Latest / Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad / We are the Aunts
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becka, Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
- 0:04Speaker 1: and two times People's Choice Award winning podcasts. Hello everybody,
- 0:13Speaker 1: we are scrubbing in.
- 0:16Speaker 2: Nah.
- 0:17Speaker 3: Wow, what an exciting, fun filled, exciting weekend.
- 0:21Speaker 1: It's exciting so many times times.
- 0:23Speaker 3: Too happy for twenty two. Oh thank you, You're welcome.
- 0:27Speaker 1: It's so thoughtful.
- 0:29Speaker 4: Do you bring me anything?
- 0:30Speaker 5: I did not.
- 0:32Speaker 3: I figured you had what you need. Actually, I was
- 0:35Speaker 3: just celebrate.
- 0:36Speaker 1: The other day. We were dabbling in some gardening and
- 0:39Speaker 1: I went to get I was like, which one.
- 0:41Speaker 4: Do you want?
- 0:42Speaker 1: And I went and we so many because we don't
- 0:46Speaker 1: do it so often where it's like every night, you know,
- 0:49Speaker 1: so whenever there's a sale at the place that we
- 0:52Speaker 1: go get them, we just stalk up because it We're
- 0:54Speaker 1: like why not?
- 0:55Speaker 4: And then I was.
- 0:56Speaker 1: Going through and I'm like, man, if someone came and
- 0:58Speaker 1: looked at this collection, it would be a little but
- 1:03Speaker 1: have no fear.
- 1:03Speaker 4: We just to have options.
- 1:05Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, so thanks so much.
- 1:07Speaker 3: Enjoy if you partake blaze it up.
- 1:11Speaker 1: My dream is to is to do it with Tanya,
- 1:14Speaker 1: but you won't do it with me.
- 1:15Speaker 5: I will do it before your bacherette party.
- 1:18Speaker 6: Wow, because I.
- 1:20Speaker 3: Will I'll do it for you, my bachelor, but I
- 1:23Speaker 3: feel like doing it then for the first time might
- 1:26Speaker 3: be problematic for many reasons. So one time prior, I
- 1:30Speaker 3: think would be.
- 1:31Speaker 4: We gotta find the one that you like that you know.
- 1:34Speaker 1: Yeah, it just sounds Oh my gosh, that'd be the greatest.
- 1:40Speaker 7: Happy wedding shows up with a giant bond.
- 1:43Speaker 1: Well that's the thing. I don't smoke because I tried
- 1:45Speaker 1: to smoke one time and I nearly coughed to death.
- 1:48Speaker 1: So I have not I don't smoke. I only will
- 1:52Speaker 1: do the gummies. And and like when I say we
- 1:55Speaker 1: do gummies, we do like the smallest amount.
- 1:57Speaker 4: It sounds.
- 1:59Speaker 1: I'm people have this perception of us or me that
- 2:02Speaker 1: they're like Beckage just high all the time.
- 2:04Speaker 5: I have that perception Becca's just getting high every night.
- 2:09Speaker 4: No, not every night, not every night.
- 2:11Speaker 1: Mostly it would be like when if you want to
- 2:13Speaker 1: just have a glass of wine, and really that would
- 2:16Speaker 1: be the equivalent because we never drink.
- 2:18Speaker 5: I understand that feeling.
- 2:19Speaker 1: I was at Coachella yesterday sober.
- 2:23Speaker 3: Now that is something to talk about.
- 2:26Speaker 1: Yeah, well, shall we get into the weekend.
- 2:31Speaker 3: There's so much talk about Yeah, that's right, not only
- 2:36Speaker 3: did I meet Love Island.
- 2:38Speaker 1: UK Royalty, Oh my gosh, I also.
- 2:40Speaker 5: Made friends with thirteen year olds and wow.
- 2:44Speaker 3: Yeah, I have so many questions about this to San
- 2:47Speaker 3: Diego to visit my family. So there's like a yeah,
- 2:50Speaker 3: there's just like a lot to talk about. But I
- 2:51Speaker 3: feel like we should start with Coachella because that was,
- 2:54Speaker 3: I mean, the last weekend of Coachella. Yeah, it's in
- 2:57Speaker 3: the books for twenty twenty six, Finesto, finachto oh Goodbye.
- 3:01Speaker 4: Pretty iconic. I think record breaking, I imagine.
- 3:04Speaker 5: And Weekend two was way better than Weekend one.
- 3:07Speaker 1: No, I kind of like, I kind of felt bad
- 3:10Speaker 1: for everyone who went to Weekend one because I felt
- 3:12Speaker 1: like Weekend two was so much better.
- 3:14Speaker 3: No, because if you think about it, they get to
- 3:15Speaker 3: see it with fresh eyes, so it's like brand new
- 3:18Speaker 3: to Weekend one, whereas like Weekend two, there's like a
- 3:22Speaker 3: little bit like it's not fresh.
- 3:24Speaker 1: But you could have not watched it, and you could
- 3:26Speaker 1: have gone off fresh eyes not watched it.
- 3:29Speaker 5: I don't want you didn't see anything from Weekend one.
- 3:31Speaker 1: There's so I'm saying I feel clips but not the show,
- 3:34Speaker 1: the whole show itself. But I mean it was spectacular,
- 3:39Speaker 1: objectively better. Yeah, like I would say I almost had.
- 3:45Speaker 1: I would say a hint of fomo about missing Saturday Night, yes,
- 3:50Speaker 1: And I can't say I felt any fomo the week
- 3:53Speaker 1: I had.
- 3:53Speaker 3: The fomo like all the weekends. But like, honestly, the
- 3:56Speaker 3: fact that Haley came out weekend two, Oh.
- 4:00Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I thought we were talking about Haley Beeber
- 4:03Speaker 1: but Haley.
- 4:04Speaker 3: Haley, right. The fact that she came out weekend two
- 4:07Speaker 3: made her even cooler.
- 4:08Speaker 1: I know, so she she announced yesterday, so I can
- 4:13Speaker 1: say this, but on the Girls Like Girls soundtrack, she
- 4:15Speaker 1: has a song coming out with Gigi Perez and so
- 4:18Speaker 1: they just have a really special relationship and they really
- 4:21Speaker 1: champion each other. And Gigi's team and family are some
- 4:27Speaker 1: of the most amazing humans and there Haley just goes
- 4:32Speaker 1: so well with them and they work well together. And
- 4:34Speaker 1: so Gigi had asked Haley to come out and seeing
- 4:37Speaker 1: Girls Like Girls because Gigi's talked so much about how
- 4:39Speaker 1: when she was younger, she never even thought she could
- 4:42Speaker 1: be open about liking girls, and Haley's song like It
- 4:44Speaker 1: changed her life and that's the reason she's able to
- 4:47Speaker 1: sing about loving women too, And so she had Haley
- 4:51Speaker 1: come out and it was so fun and exciting.
- 4:56Speaker 4: I it's so weird because.
- 4:58Speaker 1: Haley's such as a multi hyphen it and she does
- 5:01Speaker 1: so much, and it's hard to keep up because there's
- 5:05Speaker 1: one thing that she does would be something that I
- 5:07Speaker 1: would need to celebrate for myself for a week. Yeah,
- 5:13Speaker 1: and she does all those things in a week, you know. Yeah, she'shot,
- 5:17Speaker 1: multiple like music video stuff in a week. And then
- 5:21Speaker 1: she did a book fair on Saturday at usc and
- 5:24Speaker 1: then she drives up and performs at Coachella. So anyways,
- 5:28Speaker 1: she comes out on stage and I was so overwhelmed
- 5:31Speaker 1: because I've seen her do it so many times, but
- 5:34Speaker 1: I haven't seen her do that.
- 5:35Speaker 4: In a long time, uh huh.
- 5:37Speaker 1: And I know how much she loves being on stage
- 5:40Speaker 1: and doing music and being in front of a crowd.
- 5:43Speaker 1: And I was trying to film, but it was so hot.
- 5:46Speaker 1: It was one thousand degrees. It was oh my god,
- 5:49Speaker 1: it was so hot. And then my eyes. I didn't
- 5:52Speaker 1: have my sunglasses on because I was trying to see
- 5:54Speaker 1: it with clear vision, right, so the sun was in
- 5:57Speaker 1: my eyes. My eyes are watering because I got emotional,
- 5:59Speaker 1: like getting to so like, I don't know, just overcome
- 6:01Speaker 1: with emotion, and then my hands are shaking because I'm
- 6:04Speaker 1: trying to film and hold it enough and get the
- 6:06Speaker 1: right angle. It was just an overwhelming experience. But did
- 6:10Speaker 1: you get the shot? I got shot?
- 6:13Speaker 4: I know I haven't posted.
- 6:15Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.
- 6:16Speaker 2: It was a long day.
- 6:17Speaker 1: But first of all, let me say, this is the
- 6:19Speaker 1: most luxurious Coachella experience that I've had. And I've been
- 6:22Speaker 1: with a brand before. Okay, so just so you know,
- 6:25Speaker 1: I was not prepared for this. But well, let me
- 6:28Speaker 1: go back eight years ago. I met Haley on April fourth,
- 6:32Speaker 1: two weeks later. She she was performing at Coachella right
- 6:37Speaker 1: and I drove over for just to watch her performance.
- 6:41Speaker 1: I was down bad, drove off to the desert with Brittany.
- 6:45Speaker 1: We ran across the field to get her to catch
- 6:47Speaker 1: her set, and then she got in the car and
- 6:50Speaker 1: we rode back together. And it was just so cool
- 6:56Speaker 1: that eight years later we were going back together as
- 6:59Speaker 1: an engaged cup Bull and it was so much fun.
- 7:01Speaker 1: So anyways, we get there and they had gotten her trailer,
- 7:04Speaker 1: so we're in the artist section and we had a trailer,
- 7:06Speaker 1: so we're in the We have our bathroom mirrors to
- 7:10Speaker 1: freshen up.
- 7:13Speaker 3: So then drive right up to the to the the.
- 7:17Speaker 1: Parked in like the artists parking.
- 7:19Speaker 5: So we still that's far from the trailers.
- 7:21Speaker 4: No it's not.
- 7:23Speaker 1: I mean it was a quick john.
- 7:24Speaker 4: It was a quick john.
- 7:25Speaker 1: I mean it's still a walk, but yeah, And so
- 7:29Speaker 1: then she goes and does sound check and make sure
- 7:32Speaker 1: everything sounds good.
- 7:33Speaker 4: And then.
- 7:35Speaker 1: Next thing I know, she's going on stage and we're
- 7:37Speaker 1: watching and and then it ends and we get to
- 7:40Speaker 1: go back to the trailer, freshen up, cool off. And
- 7:44Speaker 1: then our friend Christian works for Red Bull and Red
- 7:47Speaker 1: Bull has this, Yeah, it does give you wings, but
- 7:50Speaker 1: it also has this. They built this structure. It's not
- 7:53Speaker 1: a tent or anything. It's called the Red Bull Mirage,
- 7:56Speaker 1: and it's facing one of the DJ sets. So during
- 7:58Speaker 1: the sets, which we can what stage, Yeah, hard to say.
- 8:03Speaker 1: I couldn't tell you, do you lab? I think it's
- 8:06Speaker 1: a new one. Feels like a newer one, one of
- 8:08Speaker 1: the new stages. But all the the the Red Bull
- 8:13Speaker 1: Lounge has three stories and it's all windows, so you're
- 8:16Speaker 1: if you're sitting in there, you're looking out.
- 8:17Speaker 5: At the stage.
- 8:19Speaker 1: And so we go and on the third floor there's
- 8:23Speaker 1: a no boo, So we had a full noboo meal.
- 8:26Speaker 3: You know what, you said you were going to nobu
- 8:27Speaker 3: and I was like, who's gonna tell her there isn't
- 8:30Speaker 3: one in Palm Springs.
- 8:31Speaker 4: It looks like, let.
- 8:34Speaker 1: Me tell you.
- 8:35Speaker 4: It was fresh.
- 8:36Speaker 1: So we were eating sushi while there was a DJ
- 8:38Speaker 1: set playing, and then we left and we were like
- 8:41Speaker 1: what should we go do?
- 8:42Speaker 4: We went and rode the ferris.
- 8:43Speaker 1: Wheel, which I've yeah, we never thought to actually write it,
- 8:48Speaker 1: just take a picture in front of it. So we
- 8:51Speaker 1: all rode the ferris wheel and then afterwards we're standing
- 8:56Speaker 1: there taking pictures. Haley and I take a picture in
- 8:58Speaker 1: front of the faires Wheel, and then this guy comes
- 9:00Speaker 1: up and he's just by himself, and he goes, oh,
- 9:03Speaker 1: do you want me to get a picture of all
- 9:04Speaker 1: of you together?
- 9:05Speaker 4: And we're like, oh my gosh, this is so nice.
- 9:07Speaker 1: But this man he's sober, so he's and he's just
- 9:10Speaker 1: by himself, so we're like, what what's the angle here? Yeah,
- 9:14Speaker 1: and clearly the Haley and I we just kiss when
- 9:17Speaker 1: he walked up, so we're obviously together.
- 9:20Speaker 4: And then yeah, so he takes a picture.
- 9:23Speaker 3: Then he goes, are scary, Oh yeah, like let's just
- 9:28Speaker 3: let that be known. Like, if you're a guy, find
- 9:30Speaker 3: a guy friend to walk around with. Because a solo
- 9:33Speaker 3: man trotting around Coachella it's giving scary, So you'll bring
- 9:39Speaker 3: a dog with you, like either or I don't think
- 9:41Speaker 3: there's dogs a lot, then bring a friend.
- 9:44Speaker 1: So he takes the photo and then he hands it
- 9:47Speaker 1: back and he's like, do y'all mind if I sing
- 9:50Speaker 1: a song for y'all, A blessing over you. He'sing a
- 9:53Speaker 1: blessing over you? Okay, So we're like, sure, you know
- 9:57Speaker 1: we're not. We're all nice, polite people. Yeah, like what
- 10:00Speaker 1: a bowld you just took a photo for us? Of course,
- 10:02Speaker 1: go ahead sing. So he starts singing this Christian song
- 10:04Speaker 1: called the Blessing. We're all clapping. He's singing a great voice,
- 10:09Speaker 1: and he goes, can I pray for y'all? So no
- 10:12Speaker 1: one wants to say, no, are you a candid camera?
- 10:14Speaker 5: This is a show.
- 10:15Speaker 1: So we're all looking at each other and we're like, okay, sure,
- 10:19Speaker 1: So we all huddle in the circle and he prays
- 10:24Speaker 1: and it was lovely, like it was a very lovely prayer.
- 10:27Speaker 1: And then we're all like, thank you so much, and
- 10:29Speaker 1: then he says, you know, this is your time to
- 10:31Speaker 1: accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and savior, and one
- 10:35Speaker 1: of the girls goes, well, thank you, but we're gonna
- 10:37Speaker 1: miss our sets. We walk away and we were like,
- 10:43Speaker 1: you know that that was really bold and we admire
- 10:47Speaker 1: his boldness. And personally I used to be very much
- 10:52Speaker 1: like like, if I would have seen himical evangelical, I
- 10:56Speaker 1: used to be if I would have seen him doing this,
- 10:58Speaker 1: I would have been like, wow, that is what we're
- 11:00Speaker 1: supposed to be doing. But I had this realization after
- 11:03Speaker 1: being out of that world, of realizing that there is
- 11:08Speaker 1: a way of doing this right. The way he approached
- 11:11Speaker 1: us was really nice. He was super kind and I
- 11:14Speaker 1: didn't feel like judgmental at all, and he prayed and
- 11:17Speaker 1: he's saying and that was great.
- 11:18Speaker 4: But if he would have just been like, I just.
- 11:20Speaker 1: Want to let you know, guys know that Jesus loves you,
- 11:22Speaker 1: I think that would have been more impactful, right, because
- 11:25Speaker 1: I think we walked away being like.
- 11:28Speaker 4: Was that the right? I don't know.
- 11:30Speaker 1: There was just something that kind of made everyone feel off,
- 11:32Speaker 1: and I'm like, that's the opposite of what the goal.
- 11:35Speaker 5: Is, right.
- 11:36Speaker 3: I mean, it's like me walking up to strangers and
- 11:38Speaker 3: saying like, hey, have you seen Love Island UK? Let
- 11:41Speaker 3: me tell you the fifteen reasons why you should watch it,
- 11:43Speaker 3: you know what I mean?
- 11:44Speaker 4: And then do you accept the oath to watch it
- 11:48Speaker 4: every week?
- 11:48Speaker 1: Right?
- 11:49Speaker 4: Every day.
- 11:49Speaker 3: I'm just trying to find a parallel of just something
- 11:51Speaker 3: totally uber that I believe in big time. Yeah yeah, yeah,
- 11:55Speaker 3: But I.
- 11:55Speaker 1: Was telling Haley, I was like, the whole thing is
- 11:57Speaker 1: he had a message he wanted to get across, just
- 11:59Speaker 1: like you have a message you want to get across.
- 12:01Speaker 4: Your message is girls like girls and like people. Just
- 12:03Speaker 4: let people love who they want to love.
- 12:04Speaker 1: Yeah, And his message is I want to let people
- 12:06Speaker 1: know that there's a God who loves them. And I
- 12:09Speaker 1: think it it could be simplified in a way that
- 12:12Speaker 1: could be more impactful with less you know.
- 12:14Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 12:15Speaker 1: And then these women came up while we were praying
- 12:17Speaker 1: that were obviously with him, and they started praying along
- 12:20Speaker 1: with him.
- 12:20Speaker 4: And being like amen, amen.
- 12:22Speaker 1: So I felt like they was kind of an ambush situation.
- 12:24Speaker 3: Well, he should have started out with the women next
- 12:26Speaker 3: to him because it would have been less scared.
- 12:28Speaker 1: Yeah. So then we walk in these this other group
- 12:30Speaker 1: comes up and they have tinfoil in their hand and
- 12:32Speaker 1: they go, quick, what's a conspiracy theory?
- 12:34Speaker 4: You believe in? Getting targeted?
- 12:40Speaker 6: So then they you are approachable.
- 12:42Speaker 3: They you're like smiley, like, you'd be my number one
- 12:45Speaker 3: target if I was doing that.
- 12:46Speaker 4: Really.
- 12:47Speaker 1: Yeah, they start putting these foil hats like on you,
- 12:52Speaker 1: on the girls who gave their conspiracy favorite conspiracy theory.
- 12:56Speaker 4: So then we walk over.
- 12:57Speaker 1: To a set and this girl comes up and to
- 13:00Speaker 1: our friend Sammy goes, I want to give you this gift,
- 13:02Speaker 1: and it's like a little figuring fox. We're like, what's happening?
- 13:08Speaker 1: Why do we have a target on ourselves?
- 13:10Speaker 4: What's going on? So anyways, it was great, we were
- 13:13Speaker 4: all sober. It was fun.
- 13:16Speaker 1: But I decided that I don't know that I'll go
- 13:19Speaker 1: back to Coachella or No, unless Haley's performing or Doctor
- 13:23Speaker 1: Schulz sponsors me. I'll go with Doctor Schulz. And I
- 13:28Speaker 1: actually think that'd be a great brand collapse because I.
- 13:30Speaker 3: Think so too.
- 13:31Speaker 1: I use a lot of their products and I would
- 13:33Speaker 1: love to promote them. Yeah, I'd love to be Gelling
- 13:36Speaker 1: in the desert.
- 13:38Speaker 3: Wow, what an experience.
- 13:40Speaker 1: And then we drove home a time we left it
- 13:43Speaker 1: ten so got home. I'm like, yeah, but I I
- 13:53Speaker 1: honestly feel like it was the best way to do it.
- 13:56Speaker 3: I like, don't really enjoy people approaching me when I'm sober, Like,
- 14:05Speaker 3: please don't approach me with tinfoiled hats and figurines.
- 14:09Speaker 1: They were funny though, because they would say every time
- 14:12Speaker 1: they put the foil on someone's they go one of us,
- 14:16Speaker 1: one of us. But they were laughing, so they were like,
- 14:21Speaker 1: I didn't feel scared of them.
- 14:22Speaker 3: They were laughing, like they weren't sacrificing you or something, right, right,
- 14:25Speaker 3: But we were like, are we have we entered colts?
- 14:27Speaker 4: Are we being inducted into colts?
- 14:29Speaker 1: Left? And right? So anyways, that was really interesting. But yeah,
- 14:33Speaker 1: it was so fun. Hailey is such a star, Like
- 14:37Speaker 1: when she comes out, it's just so easy and natural
- 14:41Speaker 1: and like, you know, it comes.
- 14:44Speaker 3: It was born in the sauce, Born in the.
- 14:48Speaker 4: Sauce, Born in the sauce.
- 14:50Speaker 3: Oh, like, isn't it.
- 14:53Speaker 6: It's a saying at a very specific restaurant, oh a
- 14:56Speaker 6: long time ago, which I don't remember, but I'll look
- 15:01Speaker 6: it up. Oh my god, there's something the chef would
- 15:03Speaker 6: say to Ryan was born.
- 15:05Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a.
- 15:06Speaker 4: Really niche a niche.
- 15:08Speaker 7: I didn't realize it.
- 15:09Speaker 5: Was so niche because I've been hearing here for so
- 15:10Speaker 5: many years. I thought it was just like a common
- 15:12Speaker 5: mar toxico.
- 15:14Speaker 6: There you go, Yeah in West Hollyway.
- 15:16Speaker 7: Yeah, I assume that was something you picked up from
- 15:17Speaker 7: the thirteen year olds you made friends.
- 15:20Speaker 1: Literally just about to ask which I wanted to get to,
- 15:22Speaker 1: but I don't know that. Do I have anything else
- 15:25Speaker 1: to add to Coachella?
- 15:27Speaker 4: I think that's it?
- 15:28Speaker 1: Okay, great, Yeah, so we'll.
- 15:32Speaker 5: Get into a little bit about my weekend and we
- 15:34Speaker 5: come back.
- 15:34Speaker 2: Oh, I know, we're back.
- 15:55Speaker 1: That's right.
- 15:56Speaker 4: She might be tired, but she's back.
- 15:59Speaker 1: He's back.
- 16:01Speaker 5: Okay.
- 16:01Speaker 3: So my weekend started off on such a high because
- 16:05Speaker 3: I was having a late lunch. It was like three
- 16:08Speaker 3: or four o'clock in the afternoon on Friday, and lo
- 16:12Speaker 3: and behold, I make eye contact with the one, the
- 16:16Speaker 3: only Helena Ford from Love Island UK. Yeah, thank you,
- 16:22Speaker 3: sitting right next to her, Jess. I don't know her
- 16:25Speaker 3: last name from also Love Island UK.
- 16:29Speaker 1: You couldn't have looked up her last name.
- 16:31Speaker 3: But this podcast, nobody knows their Everybody knows their first names,
- 16:36Speaker 3: like Hella, everybody knows Helena, like nobody knows her full name.
- 16:39Speaker 5: But you know her well.
- 16:40Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 16:41Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is like the love island lore
- 16:45Speaker 3: is first names.
- 16:46Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, Like there's only one Jess.
- 16:50Speaker 8: Okay, I'll they were both on the same season, know
- 16:55Speaker 8: that they were on separate seasons, but then this recent
- 16:58Speaker 8: All Star season, I see, yeah, the latest one that
- 17:00Speaker 8: I've been like obsessed with.
- 17:02Speaker 3: Okay, so I make eye contact and I like, b
- 17:05Speaker 3: line it up and I'm like, oh my gosh.
- 17:06Speaker 5: I love you guys so much.
- 17:09Speaker 3: And they were like hey, and I was like, what
- 17:11Speaker 3: are you doing here because they're like UK, you know,
- 17:14Speaker 3: and I'm like, we're in the USA, and they were like,
- 17:18Speaker 3: we were at Coachella last weekend and we extended our
- 17:21Speaker 3: trips so we could like visit LA And I was like, oh.
- 17:24Speaker 5: My gosh, that is so cool.
- 17:27Speaker 3: And then I just like go into like are you
- 17:28Speaker 3: guys dating anyone? Oh, right down to the business because
- 17:33Speaker 3: like small talk, I know, and then I realized I
- 17:35Speaker 3: was like, oh wait, is it weird that I asked
- 17:36Speaker 3: you that? And they were like, oh no, we were
- 17:38Speaker 3: on a dating show and we were talking about like
- 17:40Speaker 3: the guy that Helena was with on her season and
- 17:44Speaker 3: and then they were like petting Sonny and.
- 17:46Speaker 5: Like, oh, your book's so cute, and I was like ah.
- 17:49Speaker 3: And then they were sitting Neither of them like got
- 17:51Speaker 3: up from like they were seated to eat lunch, you know.
- 17:54Speaker 3: And so I took social cues and did not get
- 17:58Speaker 3: a selfie with them. Wow, although I wanted everything in
- 18:01Speaker 3: me to take a selfie with them. Luckily for me,
- 18:05Speaker 3: my friend Paulina was sitting down at our table and
- 18:08Speaker 3: she took like stalker photos of I was wondering, how, yeah,
- 18:12Speaker 3: so I have so I have those to cherish forever.
- 18:15Speaker 3: But here's the best part. I followed you oh so oh,
- 18:20Speaker 3: I asked him because I was asked them to come
- 18:22Speaker 3: on the podcast, like how long are you guys in La?
- 18:23Speaker 3: They were gone this morning. I got shoot. So anyways,
- 18:27Speaker 3: I sit back down, I have my lunch. They were
- 18:30Speaker 3: they leave, Jess walks over to me to say bye babe.
- 18:34Speaker 5: I was like, wow, bye girl.
- 18:38Speaker 3: Quickly go on Instagram follow follow because I realized I
- 18:40Speaker 3: didn't follow one of them, which was embarrassing big man.
- 18:44Speaker 5: But guess what what.
- 18:48Speaker 3: They both messaged me and they both followed me on
- 18:52Speaker 3: Instagram do you think they're now like best friend?
- 18:54Speaker 1: Do you think they saw that you were like a
- 18:56Speaker 1: public figure?
- 18:57Speaker 3: Don't care?
- 18:58Speaker 1: Well no, I mean I'm do you think that's what
- 19:00Speaker 1: it was?
- 19:01Speaker 4: They were like, oh, she's.
- 19:03Speaker 5: Like we were soul sisters.
- 19:04Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what I meant. Actually, do you.
- 19:08Speaker 3: Want to the best part? So I like, you know me,
- 19:11Speaker 3: if I get an inch, I'd take a mile. And
- 19:13Speaker 3: so I'm very proud of your social cues.
- 19:15Speaker 7: So like, that's gross.
- 19:18Speaker 3: So they both messaged me saying like nice to meet
- 19:21Speaker 3: you or whatever, and I lovely to meet you.
- 19:24Speaker 5: And I responded to both of them individually.
- 19:26Speaker 3: And then now now I'm like commenting on their stories.
- 19:29Speaker 3: So they like were at this one restaurant. I was like,
- 19:31Speaker 3: oh my gosh, my favorite place. I'm not responding to them.
- 19:38Speaker 9: They said, girl, we were being nicelf.
- 19:45Speaker 5: Next time I go jaunt over to the UK, you
- 19:47Speaker 5: know we'll be hitting them up.
- 19:50Speaker 9: Wow.
- 19:51Speaker 1: Very exciting.
- 19:51Speaker 3: It was very exciting, Like it was really a star siding.
- 19:56Speaker 1: Yes.
- 19:56Speaker 3: I was on high, Like I literally was on such
- 19:58Speaker 3: a high from that. Then this group of young girls
- 20:01Speaker 3: come and they sit down at the table next to us,
- 20:03Speaker 3: and I like, make a little bet with Pauline. I'm like,
- 20:06Speaker 3: how old do you think these girls? This table of girls,
- 20:08Speaker 3: there's like eight of them. Okay, She's like, I think
- 20:10Speaker 3: they're probably like sixteen. I was like, I feel like
- 20:13Speaker 3: they're probably like fourteen. So we like look over to them.
- 20:16Speaker 3: How old are you guys? Thirteen? They're by themselves, by themselves, there's.
- 20:21Speaker 5: Like eight of them.
- 20:22Speaker 4: Is this crazy?
- 20:23Speaker 5: Apparently not?
- 20:24Speaker 3: Because they're school They just go out of school and
- 20:26Speaker 3: they'll walk into town to like grab food and their
- 20:29Speaker 3: parents pick them up from like in town.
- 20:31Speaker 1: I see, I see. Yeah, Okay, got.
- 20:33Speaker 5: All the lowdown.
- 20:33Speaker 3: So then we start talking to them because I'm like,
- 20:35Speaker 3: let me just pick their brains, you know, like be
- 20:37Speaker 3: one with the thirteen year olds.
- 20:38Speaker 4: I'm just dying.
- 20:39Speaker 1: Like the segment before this, Tanya said, I hate the
- 20:42Speaker 1: approach when I'm sober and here we are approaching.
- 20:47Speaker 7: Restaurant, was like, mark police, can you come sooner please?
- 20:54Speaker 3: Yeah? These thirteen year olds were so excited to talk
- 20:57Speaker 3: to us because first of all, they sat down and
- 21:00Speaker 3: I was like asking them, like, oh, like what artists
- 21:01Speaker 3: do you guys listen to? And they were like Drake,
- 21:03Speaker 3: Tate McCrae, Olivia Rodrigo and I was like, okay, cute.
- 21:06Speaker 3: I was like, do you guys watch Love Island? They
- 21:08Speaker 3: were like, yeah, we love Lavine. I was like, Helen
- 21:09Speaker 3: and Jess, we're just here.
- 21:10Speaker 1: Where they go?
- 21:11Speaker 5: Where'd they go?
- 21:12Speaker 3: I was like, wow, me and the thirteen year olds
- 21:14Speaker 3: one and the same. And then some like some YouTubers,
- 21:18Speaker 3: some sisters. Do you guys know these like three sisters.
- 21:21Speaker 4: Hitman's no, no.
- 21:23Speaker 3: If I heard the name, it would on YouTube. They're
- 21:27Speaker 3: like YouTube stars. Anyways, they like saw them across the
- 21:30Speaker 3: street and they start like running over to them, and
- 21:32Speaker 3: I was like, who is that. They're like, Oh, it's
- 21:34Speaker 3: the blah blah blah sisters. They're so huge.
- 21:37Speaker 7: Yes, uh Caligaria sisters.
- 21:40Speaker 5: Big with the thirteen year olds, oo with the third.
- 21:43Speaker 3: So I'm like, I'm just using this as like research
- 21:47Speaker 3: purposes at this point, asking them what kind of makeup
- 21:50Speaker 3: brands they use?
- 21:51Speaker 1: Use they use?
- 21:53Speaker 4: This is so funny.
- 21:54Speaker 1: The whole thing's so funny to me because, well, tell
- 21:58Speaker 1: me what makeup brands they use them, and then I'm
- 22:00Speaker 1: gonna explain why this is so.
- 22:01Speaker 3: Fun Tart they use, Patrick Tow, some dabbled with Tower
- 22:06Speaker 3: twenty eight. Okay, Nars I think, yeah, nothing like talking
- 22:14Speaker 3: yeah road a little road, Yeah yeah, yeah. Yeah.
- 22:17Speaker 1: So I love this because Tanya tells me she's in
- 22:20Speaker 1: with the thirteen year olds and she's figuring out what
- 22:22Speaker 1: skincare they like. And I'm thinking to myself, we are
- 22:26Speaker 1: so far from thirteen that what skin care they're using
- 22:30Speaker 1: is not going to be beneficial for us.
- 22:33Speaker 3: Was researching for my own purposes, Like, I'm not gonna
- 22:36Speaker 3: start like using their skincare the research for it. I
- 22:40Speaker 3: just want to like know, And I asked them, like
- 22:41Speaker 3: what social media apps are you guys looking at? Like
- 22:44Speaker 3: what's your social media of choice? Like, are you guys
- 22:47Speaker 3: having boyfriends.
- 22:48Speaker 4: Like your step son?
- 22:50Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 22:50Speaker 3: I just like, yeah, I'm just like wanting to like
- 22:53Speaker 3: get in on the get the lowdown. You know, what
- 22:56Speaker 3: are they talking about?
- 22:57Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 22:58Speaker 3: What are they doing?
- 23:00Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 23:00Speaker 3: Are they kissing boys? You know?
- 23:02Speaker 1: Are they? Uh?
- 23:04Speaker 5: It was like kind of fifty to fifty.
- 23:05Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 23:06Speaker 5: Robbie was like, it's a little appropriate.
- 23:07Speaker 6: You asked, are you kissing boys?
- 23:09Speaker 3: Well, to be fair, it was like Paulina, but no,
- 23:12Speaker 3: it came up actually with Love Island, the kissing.
- 23:16Speaker 6: They kiss on that show. Yeah, do you guys kiss? Yeah,
- 23:19Speaker 6: it's all weird.
- 23:19Speaker 1: You've seen that they kiss on Love Island and are
- 23:22Speaker 1: y'all kissing boys and challenges?
- 23:24Speaker 3: The worst part is it is like I got all
- 23:26Speaker 3: of their instagrams start following.
- 23:29Speaker 6: All of them.
- 23:29Speaker 7: This looks so bad on paper, it's so bad.
- 23:32Speaker 1: I go, were anyone's moms with them? They're gonna be
- 23:35Speaker 1: Who was this creepy woman following all of it?
- 23:37Speaker 7: Do you want to pet my dog?
- 23:39Speaker 5: I I drive a white vand do you want to
- 23:43Speaker 5: come see it?
- 23:44Speaker 1: No?
- 23:44Speaker 3: But actually one of them was like, oh my aunt
- 23:46Speaker 3: follow my aunts follow you. I was like, your ants
- 23:49Speaker 3: are cool.
- 23:51Speaker 2: That's what.
- 23:51Speaker 1: And then I had this moment of thinking because when
- 23:53Speaker 1: she said their aunts follow I was thinking of older
- 23:56Speaker 1: women as ants, and I'm like, they're probably.
- 23:58Speaker 4: Our age or younger for sure, Like we are.
- 24:01Speaker 1: The ants, that's right? And that was humbling.
- 24:06Speaker 3: Really Yeah, Well, all in all, I learned a lot
- 24:09Speaker 3: and now I have.
- 24:10Speaker 4: Just like it's just a wealth of knowledge.
- 24:13Speaker 5: It's just a wealth.
- 24:13Speaker 4: Yeah, But I guess what I'm trying.
- 24:15Speaker 5: It's not a student of life, and we know that
- 24:16Speaker 5: about you.
- 24:17Speaker 1: But what I'm trying to figure out is it's so
- 24:20Speaker 1: it's so much knowledge you took in But for what purpose.
- 24:25Speaker 3: Life? Do you not think it's so important to know
- 24:28Speaker 3: what the youth of our generation cares about?
- 24:30Speaker 1: No, I don't really, Yeah, because there's what apps they're using.
- 24:33Speaker 1: They all have kids, and I'm not. I don't you
- 24:36Speaker 1: know that, Like I'm not. That's not just I think
- 24:38Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. I think you using it as
- 24:40Speaker 1: research for your step son being in the age range.
- 24:43Speaker 1: That makes it all feel okay. But the rest of it,
- 24:46Speaker 1: I'm just like thirteen, so young from where we are young. Yeah, yeah,
- 24:51Speaker 1: at so I don't have a need of knowing what
- 24:54Speaker 1: they're doing or up to.
- 24:55Speaker 6: Well, that's that's Jen Beta by the way, gen Z Anymore,
- 25:01Speaker 6: I mean.
- 25:01Speaker 3: The fact that they loved Love Island as much as
- 25:03Speaker 3: I did, like literally made too.
- 25:07Speaker 1: I think you probably love a lot of things that
- 25:09Speaker 1: the thirteen year old girls like.
- 25:10Speaker 3: Though yes, definitely are girls.
- 25:12Speaker 5: Girls are girls.
- 25:14Speaker 1: I was actually shocked here they love I Love Island
- 25:17Speaker 1: and in the sense of being able to allow to
- 25:19Speaker 1: watch it, I'm really very wholesome.
- 25:22Speaker 5: At the end of the day, UK, Oh, but you
- 25:26Speaker 5: one is not wholesome.
- 25:27Speaker 3: No, it's okay, No, no, no, Well.
- 25:29Speaker 4: I don't know about the kay, how much more wholesome
- 25:31Speaker 4: it is.
- 25:31Speaker 1: But I could be surprised and grew up in a
- 25:33Speaker 1: stract household with what I was allowed to watch.
- 25:36Speaker 3: Oh not me, Oh.
- 25:40Speaker 6: I wanted to share.
- 25:41Speaker 7: I had a celebrity sighting at a restaurant, and I
- 25:43Speaker 7: too had self control and did not ask for a selfie.
- 25:47Speaker 7: Allison and I were in Vegas this weekend for WrestleMania
- 25:50Speaker 7: and we were walking. We went to Lens as a
- 25:53Speaker 7: work trip, though this was this is a work trip.
- 25:55Speaker 6: You're not a fan of wrestling, are you? Or maybe
- 25:57Speaker 6: you are?
- 25:57Speaker 3: And I am now okay, wait, can I make a guess? Yes,
- 26:01Speaker 3: the mizz No, that's all I know is that a wrestler.
- 26:05Speaker 7: So Allison is like a massive Holly Madison fan. We
- 26:10Speaker 7: went to lunch with our friend Jensen, who is married
- 26:13Speaker 7: to Daniel fishl As the three of us walking through
- 26:15Speaker 7: a casino going to lunch talk about how much we
- 26:17Speaker 7: love Holly Madison and he's like, oh, yeah, she's a
- 26:19Speaker 7: friend of mine, like she was gonna be on the
- 26:20Speaker 7: pod but blah blah blah. We walk in the restaurant,
- 26:22Speaker 7: she's sitting right there and uh, and he's just he
- 26:25Speaker 7: just looks at me and goes, is that And I'm
- 26:26Speaker 7: like yeah. Then he walks over, He's like, hey, Holly,
- 26:28Speaker 7: it sys high. And then she stands up and he
- 26:30Speaker 7: introduces her to us, and then she looks at Allison
- 26:33Speaker 7: and goes, you have the most beautiful skin, and Allison
- 26:36Speaker 7: just starts like levitating towards the heavens. She was on
- 26:38Speaker 7: cloud nine and wanted a photo so bad, but we
- 26:41Speaker 7: were both like, she was eating lunch with people, so
- 26:43Speaker 7: we weren't gonna be like, can I get a photo?
- 26:45Speaker 7: But the worst, the worst for that happening.
- 26:48Speaker 5: It's the worst.
- 26:48Speaker 6: Could I just clarify for a certain percentage of her audience,
- 26:51Speaker 6: Holly Madison has a reality show?
- 26:54Speaker 10: Yesfl guy she Yeah, I'm not sure about her post
- 27:01Speaker 10: half relationships, but she was on Girls next Door?
- 27:04Speaker 3: Yeah, but how is she in WrestleMania now?
- 27:07Speaker 1: Oh? She?
- 27:07Speaker 7: I mean, she was just in Vegas. She's just a
- 27:09Speaker 7: Vegas person and she's just always kind of bopping around.
- 27:14Speaker 7: She and I have had some TikTok back and forth
- 27:16Speaker 7: about some Vegas stuff.
- 27:17Speaker 6: We'll just leave it at that.
- 27:18Speaker 7: But that self control to not ask for the photo
- 27:22Speaker 7: is very is difficult. But we prevailed.
- 27:25Speaker 3: If they had stood up at lunch. I would have
- 27:28Speaker 3: gone in with the selfie.
- 27:29Speaker 6: Holly stood up.
- 27:32Speaker 3: I would have been in for that. They stood up,
- 27:34Speaker 3: it would have been game over. But they remained seated,
- 27:36Speaker 3: so I was like crouching down next to them felt
- 27:39Speaker 3: a little invasive.
- 27:42Speaker 7: Foods in the shop, Can you help the sandwich up too?
- 27:45Speaker 5: They're like midto forks up.
- 27:50Speaker 1: Yeah, it does take because once you have the bravery
- 27:53Speaker 1: or the introduction, it almost feels like that was the
- 27:56Speaker 1: hard part.
- 27:57Speaker 4: But asking for a photo is just.
- 27:59Speaker 1: A It takes it to the next level of needing,
- 28:03Speaker 1: the bravery or the willpower to not do it.
- 28:06Speaker 3: Guys, I when I tell you like, I don't really
- 28:09Speaker 3: get Like I got flustered. I long sleeve shirt on,
- 28:12Speaker 3: sweats and it was like one hundred degrees out and
- 28:13Speaker 3: so I was sweating, Like I was like there was
- 28:18Speaker 3: like a lot like lips and I just got my
- 28:21Speaker 3: eyebrows laminated and so I had like no makeup on.
- 28:24Speaker 3: My eyebrows were like.
- 28:28Speaker 1: I know, those eyes were wide. It was exactly, Oh
- 28:31Speaker 1: they were wide. Wait, we didn't even talk about Justin
- 28:34Speaker 1: Bieber bringing Billie Eilish up and we just we just.
- 28:38Speaker 5: Your Coachell experience. There was so much other Coachella to
- 28:41Speaker 5: experience there was.
- 28:42Speaker 4: It was the highlight.
- 28:43Speaker 1: But I the reason why I had Fombo was because
- 28:47Speaker 1: it just I felt like he was having the time.
- 28:50Speaker 1: He seems so relaxed and like he was loving it.
- 28:53Speaker 3: So everybody online is basically saying like Weekend one was
- 28:57Speaker 3: his reset and Weekend two was the fans. Wow, but
- 29:02Speaker 3: did you see the video of the one fan like
- 29:04Speaker 3: grabbing his crotch.
- 29:05Speaker 1: Yeah, but I don't think it wasn't appropriate. But I
- 29:08Speaker 1: also was watching her and she's not looking at she
- 29:11Speaker 1: doesn't know where she's grabbed.
- 29:12Speaker 4: He was just trying to touch him.
- 29:13Speaker 1: Oh okay, And that's why I think he stood there
- 29:16Speaker 1: still but just covered himself to measure because.
- 29:18Speaker 7: That was pretty clear what part of the body she's
- 29:20Speaker 7: reaching for.
- 29:21Speaker 4: Yeah, but I think she.
- 29:22Speaker 1: Was like holding her phone up trying to Yeah.
- 29:24Speaker 3: Okay, that makes me feel better because I was like,
- 29:26Speaker 3: this is so inappropriate, especially because.
- 29:28Speaker 4: Embarrassing for her if she did that. Yeah, I think
- 29:31Speaker 4: you were just.
- 29:31Speaker 1: Trying to reach to touch him and was trying to
- 29:33Speaker 1: get her phone out.
- 29:34Speaker 3: And justin probably felt that because he didn't react, He
- 29:37Speaker 3: just kind of like put his arm down to kind
- 29:39Speaker 3: of shoot it away, but he didn't like move away
- 29:42Speaker 3: or like.
- 29:42Speaker 1: That's just it.
- 29:43Speaker 4: Yeah, I think he knew. She's frantically trying.
- 29:45Speaker 3: To do You think they told that section of fans
- 29:48Speaker 3: like he's gonna come up to you during your his
- 29:51Speaker 3: Coachella performance, so.
- 29:52Speaker 5: Be behaved like. There's no way he just randomly went
- 29:56Speaker 5: in there like that.
- 29:57Speaker 4: I don't think the fans knew.
- 29:59Speaker 5: You don't, m m Are you sure, Bieber?
- 30:05Speaker 3: There's no way Justin Bieber had his back to the
- 30:07Speaker 3: crowd with all these people behind him, and they were
- 30:09Speaker 3: not pre vetted by security. I just can't imagine pre
- 30:14Speaker 3: vetted as in like security went over and was like,
- 30:17Speaker 3: Justin's gonna come over here during his performance.
- 30:22Speaker 1: I've never been told if an artist is walking through
- 30:24Speaker 1: the crowd or anything, it just happens and you're frantically
- 30:28Speaker 1: trying to.
- 30:29Speaker 3: I'm going to be somebody that was out there and
- 30:31Speaker 3: touched him to verify for me, because I really can't
- 30:33Speaker 3: imagine that that was just willy and nilly.
- 30:37Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like.
- 30:38Speaker 4: It was willy nilly. But a lot of people were saying.
- 30:41Speaker 1: That Haley was supposed to be the one girl, but
- 30:44Speaker 1: she pushed Billy up there, but I don't know if
- 30:46Speaker 1: that's true.
- 30:46Speaker 4: But either way, I love I love both stories, whether.
- 30:49Speaker 11: It was always planned to be Billy or if it
- 30:51Speaker 11: was supposed to be here, I like this one better.
- 30:53Speaker 11: I think that if it was supposed to be Haley
- 30:54Speaker 11: and she pushed Billy up Yeah, Speaking of Bieber, Yeah,
- 30:57Speaker 11: so you posted a lie with Justin Bieber where he's
- 31:02Speaker 11: like finding people to join him.
- 31:03Speaker 1: Yes, and then your face pops up Yes, was it real?
- 31:07Speaker 3: Beca messages me on Saturday and goes the Bieber video
- 31:10Speaker 3: is that AI? And I'm like the fact that you
- 31:13Speaker 3: think that I could actually even make that in AI?
- 31:15Speaker 1: Did it? I did not think you did that.
- 31:17Speaker 3: Rob was like the fact that Beca thinks I can
- 31:19Speaker 3: make this AI is really just a testament a compliment,
- 31:23Speaker 3: because I would have known left from right how to
- 31:26Speaker 3: make that from into AI.
- 31:27Speaker 1: Okay, well, respectfully, I thought Robbie did.
- 31:29Speaker 3: It, so respectfully, it was me and it was real
- 31:32Speaker 3: life and it was twenty twenty, so it was quarantine
- 31:36Speaker 3: and he was doing I can't remember why he was
- 31:37Speaker 3: doing it, but he was doing Instagram lives with like
- 31:39Speaker 3: a bunch of different radio jocks. Oh, because we were
- 31:42Speaker 3: in quarantine. So I was like, remember everybody was doing
- 31:44Speaker 3: those Instagram lives. So somebody turned my Instagram live like
- 31:47Speaker 3: into a meme that said, like on the top it
- 31:49Speaker 3: was like a Quarantine Friday with Justin Bieber or something
- 31:52Speaker 3: like that.
- 31:53Speaker 1: Huh.
- 31:53Speaker 5: So I took it and I thought.
- 31:54Speaker 3: It'd be funny because the first weekend of Coachella he
- 31:57Speaker 3: was like trying to like.
- 31:58Speaker 5: YouTube stuff, you know, so very like the moment.
- 32:02Speaker 3: So I took it and I chopped it up and
- 32:04Speaker 3: made it my little like thing.
- 32:07Speaker 4: Wait, so did you really talk to him?
- 32:09Speaker 3: Yes?
- 32:10Speaker 5: I was like, real, that was like super super legit.
- 32:12Speaker 3: Somebody had screamed like somebody else screen recorded it, and
- 32:15Speaker 3: so I save that I don't have. There was even
- 32:17Speaker 3: like a part where Haley's the background She's like I
- 32:19Speaker 3: love Tanya.
- 32:20Speaker 1: Yeah, because you know them, like you met them and stuff.
- 32:23Speaker 1: So that is so crazy.
- 32:24Speaker 3: I know.
- 32:25Speaker 5: In the back I found it too.
- 32:27Speaker 1: Yeah, kind of impressive of you.
- 32:30Speaker 6: Thank you.
- 32:30Speaker 3: It was a It was a real thing, but it
- 32:32Speaker 3: was from I believe it was I don't know the month,
- 32:35Speaker 3: but it was definitely twenty twenty.
- 32:36Speaker 1: And you were doing like radio stuff.
- 32:38Speaker 5: It was Yeah, it was like a radio thing.
- 32:39Speaker 1: What song was he promoting or what.
- 32:41Speaker 3: I don't remember what he was doing or why he
- 32:43Speaker 3: was doing it, but it was so funny because it
- 32:46Speaker 3: took him a long time to like find me because
- 32:49Speaker 3: I was the one doing I was doing it wrong,
- 32:50Speaker 3: Like he kept saying, like looking for Tanya Rad, Tanya Rad,
- 32:53Speaker 3: just like request me so I can accept you. And
- 32:55Speaker 3: then meanwhile I'm on the other end like texting the
- 32:58Speaker 3: label like why can't he see me?
- 32:59Speaker 5: I'm in there, and they're like, you have to request.
- 33:01Speaker 5: I was like, oh no, one.
- 33:03Speaker 1: Had a harder time with technology during COVID, and that
- 33:07Speaker 1: was his.
- 33:07Speaker 3: First one, so I was like he's probably like, oh hell.
- 33:11Speaker 1: This sonya Rat and then we're out.
- 33:16Speaker 3: No. Actually I remember because my friend Simon who works
- 33:19Speaker 3: at HITS one also had like a picture from like
- 33:21Speaker 3: her live with him too.
- 33:22Speaker 4: Remember when you were we.
- 33:23Speaker 1: Did those scrubbing him live on during COVID on the
- 33:27Speaker 1: computer and you were in the chat and you guys.
- 33:29Speaker 3: Couldn't hear me. It was so miserable. I still have
- 33:32Speaker 3: like flashbacks. I still like I have like PTSD with
- 33:35Speaker 3: like computers. Yeah, I think people can hear me when
- 33:38Speaker 3: I'm on you like it's just bad.
- 33:41Speaker 1: Well, thanks for clearing their Yeah yeah, yeah, so it
- 33:43Speaker 1: wasn't ai Yeah, very timely.
- 33:45Speaker 3: I I wish I had like the full video of
- 33:48Speaker 3: like what we chatted about, but that was like.
- 33:50Speaker 4: We're somewhere in the ether, Yeah, in the ether.
- 33:53Speaker 3: Anybody who works on Instagram, here's the question what this year?
- 33:59Speaker 6: Clearly weekend is superior to weekend one next year and
- 34:02Speaker 6: by the way, tickets go on Saily week on Friday
- 34:05Speaker 6: next year, if you could only go to one weekend
- 34:08Speaker 6: wish do you choose in advance knowing that this year
- 34:10Speaker 6: weekend two was the better weekend?
- 34:11Speaker 1: We can I just go to weekend two in general,
- 34:14Speaker 1: because it's unless I went with doctor Schulz and they
- 34:18Speaker 1: were going weekend one, or we can, I would not
- 34:20Speaker 1: have a choice. But or I think I would go
- 34:24Speaker 1: Weekend two. I think it's a little less chill, I
- 34:27Speaker 1: mean a little more chill. Yeah, and I think that
- 34:31Speaker 1: everyone's had their they've done the run through almost weekend one.
- 34:36Speaker 6: I don't know, but there's fewer well actually this year
- 34:38Speaker 6: they are more surprises, but most years in that there's
- 34:40Speaker 6: fewer surprises the weekend two because it's a repeat of
- 34:42Speaker 6: weekend one, so then you're not there for the big
- 34:45Speaker 6: the big moments potentially.
- 34:47Speaker 1: So I say this as someone who is in the
- 34:48Speaker 1: influencer world and considers myself an influencer, but I think
- 34:52Speaker 1: the week one has kind of become so influencer heavy
- 34:55Speaker 1: that I almost think the celebrities and the artists are like,
- 34:59Speaker 1: I'm gonna make weekend two for the fans since the
- 35:02Speaker 1: weekend one is this like.
- 35:06Speaker 4: Could like influencer what do they call influencer super Bowl?
- 35:09Speaker 3: Yeah, but I also think still weekend one you're seeing
- 35:11Speaker 3: things with virgin eyes, So there is.
- 35:13Speaker 1: That I am advantage of if you're just a fan
- 35:16Speaker 1: and you're like, I want to be the first to
- 35:17Speaker 1: see it, Yeah, without the influence, like without any of
- 35:20Speaker 1: the outside stuff, then I think weekend one is really special.
- 35:23Speaker 3: Yeah, like watching Serena Carpenter go up in that thing
- 35:25Speaker 3: with the spout fountains, but like seeing that for the
- 35:30Speaker 3: first time would have like literally made me pass out.
- 35:34Speaker 3: If I saw the second, like the second time, like
- 35:36Speaker 3: I'd be like, okay.
- 35:38Speaker 1: Yeah, you just would have been like been there, done that.
- 35:41Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 35:42Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 35:42Speaker 1: I mean I think there's advantages I just personally because
- 35:46Speaker 1: it's because the crowd seems to be a little more chill.
- 35:50Speaker 4: I would choose weekend two because I'm.
- 35:52Speaker 3: Out there line.
- 35:53Speaker 5: It did not look chiller.
- 35:55Speaker 4: It's not chill, it's a feat.
- 35:57Speaker 3: It looked like chaotic both week It.
- 36:00Speaker 1: Is a weird thing, and I don't know, Like I said,
- 36:03Speaker 1: I just haven't been in so long, but watching people
- 36:07Speaker 1: in crowds moving in one direction to walk to another
- 36:11Speaker 1: stage is a really weird sight. And it feels scary
- 36:18Speaker 1: almost because there it's like this mass going in one direction.
- 36:22Speaker 1: And this one girl we were trying to figure out
- 36:24Speaker 1: this huge crowd was going to the stage.
- 36:25Speaker 4: I was like, who are you?
- 36:27Speaker 1: Are you?
- 36:27Speaker 4: Where's everyone going?
- 36:28Speaker 1: And he goes, I don't.
- 36:29Speaker 3: Know, I'm just calling in the crowd like, oh okay.
- 36:33Speaker 5: I will say when I went.
- 36:35Speaker 3: When I was for there for Bachella and I went
- 36:38Speaker 3: into the crowd, I was solo because I was there
- 36:40Speaker 3: with our boss Biatta and it was just me and her,
- 36:42Speaker 3: and so She's like, I'm gonna watch from out here,
- 36:44Speaker 3: and I was like, I need to be like in there.
- 36:46Speaker 5: So I went in.
- 36:47Speaker 3: I was by myself and it was euphoric like everybody's
- 36:51Speaker 3: but I was drunk.
- 36:52Speaker 4: Yeah, I think being sober.
- 36:54Speaker 1: In that type of crowd alone would cause some anxiety
- 37:01Speaker 1: for me. Yeah, but I think it's those festivals are
- 37:06Speaker 1: for people who just love music and they want to
- 37:08Speaker 1: go from stage to stage and see the artists they love,
- 37:10Speaker 1: and even if they're sitting in the back on the grass,
- 37:12Speaker 1: which I actually think is more enjoyable. Yeah, and getting
- 37:17Speaker 1: to do that all in one weekend is a dream
- 37:19Speaker 1: for people.
- 37:20Speaker 7: Yeah, you didn't have an issue with the crowd, like
- 37:22Speaker 7: being in that Big Beyonce.
- 37:24Speaker 3: Loved being in the Big Beyonce crowd.
- 37:26Speaker 7: It's like, I like, I like punk music, and I've
- 37:30Speaker 7: been in many mosh pits in my life, and I
- 37:32Speaker 7: have no problem being in a crowd like that. But
- 37:34Speaker 7: when I went to stage Coach, I went to see
- 37:36Speaker 7: post Malone and I get in the crowd, I'm like, oh,
- 37:38Speaker 7: this'll be This'll be fine. I got so like because
- 37:42Speaker 7: everyone starts pushing in on each other. I started getting
- 37:44Speaker 7: like cluster phob.
- 37:45Speaker 3: Except I would never go like in in Like. I
- 37:47Speaker 3: was not like in by any barricade, by any means.
- 37:50Speaker 3: I was still like very far removed from the stage.
- 37:52Speaker 3: I have like a lot of room to like move around.
- 37:56Speaker 3: I was not sardined and that would stress me out.
- 37:58Speaker 7: It's it's crazy how dentse that that crowd can get
- 38:02Speaker 7: in certain people.
- 38:03Speaker 1: What do you now that you've had some fomo, would
- 38:06Speaker 1: you go back to Coachell?
- 38:09Speaker 4: Who would have to who would be performing?
- 38:12Speaker 3: It's funny you asked that because I was thinking this
- 38:14Speaker 3: because the tickets go and sale like next week and
- 38:16Speaker 3: for next year, and I.
- 38:17Speaker 5: Was like, how do they top this year?
- 38:19Speaker 3: Like they really nailed it this year?
- 38:22Speaker 5: I feel, how do you top this? Rihanna? That would
- 38:28Speaker 5: top it?
- 38:28Speaker 7: Rihanna would be iconic, like no disrespect, but like you
- 38:32Speaker 7: can't book Olivia Dean for next year because he may
- 38:34Speaker 7: not be the big you know what I mean?
- 38:36Speaker 1: Like I talk to Olivia Dean didn't perform this not
- 38:40Speaker 1: a headliner, but have.
- 38:41Speaker 3: Like the big stage stint.
- 38:43Speaker 1: One of the main like on the main stage is
- 38:45Speaker 1: not the headliner. I was just surprised a.
- 38:48Speaker 3: Little search for me, like Noah, I think Dean was
- 38:52Speaker 3: there last year?
- 38:53Speaker 6: Was that right?
- 38:54Speaker 3: I think.
- 38:56Speaker 1: This search Taylor Swift. I don't know if Taylor Sis
- 39:00Speaker 1: will do it's only she hasn't done why would she
- 39:03Speaker 1: do a festival?
- 39:04Speaker 3: Like do you know what I mean?
- 39:06Speaker 5: Unless it was. She headlined all three.
- 39:08Speaker 6: Nights, Olivia four.
- 39:11Speaker 1: Yeah she's been okay, okay, Olivia Rodrigo. I could see
- 39:16Speaker 1: her headlining next year.
- 39:17Speaker 6: Yeah, that's one. Yes, it's awesome.
- 39:22Speaker 1: I love it. You don't love it.
- 39:23Speaker 3: I know I do, But I still feel like I
- 39:26Speaker 3: feel like having the Sabrina, the Carol g and then
- 39:31Speaker 3: the Bieber in the middle, like somebody that's been gone
- 39:33Speaker 3: for a long time, and then you know what I mean, Like, yeah.
- 39:36Speaker 8: I was saying, what if they did Olivia Rodrigo, Rihanna, Rihanna,
- 39:40Speaker 8: it needs to be real.
- 39:40Speaker 5: They need to get Rihanna.
- 39:42Speaker 1: That's the only one that would bring you back.
- 39:43Speaker 3: I think so. Well, No, I mean I'm probably like
- 39:45Speaker 3: that's be real. If I'm if I'm out of my
- 39:49Speaker 3: tender Tanya phase, I'm going.
- 39:50Speaker 4: Back no matter who it is.
- 39:53Speaker 5: Yeah, I loved Coachella.
- 39:54Speaker 3: Oh yeah, okay, Well I just can't go tenderly because
- 40:00Speaker 3: is that that's just not a thing.
- 40:03Speaker 4: No, no, no, you can't be tender.
- 40:06Speaker 5: Breathing and all that smoke.
- 40:08Speaker 1: I feel like I'm coughing up dust.
- 40:09Speaker 3: That's where I met dust. I can't be breathing and
- 40:12Speaker 3: all that doest air purifiers in every room in my
- 40:16Speaker 3: house right now.
- 40:19Speaker 1: I need those, honestly, Yeah, I have two, but I
- 40:22Speaker 1: need the whole house going. Yeah, there's that bare minimum
- 40:28Speaker 1: checklist that this woman came out with for men that
- 40:30Speaker 1: she dates, and it's gone viral. So I'd like to
- 40:33Speaker 1: touch on that when we come back.
- 40:52Speaker 6: We're back.
- 40:55Speaker 1: So this woman made a bare minimum requirement for any
- 41:01Speaker 1: man that she dates, and I'm gonna read some of
- 41:04Speaker 1: them and we're gonna see where we where we stand
- 41:06Speaker 1: on this.
- 41:07Speaker 3: Okay.
- 41:07Speaker 2: I don't know.
- 41:08Speaker 1: Do you feel this way when people talk about dating
- 41:10Speaker 1: in general, dating but specifically men, and they'll say something
- 41:16Speaker 1: that's just the basic bare minimum he's nice to waiters
- 41:22Speaker 1: or something, and you're like, dang, like the bar is
- 41:25Speaker 1: on the floor for people out there. Do you ever
- 41:28Speaker 1: feel out with people that are single?
- 41:30Speaker 3: No? Because I feel like I was there, like does
- 41:34Speaker 3: he have a pulse? Does he want to go out
- 41:37Speaker 3: with meats?
- 41:39Speaker 1: Okay, please remind me about the hay girl text that
- 41:42Speaker 1: we have to get to by the end of this episode.
- 41:46Speaker 1: Someone marked that.
- 41:47Speaker 3: Okay, So here's this.
- 41:50Speaker 1: Here's this woman's list loves me More, which a lot
- 41:55Speaker 1: of people say they they only if they're dating someone.
- 42:00Speaker 1: It's specifically men and women that the man should love
- 42:03Speaker 1: the woman more.
- 42:03Speaker 6: Yeah, I've heard this as well. Patty brought this back
- 42:07Speaker 6: in the day in the Morning Show. A relationship is
- 42:09Speaker 6: more successful if the man loves the woman a little bit.
- 42:12Speaker 1: More studies on this.
- 42:13Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it's true.
- 42:16Speaker 4: You feel like Robbie loves me more. I think we
- 42:18Speaker 4: go in like waves.
- 42:20Speaker 5: I think we go in waves.
- 42:20Speaker 3: I think there's periods where he loves me more, and
- 42:22Speaker 3: I think there's peros where I love him more.
- 42:24Speaker 1: What about you?
- 42:24Speaker 5: I think he's that way mine?
- 42:27Speaker 10: Okay, Okay, yeah, yeah, I mean I think we love
- 42:30Speaker 10: each other equally, but I think I'm maybe more obsessed
- 42:33Speaker 10: with Alison than she is with me, which is the
- 42:36Speaker 10: right way it should be.
- 42:37Speaker 6: Yeah, just what Easton said, same thing.
- 42:39Speaker 1: Okay, two hundred k or more salary is her bare minimum?
- 42:45Speaker 1: This one, to me, the money thing is is interesting
- 42:49Speaker 1: because I think it's totally fair and fine to have
- 42:53Speaker 1: an expectation or like being realistic about what you expect
- 42:57Speaker 1: in a financial sense. I think these are like conversations
- 43:00Speaker 1: that are very uncomfortable but need to be had just
- 43:03Speaker 1: so someone's not disappointed.
- 43:05Speaker 4: Down the road.
- 43:06Speaker 2: You know.
- 43:07Speaker 4: I guess this depends where you live.
- 43:09Speaker 6: I don't know.
- 43:09Speaker 3: I think it's all relative to where you live.
- 43:13Speaker 6: I think that that's it's silly to do that though,
- 43:15Speaker 6: isn't it. Like I think one of the cool things
- 43:16Speaker 6: that couples always have and old people always say this
- 43:18Speaker 6: is when we were first together, we didn't have the
- 43:20Speaker 6: proverbial pot to piss in. And that's what that was
- 43:23Speaker 6: me and my wife. We had nothing. I was making
- 43:26Speaker 6: no money, and that's how we started. And I think
- 43:28Speaker 6: that's a beautiful thing. You can grow together.
- 43:30Speaker 1: Yeah, being able to grow together, I personally don't think
- 43:33Speaker 1: it's a deal breaker. I just think if the person
- 43:36Speaker 1: has motivation and theyre want to grow together, I think
- 43:39Speaker 1: that's more of what you should be looking for as
- 43:41Speaker 1: opposed to a number of salary.
- 43:43Speaker 9: You know.
- 43:44Speaker 5: Yeah, but I mean, if that's what she wants, that's
- 43:46Speaker 5: what she wants.
- 43:46Speaker 1: This is just a list.
- 43:47Speaker 3: I feel like for me, I never really had like
- 43:50Speaker 3: a like a number of something I wanted somebody to make.
- 43:53Speaker 3: But I definitely wanted somebody that had a career. Like
- 43:56Speaker 3: I didn't want someone that just either like worked for
- 44:00Speaker 3: their family and like inherited a bunch or do you
- 44:03Speaker 3: know what I mean?
- 44:04Speaker 1: Okay, generous, Yeah, just period generous. I think that's a
- 44:10Speaker 1: I think that's important for me personally, whether it's generous
- 44:13Speaker 1: with gift giving, money, time, energy, kindness, whatever, just a
- 44:18Speaker 1: generous person likes the finer things. I think this girl cares.
- 44:22Speaker 1: She has a certain lifestyle she wants to live, which
- 44:25Speaker 1: I respect her putting it out there. She knows what
- 44:27Speaker 1: she wants. Emotionally intelligent, this is a big one, okay,
- 44:31Speaker 1: but I think a lot of people skip over. Okay,
- 44:34Speaker 1: personally chivalrous, yeah, fun, But.
- 44:38Speaker 5: You know what's interesting about chivalry these days?
- 44:41Speaker 4: Tell me.
- 44:43Speaker 3: It's a fine line of what because like chivalry is nice.
- 44:51Speaker 3: I like chivalry. But like if I was dating someone
- 44:54Speaker 3: and I got up to the bathroom and they stood
- 44:56Speaker 3: up with me, I'd be like, sit down, do you
- 44:57Speaker 3: know what I mean?
- 44:58Speaker 1: I don't think that's what she's looking before, but do
- 45:00Speaker 1: you know what I mean?
- 45:01Speaker 3: Like you'd be weirded out too, Like I'd be like,
- 45:03Speaker 3: sit dressed down, I'm just going to the bathroom.
- 45:05Speaker 5: But then they're like trying to be chivalrous.
- 45:07Speaker 4: I've never seen someone do that.
- 45:08Speaker 3: I'm not having old school I went on a date
- 45:11Speaker 3: with a guy like that, and it was like nice,
- 45:13Speaker 3: Like at first he like opened my car door and
- 45:15Speaker 3: like opened the doors, which again chivalry nice. And then
- 45:18Speaker 3: the guy stood up when I went to the bathroom
- 45:20Speaker 3: and I was like goodbye. So it's a fine line
- 45:23Speaker 3: and I was a feel breaker. I feel bad for
- 45:25Speaker 3: that guy because I sent him packing, but it was
- 45:27Speaker 3: like really weirded me out.
- 45:28Speaker 5: And then yeah, I.
- 45:31Speaker 1: Randomly, just recently, Haley went to get in the car
- 45:34Speaker 1: door and I went and opened it before her, and
- 45:36Speaker 1: I was like, this is so this is dumb, Like
- 45:38Speaker 1: I don't.
- 45:40Speaker 3: Weird and Robbie does it for me like when we
- 45:41Speaker 3: have date nights and opened my door and I'm like,
- 45:44Speaker 3: I was.
- 45:45Speaker 1: Like, that was so much work for what Like I
- 45:47Speaker 1: can open the car, I can open the door for you,
- 45:49Speaker 1: but I don't need no one needs it for me,
- 45:52Speaker 1: And I don't think that she needs me to do
- 45:53Speaker 1: it for herr.
- 45:54Speaker 7: Yeah, I do it every time, every single time.
- 45:59Speaker 1: Of it's a lot of work.
- 46:01Speaker 6: I love it.
- 46:02Speaker 7: I love the opportunity to do.
- 46:03Speaker 1: And that's what matters Easton. I'm sure Alison loves it too.
- 46:06Speaker 1: My friends and family love him. That's an ideal situation.
- 46:10Speaker 1: But okay, sometimes you can't choose who.
- 46:16Speaker 4: Likes the person that you love.
- 46:17Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 46:19Speaker 1: Timely, which I'm guessing is on time. Prompt, Yeah, prompt,
- 46:23Speaker 1: which I would not be a good fit for this person. Yeah, confident,
- 46:27Speaker 1: sexually disciplined. What do you think?
- 46:30Speaker 4: Oh do you think that means like not watching peorn
- 46:32Speaker 4: and stuff?
- 46:33Speaker 1: Oh?
- 46:33Speaker 3: Yeah, interesting, I've never heard that term.
- 46:35Speaker 1: Not a mama's boy, A big one, big one tries hard.
- 46:46Speaker 3: She wants someone that tries hard. I feel like that's like, ick.
- 46:49Speaker 4: What this is the last Wait?
- 46:51Speaker 7: What tries hard?
- 46:53Speaker 6: Is you want effort? Don't you want efforts?
- 46:56Speaker 1: Effort?
- 46:57Speaker 3: Try hard, try hard, but try hard. I'll try hard,
- 47:01Speaker 3: but try where you put the emphasis right right?
- 47:03Speaker 4: Yeah, just puts an effort. Yes, this is the last one.
- 47:07Speaker 1: Wants to protect me even if we're divorced, like a
- 47:09Speaker 1: real class, honorable person.
- 47:12Speaker 3: Okay, okay, it feels like you're setting yourself up for
- 47:15Speaker 3: failure with that one.
- 47:16Speaker 1: Some of the commentary, not even Superman meets these criteria.
- 47:20Speaker 4: Dude, she's already planning for the divorce.
- 47:22Speaker 3: Yeah, yikes, this girl's not giving lifetime love.
- 47:28Speaker 1: Someone said, according to the female Delusion, calculator. The probability
- 47:32Speaker 1: of man meets her criteria in the USA is thirty
- 47:34Speaker 1: two point three two percent.
- 47:36Speaker 4: Worldwide, it's much much lower.
- 47:38Speaker 1: Good luck.
- 47:39Speaker 3: Do you want to think so embarrassing that I did
- 47:41Speaker 3: on Friday night?
- 47:42Speaker 4: Is it the hay Girl text?
- 47:43Speaker 1: No?
- 47:43Speaker 3: Oh, So I'm on a triple date.
- 47:46Speaker 5: So it's three couples.
- 47:47Speaker 1: Okay, thank you for explaining.
- 47:49Speaker 3: One, two, three, four, five, six of us. And this
- 47:52Speaker 3: guy walks over to our table and he walks over
- 47:55Speaker 3: to one of Robbie's friends and like he's on the
- 47:57Speaker 3: end of the table. So he walks over to Robbie's
- 47:59Speaker 3: friend and the like conversing. Okay, so they're like at
- 48:01Speaker 3: the end of the table conversing. I do this because
- 48:04Speaker 3: I think, I know, I think this is like a
- 48:06Speaker 3: guy that I know very well. I put my head
- 48:09Speaker 3: out like this and I'm.
- 48:10Speaker 2: Like, excuse me, excuse.
- 48:13Speaker 5: Me, and then he like looks at me and he's
- 48:15Speaker 5: like hey. I'm like hey, and then I'm like you're
- 48:18Speaker 5: not who I thought you were.
- 48:20Speaker 3: And it was so awkward, Like I literally was like
- 48:23Speaker 3: because he was like playing into it too, and I was.
- 48:25Speaker 5: Like, I've never met you.
- 48:26Speaker 1: I thought you were my friend.
- 48:28Speaker 5: And then I was so awkward.
- 48:30Speaker 3: So this is just a PSA to anybody. If you
- 48:33Speaker 3: think you spot somebody.
- 48:35Speaker 1: Really take a good look, really take it.
- 48:39Speaker 3: It was so embarrassing.
- 48:41Speaker 1: It just reminded me of your last week's conversation or
- 48:44Speaker 1: not being able to converse with the guy in the
- 48:46Speaker 1: kitchen while you're micro social.
- 48:48Speaker 3: Skills, like completely, and I didn't know how to come
- 48:50Speaker 3: back from it. And now it's going to be like
- 48:52Speaker 3: our joke every time I see this guy and they're like, hey,
- 48:54Speaker 3: on time, not sing excuse me? And I told Robbie
- 48:58Speaker 3: who I thought it was and he was like, oh yeah,
- 48:59Speaker 3: like I kind of see the resemblance.
- 49:00Speaker 1: Like was Robbie confused why you were doing that?
- 49:03Speaker 9: Like?
- 49:03Speaker 1: Why is she doing? Was like, who is this guy?
- 49:05Speaker 2: How do you know? He was like, what's it really
- 49:14Speaker 2: like that.
- 49:16Speaker 6: In the restaurant you're drunk? No, not, that's how you
- 49:20Speaker 6: act when you're sober in the restaurant.
- 49:22Speaker 5: Yes, not loud. Yes it was a loud restaurant.
- 49:25Speaker 1: It wasn't appropriate. Okay, it wasn't like out of.
- 49:31Speaker 3: Left field, right. It was so embarrassing. I was like,
- 49:34Speaker 3: oh my gosh. And then I felt like I had
- 49:35Speaker 3: to justify that my friend is like really hot, you
- 49:38Speaker 3: know what I mean. Like I was like, oh my gosh,
- 49:39Speaker 3: my friend is like so good looking. I'm like trying
- 49:40Speaker 3: to find a photo of him online and.
- 49:42Speaker 2: Like did you have to do that?
- 49:44Speaker 6: I don't know.
- 49:45Speaker 3: So I'm like, I find all I have is his
- 49:48Speaker 3: Instagram photo. He's wearing like a hat that's like the
- 49:51Speaker 3: hats like that down like this, like covering half of
- 49:53Speaker 3: his face. And that's only because he's private, that's and
- 49:56Speaker 3: that's the only photo he has on his page.
- 49:58Speaker 5: So I'm like showing that photo to everybody. I'm like,
- 50:00Speaker 5: doesn't he kind of look like this guy?
- 50:01Speaker 3: Like I felt like I had to justify the I'm stressed,
- 50:04Speaker 3: it was so bad?
- 50:06Speaker 6: Why would you keep digging the whole deeper in? Because
- 50:08Speaker 6: I made.
- 50:08Speaker 5: Such a like stink of it.
- 50:11Speaker 4: Excuse me? She had to.
- 50:12Speaker 3: Follow, and then I had to tell her the story
- 50:15Speaker 3: of like how I know the guy that I thought
- 50:17Speaker 3: it was and I had a big crush on him
- 50:19Speaker 3: and in college and like I was like, there for.
- 50:23Speaker 6: All this stuff was the guy standing there?
- 50:25Speaker 9: Yeah?
- 50:26Speaker 2: You know, you know what.
- 50:26Speaker 1: I'm really trying to work on because I too try
- 50:30Speaker 1: to fill silence or awkwardness by talking more, And I
- 50:34Speaker 1: always find myself going, why did I overdo it so much?
- 50:38Speaker 1: Why didn't I just let the silence or the awkwardness
- 50:40Speaker 1: sit and pass instead of trying to fill it? Because
- 50:44Speaker 1: sometimes I leave, I leave the conversation and I'm I've
- 50:48Speaker 1: just shared something so personal with someone that I just
- 50:51Speaker 1: met as a way of trying to make them feel comfortable.
- 50:55Speaker 3: Yeah, I understand, and.
- 50:57Speaker 4: They don't give anything back to me.
- 50:58Speaker 1: And then I'm what you're going, why did I share
- 51:01Speaker 1: about that? What was that the thing that I filled
- 51:04Speaker 1: it with?
- 51:05Speaker 3: So I see you, thanks, But it was so bad.
- 51:09Speaker 4: Physically hot thinking about the panda.
- 51:11Speaker 3: I'm embarrassed by it.
- 51:12Speaker 6: To be honest, we're almost out of time. I gotta
- 51:16Speaker 6: do it now because otherwise I have to add another
- 51:18Speaker 6: commercial break.
- 51:18Speaker 3: So Mark is always trying to make these shorter, nor Mark, Mark, Mark.
- 51:24Speaker 6: You can go as long as you want, but I
- 51:25Speaker 6: have to add a third commercial break.
- 51:26Speaker 3: That's all nobody wants that.
- 51:28Speaker 1: Mom, I go, okay, So Tanya text me and she goes,
- 51:36Speaker 1: you know, Tanya always gets me with a great clickbait.
- 51:40Speaker 1: Sometimes it's good. Sometimes like today, she goes, what did
- 51:44Speaker 1: you say to me? You want to know something. Yeah,
- 51:46Speaker 1: you want to know something? And I go, I'd love to.
- 51:51Speaker 6: Can we guess what it's gonna because it's gonna be
- 51:53Speaker 6: like non, I you're my best friend.
- 51:56Speaker 4: Yes, I guess what it is.
- 51:57Speaker 6: You mean a lot to me. I was thinking about
- 51:59Speaker 6: you no warm or not?
- 52:03Speaker 1: No?
- 52:03Speaker 4: Can I tell you something? That's what she says, can't
- 52:06Speaker 4: take you?
- 52:07Speaker 1: I go, of course, She goes, we don't have radio today,
- 52:11Speaker 1: so podcast is my first thing, loving it and I go,
- 52:16Speaker 1: oh wow, the dream and I go, thank you so
- 52:20Speaker 1: much for sharing that with me. Ob sarcastic, I asked her,
- 52:25Speaker 1: is that sarcastic?
- 52:28Speaker 3: I thought she would enjoy because I was like relating
- 52:30Speaker 3: with her, Like I was like, oh, I'm like living
- 52:31Speaker 3: my life as Beckatilly today, like going in for the podcast.
- 52:36Speaker 1: I like, if you had said, I total, this is amazing.
- 52:38Speaker 1: I can't believe you get to do this every Monday.
- 52:40Speaker 5: That's kind of where I.
- 52:41Speaker 3: Was going with it.
- 52:42Speaker 5: But that's not when I got back and I was.
- 52:43Speaker 1: Like, why really what I got? Okay?
- 52:48Speaker 3: Swinging a miss?
- 52:49Speaker 1: So anyways, the next the thing that she texted me,
- 52:52Speaker 1: she goes, you want to see something sad, which that
- 52:55Speaker 1: can be multiple things, and I.
- 52:57Speaker 5: Said, sad funny, not sad sad.
- 52:58Speaker 4: Yeah, she goes sad funny, sad funny.
- 53:00Speaker 1: So she sends me her text a screenshot of her
- 53:03Speaker 1: text thread with Camilla Luddington.
- 53:07Speaker 9: Which how she has her number. I don't even know
- 53:11Speaker 9: how that happened. First of all, the two texts above
- 53:15Speaker 9: the one she sent me are green, and I'm like,
- 53:17Speaker 9: this is not good.
- 53:21Speaker 1: And she goes, she started, it's so sad.
- 53:24Speaker 4: She starts to text high girl.
- 53:26Speaker 2: Tanya has never you are.
- 53:28Speaker 4: So not a high girl person.
- 53:30Speaker 2: To meet girl?
- 53:32Speaker 1: Hey girl, you've never said that to me?
- 53:34Speaker 5: Well, you're not my girl?
- 53:37Speaker 4: How she shocked herself by her own words.
- 53:40Speaker 5: You're not my girl.
- 53:42Speaker 4: It's just giving, not genuine.
- 53:44Speaker 5: What do I say, Hey babe, hey lady.
- 53:49Speaker 6: You don't know her that? Well, Hi, Camilla, it's Tanya.
- 53:53Speaker 6: How about that?
- 53:54Speaker 1: She knows it and they apparently had a long conversation
- 53:57Speaker 1: before this. So anyways, Tanya goes high Girl hoeball as well,
- 54:04Speaker 1: wanted to check in on how things were going.
- 54:06Speaker 4: Would love to pick your brain.
- 54:08Speaker 6: Oh gosh, she does.
- 54:14Speaker 1: Has she responded yet?
- 54:16Speaker 5: No?
- 54:18Speaker 3: When was this last week? Sometime?
- 54:21Speaker 6: And it was green?
- 54:23Speaker 1: No? No, no, this one, but the first the ones
- 54:26Speaker 1: above that were green, and I was like, I think
- 54:30Speaker 1: it's a high girl, dude.
- 54:32Speaker 3: You said a lot, Yeah, hi girl, what do you
- 54:36Speaker 3: want to pick her brain about? Just some business for
- 54:39Speaker 3: me to know, for you to find out later.
- 54:42Speaker 1: Your highlighter looks really nice.
- 54:44Speaker 3: Thank you.
- 54:44Speaker 4: Yeah, it just really the sun really hit it.
- 54:47Speaker 1: But the whole thing about it was that I've never
- 54:51Speaker 1: seen or heard use a high girl.
- 54:55Speaker 3: So I don't use high girl with you because I
- 54:59Speaker 3: don't need to.
- 55:00Speaker 5: I use high girl with people that like.
- 55:03Speaker 3: Like Kolena and Jess Helena, please put some respect on
- 55:08Speaker 3: the man. But yes, like a Helena or a Jeess,
- 55:11Speaker 3: like somebody that like I know, like we're like yeah, like,
- 55:18Speaker 3: but not like a close friend, you know girl on DMS. Yet.
- 55:23Speaker 1: I do think if you go to the UK, they'll
- 55:25Speaker 1: begining to high girl.
- 55:26Speaker 5: Do I go, yes, they will. The next interactional be
- 55:28Speaker 5: hey girl, hey.
- 55:32Speaker 7: Girl, sell a few of you in front of big Bang.
- 55:34Speaker 6: Guess he's in town.
- 55:36Speaker 1: I do hate when I send a text to someone
- 55:38Speaker 1: that's kind of an acquaintance and they're just ghosts me.
- 55:40Speaker 1: It's so and I get it because it's she has kids.
- 55:43Speaker 4: And a whole career and a lot.
- 55:45Speaker 2: You know what, I.
- 55:46Speaker 1: Don't expect it, but its double text, mind quadruple text.
- 55:52Speaker 1: If you hit her again, I have no shame.
- 55:55Speaker 5: I literally do not care.
- 55:57Speaker 4: Well if it goes through green again, we know what
- 56:00Speaker 4: happens dot.
- 56:01Speaker 5: Dot dot or like a microphone.
- 56:03Speaker 1: I can only do that to like my friends following
- 56:06Speaker 1: up here, just.
- 56:07Speaker 3: Kindly following up. No, you're not kindly following up. You're
- 56:11Speaker 3: aggressively following up.
- 56:13Speaker 4: Oh man, I just love you.
- 56:15Speaker 1: You're such a gym.
- 56:16Speaker 3: Thanks.
- 56:18Speaker 1: All right, Well, we are saying goodbye on this podcast,
- 56:21Speaker 1: but we will be back on Thursday with an advice
- 56:25Speaker 1: column called Dear Bonya, so stay tuned for that.
- 56:30Speaker 4: We love you so much.
- 56:31Speaker 5: I love you