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The One That’s All About ALL The Housewives · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: Hello, my loves, welcome back to another episode. I'll give
• 0:08
  Speaker 1: them La La podcast Today. I am feeling so freaking
• 0:13
  Speaker 1: hyped because my love for Housewives has been reignited through OC.
• 0:22
  Speaker 1: What about Jersey not so much?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, no, I had to rewatch it this morning.
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  Speaker 3: Oh see, though Jersey I.
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  Speaker 4: Did watch while moving, so I was half paying attention.
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  Speaker 4: But I do have some notes.
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  Speaker 1: You know what, every franchise has gone through its ups
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  Speaker 1: and downs. Every single show on Bravo has gone through
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  Speaker 1: its ups and downs, right where like some seasons are like,
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  Speaker 1: but then you give it a second chance, third chance,
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  Speaker 1: fourth chance? What is it thirteen chances?
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  Speaker 3: Again?
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  Speaker 4: No?
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  Speaker 1: But really, like I stick with the Housewives through thick
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  Speaker 1: and thin, baby, And it's hard because even if I
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  Speaker 1: don't mess with someone like on the show, I've met
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  Speaker 1: these women at Bravo con and whatnot, and I can't
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  Speaker 1: think of one housewife or Bravo celebrity who's been unkind
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  Speaker 1: to me. So it's hard talking about the shows because
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, if they listen or whoever's listening, which I
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  Speaker 1: know you motherfuckers send send these bravolebrities clips in their dms,
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  Speaker 1: and then suddenly we're beefing.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just a squirrel trying to get a nut.
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  Speaker 1: That's a squirrel. But I'm like, I'm strictly coming from
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  Speaker 1: a place of what's on television, But truly, I have
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  Speaker 1: had nothing but positive experiences with most of the women
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  Speaker 1: who are on TV right now. I don't watch Dubai, okay,
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  Speaker 1: but I was listening to a clip on instead a
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  Speaker 1: gram of two teas with the new girl I think
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  Speaker 1: her name is Talleen, and I'm like, Okay, maybe I
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  Speaker 1: could get on Dubai.
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  Speaker 2: Let's try Dubai. Let's give it another Why don't you
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  Speaker 2: watch it? It just doesn't hit for you like the others.
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  Speaker 1: It's not that it doesn't hit for me. I haven't
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  Speaker 1: given it a chance. They're only on their second season,
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  Speaker 1: and I just for some reason, it's hasn't been something
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  Speaker 1: I've put on.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, if is there, would you be down?
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  Speaker 5: If our friends were to tell us which episode to
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  Speaker 5: watch that we could dissect on Dubai, that would be good.
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  Speaker 1: Out of the two seasons.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, whatever one is, Like, whoever they send in, we
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  Speaker 5: can dissect that one episode and we can watch it see.
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  Speaker 4: If it ignites us to watch.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I do have to say a note here at
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  Speaker 2: Bravocon because I didn't watch Dubai. I looked over and
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  Speaker 2: I didn't necessarily know the table, but I looked over
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  Speaker 2: and I was like, who is that? That was the
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  Speaker 2: most dunning table I'd ever seen.
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  Speaker 5: There beyond can I tell you the funniest story. This
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  Speaker 5: was not last Brovo Bravo Con, but the Bravo Con book.
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  Speaker 1: They should start a brovocon for dudes who love Bravo.
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  Speaker 3: Brovocn freaking it is.
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  Speaker 5: All we need is like a bar for the home,
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  Speaker 5: like the dudes with like sports in the Bravocon area,
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  Speaker 5: and we would be watching sports, but as well as
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  Speaker 5: watching our women go and then we would be a
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  Speaker 5: part of like the little voices.
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  Speaker 1: Well because there are some bros. There are some bros.
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  Speaker 3: Can we love that?
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  Speaker 1: The housewives?
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  Speaker 3: I'm telling you, but.
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  Speaker 4: You guys also a bravocn.
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  Speaker 2: If more dudes showed up, there's a lot of like
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  Speaker 2: hot single women, That's.
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  Speaker 5: What I'm saying, And that's the Bravo we might be
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  Speaker 5: onto something talking until yeah, we need something. But me
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  Speaker 5: and my mom, we're going to see her on panel, Lisa.
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  Speaker 5: I let her take the reins last time.
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  Speaker 1: This was This was the two years ago, a few
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  Speaker 1: years ago.
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  Speaker 3: This was in New York.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, we walk up, Lisa, We're ready, and Dubai is
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  Speaker 5: just walking on beautiful obviously. But yeah, that's the only
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  Speaker 5: interaction I've had with the housewives of Dubai is thinking
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  Speaker 5: that you were going to come out to panel and
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  Speaker 5: me and my sister or my mom just watching the Dubai.
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  Speaker 4: Thinking, lad, you went to the wrong panel.
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  Speaker 5: Oh yeah, we're dead center. So Lisa, I'm like, yo,
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  Speaker 5: let's go, and she's like, we look rude.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, I mean for my sister, I don't
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  Speaker 3: care how I look. So I just got up and left.
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  Speaker 5: You did, oh yeah, And she just was looking at
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  Speaker 5: me like I can't do it.
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  Speaker 3: She did it.
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  Speaker 4: I love her.
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, it was.
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  Speaker 5: The only incidents I've had with the Dubai. But I'd
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  Speaker 5: be down to watch it because they really are.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know what you did this morning, but you
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  Speaker 2: you seem so you have the greatest energy right almost
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  Speaker 2: in the car.
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  Speaker 1: That is wild, because we were both in the car
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  Speaker 1: being like this could end pretty badly, maybe in.
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  Speaker 4: A roll over, which you seem very awake alert. Did
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  Speaker 4: you are you high or not?
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  Speaker 5: Okay, maybe that's it been waking up about seven thirty
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  Speaker 5: every morning going on walks.
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  Speaker 1: There.
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  Speaker 3: We are on a new schedule.
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  Speaker 1: He is on a new schedule.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Speaking of looks, if I'm looking a little oily on Fun,
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  Speaker 1: it's because I put on a bunch of oil. I
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  Speaker 1: have an event tonight.
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  Speaker 4: What oil do you put on?
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  Speaker 3: This?
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  Speaker 1: One's a pumpkin seed oil okay from from I just
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  Speaker 1: got on Amazon amazing, And so I'm just trying to
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  Speaker 1: hydrate the skin. I haven't put makeup on in a while,
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  Speaker 1: and I've been outside.
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  Speaker 4: Skin looks fab what's the that?
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  Speaker 1: The event is Sutton's having an event at her her store.
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  Speaker 4: So Fun? Are you bringing a plus one? I texted
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  Speaker 4: you that yesterday because they asked.
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  Speaker 1: Just my bump, just your bump. I'm gonna go with
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  Speaker 1: uh Sena and Janet, so Fun. I don't leave the
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  Speaker 1: house much. You guys know that. Which I'll talk about
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  Speaker 1: my ache at the end. I need to remember, like
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  Speaker 1: I'm I'm five weeks away from giving birth, and you
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  Speaker 1: would think that I wasn't giving birth at all. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: Like when I almost crashed my mom the car with
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  Speaker 1: my mother in it fourteen times yesterday. Why and then
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  Speaker 1: straight up sobbed because she was like, you seem out
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  Speaker 1: of it, and I was like, no, I guys that
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  Speaker 1: I'm pregnant.
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  Speaker 4: I didn't be given burk.
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  Speaker 1: Why driving its fucking car?
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  Speaker 3: You never did when I'm with you, you never drive. But
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  Speaker 3: I will say. Lisa comes up and she goes, we
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  Speaker 3: need to baby her more.
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  Speaker 1: I thought, no, that is true, that is true.
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  Speaker 3: Do I need to start picking her up to go everywhere?
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  Speaker 1: Yes? Okay, you literally hams that we needed to pick
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  Speaker 1: up because I need to get the nursery looking like
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  Speaker 1: my baby's nursery. Right now, it's just this generic room.
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  Speaker 1: And I'll be damned if like my first born had
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  Speaker 1: this extravagant nursery and the second baby is like, here's
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  Speaker 1: the hand me down crib and rocker. I hear you,
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  Speaker 1: you know, like I want it to look nice. And
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  Speaker 1: Easton was like battling my mom on going so I
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  Speaker 1: drive us there.
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  Speaker 3: I was battling.
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  Speaker 5: They went to pick up mirrors, which is totally fine,
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  Speaker 5: and I am going to interrupt they want they went
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  Speaker 5: to get mirrors, that's totally fine.
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  Speaker 3: Go pick out your mirrors, leave them there.
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  Speaker 1: We did. It's exactly what we did.
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  Speaker 3: Well, that's the other thing.
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  Speaker 1: And then we asked you to go pick them up,
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  Speaker 1: and you said, you and Lauren go no, and people
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  Speaker 1: could put them in the car and then you'll get
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  Speaker 1: them out of the car when we get home.
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  Speaker 5: I said, you guys said, can you come in land
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  Speaker 5: in his car? I said, he is not here. I
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  Speaker 5: don't have a.
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  Speaker 1: Car to write them right, So then we came home.
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  Speaker 3: I would have picked them up.
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  Speaker 5: All I'm saying is and Lisa goes, is it that
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  Speaker 5: hard to spend time with your on fire?
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  Speaker 1: I'm about to light you on fire.
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  Speaker 3: Light me on fire.
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  Speaker 1: We did say that we arrived at the house because
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  Speaker 1: you couldn't bring Landon's car to us. You said, we
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  Speaker 1: can't have three people in the range rover. You said,
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  Speaker 1: you and Lauren just go and have the people help you.
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  Speaker 1: And Mom goes, well, it's a bunch of women who
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  Speaker 1: work there, and you didn't flinch, and you said, you guys,
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  Speaker 1: get them in the car and when you get back
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  Speaker 1: to the house, all unload them. So what turns out
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  Speaker 1: is me sobbing in the car, being like, why the
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  Speaker 1: fuck am I doing this? Oh? So it was you
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  Speaker 1: and Lisa, Yes, my mom filled up later. What do
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  Speaker 1: you mean later? It was later?
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  Speaker 3: It was like noon, because no, it wasn't.
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  Speaker 1: What are you talking about. I didn't even get out
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  Speaker 1: of the house until twelve thirty one o'clock.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, so it was two.
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  Speaker 5: All I'm saying is I would have gone and picked
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  Speaker 5: them up. I've done that before me and Mom went.
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  Speaker 5: We bought stuff. I went by myself, picked it up.
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  Speaker 5: All I said is grab the mirrors, purchase him.
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  Speaker 3: I'll go back that night. Here's the thing.
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  Speaker 1: He was very adamant that he was not going to
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  Speaker 1: do it, that he would unload them once we arrived
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  Speaker 1: at the house.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, got it all right?
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  Speaker 1: Yes, So I lost my goddamn mind and said, I'm
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  Speaker 1: fucking done. I'm giving birth in five weeks. Everyone step
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  Speaker 1: your fucking game up.
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  Speaker 4: I hear you. Number one. I'll be over tomorrow with
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  Speaker 4: a notebook.
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  Speaker 2: We're getting all your or today, we're getting all your
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  Speaker 2: stuff listed, getting the room.
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  Speaker 5: All I'm saying is I would have done it watching it.
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  Speaker 3: I've done it.
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  Speaker 1: This is how my whole life works. Vander pump Rule
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  Speaker 1: family life. When I hit a million, then people are like,
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  Speaker 1: all right, everything's gonna change. I'm like you know this
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  Speaker 1: didn't have to happen, right, You realize I've been being
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  Speaker 1: like I've been pretty.
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  Speaker 5: Fucking sha in her life. We've always done it, but
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  Speaker 5: she just hits a million.
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  Speaker 3: Don't want? Somebody get me some water?
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, let's pull up. When I was in the
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  Speaker 1: third what was I thirteen? Seventh grade? Oh?
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  Speaker 4: Don't you feel though changed?
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  Speaker 2: I will say with the comments, don't you feel good
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  Speaker 2: about this? A lot of people say, your second child,
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  Speaker 2: you're more chill. You're like, what do you feel?
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  Speaker 1: No? Chill?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, being more chill, being more like, we're good being more.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know you've been so chilled?
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  Speaker 3: Do you want to you want to? Fucking no.
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  Speaker 2: You've even said with Ocean, you were like, we gotta
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  Speaker 2: get this.
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  Speaker 3: That's the other thing. So I can't compare.
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  Speaker 1: You weren't okay, I was pampered with Ocean.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, Well yeah, it was.
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  Speaker 6: Also COVID, so that's not so much. This round, well,
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  Speaker 6: this round was not COVID. So you can just hunker
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  Speaker 6: down because life wasn't stopped, right. I do believe that
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  Speaker 6: as well, because you always say that when you were
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  Speaker 6: pregnant with Ocean it was COVID.
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  Speaker 1: Do you want to know why I work for myself
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  Speaker 1: so that I make the rules, and the rules are
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  Speaker 1: I'm ready to be fucking done, so go get the
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  Speaker 1: heavy shit for me.
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  Speaker 4: Did you get the mirrorst the mirrors?
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  Speaker 1: Because we're too bad bitches obviously.
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  Speaker 4: Shout out TJ Max. Hell, yeah, who put him in
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  Speaker 4: the car?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah she did? And you know what, she didn't even
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  Speaker 1: ask me to help her. She carried them out on
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  Speaker 1: her own, didn't say a word because she felt so
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  Speaker 1: bad that I had just sobbed the entire way there,
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  Speaker 1: and then I got out because she was like, I
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  Speaker 1: can't get them in further. So then I lifted them
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  Speaker 1: and you know they were getting like stuck on the seat.
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  Speaker 1: So yeah, we handled it.
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  Speaker 4: Do we need a task rabbit to install?
• 11:25
  Speaker 1: I need a task rab because asap, Yes.
• 11:28
  Speaker 2: We need task Rabbit to make up for the last
• 11:31
  Speaker 2: visit that they had.
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  Speaker 4: So if you're listening, task grab it. We love you
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  Speaker 4: and come through with with me a.
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  Speaker 1: Hot free task rab.
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  Speaker 3: But I don't know, I thought you said that. The
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  Speaker 3: other man that came in he was a redheaded man
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  Speaker 3: and just he was great. The business was done.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sorry, I'll let you on fire.
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  Speaker 5: It's fine, and I'm sorry that I didn't help, but
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  Speaker 5: I promise you it would have been picked up.
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  Speaker 1: Just do a little better. All right, let's talk about
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  Speaker 1: Mauricio locking lips with Nikita Khan, who is thirty three
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  Speaker 1: years old at the airport.
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  Speaker 4: Thirty three is decent though, Now is he sixty? How
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  Speaker 4: old is he? Easton?
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  Speaker 3: I know you looked it up fifty four.
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  Speaker 4: I don't think that's bad. I'm telling you it's so
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  Speaker 4: what do you guys say?
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  Speaker 3: I don't think so. Here's how I look at it.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think it's.
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  Speaker 1: Like way too way too much.
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  Speaker 4: Thirty three is mature.
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  Speaker 3: It is. But also how I look at it is
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  Speaker 3: I'm thirty one.
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  Speaker 5: I know thirty three year olds looking at a fifty
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  Speaker 5: four year old man. I could not look like that
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  Speaker 5: man talking to the thirty three year old because I
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  Speaker 5: now know how a thirty one year old would look
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  Speaker 5: at me. As a fifty four year old man talking
• 12:43
  Speaker 5: to a thirty three year old, what are you talking
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  Speaker 5: about together?
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  Speaker 4: Weird?
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  Speaker 5: Like I know he's fifty four talking to a thirty
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  Speaker 5: three year old. Okay, I could never do it because
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  Speaker 5: I look at him as discussed. So now when I
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  Speaker 5: hit that age. I could never do it because I
• 13:00
  Speaker 5: know what I think of that.
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  Speaker 1: Man, Right, you know how people are looking at you?
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  Speaker 3: Yes, in that yes, and it's disgusting.
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  Speaker 5: In my opinion. You're a good looking dude. You have
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  Speaker 5: a business, You're very successful. There are beautiful women your
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  Speaker 5: age that are successful in things like that.
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  Speaker 3: It's go for your age.
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  Speaker 1: And Kyle Richard, Yeah, yeah, he.
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  Speaker 2: Doesn't get anymore. And I kind of think it's great.
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  Speaker 2: I honestly would have expected it if I saw a
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  Speaker 2: photo of Kim and a twenty three year old, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: come on, grow up.
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  Speaker 4: But thirty three.
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  Speaker 2: In my mind, she knows what she wants. I looked
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  Speaker 2: at her Instagram. She's an actress. She seems like a hustler.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know a ton she wants. Mauricio, Get Mauricio.
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  Speaker 1: He's hot, he is I don't know, I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: That's how I feel.
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  Speaker 3: From my point of view, it's.
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  Speaker 1: Where I would say he's hot. It's an old man. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: here's the thing. Yeah, I can talk about it because
• 14:02
  Speaker 1: my eggs was not hitting like mo. Yeah, but twenty
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  Speaker 1: years the way that I look at chicks and I
• 14:09
  Speaker 1: was that chick right the way I look at chicks
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  Speaker 1: who are dating older men like that. I look at
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  Speaker 1: them and go, the money is definitely not fucking worth it, babe,
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  Speaker 1: I promise you.
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  Speaker 5: I promise anyways, And even if it's not about the money,
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  Speaker 5: that's my way.
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  Speaker 3: I just think you have nothing in common. Sorry to
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  Speaker 3: cut you off, gold.
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  Speaker 4: No, no, I cut you off.
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  Speaker 3: There.
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  Speaker 2: You might you say you have nothing in common. I
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  Speaker 2: think that men are so this is my thoughts.
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  Speaker 4: Men are so stupid and immature.
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  Speaker 2: I almost feel like thirty three year old women with
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  Speaker 2: fifty whatever year old men. Maturity levels sometimes match up. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: energy levels sometimes matchup. You want to be mow and
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  Speaker 2: be like, I'm gonna be out partying. I don't know
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  Speaker 2: if this is true, but he seems.
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  Speaker 4: Like I'm gonna be out partying doing my thing.
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  Speaker 2: It's like and sometimes you want to just chill at
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  Speaker 2: home and watch it. Like to me, maturity levels matchup.
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  Speaker 2: I'm thirty two. If I met we'll touch at this.
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  Speaker 2: We'll touch on this at the end of the pot.
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  Speaker 2: But if I met a guy who I clicked with
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  Speaker 2: who was a little older, I think I'd be like, Okay,
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  Speaker 2: we click and like he's hot and this works.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. Can I tell you my thought on
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: older men? Yeah, and this is this is strictly my opinion, Okay.
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  Speaker 1: I find that older men do not want you know,
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  Speaker 1: we hear about how women are, you know, hitting new heights.
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  Speaker 1: They're independent, they don't need men. Those women who truly
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  Speaker 1: embody that like independence, right, they don't need anyone to
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  Speaker 1: take care of them. Older men are not turned on
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  Speaker 1: by that. Older men want someone that they can take
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  Speaker 1: care of, who needs them, who they can kind of
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  Speaker 1: like take under their wing and feel like the protector,
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  Speaker 1: feel masculine. Right. It's the younger generation of men who
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  Speaker 1: I think are really really into the independent woman. There's
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: no threat. They're excited when their girl has something going
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: on that makes them excited. They're excited to go and
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: support their chick. Older men like the girl who needs saving.
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: That's a great point. And you said this to me
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: last week and I totally agree.
• 16:21
  Speaker 4: Again, just so attractive, No.
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: In people our age, it's so attractive. They respect the hustle.
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: I've noticed, like thirty whatever, your old men it's like
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: do your thing, get your bag, or like they respect
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: the hustle versus the older men.
• 16:35
  Speaker 4: Who might say, oh yeah, I support you, respect your dreams.
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: And then all you need money for your new endeavor
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: or like, I'd love to back it.
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: I tell you the independence right are like, so, when
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: are you gonna stop with this little dream of yours and.
• 16:51
  Speaker 4: Have a baby? Oh? What, I thought you were supporting this.
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: I'd really like your endeavors to be cooking, cleaning and
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: raising the children.
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: It's like, wait, they like to be all talk about
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: like I support you, and then I don't know this.
• 17:05
  Speaker 4: I'm just saying from what I've heard.
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: You know, that's just what I've seen.
• 17:09
  Speaker 4: I've never experienced that.
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: But yes, okay, so we're torn.
• 17:15
  Speaker 4: I say, go do your thing with the girl, do
• 17:18
  Speaker 4: your thing.
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: The marriage is over.
• 17:21
  Speaker 5: I'm torn about it too, because, like you just said,
• 17:23
  Speaker 5: girls do, they mature very quick. So a thirty three
• 17:26
  Speaker 5: year old could be on a forty five an old soul.
• 17:29
  Speaker 5: It's very I would need to know her to understand
• 17:34
  Speaker 5: that relationship because maybe I'm far off.
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I think it would be hard for Nikita because
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: people love Kyle so much. And the reason I saw
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: this thing, this blurb about them, was because a Bravo
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: account had posted it and said I hate this so
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: much and I'm like, I'm going to talk about it
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: on the podcast, but how much I hate it too.
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: So anyway, we wish you the bat.
• 18:04
  Speaker 4: We wish you all the baths.
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: When you say thoughts to read Erica. Kyle and my
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: fave Lisa Rinna celebrated their birthdays in BH. They're all cancers,
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: okay wow, and so they had their little get together,
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: which I absolutely love. I love a group of chicks
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: who has like this. My mom has it with her
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: friends back home, and she still goes back there to
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: celebrate all of their birthdays that are in like September
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: and November. And I just there's something about a group
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: of women who come together to celebrate their birthdays that
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: reminds me of the End of Sex and the City
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: where they cheers to Samantha turning fifty with the cake.
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: And I'm just like, God, I love a group of
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: fucking girlfriends.
• 18:53
  Speaker 4: Love it.
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: Those are homemates. I think that is really really sweet.
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: Because I liked that that crew and we're gonna gets
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: so much heat for things, and it's like, guys, let
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: it go. Kyle's going to dinner with her. If Kyle
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: don't care, why do you, I know, right, and.
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: We talked about this a couple of podcasts ago. She's
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: a bad bitch, Rinna, I.
• 19:15
  Speaker 4: Mean they all are?
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: You know?
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah, everyone needs to start listening to Let.
• 19:19
  Speaker 4: It Go by Demi Levado or No by Frozen.
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: Sings the Very Yes but a Dina Menzel plate in
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: Dina Menzel, Dina Menzel I, Dina Menzel. Do you guys
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: are how did you ever say? How you say it?
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: Did you ever see the clip of John sorry, John
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: Travolta announcing her and he.
• 19:43
  Speaker 4: Goes Adele dot seem He goes by the wickedly talented.
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: He's at an award show and he's announcing her to sing,
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: and he goes the wickedly talented Adele dot Seam and
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: everyone's like.
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: And she's like, did I say it? Okay?
• 20:03
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah yeah, I'm just he's like out of his mind.
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: I don't know's I don't know they.
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: Those award shows.
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: Oh my home anyway, Happy birthday to my fave four,
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: Happy birthday. Moving on to uh, did we so we
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: all watched? Okay? Oc oc has is two episodes deep. Okay,
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: so the season starts, we're doing episode one and two.
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: Shannon's kids are like, really really freaking grown now, right,
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: Like we've seen them since they were tiny, toilet papering
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: their friend's houses and being grounded. Okay, now they're like
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: going to college, one of them studying abroad, saying you
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: haven't lived until you live in Paris, and everyone's like okay,
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: and they're dealing with the aftermath of Shannon's duy, and
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: they're very vocal about how much they hate John Jansen. Okay,
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: don't we all we all hate John Jansenka he's like.
• 21:12
  Speaker 4: A prize and talking about her like he's a prize.
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: Sorry, Okay, the freaking worst Okay, and the whole bit
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: of like Jesus Jugs being like, I walked into the
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: Quiet Woman and we just knew. It's like, no, you,
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: you walked into the Quiet Woman. You wanted to be
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: on TV Johnny Jay has a weird obsession with Shannon
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: and wants to hurt her at all costs, And that's
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: how this came to be the.
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: Quiet Woman, though, didn't they wasn't there's something there, right,
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: Because someone made a comment on one of the blogs
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: I was looking that was like and that was just
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: that probably hurt Shannon so much more?
• 21:46
  Speaker 4: Did Shannon and John used to go to the Quiet
• 21:48
  Speaker 4: Woman or something.
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: No, the Quiet Woman is just like a well known
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: It's like the you know how, yes, you know those
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: like places where people go all the time. It's like
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: the Quiet Woman. If it could be inside of Watch
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: What Happens Live.
• 22:02
  Speaker 4: It would be oh so it's okay.
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: It would be like Lisarna's Bunny Tameras implants and like
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: the Quiet Woman.
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: Would it be like comparable to like sir maybe or
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: maybe not that No.
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: No, no no, because sir yea, sir is like the
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: backdrop if it were the show. But everyone I was
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: at the Quiet Woman. I went to the Quiet Woman,
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: Like there's so much shit that's happened at the Quiet Woman,
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: and it is fantastic. I have been okay before, like
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: the Quiet Woman was a thing I'm tiny taught. Now
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: I go because I'm like, it's.
• 22:38
  Speaker 3: Yes.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: So it ends with I want to get the relationship
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: between Shannon and Jesus Drugs out of the way. How
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: do we feel about Jesus Drugs? Easton Jesus Drugs is
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: dating John Jass. She's in the peak straight hair.
• 22:56
  Speaker 5: So here's the thing I don't it is what it
• 22:59
  Speaker 5: is find love. I don't care. I need to find
• 23:02
  Speaker 5: more of it. We all hate Johnny Jay, right.
• 23:06
  Speaker 4: Did I miss? Are we talking about Alexis?
• 23:08
  Speaker 7: Yeah, you haven't watched from the beginner, I was like, okay, okay, camera,
• 23:13
  Speaker 7: and one of the episodes says, you are psychotic Jesus just.
• 23:20
  Speaker 5: I the talk outside when they're all watching like cockroaches
• 23:24
  Speaker 5: and then scatter when they walk back in.
• 23:26
  Speaker 3: I loved that.
• 23:27
  Speaker 5: I feel like they could have had more of a
• 23:30
  Speaker 5: I don't know, could have been more what's the word.
• 23:33
  Speaker 3: I'm looking productive?
• 23:34
  Speaker 5: It could have been more of a productive conversation.
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: Between Shannon and Jesus just yeah.
• 23:39
  Speaker 5: But and here's the thing that I don't know, and
• 23:42
  Speaker 5: I would love for other people. I did like how
• 23:43
  Speaker 5: when they go and they grabbed like the things, and
• 23:46
  Speaker 5: she was like, what do you want to fix for
• 23:48
  Speaker 5: the friendship in like twenty twenty four, and she said
• 23:51
  Speaker 5: that she wanted to fix it with Shannon, and I
• 23:53
  Speaker 5: did like it. But Shannon says that, but I want
• 23:57
  Speaker 5: to see, like Shannon should let fucking Johnny Jaco. She
• 24:02
  Speaker 5: has though, but has she because she shouldn't care. She
• 24:04
  Speaker 5: should look at him and her and go, good luck
• 24:06
  Speaker 5: with that fucking guy.
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: She did still her exactly, but she still is taking
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: that hurt.
• 24:11
  Speaker 5: And that's the other thing is she said I would
• 24:13
  Speaker 5: like to fix this, and Shannon goes, will never fix it.
• 24:16
  Speaker 5: It's like, so where is the hump that you need
• 24:19
  Speaker 5: to get over to be her friend? And I get
• 24:22
  Speaker 5: that she's done shit dirty, but then look at it
• 24:23
  Speaker 5: from a sense of she fucking saved you. Look at
• 24:26
  Speaker 5: what this man has put you through in your whole life.
• 24:28
  Speaker 5: Let it go and just see what she can offer
• 24:31
  Speaker 5: you as a friendship and let all of the rest go.
• 24:34
  Speaker 5: I'm just somebody who can stop looking at the negative
• 24:37
  Speaker 5: to hurt yourself.
• 24:38
  Speaker 3: You didn't start looking.
• 24:39
  Speaker 4: At Shannon didn't respond that way.
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: Though Shannon didn't say this will never Shannon said, did
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: I thought Alexis said the thing about the friendship and
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: Shannon to.
• 24:47
  Speaker 4: Me, Shannon was so poised because she responded to.
• 24:50
  Speaker 3: Me, no, she did. But then in her interview she said,
• 24:54
  Speaker 3: what are you talking about? That will never.
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: Happen because she just came off of sitting outside and
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: she's saying the way I look at you is you
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: took three hundred thousand dollars from me, And that's true.
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: She was married Jesus Jugs was married to a man
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: who sued Tamra and sued Shannon, And even though your
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: name wasn't on the lawsuit, you were with this guy
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: and she and Jesus jug says, we weren't married, you know,
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: And it's like, it doesn't matter, I associate you with
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: that person, Uh right? And yeah, it also doesn't feel
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: good that I've had nothing but horrific experiences with this
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: John Jansen person and now I have you who's dating
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: him on the show and in the Inner Circle. The
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: way that Alexis talked to Shannon about Johnny Jay, it
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: was like what planet do you live on? It was
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: like watching the Boy as Mine? Okay, you know, And
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: I don't know at what point it clicks for a
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: woman that when there's a man who has treated his
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: ex a certain way and you think you're special and
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: it would never happen to you, you're up in the night,
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: you're next. Let let the man in the way he
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: treated his ex be a window into what your future holds.
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: And that's the that's where I'm sharing.
• 26:23
  Speaker 5: Let it go and just look at this from a
• 26:25
  Speaker 5: whole different point and go Now I can see how
• 26:28
  Speaker 5: I looked dating this manner man.
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: He is saying that though Shannon came off so well,
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: by the way she goes.
• 26:36
  Speaker 5: So fucked sheds the way she handled with even what's
• 26:42
  Speaker 5: her name, Tamor when they were in the hall, I
• 26:44
  Speaker 5: thought she handled that very well, Okay, but no, I
• 26:47
  Speaker 5: just how I look at it is Shannon has gone
• 26:49
  Speaker 5: through a whole bunch of shit.
• 26:51
  Speaker 3: Let all of it go, and I know she has.
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: That's so much easier said than I know. I know
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: very present in her life. She has to deal with
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: an entire like duy situation now, And.
• 27:01
  Speaker 5: I've been in a boat and it's let it go
• 27:04
  Speaker 5: and let everything hit you and just let it.
• 27:09
  Speaker 3: Just you're not seeing it.
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: Because it feels like she is bad, Okay, she feels
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: like think about Shannon.
• 27:16
  Speaker 5: Going off the interview of her saying like, I would
• 27:18
  Speaker 5: like to be friends with you, and yes, you don't
• 27:20
  Speaker 5: have to be friends, but I'm saying, look at it
• 27:22
  Speaker 5: from thirty thousand.
• 27:23
  Speaker 3: Feet, say it is what it is, by godesby.
• 27:25
  Speaker 5: Bygones and just now view her as you look dating
• 27:29
  Speaker 5: Johnny Jay, and maybe she is. I could sound like
• 27:32
  Speaker 5: an idiot because I haven't seen a whole lot of it,
• 27:34
  Speaker 5: But for me in her interview, there was still holding
• 27:38
  Speaker 5: on to something of like we'll never be friends, and
• 27:41
  Speaker 5: it's like, you know what, maybe they won't.
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: Then, by the way, when she was sitting there and
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: Alexis read the note, Shannon, all she said was that
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: was nice.
• 27:50
  Speaker 3: That was nice.
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: It was nice. Never gonna fucking happen.
• 27:52
  Speaker 4: Yeah, Well, someone out who was it.
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: That said like maybe she should stop sucking her ex
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: with that camera?
• 27:57
  Speaker 4: Yeah, which is like that wasn't even Shannon.
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: And also I didn't even heavily watch beginning of OC,
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: but think about that, Shannon before versus now would have
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: like I think, gone off, I.
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: Got you would.
• 28:12
  Speaker 3: Maybe this girl got you out of the ship that
• 28:14
  Speaker 3: you needed to get.
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: That's absolutely true. And the girl there's a girl who
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: got me out of my shit, and guess what, you'll
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: never have the luxury of breathing my same air. Like
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: just because you got me out of the ship doesn't
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: mean I'm trying to be your homie.
• 28:25
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but it is. She's on I mean, let's let
• 28:28
  Speaker 4: the elephant of the room. She's on the show.
• 28:30
  Speaker 5: She's on the show exactly, and you gotta gotta you're
• 28:35
  Speaker 5: making a show the same thing she is.
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: Let's talk.
• 28:41
  Speaker 3: Let me tell you because we know people who didn't
• 28:42
  Speaker 3: do that.
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: Shannon Badore has been and I and I've always enjoyed
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: watching her, and I've always enjoyed how authentic she's been
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: through every season. That woman has never shied away from
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: who she is and what she's feeling. She's had some
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: very unhinged moments. The fact that Alexis was the one
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: who looked unhinged and you made Shannon Badour look like, oh,
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: I know, yes, it never happened.
• 29:17
  Speaker 3: Ever.
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: Ever, she really always does like whack, yes, hyper emotional.
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: And here we got Jesus being like, there's the door
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: Shannon Badoor.
• 29:28
  Speaker 3: It's like, we know what, Johnny, this is a Johnny jay.
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: But how many times did you like rehearse that line?
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: It felt like that's embarrassed.
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: Who knows? People thought I rehearsed the line of like
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: taking the trash out, and that was actually when I
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: came up with that. I was like, that's fucking funny.
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: I was talking about taking trash and I was like,
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: you didn't add for this. Confused, everyone was like, hell,
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: I did it? Take you? I was like, you can
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: in the moment on the spot in the moment. That's
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: why I'm here and you're blogging anyway. Shannon. I can't
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: get over how good she looks.
• 30:08
  Speaker 4: I think Shannon's killing it. I think Shannon's the way.
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: I love her energy. She looks stunning, she feels let Jesus.
• 30:15
  Speaker 3: Jugs be taken down by Johnny Jams.
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: And also it's almost like, do you guys feel the
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: energy that like Jesus that Alexis feels like she's one
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, you know what you got because she
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: got the man And I'm like, but you got the
• 30:32
  Speaker 2: man that we don't like.
• 30:33
  Speaker 4: Nobody likes him. She has the energy of like. But
• 30:37
  Speaker 4: it's like the Promise Ring.
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: And I know we're getting into episode two now, which like, no,
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: it's promised ring, the promised Ring.
• 30:45
  Speaker 4: Yes, promis Ring, promised Ring. There's no difference besides a
• 30:50
  Speaker 4: fucking ded No.
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: I know. My whole thing is when you look at
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: a man who has treated his act a certain way
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: and you think your special guess what he and his
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: ex That's how he looked at her at the beginning too.
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: They didn't meet and he was, you know, really mean
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: to her, and she was like, I'm gonna stay with him. Yeah, No,
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: it happens over time. You will soon be treated the
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: exact same way, I promise you.
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: Okay, So then let me ask you really quick. Cutting
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: to this is a different but really quick because I
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: want to get your thoughts. So let's just say, like Lenny, right,
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: Lenny and his chick. Do you think eventually Sammy, Yes,
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: eventually he will cheat on her.
• 31:28
  Speaker 4: Do you think how it works?
• 31:29
  Speaker 3: Yep?
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: James said it perfectly season six about who I was with. Yeah,
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: he's gonna find a hot new blonde and you'll be done.
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: So that's just how it works with narcissistic men. They
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: don't know how to how to be committed, and they
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: get bored. It's the new shiny object and you get
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: their rocks off, and then it's like moving on. I
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: need to move on.
• 31:56
  Speaker 3: He's got the thirty three year old. When she turns
• 31:58
  Speaker 3: thirty six, he's gonna go.
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: You know, I have learned the hard way. That was
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: a tough pill to swallow, and it's.
• 32:03
  Speaker 4: All kind of leaving. They just find the new shiny
• 32:06
  Speaker 4: abject and keep you right there.
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because they got to control you. They got to
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: control you while they fuck around and that kind of
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: gets them off too. They're like, oh, this is fun.
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: He Johnny Jay is finding pleasure in torturing Shannon by
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: dating Alexi. I was just gonna And if Alexis doesn't
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: see that, that makes me sad for her.
• 32:23
  Speaker 4: And she's like deft that she's sold on. Yes, we
• 32:25
  Speaker 4: will get married one day. Well, you didn't win, Alexis winning.
• 32:29
  Speaker 4: You're with this man that.
• 32:31
  Speaker 5: And I feel like it's he still has Shannon on
• 32:34
  Speaker 5: his mind, and that's he's hurting Shannon by dating her.
• 32:37
  Speaker 3: That's that's his rocks off.
• 32:38
  Speaker 2: These women are beautiful too, What is up with this?
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: Well, that's why it's like the boy is mine? Jen
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: saw no. Jen opens up about being victed, and Gina
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: is the one who kind of vouched for her, saying
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: she can take care of the rent.
• 32:59
  Speaker 5: Question I want to ask you, is it her place
• 33:03
  Speaker 5: to be saying that she was evicted when she was
• 33:05
  Speaker 5: the one who said vouched?
• 33:08
  Speaker 3: Do you think that's her place? What do you mean?
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: What? I don't understand?
• 33:12
  Speaker 3: What's her name? Got evicted? Jen? Jen got evicted? Right,
• 33:16
  Speaker 3: I'm terrible with names.
• 33:18
  Speaker 4: Gina.
• 33:18
  Speaker 5: Gina was the one who got her the place and
• 33:21
  Speaker 5: said she's I vouched her. So when she didn't pay rent,
• 33:27
  Speaker 5: do you think it's Gina has the right to say
• 33:30
  Speaker 5: to everybody else like, yeah, I fucking vouched for and
• 33:32
  Speaker 5: she didn't even pay rent. Because I do, I feel like, yeah,
• 33:35
  Speaker 5: I thought for you up to I can say whatever
• 33:38
  Speaker 5: I want because it is now my vouch that got
• 33:40
  Speaker 5: you here.
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: Absolutely, And let me tell you, you're on a TV
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: show together my love Jen. When she's like, it's no
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: one's business. You signed up for this show. It is
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: everyone's business. And whether it's fucked up or not, I
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: don't know. But bottom line is you're getting evicted and
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: you're talking about it about being evicted. Gina is talking
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: about how she's working her ass off to support her
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: family off of real estate, and she helped you get
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: into that place, and you cost her fifteness.
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: She allowed her to pass the Catta check and all
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: that that being said, I do think Gina, and again
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: I know this is episode two, but I think it
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: could have been one hundred percent. You say that because
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: you don't you're messing with Gina's business. You really screwed
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: her over. But Gina coming at her, it was the
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: one thing about like the take care of your kids.
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: I was like, no, why did you have to say that.
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: I didn't love that she brought the mom stuff into it.
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: I just obviously Jen's going through some shit.
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: I wish just going through she's going.
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: She's going through like when she was crying to her
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: dad and being like I needed you here, like you
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: really helped me. She's living in a house that she's like,
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: it's you know, the kids are getting used to living
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: in a house that's not theirs.
• 34:52
  Speaker 4: Like, I'm sure that's.
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: Get it together. You're for your forty six, get it together.
• 34:57
  Speaker 4: I just think coming after your parenting was that's.
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: I don't know Joe's coming for the parenting, but get
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: it the fuck together.
• 35:04
  Speaker 4: Get it together for sure.
• 35:06
  Speaker 3: What parenting is.
• 35:07
  Speaker 5: Find your fucking kids a place to live that you're
• 35:10
  Speaker 5: not getting evicted from. That to me is the parenting
• 35:12
  Speaker 5: of it, Like be a parent, make sure you have
• 35:14
  Speaker 5: a home for your kids. It wasn't coming at like
• 35:16
  Speaker 5: a different angle in my opinion, it was make sure
• 35:19
  Speaker 5: your kids have structure.
• 35:21
  Speaker 3: What are you doing? Get him in a house that
• 35:23
  Speaker 3: you can afford.
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: I don't find it to be. It was not a
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: productive conversation. Things got very heated. And Jen remains very
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: level headed, and I will always give her credit for that.
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: She's had two seasons so far that she has stayed
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: on point. She's interesting, level headed Gina. I love because
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: she's a straight shooter. She's from New York. She doesn't
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: pull punches. She tells you like, I would trust that
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: bitch with my life. This is giving a little bit
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: of scrub behavior. You relied on your ex. Your dad
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: is I guess somewhat wealthy because or has some money
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: because he's helped you. And now you're moving into Ryan's home.
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: But when asked what does Ryan do, he doesn't have
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: a job. Well, that seems like you're now throwing your
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: kids into another unstable situation. In your interview, you're saying,
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: Pilates Studio only pays me fifty dollars a workout class.
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: I suggest you get multiple. This is my most favorite
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: fucking line. Weeds okay, And Nancy goes into her weed
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: dealer U turn it's her new weed guy, and she's like,
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: how am I supposed to pay my bills? You keep
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: upping my debt And he bends down and goes get
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: a fucking job. And that's now what I say to
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: people when they're like, I don't get a fucking job. Yeah,
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: I knows to tell you, right, like fifty dollars a
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: week or fifty dollars a class, it seems like you
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: have some time on your hands, right, does that do.
• 36:51
  Speaker 5: Two classes a day or three? And also two hundred
• 36:55
  Speaker 5: bucks a day. It's not the greatest, but that's a job.
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: Because I heard I did read something that was like
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: that said about her glam because it was the whole
• 37:05
  Speaker 2: like I'm seeing her getting glam done.
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it was so hard to watch.
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: Yes, and people were like, well, you know, breaking the
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: whatever wall her glam is for her job. Let's not
• 37:16
  Speaker 2: forget this job is a TV show. But what's so
• 37:19
  Speaker 2: great about this TV show is you can have a
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: job and.
• 37:22
  Speaker 4: They will film it.
• 37:23
  Speaker 2: So it's like you can have a job and be
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: on the show and like you know what I'm saying,
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: they're mutually. It's not like you have to be like, well,
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: the TV show is my job, so I have to
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: not get another job. Does that make sense? You guys
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: get what I'm saying.
• 37:36
  Speaker 3: Whatever you start will be filmed.
• 37:38
  Speaker 5: Yes, you can benefit what you have into creating something
• 37:43
  Speaker 5: and having that film.
• 37:44
  Speaker 4: Yes, like literally, you in the office in that boat.
• 37:47
  Speaker 4: You can get a job and take advantage.
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, at forty six, I feel like you should have
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: it together. And guess what, it's not just the glam.
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: You've got hair extensions in you got a furry vest
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: on with a Gucci bag. Like, at least walk in
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: here looking like a homely bit. She looks like she's struggling.
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: You know, now you're gonna walk in deck to the nines,
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: full up in your range, drop and be like, I
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: got a victim. This is screaming La.
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: Sell the range Droverer, get a cook, get a camera,
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: Toyota camera, get a col get a jeep, Jeep Patriot
• 38:19
  Speaker 2: Basic Bottle twenty sixteen.
• 38:20
  Speaker 3: I promise you and you can lay down the seats
• 38:22
  Speaker 3: and sleep in it.
• 38:23
  Speaker 4: Yes, you sure can.
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, no, never, I've never seen any scene more like California,
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: O C. Los Angeles. It's it's what the public sees,
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: what you go home to. No one's got to see that. Yeah,
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: my dad said when he was doing a house in
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: LA he was like, it was wild. I got picked
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: up in a Rolls Royce by this guy. He had
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: a rolllex on. He had wads of cash and he
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: took me to his like one bedroom apartment.
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: Is that house poor? No, that's when you have a
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: giant house and like no furniture.
• 38:56
  Speaker 3: That's something else that'll be me though.
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: I don't know what it's called, but.
• 39:00
  Speaker 4: I mean that's I mean, that's wild.
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: Should we jump into Jersey, It's gonna be very quick.
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: I'm you know what though, tell us where bitches are
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: out here putting their lives out there and we respect it.
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: So Joe cutting the tree, I died. I fucking died rhyming.
• 39:22
  Speaker 5: Nothing goes as long as she did, as long as
• 39:26
  Speaker 5: he didn't kill any of the living trees, and she goes.
• 39:29
  Speaker 3: He didn't. All I saw was just living like some
• 39:36
  Speaker 3: good ones up.
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: How do you not kill the living tree? I know, Danielle,
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: she kind of lost me. She's lost me a bit,
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: you know. I there was the shove that happened between
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: jen Aiden. Jennayden shoves Danielle. Danielle takes her glass. I
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: mean it was plastic and busted on the side of
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: jen Aiden's face. I was like, that was a little extreme,
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: But I think if someone had pushed me that hard,
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: an had insulted me over and over and sinuated I
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: stole from a charity. You may get the one two
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: you know.
• 40:18
  Speaker 4: Don't touch me, Yeah, don't touch me.
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: See that's that's why I feel like I've never been
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: physical because no one's touched me before. But I think
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: I'd get enraged.
• 40:26
  Speaker 4: The second their hands are on. You don't touch me
• 40:28
  Speaker 4: or my things.
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, So I was like very much into Danielle. Then
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: they're at Teresa Judae's panel. She's doing like a live podcast,
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: and she's she's like, Danielle's making comments to Jen Aiden,
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: who's just sitting there being like, I can't believe the
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: church Dan burned down with you in it or however
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: she talks from New York and then on her way
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: and Jen just sits there, and then on her way out,
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: didn'iell walks out and she bends down and goes by
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: the way, you look like shit, And I'm like, what
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: was the point of this? You lost me?
• 41:12
  Speaker 4: What are you doing?
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: And she's talking to Fuda at the little playdate for
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: the girls about this, and she's so proud of it,
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, it's not something to be proud of.
• 41:21
  Speaker 4: It's embarrassing.
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: It's embarrassing, and it's also nothing to be proud of.
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: That Like you talking about back in the day, how
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: your dad watched you get into like a physical altercation
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: and he was like, fuck.
• 41:32
  Speaker 5: Yeah, it's good for you, and he goes and she goes.
• 41:35
  Speaker 5: That's what sticks in your mind when you do something
• 41:37
  Speaker 5: like that and your parents are behind you, It's like, oh,
• 41:39
  Speaker 5: that's where you go to prison later in life.
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: If I if I ever got into a physical altercation
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: at school, okay, my mom would light me on fire.
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: I would I'd be sent to boot camp. If I
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: ever laid hands on anybody, my mom would have sheered disappointment. Yeah,
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: what did I Where did I go wrong?
• 42:03
  Speaker 2: Especially if it wasn't in defense, if they didn't lay
• 42:06
  Speaker 2: their hands on you first. My dad always said if
• 42:07
  Speaker 2: you get hit, hit back, but did not say hit first.
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: My mama would be like, why was there hitting at all?
• 42:15
  Speaker 5: Use your words and never after. If I had ever
• 42:18
  Speaker 5: been in one, my dad wouldn't come up.
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: And go never. My mom would be like, who are
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: you hanging around that they think physical violence is okay?
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: So I'm changing schools anyway. She's she's definitely lost me.
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: Dolores remains the fucking boss bitch of Jersey. She can
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: she will never ever be wrong. In my eyes, She's
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: fucking bad ass. Okay, So she is talking to Fessler.
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: Jen Fessler another like kind of boss bitch, and they're
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: talking about like how the group is kind of fractured.
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: They need to go away. You talk to Fuda because
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: Fessler and Fuda are good friends, but they've had kind of,
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: you know, a splitting of the friendship because there's so
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: much toxicity within the group. And Fuda is like, how
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: could my friend Jen Fesler go and talk to Teresa
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: Judas when Judas has spoken so poorly about my husband
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: and accused him of being a drug dealer. I don't
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: think it's that big of a deal, Like have you
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: heard of the Godfather?
• 43:31
  Speaker 4: Especially in Jersey.
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: Shit happens. So Fessler and Fuda finally sit down, and
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: I think as they're talking, this has to do with
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: like emotional intelligence, and you can just tell Fessler has
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: way more emotional intelligence than Fuda. This is not an insult.
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: This is just something that I believe comes with age,
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: where you can tell what Fuda is saying to Fessler.
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: Fessler's like, I want to, but I don't think she's
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: fully capable of understanding where I'm coming from again, not
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: an insult. I truly believe that comes with age. Yeah,
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: and they finally get to a good place, which I
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: think is really sweet because it's kind of like big Sis,
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: little Sis. And to see how Fuda just seemed like
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: so lost when Fessler was talking to Teresa. Even though
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: I felt like Jen Fessler was always having food as back,
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: it didn't matter like she could not hear what Fessler
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: was saying. It was like, you talk to Teresa, I
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: don't care that you defended me. Just leave my name
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: out of your mouth when you're talking to her. So
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: it was sweet to see them kind of get back
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: on good terms. I guess, Yeah, they are going to
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: all go on a trip, all of them.
• 44:48
  Speaker 4: How do we feel?
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: What I've heard is there is no reunion. We've been
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: hearing talks that there's like an alternative reunion.
• 44:56
  Speaker 4: So you think this trip is going to be a
• 44:57
  Speaker 4: shit show.
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: I think it might be a shit show.
• 45:00
  Speaker 3: But don't you have a reunion?
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: No, there is a reunion, right, there's just like a
• 45:04
  Speaker 2: different style, like I would like a parallel.
• 45:10
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 45:10
  Speaker 5: I feel like I don't think it's going to see
• 45:12
  Speaker 5: what makes the season kind of come together with everybody
• 45:16
  Speaker 5: talking about it, So it's gonna be weird.
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: You can't come together with two groups of women who
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: hate each other.
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: You don't think they're filmed like side by, like parallel,
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: two different.
• 45:27
  Speaker 3: I don't know that.
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: I think they're naming it an alternative alternate reunion just
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: to like keep in the spirits of housewives and like
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: what we've been doing for you know, over a hundred
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: seasons of Housewives. But it's just too toxic. So I
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: think that this. I know that Teresa and Melissa come
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: to blows at the finale. I do know that there's
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: just so much that's happening where it's like life changing.
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: You know, you've got like the legal system involved, things
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: that are hard to shake off. And Dolores thinks that
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: this trip now is going to really help the group
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: kind of heal. She says, sometimes you fake it until
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: you make it. That's how I was able to co
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: parent with Frank Senior. Is you pretend and then all
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: of a sudden you kind of trick your mind. And
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: I kind of agree with that. There are chicks who
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: I don't dig where I pretend to, like give a
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: shit about them and like kind of laugh and I'm like,
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: I'm kind of having fun.
• 46:32
  Speaker 2: And you said it before with confidence. You were like,
• 46:34
  Speaker 2: I wasn't confident and I faked it and then I
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: became confident.
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you can trick your brain. Your brain is not
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: that smart.
• 46:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, trick your brain.
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: Trick your brain. There's many compartments in the brain.
• 46:48
  Speaker 4: I'm all about faking until you make it fake.
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: The left brain fakes the right brain out.
• 46:53
  Speaker 4: Well, it's the whole thing.
• 46:54
  Speaker 2: Get up and smile even if you feel miserable, and
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: if you smile long enough, you start to.
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: Be happy, or you turn into the.
• 46:59
  Speaker 4: Joker, turn to the psychopath.
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. Let's jump into our aches and reliefs of
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: the week.
• 47:06
  Speaker 4: Egges and reliefs.
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: Of the week. Jess, you want to start us off
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: and relief?
• 47:11
  Speaker 4: Yes, you, guys. I and my ache and relief isn't one.
• 47:16
  Speaker 2: So I will address the Kyle stuff, nor probably, but
• 47:24
  Speaker 2: do me No, I think I'm fine.
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: Would you like give her something?
• 47:30
  Speaker 4: I'll use my sleep.
• 47:32
  Speaker 2: No, So, Kyle and I thank you. I love you though,
• 47:39
  Speaker 2: thank you. Okay, I'll start it off on a light note.
• 47:41
  Speaker 2: This past weekend, I helped Kyle set up his dating profile.
• 47:48
  Speaker 4: So you guys know we're on good terms.
• 47:51
  Speaker 2: Kyle and I split back in April, and it was.
• 47:59
  Speaker 4: I don't know why, It's like, okay, I'm taking a breath.
• 48:02
  Speaker 2: Kyle and I split back in April, and it was
• 48:06
  Speaker 2: me who called off the engagement. We you know, came
• 48:11
  Speaker 2: to a point where Kyle's always been consistent. Kyle's always
• 48:16
  Speaker 2: known what he wanted, and I, you know, started my
• 48:22
  Speaker 2: viewpoint on a lot of things started changing. And you know,
• 48:26
  Speaker 2: we are like we were and are I consider best
• 48:30
  Speaker 2: like truly best friends. He's the most incredible soul, truly
• 48:35
  Speaker 2: the most incredible man, And there were just conversations that
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: had to be had after we got engaged, and you know,
• 48:41
  Speaker 2: we just realized, like my I was starting to have
• 48:45
  Speaker 2: different viewpoints. He always, like I said, remained consistent. We
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: always had a plan for our life and where it
• 48:52
  Speaker 2: was going to go. And my I, my mind changed
• 48:57
  Speaker 2: and I like, I don't know if it's evolved or
• 49:01
  Speaker 2: it just I was growing in a different direction.
• 49:04
  Speaker 4: So I called off the engagement.
• 49:07
  Speaker 2: It was, you know, really difficult at first, and it
• 49:11
  Speaker 2: still is, but we are in I think a good
• 49:15
  Speaker 2: place we are. We just respect each other. There wasn't
• 49:20
  Speaker 2: something specific that happened. It was really just tough conversations
• 49:23
  Speaker 2: that had to be had. And like I said, we
• 49:25
  Speaker 2: had a plan, Like he moved to LA with me
• 49:28
  Speaker 2: in twenty twenty. We like packed at the U haul
• 49:30
  Speaker 2: and our dog and moved here. And his mindset he
• 49:33
  Speaker 2: wasn't going to move to LA. He was probably going
• 49:34
  Speaker 2: to stay in Nashville. And his mindset was like are
• 49:37
  Speaker 2: we doing this? Are we forever partners? And my response
• 49:39
  Speaker 2: was like yes, And he moved to LA and with me,
• 49:44
  Speaker 2: and then you know, I had I mean.
• 49:47
  Speaker 4: It wasn't like this past year.
• 49:49
  Speaker 2: I think We've been having some deep conversations on our
• 49:51
  Speaker 2: different viewpoints for a while and I think that you know,
• 49:55
  Speaker 2: we got as soon as we got engaged, I was like, Okay,
• 49:59
  Speaker 2: we really need to deep into these conversations. So all
• 50:02
  Speaker 2: of that to say, we are not together anymore. And
• 50:07
  Speaker 2: Kyle's I will say this, he is literally the greatest,
• 50:13
  Speaker 2: one of the greatest humans I've ever Oh.
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: It's okay, Jess.
• 50:20
  Speaker 2: He's literally one of the best people I've ever truly
• 50:25
  Speaker 2: met in my life. Like he is, like you don't
• 50:27
  Speaker 2: find them like him. He's like consistent, he's kind, he's
• 50:32
  Speaker 2: like knows what he wants.
• 50:33
  Speaker 4: He's a go getter. He he's like stable. And I
• 50:39
  Speaker 4: won't get like.
• 50:39
  Speaker 2: Too much into it, but in every aspect of life
• 50:41
  Speaker 2: where I feel like you find a lot of men
• 50:43
  Speaker 2: who are like, yeah, they're kind, but maybe they're not
• 50:45
  Speaker 2: like mentally stable or whatever. He's a really a really
• 50:50
  Speaker 2: fantastic person. And whoever he like, he's just like he's
• 50:54
  Speaker 2: ready to get married, he's ready to have a kid.
• 50:57
  Speaker 2: And whoever is like the lucky one who gets to
• 51:00
  Speaker 2: be with him forever and who gets to be like
• 51:04
  Speaker 2: his partner.
• 51:07
  Speaker 4: And his like his wife and like the mother of his.
• 51:11
  Speaker 2: Child is going to be the most lucky human ever,
• 51:15
  Speaker 2: Like she's going to be. She's going to be very,
• 51:18
  Speaker 2: very lucky. He's an incredible person. So all of this
• 51:23
  Speaker 2: to say, we really respect each other.
• 51:27
  Speaker 4: He's on Hinge.
• 51:28
  Speaker 2: Ladies, so definitely swipe because he did like this past weekend. Again,
• 51:34
  Speaker 2: it's been a while, but this past it's been since April.
• 51:37
  Speaker 4: This past weekend, he showed me his profile and I
• 51:39
  Speaker 4: was like.
• 51:40
  Speaker 2: Kyle, no, what is this photo?
• 51:45
  Speaker 4: And I was like, what is this?
• 51:47
  Speaker 2: Prompt Like the things so we overhauled this profile because
• 51:50
  Speaker 2: I'm like, this isn't you and you seem like a
• 51:52
  Speaker 2: little weird now, So we changed his photo and I
• 51:56
  Speaker 2: was like, this is better.
• 51:58
  Speaker 4: He's just the greatest. He's like fantastic.
• 52:04
  Speaker 2: Well, I mean, you know, it was like, you know,
• 52:08
  Speaker 2: so I thank you. He's so yeah, we did that.
• 52:14
  Speaker 2: We overhauled this dating profile. And like I said, I
• 52:17
  Speaker 2: don't know sort of where our our lives are going
• 52:21
  Speaker 2: to go separately, but I think and I pray and
• 52:25
  Speaker 2: hope forever, like you know, we just stay good friends.
• 52:28
  Speaker 4: He's he's one of a kind.
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: I think you will say I think so too.
• 52:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 52:34
  Speaker 4: So yeah, so he is. There's my ache and relief.
• 52:38
  Speaker 4: Thank you guys.
• 52:39
  Speaker 2: Everyone who's like DMed me has been very sweet and
• 52:41
  Speaker 2: been like I feel like something's off, like we just
• 52:44
  Speaker 2: want to know because we love you, and like I
• 52:46
  Speaker 2: thought it was fair. I talked about him all the
• 52:48
  Speaker 2: time we got engaged. Everyone is congrats, and then all
• 52:51
  Speaker 2: of a sudden, like I stopped and it was quiet.
• 52:53
  Speaker 4: So thanks for being patient.
• 52:56
  Speaker 2: And these two and like my LA family, Lisa, they've
• 53:01
  Speaker 2: been just like so supportive and great and Lala's entire team,
• 53:05
  Speaker 2: like her agent and just everyone's been I've I've had
• 53:09
  Speaker 2: so much support and it's been really beautiful and and
• 53:14
  Speaker 2: we're moving along and everything's good.
• 53:16
  Speaker 4: I feel good.
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, there we go.
• 53:18
  Speaker 4: Thank you guys for giving me that time, of course. Okay,
• 53:22
  Speaker 4: I love you both.
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: And you're also a prize and whoever ends up with
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: you is going to be extremely lucky. And I think
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: the way that you handled things was just a testament
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: to how much you respect the relationship that you have
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: and had because a lot of people, you know, they
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: start going off the rails, and you know, you didn't.
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: You You had the tough conversations, and I think you
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: should be really proud of yourself, both of you.
• 53:51
  Speaker 5: Yes, not a lot of exes would be doing their
• 53:54
  Speaker 5: profile that we're thrilled about.
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: How weird that would be. You've been in a relationship
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: for seven eight years and now you're like back in
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: the zone and you're like, I don't know what to put.
• 54:06
  Speaker 4: I'm like, Kyle, that is a LinkedIn, So you need
• 54:12
  Speaker 4: something cool?
• 54:13
  Speaker 3: Business?
• 54:15
  Speaker 4: Is that.
• 54:17
  Speaker 3: All right? Taking relief my ache? We're coming in on
• 54:22
  Speaker 3: like the winter, you know, the fall, and I have
• 54:26
  Speaker 3: e no is this no, I've had it forever and like.
• 54:31
  Speaker 5: It's not like like it doesn't what is it?
• 54:34
  Speaker 3: It's not prominent?
• 54:36
  Speaker 4: Oh, like you can't see it?
• 54:38
  Speaker 3: Is the word. So I have it usually.
• 54:40
  Speaker 5: Visible, yeah, because it is, and they usually get it
• 54:46
  Speaker 5: in like the fall and winter.
• 54:48
  Speaker 3: So I'm getting it here. I'm getting it on the
• 54:51
  Speaker 3: back of my.
• 54:51
  Speaker 5: Leg and then a little on my ear because I
• 54:55
  Speaker 5: have it. So my ache is it's getting dry. I
• 54:59
  Speaker 5: am looking. So yeah, that's my ache.
• 55:01
  Speaker 3: And I have.
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: Hella Ezma cream because I have a baby that has exma.
• 55:05
  Speaker 3: You've got you covered. Yeah, So that's my thing.
• 55:08
  Speaker 4: I'm just okay.
• 55:10
  Speaker 3: And then my relief is going to Utah.
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we go to Utah this we.
• 55:14
  Speaker 3: Gotta see some friends and family. We're gonna do some
• 55:17
  Speaker 3: fun things.
• 55:18
  Speaker 4: So is Lisa so excited?
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: We're all really excited. Yeah.
• 55:21
  Speaker 3: So that's my relief, quick and easy.
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna second. That is my relief. I have not
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: been back to Utah in years. I can't wait to
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: take my baby. We're going to stay in Park City
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: and we're going to rote We're gonna make s'mores.
• 55:35
  Speaker 4: I love it.
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna take her on. My older brother said, I'll
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: take ocean on the alpine slide. She's gonna have the
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: best time to.
• 55:42
  Speaker 4: An alpine slide. It's just a slide.
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: Let you ride like these little.
• 55:46
  Speaker 5: Cars the plastics like half circle and then you get
• 55:50
  Speaker 5: in a car and then you push forward to go fast.
• 55:52
  Speaker 3: So it's like you just go down like a roller coaster.
• 55:55
  Speaker 3: But the you're in charge of your right be fun.
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: Okay, so we're gonna do all of those fun things.
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: My ache is I was having a little party add
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: to my house over the weekend, and I walked this
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: little kid up the stairs to show him the playroom,
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: and all of this sudden, like my arms and legs
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: whetnam and I could not breathe, and I took everything
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: in me to not pass out and just make it
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: to my bed, and I was trying to yell for
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: my mom, but again I was really struggling, and I
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: was very very concerned.
• 56:32
  Speaker 4: Ah lot. I know this is an emotional.
• 56:42
  Speaker 8: So I'm gonna see my obie this week, but it
• 56:48
  Speaker 8: was really terrifying. Yeah, I don't know what happened. I've
• 56:54
  Speaker 8: heard that she could be sitting weird, but I felt
• 56:58
  Speaker 8: this like overwhelming amount of guilt. It's because I've been
• 57:01
  Speaker 8: complaining a lot about my just like aching.
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: And just wanting it to be done.
• 57:09
  Speaker 5: You may complain and things like that, but you know
• 57:11
  Speaker 5: how blessed you are to be in the position you're in,
• 57:13
  Speaker 5: and that's that's all that matters, is you.
• 57:16
  Speaker 4: Know, that's not how the universe.
• 57:17
  Speaker 5: Yes, if you didn't know when you were selfish and
• 57:20
  Speaker 5: didn't care about the people who really struggle to get pregnant,
• 57:23
  Speaker 5: yes it would be something. But for you to know that,
• 57:25
  Speaker 5: and you to have the right mental and for your
• 57:28
  Speaker 5: higher power to know where you're coming from. This isn't
• 57:31
  Speaker 5: This isn't you having to deal with it because of
• 57:34
  Speaker 5: your complaint. This isn't that pregnancy is uncomfortable.
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yes one is.
• 57:39
  Speaker 5: But I don't want you to ever think that you've
• 57:41
  Speaker 5: complained or complained too much because you have not.
• 57:43
  Speaker 2: And also even if you have here and there, Yeah,
• 57:46
  Speaker 2: pregnancy is uncomfortable. People complain. It's all relative. You can't,
• 57:49
  Speaker 2: you know, be like, oh, I complain, but people can't
• 57:52
  Speaker 2: get pregnant. Yeah, it's all relative. It's your experience.
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: Yes, Well, thank you for saying that. And my mom
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: got my be on the phone and he was telling
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: her just like I positioned myself in a different way,
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: and all this sudden I could breathe. He was like,
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: I do want to see you next week. I want
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: to check your levels. But he was He said to me,
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: is baby moving? And like she was definitely active, like
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: she hadn't I said, she hasn't stopped moving. He was like, okay,
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: I'm less concerned now. He was like, this does He said,
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: it's such a different pregnancy than your first, and I
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: think that's what you're basing it on. But I want
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: you to remember that baby we were really worried about.
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: Even though you felt good, we were really worried about
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: what was going on with baby. This seems to be
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: you know you're gonna have a larger baby. And I
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: was like, fuck, I mean brave, but fuck you knew this.
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: You knew this, We knew this, and she could be
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: positioned weird. He was like, I really need you to
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: start staying off your feet, like don't overdo it during
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: the day, which I have been and I think I've
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: been overdoing it since second trimester.
• 59:04
  Speaker 4: Being on your feet and being.
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: Just acting like I'm not pregnant a pregnant person and
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: being like I'm so tired all the time, and I
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: don't know why, and it's just different.
• 59:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, can you tell us how you're feeling right now?
• 59:16
  Speaker 2: Though I did it go away quickly? Are you feeling
• 59:19
  Speaker 2: a little better?
• 59:20
  Speaker 4: Has it come back? Just so people who hear that's.
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: Might now I feel okay. I still do that thing
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: where like walking from the car to the building, it
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: feels like I did a burnout. It feels like I
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: did a bunch of squats and then started walking. So
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: I'm I'm not great on my feet right now. Walking
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: upstairs is like I have to sit down. I just
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: don't have a lot of energy.
• 59:44
  Speaker 5: Is it because this baby moves so much as well?
• 59:46
  Speaker 5: Does that take energy? I have no idea how pregnancy works.
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: I don't either.
• 59:50
  Speaker 5: If he's kicking and moving, is that taking energy from you?
• 59:53
  Speaker 5: And which is great? I know it's shitty yet you
• 59:55
  Speaker 5: don't have energy. But if he's kicking, move in doing.
• 59:58
  Speaker 3: A whole bunch of aerobics.
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: In there, she's definitely active. I think it would be
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: more from your I don't think the movement would take
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: away from it. I think her positioning would though, because
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: I feel her in my rib cage. She's just she's
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: in there making herself write it home. Wow, that was
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: a fun podcast that I stopped during your ache and relief.
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: You guys, thank you so much for listening to another episode.
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: It was very fun to get back to the Bravo roots.
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: I hope you have a happy hump Day and I'll
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: catch you next week