 14: All right.
- 1:30:40Speaker 13: So she's complaining about the drink that I got her.
- 1:30:43Speaker 13: She said that the calamari tastes frozen. She's complaining to
- 1:30:47Speaker 13: the server. Mind you, this is off the sit down.
- 1:30:50Speaker 13: This is off the sit down. The server just so
- 1:30:53Speaker 13: happens to be a Hispanic guy. He has people beside him.
- 1:30:55Speaker 13: I'm so sorry this is a long story. It was
- 1:30:57Speaker 13: such a long night, and I was so embarrassed. He
- 1:30:59Speaker 13: has people beside him who specifically asked for him. So
- 1:31:02Speaker 13: they're talking. They're speaking in Spanish to each other. She
- 1:31:05Speaker 13: complains to the bartender about him speaking in Spanish because
- 1:31:08Speaker 13: we don't understand Spanish. The conversation was not meant for us.
- 1:31:12Speaker 13: He was talking to somebody else. It was not meant
- 1:31:16Speaker 13: for us.
- 1:31:16Speaker 2: She turns to me, and she says.
- 1:31:17Speaker 1: That's probably a drug deal going on.
- 1:31:22Speaker 10: All right.
- 1:31:22Speaker 13: I feel like that kind of shifted the entire night
- 1:31:24Speaker 13: for me, because why would you just judge these people
- 1:31:26Speaker 13: like that?
- 1:31:28Speaker 1: The complaining about the food, the complaining about.
- 1:31:30Speaker 13: The Spanish speaking, then saying that he's a drug dealer.
- 1:31:33Speaker 2: She OK.
- 1:31:34Speaker 1: All right.
- 1:31:34Speaker 2: Oh, my gosh.
- 1:31:35Speaker 1: It's so much to the story. So now we're drinking.
- 1:31:38Speaker 1: We're drinking.
- 1:31:38Speaker 13: We're drunk at this point. It's time to order food.
- 1:31:41Speaker 13: So the guy brings us the menu. The girl doesn't eat.
- 1:31:44Speaker 13: She said, I want what the people have beside us.
- 1:31:46Speaker 2: All right, cool.
- 1:31:47Speaker 13: That's what she says. I want what the people have
- 1:31:50Speaker 13: beside us. That's what the man did. He put in
- 1:31:52Speaker 13: the order. He bought the order out. She said, this
- 1:31:55Speaker 13: doesn't look like what they have beside us. The steak
- 1:31:58Speaker 13: isn't as.
- 1:31:58Speaker 2: Big as their steak.
- 1:32:02Speaker 13: I don't eat too much steak, but I feel like
- 1:32:04Speaker 13: skirt steaks are all one size because that's what it is. Or,
- 1:32:08Speaker 13: you know, they might be different. But you know what
- 1:32:10Speaker 13: I'm saying? Like, it's not going to be identical.
- 1:32:12Speaker 2: She complained.
- 1:32:13Speaker 13: She told the man this is not what she wanted.
- 1:32:15Speaker 13: They got into a back and forth argument. She called
- 1:32:18Speaker 13: the manager over to the table. Now her and the
- 1:32:20Speaker 13: manager are going at it. The server, like the bartender
- 1:32:23Speaker 13: is trying to talk to her. She said, don't talk
- 1:32:25Speaker 13: to me. Now, mind you, this is a place that
- 1:32:29Speaker 13: I go often. This is a place that I frequent
- 1:32:31Speaker 13: because I enjoy this place. I go to the bar
- 1:32:33Speaker 13: so much. So now it's like you're a reflection of
- 1:32:35Speaker 13: me at this point.
- 1:32:36Speaker 1: All right. So cool.
- 1:32:38Speaker 2: She complains.
- 1:32:40Speaker 1: The manager is like, I'll give you guys free drinks.
- 1:32:42Speaker 13: He gave us free drinks, and he gave us, I think,
- 1:32:45Speaker 13: like a free dessert, a dessert that I didn't ask for. Like,
- 1:32:48Speaker 13: I didn't want it. Like, this is on her. Like,
- 1:32:50Speaker 13: she's complaining at this point.
- 1:32:52Speaker 2: All right, cool.
- 1:32:53Speaker 1: So the night is over.
- 1:32:54Speaker 4: The bartender who always talks to.
- 1:33:00Speaker 13: Me is not talking to me at this point. So
- 1:33:02Speaker 13: when I go to the bathroom, I have a moment
- 1:33:04Speaker 13: with him, and I apologize for her behavior. um, because
- 1:33:07Speaker 13: I was embarrassed, I'm still so embarrassed, if you see
- 1:33:10Speaker 13: this video, again, I'm still so embarrassed, um, I, I
- 1:33:13Speaker 13: hated how she treated you, I hated how the night went, um,
- 1:33:17Speaker 13: and it, it just makes it even worse, because this
- 1:33:19Speaker 13: is a person who I have to see every single
- 1:33:21Speaker 13: day at work, I will.
- 1:33:22Speaker 1: Never be taking her out on a date again, and
- 1:33:24Speaker 1: I'm just, Yeah, I'm just going to end here.
- 1:33:26Speaker 2: It was terrible. A bad experience. Story time about.
- 1:33:29Speaker 4: How a guy I was dating was playing in my
- 1:33:31Speaker 4: face and I got the iPad out for receipts.
- 1:33:33Speaker 2: Okay, backstory.
- 1:33:33Speaker 4: This guy and I have known each other in person
- 1:33:35Speaker 4: because we went to college together and he would always
- 1:33:38Speaker 4: see me on campus.
- 1:33:39Speaker 1: He was a year above me.
- 1:33:40Speaker 2: Okay, he would always see me on campus.
- 1:33:41Speaker 4: We had each other on Instagram and he has allegedly
- 1:33:43Speaker 4: asked me out on a couple of dates and I dumped.
- 1:33:45Speaker 2: Every single one of them according to him.
- 1:33:47Speaker 4: I personally don't remember this, but when I was in college,
- 1:33:49Speaker 4: I used to focus. So he's basically always hitting me
- 1:33:51Speaker 4: up and nothing came.
- 1:33:51Speaker 1: Out of it.
- 1:33:52Speaker 2: Anyway, fast forward to, I think last.
- 1:33:54Speaker 4: Month he started hitting me up again because as you
- 1:33:56Speaker 4: guys know, I told the internet I'm single. So I
- 1:33:58Speaker 4: guess the guy was like, okay, like this is my
- 1:33:59Speaker 4: chance to shine. He basically had DM me and was like, okay,
- 1:34:02Speaker 4: can I take you.
- 1:34:02Speaker 2: Out on a date? Like you have had me waiting
- 1:34:04Speaker 2: for like two, three years.
- 1:34:05Speaker 1: I was bored. So I'm like, okay, let me let
- 1:34:07Speaker 1: this guy take me.
- 1:34:07Speaker 2: Out on a date. I'm still young.
- 1:34:08Speaker 1: I still want to have fun and I don't have
- 1:34:10Speaker 1: a problem with him. Like he's attractive. So guys, I
- 1:34:12Speaker 1: had to go get my.
- 1:34:12Speaker 4: Hair done because I was doing content for a page
- 1:34:14Speaker 4: and I told him like, I don't know if I'm
- 1:34:15Speaker 4: going to be back, but he was like literally waiting
- 1:34:17Speaker 4: on me. He was like, okay, if you come back
- 1:34:18Speaker 4: in time, like I still want to take you out
- 1:34:19Speaker 4: on a date. I'm giving him points because as soon
- 1:34:21Speaker 4: as I got back home, he was not stressing me out.
- 1:34:23Speaker 4: He was like, okay, I'm going to send you a car.
- 1:34:24Speaker 4: He sent me a car to pick me up from
- 1:34:26Speaker 4: my house all the way to the end of the city,
- 1:34:28Speaker 4: which is where our date was. I also felt a
- 1:34:29Speaker 4: little bad because I showed up late to the date, obviously,
- 1:34:31Speaker 4: because I had my hair done.
- 1:34:32Speaker 2: I had to come home.
- 1:34:32Speaker 4: I had to shower, do my makeup. And the kitchen
- 1:34:34Speaker 4: for the restaurant closed at 9. I got to the
- 1:34:36Speaker 4: restaurant at 9.15. He was so sweet though and everything
- 1:34:39Speaker 4: went fine. We sat at the bar and we just talked.
- 1:34:41Speaker 4: And when I tell you guys, our conversation was so good.
- 1:34:43Speaker 4: Like I was not even expecting to like this guy,
- 1:34:45Speaker 4: but just because we were talking and vibing and I
- 1:34:47Speaker 4: got to know so much about him, like it was great.
- 1:34:49Speaker 1: I also need to mention that he was very well off.
- 1:34:52Speaker 4: He works in the hospital and he has a very
- 1:34:53Speaker 4: high paying job, but not only does he do that,
- 1:34:55Speaker 4: he also owns a business that is very lucrative. So
- 1:34:58Speaker 4: we were vibing and everything went well. And after that spot,
- 1:35:00Speaker 4: I wanted to go to another spot because I'm like,
- 1:35:01Speaker 4: the date is great. But I also had not eaten
- 1:35:02Speaker 4: anything the whole day because like I said, I was
- 1:35:04Speaker 4: out doing content. I rushed home and then I had.
- 1:35:06Speaker 2: To get ready for the date.
- 1:35:07Speaker 4: So we go from Manhattan and he drove to our date.
- 1:35:08Speaker 4: So he ends up driving us from that restaurant in
- 1:35:10Speaker 4: Manhattan to Queens. Now, if you guys don't know, Queens
- 1:35:13Speaker 4: has a lot of nice lounges and I wanted to
- 1:35:15Speaker 4: kind of relax and vibe.
- 1:35:17Speaker 1: I didn't want to go anywhere too crazy.
- 1:35:18Speaker 4: And we had already just come from rush. So we
- 1:35:20Speaker 4: end up going to this lounge in Queens. He wanted
- 1:35:22Speaker 4: to go to one spot, but it ended up closing.
- 1:35:24Speaker 4: So we went to this other spot and neither of
- 1:35:26Speaker 4: us happened to. It was a really classy spot. And
- 1:35:27Speaker 4: as soon as we got there, like they literally sat
- 1:35:29Speaker 4: us in a private section. So it was literally me
- 1:35:31Speaker 4: and him in this private section by ourselves. A couple
- 1:35:34Speaker 4: other points that I gave him for the date was
- 1:35:35Speaker 4: like he was spending.
- 1:35:36Speaker 2: So the drinks that we.
- 1:35:37Speaker 4: Had gotten in the Manhattan bar, like I looked at
- 1:35:38Speaker 4: the check and like he spent money on them. Then
- 1:35:41Speaker 4: when we got to this next spot, it was basically like, okay,
- 1:35:43Speaker 4: like order whatever you want. Like they even came and
- 1:35:45Speaker 4: it was asking us if we wanted deluxe specials for
- 1:35:47Speaker 4: certain stuff. And he was like, well, if it's better,
- 1:35:48Speaker 4: just give that to us. So we literally like ordered.
- 1:35:50Speaker 2: Whatever we want.
- 1:35:52Speaker 1: He wasn't worried.
- 1:35:52Speaker 2: And then the conversation here was also really good.
- 1:35:54Speaker 4: Yeah, when I would tell you, I went home and
- 1:35:56Speaker 4: I told my homegirls, like, that was, like, one of
- 1:35:57Speaker 4: the best first dates I've ever been on. And I
- 1:35:59Speaker 4: was like, okay, like, I didn't like this guy before, but, like,
- 1:36:01Speaker 4: just because that date was so good, let me just
- 1:36:03Speaker 4: give him a chance. I'm going to text him and
- 1:36:04Speaker 4: just see where this goes. So we would text every day.
- 1:36:06Speaker 4: He would call me here and there, but as usual,
- 1:36:08Speaker 4: the reason why I tell people I don't date is
- 1:36:10Speaker 4: because I feel like I'm in a place in my
- 1:36:11Speaker 4: life where men usually get upset at me because I'm
- 1:36:13Speaker 4: not as clingy. I don't want to talk all day.
- 1:36:15Speaker 4: I have things to do, and I just can't see
- 1:36:17Speaker 4: you all the time. So he would want to ask
- 1:36:18Speaker 4: me out on dates from here and there. And I
- 1:36:20Speaker 4: just had things to do. I also didn't text him
- 1:36:21Speaker 4: that much. So one time he texted me, I'm going
- 1:36:23Speaker 4: to pull out the receipts. And he was like, I
- 1:36:24Speaker 4: feel like you're not effing with me no more. I said,
- 1:36:27Speaker 4: says the guy that don't text because we don't be texting.
- 1:36:29Speaker 4: So I don't be thinking anything of it. He goes,
- 1:36:31Speaker 4: I worked last night. I was sleeping in the day,
- 1:36:33Speaker 4: but you've been texting me differently.
- 1:36:34Speaker 1: The vibe is off. Let me know when you got
- 1:36:36Speaker 1: time to talk.
- 1:36:37Speaker 2: Whatever.
- 1:36:37Speaker 4: So as you know, I told him I'm on the
- 1:36:39Speaker 4: phone with my sister and I'll call you before I
- 1:36:40Speaker 4: go to bed. Like I wasn't worried about really speaking
- 1:36:42Speaker 4: to him because look, you're not about to press me.
- 1:36:44Speaker 1: And I don't have a problem with you. Why you
- 1:36:45Speaker 1: got a problem with me?
- 1:36:46Speaker 4: Time goes on we're texting here and there and he's
- 1:36:48Speaker 4: trying to plan a date with me and like i
- 1:36:50Speaker 4: said i'm always very very busy so i'm like okay
- 1:36:52Speaker 4: like whatever like after a while i'm like.
- 1:36:53Speaker 1: Okay let me go on another date with this guy
- 1:36:55Speaker 1: i don't want him.
- 1:36:55Speaker 4: To think like i'm a complete b-i-t-c-h so he wanted
- 1:36:58Speaker 4: to go to this place called frames in new york
- 1:37:00Speaker 4: city which is like a popular bowling place the thing
- 1:37:02Speaker 4: that i did not like about this one specific date
- 1:37:04Speaker 4: and we were on the phone when we spoke about
- 1:37:05Speaker 4: it he wanted to go at like 11 p.m and
- 1:37:08Speaker 4: the only reason i agreed to it was one i
- 1:37:09Speaker 4: had mad content and things to do during the day
- 1:37:11Speaker 4: And two, he works like, like I said, he has
- 1:37:13Speaker 4: a job at a hospital.
- 1:37:14Speaker 2: He also owns a business.
- 1:37:15Speaker 1: So he had gotten out of work late that day
- 1:37:17Speaker 1: and he also.
- 1:37:18Speaker 4: Wanted to go to the gym. And I didn't want
- 1:37:19Speaker 4: to stop him from going to the gym because I
- 1:37:21Speaker 4: knew that he canceled going on the gym for our
- 1:37:23Speaker 4: first date. And I'm not the type of person to
- 1:37:24Speaker 4: stop people from their motion.
- 1:37:25Speaker 2: All right.
- 1:37:26Speaker 4: Like again, he sends me a car for our date,
- 1:37:28Speaker 4: but this time the communication was kind of bad because
- 1:37:30Speaker 4: I told him I'm going to be ready by 10.
- 1:37:32Speaker 4: He literally was not texting me back. So I'm like, okay,
- 1:37:34Speaker 4: like it's day canceled. He goes, oh, I was waiting
- 1:37:36Speaker 4: for you to be ready. I told you I was
- 1:37:37Speaker 4: going to be ready by 10. So what was you
- 1:37:38Speaker 4: waiting for?
- 1:37:39Speaker 1: Like text me, call me, whatever.
- 1:37:40Speaker 4: So once the car gets to my house, I literally
- 1:37:42Speaker 4: call him because I want to see like, I know
- 1:37:44Speaker 4: that I look closer to the city than he does.
- 1:37:47Speaker 1: Anyway, I call him when I'm getting in my car.
- 1:37:48Speaker 1: Why I hear this man, he's still in his house.
- 1:37:50Speaker 4: So in my head, the math isn't math enough because
- 1:37:52Speaker 4: you take longer to get there.
- 1:37:54Speaker 1: So if you're still in your house and I'm on
- 1:37:55Speaker 1: my way, that means I'm going to get.
- 1:37:56Speaker 2: There before you. I'm already annoyed.
- 1:37:58Speaker 4: But the thing that really annoyed me about that was
- 1:38:00Speaker 4: when I called him and I was listening to this guy,
- 1:38:02Speaker 4: he was eating. so now i'm confused because we're about
- 1:38:04Speaker 4: to go on a date what are you eating why
- 1:38:05Speaker 4: are you chewing on phone why haven't you left the
- 1:38:06Speaker 4: house i'm like what's going on he's like oh like
- 1:38:08Speaker 4: i'm just eating some pizza i'm tight because he just
- 1:38:10Speaker 4: came from the gym you're not even eating something healthy
- 1:38:12Speaker 4: so i'm like okay like he's eating pizza we're supposed
- 1:38:13Speaker 4: to go on a date he's gonna be full like
- 1:38:14Speaker 4: i'm just annoyed he's getting there late i end up
- 1:38:16Speaker 4: getting to the bowling place mind you we planned this
- 1:38:18Speaker 4: date really late so we didn't even have reservations so
- 1:38:20Speaker 4: that was another reason that it got me upset that
- 1:38:22Speaker 4: he was showing up late because we needed to get
- 1:38:24Speaker 4: there on time to see if we can get it
- 1:38:25Speaker 4: out guys i get to frames and i'm literally sitting
- 1:38:27Speaker 4: there at the bar by myself waiting for this man
- 1:38:29Speaker 4: and if anybody knows me.
- 1:38:30Speaker 1: Y'all know I do not like to wait on people.
- 1:38:32Speaker 2: I'm not a patient person. That's one thing I'm praying
- 1:38:34Speaker 2: to God to help me with.
- 1:38:35Speaker 4: So the fact that he kept asking to go out
- 1:38:36Speaker 4: on another date and I gave him the chance and
- 1:38:38Speaker 4: he showed up.
- 1:38:39Speaker 2: Late, that was pissing me off.
- 1:38:40Speaker 1: He gets to the date and he's apologetic.
- 1:38:42Speaker 4: But then after a while, he's like, oh, like, I
- 1:38:44Speaker 4: don't know why you're upset or like why your vibe
- 1:38:45Speaker 4: is off.
- 1:38:45Speaker 2: I already said I'm sorry. Excuse me, sir.
- 1:38:47Speaker 4: So I'm like, well, you know, you still messed up
- 1:38:49Speaker 4: on the date. Like, obviously, you said you're sorry. I
- 1:38:51Speaker 4: accept your apology.
- 1:38:52Speaker 1: But I'm still not in the best mood.
- 1:38:53Speaker 4: This man then goes to try and manipulate me, talking about, oh,
- 1:38:56Speaker 4: I'm living in the past. then we go into a
- 1:38:57Speaker 4: whole argument because i really was telling him like i'm
- 1:38:59Speaker 4: a whole psychiatric nurse you're never gonna manipulate me out
- 1:39:01Speaker 4: of my feeling what you did was wrong i'm going
- 1:39:03Speaker 4: to move on from it but don't sit here and
- 1:39:05Speaker 4: act like oh i said sorry and all is forgiven
- 1:39:07Speaker 4: anyways we there we're just sitting at the bar all
- 1:39:09Speaker 4: the lanes is closed i can't even get a bowling
- 1:39:10Speaker 4: thing i'm upset because now i'm wearing a really cute
- 1:39:12Speaker 4: outfit that i wasted on this day i'm like okay
- 1:39:14Speaker 4: whatever then i'm telling him like i'm hungry but he's
- 1:39:16Speaker 4: not making moves for us to go get food why
- 1:39:18Speaker 4: is he doing that obviously because he ate the pizza
- 1:39:20Speaker 4: before he came to.
- 1:39:20Speaker 1: See me whatever so eventually we're like okay i'm like
- 1:39:22Speaker 1: okay i want to go.
- 1:39:23Speaker 4: And the other reason why i was really really upset
- 1:39:26Speaker 4: y'all he sees this it's whatever the other reason i
- 1:39:28Speaker 4: was really upset was because some other guy wanted to
- 1:39:31Speaker 4: take me out and i'm not even gonna lie i
- 1:39:32Speaker 4: prefer hanging out with that guy and i'm like okay
- 1:39:34Speaker 4: like let me not be mean because this guy has
- 1:39:36Speaker 4: been trying to take me out on a date so
- 1:39:38Speaker 4: i canceled on that guy to come on this date
- 1:39:41Speaker 4: whole time i'm sitting.
- 1:39:41Speaker 1: There by myself and i was even more.
- 1:39:43Speaker 4: Upset because that guy i canceled on was basically like
- 1:39:45Speaker 4: oh like have fun on your date like i wish
- 1:39:46Speaker 4: i was with you instead like blah blah blah like
- 1:39:48Speaker 4: he was just saying nice things to me and i
- 1:39:49Speaker 4: was like man i just i just picked the wrong
- 1:39:51Speaker 4: guy tonight anyway so i was hungry we end up
- 1:39:53Speaker 4: leaving and i'm like yo like i need to leave
- 1:39:55Speaker 4: because at this point he came to the date i'm
- 1:39:57Speaker 4: hangry i'm annoyed i need to eat we end up
- 1:39:59Speaker 4: just picking up some food in the city and we
- 1:40:00Speaker 4: eat in the car it was fine i got home
- 1:40:02Speaker 4: but i was just annoyed because the other guy like
- 1:40:03Speaker 4: i know i would have had such a better time
- 1:40:05Speaker 4: hanging out with that guy anyway that's not this is
- 1:40:07Speaker 4: not even the bad parts of the story i'm just
- 1:40:09Speaker 4: giving y'all the back to you let me bring the
- 1:40:11Speaker 4: ipad back out so basically we were texting texting and
- 1:40:14Speaker 4: then randomly one day he's like oh like i'm gonna
- 1:40:16Speaker 4: go to santorini greece and i'm like okay like whatever
- 1:40:18Speaker 4: last minute trip like i get that because i'm the
- 1:40:20Speaker 4: type of person to take a last minute trip but
- 1:40:21Speaker 4: he was like oh like my boys wanted to go
- 1:40:23Speaker 4: and i was just sure if i wanted to go
- 1:40:24Speaker 4: so i'm just gonna pick up and go i'm like
- 1:40:25Speaker 4: okay fine whatever i have to have fun so before
- 1:40:27Speaker 4: he goes on the trip he texted me like i'm
- 1:40:29Speaker 4: not liking your energy you get me tight You said
- 1:40:31Speaker 4: you had work this week. Come to Seattle with me
- 1:40:33Speaker 4: because he's going to Seattle. Ain't nobody want to go
- 1:40:35Speaker 4: to Seattle. Seattle is rainy and cold. So the reason
- 1:40:37Speaker 4: he was saying that was because he just picked up
- 1:40:38Speaker 4: and went on a trip and he knows like as
- 1:40:40Speaker 4: a nurse, I have mad time to go on a trip.
- 1:40:41Speaker 2: I'm like, OK, like whatever. I was like, I was.
- 1:40:43Speaker 4: Just chatting and he was just like saying he was
- 1:40:45Speaker 4: tight at me because like he wanted me to go
- 1:40:47Speaker 4: to Seattle. I don't want to go to Seattle. You're
- 1:40:48Speaker 4: literally in San Serenity, Greece. Why are you bringing up
- 1:40:50Speaker 4: Seattle to me? Not that I was going to go
- 1:40:51Speaker 4: on that trip regardless, but it was just annoying to me. Anyway,
- 1:40:54Speaker 4: fast forward, you guys know like I'm minding my business
- 1:40:56Speaker 4: because I keep saying I don't really care about this
- 1:40:58Speaker 4: man because I'm not in a place to want to
- 1:40:59Speaker 4: be in a relationship.
- 1:41:00Speaker 2: So he's posting on his trip. Okay, whatever.
- 1:41:02Speaker 1: We don't talk for a couple of days.
- 1:41:03Speaker 2: I don't care.
- 1:41:03Speaker 4: Like I keep saying, but then I'm realizing he's posting
- 1:41:06Speaker 4: on his trip and everything he's posting is just videos
- 1:41:09Speaker 4: and pictures of himself.
- 1:41:10Speaker 1: Now I know I'm pretty, but I ain't dumb.
- 1:41:12Speaker 4: I'm like nah if he's on a boy's trip you
- 1:41:14Speaker 4: know how guys are first of all i don't even
- 1:41:15Speaker 4: like men that have social media which is one of
- 1:41:17Speaker 4: the reasons i really really didn't even like him but
- 1:41:19Speaker 4: if you're on a boy's trip i know how boys
- 1:41:20Speaker 4: be y'all be posted up with each other so i'm
- 1:41:22Speaker 4: confrontational and i literally text him and i go you
- 1:41:26Speaker 4: on a trip with a b-i-t-c-h or something yo y'all
- 1:41:29Speaker 4: i'm mad at a serious because i really just texted
- 1:41:31Speaker 4: i didn't care i'm like okay let me ask him
- 1:41:32Speaker 4: straight up why this man gonna text me i'm with
- 1:41:35Speaker 4: my ex and three other friends y'all This man literally
- 1:41:40Speaker 4: is in St.
- 1:41:41Speaker 2: Sirene, Greece with his ex-girlfriend.
- 1:41:43Speaker 4: Mind you, he's in that place with his ex-girlfriend while
- 1:41:46Speaker 4: he's been trying to talk to me, getting upset that
- 1:41:47Speaker 4: I don't have time to go on dates, getting upset
- 1:41:49Speaker 4: that I don't be texting him, I don't be communicating,
- 1:41:51Speaker 4: we don't talk. Whole time he on a trip with
- 1:41:53Speaker 4: his ex. Like, you see why I do what I
- 1:41:54Speaker 4: want to do regardless? And I tell you, I texted
- 1:41:56Speaker 4: him back. I was like, Ella Mae O because I
- 1:41:58Speaker 4: actually thought it was so funny. I was literally at
- 1:41:59Speaker 4: the gym when I saw that message and I was
- 1:42:01Speaker 4: showing everybody my text messages. it was really so funny
- 1:42:03Speaker 4: to me because this guy really was gonna try and
- 1:42:05Speaker 4: play on my face and it's like yo.
- 1:42:06Speaker 1: I didn't even care enough you really he really could
- 1:42:08Speaker 1: have told me he was.
- 1:42:08Speaker 4: Gonna triple his ex and i would not have cared
- 1:42:10Speaker 4: he did not have to lie to me long story
- 1:42:12Speaker 4: short and he did a whole bunch of other stuff
- 1:42:13Speaker 4: but i don't want to make this so long the
- 1:42:14Speaker 4: long story short i just i'm following him on instagram
- 1:42:16Speaker 4: and i'm just like you know to the loop he
- 1:42:17Speaker 4: was annoying me anyway so i'm so happy he did
- 1:42:19Speaker 4: this so i have a reason to let go of
- 1:42:20Speaker 4: him without feeling bad and that's the story time about
- 1:42:23Speaker 4: how men are horrible Story time on.
- 1:42:25Speaker 9: My worst first date ever, and let me be the
- 1:42:28Speaker 9: lesson to you. Women out there, do not go on
- 1:42:30Speaker 9: a date with a man who has been begging in
- 1:42:33Speaker 9: your DMs for months, years, couple weeks. If that man
- 1:42:37Speaker 9: has been on the hunt for months, don't go on
- 1:42:40Speaker 9: a date with him. I really feel like he's just like,
- 1:42:42Speaker 9: because when you finally accept it, it's like, oh.
- 1:42:44Speaker 1: Oh, but you didn't want me a couple months ago.
- 1:42:47Speaker 2: You didn't want me a year ago. Oh, but I'm
- 1:42:48Speaker 2: going to show you.
- 1:42:49Speaker 9: And it's the worst day ever. It's happened to me twice.
- 1:42:52Speaker 9: So let's just get into the story.
- 1:42:53Speaker 1: Of what happened. Okay, so this happened about, it doesn't.
- 1:42:56Speaker 2: Really matter what happened.
- 1:42:57Speaker 1: I think it happened about almost a year ago at
- 1:42:58Speaker 1: this point.
- 1:42:59Speaker 9: But this story, I got reminded of it because he
- 1:43:01Speaker 9: started liking my Instagram story a couple days ago.
- 1:43:05Speaker 1: Bitch, you owe me money.
- 1:43:07Speaker 9: We're gonna get into let me stop spoiling the story
- 1:43:08Speaker 9: time but let's just get into the story time right
- 1:43:10Speaker 9: so okay.
- 1:43:11Speaker 1: He dns me or i don't i.
- 1:43:12Speaker 9: Can't remember if he got me off a hinge or
- 1:43:14Speaker 9: i'm not on i'm not on dating apps anymore but
- 1:43:17Speaker 9: i can't remember if he got me off a hinge
- 1:43:18Speaker 9: or whatever but he's we're messaging back and forth we're
- 1:43:21Speaker 9: just gonna get straight until when the date happened so.
- 1:43:23Speaker 1: Going this day right he's texting me like because it
- 1:43:26Speaker 1: got rescheduled maybe like two times.
- 1:43:28Speaker 9: Or whatever one time with my father second time i
- 1:43:30Speaker 9: don't really remember but uh.
- 1:43:32Speaker 1: So First day, finally first day, we get to this
- 1:43:35Speaker 1: first day, right?
- 1:43:36Speaker 2: He told me.
- 1:43:38Speaker 1: We're going to a museum, and then we're going to
- 1:43:42Speaker 1: go to dinner after, and then.
- 1:43:43Speaker 2: That was it, right?
- 1:43:44Speaker 9: Mind you, I live in Cincinnati, Ohio. People who live
- 1:43:47Speaker 9: in Cincinnati, guess where we went? We went to the
- 1:43:50Speaker 9: 21C museum slash hotel. If anyone in Cincinnati knows, that
- 1:43:55Speaker 9: is not a museum. It's a hotel that has one
- 1:43:59Speaker 9: floor of museum art decor in it, so... didn't know
- 1:44:03Speaker 9: that at the time because i'm just a little bit
- 1:44:04Speaker 9: slow so we um i get there and i'm like
- 1:44:07Speaker 9: this is not a museum so then we walk through
- 1:44:10Speaker 9: there and i'm kind of annoyed because i don't really
- 1:44:12Speaker 9: want to go on a museum date on the first
- 1:44:14Speaker 9: day because it's just like you don't really know the
- 1:44:15Speaker 9: person you don't really know the vibes like you joke
- 1:44:16Speaker 9: about stuff it's just like you're just walking through a
- 1:44:19Speaker 9: gallery with somebody you don't know so after that after
- 1:44:22Speaker 9: about like 20 minutes of walking through i was like
- 1:44:24Speaker 9: can we go to the restaurant that we're gonna go
- 1:44:26Speaker 9: to um oh my gosh i forgot let's rewind let's
- 1:44:29Speaker 9: before the day he was like 30 minutes late so
- 1:44:31Speaker 9: i get in my car i'm there i park my car.
- 1:44:33Speaker 1: Or whatever and i don't i don't.
- 1:44:34Speaker 9: Ever like really going inside of places before the person
- 1:44:37Speaker 9: gets there so i'm.
- 1:44:38Speaker 1: Just in my car and i was like are you
- 1:44:40Speaker 1: here and he was.
- 1:44:40Speaker 9: Like some um he was like i'm parking now and
- 1:44:44Speaker 9: i was like okay man it was like this day
- 1:44:45Speaker 9: was on like a wednesday thursday It's not.
- 1:44:49Speaker 2: Bitch, we're downtown.
- 1:44:50Speaker 1: It's not.
- 1:44:50Speaker 9: You can find a parking spot downtown. It's not a Friday,
- 1:44:53Speaker 9: Saturday night, right? So, it's like, he's parking for like
- 1:44:55Speaker 9: 30 minutes.
- 1:44:55Speaker 2: And he was like, um.
- 1:44:57Speaker 9: Like, 15 minutes later after he told me he's parking,
- 1:44:59Speaker 9: he texted me like, I'm in a parking.
- 1:45:00Speaker 2: Lot right now.
- 1:45:01Speaker 1: And I was just like, okay. And he was like,
- 1:45:03Speaker 1: are you inside? And I was like, no, I'm sitting
- 1:45:05Speaker 1: in my car. So, now I finally see him walking.
- 1:45:07Speaker 2: Into the, um... Into the building.
- 1:45:08Speaker 1: So, that's when I get inside. So, let's get back
- 1:45:10Speaker 1: to it.
- 1:45:11Speaker 2: So, we're back. Um... We left the... We left the hotel.
- 1:45:14Speaker 1: Don't ever take me to no hotel. If we're... Oh
- 1:45:18Speaker 1: my gosh. Anyways, let's, so yeah, we, the restaurant, everything
- 1:45:22Speaker 1: was like.
- 1:45:22Speaker 9: Relatively close to each other within like a five minute walk.
- 1:45:24Speaker 9: So we walked to this restaurant.
- 1:45:26Speaker 1: Poorly planned.
- 1:45:27Speaker 2: We get to the restaurant, guess what?
- 1:45:28Speaker 1: It's closed. It's fucking closed.
- 1:45:30Speaker 2: So I was like, okay.
- 1:45:33Speaker 1: I just, I don't know, y'all.
- 1:45:34Speaker 4: I be having to see it through sometimes. So, we
- 1:45:36Speaker 4: walk past one of, like, my favorite bars downtown. It's,
- 1:45:39Speaker 4: I think it's called Righteous Room. I can't remember how
- 1:45:41Speaker 4: it's in my favorite bar, but I can't remember the
- 1:45:42Speaker 4: name of it. I know what it looks like, but
- 1:45:44Speaker 4: we get to the bar or whatever, right? And so,
- 1:45:47Speaker 4: I go inside. Mind you, the doorman's not out there
- 1:45:49Speaker 4: at first because it's a Wednesday, Thursday. He doesn't need
- 1:45:51Speaker 4: to be sitting out there the whole time.
- 1:45:52Speaker 2: So, I sit at the bar.
- 1:45:52Speaker 1: Mind you, it's, like, me and him, and then it's.
- 1:45:54Speaker 2: Like, one other.
- 1:45:56Speaker 1: It's barely anybody in there. So, bartender immediately comes up
- 1:45:58Speaker 1: to us, and then the doorman ends up coming out, like.
- 1:46:00Speaker 9: Oh, can I see y'all IDs real quick? mind you
- 1:46:02Speaker 9: i have my id because again i'm an adult so
- 1:46:05Speaker 9: i might do right he's like looking like like he's
- 1:46:09Speaker 9: like um i think my id is in my car
- 1:46:11Speaker 9: so now i was just.
- 1:46:11Speaker 1: Like oh my gosh like so.
- 1:46:13Speaker 9: Then he's like i'm gonna go get your flowers out
- 1:46:15Speaker 9: the car and i'm gonna go get my id out
- 1:46:16Speaker 9: the car and i was like okay so now i'm
- 1:46:18Speaker 9: sitting at the bar and um mind you we were
- 1:46:20Speaker 9: in the bar for less than a minute and then
- 1:46:22Speaker 9: he's like the barman as like the bartender he's like
- 1:46:25Speaker 9: i get a vodka soda this was this is important
- 1:46:28Speaker 9: this is important to the story right so i end
- 1:46:30Speaker 9: up getting a um drink and i just he was
- 1:46:32Speaker 9: like are you gonna keep an open tab and i
- 1:46:34Speaker 9: was like yeah because i thought we were gonna be
- 1:46:35Speaker 9: like chilling here for a minute he was like okay
- 1:46:36Speaker 9: i just need a card for.
- 1:46:37Speaker 1: It i was like i'm gonna give you my card
- 1:46:39Speaker 1: i'm not paying for this this is just so.
- 1:46:41Speaker 9: You can hold it because i wanted i was getting
- 1:46:42Speaker 9: kind of irritated i'm like i need a drink before
- 1:46:44Speaker 9: before he comes back so i get a drink right
- 1:46:46Speaker 9: he takes my card he's like yeah i'm not gonna
- 1:46:47Speaker 9: i'm not gonna run your car right everywhere Very important.
- 1:46:50Speaker 9: So after that, he comes back. He's like, I don't
- 1:46:53Speaker 9: have my ID. And then he has this big bouquet
- 1:46:56Speaker 9: of flowers.
- 1:46:57Speaker 1: I'm going to put it in here. It was a
- 1:46:58Speaker 1: really nice bouquet of flowers. So it was like, I think. Anyways,
- 1:47:02Speaker 1: they ended up just letting him stay in the bar. Right.
- 1:47:04Speaker 2: Because we were both old enough to be in the bar.
- 1:47:06Speaker 1: So he. so we're at the bar, I get, like,
- 1:47:09Speaker 1: we maybe got, like, oh, yeah, and before, before he came.
- 1:47:12Speaker 9: Back inside, I told the bartender, I was, like, yeah,
- 1:47:14Speaker 9: it's not, um, it's not really good, and he was, like, yeah,
- 1:47:16Speaker 9: I could tell, and my dude, the barman, the, I
- 1:47:18Speaker 9: keep saying the barman, the bartender, he wasn't trying to
- 1:47:20Speaker 9: talk to me, he was just being nice, he was, like, yeah,
- 1:47:21Speaker 9: he seemed weird, how are you already giving out weird
- 1:47:24Speaker 9: ass to people who have met you, seen you for
- 1:47:26Speaker 9: less than a total of 60 second interaction, so let's
- 1:47:30Speaker 9: just fast forward, we get about a couple rounds of
- 1:47:32Speaker 9: drinks or whatever, like, he's, cool or no actually he
- 1:47:36Speaker 9: wasn't cool we're like talking about like regular stuff i
- 1:47:38Speaker 9: don't know how we ended up getting into politics on
- 1:47:41Speaker 9: a first date this was before the election and everything
- 1:47:43Speaker 9: so we're getting into politics and he's like he's i
- 1:47:46Speaker 9: don't remember how we got into it but it got to.
- 1:47:48Speaker 1: The point to where i found out.
- 1:47:49Speaker 9: This man was like trump supporter mind you he's black
- 1:47:51Speaker 9: he's not this is not a white man this is
- 1:47:53Speaker 9: a young black man he's like maybe like the same
- 1:47:56Speaker 9: age as me so um we were kind of going
- 1:47:59Speaker 9: back and forth about that, because I'm like, not as weird, like,
- 1:48:01Speaker 9: that's actually very strange, so then we're, like, going back
- 1:48:04Speaker 9: and forth, eventually, they closed out, right, and he's like,
- 1:48:07Speaker 9: I was like, okay, like, they're like, you ready to, um,
- 1:48:09Speaker 9: y'all ready to close, and he's like, yeah, I was like, okay,
- 1:48:11Speaker 9: so then they, the bartender, because I was talking to
- 1:48:13Speaker 9: the bar, it was, like, kind of becoming, like, a
- 1:48:15Speaker 9: three people conversation, like the bartender, him and then me.
- 1:48:17Speaker 9: So he was like running my car, my credit card.
- 1:48:20Speaker 9: And then he was like, he like realized right. And
- 1:48:21Speaker 9: he was like, oh my gosh, I'm so sorry.
- 1:48:23Speaker 1: And then, um, I was like, it's cool. I was like,
- 1:48:25Speaker 1: you can just Apple pay me. Like you can just
- 1:48:26Speaker 1: Apple pay me, whatever.
- 1:48:28Speaker 9: And then, long story short, I ended up leaving the date, um,
- 1:48:32Speaker 9: cause I'd never planned on seeing this man again, but
- 1:48:34Speaker 9: I was like, are you gonna, man, this bill, it
- 1:48:36Speaker 9: wasn't expensive, it was for like a couple drinks, but
- 1:48:38Speaker 9: it was like $ 75, which like, I didn't plan on
- 1:48:42Speaker 9: paying for, so I was like, hey, can you not
- 1:48:44Speaker 9: pay me? Never, he was like, ignored the message that
- 1:48:46Speaker 9: whole night, then the next day he texted me like,
- 1:48:48Speaker 9: can I just give it to you in cash? I, like,
- 1:48:51Speaker 9: knew at this point I wasn't gonna get all my money,
- 1:48:52Speaker 9: so I was like, yeah, and I was like, can
- 1:48:54Speaker 9: I come get it today, because, man, dude, this was
- 1:48:55Speaker 9: my credit card, I don't use my credit card, and
- 1:48:57Speaker 9: my credit card bill was due that day, so I
- 1:48:58Speaker 9: was like, I want the money back, so then.
- 1:49:00Speaker 1: He's like, um, he's like, yeah, I don't get off
- 1:49:02Speaker 1: work until, like, nine o'clock, but I was like, I
- 1:49:05Speaker 1: can come get it, so then he, um, basically gave
- 1:49:07Speaker 1: me the runaround, um.
- 1:49:09Speaker 9: Long story short, he was just trying to gaslight me once, like,
- 1:49:11Speaker 9: it was, like, a couple days later, and I was like,
- 1:49:12Speaker 9: can you send me my money, he was like.
- 1:49:13Speaker 1: So, I'm gonna send it to you, but what you
- 1:49:16Speaker 1: gotta be acting all weird for, mind you, I wasn't
- 1:49:19Speaker 1: doing anything, I was not doing anything but ask him
- 1:49:23Speaker 1: to give me my money back. And then he, long
- 1:49:25Speaker 1: story short, he did not give it back to me.
- 1:49:27Speaker 1: I went on a trip to New York like a
- 1:49:28Speaker 1: week later.
- 1:49:29Speaker 9: He texted me like a week the day I got
- 1:49:32Speaker 9: back from New York, like, hope you enjoyed your trip.
- 1:49:34Speaker 1: Like, the money's been sitting in my mailbox the whole
- 1:49:37Speaker 1: time you've been on your trip.
- 1:49:38Speaker 2: I don't believe him.
- 1:49:40Speaker 1: And I wasn't going to go to his house and, oh, yeah.
- 1:49:43Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, yeah.
- 1:49:44Speaker 2: So I texted him.
- 1:49:45Speaker 9: I was like, is it still in there now? Because imagine,
- 1:49:46Speaker 9: he lived, like, maybe five, six minutes away from me.
- 1:49:49Speaker 9: So I was like, is it still there now? And
- 1:49:50Speaker 9: I was like, if I don't get a response in, like,
- 1:49:51Speaker 9: the next five minutes, I'm just going to not respond.
- 1:49:53Speaker 9: And then he, um, I was like, if I don't
- 1:49:55Speaker 9: get a response, like, in the next few minutes, I'm
- 1:49:57Speaker 9: just going to block you. And I didn't get a response,
- 1:49:59Speaker 9: so I blocked his number. He makes a text mail
- 1:50:02Speaker 9: number to text me.
- 1:50:04Speaker 2: He was like, man, um.
- 1:50:05Speaker 9: He was like, I really shouldn't even have to pay
- 1:50:07Speaker 9: for the day because the flowers I bought you were
- 1:50:09Speaker 9: more expensive than the day, blah, blah, blah.
- 1:50:11Speaker 1: Just say you didn't have the money.
- 1:50:13Speaker 2: Just say that.
- 1:50:14Speaker 1: Why do we have to do this whole little runaround
- 1:50:16Speaker 1: about $ 75?
- 1:50:17Speaker 2: Mind you, I made nail tech. I didn't need the
- 1:50:20Speaker 2: money that bad.
- 1:50:20Speaker 1: I make that from one client. So, monster, sure you
- 1:50:23Speaker 1: didn't give me the money. And, yeah, that's pretty much,
- 1:50:25Speaker 1: that's the whole story.
- 1:50:27Speaker 9: But, yeah, don't go on dates with people who you
- 1:50:29Speaker 9: don't like just doing it for the plot. Never do
- 1:50:32Speaker 9: anything for the plot because the plot just be some,
- 1:50:34Speaker 9: there'll be some bullshit, honestly.
- 1:50:35Speaker 1: But, yeah, I'm going to attach, you know what I'm saying?
- 1:50:38Speaker 1: I was going to put an Instagram in here to
- 1:50:39Speaker 1: be messy, but I don't know.
- 1:50:41Speaker 2: I don't want to do it. Shit, I might do it.
- 1:50:45Speaker 1: Just give me a couple comments and tell me to
- 1:50:46Speaker 1: do it.
- 1:50:47Speaker 2: Shit, I might.
- 1:50:49Speaker 12: Y'all, so this is a quick little story time because
- 1:50:54Speaker 12: I'm still baffled. I had to sleep on it a
- 1:50:56Speaker 12: little bit before I come on here and tell y'all
- 1:50:58Speaker 12: about it. But let's get into it. So I went
- 1:51:01Speaker 12: on this date, right?
- 1:51:04Speaker 2: Went on a date.
- 1:51:05Speaker 12: Normally, dating within my age group, A lot of men
- 1:51:11Speaker 12: don't do dates.
- 1:51:11Speaker 1: So y'all ought to know that this guy was a
- 1:51:13Speaker 1: little bit older.
- 1:51:15Speaker 2: He wasn't too much older than me.
- 1:51:17Speaker 1: He's like maybe a little bit under 10 years.
- 1:51:20Speaker 2: Older than me.
- 1:51:21Speaker 3: Right about 8, about 7, 8, maybe 9 years older
- 1:51:24Speaker 3: than me.
- 1:51:25Speaker 12: Anyway though, he was a nice handsome guy. He was
- 1:51:28Speaker 12: sweet and he asked me out on a date. So
- 1:51:29Speaker 12: I said yes. So we ended up going on a date.
- 1:51:33Speaker 12: So y'all, as we are on this date, we get
- 1:51:36Speaker 12: to talking about dogs. I don't know how the conversation
- 1:51:39Speaker 12: led to us talking about animals, but he ended up
- 1:51:43Speaker 12: showing me a picture of his dog, right?
- 1:51:45Speaker 1: I personally don't.
- 1:51:46Speaker 14: Have a dog, but I live with one. My sister
- 1:51:48Speaker 14: has a dog. And so I was talking about my
- 1:51:52Speaker 14: dog nephew, the book. So, yeah, he was telling me
- 1:51:55Speaker 14: about his dog. So keep in mind, y'all, I'm drinking
- 1:51:59Speaker 14: wine at the table. As I'm drinking wine, y'all, I'm
- 1:52:03Speaker 14: getting tipsy. Every sip I take, I'm getting more and
- 1:52:06Speaker 14: more tipsy.
- 1:52:07Speaker 2: Tell me, y'all.
- 1:52:08Speaker 12: We still talking about dogs at the table. As I'm
- 1:52:11Speaker 12: getting tipsy, my intrusive thoughts won, y'all.
- 1:52:13Speaker 2: Oh, my God. Don't judge me. I don't want to
- 1:52:16Speaker 2: hear it. Don't judge me.
- 1:52:17Speaker 12: So, y'all, my intrusive thought was to bark at the
- 1:52:21Speaker 12: table like a goddamn dog, and that's what I did.
- 1:52:24Speaker 12: And I didn't do just no any bark. I didn't do, like,
- 1:52:27Speaker 12: no little, I did.
- 1:52:29Speaker 2: A, at the table.
- 1:52:32Speaker 1: So, y'all, I'm sitting at the table flabbergasted.
- 1:52:35Speaker 14: Meanwhile, my date is, like, the fuck y'all tell me
- 1:52:40Speaker 14: why he just went hell no hell no oh hell
- 1:52:44Speaker 14: no hell no i'm over here confused because i'm like
- 1:52:48Speaker 14: i know i just had an outburst or whatever but
- 1:52:50Speaker 14: why he just going hell no hell no and not
- 1:52:52Speaker 14: saying that like why you just keep on just saying
- 1:52:54Speaker 14: hell no.
- 1:52:55Speaker 2: Like i.
- 1:52:57Speaker 12: Apologize i'm over here trying to explain myself i apologize
- 1:53:00Speaker 12: for my outburst but why are you saying hell no
- 1:53:03Speaker 12: sir y'all tell me why He said, I'm glad you
- 1:53:09Speaker 12: had the outburst.
- 1:53:10Speaker 2: I know a nigga's voice when I hear it.
- 1:53:12Speaker 12: Y'all, I immediately went, no, no, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
- 1:53:17Speaker 6: No, no, no, no.
- 1:53:18Speaker 2: I'm still trying to explain to him.
- 1:53:19Speaker 1: I'm like, no, sir.
- 1:53:20Speaker 2: I'm not a dude, sir. Wait, wait, wait.
- 1:53:23Speaker 14: Yeah, when I say that man was not trying to
- 1:53:26Speaker 14: hear it at all. He was not trying to hear nothing.
- 1:53:29Speaker 14: I was trying to say he was not trying to
- 1:53:31Speaker 14: hear me out whatsoever.
- 1:53:33Speaker 2: So, y'all, I'm over here.
- 1:53:34Speaker 12: Still trying to explain myself i don't offer to show
- 1:53:37Speaker 12: him my id i don't offer to show him a
- 1:53:39Speaker 12: baby picture of me he still was not like no
- 1:53:44Speaker 12: he was like no so moral of the story ladies
- 1:53:52Speaker 12: if you go on a date make sure you are
- 1:53:54Speaker 12: in your feminine era okay because any indication of masculinity they're.
- 1:54:02Speaker 1: Gonna swear up and down your transgender.
- 1:54:05Speaker 14: Story time on how this guy, Ovi Mikey, this this
- 1:54:10Speaker 14: guy right here, flew me to Miami just to leave
- 1:54:14Speaker 14: me with a thousand dollar bill at this restaurant. And
- 1:54:17Speaker 14: then he ditched me and I was staying over his house.
- 1:54:20Speaker 14: So I had nowhere to go and I was stranded.
- 1:54:23Speaker 14: So me and this guy met on TikTok years ago.
- 1:54:26Speaker 14: Like we've been just cool on TikTok. You know, we
- 1:54:28Speaker 14: will FaceTime each other or whatever, flirt with each other.
- 1:54:31Speaker 14: and all that good shit, and I always.
- 1:54:33Speaker 1: Be like, when am I gonna see you, when am
- 1:54:34Speaker 1: I gonna see you, when am I.
- 1:54:35Speaker 14: Gonna see you, so literally last month, I decided to
- 1:54:38Speaker 14: go see him, and he decided that he wanted to
- 1:54:40Speaker 14: see me, and he was like, okay, cool, like, I'm
- 1:54:42Speaker 14: gonna make sure you got your plane ticket, I'm gonna
- 1:54:45Speaker 14: get everything together, you could just stay at my house,
- 1:54:47Speaker 14: and we can just go on dates, and I'm like, okay, cool, bet,
- 1:54:50Speaker 14: just to give y'all some evidence, this is us on FaceTime,
- 1:54:53Speaker 14: so we've known each other for years, right now, he
- 1:54:55Speaker 14: has lots, so this is This is, oh, so, you know, like,
- 1:55:00Speaker 14: I thought we.
- 1:55:00Speaker 1: Were locked in.
- 1:55:01Speaker 14: But anyways, so I got to the airport, you know,
- 1:55:04Speaker 14: I'm in Miami. He comes to pick me up. Everything's cool. Like,
- 1:55:07Speaker 14: he's happy to see me. I'm happy to see him.
- 1:55:10Speaker 14: And we go to his house, you know, we chill
- 1:55:13Speaker 14: and all that good stuff. he fooled the fuck out
- 1:55:16Speaker 14: of me, because everything was good, like, I, yeah, I
- 1:55:19Speaker 14: never thought this man was in love with me, like,
- 1:55:21Speaker 14: we were vibing, we were cuddling, and all that, like,
- 1:55:23Speaker 14: I was very comfortable, and we had, went to a
- 1:55:26Speaker 14: couple places, just to, like, get me used to Miami,
- 1:55:29Speaker 14: because he was like, oh, well, if we become serious, like,
- 1:55:32Speaker 14: I want you to move in with me, like, I
- 1:55:34Speaker 14: want you to live with me, so I'm like, okay, like,
- 1:55:36Speaker 14: I just found.
- 1:55:36Speaker 1: Me a little shitty, he was taking me to meet his.
- 1:55:39Speaker 14: Friends, like, I was around his homeboys, I'm like, you know, like,
- 1:55:44Speaker 14: he really likes me, like, this is lit, because over
- 1:55:48Speaker 14: the phone, like, we knew we liked each other, but
- 1:55:50Speaker 14: we didn't know how much we would like each other
- 1:55:51Speaker 14: in person, because, of course, it's our first time meeting,
- 1:55:54Speaker 14: and we've been kind of doing, like, this long distance
- 1:55:56Speaker 14: flirting for.
- 1:55:57Speaker 1: A couple years now, so, I don't know how it's.
- 1:56:00Speaker 14: Gonna be, but, over the phone we was cool but
- 1:56:03Speaker 14: in person i really thought i thought my fucking soulmate
- 1:56:06Speaker 14: like he would say certain shit like y'all this my
- 1:56:09Speaker 14: wife this my future wife and i'm over here cheesing
- 1:56:11Speaker 14: and thinking shit cool so i only stayed in miami
- 1:56:14Speaker 14: for two days because.
- 1:56:15Speaker 1: I have a kid and i'm not gonna be away from.
- 1:56:17Speaker 14: My kid that long but on the second day he
- 1:56:20Speaker 14: was like dressed up really nice i'm gonna take you
- 1:56:22Speaker 14: out to a nice restaurant so i'm like okay cool
- 1:56:24Speaker 14: bet so i'm about to show you the restaurant So
- 1:56:27Speaker 14: this is the restaurant called Gazelle Miami.
- 1:56:29Speaker 2: 10 out of 10 would recommend.
- 1:56:30Speaker 1: Like, the food was amazing.
- 1:56:32Speaker 2: So I'm not going to lie.
- 1:56:33Speaker 14: The prices at the restaurant was a little pricey. But
- 1:56:37Speaker 14: the nigga said he had money. He sold car, got money.
- 1:56:40Speaker 14: So he was like, do whatever you want. Eat whatever
- 1:56:42Speaker 14: you want, do whatever you want.
- 1:56:43Speaker 2: So guess what I did? Got whatever the fuck I wanted.
- 1:56:46Speaker 1: Mm-hmm.
- 1:56:47Speaker 2: So this is the menu. I had got the Antonio,
- 1:56:50Speaker 2: how do I say that?
- 1:56:51Speaker 14: Antonio Siberian five-star caviar, the four-ounce, which.
- 1:56:56Speaker 2: Is $ 600. So I'm doing my big one.
- 1:56:58Speaker 14: I'm like, okay, well, he got money, so I'm going
- 1:57:00Speaker 14: to get whatever I want. And then he got something
- 1:57:03Speaker 14: off of the Fine Things menu as well.
- 1:57:05Speaker 2: So everything with.
- 1:57:06Speaker 14: Gratuity wound up coming up to almost $ 1, 000. It was
- 1:57:09Speaker 14: like $ 900 and stuff.
- 1:57:10Speaker 2: I don't remember.
- 1:57:11Speaker 1: I should have took a picture of the receipt, but
- 1:57:13Speaker 1: I didn't like it. Dumbass.
- 1:57:15Speaker 14: So everything's going good like we still talking we got
- 1:57:18Speaker 14: our food we eating and then like the more and
- 1:57:20Speaker 14: more we were talking he just started being quiet we're
- 1:57:23Speaker 14: super quiet and i'm like are.
- 1:57:24Speaker 1: You good like are you fine.
- 1:57:26Speaker 9: Like i'm just trying to like make the mood a
- 1:57:29Speaker 9: little more comfortable because it started to get real awkward
- 1:57:31Speaker 9: and uncomfortable and he's.
- 1:57:32Speaker 2: Like yeah i'm fine like i'm cool.
- 1:57:34Speaker 14: Like i'm straight he said it just like that i'm
- 1:57:37Speaker 14: straight and i'm like And meanwhile, he kept looking at
- 1:57:40Speaker 14: his phone. So I'm like, okay, did his brother, one
- 1:57:42Speaker 14: of his brothers piss him off? Like, what's up? So
- 1:57:46Speaker 14: next thing I know, he's like, oh, I ought to
- 1:57:48Speaker 14: go to the bathroom real quick. Mind you, we basically don't.
- 1:57:51Speaker 2: Even for real.
- 1:57:51Speaker 1: So I'm like, okay, cool.
- 1:57:53Speaker 2: Part two of the next week, I'm tired. Part two
- 1:57:56Speaker 2: of how.
- 1:57:56Speaker 14: He flew me to Miami left me stranded with a
- 1:57:58Speaker 14: thousand other girls. So after he goes to the bathroom,
- 1:58:02Speaker 14: I'm just chilling. Like, I'm still violent. I'm thinking everything's cool.
- 1:58:06Speaker 2: Like, I'm like, maybe he just had to go shit
- 1:58:07Speaker 2: or something. That's why he was, like, acting like an ass.
- 1:58:10Speaker 2: Two minutes go by. I'm like, okay, cool. I'm going
- 1:58:12Speaker 2: to give it to four minutes.
- 1:58:14Speaker 14: Four minutes go by, so this is what I texted him.
- 1:58:17Speaker 14: After four minutes, I said, hey, you out the bathroom?
- 1:58:19Speaker 14: You've been in there for a while.
- 1:58:21Speaker 2: You okay?
- 1:58:22Speaker 14: The waiter keeps coming back and forth to the table.
- 1:58:24Speaker 14: He's talking about, give me a minute. Like I said,
- 1:58:26Speaker 14: he went to the bathroom when we were done eating, so...
- 1:58:29Speaker 14: the waiters they were kind of like paying attention to
- 1:58:31Speaker 14: us and stuff like that so once they seen he
- 1:58:33Speaker 14: was gone they kind of like when a waiter just
- 1:58:35Speaker 14: like making sure ain't nothing suspicious going on so they
- 1:58:38Speaker 14: started walking like back and forth acting like they were
- 1:58:40Speaker 14: like cleaning up stuff and i'm like okay well you
- 1:58:42Speaker 14: just want to come back so six minutes go by
- 1:58:45Speaker 14: and i said bro where are you hello i know
- 1:58:48Speaker 14: you did not just leave me this bill is almost
- 1:58:50Speaker 14: a thousand dollars i don't have shit on me and
- 1:58:52Speaker 14: he's talking about finding a way back to michigan so
- 1:58:54Speaker 14: i'm gonna just address some shit too first of all
- 1:58:58Speaker 14: I didn't come to Florida with no money. I had money.
- 1:59:02Speaker 14: What had happened was I had two purses. One purse
- 1:59:06Speaker 14: I grabbed and I just brought my credit card. I
- 1:59:09Speaker 14: didn't think to bring my debit card, which is the
- 1:59:10Speaker 14: majority of my money.
- 1:59:11Speaker 1: And my credit card.
- 1:59:12Speaker 2: Has a certain limit, right? But yeah, keep that in mind.
- 1:59:15Speaker 1: So this is when the bill comes.
- 1:59:19Speaker 14: And this is when I said that he made a
- 1:59:21Speaker 14: video showing this.
- 1:59:25Speaker 2: So at that point, I didn't know what to do.
- 1:59:27Speaker 14: Like, um, freaking out panicking because it's just like damn
- 1:59:30Speaker 14: you gonna leave me with the bill and then on
- 1:59:33Speaker 14: top of the bill your portions who like y'all y'all
- 1:59:37Speaker 14: keep saying well you should have never got caviar he
- 1:59:40Speaker 14: made it seem like i was okay to get anything
- 1:59:43Speaker 14: y'all making it seem like this is just a stranger
- 1:59:45Speaker 14: no i've been knowing this guy for about almost five
- 1:59:48Speaker 14: years you get what i'm saying so I'm thinking like, okay, cool.
- 1:59:52Speaker 14: Like we know each other on a level where I'm
- 1:59:55Speaker 14: okay to order some caviar.
- 1:59:56Speaker 1: And I do like caviar. First of all, y'all make
- 1:59:58Speaker 1: it seem like I don't order caviar. Yes, I do
- 2:00:00Speaker 1: order caviar.
- 2:00:01Speaker 14: And then y'all expect me to know that he left
- 2:00:04Speaker 14: me because he's seen some text messages. I'm finding out
- 2:00:06Speaker 14: just like y'all. I'm thinking, damn, was it really the
- 2:00:08Speaker 14: caviar for real? I thought we was in Miami trying
- 2:00:11Speaker 14: to turn it.
- 2:00:12Speaker 1: Up another notch, but I guess not.
- 2:00:13Speaker 2: Let's make this clear.
- 2:00:16Speaker 14: Mikey was talking to other females too. You think I'm
- 2:00:19Speaker 14: really finna be loyal or we finna be loyal to
- 2:00:21Speaker 14: each other and we have not even seen each other?
- 2:00:23Speaker 14: We both knew that we were dating other people. So
- 2:00:26Speaker 14: let's get that. correct I responded dry I said hello
- 2:00:31Speaker 14: I'll be home soon and I'm thinking we having such
- 2:00:34Speaker 14: a good vibe and we connecting to a certain point
- 2:00:36Speaker 14: that I'm like okay when I get home I'm gonna
- 2:00:39Speaker 14: tell this guy I don't want to be with him
- 2:00:40Speaker 14: I don't want to talk to him I think I
- 2:00:42Speaker 14: really want to take Mikey serious because that was the
- 2:00:44Speaker 14: whole plan of me even coming to Florida just to
- 2:00:47Speaker 14: see if we wanted to you know go further I
- 2:00:50Speaker 14: didn't lie about meeting his homeboys I didn't lie about
- 2:00:53Speaker 14: none of that he was playing around and calling me
- 2:00:55Speaker 14: his wife and future wife and it gets like lying
- 2:00:59Speaker 14: lies lies lies like he said in the videos lies
- 2:01:01Speaker 14: lies lies no you're a liar and then he was
- 2:01:05Speaker 14: talking about i was basically trying to use him for
- 2:01:06Speaker 14: his money.
- 2:01:08Speaker 2: In the beginning of the video.
- 2:01:09Speaker 14: I've literally told you how much i liked him thought
- 2:01:12Speaker 14: he was my soulmate the nigga had money so i
- 2:01:14Speaker 14: didn't think that caviar would be anything that would make
- 2:01:18Speaker 14: him stop talking to me and the caviar wasn't even
- 2:01:20Speaker 14: a fucking problem apparently we didn't do a round trip
- 2:01:23Speaker 14: because i'm like okay well if i like it here
- 2:01:26Speaker 14: i'm gonna just stay an extra day and we can
- 2:01:27Speaker 14: just get the plane ticket the day of you get
- 2:01:30Speaker 14: what I'm saying and then I didn't even want to
- 2:01:32Speaker 14: tell him my debit card was with my clothes because
- 2:01:34Speaker 14: I don't know what the fuck this nigga gonna do
- 2:01:36Speaker 14: now he might just do something grimy so I'm not
- 2:01:38Speaker 14: even trying to tell him I got the money it's
- 2:01:41Speaker 14: just I can't get I can't get it because I
- 2:01:43Speaker 14: don't even know the exact address because he's been driving
- 2:01:46Speaker 14: us around I never really like paid attention I should
- 2:01:49Speaker 14: have I'm not gonna lie I should have so basically
- 2:01:52Speaker 14: I called him multiple times I'm panicking they looking at
- 2:01:55Speaker 14: me crazy like oh I think he left you know
- 2:01:57Speaker 14: like you need to come out that money come come
- 2:02:00Speaker 14: out come out the coins so i had to call
- 2:02:03Speaker 14: my parents i had to call my sisters and they
- 2:02:06Speaker 14: gave me enough money to you know pay the stuff
- 2:02:10Speaker 14: and y'all i had on a dress and heels so
- 2:02:14Speaker 14: i literally had to go to the fucking airport with
- 2:02:16Speaker 14: nothing and a dress and some damn heels looking crazy
- 2:02:21Speaker 14: and y'all are not girls girls at all like i
- 2:02:23Speaker 14: cannot believe this shit What did Sheriff 7 even teach y'all?
- 2:02:26Speaker 14: I don't get how y'all be, oh, Sheriff 7 didn't
- 2:02:28Speaker 14: be in pick me's, pick me's, pick me's.
- 2:02:30Speaker 1: Like, the story not even how y'all really, really think
- 2:02:32Speaker 1: it went.
- 2:02:33Speaker 2: So, be for real.
- 2:02:34Speaker 14: And honestly, if he wanted to take me to the
- 2:02:35Speaker 14: damn Cheesecake Factory, I would have been fine with that.
- 2:02:38Speaker 2: I would have been most definitely fine with that.
- 2:02:40Speaker 1: He took me fine dining, and that's what the fuck
- 2:02:42Speaker 1: I did.
- 2:02:42Speaker 2: Fine dined.
- 2:02:44Speaker 14: And it's not like I was broke. I could have
- 2:02:45Speaker 14: paid for it. But the nigga left me stranded with nothing.
- 2:02:49Speaker 14: He could have at least brought my clothes or something
- 2:02:51Speaker 14: to the restaurant.
- 2:02:52Speaker 1: I could have took the debit card out of my purse.
- 2:02:53Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. So yeah, don't do that.
- 2:02:56Speaker 1: Anyways, this is the last part.
- 2:02:57Speaker 14: I'm not, no, I'm not even making a part three,
- 2:02:59Speaker 14: but there I go.
- 2:03:00Speaker 8: Okay.