Latest / Rich Valdés: This is America! / Carole Lieberman, Clancy Trial, Clinical Crisis
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- 0:06Speaker 1: This is America with Rich Valdez, powered by politiweek.com.
- 0:11Speaker 2: And Rich Valdez is with us, former Christie administration official.
- 0:13Speaker 3: You work for Chris Christie, you've been in politics, a
- 0:15Speaker 3: lot of public service stuff. Rich Valdez, columnist now with
- 0:18Speaker 3: the Washington Times.
- 0:19Speaker 1: This is America.
- 0:20Speaker 3: Richie V, you're on the air with The Nation.
- 0:24Speaker 1: This is America with your host, Rich Valdez.
- 0:27Speaker 3: What's up, America? I am Rich Valdez. Valdez with an S.
- 0:30Speaker 3: At Rich Valdez on all of the social media. Your
- 0:34Speaker 3: liberty-loving Latino amigo right here 17 blocks away from Madison
- 0:37Speaker 3: Square Garden in Times Square, New York City. Happy to
- 0:41Speaker 3: be with you. And it's truly a blessing. 877-VALDEZ1 is
- 0:46Speaker 3: the phone number. And I want to talk about some
- 0:48Speaker 3: Lindsey Clancy here because... There's a lot to discuss, and
- 0:51Speaker 3: I'm going to be bringing on some psychiatrists to weigh
- 0:53Speaker 3: in on this, both Dr. Carol Lieberman and Dr. Abloh,
- 1:00Speaker 3: because I want to get their take as professional psychiatrists
- 1:04Speaker 3: on a number of things, right? There's a lot of
- 1:06Speaker 3: people saying that she didn't do it, that she did
- 1:08Speaker 3: do it, right? That's all legal stuff, but when it
- 1:10Speaker 3: comes to the actual healthcare matter, was this woman getting
- 1:15Speaker 3: the care she needed? Was this woman actually trying to
- 1:19Speaker 3: To get help, did the system fail her, or was
- 1:22Speaker 3: it just simply her failing her family in the most
- 1:25Speaker 3: egregious way? Those are some of the questions that I'm
- 1:28Speaker 3: going to be asking Dr. Carol Lieberman. You know her
- 1:31Speaker 3: from Court TV. She's been around for a very long time,
- 1:35Speaker 3: a quarter century this year, that I first saw her
- 1:39Speaker 3: when she debuted as the terrorist therapist, analyzing what was
- 1:43Speaker 3: going on in the minds of the 9-11 hijackers. And
- 1:46Speaker 3: she's been a forensic psychologist on, psychiatrist, excuse me, on
- 1:52Speaker 3: Court TV for the last two and a half decades.
- 1:55Speaker 3: So keep it locked right here because when we come back,
- 1:58Speaker 3: we're going one-on-one in a deep dive with Dr. Carol Lieberman.
- 2:02Speaker 1: This is America.
- 2:14Speaker 3: All right, familia, welcome back. It's Rich Valdez. Happy to
- 2:17Speaker 3: be here with you this evening, keeping you company. And
- 2:20Speaker 3: nobody is more qualified to talk about the fallout of
- 2:25Speaker 3: the Lindsay Clancy mistrial than Dr. Carol Lieberman, right? We're
- 2:31Speaker 3: on the heels of the September 11th attacks when she
- 2:35Speaker 3: took center stage 25 years ago and she hasn't gone
- 2:37Speaker 3: anywhere since, calling out these terrorists for what they were
- 2:41Speaker 3: and became known as America's terrorist therapist. I call her
- 2:44Speaker 3: America's psychiatrist, Dr. Carol Lieberman. Welcome back.
- 2:48Speaker 4: Thank you so much. Yes, it's both.
- 2:52Speaker 2: I've been doing a lot of talking about Lindsay Clancy,
- 2:55Speaker 2: but not everybody agrees with what I have to say.
- 2:59Speaker 4: But this is where I'm coming from when I talk
- 3:02Speaker 4: about it.
- 3:04Speaker 2: I'm a psychiatrist, and I'm a forensic psychiatrist and expert witness.
- 3:09Speaker 2: So I testify in courtrooms, in cases, all civil and
- 3:12Speaker 2: criminal cases. I've been doing it for like over 25 years.
- 3:16Speaker 4: And so I know like the roles of all these
- 3:22Speaker 4: people and how they're.
- 3:23Speaker 2: Feeling and what they're doing. And, you know, and well,
- 3:28Speaker 2: first of all, let me just put it up front.
- 3:30Speaker 2: I think she should have been found not guilty or
- 3:32Speaker 2: not responsible because I think she was in a postpartum
- 3:37Speaker 2: psychosis and depression. And I think that the reason why,
- 3:41Speaker 2: I mean, aside from we could talk about the holdout juror.
- 3:44Speaker 4: But the reason why it wasn't unanimous.
- 3:49Speaker 2: Besides that I think he's crazy, but I mean, I
- 3:53Speaker 2: think he has other reasons.
- 3:55Speaker 4: Well, anyway, we'll get to that.
- 3:58Speaker 2: But I think that it would have been more of
- 4:00Speaker 2: a slam dunk if the defense would have gone into
- 4:04Speaker 2: more of what being psychotic and hearing voices actually is like.
- 4:10Speaker 2: He had a great psychiatrist, Resnick, and a great psychologist
- 4:14Speaker 2: as experts testifying. But they did not get into the,
- 4:20Speaker 2: they didn't describe it well enough. I mean, he might
- 4:22Speaker 2: have needed videos or something, something to describe what it's
- 4:26Speaker 2: like when a person hears voices.
- 4:28Speaker 4: Now, I trained at NYU Bellevue. I was the chief
- 4:30Speaker 4: resident there.
- 4:31Speaker 2: And I spent three years, plus, of course, my practice
- 4:36Speaker 2: afterwards um but in bellevue it was like a lot
- 4:39Speaker 2: of people psychotic people hearing voices and other kinds of
- 4:42Speaker 2: crazy stuff delusions hallucinations everything so i know what that's
- 4:47Speaker 2: like and during that time the people really are in
- 4:51Speaker 2: a different world you know like the the um, prosecutors
- 4:55Speaker 2: were saying she planned it and she listens. Now, first
- 4:57Speaker 2: of all, if she planned it, she had much better
- 5:00Speaker 2: times to do it because he used to, her husband,
- 5:03Speaker 2: who I hope somebody investigates more. Um, he had, he
- 5:08Speaker 2: left her, he would leave her for days, you know, overnight.
- 5:12Speaker 4: So she had time when he had plenty of time.
- 5:15Speaker 2: So she didn't have to send him out to the,
- 5:17Speaker 2: you know, the, uh, restaurant and the, and the drug
- 5:19Speaker 2: store and all that. Um, Anyway, I'll stop here, but
- 5:23Speaker 2: just so you know where I'm coming from.
- 5:25Speaker 5: Sure.
- 5:26Speaker 3: I get it. Now, listen, we saw a similar case
- 5:29Speaker 3: in New York, and I don't want to go down
- 5:31Speaker 3: that rabbit hole, but a similar case, a young mom, African-American,
- 5:34Speaker 3: killed her son, two-year-old. She was found not guilty by
- 5:38Speaker 3: reason of insanity.
- 5:38Speaker 6: Yes.
- 5:39Speaker 4: That sort of went by, you know, it didn't even get,
- 5:41Speaker 4: I mean, I read it.
- 5:42Speaker 3: It didn't get a lot of attention. And my position
- 5:45Speaker 3: is I don't, I think most people that are killing
- 5:47Speaker 3: people are crazy. This is me, the layman right now.
- 5:50Speaker 3: I know that you're the expert in this, so you
- 5:52Speaker 3: can help us understand, but I don't think anybody should
- 5:55Speaker 3: get a slap on the wrist for, for murdering three children,
- 5:58Speaker 3: whether they hear voices or not. But I think that's
- 6:00Speaker 3: a different argument than the question that was presented in
- 6:03Speaker 3: the court, which was, was she of sound mind or not?
- 6:06Speaker 3: And and ultimately they couldn't do it. I probably would
- 6:09Speaker 3: have been the holdout juror myself because I don't know
- 6:12Speaker 3: a lot about this. But to me, what fascinated me
- 6:15Speaker 3: about this whole thing was how so many people really
- 6:19Speaker 3: came almost like a Luigi Mangione thing came to the
- 6:22Speaker 3: the support of the killer saying, yeah, we're on her team.
- 6:25Speaker 3: And I just thought to myself, having children, loving my children,
- 6:29Speaker 3: I could never imagine harming them that way and making
- 6:32Speaker 3: the case while I was having a psychosis. So help us,
- 6:36Speaker 3: you know, us layman folks that want to see her
- 6:38Speaker 3: get the electric chair. Help us understand. I know.
- 6:42Speaker 4: I've been trying.
- 6:43Speaker 2: I can't... It is kind of like Mangione, and it
- 6:46Speaker 2: is kind of like, you know, people are so into
- 6:49Speaker 2: crime these days, true crime.
- 6:51Speaker 5: Sure.
- 6:52Speaker 2: And with the internet and with, you know, all the
- 6:54Speaker 2: shows that talk about it and all that, Court TV.
- 6:58Speaker 2: So people kind of connect to the defendants, to the
- 7:01Speaker 2: players in the trial, much more than ever before.
- 7:04Speaker 3: Right.
- 7:05Speaker 2: So, now, I know you were saying that the psychosis of, like,
- 7:09Speaker 2: the women... in the pink outfits, I don't think that
- 7:16Speaker 2: they are psychotic.
- 7:17Speaker 4: I mean, I don't think that.
- 7:18Speaker 2: They are to blame other than the one who took
- 7:20Speaker 2: the photograph. You know, she said she was trying to
- 7:23Speaker 2: photograph Lindsay, and she might well have been because she was,
- 7:26Speaker 2: you know, a Lindsay fan, but she should have watched
- 7:29Speaker 2: out for the.
- 7:31Speaker 4: Jurors that were in the way. But anyhow, these women.
- 7:37Speaker 2: It's not that they are for, I mean, I'm sure
- 7:39Speaker 2: many of them had children, if not all of them.
- 7:42Speaker 2: It's not that they are for mothers killing children. It's
- 7:46Speaker 2: that they were for, first of all, better mental health. treatment,
- 7:50Speaker 2: you know, better mental health, uh, opportunities, availability, and, and,
- 7:54Speaker 2: and smarter mental health professionals.
- 7:56Speaker 4: That was the thing that was killing me during the
- 7:58Speaker 4: whole trial.
- 7:59Speaker 3: That might be the better way to praise it. Cause I,
- 8:01Speaker 3: she was a nurse and she worked in a hospital
- 8:03Speaker 3: and had colleagues that were doctors and seemed to have
- 8:06Speaker 3: a lot of support available to her, but maybe not
- 8:08Speaker 3: competent support.
- 8:10Speaker 2: Well, well, but it wasn't the people, you know, she
- 8:12Speaker 2: went to therapists outside of her hospital.
- 8:16Speaker 4: She didn't, wasn't going to the people, but, um.
- 8:19Speaker 2: But the people that she went to for treatment and
- 8:22Speaker 2: that they put on the stand one after another after another,
- 8:25Speaker 2: one was more ignorant than the other.
- 8:26Speaker 4: It made me so angry, especially.
- 8:30Speaker 3: Give us a couple of examples so that everybody that's
- 8:32Speaker 3: listening understands.
- 8:34Speaker 2: I was just going to do that. This one woman,
- 8:36Speaker 2: I think her name was Dr. Tuft or Tufts or
- 8:38Speaker 2: something like that. She was a psychiatrist. And she had
- 8:42Speaker 2: just gotten out of residency, a psychiatry residency, and had
- 8:46Speaker 2: just opened her practice like a few months before. And
- 8:51Speaker 2: the reason why this is so irritating to me is
- 8:53Speaker 2: that it shows what we are graduating, what is being
- 8:56Speaker 2: graduated these days from psychiatry residency.
- 8:59Speaker 4: It's not that all, I'm not saying all of them
- 9:02Speaker 4: are like her, but.
- 9:03Speaker 5: Right.
- 9:04Speaker 2: So she joined this practice and she saw Lindsay Clancy.
- 9:09Speaker 4: And for like, I think it was, what was it?
- 9:11Speaker 2: 45 minutes or half an hour the first time, something
- 9:14Speaker 2: like that, some short time. And she was being asked
- 9:19Speaker 2: by the defense attorney how much of that time was therapy.
- 9:23Speaker 2: And I think she said around 20 minutes and some
- 9:28Speaker 2: small amount. And so then he asked her, what did
- 9:31Speaker 2: you do during this therapy time? And she said, I
- 9:34Speaker 2: listened to her and I gave her hope. Well, like, hello,
- 9:38Speaker 2: is that what they're teaching in residencies? That's what you
- 9:41Speaker 2: do for therapy? That's not therapy. Your neighbor could do that.
- 9:47Speaker 2: And she gave her medications. And that was the thing.
- 9:53Speaker 2: All the people that she saw just threw pills at her.
- 9:57Speaker 7: And the.
- 9:59Speaker 2: Benefit of this case is that it shows the dilapidated
- 10:04Speaker 2: state that the psychiatry, and they weren't all psychiatrists, but
- 10:08Speaker 2: the mental health profession is in. Because all they're doing
- 10:14Speaker 2: now is pushing pills and not doing therapy.
- 10:17Speaker 4: And people don't get better. Now, if this Dr.
- 10:20Speaker 2: Tufts would have asked her, instead of just throwing pills
- 10:23Speaker 2: or giving her hope, would have asked her, tell me
- 10:27Speaker 2: about your relationship with your husband. Tell me about your
- 10:29Speaker 2: relationship with your children, each one of them. You know,
- 10:31Speaker 2: she would have gone into that. Because I think that
- 10:35Speaker 2: the relationship with her husband was not good. You know, he,
- 10:40Speaker 2: first of all, you know, one of the things that
- 10:42Speaker 2: just came.
- 10:42Speaker 3: Out Before you go there, Dr. Carol, because I want
- 10:46Speaker 3: to spend a whole segment on the husband, because that
- 10:48Speaker 3: was a big point of contention. So we'll take a
- 10:49Speaker 3: quick pause here and we'll come right back. Amigos, we're
- 10:52Speaker 3: on with Dr. Carol Lieberman. She's America's psychiatrist. You know
- 10:55Speaker 3: her from Court TV. She's been around for a quarter
- 10:58Speaker 3: of a century talking about the 9-11 hijackers. They called
- 11:02Speaker 3: her the terrorist therapist. You've seen her all over the
- 11:05Speaker 3: television commenting on these things, and I'm thrilled to have
- 11:09Speaker 3: her and hear her perspective on this, even if it
- 11:10Speaker 3: differs from mine because I can learn something and you
- 11:13Speaker 3: might learn something too. We're going to talk about the
- 11:14Speaker 3: husband coming up next. Don't go anywhere.
- 11:17Speaker 1: This is America. This is America. He's brown, he's bald,
- 11:29Speaker 1: and he's breaking it down.
- 11:30Speaker 8: Oh, he's so handsome.
- 11:31Speaker 3: What's his name?
- 11:32Speaker 1: Rich Valdez.
- 11:35Speaker 3: All right, amigos, welcome back. Rich Valdez continuing the conversation
- 11:38Speaker 3: with Dr. Carol Lieberman, America's psychiatrist. And we're talking about
- 11:43Speaker 3: the husband. A lot of people, Dr. Carol, are saying
- 11:45Speaker 3: it was him. He did it, this and that. And
- 11:47Speaker 3: of course, Internet hearsay, Twitter detectives, TikTok psychologists. But one
- 11:53Speaker 3: thing that did stand out was his response when he
- 11:57Speaker 3: was speaking about this, about finding his own children.
- 12:00Speaker 8: When you you realized it was really quiet, what did
- 12:03Speaker 8: you do?
- 12:05Speaker 5: I called out.
- 12:07Speaker 8: And who did you call out to?
- 12:09Speaker 3: Everyone.
- 12:10Speaker 8: Did anyone answer?
- 12:11Speaker 7: No.
- 12:14Speaker 8: After you called out and no one answered, what did
- 12:16Speaker 8: you do next?
- 12:20Speaker 9: I think I, I don't know the order, but I
- 12:23Speaker 9: called down in the basement and no one answered. And
- 12:28Speaker 9: then I called Lindsay to see if she was home.
- 12:32Speaker 9: Cause I looked out and I, I couldn't see her car,
- 12:35Speaker 9: but it's because it was dark and her car's black.
- 12:38Speaker 7: Okay, so when you say you called down to the basement,
- 12:43Speaker 7: when you approached the basement door, do you remember if
- 12:45Speaker 7: it was open or shut?
- 12:46Speaker 5: It was shut.
- 12:48Speaker 8: So did you open it and yell down? Yeah. And
- 12:50Speaker 8: there was no response?
- 12:52Speaker 5: Correct.
- 12:53Speaker 7: Do you recall when you opened the door to yell
- 12:55Speaker 7: down whether the light was on or off?
- 12:58Speaker 5: Yeah, it was on, but Lindsay always left the light on.
- 13:04Speaker 8: And you said you called Lindsay. Was that a phone call?
- 13:08Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 13:09Speaker 7: And was that at approximately 6.09.
- 13:10Speaker 8: P.m.? Yeah.
- 13:12Speaker 7: And did she answer?
- 13:13Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 13:14Speaker 7: After you called Lindsay and didn't get a response, what
- 13:16Speaker 7: did you do next?
- 13:19Speaker 5: I started checking upstairs.
- 13:21Speaker 8: And where did you check upstairs?
- 13:25Speaker 5: First, the bathroom. I thought maybe they were taking baths,
- 13:29Speaker 5: but there's no one there.
- 13:31Speaker 8: And then where did you go?
- 13:32Speaker 5: The kids' bedrooms.
- 13:33Speaker 7: Was there anyone in the kids' bedrooms?
- 13:35Speaker 1: No.
- 13:36Speaker 8: And then did you go to your bedroom?
- 13:38Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 13:39Speaker 7: And were you able to get into your bedroom right away?
- 13:42Speaker 9: No, the door was locked, and that's when I knew
- 13:44Speaker 9: something was wrong.
- 13:45Speaker 8: When you unlocked the door to your bedroom, did you
- 13:48Speaker 8: go in?
- 13:49Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 13:51Speaker 8: And what did you see when you opened the door
- 13:53Speaker 8: and went in?
- 13:54Speaker 5: I just saw blood everywhere, and the window was open.
- 13:59Speaker 3: I can't even think about that without shedding a tear.
- 14:02Speaker 3: He seemed incredibly calm. I don't know if it was shock,
- 14:05Speaker 3: if it was how he grieved. I'm not indicting the guy.
- 14:08Speaker 3: I'm just saying it was odd to me to see
- 14:10Speaker 3: that type of response. Your thoughts on the husband?
- 14:13Speaker 4: You mean on the stand when he was testified? Yeah.
- 14:16Speaker 2: Well, first of all, on the stand, he was like
- 14:18Speaker 2: being pulled in three different directions. And I am not
- 14:22Speaker 2: excusing him for anything. I think he's... I think he's
- 14:27Speaker 2: very dangerous. I think there's a lot there that needs
- 14:29Speaker 2: to be unraveled. But on the stand, he was being
- 14:34Speaker 2: pulled by three different masters. One, you know, he has
- 14:38Speaker 2: this lawsuit against the treaters and the hospitals and all
- 14:41Speaker 2: that for giving her bad treatment, which, you know, I
- 14:45Speaker 2: think that they should win. I don't think he should
- 14:46Speaker 2: get a penny, but I think that she should. I mean,
- 14:49Speaker 2: I think they need to have their licenses taken away
- 14:52Speaker 2: is really what I think.
- 14:52Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 14:54Speaker 4: There's that.
- 14:55Speaker 2: So he had to present himself in a way that
- 14:57Speaker 2: kind of indicted these treaters. But also, he told everyone
- 15:04Speaker 2: that he forgives Lindsay. But, you know, he hadn't seen
- 15:09Speaker 2: her since that night, since the night of the crime
- 15:13Speaker 2: or of the event. He didn't see her until he
- 15:17Speaker 2: walked into that courtroom. That was the first time.
- 15:20Speaker 4: Can you believe that?
- 15:21Speaker 2: Now, I know you might be angry at your wife
- 15:23Speaker 2: and all that. It was rageable, but to not see
- 15:27Speaker 2: her for all these... I mean, it happened in 2023,
- 15:30Speaker 2: I think. In any case, so he wanted... But for
- 15:34Speaker 2: his case against the traitors, he wants some sympathy for her.
- 15:39Speaker 2: So he said that he forgave her.
- 15:41Speaker 4: He made a big deal. I forgive my wife, blah, blah, blah.
- 15:44Speaker 4: But then, since he really has a lot.
- 15:46Speaker 2: Of rage towards her, there was that too. And I
- 15:49Speaker 2: think that it was the rage that came out the
- 15:51Speaker 2: most because... You know, he would say things. It was
- 15:54Speaker 2: damning with faint praise. He would say things like, oh, yeah,
- 15:58Speaker 2: you know, when he was asked, did she take her medication? Oh, yes,
- 16:01Speaker 2: I think she took her pills. Well, but, you know,
- 16:03Speaker 2: I mean, I didn't stand there every time to watch her.
- 16:06Speaker 2: So he, like, put some doubt in every kind of
- 16:08Speaker 2: answer that he gave that could have helped her. I
- 16:11Speaker 2: don't know why the prosecution called him. I mean, I
- 16:13Speaker 2: guess they were expecting even better answers. But he didn't
- 16:17Speaker 2: help the defense. He certainly didn't help the defense. Now,
- 16:20Speaker 2: something happened just recently. You know, he's going to be
- 16:24Speaker 2: on 60 Minutes on Sunday. And he did an interview.
- 16:28Speaker 2: That's his first interview. So he was asked, do you
- 16:35Speaker 2: talk to your children? And he said, yes, I talk
- 16:38Speaker 2: to them every day. And the host asked, what do
- 16:44Speaker 2: you say? And he said, I say, help me all
- 16:47Speaker 2: the time.
- 16:49Speaker 4: Help me? Help him?
- 16:51Speaker 2: Where was he helping the kids? Why didn't he do
- 16:54Speaker 2: more to help the kids? I mean, can you imagine that?
- 16:56Speaker 2: A parent asking their dead children to help me? It's
- 17:03Speaker 2: narcissistic beyond belief, but it's even worse than that. You know,
- 17:06Speaker 2: there's something very weird of a parent asking their dead
- 17:12Speaker 2: children to help them.
- 17:13Speaker 4: I mean, he's not the one on trial. He already
- 17:17Speaker 4: got a lot of help. He's married.
- 17:19Speaker 3: I get that. I'm just wondering if, and your thoughts
- 17:23Speaker 3: on this. I know many people who've lost a loved one,
- 17:26Speaker 3: not necessarily a child, but in some cases a child,
- 17:29Speaker 3: and they refer to them as a guardian angel and
- 17:32Speaker 3: they look at them that way. Do you think there's
- 17:35Speaker 3: potential for that in that situation?
- 17:37Speaker 2: Yes, I agree with that, that people think that. And
- 17:40Speaker 2: I don't think there's anything wrong with thinking that. I
- 17:42Speaker 2: think it's just the fact that they are, that they
- 17:44Speaker 2: were the children that he.
- 17:47Speaker 4: And the victims.
- 17:49Speaker 7: Yes.
- 17:50Speaker 4: And OK. And and he was the one that he
- 17:54Speaker 4: didn't help them. That's the part.
- 17:56Speaker 3: And as a dad, it's your job to provide and
- 17:58Speaker 3: protect them.
- 17:59Speaker 5: Yes. Understood.
- 18:02Speaker 3: Now, a lot of people continue to point the finger
- 18:05Speaker 3: at him saying he could have done more. I I
- 18:09Speaker 3: look at this and I think, man, I don't know
- 18:12Speaker 3: how these things work.
- 18:13Speaker 5: Right.
- 18:13Speaker 3: I was married for about 10 years and I knew
- 18:17Speaker 3: my wife was frustrated on many occasions, never thought that
- 18:20Speaker 3: this would be a possible outcome. But I'm wondering, you know,
- 18:25Speaker 3: what do people look for? Are there warning signs? How
- 18:28Speaker 3: do you know? Should you not leave your wife alone
- 18:32Speaker 3: with kids if she has postpartum depression? Are there things
- 18:36Speaker 3: we can do to safeguard? Was he being reckless in
- 18:38Speaker 3: that regard or things that any of the rest of us,
- 18:40Speaker 3: if we ever have kids again, what should we look for?
- 18:43Speaker 2: Well, yes, he was checked out, you know. Well, first
- 18:49Speaker 2: of all, she made it obvious. She told him, I
- 18:52Speaker 2: have thoughts about killing myself and I have thoughts about
- 18:54Speaker 2: harming the children.
- 18:55Speaker 4: She didn't keep a secret of it. And yet he
- 18:58Speaker 4: left her alone with them.
- 19:00Speaker 2: They had a nanny for a while, and then he
- 19:05Speaker 2: got his work to let him do, to work from home.
- 19:08Speaker 2: So then he fired the nanny. Now, he should never
- 19:10Speaker 2: have fired the nanny. And he had, when she would
- 19:13Speaker 2: be talking about this, I feel like harming the children,
- 19:16Speaker 2: he would have her parents come sometimes. I mean, I
- 19:19Speaker 2: don't know if he was just trying to save money.
- 19:20Speaker 2: I mean, I know they were pretty wealthy, but You
- 19:24Speaker 2: don't fire the nanny when.
- 19:26Speaker 4: Your wife is talking about harming the kids.
- 19:28Speaker 2: And don't go off somewhere overnight. He just kept on
- 19:31Speaker 2: his life. It really did seem like he wanted to
- 19:36Speaker 2: have a different life, like he wanted to be done
- 19:39Speaker 2: with this.
- 19:39Speaker 3: Well, I mean, I would too if my wife told
- 19:42Speaker 3: me she wanted to kill my kids. I'd want to
- 19:44Speaker 3: get out. But I would probably take action to try
- 19:46Speaker 3: and get out, which I find maybe he was stuck.
- 19:49Speaker 3: Maybe he didn't care. Maybe he didn't realize it.
- 19:52Speaker 5: Right.
- 19:52Speaker 3: These are the questions that I have, I guess, like
- 19:54Speaker 3: you were. How do you how do you have the
- 19:57Speaker 3: mother of the children tell you, I think I'm going
- 19:59Speaker 3: to hurt these kids and you go, oh, that's all right, honey.
- 20:01Speaker 3: Take it. He had to drink a glass of wine.
- 20:03Speaker 3: I think that's insane.
- 20:05Speaker 1: Yes, it is.
- 20:07Speaker 2: But I think he was, you know, he's nice. We
- 20:09Speaker 2: know that he went to New York at least once.
- 20:12Speaker 2: I think there are more times too, overnight. Now, his
- 20:15Speaker 2: new wife lives in New York. Now, I don't know,
- 20:19Speaker 2: so I can't say that he was meeting the woman
- 20:22Speaker 2: who became his new wife, but maybe he was just,
- 20:25Speaker 2: you know, going to bars or going, meeting, trying to
- 20:27Speaker 2: meet people.
- 20:28Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 20:31Speaker 2: And, you know, you could, if you were a prosecutor,
- 20:34Speaker 2: you could try to make the argument that she knew this,
- 20:39Speaker 2: not necessarily that he was meeting other women, but that
- 20:42Speaker 2: he wanted out. And that's, you know, like when people
- 20:45Speaker 2: get divorced and they kill the children so that the
- 20:48Speaker 2: other spouse doesn't get them in the custody battle and
- 20:50Speaker 2: all that. You know, I think the prosecutors, well, if
- 20:54Speaker 2: they had enough information, they could have tried to make
- 20:56Speaker 2: that argument that she did do it on purpose because
- 20:59Speaker 2: she knew that he was trying to leave her.
- 21:01Speaker 4: I don't know.
- 21:02Speaker 2: But, I mean, I don't know that there's enough information
- 21:04Speaker 2: to say that he killed the kids, although there are
- 21:06Speaker 2: some questionable things.
- 21:07Speaker 4: I mean, the timing and his DNA being on at
- 21:11Speaker 4: least one of the bands, I don't know.
- 21:14Speaker 5: But.
- 21:15Speaker 4: But certainly, certainly.
- 21:17Speaker 3: Well, let's just pause right there. So there was a
- 21:20Speaker 3: lot of people sleuthing this thing on TikTok. I spoke
- 21:24Speaker 3: with a couple of law enforcement people told me that
- 21:26Speaker 3: the timestamps on the videos clear him unequivocally. What do
- 21:31Speaker 3: you think that there was some potentiality for malfeasance on
- 21:35Speaker 3: his part?
- 21:37Speaker 4: Yeah, I think there was.
- 21:38Speaker 2: I mean, if not him actually strangling them, him perhaps
- 21:43Speaker 2: putting some of her mixing her pills up, putting them in.
- 21:45Speaker 2: her food or her drink or something like that to
- 21:47Speaker 2: kind of make her go more crazy.
- 21:49Speaker 4: I don't know.
- 21:50Speaker 2: But, but now that we, I think the fact that
- 21:53Speaker 2: now we have him saying on 60 minutes, help me
- 21:57Speaker 2: all the, help me all the time saying that to
- 22:00Speaker 2: the kids, it shows that there is something that is
- 22:02Speaker 2: not right in his head. So, so when it's, but
- 22:07Speaker 2: to get back to your question about the signs and,
- 22:09Speaker 2: She made it clear, I have thoughts of harming myself
- 22:12Speaker 2: and the children. Also, if a spouse is erratic, the
- 22:19Speaker 2: real failure that he did, and it was also the
- 22:22Speaker 2: failure of the mental health system, is that he should
- 22:25Speaker 2: have made sure that the hospitals kept her longer. She
- 22:33Speaker 2: should have been in the hospital from the time that
- 22:35Speaker 2: she had these first thoughts of killing herself and killing
- 22:38Speaker 2: her children. And she should have stayed there until these
- 22:42Speaker 2: thoughts were gone.
- 22:43Speaker 3: Now, what's a treatment like for something like that? You know,
- 22:47Speaker 3: I guess you tell your wife, hey, look, I don't
- 22:48Speaker 3: want to see our kids get hurt. I don't know
- 22:51Speaker 3: what to do. I love you, but you're going to
- 22:52Speaker 3: have to check into one of these inpatient places. And
- 22:55Speaker 3: she's like, no, you're trying to get rid of me.
- 22:56Speaker 3: And I guess she goes and eventually they do a
- 22:59Speaker 3: 72-hour hold, evaluate and figure out, okay, she said she
- 23:02Speaker 3: was going to harm herself and the kids, they hold her.
- 23:05Speaker 3: What's the next step? What do they give somebody for that?
- 23:08Speaker 3: Is that like lithium, valium? What do they do to
- 23:11Speaker 3: make them better?
- 23:12Speaker 4: Well, you know, part of the problem is they didn't.
- 23:15Speaker 2: I don't think any of them recognized what she was
- 23:18Speaker 2: suffering from. That's the first thing. But then they were
- 23:22Speaker 2: giving her a cocktail of medications, too many different medications.
- 23:27Speaker 2: They were trying to treat the symptoms instead of treating
- 23:32Speaker 2: the underlying problem, which one would have.
- 23:34Speaker 3: Done with therapy.
- 23:35Speaker 2: Now, in the hospitals, they should have been giving her
- 23:39Speaker 2: therapy every day. And they should have figured out, like,
- 23:42Speaker 2: do one medication at a time. They were throwing them
- 23:45Speaker 2: all together so they couldn't know what was doing what.
- 23:48Speaker 3: Right.
- 23:50Speaker 2: And, you know, when she got out, like the last time,
- 23:52Speaker 2: the time before she killed the kids, she wanted to
- 23:57Speaker 2: get out because it was her daughter's birthday the next day.
- 24:01Speaker 2: And so she was afraid that her husband wasn't going
- 24:03Speaker 2: to make a party or something like that. And so,
- 24:07Speaker 2: but the psychiatrist, you know, they do this.
- 24:08Speaker 4: There were so many mistakes.
- 24:10Speaker 2: One of the things was if someone is suicidal or
- 24:12Speaker 2: tells you, I have thoughts of killing myself, hurting myself.
- 24:17Speaker 4: One of the things you do naturally, you ask, do
- 24:20Speaker 4: you have any plans? And she said, no, I don't
- 24:23Speaker 4: have plans. I wouldn't do that.
- 24:24Speaker 2: I wouldn't kill myself because I would want to keep
- 24:29Speaker 2: me alive for my kids. Well, you know, you don't
- 24:31Speaker 2: just take that at face value. You know, you have
- 24:36Speaker 2: to spend a lot more time on these things. You know,
- 24:39Speaker 2: you don't just like, they were kind of going down
- 24:40Speaker 2: this checklist. I asked this question, this question, but they lie.
- 24:44Speaker 2: People lie when they want to kill themselves.
- 24:47Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 24:47Speaker 3: So let's say in that case where she says, you know,
- 24:51Speaker 3: do you have plans? And she says no. Had she
- 24:54Speaker 3: said yes, what difference does that make for a professional
- 24:58Speaker 3: in your position?
- 24:59Speaker 2: Well, if she had said yes, or if they had
- 25:01Speaker 2: asked more questions or got more of a sense of
- 25:03Speaker 2: the whole family dynamics... They would have realized that she's
- 25:06Speaker 2: not telling the truth. They would have called the husband
- 25:09Speaker 2: and said, please be sure to make a party because
- 25:11Speaker 2: your wife is upset, wants to leave so that she
- 25:13Speaker 2: can be there to make a party. And so really,
- 25:16Speaker 2: you know, you would keep the person in the hospital.
- 25:20Speaker 2: If someone is a danger to self or a danger
- 25:22Speaker 2: to others, they should be on a hold. Now, it
- 25:25Speaker 2: turns out that she wasn't even on a hold. It
- 25:27Speaker 2: was very strange how they put her in the hospital
- 25:30Speaker 2: in McLean. They put her in a locked ward. But
- 25:34Speaker 2: she wasn't on a 72-hour hold. So it was like
- 25:37Speaker 2: competing kinds of conflicting sorts of plans and ideas for
- 25:42Speaker 2: what was wrong with her.
- 25:43Speaker 3: You're saying like she checked herself in voluntarily, but it
- 25:46Speaker 3: was still a locked word where you can't leave.
- 25:48Speaker 5: Right.
- 25:49Speaker 4: And she was saying, I have thoughts of killing myself. So,
- 25:57Speaker 4: you know.
- 25:58Speaker 3: Now, is that enough? Is that enough to hold somebody
- 26:03Speaker 3: saying that they want to hurt themselves? That's the rule
- 26:05Speaker 3: that should hold people, right? The Baker Act?
- 26:08Speaker 4: Yes, yes.
- 26:10Speaker 3: And yet it didn't happen, or it doesn't seem to
- 26:12Speaker 3: have happened.
- 26:13Speaker 4: Right.
- 26:15Speaker 7: Right.
- 26:15Speaker 2: If the mental health professional thinks that there is a
- 26:20Speaker 2: chance that the person is going to take action and
- 26:23Speaker 2: kill themselves or hurt somebody else, they are supposed to.
- 26:26Speaker 4: That's the 72-hour hold. Baker Act is in Florida.
- 26:30Speaker 2: I don't know that they call it that in Massachusetts,
- 26:33Speaker 2: but it's the same thing, a 72-hour hold. But these days,
- 26:38Speaker 2: hospitals throw people out. You know, they're all too ready
- 26:42Speaker 2: to throw people out.
- 26:43Speaker 4: This is part of the problem. It wasn't just her.
- 26:45Speaker 2: This happens every day, especially if you don't have good insurance.
- 26:51Speaker 2: That's going to pay the hospital for every day.
- 26:52Speaker 3: That's what dictates everything.
- 26:53Speaker 4: Yes, exactly. Exactly. So we are in really a mess.
- 26:57Speaker 2: You know, the mental health system is in a mess,
- 27:00Speaker 2: and it needs to be fixed on lots of counts,
- 27:02Speaker 2: especially this whole, you know, I mean, what happened was
- 27:08Speaker 2: some years ago, insurance companies decided that they wouldn't pay
- 27:14Speaker 2: psychiatrists to do therapy.
- 27:19Speaker 4: Well, they didn't.
- 27:20Speaker 2: They were paying psychiatrists more to do therapy than they
- 27:22Speaker 2: were paying psychologists and social workers to And counselors because
- 27:25Speaker 2: psychiatrists are MDs. But so then the insurance companies realize, well,
- 27:32Speaker 2: wait a second. We can have these other people, not MDs,
- 27:35Speaker 2: doing therapy. And then we can pay less. And so
- 27:40Speaker 2: psychiatrists couldn't really afford to keep on doing like 45
- 27:45Speaker 2: minutes to an hour of therapy with people, whether in
- 27:48Speaker 2: the hospital, well, in the hospital is a little different,
- 27:50Speaker 2: but certainly outside the hospital, I mean, in general practice,
- 27:55Speaker 2: because if they see eight patients a day and the
- 27:58Speaker 2: insurance is now giving them some ridiculously low amount of
- 28:03Speaker 2: I don't know the amount, first of all, because I
- 28:05Speaker 2: don't take insurance, but second of all, because I do therapy.
- 28:09Speaker 4: I don't just throw pills at people. In fact, that's
- 28:12Speaker 4: the last resort.
- 28:13Speaker 3: It should be.
- 28:15Speaker 4: It should be.
- 28:17Speaker 2: But so then they realize, well, if we do med visits,
- 28:21Speaker 2: you know, 15 minutes to 45 minutes perhaps the first time,
- 28:26Speaker 2: I can make four times as much, you know, than
- 28:30Speaker 2: if I– if I was seeing eight patients a day
- 28:33Speaker 2: for therapy at the rate that the insurance was paying,
- 28:37Speaker 2: that would be one amount. But if I saw people
- 28:39Speaker 2: for 15 minutes, it would be four times that. So
- 28:41Speaker 2: that's how psychiatrists, I, and, and, you know, it's, it's like,
- 28:45Speaker 2: I don't, there was no, there was, there were no protests.
- 28:49Speaker 2: There were no, you know, nothing to, to try to,
- 28:53Speaker 2: to say anything about this. The psychiatrist just sort of,
- 28:58Speaker 2: figured out a workaround, which is to do med visits
- 29:01Speaker 2: and give people pills.
- 29:03Speaker 4: And it is really, really bad.
- 29:06Speaker 2: You know, and I think that the residency programs are
- 29:10Speaker 2: not doing as much teaching people how to do therapy.
- 29:13Speaker 2: I mean, they obviously have to do it to some degree,
- 29:15Speaker 2: but they're not doing it as much as they should.
- 29:19Speaker 2: And so people are just getting pills thrown at them.
- 29:22Speaker 2: And then when the person comes back, when the patient
- 29:24Speaker 2: comes back and they're not better, then the doctor just
- 29:28Speaker 2: throws another prescription at them. So now people are walking
- 29:30Speaker 2: around on two and three and up to five different prescriptions.
- 29:33Speaker 2: She had 13 different prescriptions.
- 29:35Speaker 1: Wow. Unbelievable.
- 29:37Speaker 3: Doc, I'm going to pause right here. I want to
- 29:39Speaker 3: come back and ask. you two more questions. One about
- 29:42Speaker 3: what can we expect moving forward? More from the legal framework, retrial,
- 29:47Speaker 3: maybe a deal that's cut. And your closing arguments on
- 29:52Speaker 3: why crazy people that kill people shouldn't be put in jail.
- 29:56Speaker 3: More to come straight ahead. It's Rich Valdez with Dr.
- 29:58Speaker 3: Carol Lieberman.
- 30:00Speaker 1: This is America. This is America.
- 30:07Speaker 3: The 45th president, Donald Trump, thinks it's an honor to
- 30:11Speaker 3: speak with Rich Valdez.
- 30:13Speaker 1: Oh, very good, Mr. Call Screener.
- 30:15Speaker 3: It's an honor.
- 30:16Speaker 5: Thanks, Rich.
- 30:18Speaker 3: The honor is all yours. Conservative talk with a dash
- 30:23Speaker 3: of sofrito.
- 30:24Speaker 1: Now, here's Rich Valdez.
- 30:28Speaker 3: What's up, America? We continue the conversation with Dr. Carol Lieberman,
- 30:32Speaker 3: America's psychiatrist. You've seen her on Court TV. She's with
- 30:35Speaker 3: us now. She's been gracious with her time. And Dr. Carol,
- 30:40Speaker 3: the The outcome of this case was a mistrial. The
- 30:44Speaker 3: attorney for Lindsey Clancy looks like he's running for president.
- 30:47Speaker 3: He's on every TV network all the time making the case,
- 30:50Speaker 3: I guess, trying to sully the jury pool so that
- 30:54Speaker 3: they don't go to trial again. And quite frankly, there's
- 30:57Speaker 3: no guarantee that what happened in this case might not
- 31:00Speaker 3: happen again. Although I think there were, I'm going to
- 31:03Speaker 3: call them mistakes or missteps. sequestering the jury, making sure
- 31:07Speaker 3: maybe it was a closed courtroom, not letting in the
- 31:09Speaker 3: pink people with the cameras, that type of thing, which
- 31:12Speaker 3: may ensure a fair trial. But all that being said,
- 31:15Speaker 3: what do you think in your years of being an
- 31:17Speaker 3: expert witness and being a forensic psychiatrist in court, giving
- 31:22Speaker 3: this type of testimony, what do you think happens from here?
- 31:27Speaker 4: Well, I hope that they don't do a retrial.
- 31:31Speaker 2: I mean, I hope that they can either come to
- 31:33Speaker 2: some kind of a plea deal or some kind of a,
- 31:36Speaker 2: because she was just, um, this was a torture for her.
- 31:40Speaker 2: And I know people, some people say, well, she deserves
- 31:43Speaker 2: to be tortured because she killed these three kids. But, um,
- 31:46Speaker 2: it seems like cruel and unusual punishment. Um, why do
- 31:50Speaker 2: I think people with mental illness shouldn't, shouldn't, um, be
- 31:55Speaker 2: put in jail for, for, for crimes? Um, I, I,
- 31:59Speaker 2: let me sort of, um, uh, make that a little clearer.
- 32:05Speaker 2: I mean, a little, I'm not saying that any person
- 32:08Speaker 2: with mental illness shouldn't be held responsible for whatever they do,
- 32:13Speaker 2: some crime. But if someone has been trying time and
- 32:18Speaker 2: time and time again, which she was, even calling suicide hotlines,
- 32:22Speaker 2: and they would ask, well, do you have a plan?
- 32:23Speaker 4: She would say, well, no. And that was the end
- 32:26Speaker 4: of that.
- 32:27Speaker 2: I mean, I think someone like this, like Lindsay Clancy,
- 32:31Speaker 2: who made superhuman efforts to get help. and was turned
- 32:36Speaker 2: away at every try. I think she deserves to have,
- 32:41Speaker 2: you know, it wasn't like she had mental illness and
- 32:44Speaker 2: she wasn't telling anyone about it. You know, if she
- 32:46Speaker 2: had plans or wanted to kill herself and wanted to
- 32:49Speaker 2: kill her or harm her children.
- 32:51Speaker 4: And she was keeping it a secret, that's one thing.
- 32:54Speaker 4: And then one day she just did it. That's one thing.
- 32:56Speaker 2: But she was telling everybody and she was asking for
- 32:59Speaker 2: help from so many different people and places and she
- 33:02Speaker 2: wasn't getting it.
- 33:03Speaker 4: And I think someone like that certainly.
- 33:06Speaker 2: Deserves to get the lesser charge to, you know, she
- 33:11Speaker 2: couldn't help her, her mental illness. I mean, she couldn't,
- 33:13Speaker 2: she couldn't, what they were giving her, all these pills
- 33:17Speaker 2: were not helping her controlling her voices and controlling her
- 33:20Speaker 2: different psychotic symptoms.
- 33:23Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess ultimately that leaves a void for how
- 33:25Speaker 3: the children get justice. But I see your point. And
- 33:28Speaker 3: you probably would have been a more effective defense attorney
- 33:31Speaker 3: than the one she had, although it seems like it worked, right?
- 33:33Speaker 3: She didn't get in trouble just yet. Dr. Carol Lieberman,
- 33:36Speaker 3: let everybody know how they can find you and learn
- 33:39Speaker 3: more about what you're doing.
- 33:40Speaker 1: Sure.
- 33:40Speaker 2: Well, they could go to one of my websites, which
- 33:43Speaker 2: is called expertwitnessforensicpsychiatrist.com, expertwitnessforensicpsychiatrist.com.
- 33:50Speaker 4: Also, of course, on Twitter, it's Dr. Carol at Dr.
- 33:55Speaker 4: Carol MD. It's Carol with an E.
- 33:57Speaker 3: At the end. Dr. Carroll, you're a national treasure. I
- 34:00Speaker 3: appreciate the conversation and trying to help me open my eyes.
- 34:03Speaker 3: And honestly, I'll give it a second thought. I'm still
- 34:06Speaker 3: not sold, but I do understand the point you're making.
- 34:09Speaker 3: And there was a couple of points you raised that
- 34:10Speaker 3: I just wasn't aware of. Sure, after the 60 minutes debacle,
- 34:14Speaker 3: I'm going to foreshadow and call it a debacle. We'll
- 34:17Speaker 3: get together again maybe next week and debrief on that one.
- 34:20Speaker 3: I appreciate you being here.
- 34:21Speaker 4: Okay, thank you.
- 34:22Speaker 3: All right, that's Dr. Carol Lieberman, and we're coming right back.
- 34:25Speaker 3: More to come straight ahead. Don't move a muscle.
- 34:28Speaker 1: This is America. This is America. He's making podcasting great again.
- 34:58Speaker 1: This is America with Rich Valdez.
- 35:10Speaker 3: All right, familia, welcome back. Rich Valdez, Valdez with an S,
- 35:13Speaker 3: at Rich Valdez on all of the social media, keeping
- 35:15Speaker 3: you company tonight. And what an interesting interview we had
- 35:19Speaker 3: with Dr. Carol Lieberman, right? So many people talking about
- 35:22Speaker 3: this Lindsay Clancy, and it's been going on for weeks
- 35:25Speaker 3: and weeks and weeks on end. And it really exposed
- 35:28Speaker 3: a lot of things, right? One of the main things
- 35:29Speaker 3: I think that it exposed is how much people are
- 35:33Speaker 3: willing to go with the underdog here, right? Just like
- 35:36Speaker 3: the Mangione case, just like many of these cases, people
- 35:40Speaker 3: are becoming less godly. That's the word I'm going to use.
- 35:44Speaker 3: They don't care about life as much as they do
- 35:47Speaker 3: what they perceive to be justice. If it seems just
- 35:51Speaker 3: in their eyes, like all these women that I guess
- 35:55Speaker 3: identified with Lindsay Clancy and decided to make videos about
- 36:00Speaker 3: them harming their children, throwing them down the stairs, all
- 36:04Speaker 3: these different crazy videos that are trending online, really just
- 36:08Speaker 3: goes to show you how crazy things really are.
- 36:11Speaker 6: I'm Christina Awayo in Dallas, and here are your top stories.
- 36:15Speaker 6: Lindsay Clancy supporters are saying things like any mother could
- 36:18Speaker 6: have killed their kids. They could harm their own kids.
- 36:21Speaker 6: Her husband is to blame. Lindsay is the victim, and
- 36:24Speaker 6: women are being dismissed and neglected. The insanity is real.
- 36:29Speaker 6: The Clancy clan is coming out in support of the
- 36:31Speaker 6: woman who strangled her three young kids to death. Some
- 36:34Speaker 6: posting videos showing themselves crying while holding their babies with
- 36:38Speaker 6: the captions, same Lindsay. We can all relate, Lindsay. And
- 36:43Speaker 6: I am Lindsay Clancy. Others are posting videos of themselves
- 36:46Speaker 6: herding dolls, meant to be their babies, by putting them
- 36:49Speaker 6: in the dryer, closing them in the dishwasher, or throwing
- 36:52Speaker 6: them down the stairs. Here are some of the things
- 36:55Speaker 6: that are being said in support of the woman who
- 36:57Speaker 6: admitted to killing. Cora, 5 years old. Dawson, 3 years old.
- 37:01Speaker 6: And Callen, 8 months old. Quote, I think that every
- 37:05Speaker 6: one of us women believe that could have been any
- 37:07Speaker 6: one of us, any one of us who have dealt
- 37:09Speaker 6: with mental illness, anxiety, depression, postpartum. I think we just
- 37:13Speaker 6: know that any one of us could be sitting in
- 37:15Speaker 6: her chair. We're here. We hear you. We understand you.
- 37:19Speaker 6: And any one of us could have been sitting in
- 37:21Speaker 6: your chair. So we are behind you 100%. I think
- 37:25Speaker 6: she's a victim of a failed medical system. And I
- 37:27Speaker 6: think women's mental health isn't taken seriously enough. I've been
- 37:31Speaker 6: a mom where you don't want to say how you
- 37:33Speaker 6: feel because of the stigma. If I say I feel
- 37:36Speaker 6: this way, will my kids get taken away? She's in
- 37:38Speaker 6: her own hell. She has lost all of her babies.
- 37:41Speaker 6: She lost her husband. She's in a wheelchair. I don't
- 37:43Speaker 6: think prison is going to help her with her mental state.
- 37:47Speaker 6: Women are being dismissed, neglected, and ignored when we speak up.
- 37:51Speaker 6: We're scared because nobody takes us seriously. This Lindsay Clancy
- 37:55Speaker 6: trial has hit me so viscerally and it's so close
- 37:58Speaker 6: to home. Lindsay's angry posts about her kids sounded like
- 38:01Speaker 6: things I had written myself. She's very sleep deprived. Her
- 38:05Speaker 6: job as a labor and delivery nurse, working night shifts,
- 38:08Speaker 6: and three children is a lot. She's already in a wheelchair.
- 38:12Speaker 6: That's her consequence. Patrick Clancy should go to jail for negligence.
- 38:16Speaker 6: He needs to take care of his kids, and that
- 38:18Speaker 6: was his responsibility. Lindsay did not kill her kids. Same
- 38:23Speaker 6: Lindsay posts are popping up everywhere with the captions. Me
- 38:26Speaker 6: when I had to ask the neighbor to bathe her
- 38:28Speaker 6: because I thought I would drown her. Another one said
- 38:31Speaker 6: my new vetting process. If I want to date a
- 38:33Speaker 6: man first date question, I'm always going to be asking
- 38:36Speaker 6: him is do you think that Lindsay Clancy should go
- 38:38Speaker 6: to jail for what she did? And if that man
- 38:40Speaker 6: says yes. I'm getting up and walking out right.
- 38:44Speaker 8: Then and there.
- 38:44Speaker 6: Some of them have a new theory saying that he
- 38:47Speaker 6: killed the kids, referring to Patrick Clancy. Others are just
- 38:50Speaker 6: saying they think she's innocent. A GoFundMe for Clancy's parents,
- 38:53Speaker 6: Mike and Paula Musgrove, raised more than $ 1 million. All right,
- 38:58Speaker 6: so here are the questions. Are we now in a
- 38:59Speaker 6: world where the response to a mother murdering her kids is, quote,
- 39:04Speaker 6: you're not perfect? Are we now excusing the murder of
- 39:07Speaker 6: innocent children because a person feels depressed or is sleep-deprived?
- 39:11Speaker 6: You be the judge. That's what you need to know.
- 39:13Speaker 6: In Dallas, Christina Awayo.
- 39:17Speaker 3: People really think that, you know, the postpartum depression is real.
- 39:24Speaker 3: And I'm not saying it's not, but they're making it
- 39:26Speaker 3: seem like, yeah, that's real. We'd be wanting to kill
- 39:28Speaker 3: our kids. excuse me ma'am I don't care what you
- 39:32Speaker 3: want to do this is crazy you know I saw
- 39:37Speaker 3: one video and I've mentioned it before and I'll mention
- 39:39Speaker 3: it again this girl was Dominican from the Dominican Republic
- 39:43Speaker 3: a Latina girl and she basically said look this type
- 39:48Speaker 3: of thing can't happen in our community And I'm sure
- 39:51Speaker 3: people would immediately start pushing back. This knows no bounds.
- 39:55Speaker 3: It does. It does know bounds. Because the reality is
- 39:58Speaker 3: when you're having a child, this happens in isolation. This
- 40:02Speaker 3: happens when you create boundaries. In many Hispanic homes, there
- 40:07Speaker 3: are no boundaries. You start acting up, they will take
- 40:10Speaker 3: the door off of the hinge. No boundary, no door,
- 40:13Speaker 3: no privacy. These are customary things. And you have your baby, good.
- 40:21Speaker 3: His mom's coming. Your mom's coming first.
- 40:24Speaker 8: Right?
- 40:25Speaker 3: That's how it is. I grew up with my grandmother
- 40:28Speaker 3: in the home until I was 11 or 12 years old.
- 40:31Speaker 3: And then she passed away. There is no such thing
- 40:34Speaker 3: as the nursing home. This is not a concept to
- 40:37Speaker 3: many Hispanic families. They have to live with us. And
- 40:43Speaker 3: when you have that built-in, I call it built-in babysitter,
- 40:46Speaker 3: but what it really is built-in familial support. It's a
- 40:50Speaker 3: game changer. You no longer have this feeling of overwhelm
- 40:55Speaker 3: because the experienced mom says, oh, look, she's crashing out.
- 40:59Speaker 3: Let me help her. And everybody's on their P's and Q's.
- 41:04Speaker 3: Guess what? If you live in a home with your
- 41:05Speaker 3: mother-in-law in it, that husband's going to be extra helpful. Yes, dear. Now,
- 41:12Speaker 3: these are the examples that I can make from what
- 41:14Speaker 3: I know, from my own experiences, from my life, right?
- 41:17Speaker 3: My mom was around. Her mom was around. My ex-wife.
- 41:21Speaker 3: And these were good things, excellent things. And I'm not
- 41:25Speaker 3: faulting anybody if they don't have that. I'm sure there's
- 41:28Speaker 3: a lot of people that don't have that family or
- 41:29Speaker 3: they're in a different place and they've moved and whatever.
- 41:33Speaker 3: But my point is there's a commitment to success. There's
- 41:37Speaker 3: a plan. They didn't have a plan here. And that's
- 41:42Speaker 3: becoming too normal, right? When you're not part of a
- 41:46Speaker 3: church and you don't go to the same place every
- 41:48Speaker 3: Sunday and say hello to so-and-so so they can know
- 41:51Speaker 3: your business and they can gossip about you and blah, blah, blah.
- 41:55Speaker 3: Those are the same people that are going to be like, hey, listen,
- 41:58Speaker 3: if you need anything and who knows, maybe one out
- 42:02Speaker 3: of 10 of those, if you need anything, will actually
- 42:04Speaker 3: mean it and will help you when you need a
- 42:08Speaker 3: ride here, when you need a ride there. And again,
- 42:11Speaker 3: I'm probably one of the proudest guys out here.
- 42:13Speaker 8: Right?
- 42:14Speaker 3: Pride comes before the fall. I get that. I'm learning
- 42:16Speaker 3: that lesson. Even if I needed help, I wouldn't ask
- 42:19Speaker 3: for it. It's just how I am. It's not a
- 42:22Speaker 3: good thing. But it is what it is. And I'm
- 42:26Speaker 3: learning to be better at accepting help when needed. Even
- 42:30Speaker 3: if it's silly little things. Because you can't do everything
- 42:35Speaker 3: on your own. And I learned that as a caregiver
- 42:38Speaker 3: to my dad and my mom. Those were brutal times
- 42:44Speaker 3: for me. I had just gotten divorced, moved out, and
- 42:48Speaker 3: started living on my mother's couch because she asked me
- 42:51Speaker 3: to before I even moved out. She wasn't feeling well,
- 42:54Speaker 3: and she needed help at night going to the bathroom,
- 42:56Speaker 3: and lucky me, I was the guy that got the job.
- 43:01Speaker 3: And it was uncomfortable for me, and right away I was,
- 43:05Speaker 3: you know, just like, man, this sucks. But ultimately, you
- 43:10Speaker 3: learn a lot about what it is to get stretched
- 43:13Speaker 3: thin caring for someone, whether it's children or adult parents
- 43:17Speaker 3: that are elderly or infirmed. And you learn that you
- 43:25Speaker 3: have to stick together. I don't want to get on
- 43:30Speaker 3: my soapbox too much about that, but that's just the
- 43:33Speaker 3: reality here. And if we learn nothing else from this
- 43:36Speaker 3: Lindsay Clancy thing, it's that it takes a village. And
- 43:40Speaker 3: some people don't like the takes a village idiom because
- 43:46Speaker 3: it sounds communistic, right? Like a collectivist idea. And I'm
- 43:52Speaker 3: sure you can make that case. But when it comes
- 43:54Speaker 3: to child rearing, you need all hands on deck. My children,
- 43:58Speaker 3: and I thank God for them, they had their grandparents involved.
- 44:03Speaker 3: We had our church family involved. There was a children's
- 44:06Speaker 3: ministry director named Denise Silva. Gospel Tabernacle Church, North Bergen,
- 44:11Speaker 3: New Jersey. This woman is an angel. She is a godsend.
- 44:16Speaker 3: I went to lunch with her probably about a year ago.
- 44:19Speaker 3: My daughter was 24 years old, I think at the time.
- 44:22Speaker 3: She's 25 now. And we wanted to celebrate, you know,
- 44:25Speaker 3: seeing her and just catching up with her and thank
- 44:30Speaker 3: her for the blessings that she, you know, poured into
- 44:34Speaker 3: both my daughter's lives and But I happened to be
- 44:37Speaker 3: at that lunch with the older daughter. The younger daughter
- 44:39Speaker 3: had to work. Take two. The Vacation Bible School. That
- 44:45Speaker 3: was a tongue twister that my kids went to. It
- 44:47Speaker 3: taught them a lot of things about how to see
- 44:50Speaker 3: their faith as children in the world that we live in.
- 44:54Speaker 3: These were all things that I didn't teach them. I
- 44:56Speaker 3: might have reinforced it, but they learned it from their
- 45:00Speaker 3: church family. And it got reinforced at home. And they
- 45:05Speaker 3: knew to respect the elders and to respect their grandmas
- 45:09Speaker 3: and to help their grandpa because he always needed help
- 45:11Speaker 3: with something. And that was what family looked like. And
- 45:15Speaker 3: I'm sure that they have their own traumas and their
- 45:18Speaker 3: own moments of saying, that's not fair. This isn't cool.
- 45:21Speaker 3: My friends don't have to do this type of thing.
- 45:24Speaker 3: But guess what? That's exactly how it goes. So keep
- 45:30Speaker 3: that in mind.
- 45:31Speaker 5: Anyway.
- 45:31Speaker 3: Too mushy for me, but this was a heavy topic
- 45:34Speaker 3: and one of those things where I think we need
- 45:37Speaker 3: to have these conversations. We need to bring things back
- 45:40Speaker 3: to godliness, right? There's nothing wrong with the Ten Commandments.
- 45:44Speaker 3: And I get it. Some people want to leave God
- 45:47Speaker 3: for the wayside, but living your life with God is
- 45:50Speaker 3: much easier than living it without God. Living your life
- 45:54Speaker 3: and making a family easier with God than without God.
- 45:58Speaker 3: Raising a child. So much easier with Jesus than without.
- 46:03Speaker 3: That's it. The proof is in the pudding. All right. Anyway,
- 46:06Speaker 3: that's all my thoughts for today. And something I always
- 46:09Speaker 3: say to wrap up is that you've got to stand
- 46:13Speaker 3: for something because if you stand for nothing, you'll fall
- 46:17Speaker 3: for anything. And the only thing necessary for evil to
- 46:20Speaker 3: triumph is for good people like you to sit there
- 46:22Speaker 3: and do nothing. So do something. Hasta la proxima. Take care.
- 46:27Speaker 3: Good night. And God bless you, America. I'm Rich Valdez,
- 46:30Speaker 3: and this is America.
- 46:37Speaker 1: This is America. This is America.
- 47:06Speaker 2: Thank you.