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Trust and Manifestation · Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio

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Speaker 1: Hi, this is Amy with Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio,
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Speaker 1: and this is your sacred space for spirituality, intuition, manifestation
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Speaker 1: and metaphysical wisdom. Today, let's talk about trust. So I
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Speaker 1: bought a deck this year that I fell in love with.
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Speaker 1: I haven't fallen madly in love with a deck since
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Speaker 1: probably Adoring Virtue deck, and it has a card that
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Speaker 1: says trust. And so when it came up, I started
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Speaker 1: to really accept and play with the energy of trust,
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Speaker 1: and so I thought, let's talk about trust here on
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Speaker 1: the program. So trust as it relates to faith and
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Speaker 1: manifestation and your daily decision making, what is it? So
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Speaker 1: trust is, Trust is a sensation, Trust is a choice.
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Speaker 1: Trust is I'm going off book because I didn't love
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Speaker 1: the message that I had here because I wrote trust
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Speaker 1: is not a feeling, and I was like, is it
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Speaker 1: not a feeling? Because I have another deck that I've
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Speaker 1: actually did some shows from that deck here on the program,
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Speaker 1: and there is a trust card and I use that
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Speaker 1: card to tap into the vibration I need to be
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Speaker 1: in to manifest whatever result I desire. So when the
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Speaker 1: trust card comes up, I do think it actually is
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Speaker 1: a place you can go to in your body. So
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Speaker 1: does that make it a feeling. Maybe so, we'll call
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Speaker 1: it a sensation. But more so, it's a choice. It's
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Speaker 1: a choice in how you use your mind. Most people
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Speaker 1: wait to feel calm and then they allow themselves to trust,
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Speaker 1: but it never really works that way. Trust comes first,
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Speaker 1: and then you calm down or you do it at
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Speaker 1: the same time. Like for me, if it's an oracle
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Speaker 1: card situation where I'm like, okay, what do I need
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Speaker 1: to know about this situation to get what I want?
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Speaker 1: And the trust card comes up, I know that now
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Speaker 1: I need to choose to calm down, to center myself
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Speaker 1: to their elements of trust in those moments where it
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Speaker 1: needs some surrender and where I have to believe it
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Speaker 1: is all coming together. And so trust is deciding that
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Speaker 1: things are coming together even when you cannot see how.
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Speaker 1: That's the surrender piece, right, And it's deciding that spirit
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Speaker 1: is supporting you even when the evidence is in complete
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Speaker 1: or inconclusive or non existent. Trust is allowing allowing things
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Speaker 1: to keep moving even when you know. The safe choice
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Speaker 1: would be like wait until you have some proof, but
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Speaker 1: it doesn't work that way. Like every time I am
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Speaker 1: waiting for proof around something that I can perceed like proof.
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Speaker 1: So I feel safe proceeding because really it becomes a
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Speaker 1: matter of your nervous system and feeling safe. It never
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Speaker 1: unfolds that way. It's trust first, and trust is a
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Speaker 1: part of faith. And if you've been following my work
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Speaker 1: for some time, or maybe you've just stumbled upon me,
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Speaker 1: I went through a divorce in twenty seventeen. I was
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Speaker 1: still running this business at the time, and I came
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Speaker 1: out of an environment and lifestyle, and for the first
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Speaker 1: time in a long time, I had to trust at
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Speaker 1: a new level because let me so. I started my
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Speaker 1: business in twenty twelve, and within that year I moved
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Speaker 1: in with my ex husband. And it was a lifestyle, right.
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Speaker 1: It was a lifestyle that it was rooted in affluence,
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Speaker 1: and a part of that was I didn't have a
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Speaker 1: mortgage or rent, and in California, that's a huge expense.
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Speaker 1: So when I came out of my marriage and I'm
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Speaker 1: looking at my business and saying, girl, you got to
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Speaker 1: pay for an apartment in all these beautiful areas you
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Speaker 1: like living in, I recognized that my faith was actually
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Speaker 1: pretty low in some areas, and so I went on
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Speaker 1: this journey to relearn faith I've always considered myself a
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Speaker 1: faithful person, and so in my studies, in my research,
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Speaker 1: in my practices, even in I offered a program on
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Speaker 1: faith a couple of years ago, and in all of that,
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Speaker 1: I have figured out that faith has four components, optimism, intuition, action,
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Speaker 1: and trust. And so trust is an energy that can
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Speaker 1: get lost in those other energies. And so trust is
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Speaker 1: what keeps you willing to take action. And trust will
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Speaker 1: help you stop questioning, stop the mind chatter, and stop
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Speaker 1: you from trying to figure everything out at once. And
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Speaker 1: of course all of that is a normal part of
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Speaker 1: the human experience. The mind does chatter away at us negatively,
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Speaker 1: it does ask unnecessary questions, and it does try to
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Speaker 1: solve everything all at one time or just focus on
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Speaker 1: the problem. That is the human condition. But trust is
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Speaker 1: when you hear that chatter and you don't follow it.
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Speaker 1: You stop, like that's what I do. And I hear
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Speaker 1: the mind chatter, now I'm like, stop, Nope, not going
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Speaker 1: down that road. It's the part of the heart that
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Speaker 1: can start to pitter patter and worry and rush and
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Speaker 1: try to protect and oh my god, it's all going
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Speaker 1: to fall apart. Trust is when you say no, I
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Speaker 1: don't have to do that. We're okay, we're moving forward,
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Speaker 1: all this coming together for my good and in my favor.
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Speaker 1: And trust never means you stop taking action. Oh my god,
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Speaker 1: it like even that thought, like it just makes me
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Speaker 1: like it's like chock, what is it? Nails on a
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Speaker 1: chalkboard for me, because I've heard so many quote unquote
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Speaker 1: spiritual people self sabotage by saying like, oh, I'm just
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Speaker 1: trusting God. No, that's not trusting God. You were trusting
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Speaker 1: God is continuing to take action. It takes a hell
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Speaker 1: of a lot of faith to keep moving towards something
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Speaker 1: when you have no idea if it's going to work
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Speaker 1: out when you get up. For case in point, these podcasts.
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Speaker 1: I continue to record these podcasts because a I believe
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Speaker 1: and have faith they they support the growth and expansion
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Speaker 1: of my business. I could easily not record a podcast easily.
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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know.
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Speaker 2: I am. I do love, I do love doing it.
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Speaker 1: But yeah, Like, it takes a hell of a lot
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Speaker 1: of courage to get up and show up. And that
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Speaker 1: is God. It is not standing on the sidelin of
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Speaker 1: your life saying well, I'm just waiting on God. No,
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Speaker 1: that is not trust. Trust mean to stop letting yourself
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Speaker 1: go to the place of panic around things, and you
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Speaker 1: just center into doing what feels right, what is the
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Speaker 1: best course of action for you in your situation and
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Speaker 1: believing in yourself. Trust is not about needing others to
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Speaker 1: do for you. It's trusting the flow of God in
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Speaker 1: all things trust and faith. Trust is an aspect of faith.
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Speaker 1: So you may not understand timing of things, you may
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Speaker 1: not understand the exact path, but you know you're not alone.
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Speaker 1: You know you're not alone. That is the trust, trusting
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Speaker 1: that God's got it. So when the trust card comes
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Speaker 1: up for me, I know my manifestation is just around
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Speaker 1: the corner because I have I'm like.
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Speaker 2: Oh, I get it, I get it.
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Speaker 1: Just keep going, Everything's okay, I'm good. Because trust is
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Speaker 1: connected to surrender. Surrender, let's talk about surrender again. Surrender
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Speaker 1: is releasing the need to control every single step. It's
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Speaker 1: allowing support to show up in forms you did not plan.
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Speaker 1: It's allowing things to be redirected, not in a way
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Speaker 1: in which says you can't have what you want, but
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Speaker 1: being redirected to an even better path. What's flashing right now?
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Speaker 1: The woman I keep talking to you about. I call
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Speaker 1: her the Surrender Lady, Toshi, Tasha Silver. She tells a
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Speaker 1: story about I love it because she's from the Bay Area,
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Speaker 1: so a livetime she'll reference like San Francisco in Oakland
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Speaker 1: and Berkeley, and she said she was going to a
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Speaker 1: cafe I think in San Francisco and she went in
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Speaker 1: and she wanted some hot apple cider and it was cold,
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Speaker 1: and the woman in front of her ordered cider too,
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Speaker 1: and they said, we're all out of cider. And the
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Speaker 1: woman in front of her was like, furious, what how
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Speaker 1: can you be out of cider so cold outside? And so,
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Speaker 1: you know, the woman Tasha or to she heard the
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Speaker 1: story and so she's she left. She just left, you know,
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Speaker 1: she didn't have to, you know, make it a big thing.
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Speaker 1: And she winds up going to the store that she
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Speaker 1: was in that area four and they were giving out
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Speaker 1: free hot apple cider. That, my friends, is trust. That
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Speaker 1: is surrender. Where you're like, okay, okay, all right, God,
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Speaker 1: I get it. You know. I had to play with
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Speaker 1: Surrender for the first time actively during the fires in January.
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Speaker 1: It was to date so far, one of my highest
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Speaker 1: grossing months, and I had, you know, I was doing
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Speaker 1: some gig work at the time to supplement my business income,
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Speaker 1: and because of the fires here in Los Angeles, I
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Speaker 1: couldn't do the gig work and I just had to surrender.
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Speaker 1: I remember, I remember, like you know, I'm in Pasadena
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Speaker 1: and Altadena is the town right above us. So the
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Speaker 1: mountains that I look at, my San Gabriel Mountains were
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Speaker 1: what were on fire. And so I'm literally looking out
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Speaker 1: the window of my bedroom at you know, the mountain burning,
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Speaker 1: and I thought, and I had really started to rely
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Speaker 1: on the gig work at that time, and I looked
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Speaker 1: at that and I said, fuck. And all I knew
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Speaker 1: was I'm going to be okay. And it was the
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Speaker 1: first time, like I knew I had to surrender because really,
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Speaker 1: like so many things were shut down. Yeah, it just
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Speaker 1: wasn't like I couldn't be like out and about and
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Speaker 1: the air quality was low. And I kid you not.
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Speaker 1: I had a client I had not talked to in
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Speaker 1: actively in maybe about five years.
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Speaker 2: She showed up.
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Speaker 1: She was going through something and she just bought session
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Speaker 1: after session after session after session made up the full
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Speaker 1: difference from what I was making in gigwork. It was
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Speaker 1: such a blessing to me because I was ready to
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Speaker 1: let that gigwork go. But when you have a stream
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Speaker 1: of income like that and your faith is low, and
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Speaker 1: my faith can be a bit low around Ernie, and
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Speaker 1: even though I get it and I understand the mechanics
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Speaker 1: of it, it can be a bit low. And so,
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Speaker 1: and I had just come off the death of my mother,
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Speaker 1: So I really was feeling like who am I right now?
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Speaker 1: And not in terms of like me as a spiritual person,
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Speaker 1: but in terms of like am I safe in the world.
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Speaker 2: And so.
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Speaker 1: I was like, holy shit, this business not only supports me,
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Speaker 1: but supports me well. And I much rather do this.
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Speaker 1: And it really shifted me out of the mindset of
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Speaker 1: reliance on the gigwork and I started to really, matter
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Speaker 1: of fact, it was a goal to work it out
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Speaker 1: of my earning system and my reliance on it. And
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Speaker 1: as I did that, as I went through that experience,
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Speaker 1: you know, fires disaster, I had to just surrender. And
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Speaker 1: it was the first time where I'm like, oh, there's
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Speaker 1: something to this surrender. A. It's way less work, and
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Speaker 1: B I not only survive, I thrive. I'm so in
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Speaker 1: and I'm still learning it as it being a constant
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Speaker 1: energy in my spiritual journey. But man, surrender. I've done
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Speaker 1: now two shows where I'm talking about surrender. There is
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Speaker 1: a reason. It is for your good and in your favor.
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Speaker 1: Learn it again. I am so grateful that I had
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Speaker 1: heard of this woman's work so I could go and
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Speaker 1: Tasha Silver. She has an audiobook on the Change Me Prayers.
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Speaker 1: She has a beautiful way of telling stories, She has
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Speaker 1: a beautiful way of talking about spirituality, but more so,
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Speaker 1: she has a beautiful way of embodying cleanly the energy
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Speaker 1: of surrender. And if you can just even hear her voice,
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Speaker 1: you'll hear it. It's a frequency, right, And so surrender
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Speaker 1: letting go of control of every step, allowing support to
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Speaker 1: show up in all forms you did not plan. And
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Speaker 1: the biggest lesson for me is ways that I necessarily
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Speaker 1: didn't want it to come through, right. I wanted to
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Speaker 1: come through this way or this way or this way,
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Speaker 1: and it came through that way. And I am slowly
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Speaker 1: surrendering that and saying I'm okay with that. I'm okay
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Speaker 1: with that. So when you trust, you create space, and
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Speaker 1: when you create space, all the guidance, wisdom, support that
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Speaker 1: you need can reach you. Manifestation requires trust because results
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Speaker 1: often arrive after you commit, not before you have to decide,
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Speaker 1: and then you start moving, and then in that process
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Speaker 1: you start trusting, and then miracles unfold and pieces began
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Speaker 1: to organize, and a simple trust practice can change the
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Speaker 1: whole unfolding of your life, can change your physical body, right,
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Speaker 1: you know, I was going through something where I was like, ugh,
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Speaker 1: I don't know, not feeling great, and I was telling
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Speaker 1: myself that, and then I realized, I'm like, it's been
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Speaker 1: about a week that I've been telling myself this. I'm like,
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Speaker 1: am I sick? Do I need to go to a doctor?
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Speaker 1: I'm like no, but I don't need to go to doctor.
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Speaker 1: I'm just not feeling great. And then I was like, oh,
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Speaker 1: what's missing is trust. What's missing is well my spiritual
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Speaker 1: practice I always practice, but there there's a way in
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Speaker 1: which I practice where oh, it's like next level feel good.
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Speaker 1: And so I wasn't practicing at that level. And I
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Speaker 1: was like, Okay, let's return to a state of trust
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Speaker 1: and let's get moving. Let's get moving, because when you
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Speaker 1: start to trust, everything changed. So when your fear comes up,
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Speaker 1: I want you to pause, I want you to take
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Speaker 1: a breath. I want you to say, I'm choosing to
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Speaker 1: trust right now. I don't know how this is all
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Speaker 1: coming together. I am going to do my part and
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Speaker 1: move forward. And who's going to do a show on this?
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Speaker 1: But I think I'm just going to wrap it into
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Speaker 1: this show. Take action, take action, take action, take action,
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Speaker 1: take action, take action, whatever it is for you and
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Speaker 1: your situation. I'm not saying take action from the action
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Speaker 1: you're forcing a result. No, that's not what I'm talking about.
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Speaker 1: Forcing and pushing no. Action is just a part of
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Speaker 1: moving right. I mentioned in a previous show that I
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Speaker 1: have a client that if she does one thing in
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Speaker 1: her business, she feels like the world needs to show
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Speaker 1: up for her, and if it.
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Speaker 2: Doesn't, then she's pissed.
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Speaker 1: And I'm like, girl, just take more action. If nothing else,
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Speaker 1: it gives your mind something to do, right and so,
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Speaker 1: but really, what that comes down to her getting pissed
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Speaker 1: and angry at the world is trust. I'm not trusting myself.
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Speaker 1: I'm not trusting my business. I'm not trusting the world.
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Speaker 1: I'm not trusting this desire that's on my heart. And
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Speaker 1: when you are in a state of trust, you take action. Again,
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Speaker 1: It's all a part of faith, and I'll say it
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Speaker 1: to you again. I'm going to keep screaming it to
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Speaker 1: the to the hills. Faith is four parts and extensively
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Speaker 1: studied it. First part is optimism. You got to feel good.
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Speaker 1: Your desires can't take root until you feel good about it.
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Speaker 1: And I'm not gonna lie to you. Optimism can be work.
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Speaker 1: It's not just something that like, oh, be positive.
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Speaker 2: Fuck.
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Speaker 1: No, Optimism is a high level emotion and humans are not.
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Speaker 2: We're not We've not a we.
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Speaker 1: Have evolved as a species where optimism is not a
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Speaker 1: primary thought. It's not a primary way of being. It's
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Speaker 1: our natural state. Yes, it's a natural state. You see
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Speaker 1: it in kids all the time. So optimism intuition, action
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Speaker 1: and trust. And so if you are sensing, oh, I
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Speaker 1: just need to trust. I want you to know your
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Speaker 1: desires almost coming into form. And you don't need to
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Speaker 1: be perfect with your faith, though, you do need to
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Speaker 1: be strong in your trust. And I help you do that.
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Speaker 1: I help you trust yourself, I help you trust life.
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Speaker 1: I help you trust your desires. I help you trust
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Speaker 1: all that's going on in your world and in your life.
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Speaker 1: And so the one year Intuitive Coaching package that is
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Speaker 1: a part of the work that we do. If needed,
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Speaker 1: you will learn how to trust yourself. You will learn
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Speaker 1: how to trust the guidance and wisdom flowing within and
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Speaker 1: around you.
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Speaker 2: You will learn to.
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Speaker 1: Keep going without collapsing into fear or frustration, and you
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Speaker 1: will feel supported as you build real faith, and you
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Speaker 1: will start to see your desires manifest with greater ease.
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Speaker 1: So you know, returning to my January, that was all
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Speaker 1: just surrender in trust. Yeah, And I want you to
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Speaker 1: experience that sensation, that feeling, that openness, that pathway, and
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Speaker 1: I'll be I'll share this with you. Why I'm bringing
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Speaker 1: up now here. It is December. I've not been able
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Speaker 1: to get to that level of surrender again in that
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Speaker 1: way where it was just so inherent. And here's why.
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Speaker 1: Because obviously I'm looking at a burning mountain. I'm looking
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Speaker 1: I'm far enough away and knew it wasn't going to well.
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Speaker 1: There were that during the heaviest of the winds, it
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Speaker 1: was very scary for everybody because you know, embers are
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Speaker 1: blowing all over the place, you know, just homes and things,
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Speaker 1: and homes were catching fire. But once the winds calmed
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Speaker 1: down and it was just the mountain burning. I'm looking
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Speaker 1: at that and I'm saying, Okay, this is a disaster
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Speaker 1: and I have no control over this, and so I
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Speaker 1: could surrender very easily. But outside of like a disaster
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Speaker 1: or an emergency, or if I had a health issue,
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Speaker 1: I have not been able to reach that level of
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Speaker 1: surrender naturally. And I want to. I want to so,
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Speaker 1: but you know, even as I'm talking you right now,
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Speaker 1: my spare GUIDs are saying, it's just spiritual practice.
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Speaker 2: So while yes, I could get.
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Speaker 1: There in these crisises and maybe in my everyday life,
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Speaker 1: I have to do my practice a spiritual practice, and
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Speaker 1: that is what you will learn and develop and expand
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Speaker 1: in the one year Intuitive Coaching package is spiritual practice.
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Speaker 1: You will learn to trust that journey. So if you
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Speaker 1: are ready to create the life of your dreams, then
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Speaker 1: I would love to support you spiritually energetically as a
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Speaker 1: manifestor in the one year Intuitive Coaching package. You can
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Speaker 1: learn more at Intuitive Coaching Withthamy dot com. All right,
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Speaker 1: so trust is a decision, and you're going to make
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Speaker 1: that decision over and over again. There's never a day
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Speaker 1: where I'm like.
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Speaker 2: Oh, I just trust and it's locked in. Now.
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Speaker 1: I think we are always recommitting to trust. That's a
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Speaker 1: part of the practice and it's fun and you get
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Speaker 1: to see how things show up more beautifully and miraculously
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Speaker 1: in your life. So uh, trust, Make the decision to trust,
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Speaker 1: and then you will watch your desire unfold again. I'll
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Speaker 1: say this to you when I see that trust card,
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Speaker 1: I know my desire is just around the corner. Whenever
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Speaker 1: I've been looking to manifest, whatever I've been working on,
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Speaker 1: whatever I've been focusing on, I know that desire is
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Speaker 1: just around the corner, and all I have to do
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Speaker 1: is walk it out and take my action into my part.
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Speaker 1: And it's not the action that creates the result, though
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Speaker 1: oftentimes that does allow things to flow. I believe it's
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Speaker 1: holding all of those energies that create the result, and
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Speaker 1: that is your optimism, your action, your intuition, and lastly trust.
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Speaker 2: So thank you.
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Speaker 1: Listen for listening to this show. I look forward to
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Speaker 1: connecting with you again. I pray this is helpful. Take
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Speaker 1: care of yourself. Goodbye.