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394: Human Design Type - The Manifestor · Unshakeable with Human Design - A Human Design For Business Podcast

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Welcome to Unshakeable with Human Design, the show dedicated to
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helping entrepreneurs use human design to shift from hustle to
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flow without sacrificing results.
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Come here to become an unshakeable human and build an unshakeable business
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according to your human design.
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I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
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Hello and welcome to Unshakeable With Human Design.
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I'm your host, Nicole Laino, and you and I are here today to just have
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a little conversation about type.
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I realized when I was planning some of these episodes, and we
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have a bunch that I was kind of.
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Batching and planning, and I realized we never did a real run on type.
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We've talked about human design type.
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Obviously it's something we bring up all the time on the show, but I
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never like dove deep into each of the types on their own and did them all.
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So we're gonna do a little series here.
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We're gonna go through each of the types.
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We're gonna dedicate an episode to each one of them.
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So you guys have this, but I love these little blocks because I feel like it's
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our opportunity to go deep into one thing, whereas otherwise we're bringing
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up topics sometimes, A lot of times I bring them up just based on what I'm
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in response to and what I'm excited about and what's aha moments I'm getting
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and I bring them to the show, or I think that they'll be valuable to you.
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It doesn't necessarily mean that they're put together in a way where
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you can dive in deep into one piece.
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We do it on occasion, but in general, that's not what a podcast does.
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So we wanted to take you through this little journey through type.
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We're gonna do that over the next, there's only five of 'em, so it's like
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one, you know, five episodes, which is only like two weeks on this show
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because we do two episodes a week.
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So this will be quick, but we also have right now something really cool
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that we're doing alongside of this.
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That if you're interested in human design and you're interested specifically
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in growing an aligned and profitable business, if you're interested in that,
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we have a secret podcast that we've put together just like completely on its own
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where similar to these series that we do, if you like, when we dive in deep
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into one thing, this is all on business and human design, and it's kind of like.
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The process and me diving in differently than I do in my workshops, but kind of a
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similar sort of vibe of where I'm taking you deep into these conversations around
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what it really takes to grow to $10,000 a month, $20,000 a month, $30,000 a month.
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And how human design fits into all of that.
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What do you need to really make that happen?
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I know many of our listeners are entrepreneurs, so we created
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this basically a human design for business secret podcast.
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So if you would like that, dm me the word Secret podcast on Instagram.
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We'll set you up with all of that totally free.
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You can binge to your heart's content.
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We just thought that that would be really fun.
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So if you wanna do that, just go and you know, we'll also link
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this up in the show notes for you.
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Okay, so let's get to type.
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Let's talk about what we're gonna be talking about.
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We're gonna talk about type, and we're gonna start with the manifester first.
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And I could have started with the generators, but I was like,
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let's mix it up a little bit.
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We haven't done a manifester specific episode in a while, and I
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find all of the types fascinating, but I really find manifesters
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fascinating whenever I work with them.
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There's always this, my job is really to get out of the way and to open them up a
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lot because they are very self-actualized.
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I very rarely have a manifester who doesn't take action, and it
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doesn't mean it doesn't happen.
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Usually the people who I work with, they're pretty determined
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people just by nature.
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So Manifesters, first of all will do the high level stuff.
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Um, what makes somebody a manifester, a manifester in human design.
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So there are five types of course, and the reason that we
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are doing this series is because.
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Type is so important, and I wanna make this really clear.
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It's not about identifying with yet another label.
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Oh, I'm a manifester, so I can't do this.
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I'm a manifester, so it has to be like this.
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You know, my rule of thumb, anything that's can't do or have to is something
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to examine because it's usually BS that we're telling ourselves, but it does give
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us this really clear framework of I have certain tendencies as this type of person.
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It doesn't make me those tendencies.
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It doesn't mean that I am those things, but these are things,
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these are patterns, these are traits, these are characteristics.
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These are ways that are gonna kind of constantly show up for me and
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all of human design is that we can tend to start to identify with
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things like, you know, I could say things like I'm a cross of dominion.
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I am this, I am that.
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We tend to put the I am in front of things.
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I am a five one manifesting generator.
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That's true.
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That is what my design says, but I'm more than that and what that means
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for me is if I look at it from a place of objectivity and not from a
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place of labeling myself or limiting myself with those things to just see.
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Observe certain behaviors that I will kind of constantly have.
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It does give us this framework for our own brand of self-mastery.
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There will be people in the foundational, traditional human design world that will
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challenge me on that, but that human design isn't meant for productivity,
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it's not meant for business, it's not meant for all the things basically
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that I talk about it being for.
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And I understand that point of view, and I understand that in a perfect world,
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we would all just live our design and we wouldn't need money and we wouldn't
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need to feed ourselves and everything would just be taken care of for us.
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We would just observe and we'd truly be the passenger in our
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life, passenger consciousness.
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We let our design take us where it will, and we sit back and we enjoy the ride.
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Come what may, but I don't know.
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We don't live in that world really, and maybe that's my limitation.
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Maybe it's my limitation as a manifesting generator to see things
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through work and to see things through productivity and to see things through,
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you know, manifesting a vision.
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Maybe that's my limitation.
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I get it.
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But this is ultimately how I teach it because most of us live in
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the material world and we do have to make money, feed ourselves.
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We wanna be good people, we wanna be good citizens.
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We wanna make our impact in the world.
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And that is what being a manifester is all about.
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A manifester is gonna be a super impact driven person.
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So now how does this all happen?
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We get our human design chart.
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How do you become a manifester?
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A manifester means you do not have a sacral defined, so your sacral center
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will be white, but another motor.
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The ego, the root, or the emotional system, solar plexus will be defined
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and it will be connected directly or indirectly to the throat center,
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meaning that energy that comes from inside your body from a motor
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that's yours consistently pumping will have energy flowing directly
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or indirectly to your throat center.
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That's what it means.
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That's how you become a manifester, no sacral motor to the throat.
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That's how we do it.
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Energy wants to be communicated.
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Energy, something in you needs to be manifested, brought into
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form transmitted, so to speak.
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And here's the beauty of type.
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So when we know what.
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Being a manifester means, and we know what those tendencies are, we
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can start to be the best version of that thing, but we're still us.
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So I'm gonna be begging you or begging, I don't think I'm begging you.
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I'm going to be encouraging you to straddle that line between
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identifying the thing that you are to see those tendencies, but also not.
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So hold onto the labels so much, and certainly don't criticize yourself
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if you're falling into any of the low frequency of this, this system.
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To me, what I find so valuable about it, how it's changed my life, is that I have
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become an observer of myself in so many ways, and that has allowed me to see my
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behavior from an objective perspective.
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To see my behavior from an objective perspective, to know that as a
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manifesting generator, there's going to be some things that naturally pull
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me, that naturally come up for me that I, I'm always gonna have these
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themes that sort of recur in my life.
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How do I find my way through those things?
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That's what I find the value of this to be and type is such a powerful piece
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because it is connected to our aura.
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The quality of our energy is determined by the quality of our
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life as it relates to our type.
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If we're out of alignment with our type, then it's going to throw
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off our energy in so many ways.
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So first of all, manifesters, all types get a signature theme.
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A not self theme, and the signature theme is the green light.
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That's the thing that tells you you're on the right path.
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You're good when you're in your signature.
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You are going to be magnetic.
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People are gonna wanna be around you.
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People are going to wanna do things for you.
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People are going to be excited about you as a person.
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They're going to be drawn to you when you're in your not self-esteem.
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The opposite is going to happen and the opposite for this for manifesters.
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So when manifesters are angry, that is their not self theme and they're
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terribly magnetic in that place.
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Usually they, people are pretty afraid of them because it's a very powerful energy.
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Anger is their fuel in a lot of ways.
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They get angry about something that they see.
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They get pissed off about something that they see that's wrong, and they're like.
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I have a vision for how this could be different.
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It becomes kind of their creative fuel.
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A lot of times I look at Jerry Seinfeld is a manifester, and he's always talked about
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how his anger, I'm mad about everything.
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His anger fueled all of his comedy, and he says he is like,
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I think all comics are angry.
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I think they're all mad about something, and that might be somewhat
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true, but that's his perspective.
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He's a manifester and he knows he's pissed off about stuff.
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Often doesn't mean he's exploding with anger everywhere, and it doesn't mean
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that he's repelling people all the time, but he's a specific type of person.
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But it's the anger that fueled his success.
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I get mad about something and then I work the joke and I work my point
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of view and I work my perspective on it, and then I put it out there.
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Manifesters are very creative people.
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They usually have a lot of creative energy and that can come from anger.
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It's usually things that they see wrong with the world, and then they
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will, if they wait long enough and waiting really requires just rest.
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They're the only ones whose strategy is, has nothing to do with the outside world.
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So generators, it's to respond right?
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Projectors to wait for the invitation.
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Something from the outside world is coming in and saying, and giving them that jolt
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into action, activating their energy.
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Now, manifesters, they have this big, bold, repelling auraura.
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Big, big energy.
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If you are in the presence of a manifester, if you are aware enough
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and you walk into groups, this is a little test I have for you.
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If you don't like somebody.
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At first, if you start to get like kind of, I don't know if they like me or if
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I like them or there's just something about them that's kind of standoffish,
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take a moment and just leave space for the fact that maybe they're a manifester.
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You'd have to spend a little bit more time and, and get to know what it feels like.
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But I can usually feel when I'm in the presence of a manifester, whether I
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know their type or not, because there is a pushing back of their energy.
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Now a lot of manifesters, what they will do is throughout their life,
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they will be incredibly, and certainly if they have a four line in their
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profile, I've noticed they will be very welcoming to other people.
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They will be, they'll maybe go out of their way to build those bridges to
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draw people in, because they know this about themselves and the balance here.
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Is to not be in people pleasing energy, which is not the vibe that will
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actually put them out of their power, but to recognize that people will feel
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that and to hold the door open for them when they're in your presence.
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If you're a manifester, you may have to hold that door a little more
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deliberately and longer for people to really know that you're open.
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You might find that people feel very competitive with you.
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People manifest, their children are seen as a problem.
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They're seen as rebellious because they don't need people like other people do.
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They're here for a mission and their mission isn't dependent on other people.
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Let me clarify that a bit.
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So what manifesters are really here for their role is to have a vision.
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Is to blaze a trail, is to show a new way to do something.
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Bring something new creatively to the space.
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They have ideas, new ones.
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Usually they've got a new way to do something or they have something
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new that nobody's ever seen.
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So they have to have a lot of courage.
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They have to have a lot of courage.
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And there is something about manifesters that when they know they know.
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And that's, it's not because somebody told them or they had a conversation
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with this person, or they know now whether they trust that knowing
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is a completely different thing.
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That's totally separate.
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When they start to do this work, they start to trust it more.
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They start to say like, when I know, I know, okay, I know that about myself.
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This is what I mean.
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It's not about I'm a manifester, so it's just by learning to trust
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that I don't need an outside influence to make me trust myself.
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In fact, it's probably just outside influences.
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That made me not trust myself because I thought people didn't like me when I did
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something, or I thought they wouldn't support my vision if I told them what
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it was, or because people got mad at me when I went and did things before.
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And then I just, I developed a belief that people don't support me, so
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they don't require the outside world.
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Their strategy is to inform.
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They get the idea.
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Now it's your job just to tell people and why.
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That's just so you don't seem so jarring and unpredictable or
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like you leave people behind.
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It's honestly, it's a lot for their feelings and it's also to get you support
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for the thing that you want to create.
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Think about it.
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Manifesters don't have a sacral center defined.
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Not all the time anyway.
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Transits, of course, will do it, but it's not theirs.
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It's not sustainable for them.
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They don't have sustainable energy to build the things that they want to create.
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They might have it once, but they don't have it forever.
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So they will relax, sit back in their rest cycle because they need to rest because
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the sacrals are gonna wake up every day.
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Recharged and ready to go just like they were yesterday.
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If you have a sacral defined, you probably take for granted how much energy you have.
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'cause even you are tired.
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When you're tired, you wake up.
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If you get a good night's sleep, you're probably gonna
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wake up feeling pretty good.
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Whereas a manifestor or a projector or a reflector.
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They might not have that level, they might not make it.
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They can't work a 12 hour day like a generator can if they're into it.
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Now, a manifesto is slightly an exception here because they'll do it, but then
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they could do it for a day, a 2, 2, 3, 4.
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They're gonna get the urge to move.
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That's what we call it, the creative urge.
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They get this creative urge to go on something, and now if they don't
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second guess it, and they don't worry about what someone else will think.
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They don't look to give their energy away to somebody else.
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It's usually, they're not the worst culprits of that, but because they
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can feel like people don't like them because they have that stigma, that
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feeling and belief that people don't support them, they can sometimes go
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into people pleasing, which means they self abandon and they give to others.
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Doesn't work in my experience very well for manifesters.
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The minute a manifester starts self abandoning, they start
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getting pissed at themselves.
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They start getting so mad at themselves for doing that.
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Why?
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Because they knew.
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They know things, because they have this direct channel to the divine, so to speak,
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source, whatever you want to call it.
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They have this direct channel where the outside world isn't involved.
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Just wake up with an idea, strikes like lightning on them directly.
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Now the job is to go do the thing.
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First the strategy is to inform.
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Now this strategy is really just to soften the path, to not put resistance
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in the way, 'cause the resistance comes from other people or comes from
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the manifesto's perception of how other people are reacting to them,
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activating and going on their vision.
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'cause when a manifester gets the knowing, when they get that feeling.
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It shifts almost instantly.
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They're just like, I've gotta do this.
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It becomes something that they have to do.
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It's not an option.
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It is something imperative.
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But if they had that belief that people don't support them, they can hold back.
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It isn't about what other people will think.
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It's never about that in general, but it's really not about that for the manifester.
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They have to dare to go where nobody's gone before.
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They have to dare to look silly.
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For people to think they're crazy because the first people to do
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something usually do look crazy to a large portion of the population.
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But manifesters, they've got a big thing.
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But here's what happens when things aren't going a manifesters
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way and they feel unsupported.
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So this can happen in childhood.
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You see this with kids.
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If you have a manifester child.
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You might see them if they feel like you tell them no too often or they just
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go off and do something, and then you yell at them for going off to do the
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thing that felt totally right to them.
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They don't have the mechanism like the rest of us to ask permission, which is
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why they have to be taught that, and that's for their own protection so that
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they don't develop this unconscious belief that everybody just always tells
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me now, so I'll just do it myself.
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So they isolate.
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The minute someone tells them no.
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So if you have a manifester kid and if you're a manifester, I want you
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to think back to your childhood.
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Did this happen?
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Think back to your teen years.
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Think back to college.
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Think back to like throughout your life, look at the stages and were your
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ideas supported and met with openness or were you told no, were you shot down?
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Because if you were, you wanna ask yourself, did I develop a
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habit or a belief that when I want something, other people won't get it?
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So then where does that go?
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I'll do it myself.
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So then you isolate, you squirrel away, you are like, I'm not gonna
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tell anybody easier to ask for forgiveness than it is for permission.
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Right?
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So this is where rebelliousness, at least in the perspective
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of other people can develop.
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What we're doing is now we're creating that isolated manifester.
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These are leaders.
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If you're a manifester, you are a leader.
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It doesn't have to mean that you have a large group of people around you.
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It just means that your example sets the tone.
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Either inspires people or can make them afraid of you.
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What will usually happen as a manifester?
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A manifester at peace.
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Can be one of the most grounding, supportive, just
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amazing energies to be around.
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It's like being around like a goddess, you know?
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That's telling you it's all gonna be all right.
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I get it.
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'cause you feel all that power, but it's so controlled and it's so at peace
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and at ease that it's like there's nothing more comforting than that
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because it's like, oh, I believe she's got this, I believe he's got this.
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Get a manifester angry or get them into isolation where there's low grade anger
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happening below the surface all the time.
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No, people don't feel that.
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You'll push people away if you show up being like, I'm gonna show
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you how good you are, but I know you're probably gonna say no anyway.
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You're probably not gonna get what you want outta that.
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If you're showing up and you're get clients in some way, so you have sales
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calls or you have meetings with people and you're trying to get them to choose you.
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If you are showing up in all of your manifester power, holding the door
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open to let people know that you are a safe place boldly expressing
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your ideas and your vision, you're holding that with the belief that
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when you are in full alignment with that vision, other people will see it.
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And if they don't see it, that's okay.
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Someone else will.
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And these just aren't your people.
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That energetic alignment with it is everything.
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But if you show up with the belief in your heart or in your energy
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that they're not gonna get it, I know they're not gonna get it.
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They're probably gonna want, I, I've got my whole thing about how I'm gonna
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tell them that this is the right way.
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You're pushing them away before you even get in the room and in the
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other way, you're winning them over before you even get in the room,
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before you even open your mouth.
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Hold the door open and then state the vision with all of your power
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and purpose that every single one of your creations and visions has.
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You're so creative.
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Manifesters are some of the most creative people and their vision is so strong.
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The balance is to meet all of that with openness.
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There's a funny video of Matt Damon telling a story about Tom Cruise
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that's gone around online for a while, and he's saying how he talked
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to Tom Cruise like I met him once and he is this really intense guy.
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Tom Cruise is a manifester, this really intense guy, which I think
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you can get from Tom Cruise.
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He's like, I asked him about this stunt that he did where he is like walking
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on the outside of a plane and he's like, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
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I thought about that shot for years.
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He's like, so I tell the stunt guy, I get the stunt guy.
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I'm like, tell him my whole idea.
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I go through the whole thing with him and he says, can't do it.
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It's too dangerous.
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Matt Damon's telling the story.
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He is like, so he is like, what happened?
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Tom Cruise just looks at him without skipping a beat, and he goes, he's like.
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So I got a new stunt guy that's a manifester.
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They will not be deterred.
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There's nobody that's gonna stand in their way.
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He asked for support.
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He said, here's what I wanna do.
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You're the expert.
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I've got the idea.
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Here's what I'm gonna do.
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And he lays it all out for him.
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This is what we're gonna do.
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The guy says, no, it's too dangerous.
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And he is like, all right, you're not my guy.
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Okay, next.
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And he gets another guy.
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Obviously someone said, this is how we can do it.
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That's a manifester in high expression.
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Now, I'm not advocating that any of you go walking on the outside of
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planes or doing anything dangerous against the advice of professionals,
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but that is a manifester who's like, my vision is the most important thing.
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This is gonna be amazing.
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Now I just need the right person to help me make that vision come to a reality.
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And that is the attitude that Manifesters will flourish with if they adopt it.
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So I hope you like this.
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I hope you like us kicking off the type series.
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We have it all linked up for you, nice and neat, and we hope that
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we see you in the next episode.
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When we dive into our next type, I won't tell you which one it is.
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You're gonna have to tune in and find out.
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But I appreciate you for being here.
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Thank you so much.
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And remember, in order to have an unshakeable business, you must
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first become an unshakeable human.
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So thanks for letting us help you become unshakeable with human design, everyone.
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