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A REAL Narcissist Reacts to "You’re Dating A Narcissist!" Movie Trailer · The Mental Healness Podcast

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  So yeah, they finally made a movie about us, about
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  narcissists, about not even diagnosed narcissists,
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  narcissists in general. Narcissism has literally hit the
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  mainstream. Marissa Tomei is out here
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  playing a psychologist narc hunter in the new film You're
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  Dating a Narcissist. He's got Marissa Tomei, SB
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  Sherry Cola, Marco Pagosi right in this movie.
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  And Marissa Tomei, like I said, is playing a psychologist.
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  She's calling people narcs and flying across the country to
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  stop a wedding her with her daughter.
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  Her daughter falls for a possible narcissist.
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  And Marissa Tomei is a psychologist that teaches about
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  narcissism. Go watch the trailer of it.
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  She says you think they're womanizers?
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  They're they're this, they're that players.
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  They're really narcissists and as someone is diagnosed with
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  NPD, narcissistic personality disorder, I actually got it.
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  Intrigued. I'm gonna go watch the movie and
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  let y'all really know what I think.
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  But just from the trailer, like I got some thoughts on it.
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  Like is she actually spotting a monster?
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  Is she actually spotting A narcissist?
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  Or bear with me here, is she the toxic mother-in-law from hell?
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  Like, seriously, is she the toxic mother-in-law from hell?
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  Yeah. I say if you go watch the
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  trailer, I can't play the trailer here because it'll it'll
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  get it marked up. But if you go search for the
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  trailer, it looks like this. This is Marissa Tomei and her
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  friend. Like, they Marissa Tomei's
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  daughter calls her and tells her mom, I just got engaged after
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  six weeks of knowing this guy. Six weeks, 6-6 weeks.
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  And the woman right here to the right, the the young lady plays
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  her daughter and she's like, I just got engaged to this
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  wonderful guy after six weeks. And Marissa Tomei is like, hey,
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  this is love bombing. My daughter is being love bombed
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  by a narcissist, right? So let's go.
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  Let's keep it clear. Let's keep it hot and ready.
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  Everyone is using the narc label.
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  The NARC. Everybody's a narcissist.
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  You're a narcissist. I'm a narcissist.
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  Everybody's a narcissist, right? Everybody's using it in 2026.
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  But notice how she herself is diagnosing the groom as a
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  narcissist before she even meets him.
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  Like she doesn't know this person.
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  She just said, hey, look, my my daughter got love bombed and
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  she's dealing with a narcissist. Like doesn't say anything,
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  doesn't know the doesn't know the person, doesn't know
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  anything about him. His mom.
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  We're engaged. It's been 6 weeks and now is
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  that. Yeah, yeah.
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  Is that, is that red flaggy? Yes, that's a red flag.
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  Like that's a red red flag on both sides of it.
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  Marisa Tomei like literally is spotting the red flag about the
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  the fiance being a narcissist, but also her diagnosing him as a
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  narcissist before even getting a chance to meet him, talk to him
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  or anything. It's also red flaggy at the same
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  time, right? Because you you got to think
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  about it like this. Sometimes the experts are just
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  obsessed with control and power with the people that they study.
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  So sometimes you get narcissist that are psychologist.
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  Sometimes you get narcissist that are therapist, that are
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  life coaches, that are counselors that are in positions
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  of power that are running countries, right.
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  You get that right there. Now you get it right there.
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  But if you look at the preview, of course, like the preview
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  owner shows a couple minutes, the daughter describes her
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  husband as a an amazed, her fiance as an amazing man.
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  We're soul mates after six weeks, right?
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  And I'm just like she said, he's perfect, He's amazing.
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  After six weeks, he's a doctor. He's charming.
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  He's this, he's that. Soon as.
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  Yeah. Soon as I hear the word
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  charming, my red flag radar goes off.
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  I'm gonna keep it high and ready with you.
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  Soon as I hear the word charming in today's culture, in today's
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  world, I think the red flags are flying right there.
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  Like 100% the red flags are flying.
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  The red flags are flagging everywhere.
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  And that's just the way it goes right there, right?
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  So you just see, you see it like that.
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  Charm, charm, charm, charm, you know what I mean?
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  But like, if you look at the groom, like I said, he has
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  everything going for him. Like they're in the love bombing
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  phase. Of course, this is the honeymoon
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  phase of a relationship. Like you got engaged after six
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  weeks to your soul mate. You just met this person and
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  this is already a soul mate. Y'all haven't met each other's
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  families, You haven't done anything like that, but you're
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  engaged and getting married after six weeks.
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  What? What?
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  What movie did that remind y'all of?
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  If you said Frozen, you'd be correct, right?
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  Except Frozen was a very, very condensed timeline.
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  They didn't get engaged, like Anna didn't get engaged to
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  Prince Hans of the Southern Isles after six weeks.
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  It was like probably after like a couple hours, right?
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  Like, I want to see the movie to see if the discard phase
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  happens, to see if he starts pulling back or pulling away and
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  whatnot. Because if he doesn't have a
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  breakdown when she questions him, he might just be a nice guy
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  with a, with a medical degree, right.
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  But Marissa Tomei becomes she's a psychologist, remember?
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  And she's the mom of the bride to be.
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  And she becomes obsessed. She literally becomes obsessed
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  with her daughter's fiance. She starts following him,
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  stalking him, watching where he goes.
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  Like it starts to get to the point where it looks like
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  Marissa is the narcissist in the preview.
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  It's like borderline because like she's like nobody's good
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  enough to marry my daughter, which I can understand from a
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  parent perspective, right? Nobody's good enough to marry my
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  daughter. And I'm a psychologist, so I
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  know all about narcissist, but sometimes the people in power is
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  very difficult to for them to, you know, narcissist can't don't
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  lack the ability to introspect or look inside, right?
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  So if you lack the ability to be to be introspective and look
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  inside, that's what happens right there.
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  You see what I'm saying? If you lack that ability, this
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  is what you're going to go up against.
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  This is what you're going to fight against and whatnot.
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  So you have to be kind of prepared for this type of stuff
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  to happen. You have to be, you have to be
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  prepared. Like you can't look inside.
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  Like you also look deeper in the preview of the movie, right?
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  It just like, does the fiance, does the bride, does the groom
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  give off major red flags of being narcissistic?
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  Yeah, absolutely. He he really does.
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  It's just like, you see it like he's just bravado, right?
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  You see all this type of stuff right there.
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  Like it's kind of like manosphere type of stuff.
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  If this guy is following the script to land a wife, Marissa
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  Tomez character is going to have a hard time proving it.
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  It's a disorder and not just a trend.
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  You know, you can like when you're dealing and a lot of
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  y'all can understand this. If you're dealing with a family
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  member or a friend that's in a toxic relationship, it can be
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  very difficult to try to pull that person out of it, right?
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  Because that person typically is going to be setting their ways
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  to the point where you don't like I said, you don't know what
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  to expect like they're not going to listen to you.
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  They're going to be stuck in the love bombing face.
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  So no matter what, you know, no matter what you think, you know,
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  they don't really have to see what's going on.
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  And also you look in the preview of the you, if you look in the
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  preview of it, like if you take a look right here.
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  Give me a SEC. Yeah, I'm gonna pull it up for
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  you right here. I'm gonna try to pull up the
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  preview a little bit so I can and whatnot.
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  If you look in the preview right here like.
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  You call them players, call them womanizers, but what we're
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  really dealing with are narcissists.
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  You hear say right there what we're really dealing with are
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  actual narcissists. And this is on imdb.com right
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  here. What we're dealing with is
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  actual narcissist. But you look at the end of the
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  preview, right? Marissa I.
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  Can't watch this happen actually.
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  So like catalog moms? Like my God.
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  Why isn't anybody listening to me?
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  She's your daughter, let her live her life.
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  There's plenty of warm hearted romantic.
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  Soul out there she ends up meeting the man and it seems
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  like that Marissa is going to end up falling for somebody
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  because she's so consumed with her daughter's relationship and
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  nobody listening to her about the fiance being a narcissist
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  that she's going to get blindsided in the movie right
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  that's my prediction right there like she's going to get
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  blindsided and by a narcissist herself.
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  She's either like Marissa Tobey is either going to be be
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  revealed to be the vulnerable narcissist who doesn't know
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  she's a narcissist, or she's going to fall for that man that
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  I saw in the preview that is actually a narcissist and then
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  end up her daughter's going to help her get out of it, right?
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  She's going to realize that she's wrong or whatever, and her
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  daughter is going to help her get out of it and stuff like
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  that. And that's what goes on right
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  there. That's my thoughts on it right
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  there. Y'all.
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  That's my, that's my prediction of what's going to happen in the
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  movie. Like I said, I was excited to
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  see like Marissa Tomei. It's a Hollywood movie.
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  You're dating a narcissist. It comes out March 27th.
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  And am I going to watch it? Yeah, I'm going to watch the
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  movie and give a full breakdown about the movie, give my turbo
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  tape. I I, I don't necessarily do
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  movie reviews on this channel on mental illness, but if y'all
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  want to see like my full breakdown after I go watch the
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  movie, you have to follow my other channel, right?
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  I have another channel. It's called terrible takes me
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  and my me and my twin brother and I have a twin brother who's
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  not a narcissist. We started a YouTube channel
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  called TurboTax 4 where we do movie reviews, song reviews, all
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  kinds of stuff like that. It's called TurboTax.
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  You find it at TurboTax 4, whatever is on, on the screen
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  over on YouTube and watch us breakdown movies and stuff like
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  that. I do a lot of I do a lot of like
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  narcissist movie reviews as well.
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  I've done The Lion King and the Manosphere breakdown and stuff
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  like that. So follow Terrible Takes 4 if
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  you want to see more of this type of stuff 'cause I'm
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  actually going to go to see the movie.
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  You know, like I said, it looks like it's going to be a pretty
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  decent movie. Like my prediction, like I said
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  that Marissa Tomay is going to end up falling in love with a
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  narcissistic man and herself and get blindsided and or she's
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  going to be revealed to be a narcissist.
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  Because sometimes narcissist become obsessed with other
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  people and become obsessed with control, controlling the
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  narrative. Like you are not good enough for
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  my baby. Typically you see it with a
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  narcissistic mother with her son, but this right here is a
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  kind of a different play on it. It's a narcissist possible, a
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  possibly a narcissistic psychologist that is a mother
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  that is obsessed with her daughter's relationship and it's
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  going to be put under the guise of I'm just trying to protect my
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  daughter. I'm just trying to protect my
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  baby. I'm just trying to do this.
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  I'm just trying to do that. So I think that's what going to
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  be part of it right there. That's my thoughts on it, y'all.
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  I like to say leave your thoughts in the comments section
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  of what goes on or what you think it's going to be.
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  Are you going to go see this movie?
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  Because I am like I said. Also don't forget to please
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  follow Terrible Takes 4 for my movie reviews, stuff like that.
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  My brother does sports and stuff like that.
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  He's also going to do some movie reviews and whatnot as well.
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  Just hit that subscribe button on both channels and I am out.
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  Peace.