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2nd DATE UPDATE: Marina & Julian · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: The next segment we're going to do is called Second
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  Speaker 1: Date Update.
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  Speaker 2: Because that's what we're going to try and get, and
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  Speaker 2: that's what the bit is called.
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  Speaker 3: Second Date Update starts right now.
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  Speaker 4: On John Jay and Rich.
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  Speaker 3: Marina, good morning.
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  Speaker 4: You're on the air.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, John Jay and Rich. I have a question for you.
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  Speaker 1: It's a little debate that I've been having with my friends,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm curious about your opinion.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: What happened?
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  Speaker 1: So I'm sorry, but if a guy asks me out
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  Speaker 1: on a date, And he's asking me to go somewhere
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  Speaker 1: where we're obviously going to have drinks. I 100% think
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  Speaker 1: that this guy should be paying for my Uber there
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  Speaker 1: and back.
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  Speaker 5: Right?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, to me, that's part of asking someone on
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  Speaker 1: a date is caring about how I'm going to get
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  Speaker 1: there in the first place. When you're inviting me out,
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  Speaker 1: you're choosing to pursue me. I mean, so yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: think making sure that I get there home safely, that
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  Speaker 1: is a huge part.
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  Speaker 4: Of the deal.
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  Speaker 1: And I told my friends about this.
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  Speaker 4: Did he offer to come pick you up?
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  Speaker 1: No, nothing.
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  Speaker 2: No.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's all like my friends. I told them
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  Speaker 1: about it and I told them I'm not going to
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  Speaker 1: see this guy again because he didn't even offer to
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  Speaker 1: get my Uber. And they're the ones asking, acting like
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  Speaker 1: I'm being high maintenance. I don't think I'm being high maintenance.
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  Speaker 1: I think that the dating has gotten so casual and
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  Speaker 1: the bar has gotten so low that we've removed the
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  Speaker 1: bar and we've convinced ourselves that basic effort is asking
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  Speaker 1: for too much. Well, for me, it's a non-negotiable. If
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  Speaker 1: you ask me out, the Uber is on you.
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  Speaker 5: Interesting.
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  Speaker 3: This has been a debate I've seen like on Reddit
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  Speaker 3: or something like that. This is the thing now. And
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  Speaker 3: it used to not be like back in the day,
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  Speaker 3: back in the day before Uber, when you ask somebody
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  Speaker 3: on a date, Wouldn't you just go in your own
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  Speaker 3: car and meet somebody on a date?
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  Speaker 6: Well, if you're talking about way back in the day,
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  Speaker 6: your date would pick you up, but that's not always
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  Speaker 6: safe these days.
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  Speaker 5: If you're uncomfortable with giving him your address, well, you
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  Speaker 5: gave him your address for the Uber. So that takes
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  Speaker 5: that out of it. You're saying it's your first date, right?
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  Speaker 5: This guy and you have never gone out before. And
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  Speaker 5: you know you're going to go to a place where
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  Speaker 5: you probably are going to drink a lot. You're saying
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  Speaker 5: if you care enough about me to ask me out
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  Speaker 5: to go to a bar, you should cover the drinks
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  Speaker 5: and the Uber there and back.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, so I have a question.
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  Speaker 6: So you told your friends you're not going to go
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  Speaker 6: out with this guy again. Was the rest of the
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  Speaker 6: date spectacular and it's literally just that, that he didn't
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  Speaker 6: pay for your Uber? Or were you already kind of
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  Speaker 6: not liking him and then he didn't pay for the
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  Speaker 6: Uber and you're like, that's it?
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  Speaker 1: No, I mean, the date was actually, like, pretty nice.
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  Speaker 1: He's funny. He was nice. You know, but to me, like,
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  Speaker 1: that's not enough. Because when you get down to it,
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  Speaker 1: those things kind of fade once you start having problems.
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  Speaker 1: You know, and I think that that's just kind of, like,
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  Speaker 1: the beginning. If somebody doesn't have the, like, the, like,
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  Speaker 1: awareness for my safety from the get-go, I think there's
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  Speaker 1: going to be other things down the line that I'm going.
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  Speaker 3: To have to coach.
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  Speaker 7: You want, like, a... You want a guy that's going to, like,
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  Speaker 7: think before, you know, and be ahead of the game
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  Speaker 7: a little bit and be a little courteous before, you know,
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  Speaker 7: you even think about it.
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  Speaker 3: I get it.
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  Speaker 4: I understand.
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  Speaker 7: I probably wouldn't be like, I'm never going to see
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  Speaker 7: him again. But it would be a nice gesture if
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  Speaker 7: you did it.
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  Speaker 4: Just so I.
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  Speaker 5: Understand, are you mad that he didn't offer or did
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  Speaker 5: you ask and he said no?
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  Speaker 1: No, I'm mad that he didn't even offer. If I
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  Speaker 1: asked and he said no, I absolutely would not have
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  Speaker 1: met up with him.
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  Speaker 3: That's fair. Okay, so now this is a guy you
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  Speaker 3: go out with. He doesn't offer. And now you're ghosting him? Like,
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  Speaker 3: have you, has he reached out to you? Did he
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  Speaker 3: have a good time? Does he know you're upset?
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  Speaker 1: No, I don't know what he thinks or what he feels,
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  Speaker 1: but I feel like at our age, he should already
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  Speaker 1: have been like, oh, that's something I probably should have done.
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  Speaker 3: Would you be, I would love to hear his point
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  Speaker 3: of view on this. When was the last time you
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  Speaker 3: went out with this guy or saw this guy? When
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  Speaker 3: was his date?
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  Speaker 1: Probably a couple weeks ago.
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  Speaker 3: So, has he reached out to you?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: And you just ghost him?
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  Speaker 2: He has.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I just stopped responding.
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  Speaker 3: Would you be opposed to us calling him? I'd like
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  Speaker 3: to get his... I wonder if he knows.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what? I am curious.
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  Speaker 4: That's fine.
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  Speaker 3: Because I mean, just my opinion, I don't think that's...
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  Speaker 3: You ask someone to go on a date, you meet
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  Speaker 3: at the movie or you meet at the restaurant, you
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  Speaker 3: kind of get there on your own.
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  Speaker 4: It's weird.
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  Speaker 5: It's like, I think I would probably offer to pay
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  Speaker 5: and then I don't know how I'd feel if she
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  Speaker 5: demanded I pay for the Uber.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know how I'd feel. I guess it depends
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  Speaker 3: on how into the person you are. So can you
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  Speaker 3: hold on for a second and we'll get his number
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  Speaker 3: from you and call him Yeah, that's fine. What is
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  Speaker 3: his name?
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  Speaker 1: Julian.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, hold on for one second. Got to call this
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  Speaker 3: guy and find out. I mean, this is interesting to
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  Speaker 3: give you a different point of view of, like, we're
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  Speaker 3: kind of forcing a second date. It's like a backwards
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  Speaker 3: second date update.
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  Speaker 4: He has no idea why he's being ghosted.
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  Speaker 3: I wonder if he's even thought about it. No, he
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  Speaker 3: hasn't thought about it. So hold on. We're going to
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  Speaker 3: call Julian to find out what he's going through right now.
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  Speaker 3: It's an impromptu second date update. This is next with
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  Speaker 3: John Jane Rich.
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  Speaker 2: John!
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  Speaker 3: Kind of in the middle of an interesting second date update,
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  Speaker 3: we got Marina on the line. She just called to
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  Speaker 3: tell us, right, Marina, you were saying, if you go
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  Speaker 3: on a date with a guy, he should pay for
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  Speaker 3: the Uber, right?
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 3: First date. You went on a first date with Julian.
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  Speaker 3: He didn't pay for the Uber. You had a good
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  Speaker 3: time on the date, but they pissed you off that
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  Speaker 3: he didn't pay for your Uber or offer to pay.
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  Speaker 3: That is correct. And you've ghosted him since, and it
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  Speaker 3: was a couple weeks ago.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't love the term ghosting, but I guess
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  Speaker 1: that's what happened.
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  Speaker 3: All right, so we're going to get him on the phone. Actually,
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  Speaker 3: he's ready to go on the phone. Okay, good. Hold
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  Speaker 3: on for one second. Let's patch him through. Patch him through. Hey, Julian.
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  Speaker 2: Hello?
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  Speaker 3: Hey, this is John Jane Rich. Okay, yeah. So we
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  Speaker 3: took a call from a woman, and she was kind
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  Speaker 3: of talking about dating. And she said that she will
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  Speaker 3: never date a guy again if he doesn't pay for
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  Speaker 3: the Uber. And the story is, you're the guy she
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  Speaker 3: went out with. and you didn't offer to pay for
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  Speaker 3: the Uber, and she's ghosting you. So have you been
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  Speaker 3: ghosted by anybody recently?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that to me is ridiculous. You know, honestly, I
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  Speaker 2: had no idea why she ghosted me. You know, it
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  Speaker 2: came out of nowhere, but now that you're saying that, honestly,
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  Speaker 2: I think that's absolutely insane.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, so who ghosted you? Let's make sure we're talking
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  Speaker 3: about the right person, or maybe you get ghosted by everybody.
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  Speaker 2: Marina.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, that's it.
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  Speaker 7: Yes.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: So she's ghosting you because you didn't offer to pay
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  Speaker 3: for her Uber, by the way.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's... that's honestly the dumbest thing I've ever heard. Sorry.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, that's just, I mean, I didn't know why
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  Speaker 2: she goes to me. I thought things went pretty good.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I mean, I checked in with her a
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  Speaker 2: couple of days later, just trying to see if she
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  Speaker 2: was good. I got nothing back. And, you know, I
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  Speaker 2: wasn't going to just keep blowing up her phone or
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  Speaker 2: hounding her or anything. So, you know, I thought we
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  Speaker 2: were on the same page, but clearly we are not
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  Speaker 2: on the same page because that is, First of all,
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  Speaker 2: she didn't even mention that at all. So I would
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  Speaker 2: have had to imagine that out of air. This woman
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  Speaker 2: wants me to pay for her Uber, obviously. Had no idea.
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  Speaker 2: And secondly, even if she had asked me, I would
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  Speaker 2: have told her she was out of her damn mind.
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  Speaker 4: Wait, didn't you drink together?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: So you don't feel like that's maybe a nice thing
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  Speaker 7: to do for your date? Like if you're going to
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  Speaker 7: go and get her all liquored up?
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  Speaker 3: I think on the way, at the end of the date,
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  Speaker 3: you're drinking, you're like, oh man, you're too drunk. You know, hey,
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  Speaker 3: let me get your Uber. But to set up a date,
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  Speaker 3: you call somebody, you meet somebody on an app or
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  Speaker 3: whatever it is, and you're like, hey, would you like
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  Speaker 3: to go to dinner next week? Yeah, absolutely. Okay, let's
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  Speaker 3: go to this restaurant and meet you there at seven.
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  Speaker 3: I can't say it. we'll go to this restaurant, meet
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  Speaker 3: you there at seven. What's your address? I'll send an
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  Speaker 3: Uber to pick you up. I think that seems a
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  Speaker 3: little too, I'd wait.
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  Speaker 6: I understand the getting there.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, heck yeah.
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  Speaker 6: I understand that you got to get there on your own,
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  Speaker 6: but yes, I think it would be like kind of
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  Speaker 6: nice if you were drinking and you went to New York.
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  Speaker 3: Then you should have offered.
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  Speaker 6: But the fact like, I kind of wish Julian was like,
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  Speaker 6: oh yeah, that would have been a really great idea.
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  Speaker 6: Like I've, but like his reaction makes me feel like
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  Speaker 6: I think Marina was onto something.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: By the way, Marina.
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  Speaker 2: Is this the standard out there?
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know. We're figuring it out.
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  Speaker 3: We're trying to figure it out, but Marina's on the phone.
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  Speaker 3: And Marina, here's the guy you ghosted.
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Hi, Julian. Marina is on the phone. Marina heard everything.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm sorry, but Julian just proved my point exactly.
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  Speaker 1: Because as nice as someone can be, and Julian, you
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  Speaker 1: are very nice. I had a great time. I'm not
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  Speaker 1: going to lie. I am sorry for the ghosting. However,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not sorry that I have enough discernment to see
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  Speaker 1: what this would be down the line, because I'm not
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  Speaker 1: in this to build a boyfriend. You know, I've done
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  Speaker 1: this way too long. And if something as basic as
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  Speaker 1: not even offering to get my Uber is just the
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  Speaker 1: beginning of That would be a whole other slew of
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  Speaker 1: problems where I would have to teach you along the
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  Speaker 1: way just basic chivalry. The fact that basic chivalry to
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  Speaker 1: you is the dumbest thing that you've ever heard, huge
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  Speaker 1: red flag. That's a red flag factory.
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  Speaker 2: You said you've been doing this a lot. You've been
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  Speaker 2: dating a long time?
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  Speaker 3: You've been dating?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, of course.
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  Speaker 1: Been dating since I was a teenager.
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  Speaker 2: So you're still single? Ooh.
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  Speaker 1: Are you? Ooh.
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  Speaker 2: No, I'm already seeing someone else.
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  Speaker 5: Oh.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, I don't love you.
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  Speaker 2: I got it.
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  Speaker 1: I got it in a row.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: I just said, I just, I don't love Julian.
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  Speaker 5: The thing that bugged you, the thing that bugged you gave,
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  Speaker 5: gave way to a lot of other stuff about Julian.
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  Speaker 4: So you picked up on something right away. Cause I
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  Speaker 4: can't imagine.
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  Speaker 1: We're just adding fuel to the fire because he's already
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  Speaker 1: dating someone else, but I have text messages from him
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  Speaker 1: three days in a row. So that's weird.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, Julie, I can't imagine somebody, hey, I'm a little buzzed.
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  Speaker 5: I need to get a ride home and you not
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  Speaker 5: offer to pay. That is kind of– I think that's
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  Speaker 5: not the story. The story is it wasn't she got buzzed.
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  Speaker 5: It was, hey, we're going to go on a date
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  Speaker 5: before you even know you're going.
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  Speaker 3: To get drunk.
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  Speaker 4: I get that. It's like– I'm trying to give him
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  Speaker 4: an out and he's not even taking the out.
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  Speaker 3: I think we all agree that she gets drunk on
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  Speaker 3: the way. way home, you pay for the Uber, but
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  Speaker 3: going on a first date with someone, I think saying,
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  Speaker 3: I'm going to pay for your Uber.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, but Julian didn't agree with that.
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  Speaker 3: Right.
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  Speaker 2: We all agree. To go get blasted or anything, this
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  Speaker 2: is a first date. We're going to meet for drinks,
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  Speaker 2: a couple of drinks. I drove You know, and she
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  Speaker 2: didn't even say, oh, you know, she was just like,
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  Speaker 2: all right, well, I'm going to order my Uber, you know,
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  Speaker 2: and head home. And I'm like, OK, it was really
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  Speaker 2: nice to see you. You know, have a good night,
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  Speaker 2: you know, and nothing in my mind was like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: I need to make sure to cover this girl's Uber.
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  Speaker 2: I even paid for some of the drinks. I didn't
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  Speaker 2: pay for all the drinks.
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  Speaker 3: You did?
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  Speaker 4: Oh, man, I'm liking you less and less.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: You didn't pay. You didn't cover the date.
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  Speaker 5: It's hard.
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  Speaker 3: It's hard to be on his side. If you keep this.
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  Speaker 3: like there's so much more on this date now that's
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  Speaker 3: caused it to go sideways. But if, is it like,
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  Speaker 3: if you're going on a first date, does the guy
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  Speaker 3: pay for the Uber?
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  Speaker 4: He asked her out.
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 3: He pays for the Uber. That's an automatic.
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  Speaker 4: She doesn't have a way to get there.
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  Speaker 3: But now you're adding something else to the story. If
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  Speaker 3: she doesn't have a way to get there. If you
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  Speaker 3: meet somebody, if you go on a dating app and
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  Speaker 3: you ask to go on a date and we're going
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  Speaker 3: to go meet at this restaurant at seven o'clock.
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  Speaker 6: Does it change if you're meeting at a bar and
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  Speaker 6: you know, there's going to.
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  Speaker 3: Be alcohol involved. Well, then that's changing it still. I'm
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  Speaker 3: going to be, it's a date. It's a date at
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  Speaker 3: a restaurant. Most likely it's a date at a restaurant. Whatever,
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  Speaker 3: she's saying date no matter what. She's not like, it's
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  Speaker 3: a date at a restaurant. First date, I'm on a
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  Speaker 3: dating app. We're going to go meet at this restaurant,
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  Speaker 3: at Chili's at seven o'clock. Is the guy supposed to say,
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  Speaker 3: let me send you an Uber? That's nice if he does.
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  Speaker 3: Let me tell you something.
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  Speaker 2: I know a couple of guys that have tried to
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  Speaker 2: pay for a girl that they met on Tinder. The
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  Speaker 2: girl was like, well, I can't really get there, but
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  Speaker 2: if you could send me money for my Uber. And
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  Speaker 2: so they sent 20, 30 bucks and never heard from
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  Speaker 2: that girl again.
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  Speaker 3: Well, again, that's part of that's adding to the story.
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  Speaker 3: But I think on the basic, if you're going on
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  Speaker 3: a first date with somebody, is it the guy's job
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  Speaker 3: to say, is it obligation? I think it's probably nice
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  Speaker 3: of him to do that. But it's also, you know,
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  Speaker 3: he doesn't have to show up at the date. That's
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  Speaker 3: like a girl saying, hey, I went on a date
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  Speaker 3: with a guy and he didn't bring me flowers. He
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  Speaker 3: should have brought me flowers.
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  Speaker 4: That's true. You make a point.
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  Speaker 3: Like, you know, I just feel it. So it's a big,
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  Speaker 3: and by the way, every phone line is lit up
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  Speaker 3: right now, you guys. Apparently it's a big controversy.
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  Speaker 5: 877-937-1047.
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  Speaker 2: For her, have been offering her Ubers, or maybe that's
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  Speaker 2: the reason why she's still single. She's got a very
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  Speaker 2: impossibly high standard, and most guys are not going to
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  Speaker 2: meet her. But, you know, good luck to you. Maybe
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  Speaker 2: there's one out there.
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  Speaker 1: And maybe you're still single because the bar is so
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  Speaker 1: low that the world has just removed the bar.
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  Speaker 2: I told you I'm not single.
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  Speaker 4: I'm single.
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  Speaker 1: And then I'm trying to.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, yeah, that's right.
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  Speaker 3: He's moved on.
• 12:44
  Speaker 1: I'm sure I would be... No, I would be holding
• 12:46
  Speaker 1: the door open for you, I am sure. And a
• 12:48
  Speaker 1: few months in, I would be paying for your drinks.
• 12:52
  Speaker 1: You're making yourself look real icky.
• 12:54
  Speaker 3: Okay, so listen. So I asked you if we could
• 12:58
  Speaker 3: call Julian. This isn't part of what is going to happen,
• 13:01
  Speaker 3: because this is now a second date update, unintentionally. Would
• 13:04
  Speaker 3: you like to go out on a second date? We'll
• 13:06
  Speaker 3: pay for it, and we'll even pay for the Uber.
• 13:08
  Speaker 1: I'm going to let this genius guess if I'm going
• 13:10
  Speaker 1: to be there for a second date or not.
• 13:12
  Speaker 3: Well, he's got things.
• 13:12
  Speaker 1: Do you think I'm going to be there for a
• 13:14
  Speaker 1: second date?
• 13:16
  Speaker 2: I can't go on a second date. I'm seeing somebody else.
• 13:18
  Speaker 3: All right.
• 13:20
  Speaker 2: All right.
• 13:20
  Speaker 4: So no second date. He's a one-woman man.
• 13:23
  Speaker 3: Disaster. All right, you guys. Thanks for jumping on the
• 13:26
  Speaker 3: air with us, both of you. Thank you for calling in, Marina.
• 13:29
  Speaker 3: Thanks for bringing this debate to us. It's a huge
• 13:32
  Speaker 3: debate right now. We'll get to it next. It's John
• 13:33
  Speaker 3: Jay and Richard.