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the identity comes AFTER · Beauty In Positivity

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  SPEAKER_00: Hello and welcome back to the Beauty and Positivity Podcast.
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  SPEAKER_00: My name is Alyssa Skinner, and today's episode is going to be very short.
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  SPEAKER_00: I want to give you a little piece of advice.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when you are wanting something, you want to become a new version of yourself, or you want a new job, you want something in your life to change, you want to achieve your dream life, you want a better relationship, you want a better relationship with money, whatever it is.
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  SPEAKER_00: Do not wait to feel ready.
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  SPEAKER_00: A lot of times we wait for ourselves to feel like the identity to take the action, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: You will never feel ready before the action.
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  SPEAKER_00: Ready is a feeling that follows the decision.
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  SPEAKER_00: Not the other way around.
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  SPEAKER_00: Ready does not come before the decision.
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  SPEAKER_00: Ready does not come before the action.
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  SPEAKER_00: You spend your life waiting for this identity of being ready, of being strong enough, of being smart enough, of being more stable, whatever it is.
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  SPEAKER_00: But to become that identity, you have to take the action.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because only after you do that do you become the identity.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: If you want to be someone who is fearless, you have to do something that instills fear in you.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when you do that thing, you walk out of that experience as a new identity.
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  SPEAKER_00: I am fearless.
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  SPEAKER_00: I do things with courage.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're not courageous before you do something that scares you.
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  SPEAKER_00: You are courageous after you do the thing.
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  SPEAKER_00: You are not married before you take the action of getting married.
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  SPEAKER_00: So whatever it is that you want, know that the version of you that you want to be only exists on the other side of doing it.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if you need confidence and to feel like you have that rock of support going after whatever it is that you want, go listen to my last episode because when you ask, it is always given.
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  SPEAKER_00: So that was very short.
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  SPEAKER_00: I just wanted to send this to you and listen to it every single morning because, like I've said in previous episodes, we forget.
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  SPEAKER_00: We fall right back into autopilot, we go right back into fear, we go right back into logic, and that is not the way to your dream life.
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  SPEAKER_00: Every successful person who has ever written a book on their success took the action and walked out of in the identity that they desired to be.
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  SPEAKER_00: Only after you do the thing do you become her.
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  SPEAKER_00: So listen to this every single morning and get fired up.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm sending you so much love and success.
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  SPEAKER_00: Bye.